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Insane Wedding Stories · The conspiracy

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  Speaker 1: Oh my God. Is it hot in here or is
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  Speaker 1: it just me? God damn. Is it you? Is it you?
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  Speaker 1: Let's see. Oh my God. You're so hot you lit
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  Speaker 1: my candle. Look at that. See that? It's pretty cool,
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  Speaker 1: wasn't it? It's the power of editing. Shout out to Jay.
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  Speaker 1: But it's true, you're looking hot and spicy today, if
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  Speaker 1: I do say so myself, in the most respectful way.
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  Speaker 1: In the least creepy way, because I don't know who
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking to. I don't know if I'm talking to Todd,
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  Speaker 1: who's 42 years old, or, you know, Lily, who's 12,
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  Speaker 1: just sitting there with popcorn falling out of her mouth,
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  Speaker 1: being like, Mom? Auntie Chris is being weird again. But
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  Speaker 1: either way, I'm so happy you're here. I've had a
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  Speaker 1: crazy weekend. I got married. I got married! I'm a wife!
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  Speaker 1: I've been going out to like local grocery stores and
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  Speaker 1: restaurants and anybody that looks in my general direction, I
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  Speaker 1: just scream, I'm married! You know, like Mia Goth from
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  Speaker 1: the movie Pearl. I'm Just like that. It's been really
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  Speaker 1: fun so far. And you know, this, the last week
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  Speaker 1: and this current week, it's, it's been a lot. It's
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  Speaker 1: been a lot because I had my little soiree at
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  Speaker 1: my own home, which means I needed to take care
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  Speaker 1: of literally everything. So I'm tired. Your girl's a little
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  Speaker 1: I'm tired. I'm tired. I haven't slept in weeks. So
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  Speaker 1: I just thought that it'd be fun to read some Reddit,
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  Speaker 1: specifically some wedding Reddit, because now I'm very well versed
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  Speaker 1: and I'm very smart and I'm very intellectual in this case.
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  Speaker 1: Probably not. But I think it would just be fun
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  Speaker 1: because I just had a wedding of sorts, kind of.
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  Speaker 1: I eloped and then had just a casual, fun, almost
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  Speaker 1: like family reunion type experience. reception, like not a lot
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  Speaker 1: of structure. It was so fun though. And I'm so
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  Speaker 1: happy because I was stressing the fuck out the whole time,
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  Speaker 1: but it was super fun. Had some really good friends,
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  Speaker 1: play some live music, had some delicious food. It was
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  Speaker 1: a good time. It's very relaxed. It was how exactly
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  Speaker 1: how Caleb and I wanted it. And I know people
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  Speaker 1: like it in a different way. So I'm excited and
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  Speaker 1: I'm I just want to put a little veil over
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  Speaker 1: this whole topic being that I know everybody likes different
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  Speaker 1: stuff and I think that's super cool. These are just
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  Speaker 1: going to be my opinions on these certain things based
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  Speaker 1: off of what I know, okay? And I don't know
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  Speaker 1: a lot. Enough with the yapping. Let's get to reading.
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  Speaker 1: But first, I need to put on my f *
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  Speaker 1: * * ing glasses because I can't f * *
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  Speaker 1: * ing see a thing. Gather round because now is
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  Speaker 1: Chris Reads Screens. Okay, let's do this thing. Oh, and also,
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  Speaker 1: if you like these reading Reddit videos, I do have
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  Speaker 1: a second channel. It's called Call Me Chris 2, and
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  Speaker 1: I do a lot of reading Reddit, reacting, all those
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  Speaker 1: like fun videos. So I do that on that channel
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  Speaker 1: a lot. If you like it, you can go watch
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  Speaker 1: it there, honey. But for now, you can watch it
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  Speaker 1: right here. Sit down, grab a snack. Let's read people's tea.
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  Speaker 1: the asshole for telling my fiance I don't want his
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  Speaker 1: best man coming to our wedding after what he did
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  Speaker 1: at my birthday dinner. Okay, a little drama leading up
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  Speaker 1: to the wedding. We shall see. So I, 29 female,
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  Speaker 1: and my fiance, 31 male, have been together for four years.
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  Speaker 1: We are planning our wedding for later this year, which
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  Speaker 1: has been going great except for one person, his best friend, Kyle.
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  Speaker 1: It's always a Kyle, isn't it? Kyle is one of
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  Speaker 1: those dudes who peaked in high school and is so insufferable.
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  Speaker 1: Why does that sound like a Kyle? I'm sorry if
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  Speaker 1: your name's Kyle and you're watching this. You're a good Kyle,
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  Speaker 1: but every Kyle I know is like this. He is
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  Speaker 1: always making unnecessary jokes that seem like insults, to be honest.
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  Speaker 1: But my fiance says he's just goofy and immature, so
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  Speaker 1: I've tried to keep my peace. Anyway, my birthday was
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  Speaker 1: two weeks ago. Nothing big happened, just a dinner at
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  Speaker 1: a nice restaurant with close friends and family. Near the
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  Speaker 1: end of it, someone mentioned the wedding and how everything
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  Speaker 1: was going, and my fiance answered and said we were
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  Speaker 1: writing our own vows. I said I was nervous, but excited.
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  Speaker 1: That's so cute. I love when people write their own vows.
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  Speaker 1: Caleb and I did that. It was really cute. Then
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  Speaker 1: Kyle said loudly, I think everyone present in the restaurant
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  Speaker 1: heard that's how loud he was. Just don't cry halfway
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  Speaker 1: through your vows like you did during your breakup, remember that?
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  Speaker 1: And the table was dead silent. Oh. brother. In the moment,
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  Speaker 1: I laughed it off because I didn't want to create
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  Speaker 1: a scene there, but I was humiliated. My dad was
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  Speaker 1: present and my fiance was aware of that breakup. It
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  Speaker 1: was abusive and traumatic. I later told him how hurt
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  Speaker 1: I was and he said Kyle was just being Kyle
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  Speaker 1: and you know how he is, babe. Oh. Stand up
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  Speaker 1: for your woman, man. Stand up for your what? For
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  Speaker 1: your future what? So I sat on it for a
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  Speaker 1: few days, even though I was hurt. But then finally,
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  Speaker 1: I told him I don't want Kyle at the wedding.
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  Speaker 1: Not at the rehearsal. Not giving a speech. Nothing. Nowhere.
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  Speaker 1: I just don't want him there. Now my fiance is
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  Speaker 1: saying I'm overreacting. That Kyle was just trying to be
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  Speaker 1: funny and kicking him off the list would destroy our
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  Speaker 1: 15 years of friendship. friendship. But honestly, if Kyle cannot
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  Speaker 1: respect me, then why should I allow him to stand
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  Speaker 1: next to the man I'm marrying? So Emma the asshole
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  Speaker 1: for refusing to have Kyle at the wedding after this. Damn! Okay,
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  Speaker 1: so the way I'm reading this, and I think I'm
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  Speaker 1: reading this right, is that you were in this horrible
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  Speaker 1: relationship and you broke up and cried about it and everything.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how he would know about that, but-
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  Speaker 1: Either way, so inappropriate. There's those people that everything they
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  Speaker 1: say needs to be a joke and they need to
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  Speaker 1: be like the center of attention all the time and
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  Speaker 1: Kyle is that person. I think it's okay if you
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  Speaker 1: don't want someone like that at your wedding, especially speaking
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  Speaker 1: at your wedding. Oh my gosh, like who knows what's
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  Speaker 1: going to come out of their mouth or like a
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  Speaker 1: loose cannon. I understand that. It's hard though, like with
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  Speaker 1: it being his best friend, it's... it's hard to ask that,
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  Speaker 1: I think, of your partner. I think it would be
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  Speaker 1: okay to be like, I really don't want him giving
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  Speaker 1: a speech. Would you be able to talk to him
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  Speaker 1: about this at the wedding? Because I really don't want
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  Speaker 1: him having like outbursts and just, you know, making it
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  Speaker 1: all about himself and all that kind of stuff. I
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  Speaker 1: think there needs to just be an extra conversation here.
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  Speaker 1: Then you can base it off of that. But I
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  Speaker 1: also really don't like that your fiance didn't stand up
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  Speaker 1: for you in the moment or even afterwards. Like he
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  Speaker 1: just said, oh, Kyle's being Kyle. That is so passive
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  Speaker 1: and so frustrating. I really don't like that. But at
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  Speaker 1: the end of the day, I mean, it's your guys' wedding.
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  Speaker 1: So if you can both mutually agree on that, then great.
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  Speaker 1: But there's, this is, this is a tough one because
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  Speaker 1: it is his best friend. So maybe it's like setting
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  Speaker 1: boundaries at the wedding with him kind of thing. but
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  Speaker 1: so inappropriate. I mean, the fact that you've been through
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  Speaker 1: such a horrible relationship and that he would do that
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  Speaker 1: at your dinner. I get the motive. I'm curious to
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  Speaker 1: see what people say. Not the asshole. I hate when
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  Speaker 1: people like this get away with their terrible behavior because
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  Speaker 1: their closest people say, oh, that's just how they are. Agreed.
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  Speaker 1: If you have to tolerate the disrespect because they don't
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  Speaker 1: know any better, he can't respect you at dinner in
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  Speaker 1: a restaurant. He won't respect you at your wedding. I'd
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  Speaker 1: be afraid he'd do something he thinks is funny, which
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  Speaker 1: would ruin it. I 100%. That's so dumb because they're
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  Speaker 1: an adult. You don't think you have to tell him
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  Speaker 1: like a child, hey, don't go on stage and embarrass
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  Speaker 1: us at our wedding. I don't know. Not the asshole.
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  Speaker 1: No doubt inviting Kyle will definitely ruin OP's wedding and
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  Speaker 1: it'll be in the way no one expects. So the
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  Speaker 1: best solution for OP is to have a serious talk
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  Speaker 1: with a fiance and make him decide what's important, his
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  Speaker 1: wife or a 15 year friendship. Kyle's just being an asshole.
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  Speaker 1: OP's fiance allows him to be, which makes me think
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  Speaker 1: he approves of his behavior. Some men won't push their
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  Speaker 1: bride's face in the cake. They'll just let their buddy
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  Speaker 1: do it. Damn, that hits. It's so true though. You're
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  Speaker 1: having a really good dinner right before your wedding and
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  Speaker 1: it's supposed to be about you guys. And then he
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  Speaker 1: just blurts out some shit like that. And it's clearly
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  Speaker 1: something he does all the time. I know I would
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  Speaker 1: feel very uncomfortable if I had somebody like this at
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  Speaker 1: the wedding and was going to give a speech and
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  Speaker 1: all that kind of stuff. I'd be I'd be dreading
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  Speaker 1: it the whole time. And that's not fair. It's your
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  Speaker 1: guys' day, you know? This one says, agree with everything
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  Speaker 1: except for making fiance pick what's more important. Ultimatums never work.
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  Speaker 1: I do agree with that. If she does that and
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  Speaker 1: fiance picks her, he will eventually resent her. The conversation
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  Speaker 1: shouldn't end with an ultimatum, but with her giving the
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  Speaker 1: ring back and ending the relationship. Oh, damn. Okay. Left field.
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  Speaker 1: It's really hard. Like, it really... kind of all comes
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  Speaker 1: down on your fiance. Is he going to step up
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  Speaker 1: and have a talk with his best friend and be like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: this is my wedding. This is going to be my
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  Speaker 1: future wife. I want to start off really good and
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  Speaker 1: I don't want you coming in and making it all
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  Speaker 1: about you. He either needs to have that conversation with
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  Speaker 1: him for him to go to the wedding or he
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  Speaker 1: needs to be like, hey dude, with everything you're saying,
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  Speaker 1: it's so not appropriate. My future wife does not feel
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  Speaker 1: comfortable with having you at the wedding. That it just
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  Speaker 1: is what it is. It's like he just has to
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  Speaker 1: own up to his own actions. But But yeah, I'm
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  Speaker 1: curious what you guys think. I know it's a lot
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  Speaker 1: to ask of your partner to have their best friend
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  Speaker 1: not be there. But at this point, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: It seems sketchy. Yeah. Let's go to the next one.
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  Speaker 1: video and let's get back to it. Thank you, the asshole,
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  Speaker 1: for telling my sister her wedding idea is tacky. Oh, duh,
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  Speaker 1: is what I have to say so far, but let's
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  Speaker 1: give him the benefit of the doubt. My sister and
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  Speaker 1: her fiance are getting married in September, and they just
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  Speaker 1: sent out wedding invites. On it, they basically said that
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  Speaker 1: they have everything they need, so if anyone wants to contribute,
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  Speaker 1: they can give a cash contribution towards their honeymoon. They
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  Speaker 1: are moving shortly after the wedding, so I get why
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  Speaker 1: they don't want gifts. However, I found it really tacky,
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  Speaker 1: and this weekend when they came over, I told them that. Oh, okay.
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  Speaker 1: I thought they were gonna have like a themed wedding
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  Speaker 1: and I thought it was gonna be tacky. I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: is it Star Wars themed or something? Because I love
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  Speaker 1: themed weddings. I think they're so fun. But anyway, okay.
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  Speaker 1: They're like, they just want cat. That's fair. That's fair.
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  Speaker 1: They just don't want about just stuff. I think that's fair. Anyway,
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  Speaker 1: not in an accusatory way. Just when they asked how
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  Speaker 1: we liked the invite, my sister designed it. I said,
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  Speaker 1: I liked the card, but the asking for money was tacky. tacky.
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  Speaker 1: I think gifts are different than money and they shouldn't
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  Speaker 1: ask for money if they didn't want gifts. My sister
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  Speaker 1: got really upset. It said it was voluntary and I
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  Speaker 1: said so are gifts. She stormed off and my parents
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  Speaker 1: have been angry at me for being an asshole. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's not your wedding. They're not your gifts. Some people
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  Speaker 1: just don't want a bunch of stuff. Like they just
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  Speaker 1: don't need anything because they're moving. Usually if you have
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  Speaker 1: a registry, you're like, oh, I need a toaster. I
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  Speaker 1: needed this. I needed that. Some people just don't need
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  Speaker 1: all that stuff. You know, I didn't have any sort
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  Speaker 1: of people to not bring any gifts at all. So
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  Speaker 1: is that tacky? Is that tacky, bitch? Being like, don't
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  Speaker 1: bring presents. I always say your presence is presence enough
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  Speaker 1: for me. That was our thing and that's fine. You
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  Speaker 1: can ask for whatever. Yeah, I think you're the asshole.
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  Speaker 1: You're the asshole. This is now very, very common. Back
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  Speaker 1: in the old days, it made sense that 21-year-olds who
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  Speaker 1: have never lived independently would be in need of a
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  Speaker 1: full set of household items for their first home together.
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  Speaker 1: So true. Nowadays, we With more people getting married later
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  Speaker 1: and living together first, there's really no need to get
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  Speaker 1: them stuff they already have. It's increasingly common to do
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  Speaker 1: a fund instead. You're allowed to privately think it's tacky,
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  Speaker 1: but sharing your unsolicited opinion is very rude. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: agree 100%. Plus, this is a preferred gift giving in
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  Speaker 1: Asian cultures. It is, it totally is. I've been to
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  Speaker 1: many different weddings of different cultures, and that is very popular.
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  Speaker 1: It's very strange that you'd think it's tacky. What do
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  Speaker 1: you wanna get her? A ceramic plate with both their
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  Speaker 1: faces on it? Where they gotta put that? Stacey? Who's
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  Speaker 1: gonna use that? That'd be so weird to just eat
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  Speaker 1: off your own face. What a stupid idea, Stacey. Nobody
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  Speaker 1: said that. I'm just coming up with that right now.
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  Speaker 1: You're the asshole. It's been common for a while to
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  Speaker 1: ask for donations for a honeymoon or starting out fund.
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  Speaker 1: It's how you ask. Similar to when people ask for
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  Speaker 1: no additional flowers at a funeral, but a donation to
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  Speaker 1: a charity instead would be kind. Yeah, that's nice. We
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  Speaker 1: actually did get a few people that donated to causes
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  Speaker 1: on our behalf, which I think was so... Sweet, that
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  Speaker 1: is like such a sweet thing to do if like
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  Speaker 1: the couple's not asking for something or I think that's
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  Speaker 1: a really cool way to go about it. Now, if
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  Speaker 1: they were doing this trend of asking for money to
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  Speaker 1: cover their own wedding, that would be different, like charging
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  Speaker 1: people for the food, et cetera. Yeah, exactly, like charging
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  Speaker 1: literally to get into the wedding, that would be strange.
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  Speaker 1: When I got married, we used the Disney World Registry
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  Speaker 1: and people put money towards experiences for us to do
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  Speaker 1: our honeymoon. Oh my God, that's fun. See, that's really cool.
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  Speaker 1: We loved it and so did our guests. And when
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  Speaker 1: we wrote our thank you cards, we were able to
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  Speaker 1: say thank you for contributing to such a magical moment
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  Speaker 1: for us. The carriage ride was a blast. Oh my God,
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  Speaker 1: I love that. What a great idea. Yeah, I think
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  Speaker 1: I'm just a miserable, miserable bitch and you should just
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  Speaker 1: crawl into your hole and you take your stupid ceramic
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  Speaker 1: plate with you, okay? Okay. next. I might be asked
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  Speaker 1: for breaking off an almost nine month relationship because she
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  Speaker 1: wanted a fancy wedding, no matter the cost. Oh, interesting.
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  Speaker 1: I'm 23. She's 20. Oh my God, you're babies. Oh no. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: I said that for me, it's just a day event
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  Speaker 1: for which I was willing to spend more than 5K,
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  Speaker 1: or I'm guessing no more than 5K, and waste even
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  Speaker 1: more money from my family's side just to showcase a
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  Speaker 1: fancy wedding and wanted to invest money into our future,
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  Speaker 1: be it a home renovation, saving towards kids, holidays together, okay?
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  Speaker 1: So sorry. She insisted that she wanted a fancy wedding,
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  Speaker 1: so we sat down with a wedding planner, and what
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: she envisioned would be upwards of $ 50, 000. That's a little
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: different than 5K. Just a little bit. About 10 times, actually,
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: if we're doing the math here. Money, which I don't
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: have laying around, and money that I would not be
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: willing to spend for one ceremony. Yeah, okay, fair. I
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: told her that if she wants such a wedding, I'm
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: not the guy. She kept trying to convince me and
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: gaslight me how it's her youth and it's one in
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: a lifetime event that will last her an eternal memory
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: and all her friends and colleagues can be there, et cetera,
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: et cetera. She wasn't willing to compromise towards a smaller,
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: more reasonable wedding and I broke it off, essentially kicking
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: her out of my house to live with her parents. Oh, wow.
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: Few days later, she kept calling me to reconsider and
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: I said, you had plenty of chances. I'm not doing
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: this again. Her parents are trying to convince me to
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: patch things up but I refuse to bend and quite frankly,
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: deem it a massive red flag that could potentially ruin
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: my life in the long run. I'd rather find a
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: girl that wants something similar and places more importance on
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: our future together than some meaningless wedding celebration. Everyone tells
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: me I'm a d * * * head and so
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: hard-headed in my circles, but I think I made a
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: hard but right decision since I'm still young and capable.
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: This isn't it. You know, the way you're- phrasing this
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: is harsh, but honestly, you guys aren't meant for each other.
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: Like just plain and simple. You never need a good reason,
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: like a good reason to break up with somebody. It's like, oh,
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: they have to cheat on me. They need to do
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: something to me to have to do it because they're nice.
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: And there's no reason to break up. You don't really
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: need one. If you're not feeling it, if you don't
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: feel compatible with somebody, don't be with that person because
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: you have one life. It's extremely fleeting. And if you
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: have very different opinions on something very big, which is
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: your marriage, then I think that's okay. I don't think
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: that makes you an asshole. You know, maybe there was
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: a better way to go about it. I don't know
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: if you could have been maybe a little nicer, but
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: you laid it out. You said that you didn't want
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: to spend a lot of money on a wedding and
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: that you wanted to put that money towards other things
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: in the future. I think that's fair. And if she
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: wants this big wedding and she wants to spend a
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: bunch of money on it, that's also fair. She deserves
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: that if she wants that. And hopefully she She, you know,
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: can get to a place where she can do that
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: with somebody else. You know, everybody wants something different. That
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: was a big conversation Caleb and I had. We're like,
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: what do we want? We know that we wanted our
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: ceremony to just be super, super intimate. I didn't want
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: to get up in front of everybody, mostly because both
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: of us have like some weird social issues and all
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: that good stuff. And like, I just didn't feel comfortable
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: with it. And he didn't either. So we're like, let's
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: just do a little thing on our own. And then
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: let's get our family together and just have like a
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: fun barbecue, basically. And that was our wedding. And we
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: loved it. And it was super fun. And you need
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: to be on the same page with that stuff, because
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: that will absolutely translate into your relationship in the future.
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: This sounded really... like harsh being like, it's my feelings,
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: you know, it's my money and I want it now.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: But it's fair. Like you're just kind of laying it
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: out like how it is. So I don't think you're
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: the asshole. Let's see what people said though. Not the asshole.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: Your ultimate plan is focusing on your marriage, not the wedding,
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: which is the right idea. I will say that planning
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: a wedding after only nine months is a bit premature,
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: especially at your ages. There's a whole spectrum of all
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: that and it just depends on the person. I'm not
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: going to have any opinion on that because I know
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: some people that got married after a few months of
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: knowing each other and they're still together. And I know
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: people that got married after 10 years of knowing each
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: other and they didn't last. So I don't think anybody
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: can have an opinion on that necessarily. Everybody's different. But
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: I do agree with that, like focusing on what your
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: marriage is going to be like more so than your wedding.
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: Because that wedding's going to end. My wedding ended, it
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: was a few days ago. It's gone. Okay, now what?
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: Now the rest of my life happens. Now my marriage happens.
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm looking forward to the most. The wedding
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: was a beautiful day and I loved it, but I
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: didn't want to make it like my personality. I think
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: people get lost in that a little bit. Everybody's different. OP,
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: as indicated above, your focus was the correct one. What
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: you discovered was... incombatibility. Better late than never. Your ex
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: is only 20. I doubt she's at the peak of
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: emotional psychological maturity. By the way, traditionally, it's the bride's
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: parents who sponsor the wedding. That certainly could have been
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: your counter proposal to her parents. I mean, I think
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: if you're going there, that all gets messy too, you know?
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: We're like more in a modern age now. But yeah,
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: at this point, I wouldn't even dig deeper to be like, well,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: your parents have to pay for it because it It
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: just seems like you guys aren't compatible. Oh my God.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: And I'd be asked for upstaging the bride with an
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: outfit that was approved prior to the wedding. Ooh. So
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: you're just hot, basically. Love that for you. I feel
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: like if it was approved, I'm going to be on
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: your side, but we'll see. It was my first Western wedding. Okay, fun.
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: So I was careful about avoiding any culture gaffe. I'm
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: friends with the groom and asked him for the dress code.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: It was dressing up to our nines in neutrals and pastels.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: I have this lovely sari that fit the bill. I
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: sent him a picture and he said it was awesome. Perfect.
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: Oh my God, I love that. Sari's are so beautiful.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: Five months before the wedding, I met the bride with
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: many of the groom's friends at a bar. I showed
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: her pictures of the sari to ask if it was appropriate.
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: I also told her I'd be happy to buy a
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: new outfit if it wasn't. So whatever she says, we'll go.
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: She said she was delighted and she'd be glad to
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: have some culture added to her wedding pictures. It's a
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: bit of a weird comment, but all right. Also, we
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: have a picture of the sari I need to... Wait, actually, no.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: We're going to save it, the picture of the sari, till... After, wait, okay.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: The day arrived. Friends stayed in the back for the ceremony,
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: so there weren't many eyes on me. For the reception,
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: the bride changed into a gown that could be described
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: as grayish white. It was the same fabric as my outfit.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: The majority of the outer layer of the gown was
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: still white though. Only the embroidery was the same color
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: as my sari and the underneath fabric had a hint
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: of the same gray as mine, thus making it grayish.
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: The groom, his mother, and our friends complimented me for
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: how nice I looked. The groom's mother especially loved it
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: as she kept coming to me to compliment me more.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: She's half Indian and was brought up in the country.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: She too had worn a sari for a special day
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: and seeing someone else in it seemed to be sentimental
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: for her. The bride and her bridesmaids though were a
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: different ball game. The bride gave me the stink eye.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: A bridesmaid tried to spill her drink on me. Another
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: commented if my outfit was going to turn out white
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: in the pictures. When we showed up to get group
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: pictures done, I thoughtlessly ended up standing next to the couple.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: The bride made moves so that I ended up at
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: the very corner by the time the photographer started clicking.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: As we stood in a group for the bouquet throwing thingy,
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: the maid of honor asked if I'm going to try
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: to catch it like I haven't gotten enough attention for
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: the day. On our way back, I asked my friends
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: if my behavior or outfit was inappropriate. They didn't think
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: anything of it. We need to see a picture of this. Sorry,
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: let's look. Oh, we don't have like this. Oh, wait. Oh,
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: my God. Okay, that's beautiful. Wow. It's like blue to
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: me dove gray okay it's like a bluey gray that
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: doesn't look white at all to me but also it
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: doesn't matter because the groom and the bride said it
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: was okay before the wedding like that just automatically makes
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: you not at fault at all you're probably just you
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: probably looked stunning in it and people got jealous oh
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: this makes me so uncomfy especially the drink thing like
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: how rude oh my god that is so petty and
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: terrible i had a few people for my wedding send
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: me pictures because they had like patterns they had like
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: flowers on a white dress but the flowers were red
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: and i was just like give her dude like we
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: didn't really have a dress code it was like be
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: comfy dress up if you want don't if you don't
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: want you know like it was like an upscale barbecue
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: kind of thing but like not even most guys were
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: in like jeans and most girls were just in like
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: sundresses or whatever but but if you're not gonna say
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: it when you see the picture like if that bride
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: saw the picture and was like you know what, I
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: think it's just like a little too close to white.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: I'd feel better if you, then that's on her. If
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: she's not comfortable doing that, then that's on her. Or
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: even like saying something, maybe she said okay in person
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: and then she thought of it and she was like, actually, no,
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: I'm not okay with that later. It's not your fault
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: in the least. Not the asshole. You just met a
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: school of mean girls. Absolutely. That's exactly what it reminds
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: me of. Oh my God. There's no telling what such
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: people will get up to. I think you had taken
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: every possible precaution with your outfit. In fact, much more
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: than most people would have. You went above and beyond.
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: And that was such a cultural shock for me. Hospitality
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: being one of the highest virtues is an idea that's
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: hammered into us as kids. Not even exaggerating. We're taught
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: guests are akin to God. So it was unsettling to
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: have the host and her friends be so obvious with
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: their disdain. That's half the reason I didn't even react
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: to any of it. The other half being the cultural
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: commonality of it being inappropriate to get confrontational and create
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: a scene at a wedding. Lol. True. Forget that. Was
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: there any damage to the sari after they tried to
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: ruin it? That is expensive too. Not the asshole. Tell
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: the groom. Haha. No, a friend moved me out of
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: the way just in time. A bit of splatter did
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: end up on the edge. Nothing a sari specialist dry
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: cleaner can't fix. P.S. Not telling the groom a thing.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: I don't wish to put him in an awkward position
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: or be the source of drama in a newlywed couple's life. Wow,
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: that is so- who is the- can we be friends?
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: You sound great. That is very mature. But yeah, like,
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: so true though. It's like, it's the day of the
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: wedding and you are a guest at the wedding. Why
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: cause more shit, you know? I'm assuming you probably don't
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: want to be in this woman's life much anyway anymore,
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: so I would just, you know, chalk it up to-
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: a shitty experience, you looked amazing, got gassed up by
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: the guests, which I love for you for the most
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: part besides the Mean Girls, and just take that sorry
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: to another event because you don't deserve that. So I'm sorry,
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: that sucks. But let me know what you think in
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: the comments and let's move on to the next one.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: How the asshole for having a dry wedding and serving
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: only water for drinks. Okay, this is a touchy subject.
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: Let's dive in. If you don't know what dry wetting is,
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: that means there's no booze. Throw away only because I
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: don't want this on my main. Okay, so basically my
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: husband and I are getting married later this year. Each
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: of our sides of the family are fairly big. It
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: will be around 100 to 150 people total. My husband
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: and I are paying for this all ourselves, as well
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: as my grandma, who said she doesn't care one way
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: or the other on this issue. She just loves weddings.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: We have a lot of kids in our family, so
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: we decided against making it child-free, but we did decide
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: to make it dry. So there will be no alcohol
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: of any kind at our wedding. Honestly, this doesn't have
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: anything to do with there being kids there, but due
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: to the fact that my fiance and I don't. Drink.
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: Nothing against people who do, it's just not for us
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: and we don't want to. On top of that, we
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: only really drink water. We rarely, if ever, drink soda,
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: so most of the time it's only water with the
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: occasional juice and milk. We don't even drink coffee. Ooh,
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have an opinion on this. So obviously the food,
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: which is a part my grandma is not paying for,
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: is going to be expensive for that many people. We
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: are having our wedding catered so everyone will have a
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: good choice of food to choose from, but to drink,
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: only water will be provided. We don't want to have
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: to pay for alcohol or soda. It is just a
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: large added expense when we can just do filtered water
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: for a much cheaper cost. Well, when my family and
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: friends found out, they got angry. Some didn't really care,
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: but some are really upset about it, saying that I
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: can just have an open bar so I don't have
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: to pay for drinks. Open bar means they don't have
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: to pay for drinks, I think. You mean a cash bar,
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: I guess. So saying that I can have a cash
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: bar so they don't have to pay for drinks, we could,
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: but still have to pay for the bartender and we
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: just don't really wanna bother with alcohol there. Or we
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: should at least have soda because how can we expect
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: everyone to drink only water? The kids will be upset.
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: The wedding will be boring. That this is not how
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: weddings work, et cetera. Jeez. So am I the asshole?
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: I didn't think this would be a problem. It's only water.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: I mean, don't most people drink water every day anyway?
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: Should we pay the extra to have soda to make
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: the family happy? Okay. Caleb and I. don't drink. Like
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: maybe once, maybe like twice a year. I might have
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: like a glass of wine if it's for like a
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: really special occasion or I guess a wedding is a
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: special occasion, but I didn't even end up drinking. We
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: just don't. Just for our own personal reasons. I have
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: in the past and I've just realized it's just not
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: for me. So I haven't for a long time, but
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: we still had it at the wedding because the other
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: people aren't us. There's other people in the world with
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: other things that they want, you know? So I think
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: taking that into consideration is important. It's hard because I
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: get where you're coming from. It's your wedding. If you
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: don't want to pay for something, you don't have to.
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: You could also say bring your own BYOB, bring your
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: own booze if you want to, but it sounds like
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: you just don't want... any booze at the wedding to
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: begin with if that's an option then maybe there's some
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: some leeway there like you can you can bring your
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: own you know six-pack or your own thing i know
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: people have that have done that and it's been fine
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: like it's like a tailgate wedding kind of thing everybody
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: can just bring their own stuff but i know it
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: depends on the venue too some venues don't let you
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: do that it's kind of hard because it is your
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: wedding and you should have the wedding that you want
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: but At the end of the day, your wedding is
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: a party that is going to have many, many people.
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: So you want to be like a little bit accommodating.
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: But I understand that alcohol is quite expensive. But the
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: cash bar thing is a good way of getting around that.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: And it's different wherever you are for bartenders and everything.
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: So I don't know. It's kind of hard to call
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: you an asshole. because if you don't have the funds
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: for it and you don't want it then that's okay
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: but being accommodating is just like to a certain degree
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: even if it's just asking the guests to bring their
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: own stuff and that that's okay then that's nice i'm
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: really curious to see what the comments say somebody said
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: i know that technically you could be in the right
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: but here's the thing about weddings the marriage ceremony is
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: for you and your fiance and the wedding is for
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: everyone you're you invited It's an event you're hosting and
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: not providing any drinks other than water makes you a
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: bad host. Reddit, tell it how it is, you know?
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: I've been to dry weddings. There was a couple that
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: put real thought and effort into designing mocktails themed around
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: their relationship. That's really cute. I had some, well, not mocktails,
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: but cocktails that you could make into mocktails. We had
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: death proof which is uh one of our favorite movies
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: death proof and it also just went along with a
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: drink name it was like a ramchata drink and then
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: another one was a dr pepper drink because caleb loves
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: dr pepper and it was drunken master pepper because we
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: love the movie drunken master it's our favorite jackie chan
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: movie so it's sort of dr pepper was drunk drunken
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: master pepper and people loved it anyway stop making this
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: about yourself christina god damn it BITCH! When you're hosting
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: an event, your job as a hostess is to take
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: care of your guests. Just because it follows a marriage
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: ceremony doesn't make you a less- less the host of
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: an event. I kind of agree. And that means providing
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: more than one drink option, especially non-alcoholic. Especially to an
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: event your guests are incurring expenses to attend and bringing
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: gifts as well. You're the asshole, honestly. I fully support
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  Speaker 1: a drug wedding, but only water as a beverage as
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  Speaker 1: being a cheap host. Woo, damn. This person said, I
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: went to a dry wedding. The bride and groom had
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: both struggled with alcoholism. Totally fair. That had like, three
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: different mocktails to choose from and it made it very
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: celebratory and still feel adult. It was a lot of fun.
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  Speaker 1: That's fun. That's accommodating and that makes sense, you know?
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: Why would you surround yourself with alcohol if you struggle
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  Speaker 1: with it? And I feel like everyone would understand that.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: Somebody said, I hope that in 20 years everyone's still saying,
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: you remember that wedding we had to smuggle in two
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: liter of Pepsi? That's what I'm saying. I mean, isn't
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: there a world where you could say bring your own
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: booze or bring your own drinks too? But again, like
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: you're asking people to travel to your wedding and do
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: all this stuff and then to just offer water seems like...
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Like what about coffee or like tea?
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  Speaker 1: Tea's water. You should get tea bags, you know? It's
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: pretty cheap to just get like a hundred tea bags.
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  Speaker 1: Not everybody wants tea though. Coffee is pretty cheap. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. I still don't want to call you an
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: asshole because at the end of the day, it's your
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: wedding and if people are upset with it, it is
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: what it is. But it's just, it's just, you know, being...
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  Speaker 1: kind of a catering host, if you will, to offer that.
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: But people in Reddit are ripping you apart. So I
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: think they think you're the asshole. I'm curious to see
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: what my audience thinks. I always love reading your comments
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• 30:51
  Speaker 1: That's all for this. I also just want to say
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: thank you so much for all the congratulations for Caleb
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: and I's uh, marriage. I am so happy. We are
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: so happy. The past few days, we've just been on
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: a cloud nine, just being surrounded by loved ones and
• 31:04
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• 31:08
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