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Hand Jobs are so 2003 · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera Judge. Hey, guys,
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  Speaker 1: it is Tamra Judge with two teas in a pod.
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  Speaker 1: I have Whitney with me from Salt Lake City and
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  Speaker 1: we are gonna recap Real House of Atlanta, Real Housewives
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  Speaker 1: of New York and Crappy Lake.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, Whitney, day Tama, thanks for having me back.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, now, Whitney, do you watch all the Housewives shows?
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  Speaker 2: Not all of them anymore. I used to, but once
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  Speaker 2: I became a housewife, I'm a little more selective.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not funny how that happens. Like I live it,
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  Speaker 1: I know how it goes down. I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: watch it.
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  Speaker 2: It changed it for me.
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  Speaker 1: Do you like watching yourself?
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  Speaker 2: No?
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  Speaker 1: I cringe?
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  Speaker 2: Is anybody I have a few castmates that watched themselves
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  Speaker 2: multiple times? Yeah? No, Yeah, I won't. I can't just
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  Speaker 2: watch it to know what's in it, and then I
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  Speaker 2: can never watch it again.
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  Speaker 1: I watched the screener and I'm done. I never watch
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  Speaker 1: it on the big screen. I watch it very little
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  Speaker 1: on my phone and that's it, and I can't. I
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  Speaker 1: can't even hear my voice, like sometimes I'll send it
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  Speaker 1: to Eddie and he'll watch it, and I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Like, turn it down.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to hear my voice.
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  Speaker 2: I'm the exact same way. The other day there was
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  Speaker 2: a repeat of salta Gon and I. It was just
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  Speaker 2: on my TV and I was like, who turned this on?
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  Speaker 1: No? Do your kids like to watch it or to
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  Speaker 1: watch themselves? They love it?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I tried to. I used to screen the show
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  Speaker 2: from them, but now they're old enough where they can
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  Speaker 2: find bit so I just let them watch it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Now, have you been keeping up with Atlanta.
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  Speaker 2: And Okay, so I've watched the last couple this season. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: but I fell off Atlanta for a couple of years.
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  Speaker 2: It used to be my favorite though I was a
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  Speaker 2: diehard og Atlanta fan.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like they need some tweaking on this cast.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, they lost me just for a minute. And I
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  Speaker 2: don't know if it's just because I've been doing Salt
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  Speaker 2: Lake City or what it is, but yes, what is
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  Speaker 2: going on is okay, that's the essence.
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  Speaker 1: Let's break it down. Now. Sonya takes a pregnancy test
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  Speaker 1: and finds out she is pregnant. Now, she's been talking
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  Speaker 1: about getting pregnant for a couple of seasons now, so
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  Speaker 1: it's finally happening. Sonya and Ross tell her family by
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  Speaker 1: making sure to that say, we're pregnant. So you saw
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  Speaker 1: this episode right, yes? Yes, okay. So Sonya's parents and
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  Speaker 1: sister tell her they are looking to get an apartment
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  Speaker 1: to move into. Do you think at this time when
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  Speaker 1: she's pregnant. She you know, she has had her family
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  Speaker 1: live with them for a while, and I get it,
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  Speaker 1: like you want you know, my mom lives with us,
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  Speaker 1: but we have a casita on our property, so she
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  Speaker 1: has her own entrants. Sometimes I don't see her for weeks.
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  Speaker 1: But would you be okay with your in laws living
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  Speaker 1: with you? And would you want that extra help with
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  Speaker 1: a new baby coming?
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  Speaker 2: Okay? So I wouldn't want my in laws to live
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  Speaker 2: with me. My dad lived with me for a very
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  Speaker 2: long time and it was very difficult helped her. As
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  Speaker 2: someone who's had kids without family support, it would be
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  Speaker 2: so nice to have family to help.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, so nice, especially with a newborn and how busy
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  Speaker 1: she is. Yes, and you know that girl is discipline.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I don't know how, like how she would
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  Speaker 2: keep up with her life and not have help.
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  Speaker 1: Well, she did say that she would talk talked about,
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  Speaker 1: you know, hiring a nanny, but I feel like there's
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  Speaker 1: such a nice calming feeling to know that your mom
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  Speaker 1: is with your newborn or with your toddler or your
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  Speaker 1: children in.
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  Speaker 2: General at that So I never had that, so I
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  Speaker 2: would crave that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, my mom has always been around, so I've been
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  Speaker 1: very lucky in that sense. Now Ross I would have
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  Speaker 1: to say, was he's another one that I'm there's zero
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  Speaker 1: douchebag And this guy when they found out, when he
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  Speaker 1: found out that she was pregnant, he was so excited,
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  Speaker 1: kind of disbelief, like what, yes, you're pregnant. Oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: And I felt like the t shirts like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: going into the family and like turning around and the
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  Speaker 1: shirts say we're pregnant. That was a cute touch, right.
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  Speaker 2: It was so cute. He's so endearing and you can
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  Speaker 2: tell really tender he is.
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  Speaker 1: He's super super sweet. I just think that Sonia, let
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  Speaker 1: your family stay a little bit.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I that help at least the first six months
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  Speaker 2: till the baby's on a sleeping cycle.
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  Speaker 1: Yes. Yes, Now this next relationship obviously we know what
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  Speaker 1: comes out of it. They're filed for divorce, but Drew
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  Speaker 1: and Ralph go on a date. Drew brings up how
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  Speaker 1: Ralph stopped marriage counseling. Ralph said he didn't like how
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  Speaker 1: doctor Kin was holding him the accountable for his bad behavior,
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  Speaker 1: Like who does he think he is? Even saying that.
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  Speaker 1: He also feels that counseling brings up topics that lead
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  Speaker 1: to divorce.
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  Speaker 2: Duh, that's why you're there.
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  Speaker 1: That's why you're there. I mean, why you have to
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  Speaker 1: go to marriage counseling because you're in a bad spot
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  Speaker 1: and the counsel is telling you you're an asshole, but
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  Speaker 1: you just don't want to hear it.
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  Speaker 2: She deserves so much better, just the.
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  Speaker 1: Way he talks to her. And I know you haven't
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  Speaker 1: watched the prior season, but back then he's just always
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  Speaker 1: been so condescending to her and like saying things like
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  Speaker 1: he did in this week's episode. This is a very
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  Speaker 1: intellectual way what this is very intellectual what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: It's like, Okay, what are you trying to say. I'm
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  Speaker 1: not going to understand you. I would have popped in one.
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  Speaker 1: I seriously would have krowne chopped him right into the
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  Speaker 1: Adams Apple.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I especially did not like when she was like, Hey,
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  Speaker 2: I just am for the next ten days, I'm gonna
• 5:38
  Speaker 2: be working on this video. It's todd and so I
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  Speaker 2: just want to make sure you're good at home. And
• 5:42
  Speaker 2: he was when he's like, I've always been booked and
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  Speaker 2: busy or whatever, he said to her, What.
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  Speaker 1: Does he do?
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  Speaker 2: I have no idea what he does.
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  Speaker 1: Last I heard he was trying out from Magic Mike
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  Speaker 1: in Vegas. That's everything. I mean, I'm sure I would
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  Speaker 1: love for my husband to do that and that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, good for you, sir, But Drew, like, you shouldn't
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  Speaker 2: be asking your man. You should like he shouldn't be
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  Speaker 2: telling you that. He should be saying, yes, I got
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  Speaker 2: it covered, I have your back, good luck, what do
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  Speaker 2: you need. It's gonna be stressful for you being away
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  Speaker 2: from the kids.
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  Speaker 1: Oh by the way, Ralph, those are your kids. You're
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  Speaker 1: not babysitting. Those are your children. It kills me to
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  Speaker 1: hear a man say I can't really babysit kids. Those
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  Speaker 1: are your kids, You're not babysitting. Yeah, yeah, I feel
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  Speaker 1: bad for Drew.
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  Speaker 2: Bravo Khan and she was amazing. She's super sweet, white
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  Speaker 2: and like so sweet.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's she's been on the pod a couple of
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  Speaker 1: times and she's filled in for me and she's she's
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  Speaker 1: just a very sweet girl. We did family feud recently
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  Speaker 1: Atlanta versus Orange County and she was there. She's so kind.
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  Speaker 1: Who wasn't there? Was Candy? Can you tells Candy and
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  Speaker 1: Shamiya that she's thinking of having another baby with the
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  Speaker 1: frozen embrose she had with x Mark. They bring up
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  Speaker 1: Sarahgacy and Kenya says she would be worried that she
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't get that she would get jealous of her sarrogate.
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  Speaker 1: You did not go through any idea or anything like that, correct, Okay?
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  Speaker 1: I mean the part of being pregnant. I mean it's
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  Speaker 1: so fun until it's not fun, right, I mean terards
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  Speaker 1: the end, but bonding and all that. I've always thought
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  Speaker 1: about it, like, what would it be like to have
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  Speaker 1: a saragate? Would you be able to handle that?
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  Speaker 2: You know what? I at this point, I'd have to.
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  Speaker 2: I had a hysterectomy at thirty five, So oh I did. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I had to get an emergency hysterected me last year.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. So wait did we hear about this? Did you
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  Speaker 1: talk about it all only.
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  Speaker 2: On my podcast? Oh? Yeah, I haven't really publicly shared
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  Speaker 2: too much. I'm still personally processing it. It's been a
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  Speaker 2: little actually emotional and traumatic for me. I wasn't expecting that.
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  Speaker 1: But you're good, right, you're good. Yeah, that's what's important.
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  Speaker 2: I just had it had to come out like I
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  Speaker 2: kind of yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So I keep waiting for that.
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  Speaker 2: I go.
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  Speaker 1: My next appointment is September first, And I keep waiting
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  Speaker 1: because my mom and my grandmother both had to have
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  Speaker 1: hysterectomies because they had like tumors but they were benign,
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  Speaker 1: but there were tumors and had to get ridmote.
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  Speaker 2: But you don't want to mess with it.
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  Speaker 1: I want to mess with that.
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  Speaker 2: It's emotional, but I have to say it is amazing.
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  Speaker 2: Like I worry, I whatever I want to wear all
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  Speaker 2: the time and not stress. You know, vacation, no period,
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  Speaker 2: no period, That's what I'm saying. I don't have to worry.
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  Speaker 2: Beach the cool. But back to the Seriously, though, I
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  Speaker 2: thought a lot about this because you have mothers who
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  Speaker 2: raise adopted children and have a beautiful bond. You also
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  Speaker 2: have others who never bond with their baby and neglect them.
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  Speaker 2: You know, absolutely absolutely, lot of it is a lot
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  Speaker 2: of the bond. Yes, there is something beautiful about having
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  Speaker 2: the life inside of you. Yeah, but also I think
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  Speaker 2: the bond is built when you're taking care of someone.
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  Speaker 1: For sure, for sure, but sure yeah, yeah, But I
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  Speaker 1: get what Kenya's saying. You know, it's it's it's different,
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  Speaker 1: that's all it is. It's different. It's still your child.
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  Speaker 1: You still love them if it's adoption and or serrogacy
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  Speaker 1: or however it happens. But it's, you know, something to
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  Speaker 1: think about, like having your hysterectomy. I remember at thirty eight,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, do I have another baby? Is this it
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  Speaker 1: for me? Do you get a vasectomy?
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  Speaker 2: Like?
• 9:34
  Speaker 1: What do we do? And then you realize at that
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  Speaker 1: time like, okay, if you do that, it's permanent, and
• 9:41
  Speaker 1: the shop was closed, and in a woman's mind, it's
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. It's almost like what
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  Speaker 1: I'm made to do, I can't do anymore.
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  Speaker 2: And it's emotional, it's almost it's part of your feminine
• 9:52
  Speaker 2: energy and your power, and it's being able to create,
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  Speaker 2: is you know, divine. So it's a hard I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a very I can be a jealous person, so
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  Speaker 2: it'd be hard for me. But I would just have
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  Speaker 2: to really like focus on the positive of it, because
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  Speaker 2: I always thought there was one more for me. Really yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And I've had many like spiritual leaders say that they like,
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  Speaker 2: since there's another baby.
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  Speaker 1: Well maybe he'll adopt one day.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah maybe, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: You never know. But you know what, Kenya's house, I
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  Speaker 1: didn't realize it before, is so beautiful.
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  Speaker 2: It's gorgeous. Her front door is.
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  Speaker 1: And I know, I'm like, holy shit, And I love that.
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  Speaker 2: It's like in the trees, the woods, you know.
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  Speaker 1: I know that's where I'm at right now. I'm in
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  Speaker 1: my big bear house.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you are?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we bought a house the beginning of the
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  Speaker 1: month we closed escrow congratulators. Is his name?
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  Speaker 2: Mark? Now? What's what's Kenya's mark?
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  Speaker 1: I believe? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Is he in the picture with her daughter?
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  Speaker 1: I think he is, Yes, I think he is from
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  Speaker 1: she said, But I don't know if they're on good terms.
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  Speaker 1: Like I can't imagine, like if you're on good terms
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  Speaker 1: with your ex and you're like, you know, I want
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  Speaker 1: another you know, Brooklyn went to a sibling like you know, yeah,
• 11:14
  Speaker 1: but if you're in bad terms, that can even cause
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  Speaker 1: even more problems. But I mean, I hope it works
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  Speaker 1: out for her for sure. Yeah, but ken Yell, let's
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  Speaker 1: move on. Kenna says Martell didn't pay for Charis Charret's
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  Speaker 1: birthday dinner. It costs fifteen hundred dollars. He asked all
• 11:28
  Speaker 1: the ladies for their cash app to chip in. Now,
• 11:33
  Speaker 1: should a boyfriend be asking, shouldn't.
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  Speaker 2: They be pain they shouldn't be paying?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know his financial situation. But and
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  Speaker 1: also did he arrange this, Like if you arrange a
• 11:45
  Speaker 1: birthday dinner, like my husband arrange a birthday dinner for me,
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  Speaker 1: invites everybody, he will pay. He's gonna pay. Absolutely, they
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  Speaker 1: didn't really say it. I don't know why they didn't
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  Speaker 1: film it because her birthday was during filming time.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I wonder if it's one of us they're going
• 12:00
  Speaker 2: to flash back to.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean I think that a boyfriend
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  Speaker 1: that if he invites the women and he's a party. Yeah,
• 12:09
  Speaker 1: because if.
• 12:10
  Speaker 2: Someone invites you to dinner, they establish at the beginning,
• 12:14
  Speaker 2: like oh, we're going to do separate checks, or I'll
• 12:17
  Speaker 2: pay the check, can you vendmo me? But if it's
• 12:20
  Speaker 2: for your girl's birthday and you're with successful women like
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  Speaker 2: you should be paying even if you can't afford it.
• 12:27
  Speaker 2: Be a baller and just like front it from me.
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  Speaker 2: Just charge it, seriously, just charge it. Doesn't successful rich
• 12:36
  Speaker 2: friends like, come on, dude, But did.
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  Speaker 1: You hear Chara say, I got a Oh god? What
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: was the person he bought her? Alexander m which is
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: better than between purse, But you know he's not into
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: high end stuff. That is kind of a high end.
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  Speaker 2: First girl, it is high end and McQueen's one of
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  Speaker 2: my favorite designers actually, but I laugh set the shade
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  Speaker 2: of that.
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  Speaker 1: That was, Oh my god. So Ralph shows up to
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  Speaker 1: Drew's mental health retreat and hugs all the women before Drew.
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  Speaker 1: Drew says, Ralph has been distanced since date night, and
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  Speaker 1: this is typical Ralph acting cold with her instead of
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  Speaker 1: speaking his mind. Did Drew now I saw him walk in.
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  Speaker 1: Did Drew actually ignore him by hugging Ross or was
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  Speaker 1: it intentional? Did you pick up on that?
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  Speaker 2: I didn't pick up on that, but that's a fair question. However,
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  Speaker 2: like she hugged Ross's that's one person.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was kind of like it.
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  Speaker 2: As he was walking in, sitting down the line of women, like,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know I feel like even if she did
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  Speaker 2: ignore him or give him the cold shoulder, it was
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  Speaker 2: one person versus like seven or eight.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to say, Ralph clearly purposely walk past his wife.
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  Speaker 2: He's doing with it.
• 13:58
  Speaker 1: He's yeah to be a little bit. She's what he
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: was being. Marla pulling up Drop It with Drew website
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  Speaker 1: made me laugh. There was no website.
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  Speaker 2: It was not the floor notification.
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: The notification no longer. Do you think Drop It with
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  Speaker 1: Drew is just for TV? And do you have any
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  Speaker 1: be on your cast?
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  Speaker 2: It?
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: Does that like where they just bring up certain things
• 14:24
  Speaker 1: or businesses just to promote on TV, but they're not
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  Speaker 1: really affiliated with it. You got a noise the shit
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  Speaker 1: out of me.
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  Speaker 2: And if even just looking at jen Shaw, she had
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  Speaker 2: like five businesses.
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: But did she really no? No, Okay, did you notice
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: Cynthia in the background. I did.
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: I love Cynthia.
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: They need her back so bad. I think they need
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: her back and they need Porscha back. Yes, absolutely, I
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: love Phaedra as well, But I don't think she's moved
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: on to married with medicine. I think so. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if she will come back.
• 14:58
  Speaker 2: The O G cast. I'm telling you that first couple
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: of years. We're the best. I know.
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: Hold on to that snowflake because the OG's are always
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: the best.
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I love Portia doing Girls Trip with her. Oh
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: that's right. Yeah, we did Girls Trip and I just
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: like respect her so much. She's such a good housewife.
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: Well, I'll tell you my experience with her. I did
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: a commercial in Mexico City and she was in the
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: commercial as well, And I was always very intimidated by
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: her because she's such a big personality, and I thought,
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: oh god, she's not gonna like me. She's not gonna
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: like me, Like I was really worried about it. She
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: was the most girls girl I've ever met in my
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: entire life. Let me fix you, let me do this.
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: Oh your booty's so cute, let me show some more boobs.
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: Like she was so sweet, sod yes, and she's like
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: she loves her girls. She's sweet, you know. I mean,
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: unless you're on the show and she's throwing shade at
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: you that I just love it.
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I got I got shade from her
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: just for a couple of minutes. But other than that,
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: like she and I was so thats the same way
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: I was nervous because I went with some big personalities
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: and I was nervous about it. But Portia was the
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: most supportive, Like she's the glue of the group, Like
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: she really brought it, and she if someone's having a
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: hard moment, she'll she'll come for you, but then she'll
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: build you right back up. You know.
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: I hope she comes back and robo hire her back. Please.
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: She's killing it.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: Do you watch her social media?
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: I do she do? She's always killing it. Now, I
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: noticed that Candy was not invited to Charre's birthday party,
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: and Charay had the best comeback ever. Because you don't
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: know this because you haven't really been watching, but Candy
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: really is too busy to film. She's got so much
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: going on that when they have group events, she's like,
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: oh I got to leave early, or she's not at
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: a dinner or something. She's always she's too busy. So
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: Chari says Candy can't show up for the group, she
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: won't show up to my party. Clearly she was referring
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: to she can't even show up the film. Yeah, you
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: an invite her to my birthday party?
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you think Candy's holding on to? Because
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: it's not.
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: Like I think Candy's oh you mean staying on the show.
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because she is so busy, she has so many
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: other things going on.
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: Well, I don't think it's the money. I'm sure she's
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: paid amazingly, but she obviously is self made and worldwide
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: and all those things. I just think that it's a
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: really good platform. It is, you know, I know for myself,
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: Like even when I was gone through the two years.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: You know, people you start to dwindle a little bit.
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: You try to make keep yourself relevant, but it's not
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: always that easy. It's one of those things in reality TV.
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: Out ofside, out of mine. So I don't know. Maybe
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: she enjoys it. Candy's so like there's no expression ever,
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: best poker face ever. So I don't know why.
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: When I think of Atlanta, I think of Candy. For sure,
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: I'm a big fan of hers, but like, yeah, I
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: just think if you can all you can kind of
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: tell that it's like she's not her heart's not there
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: right now.
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: It doesn't seem like it, that's for sure, but it
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: has to.
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: Be just keeps holding on to it. I mean, I
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: get it.
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: And I love her banter with her husband Todd because
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: you know the backstory about Todd.
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: Right, and like when they first started dating.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: Yes, so Todd worked for production.
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: No, I did not know that.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so Todd worked for production. This is ten years ago.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: So he was part of the production team and I
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: don't know if he producer or what exactly his role was.
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: I think it was producer. And they fell in love
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: and they've been together ever since. So he went from
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: behind the camera to in front of the camera.
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: Oh, how did I not know that?
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: Well, it was still it was ten years ago. You
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: were very born, you were only you were only five then, little.
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: Girl, little girl, a girl.
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: No.
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: I just remember the family really giving her a hard
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: time for dating him.
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: The mom, Mama Joyce, has never accepted him, and I
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: think that she expected Candy to marry like some multi millionaire.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: And Todd works, you know, and he takes care of
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: the kids. So evidently that's what Drew said, daddy daycare.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: But you know, I don't see a problem with it
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: where there's you know, it's balanced. There's a lot of
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: men that make tons of money and the women don't
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: work at all, or they don't make as much money,
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: does it. I don't think that people have to marriage.
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: Couples have to have like, well I make this much,
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: so you should make that much.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah. No, we've evolved wavy on that.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we've gone up and down. When I met Eddie,
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: I was barely making anything on the show, and he
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: was working at his dad's law firm making a ton
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: of money. Then he left to go start cut fitness,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: and salary went down, then went up and then down.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: Like you know, it's partnership, yeah, especially being an entrepreneur too,
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: Like a lot of money comes in and then no money,
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: then a lot of money, then no money, maybe a
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: little money. So it's all relative, you know. I think
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: as long as they're happy and they're doing their thing,
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: that's fine. Let's talk about being called a bitch. Manyatta
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: brings up how Courtney called her cousin in law a
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: bitch talking about Drew. She made a comment like this
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: bitch even questioned me. Courtney denies it and says she
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: would never use the word bitch. Moments later, they see
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: her on the mic saying bitch. Was Courtney using the
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: word bitch derogatory in a derogatory way? I mean, I'm
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: not offended by that word.
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, I'm not really offended by it's a
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: slang word. You can it all depends on the tone.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: But I do appreciate a good flash too. She I
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: think she was using it in a derogatory way, and
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: because it wasn't like like a bitch or like like
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: it wasn't bad bitch, It was like, can you believe
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: this bitch? Is how she said it? I think right right?
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: I mean, are using word bitch is not necessarily a
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: term of endearment. No, But like you said, when it
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: comes to the tone and how you say it, like
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: you can make it sound really bad. You can make
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: anything sound really bad with your tone. So Courtney watched
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: out for those flashbacks because they will always come and
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: bite you in.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: The ass'll haunt you, I know.
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: So fan thoughts, why is Charret always dating broke men?
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: Now?
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: I don't know that he's broke. I don't know that
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: much about him, but I guess she has a passive dating.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: But didn't she date a professional athlete he wasn't broken?
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: And I don't know. I think there's a difference between
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: broke and like cheap exactly. Yeah, maybe he's just brugal, Yeah,
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: I mean, I maybe.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: It wasn't his idea to throw the party. Maybe the
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: girls threw it and he showed up.
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: I still think he should have just charged in it
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: and been a baller, But you know, I don't know.
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: Sary is intriguing to me though, with her dating life.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: I love her, huh, I absolutely love her.
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: She's justuous.
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: Have you met her in person?
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yep, I met her, Bravo Khan.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, if you spend any amount of time with her.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: She is so soft spoken, so sweet, rarely says anything
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: bad about anybody, like she's just really a good girl.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: Now people think that Courtney needs to go. I'm going
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: to agree with that. Another comment was Drew and Ralph
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: are so passive aggressive with each other. Well, I think
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: that their relationship obviously was really bad and they were
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: just doing the best they can on camera. And somebody
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: said they want Cynthia back. So it was nice to
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: see Cynthia. She's just so beautiful, so sweet, so funny.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: So that's it for Atlanta. We are going to move
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: on to my new favorite. Have you been you have
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: to be watching this?
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been watching New York.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: Okay, Real Housewives in New York reboot is freaking amazing
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: and I just I'm excited. It's one of those shows
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: that I'm super excited to see. Now here's the thing.
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: I love all the Ogs, and I love that show too.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: This one, to me, almost feels like it's a totally
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: different show.
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: It's totally a completely different show. I think that it's
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: a breath of fresh air, and I really enjoy that
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: there are the natural friendships, just like the Ogs.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think that the natural friendships, the different backgrounds,
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: the you know, it's just an amazing cast. So Brent says,
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: when she was in first grade, she drank a bottle
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: of diamond tab cough syrup because she wanted to sleep forever.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: When she was a senior in high school, she got
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: a call from her dad that he was dying in
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: the ICU from liver cancer. Went up. She went up
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: every weekend and developed a relationship with him. This scene,
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: like seriously broke my heart. It made me appreciate Brent
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: even more, understand her a little bit better. You know,
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: obviously she had a really bad relationship with her dad,
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: but you know, at the end of the day, it's
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: still her dad. Yeah, it's still her dad. Now, what
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: have you forgiven your father?
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: If you were brand You know what, I think that
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: her forgiving her father says everything about her. I think
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: that she needs. Forgiveness isn't always about the other person.
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: It's about right too. I think for her as a
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: woman and moving forward from that, her trauma, her child
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: of trauma and abused, the neglect, she needs to forgive
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: her father and understand that he was doing his best. However,
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: my father's still alive. I don't speak to him, so
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: see that. Watching her in that moment made me cry.
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: I you know, I thought about you because I knew
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: you were going to be on the podcast today, so
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: I thought, oh god, this has probably got to be
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: a really tough moment. I didn't know where you stood
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: with your dad right now. What we've seen in the past,
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: you know, it hasn't been great, no, But I.
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: Think that forgiveness isn't always about the other person. It's
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: about ourselves, and it's about killing our own hearts too,
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: And I really respect that she has grown and has
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: the courage to do that.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: I think she's such a good character on the show.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: I mean, it explains a lot. While she's always so
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: funny and lighthearted and joking and all the things she's done.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: It's like, I feel like people that are like that,
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: they try to mask a lot of pain from the past,
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: and you know, they don't want to talk about serious
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: things because you know, it's so heartbreaking. And last week
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: we saw she talked about her you know, just growing
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: up in her parents and being raised by her grandparents,
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: all that stuff. It's just really sad. I did like
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: that all the women were sweet and supportive and nobody
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: threw any shade because you know, it doesn't matter what's
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: going on, somebody can always throw shade on housewives.
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: Oh when I shared because for legal reasons, I chose
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: not to share details of my childhood abuse, and my
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: casters shade.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: At me for it. See that's just wrong, questioned it.
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: They didn't acknowledge it, And I thought it was so
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: beautiful that they all supported her off life needs right.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: Now, right That's what stood out in my head when
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: I saw this. It's like everybody rallied around her, supported her.
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: Nobody had any shady comments in their interviews. It just
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: was like it just made it even that much more real, Like,
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: don't make somebody question it by somebody's shady comment. You know,
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: in confessionals, but I did like the brand said something
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: that I tell my kids all the time, you choose happiness,
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: Like it's not easy to be happy all the time,
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: but you have the ability to wake up and go,
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: you know what, I'm going to be happy today. No,
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: life isn't perfect, but I'm going to try to make
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: the best of it. And it shows because she's just
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: from what we see on the show, she's just happy,
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: go lucky.
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: Watching her, especially when she gets around the other women's kids. Yeah,
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: I'm a big kid. That always makes me smile.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: Yes, I know. Now Jessel calls the ladies cackling old hags.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: Would you be offended by that?
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: You know what? I have been called so much worse,
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: so I would not be offended by that. And I
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: understand like the British humor. One of my good friends
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: is from England, and I mean she calls everyone a winker,
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: you know, so I guess I'm just used to it.
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: I didn't see any offense in that. I feel like
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: they're reaching for a reason to be mad at her.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: For sure. I am not easily offended period. There's very
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: little that Well, you know, that's your opinion and that's
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: what you think. Then whatever. I don't really give a shit,
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: But I mean, if somebody comes after me as a mom,
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: I think that's the one thing that I will get
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: offended by.
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: Sure, So Jessel tells the ladies that she went to
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: work to work dinner after the Hampton's trip. Aaron asked
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: if she's working now, and Jessel is offended by Aaron's comment.
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: She finds it condescending since she has been a fashion
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: publicist for years. I personally did not find it offensive.
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: She admitted that she was on maternity leave. She has twins.
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: She never talked about going back to work. Do you
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: think Erin was being shady?
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: I don't think Erin was being shady. I don't either. Yeah.
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: I felt like that entire conversation was them just not
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: listening to each other.
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: And I feel like Aarin, if she's being shady, she'll
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: just be like straight out shady. She doesn't care for sure. Yes,
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: So I didn't think she was trying to offend anybody.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: She was on maternity leave into story, stop it. I
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: feel like this girl gets offended over everything. I've watched
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: every episode, and I could have told you that she
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: thinks she's a princess Jessel thinks she is a princess.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: She didn't have to tell us that. We already know it.
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and like what she just needs to own it.
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: I know. But I think Jessel has a lot of
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: issues because she's got built up anger inside because she
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: hasn't had sex with her husband yet and it's been
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: two years or something crazy like that. Brenn says that
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: hand jobs are back, Are they? Well, I'm going to
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: talk to you about that in a second, and Ituba says,
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: anything with a job in it just doesn't want it.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: Are you giving hand jobs? Because I feel like he's
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: got his own hand he can do his own job.
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: Sid I the hand jobs are so like twenty years ago, Like,
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: I don't don't do hand jobs anything what you do
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: when you're teenagers? Me? Why would I.
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: Were gonna get things going? Maybe a little rugby w dub,
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: but I'm not going to sit there to the finish
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: in to do a hand job. A happening that warm up?
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: Like hi, are you there by the way?
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: And if you're doing a hand job, on't you go
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: on to the doing the deed?
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: Listen? I'm not doing the deed unless I'm benefiting too.
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: So yeah, I have to be a win win.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: I mean, this is not something I'm going to add
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: to my list of things to do. I'm not going
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: to be.
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: Like nowadays, like I don't know about you, but I
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: like at the end of the day, after being on
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: my phone and computer, like, yes, I'm thinking about is
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: another way to work out my hands?
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Nope, not doing it. Don't need any extra carpal
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: tunnel pain by giving a hand job not happening.
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: I hope that she figures it out though, I mean,
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: it's it's her relationship, but I do feel like she
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: projects a lot of those pains on to the other women.
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: Yes, And I know from personal experience, when you're in
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: a bad relationship and you're filming it, it comes through.
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: It'll come through, and it's coming through, And I feel
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: like watching her and her husband to gather in scenes
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: is extremely painful. Just the way she looked at him
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: for having a carrot inside of his champagne, which is
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: weird anyways, but I probably would look at Eddie and
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: be like, what are you doing? Well, what's that all about?
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, or just ignore it so no one brings attention to.
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: It, I know, but she wants to you know, throw
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: them under the bus and roll them over right. See.
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: I don't have a strong opinion about her yet. I
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: really don't. I have compassion. I can see that she's
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: probably just coming out of postpartum stuff whatever. I don't know.
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that she's the least strongest character on
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: the show cast member on the show. To me, I'm
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: very invested in all of them. I do feel like,
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: I mean, I like her, but I feel like she's
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: not as strong personality as some of the other girls. Now,
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: Aaron and Jessel meet up to talk, which I thought
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: this was an epics scene. Jessel says, Tribecca is really
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: up and coming and has potential. Aaron says, as a
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: real estate person, Jessel's comment is ridiculous and comes off
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: like she knows nothing about New York City. Aaron tells
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: Jessel she thinks she is used to being treated a
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: certain way and a princess, Jessel says, a princess who
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: doesn't work. Apparently. She tells Aaron that she embraces women
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: who are working, and Aaron tells her to watch it.
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: This whole scene was bizarre to me, and funny and
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: good in all those things. But first of all, Aaron
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: Jessel wasn't born and raised in New York, right, I
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: don't know how long she's been in New York. I
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: didn't catch that, but she probably obviously doesn't have her
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: burrows down in New York and Tribecca obviously is an
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: amazing place.
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's like established old money.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: Right yeah. I mean it's where you want to be
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: and that's where Aaron is. So you're shitting on Aaron's
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: hood right now, is what you're doing.
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: Who is a proud New Yorker?
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: I know, I'm raised, I know, I mean, I don't know.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: And then she goes on. Aaron goes on to call
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: Jessel a lunatic as she walks out the door. She's
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: a lunatic. Now, whose side were you on in this conversation?
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: Like we talked about it a minute ago. She wasn't
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: trying to shade her in any way. She thought she
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: was on maternity to leave. She clearly knows that she
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: has a career, and at her party we see how
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: big her career is because there's a lot of big names,
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: huge names.
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: I think that it was one of those moments where
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: Jessel just didn't have She's not standing in her power.
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: She's not standing on her own two feet. So when
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: someone else is coming at you strong in their conviction,
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: it's easy to kind of backpedal. Right, Yeah, So I
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: think it comes back to what you said earlier. She's
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: just not as strong, but she clearly has it because
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: in this conversation, I've when I first watched it, I
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: was more with Aaron.
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I can.
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: I have sympathy for Jessel because I see that she's
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: just trying to own her power and it's hard to
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: go against someone who's strong and erin.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: I agree on that. I agree on that, and Jesseel,
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: I mean she is a mom of twins, one year
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: old twins, so I mean there's so much going on
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: in that brain right now, and then not having a
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: great relationship with her husband and all this. And I
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: don't think that she was trying to shade by saying
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: that tried Mecca is an up and coming she just
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: didn't know. I think she just didn't know. So I
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: don't know. I mean at first I thought for sure
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: I was on Aaron's side, but now after talking to you,
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what, maybe you know I'm not
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: on anybody's side. Yeah, I'm not on anybody's side. But
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: at Jesu's party, they FaceTime Jenna to ask her where
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: she is, and she shows she's decorating her Christmas tree. Now,
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: Brinn says she thought there was an event Jenna had
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: to go too, and it's not an event in their minds.
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: It is decorating a Christmas tree at her house with
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: her family. I don't know if they were all family,
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: but her son.
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: Was there, her son and her god children.
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: God children. Okay, so I mean she didn't say where
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: the event was, it's still an event she had, Like
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: it looked like a party to me. She had a
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: chef there, she had people there, they were decorating the
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: Christmas tree. She also said that she doesn't spend that
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: much time with her son. She doesn't get to seem
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: very often. So if she had to choose decorating Christmas
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: tree with her family or going to a fashion party,
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: I'm sure she goes to a lot of.
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: Fashion parties absolutely, And what we've seen so far, like
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: everything is an event for John, Like she goes all
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: out for everything.
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: Everything. Yeah, well, Brent calls her Jenna Lyon instead of
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: Jena Allons, and I don't think I think she was
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: just being snarky. I don't think she was lying. She
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: just couldn't attend because she had an event at her house.
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she was spending Christmas with her son and her
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: god children. I think she just didn't I mean, when
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: she first said she had something and then she's like,
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: I don't know, she was kind of shady in her bit.
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: She's like, I don't know what I have, but I
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: have something. So she just didn't want to go number one,
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: which is fine, right, So, Yeah, it's holidays with your
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: son you don't see all the time. That's an event.
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: But I kind of feel like Jenna doesn't even know
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: what this reality show is about. I feel like a
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: lot of times she's there like huh, what what huh?
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: She as this look on her face, like what did
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: I sign up for?
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: All right, absolutely, But so the event was at her house.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: Get over at Girls. Aaron then wines about the two
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: buck chalk wine at the party and Brent say's I
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: with two buck chuck. She never has a shortage of
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: one liners. Ever.
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: No, she kind of reminds me of Heather in that way.
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: My Heather.
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Heather does have great confessionals.
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: Always on it, Like with the one liners.
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: I mean this party, the fashion, the guest. I feel
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: like I buy my clothest target after watching all these
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: things so dressed up. When that one lady came in
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: with the I don't even know who she is.
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: She is editor or something, an editor, a big editor,
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: editor for Vogue, I think, or major magazine.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the red dots and all that stuff, and I'm like, wow, I.
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: Would never know who that is, would you?
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't. And they, I mean, their style, their fashion,
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: everything on the show is just so pointed on it,
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, how do they do it? I just
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: don't know. I don't have the brain to sit there
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: and try to pick out outfits when I have to go.
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: Like if I'm traveling and I have to pack my suitcase,
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: it's torture to me. Torture.
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: Are you like me? I have a closet full of
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: clothes and bags and I go in there and I'm like,
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: I have nothing to wear.
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: That's how I am. And then if I have it together, yeah,
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: I don't know how to put it together. And then
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: if I have an event or something I have to do,
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I never shot my own closet. I just
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: go on Revolve and just buy a new outfit same
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: then sometimes I buy two or three. Then I hang
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: them up, I wear one of them and I forget
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: the other two or even there, and.
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: You forget to return them, and then you pull them
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: out and you're like shit, I couldn't wow.
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: And then I'm like, oh, this one's out of style. Now.
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: Well, listen, Salt Lake City isn't really known for its fashion.
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: We don't even the nicest store we have. We have
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: one Louis Vuitton and Saltlake Oh really, and then we
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: have north Strown.
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's yeah.
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: Billard's, Macy's, you know, like we don't have It's not
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: really a thing here.
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I get it, Orange County. I mean it could be,
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: but I'm not really like a I'm not one that
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: is going to put labels all over my clothes. I
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: like nice shoes, I like nice belts, my life's handbags.
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: But when it comes to I'm not the one that's
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: going to be wearing Louis Vuitton shorts. It's not they're cute.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: I love them, but I feel like they're so out
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: of style, so quick and so expensive that I would
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: rather just keep my money in the bank.
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: Well, look at it's I think wealth is shown in
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: different ways. I mean, look at your house. You have
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: a beautiful home. You just got your second home. I
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: would argue that both of us are similar in this.
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: I probably eat. I'm more expensive food than like all
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: my all my money goes to food because I eat
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: organic and healthy.
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: And yeah, and that's expensive. And traveling. I love, we
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: love to travel, so we'd always take one or two
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: big you know, European vacations every single year for a
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: long step during COVID. But so it depends, you know,
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I just don't want to Well, I
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: don't know.
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: It's all any It all comes down to your lifestyle too.
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: You're active, you're fit, You're always on the go like
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: you're you know what I mean.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: If I could wear sweats every single day, I'd be happy.
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: I know, that's sad.
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: It's either I'm like full workout or like cocktail. I
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: don't really have an in between.
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: I don't that's my problem. You know what I don't have.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: I don't have shirts. I have workout clothes, and I
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: have dresses, and I have jumpsuits, but just to wear
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: like jeans and I'm like, I don't have any like blouses.
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: I don't ever buy them. I don't know I need
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: I need a stylist.
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: Listen, I think you're doing great.
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: Can you get thank you? Can you get like stylists,
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: like interns, Like you know how Sonya on New York
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: used to get interns and have to pay them and
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: they would do everything for her.
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: You need stylist interns.
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: But I'll have to say, I'm gonna give it to
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: Brand for having the best line out of the episode.
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: And when they were talking about how uh how Jenna
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: had an event and then she said, well, I guess
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: she calls it an event at her house, and Brinne goes,
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: I guess this morning when I took a ship, I
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: had a gala gala And I'm like, oh my god, God,
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: oh my god. Just works over time with humor. She's
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: so hilarious. Is so fan thoughts. Jessel is the new Ramona.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: I could see that. I could see that Ramona is
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: just not self aware and says things and doesn't okay,
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: take ownership. I think that's what it is. The conversation
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: between Aaron and Jessel was amazing TV. I think it
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: was too. I think it was. It was good. It
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: was you know, they're definitely not they're fake friends. They're
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: not friends, but it was a good conversation. This one.
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: Jessel is becoming the star, so I think people are
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: starting to really see her now, where she's kind of
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: been in the back burner a little bit in the
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: first few episodes. Jenna needs to own up to things more. Well,
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: I don't know what she needs to own up to.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: I think she just needs to realize she's on a
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: reality show.
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: Right when you say it that way, it makes perfect sense. Yeah,
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: she needs to know what the assignment is, right.
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: Right, She's just there. She's just so famous in New
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: York City, and does she just oh, Okay, this is
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: just another event that I need to go to. Everything's
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: an event. Okay, let's take a break and then we're
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: going to come back with Crappy Lake. Okay, so you
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: haven't seen all the episodes, but let me just tell you.
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: I like that it's only thirty minutes. I like that
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: it's quick, it's fast, there's not a lot of drama.
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: I think that they could have wrapped this up in
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: six episodes, but we are still on episode eight or
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: something like that. So the best moments where the motel
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: has been has new carpeting, new paint. Sonya and Luan's
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: sweets are done and there are a new there are
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: new gutters, so that's very exciting there in a crappy
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: lake wherever they're at, and Sonya says that it's the
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: fastest renovation she has ever seen in her life. While
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: moving furniture in Sonya gets under the bed frame and
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: jokes she's behind bars again. She jokes her husband came
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: and she asked for a muffin and her makeup kit.
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: So when she was in jail, when he came to
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: pick her up from Jael, she wanted a muffin and
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: a makeup kit. She says. No one picked up Luian
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: in jail. She laughed in her flip flops. Oh my god.
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: First of all, have you ever been to jail?
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: No?
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: Okay, thank you either have I and I don't want to.
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: I'm in a knock on wood. Did you never know
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: what's gonna happen while filming? But no, Sonya is crazy.
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: She's batshit crazy, but in a good way. She's so funny.
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: She's hinged at all times.
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: At all times, at all times. Now the sweets looked better,
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: but they still look like shit.
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: Absolutely, like Sonia didn't even try to like upgrade Beadyk.
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: I mean the carpet that was put and the carpet
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: that was put in was freaking ugly.
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: It looked like they ripped it out of an office
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: that was closing.
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: Yes, I'm like, why didn't you just at least put
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: down some you know, luxury vinyl flooring that looked like
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: wood And you know, I said it last week. That
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: way you can mop up the GI's on the floor
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: instead of just looking at it from one of those.
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: Lights, like it's just paint the walls.
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: Paint the wall. I mean it was not good. But anyways,
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: Luanne and Sonya put on sexy Christmas costumes for Christmas
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: in July. Sonya usually goes commando shocker, but they are
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: in Benton, so Benton, so I think she wore underwear
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: because her dress was so short.
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well I remember the woman commenting saying she bent
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: over and you saw her thong.
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: Well, the people in Benton talked about how short Sonya's
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: dress was and how they can see her thong when
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: she bends over. One guy went as far as to say,
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: when they walked up, they looked like hookers. They looked
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: like hookers. Sonya says, she's trying to be sexy, but
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: the kids are laughing. I don't know why she wants
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: to be sexy for Christmas, but okay, and then Sonya
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: says news lort. Luanne thinks everyone knows who she is
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: because her head is so big. I think these two
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: are starting to get sick of each other.
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: It seems like it. It seems like they're like sisters
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: who've been staying together for too long.
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: Now. If you could do a crappy like show somewhere else, obviously,
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: who would you want to do that? It's I think
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: it's like a six or eight week commitment. You go,
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: you stay in a hotel. Who would you want to
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: do that with?
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: From my own cast or anyone your own cast? Your
• 44:47
  Speaker 2: own cast, probably Angie catch Nabus for sure.
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: I love Auntie.
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: You would have so much fun.
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: It is really a great concept for show, and I
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: really hope that they franchise it or every season it's
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: somebody new, a new couple of girls from Housewives. Like
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: I think it's a cute concept.
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: But like I said, if I was renovating. I would
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: really renovate, like I'd put a lot of energy into it.
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: Well that's my jam. I love to renovate. I was
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: up here at Big Bear last week, stripped wallpaper painted.
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: I did. If I could do Florine, I would do
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: Florin too, But it's so hard to get contractors up here,
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: so I have to wait until somebody. I'm like, I
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: can't just sit and look at this shit. I have
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: to start working. So Luanne and Sonya give a speech
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: the town during the Christmas in July event. Sonya says
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: Luanne thinks everyone knows who they are because because we're
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: heading is so big. Sonya says that therapists calls it illusions.
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: D grandor are Sonya and Luanne. I think they're starting
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: to get fed up with each other, is what I
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: think is going on.
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: You know, I haven't seen all of the episodes, but
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: watching just that one for sure, like you can tell
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: they're starting to pick on each other a little bit.
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: I mean I couldn't. Let's say I did with VICKI
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: I spent a lot of time Vicky, but I think
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: tight quarters like that six weeks, we get on each
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: other's nerves. And people want to see that. I think
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: that's normal.
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: Well, you and VICKI have the history of that, right, yes, yes.
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: So what is not normal is Paula Abdul's showing up
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: to Crappy Lake. She surprises the group of girls dancers
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: who are training for the show. They have Paula take
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: a picture with the girls so it will get people
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: to buy tickets to the show. Are you a Paula
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: Abdul fan? And do you have a favorite song?
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: Yes, I'm a huge fan of Paula Abdul. I grew
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: up as a dancer. You Yeah. I remember going to
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: my friend's houses to watch her music videos because we
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: didn't have MTV or TV, so I would go and
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: watch her music videos. And I love all of her
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: videos because of the dancing.
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: Amazing dancer.
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: Yes, even though my favorite album that she released, I
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: was only two years old, but I would. I watched
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: it all through like my teenage years too, because she's
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: such an inspiration in the dance community. I love Rush Rush,
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: the one where she's tap dancing in the beginning, straight up.
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: Telling me do you want to love me forever?
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah? The opening tap Yes, Well she's tapping and she's
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: doing all.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: That's my favorite. By the way, her standing next to
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: all the other girls there. I didn't realize she was
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: so tiny.
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: She's teeny tiny.
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: She's the tiny, short, little, tiny but little thing. She's
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: so cute and has it really aged at all.
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: No, we need to know her secrets.
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: I know, I don't know where she lives, but I
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: feel like she could be on a housewive show.
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: She absolutely would rock it as a housewife.
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: Well, she did have a show on Bravo. I don't
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: know if you remember this called Hey Paula. It was
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: back in two thousand and seven, right, I know, so
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: she's basically technically a Bravo leberty yea, because she's been
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: on Bravo before. But yeah, but that was the end
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: of a crappy lake cute episode. I think one or
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: two more to go. Fan thought Sonya goes too far.
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: She's still a vulgar, vulgar and I just think that's Sonya.
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: I think it's funny. Maybe Sanya is not everybody. I
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: don't think she's too vulgar. I just think she I mean,
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: you have seen every orifice, every naked part of that
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: girl's body on the show, and I like that. I
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: don't know. I would love to see Paula Abdul as
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: a housewife. Somebody said, I said the same thing. Not surprised.
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: Lane has never heard of Christmas in July. I had
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: never heard of it either. But when I did Ultimate
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: Girls Trip, we had Christmas in I don't know, September
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: or whatever it was. It's kind of a cool concept.
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it is a cool concept. I'd never heard of
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: it either. But don't we sell our great independence? Dy
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: angel like, isn't that? Yeah?
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: I know, you know, there's so many holidays. I think
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: it's just an excuse to get in presents, have fun.
• 49:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I can see it. In a small town especially,
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: it's a reason to come together. There's not sure going on,
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: you know.
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: Well, that's it. I thank you so much for coming
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: on in filling in for Teddy. Love you so much,
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: and I can't wait for September fifth.
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: September fifth, Happy Birthday.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: Tune in to Bravo to watch season four of the
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Salt Lake City doing their thing.
• 49:31
  Speaker 2: Yes, thank you so much for having me. I love
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: you and I can't wait to see you at Bravo con.
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: I know I can't wait to see you. Okay, thank you,
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: thank you, Bye.