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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hi. I had Samy with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio,
- 0:03Speaker 1: and this is your sacred space for spirituality, intuition, manifestation,
- 0:08Speaker 1: and metaphysical wisdom. This is another episode of manifest with
- 0:13Speaker 1: Amy and we're going to talk about essence. You've probably
- 0:17Speaker 1: heard this, particularly if you've been manifesting for twenty plus years.
- 0:23Speaker 1: We used to talk about essence all the time. We
- 0:27Speaker 1: don't hear about it quite as much. But this was
- 0:30Speaker 1: how I learned to manifest. And you know, honestly, when
- 0:33Speaker 1: I started, I mean, I've been manifesting my whole life,
- 0:38Speaker 1: I just didn't know that's what it was called. But
- 0:40Speaker 1: when I discovered Abraham Hicks in that conversation and the
- 0:46Speaker 1: teachers that were out at that time when asking it
- 0:50Speaker 1: was given first came out, they talked a lot about
- 0:53Speaker 1: manifesting from essence. So essentially, it's the energy behind the desire.
- 0:59Speaker 1: So some people say it's the truth behind your desire.
- 1:04Speaker 1: Some people say it's the feeling behind your desire. I
- 1:07Speaker 1: think it's all of those things. Every manifestation has two layers.
- 1:13Speaker 1: There is the layer of form, and then there is
- 1:15Speaker 1: the layer of essence. Form is that actual physical thing
- 1:21Speaker 1: that you want the essence is the feeling or the
- 1:26Speaker 1: experience or the truth, the why behind your desire. Most
- 1:34Speaker 1: people get really fixated. Who are you know who haven't
- 1:37Speaker 1: been manifesting a long time get really fixated with form?
- 1:41Speaker 1: I do too, Oh my god, yes, I get fixated
- 1:44Speaker 1: with form too. So I'm not saying it's just for
- 1:46Speaker 1: new manifestors, especially when that form feels really good. So
- 1:53Speaker 1: if you are, if you choose a desire for yourself
- 1:57Speaker 1: and then you've come across the form that you want,
- 2:03Speaker 1: like say it's say it's a house, you're like, I
- 2:06Speaker 1: want this house, I want this house. I want this house, right,
- 2:10Speaker 1: and so really it's not that house. It was the
- 2:16Speaker 1: energy that let you even go out and find that house.
- 2:21Speaker 1: So that is essence. It's that original spark. So the
- 2:28Speaker 1: real power is when you focus on the essence. So
- 2:33Speaker 1: form as the apartment, the money, the job, the opportunity,
- 2:36Speaker 1: the relationship, the outcome. Essence is the feeling state underneath
- 2:41Speaker 1: it safety, expansion, freedom, stability, piece, recognition, support. Right, I
- 2:51Speaker 1: think because in current manifesting culture they talk so little
- 2:58Speaker 1: about essence. Now everybody is focused on this thing, right,
- 3:02Speaker 1: and when it's in business, it's like five thousand dollars
- 3:05Speaker 1: month or ten thousand dollars a month or five you know,
- 3:08Speaker 1: I mean to six figure month, So we get really,
- 3:11Speaker 1: you know, even if you search the video right now,
- 3:16Speaker 1: you're searching based on form, not on the energy behind
- 3:20Speaker 1: the form. And I have really struggle with this. I
- 3:24Speaker 1: do think as a as a species, we've evolved and
- 3:28Speaker 1: form does does intertwine more with essence. But when we
- 3:34Speaker 1: when I first learned to manifest, everything was essens right,
- 3:38Speaker 1: and that's why detachment was so much easier. You could
- 3:42Speaker 1: focus on the energy behind the thing, and now here
- 3:44Speaker 1: it is. I when I do a meditation by you
- 3:50Speaker 1: know some like a teacher who recorded in like early
- 3:54Speaker 1: two thousand's, you know, the nineties, and they're talking about
- 4:00Speaker 1: you may not even need the thing. You just focus
- 4:02Speaker 1: on what do you think it's going to give you?
- 4:06Speaker 1: Is that more freedom, more time? And then you can
- 4:10Speaker 1: just focus on that and you might not even need
- 4:13Speaker 1: the thing. I'm like, there is never a time when
- 4:17Speaker 1: I am thinking about the safety and security that comes
- 4:21Speaker 1: with money and think I'll just take this safety and
- 4:24Speaker 1: security and I don't need the money, right, No, I
- 4:28Speaker 1: just don't think. I just don't think. I think we've evolved,
- 4:34Speaker 1: I think, and I think a manifestation is evolving with us.
- 4:39Speaker 1: But the show I did yesterday is when Spirit is
- 4:42Speaker 1: directing us to something better. And so when we are
- 4:45Speaker 1: being directed to something better, it can feel jarring and
- 4:50Speaker 1: uncomfortable because we think spirit's telling us, no, we can't
- 4:53Speaker 1: have what we want. But oftentimes Spirit is drawing us
- 4:56Speaker 1: to the essence, the same essence but in a different
- 5:02Speaker 1: form that may come with less problems, less complications, be
- 5:05Speaker 1: easier to obtain, and so that's where essence becomes important.
- 5:11Speaker 1: We can have a lot more faith in spirit when
- 5:15Speaker 1: we're not so attached to form. So when you focus
- 5:18Speaker 1: on essence, you move out of the tendency to force
- 5:22Speaker 1: it to happen or make it happen, and you stop
- 5:25Speaker 1: trying to control every little detail, and instead you create
- 5:29Speaker 1: space for better outcomes because you stop limiting Spirit to
- 5:34Speaker 1: one version, to the one version you had in mind.
- 5:37Speaker 1: So one thing I do know to be true. Let's
- 5:39Speaker 1: go back to my example around money. No, the sensation
- 5:43Speaker 1: of security does not replace having cash money. Though, what
- 5:51Speaker 1: I've realized is when I do focus on the sensation
- 5:55Speaker 1: of feeling secure in my body and trusting in my
- 5:59Speaker 1: body and feeling confident and determined in my body. What
- 6:03Speaker 1: I do is I open the channel so money can
- 6:06Speaker 1: flow to me from a lot of different places. And
- 6:09Speaker 1: so I have a lot of thoughts on that because oftentimes,
- 6:13Speaker 1: of course I wanted to come through my business. You know,
- 6:18Speaker 1: but who's going to say no to a random check
- 6:20Speaker 1: in the mail? You know? Yeah, who's going to say
- 6:28Speaker 1: no to that? But you know, we live in a
- 6:32Speaker 1: very data driven culture, and so yeah, you can really
- 6:40Speaker 1: get caught up in form. But in revisiting this idea
- 6:45Speaker 1: of essence, not all forms are going to be right
- 6:49Speaker 1: and true for us that we decide on right and
- 6:53Speaker 1: so it doesn't mean you can't have what you want. See.
- 6:56Speaker 1: That's that I think is why I was inspired to
- 6:59Speaker 1: do the show about essence, is that with this obsession
- 7:04Speaker 1: with form in the manifestation space, we're we're also creating
- 7:11Speaker 1: a letdown in our mind if we don't get that
- 7:15Speaker 1: exact form, we think, oh, no, Spirit must not want
- 7:18Speaker 1: me to have what I want. But Spirit does want
- 7:20Speaker 1: you to have what you want, and that's where essence
- 7:23Speaker 1: comes into play. So if you start to focus on
- 7:26Speaker 1: the energy behind the desire, more and more and more
- 7:31Speaker 1: it will give you a lot more room to trust,
- 7:36Speaker 1: to have faith, to remain optimistic. So it's not the object,
- 7:40Speaker 1: it's not the title, it's not the timeline. It's the
- 7:45Speaker 1: experience you want to live inside. Once you have the thing,
- 7:51Speaker 1: do you want more freedom, more joy, more peace, more space?
- 7:59Speaker 1: You manifest real that place and when you hold that
- 8:04Speaker 1: that essence, the universe gives you the forum that matches it.
- 8:08Speaker 1: And sometimes it arrives exactly as you imagine. Most of
- 8:12Speaker 1: time it doesn't, and that's where that's where you can
- 8:18Speaker 1: really enjoy your life more. When you focus on essence,
- 8:22Speaker 1: sometimes it's going to arrive in a completely different way
- 8:25Speaker 1: than you ever imagine, but it will always match the
- 8:28Speaker 1: essence behind the desire. And essence is still your own.
- 8:32Speaker 1: It's not like spirit makes up what the essence is.
- 8:34Speaker 1: It's still your choosing. You know, if you are looking
- 8:39Speaker 1: to manifest your dream home, what's the energy behind that?
- 8:44Speaker 1: Do you want the and you get to have it all?
- 8:49Speaker 1: It doesn't. I don't think spirit's judging us. You could
- 8:51Speaker 1: want the home just so you're the person in your
- 8:54Speaker 1: friendship circle with the big home, and that makes you
- 8:56Speaker 1: feel really good about yourself. And if that's coming from
- 8:59Speaker 1: your heart and and it's not about it's not about
- 9:06Speaker 1: gaining something outside of you. It just feels good to
- 9:09Speaker 1: you to be like I'm the one the friends circle
- 9:12Speaker 1: with the giant home good. That's essence. Spirits all on
- 9:16Speaker 1: board for that. So don't judge yourself for the desire.
- 9:20Speaker 1: Just make sure the desire comes from your heart and
- 9:23Speaker 1: it's not based on the perceptions of others, which that
- 9:28Speaker 1: can happen often. Oh my god, that can happen really
- 9:31Speaker 1: quickly and easily without you even knowing it. So let's
- 9:35Speaker 1: talk about the one you're Intuitive coaching package. This is
- 9:38Speaker 1: some of the work that we'll do every week in
- 9:42Speaker 1: that in the Intuitive Coaching package. If you want to
- 9:45Speaker 1: do that, you get to focus on whatever you want.
- 9:48Speaker 1: But if you're recognizing that, hey, I've been so obsessed
- 9:51Speaker 1: with form and it's not creating the feeling that's allowing
- 9:56Speaker 1: my desire to manifest, you probably need to go back
- 9:59Speaker 1: to essence. And so that's something we could talk about
- 10:02Speaker 1: and get clear on, because when you know the essence
- 10:05Speaker 1: behind you're a desire, it will make manifestation easier in
- 10:11Speaker 1: any area of your life. So if you want to
- 10:14Speaker 1: move forward, and manifest desire after desire after desire over
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- 11:02Speaker 1: and learn about all my package offerings. But the one
- 11:05Speaker 1: year into a coaching package is incredible. So when you
- 11:11Speaker 1: focus on essence, your energy becomes a lot more steady,
- 11:17Speaker 1: You're no longer thrown off by something outside of your control,
- 11:21Speaker 1: and you become a person who receives. You become a
- 11:24Speaker 1: person who receives because you're consistently holding the energy of
- 11:28Speaker 1: your desire. So yeah, I think it definitely makes manifesting easier. Yeah,
- 11:40Speaker 1: it definitely makes manifesting easier because again, our human mind
- 11:47Speaker 1: is limited, so we might pick out a form and
- 11:49Speaker 1: it might feel so good. I was talking a client
- 11:50Speaker 1: about this today. She's like, but Amy, you know, it
- 11:53Speaker 1: feels so good and then it doesn't work out? What
- 11:55Speaker 1: does that mean? And I, you know, I'm still going
- 12:01Speaker 1: to God about that one. When something feels so good,
- 12:05Speaker 1: like genuinely from your heart, the only answer, and what
- 12:09Speaker 1: I offered her was its expansion. And so feeling that
- 12:15Speaker 1: good opened our eyes to something. And maybe that thing
- 12:19Speaker 1: wasn't the right fit, but it opened our eyes in
- 12:22Speaker 1: a way in which makes it easier for us to
- 12:25Speaker 1: experience more of what we want. So maybe you know
- 12:28Speaker 1: you're pursuing something and it doesn't come through, but all
- 12:34Speaker 1: of a sudden, now you're in that world and you
- 12:38Speaker 1: get to focus on desires in a world you hadn't
- 12:41Speaker 1: even considered, if that opportunity or that experience hadn't showed
- 12:44Speaker 1: up for you and not worked out. So those are
- 12:47Speaker 1: my thoughts on it. Focus on essence. It'll make manifestation
- 12:51Speaker 1: a lot easier. It can also be weird trying to
- 12:53Speaker 1: identify what it is, but go with your heart, right,
- 13:02Speaker 1: go with your heart and what feels good to you,
- 13:05Speaker 1: and you'll find that everything gets easier because you might
- 13:08Speaker 1: be putting up with a lot or taking on more
- 13:11Speaker 1: than you need to, or carrying a burden that is
- 13:17Speaker 1: unnecessary for the true essence behind the desire. And so
- 13:22Speaker 1: if you just focus on essence instead of form, it
- 13:25Speaker 1: can really lead you to a much easier, much more graceful,
- 13:30Speaker 1: much more comfortable path. Yeah, and you know, stop thinking
- 13:37Speaker 1: about what everybody else is up to and focus on
- 13:39Speaker 1: your heart and then you'll get closer and closer to
- 13:42Speaker 1: the essence of your desire. All right, that's my thoughts.
- 13:45Speaker 1: I'm aiming intuitive coaching Withthamy dot com. I look forward
- 13:49Speaker 1: to connecting with you on the next show. Thank you
- 13:51Speaker 1: so much for listening. Take care of yourself. Goodbye.