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How to Attract High-Quality Romantic Love · Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio

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  Speaker 1: Hi and Samy with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio. And
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  Speaker 1: this is your sacred space for intuition, spirituality, manifestation and
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  Speaker 1: metaphysical wisdom. How you doing. We're gonna talk about love,
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  Speaker 1: high quality romantic love. So attracting high quality love is
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  Speaker 1: more than just manifesting the right person. Attracting high quality
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  Speaker 1: romantic love starts with respecting and taking care of yourself
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  Speaker 1: throughout the dating process. And so this means you do
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  Speaker 1: not abandon yourself for chemistry or an initial spark of
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  Speaker 1: a connection. You do not override your needs because someone
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  Speaker 1: is attractive and giving you attention. You do not hold
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  Speaker 1: out for a relationship that is clearly not clicking. And
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  Speaker 1: you do not keep hoping your disappointment will suddenly turn
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  Speaker 1: into a relationship. You stay true to yourself. You tell
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  Speaker 1: yourself the truth, You honor your standards, You protect your peace.
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  Speaker 1: You make decisions that reflect your relationship desires, preferences, and values.
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  Speaker 1: So to attract high quality love, you have to believe
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  Speaker 1: there is an abundance of people to date who will
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  Speaker 1: meet your needs. This is number one. To attract high
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  Speaker 1: quality romantic love, you have to believe there is an
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  Speaker 1: abundance of people to date who will meet your needs.
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  Speaker 1: Because here's the truth. When you do not believe there's
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  Speaker 1: an abundance of right partners for you, you approach the dating
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  Speaker 1: process from a mindset of lack, fear, and scarcity. You
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  Speaker 1: hold on too long, you settle, you chase, you make
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  Speaker 1: excuses for red flags, and you become too attached without
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  Speaker 1: a formal commitment. So attracting high quality love requires an
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  Speaker 1: abundant mindset. So let's affirm there are more than enough
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  Speaker 1: people to date who meet all of my needs. There
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  Speaker 1: are more than enough people to date who meet all
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  Speaker 1: of my needs. There are more than enough people to
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  Speaker 1: date who meet all of my needs. And I also
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  Speaker 1: want you to affirm healthy romantic love is available to
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  Speaker 1: you in abundance. Healthy romantic love is available to me
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  Speaker 1: in abundance. Healthy romantic love is available to me in abundance.
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  Speaker 1: Attracting high quality love requires that you get the part
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  Speaker 1: of you and we all have that part of us
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  Speaker 1: that is unhealed, maybe has a bit of low self
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  Speaker 1: esteem and a lack mindset. To be totally turned off
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  Speaker 1: by the idea of having to force, chase, convince, or
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  Speaker 1: change yourself to be in a relationship with a person
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  Speaker 1: who drum roll is probably not even the right fit.
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  Speaker 1: So we all have that part of ourselves, that part
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  Speaker 1: that has dating mounds, and maybe we don't see ourselves
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  Speaker 1: in the most positive light, and we look at the
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  Speaker 1: dating pool and we think, oh, there's not enough people
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  Speaker 1: out here for me. And so you got to talk
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  Speaker 1: to that side of yourself and really get it on
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  Speaker 1: board with this idea of high quality love and be
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  Speaker 1: so turned off, turned off by having to pursue and
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  Speaker 1: make something work even when it's not even right. Attracting
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  Speaker 1: high quality love also requires you to know what you
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  Speaker 1: need from a romantic relationship, and then you have to
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  Speaker 1: decide that you're only going to be available for partners
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  Speaker 1: who can meet those needs. So get out your journal
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  Speaker 1: and really take the time to contemplate what you need
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  Speaker 1: from a romantic relationship and what type of partner will
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  Speaker 1: work for you in this moment in your life. Because
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  Speaker 1: when you do not know what you need, you can
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  Speaker 1: end up accepting almost anything. And when you do know
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  Speaker 1: what you need, you can date with confidence and discernment,
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  Speaker 1: which makes you wildly more attractive than you ever imagined.
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  Speaker 1: So I want you to affirm my romantic needs are
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  Speaker 1: always met. My romantic needs are always met. Attracting high
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  Speaker 1: quality love also requires that you set an internal standard
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  Speaker 1: to be in a relationship so you can share your
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  Speaker 1: life with someone you deeply love and respect. This is
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  Speaker 1: very different from just wanting a relationship because you're lonely
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  Speaker 1: or scared about what it means if you're single, or
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  Speaker 1: seeking validation or trying to prove something or needing to
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  Speaker 1: be chosen. High quality love is rooted in the desire
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  Speaker 1: to share, to share your life, your love, your joy,
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  Speaker 1: your success, and your truth. You want to share your
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  Speaker 1: world with someone you genuinely admire and respect. That kind
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  Speaker 1: of love feels clean, strong, and dignified. I want you
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  Speaker 1: to affirm my thoughts, words, feelings, and actions when dating
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  Speaker 1: are clean, strong and dignified. I enjoy the process of dating,
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  Speaker 1: and I am seeking to share my life. We'll do
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  Speaker 1: it again. I want you to affirm my thoughts, words, feelings,
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  Speaker 1: and actions when dating are clean, strong and dignified. I
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  Speaker 1: enjoy the process of dating, and I am seeking to
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  Speaker 1: share my life. Attracting high quality love also requires choosing
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  Speaker 1: to be the high expression of who you are. I
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  Speaker 1: want to sidebar and say you don't have to be
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  Speaker 1: perfect in this. But you do not need to shrink,
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  Speaker 1: become less honest, less powerful, less expressed, less successful, or
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  Speaker 1: less yourself to be in a relationship. You actually become
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  Speaker 1: irresistible to your right partner when you are the highest
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  Speaker 1: expression of yourself. A high quality relationship support your highest
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  Speaker 1: expression of who you are. And here's the truth. Your
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  Speaker 1: right man, right partner will not be swayed by your truth.
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  Speaker 1: They will not diminish your gifts, your talent, your abilities,
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  Speaker 1: or your accomplishments. They will not make you question your value,
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  Speaker 1: and they will not see you as too much. This
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  Speaker 1: is where sipe are here. This is where I often
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  Speaker 1: hear from women when I'm coaching. Oh he said he
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  Speaker 1: was intimidated by me. Run from that person, run run no,
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  Speaker 1: be all of who you are. Your right partner will
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  Speaker 1: support your growth, your goals, your life, and your peace.
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  Speaker 1: Your right partner is drawn to you when you are
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  Speaker 1: in your highest expression. And again, you don't have to
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  Speaker 1: be perfect at this. You don't have to be at
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  Speaker 1: the height of your career or in the best shape ever.
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  Speaker 1: You just have to be in the energy of your
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  Speaker 1: highest expression. Attracting high quality love requires you give dating
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  Speaker 1: your all, and you give dating your all, without being
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  Speaker 1: frantic to get into a relationship or controlling how someone
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  Speaker 1: sees you or being desperate for a partner. You show
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  Speaker 1: up fully by being honest, engaged, engaging, and crystal clear
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  Speaker 1: about your intentions. You put your heart into the process
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  Speaker 1: in a centered and grounded way. You care, but you
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  Speaker 1: don't care so much that you forget about yourself. You
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  Speaker 1: are simply available and present now. Attracting high quality love
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  Speaker 1: also requires that you notice and accept red flags and
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  Speaker 1: you in the connection. This is about self respect. So
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  Speaker 1: you're not going to study, bypass or negotiate a red flag,
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  Speaker 1: and you definitely, one hundred percent do not turn a
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  Speaker 1: red flag into a project you need to heal, fix,
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  Speaker 1: or resolve. You see the red flag, you believe it's
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  Speaker 1: a red flag, and you act accordingly. So this is
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  Speaker 1: one of the clearest signs that you're on the path
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  Speaker 1: to high quality love. You do not keep entertaining what
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  Speaker 1: is wrong for you. You do not lament, complain, or make
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  Speaker 1: up stories about red flags. You accept that it's a
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  Speaker 1: red flag, and you move on. That's it, and purposely
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  Speaker 1: keeping that point simple because it can get in our
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  Speaker 1: subconscious and spin us a round, round, round, but red
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  Speaker 1: flags is a note. Attracting high quality love also requires
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  Speaker 1: you are authentic throughout the dating process. You are not
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  Speaker 1: shape shifting, pretending, or editing yourself into someone more acceptable.
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  Speaker 1: You're not hiding the truth about what you want. You
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  Speaker 1: let your intentions be known upfront. If you are looking
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  Speaker 1: for a husband, say it. You want a family, say it.
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  Speaker 1: If you like to smoke weed before going to the
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  Speaker 1: farmer's market on Sunday, say it. If you a psychic,
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  Speaker 1: say it. Because the goal is not just to get
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  Speaker 1: into a relationship. The goal is to get into a
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  Speaker 1: relationship where real love can flourish and grow, and that
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  Speaker 1: just can't happen if you're not being real. Attracting high
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  Speaker 1: quality love also requires that you quickly quickly say no
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  Speaker 1: to what does not work for you. A lot of
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  Speaker 1: suffering when it comes to dating happens because we delay
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  Speaker 1: saying no. And trust me, if you look back on
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  Speaker 1: all your relationships that did not go well, you will
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  Speaker 1: clearly identify the moment when you knew, felt saw that
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  Speaker 1: it was a no, but you stayed, and so just
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  Speaker 1: be willing to say no and exit quickly and graciously.
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  Speaker 1: It doesn't need to be a big dramatic moment. Just
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  Speaker 1: say no. You know, women often talk about wasting time,
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  Speaker 1: and if you want to avoid wasting time or your
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  Speaker 1: energy or your heart, just say no, this doesn't work,
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  Speaker 1: and no one will trip about it like it doesn't
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  Speaker 1: need to be a thing. Attracting high quality love also
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  Speaker 1: requires you trust your intuition to guide you throughout the
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  Speaker 1: entire dating process, because your intuition will tell you when
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  Speaker 1: to say no. Your intuition's going to tell you what's
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  Speaker 1: going on. This point alone will probably keep people from
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  Speaker 1: calling me, because that's often the call psychics get when
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  Speaker 1: we're trying to figure out something. But if you really
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  Speaker 1: just trust your own intuition, all the signs are there.
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  Speaker 1: Your intuition speaks to you through It might be peace,
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  Speaker 1: a feeling of peace. It might be tension. It might
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  Speaker 1: be a knowing, a hesitation. It might be a sensation
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  Speaker 1: in your body, a repeated sensation in your body that
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  Speaker 1: something is just not right. I have a client who
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  Speaker 1: when she's figured out that if a man's not right
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  Speaker 1: for her, her stomach will start to hurt, either on
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  Speaker 1: the first or second date. And now she knows, okay,
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  Speaker 1: this isn't right for me, because your intuition is meant
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  Speaker 1: to help you connect with the person to share your
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  Speaker 1: life with. It's not meant to take the wind out
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  Speaker 1: of your sales. You know, sometimes they think, oh, I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to hear that. If it's not right, it's
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  Speaker 1: not right. So you're into is just helping you out.
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  Speaker 1: It's trying to guide you to what is true and
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  Speaker 1: right for you. So to manifest romantic love, trust the
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  Speaker 1: guidance from within you that's moving you towards your happily
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  Speaker 1: ever after, or trust the guidance of telling you that
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  Speaker 1: you're not moving towards you're happily ever after. Attracting high
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  Speaker 1: quality love requires you check in with yourself regularly. You
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  Speaker 1: gotta stop. You know, I know that the train gets
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  Speaker 1: going when you meet somebody, but you gotta pause, take
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  Speaker 1: that break and within within and really ask yourself, do
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  Speaker 1: I like love, respect this person? Am I truly enjoying
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  Speaker 1: being in this relationship? And really pause, find a quiet
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  Speaker 1: moment of reflection to do this. Maybe date on the
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  Speaker 1: weekends so then Monday evening is set and you reflect,
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  Speaker 1: how was that? How did that make me feel? Take
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  Speaker 1: a day off from communicating, just so you can have
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  Speaker 1: a moment to yourself in the beginning, because you know,
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  Speaker 1: when we're in the honeymoon stage. I don't love that term,
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  Speaker 1: but let's go there, the honeymoon stage. It can be
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  Speaker 1: difficult to do this reflection because all the love hormones
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  Speaker 1: are going. But if you stop and make this a
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  Speaker 1: practice in the very, very very beginning, it will start
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  Speaker 1: to feel familiar and natural and normal to pause and reflect. Listen.
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  Speaker 1: People often stay in relationships based on reasons that are
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  Speaker 1: not for their highest and greatest good. But when you're
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  Speaker 1: seeking high quality romantic love, honest reflection and assessment are must.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta be willing to ask yourself. Do I like
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  Speaker 1: this person? Do I respect this person? Do I want
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  Speaker 1: to be with this person long term? Do I enjoy
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  Speaker 1: my interactions with this person? Are we communicating in a
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  Speaker 1: way that makes sense to me? Do I actually feel
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  Speaker 1: good in this relationship? Just start now, Just start now.
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  Speaker 1: Even if you just connected with somebody on an app
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  Speaker 1: and you're just exchanging messages, reflect on it. Take a moment,
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  Speaker 1: do I like this person? You'll get a clear answer
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  Speaker 1: from within. Attracting high quality love also requires you date
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  Speaker 1: people with the same relationship goal as you. If you
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  Speaker 1: want a long term relationship, date people who want a
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  Speaker 1: long term relationship. If you want marriage and kids, date
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  Speaker 1: people who want marriage and kids. If you want marriage
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  Speaker 1: and no kids, date people who want marriage and no kids.
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  Speaker 1: If you want a long term, meaningful connection, you do
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  Speaker 1: not keep attaching yourself to people who want something light
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  Speaker 1: or casual or undefined, or a situationship which is just
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  Speaker 1: a silly term. Shared relationship goals create a peaceful foundation
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  Speaker 1: you can build on and even more. This is what
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  Speaker 1: I have discovered is the coolest part of shared relationship goals.
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  Speaker 1: It makes the dating process a lot easier, smoother, and faster.
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  Speaker 1: I know, I know, I know there is this silly
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  Speaker 1: dating belief circulating the place in it that you shouldn't
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  Speaker 1: say what you're looking for early on, that you should
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  Speaker 1: just see where it goes. But that mindset is the
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  Speaker 1: fastest way. After two decades of coaching women and dating myself,
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  Speaker 1: that mindset is the fastest way to find yourself two
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  Speaker 1: years into a relationship that was never moving in the
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  Speaker 1: direction that you wanted, and then lastly, attracting high quality
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  Speaker 1: love requires you to believe that the universe will bring
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  Speaker 1: you precisely what you've asked for at the perfect time.
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  Speaker 1: So you got to ask, You got to ask, and
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  Speaker 1: you gotta do all the practical things and put yourself
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  Speaker 1: out there and date wisely and be discerning and say
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  Speaker 1: no quickly and honor your needs. And you gotta trust.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta trust that the universe has your back as
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  Speaker 1: you move through the dating and falling in love process.
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  Speaker 1: Your desire for romantic love is totally right, valid and true.
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  Speaker 1: The right person exists, Love is one hundred percent available
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  Speaker 1: to you. You are being led in the right direction.
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  Speaker 1: Trust that every no is making space for a soulful, better,
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  Speaker 1: more aligned yes. And when rejection happens, nurse the wounds
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  Speaker 1: while thanking that rejection because think of it as heart protection.
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  Speaker 1: Rejection is heart protection. Trust that the universe knows what
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  Speaker 1: you mean when you ask for a high quality romantic
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  Speaker 1: relationship because you ask precisely, and you keep asking as
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  Speaker 1: you learn more about yourself, your preferences, and your relationship requirements.
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  Speaker 1: Manifesting love really, manifesting love is not about getting someone.
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  Speaker 1: It's about being available for what truly matches your desire
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  Speaker 1: for romantic love and choosing to let go of anything
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  Speaker 1: within you that repels your right relationship. It's about respecting
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  Speaker 1: yourself enough to wait for what is for you. It's
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  Speaker 1: about trusting your intuition enough to move on when something
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  Speaker 1: is not right. It's about believing in an abundance of
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  Speaker 1: right partners and stop clinging to that one person who
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  Speaker 1: doesn't meet any of your needs. It's about telling the
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  Speaker 1: truth to yourself. It's about a commitment to stop pretending
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  Speaker 1: you're okay with less than what you want. And that
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  Speaker 1: can very easily look like love, but it's not. It's
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  Speaker 1: not high quality love. This is exactly the type of
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  Speaker 1: work we'll do in my one year Intuitive Coaching package.
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  Speaker 1: So if you click this show, you're probably someone who
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  Speaker 1: wants to manifest high quality romantic love. And in the
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  Speaker 1: work I do with clients, it's your time, your space
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  Speaker 1: to do the inner work and to take right action.
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  Speaker 1: So it's not just reflecting and healing and shifting and
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  Speaker 1: changing your mindset. It's also getting out there and being
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  Speaker 1: willing to date. And so if you were to work
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  Speaker 1: with me, we'd look at your dating patterns. We'll look
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  Speaker 1: at what you've been available for, We'll look at where
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  Speaker 1: you override your intuition. And needs. We look at where
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  Speaker 1: your inner wisdom has been speaking to you all throughout
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  Speaker 1: your dating life. We will look at the beliefs, the
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  Speaker 1: emotional habits, the energetic choices that keep connecting you to
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  Speaker 1: the wrong people, and those choices, beliefs, emotional habits block
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  Speaker 1: the kind of love you truly want. And then we
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  Speaker 1: shift it so you can be available for the amazing
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  Speaker 1: relationship you've always wanted. You will date and you will
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  Speaker 1: find what really lights you up. You will find your
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  Speaker 1: happily ever after, you will become an energetic mass for
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  Speaker 1: the kind of love you truly desire. So manifesting love
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  Speaker 1: is not about doing more. It's about seeing yourself your
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  Speaker 1: desires clearly, it's about choosing, well, really choosing to be
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  Speaker 1: connected with the right person for you. An emphasis on
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  Speaker 1: the word choosing. Often, romantic love can feel like something
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  Speaker 1: that just happened to you, but it's not. If you
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  Speaker 1: really sit down with yourself, you'll realize, oh, those were
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  Speaker 1: choices I made, and now you're going to learn how
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  Speaker 1: to make choices that really align with who you are,
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  Speaker 1: and you're going to trust yourself as you move through
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  Speaker 1: the dating process. My one year Intuitive Coaching Backage is
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  Speaker 1: the person who's ready for real change in their romantic life.
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  Speaker 1: It's the person who's done repeating the same patterns, who
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  Speaker 1: wants deep support, who wants to be guided spiritually and
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  Speaker 1: intuitively and energetically towards their dream partner and their dream relationship.
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  Speaker 1: We don't settle. We don't settle when you enter the
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  Speaker 1: Intuitive coaching world. No, we don't settle. The goal is
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  Speaker 1: to get exactly what you want. So if this feels
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  Speaker 1: good to you, if it feels right to you, if
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  Speaker 1: you're sensing you do need some support because nobody teaches
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  Speaker 1: us how to date. You can find more information at
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  Speaker 1: Intuitive Coaching Withthamy dot com and under work with Amy
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  Speaker 1: you'll see the one year Intuitive Coaching package and you
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  Speaker 1: can begin today. Thank you so much for listening to
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  Speaker 1: this show. Pray and helps you start to shift some
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  Speaker 1: perspectives around dating, and I look forward to connecting with
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  Speaker 1: you on the next show. Take care of yourself. Goodbye,