Latest / Three Damned Dudes / Episode 15 - Talking acting with Dennis Marin
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- 1:14three damn dudes today. We do not have the core 3 damn
- 1:17dudes. And surprisingly, it's not who
- 1:21you think. Gavin's actually here today.
- 1:25I only missed like 3 episodes. Maybe.
- 1:30Yeah. It's fine.
- 1:31It's it's really not that much. Wait, how many have you guys
- 1:35had? 3 Oh, he's going to fit in.
- 1:43He's going to fit in really well.
- 1:46I think we're like 1415. Friday's episode was 14 with Are
- 1:52We Dreaming, which that's a segue to a future part that
- 1:56we'll talk about in a little bit.
- 1:58But I'm going to make a note. Yeah, I'm going to make a note
- 2:05about that so I don't forget. OK.
- 2:09All right, no. Made sick.
- 2:10I'm not editing any of this shit either.
- 2:13Fuck you guys. Deal with the awkward positives,
- 2:15I don't give a fuck. Way to call out Jenna.
- 2:20Well, I said guys, plural. More than one.
- 2:26Yeah, Gavin, what are you drinking, bud?
- 2:31Drinking the Ranger, the Juice Force, these things are 9 1/2%
- 2:39and completely dangerous. Yeah.
- 2:43And before I go to the next person, I'm going to actually
- 2:47introduce our guest because that that would be, that's a
- 2:51professional thing to do, right? Yeah, So right.
- 2:55Not, not the one you think. And our third dude for tonight's
- 2:59episode of The Three Damn Dudes is Mr. Dennis Marin.
- 3:04Howdy. Yeah, and that's all I'm gonna
- 3:09say for now 'cause we're all the whole episode today is all about
- 3:14Dennis and the shit he has done with his wife.
- 3:19Welcome to it. There is.
- 3:21There's just so much you and I have to catch up on Mike too,
- 3:24and I don't even know Gavin. This is my first encounter with
- 3:28Gavin, so I'm sure there's plenty that I would love to know
- 3:31about you too, Sir. Oh don't worry, there's plenty I
- 3:34would love to know about Mike from high school days so.
- 3:39Oh man, he was pretty wild. So I've heard heard he'd like to
- 3:50get sweaty and wear minimal clothing and get wrestle other
- 3:55dudes. You don't even know that that's
- 3:59a Segway, but it is. It was much worse than that
- 4:06because it was a a singlet, it was skin tight, so I think it
- 4:10would have been better if we were wearing nothing.
- 4:13The singlet just made it much. Worse.
- 4:17Yeah, it just. Powdered it, congested,
- 4:19everything you know, you you, you think you're sweaty as it
- 4:23is. Put a leotard on and then take
- 4:25it off. Try try trying to take that off
- 4:28as hell. No, you don't take that off.
- 4:30You strip that off, you fucking peel that off.
- 4:33There's no taking off. That's true, I went to sleep in
- 4:36mine a couple nights. Oh, yeah.
- 4:39OK, Yeah. That's where ringworm comes
- 4:43from. And I I I was infected with
- 4:46ringworm if you recall. Yeah, it was terrible, all
- 4:52right? We all had it at some point.
- 4:55That's just how it goes. I mean I.
- 4:58Think I had it as like a child like before I formed thoughts
- 5:03but. Yeah, yeah.
- 5:05But it's my formative years. You also didn't do gay shit with
- 5:11dudes in high school so. That was later in that.
- 5:19Yeah, we established that Gavin is going to do the second-half
- 5:22gay, which is an astonishing, it's an astonishing thing
- 5:27because you'd have to know when the second-half starts.
- 5:30I was speaking in my years in the Navy, but.
- 5:33Oh, those. Weeks, yeah.
- 5:36So you saying you did the right, you did the second quarter gay
- 5:39then? Is that why all my marriage was
- 5:43failed? Fuck, it might be.
- 5:50Oh, that's shit. All right, let's go ahead get
- 5:53into this intro so we can actually.
- 5:56So fun fact, I don't have to do the ad read anymore.
- 6:02Oh, really? Yeah, because I pre recorded it.
- 6:05So we get to just we get to just jump into the show and you guys
- 6:09can't fuck with my ad read anymore.
- 6:12That was their that's their favorite thing because I read it
- 6:14off of this Google doc that is real time editable.
- 6:19So in the middle of the ad read, Jimmy will just type like balls,
- 6:22balls, balls and try to fuck me up.
- 6:25Or one time one of them just deleted the whole fucking thing
- 6:29and I was like, oh, that's, that's good.
- 6:30That I Larry, anything you can fit in the oven that wow, look
- 6:36at that. Hey Mike, you know what?
- 6:38We have the log in the Riverside.
- 6:43Yeah, yeah, I know where. That ad reading is going to be.
- 6:49I'm going to go ahead and download that as soon as we get
- 6:51off this this episode tonight. Yeah.
- 6:56Dennis, what are you drinking over there?
- 6:59I. Am actually drinking just plain
- 7:02old good water man with a little bit of neo in it.
- 7:05That a man of a man of taste. I actually I paper.
- 7:11Yeah, well, it's orange tangerine, which is my favorite.
- 7:15I love orange anything. That's that's a good one.
- 7:18I'll give you a great look at that.
- 7:19Yeah. I actually I quit drinking a few
- 7:22years ago. Good for you man.
- 7:25Yeah, just. Gave it up.
- 7:27Or never became a problem. Didn't want to make it a problem
- 7:31and ask myself the question what does alcohol do for you and the
- 7:36answer was nothing so I just decided to cut it out.
- 7:39Just a personal preference, I have nothing against it.
- 7:42How dare you bring maturity to our show, Dennis.
- 7:45Maturity and good, healthy decisions.
- 7:48You guys are trying to have a good time here and I'm just
- 7:51sitting here with my Aquafina, you know, some hot product
- 7:55plates in here. Hell yeah.
- 7:58Not a sponsor, but Aquafina. If you want to reach out, don't
- 8:02because no, I am still drinking bookers which is also not a
- 8:11sponsor. But with that gents, cheers.
- 8:17Cheers. Cheers.
- 8:19They're nice. Jews do a fucking bottle of
- 8:26bookers. Yeah, I'm a degenerate.
- 8:30I pulled off the bottle, assuming Gavin.
- 8:32Now we're never getting that sponsor.
- 8:35I don't think I wanted them as a sponsor anyway.
- 8:39They couldn't handle her bullshit.
- 8:43OK, let's get into these recaps. So the other day we're driving
- 8:50home from Lowe's and Ridley, from her car seat in the back of
- 8:54the van somewhere. I don't know where she fucking
- 8:56goes. She says.
- 8:59Mom, mom, can you play Maui? He's a demigod of the wind and
- 9:08sea. Asking for the song beyond from
- 9:13Moana too, but not what the fuck came out of her mouth.
- 9:17Mom play Maui, he's a demigod of the wind and sea.
- 9:23So yeah, just the the shit that she pulls out of her brain and
- 9:27just like it's incredible. It for example, we're cooking
- 9:34dinner, I think last night and I'm so we had to make like bacon
- 9:42chunks, like bigger than bits, but smaller than like quarter
- 9:44strips. So I take the kitchen scissors
- 9:48and I cut the entire package in half and then pull half of the
- 9:52bacon out and cut strips with the kitchen scissors right into
- 9:55the skillet and do it that way. And Ridley, in true fashion is
- 10:00up there helping me by watching and being the the life foreman
- 10:05that she is. And she goes, dad, what is
- 10:09bacon? And I'm like, what the like,
- 10:13what critter does it come from? She's like, yeah, what is bacon?
- 10:18I'm like, kid, I just told you the question.
- 10:21OK, Bacon. Bacon is a pig.
- 10:27And she you see her kind of stop and and think about it and she's
- 10:32like, that's sad. I'm like, what's sad?
- 10:37And she's like, you took the pig's bacon.
- 10:41I'm like, yeah, kinda. I'm like you.
- 10:49You realize that that that pig died, so we could have the
- 10:55bacon, right? And then she's like, oh, that's
- 11:01sad. I'm like, yeah, a little bit, I
- 11:05guess. But you realize that all, all of
- 11:08the meat, any meat that we eat is from a dead critter, right?
- 11:13And she goes, yeah, that's sad. I'm like, do you not want to eat
- 11:21meat? And she's like, no, I want meat,
- 11:26but it's sad. So in telling my wife about this
- 11:34story at the dinner table, Ridley starts naming off
- 11:38critters and saying that she wanted like, whatever that
- 11:43critter was, the meat from that critter.
- 11:44She's like, and we can eat duck meat and we can eat deer meat
- 11:48and cow meat and fish meat and Barrett meat and mommy meat and
- 11:55daddy meat. And I stop and I look at Jenna.
- 12:06I get myself together and go, no, no, we don't eat daddy meat.
- 12:11Only one person here eats daddy meat.
- 12:14And then Jenna threw something at me.
- 12:17So yeah. I can't wait for the next recap
- 12:23When Ridley gets sent home from daycare because she's telling
- 12:27the teachers that Jenna eats daddy's meat.
- 12:32Not daddy's meat, just daddy meat.
- 12:35Daddy. Yeah, just daddy meat.
- 12:37OK, yeah, an update on the also trending feral 10 month old he
- 12:45is in his throwing Shit on the ground era, which makes me think
- 12:50of that Vine or whatever it was that short video where the dude
- 12:54voices over like the old medieval paintings.
- 12:59Hey, it's me, your boy Duncan. Welcome back to another episode
- 13:02of Throwing Shit on the Ground. Yep.
- 13:07It's fucking yeah. That's what I think of every
- 13:09time. She's like, ah, water cup.
- 13:11Yep, Stillwater. Fucking asshole.
- 13:17And Ridley now has a call sign so Barrett is in his throwing
- 13:25shit on the ground era. Ridley is in her tattle era.
- 13:30So it doesn't matter what I tell her to do or what anybody tells
- 13:34her to do. She runs to the other parent and
- 13:37says mommy, Daddy said I had to go potty.
- 13:41But yeah, 'cause you got to fucking go potty.
- 13:44Like what? But it doesn't matter what it is
- 13:47that is that's just her go to thing.
- 13:49Now she tattles on fucking everything.
- 13:52So I proposed her call sign be tattle tits, which is a call out
- 14:00to, I forget what the movie is, but that's from a movie.
- 14:03And Jenna said no, that is not her call sign.
- 14:07How about Tattletale? And I said, yeah, OK, that plays
- 14:10I guess if you're a fucking nerd.
- 14:13So Ridley's call sign is Tattletale, and she has fucking
- 14:17earned it up to this point. And yeah, that's my recap.
- 14:22It's Gavin. What do you got bud?
- 14:26So a couple of things here, mainly I had, you know, quite
- 14:32noticeable absence past couple of weeks.
- 14:35Just had some conflicting shit going on.
- 14:37But the biggest one was going up to Virginia last week, hanging
- 14:43out with a beautiful friend of ours, but mainly went up there
- 14:47to go to the Bad Omens concert in Baltimore.
- 14:52It was Bad Omens Bear Tooth and president and they did not
- 14:58disappoint. They put on a hell of a show and
- 15:02it was great. Didn't really know too much or
- 15:08have heard much president's music before going up there.
- 15:11So like it was, it was good and Bear Tooth obviously played a
- 15:15lot of their classics. It was really good to see all
- 15:19that live, but Bad Omens definitely took the cake.
- 15:25Crowd was insane. We had a great time.
- 15:29We actually last minute ended up upgrading our tickets to like
- 15:34the VIP tickets just to get into the lounge beforehand.
- 15:38It's like 40 bucks a ticket. So it was a pretty good deal but
- 15:42got their own like private bar and everything.
- 15:46It's a really cool experience. However, I will say I am way too
- 15:56old for that shit. Now.
- 15:58Because bad omens in like do fashion, they always play
- 16:04Dethrone at the end, one of their heaviest songs.
- 16:08So buddy grabs me and goes, hey, we're going to the fucking pit.
- 16:15I was like, I don't want to do that.
- 16:17That sounds like a bad time. Had a great fucking time in the
- 16:23pit. Hell yeah.
- 16:27I'm 5 for that. I'm not a big dude by any means.
- 16:30I got fucking manhandled. Like at one point I felt
- 16:35somebody grabbed my hips. And.
- 16:38Tossed me. It was a wild fucking
- 16:43experience. I thought I was about to die or
- 16:46just like get fucking kidnapped. That is the definition of being
- 16:52manhandled. Yes, 100%.
- 16:56That's funny. Would I now?
- 16:57Again, Probably not. I I need to know something?
- 17:03Yes. The band president How?
- 17:07How heavy are they? Like solid breakdowns or yeah,
- 17:13they've got some solid. Breakdowns, but they're they
- 17:18lean into auto tune quite a bit and.
- 17:21So like old icy stars Ask or what?
- 17:25Kind of they're a little bit more like techno with some of
- 17:29the beats too. So OK, I mean, it's it's a
- 17:34healthy mix. They're they're good.
- 17:36I would check them out. So my question is, were there
- 17:40any crowd shouts before a breakdown that were just China?
- 17:49Because if not, that's a fucking missed opportunity.
- 17:52Damn. It you're right, thinking of it
- 17:55now, definitely a missed opportunity.
- 17:57Yeah, that would have been that would have been pure gold.
- 18:01Yeah, but when do that again? I did once had that experience.
- 18:06It was great. We woke up the next day though,
- 18:09and we were like, our bodies fucking hurt.
- 18:12Like we caught a couple elbows fucking just getting shoved
- 18:18around for 3 or 4 minutes straight.
- 18:22Yeah, I'm way too old to be doing that shit.
- 18:27Any like bruises or anything because your face looks fine.
- 18:30No, no bruises, nothing like that.
- 18:33So it was just a just body pain, soreness, fucking.
- 18:38Damn. Yeah.
- 18:40That sounds fun man. No, it was, it was fun.
- 18:43It was a great time so. Yeah, a lot better than my
- 18:46recap. Oh, let's go ahead and get into
- 18:51it. Oh man, I'm just on the road a
- 18:55lot. Last week I was in Chicago,
- 18:57which is why I had to reschedule for today.
- 19:00Had something cool going on there, did a nice little indie
- 19:04film shoot, and then I come home for literally 5 hours, get a
- 19:09call, pack up, going to Atlanta. So I'm in Atlanta right now
- 19:15working on another independent film.
- 19:18I can't really disclose anything about it because it might be
- 19:21going on a streaming service, but that's yet to be determined.
- 19:24So I can't really disclose anything.
- 19:27But it's pretty cool. And yeah, just on the road,
- 19:30really tired, lots of road rage. I have a bit of a lead foot, so
- 19:36I'm just flipping birds and cutting people off.
- 19:40That's probably the highlight of my week.
- 19:45American Sign Language at its finest and.
- 19:48That absolutely is, you know, I, I got a call time, I got to make
- 19:52it on time and you know, nobody's going to get in the way
- 19:56of that. So it is what it is.
- 19:59Damn right. Yeah.
- 20:06All right, so Dennis Marin. Yes, Sir.
- 20:13Who are you? Who am I, man?
- 20:18Generally speaking, who am I? I want you to know I I pose that
- 20:22question in the shittiest way possible just to see what you
- 20:26would do. So that was a Dick move on my
- 20:27part, but there is way more structure to the questions.
- 20:31So I just, I wanted to see what you would do.
- 20:33So we're this episode is all about you.
- 20:38We're going to talk about you and what you do, what you did
- 20:41from like pre birth to you're going to have to figure out and
- 20:48predict how you die. Oh, wow.
- 20:51OK, all right. I'm with it.
- 20:55And there's a, there's a surprise question that may or
- 20:58may not make the final edit because it did not make the
- 21:01final edit for last week's episode.
- 21:03But I want you guys to know we did still ask the question.
- 21:09So Dennis, for you, where is home?
- 21:12Where you from? Where's home?
- 21:14I am from Detroit, MI born and raised Lovett.
- 21:19Michigan is my home. Spent most of my youth wanting
- 21:26to move to the West Coast and that was primarily for acting
- 21:30for what I want to do. Later found out that Los Angeles
- 21:35is an absolute shit hole. Went there one found out that
- 21:43tent cities are actually real and the homeless, the
- 21:47homelessness problem in Los Angeles, Englewood to be exact,
- 21:52is absolutely unreal and realized that a lot of these
- 21:57people are failed artists, actors, musicians and fell into
- 22:03a bit of a drug addiction problem and ended up on the
- 22:06streets and it was just really scary.
- 22:09Really sad to see but still had a good time.
- 22:13First time in Hollywood I got sang to by a transvestite, my
- 22:18buddy got his car jacked. We ended up and Hollywood Police
- 22:24Department and met some of the coolest cops and just had a
- 22:28blast. Second time I went there, I was
- 22:31like, OK, yeah, I'm not living here.
- 22:34So Michigan is still home, but I do frequent Los Angeles quite a
- 22:41bit. And Atlanta, which I'm in right
- 22:43now, Chicago, just kind of all over, all over the world,
- 22:47really. And by world, I mean the United
- 22:51States. That's the only place in the
- 22:53world that matters, let me tell you.
- 22:55Yeah. I couldn't agree more.
- 22:57Yeah, couldn't agree more, brother.
- 23:03All right, what what was what was growing up like for you?
- 23:07So let's start at that post post birth, so not pre birth.
- 23:10I don't want to know about that. That was a joke.
- 23:13Yeah. What was what were the early
- 23:15years like? Well.
- 23:18September 6th, 1994, my mother gave birth and I was born.
- 23:23And then the rest is, you know, just kind of kind of history,
- 23:27man. I mean, I did some pretty cool
- 23:29shit and everything in between. No, I'm kidding.
- 23:33Growing up was quite interesting.
- 23:37I come from an immigrant family. My parents came here in 1991 to
- 23:42escape communist Romania and from the 80s and landed in
- 23:49Chicago, moved to Detroit. That's where I was born.
- 23:54My parents had 12 children. So to answer your question,
- 23:58growing up was diabolical. It was insane.
- 24:03It was one of the most fun on fun times that I can recall.
- 24:10But growing up and looking back on it now, I always had a
- 24:14friend. I always had a buddy, a pal,
- 24:17somebody to hang out without. It was never boring.
- 24:20It was always chaotic or there was always something going on.
- 24:25My parents made it happen. Man, to all kids.
- 24:27Could you imagine? No, no, I tapped out after 2.
- 24:32Man I tapped out after 0. Yes, same so.
- 24:37Far no No kids. For me at least, not you.
- 24:42You and I were talking about this a little bit like I I can't
- 24:44wait to be a dad. I clap and commend my parents
- 24:49for being the greatest parents and they just, they made it
- 24:53happen. Growing up was was awesome.
- 24:57So. Fall in that back.
- 24:58Were you like older, younger, kind of in the middle?
- 25:02I was kind of in the middle. I was #8 but I kind of grew up,
- 25:08like I had to grow up quick not to like, say that I like, I was
- 25:12like super mature for my age. But, you know, when you're that
- 25:15age, there was younglings, you know, below me, and they kind of
- 25:20got most of mom's attention. And dad was always at work, you
- 25:24know, because there's 12 mouths to feed.
- 25:25And I just kind of had to grow up and.
- 25:29Yeah. Just got to figure it out, yeah.
- 25:32Yeah, yeah. So what did your dad do for a
- 25:37living to support 13 people in the house?
- 25:41Well, 14, including him 14. Yeah.
- 25:43He. Did everything he could.
- 25:46He did everything that he could. He actually he owned his own
- 25:52tile company. So he worked in construction his
- 25:58whole life and started his business and did very well,
- 26:03very, very well for himself. We were A1 income household mom
- 26:08was a stay at home mom. And that's just the way that it
- 26:11worked and it worked out, you know?
- 26:13And I, like I said, I look back at it now and I'm just kind of
- 26:16like dumbfounded at how interesting that all just kind
- 26:20of happened, you know? And I look back at my dad and
- 26:24didn't speak the language, didn't speak a lick of English
- 26:27and moved here. I always imagine if I were to
- 26:32like move six children at the time in the 90s to Germany and I
- 26:38don't speak German. Yeah.
- 26:41And I'm just like, wow, you know, So I used to give him a
- 26:45hard time about it, you know, because you come to America, you
- 26:48got to learn how to speak English, and he knows English
- 26:50now. But, you know, for somebody who
- 26:54didn't know the culture is a kind of a culture shock.
- 26:57You know, you just land in a foreign airport and suitcase
- 27:01full of clothes and six children, you know, asking, hey,
- 27:05you know, where we going? And you just made it happen,
- 27:08man. That's my hero.
- 27:09I. Was going to say must been one
- 27:12hell of a role model. Just, you know how to figure it
- 27:16out. So yeah, props to him.
- 27:20Yeah. Yeah, that thank, thank you.
- 27:24I don't, I don't think there could be a big enough shout out
- 27:27for for your dad making that work.
- 27:30That's absolutely insane. Yeah, yeah.
- 27:33I, I anytime I'm home, I always commend him.
- 27:36And I remind him like, hey, man, like, thanks for not giving up.
- 27:40Because if he did, it would have sucked.
- 27:42You know, it would have been a completely different life when
- 27:44they, you know, so I'm able to do what I do and chase my dreams
- 27:49and you know that. And that's the thing, you know,
- 27:52it's, that's the American dream. That's what he came here for.
- 27:55He, we grew up in the mountains of Romania and he came here.
- 28:00He wanted his children to have a better life.
- 28:02And if I wasn't born here, I probably wouldn't have been an
- 28:06actor. So the way that I look at it,
- 28:10I'm an American first, Romanian second.
- 28:13You know, I love this country and I would do anything I could
- 28:16for it. And I we stand here with two
- 28:21military man, one of the Navy and an ex Marine.
- 28:24And you know, I commend you guys for that.
- 28:29Thank you for your service, both of you.
- 28:30Thanks for paying your taxes. Taxes are paid, man.
- 28:39Hell yeah. Well, that that covered my
- 28:41paycheck for 11 years. So I appreciate you never feel
- 28:47like you didn't do your part. You did your fucking part.
- 28:49So I think the only appropriate thing to do now is a big old
- 28:54cheers to Papa Marin for God damn sure.
- 28:58So percent. Thank you, brother.
- 29:00What's your dad's name? Name is George man.
- 29:04Cheers, George. Hell of a man.
- 29:07Yes Sir, and cheers to all dads out there who make it happen.
- 29:15Doesn't matter if you have 12, doesn't matter if you have two.
- 29:17If you're a father man and you're in your children's lives,
- 29:21that's that's commendable. Absolutely.
- 29:25Yeah. All right, so sports.
- 29:33Sports. All right.
- 29:34What sports were you involved in growing up?
- 29:37Growing up, got to start off with wrestling, man.
- 29:40And I, I bring that up because you were a former teammate,
- 29:44because Al, we were on the wrestling team.
- 29:47I think last I remember, I think you wrestled around like 152.
- 29:53So freshman year I started at 140, bumped to 1:45 and then it
- 30:01was 152, hung out of 160 for a little bit, and then senior year
- 30:05I was at 171. OK.
- 30:08Yeah, nice, nice. Yeah.
- 30:11I wrestled 130. I think I was a really small
- 30:15dude, still am. But I wrestled 130.
- 30:19Loved wrestling. Shout out to Coach Bergeron.
- 30:22Coach McGuire taught us a lot. I kind of learned how to become
- 30:29a man in that wrestling room and taught me a lot of things.
- 30:34Wrestling taught me things that I probably wouldn't have learned
- 30:38anywhere else. It was just a nasty.
- 30:41It was a nasty man. You remember how those mirrors
- 30:45would fog up when we would have like, Oh my goodness, man.
- 30:49Yeah. Unbelievable.
- 30:52Unbelievable. Did the mirrors on the back wall
- 30:54the the windows looking into the weight room ever?
- 30:58Like you couldn't see in there some days.
- 31:00You could, yeah, you could not see a damn thing.
- 31:03But wrestling was, Oh my goodness, by far the hardest
- 31:08sport. And then, I'm not sure if I ever
- 31:11mentioned this or if you knew, but I went into pro wrestling
- 31:14after I graduated high school. Hell yeah.
- 31:19Yeah, I played a little bit of football, messed up my neck
- 31:22playing football, which wrestling only made it a little
- 31:26bit of work worse. And when it's a pro, wrestling
- 31:29took a gore from wrestler, she'll be nameless.
- 31:35Really, really messed me up. Had some neck issues and that's
- 31:41kind of how I fell into acting. But sports man wrestling.
- 31:45Wrestling was my first love. Oh yeah, man, yeah, yeah.
- 31:53You could always tell that that the practice was going to be
- 31:57exceptionally bad when after the warm up couple miles of running
- 32:02through the school, not outside, inside, through the fucking
- 32:05school hallways, we would go then run more in the in the pool
- 32:11room. So we'd go run the fucking
- 32:14bleachers in there for another little bit of time.
- 32:17Oh my goodness, I remember. Get into practice.
- 32:21Oh, my goodness. And we used to trip all over the
- 32:23papers and the children like is doing community service and oh,
- 32:29man, bumping the teachers in the hallway.
- 32:31And it was, it was a wild time. But yeah, if I could go back, I
- 32:34would do it all again. Yeah, man, absolutely.
- 32:38Yeah, loved. It or the looking back at it,
- 32:46it's funny to me, especially with my experiences and as an
- 32:50adult. But they would like we'd be
- 32:54drilling like double leg takedowns, right, or like a head
- 33:00inside, take it up high, whatever, whatever the takedown
- 33:05was like the exceptionally shitty ones.
- 33:07You would hear coach like all right, last one and then we
- 33:10would do it and then we would find somebody in the room.
- 33:12No, we didn't do it right. Do it again, last one, and then
- 33:14everybody does it right and he's like, all right, the final last
- 33:17one and everybody does it. 20 last ones before it was actually
- 33:23the last one. Yeah, so we'd go to the last
- 33:26one, the final last one, the final, final last one, the final
- 33:29last culminating one, and then the final, last culminating
- 33:33time. If nobody fucked that one up,
- 33:34then we were good, yeah. And then we'd run sevens and
- 33:38then we would circle up and get the fuck out of the wrestling
- 33:40room. I'm pretty sure it was me that
- 33:44was fucking all of them up. No, man, I blame the freshman.
- 33:49That was only us for one year. What senior year?
- 33:59Oh man, shit, it was so much. Fun, So much fun.
- 34:04So was there a pivotal moment that you look back on and you're
- 34:07like, yeah, that was the thing that got me into acting.
- 34:09I know we kind of touched on it with the the pro wrestling,
- 34:12which, let's be real, is still just acting.
- 34:16Yeah, but it's spicy acting. It's spicy acting because it
- 34:21hurts and it's like if you're good at ballet, you would be a
- 34:26really good wrestler. It's also like a a nice dance
- 34:30and you got to keep your partner safe, you know, So it's, it's
- 34:34like a live theater for any and people talk crap about pro
- 34:38wrestling, you know, and and that's fine.
- 34:41I get it. But there's an art to it that is
- 34:46unexplainable unless you try it. And I tried it.
- 34:49I fell in love with it. Shout out to Keith Calhoun, who
- 34:53trained me, and Cody Calhoun, the whole Calhoun family.
- 34:58They were the ones who really just kind of took me under the
- 35:00wing. They trained me for free just
- 35:03because they saw something in May.
- 35:04Yeah, usually you got to go to school for it and it's anywhere
- 35:07like between 2000, sometimes up to a port of $5000 just for like
- 35:12a 12 week course. And they just took me on and
- 35:19they didn't want anything from me.
- 35:21They just had me pay my dues, you know, help set up the ring
- 35:24and be here on time. Help tear it down and we'll get
- 35:28you in for about an hour or two and we'll train you.
- 35:32And then I got hurt and then I got injured.
- 35:35So then I quickly had to resort to my first love, which was
- 35:43acting to begin with. And once that part, did I lose
- 35:50you guys for a second? I don't.
- 35:53Think so. No, no.
- 35:54OK. You guys OK, You guys there?
- 35:56Cool. So I think that's just me.
- 36:01OK, so that's kind of how I fell into acting, just because
- 36:09wrestling was off the table and I kind of resorted back to what
- 36:13else am I good at? And I remember 8th grade, again,
- 36:20shout out to Coach Bergeron. But dude, Coach Bergeron was
- 36:24drama teacher, English teacher, high school wrestling coach.
- 36:29So he was kind of like like me becoming a young man.
- 36:33He was just there. So shout out to Scott Bergeron
- 36:36for that drama class. 8th grade, it was mandatory.
- 36:41So Bergeron kind of had us do like these one act plays just to
- 36:46kind of see where you're at as an actor and your talents.
- 36:50And apparently I guess I did OK. So we did The Invisible Man and
- 36:58this is where he had us get up in front of the class and
- 37:02whichever role you wanted to audition for, raise your hand.
- 37:06He has you come up and do a little bit of it.
- 37:08If he likes it, you get cast, right?
- 37:11So here comes the role of the Invisible Man Griffin lead.
- 37:17Nobody got up. Nobody wanted to audition.
- 37:20So he just kind of throws a marker at me and says, Marin,
- 37:23your Griffin, go put your name up on the board.
- 37:26So here I am like, you know, shit.
- 37:30I was just hoping to get through the class by just, you know,
- 37:33making posters and Flyers for the play and just hanging them
- 37:37up and then just taking a nap, you know, in the back of the
- 37:40class. But now I found myself playing
- 37:45the lead role and the Invisible Man.
- 37:48So after that opening night, or opening weekend rather, just
- 37:56that crowd reaction was unbelievable.
- 38:01Unbelievable. I've never felt that kind of
- 38:03energy before. And then that's when I knew I
- 38:06was like, Oh my goodness, like this is a lot of fun.
- 38:09Like I am actually enjoying myself here.
- 38:12And Long story short, went into high school, David Glicker did
- 38:17some of his plays, fell in love with acting a little more, got
- 38:21into wrestling. Wrestling didn't work out, went
- 38:24back to acting. So now I'm in college and I
- 38:29studied biomedical engineering in college and I also did the
- 38:33play. So I majored in engineering,
- 38:36minored and theater. So I did a play out there.
- 38:42I was Corny Collins and Hairspray.
- 38:45I had Henry Ford College and that was a lot of fun, a lot of
- 38:49fun. And then after that, I just kind
- 38:52of fell into film acting, which was the goal to begin with.
- 38:56So theater was the foothold and film acting was the end goal,
- 39:02which is what I'm doing now. So I just kind of fell into it.
- 39:06Bergeron, I have to thank for that.
- 39:08He just kind of helped me discover a love for the arts.
- 39:12And the rest is history, man. Nice man.
- 39:17We'll have to. I'll have to shoot him a message
- 39:19and tell him he's definitely got to listen to this episode.
- 39:23Yeah, man. Thank you all.
- 39:26Right. What is?
- 39:27What is your hands down favorite project that you've worked on?
- 39:34Hands down favorite project. I'll probably have to go with
- 39:37the price of AIM Heather Locklear just because they flew
- 39:42me out for that. Dallas, TX all paid for
- 39:45expenses, hotel was paid for, chauffeur everything.
- 39:51And I played Tommy Lee for Mötley Crüe, so there's a
- 39:56select. Few.
- 39:58That played Tommy Lee and it was Sebastian Stan, Winter Soldier.
- 40:07Oh man, who was this Machine Gun Kelly in the dirt?
- 40:14And Dennis Marin and Price of fame?
- 40:18So, and and it was my television debut.
- 40:22It was actually on TV. It was on reels, yeah.
- 40:27So that. Sounds insane.
- 40:30Yeah, it was cool. I'm pretty sure you can watch
- 40:33it. I don't know where right now,
- 40:37but if you do some digging I'm pretty sure I'm pretty sure
- 40:40you'd be able to find it. That's fair.
- 40:45And I'm actually, I'm looking right now, yeah.
- 40:53IMDb. Yeah, if you look up on IMDb I'm
- 40:56pretty sure you could. It's on reels and Prime Video
- 41:03and Pluto and Roku and Tubi. OK, so it's everywhere.
- 41:10Yeah, damn near cool. All right, so the fact that you
- 41:15have a favorite project means that logically you would have to
- 41:19have a least favorite project. I don't want to know what your
- 41:22least favorite project is, right?
- 41:24But not going to ask that question, but what was it about
- 41:28that project that made it your least favorite?
- 41:32Oh man, I would. I would have to say the
- 41:37unprofessionalism and I don't say that lightly because growing
- 41:44up in Michigan, there's not a lot of opportunities there.
- 41:48So a lot of the opportunities that you do have are
- 41:52independent. And when I say unprofessional, I
- 41:55just mean things are just not prepared.
- 42:01You know, they'll just the entire overall production is
- 42:06just the way out of whack and you know, schedules are messed
- 42:10up and actors we're we're people.
- 42:12You know what, we have lives, we have jobs, you know, so kind of
- 42:17trying to make all of that happen is the difficult part.
- 42:23And I've been in one that I'm thinking about specifically was
- 42:26just diabolical. And it, I, I refer to it back a
- 42:32couple of times and I go, you know, what, if I'm having a bad
- 42:36time on set, at least it's not that this project that I'm
- 42:41talking about. So yeah, just, yeah, just just
- 42:46the unprofessionalism. And I think, Mike, I was talking
- 42:48to you about this a couple weeks back.
- 42:50When you're trying to get your foot in the door, you're going
- 42:53to take everything that's kind of handed to you.
- 42:56And when you do that, you run into some situation ships, you
- 43:03know so. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 43:06Yeah, it's funny that you say that.
- 43:08You've got that, that mantra for sanity.
- 43:10You know, at least it's not that project, because mine, my mantra
- 43:14for sanity is very similar. I've said it no less than four
- 43:19times at work this week, and it's fucking Tuesday.
- 43:24I like, I look around, I'm like, you know, this, this fucking
- 43:27sucks right now and I hate everything that's going on.
- 43:31But you know what? At least we're not getting shot
- 43:33at. So, I mean, at least there's
- 43:36that, right? It could always be worse.
- 43:39It could always be worse. I could be back in the desert
- 43:42like, you know, cranking in a porta John.
- 43:45Like it could always be worse. It could always be so much
- 43:48worse. I'm sorry, did you say cranking
- 43:52what in a porta John? Well, I didn't say what, but for
- 43:56anyone who didn't catch it, crank and hog in a porta John
- 44:01135°. Yep.
- 44:04When somebody broke the golden rule of like, there's one porta
- 44:09John that you just don't shit in for that reason, there's always
- 44:14the one. It's called the Jack Shack.
- 44:16Really. Yeah, that's a rule.
- 44:19Yeah, it's a thing. I.
- 44:24I I did lose you guys here, just wondering if the sound is still
- 44:27OK? Yeah, you sound fine still, I
- 44:30just hope it doesn't turn into an echo on the back end, but I
- 44:33should be able to do something. OK.
- 44:36We'll get it figured. OK.
- 44:38Who professionally is your inspiration?
- 44:45Professionally, I love Joaquin Phoenix, man, and I get a lot of
- 44:50crap about it because I know as a person, you know, he's kind of
- 44:55rough around the edges, but artistically, one of hands down
- 45:01the greatest actors of all time, Joaquin Phoenix, Walk the line
- 45:05blows my mind. The Joker, just to name a
- 45:11couple. But Joaquin Phoenix is
- 45:13definitely up there for sure. Hell yeah.
- 45:18Yeah, What about you guys? Any favorite actors from you
- 45:21other than me? I mean, well, there's so there's
- 45:24Dennis Marin. I'm I'm a huge fan of Chris
- 45:30Pratt. And I think that that probably
- 45:34is more from what is what is known in public about his
- 45:39personal life and how he is as a human being outside of like the
- 45:42rules that he does. But for me, like Star Lord, I
- 45:47want to grow up to be that guy, you know, just doing space
- 45:50cowboy shit and stealing stuff and doing the right thing at the
- 45:52end of the day. Oh.
- 45:54Yeah. So I think for me, obviously,
- 45:59other than you, Idris Elba, yeah, just the way he's able to
- 46:08like, kind of elevate the roles he's in and like the serious
- 46:11nature of them, it's exceptional.
- 46:14Like there are very few people that do it as well as he does.
- 46:19Love it. All right, Dennis, who's on?
- 46:24Who's on your Who's your top three actors or actresses that
- 46:30are like your bucket list to work with Ohio?
- 46:34OK, yeah, I'll definitely Joaquin Phoenix probably #1
- 46:41would love to work with Emma Stone.
- 46:45Emma Stone is definitely up there.
- 46:46And I actually, I almost have a chance to work with her audition
- 46:51for a project that she was involved in.
- 46:53Obviously I didn't get it or else I wouldn't be here.
- 46:58But no, just just Emma Stone. There's just something about her
- 47:04mannerisms for facial expressions.
- 47:07I kind of I my like a lot of directors that I work with, I
- 47:14have like kind of like stone face where like my eyes do the
- 47:17talking. So I actually refer to a lot of
- 47:20her acting to kind of like mimic, like the way like she
- 47:24moves her face and stuff like that.
- 47:26Just to kind of get more expression out of the roles that
- 47:30I do. But Emma Stone is definitely up
- 47:32there. And then third, I'd probably
- 47:35probably go with Leo Leonardo. DiCaprio.
- 47:40Yeah, I know it's solid. Yeah, definitely.
- 47:49OK, this next question, so not not the last one, almost the
- 47:59last one. So we pitched you the idea of a
- 48:04movie that we were kicking around that will be titled Three
- 48:09Dudes Save Them. A very loose idea.
- 48:18No, dude, Sora AI already made 22 fucking trailers for it, and
- 48:25I have a whole outline for a script already, all right?
- 48:27I just need an actual professional to figure out how
- 48:31to turn that into a 90 to 100 minute screenplay, because I'm
- 48:35not that fucking guy. I'm just not.
- 48:38Listen, man, I'm in Atlanta right now.
- 48:41I got the connects, I got the people.
- 48:44I read it over and I was like, this is actually kind of
- 48:46brilliant. And yeah, if if you want this to
- 48:52come to life, I could definitely try to pull some some strings
- 48:57that make it happen. So yeah.
- 49:04Dude, that would be, Not only would that be fucking incredible
- 49:09because like that's an absolutely insane idea, but I
- 49:16think that would be, that would be a contender for like the top
- 49:20three funniest moments of my life if that movie actually got
- 49:24fucking made. Listen man, how how far are you
- 49:27from Atlanta right now? Fuck here to Georgia sub 12
- 49:34hours. About six hours.
- 49:38Gavin, where are you at? I'm in the Arkansas.
- 49:42Arkansas, yeah. Nice.
- 49:46So if you ever shooting anything down there, hit Gavin.
- 49:48Now I can get you guys in touch in real life.
- 49:51Arkansas. I've never been, you know, the
- 49:55movie Mud. I do, yeah.
- 50:00So part of that was shot like 20 minutes from where I live, like
- 50:06round up. Yep.
- 50:10So I think that's pretty much like the only notable thing that
- 50:13Arkansas has been involved in, but.
- 50:17Pretty cool. Pretty cool.
- 50:19Yeah. Film nowadays, you, you don't
- 50:21really have to be in Los Angeles to be a successful actor.
- 50:24Everything is virtual nowadays. Like you, this screen behind me,
- 50:29this is how auditions go. You know, back in the day, you
- 50:32would have to, you would have to go and fly to Los Angeles and
- 50:37meet with these directors or go to New York or whatever.
- 50:41But I can be from Michigan and send in all my auditions and if
- 50:45they need me, they shoot me to Chicago.
- 50:47Or Atlanta. Or LA or wherever they need me.
- 50:49Or. Arkansas.
- 50:50They film everyone now, yeah. I think we need to we need to
- 50:57film 3 Dudes Save America in Arkansas.
- 50:59In Arkansas. State on the map.
- 51:01In the middle of America. Here's the thing.
- 51:05We could do it in the rice fields.
- 51:09Because listen for everybody watching, listen the most
- 51:15hilarious. It wasn't even even like a
- 51:17script. It was just kind of like like
- 51:20like a storyboard. And it's just it's so good.
- 51:24And I, I think the, we need to make this.
- 51:31Yeah, I, I, I think we should just go for it.
- 51:33I, we, we can hire some cameraman and we can get some
- 51:38lighting going and some sound guys and get some, some
- 51:43background actors and make it happen.
- 51:49Let's let's start like a GoFundMe page for this.
- 51:54Like a like a Kickstarter. For you, let's do a Kickstarter,
- 51:57let's raise like $20,000 and let's just make this movie and
- 52:02it'll become like a cult in classic 3 Dudes Save America.
- 52:06So as long as it like gets up there with like range 15, I'm
- 52:11good. Yeah, or like what's?
- 52:13Going to say. Or like the room.
- 52:17Yeah, yeah. Yeah.
- 52:20Dennis, do you know about the movie Range 15?
- 52:23Range 15 I do not. OK, I'm just going to read off
- 52:27some of the cast in this movie. Matt Best, he's a he's a vet.
- 52:35Not not at the time. Definitely wasn't in the acting
- 52:39scene. He was a he's a YouTube
- 52:41personality, right? Ross Patterson, who is the the
- 52:47Hollywood flavor that really came into all this from like
- 52:52churching up the writing and directing and also playing one
- 52:56of the main characters, Sergeant Major Gene Vandenham.
- 53:01Danny Trejo is in this movie. I've worked with Danny Trejo.
- 53:05What the fuck? Yeah, it was cool.
- 53:08Yeah, he comes to Detroit a lot, actually.
- 53:10Shit. That's nuts, that.
- 53:14Happened. Danny Trejo is so like, there's
- 53:19a very tight, tightly knit acting community in Detroit.
- 53:23Like everybody knows everybody. So if you know somebody in film
- 53:27and you spout off my name, 9 times out of 10 they're going to
- 53:31know who I am and I'm going to know who they are.
- 53:33So it's a very small community. So Danny Trejo, a lot of the
- 53:38ways that independent films work is you have your cast and then
- 53:45you have like a lead, kind of supporting role, but not the
- 53:49actual lead. And then what they'll do is
- 53:51they'll cast like a name face, like somebody who's had some
- 53:58decent credits to their name, like I've worked with before he
- 54:02passed, what was his name? Guy from Black Hawk Down Saving
- 54:07Private Ryan Not Tom Hanks the other one he he just passed
- 54:13away. I can't I can't believe I'm but
- 54:18anyway very cool actor. He recently passed away.
- 54:23Rest in peace. But I I've worked with him I've
- 54:26worked with Corbin blue from High School Musical.
- 54:30I've worked with so, So what they'll do, essentially they'll
- 54:33bring in this name talent to kind of, you know, uplift their
- 54:37films. And Danny Trejo was one of the
- 54:39people in the films that I was working on, and I got to work
- 54:42with him. Very, very cool dude.
- 54:45Dude, hell yeah. That's awesome.
- 54:47You love to hear those stories about, like, big names actually
- 54:50being like, decent human beings. Cool dudes in real life.
- 54:53That's fucking sick. 100%, yeah. Very cool.
- 54:58So they had Sean Astin, they had William Shatner, Mindy Robinson,
- 55:06Nick, Paul Michano, who is another vet who is a part of
- 55:09this movie, Keith David. OK.
- 55:15Let's find So Dale Dye was in this movie.
- 55:20I don't know if you know who Dale Dye is.
- 55:22I do not. He was the what?
- 55:26Tech advisor? I think he was a tech advisor on
- 55:29Saving Private Ryan on pretty much any war movie that's
- 55:33happened in the last 30 years. He has probably been on it as a
- 55:38tech advisor. Interesting.
- 55:41He as the tech advisor would take all of the guys like he He
- 55:44told a story on the Drinking Bros podcast about when he was
- 55:48the tech advisor for the movie Platoon.
- 55:51He took all of the actors out and did like a, I forget one
- 55:55week, three-week, whatever, however long it was like mini
- 55:58boot camp where he took all of these dudes and they lived in
- 56:02the woods and actually did shit and learned how to embody those
- 56:05roles. And that's that's a super
- 56:08trademark thing for Dale Dye to do if he's attached to like a
- 56:14war combat movie. So I do.
- 56:19I would love to meet Dale Dye in real life.
- 56:24Wow. Jesse Merlin is in that movie.
- 56:30Marcus Luttrell is in that movie.
- 56:34Tim. Tim Kennedy, Leroy Leroy Petrie,
- 56:38Petrie Petrie. Sorry.
- 56:43Dakota Meyer and Clint Romesha. Mary Dag.
- 56:49Yeah, but they had. Crazy cast.
- 56:54Right. So they funded that movie on
- 56:59Kickstarter or GoFundMe. That was a crowd funded movie
- 57:03and they raised like a ridiculous amount of money to
- 57:06shoot this film. Wow.
- 57:10Yeah, that's that's kind of like as you're saying that it reminds
- 57:13me you guys have heard of the chosen right.
- 57:18I think so. The Chosen Yeah.
- 57:20So, so it's ATV series about the life of Jesus and the 12
- 57:27disciples. Yeah.
- 57:29So that's kind of how that started to just small
- 57:33crowdfunding. They did the first season and
- 57:35now it's like 1 of the toughest grossing TV series of all time.
- 57:41And I would know that because they were kind of hounding down
- 57:44my door to, to play this, this character in that, but I, I had
- 57:49to politely decline. Who were they trying to get you
- 57:55to play, Dennis? OK, that's fair.
- 58:04You don't have to answer that. I think you were thinking of Tom
- 58:07Sizemore. Tom Sizemore, Yes, that is cool
- 58:11dude. Cool dude.
- 58:12Funny. Hilarious first film that I did.
- 58:15I did. I did two or three very first
- 58:18one improv to everything. All of it.
- 58:24He was I was like, hey, here's the script use up.
- 58:26Nope, don't eat it. Use.
- 58:27I already know the story. I got it all right.
- 58:30Wonderful. The reviews are great.
- 58:33That's awesome. Yeah.
- 58:37So circling back to three Dudes Save America, we soft pitched
- 58:41this to you. And by we, I mean I Are you down
- 58:47to play our eccentric philanthropist billionaire
- 58:51villain for Three Dudes Save America?
- 58:56I'll just say this, MSE, the place to be my people will be in
- 59:05touch with your people. And by your people, I mean you.
- 59:09I was. Going to say, Mike, we need to
- 59:11get people. Fuck we did, people.
- 59:16Wait, this is real? You're doing it.
- 59:22Oh shit. Yeah, I, I definitely 100%,
- 59:25yeah, I'm with it. I mean our core cast is set
- 59:29then. I am with it.
- 59:31I, I play a really, really good villain.
- 59:34Like 95% of the roles that I've done were me being the villain
- 59:41aside from Jesus. Yeah.
- 59:46Like, how do you get that right? Like, like, how how do you go
- 59:51from playing drug dealers and, you know, the cartel leaders
- 59:58and, you know, just these diabolical characters.
- 1:00:02And then I get a call from my manager and he's like, hey, man,
- 1:00:06you're going to Dallas. You're you're.
- 1:00:09You got cast as Jesus all right. Let's go.
- 1:00:15So it was. It's just funny to me that I
- 1:00:18played villains and then I played, you know, the greatest
- 1:00:21man to have walked this earth. The hard shift, yeah.
- 1:00:27So if anybody's curious, anybody wants to see Dennis Marin play
- 1:00:31Jesus, you can get a glimpse of it in the trailer for the movie
- 1:00:34Apocalypse Rising. Because I watched that earlier
- 1:00:38and I tried to follow along with what the fuck was going on
- 1:00:41because it looks like that movie goes from Aliens to Florida to
- 1:00:48biblical times and I am so fucking lost.
- 1:00:50But I want to watch that movie so bad now.
- 1:00:54So I'll just say this, proceed with caution.
- 1:01:00Proceed with the just yes. So when when I took that, I
- 1:01:08actually am the film did good and I'm grateful to have been a
- 1:01:16part of the film. But playing Jesus, I had no
- 1:01:20business doing that. And the reason I say that is
- 1:01:23because I am a born again Christian, gave my life to Jesus
- 1:01:29and for me to put myself in his position, I I had no business
- 1:01:40doing that whatsoever. Yeah.
- 1:01:43Yeah. Yeah, I, I can imagine that
- 1:01:45would be a, a weird internal conflict that you had to, you
- 1:01:49had to fight through to get that done.
- 1:01:51Yeah, definitely. And obviously, you know, I, I've
- 1:01:55accepted Jesus, I've accepted that forgiveness and you know,
- 1:01:58I'm saved by his grace and mercy alone and I don't deserve it.
- 1:02:03But Jesus, man, love you, you, you, you come from family, Mike,
- 1:02:11right? I do.
- 1:02:13I do. Yeah.
- 1:02:14I I grew up going to church every Sunday, and then youth
- 1:02:18grew up on Wednesdays. Awesome, man.
- 1:02:20And then I joined the Marine Corps.
- 1:02:23And it's kind of a weird thing where you stop being, you stop
- 1:02:29being religious in a sense, but you still retain a certain level
- 1:02:34and aspect of spirituality. Absolutely I.
- 1:02:37I don't need to go sit in an auditorium, right?
- 1:02:42My, my personal hot take. I personally don't need to go
- 1:02:46sit in an, in an auditorium and listen to somebody give a
- 1:02:50sermon. I I feel that connection and I I
- 1:02:54get that aspect, I get my cup filled in that sense a lot more
- 1:03:00from like spitting in a tree stand.
- 1:03:04Yeah, absolutely. Being out in nature, and I think
- 1:03:08a lot of that's influenced by the time that I had in, in
- 1:03:15treatment and going through recovery for, for an alcohol
- 1:03:18problem, coming back from my first appointment where like,
- 1:03:22right, they acknowledge that everybody going through that
- 1:03:25program, we're all military, we're all dealing with something
- 1:03:28or other. And a lot of those experiences
- 1:03:31for no small amount of the dudes that were there, dudes and
- 1:03:35chicks, a lot of those experiences would really lead a
- 1:03:39rational person to, to question a lot of those like poor
- 1:03:45fundamental faith beliefs. So they had different breakouts
- 1:03:50for what, what God was. And the one that stuck with me
- 1:03:53was the gift of desperation, right?
- 1:03:57Acknowledging full well that like I grew up in church and
- 1:04:00like I've, I've definitely got that background and I've got
- 1:04:03that firm fundamental understanding.
- 1:04:06But the that connection, that part of it right now we're going
- 1:04:13to get, we're gonna get kind of biblical for a second.
- 1:04:21So for me, like the church as it's described in the book of
- 1:04:27Acts is like, dude, I'm on fire for that.
- 1:04:31Because the church in the book of Acts was all about fellowship
- 1:04:33and service. And I feel like to maybe not a
- 1:04:39large extent, but to to an extent that's something that
- 1:04:44modern day Christianity within the confines of the church has
- 1:04:49has kind of gotten away from or dare I say has kind of lost a.
- 1:04:54100%, I couldn't agree more. I couldn't agree more.
- 1:04:58And the thing with that is, and a lot of people like I've, I've
- 1:05:05got a Christian background. Straight away for.
- 1:05:08A long, long time. When I say I was saved by his
- 1:05:11grace and mercy alone, I, I definitely mean that he kind of
- 1:05:15pulled me back into the church. Thankfully, I, I, I attend a
- 1:05:20church that I absolutely love and they're not lost and they're
- 1:05:26doing it the way that I believe is biblical.
- 1:05:32And that's what it comes down to is that I don't consider myself
- 1:05:37to be a religious person. Jesus did not come here on earth
- 1:05:41to start a religion. He came here to exalt us, to
- 1:05:45save us. And all he wants is that
- 1:05:47relationship. And once that kind of clicked
- 1:05:50for me because I'm a very, very stubborn, very hard headed.
- 1:05:55Like if I don't see it, I can't believe the type person.
- 1:05:58But once that kind of resonated, it clicked and it just makes
- 1:06:04sense, you know, and we have to rely on that faith.
- 1:06:07But I'm with you on that. I'm not not religious at all at
- 1:06:11all. It's just I believe there is
- 1:06:13Jesus. I know he existed.
- 1:06:15He died for me. He rose on the third day and I'm
- 1:06:19here because of him. Yeah, yeah.
- 1:06:24Thank you for, for getting into that with me because I, I, I was
- 1:06:28definitely curious to see how you felt about it.
- 1:06:31So thank you for. For getting into that, like,
- 1:06:34like I said before we hit record like this, this show, it's, it's
- 1:06:40a lot of things and it's easier to list the things that it's not
- 1:06:44right. What we are not is a fucking
- 1:06:48outlet that talks politics. Yeah.
- 1:06:51And that's about it. Yeah.
- 1:06:54Like everything else, fair game for a topic of discussion.
- 1:06:57Like we'll we'll talk about anything.
- 1:07:00Yeah, love it. So, yeah, So yeah, that's
- 1:07:04actually the first time we've really talked about religion at
- 1:07:07all on the show. If you guys want to have me back
- 1:07:12and we could do a whole like just episode on religion, I'd
- 1:07:16love that. Yeah, that'd be interesting to
- 1:07:19to kind of dive into that. There was a there's a point in
- 1:07:22my life at the end of high school where I was competing in
- 1:07:27what's called the Fine Arts Festival.
- 1:07:28So it was like anything you can do in front of a panel of
- 1:07:30judges, there was an event for that.
- 1:07:35So there was, there was acting, there was writing, there was
- 1:07:39dance, there was music, There was like, if, if you can, like I
- 1:07:43said, if you can do it in front of a panel of judges, there was
- 1:07:46a category for it. And actually the band I was in,
- 1:07:50in high school, we either redeemed, we competed in that I
- 1:07:54think 2 or for two or three years.
- 1:07:58And I think the last year we competed, we won, we won what
- 1:08:05was called merit. So we took merit, which means
- 1:08:08that we were, we were the top. So we beat out all the other
- 1:08:12like Christian bands that competed in that event, which
- 1:08:16was astonishing. You played, they were.
- 1:08:20Say that again. You played bass, right?
- 1:08:23Yeah, I played bass and I sang yeah.
- 1:08:26Hell yeah. But of all of the bands that
- 1:08:30were competing, which I think they're like at most they were
- 1:08:32maybe 5-1 year. So not a huge category, but we
- 1:08:37were also the only like hardcore slash metal band that had a
- 1:08:42screamer in the band at a church function.
- 1:08:50And the fact that we won merit what I was told is because when
- 1:08:55so. So when we initially performed,
- 1:08:58it was a smaller room with a stage panel of judges, enough
- 1:09:01like standing room for maybe 100 people.
- 1:09:05I did a base spin while we were playing in that venue and
- 1:09:12apparently the stage presence is what put us above the rest of
- 1:09:16the bands because like musically we're all a bunch of high
- 1:09:18schoolers. We're pretty much on the same
- 1:09:20level. But our stage presence is what
- 1:09:23won US merit. And what winning merit meant was
- 1:09:30for that category, you went out at like the end of the festival
- 1:09:34like event and you got to perform again.
- 1:09:40So the first time we played small room, maybe 100 people,
- 1:09:43like all of our friends and family are basically crammed
- 1:09:45into this room and all the other folks we went to church with.
- 1:09:48The time Fast forward to like think of like a sizable church
- 1:09:57with a full band. Like you could probably see a
- 1:10:00couple thousand in the auditorium.
- 1:10:03They introduce us to go out there and play and I'll never
- 1:10:09forget because there, there were a lot of people who were upset
- 1:10:15that we had won. So our our vocalist, Gabe, he
- 1:10:21goes out there, he's got the mic and we start into like the, the
- 1:10:26pre intro and Gabe just goes, all right, everybody come up to
- 1:10:31the front. This is how we worship.
- 1:10:35And we kicked into the song. So he went out there guns
- 1:10:38blazing, just fucking savage. But to drive the point home that
- 1:10:45like, hey, your 1950s idea of professionalism and what this is
- 1:10:50supposed to look like, not it doesn't fit everyone and it's
- 1:10:56not going to fit everyone. And for us, that band was
- 1:11:00definitely like a ministry outreach because we had the
- 1:11:03opportunity to go play these venues and play these shows and
- 1:11:06get on tickets and play lineups with fans that weren't Christian
- 1:11:10bands, some of them the opposite of it.
- 1:11:15But we got to go out there and play and have that opportunity
- 1:11:21to interact with the crowd, with the fans, the people that we
- 1:11:23didn't necessarily bring in, but also to use that as like a
- 1:11:27ministry outreach. Because that put us in the
- 1:11:29venues where kids that would never step foot in church were
- 1:11:33at. And showing them that like, hey,
- 1:11:36it's not all like one guy on a piano and an acoustic guitar.
- 1:11:40Like the shit's a spectrum. Just like a lot of other things.
- 1:11:44Like it. Don't.
- 1:11:46Don't let what you think this is turn you off to what it actually
- 1:11:49is. Right.
- 1:11:50So it gave us the opportunity to like kind of break that mold
- 1:11:54and, and go outside of that church bubble.
- 1:11:58And yeah, it was a, it was a wild time.
- 1:12:02It was an awesome experience and I miss it every day.
- 1:12:06That's, that's very cool, man. I did not know that about you.
- 1:12:09I knew you. You went to Connection.
- 1:12:12Yeah. I remember, and I remember you
- 1:12:16were heavily involved in the church.
- 1:12:18Your mom used to tell me about it.
- 1:12:19Your little brother Jake used to tell me about it, but I never
- 1:12:24knew about that whole thing that you did.
- 1:12:28And that's really cool. And that just goes to show that
- 1:12:30there's a lot of different ways you can reach people, and
- 1:12:36there's no right way to do it. Yeah, the the only right way to
- 1:12:43do it is just to do it how you know how.
- 1:12:46Yeah. That's wonderful.
- 1:12:47I commend you on that, man. That's cool.
- 1:12:49Thanks man. Yeah.
- 1:12:52But yeah, go ahead, God, we can't say the same thing twice.
- 1:12:59No, I, I was just saying that the fact that you miss it says a
- 1:13:04lot too. You know, maybe, maybe there's
- 1:13:07something that Drew is drawing you to that, you know?
- 1:13:11Yeah, maybe. Yeah, that's cool.
- 1:13:15But I, I cut my teeth playing bass on the worship team Sunday
- 1:13:19mornings at church. And then they call it the JV and
- 1:13:24the varsity team. So the JV team played Sunday
- 1:13:26mornings, the varsity team played Wednesday nights.
- 1:13:29And I, yeah, I played for both of those worship teams.
- 1:13:34And yeah, that really been able to get up there and like, learn
- 1:13:39how to play bass in real time with a whole band and figure out
- 1:13:43how this stuff all meshes together.
- 1:13:47Definitely set the foundation for going and playing scary
- 1:13:50screaming music with breakdowns and just going absolutely
- 1:13:54fucking wild on stage. That's cool, man.
- 1:14:00Oh. But yeah, Gavin, you want to you
- 1:14:03want to touch any religion topics or.
- 1:14:06I don't really have a dog in that fight, so you know, I'm,
- 1:14:10I'm not religious in the slightest, so.
- 1:14:13OK. I don't bash it one way or
- 1:14:16another, I just, it's not my cup of tea, you know?
- 1:14:21Yeah, yeah. So, but as long as you're not, I
- 1:14:28don't think infringing is the right word.
- 1:14:30But that's the one that comes to mind is long as you're not, you
- 1:14:35know, being a Dick about it, Yeah, yeah.
- 1:14:38Force other people to, you know, believe what you believe.
- 1:14:42Then by all means, do your thing.
- 1:14:44Yeah, and I respect that. I respect that a lot.
- 1:14:50I've never been that kind of person to where I try to make
- 1:14:53you see it my way. I am sure Mike can agree with
- 1:14:59it. We don't judge on who you are as
- 1:15:05a person. We judge righteously on your
- 1:15:10fruits, so who you become after being saved.
- 1:15:15So yeah, I I would never, never push anything on you or anyone
- 1:15:21else for that matter. But yeah, just that mutual
- 1:15:27respect that comes from just being a human being and having
- 1:15:32differences in opinion and all. It is man.
- 1:15:35And. That's, yeah, that's what a lot
- 1:15:38of people don't have because, I mean, some of the nicest dudes
- 1:15:42I've ever known, like weren't religious.
- 1:15:45They couldn't care about it one way or another.
- 1:15:47And then some of the like, worst people I've ever met were the
- 1:15:52extremely religious ones trying to force it down everybody's
- 1:15:56throat. And I'm like, yeah, it's just,
- 1:15:58it's not a good betrayal, you know?
- 1:16:00Yeah. And on behalf of everybody who
- 1:16:04says that they're religious, I do apologize on their behalf
- 1:16:09because. I'm.
- 1:16:11Very sorry if they put a set our taste in your mouth because I've
- 1:16:15I've been on that end of the spectrum where I felt ridiculed.
- 1:16:20I felt judged by the church, by the people, And it wasn't until
- 1:16:26Jesus called me on back and he said, Hey, you're a child of
- 1:16:30mine too. And the Bible says that believe
- 1:16:34in me and I will renew in you your heart of stone into a heart
- 1:16:39of flesh. So my heart kind of softened and
- 1:16:43I got exposed to different things.
- 1:16:45And that's just kind of how it works.
- 1:16:48But hey man, if you are ever, ever interested, you got Mike
- 1:16:53and you got me now too, brother. All right.
- 1:16:55Well, I appreciate it. Absolutely.
- 1:16:58Then one, one second, one second.
- 1:17:01Do you mind if I just plug myself in really quick?
- 1:17:03Yeah, go for it, man. I'm so sorry one SEC.
- 1:17:07No, you're good. How was Beartooth Live like?
- 1:17:15What was what's your raw take on on TNM Live?
- 1:17:21Did some expectations exceed? Were you kind of disappointed
- 1:17:26and where you at? So that's the thing, it was a
- 1:17:29mix because I haven't been too happy with like their newer
- 1:17:37stuff because it's just not really like my cup of tea.
- 1:17:41I don't think it's as good as some of their older stuff.
- 1:17:46So like when they played their older stuff, it was amazing.
- 1:17:49It was good. They played, you know, the lines
- 1:17:51in between disease phenomenal. When they played their newer
- 1:17:57stuff, I was like, I could tell you to believe it.
- 1:18:00So. I will I'll send you a video
- 1:18:05that I saw a couple nights ago. There's this guy on YouTube, the
- 1:18:09yawn who a lot of what he does is he'll like do deep dives on
- 1:18:14bands that were super relevant and like the Myspace era and
- 1:18:18you'll like he'll go from like where they started out to like
- 1:18:21how the band progressed to either a breakup or where they
- 1:18:24are time now. He recently did a video on on
- 1:18:29Beartooth and he he touched on, he touched on the transition
- 1:18:37from like and the way he put it was very obviously Caleb going
- 1:18:42through shit for the first like 3 albums and it was raw and it
- 1:18:47was emotional and it was heavy. And then you get into the later
- 1:18:51albums and it's almost like, especially with the song free,
- 1:18:56for example, like from the outside looking in, not
- 1:19:00necessarily from the aspect of being a fan of the music.
- 1:19:03You see a guy who you you met in the first album who just lost
- 1:19:10and hated everything and making music that reflected it to the
- 1:19:14song free where he has gotten to a place where like this journey
- 1:19:19has taken him. And this is now the output of it
- 1:19:22is a healthy, healthy right? Happy.
- 1:19:28Yeah, like he's he's no longer in that dark place.
- 1:19:31And you got to go along over the years of all of these albums and
- 1:19:35watching him go through and process and deal with all of
- 1:19:38this shit to get to that last album that they dropped.
- 1:19:41And like when he laid it out like that, I was like, yeah,
- 1:19:46that's actually kind of cool. Yeah, no, it is.
- 1:19:49And that's why I kind of feel shitty for not being a fan of
- 1:19:54some of their newer stuff because I'm like, he's in a
- 1:19:58better place. He's, you know, not doing, he's
- 1:20:02not drinking, doing drugs anymore.
- 1:20:03Like he's happy mentally. He's gotten better.
- 1:20:07I love that form. But the music he's making now
- 1:20:13just isn't. I'm not at that place with him,
- 1:20:17so I can't appreciate it. I might go back to the dark shit
- 1:20:21because that's what I need. Damn it, I'm still broken,
- 1:20:25Caleb. Pretty much.
- 1:20:29I love that. I love that.
- 1:20:32Yeah. Like the one newer song they
- 1:20:34have free again, right? Talking about that one.
- 1:20:37I fuck with that song so hard and I don't know, I think it's
- 1:20:42like after I saw that video, I I listened to it again and I was
- 1:20:47like, yo, OK, I get it, I get it, It's it's good, right?
- 1:20:52It's not, it's not in between, it's not the lines, it's not any
- 1:20:57of that shit that I absolutely fell in love with.
- 1:21:00Yeah. But I, I understand it and I
- 1:21:04appreciate it, so I I fuck with that song and that's the only
- 1:21:09one that's really popped up from their newer stuff.
- 1:21:13Well, that's my. New one they've released in like
- 1:21:163 years right? So, well, even the album before
- 1:21:19that where he was trending in that direction.
- 1:21:22Oh yeah. Like I there's like one or two
- 1:21:25songs on that album that I'm like, yeah, fuck yeah.
- 1:21:29That's the way I felt with it too.
- 1:21:33Like another example of that is like the plot in you like their
- 1:21:37early stuff. Yo I I get down on that so
- 1:21:43fucking hard. Like that disgusting Genting.
- 1:21:46But they didn't. They just changed style.
- 1:21:50They didn't really have any like big revelations or anything.
- 1:21:54Yeah, they didn't go on a spiritual mental health journey.
- 1:21:58They just got played on the radio.
- 1:22:02No, no, they just blew up on TikTok, that's all.
- 1:22:06Yeah, Yeah. That's fair.
- 1:22:10All right, Dennis, we have only a few questions left before this
- 1:22:15just devolves into absolute debauchery.
- 1:22:21So what? What crazy stories do you have
- 1:22:26that like either from the wrestling days or from the
- 1:22:30acting days or the professional wrestling days?
- 1:22:33Like just hit me with like just you're crazy at a party talking
- 1:22:38to somebody. What is your go to story?
- 1:22:42Oh, man. Well, in my early wrestling
- 1:22:51days, I had to watch a lot of people.
- 1:22:56Some of my closest friends do a lot of drugs.
- 1:23:04It, yeah, just pro wrestling in itself, it's not as hyped up as
- 1:23:13it is to be, especially in the early stages when you're paying
- 1:23:16your dues, there's a lot of heavy drug use and you're on the
- 1:23:22road a lot and there's some crazy shit that happens.
- 1:23:26And I had to learn the hard way that it was going to be a very
- 1:23:32long road ahead of me if I was going to stick to it.
- 1:23:35And it's almost as if I was meant to kind of put that part
- 1:23:40of my life behind me because who knows what I would have gotten
- 1:23:43involved or in. But thankfully, I had two loving
- 1:23:49parents who helped straighten me out.
- 1:23:51And, you know, like, I'd like to think that I have a good head on
- 1:23:56my shoulders. So that part I did not partake
- 1:24:00in. I just solely stuck to
- 1:24:04wrestling. But it was hard to deal with,
- 1:24:07you know, see some the closest people you loved and you cared
- 1:24:10about and you would go on the road with them and hang out with
- 1:24:14them and they became like your family.
- 1:24:15And to see them kind of spiral out of control like that, it was
- 1:24:20hard, you know, to to watch. And, you know, you do what you
- 1:24:26can to kind of wean them off of it.
- 1:24:28But if you've ever dealt with that in your life or had to deal
- 1:24:33with somebody who was going through that, it's a difficult
- 1:24:35thing. Yeah, yeah, I'm, I'm sorry I
- 1:24:39went a little dark there, but yeah, Nah, man.
- 1:24:44Yeah. All good.
- 1:24:46If you if you think that was dark, buddy, you need to go back
- 1:24:48and listen to episode 1. Episode 1.
- 1:24:51All right, I will. Episode 1 got it, got it.
- 1:24:55It didn't get. I won't say it got dark, I'll
- 1:24:58say it got fucking real. Real.
- 1:25:01OK, I'll ask. It got super fucking real.
- 1:25:05I'll definitely have to check it out for sure.
- 1:25:09Yeah. All right.
- 1:25:13Last thing, we kind of touched on it a little bit and I think
- 1:25:16it's hilariously relevant for where we are in in episodes of
- 1:25:22this podcast. But you, you dabbled in music a
- 1:25:25little bit in in high school. Yeah, you were.
- 1:25:28You were part of a band for a little bit.
- 1:25:30I was, yeah. Really.
- 1:25:32I was, Yeah, I I played the keys for for at the time it was
- 1:25:37called tomorrow. Maybe too late, but they
- 1:25:40revamped and they now call themselves Are We dreaming?
- 1:25:45Good. Good buddy.
- 1:25:47Yeah. Really good, good friends of
- 1:25:52mine. We actually, we reunited at the
- 1:25:5610 year fanfare out in Pontiac, MI and yeah, it was Chris Roach,
- 1:26:03Shan Mason, Danny Mason and myself.
- 1:26:06I played the keys, I played the synth and piano forum.
- 1:26:10And yeah, Chris Roach, he ended up moving schools, which made it
- 1:26:15difficult for us to kind of get together.
- 1:26:18But after that it just kind of fell apart and then they
- 1:26:23reconnected. So they're a band again now.
- 1:26:26And then I just, I obviously chased other dreams and it it
- 1:26:30worked out for me. It worked out for them.
- 1:26:31And I, I wish if you guys were listening.
- 1:26:34Are we dreaming? Chris, Shane, Danny.
- 1:26:36Love you guys. Love you guys, man.
- 1:26:42Yeah, yeah, I was. I was a part of that band for a
- 1:26:44little bit. Hell yeah.
- 1:26:47Was that? Was that back in the garage
- 1:26:50days? Back in the garage days, man,
- 1:26:54you know, and we didn't know or think that it was going to go
- 1:26:58anywhere. It was just a bunch of guys just
- 1:27:01getting together, you know, after school and just having
- 1:27:04fun, you know, over the summers, just playing some music and
- 1:27:07impressing the chicks. And really, that's what it was
- 1:27:09all about just, you know, Yeah, it was, it was cool.
- 1:27:16It was fun. Yeah.
- 1:27:18So I, I hear Mike, that you're going to be joining.
- 1:27:23Are we dreaming for, for a little something?
- 1:27:25You, you. You want to tell me a little
- 1:27:26more about that because I am very intrigued.
- 1:27:29Yeah. So right.
- 1:27:32As of right now, Gavin and I and actually the rest of the the
- 1:27:36critters that live in my house, we will be going back to
- 1:27:40Michigan in April. And one of one of the days on
- 1:27:45that trip, we plan to get together in Mr. Chris Roche's
- 1:27:51house with the current lineup of Are we Dreaming and the current
- 1:27:58as of roughly 15 years ago lineup of we the redeemed.
- 1:28:06And we're going to, we're going to get together.
- 1:28:08And if I can jam and hang out and yeah, I'm, I'm sure
- 1:28:13something will come of it. There's not like a, a solid plan
- 1:28:18for like, yeah, let's get together and write a song.
- 1:28:20It's like, yeah, we're just going to hang out and fuck
- 1:28:22around with instruments and we're going to see what happens.
- 1:28:26That is awesome. And yeah, I'm, I'm super fucking
- 1:28:31excited for that. Like like I said last week, I
- 1:28:34don't have words for how excited I am for that meet up and that
- 1:28:38just fucking brain meld and just like creative autism to happen.
- 1:28:44That's all it is, man. You just need a group full of
- 1:28:46autistic friends and just and, and especially if they're like
- 1:28:53artistic autistics. Yep, it's the best.
- 1:28:57It's the best. Gavin, you play, you play.
- 1:29:01No, don't. He plays the electric triangle.
- 1:29:04He sometimes damble dambles. He sometimes dabbles in the
- 1:29:08tambourine. Tambourines are cool man.
- 1:29:12Dude, if we actually make a song on that trip, it's going to have
- 1:29:16to be whatever by Are We Dreaming featuring We the
- 1:29:21Redeemed featuring three damn dudes, which means our podcast
- 1:29:28will have a fucking music credit.
- 1:29:33I said we could RIP it and use it for our intro and outro.
- 1:29:37That is so funny. We might just be able to
- 1:29:42convince Are we dreaming to write us an intro and outro?
- 1:29:47We could, yeah. But at the same time, Jimmy
- 1:29:51spent actual money on the rights to those songs that we use.
- 1:29:56Did he actually? Yeah, he, he bought those.
- 1:30:01God. How is Jimmy?
- 1:30:04I'm actually very upset that he couldn't be here.
- 1:30:07Damn. Well, he's a, he's good overall.
- 1:30:13He's, he's good. Courtesy of Facebook.
- 1:30:17I know that him, him and his girlfriend have been together
- 1:30:21for nine months, 10 months, something like that, I think.
- 1:30:25It's 10. Yeah, which means his
- 1:30:28relationship is roughly as old as my son.
- 1:30:32Oh wow. OK.
- 1:30:33So they should be crawling and pulling themselves up on stuff
- 1:30:36by now. Yeah.
- 1:30:40And working on sick, disgusting fucking gutterals.
- 1:30:47Gavin, I don't think I've told you this.
- 1:30:48I don't know if you saw the Snapchat where I fucking put it,
- 1:30:51but yeah, for the listeners, I, because I am a absolute
- 1:30:57degenerate that used to do music, I will occasionally just
- 1:31:01walk around the house and like and just do shit like that
- 1:31:06because it freaks the dogs out. And that's funny to me because
- 1:31:08I'm an asshole, my daughter. So I'll I'll do Lowe's and then
- 1:31:16I'll just like do some of those those That's what Ridley tries
- 1:31:22to do. But Ridley's version of that,
- 1:31:24sorry, Tattletale's version of that is it's just, it sounds
- 1:31:30like a dying sheet. So she'll she'll get there,
- 1:31:34right. There's still hope.
- 1:31:35Or she could play an instrument. She's super interested in
- 1:31:39keyboards and she will not leave this thing the fuck alone.
- 1:31:46Very nice. Which is probably for the best
- 1:31:49honestly. But Barrett on the other hand,
- 1:31:52my 10 month old fucking potato, he has found a way to just like,
- 1:32:01like do that without pushing. He's just like, he's got a low
- 1:32:06growl and you can tell when he's happy and also when he's sad and
- 1:32:10mad and upset because the first thing that comes out of him is
- 1:32:26so yeah, I'm, I'm raising a future fucking metal vocalist
- 1:32:31and I'm super stoked on that. I've got a failure.
- 1:32:35Fair, fair, fair, fair, a fair roll.
- 1:32:39There we go. Redneck 3 year old and a fucking
- 1:32:44hardcore 10 month old. I made it boys.
- 1:32:49I I can, I can quit. Honestly.
- 1:32:51Like if it wasn't for Dennis's story about his dad and just
- 1:32:55being present and how fucking important that is for dads to do
- 1:32:58out there, for all of the dads to do out there.
- 1:33:02You made it. Stick around for it.
- 1:33:12Yeah, like selfishly, I I could quit now and like, that's,
- 1:33:16that's a success, right? But I'm not doing that because
- 1:33:20I'm healthier than I was when that was an option anyways.
- 1:33:25Yikes. Yeah, but yeah, episode 1,
- 1:33:28Dennis, we we get into that right out of the fucking gate.
- 1:33:32I just need to watch episode one man.
- 1:33:34Yeah, man, it's, it's fucking wild.
- 1:33:36And let me tell you, you can find that on YouTube, you can
- 1:33:40find it on Spotify and you can find it on Apple Podcasts.
- 1:33:43We're fucking everywhere. Very nice, love it.
- 1:33:48Yeah, it's, it's wild. So that leads us, which is going
- 1:33:54to be super awkward with the whole religion conversation that
- 1:33:58we just had and has continued throughout this this episode.
- 1:34:06But I'm going to ask the question anyway.
- 1:34:08Sure, because that that's become a trademark of us having guests
- 1:34:11on. I'm intrigued now.
- 1:34:23You shouldn't be. Yeah, you shouldn't be.
- 1:34:27OK. And feel free to just say pass,
- 1:34:32right, because I suspect that's going to be the answer.
- 1:34:35OK, Dennis, what is the weirdest or strangest place that you have
- 1:34:42cranked the old hog at? Again, feel free to say pass,
- 1:34:54but that is a question we've asked every guest that we've had
- 1:34:57on so far. So it's becoming Canon.
- 1:35:02This is my first time on your show.
- 1:35:08So are you about to tell me that it's also the last time?
- 1:35:16Oh man, you know what I'm it's how you word it.
- 1:35:28First of all, it's cranking the old hawk.
- 1:35:35Oh man. You know what?
- 1:35:43It's for the listeners. I sent Dennis Most 99.
- 1:35:49You know, there's an actual percentage number of the
- 1:35:52questions that we've gone through for the episode that was
- 1:35:56not on the read ahead. So this is the first time he's
- 1:36:00hearing this question. What you're getting is the raw
- 1:36:02reaction. And outside of any answer we
- 1:36:04get, that fucking reaction was absolute gold.
- 1:36:08You. Know.
- 1:36:09Man yes, if if it. Was on the list of questions
- 1:36:14that you had for me. I think that would have just
- 1:36:17made it absolutely gold. I'm just imagining myself
- 1:36:24reading that. And just like Mike, oh man, you
- 1:36:31know what? For the audience's sake, I think
- 1:36:35I'm going to have to ask on that one.
- 1:36:37Yeah, that's fair. That makes sense.
- 1:36:40But but if you have me again on this show, ask me it again.
- 1:36:48Very well. Ask me it again.
- 1:36:52Very well. And you know, that's a solid
- 1:36:55dude. I honestly thank you for that.
- 1:36:57I needed that. This old podcast has been just a
- 1:37:02whirlwind of emotions and I needed that, so thank you.
- 1:37:06Yeah, man. Thank you very much.
- 1:37:08We're here for. Oh jeez.
- 1:37:13My, my literal all, all of that laughing that that was that was,
- 1:37:18that was a good question. So a fun fact that is not an
- 1:37:25appropriate conversation starter at the urinals.
- 1:37:29Found that out the hard way. I think this is how you should
- 1:37:32open up all of your future podcasts.
- 1:37:36First question I'll be where do you think?
- 1:37:40Not where, not where do you? What's the weirdest?
- 1:37:43The weirdest Sam. Oh man.
- 1:37:46Because for me, I think we talked about it in episode 12,
- 1:37:50one of the previous episodes, I was in on a field X on a field
- 1:37:56exercise out in the desert in Southern California.
- 1:38:00And I, looking back at it, realized that the cami netting I
- 1:38:05was standing under was only roughly waist high to the
- 1:38:09ground. So anyone out there with NBGS
- 1:38:13would have just seen a pair of legs with cock and balls out
- 1:38:17just going ham in the desert. So yeah, I'm not proud of that.
- 1:38:24It's funny, I'm not proud of it, but it happened.
- 1:38:30Hey, as long as it's funny, that's what counts.
- 1:38:36We broke Dennis. Yeah, like it's it's bad because
- 1:38:43I am picturing it so his legs, cock, balls.
- 1:38:50And. Mike, I know you.
- 1:38:53You're my, my, my best friend in high school, man.
- 1:38:55So oh man, I'm, I'm crying a little.
- 1:39:05Oh shit. That was good.
- 1:39:07Oh. Brother.
- 1:39:10Fuck sake. OK?
- 1:39:14Fuck Mary. Kill you right now.
- 1:39:15I'm kidding. We're not.
- 1:39:16We're not doing that. Was that?
- 1:39:26It was night time, so the night time in the desert, it wasn't
- 1:39:31that hot. It was, it was apparently hog
- 1:39:35cranking degrees outside because, you know, the wind blew
- 1:39:39and I was like, ah fuck, it's been 20 minutes.
- 1:39:41I got to take care of this. Dude, I am wheezing.
- 1:39:53It's it's my unspoken sin, so to speak.
- 1:39:56You know what I mean? Does your mom watch this show?
- 1:39:59I hope not. Sorry, Heather.
- 1:40:06Oh. Geez, she's heard on this.
- 1:40:10Oh, God, no, definitely not. Oh, shit.
- 1:40:15All right, Dennis, do you have any?
- 1:40:17I mean, obviously you've got things coming out, but do you
- 1:40:19have anything coming out soon that you can talk about or
- 1:40:25pitch? Not anything soon.
- 1:40:30I don't. I don't.
- 1:40:33But I do have a project that I will be working on third quarter
- 1:40:39of the year. So like October, November, I can
- 1:40:42talk about it just a tiny bit, but is it is with a very well
- 1:40:47known director in Michigan. Her name is Dolores Lynn.
- 1:40:52I did a film with her about domestic violence, which spread
- 1:40:56a lot of awareness on that. I was actually playing the
- 1:41:00abuser in that film, and to get into that character was a great
- 1:41:06deal of work. It was absolutely insane to have
- 1:41:10to go there. And it was such a fun time on
- 1:41:12set because the actress that I was working with, she made it
- 1:41:17easy for me and it was cool. Like she's like, hey, it's OK.
- 1:41:21Like, you know, we can do this. We're in this together.
- 1:41:24This is an important story. We won a lot of awards for it.
- 1:41:27So I'm going to be working with that same director here in
- 1:41:29October and there's talks that it's going to be on public
- 1:41:39streaming services, one of them in particular.
- 1:41:43I don't know what else I can really say about it and.
- 1:41:47Play it safe. Yeah, but it, it is going to be
- 1:41:50a good one. It is going to be a really good
- 1:41:52one. I'm excited for it.
- 1:41:53It's really like my first or one of my first, like like lead
- 1:42:02roles. I've I've played leads and other
- 1:42:04films, but this is like a major leading film for me and I'm
- 1:42:09really excited about it. And that's going to be kind of
- 1:42:13the last thing that I do to kind of end this year.
- 1:42:18So yeah, not sure when it's going to be coming out or where
- 1:42:24it's really going to be shooting.
- 1:42:25I'm almost certain it's going to be in Michigan.
- 1:42:28So yeah, that's going to be cool.
- 1:42:29And we will be having like a probably a red carpet premiere.
- 1:42:32So if either of you find yourselves back home in
- 1:42:34Michigan, more than welcome to attend.
- 1:42:38It sounds like we need to do a live episode from a red carpet.
- 1:42:43Red fucking words man. I quit.
- 1:42:47I can't say him today. It sounds like we need to do a
- 1:42:50Three Damn Dudes episode from a red carpet event with Mr. Dennis
- 1:42:56Marin. Yeah, and I'm sure, I'm sure
- 1:42:59they would love to have you guys it's.
- 1:43:01Just I doubt it, doubt if they listen to any of these episodes.
- 1:43:05I doubt. It you're going to be asking
- 1:43:08everyone on the red carpet, where's the weirdest place you
- 1:43:10cranked it. At Very Leading Actress.
- 1:43:14Hey, so I take it you probably don't crank your hog.
- 1:43:19What's the weirdest place you flicked the bean?
- 1:43:21I don't I don't know what you want from me.
- 1:43:23I I got I got nothing. That's super vulgar and I'm
- 1:43:28sorry for everybody listening, but that's that's the I guess
- 1:43:31that's the most I don't, I don't know how to talk about that.
- 1:43:39That's just funny. I'm I'm with it.
- 1:43:40If if you guys want to come out there for that premiere, I
- 1:43:43would, I would be very happy to have you, very happy to have
- 1:43:46you. So is it, Well, I know it's bad,
- 1:43:54but I'm I'm going to pull you guys.
- 1:43:56How bad is it that you were talking about a very serious
- 1:43:59topic and what I can assume will be a a pretty serious film where
- 1:44:04you play an abuser in a storyline that centers on
- 1:44:09domestic violence? How bad is it that my first
- 1:44:13thought was, is this where you tell us that you're a method
- 1:44:16actor? They're actually funny enough.
- 1:44:26Oh God. Hold on, hold on.
- 1:44:30So funny enough, when we had the red carpet premiere for that
- 1:44:35film, it's it's called Why Me? And I'm pretty sure you can
- 1:44:39actually stream it. I don't know where, but if
- 1:44:42you're interested, I can. I can figure that out.
- 1:44:45So when we did the red carpet premiere for that movie, we did
- 1:44:49our little panel, which was the director and the two lead
- 1:44:53actors, which was me and the actress that played across from
- 1:44:58me by the name of Zakia. So Zakia and myself, we were
- 1:45:05answering all these questions and there was somebody in the
- 1:45:08audience that obviously was there to watch the film with us.
- 1:45:13He had a question, he stood up and it was directed towards me.
- 1:45:17His question was how were you able to play this character so
- 1:45:24convincingly? Because I literally wanted to
- 1:45:30beat your ass. And he was like, I'm listening
- 1:45:35to you speak and you seem like a stand up guy.
- 1:45:38You seem really nice. You seem like, you know, you're
- 1:45:42decent and you know, that's complete opposite of who you
- 1:45:46were playing. So how were you able to do that?
- 1:45:51And my answer to him was he just, he's got to tighten that
- 1:46:00belt and just go for it. Yeah, you just got to do the
- 1:46:04work. That might not have been the
- 1:46:09best choice words I. Was going to say that and.
- 1:46:14And the plays almost erupted. But what I meant by that is.
- 1:46:21You. You.
- 1:46:22For, for the lack of, of a good, you know, choice of words, you,
- 1:46:27you have to do the work, you know, so, so it, it wasn't
- 1:46:32obviously, it wasn't method acting, It it was just being
- 1:46:36able to go there, go to the dark place.
- 1:46:38And that's what we do as actors is we draw from our lives, from
- 1:46:44people that were in our lives. And you just kind of get there.
- 1:46:48You go to that, that darkness, that dark place.
- 1:46:51And then you have somebody like Zakia, which Zakia, if you're
- 1:46:55watching love you. She was the one who kind of, she
- 1:47:05was the one who just kind of kind of pulled me, pulled me
- 1:47:09back from that and said, hey, you know, it's OK.
- 1:47:12Like I'm OK. Like we can do this.
- 1:47:14We can. We're doing this together.
- 1:47:17And I owe a lot of that credit to her because it is very rare
- 1:47:23that you have somebody on the set that can play that type of
- 1:47:27role with you. And they're just kind of like,
- 1:47:29we're doing this together. And you have to remember that
- 1:47:31like, it's not, it's not just you going to that dark place,
- 1:47:35it's me allowing it. So that's where that
- 1:47:38vulnerability comes from. And you could see it on screen.
- 1:47:41We, we want a couple of words from it.
- 1:47:46Yeah. I, I think I, I was nominated
- 1:47:48for the semi Film Festival out in Simi Valley, CA for best
- 1:47:55actor. Zakiya was nominated for best
- 1:47:57actress. So.
- 1:48:00Yeah, that, that film did pretty good and I'm proud of that one
- 1:48:02too. That one.
- 1:48:03That one was a good one. Nice man.
- 1:48:09I'm going to be honest, I'm I'm probably not going to watch that
- 1:48:12one. Yeah, yeah.
- 1:48:14I just knowing, knowing me and the the place that I don't want
- 1:48:19to go to acknowledging that that place exists time now where I'm
- 1:48:24at in life. I don't think I'm ready for for
- 1:48:27something like that. Yeah, definitely.
- 1:48:29And I definitely respect that. I remember when we were watching
- 1:48:34it, I was expecting some sort of like applause at the end, but
- 1:48:41everybody was just so quiet and you could hear a pin drop and
- 1:48:45you could tell it like it affects people and doing the
- 1:48:51film. Like it was so lighthearted on
- 1:48:54set and we had to be, you know, so so when Dolores yelled cut,
- 1:49:02it's light hearted. There's joking, there's, you
- 1:49:05know, there's that. There's laughter going on in the
- 1:49:09background. But then as soon as action, it
- 1:49:13goes there again. So people saw, you know, and,
- 1:49:17and I expected to be like, Oh yeah, great acting.
- 1:49:20But no, it's like, whoa, like, what was that?
- 1:49:24You know? So that's how, you know, we did
- 1:49:25a good job. And I'm, I'm definitely proud of
- 1:49:28that for sure. Yeah.
- 1:49:30But don't if If that takes you to a place you don't want to go,
- 1:49:35don't advise you watch it. Yeah, that's that's fair.
- 1:49:42Yeah. It's definitely going on my list
- 1:49:45of things to do, but yeah, I can't, I can't promise you a no
- 1:49:50later than date for for completing that one.
- 1:49:53Yeah. That that sounds super fucking
- 1:49:57heavy. Yeah, very heavy.
- 1:49:59Probably one of the heaviest roles I've done.
- 1:50:02Took a lot out of me, too. Challenged me probably the most.
- 1:50:06One of the most challenging girls I've had to do.
- 1:50:09But the writing was so good. The director was so professional
- 1:50:12about it, and that's why I'm working with her again.
- 1:50:15She called me about a month ago and she was like, hey, I got
- 1:50:18another role for you. And I was like, yeah, let's go
- 1:50:22for it. So I'll be working with Dolores
- 1:50:24again. Nice.
- 1:50:27Well, I'm excited for it. And as as you get to the point
- 1:50:31where you're able to talk about the projects that you've got
- 1:50:33coming in on the pipe, you've always got a an open invite to
- 1:50:38come and talk about it on the show.
- 1:50:39And we have to have you back at least once to ask you about the
- 1:50:42weirdest place. You fucking cranked your hog.
- 1:50:45You said that, not me. You said next time, so I'm going
- 1:50:49to hold you to that. Whether or not we ever see
- 1:50:52Dennis Marin again on the Three Damn Dudes podcast, we will see
- 1:50:56because now he, we all understand what is what is
- 1:51:00expected in the next one. But yeah, as you're able to talk
- 1:51:05about him, dude, hit hit one of us up and we'll get you back on.
- 1:51:10And you can, you can push whatever project you're a part
- 1:51:12of. And yeah, we will.
- 1:51:14We will support you and your endeavors as much as we can.
- 1:51:18I appreciate that and Mike is very nice to reconnect with you.
- 1:51:22Man, I miss you. I love you.
- 1:51:24I hope you, your family, your parents, I hope everybody's
- 1:51:27doing well. Shout out to Heather, Steve,
- 1:51:31Jake. Luke.
- 1:51:33Obviously, Mike, Gavin, pleasure to meet you man.
- 1:51:37You have a friend in me. You ever find yourself in the
- 1:51:40Motown Motor City? Hit me up man.
- 1:51:42Would love to see you. Absolutely.
- 1:51:44It'd be great to get together. Yeah, man.
- 1:51:48Thanks for asking if you're ever in, if you're ever in Maryland
- 1:51:51or assault rifle Kansas, yes, drop a line man for.
- 1:51:56Sure, man. But all right, Gavin, do you
- 1:51:59have any save rounds or alibis? Any final parting thoughts for
- 1:52:03the folks? You know me mainly, just don't
- 1:52:07be an asshole. That's fair.
- 1:52:12All right, Dennis, you got anything you want to leave these
- 1:52:15fine folks with? TuneIn for the next one.
- 1:52:21These guys are doing incredible things.
- 1:52:23They got they got some cool things happening with We the
- 1:52:26Redeemed and my old band. Are We dreaming?
- 1:52:33Shout out to Chris Roach, Shane Mason, Danny Mason.
- 1:52:37Love you fellas. Yeah, just stay truthful to who
- 1:52:42you guys are. Follow those dreams.
- 1:52:45Even if it doesn't work out, there's something bigger and
- 1:52:47brighter ahead of you. Absolutely.
- 1:52:53All right. And with that true to form for
- 1:52:57our for our platform here, for those of you out there, reach
- 1:53:03out to the boys, to the dudes, to the goons, to the folks, the
- 1:53:06guys and girls that you went through the suck with.
- 1:53:09Maintain those comms channels. Check in on your friends.
- 1:53:12It's no fun to go to funerals, right?
- 1:53:14We I think it's probably safe to say that we all know and
- 1:53:17understand this. So keep in touch, reach out,
- 1:53:21check on your fucking friends. And with that, for Gavin, for
- 1:53:26Jimmy, who didn't fucking show up tonight because he's got some
- 1:53:31shit going on, and for our actor friend Dennis.
- 1:53:37I almost said, I almost said your nickname.
- 1:53:40I'm not going to say that. Looking back on it, it's super
- 1:53:43weird. What nickname?
- 1:53:46I'll I'll tell you after we cut. Fair enough.
- 1:53:51For Dennis Marin, I'm Mike. This has been an episode of the
- 1:53:54Three Damn Dudes podcast. Thanks for showing up.