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Romeo In The Morning 5-26-26 · Romeo In The Morning

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Speaker 1: I was going on as Romeo. We made it back
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for Memorial Day weekend and we talked a little bit
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about the cars that we drove as kids. Man, they
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were just death traps. We it was wild. What you
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order when you're dating on the first date, the food
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you order, what does that say about you? And things
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you have in a junk drawer. We all have junk drawers.
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What kind of crazy things you got in? And let's
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get going. Are we talking about buying your kid their
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first card? Sixteen?
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Speaker 2: Right?
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Speaker 1: And there are people out there that have been calling me,
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have been saying that, no, you're spoiling your kid. You
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shouldn't be buying them a car. You should make them
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pay for it themselves. Oh my god, get over yourself.
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Buy your kid the best possible thing you can afford,
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and be good to your kid. What if you got
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a good kid, What if you got a kid that
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really is responsible in handling their business at sixteen, seventeen,
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eighteen in high school? Why would you not help them
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succeed in life? You're basically not helping them. Come on, hew,
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what's going on?
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Speaker 3: Hey? Yeah, supposedly no. I think that it has to
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do a lot with parenting skills when I was I,
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you know, in my younger age. My parents are straight
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out Mexicans, you know, and they feel like, no, you
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gotta learn, you know, what it is to pay for
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bills and pay for this. And I had to drop
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out of college because I couldn't afford college. I couldn't
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afford my car, I couldn't afford my conscience all at
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the same time.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and there's a lot of people that had to
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do that.
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Speaker 4: No, Yeah, like.
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Speaker 1: You, I'm with you. Your parents failed you.
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Speaker 3: Yes, and I and I feel like I sell them
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because I couldn't keep up with everything.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, but they made you. They guilted you into making
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you feel like you did that. You didn't do anything wrong.
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They failed you, And then more people would understand the
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possibilities of setting your kids off on the right track
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instead of trying to make them into something. Oh, I'm sorry.
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I would tell your mom and dad. I'm sorry you
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guys had to, but there's no way you shouldn't have
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helped your child succeed in any way possible.
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Speaker 3: Yes, I feel the same way. So re me and
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my husband with my kids, we're telling them all we
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want you guys do is you know right now, graduate
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high school, you know, and we're paying for her cell phone.
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We're gonna pay for her car to go to college.
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Speaker 5: You know.
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Speaker 3: We're not gonna get her like, oh my god, there's
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an expensive car.
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Speaker 1: But you know something, something you can afford.
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Speaker 3: It's not gonna hurt. She afford. And she could get
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back and forth to and we told her, if you
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like to get a part time job just for your
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own little things that you want to be getting, that's
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up to you.
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Speaker 1: All right, here's the deal. I gotta jump. Put your
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parents in the worst home you could possibly find when
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they get old enough.
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Speaker 6: Okay, oh my god, Robo, No.
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Speaker 1: Already four two five four or seven to seven eight, Romeo.
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If a kid wants a car at sixteen years old,
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then he will learn the responsibility and everything that comes
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with owning a car. At sixteen years old. He's just sixteen.
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He's still in school. He doesn't need a car. The
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school provides bus rides for free. He just wants a
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car to be cool in high school and on the weekends.
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Tell me what a sixteen year old needs a car for,
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because he's sixteen, and it's not about being cool, it's
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about having a little bit of freedom. Once you get
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your first car, you have that little bit of freedom
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to learn to grow in this world. Okay, So I
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don't know what kind of I don't know what the
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hell's wrong with you, but yeah, you're you. You need help.
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I hope you're not raising kids. Hey, good morning Romeo. Hey,
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my eighteen year old son is a senior in high school.
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He just got his driver's license. I got him a
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dependable two thousand and two Toyota Camry gas saver so
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he can get to school and his internship at a
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local technologic technology company. Plus he will be heading as well.
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I have Ingray, I have ingraved or engraved in him.
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The worst thing to do is buy a car and
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make payments plus insurance. I've showed him how expensive it
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is and how important it is to save money and
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get a college degree and everything will align in the future.
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I'm here to guide my kids, not hand them everything. Well,
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you just handed them a brand new car. I mean,
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are two thousand and two, But there's nothing wrong with that.
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You're not anybody who says buying their kid a car
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is an idiot or spoiling them is spoiling them. You're
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an idiot. I mean, if I go, if you go
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buy your kid a car, you know, a brand new
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Mercedes g Wagon that you're making payments on, not spoiling them.
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But if you're buying them something you can afford, that's reliable,
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that's just helping your kid out. Why are you parents
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so opposed to helping your kids out? What is wrong
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with you people? That's just despicable. Why would you not
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want to help your kids through life, you know, especially
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at such a young age. Okay, if your kid's forty
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and you're still you know, paying all their bills, and
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maybe we need to reevaluate, reevaluate what's going on. But
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at sixteen, seventeen, eighteen high school wanting to go to
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college and you're still not helping them. You're trying to
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throw them to the wolves because last how we grow up.
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That makes them a man. No, it doesn't. That girl
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just called her parents threw her to the wolves and
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she failed. When her parents sounded like her parents had
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the ability to help her succeed. Her parents should be
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embarrassed by the way they what they did to their child.
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You guys are not very bright. It's a good thing.
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I'm here to explain to you, guys, how to raise
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your kids, because you're doing a horrible job. Funny way,
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talking about buying a kid a car at sixteen. Some
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people out there believe that these kids need to work
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for it. Some people believe that it's spoiling them if
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you buy them one. I think both of you are wrong.
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All right, good Mory the hell? What's going on?
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Speaker 2: Yeah, what's going on? Not much. I was just wanting
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to quick forget my input in on the not.
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Speaker 1: Having that car. Absolutely, what do you got?
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Speaker 2: Yeah?
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Speaker 5: Well for us, when I didn't mind having a broken
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down car and it was actually used to be.
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Speaker 6: My mom's arrow start, she had no problem.
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Speaker 5: At all loading it up to me, knowing that right,
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how I drive, one come kind to drive. I think
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I hit a few curves and I come back. She
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didn't really mind, and he understood that I was learning
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how to drive at the same time.
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Speaker 2: And there's a lot of a lot of things that
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could come good.
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Speaker 5: From actually just letting them learn themselves. I'm making sure
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they don't get arrowd cars taking away like I didn't want.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's nothing worse to you having a car and
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then they're taking away from you as a punishment all right.
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Speaker 5: Acually when I grew up having broken down part myself
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because she understood that it's not having.
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Speaker 2: A nice car.
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Speaker 5: That average is about getting from point to point B
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and that's it.
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Speaker 1: All right, man, thanks for going. I appreciate it. Yeah, yeah,
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the responsibility of it. There's a responsibility of having a
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car already four two, five, four, seven seven. If we're
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talking about buying your kid his first car, her first
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car sixteen, right, A lot of you out there is like, no, man,
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they're spoiling them. No man, you got to make them
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work for it and pay for it all this. Why
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if you buy him the best you can and move forward,
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then how it's going on? What a man?
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Speaker 2: Oh nothing. I don't think it's called spoiling your child.
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For me, I tell a lot of my kids, I
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don't reward failure. So as long as you're in school
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doing what you have to do straight a's doing your
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choy around the house without we have to remind you,
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I'm going to reward you. My daughter's fifteen this year.
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She's been in principal to list, tying the roads things.
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Speaker 1: List her entire school career.
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Speaker 2: So yes, when she turned sixteen and she's still doing
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the same thing. I'm going to get her a car.
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That's not only my child that's rewarding her for her success.
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Speaker 1: Well, what is wrong with these people who are texting
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and calling and saying these idiotic things about their kids.
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It's just kids don't deserve, kids don't need, kids don't
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What is wrong with these people?
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Speaker 2: I would say my understanding this, they didn't have anything
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growing up, their parents didn't do it, so they feel, hey,
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I'm going to do my kids that way. They have
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to work for something one way. To me, at the
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end of the day, that makes your kids resent you
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after growing up.
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Speaker 1: And it sets them up for failure. Yeah, yeah, all right, man,
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I appreciate the phone call. Thanks for calling me. Man,
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why would you set your kids up for failure? Already?
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Four two five four seven to seven year old orod
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My parents let us use a spare car to go
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to school, but if we graduated high school, they bought
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us one. Okay, all right, but you got there you
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had a car to go back and forth. So let's
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be none wrong with that. Already four two to five,
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four or is seven to seven? We've been talking about,
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you know, buying your kid at sixteen their first car.
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There's some clowns out there that keep texting me and
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telling me, no, you shouldn't do it. A kid doesn't
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need a car, No, he needs to buy it himself. Yeah,
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you're gonna put a kid at sixteen who wants a
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car in the hole and possibly fail in his education
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because he wants to work to have a car. Why
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would you do that? Why wouldn't you make life a
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little easier for your child? Why are you guys always
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trust Well that's how I did it. Well, Okay, I
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get it unfortunate for you, but don't do that to
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your kid. Won't you give them the best chance to succeed?
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To know what's going on?
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Speaker 2: Good morning?
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Speaker 1: Hey what a man?
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Speaker 4: Hey man?
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Speaker 2: People for that are talking back by buying.
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Speaker 6: A kid a car and you know they don't even
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buying up for the bell.
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Speaker 2: That's what it is.
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Speaker 1: You don't think you think so? You don't think they're
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just being selfish.
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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's being confident just because they kind of working.
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Speaker 2: For their kids. You know, they want to justify some
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type of way.
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Speaker 6: Okay, I'm looking at it.
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Speaker 1: You want to be right about that? I don't really know,
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but just the idea I mean even if you, let's say,
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you can't afford a car for your kid, shouldn't you
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want to be able to afford one as a good
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parent to go? You know what, I got a good kid. Man.
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Life is struggling for us. But you know what, man,
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I got to figure out something, or at least I
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want to not just try to make some justification to
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make yourself feel better than No. Man, they're gonna work for.
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Speaker 6: Like I did.
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Speaker 2: Well, No, I guess most definitely, most definitely. You know
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you got to show the kids what the fire things
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in life are. Yeah, I can keep working for them.
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Speaker 1: All right, Man, I appreciate the car. Thanks brother playing
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already fourteen by four seven to seven. Oh, this is
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this guy. I don't care if he's on Honorable student
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road at sixteen years old. The school still provides a
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bus to get them from point A to point B,
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and don't need to be driving anywhere at sixteen plus.
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If they give him a car, who's gonna pump gas
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for him? Where's who's paying the insurance for him? Who's
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gonna fix repairs if the car breaks down? A sixteen
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year old don't need a car. Yeah, you're just an idiot.
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I don't even I can't even fight stupidity. I don't
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even know how to deal with stupidity. You know all
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that stuff. Here's the problem that you guys don't understand. Okay,
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you can take care of your kids at sixteen, seventeen, eighteen,
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until they graduate college at twenty three and still teach
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them responsibility, still teach them how to be a good person,
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teach them all of those things without putting him without
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setting him up for failure. When should your kid get
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a car?
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Speaker 4: Then?
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Speaker 1: So what you're saying is, well, sixteen, a kid don't
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need a car, So we're just gonna wait till he's
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what eighteen, and then now he doesn't know what to
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do at all. He has no idea how to take
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care of a car. He doesn't know about insurance, he
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doesn't know about gas, he doesn't know about maintenance. Because
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you're too pathetic of a parent to buy him a
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car and go through that process with them. Yeah, boy,
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Like I said, man, I hope you don't have kids
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live from the just wing at studios. I do want
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to say. What happened is Memorial Day. It was a
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Memorial Day weekend, so you know the kids are out
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of school and everybody's hanging out. Well, one of my neighbors,
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he's a kid, he's sixteen. I think he's sixteen or seventeen,
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something like that. Well, one of his friends comes over
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and it's parked out in front of his house and
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it's leaking. His car is leaking something. Now he's got
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an older car, but it's leaking something. So i'm He
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comes over, knocks on the door. Hey, Roam, can you
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help me out. My buddy's car's leaking. My dad's not here,
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you know, he doesn't know what to do. So I
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go out and I look at it, and it wasn't
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anything too complicated. It was just h He had a
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hose leaking from his power steering and he goes, I go, well,
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let me drive it and see what's happened. You can
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tell it's making a noise of power steering, and I go,
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you got your power steering it's leaking. He says, oh, yeah,
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we just had that fixed. He goes, I actually have
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a bottle of power steering fluid here in my car,
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so we fill it up. I go, you could probably
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drive it home, but I wouldn't drive it too far, right,
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So The funny part about him was the he was upset,
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you know, he was worried about it. He was kind
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of upset. It's his car. Man, he's a young kid.
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He's that's his car. And I was laughing, and I go,
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you kids don't even understand. When we were kids, that
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was common. We didn't have have nice new cars like
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these kids get today when they get their first car.
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I said. We all rode around me, all my friends.
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We either had a had had had a quart of
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oil in the car with us, or jug of water
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or fluid for the for the power steering. That was
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just common. Our parents sent us out in death traps.
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They did not send us out in these nice fancy
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cars that had air conditioning and power steering and all
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these different things that cars have, you know, a GPS
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and electronic sensoring and whatever the case may be. We
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never had that, you know. I remember having a car.
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At one point I had to at least keep two
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jugs of water with me just in case so when
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overheat because the water pump wasn't working. And you just
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that's what she did. I would. I mean, I felt
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bad for the kid because he was all upset his
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car was messed up. But I mean it wasn't that
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big of a deal, to be honest with you. It
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was just a host They fixed it, but I mean
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it was just it's just funny though the scene this
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play out when that was common for us. That was
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no matter where we were, no matter where we went.
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You know, your dad would send you out with two
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quarts of oil and say check the oil. You got
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to make sure the oil. Every you know, so and
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so checked the oil. Make sure you got oil. And
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here's a couple of qurts. You just put it in
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when you need it, or power steering fluid or something
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cool it because the radiator leaked or something. It was
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always something. I mean, you guys know what I'm talking about, right.
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It just seems like back in the day, man, our
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parents didn't care. I don't know if they cared or
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they couldn't afford I don't know what it was. But
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it was no big deal rolling around with power steering
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fluid to put it in your car when it needed
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it was not a big deal. Already four two four,
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seven to seven. So we were talking about cars, man.
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Back in the day, you know, we had cars. One
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of the neighbor kids. His buddy's car was having was
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leaking some steering power steering fluid, right, So the kid
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was carrying it with him. His dad told him to
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carry it with him, you know, just in case. And
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so it was leaking and we ended up so we
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were laughing because he was a little upset about it,
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and because that's just the way it was when we
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were kids. Man, you always carried something just in case.
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A lot of us had cars that we had to
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carry oil or water or some sort of fluid to
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put in it if it went down, or because there
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was a leak or something that, you know, And that's
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just was life already. Four two four seven to seven
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eight Romeo, It's funny that you say that there was
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a time when I was a kid when my starter
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didn't work. So my dad told me just always back
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in or park on a hill until we can get
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the money to get you a new starter. So every
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time I went somewhere, I would have to back in
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so I could push start it, or park on a
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hill so I could push start the car. It was great,
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it was great. I mean, that's just what that was life, man,
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that was life. These kids today have no clue because
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They all want these fancy cars that are brand new
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and got everything in them, and if you break down,
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somebody shows up and fix it, or they don't break down. Actually,
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but that's the back in the day, that's what you did.
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You had a car that had something wrong with it,
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and you know, I mean Bernie and oil was the worst.
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You always used to have to drive around with a
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couple of courts of oil on you, just in case
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these kids will never know, oh what I mean.
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Speaker 7: So when I turned eighteen, my dad gave me a
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nineteen two NTV Moms.
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Speaker 2: Of Man, Man and not have.
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Speaker 6: You shouldn't get the reverse on, so all you had
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was just drive and neutral.
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Speaker 1: And your dad knew this rightnew that He used to
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tell me he make sure no one parks in front
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of me.
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Speaker 4: You guys would have to be pushing it back.
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Speaker 7: And then he gives me a box of fuses and
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she's like, he's I guess the heads up anish A
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feel sometimes goes off. So let me just tell you
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it was a death trap.
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Speaker 6: The one of the best cars I ever owned.
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Speaker 4: Man had great times in that.
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Speaker 1: How awesome is that that parents used to send their
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kids out in straight death traps with with parts.
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Speaker 7: How didn't you be like and if you're really really
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in trouble, call me.
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Speaker 4: That only really really.
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Speaker 1: We're talking about these cars that we drove back when
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we were kids. We're death traps. Man. We always had
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to carry something with us oil, power, steering fluid, water
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so they wouldn't overheat. Well, one of the neighborhood kids,
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his buddy's car was leaking power, steering fluid, and his
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dad told him they knew it, but the kid kind
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of was freaked out about it. I was like, no, man,
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that was just when we were your age. That was regular, common,
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common practice. You roll out with whatever parts you need
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when you're driving your car. Our parents just sent us
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out in some of the worst of the worst. They
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didn't care already. Fourteen five four seven to seven Eggle
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morning Rome.
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Speaker 4: Uh.
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Speaker 1: I remember my first car was a nineteen ninety Geo Storm,
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ugly as hell stick shift. No one taught me how
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to drive it. It's uh it uh drive it. It
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sat there for months. I only got up one day
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tell myself how to drive it. Okay, So what does
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that have to do with the what we're talking about,
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the fact that you used to have to carry something
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with you, whether it be power steering fluid or oil,
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or talking about the fact that the cars we drove,
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our first cars, you know, I used to have to
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carry blake brake fluid with mine because my master cylinder
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was always jacked up or something. Yeah, it was. It
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was good times, man already four two, five, four or
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seven to seven. So yesterday one of the neighbor kids,
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he comes over because his friend's cars leaking power steering fluid,
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and he says, hey, Rom his dad wasn't home, so
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he just came over to ask me to help him out.
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And I go over and look at it. Yeah, it's
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leaking too something. One of the one of the one
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of the hoses were leaking, and I go, so we
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need some power steering flute. Well, the kid had it.
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He said, yeah. My dad said that there might be
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something wrong with it. But the kid was kind of
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freaked out about it, right, And I was like, nah, man,
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that's just everyday occurrence. When we were kids, we we
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every day occurrence. We rolled out whenever we left the house.
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Our dad made sure that we either had water, oil,
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power steering brake fluid, I mean something. Our cars were
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not perfect at all, not even close. You know, you
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heard the last dude say that he had to roll
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out with his car. Or sometimes you'd have to park
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a certain way because your car might not the starter
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might not work, and you have to push start it
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every time something. So it was no big deal already.
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Four two five four seven to seven, yo Roam. I'm
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adding a bottle of power steering fluid to my work truck.
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Every other day. I keep a new bottle in the
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truck always exactly. I mean, that's just that's just what
21:48
you did, man. That was part of owning a car.
21:51
I mean, your kids today are kind of spoiled. You
21:53
got cars that work fine, and you don't have to
21:55
do anything us start them. You know, Oh my god,
21:58
if you didn't have you guys probably didn't know this,
22:00
but cars didn't air conditioning. That used to be an upgrade, yo.
22:06
Speaker 3: Rome.
22:06
Speaker 1: My first car was a ninety two Caprice Classic. I
22:09
used to have to carry any freeze because I had
22:11
a leak and when I traveled far to LA or something,
22:15
I needed one one on the way, one on the
22:18
way there, one on the way back to keep the
22:20
car from overheating. Three years strong, buying Nanny Freeze exactly, la.
22:28
I remember, and I haven't seen this in a long time.
22:31
You guys don't, probably don't remember this. The Grapevine used
22:35
to have water tanks where you could stop and put
22:40
water in your car so it didn't overheat, or when
22:43
they were overheating the grape Vine. I don't see him anymore,
22:47
but yeah, the Grapevine used to have these big water
22:50
tanks along the side of the road where you could
22:53
stop and put water in your car so it didn't overheat.
22:57
Text me here, hey, roam. My uncle had an old buick.
23:01
It had tags, but it had a short in the
23:03
battery post wires, and he let us use it. But
23:07
if we didn't remember to take the post off the battery,
23:11
it'll die. So we had to always carry jumper cables
23:14
with us. And then I remember I was I was
23:17
at my friend's house in his insurance person came over. Oh,
23:22
his insurance person came over and parked the and parked
23:25
in the driveway. She came out. We heard her start
23:30
her car, but she sat there for ten minutes. She
23:32
said no reverse, so she stuck. She stuck her feet
23:37
out and started to push the car backwards. We all
23:41
got in, pushed her car out of the driveway. We asked,
23:44
what have it? She said, the reverse never worked? So
23:47
I said you, I said, why, you just didn't park
23:51
park out on the street by the curves so you
23:54
didn't have to back up, back up. But she did
23:58
what she had to do. That's pretty buddy, that's really well.
24:04
That's just how you rolled back in the day.
24:06
Speaker 6: Man.
24:08
Speaker 1: You you wanted a car, you didn't care what was
24:11
wrong with it. You figured out how to make it work. Man,
24:13
alrighty four two, five, four, seven to seven. Hey, rom
24:17
the grapevine still has the water tanks on the side
24:19
of the road. If you're overheating any Dad, I haven't.
24:22
I guess I haven't paid attention. Worrian hot what's going
24:24
on through me?
24:26
Speaker 6: Every car that I ever owned up until a responsible
24:29
adult has been a bucket. Well, okay, I remember I
24:34
used to have. One of my first vehicles was FPN.
24:37
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I had one of those. Those things were.
24:39
Speaker 6: Junk, junk okay that the driver's side door would not shut.
24:43
Sometimes it was locked and you had to drive with
24:47
your hand out the door holding the door shut. Jesus
24:52
imagine on the freeway driving like this, and it was
24:56
and My parents knew about it too. The window didn't
24:59
roll down.
25:00
Speaker 1: Yeah, Piers didn't care.
25:01
Speaker 6: It was a struggle, but you know, we were so
25:04
eager to want to drive that we didn't care. And
25:07
I not until I understood, you get what you paid for.
25:10
Most of these cars we bought were juice vehicles, someone
25:14
of the Alsi's charms. We thought we got a good
25:16
deal for fifteen hundred dollars. Really it was a piece
25:19
of junk. Absolutely right now, he wants an Audi or
25:24
a Range Rover. I said, dude, you must not want
25:26
to drive. We're gonna be We're gonna be saving for
25:31
this for the rest of your life.
25:33
Speaker 1: You know, that's hilarious.
25:35
Speaker 6: But he's waiting. He's waiting, so we hold out that. Yeah,
25:39
good riding the bus. So he's right, second year of
25:41
college riding the bus.
25:43
Speaker 1: Well good later early fourteen four seven to seven roam.
25:51
They still have the water tanks. Uh there am uh oh.
25:55
I'm a truck driver. I used one like last year.
25:59
My semi overheated. I didn't know that. I remember, I
26:02
remember seeing the water truck, the water tanks on the Grapevine.
26:06
I don't remember seeing him anymore, maybe because my cars
26:08
don't ever heat now, so maybe that's what it is.
26:10
I will tell you a funny story about going over
26:12
the grapevine. This is the story for those of you
26:15
that don't know, and a lot of you younger guys
26:18
won't know this. The grapevine used to be a conversation
26:24
when you were traveling from up north and coming down
26:28
to La. The grapevine was a conversation about Okay, are
26:33
we gonna make it over? Or is the car gonna
26:35
go over heat? It wasn't as easy as it is
26:38
today now. Maybe for you folks in Bakersfield it was
26:41
always easy, but it was not. I remember a buddy
26:45
of mine, he owned You guys don't even know what
26:48
a you go is, look it up, Google it, you go.
26:53
He had a you go and we were having the
26:56
conversation as we were coming through Bakersfield, are we gonna
26:59
make it over the grapevine? In this thing? Is it
27:02
gonna overheat? I mean, a yugo was literally a couple
27:06
of rubber bands and you wound it up and it went.
27:09
We made it over, though I think we did have
27:12
to stop for water. Though I think that did happen already.
27:15
Fourteen five four or seven seven, we drove buckets, and
27:19
let's just be honest, when we were sixteen seventeen years old,
27:22
we drove death traps. Man, it was just not They
27:26
were not safe, but our parents didn't care. They showed
27:28
us how to fix it. I remember what you send
27:32
me here, a roe. Vice scripts were my universal window
27:34
handled exactly. Remember when vice scripts were what you used. Remember,
27:38
I don't know if you know. I had a friend
27:39
that started his car with a screwdriver. I have a
27:44
buddy whose dad took a roll of quarters and taped
27:50
them under the gas pedal so he could only go
27:53
a certain speed. He couldn't go over a certain speed
27:56
because those quarters, a stack of quarters. I don't even
28:02
know who comes up with that. Already board for seven seven, Romeo,
28:09
did you know that the grapevine is not the whole
28:11
is not the whole entire hill. The grapevine is only
28:15
at the bottom when you start climbing it. But but
28:19
we call it, But I too, call it the grapevine.
28:22
Oh what's the what's the hill called? I've always just
28:25
we always just called it the grapevine. Oh nope, I
28:28
did not know that. That's interesting. All I found out
28:32
also fun fact that what did the girl the one
28:37
of the girls at the at the at the Menudo
28:40
cookoff told me she knows a lot of fun facts.
28:42
I asked her what her fun fact was, and it
28:43
was that penguins. Female penguins apparently are like prostitutes because
28:50
and this is real, it's not a joke. Apparently, they
28:53
they put pebbles, and they put pebbles in front of
28:56
them to entice the male penguins. For some reason, penguins
29:00
want pebbles. I don't know. Anyway, google it see if
29:03
she's lying. I didn't, Hey, Roam, My dad was a mechanic,
29:06
and I remember going up the Grapevine in the nineties.
29:09
My mom and dad both pray. So the car went
29:13
over eat. I was like, aren't you a mechanic? Did
29:21
you send me here? Hey, Rome, I want to ask
29:24
you about this girl I went out on date with
29:26
last night. It was our first date. I took her
29:29
to a spot. She ordered the most expensive thing on
29:34
the menu. Well, what was the most expensive thing on
29:37
the menu. I mean, if you took her to McDonald's,
29:40
that's different than if you took her to a steakhouse.
29:42
So shorted the lobster which she ordered anyway, So she
29:47
ordered the most expensive thing on the menu and an appetizer.
29:51
I was just curious, do you think that's a red
29:52
flag considering our first date? And she wanted me to
29:56
pay for it? Um? No? Well yes and no. And
30:02
the reason I say that as this is because one
30:05
where did you take her? How much was the most
30:07
expensive thing on the menu? And regardless actually regardless of
30:10
what it was or wasn't, you should have been able
30:13
to pay for it because it was the first date.
30:15
So yes, but what type of girl did you go
30:19
out with? Here's the thing that you guys don't understand
30:21
when you go out on a first date. Okay, let's
30:23
just if she orders lobster, right, is she a lobster
30:28
girl or is she just out to take advantage of you?
30:31
You guys should know the women that you're dating, whether
30:35
they're out for a free meal or that's just how
30:38
they roll. If you don't know that, that's on you,
30:42
not her. Okay, But in fairness, to be fair to
30:46
the other side of it, you women should not be
30:49
ordering the most expensive thing on the menu on the
30:51
first date. It looks classless, Okay, have a little class
30:56
order some middle of the road till you get to
30:58
know each other, find out where it's going going on?
31:00
Speaker 6: Romeo Red Rob, what's up?
31:03
Speaker 7: Brother?
31:03
Speaker 1: Hey?
31:04
Speaker 2: Just last night my.
31:05
Speaker 4: Date was class late. She reached over the table and
31:08
grabbed some of my knees and.
31:15
Speaker 6: Then the top of allard share.
31:20
Speaker 1: Nice. That's a red flag? All right? Ron, get at it?
31:27
And he lost I lost them any four, two, five,
31:31
four or seven and seven?
31:32
Speaker 3: Yeah?
31:32
Speaker 1: The guy just said he went out with some woman
31:35
first date last night and she ordered the most expensive
31:37
thing on the meal. He was asking if that was
31:40
a red flag. No, And it kind of depends. I mean,
31:46
first of all, you pay. You should always pay for
31:49
the date. Okay, we're gonna we're gonna agree on that.
31:52
You should be able to afford the most expensive thing
31:54
on the menu. All right, just so you don't look,
31:57
you know, where are you going? You're the one that
31:58
is your fault for taking to that place? Or is
32:01
it her fault for ordering the most expensive thing on
32:03
the menu. But I do believe any woman that orders
32:06
the most expensive thing on the menu is either that's
32:10
how she lives or she's trying to get a free meal.
32:14
You should know which girl she is. Okay, you should
32:17
know what type of girl she is going out on
32:20
a date with her, all right, But I also don't
32:24
think a woman should order something that expensive. Do you
32:27
order something kind of middle of the road. It's the
32:29
first date, you know, have a little the core, I
32:31
have a little class already four two four or seven
32:34
to seven. But like I said, maybe that's how she rolls.
32:39
Maybe she's used to steak and lobster. If you're dating
32:42
a steak and lobster girl, you gotta pay steak and
32:44
lobster prices. I texted me a little bit ago and
32:46
he said he went out on a first date with
32:48
some lady and she ordered the most expensive thing on
32:51
the menu. Now I don't know what kind of restaurant
32:53
they went to, but he was asking me if that
32:57
was a red flag? Already four two for seven to
33:01
seventh room. If she puts out, she can order anything
33:04
on the menu. Good morning, How what's going on? You know?
33:07
Speaker 4: Morning?
33:08
Speaker 1: What I mean?
33:09
Speaker 4: Hey?
33:10
Speaker 1: Next time?
33:11
Speaker 4: Top my guy man to ask for some crayons so
33:14
he could color the many.
33:16
Speaker 2: Blade this will everything and red gold.
33:31
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's funny.
33:35
Speaker 4: Hey man, I agree with you, Rome though. You know, hey,
33:38
if you take her somewhere round to emn and you know, hey,
33:42
that's the way she will, That's that's the way she rose. Man,
33:44
we can't be upset about it.
33:45
Speaker 1: Well, here's the thing though, and this is I'm gonna
33:48
hit all aspects of this day. First of all, I'm
33:52
assuming he could afford it. He just didn't, you know,
33:55
So only take him someplace you can afford. She shouldn't
33:59
be ordering them most expensive thing on the menu because
34:02
it just it looks kind of like you're doing too much,
34:06
like you're But you're right. If that's how she rolls
34:09
and that's her everyday lifestyle, then that's fine. Or if
34:14
she's that woman that's just looking for a free meal,
34:16
you should know the difference before you even go out
34:18
with her. You know who you're dating. So I agree
34:23
with you. I'm with you man, all right, thanks for
34:25
coming everything. You can order everything on the left side
34:31
of the menu, not the right. But my point is
34:33
it's kind of a double edged sword because you you
34:40
should know where you're taking where you're taking somebody on
34:45
a date. You should know that already, and you should
34:48
know what they who they are. Are they just uh,
34:53
you know, out for a free meal or is that
34:55
how they legitimately roll you know already four two to five,
34:59
four seven to seven, or maybe it's your fault for
35:02
taking the for taking her somewhere that has an expensive
35:06
item on the menu. Man, I shouldn't even say that.
35:09
I should just say that ladies on your first date,
35:13
don't order the most expensive thing unless you're just being
35:16
greedy and selfish and you're out for a free meal
35:18
then of course, but don't expect a second date. But yeah,
35:23
I don't know.
35:24
Speaker 3: Okay, So I feel like this, if a guy's gonna
35:26
be talking crap about.
35:28
Speaker 6: A woman and what she orders of her meal, like
35:31
say she order a steak, he should invite her to
35:33
go eat.
35:33
Speaker 1: Period then.
35:36
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, in a way it's good so he can know, like.
35:40
Speaker 6: Hey, this girl, she's really expensive on it.
35:43
Speaker 3: You know, it's time to take her out to eat,
35:45
you know.
35:46
Speaker 6: So in the way it's good so he can know, like.
35:48
Speaker 3: You know, she likes expensive meal, And if he's gonna
35:51
be talking crap about her, he should not even invite
35:54
her to go eat and take her.
35:55
Speaker 1: To Stop Bucks. Fair enough, Okay, I mean, look, there's
36:06
arguments to be made on both sides. Okay, a guy
36:10
shouldn't be. A guy should understand what he's getting himself
36:14
involved in with the type of woman that he's taken out,
36:17
all right, he should know what her budget or how
36:20
she lives. I mean, you should know the type of
36:24
woman that you're taking out right, whether she's a little
36:27
higher end or whether she's a little lower end. But
36:30
at the same time, if you flip it, if you
36:32
flip it to the other side of it, should a
36:36
woman be well, see that's the thing if you see yeah,
36:42
I mean, should she be ordering the most expensive thing? Well,
36:47
if she's used to it, then yes. If she's not
36:51
used to it, then is that the question? Or does
36:55
it matter? So a guy was texting. I guess he
36:57
went out on a first date with a girl and
36:58
he thought the meal sh order was very expensive. He
37:01
didn't know, Uh, he didn't know what to think about that,
37:04
And I guess it kind of goes both ways. Is
37:08
it a red flag?
37:09
Speaker 7: Yeah?
37:10
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe unless she's used to that. I mean someone
37:14
when are used to that already? Four two five, four
37:17
seven to seven, and uh, well a lot of guys
37:20
will say, well, I'm is she just ordering the most
37:22
expensive thing to take advantage or I mean I don't know, Hey, Romeo.
37:29
Related to the topic, is it a red flag that
37:33
you that a male date a man orders a casadea
37:38
for dinner, no meat, no hot sauce, plain old case adea.
37:43
I felt like I was on a date with a child.
37:46
You should have ordered the kids menu. Yes, that's weird. Yes,
37:54
that's absolutely one hundred percent weird. How old was the dude?
37:58
That's what I want to day. But yeah, no, that
38:00
is totally a red flag. Absolutely. So guy texted he
38:08
was talking about what is a first date? What she ordered?
38:11
He thought it was too expensive? Most expensive thing, right,
38:16
And it does beg a question because somebody else just
38:19
text and says she went out on a date with
38:20
a man who just ordered a plain Casadia, no meat,
38:23
no cheat or no sauce, no nuhe just a plain casadea.
38:28
Was asking me, oh, he was thirty seven years old?
38:30
The dude that did that. Yeah, casadia, no meat, no
38:35
hot sauce, just a plain Ksadia, thirty seven years old.
38:37
Is that a red flag? I think it is, But
38:41
it does kind of asked the question, right, what does
38:46
it say about somebody on what they order on a
38:50
first date? Does that say anything about a male or female.
38:55
What they eat on the first date, does that change?
38:57
Speaker 6: Uh?
38:59
Speaker 1: Can you read something into that? I would definitely read
39:03
something into a thirty seven year old dude ordering a
39:06
playing case of dion a first date. There's that's childlife,
39:10
so that is uh, yeah, I would read something into that.
39:13
A girl ordering steaking lobster on a first date, I
39:18
don't know. Depends on who she is, right, she might
39:20
be a she might be that kind of girl, you know,
39:23
she might be a higher end you know she's used
39:25
to she's used to eating that. Or she might be
39:29
someone who doesn't get that very much. I mean, it
39:32
just depends. You should know when you wou with them,
39:35
right already fourteen you bought four or seven? Seven? Hey, Rome,
39:39
them big girls do cost a lot when it comes
39:42
to food. That's why I stay with the cute, petite girls.
39:46
All excuse me, All they want is appetizer than Margarita's.
39:52
Let me see what big boys sent me here. He's
39:55
got something to say about this, Oh Rome, Oh, big
39:59
boy says he wasn't talking crap, he was just asking.
40:02
Sounds like he paid just probably damn first state high maintenance. Well,
40:08
it depends on what one girl's high maintenance or you know,
40:12
one guy's high maintenance is one one another guy's norm.
40:16
You know what I'm saying. Some women are high maintenance,
40:18
cost a lot for some. For other women, they don't
40:21
call they that's their norm, you know? So yeah already
40:26
four two, five, four seven to seven. Uh, hey Rome,
40:33
It's like when when you tell a girl what what
40:37
do you like to drink? Or what do you usually drink?
40:40
And they say nineteen forty two or like the most
40:43
expensive stuff, and then they say, but what do you
40:46
like to drink when you're paying for it? What have
40:52
we got here in four two, five, four seven to seven? Rome?
40:59
Maybe the guy, oh, the Casadia guy? What did you
41:02
say here? Uh? Some girls said she went out with
41:05
a thirty seven year old man who ordered a Casadia.
41:08
No no met no sauce, nothing, just playing Casadia, which
41:13
is weird by the way. Yes, hey Rome, maybe that
41:17
guy didn't have a lot of money and got something
41:20
small do the girl. The girl could order what she Oh,
41:24
so the girl could order what she wanted?
41:26
Speaker 3: Uh?
41:26
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe what's going on?
41:31
Speaker 4: Hey?
41:31
Speaker 2: What's up?
41:31
Speaker 1: Roman? Seahawk glue man?
41:34
Speaker 4: Hey room?
41:35
Speaker 2: So I kind of I agree with what you're saying, man,
41:39
there's you know, there's some bougie women out there and
41:43
some that are a little more ghetto.
41:46
Speaker 1: Well some boo When you say boogie, that just might
41:51
be their normal. It's not bogie. It's bougie to you,
41:53
it's normal to them.
41:56
Speaker 6: Yeah.
41:56
Speaker 4: Yeah, well yeah, that's what I'm trying to take. It
41:59
could mean bougie to you, but normal to them.
42:02
Speaker 2: Okay, you know, I agree with what you're saying. We
42:07
alto have the normal or even the ghetto. The ones
42:11
that like to drink you know, Budweizer every week.
42:14
Speaker 1: Jesus, that's wrong with you, But that's what they like,
42:17
you know what I mean, There's nothing wrong with that. Okay, yeah,
42:22
all right, So I think they should look for, you know,
42:25
someone that drinks bud Light, Buddelizers, and if that's what
42:27
they want, yeah.
42:29
Speaker 4: That's what they gotta find. I guess they can't afford.
42:32
Speaker 1: You can't afford gotta get out of here. I mean,
42:38
there's uh. I mean, obviously the terminology that Seahawk lu
42:42
was using, hopefully was for a fact, but yeah, I mean,
42:48
if you can't afford it, you can't afford it. But
42:50
there are some women out there. You know who Lobster
42:54
and steak is a normal meal for them. It's not.
42:57
It's not something you know, it's not a seal. So yeah,
43:02
I don't know already four two four, seven to seven, Hey,
43:07
Uf and cheese fan talking about dates. Me and my
43:09
wife orders some pricey meals. The messed up thing. She
43:12
only eats a little portion of it and the rest
43:15
to go, and she doesn't eat after that, so she
43:19
throws it away. I mean it just a pricey meal
43:22
is a pricey meal. Some women's pricey meal is some
43:26
women's extravaganza. So you got to understand that, you know now,
43:30
the wrong with it is just is what it is.
43:31
But there is something to be said about a first date.
43:37
What somebody orders, right or maybe not? I don't know.
43:41
What do you think? We're talking a little bit about
43:44
first dates. Right when you go on a first date,
43:46
does what the person orders does that mean anything?
43:49
Speaker 4: Right?
43:49
Speaker 1: Some lady said she went out with a thirty seven
43:52
year old dude. He ordered a casadea that was it,
43:54
no meat in it, no salt, just a plain case
43:56
adia Rome in my date to hear, hey Rome, so
44:02
the mail, let's see, and my date considers herself a
44:06
steak in lobster girl, then damn she better be able
44:10
to cook good steak and lobster at home too from
44:14
time to time. Okay, that was referring to a guy
44:17
who said, you know, if a girl earl steak in lobster,
44:20
is that doing too much on a first date?
44:22
Speaker 4: Well?
44:23
Speaker 1: I don't know, Rome. Let's see here sounds to me
44:28
like the dude can't afford the car he chose to
44:32
test drive. First date, first impression, she got what she wanted.
44:37
If he thought that he wasn't. If he thought that
44:41
was an issue, then that's where it ends. Are you
44:45
talking about the casadia? Hey?
44:47
Speaker 3: Rome?
44:48
Speaker 1: What gets me more mad is when they order something
44:51
and don't eat it. Oh, on a first date and
44:54
you don't care what they order, but just eat everything. Okay,
44:57
well that makes sense. I don't know what do you
45:00
guys think? Eight four, five four or seven seven? Does
45:04
it matter what somebody orders on a first date?
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Speaker 2: Hey?
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Speaker 1: Good marn to Rome. On a side note, when I
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first started dating my wife, her teenage son, which is fourteen,
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would order the most expensive item on the menu. When
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he would come over to my house. I would make him.
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I would make him mow the backyard. After the second
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time mowing my yard, he asked me how come he
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has he has to mow in my backyard. I explained
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to him, if you're going to keep ordering expensive items
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on your menu or on the menu, this is the
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way of pain for that meal. After that, he stopped
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picking the most expensive items on the menu. Wow, that's
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pretty funny, Hey, Rome, If that guy ordered a playing
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case adia, that should tell the girl about how he
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is going to be boring and picky. Yeah, that's a
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good point. I mean that does say. Here's here's what's funny,
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because we had two conversations going on. A girl ordering
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the most expensive thing on the menu on a first
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date with a guy. Uh, and a guy, a thirty
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seven year old guy ordering a plain case adea on
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a first date with a girl with a woman. Right,
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So the casadia says more about the guy than the
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woman who ordered the most expensive thing on the menu. There, Yeah,
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I would think the guy that says more the guy.
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And what kind of psycho are you to just order
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a plain casadea for dinner? I mean, that's that's a
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little psychotic. Ilish woman texted in and said she went
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out with a thirty seven year old dude on a
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first date and he ordered a plane casadea no meat,
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no sauce, no nothing, just she said, like a child
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would order. And what does that say or does it
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say anything? All right? Rome, Hey, what if the guy
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didn't want to pick out and ate before the date
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to save money and ruin his date? Well, well, like
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I said, that says something that does Let's go by
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your lodging because you're the second person that said. Maybe
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he just wanted to save money, So what does that
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say about him? He's cheap, he's portraying cheapness. Or because
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somebody said, well what if he wanted what if he
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wanted to say, not order something expensive for himself so
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that she could order whatever she wanted. Is that and
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I'll go with your lodging? Okay, that's what he did.
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Is that appealing to a woman? Does a woman find
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that attractive that her man can't afford or the man
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she's dating can't afford to feed both of them? He
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can't eat as much so he can afford And now
47:52
it's a nice gesture, Well she can get whatever she wants,
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but he can't afford both of us. Is that attractive
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to a woman. Maybe apparently not to this woman. But
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also you're telling me he couldn't get a steak case idea,
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chicken case idea. I had to just be a There
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is something to be said to ordering just a plane
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cheese case idea. That shows a lot. Good morning, Now,
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what's going on, Romeo?
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Speaker 6: First, grates are very important. You know, you can find
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out a lot about a person. But my advice to
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men is always start off small. You can always level left,
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but she's level. If jack step go down, she's always
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gonna notice that. Oh so you know and date in
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your tax bracket. If you know she's gonna be expensive
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and you can't afford it, don't even try it. You're
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wasting your time.
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Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair.
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Speaker 6: If she's happy, if she's happy with Jack in the
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box or twenty piece of chicken nuggets, you hit the lottery.
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Speaker 4: You gotta keep her.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right, I mean for him, I think
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that's sad. I mean I would not want a cheap
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ass woman. I mean, I just wouldn't want somebody like that.
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That just yeah, I don't want anybody that's cheap like that,
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all right, but hey, some people do. Although Jack in
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the Box cost you forty five dollars to go to
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it now, right, So a woman texted in and she
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was talking about a guy she went out with. Thirty
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seven year old guys she went out with one to zero.
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Is it a red flag that he ordered just a
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plain casadia cheese and tortilla caesadia, no meat, no sauce.
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That's all he had on a first date. That's weird.
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That's very weird, by the way, in a lot of
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different ways. And I know you guys are over here
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trying to justify. Well, maybe he was trying to save
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money so that she could order what she want. Maybe
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he was this is the next one, Hey, good morning Romeo.
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Well maybe he was on a diet. Okay, well order
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a salad. Order something I mean is a cheesecase idea?
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Is that diet food? Is that what you eat on
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a diet? I mean yeah, I just I think you
50:03
got justify this situation when you know who orders cheese
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case ideas when you go out to dinner eight year olds.
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I'm surprised he didn't get a side of chicken nuggets
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with it. That is strange. That's childish. Okay, Now that's
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just childish. In fact, to be honest with you, I'm
50:23
gonna even go a step further. A guy that orders
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a case idea, an adult man that orders a case adea,
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even with meat in it, on a date or in general,
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is weird. That's a childish food. Okay, that is what
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kids order, So I can understand why she was a
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little concerned about it. She even said he could have
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ordered alf the kids menu. I mean, that's it's weird.
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There really isn't a real good justification for it. I mean,
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alrighty four two five, four seven to seven. Hey, Romeo,
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you were talking about first dates and what you order.
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How do you feel about how do you feel about
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someone drinking too much on a first date. I went
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out with this girl and she drank a lot. She
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ended up throwing up in the parking lot. It was
51:19
a little embarrassing, I thought, so I never talked to
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her again. Yeah, that's different. I mean, because sometimes people
51:34
get nervous. I mean, first dates can be nerve wracking.
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You guys know that. You guys have all been on
51:38
dates when you're or or Yeah, they just can be
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nerve wracking, you know. So the drinking could kind of
51:44
go either way. You know, sometimes people go on first
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dates and they're nervous, So I would expect a woman.
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If a guy does it, you might want to worry
51:56
about it. If if a guy takes you out on
51:59
a first date and he drinks too much, it's probably
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a problem. If a woman does it, I mean, it's
52:05
probably more likely she was just extremely nervous, and not
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that she's some sort of alcoholic or anything. I think
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she just I would give the woman the benefit of
52:16
the doubt as beings as being nervous on a first date,
52:20
as opposed to a man. I guess I could put
52:22
it like that, Hey, room, what's up? What do you
52:26
think about this? I went out with a girl on
52:29
a couple of dates. But when but then she ghosted
52:33
me all because I called her out about posting stuff
52:37
to her social media and making it look as if
52:39
she was alone or with a girlfriend. And I noticed
52:44
from another friend of mine there that that her on
52:49
social media. Oh that here on social media. She blocked
52:54
me from some of her posts. So I just told
52:57
her there's no need for her her to hide anything
53:01
from me. Well after I told her that, she blocked
53:05
my phone number. And let me tell you, we we
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went out on a couple of nice We went out
53:12
to a couple of nice restaurants. At that I felt
53:14
like she was just out to get free meals. To
53:17
be completely honest, Well, I mean that happens. I mean, yeah,
53:23
she could. I mean there are women out there that
53:24
are going out just for free meals and to you know,
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for social media purposes, take pictures of their meals and
53:31
whatever what not to make it look like they're balling
53:33
or make it look like they're doing something that they're not.
53:35
I mean, that's real. That's what social media is. That's
53:38
what all these clowns do on social media. So I
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don't see why, what do you mean, what do I
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think about it? I think that's it's exactly what most
53:47
people want to do. Yeah, I mean it's what a
53:52
lot of people want to do. They just want the
53:55
picture for their social media sites to get publicity. I mean,
53:59
the problem with social media is there are so many
54:01
It's turned so many people into a bunch of insecure
54:06
morons because they want that attention, they want to be famous,
54:09
they need for people to like them, and it's just
54:13
absolutely absurd what some of these people feel that social
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media is a real world. I mean, that's their real
54:18
it's real world to them because that's their life. But
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that's I mean, what do you want me to tell you?
54:23
You know, you went out with a with a social
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media influencer. I guess that's what they call them, right you?
54:29
Just if you're not into it, go find a girl
54:31
who's not like that. You know already four to vavo
54:35
or seven seven and maybe she couldn't afford to go
54:38
out to the restaurants without you, so she had to
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do what she had to do to get that photo.
54:44
When's the last time you, guys went through one of
54:46
your junk drawers? Some of you have probably one in
54:49
the kitchen. You might have one in the laundry room.
54:51
You might have one outside in the garage. But everybody
54:56
has a junk drawer for some reason. I don't know
54:59
it's so and why we just throw everything in there.
55:04
I just don't know why. It's It's incredible, right, What
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is the craziest thing you got in a dunk drawer?
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Speaker 4: Right now?
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Speaker 1: When's the last time you looked at it? When's the
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last time you saw why do I even have that?
55:14
When's the last time you cleaned one out? You know,
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when's the last time you've done that?
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Speaker 7: I have.
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Speaker 1: I have two drunk junk drawers at home, and I
55:25
am not really sure the last time I actually clean
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them out. Sometimes they don't even open all the way
55:30
because you got some wedged in the back that prevents
55:33
it from opening. All Right, you guys got a junk drawer.
55:39
What's in it? What's the weirdest thing you have in it? Already? Four? Two, five,
55:43
four or seven to seven? Everybody has a drunk drawer, right,
55:46
what's the craziest thing you have in it? What's the
55:48
strangest thing? When's the last time you looked in it?
55:50
What do you got already? What I say?
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Speaker 4: Here?
55:53
Speaker 1: Oh hey, rom so the strangest thing I got my
55:56
drunk drawers where I keep my ketchup packets and my
55:59
hot sausage from the restaurants. You keep caught excuse me?
56:07
You keep condiments in your junk drawer? How do they
56:11
not pop?
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Speaker 2: Like?
56:11
Speaker 1: My drunk drawer has screwdrivers and flashlights, and it has
56:17
what you might call it it has cords for charging
56:21
batteries things like that. How do you do it without it?
56:27
That's pretty funny though, all right, So what do you
56:29
got in your junk drawer? You got anything crazy? All right?
56:31
So you got a junk drawer somewhere in your house,
56:33
So what do you keeping it? Kind of crazy things?
56:35
You gotten it? Alright? Apour two pop for seven to seven?
56:39
Hey Romeo? Oh well, we have a drunk drawer in
56:41
the kitchen, and for some reason, my wife keeps my
56:45
son's baby teeth in the junk drawer. They're in a
56:49
little mint tin that she keeps in the That's that's strange. Okay,
56:58
good morning. Not what's going on?
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Speaker 4: What's up?
57:02
Speaker 2: Man? Talk about it?
57:03
Speaker 4: Junk drawer?
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Speaker 2: Bro?
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Speaker 4: I get I get mad at the old lady when
57:06
she does that makes the drawer full of stuff. You
57:08
can't even open it, you know. I mean you're still
57:09
trying to stick your hand in her wiggle stuff to
57:11
get it stuck in the back.
57:12
Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah, that happens all the time. Yeah yeah.
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Speaker 4: So I got it room and I am getting it
57:16
into a box and after the kitchen is for your
57:19
kitchen stuff.
57:20
Speaker 1: Bro.
57:20
Speaker 4: I'll tell you what, every time I need something, I'm
57:22
running to that box to go grab something because there's
57:24
everything in the mom in that box.
57:25
Speaker 1: So what's in the drawer now?
57:28
Speaker 4: Well, just like uh, like the towels, like to grab
57:32
like the hothouse, to.
57:32
Speaker 2: Grab the stuff in the store.
57:34
Speaker 1: Yeah, I got you, all right.
57:36
Speaker 4: But she's working on another one in the room. Room.
57:38
You know.
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Speaker 1: It's hilarious of course, all right, But like I.
57:41
Speaker 4: Said, they got everything you need. That little screw that's
57:44
a certain screwdriver, or the one that fits the eyeglasses.
57:47
Speaker 2: You know what I mean.
57:48
Speaker 4: Everybody's in there all right.
57:50
Speaker 1: Later, Dad, what I'm saying. It's crazy, man. The jug drawer.
57:55
I got two of them in my kitchen. There's just
57:58
a boy. We don't need anything that's in it. I
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don't think. I'm not sure I'd have to go through
58:02
it again. We're talking about the junk drawer. Everybody seems
58:05
to have a drunk drawer somewhere in their house, maybe
58:07
their garage, but or your shed, I don't know. But
58:10
you have just everything in it, right, What do you got?
58:13
Going to Rome gil Rod here streaming from Lamore, California
58:19
this weekend. I was looking for a pen in my
58:21
junk drawer. Found a pack of dried sliced oranges that
58:26
I used my old for my old fashions. I might
58:32
have stuck him in there after a night of too
58:34
many old fashions. That's pretty funny. That's pretty funny. Like
58:40
I said, man, everybody's got something crazy in their junk drawer.
58:43
Why don't you guys today when you get home, just
58:47
go through it. See what you got in there. You
58:49
probably forgot about something that's Romeo. Sometimes I don't know
58:53
if I get text messages late or why you guys
58:58
just decide to send me something after we've moved on.
59:02
But somebody just sent me this about social media. We
59:05
were talking about a guy texted earlier about he went
59:09
out with a girl a couple of times and she
59:11
would post on social media like she was out by herself,
59:14
not with him, right, And I guess they went out
59:18
on a few dates. And so I was saying, talking
59:20
about social media, I said, yeah, there are people out
59:22
there who just live for social media. That's their whole lives.
59:25
I mean, it's embarrassing and sad because they think that's
59:29
the real world when it's not. So somebody texting me, hey,
59:33
rome maybe if you were on social media more, you'd
59:36
be more popular. Okay, Well I don't know what you
59:41
mean by that, but okay, thanks for the advice. I
59:44
appreciate it. I do not post much on social media,
59:48
by the way. That's why they said that, because I'm not.
59:51
You know, I'm sure you guys are doing great on sea.
59:54
Speaker 3: In the morning every morning.
59:55
Speaker 1: More ninety four point one