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Rabbi Moshe Haber Perashat Vayikra The Original Man: Cultivating a Genuine Service to God 3.20.26 · Rabbi Moshe Haber - Daily Mussar/Weekly Perasha

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  Certain theme that I want to pull out there.
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  He is a certain theme that is I think it should be significant
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  today and somewhat hard to apply and that is as follows.
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  First of all, the Pran Shah opens up the book of Aikra,
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  which is the book of Corbarnot. Corbarnot all practices
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  happening in the Michigan which is serving sacrifices countless
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  10's and hundreds and thousands of sacrifices.
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  Part 1 all representing different things the Jewish
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  people as a whole, each individual for sins as gifts, as
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  thank yous, ultimate forms of sacrifices and there are
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  sacrifices for even appropriate thoughts.
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  A sacrifice And there are sacrifices as we have the animal
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  flower, animal, bird flower sacrifice many different
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  options, all different things on the mend.
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  That's our Mishkan that's opera show how we get started how much
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  of the fire shot talks about these topics but has it open up
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  First of all opens up with the classic little olive we spoke
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  about tonight, but you can't speak some what should have been
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  talks to him from the oil and what's the little olive that you
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  could could really be rid of a car without the olive.
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  So the rabbi's dollars balance and he says that we should have
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  been and his humility did not want it Olive in the pasuk.
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  Why? Because you read without that
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  letter and the pasuk reads Hashem just hair care appear to
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  Moshe not a prepared prophecy, not a special prophecy hair
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  care. Moshe wanted it to seem like his
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  prophecy is not impressive. He wanted to seem like
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  unassuming and not a big deal. My level of prophecy is no
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  better than belobs. All right, That's what he
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  wanted. How we doing Joe?
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  No. OK looks like you might got the
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  doctor walks in. I'm sorry John.
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  There's no idea John. OK so anyhow So what should I
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  want there? No.
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  So because of that we don't want that olive to be taken off
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  Because of that he he Sherman says no, you have to put olive.
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  It's really if I cry did appear to you I didn't buy you.
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  It's not a sketch prophecy. It's out of the line level
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  prophecy. It's a real 1.
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  So motion instead has the compromise smalls.
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  So you look at it plainly. You see why you can't like put
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  up not the great prophecy. They look at it deeply.
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  You realize it's a full process. So now this is display of great
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  humility. Unbelievable motion ever.
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  I think there's an important theme there as well.
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  And then what should have been a realizes and this is something
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  you get to get used to. Don't stick it to the people,
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  which means he's getting in a certain sense when it comes to
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  power and it comes to cover it when it comes to prestige.
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  Everything's going his way. Everything.
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  He's the leader, he's the prophet.
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  He's the mud person of Cali spinning the sea Matata.
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  It set your attention. May we try to lay low a drop.
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  In fact, this prophecy, many of the prophecies went to him and
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  are on, but these are not. It was only him.
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  How significant was the prophecy?
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  But Susan, Oh my, Hashem sent the prophecy down with a booming
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  voice, but only most you have on earth, which means you have to
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  strong direct relationship with God where God could send in a
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  booming voice and only you hear. And again, don't stick it to the
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  people, don't stick it to auto. And I think this is unbelievably
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  fundamental, important concept, which is not simply A cause of
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  humility. Like we've been talking last
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  couple of days. It's good business.
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  And that is people like people are naturally inclined to like
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  fathers to be impressed by them. You feel good, others impressed.
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  Here's the plain reality. Or they are impressed, they're
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  also jealous. It's that simple.
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  And when they're not impressed, they're not jealous.
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  I you know you can't avoid jealousy at all 'cause you
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  can't. But there are many, many ways
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  that you can talk in a way that spills into jealousy and you can
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  talk in a way that doesn't. It's your choice.
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  I'm more sure everyone was smart enough to realize there's no
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  purpose in this. What am I gaming?
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  Well, how does it help me that everyone's impressed by me?
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  They're personally anyhow, I know what I'm doing anyhow.
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  Why stick to that? I think that's a theme that you
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  can put. That's not simple humility,
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  That's small business. Sticking it to other people with
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  what you have, what's going on, what were you doing or what just
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  happened yesterday, All the different things.
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  All you know is then the conversation that's they're
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  saying to themselves, how come it's not true by me?
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  How come it's by him or not by me?
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  No purpose for that. All right, That's just a theme.
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  Cytic by pressure. Now Hashem says these words,
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  Adam. This is the second thing I want
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  to analyze. It's very important.
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  Adam Kiyaki McCain, korban lasha.
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  When Adam, when a person bases korban.
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  So he now says, why use the word Adam?
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  Why don't use the word ish? Why don't use the word some
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  other word? Adam is not a classic word.
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  What does Adam referred to on the ground?
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  Oh, that's Adam, Adam off on the ground.
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  And that's a reference to the first man, Adam, Adam.
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  Now, where in the world does Adam Adam have anything to do
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  with the Torah's guidance regarding sacrificing and
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  serving Adam? Where does it come in?
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  Somebody she uses right away. Adam.
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  Everything that was available to him was free.
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  Nothing was stored. Don't use stolen goods as a
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  Corbin. OK, That's the reference.
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  That's the hint. Fine.
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  I mean, I think it's kind of obvious.
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  We need the bazook. I think it's kind of obvious.
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  Hashem what is Corbin not is not going to be too interested from
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  dirty stuff. Stolen Corbin doesn't sound like
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  a good idea to turn around and serve Hashem.
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  OK. It indicates you how people
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  sometimes can be crazy and that is in the service of Hashem.
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  They can be pure and they're dealing with other people.
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  They can be nice. Fine.
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  That's the indication. I would tell you to clear our
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  cars shots. I think this is extremely
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  significant. He's just like this.
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  He's down there a great thing called fame and his service of
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  our shipment is misfought and is listening to God.
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  That great thing was look that Adam was the original.
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  There was no one around at this time.
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  He's only men alive right? So now when he wakes up in the
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  morning. So I want to thank God.
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  Who's telling him thank God? Did his parents told?
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  Did his friends tell him? Did him wanted to copy another
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  person? Tell him no, I don't mistaken.
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  I sham because because I want him.
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  It's the right thing. He's completely and totally
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  original. And what happens with that is I
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  need the original and whatever you do, you become genuine.
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  You see, we're so full of the world.
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  That's a copycat mentality. Copy cat mentality pushes people
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  along shore when it comes to the good it does, but it lacks the
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  meaning, it lacks the purity, it lacks the full sense of why I'm
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  doing something. If you have in yourself some
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  degree of genuine, whatever you do in your life, you're praying,
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  you're learning, your has said your kind words.
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  Whatever you do, it is a degree of genuine inside.
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  It's so much stronger and so much more effective.
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  So it's saying like this as we open up the Book of Service of
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  Asia, Harsha Baika, say, Baika, recognize you got to be like a
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  dumb. You need to be genuine.
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  The original man you have to be when you're serving Harsha,
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  whatever you're doing, you're praying and the prayer was
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  written to you by Rabbi's thousand years ago.
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  And he's saying these accent if he loves your parents and
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  grandparents and great grandparents and everyone around
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  you in the room say it's still you should have your own slant
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  to your prayer. You're learning and it's what I
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  was written thousands years ago. So is the game Mana given
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  thousands? You've been thinking to
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  yourself, whatever I learned, whatever idea I have, someone
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  came before me. No, not true.
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  Recognize is an area for you to be genuine as an area for you to
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  be an original. You're doing hissing and he says
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  something. So many guys are taking charity
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  right? I I dealt with yesterday alone
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  conversations about different charities and they were coming
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  from different areas. Some machine has some serious
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  and different things or we're going to Pesach.
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  And I think to myself, you know, it's unbelievable the avenues,
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  how many people are giving money, how many people it's
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  unbelievable. But it's also part of me thinks
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  myself maybe that guy won't give as much because I think I does
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  anyway. And all doing it, it became
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  invoke the people to give charity to help other people for
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  Pesach. So maybe one guy will say I'm
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  not going to do it anymore about does it.
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  No, you know your slant. You, you adjust your people,
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  your community with your way, with your privacy.
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  That's your original. And every single SPA you do can
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  be done in original form. All right, sitting on the
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  shoulders of Giants legacy further that's.
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  It's the opposite of this. Then the science says the
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  opposite of this. It is true.
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  We have the quality that we have.
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  People came before us, true, and we have that strength.
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  But the element that you bring to the table, nobody else can
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  bring. It's always think that any area
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  of life as a father, as a husband, as a prayer, as a
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  learner, as a member of the community, there is literally
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  nobody else out there and has your slant, has your mold, has
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  your style done. Be original, Be yourself, doom
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  and sort and do good things in your own sort of way.
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  Don't think to yourself how is so and so doing it.
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  I want to copy them. Sure, I want to be inspired by
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  them, but I still want to be myself.
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  That's the same five. Yeah, it's, you know, it's, it's
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  like a test. Well, in this world today, for
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  sure. Yeah, it's very much it's it's
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  it's a challenge because people want to do.
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  But for sure they get they get inspired by other people, which
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  is great. But then they copy.
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  Copy is nice, but it doesn't have the same meaning as doing a
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  real he brings over here say copy or emulate.
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  Emulate to better what it is. So you should emulate, but at
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  the same time you shouldn't lose your personality.
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  If you see a guy that changes a religion and as he lose his
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  personality, you should be disappointed if you see him in
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  his new level with the same sense of humor.
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  Also that guy is using his gifts for good.
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  But you know how people change and then they change the
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  character? No good.
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  Keep your qualities, keep your strengths.
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  Just use it a new way. Every one of us has a very exact
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  bolt. And you want to apply that to
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  human source and apply the conversations and apply it to
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  your life. And you should feel the
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  confidence in everything you're doing that I am unique and I am
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  an original and I want you to replace me.
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  And that should get you to be more involved in the areas
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  you're involved. He's like this, he said after
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  Adam came, his two sons. All right, listen to this.
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  Let me see the rooms there. Queer Cara says Cayenne heaven.
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  Cayenne killed heaven, right? Cayenne brought the weak.
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  Cayenne better brought the better Corpa.
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  All right. Cayenne brought the weak 1.
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  Heather brought the straw one. Kyle was jealous because he was
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  accepted, so he killed. This is the corporal.
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  The first he's you know what the problem with the whoops.
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  Both of them are issued. Cayenne didn't bring a good
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  corporate all together. He's brought only green heavy
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  for the better one, but he was built on a copycat.
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  So you have the two of them and neither one has a good strength,
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  and that's both of them weaker than Adam.
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  Adam was original. Original.
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  He's only got on the planet. See him, whatever he did was
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  completely genuine and real. These men, one guy did a weak
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  job, one guy did a copycat job. Neither of them are the type
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  that you want to be. All right, there's the thing.
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  And now when it comes to Cobarot, you have words like
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  Adam Nerfish. When your soul brings it, it
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  means the more genuine you are, the more real you are, the more
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  your service will be effective and powerful.
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  Anything you do in life, if you do it because you're told to,
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  it's there, but it's weak. But if you do it because you
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  want to, if you do it because you like, if you did because you
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  hold of it, it's so much stronger and so much more
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  effective on you and the people around you.
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  That is the definition of being an Adam, to be the original, to
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  be genuine, what you do. All right, so I'll throw in
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  there two other points and we'll stop.
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  Does this pilot I end up talking about like all the different
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  laws of like giving and pub? It's strictly Tracy Korbarot and
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  kosher. That's a korbarot korbarot.
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  So they're not really to the kind of much now.
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  So at the end we are on the panel show.
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  It's also the loss of a Korbarot flower Korbar flower combiners
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  requirement. And that is you say you didn't
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  get on it. Quijo soul, behold the lash.
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  No yeast and no honey. You can't be scared behind this
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  point. You know the you know the by
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  thought. You say it every day.
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  What does it say? What's the words again?
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  If if you would put yeast, honey, if you would put honey,
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  it's it's a sin, but it says if you do it, and I've done a whole
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  lot more, no one would be able to handle how good the smell
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  will be. So Qurban could have been turned
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  into the greatest smelling sacrifice ever.
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  Could you tell a second if you put honey?
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  If you would put we here I was she knows it to Montana be Yeah
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  if you would just put a drop of honey and.
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  How unbelievably overpowering and oppressive the smell is.
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  It'll be so good. So how are we doing?
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  How's it help? You know that that.
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  That means good. Smell versus bad smell, they
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  say. Good point.
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  Why don't we mix in? Don't eat it.
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  Yeast, we don't do it. That's the right time.
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  What's the message? ABC Harris, I believe you.
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  It's gas. What's the what's the message?
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  It goes along on my bumper and I fell.
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  Oh, and yeah. What's the message?
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  The message is if honey would be awesome, why not?
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  Edit. So you said one on space and
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  what's in it Tell you another one.
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  Yeast makes the thing rise. Yeast is a sketch.
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  Yeast is fabricated rising. It's not rising from within.
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  It's not rising with the original ingredients.
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  You're putting something in there that makes it rise.
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  That's why you commence. That's the whole thing.
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  So sketch, keep it out, honey, add sweetness.
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  We don't need an outside component to add sweetness to
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  your commandment. How you know we need.
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  We need the sweetness to come from within.
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  If you're a sketch, if you're a copycat, if you're trying to be
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  like someone else, if you try to impress other people, then it's
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  sweetness. Breads fake.
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  It's an outside. Now let me ask you a question
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  for a last point. Why am I being so hard of being
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  a copycat? It's a copycat for good.
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  What's so bad? We have something called cannot
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  so free. We should be jealous other
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  people to do good. Here's the problem.
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  The problem with being copycat for good is because let's just
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  say I'm gonna take they weren't doing something good and it'd be
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  copycat for that too. If you're only being guided by
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  the ways of other people by trying to be like that and
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  you're running the risk of following their lead.
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  I can't tell how many people I know started doing things for
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  the good, and then they were just copying other people, like
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  other people. And in there there was a layer
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  of not good. There's a layer of loud, a layer
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  of public, a layer of whatever. It is not so appropriate.
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  And they didn't know the difference.
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  I'd be like him. I don't know.
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  You need to be developed from within.
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  You need to be an original. You need to be shown, you need
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  to be genuine. If you're real, you can't try to
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  go and say you see that person, let me just follow him.
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  If he's at Saudi, OK, fine. If he's a person, you're going
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  to be like, that's the risk. That's the problem.
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  So what do we say to Corpus? No corbat, I doubt.
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  Be an original. Don't be like kind of heaven.
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  And then we say no honey and no and no yeast.
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  What do we allow for a corbat? What's the one ingredient that's
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  mandatory if every single corbat?
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  No, that's what that's a flower corbat and we call it ingredient
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  or not not damaged salt. Salt.
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  Salt was added to every karma and we told our pastor said is a
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  beat to show me the treaty with salt got made an ingredient with
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  salt. They had to put salt in every
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  karma no matter what salt got a little shafted by creation of
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  the world. So so it was all diminished when
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  the sham separated waters and got made a deal with the salt.
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  Don't worry, you'll be back on the shark.
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  You'll be involved every karma. All right, great.
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  So he put salt, breathe curtash and made a tree with salt Al
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  Pasha. What significance is salt?
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  What does salt do? Salt does not air taste.
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  Salt does not sweetener. Salt does not sweeten low.
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  It's not a sketch. It's like yeast.
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  It brings out the taste of the thing itself.
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  So you have something, a person being a Korbar.
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  When he adds salt, he's representing his saying my
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  service, my mitzvah, as is the way I do it.
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  If I do it strong, if I do it confident, if I do it with
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  covenant, if I do it realizing that I have a connection to a
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  shun, if I do it real, then it'll be sweet, it'll be
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  tasteful, it'll be good, and it'll be the strongest, most
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  effective Corvo. So we need genuine, and we live
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  in a world that is full of sketch.
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  We don't in the bad world for sure, but even in the good
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  world, you want to be genuine. You want to raise your kids to
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  be genuine. You want to have your own mind.
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  I'm doing something because I want to.
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  You want to get to a level. In fact, an outpatia caravana
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  intention is one of the main keys.
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  Your intention when you're being a Qurvat.
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  If you have the wrong intention for a Qurvatis as affected,
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  what's your mindset? What's behind the scenes?
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  What are you thinking? And that's the exact same idea
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  as being genuine. And now people are on the risk.
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  And I told you a million times, people are on the risk of being
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  copycat. But you know what, It's not much
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  weaker. Is that less effective?
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  If you are, whatever you do in your prayer, Tashem, you stand
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  and pray. Tashem, it's me and you, we're
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  alone here. And you talk to him because you
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  have a connection, real. And when you learn, I have a
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  classic example. They ask oftentimes about
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  learning boys. Are they good learners?
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  Do they learn a lot? They want you.
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  If you're going to marry off your daughter to a learning guy
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  and you're going to support them, you don't know if they
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  really learned or are they drinking coffee?
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  There's always a question, right?
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  You don't want the coffee room guys, You don't want the guys
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  outside. It's not for my daughter, right?
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  But I always say you want a guy to be strong in an area if he's
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  working, working, if he's learning, learning.
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  What's my test, my test, He's a good test.
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  Does he learn? Even learning alone is not a
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  good thing. But does he learn in private?
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  Which means is he only learning in the publicity where
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  everybody's around? All right?
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  Does he do something in prime? It's same thing at right White
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  because if you learn the public, even though it's tornado, which
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  is great, a part of him thinks he's seeing me.
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  They're watching me. They're pressed by me on a big
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  deal. We get a better date.
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  No, he learns in private. Nobody knows.
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  He sits there in his office, his house and his beast writes
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  votes. That's genuine, right?
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  Say with charry, sure. It's also gives a lot of charity
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  be earns a lot of free benefits to charry.
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  You become a substantial part of the community.
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  You are given 10 times the coverage of a non charity guy.
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  If you do a wreck, but you know what the test is.
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  Does he have a part of it? Then we'll start to purchase him
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  and nobody knows the guy's name and name is never going to be
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  public at all. And he gives that person yeah,
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  there is a proof of genuine the same way to feel out.
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  Do you pray to Hashem in private or you have a big deal you're
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  going into if you do your general relationship.
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  The same is true as a caring person is getting really sticky.
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  There are many people out there, they run the risk of being
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  Balochistan. That means they can fix
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  marriages, they can raise children for other people, they
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  can get deeply involved, other people's families and yet they
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  have this challenge and I know this because I dealt with the
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  first hand. They have the challenge, their
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  own marriage and their own children.
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  They have no patience. You have patience for that guy's
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  family for hours and you have patience with your own children.
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  Come on, why you bothering me? Why you take my time?
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  I'm telling you this is reality. I dealt with the person.
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  It's a very true idea. It's a what is it going to
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  invite? It's very kind.
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  That's the most common thing probably there is.
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  You're some friends, they say, in case you should let your own
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  kid. You should be an obligation to.
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  No, but you're supposed to get a fire a key shot.
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  Because you can't, because you can't.
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  This one probably back, but this theme is this theme is it's what
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  is a shot is how do you explain a guy or is how do you explain a
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  guy giving hours on the phone to so and so who's dealing with the
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  silliest, smallest problems and your advocate therapist and an
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  advisor and a helper and you're gonna have help and you do the
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  whole bit for him. Then the guy comes home.
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  His wife becomes an annoying comment.
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  She's like, can you do anything? Can you help me put the books on
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  top of the top shelf? Can you can you help clean the
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  thing? You're like, come on.
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  Because he's getting recognition from that side.
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  That's it. It's not real.
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  He doesn't know that He thinks that's valuable.
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  And this is heck yeah. But they say has his thoughts at
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  home. I hate that line personally,
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  because a lot of people use it the wrong way.
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  Has it starts at home does not mean you should be cheap to the
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  community because you has it starts at home.
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  What it means is be a real person.
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  Don't say yourself every begins at home charity.
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  Yeah, family for local family, but be real.
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  Don't be an advisor, but you can't we can't handle our kids
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  can't have the whole family. This is the theme and a person
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  has to become a life in a very sketched world, very original
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  takes work takes a lot of work and it might not happen
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  overnight, but you recognize the fact that your relationship you
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  and God to you and your wife. It's you and your children and
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  nobody else can help you raise your children and the accolades
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  you going to get out there will do 0 for your children.
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  In fact, they'll hurt very often many people out there that are
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  public people. I can't tell you at risk as
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  endless many people are public people and they chose to suffer
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  and then there are many people are public people and the
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  children thrive. The difference is this.
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  If you're a genuine person, do you act out there, it will
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  reflect in your home as well. If you a person and endures
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  publicity, enjoys the accolades, enjoys a rush, then I hope it'll
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  be empty. And so Adam be a person who's an
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  original be a person who's genuinely toenail oil.
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  Sorry, don't add honey. Don't add yeast.
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  Add salt. Bring out the flavor of your
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  qurban, Bring out the flavor of your service, and that becomes
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  the best. That's the idea.
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  All right, start with that. You got it.