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- 4:05Speaker 3: My name is Joey, the captain of the show. We
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- 4:11Speaker 8: We're amazing people. Welcome, Welcome, Welcome, how we doing? Was popping,
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- 4:23Speaker 1: It's the one and only candless right, Amazing Tuesday. But
- 4:28Speaker 1: to u yo, you.
- 4:34Speaker 9: Reduce your It is not about coome a free younger
- 4:38Speaker 9: the younger are your Are you guys doing?
- 4:41Speaker 6: I'm amazing? I can't complain.
- 4:44Speaker 3: Week of January? How is it so far? Yeah? Just
- 4:48Speaker 3: twenty bra like time is really rushing, super super fast.
- 4:57Speaker 3: Everybody comes skill because I'm.
- 5:06Speaker 1: It doesn't feel like a general.
- 5:11Speaker 3: So she's complaining, But yeah, I feel like really time
- 5:16Speaker 3: has gone super fast. Mostly general is kind of it
- 5:18Speaker 3: takes kind of long, drewy fark and a draggy but
- 5:22Speaker 3: I feel like this is really going to super fast. Yeah,
- 5:25Speaker 3: but money, how are you doing?
- 5:27Speaker 8: Mine has been fine. I can't complain. Excited for January,
- 5:31Speaker 8: excited for the excited for everything to a happy girl.
- 5:36Speaker 3: How are you? I'm good? Literally, it's super excited about
- 5:39Speaker 3: the Holy literally because so much into the plants and
- 5:44Speaker 3: about that, so much is the way. Literally, I'm moving
- 5:46Speaker 3: so far. So I'm really really excited and stressed about
- 5:49Speaker 3: my dog to mine. My dog is still not okay,
- 5:52Speaker 3: so hopefully fitting.
- 5:54Speaker 6: Man, is it getting better?
- 5:56Speaker 3: Yeah, we had to go Discharger today. She's just summoned
- 5:59Speaker 3: up to side because billion twenty thousand Kato album. So
- 6:04Speaker 3: we can keep on just having hard there. And the
- 6:06Speaker 3: bill is piling up, so number if possible, if not
- 6:11Speaker 3: a dady that's already like footage is going just like that.
- 6:15Speaker 3: It's crazy, but yeah, it's crazy.
- 6:18Speaker 6: But you look nice and like the bohemian things.
- 6:21Speaker 3: Thank you.
- 6:23Speaker 6: Everything.
- 6:24Speaker 3: That's what's period the carib.
- 6:27Speaker 1: The hosting.
- 6:30Speaker 3: Last day, it was the Year of the Snake, which
- 6:33Speaker 3: was a year of really much. That's the Chinese calendar. Oh, yeah,
- 6:39Speaker 3: Chinese candlender mostly like elaborates a lot that should happen,
- 6:45Speaker 3: what should happen maybe throughout the year, and what the
- 6:50Speaker 3: year looks like. So this is a year for winning
- 6:52Speaker 3: for so many people. But you have to put in
- 6:55Speaker 3: so much creativity or effort into whatever you're doing for
- 6:58Speaker 3: you to achieve, to achieve that goal and the dream
- 7:02Speaker 3: you want, this is the year actually to actualize it.
- 7:05Speaker 3: I feel like that's the explanation of everything, because last
- 7:08Speaker 3: it's about it was about opening your eyes into so
- 7:10Speaker 3: many directions, people, relationships between Like it was a year
- 7:17Speaker 3: of like making you know and have clarity so that
- 7:20Speaker 3: they stay can have better planning as you move towards success. Yeah,
- 7:24Speaker 3: I agree.
- 7:25Speaker 8: Lastly it was like shadding fast stuff yeah down a
- 7:30Speaker 8: lot of true yeah stuff.
- 7:33Speaker 6: You know.
- 7:33Speaker 8: So this year, one thing is a year that is
- 7:36Speaker 8: first speed, Like a lot of stuff are going to
- 7:39Speaker 8: happen so fast, mostly if you're working towards them, they're
- 7:42Speaker 8: going to happen like hiraka on your face, Like what
- 7:46Speaker 8: you may better stay ready literally.
- 7:49Speaker 3: And work for it. You don't just stay ready?
- 7:51Speaker 6: Yeah it square.
- 7:52Speaker 3: Come on, I want to start to the very interesting
- 7:55Speaker 3: conversation the fact that we're talking about that, and then
- 7:57Speaker 3: we look at some of the.
- 8:00Speaker 9: Follow up question onto that, right, like, let's as see
- 8:03Speaker 9: you just don't know the year of the snake or whatever,
- 8:07Speaker 9: and you just keep putting in work. Isn't this because
- 8:14Speaker 9: Mi horoscopes is a Chinese basically, right? Isn't it almost
- 8:19Speaker 9: psychological to you?
- 8:20Speaker 3: Like if this discussion before with you and you said
- 8:24Speaker 3: it's all PSYCHOLOGI yeah.
- 8:25Speaker 9: Because if you actually believe in whatever, you're almost tricking
- 8:30Speaker 9: your brain into not seeing obstacles and just seeing the
- 8:34Speaker 9: opportunities and actually believing. Like it's a jambio, you know,
- 8:38Speaker 9: because if you actually believe in something, it will happen,
- 8:43Speaker 9: and you're working towards It's almost like you're double timing
- 8:47Speaker 9: it where you believing it and you're working towards it,
- 8:49Speaker 9: so you're moving twice as fast so it will happen.
- 8:51Speaker 3: First, I feel like it's to answer you, the worst
- 8:55Speaker 3: thing would be you just again being reluctant, not doing
- 8:59Speaker 3: anything about it, and waiting for results. Because as much
- 9:02Speaker 3: as we have this predictions not my pastor, I'm not
- 9:05Speaker 3: many predictions by side.
- 9:12Speaker 9: Guy.
- 9:12Speaker 3: My dad used to take me to those pastors. Vitus
- 9:20Speaker 3: they're even to you how your future is gonna be.
- 9:22Speaker 3: Like like someone told me I'm gonna be driving at
- 9:24Speaker 3: twenty five. I'm twenty seven. I'm not seeing my car, right,
- 9:32Speaker 3: do you?
- 9:33Speaker 8: You know?
- 9:33Speaker 3: But I feel like it has to go back to
- 9:35Speaker 3: there is that, But also it's like a reaffirmation and
- 9:39Speaker 3: kind of a guidance of not really exactly what you
- 9:42Speaker 3: need to do, but being told like secular time, my shirt,
- 9:46Speaker 3: Tony noms my cub bridge and you.
- 9:50Speaker 6: Look clean breed.
- 9:52Speaker 3: I don't know if it makes sense, like just because
- 9:56Speaker 3: right now you're going through so many hardships, it doesn't
- 9:58Speaker 3: mean like I could not time exactly called last year
- 10:02Speaker 3: by the way, you know, as much as last year,
- 10:08Speaker 3: but his first million last year, very great job last year,
- 10:11Speaker 3: and that's like literally an opening path for them in
- 10:13Speaker 3: different ways. Not however, but like when when when when
- 10:16Speaker 3: when I think you just have to put in more
- 10:19Speaker 3: work again, connect with people, you know, be out there,
- 10:23Speaker 3: put yourself out exactly, put yourself out, and everything is
- 10:26Speaker 3: going to align with me the right people. Everything is
- 10:29Speaker 3: just going to be way perfect. But yeah, we have
- 10:32Speaker 3: this forty year old man who said, yeah, yes, but Patama,
- 10:36Speaker 3: his life is not perfect. So there's this bed I
- 10:38Speaker 3: showed you yesterday when we're having the rhythm scripture, showed
- 10:42Speaker 3: the glimpse of it. I got people talking men because
- 10:45Speaker 3: it's a guy who's forty years old and ali as
- 10:49Speaker 3: the hundred bob Nima. So the fact that he was
- 10:52Speaker 3: denied a hundred bob he set the parents house and place. Yeah,
- 10:56Speaker 3: so that's a forty year old man, a thought year
- 10:59Speaker 3: old man in the Douma area. That's some comchuma and
- 11:09Speaker 3: a school old man in them area of the Neary county,
- 11:13Speaker 3: which is Kenya, reportedly set his parents' house on fire
- 11:17Speaker 3: after his mother refused to give him under Kenyan shillings.
- 11:20Speaker 3: The usual incident which occurred recently as as quickly circulated
- 11:24Speaker 3: on social media and according to the local reports and
- 11:28Speaker 3: social media posts, the man became angered when his mother
- 11:32Speaker 3: declined his requests for the small sum and subsequent set
- 11:35Speaker 3: and subsequently set the family house a blazing and they
- 11:38Speaker 3: also actually is very very beautiful. Oh my god, this
- 11:40Speaker 3: is such a beautiful house and the details of the
- 11:44Speaker 3: extent The details on the extent of the damages or
- 11:48Speaker 3: whether he has been arrested, remained unclear, with early reports
- 11:53Speaker 3: primarily focusing on the shocking act of its move. Now one,
- 11:58Speaker 3: let's talk about the age. I mean, and you've been
- 12:01Speaker 3: a tom at a certain age, Manday like, I feel
- 12:04Speaker 3: like that is something that needs to be discussed on.
- 12:06Speaker 3: But at the same time, I feel like we have
- 12:09Speaker 3: to look at the circumstances. The question should go back
- 12:11Speaker 3: to why is a forty year old man's still new
- 12:14Speaker 3: broms as the working like that's one, but again we
- 12:17Speaker 3: go back to real life fat sometimes to maybe but
- 12:22Speaker 3: maybe someone was doing great then finances or things just
- 12:25Speaker 3: went the buy and she fit like and Sagaripo don't
- 12:33Speaker 3: living in a very good house then, because easily to Zote,
- 12:36Speaker 3: I'm a buy and I'm a junger. It's all Underlonechol
- 12:38Speaker 3: was zote at once. So the dad became very very
- 12:41Speaker 3: depressed to the point qubaiake and they were like nineteen
- 12:46Speaker 3: twenty and the siblings because I could not Ja moja
- 12:50Speaker 3: and the dad can provide for them, so the ones
- 12:53Speaker 3: and my Shiah. So her experience and the way she
- 12:56Speaker 3: was talking, she was like, actually it made her understand
- 12:59Speaker 3: the point start life sometimes can be good and sometimes
- 13:04Speaker 3: the direction is to like it's life you know. And
- 13:07Speaker 3: I feel like it also goes back to decision making
- 13:09Speaker 3: because coalonia twenty million not just to be a shark
- 13:14Speaker 3: within a month. What would you be risking something like that,
- 13:17Speaker 3: because it goes back to decision making. Literally, the choices
- 13:20Speaker 3: you make are gonna have a consequence. Literally, there's always
- 13:23Speaker 3: consequences of choices you make. So forty years old, what
- 13:26Speaker 3: are you doing at your fox house borrowing a hundred bob?
- 13:29Speaker 8: Personally, I feel like at a certain point, I don't know, comeless.
- 13:35Speaker 8: Maybe you can you can be as a man, Yeah,
- 13:39Speaker 8: what would the board? The problem what I feel like
- 13:42Speaker 8: happens in man maybe have sturdy it's like monomachificated Flanney,
- 13:49Speaker 8: and things are not working for him, like he's been
- 13:52Speaker 8: putting in work and stuff. Really and I and your
- 13:56Speaker 8: I'm aqu thirties and things are not happening that way
- 14:00Speaker 8: you wish to probably maybe become My plan is gonna
- 14:03Speaker 8: have a family. There's no family, there's no finances to
- 14:06Speaker 8: have that have that family, And there's no like like
- 14:09Speaker 8: we've seen men and I'm not even shaming that year
- 14:13Speaker 8: and and it's not even the society, you're you the
- 14:17Speaker 8: men who were broke level at those ages, like I
- 14:20Speaker 8: just figured out him and I'm seventeen, I'm I twenty two.
- 14:25Speaker 8: There's no difference, Lever better not taking better than I
- 14:30Speaker 8: feel like. And then he's looking at his peers. They've
- 14:34Speaker 8: started like this one has done this. So there's that
- 14:38Speaker 8: frustration that they have. So imagine a man is forty,
- 14:42Speaker 8: they work work on a pattern. He's always angered.
- 14:47Speaker 6: Issues.
- 14:47Speaker 8: Nothing is fun about it. Lever, he's a hater, hating
- 14:50Speaker 8: on even hate. I just took it to connestion. You
- 14:54Speaker 8: took that cause a person has a masiah to kill
- 14:58Speaker 8: a kid, not just this that and that that they have.
- 15:01Speaker 6: Is it true of use?
- 15:02Speaker 8: Because then and then I feel like what happened to
- 15:05Speaker 8: this guy is a lot because now you go back
- 15:10Speaker 8: to what are you doing in your parents out at forty?
- 15:13Speaker 8: If this is a thirty all the same question. So
- 15:16Speaker 8: this man, I feel like he's frustrated with life. It
- 15:19Speaker 8: was not even it's not even about the and because
- 15:22Speaker 8: minicla under would collect me so like come down, it's
- 15:25Speaker 8: not worth it, But for him it's not.
- 15:27Speaker 6: So for him is the frustrations he.
- 15:32Speaker 8: Ganniaki we Toomingasia Leo.
- 15:37Speaker 6: Not that's what I say.
- 15:39Speaker 8: I think a lot of frustration in this man, a
- 15:41Speaker 8: lot of anger, a lot of bad blood, a lot
- 15:44Speaker 8: of negativity, a lot of just bad emotions, and they
- 15:48Speaker 8: just took it out one time, Knacker, because like your parents,
- 15:53Speaker 8: there's some that you be loving one I run first.
- 16:01Speaker 8: Is the provider, he's the leader. If you can't do
- 16:04Speaker 8: this type of stuff, is that first?
- 16:07Speaker 6: Is it you?
- 16:09Speaker 9: It's true, it's very true. But as well, his actions
- 16:15Speaker 9: kind of show me why he's where he is. Like,
- 16:22Speaker 9: like we were saying, before we go to the story, wealth,
- 16:26Speaker 9: creation starts mentally before you see it physical, and his
- 16:33Speaker 9: mental development is so far back that.
- 16:40Speaker 1: He resorted to.
- 16:43Speaker 9: Burning down an asset okay, because he didn't get something
- 16:50Speaker 9: very minute. That tells you the mentality of that particular
- 16:55Speaker 9: human being in the most in the best way possible. Like,
- 17:01Speaker 9: if you are the type of a person who will
- 17:05Speaker 9: go burn down a house, you are not the type
- 17:09Speaker 9: of person.
- 17:10Speaker 1: To build a house literally because.
- 17:14Speaker 9: Because again he doesn't understand what it costs to build
- 17:19Speaker 9: a house. Okay, oh yeah, because his his mentality is.
- 17:31Speaker 1: Poverty. He's not broke.
- 17:33Speaker 9: He's poor here, okay yeah, and physically so he's no.
- 17:41Speaker 9: That is called being broke like being poor. Being poor
- 17:44Speaker 9: is it's a very different thing. It's like you are
- 17:50Speaker 9: chamba moja out of your emotion when you're poor mentally,
- 17:55Speaker 9: and when you're poor, yeah, outer you are, you know
- 17:58Speaker 9: and themoja Yeah you get so Yeah, Like I understand
- 18:08Speaker 9: the aspect of him being frustrated and that mentality of
- 18:12Speaker 9: men and wanting to be providers. But yeah, but you
- 18:16Speaker 9: see the mentality being showcased here says a lot about
- 18:21Speaker 9: the person and why they're at home at that age,
- 18:26Speaker 9: that person, and that is a failure on his parents.
- 18:30Speaker 3: As well, the way they raised him as Yeah, and.
- 18:34Speaker 1: And also the way sometimes was azi.
- 18:40Speaker 9: Our Lavy went to give autonomi you get because you
- 18:46Speaker 9: need your child to go outside and make mistakes. You
- 18:49Speaker 9: don't need to control everything about them so that they
- 18:52Speaker 9: never make mistakes. Okay, you need to also instill.
- 18:57Speaker 1: The value of self and of because you can.
- 19:06Speaker 9: You can basically see he doesn't understand why or why
- 19:10Speaker 9: he needs to be outside of his parents'.
- 19:12Speaker 1: House at food. That says a lot.
- 19:17Speaker 9: He was never taught how to build wealth, to build himself,
- 19:20Speaker 9: how to step out and take risks.
- 19:23Speaker 1: He's basically being caddled.
- 19:25Speaker 9: That's why he felt entitled to one hundred chillings and
- 19:28Speaker 9: why he lashed out.
- 19:30Speaker 1: This is basically the adult version of and took upalagin and.
- 19:42Speaker 3: This more attention.
- 19:48Speaker 1: This is that but adult version of it.
- 19:52Speaker 3: This is crazy because the first comment actually says, you know, Bioculia,
- 19:55Speaker 3: I'm talking on my eye because literally I don't know it.
- 20:00Speaker 3: My dad my dad, to be specific, the last time
- 20:03Speaker 3: in at Home twenty four October, Brango on your core
- 20:08Speaker 3: class five four already knows how to help my dad
- 20:12Speaker 3: go through ward job, Nicola, like hold on, like miminikings
- 20:16Speaker 3: were quite based. I was in high school. My sister too,
- 20:19Speaker 3: I mean were after high school actually because me you
- 20:22Speaker 3: are high school and then high school.
- 20:27Speaker 9: He's created a businessman. He's used the Indian formula Class five,
- 20:35Speaker 9: jog class.
- 20:35Speaker 3: From four, then lower class seven like drum at a
- 20:40Speaker 3: job through by this agency stem Gobado as a land sheet.
- 20:45Speaker 3: He's a quite businesssha. So so looking at it now, Nicole,
- 20:50Speaker 3: I understand what's happening there, literally because you won't be
- 20:54Speaker 3: here to raise them as a man. Literally, he won't
- 20:57Speaker 3: be here to teach them. Here doesn't take Come on now,
- 20:59Speaker 3: by the way, economia and so many lessons that come with.
- 21:03Speaker 6: It because.
- 21:06Speaker 3: The consequences, especially exactly I'm on member LESSA. You give
- 21:10Speaker 3: them just everything they want. This will be the results.
- 21:13Speaker 3: They'll keep on coming back because when you're there and
- 21:16Speaker 3: you will always provide. Well, it should actually be the
- 21:19Speaker 3: vice versa.
- 21:20Speaker 1: You know, actually no, it shouldn't be like that, but
- 21:24Speaker 1: you should want.
- 21:25Speaker 3: To at least like, but want to make your parents
- 21:28Speaker 3: proud or make yourself proud.
- 21:29Speaker 1: Yeah, but not to give them money.
- 21:31Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm not talking about but you.
- 21:33Speaker 9: See in this case, when you when you have what
- 21:40Speaker 9: we're discussing literally is autonomy. What he's done over that
- 21:45Speaker 9: period when they're that young, they're malleable. So and once
- 21:51Speaker 9: they understand the value of providing for self, they will
- 21:56Speaker 9: basically like start winning at life immediately.
- 21:59Speaker 1: Because you need to teach the concept of earning money or.
- 22:06Speaker 9: Rewards or favors to your kids as early as possible,
- 22:09Speaker 9: and that is best done with chores, right, Like, let's
- 22:13Speaker 9: assume total attack when they're swimming, right, you tell them
- 22:17Speaker 9: if you do this, I'm a.
- 22:22Speaker 1: Person. You want credit, do this for me? I will
- 22:28Speaker 1: like it's it's you earned it.
- 22:30Speaker 6: It's not a favor value for money.
- 22:33Speaker 1: Hey, it's not you're not doing me a favor. We
- 22:35Speaker 1: are transacting.
- 22:37Speaker 9: So and when you teach kids from that point of view,
- 22:42Speaker 9: or you teach kids how to uh go ahead and
- 22:47Speaker 9: want to earn it, not need okay, like proposala, Like.
- 22:56Speaker 1: So I wanted this, and this is what I'm offering
- 22:59Speaker 1: to do so that you give me this.
- 23:03Speaker 9: That is negotiations, you see. So that is a person
- 23:06Speaker 9: who's outlook on life. Every moment in their life, they're
- 23:10Speaker 9: always looking to earn something, to be something, to.
- 23:14Speaker 1: Want to be more, to show what they can do, like.
- 23:19Speaker 9: Total person like nataka Chica, Nataka Chica, you're creating this exactly.
- 23:25Speaker 9: So like let's teach the kids like how to like
- 23:29Speaker 9: earn for themselves from an early age. That's why you
- 23:32Speaker 9: see countries come Ama jew like us kids in high
- 23:37Speaker 9: school have jobs, you get. It's it's teaching you a
- 23:41Speaker 9: concept of how the world works from a very early age,
- 23:45Speaker 9: so you value.
- 23:46Speaker 1: Certain things you get.
- 23:48Speaker 9: And yomana unapata, they create wealth at a very young age.
- 23:52Speaker 9: Like look at ishow Speed right that he's twenty and
- 23:57Speaker 9: I bet his network will drive some Kenyan crazy if
- 24:01Speaker 9: they had that type of money. But yeah, yeah, and
- 24:04Speaker 9: navar t shirt FKF and shorts are like two bugs.
- 24:13Speaker 1: Actually true, but we have this type of a man.
- 24:19Speaker 3: And then I'm going to share a very touchy video
- 24:22Speaker 3: I was listening to over the weekend of a mom
- 24:25Speaker 3: who was explaining how his son, when I called thirty
- 24:28Speaker 3: years plus, how he killed himself, Like how literally this
- 24:31Speaker 3: guy sunk into depression and every day Because there's also
- 24:35Speaker 3: cause you have to look at this, That's what I'm saying,
- 24:36Speaker 3: like forty year old man being at home, like the
- 24:40Speaker 3: two sides of the coin, Like this person literally just
- 24:44Speaker 3: a lazy person, doesn't want to do anything Zazzi or
- 24:49Speaker 3: the people around him, and doesn't want to help himself.
- 24:52Speaker 3: Or is it someone or is it someone who lost
- 24:55Speaker 3: like literally everything they had and now they have to
- 24:57Speaker 3: start from scratch and they still have that frustration. But
- 25:01Speaker 3: it is not the way to actually like rec react
- 25:03Speaker 3: towards it. Because if you look, if you listen to
- 25:05Speaker 3: now historial Mama when you Janaka lose job, and the
- 25:09Speaker 3: words they kept saying is I'm okay, you like poor.
- 25:13Speaker 3: And We've talked about this a couple of times where
- 25:15Speaker 3: men have been raised also to not like talk about
- 25:19Speaker 3: their problems or act like a man, you know, a
- 25:21Speaker 3: bit tough, you know, like tough enough what you've been
- 25:24Speaker 3: weak for. But sometimes a life life life as like
- 25:28Speaker 3: a could tonger. My friend, yeah life and as a
- 25:31Speaker 3: could tonga. I always feel like people are always super
- 25:33Speaker 3: judgmental in so many cases, especially of because I feel
- 25:38Speaker 3: like before you judge someone financially come, especially if they
- 25:42Speaker 3: had their ship together or trying to have their shit together,
- 25:46Speaker 3: you'd laugh because you've never been in that position. Like
- 25:49Speaker 3: That's why it's so easy for you to like make
- 25:51Speaker 3: a mak out of someone thinking they're not even trying.
- 25:54Speaker 3: But if you shake away position like where you've lost
- 25:57Speaker 3: everything because me, I think you've talked about loans. My
- 26:01Speaker 3: dad meet too, and I'm alone. Like I saw everything
- 26:04Speaker 3: being sold, like everything that was worthy of a couple,
- 26:08Speaker 3: like hem too, like everything being sold. We start for
- 26:11Speaker 3: plastic chairs for almost four years, literally not gonna like
- 26:15Speaker 3: you ever done in table but chairs. Andy is a
- 26:17Speaker 3: plastic and cheers our gaming but coja. So it was
- 26:21Speaker 3: really really it was really really crazy. But listened to
- 26:24Speaker 3: this mom.
- 26:25Speaker 10: Zito, you wanted them to video Mama a pity a
- 26:31Speaker 10: mamboma Zito. You wanted them to Togo suicide.
- 26:37Speaker 11: Of family bank.
- 26:39Speaker 10: Nakasonbuliverna canyam beer anarchakzi n come be the resart and
- 26:44Speaker 10: mimici se n human behind a cosy.
- 26:48Speaker 11: I can be a mammy. I cannot do that now.
- 26:51Speaker 11: Tog cousin and water a cousin in twenty nineteen. I'm
- 26:55Speaker 11: at a dog Natassa twenty twenty.
- 27:00Speaker 10: COVID nineteen to to ago lockdown Always could you your
- 27:04Speaker 10: money work on my Robbie, Sasa kazini to natuma, takula
- 27:08Speaker 10: to napata a khans are quaki when you're bid a bit,
- 27:12Speaker 10: especially one not men harkutaka, he talk put you rumia
- 27:17Speaker 10: a kind of a kansa.
- 27:18Speaker 11: Kusavi tungu gigurai from a banker to the.
- 27:25Speaker 10: Fontanel be a sharer ikaimana kushika. Can't look up all
- 27:30Speaker 10: the polic a frisika to toroango and nandla kusama into depression,
- 27:36Speaker 10: la kidney to waking, get into depression. Sababata kasi hakuna,
- 27:41Speaker 10: sabatan a lever a kata kazi kazimir a kazimir twenty
- 27:46Speaker 10: twenty twenty twenty one Ali ku ya Koopatakazi twenty twenty
- 27:51Speaker 10: two January tear on him, Gonzoa. You came too longer
- 27:55Speaker 10: than even Mam mam. But cats sour mam, go sour mamboy.
- 28:00Speaker 10: That was sours man in a quand je kitten. I'm
- 28:03Speaker 10: gonna guanga strong Sanna.
- 28:05Speaker 9: We are done.
- 28:05Speaker 10: I'm going to my jab her plenty put dillergether come
- 28:09Speaker 10: and governor coffee and Danny and the caqu he are
- 28:12Speaker 10: cozy for five months and I'm Godna realisted and I'm
- 28:17Speaker 10: god the lip A person in colatter is a person
- 28:20Speaker 10: nical lear Nikauziona come attack attacker. I'm gonna come Cazi
- 28:25Speaker 10: moder manday and you comegere to compick a story. I
- 28:27Speaker 10: can depend on my men, tend and tender, not a
- 28:31Speaker 10: coupia transfera the ma.
- 28:32Speaker 11: Lindi Nominambili marine. You go on in Banistan and comiss
- 28:36Speaker 11: lacking in can ever to Torona.
- 28:37Speaker 6: Laking in Ma mam.
- 28:39Speaker 11: But it was sour in fact in a person. And
- 28:42Speaker 11: I'm going talking.
- 28:43Speaker 10: You're a person, ok cares in Berni. I mean I'm
- 28:47Speaker 10: gonna be a pan bandy depang and a familion.
- 28:50Speaker 6: The pan and was a torture. She loved me.
- 28:53Speaker 11: He loved me so much.
- 28:55Speaker 10: In fact, ann and your cousin and Mba Harkuna the
- 28:59Speaker 10: kicka in a pit, bill A Dankuta mamayake like king
- 29:04Speaker 10: in to toango kumbet and praise. The story resulted, Kumba Bado,
- 29:08Speaker 10: he is sinking into depression and he only come big
- 29:12Speaker 10: compen as.
- 29:14Speaker 11: Morning, Nangia, what's up? Man angle are you?
- 29:17Speaker 10: Nica pig of his Misico and Manda who called Bibia
- 29:20Speaker 10: kill because when I rob you Ma Ma macaki a
- 29:24Speaker 10: ki to kuess could be a town Nikaya Gary kuk
- 29:29Speaker 10: a baby Nika and a Gary cood talker Caratinu and
- 29:32Speaker 10: an I robbin my Samer and I robin talk and
- 29:34Speaker 10: Nain and Kanda is south b Meman and Ayanda. To
- 29:39Speaker 10: cut that long story short stack with younger sona come
- 29:41Speaker 10: turned down, Nika, Kuta tatang and.
- 29:46Speaker 11: The man bath pigana A showers.
- 29:50Speaker 10: As chic and Li put chik onek apple Nangalia you
- 29:56Speaker 10: heaving and he is dead. Kangali opened by the on
- 30:00Speaker 10: a sink the above sink churn collapse. I did understand
- 30:09Speaker 10: where I was where my son when my son was dying.
- 30:12Speaker 10: I did understand where God was when my son was dying.
- 30:17Speaker 10: I didn't understand where the Guardian angels and Namara where
- 30:21Speaker 10: they were.
- 30:22Speaker 1: When my son was dying.
- 30:24Speaker 10: At that one year boy, oh year old boy America
- 30:28Speaker 10: willing and he's dead.
- 30:33Speaker 11: Come to Toco Mumbo many son, I are a young gier.
- 30:38Speaker 10: Depression to our priority number one now not eurodiac a
- 30:45Speaker 10: way away now while I water to Mesica wakata kujau somewhere.
- 30:49Speaker 11: How to came a liqua nanny?
- 30:51Speaker 10: How to president to mesica ya siddikum bangy samba mother hapatkunaniku?
- 31:00Speaker 11: What turtle? I'm okay, I'm our turtle. Mom had something
- 31:06Speaker 11: only I am.
- 31:11Speaker 12: Yeah.
- 31:12Speaker 3: So literally I've very touched this one literally touched my heart.
- 31:14Speaker 3: The fact that that's a mother telling the story. You
- 31:17Speaker 3: can imagine the carriage she had to take to give
- 31:20Speaker 3: the story number one, and how that situation like as
- 31:25Speaker 3: a parent, led that to question how many youths like
- 31:32Speaker 3: my child are depressed, because depression is something that people
- 31:35Speaker 3: don't talk about. Literally, it's something that people everyone is
- 31:39Speaker 3: just assuming everyone is okay, like even me today. I
- 31:41Speaker 3: could come into the office and everyone I personally, I
- 31:44Speaker 3: was depressed. No one knew I was depressed, like for real,
- 31:47Speaker 3: for real, when I was depressed, No one knew I
- 31:48Speaker 3: was depressed until I tried to take my own life
- 31:51Speaker 3: literally and that's when people like the people around me,
- 31:55Speaker 3: you're not even my own folks because my mom, my stepmom,
- 31:58Speaker 3: because she told me, she told me they are connected
- 32:01Speaker 3: to get I can get to Stuard no nah, And
- 32:04Speaker 3: that really touched me, like literally also hit me hard, Nicola,
- 32:06Speaker 3: like goddamn, Like these people don't give a shit about
- 32:09Speaker 3: me the way I thought they really give a shit
- 32:11Speaker 3: about me, and I was not actually doing it. Also
- 32:13Speaker 3: to like because I'm not talking not too if I
- 32:15Speaker 3: but attention from the parents. Think so that's those kinds
- 32:18Speaker 3: of people, like attentions seek us from the parents. They
- 32:21Speaker 3: think if I do something harmful to myself, that's the
- 32:24Speaker 3: only way I can be given attention.
- 32:25Speaker 2: But not for me.
- 32:26Speaker 3: I really needed, like I need an attention for emotional
- 32:29Speaker 3: support because that was the time I'd lost my mom.
- 32:32Speaker 3: So like no one is there now is understanding know
- 32:35Speaker 3: trying to talk to people, no one is listening. He
- 32:37Speaker 3: is the always complaining? Is you always always nah? You
- 32:41Speaker 3: can be sitting with someone and they're not really going
- 32:43Speaker 3: through something nice. So be kind to people when you can,
- 32:48Speaker 3: you know, be nice to people when you can. But
- 32:50Speaker 3: in this kind of situation, if you look at the
- 32:51Speaker 3: bold situation, literally, this is what you say, look at
- 32:54Speaker 3: the two sides of a coin, because you're talking about
- 32:56Speaker 3: a forty old man who we don't know if he
- 32:58Speaker 3: lost his job too, and that's the reason why he
- 33:02Speaker 3: ended up literally burning his parents house because of not
- 33:04Speaker 3: getting a hundred bob can and shillings. But there's also
- 33:07Speaker 3: that one year old man of someone who lost literally
- 33:10Speaker 3: his job from being a banker to being an onion seller.
- 33:13Speaker 3: And you can see little you have a child, literally
- 33:17Speaker 3: the depression that that comes with, and the child is
- 33:19Speaker 3: so needy, The children are so needy. Anything can happen anytime,
- 33:26Speaker 3: and you don't have the right amount.
- 33:27Speaker 9: If nothing as bad as being a man and having
- 33:31Speaker 9: kids and you cannot provide for them and they're just
- 33:34Speaker 9: looking at you.
- 33:35Speaker 1: And now that that kills That kills a lot of
- 33:44Speaker 1: parents inside.
- 33:47Speaker 3: I feel like, mostly because I say I was on
- 33:49Speaker 3: the comments section, someone says for firstborn mostly firstborn children
- 33:53Speaker 3: go through a lot like because especially if you're considered
- 33:58Speaker 3: to be the bread winner of your family sablings and
- 34:03Speaker 3: maybe your father figure is not there and you're only
- 34:05Speaker 3: being raised by a mom. Like that takes a lot
- 34:08Speaker 3: on a first bone, like you have to provide like
- 34:10Speaker 3: for me, Like it takes a lot from me to
- 34:14Speaker 3: just provide for my brother. I'm not even gonna cat
- 34:16Speaker 3: like put your school fash. I deny myself a lot,
- 34:20Speaker 3: a lot for me to be able to ensure that
- 34:22Speaker 3: he's comfortable and is not being kicked out of school.
- 34:25Speaker 3: So I feel like it really it goes back to
- 34:27Speaker 3: first bone, first bond should literally be like respect to
- 34:30Speaker 3: all the first bones man's day, especially in Africa to
- 34:33Speaker 3: be specific Africa. But yeah, that is a conversation. You
- 34:37Speaker 3: guys have anything to add on that. Maybe I think
- 34:40Speaker 3: about depression about yeah, because literally this is two sides
- 34:45Speaker 3: of the coin. There's someone who's maybe idle, someone who
- 34:48Speaker 3: lost everything and they had to end up in that situation.
- 34:51Speaker 6: Yeah, depression, Depression exists. People go through shit over much.
- 34:56Speaker 6: People saying it's entirely you for reach people people find.
- 35:13Speaker 8: That do but look at it from it exists like people,
- 35:21Speaker 8: And that's what I was saying. When when that is
- 35:23Speaker 8: what I was saying for the first guy I started by,
- 35:26Speaker 8: this is a frustrated person. I will never know where
- 35:30Speaker 8: he was going through burning that place it might have been,
- 35:33Speaker 8: But there's also the other side.
- 35:34Speaker 6: It might have been frustrated with life. You don't know
- 35:36Speaker 6: what I have it people.
- 35:38Speaker 8: You might be looking at people and it's always like
- 35:40Speaker 8: theopole were very happy. I feel like people trying to
- 35:44Speaker 8: hide their depression. They're happy the loud. They're doing some
- 35:50Speaker 8: stuff just to get away from you realize that they're depressed.
- 35:55Speaker 6: They seek something else.
- 35:56Speaker 8: But if you know that person well, if you know
- 35:59Speaker 8: your person well Chiaco, your mother, your sister, you know
- 36:02Speaker 8: there is something off with this person.
- 36:04Speaker 6: And that's why it takes.
- 36:06Speaker 8: Only people who know you literally could you are like
- 36:09Speaker 8: that's because like I'll come here, Nico pomberform umbe whom say,
- 36:20Speaker 8: and I'm really and if you know, you'll be like
- 36:24Speaker 8: that's off. They'll they'll start be doing stuff that are
- 36:28Speaker 8: weird to you who knows them. So so like when
- 36:31Speaker 8: stuff like that happened, be king on your people, check
- 36:36Speaker 8: people out, like history of cosumity just because somebody is
- 36:39Speaker 8: posting on their socials.
- 36:40Speaker 6: The okay take.
- 36:42Speaker 8: Time to call people find out how their text message
- 36:45Speaker 8: just a comfort message, just telling somebody you see them.
- 36:48Speaker 8: I've ever tried this before. I think it was last
- 36:51Speaker 8: we were talking about it on the Vibe show and
- 36:53Speaker 8: they're talking about men and how men face life and
- 36:57Speaker 8: how they're certain air men are pressuring them. So I
- 37:01Speaker 8: was like, okay, let me do this stuff. Let me
- 37:03Speaker 8: let me study this. So I took a text and
- 37:06Speaker 8: I just told like, all men in my contact, I
- 37:08Speaker 8: see you. You're doing amazing.
- 37:10Speaker 6: Keep going.
- 37:13Speaker 8: And the reactions and it's not like I talk to them.
- 37:15Speaker 8: Some of my friends, some even like a quaintances and stuff.
- 37:18Speaker 6: I have their numbers. Oh my god.
- 37:21Speaker 8: The reaction who are said this is gonna push me
- 37:24Speaker 8: through the whole year have not received such message in
- 37:26Speaker 8: a very long time. Like they're saying stuff. You're like,
- 37:30Speaker 8: it is really true. Nobody actually concentrates more on the
- 37:34Speaker 8: boy child. I was even saying it in the morning
- 37:37Speaker 8: for us women, because there's a guy who has been banned.
- 37:39Speaker 8: I don't know if you guys saw it, the bacle
- 37:42Speaker 8: charm and imagine they haven't said why, but he's banned,
- 37:47Speaker 8: like literally amazing, Yeah, he's alive. Cospitally the government in
- 37:52Speaker 8: a statement, do what and whatever you know? And I
- 37:56Speaker 8: was talking about how women get away with a lot
- 38:00Speaker 8: of stuff in the society and on the comments women
- 38:04Speaker 8: on the comments, men were saying, if it were women,
- 38:07Speaker 8: they will be having purples. Do work on there, And
- 38:09Speaker 8: I was thinking about, yeah, it's not first and foremost, it's.
- 38:14Speaker 6: Not about gender fight. It is wrong. First, let's take it.
- 38:20Speaker 6: It is first wrong.
- 38:21Speaker 8: It's nothing to do with gender because if I see
- 38:24Speaker 8: jo be your heart, and I come to my status
- 38:26Speaker 8: as a woman and the blood enough to put a
- 38:28Speaker 8: purple whatever side on my status, it's not supposed to
- 38:33Speaker 8: be a problem to a man. So it has nothing
- 38:35Speaker 8: to do with mellow women. It is bad that it
- 38:37Speaker 8: is on a man orther it is in a woman.
- 38:40Speaker 8: But I was thinking about how women ran and how
- 38:43Speaker 8: women escaped through a lot of stuff when it comes
- 38:45Speaker 8: to you know, the society and what men go through,
- 38:49Speaker 8: and men are not even talking about it. Because I
- 38:51Speaker 8: was on tiktoking today, my TikTok was late. I had
- 38:54Speaker 8: like almost fifteen people continuously what comments.
- 38:58Speaker 6: Then look on jok. I'm being because when I was
- 39:01Speaker 6: doing music, one had become a comments.
- 39:04Speaker 1: The vibing.
- 39:05Speaker 8: So when it came to conversation, the calm so I'm like,
- 39:08Speaker 8: I want to hear what are your perspectives. I wouln't
- 39:11Speaker 8: give an that was like you say, even on my
- 39:13Speaker 8: comments on TikTok nane is giving a point about the
- 39:17Speaker 8: conversation I'm having. And then they started saying just so
- 39:21Speaker 8: we had stuff as the jokes that Pakitanda was in Delilea.
- 39:27Speaker 8: But that is very sad. That is the best I had.
- 39:30Speaker 6: That is very sad. Nobody would actually come in.
- 39:32Speaker 8: But if it was a woman, my con wok on
- 39:35Speaker 8: work on, walk on, go back and back, people joining
- 39:37Speaker 8: live and people talking about it.
- 39:39Speaker 6: So it's good to actually, you know, have to talk
- 39:42Speaker 6: like it's okay. I understand that. That's what I was saying.
- 39:45Speaker 6: Women were allowed. Neither came less.
- 39:50Speaker 1: It's not reward for advocating for men, but.
- 39:54Speaker 8: There's also not a word for advocating for me, for
- 39:56Speaker 8: me advocating for myself.
- 39:59Speaker 9: And I mean, see monitor like you will not increase
- 40:04Speaker 9: your social standings whatsoever or reputation when you advocate for
- 40:10Speaker 9: men because monom sort that's the mentality.
- 40:14Speaker 6: That's what I was talking about.
- 40:15Speaker 1: Yeah, but when you are advocating for women.
- 40:22Speaker 9: Who has ever heard what's the opposite of a feministist?
- 40:32Speaker 1: Not the opposite, but.
- 40:35Speaker 9: But you hear men say when they're asked to describe
- 40:39Speaker 9: themselves that runs up a feminist and you're like, what
- 40:42Speaker 9: do you mean? Though I'm not saying like it's wrong,
- 40:46Speaker 9: but it's like supporting women's causes, has.
- 40:51Speaker 1: A brand, has reward has Yeah, I am not, it's
- 41:01Speaker 1: not about I feel like.
- 41:02Speaker 3: It goes back to again, the same thing.
- 41:05Speaker 1: I'm just saying.
- 41:06Speaker 3: Men being raised to be strong, don't talk about your situation.
- 41:09Speaker 3: How dare you as a manchial weakness?
- 41:12Speaker 8: You know?
- 41:12Speaker 11: How dare you?
- 41:13Speaker 3: Because especially there is that how dare you as a
- 41:15Speaker 3: manchial weakness you're supposed to be standing from? Fight for this?
- 41:19Speaker 6: Fight, fight for it?
- 41:21Speaker 3: You know you got it? Or what about me being human?
- 41:24Speaker 3: You know, apart from me being a man, like can
- 41:26Speaker 3: you apply that? You know, I'm not just a man,
- 41:28Speaker 3: but I'm also human? The same way about you from
- 41:31Speaker 3: being a woman, you're human? Literally, where does humanity now
- 41:36Speaker 3: get to have boundaries? Let's let's talk about that. Literally,
- 41:39Speaker 3: where does humanity now get to have boundaries without actually
- 41:43Speaker 3: putting the genders? Literally? Because all genders are human.
- 41:46Speaker 1: Let's talk about yeah, Like, can you talk about.
- 41:49Speaker 3: People being people literally and just looking at people as
- 41:53Speaker 3: people and stop questioning people like based on their gender
- 41:57Speaker 3: or you're a man, you're supposed to push yourself harder.
- 42:00Speaker 3: I can fail to as a man, I can fail
- 42:01Speaker 3: to as a woman. You know, this is life and
- 42:04Speaker 3: you again, it's the same thing like I was saying
- 42:07Speaker 3: today on my show, like none is perfect, so you
- 42:10Speaker 3: have to in this life. The first thing when I
- 42:13Speaker 3: questioned religion is on our Coca Kila time, Coca Pubert
- 42:19Speaker 3: will come by, like my Pubert. I want to do
- 42:24Speaker 3: like just some crazy crazy stuff and just be around boys.
- 42:27Speaker 3: So are you telling me I can't be around boys?
- 42:29Speaker 6: It's wrong.
- 42:30Speaker 3: I wanna be around those boys. Let me be around
- 42:31Speaker 3: those boys. It go us wrong with being with around boys.
- 42:35Speaker 3: Not on your cock exactly. Let me find my path
- 42:38Speaker 3: after I've found my mistake. Literally, I've done my mistake
- 42:41Speaker 3: and I've learned from it. But straightforward every time. Nah,
- 42:46Speaker 3: that's not how life literally applies. It's super crazy, but
- 42:49Speaker 3: literally talking about still children, we have a barria saying
- 42:53Speaker 3: something which is quite a discussion, and then you're gonna
- 42:56Speaker 3: wind up with all of the videos that was trending.
- 42:59Speaker 3: Our my family made it to the TV. Congratulations, But
- 43:04Speaker 3: I have something to question. May I have like some questions?
- 43:08Speaker 3: I have some questions on what is happening on there?
- 43:11Speaker 3: Literally not repay to my cousin, but how did the
- 43:15Speaker 3: names change? But we have a brat talking about how
- 43:20Speaker 3: and which is a question? Woman to woman? Do you
- 43:22Speaker 3: feel for you as money? Would you give bath? Let's
- 43:27Speaker 3: say today, if I'm someone you're interested in, you settle
- 43:29Speaker 3: then a few years you guys have a child, but
- 43:32Speaker 3: it's not put a ring on your finger? Are you
- 43:33Speaker 3: okay with that?
- 43:35Speaker 6: An ultimatum? Yeah, she gave an ultimatum.
- 43:39Speaker 8: Yeah no, I definitely wouldn't give an ultimatum to a man. Literally,
- 43:46Speaker 8: I definitely say it as when you get to a relationship,
- 43:51Speaker 8: it's like a commitment because like for me, how I
- 43:54Speaker 8: view it like ring or no ring pictures signs so
- 43:58Speaker 8: cause like some people not to because like if you
- 44:02Speaker 8: what is gonna make a difference? Joby to massigned document
- 44:06Speaker 8: not just sign if you're still That's how I see it,
- 44:10Speaker 8: Like what is really gonna make a big difference? Now
- 44:13Speaker 8: the difference might only come if the person is dead,
- 44:15Speaker 8: then you have kids. That's why I'm not giving back
- 44:18Speaker 8: without Harry. That is just me personally, and it's okay
- 44:23Speaker 8: for somebody to feel some type of way about my
- 44:25Speaker 8: thoughts about it. Okay, we we will like and and
- 44:29Speaker 8: there was some saying that is if something happens. I've
- 44:32Speaker 8: seen family members coming for you.
- 44:35Speaker 6: Guys.
- 44:36Speaker 8: Sometimes you've built with this man who build Nair Empire
- 44:41Speaker 8: and stuff. He didn't marry you officially put a ring
- 44:44Speaker 8: on you and stuff. They will come and and if
- 44:47Speaker 8: they're able enough, they will take everything. And I feel
- 44:49Speaker 8: like that's wide people decide. If they're doing a family,
- 44:52Speaker 8: then it trayther be like really official. But literally, I
- 44:59Speaker 8: don't feel like if I am still come with your
- 45:02Speaker 8: feel okay to want to marry me, I'm not supposed
- 45:04Speaker 8: to push it. I'm not supposed to give a man
- 45:06Speaker 8: because now Nico women, Meji propose here n.
- 45:12Speaker 6: And women funny things. Some of them pay their hour man.
- 45:17Speaker 6: It's crazy. They give the man the money.
- 45:19Speaker 3: That's crazy.
- 45:20Speaker 6: Yeah, just in the name of I want a family
- 45:22Speaker 6: and stuff.
- 45:24Speaker 9: What if I'm going love not but in that moment,
- 45:31Speaker 9: like she has more money than you, so and she
- 45:33Speaker 9: understands her family. No, I'm not so. Like, since you're
- 45:39Speaker 9: going to do this and we've already planned asac party
- 45:43Speaker 9: pers we get this over with the party security at
- 45:47Speaker 9: a me you get because at the end of the day,
- 45:52Speaker 9: ask yourself this what's more important to you? You get,
- 45:57Speaker 9: like what's more important to you?
- 45:59Speaker 3: Like the are you trying to build your life?
- 46:01Speaker 2: Yea.
- 46:02Speaker 9: And it's always good when you have like the approval.
- 46:09Speaker 9: And it's also good to protect how your family sees
- 46:13Speaker 9: your man. Okay, it is so so important to do that.
- 46:18Speaker 9: And it is also important for the man to protect
- 46:20Speaker 9: how his family is his his wife. That's why you
- 46:23Speaker 9: should didn't ever ever go discussing your wife's shortcomings with
- 46:30Speaker 9: your family members. Never actually, and your.
- 46:34Speaker 6: Husband, don't tell him about.
- 46:35Speaker 1: Your family, No, you can. You see, that's.
- 46:38Speaker 6: Personal stuff, really deep.
- 46:41Speaker 8: Like.
- 46:43Speaker 9: It's about you two versus everybody. Okay, that's just it,
- 46:51Speaker 9: like you too versus everybody. If that's not it, you
- 46:55Speaker 9: are losing because yeah, I will tell you about my
- 46:59Speaker 9: family stuff. You know why because I'd rather you know,
- 47:02Speaker 9: so that you can defend me when when they they
- 47:05Speaker 9: start family Yay, it is now us even versus our families. Sir,
- 47:10Speaker 9: because like we are now building our past exactly, so
- 47:14Speaker 9: like you need a partner to stand on that mountain
- 47:16Speaker 9: with you, and whoop everybody that tries to come after
- 47:20Speaker 9: YouTube you get and just cause I ARTI Patia Banaco
- 47:27Speaker 9: like two hundred thousand Canda party, Biaco sar and the
- 47:33Speaker 9: Biaco probably and I'm a million or ten million sa.
- 47:38Speaker 9: It is you protecting the image of your man the
- 47:43Speaker 9: same way he'd protect your image when it comes to it. Right,
- 47:48Speaker 9: So like cool cool Mahari is in my opinion, a
- 47:58Speaker 9: remnant of a bygone error.
- 48:01Speaker 3: Personally, that's a mang.
- 48:02Speaker 6: I have nothing to do.
- 48:03Speaker 9: You'd rather you'd rather your daughter Mary is a good
- 48:07Speaker 9: man than a man that can pay her dowry.
- 48:11Speaker 3: Now I have, personally, I have as a manger the
- 48:15Speaker 3: person who is gonna marry me. And which is a
- 48:18Speaker 3: decision I think I made very cay tambo event. I
- 48:21Speaker 3: think still in my eight my teens, especially after I
- 48:24Speaker 3: lost my mom and after I saw the experiences my
- 48:28Speaker 3: mom head with her marriages. Like personally tacky, I talk
- 48:34Speaker 3: like this is my husband factor, this is my life
- 48:38Speaker 3: for about that, this is my life. This is how
- 48:41Speaker 3: I choose to leave it and respectfully also it has
- 48:45Speaker 3: to I feel like the man has to understand that.
- 48:47Speaker 3: This is why I go back to telling you my
- 48:49Speaker 3: personal stuff, my personal story, my past events, the past
- 48:52Speaker 3: events I have with my family. And if you're not
- 48:55Speaker 3: comfortable with that, per whether it can usually work for me,
- 48:58Speaker 3: Like Shaki, I'm not calling my parents, I'm not calling
- 49:01Speaker 3: with them, and you're not gonna see them, are you?
- 49:03Speaker 6: Okal with that?
- 49:04Speaker 3: I can go see you as but you're not gonna
- 49:06Speaker 3: see my fox. I assume they're not there. They're dead
- 49:10Speaker 3: like evil to I only say that, assume I don't
- 49:13Speaker 3: give a fuck if Mosame Baki like, OK, it's me
- 49:17Speaker 3: against me the only person who sees me.
- 49:20Speaker 6: So your dough. Instead of you.
- 49:23Speaker 3: Taking this money to do where put up a business.
- 49:27Speaker 6: Let's do something.
- 49:30Speaker 3: Come a tattoo, buying numbers and the lecuza, maybe buy
- 49:33Speaker 3: a chamber, you know, like the leuisana one of the.
- 49:37Speaker 9: Most underrated forms of investment needs of exactly because like
- 49:44Speaker 9: it's like having a savings account that just provides for
- 49:50Speaker 9: itself as well. Yeah, and all you have to do
- 49:54Speaker 9: is literally just look after it, like just make sure
- 49:58Speaker 9: I'm going to because for instance, goats give birth toice
- 50:04Speaker 9: a year, all right. Some are perpetual to my pature,
- 50:10Speaker 9: yeah mostly so like if you have pature in a
- 50:17Speaker 9: year and you have two goats, so when the year ends,
- 50:21Speaker 9: how many goats do you have? So now you have
- 50:25Speaker 9: ten goats from two okay, if it's you, you will
- 50:30Speaker 9: have like five or six okay like.
- 50:35Speaker 1: Then and then year or year they compound.
- 50:39Speaker 9: By next year or double. It's a easy theater. Probably
- 50:44Speaker 9: a male a female that's a female zamamayaki partup here
- 50:52Speaker 9: like within like five years, like five years you have
- 50:56Speaker 9: like a flock of me and now and it's the
- 50:58Speaker 9: same thing my own although my number most my patron
- 51:02Speaker 9: in Gogu, but it akuzalia every year, every year itsia
- 51:11Speaker 9: you get so like imagine if you're in your twenties
- 51:15Speaker 9: and you start buying nomber nambuzi. You have a plan,
- 51:20Speaker 9: you're buying a bertanomi and you do so and younger
- 51:26Speaker 9: to vet now, my chakuli, what kind of wealth will
- 51:31Speaker 9: you have in fifteen years?
- 51:33Speaker 2: A lot?
- 51:35Speaker 1: Exactly.
- 51:35Speaker 9: That's why I'm in African traditional society. Mahari was no
- 51:41Speaker 9: big deal, okay, because they reproduced by themselves.
- 51:49Speaker 1: And then it was.
- 51:49Speaker 9: It was a sign, a sign of blessing each other.
- 51:54Speaker 9: So that then extended family now can never lack. We
- 51:58Speaker 9: are all wealthy. You get like I can't marry Jobi
- 52:02Speaker 9: from her family. No letters Mia namibi, why meji see
- 52:13Speaker 9: at your.
- 52:17Speaker 8: Like?
- 52:17Speaker 9: And and that's how, by the way, poverty was rarely
- 52:21Speaker 9: seen in African communities.
- 52:23Speaker 1: It was like, like, what you see now is so
- 52:27Speaker 1: different from what white people ala.
- 52:30Speaker 9: And that's why they were so perplexed about our society
- 52:34Speaker 9: because it was very socialists, so it was not capitalistic.
- 52:40Speaker 1: It was socialism at its.
- 52:42Speaker 9: Best, where one for all, all for one, okay, and
- 52:49Speaker 9: that's why we are And also in the same Conceptana
- 52:54Speaker 9: who are cast out was so hard for you to
- 52:57Speaker 9: come back in. That's why people used to take such
- 53:00Speaker 9: care of the community.
- 53:05Speaker 8: Just to add up on that on what your saying,
- 53:08Speaker 8: like I feel like marriage, relationship. Everybody has their own system,
- 53:14Speaker 8: Like what you do want is not what somebody else
- 53:16Speaker 8: would like. Everybody decides. Every family is different, your venue
- 53:23Speaker 8: them to work or even to angle, not even you can.
- 53:27Speaker 6: Kill attack, and nobody should ever dictate. And whatever works
- 53:32Speaker 6: for you works for.
- 53:33Speaker 8: You, and and and personally for me, I'm still like
- 53:37Speaker 8: in in in the mindset, and I feel like this
- 53:40Speaker 8: is just how I want it, and now it's gonna
- 53:43Speaker 8: work for me. I'm gonna be with somebody till when
- 53:47Speaker 8: they're ready to put a ring. I'm not gonna give
- 53:51Speaker 8: to a ring. I'm not gonna pressure you. Yeah, And
- 53:59Speaker 8: when I gut who are like traditionally you want to take.
- 54:04Speaker 6: That route, you'll be ready as a man as.
- 54:07Speaker 8: I be, like to cauire your pointed. Now it's me
- 54:10Speaker 8: and you and marrying you traditionally and marry new days.
- 54:14Speaker 8: I'm not part of like I'm like, okay, money, but
- 54:20Speaker 8: now you can your cacophon who read because like personally
- 54:25Speaker 8: I would honestly, I'll wait if that is the I'll wait.
- 54:32Speaker 8: Come on, a woman, I'm not gonna pressure on your
- 54:37Speaker 8: not already, that's not a patter. I'm not already. Could
- 54:41Speaker 8: you lip my heart.
- 54:44Speaker 6: Pressure? Could you alone? Could you lip marry?
- 54:47Speaker 8: Because I'm not going to pay for my bride price
- 54:49Speaker 8: and I'm not gonna force a man and push a
- 54:51Speaker 8: man to go to my mom's or my family and
- 54:55Speaker 8: marry me off in a traditional way. Not that younger
- 55:00Speaker 8: come out and a too lear tonic person like Fanny
- 55:05Speaker 8: Coeri to create your wealth to invest now, and I've
- 55:11Speaker 8: seen a lot of people make it work like that.
- 55:13Speaker 8: A man invest in his familion and a dam, the
- 55:17Speaker 8: create a family and PERSONI and no one is ready
- 55:21Speaker 8: to go to see your fox. Stop pressuring people to
- 55:24Speaker 8: marry you. It's not the end goal. There's nothing. There's
- 55:28Speaker 8: no difference because come one million hoop like a queer
- 55:31Speaker 8: too to difference. We're just one million less. Literally can
- 55:37Speaker 8: find you a lot now you're one million enough. I
- 55:40Speaker 8: owner paints your million like like even if I go
- 55:45Speaker 8: to marry you, like I'm not going to feel like
- 55:49Speaker 8: I'm gonna.
- 55:51Speaker 6: Met because like to cool. Now, this is what she
- 55:58Speaker 6: had to say.
- 56:00Speaker 11: I'm not patient.
- 56:03Speaker 3: Really you know why it's been two years.
- 56:10Speaker 11: Because the camas a gender, but it's just he's.
- 56:17Speaker 8: I don't I feel like because none of do. And
- 56:24Speaker 8: you can look from that perspective college and that's why.
- 56:27Speaker 1: I'm saying that gets to this age for gender.
- 56:36Speaker 9: Where especially like if like a kill you to like
- 56:44Speaker 9: make it official, make it official, make it official like
- 56:47Speaker 9: I'm seeing it and my cousins like just friends. Like
- 56:52Speaker 9: that gets to like this age for your gender where
- 56:57Speaker 9: killer leads back.
- 56:58Speaker 6: To but none of your pressure.
- 57:01Speaker 8: Okay, Gallia, Okay, gall And honestly, I feel like I'm
- 57:04Speaker 8: younger your first to Willie.
- 57:08Speaker 6: Tattoo number two.
- 57:09Speaker 8: Ja carrying on my finger, first time to reason cover reason,
- 57:15Speaker 8: and it's made. It gets in a point of because
- 57:18Speaker 8: right now I feel like there's better stuff and marriage
- 57:23Speaker 8: is not the only option.
- 57:24Speaker 6: Sure it's not. It's not the only option. If you
- 57:27Speaker 6: have to choose it, good for you. For those who
- 57:29Speaker 6: don't go to choose it, okay.
- 57:30Speaker 8: Man, and I can point on your neck on the line,
- 57:35Speaker 8: like seriously, like how the societies will we have kids
- 57:39Speaker 8: have not been married.
- 57:40Speaker 6: Let's be honest.
- 57:42Speaker 8: I have kids out of wordlock with two different men,
- 57:46Speaker 8: and I can't have the third because now this is
- 57:48Speaker 8: a third kid. What if something happens? Your pressure are
- 57:53Speaker 8: stack a Kubaki million to talk street someone.
- 57:56Speaker 6: I'm to street speaking exactly, that's what he's giving. So
- 57:59Speaker 6: take care. I choose your life the way you want
- 58:00Speaker 6: at a younger age. Whatever.
- 58:03Speaker 8: If you're going to settle for that man settled for
- 58:04Speaker 8: the right reasons and settle like memom.
- 58:07Speaker 3: I'd be sad. But Yers, we literally wind up with
- 58:10Speaker 3: today's conversation shot mister black of fire in the building.
- 58:14Speaker 3: I see what was commenting on what you were saying
- 58:15Speaker 3: about actual spad World. But the last video of the
- 58:19Speaker 3: day is worth twenty five million.
- 58:22Speaker 9: Yeah, twenty five million dollars. Give that to a twenty No,
- 58:26Speaker 9: actually give that to any over here.
- 58:30Speaker 6: Years.
- 58:31Speaker 1: Yeah you're four years. We find him dead tomorrow somewhere.
- 58:36Speaker 8: You know.
- 58:36Speaker 2: Crazy.
- 58:37Speaker 3: But on the last video of today, I'm gonna chair
- 58:39Speaker 3: is again. My family made it to the news and
- 58:44Speaker 3: literally stening Jackamasip on a caligraph Johones and impossive video.
- 58:47Speaker 3: Funny thing, I didn't know this was on the news
- 58:49Speaker 3: already until I saw the post on caligraph Jones stories
- 58:54Speaker 3: on Instagram and one of my cousins the last week, yeah,
- 58:59Speaker 3: was killed by one of the club owners in Moja
- 59:04Speaker 3: residents and the story the real story and miss Kenny
- 59:08Speaker 3: Alenda Katia Alena Katia when you are liquor store your
- 59:16Speaker 3: club that she is not supposed to be actually communicated
- 59:20Speaker 3: to or anything. So he was beaten, his legs broken
- 59:24Speaker 3: and he had internal bleeding that led to his death.
- 59:27Speaker 3: And now my aunties and dad are sik in justice.
- 59:31Speaker 3: So the funny thing about this video is my aunt
- 59:33Speaker 3: changed her name, so which is also like make me
- 59:36Speaker 3: question like yes, citizens news whatever, Mama, like why are
- 59:45Speaker 3: you lying?
- 59:55Speaker 6: A question?
- 59:56Speaker 3: But a question key for.
- 1:00:00Speaker 11: In Arobi and lazy come out. I'm sucur.
- 1:00:04Speaker 3: One thing I learned about this video too is choice.
- 1:00:07Speaker 3: You're making life a very important I'm constantly just as
- 1:00:11Speaker 3: you're making life a very important life. You can either
- 1:00:15Speaker 3: lift you up, you can lift yourself.
- 1:00:21Speaker 6: For me and man.
- 1:00:23Speaker 1: Champan familiar alpae m.
- 1:00:30Speaker 3: Hospital, I'm front later.
- 1:00:37Speaker 13: Kandais a city video record. You were decen by Sheerin
- 1:00:41Speaker 13: and Alpha Megaiti, Androbi Gafla Mana mum and Toka Kumusia
- 1:00:51Speaker 13: Alpha Murda alf come on a capon in a familiar
- 1:00:59Speaker 13: Alfi you Lisha and a cooking Bea and Helis and
- 1:01:02Speaker 13: Fiatoia Mama, Lucy com.
- 1:01:06Speaker 11: Ni part and Madam Majo mangume was and you can'tok
- 1:01:16Speaker 11: up comto.
- 1:01:19Speaker 6: And a lot to come and to complete my take.
- 1:01:24Speaker 12: Yeah.
- 1:01:25Speaker 3: So she has this lawyer accent because they grew up in.
- 1:01:29Speaker 13: Aliam Alfhi Coma, Nicolas and Jay and Minich you and
- 1:01:34Speaker 13: your hero Daney. I'm by a piano man Ah, I'm
- 1:01:38Speaker 13: going to our mas king Alpha.
- 1:01:43Speaker 2: Lucy to let her.
- 1:01:49Speaker 12: Get under will Ali push GETTNDE can I'm be a
- 1:01:55Speaker 12: mama just like your sonthers.
- 1:01:59Speaker 13: God, yours are four millions and therefore down for liter
- 1:02:04Speaker 13: could bigger reported to warn you?
- 1:02:06Speaker 3: I don't okay, so literally sure to my dad some
- 1:02:10Speaker 3: of my two aunties, I sit there and the people
- 1:02:14Speaker 3: who are literally looking forward to see if just is
- 1:02:17Speaker 3: gonna be given. But justice again, remember, is a matter
- 1:02:20Speaker 3: of power. Literally, it's a matter of power. So to
- 1:02:26Speaker 3: us citizen, I'm so sure this is him, and I'm
- 1:02:30Speaker 3: so sure I know the connection in that family. He
- 1:02:33Speaker 3: maybe it happen, but I hope they get whatever they're
- 1:02:35Speaker 3: seeking personally, Amia giving you your support as an extended
- 1:02:41Speaker 3: family member from Afar, but much love of yourself. Are
- 1:02:44Speaker 3: beautiful afternoon morning, whatever the time is on your end,
- 1:02:47Speaker 3: it's exactly that, five minutes past the top of the
- 1:02:49Speaker 3: hour writing the two five four, and this has been
- 1:02:52Speaker 3: the reaction time Tuesday catches on Thursday, same time, same place.
- 1:02:55Speaker 3: Hope you guys have learned something and I've enjoyed the
- 1:02:58Speaker 3: conversation as well. Peace everywhere out remarks.
- 1:03:02Speaker 6: Yeah that was sad, really really sad. Namphilia. There's nothing
- 1:03:10Speaker 6: like sad.
- 1:03:13Speaker 3: And as we go back to first bands because of.
- 1:03:16Speaker 6: Fail, there's nothing sad like.
- 1:03:20Speaker 8: And nobody should ever do that just because of a
- 1:03:22Speaker 8: woman like if if you want to, if you want to,
- 1:03:25Speaker 8: really that woman so feish.
- 1:03:30Speaker 6: But like I said, I talk because like women. Tea said, you.
- 1:03:37Speaker 8: Like, that's an insecure man, and you're supposed to go
- 1:03:40Speaker 8: to jail on that, like insecurity Literally you're insecure.
- 1:03:47Speaker 2: Back up.
- 1:03:48Speaker 8: You don't want to deal with an insecure man. It's bad,
- 1:03:50Speaker 8: it's it's mentally not okay, wastressing piece. So insecurity is
- 1:03:57Speaker 8: one of the maybe that is one of the biggest
- 1:03:59Speaker 8: turn off the flag. I read the flag, but you
- 1:04:02Speaker 8: you just stuff like cover double double mall and the
- 1:04:09Speaker 8: corner Science of insecurity. To Jeremy, Well, I'm going literally
- 1:04:14Speaker 8: you know, Germany and I'm to Waco and and you
- 1:04:17Speaker 8: can't like you can't mean planning, and you're going for
- 1:04:23Speaker 8: a bad beach and you can't handle a Please.
- 1:04:25Speaker 6: Let be.
- 1:04:29Speaker 8: You like that.
- 1:04:30Speaker 1: That's why you're approaching exactly.
- 1:04:32Speaker 8: Let her be bad like literal not not change, change,
- 1:04:37Speaker 8: but much love, family, have yourself, beautiful day.
- 1:04:39Speaker 9: Come, let you have anything to say oh, I feel
- 1:04:45Speaker 9: like we shouldn't be fighting over women, but this day
- 1:04:49Speaker 9: and age and we should do better. Hope.
- 1:05:00Speaker 7: Vicki Mahid Corannic or Indiam, one of which the Nambatis
- 1:05:03Speaker 7: and he performed in Aissa Appa napoule A Nati