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If You Do This, We Can’t Be Friends · Obnoxiously Pleasant

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SPEAKER_02: I'm Henan.
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SPEAKER_02: I'm Lena.
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SPEAKER_02: And this is another episode of Obnoxiously Pleasant.
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SPEAKER_02: Yes.
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SPEAKER_02: Why did I say that so weird?
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SPEAKER_01: I seem like tired too.
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SPEAKER_02: Obnoxiously polite.
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SPEAKER_02: It's okay.
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SPEAKER_02: Okay.
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SPEAKER_02: So what are we talking about today?
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SPEAKER_01: Um things that people do in real life or online that just I can't deal with anymore.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I think we're gonna name this episode, Oh my god, this needs to stop, or oh my god, I can't stand this.
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SPEAKER_02: It needs to stop.
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SPEAKER_02: Something along those lines.
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah, the funny thing is I asked you to come up with some stuff.
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SPEAKER_01: I was like, I don't have anything.
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SPEAKER_01: And then I went to town.
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah, but literally 20 things.
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SPEAKER_02: Going through a moment where she is upset or disappointed about something.
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SPEAKER_01: Oh my goodness.
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SPEAKER_02: So I will talk about my one item, which I like totally forgot about that Lena actually reminded me about.
0:43
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_02: Right?
0:44
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_02: I hate when someone tells me, um, can you make some time for us to chat later?
0:52
SPEAKER_02: Oh yeah, that really bothers you.
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unknown: Oh my God.
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SPEAKER_02: Like one, if you are coming to me now to tell me you want to talk.
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SPEAKER_02: Tell me now.
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SPEAKER_02: Just tell me now.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, why I gotta wait like six hours and why do you have to give me like anxiety and why I have to be stressed about this?
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_02: Why can't you just tell me now what you need from me?
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SPEAKER_02: Or, you know, let's talk later when you talk to somebody.
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SPEAKER_02: I really hate that.
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SPEAKER_02: I don't want to talk about it.
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SPEAKER_01: No, we need to talk, but we need to talk.
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SPEAKER_01: I hate that.
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SPEAKER_01: Like the first time I experienced this with you and realized how much this bothers you was when we were working together.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I had totally forgot about this, by the way.
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SPEAKER_02: Like I blocked it out.
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SPEAKER_02: She's the one who reminded me.
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SPEAKER_01: And then, like, I think someone from scheduling, it wasn't like anybody serious too, and you were freaking out.
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SPEAKER_01: Oh my god, what does he need?
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SPEAKER_01: Oh my god, I'm like, I know, calm down.
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SPEAKER_01: That makes my anxiety really bad.
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SPEAKER_01: I don't like it.
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SPEAKER_01: I hate that too.
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SPEAKER_01: Like, I I just wanted to like you have something to say?
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SPEAKER_01: Say it to me now.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I mean you're stopping me to tell me let's talk.
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SPEAKER_02: Okay, well, I'm already stopped.
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SPEAKER_02: Let's talk, you know?
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SPEAKER_01: Okay, so one of the for me, since you only have one thing, I have a lot, guys.
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SPEAKER_01: Okay, guys, number 20.
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SPEAKER_01: And then we're gonna go back.
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SPEAKER_01: So the first thing that's recently been happening a lot, and you know, I don't get on Facebook a lot.
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SPEAKER_01: Like it's a it's a very like Facebook in the Arab world is a big deal.
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SPEAKER_01: It is like they use it a lot, everybody's on it.
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SPEAKER_01: So like I'm on it for work too.
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SPEAKER_01: But like the the once a week that I get on, it's always the same crap.
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SPEAKER_01: Like the quote memes.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_02: The quote memes, not just quote any quote meme, quote memes, it'll be some ho be somehow hacking, which means she's basically like, you know, when somebody posts like passive aggressive like notes on Facebook, like one day that people will realize how amazing you are, keep going, like things like that.
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SPEAKER_01: It's like you can never like it's a waste of time to be good to people because at the end they're gonna screw you over.
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah, stuff like that.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, I don't mind when somebody posts like positive uh affirmations or notes.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I'm not talking about it.
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SPEAKER_02: Like when somebody is like, you know, or funny memes.
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SPEAKER_02: Oh, I love funny memes.
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SPEAKER_02: But no, like I hate you don't like funny memes?
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SPEAKER_01: No, no, no, that's not the issue.
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SPEAKER_01: I like funny memes.
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SPEAKER_01: I don't like these out of the quote memes where you're throwing shit.
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SPEAKER_01: I don't like them in English either.
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SPEAKER_01: I don't like someone on someone instead of having an adult conversation with that person that's bothering you.
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_01: Like, cut that out.
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_01: Like it just, I'm just like, really?
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SPEAKER_01: And it's like back and forth, back and forth.
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SPEAKER_02: And I'm like, grow up Clearly, Lena's got some aggression about that.
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SPEAKER_01: No, I can't, dude.
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SPEAKER_01: I can't.
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SPEAKER_01: Okay, you really have nothing but one thing.
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SPEAKER_02: I mean, like, I'm sure some of the things that bother you bother me too, but I don't like sit here and actively think about the things that bother me.
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SPEAKER_02: Except, I mean, let me not lie.
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SPEAKER_02: Sometimes I do.
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SPEAKER_02: Okay.
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SPEAKER_02: Um, but the last few days I've been just like trying to be positive all the time.
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SPEAKER_02: So I didn't really sit there and think about Lena's like, not me.
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SPEAKER_02: I didn't really sit there and think about like, oh my gosh, this is bothering.
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SPEAKER_02: But yeah, that kind of in general, I don't like when people post passive aggressive quotes back and forth with each other.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah, when it's like meant for one person.
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SPEAKER_02: I don't like it in Arabic, I don't like it in English, like deal with it directly.
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SPEAKER_01: Any language, deal with it directly, be an adult and talk to the person.
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SPEAKER_01: The other thing is also like a social media thing, you know.
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SPEAKER_01: Um, when you're people who post pics of themselves in the hospital, stop.
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SPEAKER_01: Oh my god.
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SPEAKER_01: Just stop.
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SPEAKER_01: Unless the doctor is telling you you have days to live and you need to make an announcement to the world.
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SPEAKER_01: You're serious.
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SPEAKER_01: Okay, no, no, no, no, no, I'm serious.
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SPEAKER_01: Okay.
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SPEAKER_01: Why do I need to know you have an IV?
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SPEAKER_01: Like, why do I need to know what you're doing?
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SPEAKER_02: So you some people do it because they like want people to pray for them.
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SPEAKER_02: Some people like I want attention.
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SPEAKER_02: I that like that that actually does not bother me.
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SPEAKER_02: I'm just like, whatever.
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SPEAKER_01: No, no, because it's like, why do I need to know this?
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SPEAKER_01: Like, okay, like I said, unless you're like, I like that she goes, unless the doctor told you you have days to live and you need to let the world go.
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SPEAKER_01: I get that.
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SPEAKER_01: Like, you know, you want to say, hey guys, I'm I'm not gonna be here in a week, okay?
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SPEAKER_01: Like, you need to tell me.
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SPEAKER_01: I don't think that needs to be.
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SPEAKER_02: I'm just like, whatever.
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SPEAKER_01: That needs to be.
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SPEAKER_02: I guess it's the same as the passive aggressive memes.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, you, it's your page, you can post whatever.
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SPEAKER_02: I just think the passive aggressive memes are different because you're literally targeting one person, but you are like telling everybody, you know, that you feel this way.
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SPEAKER_02: And I'm like, we all know who you're talking about.
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SPEAKER_01: Just go let them know exactly, especially when you know who they're talking about.
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SPEAKER_01: But the hospital picks like whatever.
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SPEAKER_01: Okay.
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SPEAKER_01: Do you know when you're driving and someone's trying to merge into your lane?
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SPEAKER_01: Uh-huh.
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SPEAKER_01: Okay, and you let them.
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SPEAKER_01: And this mofo has no chance of possibly ever being in being allowed into that lane.
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SPEAKER_01: But you let them, you're nice, yeah, and you let them in.
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SPEAKER_01: Okay.
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SPEAKER_01: And then this asshole doesn't wave a thank you.
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SPEAKER_02: It's not that serious.
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SPEAKER_01: Does it bother you?
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unknown: No.
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SPEAKER_01: But why why are we why are they not waving thank you?
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SPEAKER_02: Most of the time, I'm not paying I'm just like letting people, I'm like, go, it's fine.
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SPEAKER_02: I don't care if they wave thank you or not.
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SPEAKER_01: I think it's true because I always wave thank you.
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SPEAKER_01: Okay, that's a you problem.
5:35
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
5:35
SPEAKER_01: That is a you problem.
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SPEAKER_01: Your expectations are far too high of society.
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SPEAKER_01: No, no, we need to bring that back.
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SPEAKER_01: If someone lets you in, no.
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SPEAKER_01: When you have no chance of possibly getting in there on your own.
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SPEAKER_01: How are you making it through the day?
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SPEAKER_02: If all of these we're only on number three.
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SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
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SPEAKER_01: I'm just saying, wave thank you.
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SPEAKER_01: Do you think that's fine?
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SPEAKER_01: Whatever.
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SPEAKER_02: Guys, if she's feeling it on the road, please freaking wave thank you so she can stop being mad about that.
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SPEAKER_01: Um, I can't believe like I'm just like gonna sound so unhinged right now, but like whatever.
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SPEAKER_01: Um, people who bring fish to work and then heat it up.
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SPEAKER_02: Again, I don't go to work, so it's fine.
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SPEAKER_02: If you went to work, I mean, I just want the whole office to smell like fish?
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SPEAKER_02: There are worse things, so it's fine.
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SPEAKER_02: If you want to eat fish, go ahead.
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SPEAKER_02: I do I love it?
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SPEAKER_02: No.
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SPEAKER_02: Am I gonna like sit?
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SPEAKER_02: I mean, am I gonna talk about you and be like, oh my god, I can't believe so-and-so brought fish?
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SPEAKER_02: Absolutely.
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SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna be like, I can't believe this person brought fish, but I don't care what people eat, when they eat it, how they eat it.
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SPEAKER_02: I don't care if it smells, whatever none of that bothers me as long as you're polite.
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SPEAKER_02: If you are nice, I will 100% make every single concession for you possible, especially like if we're colleagues.
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SPEAKER_02: Now, if you were like rude and you were eating fish, you're definitely gonna be on my shit list.
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SPEAKER_01: But I think it's rude to bring fish to work that you cook the night before and then you heat that stuff up in the microwave.
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SPEAKER_02: I don't care.
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SPEAKER_01: Okay.
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_01: I'm sure people I'm sure people agree with me.
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SPEAKER_02: No, I'm sure people do not agree with you because honestly, like you're now like transgressing against people's rights to like bring their leftovers as lunch.
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SPEAKER_01: Okay, humming.
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SPEAKER_01: I don't like people who hum around me.
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SPEAKER_01: Like, don't freaking hum.
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SPEAKER_01: Like, do that crap in the privacy of your home or in the car.
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SPEAKER_01: How are you getting through the day normal?
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SPEAKER_01: Dude, it irritates me.
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SPEAKER_01: Like, I can't help it.
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SPEAKER_01: I'm like, why are you humming?
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SPEAKER_01: I'm not the only one.
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SPEAKER_02: Again, I don't care.
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SPEAKER_02: That's what headphones are for.
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SPEAKER_02: Wear some fucking headphones.
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SPEAKER_01: Okay, the person humming needs to wear some fucking headphones.
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SPEAKER_01: They can't wear headphones.
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SPEAKER_01: What do you mean?
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SPEAKER_01: I don't care.
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SPEAKER_01: Buffalo.
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SPEAKER_01: Don't hum in public.
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SPEAKER_01: I don't need to hear that.
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SPEAKER_01: Like, I just don't.
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SPEAKER_01: You know, now every time I see, I'm just gonna sit there be like, like, even my daughter, like, she was, I'm like, don't hum around.
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SPEAKER_02: You are just angry.
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SPEAKER_02: You need you not angry.
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SPEAKER_01: You need it, no, you bothers me.
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SPEAKER_02: No, you need like a vacation by yourself to the moon.
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SPEAKER_01: I don't think that's a problem.
7:55
SPEAKER_01: I think I think it is.
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SPEAKER_01: Clearly, she's right by people.
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SPEAKER_02: The person who she lets it on the highway doesn't do this, and she's like that name.
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SPEAKER_01: No, no, but isn't there a name like misophonia or something?
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SPEAKER_02: No, that's what no.
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SPEAKER_02: Is that just for food?
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SPEAKER_02: No, no, no.
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SPEAKER_02: That is specifically for people who have a sensitivity.
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SPEAKER_02: I have a sensitivity to humming.
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SPEAKER_02: Not humming.
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SPEAKER_02: It's to chewing food and eating with a lot of noise.
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SPEAKER_02: I don't think it's just food.
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SPEAKER_02: You know how you don't have a sensitivity to humming, you're just pounding.
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SPEAKER_02: No, I do.
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SPEAKER_01: There's certain things that just it bother, they just bother me.
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SPEAKER_01: I can't like it.
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SPEAKER_01: Even when someone coughs, like, don't cough around me.
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SPEAKER_01: Okay, that's different.
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SPEAKER_01: That's because they're probably at the sound of it.
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SPEAKER_02: No, go cough in the room somewhere.
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SPEAKER_02: No, that is not how it works.
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SPEAKER_02: Basically, what you need to do is go to the office and work in a bubble.
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SPEAKER_01: Anywhere, it's not just the office.
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SPEAKER_01: Like, if you're gonna cough, like go in the bathroom somewhere and cough.
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SPEAKER_01: Is that bad?
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SPEAKER_01: It's because you're doing it on purpose.
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SPEAKER_01: It's fine.
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SPEAKER_01: It just gets irritating.
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SPEAKER_02: It's not irritating.
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SPEAKER_02: Okay, weird.
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SPEAKER_02: She's so people who park, you are unhinged.
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SPEAKER_02: I'm just gonna put that out there.
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SPEAKER_02: This list of stuff, you are absolutely unhinged.
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SPEAKER_02: And I am the person that's particular, right?
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SPEAKER_02: No, at least I'm not unhinged.
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SPEAKER_02: Lena's totally unhinged.
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SPEAKER_01: See, I did my homework assignment.
9:05
SPEAKER_02: No, no, this is not homework.
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SPEAKER_02: No, no, this is not a useful exercise.
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SPEAKER_02: Is this cathartic for you?
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SPEAKER_01: I think I think people need to stop doing this shit.
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SPEAKER_02: No, I think people just do whatever you want as long as you're respectful of the others around you.
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SPEAKER_02: Anyways, continue.
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SPEAKER_02: So you you agreed with the meme thing, though.
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SPEAKER_02: Because that is like somebody being not behaving like an adult.
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SPEAKER_02: If you're targeting a person specifically, and we all know who you're talking about, right?
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SPEAKER_02: And that person is also responding to you in the same manner, you guys are just like you're not mature.
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SPEAKER_02: Like be maker.
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SPEAKER_02: That's different.
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SPEAKER_02: I'm talking about like people immaturity, but you are like literally transgressing against someone's rights to bring their leftovers for lunch the next day.
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SPEAKER_02: Yes, transgressing.
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SPEAKER_02: I'm not transgressing, I'm just annoyed.
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SPEAKER_02: These are the things that annoy me.
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unknown: My God.
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SPEAKER_02: That people need to stop.
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SPEAKER_02: Okay, okay.
9:52
SPEAKER_02: So basically, if somebody told you, excuse me, ma'am, your level of cement on everything bothers me.
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SPEAKER_01: You're such a jerk.
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SPEAKER_01: I hate you.
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SPEAKER_01: Your level of cement on everything bothers me.
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SPEAKER_01: No, it doesn't affect them.
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SPEAKER_01: It doesn't make noise.
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SPEAKER_01: They're not the ones eating it.
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SPEAKER_01: It cumat doesn't smell.
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SPEAKER_01: It definitely doesn't infringe on anybody.
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SPEAKER_01: No, it definitely opened that little packet of cement from that computer.
10:15
SPEAKER_01: I'm open packets of cement.
10:16
SPEAKER_01: I know.
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SPEAKER_01: I have my own cement from Felestine.
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SPEAKER_01: Are you kidding me?
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SPEAKER_02: So basically, if Lena's doing it, it's okay.
10:22
SPEAKER_02: If anybody else is doing it, it's not okay.
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SPEAKER_02: That's not a correct analogy.
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SPEAKER_02: Okay, Lena, it's pretty good.
10:27
SPEAKER_02: There's, I'm sure there's a lot of things that you do that somebody's gonna be like, Okay, what is that Lena?
10:31
SPEAKER_02: Let's move on.
10:31
SPEAKER_02: That Lena and her blah, blah, blah, of this, that, or the other.
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SPEAKER_02: I think people will agree with me.
10:36
SPEAKER_02: I don't think people will agree with you.
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SPEAKER_02: You might have a small, also kind of sad, miserable we people who might agree with the fact that everything other humans do is upsetting them.
10:47
SPEAKER_02: So you called me sad?
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SPEAKER_02: And miserable.
10:48
SPEAKER_02: Don't forget miserable.
10:51
SPEAKER_01: All right.
10:52
SPEAKER_01: You have to agree with these two.
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SPEAKER_01: The first one, this is car related again.
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SPEAKER_01: Uh-huh.
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SPEAKER_01: When a person takes two parking spots.
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SPEAKER_01: No, that's inconsiderate.
11:01
SPEAKER_01: That's different.
11:02
SPEAKER_01: That is inconsiderate.
11:03
SPEAKER_00: Yes, I agree.
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SPEAKER_02: Okay, you agree with that.
11:04
SPEAKER_02: See?
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SPEAKER_02: That's inconsiderate.
11:06
SPEAKER_02: Like, yeah.
11:06
SPEAKER_02: Come on.
11:06
SPEAKER_02: That's inconsiderate.
11:07
SPEAKER_02: But again, I that doesn't mean that I mind that you bring your little bit.
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SPEAKER_01: I'm just saying they need to stop.
11:11
SPEAKER_01: The whole the whole point of this episode is things people need to stop doing.
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SPEAKER_01: Don't take two parking spots.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's different because honestly, it also depends on.
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SPEAKER_02: So if you're like a like if you're a wide vehicle, I get why you need two spots.
11:23
SPEAKER_01: But if you're like in a if you're a wide vehicle, park further out of the city.
11:26
SPEAKER_01: No, no, if your fast ass vehicle can fit.
11:29
SPEAKER_01: No, no, no.
11:29
SPEAKER_01: If you're a truck or something.
11:30
SPEAKER_02: No, I'm not talking about that's what I mean.
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SPEAKER_01: No, no, a wide vehicle as in your.
11:34
SPEAKER_01: No, no, no.
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SPEAKER_02: Like you know how sometimes, like, so for example, perfect, perfect, perfect example.
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SPEAKER_02: So a lot of times, like around where I live, you'll see like the trash trucks operate like half, like they do in the morning, trash pick them in the morning, recycling in the afternoon.
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SPEAKER_02: So I'll see like two or three trucks across the street.
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SPEAKER_02: And so those guys park like in four or five spots because they're gonna grab lunch.
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SPEAKER_02: Um that is totally acceptable.
11:57
SPEAKER_02: It is not acceptable when you're like in a regular-sized car, even if it's like an extended cap suburban or something, and you're like literally over the line.
12:05
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
12:05
SPEAKER_02: Why?
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah, exactly.
12:06
SPEAKER_02: Why are you over the line?
12:07
SPEAKER_01: You agree with me.
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SPEAKER_01: Okay.
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SPEAKER_01: Um, the other thing is when someone, you're at a you're you're in a parking lot, this person gets in the car to leave, has their you know, lights on, like they're gonna reverse out, and then they sit there for like 10 goddamn minutes.
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SPEAKER_01: So uh I don't know if that bothers me as much as I just think it's dangerous.
12:25
SPEAKER_01: No, but like you're in reverse.
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SPEAKER_01: And I get like people go into the car sometimes and they have a phone call to make.
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SPEAKER_01: They don't want to like you start driving right away.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I like if I'm gonna be in the car for a minute, or if I'm like parked waiting for somebody to come out, I definitely just like- you're in reverse.
12:39
SPEAKER_01: I definitely have the car and park.
12:40
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah.
12:41
SPEAKER_01: That's the thing though.
12:41
SPEAKER_01: Like, I'll know, oh, this person's probably has some stuff to do with it.
12:44
SPEAKER_02: It's very rare that a person puts the car in reverse and waits.
12:47
SPEAKER_02: I don't really see that.
12:48
SPEAKER_02: I see people parked in their car.
12:49
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, and some people like pull up and wait to see like if they're meant out.
12:52
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, like I get it.
12:53
SPEAKER_01: If you don't have, if they're not on, like, okay, like I said, maybe you want to make a call and you don't want to text or you know, and drive and you don't want to like make this phone phone call conversation while you're driving.
13:02
SPEAKER_01: I get that, you know.
13:04
SPEAKER_01: But keep your lights, keep your car in park.
13:07
SPEAKER_02: So no one thinks Yeah, that that's really yeah.
13:09
SPEAKER_02: I mean, I guess it's annoying, but like rarely ever happens to me.
13:11
SPEAKER_02: Like really, I don't know.
13:13
SPEAKER_01: I guess I'm just going to the wrong places.
13:15
SPEAKER_02: It seems so.
13:16
SPEAKER_02: It seems so.
13:17
SPEAKER_01: Um what else?
13:19
SPEAKER_01: Uh this this you'll know.
13:21
SPEAKER_01: What number are we on?
13:21
SPEAKER_01: We're like I feel like we're at number 800.
13:23
SPEAKER_01: Shut up.
13:24
SPEAKER_01: I'm not I'm not keeping track of the numbers, okay?
13:26
SPEAKER_02: I literally feel like I'm at number 800.
13:28
SPEAKER_01: So this is cyclists in DC.
13:32
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
13:33
SPEAKER_01: So I always look both ways when I'm driving, and I'm always very mindful, okay?
13:38
SPEAKER_01: And I respect that.
13:39
SPEAKER_01: I wish I could like cycle my ass to work every day, okay?
13:43
SPEAKER_02: Like, I You know, I'm the on the thing of cyclists, I'm also a very respectable driver.
13:47
SPEAKER_02: I got hit by a cyclist like six weeks ago or seven.
13:49
SPEAKER_02: Oh, really?
13:50
SPEAKER_02: No, like a cyclist literally ran into the car.
13:53
SPEAKER_02: Oh my god.
13:54
SPEAKER_02: But it wasn't also his fault, it was his life.
13:56
SPEAKER_02: I mean, look, he's cycling to work.
13:58
SPEAKER_02: Cyclists are like, again, I respect your your freedom to do whatever.
14:03
SPEAKER_02: It is good for the environment.
14:04
SPEAKER_02: But in the DC metro area, people are vicious.
14:07
SPEAKER_02: Yes.
14:08
SPEAKER_02: Like the drivers and the cyclists.
14:10
SPEAKER_02: But this cyclist, I will say it wasn't his fault.
14:12
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
14:12
SPEAKER_02: Basically, somebody cut the light, clipped the back of his wheel on his bike.
14:16
SPEAKER_02: Uh he lost control and literally flew and rammed into the front left side of my car.
14:20
SPEAKER_02: It was a 67-year-old guy.
14:22
SPEAKER_01: Oh my god, is he okay?
14:23
SPEAKER_02: He's okay, thank God.
14:24
SPEAKER_02: Alhamdulillah.
14:24
SPEAKER_02: Okay.
14:25
SPEAKER_01: So the other day, like I'm driving into work, and like, you know, there's there's a bike lane right as you're getting into the garage, right?
14:32
SPEAKER_01: And I'm always, I'm always mindful, and I always look.
14:35
SPEAKER_02: Like you have to stop.
14:37
SPEAKER_01: And I go slowly.
14:38
SPEAKER_01: So, but there was this big ass truck parked, and so I can't, I can only see from one side.
14:43
SPEAKER_01: And I'm still because of that, I'm still going very slow to make sure.
14:46
SPEAKER_01: I was gonna see okay, sneeze.
14:50
SPEAKER_01: I was like, I'm just gonna sneeze.
14:51
SPEAKER_01: I like I like ate it.
14:54
SPEAKER_01: All for the content, right?
14:56
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, so this lady comes and then she stops suddenly, she's on her bike, and like she's getting mad at me.
15:01
SPEAKER_01: I didn't even I I'm driving slowly and I stopped, but I didn't see her because it's also on you.
15:07
SPEAKER_01: You're also responsible.
15:09
SPEAKER_01: Did she lose her?
15:10
SPEAKER_01: And I'm just like, what do you want me to do?
15:12
SPEAKER_01: Like, this my view is blocked.
15:14
SPEAKER_01: Like that guy is parked there illegally.
15:16
SPEAKER_01: It's like big ass truck, delivery truck, right?
15:19
SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, I'm going slow already.
15:20
SPEAKER_01: And because I'm going slow, I was able to stop.
15:23
SPEAKER_02: I just again, this goes back to what I was saying earlier about people just need to be nice and polite to you.
15:28
SPEAKER_01: Be nice and polite, but no, no, it's it's not like the guy, the parking attendant, was like, these cyclists, you want a tantrum.
15:34
SPEAKER_01: He's like, He probably sees a lot.
15:36
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, because he's like, they think, and he's right, he's like, they think it's not their responsibility at all to pay attention, it's always the driver.
15:42
SPEAKER_01: Like, okay, I'm paying attention and I respect, I respect your right to ride a bike, to work, to do whatever you want.
15:48
SPEAKER_01: Okay, it's great for the environment, like I said, and I love it.
15:51
SPEAKER_01: I'm a full supporter, okay?
15:52
SPEAKER_01: But at the same time, you have to be careful.
15:55
SPEAKER_01: You have to be careful too.
15:56
SPEAKER_01: Like you have responsibilities.
15:57
SPEAKER_01: You're also a driver.
15:58
SPEAKER_01: You're just driving.
16:00
SPEAKER_01: I see the truck and I'm going extra slow.
16:02
SPEAKER_01: You also need to be mindful that, hey, there's there's an opening.
16:05
SPEAKER_01: Like I need to slow down.
16:06
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, like I need to pay attention.
16:07
SPEAKER_01: And Hamdi, like, nothing happened.
16:09
SPEAKER_01: I didn't hit her.
16:10
SPEAKER_01: But it's like, why are you getting mad at me?
16:12
SPEAKER_02: Well, I mean, why not?
16:13
SPEAKER_02: We're gonna take a break from all of Lena's like sad state of affairs.
16:18
SPEAKER_02: Um, and it like honestly, because I I feel like you guys are gonna think she is unhinged and like sad and tired.
16:25
SPEAKER_02: No, I have a few more.
16:26
SPEAKER_02: I am going to I asked this question on Instagram last night.
16:29
SPEAKER_02: Oh, right.
16:30
SPEAKER_02: Like, hey guys, I wanted to find out from people what they um like, you know, I asked them the same thing.
16:37
SPEAKER_02: Like, what is one thing uh that you wish people like would stop doing like in real life or like on socials, right?
16:44
SPEAKER_02: Um I love this comment.
16:47
SPEAKER_02: It is so hits home, and it is um judging or comparing other people's children.
16:54
SPEAKER_01: Oh, yeah, definitely.
16:55
SPEAKER_01: Don't do that.
16:56
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, like don't talk about people's kids.
16:57
SPEAKER_02: That is a sensitive subject.
16:58
SPEAKER_01: I wouldn't 100% agree with that.
17:00
SPEAKER_02: Like, it is not your place to tell people like how to raise their kids, what they're doing, blah blah blah.
17:05
SPEAKER_01: My favorite is oh my god, you let them eat that?
17:06
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, oh my god, you let them watch that?
17:08
SPEAKER_01: Oh my god, you let him do that.
17:09
SPEAKER_01: I'm just like, why is that any of your business?
17:12
SPEAKER_01: It's not any of your business, and don't be judgmental.
17:14
SPEAKER_02: Exactly.
17:14
SPEAKER_02: So the other one um is spending too much time, effort, and money to be different and to stand out.
17:21
SPEAKER_02: Be you with little effort.
17:23
SPEAKER_02: So I think maybe this person is talking about like how on socials people, you know, will kind of flaunt an expensive car or designer brands or this or that or the other.
17:32
SPEAKER_02: And it's like, do you really need all of that?
17:33
SPEAKER_02: Like, if that's you, do you.
17:35
SPEAKER_02: But if that's like what you think you need to do for people to like you, like you gotta stop.
17:39
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
17:39
SPEAKER_02: I gotta look, I love the second half of this, which is be you with little effort, 100%.
17:43
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
17:44
SPEAKER_02: Um what happened?
17:48
SPEAKER_02: I love this.
17:49
SPEAKER_02: This is so random.
17:50
SPEAKER_02: I'm I don't love this.
17:51
SPEAKER_02: I hate the fact that somebody feels like they need to comment on what women are doing online.
17:56
SPEAKER_02: It just hit me by surprise because I actually haven't read these.
17:58
SPEAKER_02: This is like Okay, okay, read it, read it.
18:00
SPEAKER_02: Um, women posing while raising their leg.
18:04
SPEAKER_02: So damn fake and annoying.
18:05
SPEAKER_02: I'm not sure.
18:07
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I'm not really sure what it means.
18:08
SPEAKER_02: I just that's why I laughed initially.
18:10
SPEAKER_01: I was like, this is so oh maybe like when they when they turn like they're facing someone and then they do that.
18:14
SPEAKER_02: No, I don't know what it is, to be honest with you, but I just thought it was funny because it just took me by surprise.
18:20
SPEAKER_02: But I don't think you need to comment on what woman is.
18:22
SPEAKER_01: This person has clearly seen enough of those pictures to to yeah, for right to bother her.
18:27
SPEAKER_02: So um I love using trending phrases instead of communicating normally.
18:32
SPEAKER_02: Is that like when Gretchen was trying to make fetch happened?
18:36
SPEAKER_02: On Mean Girls, that's so fetch.
18:39
SPEAKER_02: And Regina was like, it's not gonna happen, Gretchen.
18:42
SPEAKER_01: Or maybe like um slang words, I don't know.
18:46
SPEAKER_02: Maybe, yeah.
18:46
SPEAKER_02: I mean, I guess that's a personal preference again.
18:49
SPEAKER_01: Are they are you gonna call them unhinged, Tennan?
18:52
SPEAKER_01: Like you're calling me unhinged.
18:54
SPEAKER_02: I don't know these people, but I know you, so it's different.
18:57
SPEAKER_02: Um I yes, I love this, this two comments right up my alley.
19:04
SPEAKER_02: The other one, the first one is like when people hate online, just leave people alone or in person.
19:09
SPEAKER_02: And the other comment is hate comments and unnecessary opinions as well.
19:13
SPEAKER_02: Okay, so here's the thing when when I'm scrolling through my feed and I don't like something, I just love when people just put there, decide to give me their opinions on if I'm a good Muslim or a bad Muslim or whatever.
19:25
SPEAKER_02: I'm like, why do you care?
19:26
SPEAKER_02: And let me tell you, like, there's a lot of times when people will put comments on Instagram, and Alina manages the TikTok, the TikTok that I just sounded about 85.
19:35
SPEAKER_02: Our TikTok account.
19:36
SPEAKER_02: I like we both are on both, but I'm mostly on Instagram.
19:40
SPEAKER_02: I will delete that comment.
19:41
SPEAKER_02: I'm not even gonna respond.
19:42
SPEAKER_02: It is like such a waste of my time.
19:43
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, but I agree.
19:45
SPEAKER_02: This one is so random.
19:46
SPEAKER_02: Clearly, this person has had a lot of issues with uh what's happening in pop culture, and they are tired of Taylor Swift posts and reels.
19:55
SPEAKER_02: I guess it's I guess because everything is happening with Travis Kelsey.
20:00
SPEAKER_02: So yeah, I mean with her and Travis Kelsey.
20:02
SPEAKER_01: It's a lot, it's like everywhere.
20:03
SPEAKER_02: I mean, I think I think some of the stuff is really funny.
20:06
SPEAKER_01: It is really funny, but like I get where she's like, it's just like we're inundated with it, like non-stop.
20:11
SPEAKER_01: Uh yeah, I just can't think I think some of the posts are.
20:13
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, but I don't want the Swifties coming after me, so it's funny.
20:16
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, no, no, I honestly like I think it's I think especially some of the um like uh some of the the things that the comedians are doing or some of the funny stuff or the challenges I see on social media, those I absolutely love.
20:30
SPEAKER_02: Um this one happens to be, and this is gonna be the last one before I go back to like listening to Lena.
20:36
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, okay.
20:36
SPEAKER_02: Uh this one has to be an absolute 100% agree, and that is eating ASMR.
20:42
unknown: I cannot.
20:42
SPEAKER_02: Do you agree with that?
20:43
SPEAKER_02: Eating like I don't mind if people like pop a can, open a bag, do this, or but chewing.
20:50
SPEAKER_01: Oh, you're offended by that, but me being offended.
20:54
SPEAKER_02: I'm not someone humming.
20:56
SPEAKER_02: No, no, I'm not offended by it.
20:57
SPEAKER_02: I just, it's different.
20:59
SPEAKER_02: People don't do humming ASMR, people do ASMR.
21:02
SPEAKER_02: So I choose to not watch because that sound bothers me.
21:05
SPEAKER_02: You, however, want the universe to stop humming around you.
21:07
SPEAKER_02: I just want them to stop talking about it.
21:08
SPEAKER_02: Exactly.
21:09
SPEAKER_02: So that's like so not the same thing.
21:10
SPEAKER_02: Anyway, let's go back to the rest of Lena's question.
21:12
SPEAKER_01: So I have a few more, my complaint list.
21:15
SPEAKER_01: A few more?
21:16
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
21:17
SPEAKER_01: Okay, you know, and this is like our parents are guilty of this, like the older generation, when they forward you shit on WhatsApp and it's all like flowers, but that's not my issue.
21:25
SPEAKER_01: That's fine, whatever.
21:26
SPEAKER_01: My issue is people forwarding, and this is for all age groups, people forwarding stuff like misinformation and completely shit.
21:34
SPEAKER_01: Like, do your research before you forward something.
21:36
SPEAKER_01: But that's like, yeah, that that it's so easy to hit the forward button and it's so so infuriating.
21:40
SPEAKER_01: And some of the stuff that I get, I'm like, are you guys serious?
21:43
SPEAKER_01: Like it makes me question that person who's supposed to be my friend.
21:45
SPEAKER_01: I'm like, are you this goddamn stupid?
21:47
SPEAKER_01: Yes.
21:48
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
21:49
SPEAKER_01: Some people are.
21:50
SPEAKER_01: One example is uh someone I knew a long time ago sends me this forwarded message about um Cheesecake Factory and how 85% of their cheesecake cheesecakes are made with pork.
22:04
SPEAKER_01: I'm like, are you get the hell out of here with that shit?
22:07
SPEAKER_01: So I'm like, you know what?
22:08
SPEAKER_01: I can't.
22:09
SPEAKER_01: I didn't just leave it at that.
22:10
SPEAKER_01: I contacted Cheesecake Factory.
22:12
SPEAKER_01: I'm like, can you please?
22:14
SPEAKER_01: And they were very nice.
22:15
SPEAKER_01: And they sent me, oh, they're like, ma'am, there's no truth to that.
22:17
SPEAKER_01: And they sent me exact detailed listen.
22:20
SPEAKER_01: I sent this person this.
22:21
SPEAKER_01: I'm like, don't forward stupid shit.
22:22
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I had time that day.
22:24
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, clearly.
22:24
SPEAKER_01: I'm just like, I don't have time to do some basic research.
22:28
SPEAKER_01: Like, don't keep like misinformation, man.
22:30
SPEAKER_02: Just like that misinformation doesn't have to do with just forwarding WhatsApp.
22:33
SPEAKER_02: It's misinformation in general.
22:34
SPEAKER_02: Like, misinformation sucks.
22:36
SPEAKER_02: Stop sharing things that don't make sense.
22:38
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
22:38
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
22:39
SPEAKER_01: Okay, let me see what else I have, and then we can kind of wrap this up.
22:42
SPEAKER_01: Um because I feel like this is really negative.
22:45
SPEAKER_01: It's not negative.
22:46
SPEAKER_01: People will agree with me.
22:47
SPEAKER_01: Uh, there's something called scene zoning.
22:49
SPEAKER_01: Have you do you know what that is?
22:51
SPEAKER_01: Scene zoning.
22:51
SPEAKER_01: I have no idea.
22:52
SPEAKER_01: When you send someone a text message and they leave you on red.
22:55
SPEAKER_01: Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
22:57
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
22:57
SPEAKER_01: How do you feel about that?
22:58
SPEAKER_01: That doesn't piss you off?
22:59
SPEAKER_01: Like, freaking respond, yes or no?
23:01
SPEAKER_02: I do it.
23:02
SPEAKER_01: Oh God, no, you don't.
23:04
SPEAKER_02: I do.
23:05
SPEAKER_02: I mean Can I tell you that there's a statistic that says that everybody sees their text messages in three minutes of receiving it?
23:10
SPEAKER_02: And then the response is just like whatever.
23:13
SPEAKER_02: No, there are some times when like I receive a message and I don't know if it's somebody like they want me to take action because I'm like, there's nothing I can do to help you.
23:22
SPEAKER_02: Like, if it's somebody I already advised and they're sending me something again, I'm like, okay, well, I see this, I acknowledged.
23:27
SPEAKER_02: I don't need to let you know I acknowledge it, especially if it's something that I already acknowledged before.
23:31
SPEAKER_02: The other thing is I have a few friends that like to text me, like their streams, streams, like they're freaking Virginia Wolf, streams from their consciousness, which is fine.
23:40
SPEAKER_02: But like again, you're telling me, like, oh, I got this and I did this, and okay, cool.
23:45
SPEAKER_02: Like, what should I respond with?
23:47
SPEAKER_02: Nothing.
23:48
SPEAKER_02: Um, however, I do get really annoyed.
23:51
SPEAKER_02: If somebody is telling me I need blah, blah, blah, from you by said time, I will acknowledge those messages right away.
23:57
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
23:58
SPEAKER_02: I get pissed if I send a message and I need something immediate from somebody and they just like don't respond.
24:03
SPEAKER_02: That I agree.
24:04
SPEAKER_02: Because I know they see my message.
24:06
SPEAKER_02: I know they do.
24:06
SPEAKER_02: I know they do.
24:07
SPEAKER_02: Especially if it's urgent.
24:08
SPEAKER_02: Okay.
24:08
SPEAKER_02: Then they don't respond, but it's yeah, but like I, yeah, it's fine.
24:12
SPEAKER_02: Whatever.
24:13
SPEAKER_02: Okay.
24:13
SPEAKER_02: It's two-way street for me, so I can't really be a hypocrite and be like, I hate this.
24:17
SPEAKER_01: All right.
24:18
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
24:19
SPEAKER_01: So another thing, when you're in a line to order food, like it's like a 10-minute line.
24:24
SPEAKER_01: Like drive-thru or like in person.
24:26
SPEAKER_01: No, no, in person.
24:27
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
24:28
SPEAKER_01: And there's like all these people waiting in line, and then the person in front of you still doesn't know what the hell they want to order.
24:37
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it's okay, whatever.
24:38
SPEAKER_01: Right?
24:39
SPEAKER_01: What do you mean it's okay?
24:41
SPEAKER_01: Like, you've you've been standing in line for 10 minutes.
24:44
SPEAKER_02: I yeah, that does not bother me.
24:46
SPEAKER_02: I'm like, whatever.
24:46
SPEAKER_01: Oh my god, dude.
24:47
SPEAKER_01: Like, it's just a complete waste of time.
24:49
SPEAKER_01: Like, what are you doing in line?
24:50
SPEAKER_02: I mean, clearly, we can now, there's a pattern.
24:54
SPEAKER_02: You can see that I'm like moving through the only time I get up and get annoyed at food anything is when my order is wrong.
24:59
SPEAKER_02: But other than that, like, whatever.
25:00
SPEAKER_02: Things take time.
25:01
SPEAKER_02: You're going to eat and pick up food and go back.
25:03
SPEAKER_01: It's not the person who's preparing the food.
25:05
SPEAKER_01: It's the people in front of you ordering the food.
25:07
SPEAKER_01: You've been in line.
25:08
SPEAKER_01: It's clearly a long line.
25:09
SPEAKER_01: Why haven't you figured out what the hell you want to eat or drink in that time that you were in line?
25:14
SPEAKER_02: Maybe they were busy doing other things.
25:15
SPEAKER_01: Whatever.
25:16
SPEAKER_02: That's I mean, honestly, usually when I get up to the register, like I know exactly what I want.
25:20
SPEAKER_02: Exactly.
25:20
SPEAKER_01: And why do you do that?
25:22
SPEAKER_02: What do you mean?
25:22
SPEAKER_02: What do I do?
25:23
SPEAKER_01: Well, like, why is that?
25:24
SPEAKER_01: You're being considerate.
25:25
SPEAKER_02: No, it's because I'm hungry.
25:26
SPEAKER_01: Okay, but you know what you want.
25:28
SPEAKER_02: But I know what I want before I even arrive.
25:30
SPEAKER_02: I'm different.
25:31
SPEAKER_02: Okay.
25:31
SPEAKER_02: I'm built different.
25:32
SPEAKER_02: Okay.
25:32
SPEAKER_02: I like food.
25:33
SPEAKER_02: I know exactly what I'm gonna get, where it, whatever it is that I'm going.
25:36
SPEAKER_02: But to sit there and have somebody take forever to order, I'm like, whatever.
25:40
SPEAKER_02: You know, even if I'm sitting at a dinner and there's a person taking a long time to order, like I just put them on the spot.
25:46
SPEAKER_02: I'm like, okay, we're gonna go around Robin.
25:48
SPEAKER_02: You're the last person.
25:48
SPEAKER_02: By the time we get to you, you need to figure out what you want.
25:51
SPEAKER_02: And a lot of times, if they don't have it figured out, I'm like, okay, halal sanakulmin.
25:54
SPEAKER_01: Also, side note, I don't like self-checkout lanes.
25:58
unknown: Wow.
25:59
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, because it's like like I don't want I don't want to do that.
26:03
SPEAKER_01: Like, it's just so much, it's like I don't know if I'm gonna do it right.
26:08
SPEAKER_01: You literally scanned the item.
26:11
SPEAKER_01: Are you serious right now?
26:13
SPEAKER_01: I just don't want to do it.
26:15
SPEAKER_01: Oh my god.
26:16
SPEAKER_01: Why is that responsibility on me?
26:18
SPEAKER_01: What do you mean by someone?
26:20
SPEAKER_01: I mean, listen, listen.
26:22
SPEAKER_01: Listen, she's so weird.
26:24
SPEAKER_01: Oh my god, she's so weird.
26:25
SPEAKER_01: How are we even friends?
26:27
SPEAKER_01: If I have to do it, I'll do it.
26:29
SPEAKER_01: Obviously.
26:30
SPEAKER_01: I'm capable.
26:31
SPEAKER_01: But like, thank God I'm not the one that does the shopping at home.
26:33
SPEAKER_01: I'm just does.
26:34
SPEAKER_01: Then why are you complaining?
26:35
SPEAKER_01: But like the few moments that are.
26:36
SPEAKER_01: Then why are you complaining?
26:37
SPEAKER_01: You have no leg to stand on right now.
26:39
SPEAKER_01: Okay?
26:39
SPEAKER_01: You have no leg to stand on self-tracking.
26:42
SPEAKER_01: Okay, okay.
26:42
SPEAKER_01: This is something.
26:43
SPEAKER_02: No, no, no, no, no, no.
26:46
SPEAKER_02: Oh my god, what if I do it wrong?
26:47
SPEAKER_02: What if you pick up the item and go beep, beep?
26:50
SPEAKER_02: That's gonna be hard.
26:55
SPEAKER_02: Oh my god, I'm freaking out at the level of insanity.
26:59
SPEAKER_02: No, no, no, no.
27:00
SPEAKER_02: When I said unhinged, I meant it.
27:03
SPEAKER_02: Stop being mean to me.
27:04
SPEAKER_02: Lena, that is an unhinged.
27:06
SPEAKER_02: Can we please talk about this?
27:07
SPEAKER_02: Can you guys leave some comments?
27:08
SPEAKER_02: Lena, who goes to the grocery store once every freaking Mercury retrograde.
27:13
SPEAKER_02: That is true.
27:13
SPEAKER_02: Okay, literally, her husband does all of the grocery shopping all of the time.
27:17
SPEAKER_02: He buys everything for the house in bulk, in not bulk.
27:20
SPEAKER_02: In bulk.
27:20
SPEAKER_02: In everything, okay?
27:22
SPEAKER_02: This woman who will go probably buy herself a candy bar or something at the grocery store.
27:28
SPEAKER_02: Not groceries, but a candy bar, can't freaking use the self-checkout.
27:31
SPEAKER_02: Oh my god, what am I doing?
27:32
SPEAKER_01: I didn't say it's just like it's a side note that kind of like annoys me sometimes.
27:36
SPEAKER_01: You literally said, what if I do it wrong?
27:38
SPEAKER_01: Like, I just don't like what if what if you're buying produce?
27:42
SPEAKER_01: Like I have to look that shit up.
27:44
SPEAKER_01: It has a sticker on it that tells you what the code is.
27:47
SPEAKER_01: Okay, okay.
27:48
SPEAKER_01: We can maybe skip that one.
27:49
SPEAKER_01: Okay, I'll I'll admit that's a bit much.
27:51
SPEAKER_01: Okay, I'll take that one.
27:53
SPEAKER_01: I'll take that one.
27:54
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
27:55
SPEAKER_01: Okay, here's here's one.
27:56
SPEAKER_01: Here's two that you are gonna relate.
27:59
SPEAKER_01: I don't know about this.
28:00
SPEAKER_01: No, no, you will.
28:01
SPEAKER_01: Teachers, and I love teachers because I know I can't do what you do.
28:05
SPEAKER_01: All the respect to you guys.
28:07
SPEAKER_01: Whatever she's about to say, I don't agree.
28:09
SPEAKER_02: Whatever it is she's about to say, I don't agree.
28:11
SPEAKER_02: Anytime that somebody said no offense, which is kind of like no offense.
28:15
SPEAKER_01: No, no.
28:16
SPEAKER_01: In the way that you're saying it, that implies no offense.
28:18
SPEAKER_01: The way I'm framing it.
28:19
SPEAKER_01: I love teachers.
28:20
SPEAKER_01: I love everything you do.
28:22
SPEAKER_01: I don't agree with anything that's not a good thing.
28:23
SPEAKER_01: No, no, that's not the two.
28:25
SPEAKER_01: No, no, wait a second.
28:26
SPEAKER_01: But sometimes I feel like I'm gonna get back at this point with this or me.
28:31
SPEAKER_01: No, no, no, seriously.
28:33
SPEAKER_02: This is a place, Matt.
28:34
SPEAKER_01: Um case you guys were wondering.
28:36
SPEAKER_01: When I keep getting text messages about complaints that don't really make any sense, and in the beginning, in the beginning, I would always like, I'm gonna kick my son's ass, right?
28:48
SPEAKER_01: Because I can't believe he did this.
28:50
SPEAKER_01: And then my son comes home and then I'll ask him what happened, and it's completely different.
28:54
SPEAKER_01: And I get it, he's like listen, kids lie, kids will do all sorts of things, right?
29:01
SPEAKER_01: But then, like when I follow up with the phone call, it's completely blown out of proportion, dude.
29:09
SPEAKER_02: I love teachers.
29:10
SPEAKER_01: What did I tell you?
29:11
SPEAKER_01: Shut up.
29:12
SPEAKER_01: I told you something last time, and you totally agreed with me.
29:15
SPEAKER_01: Like the the teacher was being like, it's just is it really worth a call?
29:19
SPEAKER_01: Is it necessarily worth a call?
29:23
SPEAKER_01: Whether or not Okay, I have an example.
29:25
SPEAKER_01: Here's an example.
29:26
SPEAKER_01: This happened.
29:27
SPEAKER_01: This is a true story.
29:28
SPEAKER_01: I had a teacher call and my kids were like in fifth grade, fourth grade or fifth grade, okay?
29:33
SPEAKER_01: And she asked my son, what do you think of school?
29:37
SPEAKER_01: Do you like school?
29:38
SPEAKER_01: Mind you, he's a fourth grader.
29:40
SPEAKER_01: He says, No, I don't.
29:42
SPEAKER_01: And she's like, Oh, you don't like my class?
29:43
SPEAKER_01: He's like, No, I hate your class.
29:45
SPEAKER_01: Okay, okay.
29:45
SPEAKER_01: So you asked this kid a question, a direct question.
29:49
SPEAKER_01: You asked him his opinion, and then you get mad and you send me she needs to let you know that he may not be enjoying the classroom.
29:58
SPEAKER_01: No, she was mad and she took it.
30:00
SPEAKER_01: She was like really mad at him, and he's like, But you asked me.
30:03
SPEAKER_01: You asked me my opinion, and she's like, Well, you know, all the effort I put into this guy.
30:07
SPEAKER_01: I'm like, dude, he's in fourth grade.
30:10
SPEAKER_01: Like, some of these people need to calm the F down.
30:13
SPEAKER_01: Like, do you think that's reasonable for a grown ass teacher to harass a fourth grader?
30:19
SPEAKER_01: Okay, harass is a very strong word.
30:21
SPEAKER_02: She said, Do you like my class?
30:23
SPEAKER_02: Dude, if I ever see that lady in public, we're gonna have work.
30:25
SPEAKER_02: Clearly, clearly, this whole we can't stand people might be alert behavior.
30:30
SPEAKER_02: What do you mean?
30:32
SPEAKER_02: Lena is infecting her children.
30:34
SPEAKER_02: That's not true with her 20 plus list of things she doesn't like about it.
30:38
SPEAKER_02: That's not true.
30:38
SPEAKER_01: That's like I said, I'm not talking about like some of their teachers are amazing.
30:43
SPEAKER_02: I understand some of the things that have I'm not stereotyping.
30:47
SPEAKER_02: I'm not saying look, there is there is not there's specific teachers that may not be the best at whatever communication, this, that, or the end of the day, you get my kids for eight hours a day, and you do with it as you see fit, obviously within specific, like, you know, like proper boundaries and whatnot.
31:05
SPEAKER_02: Um, I need to know, I would need to see this email or like listen to this phone call.
31:11
SPEAKER_02: Cause like I just, I don't know.
31:12
SPEAKER_02: I I like don't I disagree.
31:15
SPEAKER_01: Listen, I always take the teacher's side.
31:17
SPEAKER_01: I never in front of my kids.
31:20
SPEAKER_01: And then when I investigate further, I'm like, okay, when I get a complaint or any issue that happens, I never say, oh, I'm gonna like I never go on his side, like I never take his side, right?
31:33
SPEAKER_01: Because I'm like, you all and I always tell my kids, you gotta respect your teachers.
31:36
SPEAKER_01: You know, you go into class, you gotta respect the rules, you gotta be mindful of others, you gotta be respectful of others, and you have to be respectful to your teacher.
31:44
SPEAKER_01: That's how we were raised, and you need to be respectful.
31:46
SPEAKER_01: Now, if there's something, and I always tell my daughter this, I'm like, if there's something that bothers you, you need to address it in a respectful manner with the teacher.
31:53
SPEAKER_01: You need to go up to her or him.
31:55
SPEAKER_01: That's fine.
31:56
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
31:56
SPEAKER_02: Again, I don't care.
31:58
SPEAKER_02: Text me, call me, whatever.
31:59
SPEAKER_02: Change what's the next thing that's bothering you?
32:01
SPEAKER_01: No, this bothers me.
32:02
SPEAKER_01: Why, why do we have to like brush over anyway?
32:04
SPEAKER_01: Whatever.
32:05
SPEAKER_01: Brush over, we're a number like that.
32:07
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, okay, yeah.
32:08
SPEAKER_01: Like, you know, like take it easy on the freaking text messages on the calls over shit that doesn't even make sense.
32:12
SPEAKER_01: Whatever.
32:13
SPEAKER_01: I'm sticking with my I am not, no, I don't support this.
32:16
SPEAKER_01: Okay, um, not at all.
32:18
SPEAKER_01: Another kid-related thing.
32:20
SPEAKER_01: And you know you I know you're gonna agree with me on this.
32:23
SPEAKER_01: I I I clearly haven't agreed with you on anything you've said so far.
32:25
SPEAKER_02: Yes, you have.
32:26
SPEAKER_01: Shut up.
32:26
SPEAKER_02: There's been like out of the 20 things, there's been like three things.
32:29
SPEAKER_01: Okay, so when you're doing laundry and when your kids take out, like, you know, put their clothes, like their pants in the laundry and it's inside out with the underwear in it.
32:40
SPEAKER_02: My kids haven't done that in a really long time.
32:43
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I mean, I've had to scream a few times because it's really annoying.
32:46
SPEAKER_02: So my older son does his own laundry.
32:48
SPEAKER_02: Okay.
32:49
SPEAKER_02: He's alhamdulillah.
32:50
SPEAKER_02: Don't you don't?
32:52
SPEAKER_01: Mashallah, mashallah.
32:53
SPEAKER_02: Uh, and my younger son is like, it helps with the laundry, so yeah, we don't really have this problem.
33:00
SPEAKER_02: So they don't were like three.
33:02
SPEAKER_02: Not now.
33:03
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, and she's trying to tell me she's a better mother, but better mother.
33:05
SPEAKER_01: I didn't say that.
33:06
SPEAKER_01: I'm just saying I got rules.
33:07
SPEAKER_01: This one doesn't.
33:08
SPEAKER_02: I have rules.
33:10
SPEAKER_02: No, no, she does not.
33:11
SPEAKER_02: I have rules.
33:12
SPEAKER_02: I have rules.
33:13
SPEAKER_01: You have rules in your mind, and according to things that are bothering you about society.
33:18
SPEAKER_01: I have rules, goddammit.
33:20
SPEAKER_02: Um we'll just let her think she has rules.
33:23
SPEAKER_01: Not picking up after your dog.
33:25
SPEAKER_02: That's half doubt.
33:27
SPEAKER_02: That's just again, that's really one, it's disgusting.
33:30
SPEAKER_02: Two, it's inconsiderate.
33:31
SPEAKER_02: Yes.
33:32
SPEAKER_02: Three, like you're dealing, like somebody's gonna walk in it.
33:35
SPEAKER_02: Like, why do that?
33:35
SPEAKER_02: If you're gonna have a pet, be a responsible pet owner.
33:38
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
33:39
SPEAKER_02: That's it.
33:40
SPEAKER_01: The obsession with Stanley cups.
33:42
SPEAKER_02: I have one.
33:43
SPEAKER_02: I got one.
33:44
SPEAKER_02: I just did that just to say that.
33:46
SPEAKER_01: I have one.
33:46
SPEAKER_02: I got one as a gift.
33:47
SPEAKER_02: My sister made it for me.
33:48
SPEAKER_02: It was really cute.
33:48
SPEAKER_02: She like personalized it and everything.
33:50
SPEAKER_02: It's too big.
33:51
SPEAKER_02: Actually, can I can I say that ever since I got that Stanley cup, I've been drinking a lot more water.
33:55
SPEAKER_02: It's I I'm not gonna kill it.
33:57
SPEAKER_02: I don't know why, but I think it's just because it's full of water and it's next to me.
34:00
SPEAKER_02: But I'm a much bigger fan of I mean, I like again, I would have never bought it for myself.
34:06
SPEAKER_02: My sister's the one who got it for me.
34:08
SPEAKER_01: Okay.
34:08
SPEAKER_02: Um not because I'm pro or against, it's just I don't really buy water bottles.
34:12
SPEAKER_01: It's why I just wanted to hate on you for that.
34:14
SPEAKER_02: It's not like it's not even hate and like, do you know how many people out there are gonna be like, but I love my St.
34:18
SPEAKER_02: Lee Cup.
34:19
SPEAKER_01: Unlike Lena, who's like, I hate people and society.
34:23
SPEAKER_02: I mean, listen, I prefer animals over people in it, thank you guys for joining us for this episode of Lena Is Unhinged.
34:30
SPEAKER_02: That's gonna be the title.
34:31
SPEAKER_02: No, it's not.
34:31
SPEAKER_02: Shut up, please.
34:33
SPEAKER_01: No, no, listen, that's a short.
34:34
SPEAKER_01: Lina hates everyone.
34:35
SPEAKER_01: Listen, I don't hate everyone.
34:36
SPEAKER_01: I love all of you guys that are watching and listen to us and subscribe to all of our.
34:39
SPEAKER_01: But if you're outside of the group, she definitely hates you.
34:41
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I don't give a shit about you.
34:42
SPEAKER_01: Exactly.
34:43
SPEAKER_02: That's exactly what I'm saying.
34:44
SPEAKER_02: Anyways, before you dig yourself deeper, I am fine.
34:48
SPEAKER_01: I don't do the whole of I have girls and I hate everybody.
34:51
SPEAKER_01: I am fully committed to my way of life, okay, and my thoughts and my opinions.
34:56
SPEAKER_01: I am so happy.
34:57
SPEAKER_01: Okay, and that's why I like to let you do you.
35:00
SPEAKER_01: No, no, no.
35:01
SPEAKER_01: Unlike you, who cannot let anyone do anything without hating them.
35:06
SPEAKER_01: That's not true.
35:07
SPEAKER_01: I'm just saying, people listen in the comment section, wherever we may put this, whether it's on YouTube, TikTok, or Instagram, let me know if I'm the only one.
35:16
SPEAKER_02: I know these things, from now on, when I say Lena and uh anywhere, I'm gonna be like, boop, boop, you're gonna mediate.
35:22
SPEAKER_02: What's the use self-checkout?
35:24
SPEAKER_01: I didn't say it was like a major concern of mine.
35:28
SPEAKER_01: I said it just annoys me sometimes.
35:31
SPEAKER_01: No, I just don't want to deal with it.
35:34
SPEAKER_01: Because you know why?
35:35
SPEAKER_01: No, no, no.
35:36
SPEAKER_01: In my defense, and not to keep going on, but like in my defense, I'm usually there for like one item or two.
35:40
SPEAKER_01: I'm just like, the chalice.
35:42
SPEAKER_01: Like, I why why if you want to finish quickly, you go through some technical, I guess.
35:46
SPEAKER_02: Anyways, we could talk about this forever.
35:48
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35:50
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35:51
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35:53
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35:56
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35:58
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35:59
SPEAKER_01: Yes, thank you.