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MTV's Caught In The Act Season 4 With Tami Roman · Arroe Collins Like It's Live

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  Speaker 1: I guess you could say it's a page out of
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  Speaker 1: the old radio days, and can I really do that?
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  Speaker 1: Since I've been in radio since the age of fourteen,
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  Speaker 1: stretching all the way back to the disco era. The
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  Speaker 1: one thing that's missing from today's music scene it's history,
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  Speaker 1: which was the reason why we created the new podcast,
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  Speaker 1: Music's Lost History. I'm going to totally set you up
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  Speaker 1: on what song we're talking about, but the question is
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  Speaker 1: can you guess it before I share it? Music's Lost
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  Speaker 1: History Only on Arrow dot net, Roe dot net. Enjoy
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  Speaker 1: your exploration. Hello, and good morning. How are you doing today?
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  Speaker 2: I am doing well Arrow.
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  Speaker 1: How are you? Very excited to share another conversation with you?
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  Speaker 1: Because you are so transparent and real with everything that
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  Speaker 1: you're doing that you have become a person of trust,
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  Speaker 1: and that's something that a person has to earn. It's
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  Speaker 1: not just given to.
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  Speaker 2: Them, correct, you know, I have been a person of plus,
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  Speaker 2: which is why I ultimately got the job. People have
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  Speaker 2: been able to understand where I'm coming from and understand
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  Speaker 2: that I always live in my truth, which helps them
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  Speaker 2: understand and live in their truths. Since I've been on
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  Speaker 2: TV in nineteen ninety three with the real world. Wow.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, And now I'm back on MTV with Caught
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  Speaker 2: in the Act. It's a full circle moment for me.
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  Speaker 1: Let me ask you kind of a personal question, because
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  Speaker 1: you have been so open and so honest with me
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  Speaker 1: from the very beginning and that, but I've never brought
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  Speaker 1: this up for some reason. What is worse the actual
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  Speaker 1: suspicion or the act of getting caught, because they're both
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  Speaker 1: so emotional and so heavy to carry forward.
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  Speaker 2: For me personally, I think it would be the act
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  Speaker 2: of suspicion. And what I mean by that is because
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  Speaker 2: there's something inside of each person that lets them know
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  Speaker 2: when something is off kilter, when something doesn't feel right.
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  Speaker 2: Your intuition, your gut, your instincts, those things are not
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  Speaker 2: there for no reason. And so when you get to
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  Speaker 2: a point where you're starting to suspect that your partner
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  Speaker 2: is being unfaithful, untruthful, you know, disrespectful, whatever it may be,
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  Speaker 2: that is far worse. Because everybody enters into a relationship
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  Speaker 2: wanting companionship, wanting love, wanting honesty, integrity, grace, you know, assistance,
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  Speaker 2: You want to help me, and when that falls apart,
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  Speaker 2: that feels worse because then you oftentimes question yourself, right,
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  Speaker 2: it's part of human nation. Well what did I do
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  Speaker 2: to make you? You know? And it's never about you,
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  Speaker 2: It's always about the other person. So I think when
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  Speaker 2: you become suspicious of things, that's far worse.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, you just took me into an area
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  Speaker 1: where I know that people are doing this and they
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  Speaker 1: will not talk about it. And that is when you
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  Speaker 1: when you put it in the way that you just explained,
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  Speaker 1: all of a sudden, it's like, I can fix them,
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  Speaker 1: I'll fix them, I'll give them more love, I'll fix them,
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  Speaker 1: will be okay.
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  Speaker 2: And that's never possible.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, you know.
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  Speaker 2: I always say there's a big difference between loyalty and integrity,
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  Speaker 2: and when people start to sway on the side of
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  Speaker 2: I can fix them, it's because you want them to
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  Speaker 2: be loyal to you. Having a lack of integrity is
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  Speaker 2: a character flaw and that is only something that they
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  Speaker 2: can handle. You know.
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  Speaker 1: What I want listeners to understand and viewers as well,
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  Speaker 1: is that you don't go in with judgment at all.
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  Speaker 1: You remind me so much of that moment when Jesus
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  Speaker 1: was asking the woman who was accused of adultery and
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  Speaker 1: that he offered peace, He offered forgiveness. You have never
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  Speaker 1: guilt tripped anybody on that show or any time. I
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  Speaker 1: just don't ever feel that coming from your mind, body,
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  Speaker 1: and soul, and.
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  Speaker 2: I never will because my job is to approach it
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  Speaker 2: with empathy. Yes, because I've been I've been these people,
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  Speaker 2: you know what I mean, So I completely understand what
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  Speaker 2: they're going through, how they're feeling, and how betrayal is
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  Speaker 2: a hard knife to take out of your back, you
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  Speaker 2: know what I mean. So I always try. I always
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  Speaker 2: try to, you know, love on people and help them
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  Speaker 2: understand what they're going through. Coach Ken is there to
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  Speaker 2: help them process their emotions, and we try to get
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  Speaker 2: them on the other side so that they can figure
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  Speaker 2: out what they want to do going forward.
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  Speaker 1: Please do not move. We'll be right back with Tammy
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  Speaker 1: right after this MTVS Caught of the Acts season number four,
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  Speaker 1: we are back with Tammy Roman. I just don't know
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  Speaker 1: how people make that decision, especially with these flock cameras
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  Speaker 1: that are around there, where you can be pinpointed in
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  Speaker 1: a split second as to where you are and where
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  Speaker 1: you're going, and you can there's not even such thing
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  Speaker 1: as a little white lie anymore. You're busted.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, listen to me, and now I do a show
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  Speaker 2: where I catch cheetahs. I loves me a flock camera. No,
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  Speaker 2: I don't want people to take that out of the contest.
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  Speaker 2: Joking people. Here's the thing. You you should always, especially in relationships,
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  Speaker 2: be with a person that you're going to be committed to,
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  Speaker 2: that you're going to understand what it takes to be
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  Speaker 2: in that relationship to be responsible for another person's healing
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  Speaker 2: and peace. Okay, if you can't take on that job,
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  Speaker 2: you know with care, it's it's not a situation you
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  Speaker 2: should be in. So, yes, you're right, you can be
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  Speaker 2: caught in an instance. Why would you want to be caught?
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  Speaker 2: Just be honest with yourself and say I'm not ready
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  Speaker 2: to take on this responsibility and wait until you are.
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  Speaker 1: Now I'm not a judger here, but these rock shows
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  Speaker 1: of musicians, it doesn't have to be rock. Music can
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  Speaker 1: be any kind of creativity. All these shows on TV
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  Speaker 1: say yeah, go ahead and do it. Go ahead and
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  Speaker 1: do it. You'll be forgiven. You'll be on a documentary
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  Speaker 1: one day, you'll be feeling great about it. And it's like,
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  Speaker 1: why are they? Temptation is everywhere? Why can't we smell it?
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  Speaker 2: I think it's just human nature. People typically want what
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  Speaker 2: they can't have right, or want what's healing. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: if you want to get biblical about it, it says,
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  Speaker 2: you know, I yay, though I walk through the valley
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  Speaker 2: of the shadow of death. You know, please help me
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  Speaker 2: resist all temptation. We're not saying temptation won't be there.
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  Speaker 2: We need the ability to resist it.
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  Speaker 1: Are you part of the production team, Because the pacing
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  Speaker 1: of this show is just so unbelievable. I love it
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  Speaker 1: that you give us the opportunity as viewers to think,
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  Speaker 1: to plan, to be aware. I mean, it isn't just
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  Speaker 1: thrust it down our throats. That you actually give a
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  Speaker 1: space to really pay close attention, and we do.
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  Speaker 2: That on purpose. Yes, to answer your question, I am
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  Speaker 2: one of the producers. I work very closely with my
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  Speaker 2: team and how we tell stories because here again these
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  Speaker 2: are people, their real genuine situations. You know they're going
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  Speaker 2: there's raw emotion, there's high stakes everything. We try to
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  Speaker 2: incorporate it because you know it is a production. We're
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  Speaker 2: on TV, but we want to treat everyone with respect
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  Speaker 2: and care that comes to us for assistance. So we
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  Speaker 2: want people sitting at home to think about every situation,
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  Speaker 2: because you should use this show as a mirror for
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  Speaker 2: what you're going through in your own experiences. And we're
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  Speaker 2: talking about intimate relationships on Cottney Act, but apply it
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  Speaker 2: to your job, your friendships, you know, your entire life.
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  Speaker 2: Start looking at this show as a guide for what
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  Speaker 2: you should not tolerate.
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  Speaker 1: That said, you got to come back to this show
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  Speaker 1: anytime in the future. Ten minutes with you is a
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  Speaker 1: good little sprinkle. But man, one of these days we
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  Speaker 1: got to sit down and have an honest to god
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  Speaker 1: deep conversation.
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  Speaker 2: I would love that because you know I love deep things.
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  Speaker 1: Be brilliant today.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, you do the same, and please remind everyone to
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  Speaker 2: watch Codney Act Unfable August eighteenth, eighty seventh Central on
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  Speaker 2: MTV for me,