Latest / I Do, Part 2 / Love Island (EP 8): WTF Sincere And Bryce!
Transcript
- 0:02Speaker 1: Hey, that folks. It is Friday, June twelfth, and season
- 0:07Speaker 1: eight of Love Island and episode eight is now in
- 0:10Speaker 1: the books. He saw that last night, and the major
- 0:13Speaker 1: takeaways two things one, Sincere, what the hell are you doing?
- 0:19Speaker 1: And Bryce, what the hell are you doing with that?
- 0:25Speaker 1: Welcome to this episode? Up, Amy and TJ. What were
- 0:27Speaker 1: your takeaways from the episode?
- 0:29Speaker 2: Well, those were two of the big ones.
- 0:32Speaker 3: Sincere was not being sincere and look, he has every
- 0:36Speaker 3: right to play the field and to test out other relationships.
- 0:40Speaker 3: That's what they're there for. And yet when he was
- 0:43Speaker 3: directly asked by mel he completely denied that he was
- 0:46Speaker 3: still into soul.
- 0:48Speaker 1: So Sincere was your takeaway? Anything else from the episode?
- 0:51Speaker 1: On the whole we get for the win.
- 0:55Speaker 3: He was my hero of the episode, saving Melanie from herself.
- 0:59Speaker 2: That that was a big, big thing.
- 1:02Speaker 3: And I guess ooh, just some trouble on the horizon
- 1:07Speaker 3: for Kenzy.
- 1:08Speaker 1: And Mel okay imagined Sincere and Bryce you said who?
- 1:14Speaker 1: And mel just then.
- 1:15Speaker 2: Kenzy and Case and Okay.
- 1:19Speaker 1: My other takeaway, rogues is what what constitutes loyalty and
- 1:25Speaker 1: commitment in friendships and relationships that have only been going
- 1:29Speaker 1: on for a week and a half that was my
- 1:32Speaker 1: I saw this happened everywhere, every second, every scene was
- 1:37Speaker 1: about that, including Kensy and mel who you sit down
- 1:42Speaker 1: and say, hey girl, I want to go talk to
- 1:44Speaker 1: your man. Now. Now it's not about the game anymore. Now,
- 1:48Speaker 1: it's not about what you got the right to do.
- 1:50Speaker 1: It's your loyalty to me as a friend. That showed
- 1:52Speaker 1: up everywhere last night, Rose. I loved it.
- 1:55Speaker 3: It's interesting because does it matter? Should it matter how
- 1:59Speaker 3: long you've been friends with someone or how long you've
- 2:01Speaker 3: been in a relationship with someone. Don't morals still apply regardless?
- 2:06Speaker 3: Aren't morals? Morals? Do they change based on how long
- 2:09Speaker 3: you've been with someone? Shouldn't you still always act a
- 2:12Speaker 3: certain way?
- 2:13Speaker 1: See? I take the moral part of it out. How
- 2:18Speaker 1: about just what you agreed to do? How about what
- 2:21Speaker 1: you just said you would do? How about what you
- 2:23Speaker 1: just looked Melanie in the eye and said you were
- 2:29Speaker 1: going to be loyal and then you immediately got in
- 2:31Speaker 1: her face and were not. If so, it's more so
- 2:33Speaker 1: for me Robes, it's what is the understanding and agreement
- 2:37Speaker 1: about loyalties?
- 2:39Speaker 3: Well, I think you can't lie to someone's face. I
- 2:41Speaker 3: don't think no matter where you are or what game
- 2:43Speaker 3: you're playing. That's still never going to be an acceptable choice.
- 2:48Speaker 3: And it's interesting to me that he made that choice
- 2:51Speaker 3: knowing the world was watching, knowing that we were all
- 2:54Speaker 3: going to see him moments later doing the exact opposite
- 2:58Speaker 3: of what he just said he was going to, don't
- 3:00Speaker 3: we And this is the beauty of the show.
- 3:02Speaker 1: There's no crew around, there's no camera crew, there's nobody there.
- 3:05Speaker 1: At some point they start to forget that every scene,
- 3:08Speaker 1: in every shot, at some point they get comfortable and robes. Okay,
- 3:12Speaker 1: let's start with Sincere. What the actual hell is he thinking?
- 3:17Speaker 2: You know what, I want to like him, I really do.
- 3:20Speaker 1: I see he finally grew on me last episode. Now
- 3:24Speaker 1: now I'm I'm turned away from him.
- 3:26Speaker 3: Look, and so we're assuming, if y'all are listening, y'all
- 3:29Speaker 3: saw this all. So we don't have to get into
- 3:31Speaker 3: the backstory, but to have Sincere and look, Melanie has
- 3:34Speaker 3: her own issues. And by the way, all the takeaways
- 3:36Speaker 3: are the big moments I got from the episode, all
- 3:40Speaker 3: with one exception involved Melanie. She obviously is a lightning rod,
- 3:45Speaker 3: but there she was, I have to say, being vulnerable
- 3:48Speaker 3: and asking him to be real with her, to be
- 3:51Speaker 3: straight with her. And she did say, look, if you
- 3:53Speaker 3: want to go pursue her, do it, but I'm not
- 3:55Speaker 3: gonna be waiting around for you. She did draw a
- 3:58Speaker 3: line in the sand, and maybe that's why he just said, no, no, no,
- 4:01Speaker 3: you're my first I want to be with you. And
- 4:03Speaker 3: she said, do you want to pursue do you want
- 4:06Speaker 3: to continue to explore a relationship with soul?
- 4:10Speaker 2: And he said no.
- 4:13Speaker 1: So that's my first question. I'll ask you. And this
- 4:15Speaker 1: seems to be a part of the game. They bring
- 4:17Speaker 1: in new people, So am I the thing we have
- 4:22Speaker 1: somebody else came in? I want to explore it is
- 4:24Speaker 1: that immediately disloyal to you or only just a part
- 4:29Speaker 1: of the game. But feelings are involved. I understand that
- 4:32Speaker 1: is the trick.
- 4:33Speaker 3: That is the trick, and I think it depends on
- 4:36Speaker 3: what each couple has decided. And look, I know, in
- 4:39Speaker 3: order to try and be cool and stay open, everyone
- 4:44Speaker 3: tells the other person, oh yeah, like I.
- 4:46Speaker 2: Totally get it. You should explore.
- 4:48Speaker 3: Yeah, But deep down inside, especially with some of these
- 4:51Speaker 3: couples we see forming, I have to say, I think,
- 4:54Speaker 3: especially on the female side, feelings are growing and they
- 4:58Speaker 3: don't want to admit it, but it's true. And so
- 5:01Speaker 3: even though they say, sure, do what you want to do.
- 5:03Speaker 3: It hurts when you see somebody who you have just
- 5:06Speaker 3: started having feelings for, who you're making out with, who
- 5:09Speaker 3: you're sleeping next to, literally start flirting with another person
- 5:13Speaker 3: right in front of your face, and in some cases
- 5:15Speaker 3: kissing another person, and sincere one up there within seconds
- 5:19Speaker 3: of telling her, no, I don't want to pursue soul.
- 5:22Speaker 3: You thought he was pulling soul to break it off
- 5:25Speaker 3: with her. You thought he was going straight from that
- 5:27Speaker 3: conversation with Mel and saying, hey, look I've decided I'm
- 5:31Speaker 3: gonna I'm gonna stay with Mel.
- 5:33Speaker 2: I just wanted to give you that courtesy. That's not
- 5:35Speaker 2: what happened.
- 5:36Speaker 1: He made such a good point, first of all, about feelings.
- 5:40Speaker 1: This is why I end up loving the show. Sorry,
- 5:43Speaker 1: you'll lost me a few episodes with the kissing stuff,
- 5:45Speaker 1: but they got me back Rogues because you bring it
- 5:48Speaker 1: up again. You see people being human beings you can't
- 5:51Speaker 1: help but be bothered and be hurt, and you see
- 5:56Speaker 1: other people be bothered and hurt, and then they start
- 5:59Speaker 1: to act out of who they really are. We all
- 6:02Speaker 1: do that. We do, and we can't recognize it in ourselves.
- 6:05Speaker 1: We see it play out right there, and it's just
- 6:07Speaker 1: I just love those lessons. So yes, Ropes, I don't
- 6:09Speaker 1: know what Sincere is doing. We should have known and
- 6:13Speaker 1: this should have been a hint. When he was having
- 6:14Speaker 1: that conversation with Melanie and she said yes or no?
- 6:19Speaker 1: Do you what was the question? Do you want to
- 6:21Speaker 1: pursue Yeah?
- 6:21Speaker 2: And he said no and then she asked, like a
- 6:24Speaker 2: follow up, like why why?
- 6:26Speaker 1: Okay, Ropes, when she said yes or no? Do you
- 6:30Speaker 1: want to pursue something with Soul the new bombshell, he
- 6:34Speaker 1: was a lying like I could see in the way
- 6:37Speaker 1: he responded. We all could He was a little I
- 6:40Speaker 1: mean no, I mean you said I had to.
- 6:43Speaker 2: And then she asked him again and then he started he.
- 6:45Speaker 1: Started making a joke, started laughing about something else and
- 6:48Speaker 1: kind of just distracted from that question. Ropes. He didn't
- 6:51Speaker 1: want to say no. He wanted to say yes because
- 6:55Speaker 1: that was the truth, because that was the truth.
- 6:57Speaker 3: But the thing is he didn't even then hide Like
- 7:00Speaker 3: moments later, he's up with Soul, laughing like all tucked
- 7:05Speaker 3: in with her, all loved up and snuggled up with her,
- 7:08Speaker 3: and laughing and then making out with her.
- 7:10Speaker 2: And he was up there right in front of her.
- 7:12Speaker 1: Who pulled him?
- 7:13Speaker 2: That he pulled her? And so you thought that he
- 7:15Speaker 2: was going to break it off.
- 7:16Speaker 1: He was being a little serious, a little down, a
- 7:19Speaker 1: little somber. I thought, oh wow, he is going to
- 7:21Speaker 1: Actually I didn't think he should to be out honest,
- 7:25Speaker 1: he had something with this young lady. They seemed to
- 7:27Speaker 1: be cool. Why not see where it goes. But if
- 7:31Speaker 1: he was going to break it off, he was convincing
- 7:33Speaker 1: with Melanie. He was He was ultimately.
- 7:36Speaker 3: Convincing, and so that's why she got so hurt. When
- 7:39Speaker 3: he's up there, she and she even said, ten minutes,
- 7:41Speaker 3: I'll give him a pass, twenty minutes, I'll give him
- 7:43Speaker 3: a pass. Thirty minutes later, he's been up there for
- 7:45Speaker 3: more than an hour and hasn't paid me.
- 7:49Speaker 2: The time of day Bro.
- 7:50Speaker 1: The time he had with Melanie, you could see her
- 7:53Speaker 1: whole demeanor change and her react just relax when she
- 7:57Speaker 1: got assurance.
- 7:58Speaker 2: Yeah, we all want to assurance, but it has to
- 8:01Speaker 2: be real.
- 8:03Speaker 1: Well, I don't know what he was doing. I really this.
- 8:06Speaker 1: I am really confused. Last episode, I told you he's
- 8:08Speaker 1: grown on me. I'm starting to like him. He had
- 8:10Speaker 1: some funny little boy energy you talked about even that
- 8:13Speaker 1: was growing on me. I was liking the hair fine.
- 8:16Speaker 1: I was getting on board with sincere have no idea,
- 8:19Speaker 1: this is a disaster. Yes.
- 8:22Speaker 3: So then Mel goes at the end, she's she's hot,
- 8:26Speaker 3: and I honestly, look, she has acted irrationally and passionately before,
- 8:32Speaker 3: but I understood how she was feeling like I felt her.
- 8:36Speaker 3: I related she wanted to go up there and pull
- 8:38Speaker 3: him and say, what are you doing? You just said
- 8:40Speaker 3: what you said to me, and you have been up
- 8:42Speaker 3: there with that woman for how long? Doing what?
- 8:45Speaker 1: Like?
- 8:46Speaker 2: Really?
- 8:46Speaker 3: And she wanted to go up there, and Casey stopped her,
- 8:50Speaker 3: and I appreciated what he said.
- 8:52Speaker 2: He said, I'm not going to let you go out
- 8:54Speaker 2: like that.
- 8:56Speaker 1: Okay, Casey's the hands down favorite.
- 8:58Speaker 2: I fell a little more in love with him, and.
- 9:01Speaker 1: We might have loved him since episode one. When he
- 9:04Speaker 1: opened that door, nobody was behind it, and the way
- 9:07Speaker 1: he reacted was just charming. Loving Casey. It's getting better.
- 9:13Speaker 1: So we talked about that moment a lot. Robes and I.
- 9:18Speaker 1: There were there were moments where some of the girls
- 9:20Speaker 1: were reassuring Melanie and what was ever was already in
- 9:23Speaker 1: her head kind of a thing.
- 9:24Speaker 2: That's what us girls do.
- 9:25Speaker 1: And I told you you this is why I say
- 9:29Speaker 1: you gotta have a heterosexual guy in your group for perspective.
- 9:35Speaker 1: There's just another side to it. And Casey has been
- 9:38Speaker 1: great Robes stopping her in that moment. She was going to, yes,
- 9:41Speaker 1: make an ugly scene, but she wasn't gonna be proud
- 9:44Speaker 1: of what she was about to do.
- 9:45Speaker 3: No, because when you make and look, we've all been there,
- 9:48Speaker 3: and the moments we've stopped ourselves, we wake up the
- 9:51Speaker 3: next morning saying, thank God. It's never a good idea
- 9:54Speaker 3: to have a conversation when you're hot. It's just never
- 9:58Speaker 3: gonna go well.
- 10:00Speaker 1: And what ears I think?
- 10:01Speaker 3: Now?
- 10:01Speaker 1: I'm going to the word I hear you use often
- 10:03Speaker 1: and it's always right on point. But what Sincere was
- 10:06Speaker 1: doing was cruel and it felt even if it wasn't
- 10:12Speaker 1: premeditated cruelty, it was something he had to be aware of.
- 10:17Speaker 1: You cannot miss that. You can't be that inconsiderate. Look,
- 10:21Speaker 1: people all made mistakes, We've all hurt people we love.
- 10:24Speaker 1: We get it. This was something Robes to go from
- 10:28Speaker 1: her to the other girl was one thing. That's bad
- 10:31Speaker 1: enough to be up there an hour is even worse
- 10:35Speaker 1: to be jumping around and having fun and snuggled up
- 10:39Speaker 1: in front of her robes sincere, I don't know what happened.
- 10:43Speaker 3: Yeah, because if that was his plan, he should have said, hey,
- 10:45Speaker 3: look you're still my number one, and that could be true,
- 10:48Speaker 3: but I got to go continue to see where this goes.
- 10:51Speaker 3: And I hope you can understand, but if you can,
- 10:53Speaker 3: I respect you enough to understand. But I want to
- 10:56Speaker 3: tell you what I'm about to go do. It's so
- 10:58Speaker 3: bizarre to me because it wasn't as if she wasn't
- 11:01Speaker 3: going to find out, like he knew she was gonna know.
- 11:04Speaker 2: So was he just kicking the can?
- 11:05Speaker 3: Is he that immature that he just couldn't say it
- 11:08Speaker 3: to her face but he'd rather just have her find
- 11:11Speaker 3: out later because that made it easier for him to
- 11:14Speaker 3: not have to confront her directly.
- 11:15Speaker 1: I don't know a scenario that makes sense here, and.
- 11:18Speaker 2: Maybe he did not make any sense.
- 11:20Speaker 1: It could be a maturity issue. He's so scared to
- 11:23Speaker 1: say something. I think that's what it is. Maybe scared
- 11:26Speaker 1: to let the young lady sold down upstatairs as well.
- 11:29Speaker 1: I'm saying, young lady, I hate bombshell for some reason.
- 11:32Speaker 1: I hate called bombshell.
- 11:34Speaker 2: But that's what he calls it.
- 11:35Speaker 1: That's what it is. But this was that was a
- 11:38Speaker 1: I'm worried about Sincere. I didn't like. I don't understand it.
- 11:41Speaker 2: Baby, I didn't either.
- 11:43Speaker 1: I say, Wow, here they go. Sincere and Melanie they've
- 11:45Speaker 1: been through something. Wow, they're probably gonna be the leading
- 11:48Speaker 1: couple after this.
- 11:53Speaker 2: Just you wait.
- 11:54Speaker 3: And then of course we got the wonderful Sincere metaphor
- 11:57Speaker 3: about the three little pigs.
- 11:59Speaker 1: But he couldn't.
- 12:00Speaker 2: He didn't land it. He didn't land it.
- 12:02Speaker 3: But it was about a shaky foundation, and he was
- 12:04Speaker 3: talking about how he had a foundation with mel But
- 12:06Speaker 3: then Diddy, I was confused whose home was which home?
- 12:10Speaker 3: But he tried to make a three little pigs metaphor,
- 12:13Speaker 3: and it was funny watching Nah it did not all right?
- 12:16Speaker 3: So all right, we had a couple other big moments,
- 12:20Speaker 3: and you mentioned Bryce. When we come back, let's talk
- 12:25Speaker 3: about Bryce and what the hell he is stirring up?
- 12:31Speaker 3: And welcome back everyone to the Love Island edition of
- 12:42Speaker 3: Amy and TJ. We're talking about episode eight Thursday night,
- 12:46Speaker 3: and I we have been huge fans, both of us,
- 12:50Speaker 3: because I was just gonna say I, I'm like, no,
- 12:52Speaker 3: I think you might even be a bigger Bryce fan
- 12:54Speaker 3: than me.
- 12:54Speaker 2: We've liked him because he's goofy, he's himself. It doesn't
- 12:58Speaker 2: seem like he's putting on it, and it's just there's
- 13:02Speaker 2: something endearing about him.
- 13:05Speaker 3: And yet he sits there and once again you got
- 13:09Speaker 3: a guy telling a girl who's trying to tell him
- 13:12Speaker 3: touch me more, like feel me more, and she's wanting
- 13:16Speaker 3: him to like her more, and he tells her, no,
- 13:19Speaker 3: I do. You're my number one, You're my favorite girl.
- 13:22Speaker 3: And then fast forward a few hours, sits her down
- 13:25Speaker 3: and says, yeah, I'm gonna go check out Cada. And
- 13:30Speaker 3: he has to go tell his boy his romance. Like
- 13:34Speaker 3: his work husband, Zach, they're pals, they're thickest thieves. He
- 13:38Speaker 3: has to go tell that dude, I'm gonna go after
- 13:41Speaker 3: your girl. Hope you don't mind. First this should be said,
- 13:45Speaker 3: Zach is probably my second favorite person. Casey and Zach
- 13:50Speaker 3: ever come to New York. I gotta hang out with
- 13:51Speaker 3: those fellas. Do Can I go to Bryce?
- 13:56Speaker 1: The miscommunication between Bryce and Trinity, Yes, And we're seeing
- 14:01Speaker 1: this so so differently to where they are seeing their
- 14:05Speaker 1: relationship differently and what they're giving each other and why.
- 14:08Speaker 3: And I think I think you and I have had
- 14:10Speaker 3: this conversation because it's funny. I have never been a
- 14:14Speaker 3: physical touch person, or at least I didn't think I was,
- 14:17Speaker 3: and you and I had talked about that when we
- 14:19Speaker 3: were friends. Maybe that got in your head. But when
- 14:22Speaker 3: I'm with you, physical touch is my love language, and
- 14:25Speaker 3: if you're not touching me, I'm worried. I start to think, oh, no,
- 14:28Speaker 3: what's going on. He's upset. He must not be feeling it.
- 14:31Speaker 3: And then maybe my body language and my energy shifts
- 14:36Speaker 3: because now I'm feeling defensive or I'm thinking, oh, he's upset,
- 14:40Speaker 3: what's going on?
- 14:41Speaker 2: And then you're reading it like what's wrong with her?
- 14:43Speaker 3: And that's I feel like, exactly what's going on with
- 14:46Speaker 3: Bryce and Trinity.
- 14:47Speaker 1: We've got years into this, they've got two weeks, so
- 14:50Speaker 1: they're trying to figure that out right now, Trinity, that's
- 14:55Speaker 1: our love language. She needs physical touch. She needs I think.
- 14:58Speaker 2: Most women do with the they're into.
- 15:00Speaker 3: If you're into a guy, you want him to touch you,
- 15:03Speaker 3: and if you don't want the guy to touch you.
- 15:05Speaker 2: I don't think you have the right guy.
- 15:07Speaker 1: Does it get into someone's head if you're also that
- 15:09Speaker 1: girl who is on a show where you spend ninety
- 15:12Speaker 1: percent of the time in a bikini showing off just
- 15:14Speaker 1: how hot you are and the guy you with is
- 15:16Speaker 1: not touching yep.
- 15:16Speaker 3: I think that absolutely would feel strange, especially when you're
- 15:20Speaker 3: one of those girls. Let's be honest, they're all stunning
- 15:23Speaker 3: and they're used to getting a lot of attention. So
- 15:26Speaker 3: if the guy that they're with isn't giving them that attention,
- 15:29Speaker 3: they're confused, concerned, and yes, maybe get defensive and a
- 15:32Speaker 3: little two into their heads.
- 15:34Speaker 1: Okay, So he wants to go talk to Kada, which
- 15:36Speaker 1: he can do.
- 15:39Speaker 3: Why now, and what's like, what signal has Kada ever
- 15:44Speaker 3: given him?
- 15:45Speaker 2: I haven't seen it.
- 15:46Speaker 3: Maybe it's the editing, but he claims they've had eye
- 15:49Speaker 3: contact that's given him some sort of indication that she
- 15:53Speaker 3: might be into him. Zack laughed at him, like Zack
- 15:56Speaker 3: actually laughed. He thought he was kidding.
- 15:58Speaker 1: He was genuinely amused, because if there's any couple really
- 16:03Speaker 1: robes that's like.
- 16:06Speaker 3: Really solid, seems like it's Zach and Kata. There's no
- 16:09Speaker 3: drama between them.
- 16:10Speaker 1: They're not thinking about anybody else. There's nothing else to discuss.
- 16:13Speaker 1: She doesn't go crazy when some bombshell comes in because she's.
- 16:17Speaker 2: The hottest girl in the villa and she knows it, and.
- 16:21Speaker 1: She probably thinks she's probably gonna remain and.
- 16:23Speaker 2: So that's why she can.
- 16:25Speaker 3: Let's just be honest, that's why she can remain so
- 16:27Speaker 3: calm and cool.
- 16:28Speaker 1: And she's got a calm and cool guy. He's chill.
- 16:31Speaker 1: That's true. They're working right now. Why in God's name
- 16:36Speaker 1: they were though, I just as you were talking, remembered
- 16:39Speaker 1: when she came in she took those two? Did she not?
- 16:42Speaker 3: Yes?
- 16:43Speaker 2: She did, and that's why Bryce thinks he has a shot.
- 16:45Speaker 3: But she very clearly turned her back towards him and
- 16:49Speaker 3: were like, Sea, Bryce, I'm into Zach.
- 16:52Speaker 2: She literally told why does he not?
- 16:55Speaker 3: Because a woman a man says that's you, you will
- 16:58Speaker 3: never try again. What is it about a guy who thinks, hey,
- 17:02Speaker 3: I think that was a green light. That was a
- 17:05Speaker 3: red light she gave him and he somehow thinks the
- 17:07Speaker 3: door's open.
- 17:08Speaker 1: He's a model from La a beautiful one.
- 17:11Speaker 3: Was going to reject him, but now but literally he's
- 17:13Speaker 3: ruining everything. He is gonna Obviously he's pissed off Trinity. Yep,
- 17:17Speaker 3: he's pissed off Zach, and he's going to piss off
- 17:20Speaker 3: and annoy Kada. He is going to lose three people
- 17:25Speaker 3: who actually are on his side right now?
- 17:27Speaker 2: What an idiot?
- 17:28Speaker 1: I just I don't know what the loss.
- 17:30Speaker 2: I mean, I know Kida's hot, but is it worth that?
- 17:32Speaker 1: But she's booed up. Everybody can see she's good because
- 17:39Speaker 1: of that. Robes, I think that, uh well, it was
- 17:43Speaker 1: an equally bad error too sincere But Robes, this is
- 17:47Speaker 1: your guy, you know he At this point, they are
- 17:50Speaker 1: coupled up. They are going to do their thing. Why
- 17:53Speaker 1: step into it to attempt to break it up? What
- 17:56Speaker 1: is he doing?
- 17:57Speaker 2: I you know, what?
- 17:58Speaker 3: Can I ask a question? I'm curious what you think?
- 18:00Speaker 3: I had a situation at work. I won't say who
- 18:02Speaker 3: it was and in which network, But when someone's about
- 18:08Speaker 3: when the microphone is off, but when someone's about to
- 18:10Speaker 3: do something really crappy to you, okay, and they call
- 18:14Speaker 3: you in and I've had this happen, and they tell
- 18:17Speaker 3: you before they do it, that they're about to do it,
- 18:21Speaker 3: and that somehow that.
- 18:23Speaker 2: Makes it okay. That makes it moral.
- 18:26Speaker 3: That makes it I'm supposed to accept it because you
- 18:29Speaker 3: had the courtesy of telling me you were about to
- 18:32Speaker 3: f me and screw me before you did it.
- 18:35Speaker 1: Yes, it is worth something. It is worth something. The
- 18:40Speaker 1: head's up is worse.
- 18:41Speaker 2: I see this happening. It's so funny.
- 18:44Speaker 3: When it happened to me several years ago, I was
- 18:47Speaker 3: dumbfounded and I didn't know.
- 18:49Speaker 2: How to feel. It still felt terrible.
- 18:52Speaker 3: I wasn't as angry, but I kind of felt manipulated.
- 18:55Speaker 3: And I don't know if that's fair, but that was
- 18:57Speaker 3: just my personal experience when that happened to me, and.
- 19:00Speaker 2: It was really it, and it felt like a betrayal.
- 19:03Speaker 2: It was awful, to be honest.
- 19:04Speaker 3: I don't know that it changed any It didn't change
- 19:08Speaker 3: my emotions. It just made me feel It made me
- 19:09Speaker 3: feel manipulated, like I didn't get to be angry because
- 19:13Speaker 3: I wanted to be, but somehow I was told I
- 19:15Speaker 3: shouldn't be because I was giving a heads up about it.
- 19:17Speaker 1: No, No, I am going to the This is my
- 19:19Speaker 1: only part of that scenario is if you had gotten
- 19:22Speaker 1: screwed and didn't get a heads up about it and
- 19:24Speaker 1: it just been surprised that would have been more explosive
- 19:29Speaker 1: than you getting the heads up. I'm saying you getting
- 19:32Speaker 1: the heads up, your reaction should have been explosive. Just
- 19:36Speaker 1: down a little. No, it's the same if someone now
- 19:38Speaker 1: that makes it even worse. Dumbfound it if someone says
- 19:41Speaker 1: it to you acting as if you should be great. Correct.
- 19:46Speaker 3: Okay, So that was my experience at work, and it
- 19:48Speaker 3: was really actually pretty terrible. Maybe in that book we
- 19:50Speaker 3: keep talking about how well write One day, I'll write
- 19:52Speaker 3: the story. But I see that happening on Love Island. Literally,
- 19:59Speaker 3: they think that it. They tell you ahead of time
- 20:01Speaker 3: that somehow that makes you a good person and you
- 20:04Speaker 3: shouldn't be upset because I'm doing the right thing. No,
- 20:06Speaker 3: you're still screwing this. So I guess it's so fun
- 20:09Speaker 3: that I immediately went to that place again. Love Island
- 20:12Speaker 3: is amazing. There are little moments that you can relate
- 20:15Speaker 3: to in whatever part of your life.
- 20:18Speaker 2: And that landed for.
- 20:20Speaker 3: Me, and I kept I keep seeing it happen and
- 20:22Speaker 3: Bryce did that, and I was like, wow, I've been
- 20:25Speaker 3: on the receiving end of it, and it is so
- 20:27Speaker 3: awful because you don't even feel like you have the
- 20:29Speaker 3: right to be upset.
- 20:30Speaker 1: You do, You absolutely do, and I appreciate those moments
- 20:36Speaker 1: I can't remember, but you know, I love people uncomfortable,
- 20:39Speaker 1: and it's okay to call people on their bs. It's
- 20:43Speaker 1: okay to call.
- 20:45Speaker 2: When you're racially profiled at a TSA line.
- 20:47Speaker 1: I am struggling in our travels lately, man.
- 20:50Speaker 2: And you're like, Man, I'm sorry. You didn't ask anyone
- 20:53Speaker 2: else in this line except for me. Why did you
- 20:56Speaker 2: choose me?
- 20:57Speaker 1: Okay, we're having a weird travel I mean, filed more
- 21:00Speaker 1: and more now that I'm with you.
- 21:02Speaker 2: Probably true. Oh and no one thinks we're together. Everyone
- 21:05Speaker 2: always asks if we want separate checks every time.
- 21:07Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay we went sideways there, but anyway,
- 21:10Speaker 1: but I didn't Melanie and and Kinsey kind of do
- 21:14Speaker 1: this thing. Was was Melanie trying to give Kinsey a
- 21:17Speaker 1: heads up that she had grabbed her guy.
- 21:19Speaker 2: Yes, and Kenzie felt the same way she is.
- 21:23Speaker 3: This is I'm watching this play out like somehow by
- 21:26Speaker 3: giving people a courtesy, uh, like just letting you know
- 21:29Speaker 3: I'm about to screw you. It is a weird feeling
- 21:34Speaker 3: because you it's it's like an extra layer of the
- 21:37Speaker 3: triple because you don't even get to feel what you feel.
- 21:41Speaker 2: I'm telling you, it's weird. It's a strange thing.
- 21:43Speaker 3: But so I'm watching it unfold and and I'm watching
- 21:45Speaker 3: everyone react exactly the way I did when I had
- 21:49Speaker 3: someone who I thought was my friend tell me just
- 21:52Speaker 3: to heads up, I'm about to go screw you.
- 21:56Speaker 1: This show, oh Man, just needed to get warmed up,
- 22:00Speaker 1: get past those first four or fives.
- 22:01Speaker 2: It's getting so good.
- 22:03Speaker 1: Good to go now. But we'll be watching this evening's
- 22:05Speaker 1: episode as well. We always appreciate you hanging with us
- 22:09Speaker 1: from Amsterdam this time, and we'll still be able to catch.
- 22:13Speaker 2: Yes because you were smart enough to get a vp AD.
- 22:17Speaker 1: Tell everybody.
- 22:18Speaker 2: Sorry, jeez I that was a secret.
- 22:20Speaker 1: Oh I Christ Sorry, we'll talk to you also