Latest / Honey Badger Radio / CALL IN SHOW! Losing Friends, Division and How To Cope in 2024 | Brian's Badger Lodge
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- 0:00Good evening, everybody. Welcome to Honey Badger Radio. My name is Brian
- 0:04and this is the Badge Lodge. So I was supposed to have a screener
- 0:10and nobody is here, so I'm gonna have to figure out a different way
- 0:13to do this. So here's what I'm going to do. You can join
- 0:21the chat. I think there's a general text chat. I'm in the show
- 0:27room by myself, so I will take your calls. There's a link in
- 0:34the description try to get in. There should be a current link to get
- 0:38into the call and show. Let me know if it works. Okay,
- 0:42And what we're gonna do is I'm gonna try to be the screener and the
- 0:48host at the same time. This is probably going to be really like,
- 0:54I don't know, messy. I suppose it's gonna be a trash fire.
- 0:57It's gonna be a train wreck. But I'm gonna do my bets. So
- 1:00because I said I was going to do a show, and when I say
- 1:03I'm going to do something, I do it. I commit to the bit.
- 1:07So there is a link to call in. You can give me your
- 1:10thoughts on whatever you like. Well, I want to start off twenty twenty
- 1:14four right, and I'm going to try to do call in shows at least
- 1:19once a month so that you, the audience, can have a voice and
- 1:26sort of like you know, spill your guts. So please do let's be
- 1:34let's let's make the conversation happen. If you do get into the call in
- 1:40show, into the discord, that is, put a comment if you if
- 1:48you're allowed to text in the text chat, just say I'm here so that
- 1:51I can see you, and then I can give you permission to join the
- 1:56screening room if you don't have access otherwise, if you can get into the
- 2:00screen room, go in there and I'll just join you in the screening room.
- 2:01We'll do it. We'll do a reverse screen. So enter the screening
- 2:06room and I'll go in there and we'll make sure that your settings are good
- 2:09and we'll see what happens. Otherwise, this might be a very short show,
- 2:14and for that I apologize, because like, without a screener, this
- 2:17is gonna be, you know, pretty hard. But since I'm here,
- 2:22I may as well share some thoughts. So I wanted to know if you,
- 2:29guys, if you've been doing this for a while, you've been thinking
- 2:34about these issues You've been a part of this discussion for a while. Have
- 2:42you ever tried to talk to a friend or family member about these things?
- 2:50Maybe you used to hold us you know, maybe you used to be more
- 2:53of a uh, you know, guyinocentric guy. Maybe you were you you
- 2:58believed in feminism, agreed with it, or you know, you believed all
- 3:00of the stuff that we're constantly told about women and men and whatever. Those
- 3:05dynamics are, right, So maybe you believe those things and you grew up
- 3:09around people, family members, friends, whatever, coworkers, and then this
- 3:15happened. He started like getting you know, red pilled or whatever you want
- 3:20to call it on this whole thing. And then you're like, oh man,
- 3:23this is really fascinating. I want to share this with my friends.
- 3:27I want to share this with people in my family. It explained so much,
- 3:30right, Like, maybe you had a revelation, maybe you understood,
- 3:36like, you know, why all your friends ended up getting divorced or something
- 3:40of the like, Right, why did this happen to this guy you knew
- 3:44that you knew was a decent guy? Right? And what was their reaction?
- 3:50Did they did you guys bond over that, or did they disavow you.
- 3:55Did they disown you as a friend or as a family member? Even?
- 3:59Did you lose contact people as a result of this? Were you made
- 4:02to be more alone? And I'll tell you for me, it's a bit
- 4:06of both. So I got a super chat. I might as well put
- 4:13it up on the screen. Thank you. Albert Albernada's retro gives his two
- 4:15dollars. Canadian says, just saying hey, Brian gives me a thumbs up
- 4:20and a clinking beer mugs. Thank you. So I'll tell you for my
- 4:27I got a little bit of both. So I have a couple of I
- 4:32have a lot. I used to have a lot of friends when I lived
- 4:35in Chicago. Some there was one guy and I still talk to him.
- 4:40I was just talking to him before I came in here and started the show.
- 4:44I've known him since before I could remember knowing anyone. So I've known
- 4:48him for close to you know, Smokey Joe showed up. Smokey Joe,
- 4:56go into the screen. Can you get in the screening room? So I
- 4:59knew him for longer than I was then. I remember like knowing anyone.
- 5:04I don't know if you've got people that you remember that way, right,
- 5:09So I was probably like I don't even know when we met. I was
- 5:12probably four years old, maybe five. And I still talk to him and
- 5:17now, you know, it's been at least forty five years, right,
- 5:23and we like I told him about this stuff, and he watches us and
- 5:30he agrees, and I'm amazed by that. So there are some people who
- 5:32have like take it. And maybe he knew this himself. I wouldn't even
- 5:36pretend like I taught him anything, like, you know, he's he's a
- 5:40little older than me, maybe like by a few months, right, We're
- 5:44very close in age. But I think that he was aware of this,
- 5:48right, And he's been through you know, some stuff, like like some
- 5:56relationship stuff, but not anything terrible. I mean, he's he's married and
- 6:00he's still with the same woman, and they have children, and his daughter,
- 6:05you know, is a great person. I think she's college grad and
- 6:10she's going into the world now. And he's got a son, and his
- 6:13son is in high school. I think he's probably graduating high school soon.
- 6:15So you know, it's he's doing good. I think he's doing pretty well.
- 6:20And then I have other friends that they have been married and they got
- 6:27divorced and they were put through the ringer, and they don't talk to me
- 6:33anymore. They don't like what I've had to say, which is weird because
- 6:38you would think that someone who's had first hand experience with a divorce or losing
- 6:43access to their children, You would think that someone like that would be like
- 6:50on board. They don't seem to be. I'm gonna give Smokey, Joe,
- 6:56let me see what permissions can I give him. I'm gonna put him
- 6:59in the caller position. So I just gave you caller roll, Smokey,
- 7:06so you should be able to enter the screening room. I think, let
- 7:12me know if it works for you, and like, and this extends out
- 7:17right, so like obviously on this channel we talk about men's issues, but
- 7:21once you start on that road, a bunch of other things start to like
- 7:26fall into place. And I have pissed off people that I had known for
- 7:33twenty or thirty or thirty five years because my perspective, you know, evolved,
- 7:45like I learned some things about the world, and I lost them as
- 7:48friends. And it was and you know, I had a conversation with a
- 7:53guy not long ago, and the stuff that he accused me of without it's
- 7:59like one of these things where they don't tell you to your face, like
- 8:01they don't say I think you're this, but then instead they imply it,
- 8:05like, well, it seems to me that based on how you're saying these
- 8:07things that maybe I think maybe kind of sort of like this is why people
- 8:11don't like you and know It's like, it's it sucks, man, It
- 8:16sucks to hear it from people you've known for a very long time that they
- 8:20have Like I don't understand it because if I knew someone for twenty years or
- 8:26thirty years, I would not think the worst of them because they had some
- 8:33kind of revelation or they have like proposed like something, especially especially when these
- 8:39people know that I've been doing this work, this work like this men's issue
- 8:45stuff, talking about you know, all kinds of issues, right, divorce,
- 8:50false allegations, child custody, paternity, fraud, paternity, what is
- 8:56it called it? Wrongful paternity, know, domestic violence, like propaganda campaigns
- 9:03that are anti mail, like just all of that, right, the racial
- 9:09dynamics and the other dynamics, the critical theory stuff. And I've had I've
- 9:16talked to guests that are you know, they run the spectrum like like sheriffs
- 9:22like police chiefs. I've talked to lawyers, I've talked to therapists. I've
- 9:28talked to psychologists. I've talked to researchers. I've talked to academics. I've
- 9:31talked to politicians. I've talked to pundits. I've talked to all kinds of
- 9:37people, people who work in and around this stuff. And I've been doing
- 9:41it for longer than any other job I've ever had, like ten years,
- 9:46right, longer than any other job, and yet my opinions still like are
- 9:54dismissed, Like you just get this, well have you considered like just other
- 9:58perspectives, Like, well, yes, this is what I I do.
- 10:00I've read countless academic papers, you know, like this is like what I'm
- 10:05saying. I'm not gonna make the claim that it's an absolute truth, but
- 10:09what I'm gonna say is I have experience with it. I'm not casually going
- 10:15into this. And then they'll tell me, well, I'm a critical thinker,
- 10:18you know about themselves, right, I'm a critical thinker, which means
- 10:20I consider all points of view, and you know, and I'm like,
- 10:24I know what you're gonna say before you say it, because I've looked at
- 10:28it already. I've been doing this for a long time. This kind of
- 10:33reminds me of like, and these are people I've known for forever. So
- 10:35like, have you ever had a person in your life that you have known
- 10:39for decades and for whatever reason, maybe you met them when you were children,
- 10:45right or teenagers for whatever reason. They think that they have grown up,
- 10:50but you have not, that you haven't changed, that you're still naive,
- 10:54that you're still you know, like a child, and so they still
- 10:58see you that way, and so they still treat you that way. It
- 11:00could be family members too, right, Like my mother kind of does this
- 11:03a little bit with me. You know, She'll be like, well,
- 11:07you know, honey, I know this, that and the other. And
- 11:09it's like, Mom, I'm fifty years old. I'm a grown ass man.
- 11:13Like how like, you can't talk to me like that anymore? Right,
- 11:20So I don't know, let me let me see what Okay, So
- 11:24what I'm I guess what I'm getting at is and this might be a short
- 11:28stream and I apologize if that's the case, because I'm not getting a lot
- 11:31of people coming in here. I did see Smokey Joe say hello and I'm
- 11:33trying to, you know, figure out why he hasn't come in here yet,
- 11:39or try to. Maybe you're in the live chat. If you are,
- 11:43you can just you know, say I'm Smoky Joe and trying to get
- 11:46in there or whatever. So but let me look at some of your comments.
- 11:48Let me know if you have you guys had this experience, and how
- 11:52do you feel about it, Like do you feel like because I feel like
- 11:56my I feel hurt by this. You know, I know I shouldn't.
- 12:01I know, people say we'll just forget about it or whatever. But it's
- 12:05one thing when it's from a stranger, like when I spoke to this you
- 12:07know, Sergio character during our Christmas stream and he was like trying to say
- 12:13all this shit. I don't know that motherfucker. So it was easy to
- 12:16dismiss him because he doesn't know me. And I would even tell you don't
- 12:18know me, right, But these are people I've known for twenty or thirty
- 12:22years. Mister Blurr is in the screening room. I'm not bring him in
- 12:26here. Let me look at some of your comments first, so let me
- 12:31bring Yeah, let me bring mister Blurr in here real quick, Okay,
- 12:35mister Blurr is muted. I'm gonna try to Can I unmute you? Or
- 12:39can you unmute yourself? Can you unmute or you know what, I'm na
- 12:45put you back and I'm gonna go in there. Okay, this should work
- 12:50better? Hey man, what's up? All right? Can you hear me?
- 12:54Yep? I can hear you? Just fine? Cool? It's on
- 13:01your mind? You might you might have seen my comments in the chat,
- 13:07but that's actually not what I had. That's actually not what was on my
- 13:11mind. True. I was thinking, mm hmmm, you know, you
- 13:18know, i'd i'd be like, I come on here a lot, you
- 13:20know, think you thinking about you know what, what what the purpose of
- 13:24all this stuff is? And I think I've finally hit I think I finally
- 13:28hit that an answer. Okay, it's ultimately, you know, when it
- 13:35comes down, when it comes down to in any school of thought and need
- 13:39I guess the lack of a better term, camp, well, ultimately,
- 13:43what we're trying to do is get people to make at least what's in our
- 13:46opinion, better decisions about their lives on the on the micro level. Yes,
- 13:56yeah, and it's so far proven to be a fine it's not highly
- 14:05not not a fruitless, but it's definitely a siss A fine task. Yeah,
- 14:11yeah, I think it's well. The thing is we're trying, I
- 14:16mean, we're trying to deprogram like the way these you know, some of
- 14:20the some of us have been conditioned since birth. So it's a big it's
- 14:24a it's not a small job, right Yeah. And when I don't know,
- 14:31I think more about it. It's like, okay, so every every
- 14:37school is not any any champ that you can think of. We're all all
- 14:41critical of men's actions in one way or another, and some and some non
- 14:46some non insignificant way. Mm hmm. It's like every facet of society does
- 14:52that. So it's like men get it from all sides, no matter where
- 14:56he goes. It's like, yeah, it kind of becomes white noise that
- 14:58they're well. But with women it's kind of it's kind of the opposite depending
- 15:05on where you go. It's like didn't one, you don't want to tell
- 15:09you can't tell women anything, and it's like virgin when you got you got
- 15:11a chance. Like us, we're like, okay, stop stop going after
- 15:16the guys that look good but don't have anything going for them, because that's
- 15:22just going to end in pain, and then then and innovatively ends up in
- 15:24pain. And then it's like it's like I can't. I don't even have
- 15:28the heart to say I told you so, because it's like, you have
- 15:31to live with your consequence the consequences of your choice, is not me.
- 15:35Yeah, it's like the consequences of their actions don't just affect them because it's
- 15:41like, because you know, there's that stat like forty five percent of women
- 15:46will be single and jobless by what twenty thirty something like that. It's like
- 15:52it's like, yeah, this like the single mother epiandemic. We're not going
- 15:56to see the consequences of the choices made now for like at least another two
- 16:02decades. And when that comes around. No, that that's that's gonna be
- 16:07Oh, that's gonna be fun. Oh the autistic screeching heard around the world.
- 16:11Yeah, yeah, Well, chickens are going to come home to roost,
- 16:18as you say, you know, I think that's true. But I
- 16:27think that you're right. I mean I think that it's you know, on
- 16:30the micro level, we want to help each other essentially, like make the
- 16:36most of what we of our situation and try to be like the best version
- 16:41of ourselves and how to sort of deal with you know, like living under
- 16:51this in the in this society as it is now. And I think a
- 16:55lot of that comes down to also giving men tools to you know, see
- 17:00like through the veil of ginocentrism, as it were, so that they don't
- 17:07misstep and destroy their own lives or at least do a lot of harm to
- 17:11it. And I think that another big part of this is building community.
- 17:17So that is why I've been doing a lot of stuff on the gaming channel,
- 17:19because if guys are like in the chat, hanging out, sharing ideas,
- 17:23like making jokes whatever, I think it builds community. And I think
- 17:27that's all. And that's what Alison's doing with the discord, right. And
- 17:32I think that men need community with other men like I don't. I mean
- 17:37they do, and we can't get it anywhere. And this has been you
- 17:40know, Paul's talked about it and there was a discussion. Well that's why
- 17:47he runs the x Y crew, right, And he's also going like I
- 17:49had a lunch with him not long ago, Lindsay and I met Paul for
- 17:55lunch, Paul Elam and he is in a men's group at a local at
- 18:02a church that he goes to, and he said that he's going to like,
- 18:04you know, sus it out to see, you know, if it's
- 18:07like more red pill or not, and then if it isn't, he's gonna
- 18:11like nudge it in that direction. So so I mean, and I think
- 18:15that's that's really good, great idea, you know, that's what that And
- 18:19I think that's that's on the micro level and then the macro level. I
- 18:23think that there should be advocacy to change laws and to affect policy and stuff.
- 18:29But I think on the micro level it's it's gonna be a longer lasting
- 18:33change and that and so yeah, I agree with you, but that is
- 18:36ultimately like what I'm trying to do. So but it's like with the way
- 18:47I think the way way things are now, it's like it's almost like it's
- 18:52almost like women don't really have an incentive. They don't. They don't.
- 18:56But that's not Yeah, that's true. But I do think I do think
- 19:03that there could be some change. You know, I saw like a here's
- 19:07an interesting thing. And then some of you guys might not like this,
- 19:11but I think this is true. Okay, no matter what happens, some
- 19:15of us are forming families, and I think it's gonna be basically, it's
- 19:22going to be the either the people who commit to a to a marriage and
- 19:29have children, or it's gonna be people who you know, try to live
- 19:33the single life until like they can't anymore. And unfortunately, it's gonna be
- 19:38really like bad for women and men. But you know, at the end
- 19:45of the day, they're the Christians are making babies and they're gonna they're gonna
- 19:48be here when everyone else is gone. So like however you feel about Christianity
- 19:52or Islam, because they're making babies too, it don't matter because they're making
- 19:57babies, so they're gonna be here, right, And you know, I
- 20:02saw I shared this this video. I saw. Oh, actually it played
- 20:06in the beginning, not today, but like not long ago. I think
- 20:10it played in the beginning of our show, and it was a girl who
- 20:12was cutting onions terribly right, and she was did you see that video,
- 20:18mister blur? No? I played, Okay, So I did a show.
- 20:22I think it was the last two shows, not this one, but
- 20:25the one before the one before that. Maybe oh, might have just been
- 20:27one, but there was a girl dressed up in like a kind of a
- 20:32she was like a trad thought, right, and she was like cutting an
- 20:33onion and she was talking about like, you know, don't tell the feminist
- 20:38this, but I really like serving my man food or something like that.
- 20:41Right. It was a little cringe, but I wanted to share it because
- 20:44what was interesting is is that I shared this video on X and it's the
- 20:48most popular post I have. And I haven't been on X that long maybe
- 20:52if I don't know, maybe a few months. I think, Yeah,
- 20:57I haven't been on X very long, but this has had like hundreds of
- 21:00thousands of impressions. And what is interesting is the number of men who are
- 21:07like, where can I find a woman like this? Now? There are
- 21:08a lot of men saying this is fake and like that she's terrible at cutting
- 21:11onions. Even my wife said, Lindsay said that she was like her her
- 21:15her knife work is is like, you know, it's triggering me. And
- 21:19I get that it's not like she's she's clearly playing a character. But my
- 21:23point is is that even if that is true, there is a then that
- 21:29means that there is a trend that men are responding to that these women are
- 21:34trying to create right, and that means that some women are gonna look at
- 21:40that and say, oh wait, maybe if I do this for real,
- 21:42you know what I mean. And so I do think that there is like
- 21:48there are people waking up to this reality, and there's also more and more
- 21:52women that are like realizing that, you know, this whole like wait until
- 21:59you thirty to settle down kind of thing, it's not working for them because
- 22:04and so this way, you know, the old where have all the good
- 22:07men gone? Thing that's becoming reality. And I think it's you know,
- 22:11it's not gonna work out for everybody, But I do think that as a
- 22:15sort of like you know, in an abstract way, there's gonna be a
- 22:19shift, and it doesn't, like I said, it won't matter because like
- 22:22in a you know, in like a generation, there's just gonna be the
- 22:26people who had babies and the people who and the people who didn't are gonna
- 22:30die off or they're gonna become dependents. And a lot of times the people
- 22:33who are making families are also probably gonna be homesteading. They're gonna have their
- 22:37own shit, so they don't even need the infrastructure. They're just gonna be
- 22:41like, yeah, we're just gonna have an outhouse and some chickens, you
- 22:44know, and we're we're gonna be We're some by a river and we're gonna
- 22:48be fine. Right, So not saying it's gonna be great, but I
- 22:51think that what it is is, I think it's evidence that things are gonna
- 22:55balance out, whether you like it or not. So you know, I
- 22:59mean, I hope women wake up, but they may not think they have
- 23:02an incentive, but it doesn't matter because that what they're doing is unsustainable and
- 23:07they're gonna feel the pain. So feminism is a what we call a self
- 23:14correct it is it is, but it's also one that can only exist in
- 23:18like a in like a a a society that has extreme security and comfort once
- 23:26the ship starts hitting the fan, you know. Like even even when they
- 23:30were just talking about like the draft, right they're talking about extending the imposing
- 23:36the draft and extending it to women like women everywhere, Like well, actually
- 23:40then I'm just gonna like be a housewife now right now. Of course,
- 23:44the damage is done, like it's been done before we were born, so
- 23:48there's no correcting it. But I mean, in a way, we have
- 23:49to hit rock bottom. And then bounce off the bottom and kind of like
- 23:53uh, you know, reset and and that probably won't happen in my lifetime,
- 23:57but I think that talk talking about it is a uh you know,
- 24:03is a benefit. So no, I'm not. I'm looking at the live
- 24:11chat. I see I see Mankaka ninety two there, like, yeah,
- 24:15that's that's not not unrelated. But they're saying that China's gonna swoop in,
- 24:21and I mean that I guess we're just me learning Chinese then, but I'm
- 24:25saying we're gonna live, like we'll get on with it. That may happen,
- 24:29but I mean, what are we gonna do? Women are not,
- 24:32like you said, women are not motivated to like do anything for anybody but
- 24:37themselves. Like we've literally incentivized like narcissism and selfishness and women. So that's
- 24:41what we're gonna get. So and that's the thing too, Like going back
- 24:45to my original topic, I brought this stuff up with a friend of mine
- 24:49and well a person who I would have considered a friend for my part,
- 24:55and they were, you know, like pissed off with me because I said
- 24:57that like like women like like women would never do that, and it's like
- 25:02they're doing it now, like they like, you know, they're already doing
- 25:06it, Like you're gonna live in a world where there are like gonna be
- 25:10harems because women are gonna be involved with only the top one. They're already
- 25:14looking for the top one percent. They're gonna call all the other men dusty.
- 25:18They're not gonna want to be involved with them. They're gonna get like
- 25:21degrees and like you know, six figures in debt because they think the degree
- 25:25just means they're gonna make money. It's not they're gonna want to settle down
- 25:29and have kids. They're gonna have all this debt and you know, they're
- 25:32only only like the top men are gonna be able to even sustain them,
- 25:37and most of them are gonna get rejected because when you look at the top
- 25:40men, they're gonna pick the top women. They're not gonna pick any old,
- 25:44you know, used up piece of meat. They're just gonna be and
- 25:48they can call them meat because again, they're gonna be the ones that have
- 25:52the pick of the litter. So what are you gonna do? Call them
- 25:56a misogynist. They're gonna give a shit like that's not gonna work. Anymore.
- 26:00So it's what Look, what's gonna happen, is gonna happen. I'm
- 26:06just saying, like, what I think we should be doing is preparing people
- 26:08for that in case it happens in our lifetime and just be ready because like,
- 26:14yeah, it's gonna be tough, man, drink water. Well.
- 26:18The story, the story unfortunately doesn't doesn't just end with them going alone,
- 26:22because the middle part of that story is that they keep voting in more and
- 26:27more bullshit and it becomes everyone problem. Well of course, yeah, that's
- 26:33what I'm saying, Like, yes, another thing that Like this guy that
- 26:37I knew was pissed at me for when I told him, you know,
- 26:40because he thinks, I don't know, he thinks that the government can solve
- 26:45problems. So I don't know what to say to that, like you know,
- 26:49oh that man, you get if you bring the ring to Gondor,
- 26:53we'll only use it at the most end, at the utmost end of need
- 26:59you know, And I don't know. I'm just like, yeah, you're
- 27:03And of course I'm the dumb ass, right, I'm the one who's naive.
- 27:06I'm the one who's stupid, even though this is what I've been doing
- 27:10for the last ten years. So anyway, I mean, ultimately, talking
- 27:15about feminism means talking about the role of government in your life. That's ultimately
- 27:18what it really means. Yes, and the government. The government doesn't solve
- 27:23problems. The government is the problem. Yes it is, but it's it's
- 27:30pretty much always been the problem when when you think about it. Yeah,
- 27:36have you ever so have you ever lost any friends over this stuff or family
- 27:42members or anything like that? Workers? I mean, or do you keep
- 27:52most of this stuff to yourself? Well? I keep mostening the stuff to
- 27:56myself. Now, Oh, okay, because I know my my mother and
- 28:03her husband. I I approached some of the surface level stuff a while ago,
- 28:08and they were they were not receptive. No, And and then uh,
- 28:17and it happened that stepfather he learned and he heard a part of one
- 28:22of one of the podcasts. This was one of our one of the one
- 28:26of your episodes. It was this was years ago, mind you, I
- 28:29think it was. I think it was a RAMS worker, but really it
- 28:33was one of them. It was it was one on Father's Day. But
- 28:37since then, since then, he's I don't know what he's seen, but
- 28:44he's said for that he thinks this, he thinks this, this stuff is
- 28:48poison. Yeah, he was saying that I'm going to become like, you
- 28:55know, I don't know, like like it's just like the pipe what do
- 28:59they call it, Like the far right pipeline type of thing. Oh,
- 29:02you're gonna start here and next thing you know, you're going to be gassing
- 29:04the jas. I'm like, no, I just want them to stop cutting
- 29:08boys penises. That's not the same. But yeah, I don't I don't
- 29:17know what. I don't know what he meant by that, But I haven't
- 29:19brought I haven't tried to proach the topic since because because I know myself and
- 29:26I'm gonna and I'm gonna end up fighting with my mom and I don't and
- 29:30I don't have the energy for it. Mm hmmm, No, I get
- 29:33it. And there's for there was another dying work. I got into what
- 29:41some high school friends about about Roby Wade, and I haven't spoken to them
- 29:45since. There's another one. That's that's a that's a yeah, because me,
- 29:53what what surface level stuff did you bring up with your parents? Do
- 29:59you remember you said you broke some surface level stuff? Like I'm curious about
- 30:03what surface level? Uh? It's not surface level. But no, I
- 30:12think I think it was the wage gap. Oh yeah, that's the most
- 30:18basic bitch talking point there is. And they didn't respond well to that.
- 30:26Nope, it was you know, I think I remember some of the context.
- 30:30It was like I was reading I was reading Warren Ferrell's book. Yeah,
- 30:36and and then that's one of the things that was in the book.
- 30:41I think it was, oh, I know why why men earned more?
- 30:44Or something like that. No, not that one. It was fuck what
- 30:48was it? Sure, it's forgetting the forgetting the name. But it's like
- 30:56that, It's like the first book in the series. It is like a
- 31:00series. Oh oh wow, women don't hear what men don't say? Something
- 31:07like that? Is that the one? I think? Mm hmm. It's
- 31:14like, no, no, no, that one. Okay, Well,
- 31:17I think I know what you. I know what you're saying. He's just
- 31:19written a number of books, So what Okay, let me ask you one
- 31:25last thing and then I'm gonna send you on your way. So, because
- 31:30like we are talking about, how do you bring this stuff up? Because
- 31:33I think if people are not more aware of it, then I don't I
- 31:38don't think much is gonna change. But it is a really difficult thing.
- 31:41I think it's the hardest thing, honestly, talking about men's issues with people.
- 31:45I think it's probably one of the hardest things, even though most men
- 31:49do have a story to tell, Like, I haven't met one guy who
- 31:52doesn't have a story to tell. Once I get them thinking about, oh,
- 31:56the myth of male power? Is that the one? Yeah, the
- 31:59myth of male power? Okay, yeah, yeah, I don't think yeah.
- 32:02So okay, So let's let's let me ask you this. What is
- 32:07one issue, one issue that you think would be the most palatable or normies
- 32:17to take on as a men's issue. M probably what do you think would
- 32:22be the what do you think would be the least let's say, the least
- 32:30I don't know, like the one it would get the least amount of discust
- 32:37response, the least yeah, like like uh, you know, child custody
- 32:47for example, or maybe like financial abortion, like whatever, something, right,
- 32:57Like the thing that's like the the least contemptible men's issue, the one
- 33:04that people can't really like that you think they're least likely to fight against,
- 33:08you know, the more likely to be receptive to the first instinct. Yeah,
- 33:16forrobably for probably say, I probably have to say a suicide suicide because
- 33:25that's something that's literally just happening. It's like, that's there's no there's no
- 33:30arguments. There's no argument that men are just killing themselves. People arguments about
- 33:37male fragility and toxic masculinity and stuff. But yeah, then and then that
- 33:43that's my and then when I take that train of thought further, that's the
- 33:45next step, that's the next stop. It's like, then then then they're
- 33:49going to attribute some some nonsense like toxic masculinity. Is like, all right,
- 33:52now, I'm I'm resisting to smack the ship out of you. People
- 34:00are Yeah, okay, we kind of spoke at the same time there,
- 34:05what'd you say? I said? People do? People are programmed. There
- 34:09are pre programmed responses to like every you know, like men's issue case that's
- 34:15made. I won't call it a talking point because that suggests that there's no
- 34:19substance, but like there is a case that men that that Men's Issues advocates
- 34:23make, and there is a programmed auto response, right, So you know,
- 34:29for example, I think the number one that should be the most the
- 34:35easiest to to put out there without strong opposition. It should be is probably
- 34:40circumcision or male genital emulation because it happens to a helpless newborn, Like,
- 34:45how can you possibly make the case against it? And yet people are pre
- 34:50programmed with a response, like they'll be like, well it's you know,
- 34:53it's cleaner, or it's safer or something right, or or I've even heard
- 34:58this from people who used to be MRAs. Oh women prefer it, you
- 35:02know, and it's I mean, I know those are ridiculous cases to make,
- 35:06absolutely ridiculous, but they do. So. I mean I think that
- 35:10we have to, like, okay, b you have to have like a
- 35:14counter argument prepared for their pre programmed arguments, because that's what it is.
- 35:20People just regurgitate, you know, like false allegations. What do they say
- 35:23to that, Oh, it's only four percent, even people who know they
- 35:28are going to say that, right, Oh yeah like that? Or or
- 35:32when men are raped, what is the Joe Rogan response. What did Joe
- 35:37Rogan say when some when he would joke about MRA saying well, men get
- 35:40raped more when you include prison rape. What is his what is his counter
- 35:45to that? Well, he'll say from by other men, right, which
- 35:49which does nothing. It doesn't like he thinks it's a counter he thinks it's
- 35:52clever, but it's not. Plus there's more data coming out that shows that
- 35:55women are just as sexually aggressive, but like it's the way that they do
- 36:00it and the way that it's reported and the way that it's you know,
- 36:05sort of like recorded that changes those numbers. So I mean, I'm just
- 36:10throwing it out there, like I'll ask you guys that too, like what
- 36:15do you think the number? If you were going to introduce the topic of
- 36:21men's issues to people who are blue pilled in your circle, I would,
- 36:25first of all, I wouldn't do it unless you, you know, thought
- 36:28that you could trust them with this information, because I used to fight with
- 36:31my university professors about this all the time and they had to pass me because
- 36:36I was damn good, a damn good student. But I'm pretty sure that
- 36:39like if I had done that more recently, I could have gotten kicked out
- 36:43of college for saying that, you know, like grape culture does not exist,
- 36:50which is what I used to say. And of course my professors that,
- 36:52oh, you just hate women. I was like, yeah, that's
- 36:54that's it. Yeah, I'm telling them they don't have anything to fear that
- 36:58means I hate them anyway. So yeah, any final thoughts, I'm gonna
- 37:07let you go, and uh, maybe I'll look at the chat a little
- 37:10bit. Nobody else has come in here. I don't know what's going on.
- 37:13Do you have any final thoughts? Mister blur, you're there? No,
- 37:21I had I had something? Was it all right? Well? That
- 37:30I was good? I was saying that, you know, the toxic masculiney
- 37:34thing with that, that's that's the one that makes me want to smack a
- 37:37shot you because then you're that's blaming as blaming men for the reasons that they
- 37:40kill themselves, which is just disgusting, I guess ultimately, and like it's
- 37:53like, eh, did should did? They're going to come home to roost
- 38:00and and I'm just I'm kind of just sitting back waiting to see where see
- 38:06where all the whereveryone is when smoke clears, because especially with the Department of
- 38:09Homeland Security just deciding that, you know, the Manisphere is domestic group of
- 38:14domestic terrorists, and I'm just like, oh cool, I can say I'm
- 38:16a domestic terrorists now. So the Department of Homeland Security and all that,
- 38:23Yeah, because for the crime, for the crime of men, want of
- 38:27men wanting to be treated fairly, or men just wanting to be left alone.
- 38:29You are dangerous mm hmmm because that because that tracks. Yeah, well
- 38:36again they're not really, They're not in it to help men or women for
- 38:39that matter. But thank you, mister Blurr for coming on. I'm gonna
- 38:44move myself into the show channel. And yeah, I appreciate the call.
- 38:49Thanks for joining me, No problem, all right, man, talk to
- 38:53you later. Okay, I got a super chow big one from Smokey Joe
- 39:00I'm gonna put on the screen, even though it's gonna look like an absolute
- 39:02mess, but I gotta because you did that. So uh. Smokey Joe
- 39:07gives us ten dollars and says this happened to me. A friend of about
- 39:10thirty years backed away from issues he'd been on board with seemingly forever. The
- 39:16COOF turned him into a snarky, sniping, dismissive individual. Oh man,
- 39:22Yes, the COOF did that. That did break up a lot of friendships,
- 39:25like especially you know, I didn't bring that up with the guy I
- 39:30was talking to yesterday. We talked. He wanted to talk about January sixth
- 39:32and shit, but yeah, I didn't even bring that up. I bet
- 39:37that he's, like, you know, all down with it. He thinks
- 39:39John Stewart's a genius and all that. But anyway, the coof turned him
- 39:45into a snarky, sniping, dismissive individual. I tried to find answers,
- 39:50but he just got more defensive and distant. Haven't seen him or his family
- 39:53for two years now. I saw a comment in the chat that this can
- 39:58be quite black pilling. But although upsetting, I'm glad I found out as
- 40:01soon as things got a bit difficult rather than later. I would have believed
- 40:07I could count on him for support in some way. Sorry, I couldn't
- 40:09get discord to work on my ancient machine. We'll try another time. It's
- 40:14okay, thank you, smoking Joe. I'm sorry that happened to you.
- 40:15You know, it really sucks when you're when you have very old friends and
- 40:21like something happens that kind of tests your friendship and like you know, they
- 40:25just they just abandon you. Let me ask you this because like in my
- 40:29case, I have never like blocked or unfriended or banned or anything anyone like
- 40:38even like there are guys that that like that we used to be my friend
- 40:44that were so like pissed with me, because not not even like you know
- 40:50when when TDS like with like they all have TDS, these guys, right,
- 40:53And I didn't even say that. I was like, you know,
- 41:00like all on board, maga all the way. I've never done that.
- 41:02I've never done that. I've only ever been like, well, I think
- 41:07this guy's being treated unfairly here, right, Oh well, I don't think
- 41:09the I think the media is lying about this thing, you know about about
- 41:14Trump or whatever. And people will think that that means I'm just ride or
- 41:17die, you know, and I'm all, I'm It's sort of It's exactly
- 41:21the same as when I say, you know, I think Bill Cosby was
- 41:23railroaded into a conviction. I think Harvey Weinstein is railroaded into a conviction.
- 41:30People think that means I just love these people. It's like, no,
- 41:31I don't. I care about the truth and I care about what is right
- 41:36and I'm just speaking on that and and they and but when it came to
- 41:39like you know this stuff, oh my god, it just it just oh
- 41:47I get you know, it sucks, man, it sucks. But I've
- 41:50never unfronted them. But they have like avoided me like the plague, right,
- 41:53or they would they would do this concern trolling thing out if you've or
- 41:55ever heard this, but I've gotten this from a couple of guys where I'm
- 41:59like, you know, I'm kind of like, I'm kind of afraid of
- 42:01this dark path you're going down. Like they'll talk like this is Star Wars,
- 42:06right, You're going on a dark path. I'm concerned. Oh my
- 42:09god, I fucking hate that. I hate concern trolls, especially when they've
- 42:14known me. It's like, you know me, motherfucker. I haven't changed
- 42:16that much, you know, I'm just like working with new information like it's
- 42:22you're going down a dark road. Oh man, I hate that. Anyway,
- 42:27I got another call, so this is working out. Shadow Wolf is
- 42:30in the screen rooms. I'm gonna go join him and I'll say hi to
- 42:34MK. All right, I'm going in to see shadow Wolf. All right,
- 42:39shadow Wolf high, what's up? Welcome? How are you to?
- 42:44I'm good? How are you? Ah? Not too bad? Figured?
- 42:51I was so the time. I might have catched these afterwards and uh,
- 42:54no problem. What's what's on your mind? Well, a bit of my
- 43:00own experience in talking with friends, I've got multiple friends of my gaming group
- 43:06that I've learned to kind of hold my tongue on politics for stubbal reasons.
- 43:15One of them, I've tried talking about political issues, men's rights and all
- 43:19that, and I brought up circumcision, and the friend, who's a former
- 43:25Army medic, straight up his response to my talking about the pain and suffering
- 43:31it causes like, yeah, but women like it better. Oh my god.
- 43:36I've heard this before though. This is like, this is the problem
- 43:38with worshiping women. I mean, because that's what it is. Like.
- 43:45Can you imagine like if a woman said, you know, I prefer a
- 43:47guy with like, you know, uh, three fingers and a thumb on
- 43:52each hand because I like bugs Bundy cartoons, and men start cutting off their
- 43:55pinky fingers. Can you imagine somebody saying you should just get your bigie finger
- 44:00removed? Why because women like that better. They're into that. Oh my
- 44:06god. Yeah, yeah, that sounds like that sounds like simp behavior to
- 44:09me. Oh I one percent agree. Yeah. Other members of the friend
- 44:15group have drunk the kool aid in regards to uh covid, the thoughts,
- 44:21the masks, all that, mm hmm. They put a lot of pressure
- 44:25on me to get the JAB and one of them who I can talk about
- 44:30a lot of very complicated stuff. When I mentioned that I hadn't, he
- 44:35asked why I was so selfish. Yeah, oh my god, of course
- 44:40you're selfish because you're making decisions about your own health. Yeah, you don't
- 44:46wait and see? What was that? Because I wanted to wait and see
- 44:52because this is you know, new new vaccine technique, new technology that I
- 44:58was absolutely not familiar with. It's like, yeah, I I'm not going
- 45:00to trust it. I want to wait and see what happens. Okay,
- 45:01Allison's asked me not to talk about that stuff. She's asking me. No,
- 45:07No, it's okay. We can just change the language or just say,
- 45:10you know, the thing, the thing from twenty nineteen. But yeah,
- 45:16because you know, like well YouTube olds doesn't play, but I get
- 45:21it. So you so you so people that you would have otherwise considered to
- 45:24be very reasonable and rational became irrational about this, right Okay? Yeah,
- 45:36And unfortunately I was kind of how long of you know, waiting about ten
- 45:43years? Really? And okay, and you can be friends with someone for
- 45:49a long time, but maybe you don't like like know them, know them,
- 45:53you know, like maybe they're in your friend group or they're people you
- 45:57have a hobby you share. But maybe but maybe that's it. Like is
- 46:00this person somebody that you felt like kind of close to, like you knew,
- 46:04you know their family members, you you knew their their maybe they knew
- 46:09your family members things like that. Or was this just like somebody that you
- 46:14knew online or went to class with or work with. Uh, they're members
- 46:19of a I know them from a tabletop gaming he gaed in person. Until
- 46:24I moved to go to college, we still came online. So yeah,
- 46:30I can say, Okay, so yeah, I get that's you know,
- 46:34that's actually my situation too. Like the guy that I'm uh one guy.
- 46:37I mean, there's a few other dudes that I've known for a long time.
- 46:39One guy used to live with. But the guy that I was talking
- 46:45about yesterday, he was so I've known for a very long time, but
- 46:47mainly we just sort of like hobbied together. So it wasn't I mean,
- 46:52we would get into some discussions, but it wasn't like I don't know,
- 46:58like I didn't feel like super close, you know what I mean? Yeah,
- 47:02like I could share like my personal like you know, like feelings and
- 47:07weaknesses and my vulnerabilities, like I didn't really do that with that person,
- 47:14So how do you feel about that? Like does it bother you or suns
- 47:27a bit that. At the same time, I recognize that they have you
- 47:31know, they have their own histories, their own reasons for doing things,
- 47:35and I try not to be too judgmental. Do you ever feel sometimes?
- 47:39Okay, have you ever felt like gas lit? And I should have asked
- 47:44you guys this, Like yesterday I had the debate when it got so intense
- 47:50and I was made to feel so wrong even though I was sure I wasn't
- 47:54that when it was over, I was having like some doubts like where I
- 47:58was like, am I the bad guy? You know? Like like have
- 48:02you ever had that? Do you guys know what I'm talking about? Huh?
- 48:08Yeah? And I've been aware of several attempts, largely from my family.
- 48:17Cerrolling is really it's like it's gaslighting, go ahead, My family will
- 48:29try to In my experience, my family tries to gaslight me. My friends
- 48:31try to convince me. Yeah, it's like a struggle session. That's what
- 48:42I experienced yesterday. Uh, I mean, thankfully the friends I game with
- 48:52are fairly diverse in terms of their political views, so I'm not alone at
- 48:57least in that regard. M as far as I am aware, I am
- 49:00the only non liberal in my family though. Mm hmm. Yeah, well
- 49:10yeah, I mean I get it like that, I have to. I
- 49:13can't tell my mother about what I do. I don't she doesn't know.
- 49:15She wouldn't get it, like it's it's like it's not easy. So okay,
- 49:22So I think if you have any final thoughts, because I think I'm
- 49:24gonna wrap it up. No one this, Uh, I do really appreciate
- 49:31you guys. Sorry about putting it in the danger zone. Wasn't no,
- 49:36no, don't look dude, dude, don't worry about it. Don't worry
- 49:37about it. If it was me, I would just like not, I
- 49:40wouldn't be I would just leave it up. But Alison's just really like worried.
- 49:45So it's okay, don't worry about it. Yeah, I get that.
- 49:47Mm hmm. I mean I don't know if it's something that because I
- 49:52know that some people still talk about it, some people don't. I don't
- 49:53know, you know, so I don't know what the are Yeah, yeah,
- 50:00yeah, it's fine, but I think we all understand, and probably
- 50:04a lot of people here relate odds are Oh yeah, take it on,
- 50:10Jojoe. He's okay, hi Jojo? Yeah? All right, Well,
- 50:15anyway, final thoughts, shadow Wolf or I let you go? Not really.
- 50:21I am making efforts to try and improve my life, trying to cut
- 50:24out some bad habits, pick up a new hobby. Yeah, so we'll
- 50:30see how that, see how that goes? All right? All right,
- 50:34that's great man. Well, I'm gonna you can stay here if you want.
- 50:36I'm gonna move into the show channel. I see that the Fishcott Nukes
- 50:38is typing, but I don't know if he's gonna come in here, and
- 50:42if nobody else comes, I'm gonna like in the show. So thanks shadow
- 50:49Wolf. I'm gonna move into the show channel now and I'll see you later.
- 50:52Okay, let me see do I have any other I'll come on Fishcott
- 50:58News okay, all right, MK, I'm gonna go in there and talk
- 51:01to m K really quick. All right, Oh, you can stay there,
- 51:06fish got nukes? Okay? MK? What's up? Is your is
- 51:10your thing working? Let me just check you're not muted and neither of you
- 51:15guys are mutic can you guys talk Hello, do you need permissions? Can
- 51:22you rea me? Yes, I can hear you. Oh great, I'm
- 51:25sorry, I forgot. That's all right, what's up? Yeah, it's
- 51:30about looking friends and so not talking about the topic. Alison doesn't want us
- 51:35to mention. Uh, the issue is I'm facing a well she hits the
- 51:42fan situation at the moment. I'm in danger of getting homeless. And I
- 51:46had some friends who told me that it's okay for them, that I saw
- 51:51some of my stuff with them, and if you even told me that I
- 51:53can couch stuff with them, and yeah, I'm in the code red situation
- 52:00and as their help and they all let me go. And yeah, it's
- 52:07more about the question I have actually, because you wrote in the title how
- 52:12to cope? Question is how to cope with a situation like this if if
- 52:16your friends abandoned, I mean, one has a has a good apology for
- 52:21it because he's emigrating to another country. But yeah, yeah, wow,
- 52:28man, so where are you right now in the world. I'm in Switzerland,
- 52:35Switzerland, okay, And you don't have a place to stay, and
- 52:39your friends won't like you're the people that you thought where your friends are not
- 52:45able or willing to help you. Is this because of their inability or because
- 52:51of some disagreement, like they don't like you or your ideas. Yeah,
- 52:58actually, I'm lose in my current accommodation, and well I have to move
- 53:02out here. And my friends always told me, yeah, it's no issue.
- 53:06Man, we have a couch, other one that is moving to another
- 53:09contracts had a guest room I could have had. But now they all said,
- 53:15oh no, please do not come to me. I don't want this
- 53:20and so on. Actually one said I'm too negative for well, yeah,
- 53:27situation giving me depression. Let's be honest. Yeah, yeah, actually it
- 53:30didn't tell me. It's to me, it looks like they were all some
- 53:35kind of leeches. You know. I'm the guy fixing computers, so not
- 53:40really friends, I guess. Holy shit, man, I want to help
- 53:50you. Is there anyone in the chat that lives in Switzerland that can like
- 53:53offer some assistance. I don't know much about the country, but maybe you
- 53:59guys can help him out in some way. This is a I'm really sorry
- 54:07that you're going through that. I couldn't imagine. Well, how much time
- 54:10do you have? Hard to say, sometimes it's summer then it's autumn.
- 54:20The issue is a welfare department. I'm on an inval invalidity. I'm sorry.
- 54:24I hate starting just mentioned once in a while. And the welfare department
- 54:29made me live in my parents' house. And since my dad died house it
- 54:32became too much. My mother wants to sell to sell it, she doesn't
- 54:36have a buyer yet, but as soon she have one, I have to
- 54:38move out. So it's some somewhere in DC year but that's all I know.
- 54:44And the Welfare department wouldn't allow me to move in a rented flat because
- 54:49for some reason, I don't know why, if it's on purpose or just
- 54:52stupidity. I'm sorry to say. They do not understand well that I have
- 54:59to move out. They say, hey, it's an agreeable situation. You
- 55:02can stay there. No, I can't, but they don't understand that.
- 55:07Yeah, are you in our discord? Not this one, but the actual
- 55:13Honeybadger Brigade discord. No, I'm not all right. I'm gonna send here.
- 55:20Here's what I'm gonna do. I can't obviously I'm in the United States.
- 55:24I don't know. I don't think I can help you. And I'm
- 55:27also kind of struggling. But what I'm gonna do is I'm going to invite
- 55:35you to the discord and you can go in there and because there's a big
- 55:43community there and there are probably people that can direct you someplace and help you
- 55:46out. Well, I already got a good lawyer from my law enforcement insurance.
- 55:53He's trying to convince the VELFA department. My question was more like,
- 55:58how to cope with situation like friends abandoning you? When she did the friend
- 56:02situation, Yeah, well that's what I'm saying. This is this is tough
- 56:07because like this is something that you know, it's no one would dream of.
- 56:15What about family? Do you have family that you can rely on?
- 56:19It's on me? No, they did, Yes they did. They this
- 56:24own me because what did my godmother, also my aunties say. She she's
- 56:32a goddamn it, she's ashamed of me because I lost my job, and
- 56:37she can nobody tell that. I can tell nobody that she's related to me,
- 56:42And the rest of the family immediately started with her because I'm the only
- 56:47one who doesn't have a university degree. In my generation. We only have
- 56:53three, well two cousins and me in this current but they all have university
- 57:00degree. I have been bullied out of college. I was Title ninth before
- 57:05the United States had a Title nine. Yeah. I've seen my fair share
- 57:12of shit, let's be honest. Yeah, I shouldn't happen to anybody.
- 57:27Yeah, definitely not, definitely not. I'm trying to think, like,
- 57:30Okay, so I'm going to see and I hope you guys too, can
- 57:37find some resources that will help this guy out. So what I would ask
- 57:43that you do is go into the discord. I know the people that are
- 57:47like in our discorder watching this, and maybe they can help you out.
- 57:52We'll figure something out so that you, you know, can like maybe just
- 57:57like start on a path to get back on your feet and you don't have
- 58:01to deal with this. And then and I'm really sorry that that happened.
- 58:05That should not like that's ridiculous. This kind of thing is just breaks my
- 58:10heart. Man. I find some I find some other verts than ridiculous.
- 58:17Yeah, I know, I want to appreciate it. Welcome. I hope,
- 58:22I hope that we'll figure this out. Man, Well, we'll figure
- 58:25something out. In the meantime, I do have to talk to Fishcott Nukes.
- 58:31You can stay here if you want Okay. If it's okay with the
- 58:35fish got nukes, it's okay with me. I would be fine with you.
- 58:40Okay. So what's up, man? What do you what do you
- 58:45do? What's on your mind? Well? I was just kind of thinking
- 58:50recently about oh, like when you're younger, you're just you know, doing
- 58:58your thing. But now I find I might have my friends. If I
- 59:01talked to him on the phone, they sound a certain way. I'm afraid,
- 59:04you know, well, man' you gonna kill himself or something. It's
- 59:07really messed up. Hmmm. You know, I got a couple of friends
- 59:10like that, So it's stressful too. I you know, I do too,
- 59:14even like you know what I mean, it's pretty missed them. They
- 59:17don't feel you know what I've noticed in with some of my friends, they
- 59:22don't think they they they don't think there's any love in the world at all.
- 59:28Like that's how dark it's getting for them and I and I, I
- 59:32mean, I understand where it comes from. But they they, you know,
- 59:38they have like we we need it out man, Like I get it.
- 59:43So what what do you normally do they do? They come to you
- 59:45for help, just you know, call them for a few days, you
- 59:51know, maybe you know, sometimes they pick up, but they don't.
- 59:52But if you don't hear from them and then they pick up, you know,
- 59:54he was like, oh, I'm having you know, I'll just kill
- 59:58myself like that. Don't do it, man, and don't do it.
- 1:00:00Don't go to the hospital. Don't kill yourself. Just try to work a
- 1:00:04way out as something, to come up with some kind of plan and execute
- 1:00:07it. Yeah, and then you know, but they're in depression. Oh
- 1:00:09well, I don't know, and they just reject every possible thing you're trying
- 1:00:14to come up with. It's just, you know, so you know,
- 1:00:17some people's problems, isn't you know, problems are problems. But at least
- 1:00:22if you're not thinking about killing yourself, you ain't really good problems. Yeah
- 1:00:28that's true again. Yeah, that's uh. I'm really sorry that that you
- 1:00:36people are going through that, but it is like a growing issue. What
- 1:00:39would you what would you recommend for people that are in that dark place?
- 1:00:47All your friends mm hmm, that at least you think care about you.
- 1:00:52Go to church, can find a community, pray, read the Bible,
- 1:00:57fine Jesus, stuff like that. Yeah, stay and stuff. Don't you
- 1:01:02know what I don't. I don't know, man, finding Jesus doesn't seem
- 1:01:06to be that standard these days, maybe one hundred years ago, you know.
- 1:01:14Well, but I think that uh, you know, I was gonna
- 1:01:17you know, now that you mentioned it, actually maybe MK, maybe you
- 1:01:21I don't know if there's churches in Switzerland, but you might be able to
- 1:01:23find some help there. But it's a thought. I don't know. But
- 1:01:35well, fish got news. Thanks and thanks for the uh contribution that you
- 1:01:40gave me the other day, well like last month. Appreciate it. You
- 1:01:44know, just trying to support some people for the holidays. You know,
- 1:01:50I get a little bit of cash. So mm hmm. Yeah, listening
- 1:01:53for a while, I feel like, you know, I should do something,
- 1:01:59did you m hmm. I was gonna say, but what what made
- 1:02:06you? Like? How long you've been listening to us? Well, okay,
- 1:02:12it's a year or two. I'd say, all right, Well I'll
- 1:02:17send you an invite to the to the discord and uh, maybe you can
- 1:02:24help some people in there, because we do. You know, some of
- 1:02:28us are doing all right, some of us are struggling, and I think
- 1:02:32that like we you know, we need all the help we can get.
- 1:02:36So any oh yeah, go ahead part of the club. Yeah, man,
- 1:02:42no problem. That's what we're trying. I think that's the important thing
- 1:02:45is that we're we're trying to build. So all right, I'm gonna end
- 1:02:51the show because I gotta go pick up the wife soon. So I wanted
- 1:02:55to thank you and and Fish got a new cip thoughts before I head out
- 1:03:02that you want to say, Well, lectures coming up. Better have some
- 1:03:09kind of things. Get jiggy again. You better be prepared. Yeah yeah,
- 1:03:19yeah, uhur is gonna be absolutely wild. That's what I will say.
- 1:03:24So we'll see aliens in Miami. Let's bring it on, all right.
- 1:03:31Well, thanks guys, Yeah, take it easy. I'll talk to
- 1:03:37you later. Have a good one. I'm gonna head to the show channel
- 1:03:39and take us out. Thanks so much for calling in. Appreciate it,
- 1:03:44No problem. Okay, So I'm gonna wrap it up there. And this
- 1:03:50wasn't that bad considering I didn't have a screener and I had to do everything
- 1:03:52by ear. If this happens again, I might try this another way.
- 1:03:57Maybe I'll use stream yard or something like that. But I'm gonna wrap it
- 1:04:01up there. And if you want to continue to like leave me some comments
- 1:04:10or whatever you can do. So by going to feed the Bachelor dot com,
- 1:04:15I'm setting through a super chow. I will endeavor to read it on
- 1:04:18stream if you do. And in the meantime, though, I think I'm
- 1:04:21gonna close it out there. And this was a success. Actually I'm surprised
- 1:04:25it worked out. So I'm so glad that you guys showed up and that
- 1:04:29you called in and gave us your thoughts. It was just great. So
- 1:04:33thanks so much. I think these are very important conversations that we should be
- 1:04:38having. So again, Oh and one other thing, if you want to
- 1:04:42help out MK with this situation in Switzerland, join us on the discord server
- 1:04:46by going to feed the Batchel dot com. No, I'm sorry, it's
- 1:04:48called what's it called badger nation dot online. You get access to the free
- 1:04:54area and you can like just go in there and say, look, you
- 1:04:58know, I'm looking for MK. It's e m kay, and then you
- 1:05:02know, maybe you have something. I know that Michael Keller, I think
- 1:05:04you're in that part of the world. I don't know, So go to
- 1:05:08Badginations online offer like just some advice or whatever. So I don't know,
- 1:05:13whatever we can do to help these guys out, like no one else is
- 1:05:15gonna do it. It looks like they're in pretty bad shape. So all
- 1:05:19right, I'm gonna wrap it up there, jin Bottle says Brian. When's
- 1:05:25your next, he said, She said, well, I might put one
- 1:05:30up tomorrow. I I it depends on a couple of things. Basically,
- 1:05:36put this this isn't the wrong place. It depends on a couple of things,
- 1:05:42like you know, because we get it's supposed to be like a pretty
- 1:05:44bad snowstorm here, which is weird for southwest Virginia. But I might put
- 1:05:49something up tomorrow. If I don't, then definitely by Monday there'll be another
- 1:05:54video. I have a couple of things planned. One of them is a
- 1:05:57response video, so yeah, look out for that. And I also have
- 1:06:00more clips from my talk with Justin Dwayne Parker, who's been doing really good
- 1:06:05work. I'd definitely recommend to check out his substack that's on my channel,
- 1:06:12he said. She said, And of course always I do game streams on
- 1:06:16Honey Badger Arcade, which I'm asking you guys to check out as well.
- 1:06:21So anyway, I'm gonna wrap it up there. So if you guys like
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