
Why I Said ‘I’m Not Black’ and What I Meant
In this episode, I share a childhood story that shaped how I understand race, identity, and the language we use to describe ourselves. What started as an innocent moment between two little girls turned into years of confusion — not because I didn’t know who I was, but because I didn’t yet have the words.
I talk about the difference between race, ethnicity, and culture, why those distinctions matter, and how misunderstandings around them still shape our conversations today. This isn’t about blame — it’s about clarity, compassion, and learning to see the systems we’re all moving through.
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