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- 0:00Welcome back. You're listening to Reformed
- 0:02Thinking. It's good to be.
- 0:03Here today we are doing a deep dive into a text that honestly,
- 0:08it's a bit of a problem. A problem text for.
- 0:10Sure, it's one of those chapters that can really unsettle the,
- 0:13you know, the Sunday School version of the Bible a lot of us
- 0:16grew up with. We've got our usual stack of
- 0:18commentaries here, some pretty dense theological essays, and we
- 0:22are turning all of our attention to the first part of Genesis
- 0:25chapter 20. It's the chapter most people
- 0:28sort of skim over. You know you're trying to get to
- 0:30Genesis 21 to the birth of Isaac, but if you actually stop
- 0:33and look at it, it's shocking. Shocking is exactly the right
- 0:37word because we just finished looking at Genesis 18 and 19,
- 0:41right? So if you're following the
- 0:42story, the narrative flow, Abraham has just been on this
- 0:46incredible spiritual high. I mean, he stood on the heights
- 0:51overlooking Sodom. He interceded.
- 0:53He wrestled with God, so to speak.
- 0:55He spoke with a pre Incarnate Christ.
- 0:58He really looked like a giant of the faith.
- 1:00He was the friend of God. That's the title he gets from
- 1:03this period. He's bold.
- 1:06He's confident in God's justice. He trusts that the judge of all
- 1:10the earth will do what is right. And then you turn the page
- 1:13literally the very next movement in the text, and we were in
- 1:16Genesis 20, and it feels like the floor just drops out from
- 1:20under you. It is a massive, massive
- 1:21regression. It's spiritual whiplash.
- 1:23We go from the man of faith to a man who, quite frankly, is
- 1:27acting like a practical atheist. That is a strong charge.
- 1:30I mean calling the patriarch, the Father, the faith and
- 1:33atheist. It sounds harsh, I know it does.
- 1:35But when we really look at the text, we have to ask the
- 1:38question, what does a man really believe when he acts as if God
- 1:42isn't there? Or at the very least, as if God
- 1:44is incompetent. Yes, as if God isn't strong
- 1:47enough to handle a local warlord in the Negeb Desert.
- 1:50It's a failure of faith at the most basic level.
- 1:53So the whole premise of this deep dive them is to figure out
- 1:56how does the gospel itself survive when the supposed hero
- 2:00of the story is doing everything he possibly can to wreck it?
- 2:03Right. And the thesis we're going to
- 2:05see emerge from all these sources is pretty clear, the
- 2:08history of redemption, the very promise of salvation.
- 2:12It doesn't rest on the steadiness of the believer.
- 2:14And Abraham is anything but steady.
- 2:16Here he's not steady at all. The whole thing rests entirely
- 2:19on the sovereignty of the covenant keeping God.
- 2:22OK, let's get into the text then.
- 2:23Section one of our outline here is the descent into fear.
- 2:27And what's interesting is that the sources all point out that
- 2:30this descent this fall, it starts before Abraham even opens
- 2:34his mouth. That's right, It starts with his
- 2:36feet. It starts with geography.
- 2:38Yeah, geography in the Bible is almost never just about maps.
- 2:41It's theology verse, one says. From there Abraham journeyed
- 2:44toward the territory of the Negeb and lived between Kadesh
- 2:47and Shore, and he sojourned in Gerar.
- 2:51And most of us, myself included, you read that and your eyes just
- 2:54glaze over. It sounds like a travelogue.
- 2:56Then he went here. Then he went there.
- 2:58But why does this specific move matter so much?
- 3:02Well, you have to look at where he just came from.
- 3:04He was camped by the oaks of Mamre, and in the narrative up
- 3:08to this point, Mamre is the place of stability.
- 3:11Right, that's where he built an altar.
- 3:12He built an altar there. It's where he had that
- 3:15incredible fellowship with the Lord under the trees.
- 3:18It represents communion, shade, rest, being in the right place.
- 3:23And he leaves that. Should go to the Negeb.
- 3:25He leaves that to go to the desert.
- 3:27The Negeb is harsh territory. It's dry, it's on the fringe.
- 3:32And Gerar Gerar is the Borderlands.
- 3:34It's philistine territory. So he's moving from the
- 3:36sanctuary to the marketplace, in a sense.
- 3:38That's a great way to frame it. He moves from communion to
- 3:41commerce. He leaves the place of
- 3:42revelation and communion to go to a place where he's a
- 3:45stranger, he's an outsider. He feels exposed.
- 3:48Why do you think he did it? The text doesn't explicitly say
- 3:52Abraham moved because. It doesn't know and there's a
- 3:54lot of speculation in the commentaries on this, but you
- 3:57have to remember what he just witnessed, the destruction of
- 4:00Sodom. He literally saw smoke rising
- 4:02from the valley of Sidham like the smoke of a gigantic furnace.
- 4:07He saw the full force judgement of God poured out.
- 4:10So it could be a kind of trauma response.
- 4:12It could be maybe he sees this terrifying judgement and he just
- 4:16he just wants to get away from that scene.
- 4:18Or maybe it was something more practical like a drought in the
- 4:20area of Mamaray. We don't know for sure.
- 4:23But whatever the reason, the effect is the same.
- 4:25The effect is the same. He leaves a place of spiritual
- 4:28strength and deliberately puts himself in a place of perceived
- 4:31weakness. He enters the jurisdiction of a
- 4:34local king named Abimelech. King Abimelech.
- 4:37Let's talk about him for a second, because he's the
- 4:39antagonist of the story, at least on paper.
- 4:42Right, he's set up to be the bad guy.
- 4:44What do we know about him? At this point, not much.
- 4:47He represents the world. He's a philistine king.
- 4:50He has power, he has a harem, and in Abraham's mind, Abimelech
- 4:55represents a visible, tangible threat that God's invisible
- 4:58promise might not be able to overcome.
- 5:00And that fear, that calculation, it triggers the old habit.
- 5:04This brings us to the logic of the lie, verse 2.
- 5:08And Abraham said of Sarah, his wife.
- 5:10She is my sister. And the response is immediate.
- 5:13And Abimelech, king of Gerar, sent and took Sarah.
- 5:16It's so blunt. There's no negotiation recorded,
- 5:19no conversation, just she is my sister and then boom, she's
- 5:23gone, taken into the King's harem.
- 5:25And we have to pause here, because if you know your Bible,
- 5:27if you've been reading Genesis up to this point, you are having
- 5:30some serious deja vu. Oh yeah, we've absolutely seen
- 5:34this movie before. Genesis chapter 12 Decades
- 5:37earlier, Abraham goes down to Egypt because of a famine.
- 5:40He gets scared of Pharaoh. What do they do?
- 5:42He tells Pharaoh that Sarah is his sister.
- 5:44Pharaoh takes her into his harem.
- 5:46God has to intervene with plagues and Abraham gets
- 5:49unceremoniously kicked out of Egypt.
- 5:51You would think after a fiasco like that, he'd have learned
- 5:54his. Lesson, you would think, but
- 5:56here he is, an old man now, and he recycles the exact same sin.
- 6:00And the source material uses some very visceral language to
- 6:04describe this. I saw that it references
- 6:06Proverbs 26 point. And the one, like a dog that
- 6:08returns to his vomit, is a fool who repeats his folly.
- 6:11That is a gross image, but it really does fit.
- 6:14Doesn't. It it fits because it shows us
- 6:16something deeply true and uncomfortable about human
- 6:18nature, about our own hearts. We like to think that spiritual
- 6:21growth is this straight upward line.
- 6:24You know, you conquer a sin in your 20s and it's gone for good.
- 6:27Check that box, move on. Right.
- 6:30But what Abraham shows us is that old sins, those fleshly
- 6:34survival mechanisms we created before we really learn to trust
- 6:37God, they don't just die, they go into hibernation.
- 6:40They sit in the basement waiting.
- 6:42They do. And when the climate changes,
- 6:45when you move from the spiritual security of Mamre to the
- 6:48perceived insecurity of Gerar, the hibernation ends, the old
- 6:52fear wakes up, and the old security policy kicks right back
- 6:55in. And it was a.
- 6:55Policy. That's the part that's so
- 6:57damning. This wasn't a panic move in the
- 6:59moment. Later in the chapter in verse
- 7:0113, Abraham actually admits it. He says, When God caused me to
- 7:05wander from my father's house, I said to her, this is the
- 7:09kindness you must do me at every place to which we come, say of
- 7:12me, He is my brother. That's just it's breathtakingly
- 7:15cynical. It means this was their SOP,
- 7:18their standing operating procedure for dealing with
- 7:20foreign cultures. It was premeditated.
- 7:23The motto was secure your life first, speak the truth second.
- 7:28Maybe it's raw pragmatism. It's the morality of survival,
- 7:31not the morality of faith. And look at the logic he uses to
- 7:34justify it. He explains it to Abimelech
- 7:37later. He says, I thought, surely there
- 7:39is No Fear of God in this place. Verse 11 He profiles the entire
- 7:43population of Girar. He does.
- 7:45He looks at them and says these people are Philistines, they're
- 7:48pagans, they don't know Yahweh, therefore they have no moral
- 7:51compass. Therefore if they see my
- 7:52beautiful wife, they will kill me to get her.
- 7:54So I have to lie to stay alive. He assumes that because they
- 7:57aren't church people, they're essentially monsters.
- 8:00Precisely. But here's the profound irony
- 8:03that all the sources just hammer home in this entire chapter from
- 8:07start to finish. Who is the one person acting
- 8:10without the fear of God? It's Abraham.
- 8:11It's the prophet. It's the patriarch.
- 8:13What is the fear of man? It's functional atheism.
- 8:16It's the moment when the visible threat, the king, the sword, the
- 8:20financial ruin, or whatever, feels bigger and more real and
- 8:24more immediate than the invisible promise of God.
- 8:27So Abraham looks at King Abimelech and sees a giant.
- 8:31He looks at God's promise to protect him and sees, well, a
- 8:34nice idea maybe, but not something that's really going to
- 8:37stop a sword. It's a total collapse of faith
- 8:39and we have to stop and remember the stakes here.
- 8:41This isn't just some domestic dispute.
- 8:42It isn't just a bad marriage moment, though it is absolutely
- 8:45terrible for Sarah. Oh, it's awful for Sarah.
- 8:47She's treated like property pawned off to a stranger to save
- 8:50her husband's skin. It's a horrible betrayal, but
- 8:53redemptively, historically, the stakes are cosmic.
- 8:56We are standing on the precipice of Genesis 21 and what happens
- 9:00in Genesis 21? Isaac is born.
- 9:02The child of promise, the miracle baby, the seed through
- 9:06whom all the nations of the earth will be blessed.
- 9:08The very line that leads directly to Jesus Christ.
- 9:12And Abraham just handed the mother of that promised seed
- 9:15over to a Pagan King's bedroom. Just let that sink in.
- 9:19One of the articles we read used this image that really stuck
- 9:22with me. It's said that the dragon from
- 9:25Revelation 12, the ancient enemy who waits to devour the child
- 9:29the moment it's born, is effectively waiting in the bed
- 9:32Chamber of Abimelech. Wow.
- 9:33That puts a chilling spin on it. This isn't just a lie.
- 9:36It's an act of spiritual warfare, even if Abraham doesn't
- 9:39see it that way. It is if Abimelech sleeps with
- 9:41Sarah. The lion is corrupted.
- 9:43We don't know whose child Isaac is.
- 9:45The great promise of Genesis 3.15 that the seed of the woman
- 9:49will crush the serpent's head is hanging by a thread.
- 9:52And Abraham is risking the salvation of the world to save
- 9:54his own neck. He.
- 9:55Is and that brings us to the second section of our outline,
- 9:58the divine interruption because Abraham has made his deal, he
- 10:02thinks he's safe. Sarah is gone.
- 10:04The plan of God is in ruins and then God shows up.
- 10:08What? That's it?
- 10:09Verse 3 But God came to Abimelech in a dream by night.
- 10:13I love this part. I love that God doesn't go to
- 10:15Abraham. He doesn't wake his prophet up
- 10:17and review him. He bypasses the believer
- 10:19entirely. He goes straight to the secular
- 10:21authority. He goes to the Pagan king.
- 10:24This is a massive statement about God's jurisdiction.
- 10:27We tend to think God only operates inside the church or
- 10:30inside the covenant community. Right, we put him in a box.
- 10:32We do, but here Yahweh asserts his absolute authority over a
- 10:37Philistine war Lord who doesn't even know his name.
- 10:39He has no problem stepping into Gerrard.
- 10:42He invades his sleep. He enters the dream completely
- 10:45uninvited and the message is just terrifying.
- 10:48Behold, you are a dead man. No, hello, no good evening.
- 10:52I am the God of Abraham. Just you are dead.
- 10:54You are a dead man because of the woman whom you have taken,
- 10:57for she is a man's wife. God just cuts straight through
- 11:00all the spin, Abraham said. Sister Sarah went along with it
- 11:03and said brother, the court officials all said single
- 11:06available woman God says wife. He names the reality of the
- 11:11situation. He does, and by naming her wife,
- 11:13he names the sin adultery, and he immediately pronounces the
- 11:17sentence for that sin, which in his court is death.
- 11:20And it's interesting, The sources point out that even in
- 11:22this Pagan culture, God holds Abimelech accountable to a
- 11:26universal moral standard. Abimelech didn't have the Bible.
- 11:30He didn't have the 10 commandments on stone tablets.
- 11:32That's right, Mount Sinai is still hundreds of years in the
- 11:35future. But this shows that the moral
- 11:38law, specifically regarding the sanctity of marriage, is written
- 11:42on the fabric of creation itself.
- 11:44It's written on the conscience. Natural Law.
- 11:46Exactly. Adultery is a capital offense in
- 11:49the court of Heaven, regardless of your cultural background or
- 11:52what you think you know about God.
- 11:54So Abimelech is having the worst nightmare of his life.
- 11:57A deeded he doesn't know has just pronounced a death sentence
- 12:00on him. But he doesn't just cower, he
- 12:02argues back. He does.
- 12:04This is where it turns into a kind of courtroom drama.
- 12:06He defends himself and verse 4 gives us this crucial detail.
- 12:09Now Abimelech had not approached her.
- 12:11So nothing physical had happened, yet the line was still
- 12:14pure. The line was pure.
- 12:16So Abimelech says, Lord, will you kill an innocent people?
- 12:19And then he lays out his legal case.
- 12:21Did he not himself say to me she is my sister?
- 12:24And she herself said He is my brother.
- 12:27In the integrity of my heart and the innocence of my hands, I
- 12:29have done this. He pleads ignorance.
- 12:32He says I was tricked. I was operating on bad
- 12:35information. And he's right.
- 12:37He was completely tricked. He acted on false intelligence
- 12:40that was provided to him by the man of God.
- 12:43It's so humiliating for Abraham when you think about it.
- 12:46The Pagan king is the one using words like integrity and
- 12:48innocence. Well, the Prophet is the one
- 12:50hiding and lying. It is a total role reversal.
- 12:53The world is acting more ethically than the church in
- 12:55this moment. Abimelech makes an appeal to
- 12:58God's own justice. He basically says, God, surely
- 13:01you are a just judge. You cannot execute a man for a
- 13:05crime he didn't even know he was committing.
- 13:07And God actually listens. This leads us to Section 3,
- 13:10which I think is the theological heavyweight champion of his
- 13:12entire chapter. It's the doctrine of restraining
- 13:14grace. This is where we need to slow
- 13:16down and really pay attention because God's response to
- 13:20Abimelech it changes how we understand everything about sin
- 13:24and Providence. Verse 6 God says yes, I know
- 13:27that you have done this in the integrity of your heart.
- 13:30So he starts by validating Abimelech's claim.
- 13:33He accepts the plea. He says, OK, you're right, you
- 13:35didn't intend to commit adultery.
- 13:36But then comes this crushing revelation.
- 13:39God adds, and it was I who kept you from sinning against me.
- 13:43Therefore, I did not let you touch her.
- 13:44It was I who kept you. I did not let you.
- 13:48Those are active, powerful verbs.
- 13:50They destroy Abimelech's pride in a single sentence.
- 13:53Abimelech thought to himself. I haven't touched her yet
- 13:55because I'm a noble king. I haven't touched her because I
- 13:58have self-control and I'm waiting for the right time.
- 14:00God says no, you didn't touch her because I physically stopped
- 14:04you. The Hebrew word there is
- 14:06interesting. It's.
- 14:07Yeah, it means to withhold, to hold back, to restrain.
- 14:11It's used in other places of God, holding back the rain or
- 14:14holding back a judgement. Here, he's holding back a human
- 14:17will. And the source material connects
- 14:19this directly to the Westminster Confession of Faith,
- 14:22specifically the chapter on Providence.
- 14:25How does this verse fit into a Reformed understanding of
- 14:27theology? Well, it's a classic text for
- 14:30understanding that human beings do not have the kind of
- 14:33autonomous freedom that the world and even many parts of the
- 14:36church think we have. We have a will.
- 14:38Yes, we make choices, but God is sovereign over that will.
- 14:43So you're saying God can override our choices?
- 14:46He can certainly place boundaries on them.
- 14:48Look at the situation here. Abimelech had the nature to sin.
- 14:52He's a powerful king who takes any woman he wants for his
- 14:55harem. He had the opportunity to sin.
- 14:57Absolutely. Sarah was in his palace.
- 14:59He had the power to sin. No one on earth could have
- 15:02stopped him. All the lights were green for
- 15:04him to go ahead. But he didn't go.
- 15:05He didn't go. And why?
- 15:07Not because he made a virtuous choice, but because God hit the
- 15:10brakes. God placed some kind of
- 15:12invisible barrier between the king and the woman.
- 15:15Does the text give us any clue as to how he did that?
- 15:18It doesn't give us the specifics of the mechanism in that moment,
- 15:20but later on in verses 17 and 18, it says God had closed all
- 15:24the wombs of the House of Abimelech.
- 15:26It seems to imply some kind of sudden widespread physical
- 15:30affliction struck the entire household, maybe making him and
- 15:34his other wives ill or impotent. So maybe a sudden illness that
- 15:37night. It could be, Or maybe God just
- 15:39removed the desire from his heart.
- 15:41Maybe he sent some urgent political distraction.
- 15:44We don't know the exact means, but we know the ultimate 'cause
- 15:47God intervened to prevent a sin from happening.
- 15:50And this is what we call restraining Grace, yes.
- 15:53We talk a lot about saving great God, saving us from the eternal
- 15:56penalty of our sin. But restraining grace is God
- 15:59saving us and the world from the full expression and act of sin
- 16:03itself. It's the idea that the world is
- 16:06not as wicked as it could be. Not even close.
- 16:08It's only because God is constantly actively holding back
- 16:11the floodgates of human depravity.
- 16:13That's a sobering thought. It means people are by nature
- 16:17much worse than they appear on the surface.
- 16:19Much worse, John Calvin said that if God lifted his hand of
- 16:22restraint, if he removed all the external and internal checks he
- 16:25places on the human heart, society would collapse into a
- 16:28chaos of murder and theft in an instant.
- 16:31The decency we sometimes see in the world often isn't because
- 16:35people are inherently good. It's because God is mercifully
- 16:39limiting how evil he allows them to be.
- 16:41And notice how God frames the sin here.
- 16:44He tells Abimelech. I kept you from sinning against
- 16:47me. That is such a key phrase.
- 16:49That's the vertical dimension of sin.
- 16:51God takes it personally. We tend to think of adultery as
- 16:54a horizontal sin, a sin against the spouse, against the family.
- 16:58God says no. First and foremost, you are
- 17:00sinning against me. You are violating my creational
- 17:02order. You are attacking my image in
- 17:04humanity. But let's be honest, God's
- 17:06primary motivation here wasn't just to be nice to Abimelech.
- 17:09No, not at all. Abimelech certainly benefits.
- 17:11He doesn't die, which is a good outcome for him, but he is not
- 17:15the center of the story. The center is Sarah.
- 17:17The center is Sarah, and more than that, the center is the
- 17:20promise that she carries in her womb.
- 17:23God is guarding the mother of the promised seed.
- 17:26He's protecting the covenant. This is what our outline calls
- 17:29the Sovereign Shield. That's the term Abraham dropped
- 17:32his shield of faith. He surrendered, he gave up.
- 17:35But God says my covenant does not depend on Abraham being
- 17:39brave today. My plan is not held hostage by
- 17:42human cowardice. I will overrule A Pagan King's
- 17:45lust. I will overrule a prophet's
- 17:47fear. I will do whatever it takes, by
- 17:49whatever means necessary, to ensure that Isaac is born and my
- 17:52redemptive plan moves forward. That is incredibly comforting
- 17:55for us today. It means God's ultimate plan is
- 17:58foolproof. It means His plan can survive
- 18:01our stupidity. It can survive our fear.
- 18:03It can survive our worst sins. God's grip on the covenant is
- 18:07infinitely tighter than our grip on Him.
- 18:09So the immediate crisis is averted.
- 18:11Sarah is physically safe, Abimelech is terrified but still
- 18:14alive. But now there's this huge mess
- 18:17to clean up. The big mess this.
- 18:18Leads us to Section 4, Restoration and the Prophet.
- 18:22Because God doesn't just reveal what he did, He gives Abimelech
- 18:25a command. Verse 7 Now then return the
- 18:28man's wife. Simple direct restitution.
- 18:33Yes. Repentance isn't just about
- 18:35feeling bad about what you did, it's about actively fixing what
- 18:38you broke. You cannot keep the stolen goods
- 18:41and claim that you're sorry. God demands give her back.
- 18:44And he backs it up with a threat.
- 18:46If you do not return her, know that you shall surely die, you
- 18:50and all who are yours. Dying.
- 18:53You shall die. It's the same legal language God
- 18:55used in the Garden of Eden. It's the language of the law.
- 18:58God is not negotiating here. But then right in the middle of
- 19:01this threat, in this command, God drops the title on Abraham
- 19:04that is, well, it's just baffling in this context.
- 19:07He says return the man's wife, for he's a prophet.
- 19:10This is a massive moment in biblical theology and it's so
- 19:12easy to just rewrite past it. This is the very first time and
- 19:15the word prophet, the Hebrew word knobby, appears anywhere in
- 19:18the scripture. The first time ever.
- 19:19The very first time and. It appears now of all times.
- 19:22That's the shocking grace of it. That's the irony.
- 19:25God doesn't give Abraham this title when he's building an
- 19:28altar at Mamray. He doesn't give it to him when
- 19:30he's courageously charging into battle to save his nephew Lot.
- 19:34He bestows this high office on him at his absolute lowest
- 19:37point, when he's caught in a web of deceit hiding behind his
- 19:41wife's skirts. It seems almost unfair Abimelech
- 19:46is the one acting with integrity here, but Abraham gets the
- 19:49honored title. It tells us something absolutely
- 19:52fundamental about our standing with God, the office, the
- 19:55calling. It depends on God's sovereign
- 19:57election, not on the man's immediate performance.
- 20:00Abraham is the prophet and the friend of God because God chose
- 20:03him to be, not because he earned it.
- 20:05In this chapter. It's pure grace, unmerited
- 20:07favor. It is, but then look at the
- 20:09function of the prophet here. What does God say the prophet
- 20:11will do? He says he will pray for you and
- 20:13you shall live. This defines for the first time
- 20:16what a prophet is. We usually think of a prophet as
- 20:18someone who predicts the future, or maybe as someone who preaches
- 20:21fiery sermons speaking from God to men.
- 20:24But here the direction of the speech is reversed.
- 20:26Right. What theologians call the law of
- 20:29first mention defines a prophet primarily as an intercessor,
- 20:33someone who speaks to God for men.
- 20:35He stands in the gap. He mediates.
- 20:38Just think about the humiliation for Abimelech here.
- 20:40He's the king, he's the innocent party in this whole transaction,
- 20:44but to save his life and the lives of his household, he has
- 20:47to go to the very guy who scammed him and humbly asked for
- 20:51prayer. It's a bitter pill to swallow.
- 20:53You can just imagine Abimelech thinking, God, why on earth do I
- 20:56have to ask him for help? He's the liar who caused this
- 20:58whole problem it. Forces him to recognize God's
- 21:01established order. It forces him to submit to God's
- 21:03covenantal order. Abraham, despite his personal
- 21:07moral failure in this moment, is still God's designated channel
- 21:11of grace on earth. If Abimelech wants life, he has
- 21:13to get it through Abraham. There's no other way.
- 21:15It's mediated mercy. God could have just healed
- 21:17Abimelech and his household directly with a word.
- 21:20He absolutely could have, but God loves to use means.
- 21:24He loves to involve His people in His work of restoration, even
- 21:28when they're the ones who caused the problem in the 1st place.
- 21:31The processes return the wife ask for prayer, then you will
- 21:35live. It restores the dignity of the
- 21:37prophetic office. In a way, God is publicly
- 21:40vindicating Abraham's role in front of these Philistines.
- 21:43And it restores Abraham too. It forces him to stop lying and
- 21:47start praying. It pushes him out of his fear
- 21:49and back into his calling as an intercessor.
- 21:52OK, so we've covered the dissent, the divine
- 21:55interruption, the doctrine of restraining grace, and the
- 21:58restoration. Now we need to land the plane.
- 22:01Section 5 is theological synthesis and application.
- 22:04What are the big takeaways from this messy story?
- 22:07First and foremost, I think we have to deal honestly with the
- 22:09failure of the human hero. We leave Virar with 0 confidence
- 22:13in Abraham's moral fiber. Absolutely 0.
- 22:15He is not the guy you want guarding your life savings or
- 22:18your wife. He failed to speak the truth.
- 22:20Sarah was complicit in the lie. Abimelech was just a self
- 22:24preserving Pagan. If you're looking for a hero, in
- 22:27Genesis chapter 20, there is only one faithful actor from
- 22:30beginning to end, Yahweh himself.
- 22:32It really deconstructs that be like Abraham moralism that we
- 22:36sometimes hear in sermons. It obliterates it.
- 22:38We are not called to be like Abraham in this chapter.
- 22:41We are called to trust the God of Abraham, who remains faithful
- 22:44even when his people are not. And that, of course, points us
- 22:48directly to Christ. It screams for Christ.
- 22:51Abraham was a failed mediator in this story.
- 22:53He was a prophet who brought guilt and danger on the people
- 22:56around him. He endangered the bride to save
- 22:59his own skin. You contrast that with Jesus.
- 23:01The contrast couldn't be sharper.
- 23:03Jesus is the true prophet. He is the better intercessor.
- 23:06He didn't lie to save himself. He spoke the absolute truth.
- 23:09I am He in the Garden, knowing it would lead Him to the cross.
- 23:13He gave himself up to protect and purify His bride, the
- 23:16Church. So Abraham here is a type A
- 23:19shadow, but a very very imperfect 1.
- 23:21He shows us our desperate need for a Savior who is holy,
- 23:25harmless, and undefiled. We need a prophet who doesn't
- 23:28need to repent of his own lies before he can pray for us.
- 23:32There's also a serious warning here for leaders, isn't there?
- 23:35The sources touched on this regarding pastors, elders,
- 23:37fathers. It is a sobering warning.
- 23:40Abraham was a leader. He was the carrier of the
- 23:42promise. But when he feared men, when he
- 23:45feared the culture of Gerar more than he feared God, he
- 23:48endangered the very people entrusted to his care.
- 23:51When leaders fear men, the flock suffers.
- 23:54That is the principle. When a pastor compromises
- 23:57biblical truth because he's afraid of offending the culture
- 23:59or afraid of losing big donors, he exposes the church to
- 24:02spiritual danger. When a father operates out of
- 24:05fear rather than faith, his family pays the price.
- 24:08Remember, Abimelech's whole household was afflicted with
- 24:11sickness because of Abraham's fear.
- 24:13Our cowardice always has collateral damage.
- 24:16But we don't want to end on that downer because there is massive
- 24:19comfort here as. Well, oh absolutely, the
- 24:21sovereign shield that is the great comforting take away
- 24:24salvation belongs to the Lord. It brings to my mind that verse
- 24:27in Jude 24. Now to him who is able to keep
- 24:30you from stumbling. Absolutely.
- 24:32The same God who kept Abimelech from physically touching Sarah,
- 24:36the same God who placed a restraint on that specific sin,
- 24:39is the God who keeps the believer today.
- 24:42He keeps us from the sins we desperately want to commit.
- 24:44And he keeps us even when we do stumble.
- 24:47He keeps the covenant secure even when we are faithless.
- 24:50As the Apostle Paul says, if we are faithless, he remains
- 24:54faithful, for he cannot deny himself.
- 24:56It's such a relief. It takes the crushing burden off
- 24:58our shoulders to be the perfect, unflinching heroes of our own
- 25:02story. We're not.
- 25:04It frees us to be honest about our failures because we know our
- 25:07standing with God doesn't rest on our performance, It rests on
- 25:10His promise and His power. Before we sign off, I want to
- 25:13leave our listener with one final thought.
- 25:15Something that came up in our prep for this and it has been
- 25:18haunting me a little bit since. The idea of the unseen
- 25:20restraint. Yes, we get this rare peek
- 25:23behind the curtain here with Abimelech.
- 25:25God pulls it back and says, see, I stopped you and it makes you
- 25:28wonder about your own. Life, it really does.
- 25:30How many times has God done that for us and we had no idea?
- 25:34We will never know this side of glory.
- 25:36We thank God for the prayers He answered in the ways we wanted.
- 25:39We thank Him for the blessings we can see and count.
- 25:42But we almost never thank Him for the sins He prevented us
- 25:45from committing. That angry career ending e-mail
- 25:48you tried to send, but the Wi-Fi suddenly went down.
- 25:51The adulterous relationship he blocked because he knew it would
- 25:55destroy you even though you cried about it and thought it
- 25:58was a tragedy at the time. The catastrophic car accident
- 26:00that didn't happen because you were delayed 5 minutes looking
- 26:02for your lost keys. The sinful desires that suddenly
- 26:05faded away for no reason you could explain.
- 26:08The doors that slam shut in your face.
- 26:11We look at those things as frustrations, the setbacks.
- 26:14But from the perspective of Genesis 20, they might be the
- 26:18severe hidden mercy of God. He is holding us back.
- 26:22He is keeping us from sinning against Him.
- 26:24It's possible we'll get to heaven and find out that our
- 26:26greatest debt of gratitude to God is for the thousands of
- 26:29things he didn't let happen. So the prompt for you the
- 26:32listener is this stop trying to manage your life with half
- 26:36truths and fear based strategies.
- 26:39Stop playing the Abraham game of safety.
- 26:41First, look away from the failed prophet Abraham and look to the
- 26:45true prophet Jesus Christ. Look to the one who intercedes
- 26:48for you perfectly, even when you're sleeping soundly in your
- 26:51compromise. Thanks for joining us for this
- 26:54deep dive into reformed thinking.
- 26:55It's been a heavy one, but a really good one.
- 26:57Indeed, a necessary one. We'll see you next time.