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What is the value of not getting what you want immediately. · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the good morning from the chicken coop, podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and master mindset.
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  Coach filled with inspiration, distinctions, perspectives and
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  possibilities. We help you to cultivate a
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  mindset that leads you to create the best version of yourself.
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  You could ever imagine join Kim every morning from one of her.
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  Favorite happy places for chicken coop, along with all her
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  chickens. Hey everybody.
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  Good morning from the chicken coop.
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  It It's pretty windy out here today so hopefully we do not
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  have lots of wind in the mic. I'm going to work on that but
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  hopefully it's not too bad. So at least you know I'm in real
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  conditions out here and and dealing with the elements that
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  have happening around me. So today we are talking about
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  the value of not getting what you want immediately.
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  When I was a child, I was taught to save for things.
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  I was taught that I had to save my money to buy up things.
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  I was taught that I To work for what I wanted.
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  I had the joy of, I couldn't know, instantly the answers of
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  things. I have the joy of waiting, the
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  joy of seeing how things went and I'll be quite honest with
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  you. There were times that that
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  really pissed me off, I didn't like it.
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  And I wanted to be able to get what I wanted immediately in
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  that that level of instant gratification is is a true thing
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  for human beings. You know, we want what we want
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  when we want it and we don't want to wait and I have often
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  Often throughout my life, had to work on this in myself because I
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  am easily swayed into getting what I want immediately.
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  But as time goes by and as you grow up and as you learn things,
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  you start to recognize that there is value in, not getting
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  what you want immediately. There's value in having to take
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  time and work for things. There's value in saying I poured
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  in all this effort into myself and then that became something
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  for me as a human being That I'm able to, you know, recognize I
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  did, I created this. So it's kind of think of it like
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  a working on a painting or, you know, if somebody for all my
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  guys out there that are listening.
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  If you're someone that refurbishes cars, like you can't
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  refurbish a car in the day. There's no instant gratification
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  with it, it's a process and It's taking that mentality and
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  saying, I'm going to bring that forward to other things in my
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  life like building my business. I didn't just get to have the
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  business. I have overnight.
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  It took a lot of effort, a lot of work, a lot of pain, a lot of
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  triumphs, a lot of fun, but it also took a massive amount of
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  effort, and it continues to be a massive amount of effort because
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  it's, it's a process to to coach people at the level at which I
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  coach them. So I can tell you.
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  Right now that from from my perspective of saying, you know,
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  there's value and not always getting what you want, you have
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  to back up and say to yourself. Okay well what are the things
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  that I really want to work on that?
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  I'm willing to work on to see where they bring me.
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  And if you can start to reverse engineer this a little bit and
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  look at it and say I'm willing to work for this, I'm willing to
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  make the effort for this. I think this would be tremendous
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  if I did have this or do this or On this, I promise you it
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  creates such a feeling of joy and accomplishment when you do
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  that the right way for yourself. So where is the showing up for
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  you? Where are you willing to pour in
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  and say you know what, it's worth the effort.
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  Now this can be something that's physical like losing weight,
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  getting healthy, getting strong, something that I'm diligently
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  working on myself, don't really talk about it that much because
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  it's my own thing that I have to.
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  Of to focus on but getting really strong.
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  I don't want to be an old woman who's not strong that, that just
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  the thought of that makes me ill.
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  So that's not happening, but taking the time and the effort
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  and pouring into that, that's not something I can get instant
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  gratification on. I actually have to work at that
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  over time and the more I pour into it, the better I become and
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  the stronger. Again, the more I do just like
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  building up doing the steps. And working working working
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  towards having a high level of Step count every day.
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  So again, one of those big pieces of the puzzle is looking
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  and saying, okay well what is it?
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  That is worth the effort? What do I want to look at myself
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  and no, I did that. I want to be proud of whether
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  it's writing a book. I have a lot of people in my
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  life right now that want to write books and I say it's worth
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  the effort. It's worth the effort to know
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  when it's done that. Your name is on something and
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  that you're published. Act whether you publish it
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  yourself or you publish it through Amazon or anybody else.
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  It's worth the effort to see it. Trust me.
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  I know having written books. It's worth it and it can.
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  Again, it can be, this can be anything.
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  If it's a project you want to create for yourself.
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  It's if it's up, leveling your clients.
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  If it's changing your work, all of that is massive in your
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  personal growth. So I'm going to challenge you to
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  go out and say you know, really take a Good hard look and say
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  what is worth me? Not getting it immediately.
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  What is worth my effort? You know, what do I want to pour
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  into? Because immediate gratification
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  is great and there are things that are really worth my effort
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  that are not immediate. What are those things?
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  What do I want to pour into knowing that we've got only a
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  couple more weeks of this year to go and you have a choice to
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  make before you start setting your goals, what's going to be
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  worth it for you? So, I hope you guys have a
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  blessed day and I will see you tomorrow.
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  Bye. So, I hope you guys have a
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  blessed day and I will see you tomorrow.
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  Bye.