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Scheana Shay · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. I'm super excited today because.
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  Speaker 2: I get to bump gums with one of my besties.
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  Speaker 1: Hi, she s, Hi, how are you good? Happy to
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  Speaker 1: be here? It's so crazy. I feel like we've come
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  Speaker 1: so far. I know, we really have, Like so far?
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  Speaker 2: Have you ever been mad at me for a podcast
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  Speaker 2: I've recorded about you?
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  Speaker 1: I don't say.
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't know because I don't listen, because that's going
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  Speaker 2: to hurt my feelings.
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  Speaker 3: No, I have listened to your podcast, as I've told you,
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  Speaker 3: because I asked you about certain episodes when you did
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  Speaker 3: my podcast. There are things I think more that you've said,
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  Speaker 3: not necessarily on yours, but on others, Like there was
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  Speaker 3: something you said on Katie's that I was like, well,
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  Speaker 3: you know what, Lala, don't be that person, and I
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  Speaker 3: wouldn't have had to open my mouth.
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  Speaker 1: Oh wait, tell me more. What did I see on
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  Speaker 1: the JAVO con recab?
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  Speaker 3: And Katie said that she didn't like when people who
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  Speaker 3: have the window seats like keep the window closed, And
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  Speaker 3: you see said that you didn't like how I told
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  Speaker 3: you to stack your bin at the airport.
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  Speaker 1: It was something along those lines.
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  Speaker 2: I think, yeah, but it was like an ick about
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  Speaker 2: something that happened Bravo Con weekend or it was like
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  Speaker 2: something air I don't know. No, I told the story
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  Speaker 2: about how you got upset at me because I didn't
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  Speaker 2: stack my bin.
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  Speaker 3: That's what it was at the airport, yes, but I
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  Speaker 3: was like, then stack your fucking bin. You know.
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  Speaker 1: I don't feel like it was that deep. No, yo,
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  Speaker 1: So some people didn't stack your bin.
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  Speaker 2: Some people really like to split hairs, and I know,
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  Speaker 2: something out of nothing, and.
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  Speaker 1: There will be like other things.
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  Speaker 2: The statu of the bins made me laugh and no
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  Speaker 2: one had raged on me. I was, so I was
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  Speaker 2: just like, well I did kind of get I urged
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  Speaker 2: Sena by my lack of bin stacking abilities. But yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I just feel like sometimes people at the airport are
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  Speaker 2: bored and like they need something to do, so like
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  Speaker 2: stack my bins.
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  Speaker 4: That's so funny because every time I've been in the
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  Speaker 4: airport with you, you stack your bins.
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  Speaker 1: I told.
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  Speaker 3: Walked away from it and I go, oh la la,
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  Speaker 3: I go, please don't be that person. She goes what
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  Speaker 3: and I go, your bin And she's like, oh, I
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  Speaker 3: mean they're just standing here and I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Like, just just they've got other things to do.
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  Speaker 4: Actually last time we were in the airport, because I
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  Speaker 4: remember this, you grabbed mine and stacked mine with yours.
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  Speaker 1: I know. She just my off days. Yeah, it was
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  Speaker 1: just that.
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  Speaker 3: And I was the one who was on the ruggle
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  Speaker 3: bus that day. She didn't even do anything. Day three
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  Speaker 3: of Bravo Con, I was up till five am, which
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  Speaker 3: by the way, was my own fault. But I was
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  Speaker 3: up till five am, then back up in glam at
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  Speaker 3: eight am, and then did a full day of press
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  Speaker 3: fan interaction and then get to the airport with Lalla
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  Speaker 3: and Yeah, I want to know how you do it,
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  Speaker 3: because I have never met anybody who is on the
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  Speaker 3: move like you.
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  Speaker 2: Never in my life. Like I will talk to Shena
• 3:01
  Speaker 2: and try to plan things with her. Yeah, and she'll
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  Speaker 2: say to me, I'm going to be in San Diego.
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  Speaker 2: We're leaving tonight and then tomorrow we're gonna drive to
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  Speaker 2: Palm Springs for two days, and then we're gonna come
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  Speaker 2: back to my mom's and get on a flight to
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  Speaker 2: Las Vegas. I'm like, oh my gosh, I need a
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  Speaker 2: nap just from hearing about your plan. Now, Yeah, how
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  Speaker 2: do you have this kind of energy?
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  Speaker 3: I want that I don't know, because it's not like
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  Speaker 3: I drank a ton of caffeine. I mean, right now,
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  Speaker 3: you offered a cup of coffee and I was like, oh, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I didn't have coffee today.
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  Speaker 1: Like, it's not like I really run on fumes. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I think I just I have a lot that I
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  Speaker 3: like to do, and I feel like if I stay
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  Speaker 3: still too long, I maybe get too much in my
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  Speaker 3: head and I feel like I'm not accomplishing enough, and
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  Speaker 3: at least right now between my homes. You know, I
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  Speaker 3: just moved from San Diego, and I have all these
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  Speaker 3: boxes in Palm Springs in my garage that need to
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  Speaker 3: be unpacked, and I don't want to go there for
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  Speaker 3: Christmas and look at all these boxes. I'm like, well,
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  Speaker 3: I need to go here for a day and a
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  Speaker 3: half to unpacked to then go here. And then we
• 4:01
  Speaker 3: had tickets to go see Aerosmith in Vegas, and then
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  Speaker 3: they canceled the rest of their tour. We walked up
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  Speaker 3: to the door and they hand us a paper and
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  Speaker 3: say it's rescheduled for Monday.
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  Speaker 1: But then we didn't even stay and wait till Monday.
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  Speaker 1: But then they ended up.
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  Speaker 3: Canceling the rest of their residency for this leg because
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  Speaker 3: I guess Stephen Tyler was ill. I don't know what
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  Speaker 3: kind of illness, but his doctor recommended he call it
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  Speaker 3: off Aerosmith without Steven. So then then we're just in
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  Speaker 3: Vegas with my family who we just spent several days
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  Speaker 3: with and are gonna have Christmas and Thanksgary.
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  Speaker 1: It was just like so much. But you did get
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  Speaker 1: to have sexy time with your man.
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  Speaker 3: We did? We did?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah we reverse cowgirl sexy bit. You did.
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  Speaker 2: I did. But we'll talk about Will and Elaine's party,
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  Speaker 2: your friends who you were so kind to introduce me to.
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  Speaker 2: But at this party, Sheena shared a show whoa.
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  Speaker 1: She shared a story. She shared a.
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  Speaker 2: About I'm always curious to know about couples sex lives,
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  Speaker 2: and not because I need something to flick my being too,
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  Speaker 2: but I just I've heard when you get into a relationship,
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  Speaker 2: and I've also been like this myself. You get into
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  Speaker 2: a relationship, you're fucking like jack Rabbits, and then just
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  Speaker 2: slowly things get normal and you sink into it and
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  Speaker 2: you're comfortable, and maybe you decide to watch Netflix rather
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  Speaker 2: than you know, have sex with your partner.
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  Speaker 1: You have a baby.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I asked you this question, and you told
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  Speaker 2: me about your time in Las Vegas, so please yeare so.
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  Speaker 3: I think we've had more sex in Vegas than we
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  Speaker 3: have anywhere else since having summer. Like, every time we
• 5:45
  Speaker 3: go to Vegas, there's just something about it, whether it's
• 5:48
  Speaker 3: the shower, like some of those showers that have the.
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  Speaker 1: Seat in it, you know, right, you can have that.
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  Speaker 3: Space to start with your vibrator while Brock has the
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  Speaker 3: water on him, and then it's like then he gets
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  Speaker 3: involved and then turn me around and it's just.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I love shower sex. That was the first time we
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  Speaker 3: had sex post baby. I love a good shower sex session.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 3: So this time around, we were not in one of
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  Speaker 3: those type of showers, but we had a nice big
• 6:19
  Speaker 3: bed and my parents had an adjoined room because they
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  Speaker 3: always want to get an adjoining room because it is
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  Speaker 3: better for the baby to run between the two rooms
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  Speaker 3: and have more space and whatnot. But every time we
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  Speaker 3: have a family trip to Vegas, I'm like, ugh, so
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  Speaker 3: is this gonna be a time when I don't have
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  Speaker 3: sex because my mom's.
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  Speaker 1: Literally in the room attached. That is so awkward. No.
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  Speaker 3: No, because the first time we did. My mom was
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  Speaker 3: also attached, but you find the right time. So I
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  Speaker 3: wake up the last morning of our trip, I'm horny.
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  Speaker 1: He's horny, and.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just like, but Summer's in the other room, and
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  Speaker 3: I can hear her with my parents, and I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: I can't. It's like, can't do anything about it. But
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  Speaker 3: you know, it's like a little touch, little touch, and
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, dude, she's gonna.
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  Speaker 1: Run in here any second.
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  Speaker 3: And then I hear my mom go, we're gonna run
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  Speaker 3: down and get coffee.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna take Summer. Let me know. If you want anything,
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  Speaker 1: just text me.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm like, okay, cham that door closes and I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: we're doing this, and I just hopped on turned it
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  Speaker 3: around and yeah, we went to completion, and thankfully it
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  Speaker 3: was so quick because the coffee line was so long.
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  Speaker 1: They turned right back around.
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  Speaker 3: But it was the perfect timing that we needed for
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  Speaker 3: us both to get off, because it does not take
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  Speaker 3: us long anymore, not at all, like we don't have
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  Speaker 3: enough sex that it's like marathon.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, totally.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I was dying because Sheena was like, you know, Brock,
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  Speaker 2: it always is like love making, Okay, yeah, always.
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  Speaker 3: He needs to be in the mental emotional like he
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  Speaker 3: wants like our souls to touch, and I'm sometimes like,
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  Speaker 3: can you just fop me?
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  Speaker 1: Yes?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, like let's doggy style finish on my
• 7:58
  Speaker 3: back because I was terrify him coming inside me, because
• 8:01
  Speaker 3: I'm terrified of getting pregnant again. My doctor has assured
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  Speaker 3: me my IUD is placed perfectly. There's a ninety nine
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  Speaker 3: point nine percent chance I'm not going to get pregnant.
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  Speaker 3: So you're fixated on the smallest chance point one.
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  Speaker 1: You never know, but don't you don't.
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  Speaker 3: But if God forbid point one happened, that child is
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  Speaker 3: going to change this world. If you were able to
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  Speaker 3: still get me pregnant on an IUD, then you know what,
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  Speaker 3: savage baby?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 5: So was this then a fucking rather than making love?
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  Speaker 3: It was a little bit of both, Okay, yeah, because
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  Speaker 3: it started out with the touching and I was like, Okay,
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  Speaker 3: I'm wet, and I don't want my own hand here,
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  Speaker 3: I want yours. He's got the big hands. I wanted
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  Speaker 3: that inside me. But also my parents and my baby
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  Speaker 3: are right next door, so it's like, Okay, I'm laying
• 8:50
  Speaker 3: here a horny, I'm wet, You're touching me, but it's like, oh,
• 8:54
  Speaker 3: the baby might run in at any second. So I'm like,
• 8:56
  Speaker 3: we can't, we can't, we can't and write them when
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  Speaker 3: they said they were going to get coffee, I was like,
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  Speaker 3: Holley Lou, Yeah, oh my gosh, let's do it.
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  Speaker 1: We don't know how much time we have.
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  Speaker 3: They might have forgotten something in the diaper bag and
• 9:07
  Speaker 3: ran back right in. So brock with blue balls, yeah,
• 9:10
  Speaker 3: exact dad would be and she with blue balls, so
• 9:13
  Speaker 3: whatever the equivalent.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, also not fun fun. No, So for you guys,
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  Speaker 2: I know it, and it was everything.
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  Speaker 1: That's what it is.
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  Speaker 2: When I find someone who is my person and I'm excited.
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  Speaker 2: I really hope that I mentally can make time for
• 9:35
  Speaker 2: that because it is so different when you.
• 9:38
  Speaker 1: Have a child. Yeah, I don't want to bang knowing
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  Speaker 1: my kids in the same house. No, No, we don't
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  Speaker 1: have a hard time having sex knowing that my kid
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  Speaker 1: was in the same state. Yeah, I took my as.
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  Speaker 3: No, it's so hard, like if we're at home, I'm
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  Speaker 3: just not horny at home, like hardly hardly ever, because
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  Speaker 3: like she's there, Okay, she's napping, she might wake up.
• 10:02
  Speaker 1: It's just I'm two in my head right.
• 10:05
  Speaker 3: So there have been like those couple of times where
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  Speaker 3: at my house in Palm Springs, you know she's on
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  Speaker 3: this end, we're maybe outside. I've had sacks in that
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  Speaker 3: backyard with Brock. I don't even know how many times
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  Speaker 3: Smer may have been conceived in that backyard, but who knows.
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  Speaker 3: We have privacy at night because we face the golf course,
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  Speaker 3: but at night it's closed, and I have like the
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  Speaker 3: high walls and hedges and plants and stuff. So when
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  Speaker 3: we're outside and it's just the two of us and
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  Speaker 3: the baby's inside, I don't feel like she's.
• 10:32
  Speaker 1: There there right okay. But at home, the room down
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  Speaker 1: the hallway, I can't do it.
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  Speaker 4: I wonder if that'll change when your babies grow up.
• 10:41
  Speaker 1: I've heard no.
• 10:42
  Speaker 2: I feel it's harder now they can like open doors.
• 10:45
  Speaker 2: See I am, I remember, did you?
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  Speaker 4: I remember growing up and my parents would go, hey,
• 10:49
  Speaker 4: we got to go do the bills, or we have
• 10:51
  Speaker 4: to go do the taxes, and we were.
• 10:53
  Speaker 1: Just like ugh, because we knew they're doing their taxes.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: They'd be up in the room for like forty five
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  Speaker 4: minutes and then they come down and we were like.
• 11:01
  Speaker 2: My mom claims that there was a time, and I
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  Speaker 2: obviously have blocked this from my memory. I walked in
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  Speaker 2: on my mom and dad having sex, and I left
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  Speaker 2: crying grant away. I have zero recollection. My mom remembers
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  Speaker 2: it vividly, but clearly. I was Yeah, I remember that vividly.
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  Speaker 5: I'm old, were you because why were you crying? You
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  Speaker 5: didn't know what was going on.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sure I didn't know what was going on, and
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  Speaker 2: I couldn't believe that it was happening. There's this couple,
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  Speaker 2: Will and Elaine who are a rich honey, and they're
• 11:39
  Speaker 2: also very kind and sweet and amazing human beings that shesh.
• 11:43
  Speaker 2: You were kind enough to invite me around this group
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  Speaker 2: of people, and they also have a baby, Yeah, Ocean
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  Speaker 2: in Summer's age or around the same age.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, So Sheena and.
• 11:54
  Speaker 2: I go down with Brittany and Jack's to the party
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  Speaker 2: I was telling you about Jess. Okay, fabulous, fucking fabulous.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Like I've been to Oscar parties that were
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  Speaker 3: not even close to the caliber of this.
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  Speaker 2: It was insane and they're like just amount of wealth,
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  Speaker 2: you know. I'm walking around with my fucking little diamond
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  Speaker 2: rings from Amazon, and these bitches walking in.
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  Speaker 1: Our decked in like ra fucking money. All right, it
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  Speaker 1: was insane.
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  Speaker 5: Ball because you were all dressed to a gala.
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  Speaker 2: Oh it was a gala, and like, no shade to
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  Speaker 2: our group of friends. But let's be real, like without
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  Speaker 2: Will and Elane, like you ain't having a gala. I'm
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  Speaker 2: certainly not having a gala in my three bedroom, three
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  Speaker 2: bathroom apartment.
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  Speaker 1: No, you know, like I don't want it.
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  Speaker 2: I like to think like when I get into my
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  Speaker 2: forties or fifties, we'll be having galas. But my lazy ass,
• 12:44
  Speaker 2: I just don't see it happening. Yeah, So I was
• 12:46
  Speaker 2: really excited to get all dressed up and get glammed,
• 12:49
  Speaker 2: and it was like mom's night out right.
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  Speaker 1: I asked Jack's where Brittany is literally nine fifteen.
• 12:56
  Speaker 2: He's like, she's in the Casida. So I'm like, all right,
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  Speaker 2: I'm just gonna go check on her, fixing her makeup.
• 13:01
  Speaker 2: I should do that too, because it was a very
• 13:02
  Speaker 2: hot man there. Yes, a big motherfucker clam that like
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  Speaker 2: a tree.
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  Speaker 1: So I go with I hope I do too. I
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  Speaker 1: deserve that.
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  Speaker 2: But I go into the Casida and Brittany is like
• 13:17
  Speaker 2: she's done.
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  Speaker 1: She is like are you ready to go, Sleepy?
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  Speaker 3: She's ready to go yeah, and I'm like, mind you
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  Speaker 3: They got to the party an hour late and are
• 13:25
  Speaker 3: now leaving just two hours later.
• 13:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah. No, it was definitely not a good This is
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  Speaker 2: like nine pm. It was nine thirty. We got there
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  Speaker 2: like seven to.
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  Speaker 3: Fifteen, okay, and it started at six, so they're already late.
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  Speaker 5: Already late.
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  Speaker 2: We're already late, which was not the plan. Traffic was crazy.
• 13:40
  Speaker 2: I won't bore you guys with that story. So I'm like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: if you're ready to go, we can go. I take
• 13:47
  Speaker 2: my gown off, she takes hers off. I'm in my
• 13:50
  Speaker 2: give them La La skin, which you can purchase on
• 13:53
  Speaker 2: give them Lala dot com.
• 13:54
  Speaker 1: Yep, your rope robe and.
• 13:59
  Speaker 2: She puts her like Kentucky sweats on. Shena comes up
• 14:03
  Speaker 2: and I can hear her right, So I'm like, oh,
• 14:04
  Speaker 2: this is gonna be so funny.
• 14:06
  Speaker 1: So I start recording.
• 14:07
  Speaker 2: I start recording because I'm like, this is gonna be
• 14:09
  Speaker 2: an instagrammable moment, and I had little content, so like,
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  Speaker 2: this is this is gonna get a lot of views. Yeah,
• 14:17
  Speaker 2: she goes, what are you guys doing? I'm like, we're
• 14:20
  Speaker 2: getting cozy. I think we're gonna go, and she's like,
• 14:22
  Speaker 2: are you kidding me? I was like, no, really, what
• 14:25
  Speaker 2: the fuck are you doing? And then I see that
• 14:27
  Speaker 2: she is actually upset, so I like slowly lower my
• 14:30
  Speaker 2: phone on the bedside table. Sina was literally ready to
• 14:35
  Speaker 2: assassinate both of us.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, I can see why though, Yeah, but like, I
• 14:39
  Speaker 4: get it.
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  Speaker 5: You're there with your friend. What was your mindset?
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  Speaker 2: Well, I told Sheena because Sheena is my little dove, right,
• 14:47
  Speaker 2: so I have to I have to disarm her because
• 14:50
  Speaker 2: she's a little dove until she ain't playing anymore, right,
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  Speaker 2: So without lying, because I very well could have just
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: placed all the blame on Brittany, but I felt bad
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: about that, so I told you.
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: And I was like, here's the deal, dude, Like you
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: got to understand.
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: I could be at the Obama's house and if someone
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: says to me, do.
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: You want to go home?
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: I immediately go into home means a bathtub, sweatpants, bed,
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: and housewives. Yes, that's where I want to be, Right,
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  Speaker 2: So I did disarm her. Brittany did not come back
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: to the party.
• 15:21
  Speaker 5: She slept, she took a nap.
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: She took a little snoozl yes, well, which sad for her.
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: That bed though.
• 15:27
  Speaker 3: Five star, I know, crawling there. That's my new third home.
• 15:30
  Speaker 3: We don't have San Diego, but we have the Casita
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: well on the lane.
• 15:33
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and just for people like me. Casita is a
• 15:36
  Speaker 5: guest house.
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: Guesthouse that's like a two story guest house, a little
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: mini kitchens in my apartment. Yeah.
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: Okay, so it's like it's.
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: Ridiculous and this home is like Kobe Bryant type shit. Okay,
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: you walk out and it's nothing is obstructing your view
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: of the ocean.
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: Nothing, not a thing.
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: Maybe this tiny little cliff that also has a home
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: on it, but that's stunning too, so that isn't an obstruction.
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: But literally there's nothing but ocean. It is gorgeous.
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: So the point of this story is in that moment
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: Sheena and I have yet again managed to not have
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: a falling out over something.
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think that that deserves a moment.
• 16:16
  Speaker 5: What was your mindset? She know, when you wropped in
• 16:18
  Speaker 5: and you saw them.
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: There were not even maybe one hundred people at this event.
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: It was very obvious if someone was missing. Hence how
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: I even found them, because about twenty minutes went by
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: and I was like, where are my friends?
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: I didn't even think where notice? Oh yeah, oh no,
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: I noticed, Elaine noticed. Everyone noticed it.
• 16:35
  Speaker 5: So it's not packed to the gills.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, no.
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: Also, it would have been even more spread out. But
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: it started raining, and so half of the party had
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: to be kind of shut off because the whole glass
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: mirror dance floor is now wet, so that part of
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: the party is shut off. Everyone's upstairs, so you can
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: literally see everyone in one place.
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: And so it wasn't like, oh, they're probably downstairs.
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: You know, Brittany's made be at that bar over there, La,
• 17:01
  Speaker 3: LA's maybe talking to this guy at the pasta station. No.
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: I look around, I'm like, where's my friends? So I'm like,
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: they're probably just touching up or something. I'm going to
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: go check on them. And when I get to the
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: room and I see them, and so I'm like, no, no, no,
• 17:16
  Speaker 3: it is not eleven pm. You have Lisa watching Cruise.
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, my mom watched Cruise. I'm like, you have
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: a perfectly capable babysitter right now. You don't have to
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: worry about I mean, you always worry about ocean, but
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: you know, it's not like I need to get home
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: because my baby is sick.
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: I'm like, so we only got cruise, and we got
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: cruise in.
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: The best hands right now, So is there something that happened,
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: because like, why are you and your pajamas at nine pm?
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: And I know how much time and money and effort
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: Will in a Lane have put into this gala. They
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: have been so nice and generous opening up their home
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: to my friends because they're new friends of mine too.
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: I've known them like about two years now, okay, but
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: we are newer friends.
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: And so over the past year, they've invited all of
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: my friends on their yacht.
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: They've invited them to dinner parties at their home.
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: And on Halloween specifically, Jack didn't show up at all
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: because he was hungover. When he hosted a Halloween party
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: the night before that, Will and Elane drove all the
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: way from Newport to Valley Village to attend. He then
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: went to bed early, was like rude to everyone, was like,
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: get out of my house. I'm over the party, and
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: Will and Elane were like, oh really, I must have
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: left before he got snobby. Yeah, so they feel so uncomfortable.
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: They're like, you're a terrible host. You invited us into
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: your house and then you're like, okay, leave everyone leave, goes.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: Up to bed.
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: And so then on Halloween, a party that we've had
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: planned for way longer than Jackson Brittany had their house
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: party planned, jack just doesn't show up. And now this
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: is a sit down, twelve person intimate dinner like name jagline.
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: To the tea.
• 18:56
  Speaker 5: What is the Halloween?
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: Halloween again?
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: Okay, so Jack, I was invited, but I couldn't attend. Okay,
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: yeah she had a previous Okay, and Jackson britt don't
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: show up or just Jack just Jacks.
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: Britt almost turns around when she's driving there. She was like,
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: I have anxiety. I'm driving by myself a cruise like
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: it's so far, like I think I'm just gonna turn
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: around like Jack's this And I was like, oh my god, no, no, no,
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: you can't, like I cannot introduce my friends into this group.
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: And then they're the ones just not showing up right.
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: So I'm like, Brittany, please, it's gonna be fun, like
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: we're all here to help you with cruise. Like so
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: she comes Kristin and her is that her boyfriend?
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: Now I don't know. It's called her Luke.
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: Okay, Kristin and Luke show up and we have this
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: amazing sit down dinner, like five star dinner. Right after
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: the food is done, Brittany's like, all right, I'm gonna
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: take cruise home. Kristin's like all right, we're gonna leave,
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: and Eline's like, cool, thanks for using me for my food.
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: It was just like everyone just showed up to eat
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: and then left.
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: They literally served soup in little tiny pumpkins.
• 20:00
  Speaker 4: It was so she So they're like they're at five
• 20:03
  Speaker 4: star hosts.
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: At the at the gala.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: At the Christmas gala, there was this wall that was
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: like greenery, right, and there was a bell that said
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: ring for champagne, and when you ring it, three little
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: grinch hands.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: Poke out with champagne for you.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: Ye. Well, Jacks didn't realize that hands come through the wall.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: So he turns, knocks that one down, turns again, knocks
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: the other one down.
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: Turns again. He's like, what's going on?
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: There was a.
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: Broken glass everywhere.
• 20:35
  Speaker 5: Oh, no, are they are? They want to be like,
• 20:38
  Speaker 5: what the fuck are they?
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: They're so chill.
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: There was broken glass everywhere that night. Some of it
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: ended up in brocks, but I mean they had from
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: the girl who fell.
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: I think.
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: So there was a girl who and she she wasn't drunk, No,
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: I think she just didn't see the step. Obviously she
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: didn't see the step. Yes, this wouldn't have happened. But
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: there were these like giant glass jars with candles in
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: them lit lit, okay, and I.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: Got thinking, one wrong move, someone's lighting on fire. Right.
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she falls back onto them, like on her back,
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: four of them, like massive candle things, massive broken glass everywhere.
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: I'm just happy that it was like salt inside. So yeah,
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: the flame quickly went out.
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because I get nervous about people lighting on fire.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: I'm traumatized from my.
• 21:25
  Speaker 5: Grandfather, Bob. Bob was on fire.
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so there were a lot of people and that's
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: why when when Brittany was like I'm just feeling like
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: I want to like mellow out for a sec, I'm like,
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: I think you might be in great company because I
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: think a lot of people are like mellowing out, not
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: because they want to be, just because they're like falling
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: to the ground and.
• 21:44
  Speaker 5: Margetting that poor girl.
• 21:46
  Speaker 4: And I thought, because you told me that story, and
• 21:49
  Speaker 4: I figured like, yeah, but no one's gonna see because
• 21:51
  Speaker 4: I just assumed that party was.
• 21:53
  Speaker 5: Shoulder to shoulder.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: I saw everyone, we all saw.
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: But she and I looked at each other and we
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: both decided we're not gonna ask her if she's okay.
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: That, don't bring attention to it. She's already embarrassed enough.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: Exactly when you saw everyone roll up on her, Like,
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: are you okay? I saw it. It was really fad. No.
• 22:09
  Speaker 4: No, I would have started crying if I fell and
• 22:12
  Speaker 4: people came up to me.
• 22:13
  Speaker 5: We're like, were you okay?
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: Just just leave me alone? Yeah?
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean checking in just like from a distance
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: latter night, and like she had a little scrape on
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: the back of her arm, but she had a great time.
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: She didn't leave, and she.
• 22:22
  Speaker 5: Seemed fine, good, really quick.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: Back seems fine.
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: Back to the so we because I want to know,
• 22:29
  Speaker 4: back to the Briton Jack's thing, Okay is this so?
• 22:32
  Speaker 5: Is this something you told me about Halloween?
• 22:34
  Speaker 4: And they kind of left, but obviously these hosts friends
• 22:38
  Speaker 4: of yours, Elaine and well Will, that hasn't.
• 22:42
  Speaker 5: Hurt them too bad because they keep inviting them back.
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: Right, So, after Jacks doesn't show up, he has the
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: audacity to after he gets his veneer surgery, still ask
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: Will if he could stay at his house to recover
• 22:55
  Speaker 3: because he was in Newport Beach.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: So Elaine and I.
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: Were pissed at Jack's cause there's no reason that he
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: didn't show up other than he just didn't want to
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: and it was just so annoying.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: So I text or Brock, Elaine, Will and I.
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: We all have a group chat, and Brock said something
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: in the group chat because Jackson was on Alive as
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: he does, and he's in their house, and I was like,
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: oh my god, they still let him stay there. And
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: so Brock says in the group cha, He's like, wow,
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: you guys are saints, like you let Jack stay with
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: you even after he blew you off like earlier this week,
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: same week, and Will was like, yeah, you know, never
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: leave a man behind. And Elaine goes, I'm sorry, what, honey,
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: he's in our house. And I was like, oh, she's
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: not home. She was at an event. And she's like,
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: oh no, no, no, hell no, I'm kicking him out
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: when I get home.
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: Oh no no. She's like, I am either.
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: Kicking him out or I'm gonna go video him and
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna go live when he's playing.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: So did she don't. I don't think she.
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: Ended up doing it, but I know at the end
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: of the day, it's Jack's and we accept him for
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: who he is.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: Will and Elaine have learned that.
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: But she's like, Okay, fine, you can say. I mean
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: he was so drugged up. He's recovering from all of
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: his teeth getting done. It looks fabulous. They look so good.
• 24:09
  Speaker 5: He had great teeth anyway, so they're even better now.
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay, yeah, he's always had a cute smile.
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, his teeth look amazing.
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: You know when some people get their teeth done, it's.
• 24:17
  Speaker 3: Like, yes, now they look great.
• 24:22
  Speaker 5: Obviously, you guys had a fun time. Were you happy
• 24:25
  Speaker 5: that Sheena said no, get your dress back on?
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: Yes?
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: Because then I got to talk to the hot man's Yes. See,
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: that wouldn't have happened otherwise exactly. And I just knew
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: after how Halloween went.
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: I just know Elaine puts her heart and soul into
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: every party. She plans so meticulous, down to every single detail,
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: sounds and inviting my friends into her life and inviting
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: them to now another event, letting Jack stay there again.
• 24:53
  Speaker 3: I was just like, you guys, come on, please, don't
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: be like, I don't want her to think all of
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: my friends just show up to eat her food or
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: just show up to get dress, step, take a few pictures,
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: and then bounce totally. I don't want that to be
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: the most my friend, right right, And I'm glad you
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: said something, and like, because you know me. She if
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: I have the option to stay home or go out
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: more times than not, I'm gonna choose staying home.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: And I and I don't know why I'm like that.
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: I think the older we get though, too, and we
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: are moms now, our priorities change.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: And I understand that my.
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: Child wasn't with me, like there was no reason why
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: I couldn't like rock it until the wheels were about
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: to find out.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: I mean, I agree, I'm just trying to.
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: Know, so I'm but I'm glad I get it in
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: other circumstances as well.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: Yes, I know you do.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: Like when I have ocean then it's obviously a completely
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: different situation. To be honest, I probably wouldn't have gone,
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: or I would have asked Will and Elaine, like, do
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: mind if my mom comes with my hair.
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: And they have a crib in the casita for us,
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: like the house's.
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: Good baby, you're it's because they have a baby ocean's
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: age in summer's age. So I was glad that you
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: like had me pull it together because I don't want
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: and this is such a morbid thought. I don't want
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: at the end of my lifetime to be like why
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: did I always choose to like stay in? Why didn't
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: I go out and like live my life even when
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: I get to be like I mean, these women these
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: days are making forty and fifty look real fucking good
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: and fun. So like, I don't think that's but when
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: I do think about things like that, where I'm not
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: going to be this version forever and I'm going to
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: have things that come into play that are intense and
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: your body changes, Like your body ain't gonna be hitting
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: like you're twenty or thirty anymore, and when you're fifty,
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: ain't gonna be hitting like it's forty. Like no matter what,
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: there's always gonna be, it's it's different than it used
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: to be. So I have to get out and like
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: be a person now. Yeah, So thank you, yeah making
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: me put my gown back on now. I was like, okay, look, Brittany,
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: I understood. She just she struggles with anxiety as I do.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: I mean most people I know do. But I think
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: she just kind of fell out of place. Someone had
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: accidentally bumped into her, and she took it personally, and
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: I understood that she wasn't ready to come back in,
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: and I was like, look, that's okay, but Laila, you
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: don't have a fucking excuse.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: Put your dress back now. I felt hot on you
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: in you look so damn good.
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: There's a sexy man down there wanting to talk to you,
• 27:11
  Speaker 3: asking where you went get your fucking house down there?
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: And he was big as buck. Yeah he's a fighter. Yeah, yeah.
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: Can I tell you what I learned about him that
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: if he gets into a fight.
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: I don't know if I told you that she.
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: If he gets into a fight, it automatically is assault
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: with a deadly weapon because oh yeah, because his fists
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: are considered weapons.
• 27:33
  Speaker 4: Because he's a fighter. Yes, and when you say fighter
• 27:36
  Speaker 4: obviously mean perfection. Yeah, like ANMA fighter for those boxing
• 27:40
  Speaker 4: and stuff.
• 27:41
  Speaker 5: Oh my god, you guys, I'm looking at a picture.
• 27:43
  Speaker 5: Oh he's got the tattoos too.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: Got to have timetoo. Yeah.
• 27:47
  Speaker 4: Absolutely, Maybe one day the listeners will find out who
• 27:50
  Speaker 4: this is.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: Oh my god.
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, damn, you are a professional fighter. You have to
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: register your fists as a weapon.
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: That is very crazy and extremely me Yeah, very nice.
• 28:04
  Speaker 4: He's got those those tattoos though, I know, damn yeah.
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: But what I did learn is that he has a petriantola.
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and that how do you feel about that?
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: Well, I already told him that, like I do squash bugs,
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: I don't want to kick it with me while I'm
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: watching Netflix.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't even squash that thing.
• 28:21
  Speaker 4: It's huge, huge, and it doesn't he feed like what
• 28:24
  Speaker 4: are they called raggets or some things maggots to it.
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I watched an Instagram. I'm super excited for two reasons.
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: On February twenty second, Shena and I are hosting a
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: Shopify pop up for Viva Verona, Viva Verano Lashes.
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: Words are so hard for me today. I know it's
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: the alliteration, it's okay.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: No, but the name is fantastic. That was there when
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: you decided on it.
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and give them la la And we're collabbing and
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: it's also going to be a watch party as well,
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: because the season starts February eighth.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: How are you feeling. I'm excited here's the thing.
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: I go into almost every season before we start filming
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: with a lot of anxiety, but then I get through it,
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: and then I get so excited for it to air.
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: But then sometimes when it airs and then you see
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: the edit, then I'm like, oh, maybe I shouldn't have
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: been excited.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: I know so, But I mean, the thing.
• 29:21
  Speaker 3: Is, I do feel like this past season, I think
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: I did my best job living my truth and speaking
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: my mind more than I did in the past. I
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: felt not as afraid to not even fight with someone,
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: but I didn't want to just give in and kiss
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: ass like I normally do. Like, if I'm fighting with anyone,
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: I will just apologize for even more than I'm actually
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: sorry for to get that friendship back, to have them
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: not be mad at me. And I'm just like, look, look,
• 29:50
  Speaker 3: I totally understand where you're coming from. Your feelings are valid.
• 29:53
  Speaker 3: I'm so sorry for that. I'll do better. I will
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: do better.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: And this year was the first year I was.
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: Like, no, no, I've done this for ten twelve years now,
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: and I'm done. If this person wants to make amends
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: with me, if this person wants to have a conversation
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: with me, I will always and forever be open to that,
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: because I can forgive someone for pretty much anything.
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: That's very true.
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: But at the end of the day, I'm done being
• 30:19
  Speaker 3: the bigger person in certain situations. I'm done apologizing if
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: I'm not sorry. I will always see the other person's
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: point of view, and I will be sorry if their
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: feelings are hurt based on my actions, but there's not
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: much more I can apologize for.
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: So do you mean like you will apologize if there's
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: a conversation that's being had that's productive and you can
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: apologize for your part, and it's kind of a meeting
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: of the minds rather than like, just to get the
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: friendship back on track, I'll just bite the bullet apologize just.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: To like get the dark cloud away. Yeah, totally.
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: And I feel like in the past I've with several
• 30:58
  Speaker 3: people just even apologize for something that I don't even
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: think I need to apologize for, but I know that's
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: what they want to hear and I want to get
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: the friendship back. So I'm like, Okay, it's fine, I'll
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: just say this because their feelings are valid and I
• 31:12
  Speaker 3: do believe that.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: But at the.
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: Same time, it's frustrating for me because I'm like, well,
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: now you're saying like, oh my god, I'm so sorry.
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry.
• 31:20
  Speaker 3: Like with Charlie last season, I watched myself apologize. I'm like,
• 31:24
  Speaker 3: I already said sorry for what I was really sorry for.
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: But then I was just like, no, no, no, I
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: will be better. I will be a better friend. And
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: I was like, I don't need to keep.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: Trying that hard.
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah. I always see someone's side, I understand their feelings,
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: and if I have personally hurt someone's feelings for that,
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: I am sorry because those feelings are valid. But I
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: can just only apologize so far, and well, then it's
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: you get on the ride.
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: I call it the ride, the vander Pump Rules ride
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: where it's like a fucking hamster will and you're like,
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: I cannot talk about this, Yeah one more fucking time. Yeah,
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: Like we've been there, We've done that, I've apologized. If
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: it's brought up again, like this is on you, my
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: conscience is clear. I cannot keep rehashing it. I definitely
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: sensed that from you this season, Yeah, because there were
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: many times where you and I not many, but we
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: still had our moments of I don't agree with anything
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: that you're saying, and you didn't agree with anything I
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: was saying, but we had the common ground, which is
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: what last year we were really trying to figure out,
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: and once we got there.
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: We fucked up.
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: Well I may have fucked up again.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: My delivery always doesn't come in the prettiest but I'm
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: working on that. Yes, And I did sense that from
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: you where it was like, I'm not going to be
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: this version of myself, like I am someone's wife, I'm
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: someone's mom, and I have shit that I gotta get done. Yeah,
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: I can't keep harboring these feelings.
• 32:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and I feel like certain people in our group
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: don't understand when our priorities are things that they don't
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: have as theirs. You know, like us being a mom,
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: that's priority number one. So it's no offense to anyone
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: who doesn't have a kid. But it's just like this
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: bullshit fight that we're talking about is so petty and
• 33:13
  Speaker 3: so unimportant compared to what you have going on in
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: your life. You know.
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: It's like there's just things that don't matter.
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: And I have always tried to fix every little thing
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: because I'm like, no, no, I need to say sorry for this,
• 33:31
  Speaker 3: because this matters and this, and this and this.
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: I can understand where you're coming from. And back to
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: the mom thing, there's stuff that you guys will obviously
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: see play out this season. But and I won't give
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: too much away, but there was a thing that we
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: were filming and I brought up, you know, being a mom,
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: and this person said back to me, like, you bring
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: up being a mom when it has nothing to do
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: with the conversation. And this person obviously is not a parent,
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: and I was about to black out and choke him out.
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: I didn't, but I was like, I don't think you
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: understand what it's like to be a parent. Every single
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: thing I do, it has to do with being a parent.
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: Every move I make. You could be talking about the sun,
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: moon and the stars. That has to do with me
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: being a parent. You could be talking about how you
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: walked and tripped today. That has to do with me
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: being a fucking parent. Okay, you'll never get it unless
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: you're a parent, so back the fuck off. Yeah, that's
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: just that's how I feel. But I do under I
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: totally understand what you mean by saying like this is
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: not important to me. I will care just because you know,
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: that's what a human being does, but I certainly am
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: not gonna sit in the shit.
• 34:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And that was one of the things this summer
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: I was like, look, I'll apologize if something that was
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: said you took the wrong way or hurt your feelings
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: on my podcast, but I will not apologize for doing
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: my job because doing this job provides a life for
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: my my daughter, and that goes back to being a parent.
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: So having this person on my podcast was a great
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: fucking episode. A lot of people liked it, a lot
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: of people related to it. The company was happy, the
• 35:11
  Speaker 3: advertisers were happy. I'm not going to apologize for that,
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: you know, but sorry that that question I asked hurt
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: your feelings for that one thing.
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry the rest of it. No, And also thanks
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: for the download.
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: Do you think when this airs you've conquered the art
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: of not saying you haven't already this is, but do
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: you feel like you've conquered that art of like reality
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: versus reality where like when it airs and you know
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: that there's people who are going to be right or
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: die for you, but also people that turn on you,
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: people who haven't liked you from the beginning, just like
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: the way reality TV goes down, are you able to.
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: Separate the two. I hope so O versus real.
• 35:52
  Speaker 3: I mean, that's always the goal, but it just depends
• 35:56
  Speaker 3: what the situation is. I think when it comes to
• 36:00
  Speaker 3: some of the girls on the show and that shit,
• 36:02
  Speaker 3: there's always going to be team your teammate, you know.
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: There's always going to be the people who side with
• 36:09
  Speaker 3: the bitch and the people who side with the nice girl,
• 36:11
  Speaker 3: and it's always going to be like that. You can't
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: always win everyone over. But I think as long as
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: I'm doing my best job, living my truth and speaking
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: my mind, then.
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: That's all I really can do.
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and what's hard too that people don't realize is
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: like we're going to be seeing it for the first
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: time as well, And so that's why reunions get so heated.
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because you could be having the best conversation,
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: like me and she. She could be totally vibing, and
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: then they cut to my interview and I could be
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: saying something fucked up about it. She's not gonna see
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: that until she watches it. So by the time we
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: get to reunion, we're.
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: All like putting our war paint on.
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and you have to binge like five episodes
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: the night before the reunions.
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: Oh so you're jams up and bra last season? Oh
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: is that? Well?
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: He was on one because he saw five episodes of
• 37:05
  Speaker 3: you saying shit about him the night before. Not good,
• 37:09
  Speaker 3: but forgot all of the progress you guys made up
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: until the night before. And so then I was just like, honey, like,
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: we're good with Lala now, But he had just seen
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: all of the things that happened before we were good
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: with Lala.
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: You know what, though, I felt like it was fine,
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: and Brock and I have spoken about this again, like
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: you and I are similar in the sense where.
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: Like I shake shit off.
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I get over things pretty quickly, and I
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: forgive and forget. I forget why we were fighting or
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: whatever you've done too in the past. But because there
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: was a delay because I was on Zoom last year,
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: there were things I wasn't hearing him say that maybe
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: if I would have, because I was on ten that
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: day and hyper sensitive and emotional, I may have said
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: things that maybe.
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: I would have regretted. So it was just like the
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: perfect day, right.
• 37:59
  Speaker 4: Yes, As a viewer, I like, and I know, maybe
• 38:03
  Speaker 4: it's not great for y'all's mental health, So I don't
• 38:06
  Speaker 4: know where I sit. I just know as a viewer,
• 38:09
  Speaker 4: I don't see the behind the scenes progress. So I
• 38:12
  Speaker 4: then appreciate if you're coming to the reunion and all
• 38:15
  Speaker 4: of a sudden you're nice, and I'm like, wait a second,
• 38:17
  Speaker 4: I just watched this.
• 38:18
  Speaker 5: Why are you guys like best friends?
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: Now?
• 38:20
  Speaker 4: I do want to hear how if you are, I
• 38:21
  Speaker 4: would want to hear how you got there?
• 38:23
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, like.
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: Like how you how you step back into a place
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: that's like.
• 38:27
  Speaker 4: Not maybe not yeah, maybe not being at each other's throats.
• 38:33
  Speaker 4: But I also if I'm watching a show and like
• 38:35
  Speaker 4: you're saying shit about Brock and Brock is yelling at
• 38:37
  Speaker 4: you whatever, and then the reunion comes and all of
• 38:42
  Speaker 4: a sudden you're like, no, it's a misunderstanding. I'm like, oh, interesting,
• 38:46
  Speaker 4: I kind of want to hear you know what I'm saying.
• 38:48
  Speaker 4: I want to hear more about like, Okay, you guys
• 38:50
  Speaker 4: are obviously friends now, so now you have to catch
• 38:52
  Speaker 4: me up.
• 38:52
  Speaker 5: What do you do behind the scenes? Do you know
• 38:54
  Speaker 5: what I'm saying?
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: To watch house old guys.
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: But that's why I feel like reality TV is an
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: art and not everyone can do it. Because you really
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: do have to click into that moment again. It's not
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: about where you are right now, Yeah, it's about the
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: time that you were filming and where you were at
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: in that space. So Shana and I could be great
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: and then we got to hash out something that we've
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: completely moved on from. But because we just watched it, it
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: feels like it just happened. Yeah, So it takes its
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: toll on your mental state totally.
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: And even when we do interviews, it's not like they're
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: playing back the episode for us to watch. We just
• 39:32
  Speaker 3: have to get ourselves back in that mind frame of
• 39:36
  Speaker 3: how is I feeling this day? Because we're great now,
• 39:39
  Speaker 3: but six months ago when this scene was filmed, you know,
• 39:42
  Speaker 3: I have to go back to how I'm feeling in
• 39:45
  Speaker 3: that moment. Because we don't do interviews live on the spot,
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: sometimes there are several months later.
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: Interviews are really really fucking hard, But it is like
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: we're like fine tune machines. Right when you see a
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: fantastic reality TV personality and you're like, that's who they
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: are and they're just crazy, it's like.
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: Give them more credit than that.
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because I'd like to see you get onto TV
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: and be interesting enough for me to give off fuck
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: about you, right, I give a fuck about everyone, but
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: I'm just saying, keep me into a story for an hour.
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 40:22
  Speaker 5: Well that's why so many fail, and that's why you
• 40:24
  Speaker 5: guys are on season ten.
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: This is just an episode of me tooting every person
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: on vander Pump Roules's horn. Even if I don't fuck
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: with you, I'm like ten.
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: Seasons bitch, Yeah you did that? Sheesh crazy? Yeah, the firz.
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: The intro to vander Pump Rules, a new series is
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: you and Brandy Glanville.
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so nuts. Oh my god. I know.
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: Sometimes I wonder how the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: felt about one of their episodes just being like totally hijacked,
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: hijacked by vander Pump Rules.
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: I don't think they were happy. Well why would you, you.
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: Know, because it was like, oh, now, Lisa vander Pump
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: two seasons in is getting your own spin off?
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: What the fuck? Well, maybe you guys should hire crazy bitches.
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and we've given you one too.
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, have a more entertaining stuff, no for real? Yeah,
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: so what was the best part?
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: I already know this answer, but I want you to
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: tell me the best part of season ten.
• 41:18
  Speaker 3: That's so crazy and the most difficult of season ten.
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: The best was definitely our trip in Mexico. The wedding
• 41:26
  Speaker 3: was the best thing. I mean, seeing my daughter as
• 41:30
  Speaker 3: my little flower girl and walking down the aisle to
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: a fucking rainbow.
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: I'll cry, I mean, out of this guy.
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: It was the best, Like money can't buy that, and
• 41:41
  Speaker 3: I was walking down to somewhere over the rainbow. It
• 41:43
  Speaker 3: was just a magical moment that could never be recreated
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: that I'm so excited to watch back. That was by
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: far the best. On the opposite, ooh.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: I feel like you had a pretty five star season.
• 42:00
  Speaker 3: I think I just I felt like I really lived
• 42:03
  Speaker 3: my truth this season, and I felt like I just
• 42:05
  Speaker 3: tried to give a little less fucks than normal, because
• 42:09
  Speaker 3: normal me probably would have low key begged to come
• 42:13
  Speaker 3: on that girl's trip. I would have apologized for something
• 42:16
  Speaker 3: I wasn't fully sorry for to get the invite on
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: that girl's trip. But that's time I was like, if
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: I have the option, like you stay home, go in
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: a girls trip with some of the girls who are
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: going on that trip, I want to fucking stay home
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: with my baby. I would not have wanted to, but
• 42:31
  Speaker 3: you never want to be left out. You always want
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: to be included. And nine seasons of Shina would have
• 42:37
  Speaker 3: apologized to get the invite for that trip.
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: And so.
• 42:42
  Speaker 3: I feel like, I don't know, Maybe I don't know.
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: Actually I think that's a great response. But because I don't,
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: I just don't.
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: I can't think of anything this season that was like
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: really hard for you. Yeah, I mean it was hard
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: obviously with you and Raquel not getting along, because these
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: are two of my best friends not getting along and
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: I've had that in the past with Arianna and other friends,
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: and so that's always hard when I'm in that position
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: in the middle, because I'm like, look, I see what
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: you're saying, I see where you're coming from.
• 43:18
  Speaker 3: I understand both sides. I'm not going to pick a side.
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: But I think that was probably the most difficult thing
• 43:23
  Speaker 3: for me. But also it wasn't that difficult because.
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: We get it, and you know, you're never gonna make
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: me choose. No, but I don't think Raquel would ever
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: make you choose now, and she wouldn't.
• 43:35
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it sounds like there was a girl's trip and
• 43:37
  Speaker 4: there was some drama and you not going.
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: So I was not invited.
• 43:39
  Speaker 5: Okay, so we're gonna see that there was some drama.
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: It was probably a good thing that you weren't invited.
• 43:44
  Speaker 5: Oh for sure.
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: When I heard how that trip went, I was like,
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: thank god.
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: Because I wasn't there so on ten that trip, Yeah,
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: had you made one wrong move, I think we would
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: have blown up the ide that we had made. Yeah,
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: just because I wasn't in my Yeah, it was just
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: I was out for fucking blood.
• 44:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 44:04
  Speaker 5: So I'm so excited for the season.
• 44:07
  Speaker 4: Every time I hear about it, I'm like, oh my god,
• 44:09
  Speaker 4: ten is just a big number in general, it's like
• 44:11
  Speaker 4: two digits.
• 44:12
  Speaker 5: It's like, this isn't iconic.
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: It really is.
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: As someone who loves reality TV, I am very excited
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: for the season as a view viewer, and very fucking
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: crowd of like every single person on the cast for
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: being vulnerable, open with their lives.
• 44:26
  Speaker 3: It was absolutely really crushed it every single person. It's like,
• 44:31
  Speaker 3: I don't care if I don't like this person or
• 44:33
  Speaker 3: that person. Together we have built something that is so iconic.
• 44:39
  Speaker 3: Like nowadays, to start a new show with a new cast,
• 44:43
  Speaker 3: you know, they don't hit the way that they used to.
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: And the fact that ten.
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: Years later, we're still on air and we're still doing
• 44:50
  Speaker 3: this and people still give a fuck. Is so incredible
• 44:54
  Speaker 3: and like, we're just so blessed and thankful to all
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: of the people who watch the show, our podcast, watch
• 45:01
  Speaker 3: my vlogs, buy our products, you know. I mean, it's
• 45:05
  Speaker 3: crazy that we get to be us and make a
• 45:09
  Speaker 3: living from it.
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: I know we're able to provide for our kids because
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: of you, guys, So thank you, so much.
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: Thank you. Where can people find you, babe?
• 45:16
  Speaker 3: Everything is at Shena s ch e a Na and
• 45:19
  Speaker 3: you can get my awesome lashes at Viva Verano lashes
• 45:23
  Speaker 3: dot com.
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: They are the best.
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: And you guys just put it on your calendars because
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: February twenty second, I'll post everything on socials, but market
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: that you're busy that day because myself, Shehena and also
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: Christina Kelly will be having a Shopify pop up slash
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: watch party of vander Pump Rules.
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: We will be there and we.
• 45:44
  Speaker 5: Cannot wait to see you in La in La.
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: There we go. That's important.
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: Dan. I love you guys so much and I will
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: catch you next week.
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: Bye.