Latest / Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families / 10 Reasons For Ditching Homework
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- 0:06Speaker 1: On the Happy Families podcast, we love to slay sacred
- 0:09Speaker 1: cows and one of my favorites to take potshots at
- 0:12Speaker 1: is homework, particularly homework in primary school. Today in the
- 0:16Speaker 1: pod ten reasons your children don't need homework at least
- 0:22Speaker 1: in primary school, stay with us. Hello and welcome to
- 0:27Speaker 1: the Happy Families podcast, where you get real parenting solutions
- 0:29Speaker 1: every single day. This is Australia's most downloaded parenting podcast,
- 0:32Speaker 1: where Justin and Kylie Coulson. Kylie received the following voice
- 0:35Speaker 1: note via Happy Families dot com dot Au.
- 0:39Speaker 2: My name's Maxine and I've got a question about homework.
- 0:44Speaker 2: I am a teacher and I am a parent, and
- 0:48Speaker 2: sometimes I have difficulty articulating why I feel so strongly
- 0:54Speaker 2: about not giving homework. As a teacher, I find it
- 0:58Speaker 2: easy to advocate for children and have strong opinions about
- 1:04Speaker 2: why homework is not effective up until a certain age,
- 1:07Speaker 2: much like yours, the ones that you've talked about before. However,
- 1:12Speaker 2: when I'm in a professional capacity, I find it difficult
- 1:16Speaker 2: to articulate why homework is not beneficial to a lot
- 1:22Speaker 2: of children at a young age. And I'm talking primary school.
- 1:26Speaker 2: I wonder if you can help me to find a
- 1:29Speaker 2: way of sharing with my colleagues in a professional but
- 1:33Speaker 2: assertive way, why homework might not be what we think
- 1:38Speaker 2: it is. Thank you.
- 1:40Speaker 1: Can we help with this question? Kylie? Can we help?
- 1:43Speaker 1: I've had a lot to say about homework over the years.
- 1:45Speaker 1: I was just online hunt and twenty seventeen we posted
- 1:48Speaker 1: something called his Homework Helpful, the homework letter I send
- 1:51Speaker 1: to school each year. Just google Happy Families Doctor Justin
- 1:55Speaker 1: Coulson homework letter and you'll find it. We will link
- 1:58Speaker 1: to it in the show notes Today, Kylie, We're going
- 2:00Speaker 1: to talk about ten reasons that I think homework is
- 2:02Speaker 1: not helpful. All of them are evidence backed. But what's
- 2:05Speaker 1: your initial response when you hear the question.
- 2:07Speaker 3: I love that she's acknowledged not only is she a teacher,
- 2:09Speaker 3: she's a mum and she would go to the hill
- 2:11Speaker 3: to defend her child, but as a teacher is struggling
- 2:16Speaker 3: to be the minority voice in the room as a
- 2:19Speaker 3: really tough place to be for anyone, and homeworks seems
- 2:23Speaker 3: to be I don't understand why, but it seems to
- 2:25Speaker 3: be one of those conversation pieces in the classroom that
- 2:28Speaker 3: really gets people's heckles up.
- 2:31Speaker 1: Yeah, people love homework, parents love homework. Most teachers actually don't,
- 2:35Speaker 1: although in Maxine's case, she's right in the staff. And
- 2:37Speaker 1: there's this expectation that, well, we've always had homework, so
- 2:41Speaker 1: therefore it's institutionalized, so therefore it must work, it must matter.
- 2:44Speaker 1: Before we jump into my ten reasons, I want to
- 2:46Speaker 1: quickly highlight. First off, there's a book by Alfie Kohen,
- 2:49Speaker 1: who is a podcast favorite. Alfie Can't wrote a book
- 2:52Speaker 1: called The Homework Myth. It's exceptionally well researched. There's so
- 2:56Speaker 1: much in there. It's probably about ten twelve years old now,
- 2:58Speaker 1: maybe even more, but it's a very very strong book
- 3:01Speaker 1: in this area. There is also a parliamentary inquiry that
- 3:03Speaker 1: was conducted by the Victorian government around about I think
- 3:06Speaker 1: it was twenty eighteen, twenty nineteen something like that. They
- 3:09Speaker 1: found that homework has absolutely no benefit, none whatsoever to
- 3:12Speaker 1: children in primary school. And yet, and yet you're not
- 3:16Speaker 1: going to say the Education Department said, well, we think
- 3:19Speaker 1: that it's still worth doing. Just struggle with this.
- 3:23Speaker 3: We actually have knowledge, right, it's not speculation. We actually
- 3:28Speaker 3: have proven knowledge that this doesn't work, that this actually
- 3:33Speaker 3: is not a beneficial. If you want to do homework.
- 3:37Speaker 3: Give kids projects that bring them to life. They don't
- 3:40Speaker 3: even realize they're doing homework because they're having so much fun.
- 3:44Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 3:45Speaker 1: In other words, let them play. In other words, let
- 3:47Speaker 1: them play quickly. I should add as well, homework is
- 3:50Speaker 1: better than sitting there scrolling TikTok or Instagram reels, or
- 3:55Speaker 1: playing rogublocks or Fortnight or something like that. So I
- 3:58Speaker 1: mean there is a hierarchy. There are some stuff that's
- 4:01Speaker 1: just not good for kids, full stop, end of story.
- 4:03Speaker 1: But this is a discussion today about homework. Let's go
- 4:05Speaker 1: through it. Honey, I've got ten things. Kick me off,
- 4:08Speaker 1: let's get it going.
- 4:09Speaker 3: Number one.
- 4:10Speaker 1: Okay, there's no academic benefit decades of research, so homework
- 4:12Speaker 1: in primary school has zero correlation with academic achievement. Let
- 4:15Speaker 1: me say it again. It doesn't matter where you look,
- 4:17Speaker 1: it doesn't matter what data you pull up, you will
- 4:19Speaker 1: not find research that supports any relationship between doing homework
- 4:24Speaker 1: in primary school and your child's academic achievement. The only
- 4:29Speaker 1: evidence that we've got about homework being positively related to
- 4:32Speaker 1: academic achievement is doing a little bit of homework in
- 4:35Speaker 1: high school. But even then, the relationship between academic outcomes
- 4:38Speaker 1: and homework is small. Now, there's probably two things that
- 4:42Speaker 1: we need to talk about here. We need to talk
- 4:43Speaker 1: about tutoring, and we need to talk about reading.
- 4:46Speaker 3: Reading has been a non negotiable in our house, but
- 4:49Speaker 3: not in the way that everybody would think.
- 4:51Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's not homework.
- 4:52Speaker 3: It's not about how many pages she reads. It's not
- 4:55Speaker 3: about how long she reads for. It's finding text that
- 5:00Speaker 3: her to light perfect and then letting her read for
- 5:03Speaker 3: as long as you want.
- 5:04Speaker 1: And you don't bribe them unless you're going to say,
- 5:05Speaker 1: once you finish, that will get your line.
- 5:07Speaker 3: She doesn't have to color in a square at the
- 5:08Speaker 3: end of it.
- 5:09Speaker 1: No, don't worry.
- 5:09Speaker 3: Just and if she doesn't want to read, then you
- 5:12Speaker 3: read to her, and you read and you read and
- 5:15Speaker 3: you read.
- 5:15Speaker 1: Yep, totally sorry.
- 5:16Speaker 3: I've got six girls.
- 5:17Speaker 2: I know.
- 5:17Speaker 1: The other thing is tutoring. So I don't have a
- 5:20Speaker 1: problem with tutoring. If you've got a child who's struggling.
- 5:22Speaker 1: Here's the thing. If you've got a child who's struggling,
- 5:24Speaker 1: doing homework will only make them struggle more because they
- 5:27Speaker 1: are already struggling, and now they're doing it on their
- 5:28Speaker 1: own rather than in a classroom where there's support. So
- 5:31Speaker 1: homework will not help a struggling student, But tutoring is different.
- 5:35Speaker 1: Why because tutoring means that you've got somebody who's died
- 5:37Speaker 1: in individual correctness process as practice, and so that's helpful.
- 5:41Speaker 3: If you think about what we're actually sharing in the classroom.
- 5:45Speaker 3: It's supposed to be a personalized program, but then homework
- 5:49Speaker 3: goes home and it's the same for twenty five, thirty
- 5:52Speaker 3: two kids, whatever. How does that become personalized.
- 5:55Speaker 1: Well, that's actually one of my ten things, and that
- 5:58Speaker 1: is that it assumes one size fits all. This is
- 6:02Speaker 1: the second thing that I want to highlight. Homework ignores
- 6:04Speaker 1: the individual characteristics and difference as educationally of each student.
- 6:10Speaker 3: We've got one child who's like flying ahead and they're
- 6:12Speaker 3: totally bored and can't understand why they have to go
- 6:15Speaker 3: through this again. And then you've got the other end
- 6:17Speaker 3: of the spectrum with a child who is struggling desperately
- 6:20Speaker 3: and none of this makes sense and they just go
- 6:22Speaker 3: home and every night gets reinforced that they're not good enough.
- 6:26Speaker 1: Yeah, whether they're slower learning, like you said, sometimes it's ability,
- 6:31Speaker 1: sometimes it's just interest, and sometimes you've got to consider
- 6:34Speaker 1: the home circumstances as well. Not every child goes home
- 6:37Speaker 1: to a supportive environment where they could sit down at
- 6:38Speaker 1: the dining table and do it. And Kyle, as you've said,
- 6:42Speaker 1: sometimes it takes one kid twenty minutes, might take another
- 6:44Speaker 1: kid two hours, which does not go well.
- 6:47Speaker 3: Number three.
- 6:48Speaker 1: The third one that I jotted down was this, I
- 6:50Speaker 1: think that it displays more important activities. So there's play,
- 6:54Speaker 1: particularly unstructured play. I'm like, that's what we want more
- 6:57Speaker 1: than anything. But there's also family time home, there's just
- 7:01Speaker 1: moving your body, there's getting enough sleep, unstructured exploration. These
- 7:05Speaker 1: are all the developmentally required, developmentally important elements of childhood
- 7:09Speaker 1: that homework sometimes replaces and crowds out, meaning that they're
- 7:13Speaker 1: not getting the social skills, the creativity, the physical health benefits.
- 7:17Speaker 1: Homework doesn't provide those benefits.
- 7:19Speaker 3: One of the skills that our children went to One
- 7:22Speaker 3: of our children brought home a biingo sheet for homework
- 7:25Speaker 3: and it was you know, do twenty skips and some
- 7:29Speaker 3: of the activities they were physically based. Can you skip
- 7:32Speaker 3: twenty times down the road? Can you take the dog
- 7:35Speaker 3: for a walk, Can you jump on the trampoline? Can
- 7:37Speaker 3: you go for a swing have a swim, like just
- 7:40Speaker 3: active things where the kids are getting out. There's no
- 7:42Speaker 3: timeframe around it. It's just getting them to move their bodies.
- 7:45Speaker 1: Yeah, and there were some stuff about going to the
- 7:46Speaker 1: shops with your parents and.
- 7:47Speaker 3: Reading a book, having cuddle time with mum and dad.
- 7:50Speaker 1: And those things aren't homework. Those are just called being
- 7:52Speaker 1: a child. But the teacher was prescribing it because those
- 7:55Speaker 1: things are going to be helpful and maybe parents might
- 7:57Speaker 1: get on board with those things. So I do like
- 7:59Speaker 1: that before. Yeah, I don't think it's good for parent
- 8:02Speaker 1: child relationships. The research does indicate that all too often
- 8:06Speaker 1: parents and children start having battles because parents become enforces
- 8:10Speaker 1: and become nags, and they become coaches, and it creates
- 8:13Speaker 1: conflict and stress and it kind of can transfer the
- 8:17Speaker 1: home into an extension of school, which is not good
- 8:19Speaker 1: for relationships. And anyone who lived through COVID will remember
- 8:22Speaker 1: that well.
- 8:23Speaker 3: And you think about it, Mom and dad, they've got
- 8:26Speaker 3: a whole lot of other things they're doing, and then
- 8:27Speaker 3: we're trying to add that to witching hour.
- 8:30Speaker 1: Yeah, let's be honest, Like, no parent needs the extra stress.
- 8:33Speaker 1: And yet parents, when you talk to teachers, they will
- 8:36Speaker 1: tell you it's the parents that are.
- 8:37Speaker 3: Actually pushing for it.
- 8:38Speaker 1: Banging and banging and banging that drama. What about homework?
- 8:41Speaker 1: Just stop it, seriously, just stop it. Number five, this
- 8:44Speaker 1: is the last one before the break. Research shows that
- 8:47Speaker 1: giving kids homework kills intrinsic motivation to learn, because when
- 8:54Speaker 1: you force children to do academic work at home when
- 8:58Speaker 1: they're often tired, and often that not in truest in.
- 9:01Speaker 1: What it does is it teaches them that learning is
- 9:03Speaker 1: a chore that they have to endure. It's not about enjoyment.
- 9:06Speaker 1: They've just got to get it done. So it will
- 9:09Speaker 1: extinguish that flame of curiosity, that love of learning. After
- 9:12Speaker 1: the break, another five reasons that homework will not help
- 9:15Speaker 1: your child in primary school. Stay with us, We're back.
- 9:25Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families podcast. Let's keep going. The next
- 9:27Speaker 1: one around homework is quite a social justice one, and
- 9:30Speaker 1: that is that it exacerbates inequality. What do I mean
- 9:32Speaker 1: by that? We've sort of touched on this earlier, Kylie.
- 9:35Speaker 1: Children from disadvantaged homes are usually going to lack the
- 9:40Speaker 1: quiet study space that they need. They're going to probably
- 9:43Speaker 1: have a lack of parental help and resources and support,
- 9:46Speaker 1: which means that giving homework if it did work, and
- 9:49Speaker 1: it doesn't. But let's take the alternate view for a second.
- 9:52Speaker 1: Imagine that there was a relationship between doing homework and
- 9:54Speaker 1: academic consequences. Homework would then become a tool that widened
- 9:58Speaker 1: the achievement gap, which is exactly the op sort of
- 10:00Speaker 1: what we're trying to do. Homework would punish kids for
- 10:02Speaker 1: circumstances that are be on their control. And even if
- 10:04Speaker 1: it's not having a relationship with academic outcomes, which it doesn't,
- 10:07Speaker 1: kids still do get punished because when they show up
- 10:09Speaker 1: at school the next day and they haven't done their homework,
- 10:11Speaker 1: the teacher gets them in trouble for not having done it.
- 10:14Speaker 1: So not a fan from that point of view. Number seven, Yeah,
- 10:19Speaker 1: we kind of touched on this, but let's just recognize
- 10:23Speaker 1: we've got higher levels of mental health challenge than ever before.
- 10:26Speaker 1: And my experience, our experience with homework has been that
- 10:29Speaker 1: it creates additional stress and anxiety for children and for parents,
- 10:33Speaker 1: like it just adds to the cognitive load. It adds
- 10:36Speaker 1: to the burden that everyone's carrying. You've got a child
- 10:38Speaker 1: who's just done six hours or more at school. Now
- 10:40Speaker 1: you're going to get them to do overtime when they
- 10:42Speaker 1: come home do an extra shift. It's burnout, Its anxiety,
- 10:46Speaker 1: the sense of being overwhelmed. There's no downtime there for
- 10:49Speaker 1: the kids. I just I don't see how it advantages them.
- 10:51Speaker 1: And the stress, the stress that it puts on to
- 10:54Speaker 1: parents who quite often double and come homes or both
- 10:57Speaker 1: parents are working dealing with so much already. The last
- 11:01Speaker 1: thing that you want to do in between loads of washing, cooking, cleaning,
- 11:05Speaker 1: changing sheets, ironing.
- 11:07Speaker 3: And getting ready for tomorrow, getting ready for.
- 11:08Speaker 1: The school uniforms and things for tomorrow, is to say, oh,
- 11:11Speaker 1: and by the way, let's have a look at your homework, like,
- 11:13Speaker 1: come on, give me a break. I just I don't
- 11:15Speaker 1: think that it's helpful at all.
- 11:16Speaker 3: What's number eight?
- 11:17Speaker 1: This is the compliance idea. So as we've already said,
- 11:22Speaker 1: the Victorian government in twenty nineteen did their parliamentary inquiry
- 11:26Speaker 1: and acknowledged they recognize that homework doesn't appear to have
- 11:29Speaker 1: any benefits for children in primary school. I mean they
- 11:32Speaker 1: literally this government would not budge on it in spite
- 11:37Speaker 1: of it, and the reason that they decided to keep
- 11:39Speaker 1: homework as an education imperative was and I'm not directly quoting,
- 11:43Speaker 1: I'm paraphrasing because it teaches kids work ethic, and they're
- 11:47Speaker 1: going to have homework later in life, so they might
- 11:49Speaker 1: as well get used to it now. It doesn't teach
- 11:51Speaker 1: time management, it doesn't teach work ethic. There is no
- 11:54Speaker 1: research to support this idea at all. Responsibility if you
- 11:58Speaker 1: want your kids to be responsible and to stand time
- 12:00Speaker 1: management and work ethic. First of all, this just happens developmentally.
- 12:04Speaker 1: But secondly, it happens through age appropriate, real world tasks
- 12:09Speaker 1: and not contrived academic exercises. This is just madness.
- 12:13Speaker 3: Why are we asking our children to learn adult lessons
- 12:18Speaker 3: as five, six, seven, and eight year olds?
- 12:21Speaker 1: See you five six, and then you did six seven,
- 12:23Speaker 1: You did six seven and six seven. So there's two
- 12:26Speaker 1: more that I want to touch on just quickly. Most
- 12:29Speaker 1: primary homework is not really beneficial. It's just worksheets, it's
- 12:33Speaker 1: just learning. It's busy work. And what it does is
- 12:38Speaker 1: it rewards compliance and completion much more than rewards creativity
- 12:43Speaker 1: or critical thinking. There's no growth in homework. It's just
- 12:48Speaker 1: about following instructions. There's nothing there about intellectual curiosity. You
- 12:51Speaker 1: talked about projects before, When the kids have got a
- 12:55Speaker 1: model that they're building, or they're designing a home, or
- 12:59Speaker 1: they're well, they're coming.
- 12:59Speaker 3: Home to help mum cook dinner, or who can they help.
- 13:03Speaker 1: Yeah, all of those things will make a difference, and
- 13:05Speaker 1: homework doesn't do it. The last one, this one's actually
- 13:09Speaker 1: one for the teachers. It undermines teacher autonomy. And what
- 13:13Speaker 1: don't we mo with that? A lot of teachers are
- 13:16Speaker 1: assigning homework not because they want to or because they
- 13:20Speaker 1: believe it's valuable. They're assigning it because the school and
- 13:23Speaker 1: the department expects it of them, and parents expected of them,
- 13:25Speaker 1: which means that educators are being forced to practice and
- 13:29Speaker 1: enforce and defend policies and practices that most of them
- 13:34Speaker 1: know don't benefit children at all. So hopefully that's helpful maccine.
- 13:39Speaker 1: If I was to prescribe anything for kids after school,
- 13:43Speaker 1: the bottom of the list would be homework. Well, no,
- 13:44Speaker 1: the bottom of the list would be time on screens.
- 13:46Speaker 1: But next to that would be homework. I'd be saying,
- 13:49Speaker 1: get the kids outside, get them moving their bodies, get
- 13:52Speaker 1: them spending time with each other, get them playing, get
- 13:54Speaker 1: them being creative, give them art supplies, give them anything
- 13:59Speaker 1: resource wise that they need to be moving their bodies
- 14:01Speaker 1: or spending time with each other, or reading to a
- 14:03Speaker 1: younger sibling, dicking their head in a book. Yep, that's
- 14:07Speaker 1: the stuff that matters. And you can prescribe that as
- 14:10Speaker 1: homework if you need to, and I would imagine that
- 14:12Speaker 1: that's probably going to have a better impact on academic
- 14:14Speaker 1: outcomes and the well being of kids than anything that
- 14:18Speaker 1: you can send home on a busy sheet, Sorry, on
- 14:20Speaker 1: a worksheet. I think that's rant over. We'll link in
- 14:24Speaker 1: the show notes the homework letter. But Maxine, thanks so
- 14:27Speaker 1: much for sending the question through. If you have a
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- 14:47Speaker 1: Kylie's been on a healthcack. You've been hearing about it
- 14:49Speaker 1: bit by bit on the podcast, and we're going to
- 14:51Speaker 1: give you an update. The first of what we hope
- 14:52Speaker 1: will be many updates as Kylie shares what's working, what's not,
- 14:57Speaker 1: and what she's learning on this big adventure called Training
- 15:02Speaker 1: for Old Age. Can't wait for that one tomorrow on
- 15:07Speaker 1: the pod. Thanks so much for listening.