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$0 Secrets To Navigating Your 20s · Two Broke Chicks

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  Speaker 1: This podcast is recorded on gadigal Land Always was, always
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  Speaker 1: will be Aboriginal Land. Harry Jigs, I'm out and and
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  Speaker 1: this is two broad chicks to show that shares life
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  Speaker 1: lessons to be rich in the rich.
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  Speaker 2: It's actually an assault to the sense is that noise?
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  Speaker 2: I know, so that we need to make a public apology.
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  Speaker 3: When we open like that.
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  Speaker 2: It'll just feel so good. It feels so good. I
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  Speaker 2: encourage everyone to do it.
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  Speaker 1: Actually, Yeah, and we are in for a little Sydney
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  Speaker 1: yap this and yap this and yap let's get yappin'.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, my yap's good and babies go brazy.
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  Speaker 1: So basically we put up a little story box on
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  Speaker 1: i G as we do every week as a let's
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  Speaker 1: catch up, and we just got so many questions, questions
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  Speaker 1: that people wanted to know about us.
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  Speaker 5: I know, chicks, I am so sweet of you.
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  Speaker 4: And then just some life advice.
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  Speaker 2: So we thought we were kind of due for an
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  Speaker 2: advice with the chicks and yeah, that's what we're here for.
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  Speaker 6: Yep.
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  Speaker 4: Some of these are jew seed, Yeah they are.
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  Speaker 5: There was some rogue questions rolling in.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I appreciate it, I like it, I respect it.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like tea.
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  Speaker 2: But before we get into the episode, we got to
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  Speaker 2: go through our.
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  Speaker 4: Obsession cut the music obsession.
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  Speaker 1: My obsession is the chick that wrote in last week
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  Speaker 1: that said my favorite part of the episode was two
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  Speaker 1: minutes in Alice going fuck me.
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  Speaker 3: With the background noise of her.
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  Speaker 2: Eyes last in the background, and nothing has ever been
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  Speaker 2: so real. So I would also like to open this
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  Speaker 2: episode with a fuck.
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  Speaker 1: Me and a.
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  Speaker 6: That one's just for you cheer.
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  Speaker 3: All right, what are you obsessed with? Okay?
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  Speaker 1: This week my obsession a bit of a bougie purchase,
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  Speaker 1: but I think it's worth the bang.
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  Speaker 5: Bang for Bark gives the bank for Bark. And we
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  Speaker 5: got some.
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  Speaker 1: Nifty gifties from crop Shop Boutique, which was very sweet
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  Speaker 1: of them to send some stuff to us, and we
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  Speaker 1: got to select a few picks and I picked these
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  Speaker 1: petite boot leg.
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  Speaker 5: Leggings. And I really struggle.
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  Speaker 1: With any sort of flare or boot cut, like a
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  Speaker 1: flared legging, yeah, because I'm only five to one, I'm
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  Speaker 1: very short, and so usually they end up dragging on
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  Speaker 1: the ground. Typically I would get something like that altered,
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  Speaker 1: but I don't know when it comes to active where
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  Speaker 1: that's like lower on my priority list of what to
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  Speaker 1: get altered, and then they always end up really trashed
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  Speaker 1: after wearing them a couple of times.
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  Speaker 5: And because these are a petit style.
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  Speaker 1: They're made for short girlies, and they're so flattering, they're
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  Speaker 1: so comfortable, really really high quality, so the materials is
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  Speaker 1: actually quite thick. I feel very supported, but also yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but not suffocated, not suffocating, and it's not it's not
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  Speaker 1: necessarily for the look that the village.
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  Speaker 5: It's just like I don't I don't want.
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  Speaker 1: To active way, it's kind of hugging you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, because then it looks like an anxiety weighted blanket.
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  Speaker 4: It's like anxiety active wear.
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  Speaker 6: Hold me tender.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I like that because then it also means
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  Speaker 1: they don't roll down and stuff. And while these leggings
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  Speaker 1: are a little bit more expensive, I think they're eighty
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  Speaker 1: nine ninety nine, so.
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  Speaker 6: It's definitely more expensive for a pair of leggings.
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  Speaker 5: But the quality is amazing.
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  Speaker 1: And because of that bootcut style, I've actually worn them
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  Speaker 1: like to brunch and with the blazer, but then also
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  Speaker 1: warn them to the gym and am like hot girl
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  Speaker 1: is Yeah, so I feel like you can really dress
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  Speaker 1: them up and dress them down so you will get
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  Speaker 1: like your cost per wear out of them. And if
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  Speaker 1: you are a short girly, I think that if you
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  Speaker 1: can find something that actually fits you properly that you
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  Speaker 1: won't have to get tailored, that's also worth spending the
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  Speaker 1: money on.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like a lot of active where is
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  Speaker 2: kind of coming to that price point totally. That's really
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  Speaker 2: I would actually say under one hundred dollars for a
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  Speaker 2: good quality pair of active wear is like a reasonable amount.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's like crazy when you start getting into
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  Speaker 2: like the two hundreds totally closer to that, like the
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  Speaker 2: one eighties or one sixties for like a pair of leggings,
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  Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, what's your obsession? My obsession is
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  Speaker 2: a little question that I saw when I was going
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  Speaker 2: through my daily doom scroll, and so I wanted to
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  Speaker 2: ask it on podcasts.
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  Speaker 1: Because I've been obsessing over what I would pick.
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  Speaker 2: So if you could change the price of something to
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  Speaker 2: one dollar for twenty four hours, what would you change?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I would do a quick Google and find a
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  Speaker 1: mansion that's on.
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  Speaker 6: A rugged coast all cliff in New.
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  Speaker 5: Zealand or perhaps Ireland.
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  Speaker 1: Never been there, but I can imagine that would be
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  Speaker 1: really beautiful too, and I would snap that up because
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  Speaker 1: you can only choose one thing.
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  Speaker 6: If I could furnish it and do all of that.
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  Speaker 5: But imagine that if you could just buy, but you can't.
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  Speaker 1: Even bloody get a parking ticket for that much these days,
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  Speaker 1: let alone at fucking house.
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  Speaker 5: That's what I would be doing.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, what about you see, that's what I thought originally, right,
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  Speaker 1: and then after gold give me dead golden geese, given
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  Speaker 1: dead golden geese?
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  Speaker 5: Right anyway, magic beans? Can I say mine? I have
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  Speaker 5: all these ideas.
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  Speaker 1: She's an ideas man, So I thought that. At first,
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  Speaker 1: I was like cliff house beach vibes, like live in a.
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  Speaker 6: Forest castle inncestral Levante literally.
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  Speaker 2: Right then I was like, then we're back to reality,
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  Speaker 2: right back to the same paycheck around cho So I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: what's that like house tax I have to pay?
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  Speaker 3: Well, probably it wouldn't be that, but.
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  Speaker 1: Then like the upkeep or paying for I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what kind of I don't know a house, so I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what kind of feed. But then exactly the
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  Speaker 1: cost of furnish it, Like am.
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  Speaker 3: I just going to live in an empty house?
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  Speaker 1: Right?
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  Speaker 3: So I was like hmmm.
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  Speaker 1: This also only sets me up for one thing.
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  Speaker 3: So I was thinking.
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  Speaker 4: Apple shares or Google shares.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not picking one thing, and I realize I'm cheating,
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  Speaker 1: But this is this I understand.
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  Speaker 4: I would pick something that I'm like, Okay, I'm set,
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  Speaker 4: I'm good.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I would choose Henry Cavill for one dollar?
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  Speaker 5: Why not? Only why not?
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  Speaker 2: I'm so he's actually got like a family now, so
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  Speaker 2: I probably should let go of it.
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  Speaker 1: Appropriate, Well, don't wear leather pants in the Witch then okay. Anyway,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to rend it in button apples in season
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  Speaker 1: one of Supernatural?
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  Speaker 4: Where did one? That's what I think I think I
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  Speaker 4: would or I would buy?
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  Speaker 1: Like what company would we buy? Ooh?
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  Speaker 3: Probably Google?
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  Speaker 4: But I don't want to work.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, like I want to be like a ghost CEO
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  Speaker 1: or like ghost founder.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah totally. Like I'm like, y'all do it and just
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  Speaker 3: send me my paycheck. Yeah totally.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, what's the one thing that you would change
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  Speaker 2: to one dollar for twenty four hours?
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  Speaker 1: Let us know in the comments? Yes, please, I want
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  Speaker 1: to know.
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  Speaker 3: Crazy anyway, that's my obsession.
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  Speaker 5: I love it.
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  Speaker 3: All right, let's get into a little captup.
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  Speaker 2: Is it normal to feel scared in a new talking
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  Speaker 2: stage relationship due to past relationship trauma.
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  Speaker 1: I think if you have passed trauma and bad experiences
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  Speaker 1: in a previous relationship, that seems pretty normal to me
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  Speaker 1: that you would have insecurities or be scared when you're
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  Speaker 1: in the talking stage with someone. However, I don't think
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  Speaker 1: that necessarily could happen with everyone or every single time,
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  Speaker 1: Like there might be some people that you talk to
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  Speaker 1: that instantly make you feel secure and make you feel
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  Speaker 1: good even when you're in the talking stages. I think
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  Speaker 1: it really depends on what like the red flags are
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  Speaker 1: that are flaring up, you know, some of those responses
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  Speaker 1: from you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's normal to have apprehension due to
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  Speaker 2: like past experiences totally, Like if anything, that's just like
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  Speaker 2: maybe being a little bit more like seasoned as you
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  Speaker 2: grow older, being a yeah, yeah, Like as we get older,
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  Speaker 2: you're not necessarily what's the word I'm looking for.
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  Speaker 3: It's not gullible, but.
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  Speaker 5: Like you're a little less naive.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, that's exactly the word that I'm looking for. Like
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  Speaker 2: you kind of have a little bit more apprehension towards
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  Speaker 2: things because maybe you've been burned before and you don't
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  Speaker 2: necessarily like you know that people aren't always having the
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  Speaker 2: best intentions totally, you know. And I think when you've had,
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  Speaker 2: you know, a traumatic experience, which I am so sorry
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  Speaker 2: that you have had that experience, it is very normal
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  Speaker 2: and very easy to hold those with you when you're
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  Speaker 2: kind of putting your toe back in the pond, right
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  Speaker 2: or is that the.
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  Speaker 6: Same, yeah, dipping your toes back in the water. I like,
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  Speaker 6: my I like putting your toe in the pond.
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  Speaker 1: It kind of sounds sexual as well, put your toe.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so yeah, when you're putting your toe back in
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  Speaker 2: the pond, it's totally not.
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  Speaker 1: Like really have the vision of your toe specifically, like
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  Speaker 1: and I'm looking from the bottom of the pond and
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  Speaker 1: I can take your toe just going.
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  Speaker 5: Just one, just your big toe.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my god, get wrecked, trying to.
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  Speaker 5: Have like annest moment.
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  Speaker 4: Okay. But what I think holds you back, and I definitely.
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  Speaker 1: Did this as well when I was trying to jump
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  Speaker 1: back into dating or like making friends after that being burned,
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  Speaker 1: is that you're going to hold yourself back if you
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  Speaker 1: do expect every situation to be like that, if you think,
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  Speaker 1: like sometimes maybe you think you're being on the front
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  Speaker 1: foot by maybe having walls up and you may not
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  Speaker 1: even realize it, but being like, oh, I'm not going
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  Speaker 1: to put myself out there because they're going to do this.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not going to say how I feel or what
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  Speaker 1: I want because it shows that I care, and that
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  Speaker 1: like that ends up shooting yourself in the foot to use.
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  Speaker 5: The correct term.
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  Speaker 3: Wait, is that wrong?
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  Speaker 6: I just love that we keep coming back to the
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  Speaker 6: foot metaphors.
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  Speaker 5: Do I have a fetish?
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  Speaker 4: But that's what I mean. I think you like a setting.
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  Speaker 2: Yourself up for failure if you expect everyone to behave
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  Speaker 2: like the shittest people you've ever met, because not everyone
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  Speaker 2: is going to be like the worst people you've met
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  Speaker 2: in your life. And I think that's also a very
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  Speaker 2: very hopeful thing. Like speaking from experience of dating people
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  Speaker 2: and they weren't necessarily the nicest people in the relationship
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  Speaker 2: or just like good good partners or good dates or
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  Speaker 2: anything like that, you definitely can get a little bit bitter,
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  Speaker 2: like I can. Yeah, jaded is a good word for it,
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  Speaker 2: maybe not bitter. But then when you kind of meet
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  Speaker 2: someone and you things are going really well, you can
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  Speaker 2: kind of self sabotage and be like.
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  Speaker 3: Totally wait, what's going on? Like this isn't normal? Is
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  Speaker 3: this person? Huh?
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  Speaker 2: And then I think exactly what you're saying that when
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  Speaker 2: you meet the right people and it feels secure and
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  Speaker 2: it feels good, try.
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  Speaker 3: Not to question it too much.
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  Speaker 2: Try to just like lean into it and enjoy it
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  Speaker 2: and be open. But it is normal to have that
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  Speaker 2: apprehension to like answer your question, but try to like
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  Speaker 2: release it a little.
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  Speaker 3: Bit and your toe back in the pond.
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  Speaker 1: Get that toe toe in that pond. Right. I'll send
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  Speaker 1: you a Google map with some options, some ponds I'll
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  Speaker 1: be there's some duckies.
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  Speaker 4: You can bring some bread. I ain't allowed to feed
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  Speaker 4: ducks anymore.
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  Speaker 5: I know, I don't think it's good for them the bread.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, this is a spicy question.
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  Speaker 1: So Sasha said, do you ever feel like you could
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  Speaker 1: end up like Sophia and Alex from Call Her Daddy?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Actually, this is this is the breaker. We actually didn't
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  Speaker 2: really want to say it this year, but this will
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  Speaker 2: be our final season of two Broke Chicks.
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  Speaker 3: It's actually just going to be one.
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  Speaker 2: Broken chick and I'm actually leaving the show.
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  Speaker 1: We're good, We're good.
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  Speaker 4: I think it's a valid question.
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  Speaker 2: I think I think so too, And I think working,
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  Speaker 2: like the relationship of working and being best friends is
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  Speaker 2: definitely not a simple one. Yeah, but it's like we've
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  Speaker 2: been best friends for seven years, right, Yeah, and we were, like,
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  Speaker 2: how long.
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  Speaker 1: Are we friends before we even started the podcast? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: probably like four and a half to five years. Alex
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  Speaker 1: and I met at work and we were both journalists
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  Speaker 1: at the same publication, and I'd already worked there for
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  Speaker 1: two years and then al joined and we clicked pretty
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  Speaker 1: much immediately and became really close. So I think that's
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  Speaker 1: the thing, Like we've already been best friends for about
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  Speaker 1: four and a half years or so before we started
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  Speaker 1: Two Broke Chicks. We already were spending all of our
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  Speaker 1: time together at work in the office, and then a
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  Speaker 1: lot of our outside time together socializing. So our relationship
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  Speaker 1: already started with that like level of intensity of like
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  Speaker 1: being together so much. Whereas for other people who you know,
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  Speaker 1: may have been just friends first and then they go
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  Speaker 1: into a business partnership together, that could be quite a shock.
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  Speaker 1: But I think we also have the same alignment, Like
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  Speaker 1: we have the same work ethic. We like we've always
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  Speaker 1: said that we're really lucky in the fact that we
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  Speaker 1: found each other because we are so similar in the
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  Speaker 1: ways that matter, Like we're definitely different in like ways
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  Speaker 1: are also are good for the friendship, Like we are
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  Speaker 1: so similar in the way that you know, we really love.
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  Speaker 2: To succeed and we've got a really big drive and
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  Speaker 2: we both have a really good work ethic that like, nope,
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  Speaker 2: not one person's doing more than the other.
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  Speaker 4: We love each other as much as the other.
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  Speaker 1: Like there's no you know how there's friendships and it's
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  Speaker 1: like a dynamic. You know, if I didn't text them,
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  Speaker 1: I'd never hear from them, Like that just would never
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  Speaker 1: happen that I think because we know and we had
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  Speaker 1: the friendship before the podcast, it doesn't go like start
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  Speaker 1: a podcast, become best friends.
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  Speaker 3: It was like we're best friend and we started a podcast.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, So it's like if.
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  Speaker 1: The podcast ever came or if two Broke Chicks ever
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  Speaker 1: came between that as a friendship, that's the thing that
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  Speaker 1: would go. We would just be like, Okay, do you
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  Speaker 1: know what, Like this isn't bringing us join filling our
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  Speaker 1: cup and making us silly, goofy, funny girls that we
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  Speaker 1: know where that we are.
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  Speaker 3: We would just stop it.
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: How to communicate with friends that I'm broke when they're not.
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  Speaker 2: We actually go into a whole chapter in this in
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  Speaker 2: the book Funny Your People by Alex Rigan and Adam McMullan,
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  Speaker 2: but we'll.
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  Speaker 3: Give you the TLDR. So this is such a.
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  Speaker 1: Tricky one because with friends, like you know, there is
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  Speaker 1: often like income disparity between you, and that can make
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  Speaker 1: it really hard when you know somebody wants to go
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  Speaker 1: to bottomless brunch for their birthday and that isn't within
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  Speaker 1: your budget. I think the best way to communicate it
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  Speaker 1: is to be open and straight up and you can
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  Speaker 1: just say, hey, this isn't within my budget because I'm
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  Speaker 1: saving up for X or whatever reason why you can't
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  Speaker 1: afford it.
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  Speaker 5: Could we do this instead?
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  Speaker 1: Or do you mind if I miss out on this one.
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  Speaker 1: I think sometimes people want to avoid it because they
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  Speaker 1: feel embarrassed or that it's awkward, and I totally understand that,
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  Speaker 1: but it's nothing to be ashamed of by putting that
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  Speaker 1: boundary there and respecting your own financial decisions and situation
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  Speaker 1: and being responsible about that. And I think that a
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  Speaker 1: good friend is going to understand and they'd prefer that
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  Speaker 1: rather than you know, those friends that you have, and
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  Speaker 1: you'll invite them to something and they don't want to
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  Speaker 1: go to whatever it is for whatever reason, and they
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  Speaker 1: just like put it off and put it off, or
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  Speaker 1: they go, oh, I'll see see how I feel, or
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  Speaker 1: or they bail last minute or whatever like.
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  Speaker 5: That's usually the annoying thing.
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  Speaker 1: Whereas if somebody is, you know, straight up and tells
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  Speaker 1: you how it is, You're going to respect and understand
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  Speaker 1: that more so than if you know they're trying to
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  Speaker 1: bury it, because I think then the reason why they
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  Speaker 1: don't want to go to this thing isn't necessarily clear.
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  Speaker 3: I think in that situation.
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  Speaker 2: On the other hand, if you have a friend that
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  Speaker 2: can't afford something, don't offer to pay for them. I
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  Speaker 2: think it's obviously a gesture that is coming from a
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  Speaker 2: really really good place. But more often than not, and
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  Speaker 2: there is like a ten percent to this that it
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  Speaker 2: doesn't apply to. But in my experience and when I've
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  Speaker 2: spoken to friends about this, from my perspective and their
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  Speaker 2: perspective and just in general, it's more offensive.
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  Speaker 4: It's it's more embarrassing.
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: When you have someone coming in saying I'll just I'll
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: buy it or i'll get it.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: You can feel a bit condescending, And it doesn't mean
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: to be condescending, but I think what it actually happens
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: is you end up feeling a little bit worse about yourself,
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: Like you feel a little bit like fuck, like I
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: can't afford it, that my friend has to pay for me,
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: like exactly, and it's and it kind of makes you
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: feel a bit not insecure because there's nothing to feel
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: insecure about, but it can end up making you feel
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: a little bit small.
• 18:17
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: So it's just a good thing to keep in mind
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: that if someone say like I can't afford something, like yes,
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: I know, it feels nice to offer or you know,
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: be there, but sometimes that's also not.
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: The best way forward.
• 18:29
  Speaker 4: Maybe it is being like, oh, well, what would you
• 18:31
  Speaker 4: like to do?
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: We can do something together next week, or giving that
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: option rather than being like, no, come do this, yeah,
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: you know what, I think, being like conscious of that
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: as well when you're making plans, like I know for us,
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: when we've organized like a birthday dinner for either ourselves
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: or for a friend, we'll be like, we're thinking of
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: going here, here's the menu, what does everybody reckon? Have
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: a look, and then we can book it to give
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: people the opportunity to be like, oh that's a bit pricey,
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: or you know, if it is like a you know,
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: a set menu or a bottomless brunch situation where like
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: it's this much per person, what do we think and
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: put it out there rather than being like, I booked
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: this so that if anybody is like, actually, no, that's
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: out of my budget, you know, you're giving some flexibility
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: for people to voice that and hopefully feel less embarrassed
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: about it, because it's not embarrassing. If anything, it's so responsible.
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: We should be really proud of yourself. You like, stand
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: up for your financial boundaries, get them check literally, slay
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: slay so hard, okay, unrequired.
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: Love tips, Oh my god?
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: I really The answer who is quite simple?
• 19:40
  Speaker 5: Move on?
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: Dump him?
• 19:42
  Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, I think it depends on what the scenario is.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: If you've put yourself out there and they've knocked you
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: back or haven't reciprocated, move on, there's no point. But
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: if you're unsure, if you are sort of just crushing
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: on someone and you're not sure if they are are
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: vibing you, like, you know, put yourself out of your
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: misery and just shoot your shot.
• 20:03
  Speaker 5: Yeah I think so.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: And then once you get the response leave it there,
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: like there are so many other fish in the sea
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: and you're just wasting your.
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: Energy one percent.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: Okay, what do I want for my thirtieth as a
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: present from family and friends? So as someone who recently turned.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: Thirtyeth sound, oh my, what you put on their wish
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: list for when they turn thirty?
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: I think a trip like potentially with like some of
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: your friends and family, Like, could you do a weekend
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: away somewhere, or if you have somewhere that you really
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: want to go, could they like all put in like
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: some cash together to put towards your trip, or maybe
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: a nice evening, Yeah, even if that's a bit too spenny.
• 20:49
  Speaker 6: Exactly, Like an experience of some sort that like.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: The memory of your thirtieth Yeah, that you can share
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: with some of those people I think would be so nice.
• 20:57
  Speaker 5: So yeah, whether it's a.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: Nice away somewhere or yeah, a nice dinner or a
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: concert or something like that where you can have a
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: nice experience with those people.
• 21:08
  Speaker 5: I think, you know, the gift of a memory is.
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: The best gift of all I do, and I know
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: it's probably done and some people would disagree. I do
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: like something that is like that's my ex that my
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: family got me for my thirtieth and it's like that
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: thing that you have all the time. My favorite thing
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: for that is some kind of like personalized or like
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: one of a kind item that like my go to,
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: Like my in my brain, my go to would be
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: like a vintage ring of sorts, like one that you
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: would get at.
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: Like a vintage shop that it's like one of a kind.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: It's so beautiful you can't get it anywhere else, and
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: like that's the ring that like your friends and family.
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: Got you for your thirtieth.
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: I think a piece of jewelry is really nice because
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: that's something that you can keep and wear forever. So yeah,
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: like a piece of antique jewelry or something that is
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: sentimental and significant to you, whether that's like a clatter
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: ring or something.
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: You can get these things called like fingerprint rings and
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: so like it.
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: Maybe if you have like.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: A partner, or you want your mom or your dad
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: or someone and they put or your pet, you can
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: get it with your pets nose print.
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: So I know, I'm like.
• 22:21
  Speaker 4: Thank you, that's coming with me.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: And yeah, you put your fingerprint like in a mold
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: and you send it back and then they make it
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: of you know that person that I just think that's
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: the kyotest like president in the world because it's.
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: So personalized and love shit like that. Yeah, that's so beautiful.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, something that is meaningful if you got this is like,
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: this is a make believe universe. Okay, let's say you
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: got given your partner, your make be partner gave you
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: Chris not Chris, not Chris not Chris.
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: Let's go with Let's go Nikki six.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: Nix like an eighteen carrot gold ring with his fingerprint
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: in it. Right, it's like three thousand dollars his fingerprint.
• 23:06
  Speaker 5: He can afford it.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: Let's he's not famous anyway. Okay, Let's pretend.
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: They're not famous and they give you a fingerprint ring,
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: but you break up.
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: It's a really, really bad breakup.
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: Do you keep the ring?
• 23:23
  Speaker 5: If I had their fingerprint in it, I wouldn't.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: Day it was just a piece of jewelry that they'd
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: given me, and I still really loved it. I probably
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: would keep it, you know, unless I had like their
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: name or something in it.
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: But yeah, no, I wouldn't.
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: On Facebook, marketplaces, engagement, yeah, people send their engagement rings,
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: but they've got the whole backstory in it.
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, Sow, I've got to show you them.
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: They're so good.
• 23:47
  Speaker 5: Oh my god.
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: You would have to take that down to the sea
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: and like cleanse them under the full moove.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's like that would be like anyone want
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: a ex carrot engagement ring from a cheating bustard.
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: Like get it pay and yes I do.
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: I was like, I'll take it for fifty Yeah. Yeah,
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: it's so good.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: Okay, next one, when is the Rack collab dropping?
• 24:11
  Speaker 4: I need so if you.
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: Miss the memo, Sala and I announced last week that
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: we will be doing a collab with Rack Apparel.
• 24:25
  Speaker 4: If you haven't heard.
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: Of Rack, they are literally the perfect swim where brand
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: for the people where they're big oh Racks, They're for
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: the tig ol bitty committee yep, the big busty babes. Yeah.
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: And we've been wearing Rack for years, so this is
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: something that we're really excited about. When we are first
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: like signed with a management, which was maybe like a
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: year ago now, which was at the time also Cristi.
• 24:56
  Speaker 4: They were like, what's like your what's your goal?
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: You really and.
• 25:00
  Speaker 4: We're like a Rack a power of collapse.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like they're like that's niche, and we're like, that's
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: what we want. Yeah, So that was like one.
• 25:08
  Speaker 4: Of our goals for this year. So it's so wild
• 25:11
  Speaker 4: that it's actually happening.
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because yeah, I think a lot of people that
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: have similar bus sizes to us could relate to the
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: highs and lowers of high school football and having really
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: really big breasts that you know, walking into swimwhere stores
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: it's not the greatest of experiences. Yeah, it's such a
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: struggle finding something that is supportive but also cute and
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: good quality that you can wear swimming into the beach
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: because yeah, like Al said, you can't just walk into
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: any store and buy swimmers when you have a D
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: cup or larger.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: So ones that don't fall apart after that one summer exactly,
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: and you want to.
• 25:54
  Speaker 6: Feel confident and supported.
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: And like your nipple isn't going to fall out when
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: you're playing Mermaids. Yeah, so, and we know that that
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: can be a real struggle and a real nock to
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: your confidence when you're going swimwear shopping or when you're
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: at the beach and you don't feel comfortable. So we
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: were so excited for this collaboration because it is honestly
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: the cutest swimwear dream bikinis.
• 26:19
  Speaker 5: We've ever seen.
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: And I know we may be biased, but also based
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: on your chicks reactions, like.
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: I think that they might be the cutest.
• 26:27
  Speaker 4: I I'm so excited.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: So we can't say the exact date, but we can
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: say it will be the first week of October, so.
• 26:35
  Speaker 6: Market calendars, market cows.
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: It'll be the first week of October.
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: But we will have a lot more info coming very
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: soon and we'll have like a bit of a try
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: on hale.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: We'll show you how you can tie the multi way top.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: There's like four different.
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: Ways you can style these, so you're kind of getting
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: like four bikinis in one. It's a sligh it's bang
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: for your buck and I'm just so happy.
• 26:54
  Speaker 4: People are really.
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: Excited and they really like it.
• 26:57
  Speaker 6: Yeah, we hope you love it.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: Samesi's okay breakup advice suddenly single at thirty three. Sal
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: and I've been talking about this recently. We're going through
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: a bit of a breakup season at the moment. Yeah,
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: we've been getting a lot of dms from.
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: People saying that they that they're going through a breakup,
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: which I thought Breakup Day was on December eleventh, let's
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: come early.
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: I think there is always like two rounds of black
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: breakup seasons. Yeah, it's always halfway through the year and
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: then at the end of the year, start of the year.
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: And I honestly think the best thing you can do
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: is like give yourself the space to grieve. Yeah, Like,
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: breakups are one of the roguest things that can happen
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: to you at any point in time. Like, I think
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: we think about breakups as being like such an exclusive
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: thing to your twenties, but you experienced multiple breakups with
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: multiple people throughout your entire life, whether it's romantic, whether
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: it's with friends. The best thing that you can do
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: is give yourself space and time and do the things
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: that you genuinely enjoy doing.
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: Pull your self back to what's really helpful is.
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: The things that you enjoyed doing when you were younger,
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: Like what movies did you enjoy watching? Put on Miscongeniality
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: and practical magic like watch Sex in the City. Really
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: reintroduce yourself to the things that made you an individual.
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: I think it's really really easy to lose yourself in
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: relationships and your entire life becomes a partnership that when
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: you go through a breakup, you lose a part of yourself,
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: which is true, but it's about refeeling that cup.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: It's about refieling that other half and finding what that is.
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: I think as well.
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: There are some really really exciting parts of breakups that
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: we don't think about, that we don't celebrate, right, Like
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: when you go through a breakup, you can watch whatever
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: movie you want to watch, you can.
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: Order whatever takeaway.
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: It is like this really the truest phase of independence
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: that I think lean into, that being like I can
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: do whatever the fuck I want, which you should be
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: able to.
• 28:59
  Speaker 4: Do in a healthy, reallyfationship anyway.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: But all relationships also include compromise exactly, So even if
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: like you should be able to do that, but you
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: also do have.
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: To compromise, Like you can't decide what you want to
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: watch every night, like sometimes you watch what your partner
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: wants to watch even though you don't want to. Whereas
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: now you don't have to do that. You don't have
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: to watch The Wolf of Wall Street or the Godfather
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: or American Psycho anymore.
• 29:20
  Speaker 5: That is like worth celebrating in itself, right.
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: I also love when you see like the girlies who've
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: just gone through a breakup and all of a sudden,
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: like their Instagram.
• 29:30
  Speaker 6: Is popping the fuck off, like the selfies.
• 29:34
  Speaker 4: Yeah, they finally tell Yeah.
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: You can tell you should be studied. Yeah, the instagram
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: of like a post breakup. I might wait, you're slaying
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: a bit too close to the sun. Yeah, you single,
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: and you're like I know that, Like you're my ex
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: colleaguess cousin who I met one time at their twenty
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: fifth Yeah, but I can tell you've got a new
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: spine now too.
• 29:57
  Speaker 4: I think this is.
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: Actually one of my LinkedIn skills. How many times have
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: I messaged you, yeah, at like eleven thirty at night
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: about someone we met six months ago once and I'm
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: like X and X broke up and you're like, how
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: do you know what? I'm like yeah, and then scroll
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: through it all will bump into them and I remember
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: it happened one time and I was like, I think
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: this person, this person broke up.
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: And you're like, no matter, and then you saw them
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: and you're like they did and I was like, oh,
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: I know it.
• 30:20
  Speaker 5: Yeah I knew it.
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: But anyway, sorry, back to the cue.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: But yeah, I also think don't jump into like dating
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: dating too quickly.
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: I think jump into flirting.
• 30:31
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I think you have.
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: A flirt if you want to download an app and
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: like have a little have a little vindication through that, yeah,
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: gell little ego boots.
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, ye, little ego boosts.
• 30:41
  Speaker 4: But I think definitely have a little bit of a.
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: Rest and recover.
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: That's not to say people can't move on within a
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: certain timeframe. I'm like, that is so open to whatever
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: people want to do.
• 30:51
  Speaker 5: So like, listen to your heart and follow your gut
• 30:53
  Speaker 5: with that.
• 30:54
  Speaker 4: Yeah, what do you think about?
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: Have you ever heard the theory of the bad pancake?
• 31:01
  Speaker 6: Do you want to walk the chicks through it? If
• 31:03
  Speaker 6: they haven't heard it, I wonder.
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: I don't know if this is true, but the theory
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: of the bad pancake is or the first pancake. Maybe
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: I'm remembering wrong, whatever, the theory of the first pancake
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: is that the first person you date after a breakup
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: is the bad pancake.
• 31:23
  Speaker 6: Yeah, because you test it.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the first pancake you make when you're making pancakes
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: is always a bit of a write off.
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: You're like, oh, it's the.
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: First pancakes, a bit weird shaped, it doesn't quite Yeah,
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: it's got heaps of bubbles in it.
• 31:35
  Speaker 4: It's not quite right. Yeah, it's still tastes good.
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's just not it's just not it.
• 31:41
  Speaker 5: It's not the best you can do.
• 31:42
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's your first pancake. So it's your first try
• 31:45
  Speaker 4: and you're like, you know what I can do better,
• 31:46
  Speaker 4: and you get to the next pancake. I don't know
• 31:50
  Speaker 4: if that theory is true.
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: I think there's some instances in my life that there's been,
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: you know, the first pancake, and then there's been others
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: that haven't.
• 31:56
  Speaker 6: Yeah, but I think there's some truth to it.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: I think there's definitely a bit of truth to it,
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: because sometimes you rush into things.
• 32:02
  Speaker 4: And then you're like, oh wait, actually I'm not ready.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: And I think something that I'll add as well is
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: that the chick who wrote this in said that she's
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: thirty three, and I think that for women especially, there
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: is a lot of pressure just due to the conversations
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: around you know, the sorts of milestones that we should
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: be hitting by a certain age. Unfortunately, you know, the
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: biological clock is a real thing and something that a
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: lot of women feel a lot of pressure by. But
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: I just want you to maybe release yourself from a
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: bit of that pressure. It's something that's completely warranted to
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: be thinking about and be concerned by. But from my
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: experiences and conversations with you know, my friends or people
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: who i've you know, known in my life who are
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: in their thirties now, I sometimes think like, are you
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: rushing into this because you feel like you don't have
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: any time left? And I don't want to downplay that
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: concern because it's a serious. But in your thirties, you
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: still have so much life left to live, and I
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: don't want you to throw it away on the bad
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: pancake because of societal pressures. I think it's okay to
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: have it in the back of your mind, but give yourself,
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: you know, you still have time, give yourself time to
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: get to know yourself, like al was saying, and to
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: give yourself the space to meet the right person. Because
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: I also think of, you know, like all the people
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: who would be in their fifties and sixties who get divorced.
• 33:31
  Speaker 4: And then they find the love of their life.
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, it's never too late to find that person.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: So I think, also remember that you still have plenty
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  Speaker 1: of time and concentrate on getting yourself back to the
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  Speaker 1: best version of yourself before you go into a partnership
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  Speaker 1: with somebody else.
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  Speaker 3: Exactly. That's such a good point.
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  Speaker 1: Ah Lie, let you kiss, Let's put back in the
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  Speaker 1: put your toe back.
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  Speaker 4: In the pond. That's sticking it is. I'm gonna put
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  Speaker 4: that in a shirt on a shirt.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll produce the message us the other week and said,
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  Speaker 1: I think it's time to put that ship on a
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  Speaker 1: shirt on a shirt.
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  Speaker 2: And I agree with her and I agree well on
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  Speaker 2: that note, chicks, thank you so much for having us
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  Speaker 2: in your ear holes.
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  Speaker 1: We love to be here. We love it, love being
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  Speaker 1: in your holes. We do so every time.
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  Speaker 5: She's what the fruit in me?
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  Speaker 4: What prude?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know?
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  Speaker 5: I know you, I know I'm a layered woman.
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  Speaker 2: She's a lady in the streets and a prude in
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  Speaker 2: the sheets.
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  Speaker 4: Go with that.
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  Speaker 1: And thanks to you, am I came maid for making
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: this episode of Cheeks happening bad.
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  Speaker 4: You can do