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- 0:16Yes, and welcome to Networking Unleashed, building
- 0:20profitable connections. Welcome back to the show,
- 0:23folks. I'm your host, Michael Foreman, and you're
- 0:27listening to the podcast where networking is
- 0:29more than just awkward handshakes and bad coffee.
- 0:33It's an art and a talent. But here's the twist.
- 0:36It's an art and talent you can actually learn.
- 0:40Yes, even if you're the person hiding in the
- 0:43corner at every event. pretending to check emails.
- 0:47Networking isn't just a nice skill to have. It's
- 0:50a game changer. And when you get good at it,
- 0:53you'll wonder why you didn't start sooner. More
- 0:57connections, more opportunities, more profits.
- 1:00It's like unlocking a cheat code for life. So
- 1:04whether you're the life of the party or the just
- 1:06let me stay at home and text type, we've got
- 1:09something for you. So stick around and let's
- 1:12turn those awkward small talk moments. into big
- 1:15wins. Now, I have a guest today. Her name is
- 1:19Amanda Greenberg, Amanda Brooke Greenberg, and
- 1:23she's got quite an extensive background. I'm
- 1:27going to read you a little part of it. Amanda
- 1:30is the founder of the A -Initiative and social
- 1:34media influencer with, ready, with the at symbol,
- 1:38From Apple to Orange, a Miami resident by way
- 1:42of New York City. With over 15 years of experience
- 1:45in marketing, communications, marketing and communications,
- 1:51Amanda has a broad experience. Amanda has a broad
- 1:55expertise in working with clients in the fashion,
- 1:59lifestyle, beauty, and hospitality industries.
- 2:03So before I butcher this any more than I already
- 2:07have, Amanda, welcome to the podcast. And please
- 2:11introduce yourself and tell us a little bit about
- 2:14your background. Thank you. Thank you for having
- 2:17me here today. I'm honored. And yeah, so my background
- 2:22started in New York City. I interned for a magazine
- 2:26in college and then immediately moved the city
- 2:29right after I graduated, took a job doing PR
- 2:33for a fine jewelry brand. I was the assistant
- 2:36level at that time. Learned everything I could
- 2:39from my first boss. She was incredible. Still
- 2:42in contact with her today and soaked up all the
- 2:45information I could and then made my way up in
- 2:48that company. Then I switched over to an agency
- 2:51where I had a range of clients in the fashion
- 2:54space, big retailers and e -tailers like Bergdorf
- 2:59Goodman and Net -A -Porter Group and Home Shopping
- 3:02Networks. And then also some... contemporary
- 3:05and luxury fashion brands so we worked with everybody
- 3:08from Marquesa to Aritzia and Uniqlo and then
- 3:13some smaller less known brands that we helped
- 3:16build and create and then after being in New
- 3:20York for a decade I moved down to Miami and went
- 3:24into hospitality PR because there isn't such
- 3:27an amazing fashion industry down here and I wanted
- 3:31to make sure that I was you know working in the
- 3:34industry that made sense for the market. And
- 3:37I took a job as PR director and communications
- 3:41director for Nikki Beach, which is a global hospitality
- 3:44brand. They have restaurants, beach clubs and
- 3:47hotels and resorts all around the world across
- 3:50their social media division. I did all the internal
- 3:53and external communications and then. I also
- 3:56did a lot of networking there and learning and
- 4:00growing as an in -house professional. And then
- 4:04I also simultaneously had just started my social
- 4:08media platform, which is from Apple to Orange,
- 4:10as you said. So from the Big Apple, New York,
- 4:12to the Florida Orange and started parallel pathing
- 4:16with that, growing a following on my Instagram
- 4:20platform. And then right after COVID, I took
- 4:24a step back. looked at my life as many of us
- 4:28did at the time and said, where am I going? What
- 4:31are my goals? How am I going to reach them? And
- 4:33I realized that while I loved my job, it was
- 4:36time to step out on my own. And I started the
- 4:39A Initiative, which is my marketing and PR agency.
- 4:43I work with a range of clients now pulling in
- 4:46from all of my background experience. So fashion,
- 4:50lifestyle, beauty, hospitality, F &B, and nonprofit.
- 4:55So that's a quick overview. Not so quick. That's
- 4:59OK, but you can see why I handed it over. So
- 5:02I didn't want to butcher it any more than I already
- 5:05have. So I thank you for that. OK, so first off,
- 5:09how has your approach to networking evolved over
- 5:13your 15 year career in marketing and communications?
- 5:17Yeah, so. That is a great question, and it's
- 5:21definitely evolved as I've gotten more mature
- 5:24and confident. I think confidence is a big part
- 5:27of it. And in order to have confidence, you really
- 5:30have to understand what you're doing. When I
- 5:32started my first PR job at the fine jewelry brand
- 5:35in New York City, my boss at the time kept saying
- 5:38to me, you need to make editor relationships.
- 5:41These magazine editors are going to be the bread
- 5:43and butter of your success as you grow in your
- 5:46career for traditional PR. And she would challenge
- 5:50me to take out a certain amount of editors to
- 5:53lunch or dinner or manicures, whatever it was,
- 5:56or a walk at least once a week. And that was
- 6:00like part of my measurement of success in that
- 6:03role. So she really pushed me into it. I remember
- 6:07feeling so uncomfortable at times, especially
- 6:09if I was taking out editors that were my senior.
- 6:13And not really always knowing what to say to
- 6:15them. And then as I did it more, I got more and
- 6:18more comfortable. Now, over 15 years later, I
- 6:22feel like I can walk into a room, commands the
- 6:25attention of a conversation as I need to learn
- 6:28from people that I'm speaking with. And I'm a
- 6:32completely different type and style of networker
- 6:35at this point. Yeah, everybody has that certain
- 6:39somebody that kind of pushed them. That was either
- 6:43their mentor or something else. But everybody
- 6:46has that person. And it sounds like she was very
- 6:51good to you and pushed you in the right direction.
- 6:54Yeah, she was great to me. And when I went out
- 6:57and started my own agency, she actually is the
- 7:00first person that really threw me business and
- 7:03let me also work on some of her clients so that
- 7:06I could get my footing. So I am forever appreciative
- 7:09and indebted to her. Wow, that's great. Yeah.
- 7:14Okay, so let's change it to your industry itself.
- 7:17How does networking differ in the fashion, lifestyle,
- 7:22beauty, and hospitality industries compared to
- 7:26other sectors? It's much more casual. I think
- 7:30that even going on a job interview in this industry
- 7:34is much more casual than I would imagine a finance
- 7:37interview or a legal interview or a medical professional.
- 7:41For fashion, for example, the way you show up,
- 7:44what you're wearing matters. If you want to look
- 7:48and feel the part for whatever job you're trying
- 7:51to get, and it's similar with networking, right?
- 7:53In this industry, you want to understand who
- 7:57you're stepping into a room with and make sure
- 7:59that you're appropriate for that group of people.
- 8:04So if I'm going somewhere and I know it's going
- 8:06to be like... a bunch of restaurant industry
- 8:09professionals, bartenders, servers, general managers,
- 8:13like they're probably going to be more chill.
- 8:16So I'm probably going to wear jeans and come
- 8:18with a more vibrant approach and have a cocktail
- 8:22with them and chill and relax versus maybe a
- 8:25fashion industry event. I'm for sure putting
- 8:27on heels. I'm definitely going to make sure I
- 8:30look really polished. And I'm going to have probably
- 8:34just read Women's Wear Daily the past couple
- 8:36issues so I know what's going on. So I have things
- 8:39to speak to them about. I love networking in
- 8:43my type of industry because I think that people
- 8:47are so passionate about what they do. So the
- 8:50communication on the topic of what we do is so
- 8:53important versus maybe. At an illegal event,
- 8:58you don't want to talk about your caseload as
- 9:00heavily, but we are talking about our industry
- 9:04nonstop because we're creative and it's so much
- 9:08in our DNA. It's great. You mentioned your Instagram
- 9:12handle and how much you increase your followers.
- 9:16How do you balance the digital and the traditional
- 9:20networking that you've experienced? That's a
- 9:23great question. Digital networking should feel
- 9:26a lot like in -person networking. In order to
- 9:31form relationships with people, you need to reach
- 9:34out to them and connect on a point that resonates
- 9:38with them, right? If you want to make a digital
- 9:41relationship, you're going to comment on somebody
- 9:44else's post. Find things that are a commonality
- 9:48that you can speak to. Maybe you're going to
- 9:51send them a direct message and tell them that
- 9:53you loved something or that you did something
- 9:55similar. And you're going to start building friends
- 9:58online by doing that. It's imperative when you're
- 10:02networking in my industry to have some sort of
- 10:05digital presence because that footprint is almost
- 10:09like your business card. I put as much emphasis
- 10:12on digital marketing as I do on in -person marketing.
- 10:17Wow, that's good. So tell me, what's your secret
- 10:20to turning initial connections into long -term
- 10:27relationships? Being authentic really helps.
- 10:33You need to, I've said this, but you need to
- 10:35find a commonality with the person. Whether you
- 10:39approach a conversation and you ask them about
- 10:42their family or you create a genuine friendship
- 10:46because you compliment somebody's earrings or
- 10:50ordering the same drink at the event. Find a
- 10:53commonality and kind of use that as a kickoff
- 10:56to the conversation. And then try not to be awkward.
- 11:00Try to have some questions in your head before
- 11:02you go somewhere to network that you can ask
- 11:05everybody. For example. It was just South Beach
- 11:08Wine and Food Festival here in Miami. So maybe
- 11:11if I was at an event this week trying to network
- 11:14and it was within that hospitality crowd, I would
- 11:16say to everybody, did you go to events for Sobe
- 11:20Wine and Food Festival? Did you enjoy them? Did
- 11:23you meet any cool chefs? Have things in your
- 11:26head that you can speak about. And I think the
- 11:28other point that I always like to make is that
- 11:31follow up is really important. So figure out.
- 11:36In that scenario, what type of follow -up makes
- 11:39the most sense? As we talked about, my industry
- 11:42is a little bit more casual. So people don't
- 11:44really have business cards on them as much. So
- 11:47people will generally connect through social
- 11:49media or maybe they'll give you an email address.
- 11:52And I always like to be in control of the follow
- 11:55-up. So I'll make sure to get everybody's contact
- 11:58information that I have spoken to. And I will
- 12:01do the follow up the next morning as opposed
- 12:03to relying on somebody else to follow up with
- 12:06me. And I will always bring in something that
- 12:09we talked about in person when I do the follow
- 12:12up. So, hey, so great to meet you last night.
- 12:16Don't forget to send me the link to the earrings
- 12:19you were wearing so I can order them too. Or,
- 12:22oh, my God, that chef that you met sounds that
- 12:25you met at South Beach Food and Wine Festival
- 12:26sounds like. Such a great guy. I'm going to go
- 12:30try out his restaurant next week. Just so you
- 12:33can continue the conversation in an organic way.
- 12:36Yeah. You hit on so many points that is so important
- 12:43that I don't know if everybody got what you were
- 12:46saying. It's important to be authentic, to be
- 12:49present. That's first and foremost, confidence.
- 12:53That's another very important part of this. The
- 12:57know you, like you, trust you really comes into
- 13:00it because they'll do business with you. I've
- 13:04said this on a thousand podcasts. To know you,
- 13:07everybody knows you. You're a great girl. That's
- 13:10just the way it is. But like you, that narrows
- 13:13down the field just a little bit because everybody's
- 13:16not going to like you. But trust you, that's
- 13:20so crucial. That is the crucial factor in all
- 13:24of this. Once you gain that trust factor, you
- 13:28have the things in your head that you want to
- 13:30ask and everything else to keep you calm, so
- 13:33to speak. But another point that you hit the
- 13:36nail right on the head was the follow -up. And
- 13:40the follow -up is probably more important than
- 13:44actually meeting the person. Yeah. Because your
- 13:47follow -up is so, so very important. So I can
- 13:50go on all day with your answers just from that
- 13:52one point. Thank you. And I think one other thing
- 13:56that I always like to mention is put your ego
- 13:59away because when you lead with that, you're
- 14:02never going to make a genuine relationship and
- 14:05no one will trust you. Just be chill, be kind
- 14:10and genuinely interested. And if you're not connecting
- 14:15with somebody like that, then OK, maybe that's
- 14:18not the best person to have a conversation with
- 14:21at that moment and move on. Not everybody, like
- 14:24you said, is going to like you, and that's fair.
- 14:28That's fair because, listen, you're not everything
- 14:32to everybody. You have to pick your lane. And
- 14:35if they don't like you, they don't like you,
- 14:36you move on. It's very simple. How important
- 14:39is personal branding in networking, especially
- 14:44in image -conscious industry like fashion and
- 14:48beauty? A million percent important. My PR agency
- 14:53job in New York was very intense. We were working
- 14:57with such major brands. We were with celebrities
- 15:02all the time. There were celebrities in and out
- 15:04of the office. It was like top tier. And the
- 15:08owner of the agency would walk around and make
- 15:12sure that we were all dressed appropriately.
- 15:15And if not, I would have to send people home
- 15:18for my team. to change and come back to the office,
- 15:22which candidly probably wouldn't be appropriate
- 15:24today. But at the time it flew. And that was
- 15:28because they would always say to us, if you can't
- 15:31go to Anna Wintour's desk right now, who was
- 15:34the editor in chief of Vogue or is, then you
- 15:38can't wear that. So that was a fashion PR job,
- 15:41right? But that taught me that. The image that
- 15:46you present is always important. And I pay attention
- 15:50to those details on other people. I think if
- 15:53you're a content creator, what is your vibe?
- 15:57Aside from what you're saying, right? But what
- 16:00are you trying to convey? I think sometimes people
- 16:03discount how much of your exterior image can
- 16:08impact your ability to do business in certain
- 16:12industries. And it's not. It shouldn't be looked
- 16:14at as fluffy or a negative. I actually look at
- 16:18it in the opposite way. Take control of it. You
- 16:22know what's going to work, so do it. And if you
- 16:24don't know what's going to work in a specific
- 16:26industry, research it. See what successful people
- 16:29in that career field have done and figure out
- 16:34how to interpret what they're doing in a way
- 16:37that feels organic to you. Don't ever do anything
- 16:40that doesn't feel organic to you. Try to pull
- 16:44in inspiration from other people to influence
- 16:47what you're doing. That's so true. Listen, I
- 16:53was in the Air Force for nine years, so I always
- 16:56had to make sure that I looked tight, as they
- 16:59called it. But when I got out of the Air Force
- 17:02and into corporate, I realized that I would look
- 17:06at somebody, but I would look down at their shoes.
- 17:11and see whether or not they had polished shoes.
- 17:14Not today's day that they wear sneakers with
- 17:17suits, and I don't know. I don't get all that.
- 17:19But you look down at their shoes. If their shoes
- 17:22are polished and clean, then they're okay that
- 17:25they dressed appropriately. If they're dressed
- 17:27nicely but unpolished shoes, then that leaves
- 17:31the door open a little bit. But, yep, that's
- 17:33my way. Nails are also a big one for me. chem,
- 17:41you know, is there dirt under your nails? Because
- 17:45I don't want somebody cooking for me that has
- 17:49dirt under their nails. I wouldn't want my doctor
- 17:51having dirt under their nails. So that's like
- 17:54a huge one for me. Absolutely. And a big one
- 17:57for me. I'm glad you said it, but it's the same
- 18:00thing for me. This next question, everybody has
- 18:04to take a moment and think about it. Okay. What's
- 18:09the biggest networking mistake you've made, you've
- 18:13seen in your career, and how can my listeners
- 18:17avoid it? See, everybody does that double take.
- 18:23So I see people do this all the time, and it's
- 18:28not just in networking. It's in communication,
- 18:31conversations with people, not listening. to
- 18:36what the other person is saying and only thinking
- 18:39about what you want to say and the point you
- 18:42want to make so that when you reply, you're not
- 18:45replying accurately and you make the person that
- 18:49you're speaking to feel completely discounted
- 18:54because you're not addressing the point that
- 18:57they just said because you so badly need to make
- 18:59your point. In networking, that can be detrimental
- 19:02because people are going to be like, wow. person
- 19:05only wants to talk about themselves or needs
- 19:09to drive something home so hard that they don't
- 19:11care what I have to say. And they're going to
- 19:14remember you, but they're not going to remember
- 19:16you for the right reason. Absolutely. Listen,
- 19:20I'm paid to go on stages, to breakout sessions,
- 19:23keynotes. I do workshops for companies. And that's
- 19:28a very important point that I bring out. I call
- 19:31it active listening. You listen to the person.
- 19:34Completely. And then you pause at the end of
- 19:38it. What does that pause do? It tells the other
- 19:41person you are listening to them and you don't
- 19:43respond by the next thing that you want to say.
- 19:46You respond to something that they said. And
- 19:49it goes such a long way, but that listening and
- 19:52that pause is so very important. Okay. How do
- 19:56you measure the success or ROI of your networking
- 20:00efforts in the marketing world? I guess with
- 20:06the ability to do things quickly. So what I mean
- 20:12by that is that if I have the right relationships
- 20:16on behalf of a client, I should be at this point
- 20:22in my career able to move things forward for
- 20:27a project or a partnership or an event or a press
- 20:31placement. In a rather speedy way, because I
- 20:36have the right connections to lean on to get
- 20:39the job done. That's good. OK, so give me a strategy
- 20:46for maximizing networking opportunities at industry
- 20:51events or trade shows. So, again, it's dependent
- 20:57on the industry, but generally speaking, I would
- 21:00say walk into the room. survey the room, look
- 21:05around, take it in, maybe walk to the bar, get
- 21:09a drink, even if it's a cup of water, just so
- 21:13you have something in your hand and figure out
- 21:15who you want to speak to and then observe for
- 21:20a second and then walk over to them, try to start
- 21:23a conversation if they're already speaking to
- 21:26a group of people. Maybe you pause and you listen
- 21:29to what they're saying and you figure out how
- 21:30you can actually get involved in that conversation.
- 21:34If it's a one -on -one conversation, do what
- 21:37I said before, which is have something in your
- 21:39head in advance that you can say to them or compliment
- 21:43them on something and then wrap that up, get
- 21:49their contact information and move on to the
- 21:51next person. If you're in a networking situation
- 21:54like that, I imagine your objective is to speak
- 21:57to as many people in the room as possible, or
- 22:00that's what my objective would be. Politely wrap
- 22:03up conversations. Don't make people think that
- 22:06you're doing that in a rude way. And I'm sure
- 22:09we've all also been part of conversations where
- 22:11you feel the person that you're speaking to looking
- 22:14beyond you, knowing that they want to talk to
- 22:17somebody maybe that's behind you. Do not do that.
- 22:20That's so uncomfortable. So stay focused when
- 22:24you're with. the person that you're speaking
- 22:25to be present in that conversation and then say,
- 22:28okay, great. I know we're here both to meet other
- 22:31people. I'll follow up with you tomorrow. It
- 22:33was lovely to meet you and then move on. Yeah.
- 22:37And you hit so many points of correct networking
- 22:41that I can't even begin to say what, because
- 22:46I'm telling you, because every time that you
- 22:48said when, especially when you're listening,
- 22:51when you're pausing. When you have to build that
- 22:54rapport with the other person, I use something
- 22:57called form, F -O -R -M, family, occupation,
- 23:02recreation, and a message. And I pick anyone
- 23:06to talk to them about, talk to the person about.
- 23:09So I just have that word in my head. So a family
- 23:13with a wife, a husband, a sister, a son, a daughter,
- 23:17whatever, little league, football, junior football,
- 23:20I can talk about anything. But occupation, whatever
- 23:24their occupation might be. So I pick something.
- 23:28And most of all, I have them talk about themselves.
- 23:32Because what? People love to talk about themselves.
- 23:37The more that they talk, the higher the trust
- 23:41level goes up and the barrier comes down slowly.
- 23:45So it opens up relations a little bit. But that's
- 23:48for another conversation. Okay. Given your extensive
- 23:52experience, what emerging networking trends do
- 23:56you foresee for the next five years, in the next
- 23:59five years? A heavier play on digital and social
- 24:04media networking. A lot of people who have been
- 24:09in their industries for longer don't totally
- 24:13understand or value. those digital relationships
- 24:18through Instagram or Facebook or TikTok or LinkedIn.
- 24:21But as they shift out of the career industry
- 24:26and the younger generations continue to step
- 24:29in, I think that the emphasis on digital and
- 24:32your digital footprint will become more and more
- 24:36important. That's great. Amanda, I can't begin
- 24:40to tell you how great you did on this podcast.
- 24:45You hit the networking right on the head. I just
- 24:49expanded what you had to say because networking,
- 24:54I feel, is the base of all businesses. You have
- 24:59to network in order to go out and get more business,
- 25:02but you have to network correctly so you don't
- 25:07look bad, you don't look this way or that way.
- 25:09So if you do it correctly, you'll do it very
- 25:12well, such as yourself. Amanda. If anybody wants
- 25:16to get hold of you for whatever the reason, for
- 25:18any of your multiple categories, how would they
- 25:21do it? Thank you for asking that. So you can
- 25:25find me on Instagram at from Apple to Orange
- 25:28and slide into my DMs. I will definitely reply
- 25:32to you there. And then my business handle is
- 25:36at the A initiative. So the T -H -E -A and then
- 25:40initiative. Nobody can ever spell some for some
- 25:44reason, but I -N -I -T -I -A -T -I -V -E. And
- 25:48you can also message me there. I would love to
- 25:52hear from everyone. That's great. Amanda, thank
- 25:55you very much. And hopefully we'll talk soon.
- 25:59Sounds good. Thank you for having me. Wait, we
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- 27:00guests for sharing such incredible insights today.
- 27:03And of course, a big shout out to you, our amazing
- 27:07listeners, for tuning in and spending your time
- 27:10with us. Remember, networking isn't about being
- 27:14perfect. It's about being present. So take what
- 27:17you've learned today, get out there and make
- 27:20some meaningful connections. If you enjoyed this
- 27:23episode. don't forget to subscribe, leave us
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- 27:28use a little networking inspiration. Let's keep
- 27:31the conversation going. You can find me on Apple,
- 27:35Spotify, YouTube, or my website, michaelaforman
- 27:40.com. Remember, until next time, keep practicing,
- 27:44keep connecting, and keep building those relationships.
- 27:47This is Michael A. Foreman signing off. Take
- 27:50care and happy networking.