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Absolutely CRAZY Reddit Updates With My Sister · The conspiracy

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  Speaker 1: Hello everybody. You're looking absolutely delectable today. Scrumptious in fact,
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  Speaker 1: dare I say decadent? Yes, I'm hungry a little bit,
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  Speaker 1: but you're also all of those things stuff. But anyway,
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  Speaker 1: today we have a guest. We have my older sister
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  Speaker 1: who is three thousand miles away from me, back in Canada.
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  Speaker 1: She's joining me for Reddit today, and I want to
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  Speaker 1: apologize because I did buy her a camera and mic
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  Speaker 1: to use, but the mic wasn't working, so that's on me.
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  Speaker 1: I bought her a little faulty mic, so next time
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  Speaker 1: we do this it'll be a better quality. So sorry
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  Speaker 1: for the poor sound quality. I appreciate you watching anyway. Thanks.
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  Speaker 1: All right, well let's get to it. Let's take a
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  Speaker 1: And let's get back to it. Hello, everybody, We're back
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  Speaker 1: with my big sister, my older sister, who we did
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  Speaker 1: not We did not coordinate our outfits. We just showed
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  Speaker 1: up like this, which is very weird because I've been
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  Speaker 1: wearing a lot of pink but not I don't wear stripes.
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  Speaker 2: No, and this is brand new.
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  Speaker 1: It looks brand new.
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  Speaker 2: That's usually I usually don't get horizontal stripes because.
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  Speaker 1: I'm already Yeah, well it makes us look what.
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  Speaker 2: But I was like, you know what, I like the color.
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  Speaker 1: It's nice.
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  Speaker 2: I was, you know, dabbling in color theory, and I
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  Speaker 2: was like, m and my light spring, and I remember
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  Speaker 2: you saying that you were light spring, so I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: for got to be the same as you.
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  Speaker 1: I think.
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  Speaker 2: It was like, I think these colors are okay, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: they're like nice Swatch.
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  Speaker 1: If I was home, i'd steal it.
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  Speaker 2: Remember when we steal it other's clothes. Actually, I did
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  Speaker 2: a lot of that when you were still living here.
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  Speaker 1: We lived together in a house and then i'd come
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  Speaker 1: home and she'd be like, my sweater on. Yeah, that's
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  Speaker 1: so weird.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I just forgot about asking. I think I have
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  Speaker 2: like probably like ten items of your clothes that I
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  Speaker 2: just didn't help pack.
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  Speaker 1: Were you I just I just wake through my closet too.
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  Speaker 1: I'll can save all the clothes if you want to
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  Speaker 1: go through them.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, please?
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  Speaker 1: All right, sounds good, but we're reading some reddit. I
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  Speaker 1: thought it'd be more interesting if I read it with
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  Speaker 1: somebody else. And it's just an excuse to hang out
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  Speaker 1: with my sister who's three thousand miles away. Our little sister,
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  Speaker 1: Elisa is getting married very soon a couple of weeks,
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  Speaker 1: so there was a wedding themed one. Also, this is Jessica,
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  Speaker 1: by the way, I forgot to say that. I just
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  Speaker 1: said it's my big sister. I just assumed you guys
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  Speaker 1: knew if you're real ones.
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  Speaker 2: But it's Jessica, Jessica.
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  Speaker 1: What's your handle? Jess Ravel, Jessravell.
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  Speaker 2: It used to be a few other things, and then
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  Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, this is all available
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  Speaker 2: on all of the platforms. I'm just taking it.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, okay, we'll throw it up on screen, Jay go
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  Speaker 1: for first time we have am I the scllywag for
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  Speaker 1: uninviting my twenty seven female made of honor twenty seven
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  Speaker 1: female to my wedding over address. It's weird because it's
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  Speaker 1: a maid of honor. You'd think that they would.
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  Speaker 2: Just be wearing whatever the bread lose it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Interesting, Okay, I'm getting married to my fiance twenty
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  Speaker 1: six male come January. It's not ideal with the current
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  Speaker 1: global situation. This is in twenty twenty, by the way,
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  Speaker 1: since I'm very high risk, But as we've already postponed
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  Speaker 1: once and there's no end to COVID in sight, we
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  Speaker 1: decided we're going to take the risk and tie them
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  Speaker 1: ont in a smaller ceremony with all possible precautions. Now Ever,
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  Speaker 1: since I got sick, the reason why I'm at high risk,
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  Speaker 1: I've always wanted a picturesque wedding. I'm stable, but only
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  Speaker 1: look at at another twenty or so years. Okay, sorry,
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  Speaker 1: that's terrible if COVID doesn't get me first. Oh, I
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  Speaker 1: like how they're just so. If COVID doesn't get me first,
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  Speaker 1: the pictures of the wedding are very important to me,
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  Speaker 1: since they'll last far longer than I will. They'll be
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  Speaker 1: a lovely thing for my husband and potential children to
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  Speaker 1: look at once I'm gone. It's nothing insane, just people
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  Speaker 1: dressed nice and a color scheme. The ceremony isn't lavish,
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  Speaker 1: but I do want it to be cohesive since I
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  Speaker 1: was enforcing a color scheme. Also, this person spells color
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  Speaker 1: like a Canadian, so it's either Canadian or English. I
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  Speaker 1: saw it as only fair to pay for my bridesmaids dresses.
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  Speaker 1: That's really nice, really nice. Yeah, that's huge. Due to
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  Speaker 1: COVID restrictions, it was very difficult to find the right
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  Speaker 1: dresses since I didn't want to risk going to a
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  Speaker 1: boutique together. But we made it work. Through lots and
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  Speaker 1: lots of back and forth. The bridesmaids and I all
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  Speaker 1: picked out matching dresses that fit everyone's taste. I made
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  Speaker 1: extra sure everyone was happy, and then ordered the maroon dresses.
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  Speaker 1: It's good color. Everyone got fitted separately and got alterations
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  Speaker 1: put down on my tab. Not a word of complaint,
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  Speaker 1: just excitement. Today, my maid of honor twenty seven female,
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  Speaker 1: messaged me saying that she's got the perfect dress for
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  Speaker 1: the wedding. Que confusion. I asked for elaboration and she
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  Speaker 1: said that she didn't like the bridesmaid dress, so she
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  Speaker 1: went ahead and bought her out. That's crazy. She sent
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  Speaker 1: me a picture and it was a tiny white in
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  Speaker 1: all capital letters dress that did not fit her well
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  Speaker 1: at all. This has got to be a choke. When
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  Speaker 1: I brought up the faux pas, she died at flesh
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  Speaker 1: colored with coffee. Oh okay, you flesh colored terrible. Still,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like, even like a light beige is still
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  Speaker 1: not okay at a wedding every time I see like
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  Speaker 1: I just went to a wedding, one of my bff's weddings,
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  Speaker 1: and there was a couple older women. I feel like
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  Speaker 1: it's usually usually older women. They had just white dresses
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  Speaker 1: on with like the tiniest little design that you'd have
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  Speaker 1: to like squint to look at, and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: who are you? And one of them also were fused
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  Speaker 1: to sit in a place where they were supposed to
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  Speaker 1: be sitted during the ceremony, So all of us had
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  Speaker 1: to on the spot right before we were supposed to
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  Speaker 1: walk out. We had rehearsed it the day before. We
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  Speaker 1: had to redo everything. All the girls had to sit
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  Speaker 1: on this side and all the guys had to sit
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  Speaker 1: on the side. But we had to reverse it and
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  Speaker 1: like I had to go in the bay. It was
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  Speaker 1: a nightmare just because this person was like, no, I
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  Speaker 1: want to sit here. Also, wedding planner, what are you doing?
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  Speaker 1: Tell them they can't do that? That was crazy. She's like, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: we have somebody that it's really happy where they want
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  Speaker 1: to sit. So we have to change everything. The wedding
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  Speaker 1: needs to change. Even though we're walking down the aisle
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  Speaker 1: in twenty seconds. I was like, two, your job anyway,
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  Speaker 1: that's a whole other thing. It ended up being really
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  Speaker 1: beautiful and it was fine. Everything is fine. This just
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  Speaker 1: reminds me of that just really entitled people. I told
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  Speaker 1: her that she cannot wear that to my wedding since
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  Speaker 1: A already bought the actual dress at a considerable expense.
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  Speaker 1: B I'm not exaggerating when I say it doesn't fit.
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  Speaker 1: It's a wardrobe malfunction waiting to happen. See it looks terrible.
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  Speaker 1: She looks naked wearing it, and I do not want
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  Speaker 1: that in my wedding photos. I was very frustrated since
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  Speaker 1: she had not once told me she didn't like the
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  Speaker 1: dress and had already spent the non refundable money. I
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  Speaker 1: tried to compromise with her, seeing if she'd wear something else,
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  Speaker 1: at least in the same color as the other bridesmaids,
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  Speaker 1: but she brushed it off. I then told her that
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  Speaker 1: she can wear the agreed upon dress or pay me
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  Speaker 1: back for it. She blew up at me, calling me
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  Speaker 1: a bridezilla for being controlling and unsympathetic to a college student.
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  Speaker 1: She said that if I'm going to be this obsessive,
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  Speaker 1: then I'm better off not getting married at all, since
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  Speaker 1: I'll drive my fiance away. I got so angry. I
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  Speaker 1: just coldly told her not to come to the wedding
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  Speaker 1: at all and then hung up. So am I the
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  Speaker 1: asshole gonna go ahead and say no?
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  Speaker 2: No? And that's just it's not even like first like
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  Speaker 2: the white to flesh colored what like?
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  Speaker 1: Not even the color scheme then doesn't fit properly?
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  Speaker 2: Were there sign? Like every time I re read it stories,
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  Speaker 2: I would just want to ask more questions. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 2: get context mind of this, like yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Like why are your friends? Why should it have made
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  Speaker 1: it honor?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? Like why is she the big dog in this
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  Speaker 2: wedding with? Yeah, because that seems like omnic.
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  Speaker 1: She's probably like the bully friend who's done this to
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  Speaker 1: her her whole life, and she just puts up with
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  Speaker 1: it because they've probably known each other since they were
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  Speaker 1: like five or something. Yeah. I just don't get it.
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  Speaker 1: And you know, I guess I can say, uh, we
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  Speaker 1: all got bridesmaid's dresses for my friend's wedding and then
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  Speaker 1: my little sister's wedding, and they're all different styles, but
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  Speaker 1: they're made of the same material and they're the same color.
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  Speaker 1: And for my friend's wedding, I was like, listen, my
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  Speaker 1: tops are out. And it was like, you know, a
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  Speaker 1: month or two before the wedding, and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I had put off getting alterations and everything. I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: I'm cool. If you want me to worry, it's totally fine.
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  Speaker 1: But there was one other style that nobody had gotten.
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  Speaker 1: So I was like, is it okay if I get
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  Speaker 1: that style? She was like yeah, I don't care. But
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  Speaker 1: I also if she was like, no, I really want
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  Speaker 1: you to know that dress, I'd be like.
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  Speaker 2: All right, cool, well, and didn't you realize it was the.
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  Speaker 1: Yes? And thank god I I ended up getting the
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  Speaker 1: other dress because the initial dress I got was the
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  Speaker 1: wrong color. It was like half a shade different. So
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  Speaker 1: if I didn't get that, I probably wouldn't have been
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  Speaker 1: able to be in the bridal party because it was
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  Speaker 1: it was a whole ass different color. It was like
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  Speaker 1: more of a greeny blue than like a light blue.
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  Speaker 1: Like it was like these nails.
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  Speaker 2: It was like a anyway, you're like, I'm gonna just
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  Speaker 2: have that little of a different color.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my, I would have kicked myself out of
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  Speaker 1: the wedding anyway. It worked out. But it's just like
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  Speaker 1: it's the bride and what she wants, not to mention,
• 10:30
  Speaker 1: she's like clearly has an illness, like not that, not that,
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  Speaker 1: like you need to be even more catering because she's
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  Speaker 1: the bride. But it's just like you're just a major asshole.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, she wants like even how she said it, just
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  Speaker 3: you know, these pictures are gonna outlive me and everything,
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  Speaker 3: and it's like all she wanted was a Colors game.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, like, suck it up, Cassandra. But there's comments. There's
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  Speaker 1: comments and an update, so we'll read some of the comments.
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  Speaker 1: First first comment says, not the asshole, she had an objection.
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  Speaker 1: She had an obligation to bring it up before you
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  Speaker 1: paid for the dress. Yeah, Also that you paid for
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  Speaker 1: the dress, which is bonkers by letting you pay. She
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  Speaker 1: agreed to the dress, and it is unreasonable to object
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  Speaker 1: now unless there was some significant issue she was not
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  Speaker 1: aware of before. OHPI said that, and it was the
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  Speaker 1: bridesmaids who worked together to pick out the dresses. I
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  Speaker 1: put down two rules, which was one a selection of
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  Speaker 1: colors and two floor length. As one of the other
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  Speaker 1: bridesmaids has a scar down her leg she wants covered slash.
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  Speaker 1: Winter is very very cold here.
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  Speaker 2: It makes all sense to.
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  Speaker 1: Me, guessing it's Canada. I'm just going to go straight
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  Speaker 1: to the update because I want to know. So I
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  Speaker 1: confronted the maid of honor, and you guys were right.
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  Speaker 1: There was more to the story context. She sold the
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  Speaker 1: dress because she messed up on her student loan application
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  Speaker 1: and desperately needed cash. Honestly, that makes more sense. Horrible,
• 11:52
  Speaker 1: but that makes more sense than agreeing to address and
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  Speaker 1: then being like, actually, no, I want to wear this dress.
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  Speaker 1: That's crazy. Why wouldn't you just be honest?
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  Speaker 2: Was it like a dress that she already had to
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  Speaker 2: Maybe because clearly she was strapped for cash, so maybe
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  Speaker 2: she would just already had that dress or something.
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  Speaker 1: Or I don't know. I'm not sure how true this is,
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  Speaker 1: especially considering I've seen her posting on social media about
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  Speaker 1: fourth about a fourth pet she recently bought. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: go ahead and say I feel like maybe she did
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  Speaker 1: sell the dress because she just she just doesn't care.
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  Speaker 1: She's just like, oh, must have been a nice dress,
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  Speaker 1: because she's just making money off that because she didn't
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  Speaker 1: pay for it. That's brutal. She was very apologetic on
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  Speaker 1: the phone, but my trust in her is damaged. I
• 12:33
  Speaker 1: told her as much and asked, why didn't she ask
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  Speaker 1: for help exactly? That's what I would be like, I'd
• 12:38
  Speaker 1: be like, listen, but even then, why why is? Why
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  Speaker 1: are you going to sell the dress? Isn't there other
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  Speaker 1: things you can sell?
• 12:45
  Speaker 2: I was like, nothing else to sell?
• 12:49
  Speaker 1: Like go walk somebody's dogs for like, that's.
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  Speaker 2: Like the one thing you need to have for this
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  Speaker 2: one wedding for your best friend. Supposedly, yeah, most someone's lawn.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I mean, student loans
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  Speaker 1: are a bitch. Like I'm sure it was a lot
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  Speaker 1: of money, but that's just it's just a weird thing.
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  Speaker 2: But how expensive is this stress?
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  Speaker 1: I feel like most.
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  Speaker 2: Probably like if we're even staying on the hire end
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  Speaker 2: really nice. Like when I say hiing really nice, I like,
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  Speaker 2: I mean, like what like three to four hundred dollars?
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  Speaker 1: I know, I would say, like, I mean, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I would feel max for a bride'smaid dress would be
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  Speaker 1: like like eight hundred or like one thousand dollars. But
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  Speaker 1: that's crazy to me. So it's like student loans how much?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe it's just our student loan application,
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  Speaker 1: That's what.
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  Speaker 2: I don't understand. Why what do you mean an application?
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  Speaker 1: Like what would that be? I don't even know student loan?
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  Speaker 2: Apple?
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  Speaker 1: That costs money? What does that cost? Like fifty bucks?
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  Speaker 1: A hundred bucks?
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  Speaker 2: Her student on Apple?
• 13:44
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Let's let's keep reading. She very apologetic.
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  Speaker 1: I told her as much and asked her why shouldn't
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  Speaker 1: ask for help. I'm a little strapped due to the
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  Speaker 1: wedding prep, but I could cut corner corners and would
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  Speaker 1: be way more understanding if she had just been up front,
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  Speaker 1: not lied and gas lit. Our other friends would have
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  Speaker 1: helped where they could, as well as they have helped
• 14:02
  Speaker 1: me in the past when I needed it. Additionally, I
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: told my fiance what happened as the maid of honor
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  Speaker 1: was a mutual friend, and he outright said that he
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  Speaker 1: doesn't want her at the wedding if she's going to
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  Speaker 1: be so disrespectful. So I relayed this to the maid
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  Speaker 1: of honor. Great fiance, by the way, you're marrying a
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  Speaker 1: good one. The maid of honor didn't take this well
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  Speaker 1: at first, accusing me of blabbing and then turning our
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  Speaker 1: friends against her. I then told her frankly that due
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: to COVID, my guest list was going to have to
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  Speaker 1: be really small, just a handful of people I love
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  Speaker 1: and trust, and that she's no longer one of them.
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  Speaker 1: Oh shit. She started to apologize again, and I sincerely
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  Speaker 1: wished her a nice life and that she'd treat her
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  Speaker 1: future friends better than hung up and blocked her. I
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: don't need whatever that was in my wedding or my life.
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry this didn't end on a super positive note,
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: but it is what it is. I really feel just
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  Speaker 1: bad right now, but I'm hoping with time the wound
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: will heal. For now, this sucks and I miss my
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  Speaker 1: best friend. Anyways, thanks for listening to me, Ramble. I'm
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  Speaker 1: touched that so many of y'all cared about my situation.
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  Speaker 1: To reach out, you'll be better off.
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  Speaker 2: I find it funny. I find sometimes weddings to kind
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  Speaker 2: of bring out the truest of sides of some people.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I say. I'm just like, you really know.
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  Speaker 2: It's weird how some people center themselves around a wedding
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  Speaker 2: that's not theirs, and even like this is the yeah,
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: but that's just like what And then it's always like
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: a question too, like if you have to ask the bride, hey,
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: is this okay to wear, it's probably not okay to wear,
• 15:31
  Speaker 2: so just yeah, yeah, And it's funny. Actually, my husband
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: and I we've been to a few weddings, but a
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: few of them have had dress codes, and I feel
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: like some people may think that's like, oh, you want
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: me to dress a certain way. I love that, Oh yeah,
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: tell me what to wear. I love a dress code,
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: and like, yeah, you know, it's better if I don't
• 15:51
  Speaker 2: have to buy something new for every wedding. But at
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: the same time, it's just like you give me a
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: dress code, it just makes everything so much easier in
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: my head, that's I guess.
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so no, like a dress like I did,
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: I mean I don't really have a wedding wedding, but
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: for me, I just said, you know, come whatever you're
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: comfortable in. And that was probably stressful for people because
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: they're like, is it casual? Isn't I mean everybody came like,
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: you know, gee, you wore a polo shirt, cowboy hat,
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: like sun dress. It was good vibe.
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: The same for mine too. I just said, like, it's
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: gonna be hot, we're going to be on grass. Like
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: for the ladies that want of deals to dress comfortably
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: or whatever like that, but at that's like to your wedding.
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: I wore uh, I think a forty dollars Walmart dress. Yeah,
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: like my blue little sun dress.
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was nice.
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: It was great. I wear it all the time too
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: because I was pregnant and it just like worked well
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: anyway for you girl, get her out of there.
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you're not the asshole and you're better off.
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: Just enjoy your life.
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: Because reminds me I have to call back that lady
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: that altered my dress.
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: Oh really, yeah she just finished yesterday.
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: Oh nice, good, don't do't worry. I'm not gonna toss it.
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: You just call up a lessa and be like sorry,
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: I sold your dress that was really short on cash.
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah all right, George and your bike?
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: What she do She'd be like, Okay, I don't know
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: what she'd do. I think she'd freak out.
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: She'd freak out. Weddings also bring out the like the
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: worst stress I think for for some people as well,
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: when they're not even that. I don't know, I don't know. Also,
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: you usually usually get married at a younger age ish,
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: so I feel like you were like you're still like bruin.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, people just try to manipulate you because you
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: don't even know who you are yet.
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: But we just never would do that. It's just funny.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: That's the thing. That's the thing is like I can't
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: even picture that situation. She would just be confused. She'd
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: be like what and so it was one of her friends.
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: I think one of us would just be like like
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: a sisters be like okay, you need to go sick.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, those people, I don't understand it. All right, let's
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: move on, all right. Next up, we have am I
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: scllywigg for refusing to let my girlfriend's younger sisters stay
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: with us after she continues to respect me in front
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: of both our families. So it's a sister one kind
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: of well, girlfriend's sister got it. I twenty four male,
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: have been with my girlfriend Sarah twenty four female for
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: almost three years. We lived together in an apartment that
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: we split sixty forty, mine being sixty percent since I
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: make more income than her. Pretty fair. Her younger sister,
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: Emily eighteen female, has always been kind of spoiled and
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: just does what she wants. She's loud, loves attention, and
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: basically just has no filter. Last weekend, my parents and
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: her parents came over for dinner, first time they visited
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: our place since we moved in. My girlfriend's sister invited
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: herself over too, which was annoying but whatever. During dinner,
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: her sister, out of nowhere, just starts making comments about
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: how my acne was getting bad and how I've been
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: gaining weight recently. I don't understand how these people exist,
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: but okay, and that my girlfriend Sarah could do better
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: look wise, but at least I'm reliable and make a
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: lot of money, so it makes up for it. She
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: said it multiple times, giggling as well, while my girlfriend
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: just kind of told her to shut up, but didn't
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: go too far since we were in front of family.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: My parents look super uncomfortable during this, but as adults,
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: they didn't say anything or escalated the situation. Since my
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: girlfriend's family was there as well, I stayed quiet during dinner,
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: but afterwards I pulled my girlfriend aside and told her
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: I was pissed and hate how her sister has no
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: filter or respect and how her parents just let her
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: do whatever she wants. Emily has made similar comments before
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: about me, whether it was about my friends, my height,
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: my body, et cetera. And I've asked her to stop
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: making comments about me to me or to me if
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: she has nothing polite to say. My girlfriend said I
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: was overreacting and that her sister is just like that
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: and she doesn't mean anything by it, and she's just
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: teasing me because I'm family. Listen, Okay, this is There's
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: still more, but like I have a brother in law,
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: you have a brother in law. Whatever, knowing Adam a
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: lot longer than you know Caleb poke. I poke Adam
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: a little bit, but not like like whoa looking a
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: little wide around the around the around the pan area,
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: but like I can honk your love handles, like looks
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: like we haven't picked up anything in like six years.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: I don't I don't know, I just would never.
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: You don't poke at things that people can't change, you
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: know what I mean.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: Like, I'm sure you can change, but like just about
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: even just appearances in general, you're just rough.
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like you poke at like you know, how they
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: answered a question or like how they what they watch
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: or whatever, mannerisms or I don't know.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: It's really hard to say because some people are really
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: comfortable and they can poke fun yeah, and the other
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: person who take it, Really it depends on who it
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: is and what it is like. It can be about
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: how they look. I don't feel comfortable with that, but
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: some people have that repertoire and that's fine. But this
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: is clearly like he hates it and she's still doing it,
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: and it's like it's very like I can't even imagine
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: how uncomfortable everyone was. Can you imagine us around a
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: dinner table with Adam's family, Jessica's husband, and I'm just
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: ripping on them, just calling it an acne ridden and Slavery's.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: Like no, no, And and if you did, you'd know
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: that mom and dad would probably be like, hey, Christina,
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: not your place. Well too, I hope I was ripping
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: on Yeah, and I would tell you too, but like
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: also the parents like it's just like, you know, just be.
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, i'd be like, what is literally wrong with you
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: right now? Like I would stand up for Caleb or whatever,
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: like can we like cool it? Because I hate how
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: she's just being like that's just how she is. She's
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: just naturally a asshole. I don't know what to say,
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: like what.
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: And like it's is she trying to make people laugh?
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: Like is she really dig Like is that what she's
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: looking for for that attention? She's trying to look for
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: a little giggle, for something funny. She thinks she's saying
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: it's just bullying.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: Which I get, Like I've been there where I'm like
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: I try to make a joke, but it's never at
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: somebody else's expense.
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: Really, I was asking about being this scally way.
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't even remember the title. Am I the
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: asshole for refusing to let my girlfriend digger say, stay
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: with us after she continues to disrespect me because she's
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: staying with them currently? So honestly, no, because this sounds
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: like it's on a regular basis and you're just taking
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: verbal abuse from a free loader.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because he pays sixty and the girlfriend's play day forty.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: And the sister pays nothing. Nothing. I guess comment say
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: not the asshole for problems. Chances are her drama with
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: her roommates is due to her abject rudeness. She shows
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: you no respect, She deserves no special treatment. And sorry,
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: but your girlfriend should be shutting down the trash talking
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: immediately and not making excuses for her crappy little sister. Yeah, honestly,
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: your girlfriend is equally the asshole.
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: In my opinion, she sh'd be telling her you're not
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: staying with us anymore.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, wackos, what do you guys think? Let us know?
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: Next stop, we have am I the scullywag for cutting
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: off my daughter after she slept with her sister's husband.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: Didn't really realize we have a little bit of a
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: sister theme now, So cutting off my daughter after she
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: slept with her sister's husband, so they'll be mom cutting
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: one of us off if one of us slept with her.
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: That is again, just can't can't relate. I'd cut off
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: all my limbs before I even I don't even like
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: hugging my brother in law to be sorry.
• 23:19
  Speaker 4: I don't think my brother in law give hugs at
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: all and be like no, I think it was I
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: saw this video of like people saying like my like
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: hearing people sleep with their friends husbands, like I look
• 23:33
  Speaker 4: at my friend's husband.
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: He's a pet.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah I saw that too, Like an annoying pet.
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah. He he comes around when he wants and then
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: doesn't come around when I want him to. And it's
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: just okay, can you just go? Can you just not
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: be ground?
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: Thanks for my nephews, you can go, now go. I'm
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: just kidding. We love that.
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: I mean, the last couple of.
• 23:54
  Speaker 4: Times he've come down to you, he hasn't been able
• 23:56
  Speaker 4: to come, but it's like, it's fine, he.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: Can just that's fine, you can day, That's fine. He's
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: gonna watch this.
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: Moh's gonna kis if any of his students watch this.
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: I love Adam the amount of times he comes home
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: and he'll just tell me like how students would rip him.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: Oh, they're gonna rip them apart. Now, that's really funny.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: I fifty nine female, have two daughters, Emma thirty five
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: female and Chloe thirty three female. Emma has been married
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: to her husband, thirty six male, for eleven years and
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: they have two children together. Chloe has been married to
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: her husband, thirty four male, for eight years and they
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: have a one then they have one five year old son.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: What do you get the time you got kids?
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: Give me tips? Just kid me kid. About six weeks ago,
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: Emma called me just after midnight, completely hysterical. Okay, so
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: Emma is the one with multiple kids and has been
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: married for eleven years. She told me she'd suspected for
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: months that her husband was hiding something. He'd been distant,
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: constantly guarded his phone, and was always finding excuses to
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: say late at work. That night, after he fell asleep
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: beside her, she looked through his phone for the first time.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: That night, after he fell asleep beside her, she looked
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: through his phone for the first time. She found years
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: of explicit messages between him and Chloe, her sister, who's
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: also married with a five year old. The affair had
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: been going on for almost four years. Emma was devastated.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: She kept asking me how her own sister could do
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: this to her. A few days later, we were at
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: my brother's birthday party when Emma confronted Chloe outside. Chloe
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: denied everything at first and insisted Emma had misunderstood. When
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: Emma said she'd read the messages herself, Chloe completely fell apart.
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: She started crying, admitted the affair, and kept repeating, I
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: don't know why I did it. I'm so sorry. It
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: was the biggest mistake in my life. You mean is why?
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's still happening clearly, And it wasn't like
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: one night. It's years.
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: I would be playing every family gathering over and over
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: and over.
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's absolutely devastating. I feel so bad. Amma
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: asked how four years could possibly be a mistake. Chloe
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: had no answer. The argument escalated into a screaming match.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: Chloe tried to slap Emma, but several relatives stepped in
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: before she could. Chloe's husband quietly took their son home
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: after realizing what had happened. Within days, he told Chloe
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: he wanted a divorce. Emma also filed for a divorce
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: after her husband admitted everything. After it all came out,
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: Chloe called me eighty two times in one day. I
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: answered once because I hoped she was calling to explain herself. Instead,
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: she cried the entire time, begging me not to abandon her.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: She said she'd already lost her husband, was probably going
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: to lose shared custody of her son, and couldn't bear
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: losing her mother too. She said she knew she didn't
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: deserve forgiveness, but begged me not to hate her forever.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: What the theme, unintentional theme of this is just the
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: audacity and entitlement of people. I told her I couldn't
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: look at her the same way anymore. I said. This
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: wasn't one bad decision, it was years of lying to
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: her sister, her husband, and the rest of us. I
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: told her I loved her because she's my daughter. Oh right,
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: this is like the mom telling the story. But I
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: didn't want contact with her for the foreseeable future. Since then,
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: I've ignored every attempt she's made to reach out. This
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: is where my family thinks I'm wrong. My sisters say
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: Chloe has already lost everything, her marriage, a relationship with
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: her sister, many of her friends, and likely the family
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: she dreamed of giving her son. They say she's genuinely remorseful,
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: has started individual therapy, and isn't trying to justify what
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: she did. They argue that if a mother won't stand
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: by her child after they've hit rock Bottom, who will.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: They also remind me that cutting Chloe off means my
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: grandson is growing up without his grandmother, even though he's
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: done nothing wrong. I understand all that, but every time
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: I think about welcoming Chloe back in my life, I
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: picture Emma reading those messages alone in the middle of
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: the night, realizing that the two people she trusted most
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: had been lying to her for four years. I don't
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: know if I can move past that. My family says
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: I'm punishing Chloe forever for something she already deeply regrets.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: I feel like I'm simply refusing to pretend it never happened. Wow,
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: that is rough. I have to like astro project out
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: of my body and try to put myself into these people,
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: like into the mother. Like I have two daughters and
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: one did that to the other.
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: Right now, I'm thinking of my sons.
• 28:12
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I think of you if this happened with your
• 28:14
  Speaker 5: sons when I cut off Teddy, and it's hard, I don't.
• 28:19
  Speaker 5: I don't think I could cut off. I think it
• 28:22
  Speaker 5: would be like, like, Okay, so I have two boys.
• 28:25
  Speaker 5: George is the oldest, then there's Teddy.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: If this happened to George, where you know, the two
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: people he trusts the most went behind his back did that.
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: I don't think I could cut Teddy off, but I
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: would make it so evidently clear that I am there
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: for George and I am there for Teddy if he's
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: willing to help himself through this, like he's like, okay
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: in a therapy.
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: I'm a responsibility.
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: I'm you know, like, I'm sure there was a lapse
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: in judgment there for a while for Chloe or whatever,
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: But I don't think I could cut off for like
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: the foreseeable few. Sure I would be like you just
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: you just ruined your relationship and you're gonna need to
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: put in the work. I'd be there, like probably being
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: like not not not just like a support of, like
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: you need to fix this with your brother.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: You don't need to be close.
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: You don't need to be close. You've ruined that, You've
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: ruined that trust, but you need to fix this. Yeah,
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: in a way of I don't know I could, But
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: as a mom, I don't think I could cut completely.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's why if and I mean we only
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: have so much context, but I mean, as far as
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: we know, besides this moment, everything was fine. It's not
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: like she was constantly you know, stealing from the family.
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: It's like being like a bet or like hurting someone
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: in the family or like doing something like over I
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: mean it is actually that's a lot. I mean she is,
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: but I just mean in a way like you know,
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: she's just a bunch of like we're I feel like
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: it would take so much to cut off a child.
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: I don't even have a child. I feel like it
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: would take so much to completely cut off a kid,
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: Like it would have to be just something like murder
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: or I don't even like it's something just evil something
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: and that's this is evil.
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: But it's like, oh, it's so hard for mom too.
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: You'd probably be thinking where did I go wrong as
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: a mom?
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: Oh? For sure, you know.
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: So that's where it's just like it's just mom guilt
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: the rest of your life. As soon as you have kids,
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: you just like every mistake, every this one mistake. This
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: was like a repeatedense. Oh yeah, you're like, where did
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: I go wrong with raising you to be? Or where
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: did I go wrong with not catching these signs of
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: you being this way? So I would I would out.
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: That's also probably why I wouldn't cut one of my
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: kids off is, because I'd be like, Okay, we need
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: to figure this out.
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think I'd want to really, i'd want
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: to talk to them lot. I would not in any
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: way force them to be have any sort of relationship, though,
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: I'd be fine now if if Emma or whoever, like
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: if George never wanted to speak to Teddy again or
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: something like that, I'd be like, yeah, that's fair, you're
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: an adult.
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: Respect all of George's wishes. If he was like, I
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: don't at you know this, you know my kid's birthday.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, yeah, that's fair. Yeah, that's yeah, that's yeah.
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: I feel like it'd be like full support over here,
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: and then support in just a different way for the
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: person that did that, like I can't respect Like mom
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: here is just like I don't know if it's an
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: ultimate girls girl, but she's just like, bye, your toxic.
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: I gave birth to you. But I don't know. Yeah,
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't even know what to think. I would be like, God,
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: how how did this even happen? Like why would you
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: do this?
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: Like you said, we're some of the context you so
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: maybe we're not. Yeah, I don't know.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: Maybe she's she hasn't been like a model daughter in general.
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: Maybe she has done other things besides this insane affair
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: where she's like, this is the straw that broke the
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: candle's back. I wish we knew that, and maybe we
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: will because I think there's an update. But here, I'll
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: read some I'll read some comments. First comment says, not
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: the asshole, she's genuinely she's not genuinely remorseful. She said
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: she got caught in and is facing the consequences. Can't
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: you have a relationship with your grandson via his father?
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: Tell your sisters to mind their own business. This is
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: between you and your daughters, nothing to do with them.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: Op said, I kind of have a relationship with him,
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: but the problem is that he wants this child to
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: grow up closer to his own family, who lives in
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: another city, rather than his ex wife's family. That sucks,
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: But like, you didn't do anything wrong, so that sucks.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: Another comment said, I mean, I personally can't think of
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: anything my kid would do that would cause me to
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: cut her off permanently, but I would probably take a
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: break for a while to organize my feelings. There is
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: one ten thousand percent nothing that could happen that would
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: make me willingly cut off my grandkid. Yeah, what Chloe
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: did was unforgivable, But I would ask you, how would
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: you feel if something happened to Chloe right now? How
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: would you feel? If you don't feel anything, then you
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: have your answer about what you want to do. Oh yeah,
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: just like like a car crash. I don't know, just
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: something devastating, op said into hands on what happens to
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: her if she's struggling with her mental health or got
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: into an accident, I would obviously help her like a
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: mother would. I admit I might have been harsh when
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: I told her for the foreseeable future, but I was
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: thinking of my daughter Emma and how she would be
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: feeling right now. I love both my daughters equally from
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: the moon and back. But I am just torn in
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: this decision. I feel like she's just it's also fresh,
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: and she's making this post and it's like, I don't know.
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: And then Ope responded to a long comment on if
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: it is possible for Chloe to lose full custody of
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: her son because of what she did, Ohpi said she
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: might not. Her ex husband wants to move far away
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: from all of this. He wants to move to his
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: own side of the family, which lives in a different city.
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: It would be hard for Chloe to be there for
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: her son unless she moves with him or gets an
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: apartment there, which I don't think she would unless she
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: really wants to see her son. Oh gosh, that's crazy.
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: That yeah, I'd go to a different planet to see
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: my kid now I don't even have a kid. A
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: lot of people are saying, not the asshole for completely
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: cutting her off, though, But there is an update that's
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: three days later. I know it's very early for me
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: to post an update, and I wasn't planning on it,
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: but after reading the comments on my first post, I
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: decided I needed one final conversation with Chloe before I
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: completely closed the door. I went to her house yesterday
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: and expected her to be emotional after calling me eighty
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: two times in one day, but she was surprisingly calm.
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: I asked her the one question I still couldn't understand.
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: That was why she admitted she'd been attracted to Dema's
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: husband for years. She said what started as admiration eventually
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: became feelings, and over the time they crossed a line.
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: Instead of ending it, they kept convincing themselves. It would
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: be the last time, she insisted, and she insisted she
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: regretted everything. I asked if she'd spoken to Emma. She
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: told me the only context she had was one text
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: before Emma blocked her on everything. Emma told her she
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: destroyed their family, take it away, her children's stable home,
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: and that she'd hoped the affair had been worth losing
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: a sister forever, because as far as she was concerned,
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: Chloe no longer had one. Emma blocked her immediately afterward.
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: Chloe also admitted she later waited outside the school gates
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: hoping to speak to Emma when she came out to
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: collect the kids. That's bad tape. That's poor form, dude
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: at the school ticket are you? That's You're stupid dude
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: in a.
• 35:11
  Speaker 6: Public place where they're supposed to feel safe. Yeah, the kid,
• 35:15
  Speaker 6: Oh my gosh. Emma refused to speak to her, warned
• 35:17
  Speaker 6: her to stay away from her and the children, and
• 35:19
  Speaker 6: told her that if she ever approached them again, she regretted.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: Chloe left crime. I told Chloe her waiting outside the
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: school was completely inappropriate, regardless of her intentions, She insisted
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: she only wanted to apologize and prove she cared about Emma.
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: I then asked if she truly felt remorse, and that's
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: when I completely lost my patience. Instead of taking full responsibility,
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: Chloe started telling me Emma's marriage had already been falling apart,
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: that Emma and her husband had been drifting apart for years,
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: and that he often confided in her tale's oldest time. Oh,
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: we we're probably gonna leave her. Oh it's so bad
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: at home. Meanwhile, he's getting her presents all the time,
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: making up for the fact that he's actually having an affair.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: And oh yeah, yea, you're not special, Chloe. You're literally not.
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: You were just unfortunately a whole he had something to
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: insert into. Sorry, now I'm getting mean. I'm going to
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: cut off, Chloe. I don't like this. She's like, well,
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: they were gonna break up anyway. It's like, where is
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: he now? Oh, he's moving because he doesn't give a
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: fuck about you. So that was really mean.
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: It's not mean, it's factual at this point.
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, She admitted the affair was wrong, but repeatedly tried
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: to place part of the blame on Emma, saying if
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: their marriage had been happier, none of this would have happened.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: I was furious. I honestly couldn't believe I had raised
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: someone capable of thinking that. I told her, there is
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: no marriage bad enough to justify secretly sleeping with your
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: own sister's husband for four years. I told her I
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: wasn't just disappointed, I was ashamed that she was my daughter.
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: The more she tried to justify herself, the angrier I became.
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: The conversation eventually turned to her own divorce. She talked
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: about how difficult everything had been for her and how
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: her husband still plans to move to Washington with their
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: son to be closer to his family.
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: I'd be extremely disappointed. Oh yeah, but I still like, Okay,
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: so we need to get you to therapy. M h.
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: You need to be going twice a week at this
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: point because I don't know what you're saying. But yeah,
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: I do think like, Okay, I need to back off
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: for a little while. You need to do in this
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: by yourself and go to therapy and you win. Wouldn't
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: cut off, but I do understand backing off for a
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: little bit. Yeah, she keeps get's wrong for Chloe to
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: sit in her mess that she made?
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because she needs to know that these relationships. Yeah,
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: everybody's leaving because what you did was it was actually wrong.
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: You're trying to justify it, but it's like, clearly you're
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: the catalyst. On top of the other husband, he's also
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: the catalyst, and I.
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: Actually send these relationships. Respect these relationships for what people
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: want out of them. So your sister doesn't want to
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: talk to you anymore. Respect it.
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the best thing you could do. She said,
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: she may have to move there too if she wants
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: to stay close to him. That's her ex husband and
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: new kid. As she spoke, I realized almost everything was
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: about what she had lost, her marriage, her home, her reputation,
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: possibly seeing her son every day. Very little was about
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: Emma or the damage she'd caused. At the end of
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: the conversation, Chloe asked, if we're cool now. I told her, no,
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: we're not cool, and we might never be. I said
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: that if I ever found it in my heart to
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: reconcile with her, it would be on my terms and
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: in my own time, not because she thought one conversation
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: could raise four years of a lies and betrayal. Yeah,
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: this girl needs a time out, dude, You need to
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: back you know what Yeah, she needs it. She needs
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: a lonely time out to realize what a piece of
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: shit she is. That's crazy to just be like me, me, me,
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: me me, it's my vimae and then oh, I walked
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: out feeling angrier than what, angrier than when I arrived.
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: I honestly don't know what to do anymore. I love
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: both my daughters, but after that conversation, I'm not convinced
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: Chloe truly understands the pain she caused. I don't think
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: she'd has.
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: Out there Mama put her on a good time out.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd like to take a couple few months off
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: and then come back and be like, so did we
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: learn anything that's wild? And that sucks. It sounds like
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: both of her or all of her grandkids are moving
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: far away because of what her daughter and the other
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: husband did. That sucks first come, It says, why does
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: the other woman always believe the my marriage is falling apart,
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: I'm not actually close to my wife. Bullshit. Every single time,
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: we all know this man would have happily remained in
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: his marriage with his side chick sister in law forever
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: if Emma didn't find out. Hell, he's probably begging Emma
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: in text to give him another chance, and that Chloe
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: means nothing to him tales oldest time, but the woman
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: keep falling for it. Baffling, he said, I'm pretty sure
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: there might be a final part three. I'm not sure
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: how many parts I can keep making before Reddit says otherwise,
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: is there another part? Let's just gip all these comments.
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: Do you care? Oh no, there's not another part, shoot nut.
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: And it's funny because I'm like, I can't even picture
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: that between like you and I or you and Alissa,
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: or me and Alissa, or it's just not And Mom
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: would never cut any.
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: I was gonna say she would never. She would be
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: a story. She'd be like this where she's like extraordinarily
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: disappointed and maybe just like I don't even know how
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: to talk to you right now, like you need to
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: if we're acting like this. She wouldn't be like, oh
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: it's okay, She's like what the fuck is wrong with you?
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: Like thanks a lot for breaking up this whole family,
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: like you need help?
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: No, she would no, No, that's wild, so crazy. Why
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: do people do this, guess to give good Reddit stories?
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: That's the only reason, Like you know what, four years
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: in this'll make a great red A story.
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's funny too, Like I just you know,
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: I can't really to either, because it's just I'm lucky
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: enough to have a husband where I'm just like.
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: She's like not worried, Like don't know what that's like. No,
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: All right, next up, Last up, we have am I
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: a skellywag. I got mad at my boyfriend for cheating
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: in video games. We're board game cards people. I'm a
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: video game person. But ess it's just so I feel
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: like we've did for a few months. I'm in my
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: late twenties mail, he's in his thirties. We were out
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: to dinner last night after work and we got to
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: talking about the new GTA game releasing later this year,
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: and trailed off into talking about what games we like
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: to play. He said he'd liked playing shooter slash multiplayer
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: batter royal games like Fortnite and Call of Duty, and
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: I jokingly said that my aim is absolute garbage on console.
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: He said, well, that's why I use aim bot and wallhacks.
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: You won't know what this is, but I can imagine
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: cheating and laughed at it like a joke. I mean,
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: it's like, why even play the game. Basically, it just
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: like does everything for you basically to be like really
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: good at the game. For non gamers, wallhacks and aame
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: bot our cheating software is downloaded to help someone to
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: cheat unfairly in multiplayer games. It's just like so dumb.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: It's like if we were playing Uno and you could
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: see everybody else's cards, like it might as well be that.
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: I did not laugh with him. I play a lot
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: of multiplayer games, and I let him know that it's
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: so frustrating when people use cheats and hacks to ruin
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: the gaming experience for other players, especially after I finished work,
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: and I want to have a good time dealing with
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: these kinds of players. Thissses me off. He said something
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: along the lines of why are you getting so defensive
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: over how I played video games? And I told him
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: because it's loser behavior absolutely, which is rooting other people's
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: nights on games is how you wind down at the
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: end of the day. The rest of the night was awkward,
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: and I think it was mutual that we won't be
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: seeing each other anymore. Damn, it's a few months relationship
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: at least, because if he's cheating in video games like that,
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: just like what a loser for not even being like
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: playing the game, like that's what it's all about. Or
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: if you were even playing a card game, if you
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: had if you like hit multiple cards under your sweater
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: or what like, Like that's one thing, I guess, But
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: you're not an eight year old.
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: It's like can you Yeah, okay, you're a thirty year old.
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like if I found out that, like Adam's cheating
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: at a game or something, I'd be like, like, that's
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: loser behavior. I'm like, grow up. We're playing a game
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: and we need to play it fairly. Like there's there's
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: a little.
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: No, that's just it's just telling of who a person
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: really is. That is so you get like your you're
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: a few months in, Who cares?
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: That's enough. That's a good enough reason to be like,
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: I'm good, especially if you're a gamer that's disrespectful. In fact,
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: you probably go for every short cut in life and
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: any way you can. This guy definitely uses Ai for everything.
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: It makes AI pick what he eats in the morning
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: for breakfast.
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: Sounds like a waste of time to me. So good
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: thing you found out a few months in?
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what if you found out that every game you
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: ever played with Adam he cheated in now, Yeah, they're
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: like twelve years of years. I'd probably rush it off
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: at that point.
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: But no, but I'd be questioning him on everything. I would.
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: I would just be like, I just it just it's.
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: So unky, it's very ikey. It's like, why do you
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: need to do that?
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: If you found out if Caleb did that.
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: I'd be picked out, especially the video game thing, because
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: we're like viating your people.
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: I'd be like, what, Adam hasn't played video games in
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: a couple of years, Thanks for the kids for that one.
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: I remember for him, like he would hate when people
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: would like cheat in at any like board games or
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: like even we play this one game Catan or whatever.
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: I'd love to right And if like he just felt
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: like there was something a little bit off of like
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: with a trade or with a he'd be like, we're here,
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: what are we doing here?
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like multiplayer sequence and a little bit of table talk.
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: Who whoa whoa? No do that?
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, this is some conversational dog. There's no hand signals.
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: We're a very very very very very very competitive family
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: when it comes together.
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: I'm actually really excited for Lyssa's wedding for all.
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: Let's just to get together and then fall apart because
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: everybody's going to be mad at each other for the game.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: Our mom literally walked out of our home because of
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: a game night. Do you remember that she went for
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: a drive. I feel like she left, she exited the house.
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: I think she went to take a breather.
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: But it was like, I mean, I don't. I think
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: Adam and I were like a two day fight about Catan.
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: At some point.
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: My husband gets like, I don't play games with her,
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, because you can't take it, Bud, can't
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: take the heat. Don't play with the fire. Don't play
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: with fire, can't take the heat.
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: I remember we played Catan with It was with Adam
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: at some point and someone else, and it was like,
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: I think you and I were like a little bit
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: of a little bit of like.
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, give me a week, I'll give you some log.
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm still really upset about that, and I was like, sorry,
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: we want, Yeah, you want. But I was just like
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: I didn't want him to win, so I want.
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: To seldom lost a Catan. I'm very good at manipulating
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: people like, oh, it would be so nice if you
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: gave me that then you can have the longest road
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: over there and you get more points.
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: Even though I'm one away right the longest road too.
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: I haven't played it in so long. I need to
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: play it. We should bring Catan to the wedding and
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: be fun. I'll make him cry. I'll make fun of
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: him for it and tell me his love handles. Just
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: kidding him out. That was a reference from the first
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: story he did. Yeah, okay, anyway, I'm going to let
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: Jessica tend to her children because she has multiple of them.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: Can't imagine. Yeah, just too now their dad, Yeah, they're fine.
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: Can you believe her husband's babysitting the kids. I hate
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: when people say that so much. I'm like, he's their dad,
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: he's taking care of his children.
• 46:18
  Speaker 2: No, I think he's probably he was going back to
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: work pretty soon, but I think he's still got another
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: like six weeks to go. He was like, what was
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: he at the end of the year school year, because
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: he's a teacher. He's like almost there, and I was
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: just like, you know, you're about to clock in, buddy.
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: Welcome to the trenches, Welcome World War three.
• 46:39
  Speaker 2: He's doing well. I love him golf, and he can
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: also just yeah, but it's good anyway. Thanks for having me.
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: If you're Adam Ravel's mister, Adam Revel's students, please rip
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: him apart at school and tell them his sister in
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: law Chris told you you it was okay, show him
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: this clip.
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: I Adam mention me.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah that's fine. No, it's fine. Thank you guys for watching.
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: Thank you Jessica for joining jess Revel on everything. If
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: you want to go follow her, she'd posts sometimes once
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: in a blue moon. Yeah, she's busy though, she's got kids.
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: Leave her alone. No, guys, I just put on press
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: on nails.
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: I was gonna say, I really like the blue. Yeah,
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: you wear those for a listen's wedding. Are you gonna
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: change them off?
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: No, I'll rip them off. I got toenails though, because
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: I got I got clawd hopper toes, so I got these.
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna try that.
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: That's a good idea.
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: Stay tuned, Stay tuned.
• 47:37
  Speaker 2: Never you would never show your feet.
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: I'm wearing clothes toed shoes, but I mean I have
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: those just in case, Just in case the videographer photographer
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: like gets us getting ready and she gets a clip
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: on my feet. I will be wearing slippers. We should
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: get We'll get slippers perfect, all right. You know I
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: started to see this anyway, We'll see in the next one.
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: Get Bye.