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Is My Husband a Cuckold… or a Stag? | Lisa Sparxxx & Jeff · Sparxxx TV Podcast

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So this week it's a question for you, not for me.
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They want to know about you. Of course I know, right?
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You think people don't like you, but they do, and they had a
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question about you, so. Maybe we should start this shit
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over. People want to know what your
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thoughts are on how you deal or handle the relationship with me,
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meaning the fact that people call you the C word all the time
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and those kind of things, which we actually have the definition
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for that. So see that later, but that's
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what they want to know. They're in for a real awakening.
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They are. That was the boringest damn
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mantra I've ever. I don't know what else to do.
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Hey. 919 vibing. Hey, Lisa Sparks.
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Yeah, that legend surviving. Welcome back to Sparks TV.
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I don't even know why I said it's Sparks TV like that, but
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welcome back. Today we're going to talk about
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you. No, we're talking about us.
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Now we're talking about you in relationship to us along with
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see who our week 4 Pixar and all of our NFL stuff.
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But before we get. Started anybody gives a crap
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we're not very. Good at that.
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I'm very this week was terrible. You're not good, but don't
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This is actually a comment below.
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So this is actually a question from one of our comments.
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Somebody commented Oh, but it was a question somebody listen,
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it did it was a question for you.
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They did it did they did what? I know anyway, I can't have it
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on my phone. And guys, I'm, I'm going to be
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50 soon and so I have contacts and readers because why not,
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right? She'll be 50 October 6th.
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Yeah, just in case anyway. So that's.
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Nice week, you're going to be ill.
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So anyway, let me read this question.
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It's a really long question, so well, you could.
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Bring it up short. Pieces.
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I'm going to shorten it. No, break it up in pieces.
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OK, we could make a last. OK, good.
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Many of us would like to hear Jeff's thoughts.
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Oh boy, I thought everybody told me to shut up.
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I know right on how he deals or handles his relationship with
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you. I think it's a pretty safe bet
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that most guys watching your channel cannot measure up to the
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man you mentioned in this video he's on.
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Clearly you're a size queen. I am not against to that
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statement he's on. Clearly you desire a black man.
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I don't think I desire them. They just look really good on
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camera, the black and white skin together.
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So yeah, doesn't hurt, which is all fine in many ways, and it is
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a huge turn on and probably a big reason for your popularity.
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Thank you. More reasons of popularity at
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the. Time I was gonna say it's also
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my boobs. Yeah, you were one of the only
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natural ones to. Run around.
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But how does Jeff deal with that?
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That's the first part of the question.
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Deal with what? Deal with the fact that I don't
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know, that's what it says. How does Jeff deal with that?
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I think I wasn't listening how I deal with you.
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Yes, cuz all of the people that I work with.
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OK, maybe I need to I cut it too short I guess.
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Yeah, there's not much of a question.
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That was a setup. It seems like building up to
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the. Question was how does he deal
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with that? It seems like you guys have a
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great marriage and enjoy being with each other.
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True, but I think very few of us have the self-confidence and
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assurance to handle such a situation.
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Well, there's the there it is true.
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Fantasy is the. Answer the question.
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He says fantasy is one thing, real life is something
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completely different. Does Jeff enjoy this side of
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you? Is it a strictly a business
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decision? Is it a compromise he had to
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make in order to still have you as his wife?
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A compromise? It was not a compromise because
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we were married ahead of time. Well, you just answered.
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It all sorry. Well, I just it's not a
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compromise. But anyway, so the first
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question was, let's see, it's hard to read.
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Do you enjoy that side? I kind of created this side.
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It's. True.
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This is true. This all started probably
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before. Well, right when we got married,
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yeah. Yeah, I mean, he's always been a
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little kinky. Yeah, he would mess around with
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other people before she was even in the business.
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So that's where it all started, really.
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And that's where I found out I don't like girls.
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Yeah. Every man has the fantasy of 2
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girls and a guy. And then since, yeah, we're
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doing it for fun and free and all this other, I said, hey, why
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don't you try the adult business?
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So, yeah, we had a, well, it was not just like that kind of a
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conversation, but it was a obviously, hey, we could make
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money and you know. I both had regular jobs at the
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time and I I kept my regular job and then it came or it starts
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snowballing into, yeah, something a lot bigger and I end
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up giving up my regular job. That's true.
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That was on the railroad at the time.
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And then yeah, I'd be basically created this monster.
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And so, yes, clearly he does enjoy that side.
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Yeah, the longer he edits my video though.
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Probably like videos on that damn job.
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Yeah, it's. Probably not as fun when you see
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it constantly in your face for 25 years.
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It's probably enough. But yeah, he he does.
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It's strictly a business decision, clearly.
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No, yes and no. I was gonna say.
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No, I liked it without. Well, that's true.
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You you'd like it without it. I'm before yeah, that's what I'm
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saying. But I'm more of like now.
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It's the business part of. Yeah, yeah.
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Turned into that. It turned 25 years.
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Yeah, turned into a business. Yeah, because we're not
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swingers. And that's always the big
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question, that that that's the part.
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That's weird. Or the assumption that is always
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made is that. That's the part that's.
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Weird, yeah. Is that we're swingers and I'm
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like, Nah. By definition, yes.
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By technical definition, but not we're not in that lifestyle
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outside. That's only at work and actually
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not necessarily you. Stars and swingers really don't
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mix. It's like oil, water, yeah.
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You go into one of their swinger events and they look at you
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like, yeah, three eyes and one leg and Yep, because.
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Unless you were already in that lifestyle beforehand, yeah.
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Most of the girls there lost their action.
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That basically is what it boils down to, in my opinion.
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Yeah. How am I going to compete with
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an adult star in the room now? But you know how it goes.
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I'll. Be mad at us, but.
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Anyway, I'm trying. To just ramble.
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And yeah, he asked about a compromise.
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Literally no compromise I don't think.
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There's no compromise. No.
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And I guess I'm secure with the whole situation, obviously.
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Or we want them stuck together. Yeah, it's probably the one the
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few things we don't fight about, actually.
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It's gonna say, I don't think we've ever thought about that.
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Yeah, not ever. Well, and I'm also like, if you
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want it, like I have a couple girlfriends that you like that
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if they wanted to do things for you, go for it.
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They have. I know and they have that's what
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I'm saying, but but I don't we're not jealous like we've
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never been even before we were when we were just dating, there
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was no ever like oh, I'm so jealous of you or whatever.
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You know that kind of thing. Like I have guy friends that I'm
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friends with and then. We know where we're going home
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to. Exactly.
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Well, and you know where I'm at, like it's I would tell you if I
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was going to go do something, I'm going to tell you, hey, I'm
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going to go do this and you'd be like.
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Except that one time. What one time?
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Oh Lord, that was pretty, all of that.
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So it doesn't count. It wasn't.
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Yeah, it was. It was happier.
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Friends, let's stick it upward. Don't worry about it.
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She's fine. Oh, I was not.
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I wasn't doing anything that night though.
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That was just we were out drinking and I was way drunk.
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I. Know.
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Anyway, that's so nice. Like what?
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Are you talking? About like, but that wasn't
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jealous. I was pissed.
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And jealousy because I wasn't with anybody like that.
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We were just girls hanging out with some some band members,
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super bad popular band members at the time.
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OK. And so he said.
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The last part of it is I know he hates the C word.
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Cook. I am not a cook.
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Yes, he says. But I think you can understand
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why folks may see that as a thing.
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So I don't think so, no. But we have the difference
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between the two technically. A cuck is a beta male.
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Yeah, I am not. Yeah.
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So technically we found out you're you would be called a
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stag. A stag, yeah.
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Very like British stag party because because the C word.
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Stag a deer. It's a yeah.
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It's a male deer. Yes, very good.
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Look at you. I'd rather be a bull.
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Well, I mean, we can call you a bull stag do we we don't name
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it. We can name it.
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We can create whatever word we want.
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So the so the difference between the two is that a cuck is
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watching another man sleeping, right?
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The only reason he watches me is because he's editing, right?
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You're not like sitting in the corner at every video shoot
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like. Don't get me wrong, I still like
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watching, but, well, yeah, but I'm also.
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Not like I'm. Not sitting in the corner in my
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cut chair. Exactly.
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That's what that's what I'm saying.
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I am fully clothed at all time. Getting off on the being
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humiliated? Clearly not you.
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Nope. Enjoying another man's body with
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your woman? Hell no.
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Nope. Liking submission?
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Degradation. And what is it?
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Domination of degradation? Sorry, degradation.
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Yeah. Anyway, no, definitely not.
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Definitely not. You're not a beta male and
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getting excited by every detail that is.
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You have like maybe one one thing out of that.
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Watching. Right.
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And that's just because. Yeah, exactly.
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No, A stag, on the other hand, is an alpha male.
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Check. Watching your woman with another
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man? That's check.
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Occasionally joining as a threesome.
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That's. Check that's happened, open to
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sloppy seconds for her pleasure. No, not happening.
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I would never ask that, nor would he ever do that.
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So there's the one that doesn't there.
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Confident, secure and shares his story.
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What we're doing now. You're doing now and then in
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control of the situation, which is pretty true.
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Pretty true. You're you're typically, I mean,
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if there's a if there's a situation, yeah, we're both in
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control. So it's not that, you know,
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somebody's coming going. You have to do this, Sir.
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Shit. Right.
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It's not happening, not happening.
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So. Don't get me wrong, we all have
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fun and there's no drama like that, but Oh yeah.
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But there are levels where we we could just look at each other
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and say this isn't flying. Yeah.
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Oh yeah. Yeah.
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We've known each other long. Ago now in the last.
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Video where we have we have very good non verbal communication
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with each other for things. So, yeah, yeah.
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The end of the day, I'm secure, I know where she's coming home
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to, right? And I could hold my own.
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Yeah. So that's all it matters.
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Exactly. And you're not jealous.
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And I think that plays a huge part because a lot of girls and
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guys are jealous of everything. The main thing is communication.
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We know what's going on, true. So if you don't have
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communication, then there's things in the back of your mind
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that are going to happen and your relationships going to
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fall. Apart, what is she doing right
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now? Yeah, but yeah.
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But The thing is, I think a lot of it, I really feel like it has
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to do with like being a jealous person.
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Neither one of us are that way because like you have friends
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that are females and I have friends that are guys like that.
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You know that, you know, they're just friends.
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Like there's nothing more. They're just friends that we go
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do things maybe without you or with you.
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You know what I'm saying? Like there's just people that
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are in my life that are like that that just don't they're not
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at all in that realm and wouldn't want to be.
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But some people would couldn't handle that.
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They'd still think. Something.
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There's something going on like guys and girls can't be friends.
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They can't just be friends. Yes, we can.
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I think it's pretty cool we found definition.
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I know that is pretty cool, but I think we're going to name it
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bull stag because I kind of like that bull bull stag new word.
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But any anyway, so that's that's your feelings.
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Good job high five. You didn't even know what you
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were going to say. I know he was so because I.
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Didn't know the questions. You just said we got a good one
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for you and that's all about you.
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That's I could do it. You did do it.
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You did do it so anyway. Also so new 919 merch merch
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drop. You can buy them at some point.
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We also have stickers. I love the 9/19.
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That's going to be our yeah, our material at a YEAH.
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Exotica, when you come to Exotica, look for the 919.
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I really wish they would have given us Booth 9/19.
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That would have been really, that would have been really
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phenomenal. But that didn't happen, so
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that's all right. Anyway, they'll learn next week.
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I think next week we were going to talk about hold on, I have it
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here on this magical board. Next week we're going to talk
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about pitfalls because somebody asked us about pitfalls and, and
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things like that. So we're like, you know, typical
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things that come with the adult industry as a.
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Pitfall those kind. Of pitfalls like did I ever fall
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or how did I, how did I not fall into them or did I ever fall
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into them? Yes.
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So we'll talk about that next week.
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That'll be interesting, I think. Clearly, we're not into that
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either. Clearly, clearly, I love a good
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drink or two. But, well, I'm not going to say
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we're angels. But anyway, definitely.
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Not the case. So NFL this week.
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I did, Ian. New York.
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You did almost that will tell that story next week.
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Stay tuned. He was dead for 30 seconds.
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Scariest 30 seconds of my life. I'm too honored to go down.
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That's right. But week three-week 2 was
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terrible. Can we just of NFL?
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It was awful. No, I won.
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You did win. You did win 8 to 7.
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Wins a win. It's true.
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Take it as. I get them, but I'm still
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beating you 19 to 17, so that's OK Total.
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Do you see that quick math? Well, yeah, this week is going
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to be a little different because I got some differences.
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But listen, last week was crazy, like the Broncos, they had to
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have a comeback win, which is not unusual for for that team to
12:17
come back in the fourth quarter. But then we had people like the
12:20
Seahawks who should totally have beaten the Commanders and did
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not. No, he said.
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Ghost. Marcus Mariota.
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I know. So that's why we got rid of them
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in Viking. Land, right?
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So it's just crazy and like, how are the Raiders three?
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And Oh well, Wild, wild time. Another Viking quarterback.
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That's true. We do like to raise them and and
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give them, give them, give them up when it's good.
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But we did get rid of JJ McCarthy.
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So score. Yeah, Bye, bye.
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Have fun in New York. Don't let the door hit you.
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Where the good Lord split you anyway?
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So this week, this this week's on Week 4.
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We have some of the same ones, but we do have a few different
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ones. So we both like the Steelers.
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I feel like Aaron Rodgers can't lose to Deshaun Watson.
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I feel like that shouldn't happen.
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I thought he was going to lose last week.
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But that's true. I picked the Cowboys last week
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and it hurt and I'm going to pick them again this week
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because I feel like they're going to beat the Texans and you
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are the same because I feel like maybe they that really hurt and
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then it hurt because I hit the Cowboys and then they lost.
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I was like, come on, this jets bears game.
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So first of all, The Jets almost beat the Packers.
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Crazy, right? But case seen them.
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Well, we should have kept him. No kidding.
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He's our Minnesota Minneapolis Miracle.
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But like, who would have thought Case Keenum was going to come
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out and what? Anyway, he better do it again in
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the next in Week 4 because we both picked the Bears, The
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Bears, the Bears and Commanders. This is where we differ.
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Obviously, Marcus Mariota beat the Seahawks.
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His looks running out. I mean, Marcus Mariota, go go
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duck. Giving him a heart.
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It's go ducks. It's well.
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I thought, this is a heart. I don't see the.
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Now, but you're picking the Colts.
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I'm. Hung in with the Chiefs, so
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that's where I'm hanging my hat on.
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OK, Pats and Bills, I think the Patriots might as well just call
14:06
it a season because poor Drake may just no.
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Anyway, Josh Allen, he wasn't even doing really good Josh
14:10
Allen things this weekend, but he but he pulled it out.
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Jags and Bengals, we're both gonna go back to Joey BI.
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Feel like I might have made a mistake there.
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I probably should have picked Jacksonville, but I'm gonna go
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with Joey BI. Feel like he's gonna come back.
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You know him and Jamar Chase. That's a surprise for me.
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I don't know why he lost. Yeah, I mean, either get that
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back together. Cardinals and Giants AP Giants
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season after Jackson Dart went out.
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So Cardinals, Ravens and Titans. Poor Titans.
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Ravens are gonna. I mean, Lamar played great this
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weekend against Cowboys, so I think Lamar and Derek Henry come
14:41
into. Ravens probably come in half the
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sleep. It's possible from, but they
14:45
were in the same area so it'd be fine, no?
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I'm just saying that they don't have to try and show up to play
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that's. Probably not.
14:51
Probably not. Rams Eagles.
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We both have the Rams. Eagles trash.
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Because the Eagles were trash this week.
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I would have never guessed that. I was like, where's, where's the
15:03
Jalen Jalen Hurt of old? And, and where is, you know,
15:07
Saquon Barkley for carmony sakes?
15:10
Packers Packers Bucks AP 2 Baker's Thumb.
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But the Packers are gonna win. I got one of those thumbs.
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Yeah, well, he didn't. It didn't mess with his tendons.
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It is just just out of socket. So three weeks, he'll be out,
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apparently. Dolphins, Vikings.
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Let's make it for no buddies. Let's go, Let's go, my guys.
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Let's go behind the little behind the little man.
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Behind the little man, for now, the little man, he had two
15:33
really good passes and Jeddah and Jeddah's ankle scene, well
15:37
whatever, because that's as far as you could see.
15:39
Anyway, there were two really good ones and our defence took
15:41
care of the rest and we had a, we had a run back touchdown.
15:45
So special teams. But Jeddah's ankle is OK, so I
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think we're going to be OK. That's three times you mentioned
15:52
you worried. I was a little concerned.
15:55
Chiefs, Raiders. I went with the Chiefs and you
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went with. Cousins.
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The Raiders. Why not?
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Good Lord if they pull that out. That boy likes to show off a
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little. Bit I don't know.
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This is another one. We didn't pick Broncos and
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49ers. Niners easy.
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The 49ers should. He should have beaten the
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Cardinals by way more than they beat them by, I feel like.
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When reserve mode. Listen, I, I, I just, you know,
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you know, I love a good Bodex quarterback.
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I just, I, I can't, I just that's it's it.
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They He is a comeback king and he does not get enough credit in
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the NFL so. He's comeback king because he's
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always. Behind.
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Well, yeah, that's true. You're not.
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You can't do that. The Niners.
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You can no. You can no.
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Seahawks Chargers again. I'm going to catch you on this.
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You might again. I have the Seahawks.
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I don't think they do that two weeks in a row.
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I do. He's seeing ghosts out there.
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Well, I just said that. I don't know if that was
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necessarily true, but you pick the Chargers, so now they're at
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home, which means they're at home, which means that Madison
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Beer will get to be very distracting for Herbert.
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So. Just distracting for the
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cameraman. He's always on.
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Her. That's true.
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Go Seahawks, Panthers, Lions. I don't know what's going on in
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Detroit. I'm I'm not mad at it.
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I'm not mad at it at all because, you know, we run the
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North. But I picked the Panthers.
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Bryce Young has been playing really well.
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Like, yeah, anyway, you need to pick the Lions.
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So maybe the Lions will come back.
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I don't know. Why has this had trouble in the
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fourth quarter? I'm concerned with what's going
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on up there. And then we both picked the
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Saints for the Saints and Falcons.
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Tyler or Shug or however you pronounce his name, that went to
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the University of Louisville. L1C4.
17:33
L1C That's right. Throw your L's up.
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He's playing like lights out football like, and not
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unintentional like. I think it's like it's they've
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got a good scheme down there for him and he's you know, he's he's
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just living, he's living his best life in New Orleans and
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they have a good they have a good defense.
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They've got a good defense, too. We'll see.
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So yeah. So Saints.
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So there you go. I'm still beating you overall.
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So if I do this, I'm going to be winning.
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So next week we'll see who. The real boss next week could be
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the change. Well, the.
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Changing point. L Hefe is here.
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Yeah, L Hefe could be here. But anyway, well, stay tuned
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Again, comment below, ask us the questions, give us your picks
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because you know good picks, good picks will always be used
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and we will see wow when I come back, they say next episode
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I'll. Be somebody says we need to stop
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gambling, but they don't understand we're only betting.
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$0.20 yeah, we're betting 1/4 like we're not betting like
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sense of time. Yeah, it's not like $100.
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Our next video I'll be 50. Well, exchange you for a new
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model. Upgrades.
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This one's broken. She limps and.
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I do. All right.
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We'll see you guys next time. Bye.
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See. Ya 9. 19