Latest / Rabbi Benjy's Shiur / Midrash Raba Vayechi 4
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- 0:00Parachute by heat. Madrid's Rabba shit #4 by heat
- 0:03Crawley Vinola yourself. He called for his son yourself
- 0:07and said please don't bury me in Egypt.
- 0:08Madrid asked an obvious question.
- 0:10Lama la Karelola, Rouven Veloliyuda.
- 0:12Why didn't he call for Rouven Oyuda?
- 0:16Rouven Rouven was the first born and Yuda was the king.
- 0:21Then he left them, called for yourself, and he would commit.
- 0:27The Madrid wants to know why? Three different answers.
- 0:31Answer #1 because Yosef had the wherewithal to do what Yaakov
- 0:35requested. Therefore, he called for his son
- 0:38Yosef. Well, if he Shah Masur Allah,
- 0:42because the hour of success was shining on Yosef.
- 0:46He was doing great at the time. So he would be able to literally
- 0:49move mountains if that's what was necessary.
- 0:53And finally, don't bury me in Egypt where he intimates to
- 0:58yourself, Bishvarati limits drive.
- 1:00I came down to Egypt for your sake and Bishvarati for your
- 1:07sake. I said, now I can die.
- 1:08Let's explore these 3 fascinating perspectives.
- 1:14So let's think a little bit what Yaakov was scared about.
- 1:17So it seems very obvious that Yaakov was scared that his body
- 1:20would become something of an an object to worship.
- 1:25And he is the great patriarch of the family who produced such
- 1:30distinguished, incredible characters.
- 1:33And he didn't want them to be an act of his body, to be an act of
- 1:37something to be worshipped. Or Asaph could object to
- 1:40Yaakov's burial in The Cave of Machpelah.
- 1:43In the space for me, not for you and only yourself had the
- 1:48political authority and the military forces to get through
- 1:53any barriers that might have been erected to prevent Yaakov
- 1:57being buried in the Land of Israel again.
- 2:01We see in the midrash how the Midrash breaks down political
- 2:07concerns, powered struggles, and also that internal psychological
- 2:14relationships that are happening and the love for a father to his
- 2:17son. My love for you, says Yaakov,
- 2:19was so great. After seeing your face after all
- 2:22these years, now I can say I'm Utah APA and now I can die.
- 2:25Mean that now that I've merited to see you, I'm no longer afraid
- 2:30of dying and can die in peace. It's thus proper for you to
- 2:34return my love and fulfill my request.
- 2:38So really what's going on in the story is a multi layered request
- 2:42dealing with practical political concerns and deep family love.
- 2:47And what does he say? Vasita Emadi has said VMAT do
- 2:50kindness and truth with me, says the Madras.
- 2:53He has said Shaka. What type of kindness is there?
- 2:56That's false. But Yaakov has to say I said
- 3:00there and met kindness and truth.
- 3:05So the matter answers Michelle as a as a common proverb
- 3:10proverb. A simple proverb says if your
- 3:13good friend's son dies, bear the sorrow and pain along with him.
- 3:19But if the friend dies, throw off all sorrow.
- 3:24Let's think about that for a moment.
- 3:26So what's the first part? Mitt Beret, Diraca, Marton.
- 3:29If your good friend son dies, bear the sorrow along with him,
- 3:33say the commentators. Join with your friend in
- 3:36lamenting and eulogizing his son, for he may then reciprocate
- 3:40should you predecease him. But if the friend dies, then
- 3:46forget about it because he can't help you back, says Yaakov to
- 3:51yourself. If you do this kindness for me
- 3:53after my death, not to bury me in Egypt, but rather to take me
- 3:57to the land of Israel, who has said shall emet?
- 4:01It will be a kindness of truth and unadulterated kindness.
- 4:07Because we all know that when you do someone a favour
- 4:09somewhere deep in our, in our darkest parts of our conscious
- 4:12mind and subconscious, maybe we're thinking, I did this for
- 4:16you. Someday you're going to do
- 4:18something for me. And therefore it ruins the ACT
- 4:23from an act of hesed shal and that to an hesed shal Shaker
- 4:27because you're building or putting in a bank account a
- 4:29debt. That's why it's so awkward to
- 4:31have favours done at times 'cause we know we are accruing a
- 4:34debt to somebody. But Akasho Emmett is totally
- 4:37pure, where you don't expect anything back ever.
- 4:41And scholars have noted in the word Emmet when it comes to
- 4:44death, especially a kindness of truth.
- 4:46The three letters, the olive stands through the Aron, the
- 4:48coffin, the mem for Mita, the the stretcher that you put the
- 4:53body, the body on, and Takrikan are the shrouds.
- 4:56This is an opportunity to do an act of kindness where they'll
- 4:59never be a reward back. Take care, have a fantastic day.