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- 0:32If you've set New Year's resolutions and they haven't worked for you before, or you've had some sort of a goal in mind business or perhaps manifesting a provider husband, and you find yourself not being able to be consistent with the goals that you set for yourself.
- 0:48My love.
- 0:48You don't have a consistency problem.
- 0:50You have a nervous system problem, and in this video we're gonna be explaining the role that your nervous system plays in you actually being able to manifest what it is that you desire.
- 1:03Hi, my name is Amanda.
- 1:05Welcome to this channel where we talk about how to manifest what you want in life without all the extra stress, chaos, and drama.
- 1:11Most people are accustomed to.
- 1:13Lately we've been talking a lot about feminine energy.
- 1:15We've been talking about polarity and relationships, nervous system regulation, and a lot of really fun stuff.
- 1:21Based on my 15 years of experience coaching women in different areas of their lives.
- 1:26I've been a certified professional coach since 2013.
- 1:29I'm also a certified.
- 1:31Holistic healer, and I've been trained in a whole lot of modalities internationally.
- 1:35But most importantly, this is based on my own transformation and experience where I went from a hyper independent, stressed out, constantly hustling for money in survival mode, having a bunch of hormone problems, and perpetually single to in less than two years, manifesting my husband moving to another country.
- 1:55Co-creating these beautiful businesses that bring in passive income, including this one that brings in passive income sales every single day.
- 2:01And it's a lot of fun for me to do.
- 2:03And.
- 2:04Ultimately healed my hormones.
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- 2:16And as always, if I have any additional resources to help you go deeper into the content that we're gonna be discussing in this video, then I will let you know throughout the video.
- 2:27I will tell you that I was telling the audience that I was gonna have a surprise this week.
- 2:32And the surprise is that I have reopened the doors to the Magnetic Woman transformation bundle, and I've added in a super juicy bonus.
- 2:41And that bonus is that if you sign up this week to the Magnetic Woman Transformation Bundle, you automatically are going to get a private one-on-one call with me to help you troubleshoot and map out exactly how to become the magnetic woman.
- 2:57You want to be in 2026?
- 2:59I don't do private coaching anymore.
- 3:02I haven't really done it at all in the last few years.
- 3:05Maybe I've done it for a handful of people, but for this week only, I decided to open that up and make that a bonus for this particular offer for this audience, because I wanna make sure.
- 3:18That you become a magnetic woman in 2026.
- 3:20So for those of you who've been looking for an opportunity to, for private coaching or get on my calendar or get a call, you can get that as a bonus when you sign up for the Magnetic Woman Transformation Bundle this week.
- 3:34And of course, you can always get our free, enhance your Feminine Energy Guide because that'll get you added to the email list.
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- 3:43So let's get into it, right?
- 3:46Discipline.
- 3:47In the way that we know it and the way that it's been shown to us is quite masculine.
- 3:52Okay.
- 3:53And discipline oftentimes, like, looks like doing things that you don't want to do to the, for the feminine mind, to the, to us, to women discipline looks like doing things that we don't wanna do, right?
- 4:04That's how we see it.
- 4:05To a man, a masculine man, he's just doing what he's gotta do.
- 4:08He's not really thinking about it, he just gets it done.
- 4:11It's just, just his duty.
- 4:12It's just what he does.
- 4:13With women, it's very different.
- 4:15That's why sometimes, um, particularly when women get with provider husbands and they see how much a provider husband works, sometimes women feel guilty because women are looking at that and they're like, I could literally never do what this man does'cause that looks horrible.
- 4:30And then they'll start feeling guilty when in reality the man's not thinking that the man's just doing his duty and doing what.
- 4:38What he needs to do, he's just doing what he needs to get done.
- 4:40He's not really emotional about it at all, but because it looks horrible to us, then we start to feel guilty.
- 4:46And that's actually one of the ways in which women will sabotage and try and over function because they feel bad about how much their husband is doing for them without realizing that your husband doing things for you is how he shows love.
- 4:59But that it all comes down to women thinking that discipline and the way that it's been shown to us sucks.
- 5:05Now consistency for women is actually a very energetic process.
- 5:10In fact, I would switch out discipline with devotion.
- 5:14That's the difference.
- 5:15The realm of the feminine is a lot more about devotion.
- 5:19She could be devoted to a business.
- 5:20She could be devoted to her family, devoted to her husband, devoted to her community, devoted to all of the above.
- 5:26Quite frankly.
- 5:27Now here's why.
- 5:28Consistency breaks down for women.
- 5:30The body is going to resist anything that feels unsafe.
- 5:35So for example, if you're trying to manifest a provider protector husband, and you're going out on dates and you've got a guy who's very reliable and shows that he's going to be devoted to you and has the same values, but you think he's boring, that's your body resisting it because it's not familiar and it feels unsafe.
- 5:57Or sometimes it's not that he's boring, sometimes you're just completely overwhelmed by the love that, again, is your body resisting because it feels unsafe?
- 6:07Another area in which it shows up it's money.
- 6:09This is where I had the hardest lesson of this was with money.
- 6:12When I had my total breakdown a few years ago, because I didn't understand this about nervous system regulation, I was starting to have a hundred thousand dollars months in my last business.
- 6:23Granted, it came with hustle.
- 6:24It came with grind.
- 6:25I was not, um.
- 6:26Properly supported.
- 6:27I was having a family health crisis at the same time.
- 6:31It was absolutely, completely crazy.
- 6:33But what, and I was already like on the verge of a breakdown, but what caused the breakdown is an unlikely suspect.
- 6:41I started bringing in six figures a month into my business, and my body went into freeze completely.
- 6:49Why?
- 6:50Because my nervous system felt unsafe with that level of money.
- 6:53Why did my nervous system feel unsafe with that level of money?
- 6:56Because I had an ancestral story playing in my head.
- 7:00That money equals anxiety.
- 7:02So the more money I made, the more anxiety I got.
- 7:05Do you see how sneaky these things are and why you need to coach to point these things out?
- 7:09This is why, because we, we can't figure this stuff out on our own.
- 7:13Sometimes.
- 7:13We need that outside expert in order to point these things out to us.
- 7:18Now the good news is after my breakdown, right, and I did the most feminine thing I could do, which was surrender to God, the universe, and be like, what do you want me to do here?
- 7:27'cause I'm like losing everything that I thought was important to me, and I heard you have to start living your life from more of a place of feminine energy.
- 7:34Then a lot of the initiations that I talk about in the Magnetic Woman transformation, which again, you can sign up this week and get that.
- 7:41Bonus one-on-one call with me.
- 7:43I had to go through those 13 initiations that I talk about in that particular program, and I learned that the feminine path is about aligning your intentions with your body's capacity.
- 7:55I learned that you have to regulate your nervous system in order to expand your capacity.
- 7:59I had to relearn to take small aligned actions.
- 8:03Over time.
- 8:04Now I take much bigger ones, but back then when I was the phoenix, you know, rising from the ashes, I had to start with small, aligned actions and I had to learn about safety and alignment before effort.
- 8:17So nervous system regulation.
- 8:18Once I finally got it, it helped me call in my husband.
- 8:22It helped me move abroad.
- 8:24It helped me open up new career opportunities like this one that honestly feel like a purpose and a destiny.
- 8:30This is my 11th video today, and I don't even feel like I'm working in my previous businesses.
- 8:35If I did that, forget it.
- 8:37I would be like laid out on the floor, exhausted.
- 8:41This is actually just quite fun for me and it happens to make money.
- 8:45And in addition to that, I was able to heal my hormones after struggling with hormone imbalances for over a decade.
- 8:52That is the power of a woman regulating her nervous system.
- 8:56That's the power of it.
- 8:58And this was after 10 to 15 years of trying to fix all my problems with external solutions.
- 9:03It all came down to the inside.
- 9:06And if you want the exact feminine path to consistency, the magnetic woman transformation bundle is going to help you get it, because in there I have the 13 initiations every woman must go through to go from survival to thriving, to go from solving problems, to manifesting desires, to go from, I can't get anything done, and I'm not consistent to a place of devotion and internal safety and feminine energy and creativity.
- 9:36In fact, I have lessons in there of a, one of my favorite feminine energy productivity hacks, which is, um.
- 9:44Cycle sinking and seasonal living.
- 9:46There's whole lessons in there'cause I have a lesson called Feminine Wealth Codes in the Magnetic Woman transformation bundle, where I go specifically into how we can use our bodies and our hormonal cycles to be more productive and less depleted.
- 10:01That's one example of one of the initiations that I go through.
- 10:05There's 12 others, so if you wanna learn more about it, here's the link.
- 10:08I will leave it below this week only.
- 10:10If you sign up, you're going to get that free one-on-one call with me.
- 10:15Take the opportunity while you can get it, because I, I don't really do private coaching anymore.
- 10:20Many people have asked for me to do private coaching and I've done it here and there, but I've been really focused more on.
- 10:27Um, getting more trainings out to like the mass market rather than private coaching.
- 10:32So I don't really know when I'm going to be doing it again at full capacity.
- 10:36So this is your opportunity to get some one-on-one time with me at no additional cost.
- 10:42Thank you so much for giving me your time today.
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- 11:13So you can help us with our mission to help women become relaxed.
- 11:17Resourced, regulated, loved and prosperous by giving this alike and sharing it with a girlfriend.
- 11:23Happy New Year again, and thank you so much for giving me your time.