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- 0:00Welcome to Reform thinking. It is good to have you with us
- 0:03today. We are going to do something
- 0:05that might seem a little counterintuitive at first.
- 0:10Usually when you think about a deep dive, you imagine taking on
- 0:14a massive topic. You know, the entire history of
- 0:17the Reformation or the problem of evil, or maybe the whole book
- 0:21of Romans. We like those big sweeping
- 0:24landscapes. We do.
- 0:25We love the big picture. But today we're going to do the
- 0:27opposite. So we're going to take a
- 0:28microscope to a really, really tiny fragment of text.
- 0:32We're zooming way in. Way in.
- 0:34We're looking at just one verse, and really it's just three
- 0:37specific words inside that one verse.
- 0:39We're looking at Titus chapter one, verse 8.
- 0:42It is such a small piece of real estate in the Bible, but the the
- 0:46density of it is just incredible.
- 0:48I mean, you could build a whole ecclesiology, a whole doctrine
- 0:51of the Church rite on this one verse.
- 0:53And that's the claim we're sort of testing today.
- 0:56The source material you brought to the table, it includes a
- 0:58couple of pretty heavy hitting theological articles, some
- 1:01commentaries on the Greek text. And the argument they all seem
- 1:04to make is that we've been reading the qualifications for
- 1:07elders all wrong. We tend to read the pastoral
- 1:10epistles, you know, First Timothy, Titus, almost like a
- 1:13hiring checklist. Oh, absolutely.
- 1:15It becomes an HR rubric. Is he married?
- 1:17Check. Are his kids generally well
- 1:19behaved? Check.
- 1:21Does he drink too much? No.
- 1:23OK, he's hired. Let's put him on the board.
- 1:24Exactly, but the sources are arguing that this is such a
- 1:28surface level reading. We aren't just looking for a
- 1:31decent guy, we are looking at what they call the moral
- 1:34architecture of A steward of God.
- 1:36That. Phrase is so good that.
- 1:38Phrase really stuck with me. Moral Architecture.
- 1:40It's a strong phrase because architecture implies design,
- 1:44right? Right.
- 1:45It implies weight bearing structures.
- 1:46It implies that if you pull one piece out, the whole building
- 1:49might, might just come down. Paul isn't just throwing random
- 1:53adjectives at Titus. He's giving him a blueprint for
- 1:56a very specific kind of man who is necessary to survive a very
- 2:00specific kind of crisis. And before we even get to the
- 2:04man, we have to understand the crisis.
- 2:06We have to get the setting. Where are we were on the island
- 2:08of Crete. No, when I hear Crete, I think,
- 2:12you know, Mediterranean blue water, maybe some feta cheese,
- 2:16olive Groves, ancient ruins. It sounds like a pretty great
- 2:19place to take a vacation. It might be a nice place to
- 2:22visit now, but back in the 1st century, the reputation of Crete
- 2:25was, well, let's just say it wasn't the kind of place you'd
- 2:28want to raise your kids. The sources mentioned something
- 2:31fascinating that the culture was so notorious that the Greeks
- 2:35actually turned the name of the island into a verb.
- 2:38They did. Yeah.
- 2:39Yeah, the verb was critizo to cretinize.
- 2:42And I'm guessing that didn't mean to go to the beach.
- 2:44No, no, not at all. To cretinize meant to lie.
- 2:48It meant to play the hypocrite, to deceive for game.
- 2:51Wow. It was a cultural idiom.
- 2:53If you were ripping someone off, you were cretinizing them.
- 2:56Can you imagine living in a society where your national
- 2:58identity is literally synonymous with dishonesty?
- 3:01That was just the air they breathed.
- 3:03That is wild. It's like if the name of your
- 3:05city, say Chicago, became the dictionary definition for scam
- 3:09or something. Precisely, and Paul is
- 3:11completely aware of this. In Titus 1.12 he actually quotes
- 3:15one of their own poets, a guy in Epimenides, and he says Cretans
- 3:18are always liars, evil beasts, lazy gluttons.
- 3:22Evil beasts, that is. That's not a polite description.
- 3:25It's visceral, isn't it? I mean, think about what a beast
- 3:27does. A beast operates on pure
- 3:29instinct. It's driven by appetite, hunger,
- 3:32lust, rage. A beast doesn't use reason, it
- 3:35just uses force. And lazy gluttons implies they
- 3:39want to consume without producing anything.
- 3:41They want the food, but they don't want to work the field.
- 3:44So Paul is painting this picture of a culture that is just
- 3:47defined by raw appetite, deception and chaos.
- 3:50And here's the kicker. Paul leaves Titus, his young
- 3:53protege, right in the middle of this mess.
- 3:55He drops him off on this island of liars and beasts, and he
- 3:58gives him a mission. Put what remained into order.
- 4:01Order versus chaos. Yeah, that's the fundamental
- 4:04conflict of the whole letter. Now let's just play a game here.
- 4:07If I'm a modern business consultant or maybe a church
- 4:09growth strategist, and I look at the situation, I've got some
- 4:12ideas. I bet you do.
- 4:13You have a fledgling organization in a hostile,
- 4:16chaotic market. The brand reputation of the
- 4:20locals is terrible. So my advice would be OK, You
- 4:23need a strategy. You need a program.
- 4:25You need APR campaign to show everyone how you're different.
- 4:28You need a five year plan. That is exactly how we think
- 4:31today. We think in terms of systems and
- 4:32techniques. If there's a problem, we build a
- 4:34program to go fix it. But that is not what Paul does.
- 4:37Not at all. He doesn't give Titus a manual
- 4:40on how to rebrand the Cretin Church.
- 4:42No, Paul's solution to chaos has a program.
- 4:45It's a person, or rather, a specific type of person.
- 4:49He tells Titus to appoint elders in every town, and the logic is
- 4:53just fascinating. He believes that the only way to
- 4:55stabilize a community of believers in a culture of
- 4:58deception is to install leaders whose internal character is
- 5:01ordered, truthful and disciplined.
- 5:03And this is really the thesis of our whole deep dive today.
- 5:06Order is established through qualified men whose lives embody
- 5:09the message. Disorder is solved by character,
- 5:12not by technique. That is it.
- 5:14That's the whole thing in a nutshell.
- 5:16You can have the best bylaws in the world, the best mission
- 5:19statement, the best music, the best building, but if the men
- 5:21leading it are cretins, if they're liars or beats on the
- 5:25inside, the church will collapse.
- 5:27But if they have this moral architecture.
- 5:29If they have the architecture, the church can withstand the
- 5:32culture. It could be an outpost of order
- 5:35in a world of chaos. So let's get into it.
- 5:37Let's look at the blueprints. We are focusing on verse 8, but
- 5:41the sources point out that you can't really understand verse 8
- 5:44without just glancing at verse 7 first.
- 5:47There's a logical flow here. Right.
- 5:49Paul works in negatives before he gets to the positives.
- 5:52It's a brilliant structure. In verse 7 he lists what the
- 5:55overseer must not be. The disqualified.
- 5:57The disqualifiers He must not be arrogant, quick tempered and
- 6:01drunkard, violent or greedy for gain.
- 6:03It's like he's clearing the construction site.
- 6:05You know you've got to bulldoze all the junk and rubble before
- 6:08you can pour the foundation. That's a great image.
- 6:10And just look at the junk he's clearing out.
- 6:13Arrogance, violence, greed, These are the exact traits of
- 6:18the evil beasts. A self willed arrogant man
- 6:21treats the church like it's his personal Kingdom.
- 6:24A greedy man treats the church like it's a business
- 6:26opportunity. Paul just says stop.
- 6:30If a man has these traits, he is toxic.
- 6:32He is out. He cannot be a steward.
- 6:35Because a steward, by definition, manages someone
- 6:38else's house. If you're arrogant, you think
- 6:39it's your house. Correct.
- 6:41And the church belongs to God. The elder is just the manager O
- 6:44verse 7 puts U all the guardrails.
- 6:47Then in verse 8 we get this pivot.
- 6:48It starts with the word bud. Now we're moving to what he must
- 6:53be. And this brings us to the three
- 6:54key terms for today. The source material highlights 3
- 6:58specific Greek words in verse 8 that really form the spine of
- 7:02this moral architecture. We're going to take these apart
- 7:041 by 1. Let's do it.
- 7:05The first pillar, the first virtue, the Greek word is
- 7:09filigathon. Filigathon sounds a little bit
- 7:11like a marathon, but it's not. Break this word down for us.
- 7:14The articles make a huge deal about the linguistic roots here.
- 7:17It's a compound word. It combines 2 Greek words
- 7:20phyllos, which means friend or having a deep affection for.
- 7:24Like Philadelphia, the city of brotherly love.
- 7:26Exactly. And agathos, which is the word
- 7:28for the good. So very literally, it means a
- 7:31lover of good, a friend of the good.
- 7:33And here's a fun fact for all the word nerds listening, and I
- 7:37know you're out there, this word is a hapax legomenon.
- 7:40A. Hapax legomenon, which is a
- 7:42fancy way of saying it appears only one time in the entire New
- 7:46Testament. It's this one spot.
- 7:47Just here, Paul reaches into his vocabulary and pulls out this
- 7:51very specific, unique term just for the elder.
- 7:54So why? I mean, why use this word here
- 7:57and nowhere else? Because he is drawing the
- 7:59sharpest possible contrast with the false teachers and the
- 8:02culture of Crete. Remember, the Cretans are evil
- 8:05beasts. And elsewhere, Paul describes
- 8:07Saul's teachers as filigtoi lovers of self, or filigoroy
- 8:11lovers of money, or filidoy lovers of pleasure.
- 8:14I see the pattern. It's all about what you love,
- 8:16what your fellows is directed toward, right?
- 8:19The false teachers have affections that are curved
- 8:22inward. They love what benefits them.
- 8:25They love their own reputation, their own wallet, their own
- 8:27comfort. Paul uses Philogathon to say no.
- 8:31The elder must be fundamentally different.
- 8:34His affections have to be turned outward toward what is
- 8:37intrinsically good. The phrase used in one of the
- 8:39articles is an internal renovation of the affections
- 8:43that hits hard. It implies that this isn't just
- 8:45about behavior. It's not just about doing your
- 8:47duty. Duty is not enough.
- 8:50That's the point. You can do the right thing for
- 8:52the completely wrong reason. You can give a bunch of money to
- 8:56the poor because you want people to see you and think you're
- 8:58generous. You can preach a powerful sermon
- 9:00because you want people to come up afterward and tell you how
- 9:02smart you are. That is exactly what the
- 9:05Pharisees did. They did good actions.
- 9:07They were philotoi. They were livers of self.
- 9:09So Paul is demanding a man who actually likes the good.
- 9:13He has a friendship with it, he enjoys it.
- 9:15Yes, he derives pleasure from it.
- 9:18When he sees justice done, something inside him rejoices.
- 9:22When he sees truth proclaimed, he's happy he isn't doing it
- 9:26through gritted teeth as some kind of burdensome task.
- 9:29This connects directly to Reformed theology, doesn't it?
- 9:32I mean specifically what we believe about the condition of
- 9:34the human heart before Christ. It goes right to the heart of
- 9:37the doctrine of total depravity. We have to be really honest
- 9:40about this. The Reformed view, which we
- 9:42would argue is the biblical view, is that in our natural
- 9:46fallen state we are hostile to God.
- 9:49We do not naturally love the good.
- 9:51In fact, we kind of hate it. We actually hate it because the
- 9:55good with a capital G shines a light on our sin.
- 9:58Jesus said men love darkness rather than light because their
- 10:00deeds were evil. OK, so if that's our natural
- 10:02state, our factory setting, then becoming a polygathon is not
- 10:05something we can just decide to do one day.
- 10:07I can't just wake up and say, you know what?
- 10:09Today I will start loving the good.
- 10:11You cannot. You can change your behavior,
- 10:13sure, but you cannot change your appetite.
- 10:16Only God can change your appetite.
- 10:18So for a man to truly be a philigathon, it is absolute
- 10:22proof of a supernatural work. It's proof of regeneration.
- 10:25He has to be born again. He has to be the Holy Spirit has
- 10:28to come in, take out that heart of stone and put in a heart of
- 10:31flesh, a heart that actually beats for the things that God
- 10:35loves. So when we look for elders, we
- 10:37aren't just looking for moral competence, we're looking for
- 10:39signs of genuine spiritual life. Let's bring this into the 21st
- 10:43century, because the source material draws a pretty
- 10:46uncomfortable parallel here. It talks about the counterfeits,
- 10:49specifically the CEO, pastor and the idol of pragmatism.
- 10:54This is a massive, massive issue in the modern church.
- 10:56We live in a business driven culture.
- 10:58We value growth, numbers, efficiency, branding.
- 11:01So when churches go looking for leaders, what do they often look
- 11:04for? They look for lovers of
- 11:06efficiency who are lovers of relevance.
- 11:08We need a guy who can really draw a crowd, or we need someone
- 11:11who knows how to market our church.
- 11:13Right. We need a guy who can balance
- 11:15the budget and manage the staff. And look, those are helpful
- 11:19skills, no doubt. But if we prioritize those
- 11:22things over the love of good, we are in deep trouble.
- 11:26We tacitly assume that if the results are good, meaning you
- 11:30know the parking lot is full, then the man himself must be
- 11:34good. If it works, God must be in it.
- 11:36That's the mantra. That is the pragmatist's creed.
- 11:40But the Philagathon asks a completely different question.
- 11:43He doesn't ask, does it work? He asks, is it faithful?
- 11:47OK, let's ground this. Give me a practical scenario
- 11:49where what works is in direct conflict with what is good.
- 11:54OK, think about church discipline or even just
- 11:56preaching the hard texts of the Bible.
- 11:58From a purely pragmatic marketing standpoint, telling
- 12:01people that they are sinners is a terrible strategy.
- 12:04Bad for business. It's terrible.
- 12:05For business, it makes your customers feel bad.
- 12:07It might drive them down the street to the church that has a
- 12:09better coffee shop and a motivational speaker who tells
- 12:11them how great they are. So the lover of success softens
- 12:14the message, waters it down. He has to.
- 12:17He softens it because he loves the result, the big crowd, more
- 12:21than he loves the truth. But the lover of good, the
- 12:24Philogathon, he preaches the whole counsel of God.
- 12:27He confronts sin. He handles messy, painful
- 12:30discipline issues. And he does it because it is
- 12:33good. It's what God commands, even if
- 12:36the numbers take a hit for a few months.
- 12:38That is a tough test, a really tough test.
- 12:40It is the ultimate test when what works conflicts with what
- 12:43is faithful. The Philagathon chooses
- 12:46faithfulness every single time because his definition of good
- 12:49isn't subjective. It's not cultural.
- 12:51It's not what feels good. It is objectively rooted in
- 12:54God's own character. God is the good.
- 12:57So the elder simply loves what God loves.
- 12:59So that's the first pillar, Philagathon, the internal
- 13:01renovation of the heart. Now Paul shifts our gaze.
- 13:04We move from the internal to the external.
- 13:06The second virtue is decayon, which is usually translated as
- 13:10upright or just. Righteous or just Both are good
- 13:13translations. Now we need to pause here for a
- 13:16second because justice is a huge buzzword right now.
- 13:20When people hear the word justice, they immediately think
- 13:22of social justice, political activism, courtrooms.
- 13:26Equity, all sorts of modern baggage, comes with that word.
- 13:29Right. So is Paul getting political
- 13:31here? Is he talking about social
- 13:32reform in Crete? That is a crucial distinction to
- 13:35make, and the source material is very clear that we need to strip
- 13:39away the modern sociological definitions that we've attached
- 13:42to that word. When Paul says decayon, he is
- 13:46not talking about systemic redistribution, he's not
- 13:49engaging with critical theory or modern equity concepts.
- 13:52He is talking about biblical justice.
- 13:54OK, so define that for us. What is biblical justice in this
- 13:58specific context? It's rooted in one core concept,
- 14:01impartiality. The background here is Leviticus
- 14:0319.14. It says you shall do no
- 14:06injustice in court. You shall not be partial to the
- 14:08poor or defer to the great, but in righteousness shall you judge
- 14:12your neighbor. I want to catch that nuance
- 14:14because it's so important. Not partial to the poor.
- 14:16We usually only hear don't favor the rich.
- 14:19We know that's bad, but the Bible says don't favor the poor
- 14:22either. Exactly.
- 14:23It is blind justice. It's Lady Justice wearing a
- 14:26blindfold. Biblical justice means you treat
- 14:29the wealthy donor who just paid for the new building and the
- 14:32struggling widow who has nothing by the exact same standard.
- 14:35You don't tip the scales because of someone's social status or
- 14:38their race or their influence in the community.
- 14:40And for an elder, this is the horizontal virtue, right?
- 14:43Salagathon was internal. Decayan is horizontal.
- 14:46It's how you deal with your fellow man.
- 14:48Precisely how does this man deal with other people?
- 14:51Is he straight? Does he walk a straight line in
- 14:53a crooked world? The sources call him the
- 14:55Unbribable Man. That is the title worth aspiring
- 14:58to the unbribable man. But practically speaking, are
- 15:01elders really getting bribed? I mean, are people showing up to
- 15:04elder meetings with briefcases full of cash?
- 15:07I doubt it. No, probably not cash, but the
- 15:10bribe comes in other more subtle forms.
- 15:12Think about the role of an elder.
- 15:14They are adjudicators. They have to make hard decisions
- 15:17that affect people's lives. They settled disputes between
- 15:20members. They decide who gets money from
- 15:22the benevolence fund. They have to rule on discipline
- 15:25cases. The temptation to be partial in
- 15:27those situations has to be huge. It's enormous.
- 15:30The bribe isn't money. The bribe is comfort or
- 15:33approval. Let's say a very influential
- 15:35family in the church has a son who is living in open,
- 15:38unrepentant sin. The elder knows he needs to
- 15:41address it, but he thinks if I confront this, that family might
- 15:47leave the church. They might take their rather
- 15:49large tithe with them. They might start a rumor
- 15:51campaign against me. My life is going to get very,
- 15:53very hard. So the bribe is just stay quiet
- 15:56and you can keep your peace. Exactly.
- 15:58You accept the bribe of a comfortable life in exchange for
- 16:01compromising the truth. The D kind man cannot be bought
- 16:05with that currency. He fears God more than he fears
- 16:08the messy consequences of doing the right thing.
- 16:11He looks at the rich man and the poor man and applies the word of
- 16:14God equally to both. Street really is the best word
- 16:17for it in a crooked generation. And we have to remember he is in
- 16:20Crete, the land of professional liars.
- 16:22Is this man straight? That is the fundamental
- 16:25question. If he says he will be at your
- 16:27house at 3.0, is he there at 3.0?
- 16:31If he borrows money, does he pay it back on time?
- 16:34If he makes a promise, does he keep it, even if it hurts him
- 16:36later? In a culture of cretinizing,
- 16:39where everyone is cutting corners and spinning the truth,
- 16:42the Upright Man is a jarring, confusing anomaly.
- 16:45I want to circle back to the theology of this for a second,
- 16:48because when we talk about being righteous or upright, especially
- 16:51in a reformed context, some alarm bells might go off for
- 16:54some of our listeners. We are Protestants.
- 16:56We believe in solified justification by faith alone.
- 17:00We aren't saved by being upright, We are saved by
- 17:03Christ's perfect uprightness being credited to our account.
- 17:06Right. Absolutely.
- 17:07So is Paul sliding into a kind of works righteousness here?
- 17:11Is he saying you earn your standing before God by being a
- 17:14good boy? It's a vital question to ask,
- 17:16and the answer is absolutely not.
- 17:18We have to be crystal clear and distinguish between
- 17:20justification and sanctification.
- 17:22The Westminster Confession of Faith makes this distinction
- 17:24beautifully clear. We are justified, that is
- 17:27declared right with God solely on the merit of Christ.
- 17:30We contribute nothing to that. Our best works are filthy rags
- 17:33in that courtroom. So that's our legal standing.
- 17:35That is our legal standing. But here Paul is talking about
- 17:38sanctification. He's talking about the fruit of
- 17:40that salvation. This is what the performers
- 17:43called the third use of the law. Break that down for us.
- 17:46The third use. OK so the first use of the law
- 17:48is a mirror. It shows us our sin and our need
- 17:50for Christ. It drives us to the cross.
- 17:53The second use is the civil restraint.
- 17:55It keeps society from descending into total chaos.
- 17:59But the third use is the law as a guide for the believers life.
- 18:03It shows us how to please the God who so graciously saved us.
- 18:06So this means we reject antinomianism.
- 18:08We rejected entirely. Antinomianism is that idea that
- 18:13because we are saved by grace, the law doesn't matter anymore.
- 18:17I can live however I want, grace will just cover it.
- 18:20Paul says no. 1000 times no. If you have been justified by
- 18:24grace, you will begin to live a life that is decayon.
- 18:27You cannot claim to have the righteousness of Christ imputed
- 18:30to you and then go on living a life of financial shadiness and
- 18:33broken promises. It just doesn't compute.
- 18:36It connects back to the mission and Crete, doesn't it?
- 18:39The Elder is supposed to be the visual aid for the gospel.
- 18:42If your visual aid is crooked, people are going to assume the
- 18:45gospel is crooked. That is the living anomaly.
- 18:48Imagine the contrast. Everyone in town is lying to get
- 18:50ahead. Everyone is cheating on their
- 18:52business deals. And then there's this elder.
- 18:54He tells the truth even when it costs him dearly.
- 18:57He treats the slave and the master with the same exact
- 18:59respect. He's a puzzle to the world.
- 19:01And that puzzle provokes a question.
- 19:03Why are you like this? What is wrong with?
- 19:04You and the answer is because I serve a king who is like this.
- 19:08That is powerful. So we've built 2 pillars of this
- 19:11architecture. We have Philigathon, the Lover
- 19:14of Good, which is internal. We have Decayon, the upright
- 19:17Man, which is horizontal. Now we move to the third virtue
- 19:21in this triad. Potion, potion.
- 19:24This is usually translated as holy.
- 19:27Yes, holy or devout. Now, for the Greek students out
- 19:31there, there's another more common word for holy, isn't
- 19:33there? Hagios.
- 19:34That's the one we usually see. The Saints are the hagiui.
- 19:37Why does Paul switch to Harjun here?
- 19:39Is it just a synonym or is there a difference?
- 19:41It's more than just a synonym, it's a very specific flavor of
- 19:44holiness. Hagios usually refers to a
- 19:46position being set apart. Israel was hagios because God
- 19:50chose them. The temple utensils were hagios.
- 19:53They were set apart for temple use.
- 19:54It's a status. OK, so it's about being set
- 19:56apart for something. What about Hosian?
- 19:58Hosian implies an intrinsic piety, a devoutness.
- 20:02It carries a sense of pleasing God, not just in your official
- 20:05standing, but in your disposition and your personal
- 20:07conduct. It is intensely personal.
- 20:10The sources make a distinction that they draw from classical
- 20:13Greek They say Decayon is about being right by human law,
- 20:17walking straight with your fellow men, but Hoojin is about
- 20:21being right by divine law. That's the vertical dimension.
- 20:25Decayan is man to man. Hoojin is man to God.
- 20:28This is The Secret Life. This measures the man Coram dio
- 20:32before the face of God. This is the scary.
- 20:34One, it's the scariest one it really is because you can fool
- 20:37people with Decayan. You can.
- 20:39You can pay your bills on time, you could be polite, you can
- 20:41follow all the civics of your community, you can be a good
- 20:45citizen and people will look at you and say he's a very upright
- 20:48man. But they can't see the heart.
- 20:50They can't see what happens when the doors are closed.
- 20:52Hujan asks what is happening when no one is looking?
- 20:55What is your prayer life actually like?
- 20:57Do you actually reverence God? Do you tremble at His word?
- 21:01Or do you just work for Him like He's the boss?
- 21:04The Puritans used to warn about this constantly.
- 21:06They talked about the man who is publicly respectable but
- 21:09privately polluted. It's the whitewashed tomb
- 21:12warning that Jesus gave. The outside looks clean and
- 21:15freshly painted, but the inside is full of dead men's bones and
- 21:19decay, and the source of material brings this right into
- 21:22the 21st century. It talks about secret sins and
- 21:25specifically it mentions pornography and Internet
- 21:28immorality. We have to go there because this
- 21:30is the elephant in the room for so many modern men.
- 21:33We live in an age where secret sin is easier to access than at
- 21:37any other point in human history.
- 21:38It is. The whole world is in your
- 21:40pocket. A man might say, look, I haven't
- 21:43committed physical adultery. I haven't touched another woman.
- 21:46I haven't broken the law, so he thinks he's Decayan.
- 21:48He hasn't broken the civil contract of his marriage in a
- 21:51public way. But in the dark, on his phone.
- 21:54If he is consuming filth on a screen in the dark, he is not
- 21:57ocean, he is not holy, He is polluted in the sight of God.
- 22:00He's feeding his mind and his soul on the exploitation and
- 22:03degradation of others. And Paul is saying that man, no
- 22:06matter how respectable he looks on Sunday, cannot be an elder.
- 22:09He. Cannot not because he's
- 22:11unforgivable. Grace is available for every
- 22:13sin, thank God, but he is unqualified.
- 22:16The Elder is a steward of God's house.
- 22:19He handles the holy things of God, the Word, the sacraments,
- 22:22the care of souls. How can you bring the holy
- 22:25things of God to the people if your own hands are stained with
- 22:29secret, unrepentant sin? It's a matter of integrity.
- 22:32You simply can't lead people to a place you aren't going
- 22:35yourself. Precisely.
- 22:36If you aren't actively pursuing holiness in the secret place,
- 22:40you have no business trying to help others pursue it in the
- 22:43public space. No, we need to balance this
- 22:45because the sources also offer a really important clarification.
- 22:48When we talk about holiness and elders, some people might hear
- 22:51priests. They might think we're trying to
- 22:53set up a special class of super spiritual intermediaries between
- 22:56US and God. Right.
- 22:57And we need to avoid that error of satchidotalism.
- 23:01That's the Roman Catholic idea of this special priestly class
- 23:04that dispenses grace. We are not saying the elder is a
- 23:07mediator. There is one mediator between
- 23:09God and men, the man Christ Jesus.
- 23:12Period. And we aren't talking about
- 23:13mysticism either, are we? No, we are not looking for a guy
- 23:17who floats 3 inches off the ground when he prays, hears
- 23:20voices and glows in the dark. That's not it.
- 23:24Harjun is ordinary, durable devotion.
- 23:26I like that phrase. Ordinary, durable devotion.
- 23:31What does that actually look like in a man's life?
- 23:33It looks like a man who actually prays.
- 23:35He talks to God. It looks like a man who reads
- 23:37his Bible not just to find sermon illustrations, but
- 23:41because his soul is genuinely hungry for it.
- 23:44It looks like a man who repents when he sins, and he will sin.
- 23:48It breaks his heart because he offended a holy God he loves,
- 23:51not just because he got caught. He has a soft conscience toward
- 23:55God. I really like how the sources
- 23:57tie these three virtues together.
- 23:58It isn't just a random list, it's an interlocking portrait.
- 24:01They protect each other. They absolutely do.
- 24:03Think about it. If you have lover of good
- 24:05philegaton, but you don't have upright to cayenne, what do you
- 24:09get? You get a sentimentalist.
- 24:11You love the idea of good. You get emotional during the
- 24:13worship songs, but you don't actually treat people fairly.
- 24:15You don't pay your employees on time.
- 24:17You're all feeling no ethics. That's a disaster.
- 24:20What if you have upright but you don't have holy?
- 24:22And then you become a cold legalist, A Pharisee.
- 24:25You follow all the rules, you're rigid, you're exacting, but
- 24:29there is no warmth of devotion to God.
- 24:31You're a rule keeper, not a worshipper.
- 24:34You're a Stoic, not a Christian. And what if you have holy
- 24:38without the other two? You become a monk, A hermit.
- 24:42You isolate. You focus on your own private
- 24:44spirituality, your own holiness, but you're completely useless to
- 24:48the community. You ignore the real world needs
- 24:51of your neighbor because you're too busy being spiritual.
- 24:54Paul weaves them together. The heart that loves good, the
- 24:57life that walks straight with men, and the spirit that bows
- 25:00reverently before God. That the architecture.
- 25:03It is a remarkably high bar. I mean, reading this, hearing
- 25:06this, who is sufficient for these things?
- 25:08If I'm a guy listening to this right now, thinking maybe I
- 25:10should be an elder someday, I'm probably feeling pretty small.
- 25:13And you should. We all should feel small.
- 25:16If you read this list and think nailed it, that's me.
- 25:19You are almost certainly not qualified.
- 25:21Because the foundational mark of this man is humility.
- 25:25But this leads us to the most important section of our whole
- 25:27discussion, the Christological frame.
- 25:30Right, because this isn't just a list of demands for us to meet
- 25:33in our own strength. The sources call it borrowed
- 25:35light. That is such a beautiful phrase,
- 25:38Borrowed light. The elder is not the sun, he's
- 25:41the moon. He's not the source of these
- 25:42virtues. He's just a reflection.
- 25:45And to understand the reflection we had to look at the source,
- 25:48which is Christ as the archetype.
- 25:50OK, walk us through that. How is Jesus the perfect
- 25:53fulfillment of Titus 1.8? Well, let's start with
- 25:55Philigathon. Jesus is the true lover of good.
- 25:58He loved the Father's will perfectly.
- 26:00He said my food is to do the will of him who sent me.
- 26:03He loved the good, even with the good meant the unimaginable
- 26:06suffering of the cross, and Hebrew says he did it not out of
- 26:09grim duty, but for the joy that was set before him.
- 26:12And he is the true Decayan, the truly just one.
- 26:16The only truly upright man, whoever lived, he was tempted in
- 26:20every way, yet without sin. He was completely unbribe, able.
- 26:23Satan offered him all the kingdoms of the world in the
- 26:26wilderness. That's the ultimate bribe.
- 26:28And he just said no, right? He didn't play favorites.
- 26:32He spoke hard truth to the rich Pharisees and offered tender
- 26:35grace to the outcast woman at the well.
- 26:37He was perfectly straight. And the true Hoseos.
- 26:40Acts 2.27 actually calls him God's Holy 1 using that same
- 26:44root word, Hoseos. His devotion to the Father was
- 26:47constant and unbroken. So when we look for an elder, we
- 26:51are fundamentally looking for a man who, in his own imperfect
- 26:54way, reminds us of Jesus. This brings in the doctrine of
- 26:57union with Christ. This is the engine that powers
- 27:00these virtues. Because without this, it's just
- 27:02moralism. It's just trying harder.
- 27:04Yes, this is so crucial. We don't want a man who is just
- 27:07white knuckling it every day. I will be good, I will be just.
- 27:10I will be holy. I crashes and burns eventually.
- 27:12That's just human willpower. We want a man who is united to
- 27:15Christ by faith. The SAP of the vine is flowing
- 27:17into the branch, producing fruit that he couldn't produce on his
- 27:20own. Grace trains him.
- 27:21That's Titus 2.1114 For the grace of God has appeared,
- 27:26training us to renounce ungodliness.
- 27:28The very same grace that saves is the grace that shapes.
- 27:32So the elder isn't a man who earned his office by his moral
- 27:35achievements. He is a man who has been
- 27:37conquered by grace. His life is being actively
- 27:40reshaped by the Redeemer. This also changes the nature of
- 27:44his authority, doesn't it? The sources mention a
- 27:47distinction between ministerial and magisterial authority.
- 27:51This is a bit technical, but it seems really important for how
- 27:54elders actually function. It's a classic Reform
- 27:56distinction, and it's vital right.
- 27:58Magisterial authority belongs to a master, the magister.
- 28:01He makes the rules. He's the legislative branch in
- 28:05the church that is Christ and Christ alone.
- 28:07He's the head of the church. He wrote the book.
- 28:08OK, so that's magisterial. What's ministerial authority?
- 28:11Ministerial authority belongs to a minister or a servant.
- 28:14He serves the rules that the master has already laid down.
- 28:16He's the judicial or executive branch simply applying what the
- 28:20master wrote. He has no authority to make up
- 28:22new rules. I've heard the analogy of the
- 28:24waiter and the chef. That is the best analogy for
- 28:27this. Think about a high end
- 28:28restaurant. The chef creates the menu, he
- 28:31designs the dishes. He combines the ingredients.
- 28:34He determines the entire flavor profile.
- 28:37That is Christ in his Word. The elder is the waiter.
- 28:40And the waiter doesn't cook the meal, no.
- 28:43And he certainly doesn't decide what's on the menu.
- 28:45He doesn't look at the skake the chef prepared and say, you know
- 28:48what? I think this needs more sugar.
- 28:50And then throw a handful of sugar on it before taking it out
- 28:52to the table. No, his job is to get the food
- 28:54from the kitchen to the table without spilling it or messing
- 28:57it up. Exactly.
- 28:59He served the word. He doesn't invent it.
- 29:01He delivers it faithfully. This keeps the elder humble.
- 29:05He always remembers. He ministers under the Chief
- 29:07Shepherd. Precisely.
- 29:08Your job isn't to be innovative. Your job is to be obedient.
- 29:12You're just delivering the King's mail.
- 29:14You're not writing your own letters.
- 29:15That's actually very freeing. It takes the pressure off to be
- 29:18some kind of creative genius, and it puts the pressure where
- 29:22it belongs, on being faithful. It's incredibly freeing.
- 29:26So we've built the architecture, we see the Christological
- 29:29foundation. Now let's try to land the plane
- 29:31with some very practical application.
- 29:33If I'm in a church, maybe I'm on a pastor search committee, or
- 29:37maybe I'm just a member who's about to vote on a new elder.
- 29:41How do we actually find these guys?
- 29:43Because we can't see into their hearts.
- 29:45The source material is very practical here, and the first
- 29:48piece of advice is look for patterns, not just moments.
- 29:52Oh, that's good. Anyone can be holy for an hour
- 29:54on a Sunday morning. Right.
- 29:56Anyone can seem upright when everything in their life is
- 29:59going well. But what is the pattern of this
- 30:02man's life over years? You're not looking for
- 30:04perfection, you're looking for a trajectory.
- 30:07Is the arrow of his life generally pointing up toward
- 30:10Christ? What are the red flags then?
- 30:12If I'm looking at a candidate, what are the things that should
- 30:14make me pause and say, hmm, let's wait a minute?
- 30:17Habitual self justification. That's a massive 1.
- 30:20When he's wrong, does he readily and humbly admit it or does he
- 30:24spin it? Does he blame shift?
- 30:25Well I only yelled at you because you made me so mad.
- 30:28That is self justification. If a man cannot simply say I was
- 30:32wrong, please forgive me. He cannot be an elder because he
- 30:36doesn't fundamentally understand the gospel, which starts with I
- 30:39am a Sinner in need of grace. What about financial opacity?
- 30:42Secrecy around money. Huge red flag if he's secretive
- 30:45about his money or if he's always looking for that shameful
- 30:48game Paul mentions elsewhere. You need to stay away.
- 30:51Money is so often a proxy for the heart.
- 30:53If a man cannot be trusted with money, he absolutely cannot be
- 30:55trusted with souls. And what about spiritual
- 30:58performance? Yes.
- 30:59The guy who always has to be the most spiritual person in the
- 31:01room. The guy who prays the longest,
- 31:04loudest, most eloquent prayers usually to be seen by others.
- 31:08That is often a mask that is covering up a profound lack of
- 31:11genuine ocean and private. True holiness is usually quiet,
- 31:15doesn't need an audience. Paul gives a specific warning in
- 31:18First Timothy regarding this whole process.
- 31:20He says do not be hasty in the laying on of hands.
- 31:23The time factor. Time is the great revealer of
- 31:27character, and the sources quote a sentence that just chilled me
- 31:30to the bone. It says Office amplifies
- 31:33character flaws. It doesn't cure them.
- 31:36Wow, say that again. That needs to sink in for every
- 31:39church member. Office amplifies character
- 31:41flaws. It doesn't cure them.
- 31:43We so often think, oh, he's a little immature, maybe a bit
- 31:46arrogant, but if we make him a leader, he'll rise to the
- 31:49occasion. The responsibility will sober
- 31:52him up. But that's.
- 31:53Not what happens, is it? No.
- 31:55It's like giving a faster car to a bad driver.
- 31:57It doesn't make him a better driver, it just makes the
- 31:59eventual crash much much bigger. If a man is slightly arrogant
- 32:03now, give him authority and he will become a tyrant.
- 32:06If he's slightly greedy now, give him access to the church
- 32:09budget and he will become a thief.
- 32:11Do not ever think the office is a remedy.
- 32:14It's a magnifier. That is why the installation
- 32:16process itself is so grave. It's not just, hey mob, you want
- 32:19to be on the board, great. The first meeting is Tuesday.
- 32:22No, it's a covenantal moment. It involves prayer, fasting, the
- 32:26laying on of hands. The congregation is saying we
- 32:29recognize the character of Christ in you, and we submit to
- 32:31your leadership as you submit to Christ.
- 32:34And man is saying, I will give an account to God for your
- 32:38souls. It is terrifyingly serious.
- 32:42Hebrew says. They watch over souls as those
- 32:44who will have to give an account.
- 32:46And once they're in that office, how do we protect them and
- 32:49protect the church? The sources mentioned that
- 32:51single man rule is incredibly dangerous.
- 32:54Plurality is essential. In the New Testament.
- 32:56You almost always see elders plural in every church.
- 33:00Paul told Titus to appoint elders in every town.
- 33:02Why? Because no one man has all the
- 33:04gifts, and more importantly, no one man is immune to temptation
- 33:07and pride. Power tends to corrupt, and
- 33:10absolute power corrupts absolutely.
- 33:12Lord Acton was right. Shared wisdom protects the
- 33:14church from a dictator, and it also protects the man from
- 33:17burnout and from his own pride. He needs brothers who could look
- 33:20him in the eye and say, brother, you were wrong about this.
- 33:23He needs real accountability. And we also need to protect them
- 33:26from false accusations, but be ready to handle real sin if it
- 33:31happens. Yes, First Timothy 5.19 says
- 33:33don't even entertain an accusation against an elder
- 33:35unless there are two or three witnesses.
- 33:38Leaders are targets. People get angry when you tell
- 33:40them the truth, so you need a shield.
- 33:42You can't let every disgruntled rumor destroy a leader, but.
- 33:46There is a but. If he is sinning, verse 20 says,
- 33:50rebuke him publicly so that the others may take warning.
- 33:53Balance again. Don't believe every rumor, but
- 33:55don't cover up real proven sin. Exactly.
- 33:59And finally, cultivation elders aren't robots.
- 34:02They need rest. They need prayer.
- 34:04They need encouragement. You want to fill like a thon a
- 34:07lover of good. You need to encourage him when
- 34:09you see good in him. Don't just treat him like the
- 34:10church's complaint department. That is a good word for all of
- 34:13us in the pews. We often consume their ministry
- 34:16without ever thinking about ministering to them.
- 34:18It's a symbiotic, not a parasitic relationship.
- 34:20So let's wrap this all up. We've looked at Titus 1.8.
- 34:23We've seen the context of Crete, the land of liars.
- 34:26We've seen the mission bringing order through character, and
- 34:30we've seen the architecture, the Phlegathon renovated affections,
- 34:34the Decayon Upright walk, and the Hocios Pie spirit.
- 34:38It's a complete interlocking picture of a man.
- 34:41And we've seen that this is all about Christ.
- 34:43This high standard isn't for the elders personal reputation, it's
- 34:47for Christ's honor. That is the ultimate why?
- 34:50Why does any of this matter so much?
- 34:52Because the Church is the bride of Christ and the world is
- 34:55watching us. If the Church is led by men who
- 34:58are liars, greedy and unholy, the world will rightly conclude
- 35:02that the Christ we serve must also be a liar, greedy and
- 35:05unholy. But if the church is led by men
- 35:07who love the good. Who are just in their dealings
- 35:09and who are reverent before God. The world sees a small,
- 35:12imperfect, but real reflection of the King we serve.
- 35:15Here's the final thought I want to leave you with today, and it
- 35:18is a provocative one from our sources.
- 35:20We live in a world, and let's be totally honest, a church called
- 35:23that prizes talent. We prize the platform, we prize
- 35:27the results. The charisma, the big
- 35:30personality. The charisma.
- 35:31The question is this. Is your local church brave
- 35:35enough to prioritize hidden holiness over visible charisma?
- 35:40That is the question. The survival of the church in a
- 35:42Cretan culture like ours might just depend on that specific
- 35:45distinction. Are we building on a foundation
- 35:48of performance or on the moral architecture of the steward?
- 35:51Let's choose the architecture. Amen to that.
- 35:54Thank you for joining us on this deep dive into reforms thinking.
- 35:57We will see you next time.