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- 0:00Speaker 1: What do you say on a date to reveal that
- 0:02Speaker 1: a man is a provider. Once you know a man
- 0:05Speaker 1: has what he claims he has, how do you ingratiate
- 0:08Speaker 1: yourself so he continues to date you during the dating stage.
- 0:12Speaker 1: How do you begin to get things from this man
- 0:15Speaker 1: that prove that he isn't cheap or stingy with his money.
- 0:18Speaker 1: I want you to follow this vetting script so you
- 0:21Speaker 1: not only unlock who this man is after one date,
- 0:24Speaker 1: but you also showcase that you're not just different but special.
- 0:28Speaker 1: By the end of the night, when he's sitting in
- 0:30Speaker 1: bed with a hard dick, he's not thinking about the
- 0:33Speaker 1: other girls in his phone. He's thinking about you.
- 0:41Speaker 2: Once again, It's time you've read the books Single o
- 0:46Speaker 2: Jactics and Men Don't Love Women like you. Now listen
- 0:50Speaker 2: to the only podcast that gives you a cruly, honest
- 0:53Speaker 2: breakdown of dating in relationships.
- 0:55Speaker 3: This is g L.
- 0:57Speaker 4: Lambert explains it all.
- 0:58Speaker 5: Hey, it's your girl, Kyla Scriiverers know I love me
- 1:01Speaker 5: some gl and he has something new on deck, So yeah,
- 1:03Speaker 5: let's talk about it. Real men don't split bills. How
- 1:06Speaker 5: to date a provider not a project just because you
- 1:11Speaker 5: have your own money and you're independent. Doesn't mean a
- 1:15Speaker 5: guy shouldn't spoil you with princess treatment. Do you really
- 1:18Speaker 5: think modern dating is magic, that some guy will just
- 1:22Speaker 5: slide in your DMS or bump into you on the
- 1:24Speaker 5: street and whisk you away to his mansion. Stop being slow.
- 1:28Speaker 5: Dating takes strategy. You can meet men seven days of
- 1:31Speaker 5: the week, but if you don't know what to say
- 1:32Speaker 5: to stand out and how the male mind thinks, you're
- 1:34Speaker 5: going to end up single or dealing with toxic timmy
- 1:36Speaker 5: who just wants to traumatize you. I've told gl for
- 1:39Speaker 5: years that he needed to do a course because a
- 1:41Speaker 5: lot of women need this information slowed down, and here
- 1:46Speaker 5: we are. This is the wisdom that will take you
- 1:48Speaker 5: from confused to confident in only five weeks. Stop wasting
- 1:54Speaker 5: time on hinge, stop waiting for guys to fall into
- 1:56Speaker 5: your lap, and stop going back to your toxic x's
- 1:59Speaker 5: who you will just waste your time. This course includes
- 2:05Speaker 5: dating scripts, ways to meet men online and offline, the
- 2:09Speaker 5: proper way to get spoiled without coming off as desperate,
- 2:12Speaker 5: and most importantly, how to sidestep men who just want
- 2:16Speaker 5: to sleep with you. Oh, you don't need more clothes?
- 2:19Speaker 5: You don't need more makeup, You don't need to pay
- 2:21Speaker 5: some matchmaker. Invest your money and time in something that
- 2:27Speaker 5: will actually change your life. The big thing about me
- 2:32Speaker 5: is that I'm stubborn to a degree. But I will
- 2:34Speaker 5: shut up and I will listen when someone is speaking
- 2:37Speaker 5: truth through their words. So just let me give you
- 2:39Speaker 5: a taste when gl Lambert said that when a man
- 2:42Speaker 5: says he's not looking for anything, he's leaving off the
- 2:44Speaker 5: words with you, as in, he does want something real.
- 2:51Speaker 5: You just aren't it, sweetie? That right there? Snatch my soul,
- 2:54Speaker 5: you guys. The problem with modern dating is that everyone lies.
- 2:58Speaker 5: Men want to be impressive, women want to s seem
- 3:00Speaker 5: cool and unbothered. But GLL says f that these guys
- 3:05Speaker 5: want sex and these ladies want love, and he wants
- 3:08Speaker 5: to seem like he can give her security, so he
- 3:11Speaker 5: pretends to have all these great things going on and
- 3:13Speaker 5: then talks about how his ex was crazy and that's
- 3:18Speaker 5: the only reason he's single or on a dating app. Meanwhile,
- 3:21Speaker 5: women don't want to come off as crazy or like
- 3:24Speaker 5: the type of basica that overthinks and is ring chasing,
- 3:28Speaker 5: so they pretend to not want anything serious. Y'all, this
- 3:33Speaker 5: gathered me because guys look good, have a great job,
- 3:36Speaker 5: and you're like, he's perfect and his ex was just
- 3:38Speaker 5: the one who fumbled. No, my girls, he's lying. Gl
- 3:42Speaker 5: goes on to say, But when men front like they're
- 3:44Speaker 5: all put together and ready for a relationship, and a
- 3:46Speaker 5: woman fronts like she is just after vibes and not
- 3:50Speaker 5: worried about anything serious, it leads to two liars connecting
- 3:54Speaker 5: over false statements. Do you guys hear him? Do you
- 3:57Speaker 5: understand how truthful that short start? Mister Lambert goes on
- 4:01Speaker 5: to lay out this, Women who aren't afraid to be
- 4:04Speaker 5: mysterious and let a man open up first, remain in power.
- 4:08Speaker 5: If a man can't read you, then he can't gas
- 4:10Speaker 5: you with an act. Yes, guys will still wear a mask,
- 4:15Speaker 5: but it will be much easier to turn the tables
- 4:18Speaker 5: and test him on a date if you're not trying
- 4:20Speaker 5: to be cool and instead being a spartan who breaks
- 4:22Speaker 5: a man down with traps. This is what I'm talking about, you, guys.
- 4:26Speaker 5: This is the game you all need, he continues. For
- 4:29Speaker 5: a woman to win at dating, she has to position
- 4:32Speaker 5: herself as the prize. And if you want to do
- 4:34Speaker 5: this fast, everything you say on a date or even
- 4:37Speaker 5: when texting, has to come off with sexual energy first
- 4:40Speaker 5: to bait a man into wanting to see you quickly.
- 4:43Speaker 5: The more thirsty you make a man, the more he
- 4:45Speaker 5: forgets to keep up his lies. And at that moment,
- 4:48Speaker 5: with the right dating strategy and script, you can push
- 4:51Speaker 5: his buttons and make him your lap dog. This is
- 4:57Speaker 5: why I have far from basic dot com bookmark on
- 5:00Speaker 5: my phone. I recommend all of you go to his
- 5:02Speaker 5: website right now and get right. I've read men don't
- 5:05Speaker 5: love women like you. I've read Hoe tactics like five times.
- 5:09Speaker 5: If you want to improve your dating life overnight, this
- 5:12Speaker 5: is the way, Like for real, Real men don't split
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- 5:21Speaker 1: The name of the game is to fall in love
- 5:23Speaker 1: with someone who not only respects you, but who has
- 5:26Speaker 1: the financial health to ensure that you are always taken
- 5:29Speaker 1: care of no matter what. That's what you call a husband,
- 5:33Speaker 1: That's who your future kids should want to call daddy,
- 5:35Speaker 1: and that's the person you pour your love into. The
- 5:39Speaker 1: days of dating broke Brandon with potential but nothing to
- 5:42Speaker 1: show for it are over. You're getting too old to
- 5:45Speaker 1: be having sex, falling in love, or committing years to
- 5:49Speaker 1: men who can't provide anything other than conversation. You don't
- 5:54Speaker 1: need a little boy to split bills with. You need
- 5:56Speaker 1: a grown ass man who will show you, not tell you,
- 5:59Speaker 1: how how special you are by making sure you never
- 6:02Speaker 1: want for anything. Welcome to the first step in the
- 6:05Speaker 1: blueprint that will change your life. Introduction hypergamy? What does
- 6:11Speaker 1: it really mean? And why do you see it blasted
- 6:14Speaker 1: across social media by salty men and opportunistic dating coaches.
- 6:18Speaker 1: Hypergamy is a social science term referring to women who
- 6:22Speaker 1: marry or mate upward when the red pill bros complain
- 6:26Speaker 1: about my book Poe tactics or crash out over women
- 6:30Speaker 1: dating multiple men, or how they aren't loyal due to
- 6:33Speaker 1: their intrinsic hypergamy nature. It's based on this fear in
- 6:37Speaker 1: a world where the most desired women will always trade
- 6:41Speaker 1: up for alphas, the average male who isn't successful or
- 6:45Speaker 1: dynamic will be forced to settle for pick mees and
- 6:48Speaker 1: basic bitches. True hypergamy isn't about gold digging, being a
- 6:53Speaker 1: sugar baby, or transactional dating. It's about value. How much
- 6:59Speaker 1: do you love yourself? The answer should be gl I
- 7:03Speaker 1: love myself to the point where I will always put
- 7:06Speaker 1: myself first and center everything around my success. If you
- 7:10Speaker 1: truly believe that you are the main character, then social
- 7:14Speaker 1: climbing isn't a bad thing. Dating up based on who
- 7:17Speaker 1: can improve your life versus dating based on vibes is
- 7:21Speaker 1: mandatory because you can't afford to be dragged down into
- 7:24Speaker 1: a struggle life in the name of love. Generational wealth
- 7:28Speaker 1: isn't built from picking from the rejects. It's built from
- 7:31Speaker 1: partnering with a winner. You don't date down, you don't
- 7:34Speaker 1: break even, you date up, or what's the fucking point?
- 7:38Speaker 1: Every woman should fully embrace true hypergamy to secure the
- 7:42Speaker 1: best mate possible. The reason that sounds wrong is because
- 7:47Speaker 1: you've been brainwashed to be a ride or die, to
- 7:50Speaker 1: be unconditionally loyal, and to put other people's wants before
- 7:54Speaker 1: your own. Men don't want you to have a roster.
- 7:57Speaker 1: Therefore you internalize day multiple men as poe behavior. Many
- 8:03Speaker 1: of you spend half your time texting with a guy
- 8:06Speaker 1: about how he's the only one you're dating, and this
- 8:08Speaker 1: is done for a reason. Males want to condition you
- 8:11Speaker 1: to date one at a time because they're cognizant of
- 8:14Speaker 1: the fact that they aren't the best you can do.
- 8:17Speaker 1: Modern men are soft and emotional, but they have a
- 8:20Speaker 1: superpower known as community, where they share stories about women,
- 8:25Speaker 1: give tips on message boards, and come up with a
- 8:28Speaker 1: misogynistic strategy to mind fuck women into choosing love over provision.
- 8:33Speaker 1: Why can so many women relate to some tea time
- 8:36Speaker 1: social media story of girl he did the same thing
- 8:40Speaker 1: to me. Because males are using the same script to
- 8:43Speaker 1: attack your insecurities in order to keep you from dating up.
- 8:47Speaker 1: I had an associate who once played basketball overseas. He
- 8:51Speaker 1: had three women in the US who refuse to date
- 8:54Speaker 1: other men because he spent his free time gaslighting them
- 8:57Speaker 1: about being loyal to building no relationship, nothing official. He
- 9:03Speaker 1: never even sent these dummies flowers or fancy foreign chocolates.
- 9:07Speaker 1: He had them on a string because he knew he
- 9:09Speaker 1: looked like their fantasy husband, had money in the bank,
- 9:13Speaker 1: and he was often bored and had time to brainwash them.
- 9:16Speaker 1: This is what you need to understand from a psychological standpoint.
- 9:21Speaker 1: Men brainwash you only to chase women who do the
- 9:25Speaker 1: opposite of what they say they want. Why because males
- 9:29Speaker 1: don't want to compete, but their dicks get hard when
- 9:33Speaker 1: a girl makes them chase. If anything over the next
- 9:37Speaker 1: five weeks is going to stick, you must understand the
- 9:41Speaker 1: male brain. It's a walking contradiction that you can't be
- 9:45Speaker 1: afraid to challenge because men, especially those with wealth, don't
- 9:50Speaker 1: respect easy pussy. Hypergamy works because it's your natural setting.
- 9:56Speaker 1: To mate with the top dog in the pack. Is
- 9:58Speaker 1: how your bloodline will not only survive, but also thrive.
- 10:03Speaker 1: Strip away the disney conditioning and the pick me propaganda.
- 10:08Speaker 1: You know that you deserve to have the best life
- 10:10Speaker 1: possible with a partner who doesn't just match you, but
- 10:12Speaker 1: can blow you away with what they can provide emotional intelligence,
- 10:17Speaker 1: financial security, and sexual satisfaction. All this abundance, and you're
- 10:22Speaker 1: going to manifest a future living paycheck to paycheck with
- 10:25Speaker 1: Limp dick Levon. If you're truly highly favored, then why
- 10:29Speaker 1: would you settle for a fixer upper when you can
- 10:31Speaker 1: get the house on the hill. Stop thinking small, Stop
- 10:35Speaker 1: playing nice. Stop letting these little men with their angry,
- 10:39Speaker 1: misogynistic views keep you believing that you'll be rewarded later
- 10:43Speaker 1: if you settle for less now. If the main lie
- 10:47Speaker 1: is you shouldn't want for more than the secondary lie
- 10:51Speaker 1: is more doesn't exist, Ladies, men with money exist. This
- 10:55Speaker 1: scarcity mindset that it's a recession, it's inflation, or god today,
- 11:00Speaker 1: don't spend without sex is more bullshit. You know it
- 11:06Speaker 1: exists because you see it every single day. Jeff Bezos
- 11:12Speaker 1: isn't the only wealthy man getting married. Every single day
- 11:15Speaker 1: a woman plays the social climbing game and wins, be
- 11:18Speaker 1: it online or outside the universe, will throw a couple
- 11:22Speaker 1: in your face, who are really living your dream life?
- 11:25Speaker 1: When you see these women with high value men, how
- 11:29Speaker 1: does that make you feel? To know that the lie
- 11:31Speaker 1: of men like that don't exist is a self induced
- 11:35Speaker 1: delusion is unsettling. It makes you uncomfortable deep down because
- 11:41Speaker 1: you see what you can have and you get in
- 11:43Speaker 1: a mood because you know you're not living in your truth.
- 11:47Speaker 1: Happiness is being on top, not living on the brink
- 11:52Speaker 1: of the bottom with a man who can't or won't
- 11:55Speaker 1: do shit for you. The vast majority of men hate
- 11:58Speaker 1: everything I just lay out because hypergamy ruins their chances
- 12:02Speaker 1: at manipulating women. That broke personal trainer, that con artist
- 12:07Speaker 1: Barber and all the other lovable losers can't mind fuck
- 12:11Speaker 1: you into thinking their red flags are green. If your
- 12:13Speaker 1: mind is wired to always look for the best option,
- 12:17Speaker 1: Mediocre men win when desperate women finally respond to a DM,
- 12:22Speaker 1: finally agree to a date after months of begging, or
- 12:25Speaker 1: basically say I'm tired of not having anyone. Desperate women
- 12:31Speaker 1: will always date down, and that's the hustle that low
- 12:34Speaker 1: vibrational men feast on, because once they lock you in,
- 12:38Speaker 1: then they have the power to date up because you
- 12:40Speaker 1: raise their stock. He was barely able to get you,
- 12:44Speaker 1: now he has the confidence to go after some new girl.
- 12:49Speaker 1: Think about that you dated down out of loneliness, only
- 12:53Speaker 1: to get fucked in the end by someone you barely
- 12:55Speaker 1: even wanted. That doesn't mean that's a life lesson that
- 12:59Speaker 1: will always happen when you go against your true nature
- 13:03Speaker 1: of abundance and settle for convenience. If you were in
- 13:09Speaker 1: the shoes of an average Joe, mail not much money, okay,
- 13:13Speaker 1: looks a remedial job, maybe some side hustle that he
- 13:17Speaker 1: does to prove he's trying. How would you feel about
- 13:20Speaker 1: a culture that promotes women only dating men who make
- 13:24Speaker 1: six figures. If you were average Joe, you'd be calling
- 13:28Speaker 1: that Poe shit, because your livelihood as a man, meaning
- 13:32Speaker 1: who you're able to court, sleep with, marry, and produce
- 13:35Speaker 1: children with, is tied to your bank account. Not being
- 13:39Speaker 1: able to provide doesn't make him a bad man, nor
- 13:42Speaker 1: is it something to use as a weapon to hurt
- 13:44Speaker 1: his feelings. But let's look at life not as a
- 13:47Speaker 1: kindergarten class filled with morals and pleasantries, and let's look
- 13:51Speaker 1: at the shit. Logically, an able bodied man who fails
- 13:55Speaker 1: to advance in life and is now merely getting by
- 13:58Speaker 1: is undesirable in the wolf pack. That kind of male
- 14:02Speaker 1: would not be looked to for leadership. To break it
- 14:05Speaker 1: down in terms of Charles Darwin, he is not fit
- 14:09Speaker 1: to survive because in a world of hyperinflation, political unrest,
- 14:15Speaker 1: and global power shifts, he will never have the power, wealth,
- 14:19Speaker 1: or influence necessary to survive. He's a welfare man who
- 14:24Speaker 1: would need help. In ancient Rome, he wouldn't be strong
- 14:28Speaker 1: enough to fight or smart enough to build power. In
- 14:31Speaker 1: the modern world, these welfare men can play call of
- 14:34Speaker 1: duty all day, date multiple women they meet on hinge,
- 14:37Speaker 1: and get by with splitting rent with three roommates. Because
- 14:41Speaker 1: even though he's not desirable on a true level, he
- 14:44Speaker 1: can have success with low maintenance women who just want
- 14:47Speaker 1: a man to love and don't care if she has
- 14:50Speaker 1: to carry his load. That's no shade to average Joe.
- 14:54Speaker 1: But I want to be brutally honest about why men
- 14:56Speaker 1: online hate the core hypergamy philosophy of a woman choosing
- 15:00Speaker 1: to couple up with the top ten percent of males
- 15:03Speaker 1: because ninety percent of men are only good enough for
- 15:06Speaker 1: women who choose to settle the moment, more and more
- 15:09Speaker 1: women feel they can do better than the welfare man.
- 15:13Speaker 1: He can no longer have power in the one arena
- 15:16Speaker 1: where even the lowest of men rule the dating game.
- 15:20Speaker 1: So in order to survive, in order to still be
- 15:24Speaker 1: able to sleep with women who are above him, it's
- 15:26Speaker 1: a must that low vibrational men rage against women who
- 15:31Speaker 1: dare to want more and make her feel guilty about
- 15:34Speaker 1: not wanting his struggle love. Do you understand this manipulation?
- 15:38Speaker 1: The result of wanting to conform to the patriarchy and
- 15:41Speaker 1: date for love, not upward mobility, is that you become
- 15:45Speaker 1: a pick me, meaning that your brain twists to the
- 15:49Speaker 1: point where you believe that men are the prize and
- 15:52Speaker 1: that regardless of what he has or doesn't have you
- 15:56Speaker 1: are willing to shower him with love for nothing in exchange.
- 16:01Speaker 1: In ratchet terms, being a pick me will get you fucked.
- 16:05Speaker 1: But nine out of ten times that man you agree
- 16:09Speaker 1: with only sees you as a placeholder and will upgrade
- 16:12Speaker 1: to something less agreeable the minute he can become what
- 16:14Speaker 1: she's looking for. I lay this foundation to ask the
- 16:18Speaker 1: first crucial question of this lecture. Are you loyal to
- 16:21Speaker 1: the idea of love? Or are you loyal to your
- 16:24Speaker 1: future self and all that she wants. I won't get
- 16:28Speaker 1: too far into the spiritual sandbox, but let's unpack what
- 16:32Speaker 1: this world truly is for a moment. You are God
- 16:36Speaker 1: in the flesh. To go against all signs and fight
- 16:40Speaker 1: change due to fear causes a butterfly effect where this
- 16:44Speaker 1: world goes from abundance to burden. Your universe is telling
- 16:48Speaker 1: you that the room you're in is no longer beneficial.
- 16:51Speaker 1: Another door opens up. Instead of walking through that other door,
- 16:56Speaker 1: your faith in the universe, in yourself, in your power waivers.
- 17:01Speaker 1: You remain in the room because of what if, because
- 17:04Speaker 1: of doubt, because of warnings from low vibrational people who
- 17:08Speaker 1: never take risks. Because you stayed in that room and
- 17:11Speaker 1: disobeyed your instincts. The universe has to make you uncomfortable.
- 17:15Speaker 1: It shakes, it rattles, and it roars, meaning that the
- 17:20Speaker 1: relationship that you're holding onto becomes ugly, maybe abusive, may
- 17:25Speaker 1: be filled with infidelity, anything to make you see that
- 17:28Speaker 1: you should have left and can still leave. With that
- 17:32Speaker 1: analogy in your mind, think about the karma of bad relationships.
- 17:36Speaker 1: People will look back and say, the signs were there
- 17:39Speaker 1: that I should have left, but I didn't. You didn't leave.
- 17:43Speaker 1: You went against the flow of the universe, and you
- 17:46Speaker 1: created negative karma in the form of that situation escalating negatively.
- 17:52Speaker 1: That's how the world works. You don't have to believe me,
- 17:56Speaker 1: but you will believe your eyes when you see it
- 17:58Speaker 1: happened to you in real time every time you go
- 18:01Speaker 1: against your gut, your intuition, and the clear signs that
- 18:05Speaker 1: you're being shown. Hypergamy is the natural state of alpha females,
- 18:10Speaker 1: meaning women who are connected to their true self, their godmind,
- 18:14Speaker 1: and can read the vibrations of the universe. These kinds
- 18:18Speaker 1: of women, whom I label spartans, don't feel regret for
- 18:21Speaker 1: leaving that room the moment a better opportunity presents itself.
- 18:24Speaker 1: You're not a spartan. You're on the path to settling
- 18:28Speaker 1: for what you can get. Why because inside of you
- 18:32Speaker 1: isn't a warrior, and it damn sure isn't a woman
- 18:35Speaker 1: who understands that she is the main character. You've made
- 18:38Speaker 1: yourself small, You've made yourself play by the rules. And
- 18:43Speaker 1: how will you be rewarded for that? With a life
- 18:46Speaker 1: where you know I could have done better? Why did
- 18:50Speaker 1: I hold myself back? Be selfish? It's not wrong. It's
- 18:55Speaker 1: a fucking superpower. Section four where to meet men with
- 18:59Speaker 1: money and how to get dates. To attract providers, you
- 19:03Speaker 1: must present yourself as a woman who deserves to be spoiled,
- 19:07Speaker 1: meaning a man must see you as a trophy. What
- 19:11Speaker 1: makes a man see a woman in this light?
- 19:14Speaker 5: Okay, let's stop at this section. If you want to
- 19:17Speaker 5: listen to the rest and watch all five weeks of
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- 19:56Speaker 1: This same name. Don't be shat.
- 20:00Speaker 3: I'll show it all only fan style, but promise me uncle,
- 20:06Speaker 3: kiss and tell, and I do what I do, I
- 20:09Speaker 3: do it really well.
- 20:11Speaker 4: I'll be a private freak.
- 20:13Speaker 3: You will love slave. Put your whole face in this.
- 20:17Speaker 3: I'll even scream your name.
- 20:18Speaker 5: I won't play hard to get.
- 20:20Speaker 3: It'll come easy, but you gotta promise.
- 20:26Speaker 4: Keep key way in the sheets. Don't sound no about it.
- 20:32Speaker 5: Don't sound about it.
- 20:34Speaker 4: She be key way in the sheets. Don't sound no
- 20:38Speaker 4: about it. Don't sound no about it. She been key
- 20:43Speaker 4: way in the sheets. Don't sound no about it. Don't
- 20:47Speaker 4: sound no about it. She been o key way in
- 20:52Speaker 4: the sheets. Don't sound no about it. Don't sound I
- 20:55Speaker 4: about it.
- 20:56Speaker 3: Tell me fantasies like a ludle crap, like escape.
- 21:02Speaker 4: You're my little secret.
- 21:04Speaker 3: Tennessee whiskey, strawberry wine. What goes downstairs between you and Holly?
- 21:12Speaker 1: A private free