Latest / The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast / S4 #1 Happy Janu-ARIE!
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Let's do it. This is the Benn and Ashley I
- 0:03Speaker 1: Almost Famous podcast with our radio. Season four has begun.
- 0:10Speaker 1: I've been I'm Ashley and congratulations been on four seasons.
- 0:15Speaker 1: Oh wow, what a surprise. So excited about it and
- 0:23Speaker 1: I don't want this to end anytime soon. And Ashley,
- 0:26Speaker 1: we have made it through the roughest part of the podcast.
- 0:30Speaker 1: We have literally for the last few months just bought
- 0:32Speaker 1: time talking about our lives and rumors around vaterination and
- 0:36Speaker 1: pop culture, just to get to this day and this
- 0:40Speaker 1: moment because it's January. Are okay? So after after watching
- 0:45Speaker 1: the first episode, I kind of cringe singing January. I
- 0:49Speaker 1: don't think we should be. I don't think we should
- 0:51Speaker 1: I was all about the cute little term, but now
- 0:54Speaker 1: after watching it, I just don't know if Ari should
- 0:56Speaker 1: have a month named after him. And isn't the show
- 1:00Speaker 1: on in February? Yeah, well it is February as well.
- 1:03Speaker 1: We will start those promo ads soon or what even? Mark? Right? Well,
- 1:09Speaker 1: there's Mari's good to see. I see you can have
- 1:14Speaker 1: a debt with the Bachelor. Here's the deal. Okay, Um,
- 1:16Speaker 1: it's it's season for episode one of the Almost Famous Podcast,
- 1:21Speaker 1: Ari season as a Bachelor started today and as a result,
- 1:26Speaker 1: we wanted to give you this podcast as quickly as possible.
- 1:30Speaker 1: And so Ashley's in studio in Los Angeles, Easton's they're
- 1:34Speaker 1: helping her out. Amen Taho. I'm in Denver. We don't
- 1:39Speaker 1: have any Mark, We don't have any anybody helping us
- 1:42Speaker 1: out behind the scene because we want to get this
- 1:44Speaker 1: podcast to you as quickly as possible, and so deal
- 1:47Speaker 1: with us as we talk on and only the four
- 1:51Speaker 1: of us dummies. We're willing to work on New Year's Day. Yeah,
- 1:54Speaker 1: we just watched the episode East Coast feed. Um, we're
- 1:57Speaker 1: lucky like that over here on the West Coast. It's
- 2:00Speaker 1: it's not as much fun watching on West Coast time
- 2:02Speaker 1: because you like, watch all the tweets and you hear
- 2:06Speaker 1: about it and then you have to you know, I
- 2:08Speaker 1: don't know how you feel really good, point athlete. A
- 2:11Speaker 1: lot of people won't look at the on the West Coast,
- 2:14Speaker 1: won't look at the internet because people start writing about it.
- 2:17Speaker 1: Do you like the spoilers like as they're going before
- 2:20Speaker 1: you watch it? Yeah, I mean I can't deal with
- 2:23Speaker 1: finales when people see that we post like congratulations so
- 2:27Speaker 1: and so on Instagram and they're like, you spoiled it.
- 2:30Speaker 1: I used to like you and then you made this
- 2:32Speaker 1: post and now I hate you and I can't believe
- 2:34Speaker 1: you ruined my life like this. I'm like, oh my god,
- 2:37Speaker 1: you guys, come on, then get off the computer. If
- 2:40Speaker 1: it's going to ruin your life. Hey, actually I got
- 2:44Speaker 1: it here. I mean, you are the expert, let's jump
- 2:47Speaker 1: into it. Uh, we did just watch our first episode.
- 2:52Speaker 1: First episodes, personally, to me, are the f flute worst.
- 2:55Speaker 1: They're long, and they're boring. Thank you. Uh, They're not
- 3:00Speaker 1: my favorite, but you can typically get a pretty good
- 3:03Speaker 1: sense of how this season will, at least initially play out.
- 3:07Speaker 1: Can we just get your your professional breakdown from the
- 3:10Speaker 1: Bachelor expert herself on what you thought in the first
- 3:13Speaker 1: episode of our season. Yes, I gave you a little
- 3:16Speaker 1: preview before by saying that I don't think we should
- 3:18Speaker 1: call it January because I don't know if um if
- 3:23Speaker 1: A is gonna be able to lead this this season.
- 3:26Speaker 1: I think that it's going to be the girls. I know.
- 3:30Speaker 1: I feel like he came across a little cold, a
- 3:33Speaker 1: little robotic in the fact that like there was some
- 3:36Speaker 1: things that he said that just sounded like he was
- 3:39Speaker 1: reading lines and being a really bad actor. Um, I'm
- 3:43Speaker 1: sure he's a super nice guy. Have not met him.
- 3:45Speaker 1: I don't want to say anything about his character. I'm
- 3:47Speaker 1: just saying, like, as a bachelor, I think that he's
- 3:50Speaker 1: obvious about being very interested in some he's already showing
- 3:55Speaker 1: disinterous in others. I don't know, Ben say, Here's what
- 3:59Speaker 1: I can say. I learned a little behind the scenes
- 4:01Speaker 1: in that. And Ben can probably talk about this too.
- 4:04Speaker 1: Is that, from what I heard about Ari, he is
- 4:06Speaker 1: not in it to become famous or you know, an
- 4:11Speaker 1: Instagram of course media mogul. But he is taking it
- 4:16Speaker 1: super serious to find a wife. And I wonder if
- 4:19Speaker 1: that's why he's coming across a little bit cold, because
- 4:22Speaker 1: he's being so serious about it. Like do I like her?
- 4:25Speaker 1: Do I like her? What are my feelings for her?
- 4:28Speaker 1: I don't know. That could be true. And I want
- 4:31Speaker 1: to say that my friend Naz, a former producer on
- 4:34Speaker 1: the show and who now does this thing on YouTube
- 4:37Speaker 1: called will You Accept This Ride where you can get
- 4:39Speaker 1: to know a little bit more about the contestants behind
- 4:42Speaker 1: the scenes. Um. She met him a couple of weeks ago,
- 4:45Speaker 1: and she said he's just lovely and has absolutely no
- 4:49Speaker 1: idea how to deal with social media, and he's just
- 4:53Speaker 1: he's just like a regular guy. And she said that
- 4:56Speaker 1: his intentions seems super true. Yeah. I've met him a
- 4:59Speaker 1: lot of times, back in the first round when he
- 5:01Speaker 1: was on and he is a nice guy, like he
- 5:03Speaker 1: really is. I think it'll be interesting. Okay, this will
- 5:06Speaker 1: be interesting, and let's say it now and then we'll
- 5:08Speaker 1: analyze it in a few months, because we all know
- 5:11Speaker 1: right now he's saying, I'm not in this to be famous.
- 5:14Speaker 1: I'm doing this to find a wife. I have all
- 5:16Speaker 1: the right reasons. Blah blah blah. I wonder what's going
- 5:19Speaker 1: to happen when suddenly NASCAR is wanting him to raise
- 5:23Speaker 1: the flag or whatever they do in NASCAR, or do
- 5:25Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, when he starts getting
- 5:27Speaker 1: all these offers, is he going to fall for it?
- 5:30Speaker 1: Does that make sense? I'm asking it? Yeah. I wonder
- 5:34Speaker 1: if he'll change his mind and be like, how could
- 5:36Speaker 1: I say no, I think he's going to do it.
- 5:39Speaker 1: I think he'll do all that and I don't. But
- 5:42Speaker 1: but that's fine, because I think that what it is
- 5:44Speaker 1: is about your intention going into it. Oh, that's a
- 5:47Speaker 1: good point. I think that's good point. Yeah, so he
- 5:49Speaker 1: can do whatever offers come his way afterwards, Ben, what
- 5:51Speaker 1: did you think of Ari? You know, I think it
- 5:56Speaker 1: has to do. I haven't heard nothing negative at all
- 5:59Speaker 1: about are and you typically will at this point in
- 6:02Speaker 1: the in the Bachelor is whoever the Bachelor, Bachelor, whoever
- 6:05Speaker 1: has chosen they're there. Their skeletons in the closet will
- 6:09Speaker 1: come out before the first episode typically, And you really
- 6:11Speaker 1: haven't heard a lot about our other than you know,
- 6:13Speaker 1: some past relationships, which what you don't expect the guy
- 6:16Speaker 1: to date, like you know, he hasn't in a committed relationship,
- 6:19Speaker 1: so he chose to do the Bachelor. I think Amy
- 6:22Speaker 1: is spot on. I think from what Amy has told me,
- 6:24Speaker 1: what I've heard, he is taking this so serious and
- 6:28Speaker 1: I appreciate that. I think that is the best way
- 6:30Speaker 1: to do it. I was given advice from some former
- 6:33Speaker 1: bachelors when I was a bachelor to just have fun
- 6:35Speaker 1: and they get funny and laugh, and it never felt
- 6:38Speaker 1: appropriate to me to handle it that way. Um. But
- 6:42Speaker 1: the thing you struggle with when you take it so serious,
- 6:45Speaker 1: it is hard to have fun. And if every moment
- 6:47Speaker 1: is intense from the first night to last because it's
- 6:50Speaker 1: an emotional roller coaster, So he did come off cold.
- 6:54Speaker 1: He came off very dry. I thought his responses to
- 6:57Speaker 1: the women were just kind of like he just felt
- 7:00Speaker 1: like he was just trying to get through Night one.
- 7:03Speaker 1: Excited to see the rest of the episodes. Say, um, okay,
- 7:07Speaker 1: let's go into like act two, Sean and Katherine come
- 7:11Speaker 1: back again, and I just pray that Ari we'll find
- 7:16Speaker 1: someone and get married and the next year so that
- 7:19Speaker 1: Sean and Katherine could have a break from the first
- 7:22Speaker 1: the first episode warm up, I mean the bachelor is
- 7:26Speaker 1: using and abusing. They are everywhere they I mean Sean
- 7:30Speaker 1: gave me advice. Um, I don't know if you gave
- 7:33Speaker 1: Crystal toy. I mean, Sean has been around forever. Um,
- 7:40Speaker 1: but you got to think about it, like they are
- 7:42Speaker 1: the only bachelor couple on the highlight. I mean they
- 7:46Speaker 1: have a kid now. Like but yes, actually I've I've
- 7:49Speaker 1: seen a lot of Sean and Katherine, and as as
- 7:51Speaker 1: great as I'm sure they are, it's time for them
- 7:53Speaker 1: to take a break. Right. My second point, and I'm
- 7:57Speaker 1: sorry if I go in like super chronological order, I
- 7:59Speaker 1: have the long list of things to talk about. I
- 8:03Speaker 1: took I'm just gonna sit here and listen. You just
- 8:06Speaker 1: start talking, and I think everybody out there just really
- 8:08Speaker 1: wants to hear your stop now, Ben. What I want
- 8:11Speaker 1: to do is like bring up points and then you
- 8:14Speaker 1: can talk. You can tell me you're your point of
- 8:16Speaker 1: view about them. Okay, So look, um first, uh, for somebody,
- 8:25Speaker 1: somebody who was so entrenched in this franchise of a
- 8:27Speaker 1: podcast about it, have had it, have done it so
- 8:30Speaker 1: many times, love it, talk about it like it is
- 8:32Speaker 1: my actual job. The one thing that I cannot deal
- 8:37Speaker 1: with it's all the cliches. I can't hear anybody say
- 8:42Speaker 1: like I'm ready to fall, I'm ready to give it
- 8:44Speaker 1: my all. I want something like I want somebody to
- 8:47Speaker 1: say something real that's not like I'm ready to jump
- 8:50Speaker 1: and be caught in all that stuff, the packages, all
- 9:00Speaker 1: those packages and the cliches, being like, you know, I'm
- 9:04Speaker 1: ready for Ari to be the one. I want someone
- 9:06Speaker 1: to say something like, you know what, I'm really excited
- 9:10Speaker 1: to like experience this and if I like Ari, well
- 9:13Speaker 1: that will be awesome. Well, I mean it's it's kind
- 9:18Speaker 1: of actually, after this episode, I recognize that more than ever,
- 9:22Speaker 1: thank you. Yes, there is a format to this show, right,
- 9:26Speaker 1: even if it's not you know, produced or scripted, there's
- 9:30Speaker 1: you Typically, I feel that the contestants that come on
- 9:33Speaker 1: are usually saying the same thing. They're coming up with
- 9:35Speaker 1: the same little phrases, and then the episode kind of
- 9:38Speaker 1: plays out the same. At least, the episode one plays
- 9:42Speaker 1: out the same way every year. There's always you know,
- 9:44Speaker 1: the first girl to grab him and everybody's mad at her. Uh,
- 9:47Speaker 1: you know, people are gonna come in and say, goofy wines.
- 9:49Speaker 1: For the entrances, there is a They do have a
- 9:53Speaker 1: format that worked for episode one, and I saw it
- 9:56Speaker 1: today more than ever, which is why I think that
- 9:59Speaker 1: episode one can usually be a bit boring. It's kind
- 10:01Speaker 1: of like the hump episode where I just like, all right,
- 10:03Speaker 1: let's get this one over with, let's learn names, let's
- 10:05Speaker 1: get a general sense of them, and then let's move
- 10:08Speaker 1: the frick on because I can't. Yeah, it's just it's
- 10:12Speaker 1: just too um formulaic for me at this point. I
- 10:15Speaker 1: think you're I mean, as horrible as it was to
- 10:17Speaker 1: put two girls against each other at Night one, it
- 10:20Speaker 1: did give a little spice and flavor. Um, so I
- 10:24Speaker 1: think they just need to maybe come up with something
- 10:26Speaker 1: new with entrances and just not have them all come
- 10:29Speaker 1: out of the limo at the same time. I mean,
- 10:31Speaker 1: for me, they tried to freak us out like they
- 10:33Speaker 1: did half the limo, and they made us feel like
- 10:35Speaker 1: there was only gonna be fifteen girls in the season,
- 10:38Speaker 1: and then there was like a whole other load of
- 10:39Speaker 1: fifteen more. Oh there's something. They give it, some creative amy.
- 10:44Speaker 1: I want to hear your thoughts. You've been around the franchise.
- 10:47Speaker 1: It's a little bit of time because you're so young. Um,
- 10:50Speaker 1: were you disappointed into ninth instances? I felt like more
- 10:54Speaker 1: than ever, this is just like I just find it same, same,
- 10:59Speaker 1: Like it's that first episode. To me, is always for
- 11:03Speaker 1: twenty seasons or however many it's been, is always the same.
- 11:07Speaker 1: Now here's what's interesting, because there's nothing I hate more
- 11:11Speaker 1: than the weird things they do. The math girl, the
- 11:15Speaker 1: girl that proposes the weird even the girl that pulled
- 11:20Speaker 1: up in the Mustang and the girl that pulled up
- 11:22Speaker 1: in the race car. Like that stuff makes me cringe,
- 11:25Speaker 1: but yet I remember it. So I was having a
- 11:27Speaker 1: conversation with one of the producers because I thought that
- 11:31Speaker 1: it was so awkward watching them race those little cars.
- 11:35Speaker 1: You know what, I remember when I were racing the
- 11:37Speaker 1: other thing. Although I want to get that Porsche, at
- 11:41Speaker 1: least I remember it. I think they have to do
- 11:44Speaker 1: it because it's the only way to differentiate any of
- 11:48Speaker 1: these people, because otherwise you really wouldn't remember. Like imagine
- 11:50Speaker 1: if they just walked up and they're like, Hi, I'm Laurence.
- 11:52Speaker 1: There was like seven Lawrence. It for us more than
- 11:56Speaker 1: they even do it for the Bachelor. Well, one, it's
- 11:58Speaker 1: good entertainment for it to be corny and creative, but
- 12:01Speaker 1: also like we are like, oh, that's red car girl,
- 12:04Speaker 1: that's a race car girl, that's weener girl. Well, i'll
- 12:07Speaker 1: tell you. I met the Mask Girl this weekend and
- 12:11Speaker 1: I so I met her at this store up here
- 12:14Speaker 1: in Tahoe, and I she had told somebody else she's
- 12:17Speaker 1: on this season of the Bachelor, and I had already
- 12:20Speaker 1: seen the episode, so I had no way of knowing
- 12:23Speaker 1: who she was. I literally was like, I don't know
- 12:26Speaker 1: who you were, and then she said I was the
- 12:28Speaker 1: Mask Girl. So immediately I'm like, oh, now I totally
- 12:32Speaker 1: remember who she was. I remember how awkward and uncomfortable
- 12:35Speaker 1: I was when she came up in the mask and
- 12:36Speaker 1: then remember she has the like weird reveal of her face. Yeah,
- 12:42Speaker 1: remember that, I was like and very mysterious. I was
- 12:44Speaker 1: really into it. Wait you were, Yeah, I've been thinking that, Yes,
- 12:51Speaker 1: she's gonna be remembered. She's my sperious. And then all
- 12:54Speaker 1: of a sudden she reveals her face and I mean,
- 12:56Speaker 1: you have no idea what are you gonna be looking at?
- 12:58Speaker 1: I mean I was That says a little bit about me,
- 13:01Speaker 1: but I was into the match. Okay, So that's really funny, Ben,
- 13:03Speaker 1: because I feel like you like that sense of humor.
- 13:06Speaker 1: You would like a girl to show up and be
- 13:08Speaker 1: a little bit more quirky. I think I was like,
- 13:10Speaker 1: I need someone who's just like a woman, and it's
- 13:14Speaker 1: going to give me a little mystery and it is
- 13:18Speaker 1: to be super mature, but I think like you have
- 13:19Speaker 1: more of like a lighthearted sense of five. Yeah, the
- 13:21Speaker 1: mask made me super uncomfortable because it's like and then
- 13:24Speaker 1: she told me also this funny thing that the mask
- 13:27Speaker 1: was putting lines on her face, you know how, like yeah,
- 13:30Speaker 1: like wearing glasses or like whatever. So she didn't want
- 13:34Speaker 1: to keep the mask on too long. So first she
- 13:35Speaker 1: was just going to take the mask off when she
- 13:37Speaker 1: got inside, and then they were the producers did say no, no, no,
- 13:39Speaker 1: you gotta because you're not going to know that you
- 13:41Speaker 1: were the mask girl. We have to show him you
- 13:44Speaker 1: removing the mask or whatever, which made total so told
- 13:49Speaker 1: me that was she glowing? Does she look look here?
- 13:55Speaker 1: I don't know about that, but this is what I
- 13:58Speaker 1: could say about her. I know that next week and
- 14:02Speaker 1: the week after she The best way to say is,
- 14:06Speaker 1: I think she's going to have sort of a meltdown, Okay,
- 14:09Speaker 1: so we can watch for that and then talk about it.
- 14:13Speaker 1: All right. Well, and she is super nice, she's very
- 14:17Speaker 1: seems like she'd be really nice. A little we know
- 14:20Speaker 1: from her so far. Yeah, I met her in a
- 14:22Speaker 1: clothing store and then hung out with her one other time.
- 14:24Speaker 1: Wait did you oh, you like hung out with her?
- 14:27Speaker 1: I was, you know, tall, so weird. You kind of
- 14:29Speaker 1: just go like, hey, but friends having this party. So
- 14:33Speaker 1: we just invited her to this party and then she
- 14:36Speaker 1: came and everyone liked her though we called her somehow,
- 14:40Speaker 1: you still get involved in basgination even when you don't
- 14:44Speaker 1: mean to. I didn't even mean to, Like, I literally
- 14:46Speaker 1: distuffled into a clothing store. Yeah, okay, so I mean
- 14:50Speaker 1: we've already started to talk about individual women on the show.
- 14:54Speaker 1: We talked a little bit about Aria. I want to
- 14:55Speaker 1: keep talking about Ari because uh, you know, this was
- 14:58Speaker 1: his his first night at the Batch. But actually, I'm
- 15:01Speaker 1: sure you have your notes here. Um, let's just start
- 15:04Speaker 1: from the introductions. What are your thoughts and like, who
- 15:06Speaker 1: are your top four favorite and who are the people
- 15:08Speaker 1: that kind of are sketchy out of it? Okay, um,
- 15:11Speaker 1: let's start with the sketchy outers because they stand out
- 15:15Speaker 1: to me more. The online health coach Crystal with the
- 15:21Speaker 1: raspy voice that Ari says is calming, is just so horrid.
- 15:29Speaker 1: It was terrible, just the skin crawling, not like the
- 15:33Speaker 1: sound of her voice, it's truly the way, like I
- 15:38Speaker 1: think she thinks she's sexy, Like I think she really
- 15:40Speaker 1: thinks she's sexy, and she's using her voice as a tool. Yeah,
- 15:44Speaker 1: I just I don't know what it is. And this
- 15:46Speaker 1: is maybe one of my favorite parts about Night one
- 15:49Speaker 1: is there's always this moments that do make you cringe,
- 15:51Speaker 1: and that was definitely one of them. Basically, I don't
- 15:55Speaker 1: get how somebody could sit in a limo or sit
- 15:57Speaker 1: in your hotel room before you you get introduced on
- 15:59Speaker 1: the show, and you come up with what you want
- 16:01Speaker 1: to do for your first impression, and you go, you
- 16:04Speaker 1: know what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna make him close
- 16:05Speaker 1: his eyes. I'm going to speak to him very softly
- 16:08Speaker 1: and tell him that this is his moment. Like what
- 16:10Speaker 1: at what level was that a good idea. She's definitely
- 16:15Speaker 1: trying to pose herself as the temptress of the season,
- 16:18Speaker 1: and I think he's definitely going to fall for it,
- 16:20Speaker 1: which is fine, it's fine to be like a sexy temptress,
- 16:23Speaker 1: but um, I definitely think she's going to ruffle a
- 16:26Speaker 1: lot of feathers with the girls. She's kind of like
- 16:28Speaker 1: a britt figure to me, and I think we all
- 16:30Speaker 1: like britt Um In my season, I always liked Brett.
- 16:34Speaker 1: I knew that there was like maybe I think like
- 16:37Speaker 1: that she was just always the most threatening, to be honest,
- 16:41Speaker 1: like between her personality and being so bubbly and likable
- 16:44Speaker 1: and the and the look, I think we're all very
- 16:47Speaker 1: threatened by her. And I do feel like she's going
- 16:50Speaker 1: to be that to the women this year, and I
- 16:52Speaker 1: don't think she's gonna she doesn't seem to be the
- 16:54Speaker 1: kind of girl who's going to let that stop her
- 16:59Speaker 1: from pursuing her. But as a bachelor, I would say
- 17:03Speaker 1: that personality type in that in the in the show's
- 17:06Speaker 1: format is very appealing and intriguing because she's confident, she
- 17:11Speaker 1: seems to have a presence around her. She is calming
- 17:14Speaker 1: in the sense that she's so confident and that's nervous um,
- 17:18Speaker 1: and so it is a little bit like calming because
- 17:21Speaker 1: she just she exudes kind of like this leadership quality
- 17:24Speaker 1: where at some level you're always going to know that
- 17:27Speaker 1: you know she's around. It's like, yet, why he could
- 17:30Speaker 1: be stuck into that and initially until what I believe
- 17:33Speaker 1: her true colors will start the show and maybe maybe
- 17:36Speaker 1: those true players are really great, But I don't know
- 17:38Speaker 1: what color she's she has inside. Um, she just won't
- 17:42Speaker 1: really get to know her because she'll kind of always
- 17:44Speaker 1: be mysterious to him. Right. Um, what do you guys
- 17:50Speaker 1: think of the shorthaired Becca? Okay, So Becca is another
- 17:53Speaker 1: one that I was going to talk about as somebody
- 17:55Speaker 1: who stands out. She seems like a guy's girl for sure. Um,
- 18:00Speaker 1: I think she's really cool and fun to watch, super pretty.
- 18:04Speaker 1: She just seems like she's kind of like going to
- 18:06Speaker 1: be like that whip smart, weedy girl who's gonna keep
- 18:08Speaker 1: him on his toes. And I like her for that,
- 18:12Speaker 1: and uh, yeah, I don't know, I don't know if
- 18:14Speaker 1: she's gonna be. The good flag on her is that
- 18:16Speaker 1: she seemed like a bleep talker really yeah, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 18:22Speaker 1: She seems to be like a little snarky, Like when
- 18:25Speaker 1: the girl pulled up in the race car, you know,
- 18:28Speaker 1: she had the red car, and she's like, oh, is
- 18:30Speaker 1: that a race car? Huh? Like, you know, I know
- 18:33Speaker 1: she's probably thinking she's being funny and she is, but yeah,
- 18:37Speaker 1: I can see her, like I can see her not
- 18:40Speaker 1: being the girl's favorite as well, but in all my
- 18:42Speaker 1: favorite right. She had one of the most uh memorable
- 18:48Speaker 1: moments to me in this episode. And tell me if
- 18:50Speaker 1: I'm weird, actually please because I know I have some
- 18:54Speaker 1: some odd things about me. But there's one thing that
- 18:56Speaker 1: happened during this episode with ari Impecca that just made
- 19:00Speaker 1: me like just be like, wow, I'd be into this
- 19:02Speaker 1: girl because I wasn't into her at first. I thought
- 19:05Speaker 1: it was she was a little odd. And then they're
- 19:06Speaker 1: sitting on the back of the car talking and he's like,
- 19:09Speaker 1: you know, I'm sitting here with this beautiful or she said,
- 19:12Speaker 1: I'm sitting here with this handsome guy. And he goes, oh,
- 19:14Speaker 1: I think the same thing. He's like, I've just been wondering.
- 19:16Speaker 1: I'm nervous if like you like him or not, and
- 19:18Speaker 1: she goes, so far, so good. Yeah, And it was
- 19:21Speaker 1: just like really cofident, kind of snarky but really cute
- 19:24Speaker 1: moment for them where you could tell he was like
- 19:26Speaker 1: taken back and also calm and and at east because
- 19:29Speaker 1: that same line or that same kind of like conversation
- 19:32Speaker 1: could exist anywhere, especially outside of that show. But for me,
- 19:36Speaker 1: that was a very memorable moment. I like it because
- 19:40Speaker 1: she's like, just because you're the Bachelor doesn't mean I'm
- 19:41Speaker 1: in love with the already. Yeah, she's gonna be really cool.
- 19:48Speaker 1: I think he's going to really fall for her. I
- 19:51Speaker 1: don't know any spoilers. We should say that upfront to
- 19:54Speaker 1: we know nothing. Yeah, I don't want to know anything
- 19:56Speaker 1: because and I'll leak something. Okay, actually give us one
- 20:00Speaker 1: more because we told listeners, you do the people that
- 20:04Speaker 1: kind of drove you crazy and the people you like
- 20:06Speaker 1: to give us one more woman on the show that
- 20:08Speaker 1: kind of drove you crazy, drove me crazy. Oh, I
- 20:14Speaker 1: think the mom's going to have an issue. What's her Chelsea,
- 20:18Speaker 1: une year old mom from Portland's Uh yeah. She seems
- 20:23Speaker 1: like she is the the crap talker. She that is
- 20:27Speaker 1: going to be the girl who's gonna talk negatively. She
- 20:30Speaker 1: was the one who was like, of course, it was
- 20:32Speaker 1: the girl who came in with the mode, like with
- 20:35Speaker 1: the race car that interrupted me. She keeps making like
- 20:38Speaker 1: all these subtle little digs and his little condescending and
- 20:42Speaker 1: she's kind of speaking like she's about to play the
- 20:44Speaker 1: super Bowl. She's like talking smack. But isn't she the
- 20:48Speaker 1: first impression Rose girl too? Oh yeah, that's a big deal.
- 20:53Speaker 1: That's a really big deal. So he obviously like it
- 20:55Speaker 1: or what maybe he's not seeing it. Which is something
- 20:58Speaker 1: that I always say and that needs that everybody needs
- 21:01Speaker 1: to be reminded of, including myself as I watched the show,
- 21:04Speaker 1: is when she's saying this stuff or when she's coming
- 21:06Speaker 1: off that way to people the Bachelor, Bachelor, you don't
- 21:10Speaker 1: see that, And everybody when you get back home, one
- 21:12Speaker 1: of the first things they're gonna ask Ari is you
- 21:14Speaker 1: know you gave the first impression rose to Chelsea watching
- 21:17Speaker 1: to her like she was always like so negative and
- 21:20Speaker 1: always like speaking down to people. And his honest response is,
- 21:25Speaker 1: I didn't see it. I didn't know. I just knew
- 21:27Speaker 1: what I saw. Right. That's such a good point for
- 21:31Speaker 1: you to make. And then I have another point to make.
- 21:33Speaker 1: Verse off, she's playing a game, Like she's the girl
- 21:36Speaker 1: who's there to like win. She's there to win the game,
- 21:40Speaker 1: you know, and I think she's also there to like
- 21:43Speaker 1: get a father for her child. Hey, good, good for her.
- 21:48Speaker 1: I mean she's there. I hope she's not playing a game.
- 21:50Speaker 1: I hope she actually is into um. But yeah, like
- 21:53Speaker 1: you said, like she's obviously strategic and some of the
- 21:56Speaker 1: things she's doing and saying and and just her I
- 21:59Speaker 1: get ability to kind of defy anybody's She just don't
- 22:06Speaker 1: care she would like or not. And so she just
- 22:08Speaker 1: walked up to twice knowing it was gonna ruffles feathers
- 22:10Speaker 1: and she didn't care. Yeah. Yeah, so she's gonna be
- 22:13Speaker 1: that girl. So speaking of that girl, UM, I want
- 22:17Speaker 1: you guys to know that when we are like maybe
- 22:20Speaker 1: maybe we're we're talking a little smack right now, going
- 22:23Speaker 1: down these lists of girls, we're just going off and
- 22:26Speaker 1: what we're seeing, and we're going off of what you
- 22:29Speaker 1: guys are seeing. And this is the edit, and this
- 22:32Speaker 1: is the characters they wanted us to see. There's so
- 22:36Speaker 1: many of us, if you meet us in real life.
- 22:38Speaker 1: Were so different. And I always say that I used
- 22:41Speaker 1: to watch American Idol like hardcore, and whenever I was
- 22:46Speaker 1: watching the show, you know, they make characters out of
- 22:48Speaker 1: them too, and I'd be like, Oh, I don't like
- 22:50Speaker 1: so and so. I really can't stand so and so.
- 22:52Speaker 1: And then on the American Idol tour that summer, I
- 22:54Speaker 1: would meet that so and so, and I would love them.
- 22:57Speaker 1: So we're just talking based on their caricatures on the
- 23:00Speaker 1: show right now. We're not trying to bring them down
- 23:02Speaker 1: as people. I'm definitely trying to bring him down. That's
- 23:06Speaker 1: the only reason I'm here. I don't know what else
- 23:08Speaker 1: you're doing. Okay, So we've talked about the people that
- 23:14Speaker 1: kind of uh made you aware a little nervous. Now
- 23:18Speaker 1: let's talk about the women you like. We talked about
- 23:20Speaker 1: beck Guy. I think we can both agree she's going
- 23:22Speaker 1: to be a major player in this time. And there
- 23:24Speaker 1: are right. There are two beccas. One the short haired
- 23:27Speaker 1: Becka her name is spelled bizarrely, it is b e
- 23:31Speaker 1: k a H. And then the other one is Becca
- 23:35Speaker 1: k Um. We were talking about the short haired back guy.
- 23:39Speaker 1: I know that just from what I saw, I believe
- 23:42Speaker 1: in the first episode she's going to be around a while.
- 23:45Speaker 1: And I like her. I mean, I think she's gonna
- 23:47Speaker 1: be intriguing. She's interesting, and she seems like a different
- 23:50Speaker 1: personality than what we usually get on this show. So
- 23:53Speaker 1: who else kind of made you interested? Ashley Well, I
- 23:56Speaker 1: love Bibiana. She seems she seems to like be like me.
- 24:02Speaker 1: She's like not going to be able to deal with
- 24:04Speaker 1: any bs. I feel like she's gonna be like, no,
- 24:08Speaker 1: this is the way things are. She's gonna keep it real. Um. Yeah.
- 24:12Speaker 1: I like to bean A to a ton and she's beautiful.
- 24:15Speaker 1: I just think she's going to have an issue on
- 24:19Speaker 1: this show because she is so straightforward and she doesn't
- 24:23Speaker 1: settle for anything that's not authentic that when she speaks up,
- 24:26Speaker 1: I think it's going to come off as very forceful
- 24:30Speaker 1: and very loud, and as a result, I think be
- 24:33Speaker 1: Beyana might not be shown in the best like just
- 24:36Speaker 1: kind of based on her reaction to things that go
- 24:39Speaker 1: on on the show. Okay, so that's exactly how I
- 24:42Speaker 1: feel like I relate to her because I think that
- 24:46Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of those feelings that she's
- 24:49Speaker 1: going to feel are going to be maybe amplified on
- 24:51Speaker 1: TV in a way that she didn't intend them to
- 24:54Speaker 1: look interesting. Yeah, I mean that's it. I mean amplified
- 24:59Speaker 1: or not they been. And so I just think a
- 25:02Speaker 1: personality type like Viviana, Um, it could just could come
- 25:06Speaker 1: off different. But I like her on Night one a lot.
- 25:09Speaker 1: Um actually give if not like from my opinion, like
- 25:12Speaker 1: the produced girl there, she's gorgeous. Um, let's see, we
- 25:18Speaker 1: have liked a cuple of Rebecca, the one that proposed.
- 25:23Speaker 1: You know what's so interesting is that that Becca. The
- 25:26Speaker 1: first time I watched it, because I have watched it
- 25:27Speaker 1: twice now, um, it made me cringe. I was like,
- 25:31Speaker 1: I can't believe she's doing this. And then the second
- 25:34Speaker 1: time I watched it, I thought she did that very
- 25:38Speaker 1: awkward thing with a lot of poise and a lot
- 25:40Speaker 1: of confidence, and I think she actually pulled it off
- 25:42Speaker 1: not that bad, I mean the whole nice, awkward like
- 25:45Speaker 1: I think it was great again. I hope that like
- 25:49Speaker 1: if you know, when I was back to I was
- 25:50Speaker 1: excited when women would would do something different. And I
- 25:54Speaker 1: thought that took thought it had it made her confident
- 25:58Speaker 1: and it's it's something to be remembered by. Um. Yeah,
- 26:01Speaker 1: it's it's that whole night talk where you're literally pulling
- 26:03Speaker 1: up in a car with a bunch of other girlfriends
- 26:05Speaker 1: who are dating the same guy, and that guy is
- 26:08Speaker 1: standing there and you have to get out and like
- 26:09Speaker 1: say hi to him and then walk inside of mansion
- 26:11Speaker 1: your late on him, like the whole set of Salkward.
- 26:13Speaker 1: So just play with it a little bit. Tia was
- 26:17Speaker 1: the twenty six year old girl who went up to
- 26:19Speaker 1: him and said, um, this is a little weener. I
- 26:23Speaker 1: hope you don't have one of these already absolute best
- 26:31Speaker 1: interest that was and he like, okay, this so again,
- 26:35Speaker 1: Ari's nervous. It's a huge night for him. He's taking
- 26:38Speaker 1: it very serious. He should. It sounds like he's a
- 26:41Speaker 1: great dude. Um, I thought this was one that like,
- 26:44Speaker 1: that was his moment to show us his personality that
- 26:47Speaker 1: he has one, and he completely failed in that. No,
- 26:51Speaker 1: that's what I became concerned. That's when I became whatever.
- 26:54Speaker 1: What did he do? He was just like, Oh, ha,
- 26:57Speaker 1: don't worry, I don't yeah, okay, I don't care who
- 27:02Speaker 1: you are. I don't care how conservative you are whatever.
- 27:06Speaker 1: Like that was so witty and it was funny and
- 27:08Speaker 1: it wasn't like crude or whatever. Like when she made
- 27:11Speaker 1: that joke, all he had to do was laugh a
- 27:13Speaker 1: little bit, like, loosen up, buddy. I hope he takes
- 27:15Speaker 1: a cute couple of deep breaths, realizes that he has
- 27:19Speaker 1: a lonceon Lifetime shot to find his wife amongst a
- 27:22Speaker 1: bunch of beautiful women, but also understand that hey, like,
- 27:25Speaker 1: laugh a little bit, show us who you are, and
- 27:27Speaker 1: show us that you are the funny guy that Sean
- 27:29Speaker 1: claims you are. And I was waiting for that this
- 27:31Speaker 1: whole episode and I didn't see it. Ben. That was
- 27:34Speaker 1: so perfectly put like if you are Chris sauls are
- 27:37Speaker 1: Nick if a girl came up to you guys and
- 27:39Speaker 1: did that, you'd be peeing your pants. Oh it's so good,
- 27:43Speaker 1: it's absolutely great. I mean it made me, It made
- 27:46Speaker 1: me I wrote down in my notes I have I
- 27:48Speaker 1: have notes myself. Actually, um, that is that literally made
- 27:52Speaker 1: her my my favorite contestant uh starting at night one.
- 27:56Speaker 1: Based on that, I want to tell you because I
- 27:58Speaker 1: think these couple these will surprise you. I'm not great
- 28:01Speaker 1: at picking my favorite contestants, obviously, because all of my
- 28:04Speaker 1: favorite contestants to go home other than one night, one way,
- 28:09Speaker 1: I'm not kidding what who else? So the one that
- 28:14Speaker 1: didn't go home, I want to talk about her, I
- 28:16Speaker 1: really intrigue. I find her very attractive. Um the the
- 28:23Speaker 1: woman who owns the restaurant. She is so striking, like
- 28:28Speaker 1: insanely attractive. When she walked out, I was like, that
- 28:31Speaker 1: is like, that might be one of the most beautiful
- 28:33Speaker 1: woman I've ever seen. I totally agree, And he doesn't
- 28:35Speaker 1: seem to be like ooing over her like the way
- 28:38Speaker 1: we are. Yeah, why why? Why is that means? Do
- 28:42Speaker 1: I not remember that you do something weird tonight on
- 28:44Speaker 1: the episode that I know? Not remembering? No. I think
- 28:48Speaker 1: Ari has a type, and I think that type is
- 28:50Speaker 1: Emily Emily Maynard, and I feel like that that like
- 28:54Speaker 1: ethnic exotic look may not be his thing. I think
- 28:57Speaker 1: he likes an all American Chica. That being said, her
- 29:03Speaker 1: opening line was also super cute, and he didn't really
- 29:06Speaker 1: respond to that either. She said, I have a lot
- 29:08Speaker 1: of would you say, I have a lot of spice
- 29:10Speaker 1: in my life, but I need some salt and pepper?
- 29:13Speaker 1: How cute? So great? And I mean and then she's like, yeah,
- 29:17Speaker 1: that's the thing. And I saw Ari's Night one. I
- 29:20Speaker 1: would give him. I gave Nick. I think a B
- 29:24Speaker 1: maybe B plus. I would give Ari a c. UM.
- 29:28Speaker 1: I thought, I think he's gonna be a fine back
- 29:30Speaker 1: because I think he's going to really try to find somebody,
- 29:32Speaker 1: and I think this piece is only going to get better.
- 29:35Speaker 1: But as I'm grading Night one, I just felt like
- 29:38Speaker 1: he he didn't make it fun for me to watch,
- 29:41Speaker 1: which isn't his job is to make it fun for
- 29:43Speaker 1: me to watch, but it is his job to make
- 29:45Speaker 1: it fun to the women who are there. And so
- 29:47Speaker 1: I hope that the things we weren't seeing was that
- 29:49Speaker 1: he's laughing and being playful with these women. See if
- 29:52Speaker 1: he was my bachelor and I had to go talk
- 29:54Speaker 1: to him night one, I feel like I would have
- 29:56Speaker 1: been so careful, um and so self conscious about everything
- 30:00Speaker 1: I came out of my mouth, because he just he
- 30:02Speaker 1: definitely seems very transparent and like if he's feeling you,
- 30:05Speaker 1: he's going to feel you. But like if he thinks
- 30:07Speaker 1: that you said something weird, he's going to be a
- 30:09Speaker 1: little judgy. Yeah, yeah, that's the thing. And so he
- 30:13Speaker 1: and I could never date because I say something, I
- 30:17Speaker 1: love you so much. Okay, here's and I think the
- 30:22Speaker 1: second woman that I here that I'm gonna say, I
- 30:26Speaker 1: need to have told me if she went home or not,
- 30:27Speaker 1: because I couldn't quite figure it out and I couldn't
- 30:30Speaker 1: find anything. Um, and I didn't rewind it because I
- 30:33Speaker 1: didn't want to take the time. But I like Jessica
- 30:38Speaker 1: a ton out of the limo, and she went home
- 30:41Speaker 1: on night one, which is so weird to me because
- 30:43Speaker 1: I thought she was calming, she was confident, she wasn't nervous,
- 30:46Speaker 1: she had a good interaction with him. She's beautiful. What
- 30:49Speaker 1: about Jessica? How did she get on the limo? Was
- 30:53Speaker 1: it just like a woman in the red dress? Yeah,
- 30:56Speaker 1: the woman in the red dress who said that her
- 30:57Speaker 1: father had met Ari. That was kind of her sitting
- 31:00Speaker 1: scene was my father and me Ari. I thought maybe
- 31:02Speaker 1: my father would get to meet like my dad died. Yeah, yeah,
- 31:07Speaker 1: that was heartbreaking, that's the way. And and for me,
- 31:10Speaker 1: it was just weird that she wasn't there any longer,
- 31:13Speaker 1: and I have her down as my favorite other than
- 31:17Speaker 1: the restaurant on night one. You would think that he'd
- 31:20Speaker 1: let that poor girl go at least a week and
- 31:23Speaker 1: get to know her. She seems to me, I don't
- 31:27Speaker 1: remember home or not. No, she did. She definitely went home.
- 31:31Speaker 1: I remember watching him being like, oh dang, very sad. Exit.
- 31:35Speaker 1: Now just makes me question who I was at home
- 31:37Speaker 1: one night one? Um, that could have been you know,
- 31:40Speaker 1: my future wife question before we do our first commercial,
- 31:44Speaker 1: do they take your watches away? They don't take your
- 31:49Speaker 1: watch away. Know, they don't take your watch away, but
- 31:52Speaker 1: because so few girls do watch, um, you wear watches?
- 31:56Speaker 1: Like I'm always asking what time it is? And for
- 31:58Speaker 1: some reason, I only know why I care time it
- 32:00Speaker 1: is and I tell you what time it is. Yeah,
- 32:02Speaker 1: they'll tell you so they'll be like it's five am.
- 32:05Speaker 1: Just I like to know, like right exactly if it's
- 32:07Speaker 1: getting too late. That's what I like to know. And
- 32:09Speaker 1: I like to know how much time I have to
- 32:11Speaker 1: get ready. Yeah, I mean on night one, you really
- 32:15Speaker 1: don't we say? You know? We said it now. For
- 32:17Speaker 1: last few seasons that we've been a part of this podcast,
- 32:20Speaker 1: you don't want to know what time it is on
- 32:21Speaker 1: night one, because, as we saw at the end of
- 32:23Speaker 1: the episode, it literally starts at seven o'clock at night,
- 32:27Speaker 1: it when it's dark outside, and it goes until like
- 32:31Speaker 1: mid morning, like ten o'clock in the a m Am, Ashley,
- 32:38Speaker 1: trust me, I know it was two am. I was
- 32:46Speaker 1: walking back into my my hotel room where I was
- 32:49Speaker 1: living as the bachelor after doing all of my interview. Okay, goodbye.
- 32:55Speaker 1: So by the time you got back to your room, yes, yes, see, Ashley,
- 32:58Speaker 1: don't correct me about being a bachelor. I don't know.
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- 36:22Speaker 1: under the sheets. That's a good point. Okay. The last
- 36:27Speaker 1: woman that I want to say that I really liked
- 36:29Speaker 1: that I stay went home, but I don't know for
- 36:31Speaker 1: sure because it kind of cut out and didn't really
- 36:33Speaker 1: show her exit interview was Brittany. Brittany was the one
- 36:36Speaker 1: that did the drive around the driveway with the two cars.
- 36:40Speaker 1: Did she go home one night one travelway with two cards?
- 36:42Speaker 1: Why am I like blinking on this? Remember they had
- 36:44Speaker 1: a car race? Oh that's right, that's right. I can't
- 36:47Speaker 1: remember who went home, me neither, because you know, I
- 36:50Speaker 1: don't ever remember that first row ceremony. The girls I
- 36:53Speaker 1: go home because you have to. Anyway, I really like Brittany.
- 36:56Speaker 1: She's the one that drove around the driveway. I think
- 36:58Speaker 1: she's stunningly beautiful. I mean she had the first kiss
- 37:01Speaker 1: with Ari. Everybody's freaked out, but that was like a peck, right,
- 37:08Speaker 1: It doesn't matter what is the last time, Okay, Amy,
- 37:12Speaker 1: if you had a peck right now in your life.
- 37:14Speaker 1: I said, I could a text messaging, you know, Oh
- 37:17Speaker 1: my god, because I remember I'm like a lip kisser,
- 37:25Speaker 1: so I always have pecks. That's why they mean nothing
- 37:27Speaker 1: to me. They're so oh yeah. Amy like kisses her
- 37:31Speaker 1: colleagues on the lips. Sometimes it's like text mean nothing.
- 37:33Speaker 1: You gotta like it's got to be something for me
- 37:36Speaker 1: to really Okay, So those are my favorite. I have
- 37:41Speaker 1: to mention pitstop girl, pitstop girl and she go home
- 37:44Speaker 1: the one who said, like, smell me, I've been I
- 37:48Speaker 1: bet you that was the best pitch stop you've ever had. Yeah,
- 37:51Speaker 1: that's awful. I have a weird thing with smells. Um.
- 37:54Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, but like bodily odor is,
- 37:57Speaker 1: I mean I could accept it. I mean we all
- 37:59Speaker 1: got it, we all we all have it, but I
- 38:01Speaker 1: don't like want you to push it on me. Like
- 38:05Speaker 1: I'm not a fan of I save a weird thing
- 38:07Speaker 1: where like I won't hear anybody else's deodor it. Yeah,
- 38:10Speaker 1: I just think there's like a level of decency. But like,
- 38:13Speaker 1: even if you smell good, I know that, like you're
- 38:16Speaker 1: smelling good because you're covering up some uh something underneath,
- 38:19Speaker 1: Like I don't. I just don't like that. That was
- 38:21Speaker 1: That was absolutely horrible. There's no way, in my opinion,
- 38:24Speaker 1: he could be physically attracted to somebody that he smelled
- 38:27Speaker 1: the pits up. I don't smell the pits of any
- 38:28Speaker 1: girlfriends I've had. Like, okay, I'm going on anyway. Don't know.
- 38:32Speaker 1: I love this. I love it you. I never knew
- 38:34Speaker 1: you had to passion. There's like a secret passion for
- 38:39Speaker 1: undercover hate for these sls. Yes, don't make me smell
- 38:42Speaker 1: your pits. Um. Just if if anybody out there that's
- 38:45Speaker 1: listening to this podcast, if we happen to go on
- 38:47Speaker 1: a day or for hanging out in public, or if
- 38:49Speaker 1: if you see me somewhere, don't ask me to smell
- 38:53Speaker 1: anything of yours. Um, this is not a place that
- 38:56Speaker 1: I need to go to with you. Interesting all right, Well, yeah,
- 39:00Speaker 1: totally makes sense. I'm so glad I've learned something more
- 39:03Speaker 1: about you today. Oh, actually we have a lot of
- 39:06Speaker 1: talking to do for the next couple of years. Um, hey, Ben,
- 39:11Speaker 1: should we move on and talk about us? Yeah? In
- 39:14Speaker 1: one second, so to sum it up, No, I'm not
- 39:17Speaker 1: done yet. Um no, just just sumb it up for
- 39:19Speaker 1: all the listeners out there. I mean, this is a
- 39:22Speaker 1: big day for us. We do have a factulors reason
- 39:24Speaker 1: to talk about. Again. I think this podcast there will
- 39:26Speaker 1: be a lot of fun because we are gonna get
- 39:28Speaker 1: the inside scoop. We're gonna get the details of the
- 39:30Speaker 1: juicy gossip behind the scenes. We're gonna hopefully talk to
- 39:34Speaker 1: Ori at some point this season because he is the
- 39:37Speaker 1: man on a mission to find love. But we need
- 39:41Speaker 1: to break down every episode, and so actually I'm gonna
- 39:43Speaker 1: give you three minutes. I'm gonna set my timer. Um,
- 39:46Speaker 1: and if you could just tell us summarized in three
- 39:49Speaker 1: minutes or less, the first episode your thoughts and will
- 39:53Speaker 1: move on to what in the heck our life is doing? Okay, wow,
- 39:56Speaker 1: this is big? Yeah, start now, all right, So we
- 40:00Speaker 1: start with Emily. We have to talk about how he
- 40:03Speaker 1: just loved Emily, and then we have all the race
- 40:06Speaker 1: car driver puns. It's going to last the entire season.
- 40:09Speaker 1: We're gonna be constantly reminded that Ari was some low
- 40:12Speaker 1: tier race car driver. Sorry, that was the last time
- 40:18Speaker 1: he was in love. Then Sean and Catherine come back
- 40:20Speaker 1: and pour them. Hopefully next year they'll have a break.
- 40:24Speaker 1: Then we get our packages. Their standouts are Becca the
- 40:27Speaker 1: twenty two year old nanny with the short hair, Um,
- 40:31Speaker 1: Chelsea the twenty nine year old Portland's mom. There are
- 40:34Speaker 1: so many cliches in these packages. Everybody is so ready
- 40:37Speaker 1: to fall in love with Ari, even though they have
- 40:39Speaker 1: not met him yet. Um Ari starts out. He's a
- 40:43Speaker 1: little awkward, a little robotic, a little cold. Um, he's
- 40:47Speaker 1: very He's taking this process so so seriously. Um, let's
- 40:51Speaker 1: see as far as the entrances that stood out. We
- 40:54Speaker 1: got Tia with the little wiener. We got um Crystal
- 40:59Speaker 1: with her focusing on love and health and fitness and
- 41:02Speaker 1: having that sexy, annoying voice. And then we have Becca
- 41:07Speaker 1: in the red car who says a perfect line that
- 41:10Speaker 1: she goes, I may be young, but I still appreciate
- 41:13Speaker 1: something classic. Then, oh my gosh, Um, we have some entrances.
- 41:20Speaker 1: They're very prototypical. We get it, we get it. Now
- 41:23Speaker 1: we're moving on and Ari's talking to the girls. He's
- 41:28Speaker 1: again seeming to be a little serious, and but the
- 41:32Speaker 1: girls doesn't matter because they're all obsessed with him per usual.
- 41:36Speaker 1: And Chelsea is a steeler. She she's very aggressive, she's
- 41:41Speaker 1: not rubbing the woman the right way. And then there's
- 41:46Speaker 1: a first kiss. There's a first kiss with a girl
- 41:48Speaker 1: named who Jessica Brittany. Okay, I was gonna say Jessica
- 41:55Speaker 1: got left home? Um, two minutes was too long. I'm mom,
- 42:00Speaker 1: I'm almost done. Yeah, yeah you should. Uh, I think
- 42:03Speaker 1: you have a minute left. I have two things I
- 42:05Speaker 1: want to in the last minute. Yeah, my My two
- 42:11Speaker 1: comments to summarize this year. One is, I have a
- 42:14Speaker 1: hard time believing he was that in love with Emily. Um.
- 42:17Speaker 1: I I kind of felt cringe worthy that whole time
- 42:19Speaker 1: during that first couple of minutes of the episode. I
- 42:21Speaker 1: really would like to talk to Ori if they did
- 42:23Speaker 1: you really love Emily that much? Was she really your
- 42:25Speaker 1: last love? Um? And if she was, then I can
- 42:29Speaker 1: tell that he'll take this season so serious because he
- 42:32Speaker 1: felt something um with her. My second thing is and
- 42:38Speaker 1: and tell me if I missed it, Amy, I know
- 42:40Speaker 1: you watched it as well. You guys need to tell
- 42:41Speaker 1: me but this might be the first season that I
- 42:44Speaker 1: remember that Chris Harrison did not open it up by
- 42:47Speaker 1: saying this will be the most dramatic Statchelor's season ever.
- 42:52Speaker 1: I don't remember him saying it. You cannot remember him. Yeah,
- 42:58Speaker 1: so I wonder what the means or if we'll get
- 43:01Speaker 1: that at some point. But there was no typical Chris
- 43:03Speaker 1: Harrison letting us know that this will be the most
- 43:06Speaker 1: dramatic Bachelor season of all time. Yeah, so I did
- 43:13Speaker 1: pick up on that. Um, Okay, moving on. We have
- 43:16Speaker 1: a few things, uh in fascination we need to talk about. Um,
- 43:20Speaker 1: just to touch on. We we get a ton of
- 43:22Speaker 1: emails and I my Twitter was blowing up this week
- 43:25Speaker 1: asking us to talk about this. Obviously, UM, we're friends
- 43:28Speaker 1: with Peter. Uh. And Peter was in the news a
- 43:31Speaker 1: little business week. One of his ex girlfriends came out
- 43:35Speaker 1: um claiming um that he went on the back flat
- 43:38Speaker 1: for all the wrong reason. She had text messages to
- 43:41Speaker 1: prove it. Um. She came out publicly to say this Astley,
- 43:46Speaker 1: I personally am looking at this situation and I read
- 43:48Speaker 1: through the text and I have taught to Peter. UM.
- 43:52Speaker 1: I feel bad for him because nothing I have no
- 43:56Speaker 1: idea why an ex girlfriend would be dis vindictive and
- 43:59Speaker 1: this full towards him. I mean she's literally trying to
- 44:02Speaker 1: ruin him as a person. Um anyone do that, by
- 44:06Speaker 1: the way, it's really it makes you look awful too.
- 44:10Speaker 1: It doesn't make it. It's absolutely terrible. I mean they
- 44:14Speaker 1: were dating at the time, right, So, Um, she was
- 44:17Speaker 1: probably a little jealous, upset that he was, you know,
- 44:19Speaker 1: going on the show, or they had broken up before
- 44:21Speaker 1: he gone on the show, But she was probably upset
- 44:23Speaker 1: with him, jealous because her boyfriend, who was good looking
- 44:26Speaker 1: and smart and talented and she knew was probably gonna
- 44:28Speaker 1: go pretty far on the show, who's going to be
- 44:31Speaker 1: you know, uh famous, And so as a results, she
- 44:35Speaker 1: chooses to take it into her own hand by trying
- 44:37Speaker 1: to ruin him. Now, Okay, this is where we should
- 44:40Speaker 1: should be very clear. Did Peter go on the batchlut
- 44:43Speaker 1: for all the right reason? I'm sure he didn't. Nobody does.
- 44:48Speaker 1: Um the should he have said the things in the
- 44:50Speaker 1: text much as he said, like, Hey, I'm gonna use
- 44:52Speaker 1: my charm, good look and whatever else to win over America. No,
- 44:55Speaker 1: that's incredibly competed and just very unattractive and terrible to
- 45:00Speaker 1: say as a person about yourself ever, But okay, he
- 45:04Speaker 1: said it, so are we're gonna really try to ruin
- 45:07Speaker 1: him and his character by saying this and bring us
- 45:09Speaker 1: to attention. I think that's where this huge mistake is,
- 45:12Speaker 1: if she chose to speak about a private matter publicly
- 45:17Speaker 1: just because her boyfriend's a public figure. I have a question,
- 45:20Speaker 1: do you care if he went on for the right
- 45:23Speaker 1: reasons or the wrong reason? No? I don't think I care, because,
- 45:27Speaker 1: like we say all the time, regardless of your reasons,
- 45:31Speaker 1: once you're actually there and you actually meet someone, you're
- 45:34Speaker 1: not going to fake it. Like I don't think anybody
- 45:37Speaker 1: who fell in love in the end of this process
- 45:40Speaker 1: has ever been like you know what, I didn't really
- 45:42Speaker 1: feel anything acted the entire saying. Now, that's never the case.
- 45:46Speaker 1: They went on on a whim, like they got a
- 45:49Speaker 1: call or their friends submitted him, so I just did it. Yeah,
- 45:52Speaker 1: it's not like that's that much different. No, No, I
- 45:56Speaker 1: mean honestly, it's kind of like my scenario, or at
- 45:59Speaker 1: least I can relate back to my my story in
- 46:01Speaker 1: this in this whole process is I went on to
- 46:03Speaker 1: the Bachelor and Bachelor hoping to find something. Okay, that
- 46:07Speaker 1: was that was about it as as credible or as
- 46:10Speaker 1: some fear as I could get. Is I just hope
- 46:12Speaker 1: something good happens out of this for me. I hope
- 46:14Speaker 1: that I find love, or I hope that I make
- 46:15Speaker 1: a ton of friendship. I just hope that I look
- 46:17Speaker 1: back on this process and say I'm glad I did it. Um.
- 46:20Speaker 1: And I think that's the way most people go into
- 46:22Speaker 1: the show. If he wanted the show saying I'm definitely
- 46:25Speaker 1: gonna fall in love and I'm definitely gonna pursue this one,
- 46:27Speaker 1: I think that would be even weirder. Yeah, I would
- 46:31Speaker 1: make a bigger deal about that. Um. So with this
- 46:35Speaker 1: being said, UM, did he make a mistake by by
- 46:38Speaker 1: saying some of the things he did in the text?
- 46:39Speaker 1: Of course he did. Is it enough for her to
- 46:41Speaker 1: now say to go out publicly and and call him out?
- 46:45Speaker 1: And here here is the ironic part of this, Actually,
- 46:48Speaker 1: and Amy and I think this is what drives me crazy,
- 46:51Speaker 1: um about life in general. And we've all been guilt, right,
- 46:55Speaker 1: But she says in these text messages, when they're texting
- 46:57Speaker 1: back and forth the Peter, she says, you're just going
- 46:59Speaker 1: on to be's famous. He's going, I'm trying to enhance
- 47:01Speaker 1: my career. I'm trying to you know, get in my
- 47:03Speaker 1: name out there and all this stuff. And she's like, well,
- 47:05Speaker 1: I would never do anything like that. I have a
- 47:08Speaker 1: you know, I have a lot more uh whatever, she
- 47:11Speaker 1: has a lot more hoping herself or what do you
- 47:13Speaker 1: want to say? You should never just go on something
- 47:15Speaker 1: to be famous and to get attention. Well, what heck
- 47:18Speaker 1: did she do? She blew attention. I know it is compredibly,
- 47:29Speaker 1: incredibly hypocritical of her and a Chad and I hope
- 47:33Speaker 1: that we can all take a second when when we're
- 47:37Speaker 1: angry or jealous or feeling a certain way about somebody,
- 47:40Speaker 1: take a step back and realized that doing anything vindictive
- 47:44Speaker 1: is never the right response. And for her, in my opinion,
- 47:48Speaker 1: I don't know her, and I probably will never mean
- 47:50Speaker 1: it for her. I just it discredits a lot for me. Yeah, yeah,
- 47:56Speaker 1: I agree. I didn't I didn't listen it. I don't
- 47:59Speaker 1: really care or why he went on, because I genuinely
- 48:02Speaker 1: think he was like surprised by how much he sort
- 48:04Speaker 1: of liked Rachel and the kind of impacted him. Yeah,
- 48:10Speaker 1: he's definitely a change man because of it. In a
- 48:12Speaker 1: good way. I'm sure you know him. He's a really
- 48:14Speaker 1: nice guy. Yeah, definitely. Yeah. I mean insteading out his
- 48:18Speaker 1: his Instagram feed and his Twitter and his emails and
- 48:20Speaker 1: his text or whatever, I was just getting blown up.
- 48:22Speaker 1: His family's probably hearing about it, and he's getting questioned
- 48:25Speaker 1: as a person, which is just sad. And here's the thing.
- 48:27Speaker 1: Maybe let me just play like another scenario. Maybe he
- 48:32Speaker 1: said some of those things to the girl sort of
- 48:37Speaker 1: make her feel differently. Field kind of like, Luke, I'm
- 48:40Speaker 1: just doing this for my career. Don't worry about it.
- 48:42Speaker 1: I don't mean to hurt you. Probably what he did,
- 48:45Speaker 1: that's what wasn't I did that. I'm gonna be alb
- 48:50Speaker 1: be straight honest. I did that. Yeah, was some guy
- 48:54Speaker 1: that I really liked before I went to go do
- 48:56Speaker 1: the Bachelor. Um, when I came back, he was like,
- 49:00Speaker 1: why do you do that? I was like, well, you know,
- 49:02Speaker 1: it's a good exposure and you know, I want to
- 49:04Speaker 1: get into broadcasting. And then and then that made him
- 49:07Speaker 1: feel better about it all. Yeah, I mean, that's it.
- 49:10Speaker 1: That's it. There's a there's a lot of reasons why
- 49:12Speaker 1: you say he did Was it right that he didn't no, um,
- 49:16Speaker 1: but it's it's sad that now he is being questioned
- 49:19Speaker 1: as a person because of this um and so we
- 49:22Speaker 1: we we had to talk about it. We're gonna get
- 49:24Speaker 1: tony of emails about it, you know. One of our
- 49:25Speaker 1: thoughts on it, My thought is the actually spot on,
- 49:28Speaker 1: like who knows why he said it, but he said it,
- 49:31Speaker 1: And it's if he really was acting that whole season,
- 49:35Speaker 1: if he was really there the whole time to act. Um,
- 49:38Speaker 1: he's a great actor and somebody out there needs to
- 49:40Speaker 1: hire him for for some kind of role because that
- 49:42Speaker 1: was incredible because I especially that exit on his half,
- 49:47Speaker 1: Sparks would need to hire him. Oh my gosh, that
- 49:51Speaker 1: was I was saying at home. I was dripping off
- 49:54Speaker 1: bike clothes. He was dripping off. It was amazing. The
- 49:59Speaker 1: lesson be careful what you text to, who you really
- 50:02Speaker 1: got to know, who you can trust. Oh yeah, Also,
- 50:06Speaker 1: let me just throw that out there so that people
- 50:07Speaker 1: won't get mad at me that. When I did come
- 50:10Speaker 1: back and I did talk to the guy about my roasening,
- 50:12Speaker 1: he was like, did you like him? Did you kiss him?
- 50:15Speaker 1: I was like, yes, I liked him, but I kissed him.
- 50:17Speaker 1: It was like all a great experience that you know,
- 50:19Speaker 1: you're not worried about it. Okay, I just wanted to
- 50:21Speaker 1: throw that out there. I know, I know you wanted
- 50:24Speaker 1: to throw that out there. And you guys really know that,
- 50:27Speaker 1: like I really love love to we're not worried about it. Yeah. Hey,
- 50:34Speaker 1: everybody out there listening, I just want you to just
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- 54:16Speaker 1: I don't know about that. But final segment, This has
- 54:23Speaker 1: been an obviously a long podcast. Uh wait, it should
- 54:25Speaker 1: be at night one, which is a long night. Um,
- 54:27Speaker 1: let's actually let's read through two emails from our beautiful
- 54:32Speaker 1: listeners and we can get some good responses. Okay, man,
- 54:36Speaker 1: there's this girl doing some detective work. I don't even
- 54:39Speaker 1: know if it's gonna fly because okay, okay, let's do it.
- 54:43Speaker 1: Let's do it all right, Hi, Ben, Ashley and Amy.
- 54:47Speaker 1: I am from Utah, so naturally, when I heard that
- 54:49Speaker 1: there was two girls from Utah on our season, I
- 54:52Speaker 1: started snooping their social media accounts. I thought, you guys
- 54:55Speaker 1: might want to know something interesting I found. So mcel
- 54:58Speaker 1: cooper is the this girl they showed on the Sneak
- 55:02Speaker 1: Peak special. She was photographing a couple they were getting married. Well,
- 55:06Speaker 1: she's twenty three and she's already been divorced. She was
- 55:09Speaker 1: married to Josh Monday and if you look up the
- 55:12Speaker 1: Monday family, you'll see that they are a very wealthy family,
- 55:15Speaker 1: and Josh has several brothers whose wives also have quite
- 55:19Speaker 1: a large amount of Instagram followers. Um, what I think
- 55:23Speaker 1: is interesting is that Josh Monday has been liking and
- 55:26Speaker 1: commenting like the emoji the raised the roof, like praise emoji,
- 55:31Speaker 1: the praise emoji on Michel's Instagram post recently. Remember this
- 55:36Speaker 1: is his ex wife, and then she liked his comment
- 55:39Speaker 1: on the photo. I'll attach a picture of what I'm
- 55:42Speaker 1: talking about, but I just think it's super shady. Congrats
- 55:45Speaker 1: on three seasons, and I absolutely love the podcast. Her
- 55:47Speaker 1: name is Ashley. Thanks ash Um. Yeah, I guess my
- 55:55Speaker 1: only email is thank you for listening. And you are
- 56:00Speaker 1: you have a lot of time on your hands. But
- 56:05Speaker 1: I mean, that's great. It's something that I, uh, I
- 56:08Speaker 1: never even would have thought about looking into. Uh. Is
- 56:11Speaker 1: that weird actually too for the next husband to be
- 56:14Speaker 1: still commenting on his ex life pictures. I would think so,
- 56:19Speaker 1: But I guess depends on it depends on the status
- 56:22Speaker 1: of which they broke up. You know, maybe they are
- 56:25Speaker 1: good friends. That definitely happens. I'm going to feed into
- 56:28Speaker 1: your thoughts, ash and say that the season long preview
- 56:33Speaker 1: suggests that there's a guy that comes back into the
- 56:35Speaker 1: picture and he's like, I'm here to get my girl,
- 56:38Speaker 1: I'm here to get her back, blah blah. That seems
- 56:42Speaker 1: like we can fit in Mr Josh Monday into that scenario. Mm,
- 56:48Speaker 1: that could be And wow, Okay, this is podcast gold.
- 56:53Speaker 1: If we have a listener, do the investigative word and
- 56:57Speaker 1: find out about this guy and he is the guy
- 57:00Speaker 1: that comes onto the season, that would be incredible and
- 57:03Speaker 1: actually have to bring you on just to celebrate you
- 57:06Speaker 1: and and as a detective. Thanks and Um, we should
- 57:10Speaker 1: mention that maybe they're not actually divorced, maybe they're separated
- 57:17Speaker 1: and he's coming back together. That seems tricky, and it
- 57:20Speaker 1: seems like if that was a I would just Adould
- 57:23Speaker 1: Advisor to not come onto the Bachelor because he knew
- 57:27Speaker 1: that would be a story lot. I know. I truly
- 57:29Speaker 1: think that there's part of the contract that says that
- 57:32Speaker 1: you can't be married at all. I think you have
- 57:36Speaker 1: to be formally divorced. Well, that seem fair, Hey, Astley, Uh,
- 57:41Speaker 1: two more emails, h Thick, pick one out here? Okay, here,
- 57:46Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go with one without even reading it first.
- 57:48Speaker 1: It's from anonymous, so that must mean it's juicy. Oh no, hey, Ben,
- 57:53Speaker 1: and I actually love your podcast, and I have a
- 57:54Speaker 1: funny story for you. When I was pregnant with my
- 57:57Speaker 1: now four year old son, Ari was Oh I thought
- 58:01Speaker 1: his name was Ari. When I was pregnant with my
- 58:02Speaker 1: now four year old son Are It was the Bachelorette.
- 58:05Speaker 1: It was on the Bachelorette. I loved him so much.
- 58:08Speaker 1: I just thought he was such a good guy and
- 58:10Speaker 1: so handsome too, that I thought, if my baby ended
- 58:13Speaker 1: up being a boy, I would like to call him Mari.
- 58:15Speaker 1: So I was right lo and behold, I had a
- 58:18Speaker 1: son and we named him Ari because of Ari on
- 58:20Speaker 1: The Bachelor. At I was so excited he was coming back,
- 58:25Speaker 1: and of course I remembered him because my son is
- 58:26Speaker 1: named after him. Anyways, here's my Ari, four years old.
- 58:30Speaker 1: Who knows, maybe he'll become a contestant one day. Thanks
- 58:33Speaker 1: for a great podcast. Okay, so that was more of
- 58:34Speaker 1: a comment. That's very funny, very funny. That's wow. I
- 58:40Speaker 1: don't blame her because there's even watching the bach Room myself. Um,
- 58:43Speaker 1: their names that come through um that I've never heard
- 58:46Speaker 1: before that are unique in a beautiful yeah baby, that
- 58:50Speaker 1: kind of stuff, And so I could see where you'd
- 58:51Speaker 1: be watching, Like Ari, I've never thought about that name before,
- 58:54Speaker 1: but I'm, you know, having a baby. That seems like
- 58:56Speaker 1: a great name to name my son. But how I mean,
- 58:59Speaker 1: how crazy is it that now, like this little guy's
- 59:03Speaker 1: life is completely you know, marked, and he's named Are
- 59:06Speaker 1: based on The Bachelor. That's that's just so weird to me,
- 59:09Speaker 1: so funny, but also I kind of like the name
- 59:11Speaker 1: are for a guy too? What about what about for
- 59:14Speaker 1: a girl? From my own girl? Are you? I mean?
- 59:17Speaker 1: I think you can go book. Oh oh yes. I
- 59:19Speaker 1: was like, you want me to announce my children's names
- 59:22Speaker 1: in the future. I was like, I can't give those away.
- 59:24Speaker 1: I don't want to buy stealing. I know you have them,
- 59:27Speaker 1: I know, I know you know I have them. Um,
- 59:30Speaker 1: so yeah, anyways, thank you for writing in anonymous. We
- 59:35Speaker 1: appreciate you listening and great name choice. I got an
- 59:38Speaker 1: email here. Actually I'm going to read out loud from Lauren.
- 59:41Speaker 1: I've been in and I've been in an off relationship
- 59:46Speaker 1: for seven years now, and I found myself recently questioning
- 59:48Speaker 1: it at all. We have the same group of friends,
- 59:50Speaker 1: and our families give along great after We love his
- 59:54Speaker 1: personality and feel so comfortable around him, but can't help
- 59:57Speaker 1: but wonder if I'm only focusing on the comfort of
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: knowing he'll always be there for me. That's a huge
- 1:00:03Speaker 1: line because this is so typical in relationship. It says,
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: I can't help, but wonder if I'm only focusing on
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: the trumport of knowing he'll always be there for me.
- 1:00:12Speaker 1: I know we're still young. I'm twenty three, he's twenty four,
- 1:00:16Speaker 1: and that there's so many other people out there. I
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: put him in the friend zone multiple times and he
- 1:00:21Speaker 1: just keeps holding on. I'm not good at being hard
- 1:00:24Speaker 1: on people, and it kills me to break his heart,
- 1:00:26Speaker 1: but I think it's what is best for us. Any opinions, Uh, Laurence,
- 1:00:30Speaker 1: thank you for that email. This first off, I want
- 1:00:32Speaker 1: to say that you're your ability to analyze the situation
- 1:00:36Speaker 1: is amazing. I mean you just just in this paragraph alone,
- 1:00:39Speaker 1: I think you're touching on a lot of the stuff.
- 1:00:41Speaker 1: To ask you and I would say back to you,
- 1:00:42Speaker 1: but Aston, what do you think I was actually just
- 1:00:44Speaker 1: gonna say that exact thing. I was like, if you
- 1:00:46Speaker 1: go back and reread your paragraph, I think you have
- 1:00:48Speaker 1: your answer there. I think you're probably time to just
- 1:00:52Speaker 1: like put a total halt to it. And it's probably
- 1:00:55Speaker 1: one of those relationships where we're not gonna be able
- 1:00:57Speaker 1: to be friends with him for quite some time afterward,
- 1:00:59Speaker 1: because you guys have gone into that zone and then
- 1:01:01Speaker 1: come out a few times. I just don't Yeah, I
- 1:01:04Speaker 1: don't know. I this is tough. I mean I remember
- 1:01:06Speaker 1: Ali Fantaski are wonderful guest. On the last episode of
- 1:01:09Speaker 1: season three, UM was on and she she said something
- 1:01:13Speaker 1: in our interview with her that you know, she's always
- 1:01:16Speaker 1: been the type of person that stayed in relationships too long,
- 1:01:20Speaker 1: that she just holds onto it for too long when
- 1:01:22Speaker 1: she knew that she should have gotten out, um And,
- 1:01:25Speaker 1: and it ends up being pretty detrimental to both people
- 1:01:29Speaker 1: and to any type of relationship in the future. And
- 1:01:32Speaker 1: so my advice would be, if you're feeling this way
- 1:01:35Speaker 1: you are young, maybe maybe life will bring you back
- 1:01:37Speaker 1: together with him. Maybe you just had to take a
- 1:01:39Speaker 1: break away to realize how much you actually care about him,
- 1:01:42Speaker 1: and that that comfort that you think you there's the
- 1:01:45Speaker 1: only thing that you're holding onto is actually like true
- 1:01:48Speaker 1: love and and that's a different kind of comfort that
- 1:01:51Speaker 1: you could deal with anybody else. And so I would
- 1:01:52Speaker 1: recommend that just from what you read here, take a
- 1:01:55Speaker 1: step away. It's going to be really hard, but you
- 1:01:57Speaker 1: need to do that. It just it sounds like you're
- 1:01:59Speaker 1: already there mentally um And that you're not. You're you're
- 1:02:02Speaker 1: so far gone that you're not going to get back
- 1:02:04Speaker 1: to a healthy place of this relationship. And then, uh,
- 1:02:07Speaker 1: understand that you have a little bit of time to
- 1:02:09Speaker 1: find yourself and and meet other people, but you know,
- 1:02:12Speaker 1: don't discount the thought that maybe one day life will
- 1:02:14Speaker 1: bring you back together. That that is still a possibility. Um,
- 1:02:18Speaker 1: but for right now, it just sounds like you need
- 1:02:19Speaker 1: to take a break, that this relationship is no longer
- 1:02:22Speaker 1: the best thing. I feel like a lot of couples
- 1:02:25Speaker 1: who have been together for so long at such a
- 1:02:27Speaker 1: young age, like they usually come to this point where
- 1:02:29Speaker 1: they are like, I need to discover what else is
- 1:02:31Speaker 1: out there and whether or not like you are my
- 1:02:34Speaker 1: one and I just found you early or yeah. I
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: mean like I think I think you need that space
- 1:02:39Speaker 1: and self discovery, and I think it's very typical for
- 1:02:42Speaker 1: these couples to get back together. So even if it's
- 1:02:44Speaker 1: scary right now, just just you'll know you'll figure it
- 1:02:47Speaker 1: out eventually. Yeah, definitely, I mean, uh so, Laurence, thanks
- 1:02:52Speaker 1: for right Non. I mean I think this is there's
- 1:02:54Speaker 1: not a lot to stay here. You said almost all
- 1:02:55Speaker 1: of yourself. Um, but my advice to you would be
- 1:02:58Speaker 1: to to walk away, but to try to hold onto
- 1:03:00Speaker 1: any dignity and hold onto that relationship. It sounds like
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: you have something good there, um, but just maybe not
- 1:03:05Speaker 1: romantically right now. Um. Okay, our last email it's from Karina,
- 1:03:10Speaker 1: but I just finished listening to episode fourteen. Uh and
- 1:03:15Speaker 1: you put a collar a collar was on who was
- 1:03:17Speaker 1: dumped during a best man speech. How awful. I feel
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: so bad for her. However, it also about me thinking
- 1:03:22Speaker 1: how how bad my dad's speech was that my own wedding,
- 1:03:25Speaker 1: and how it's such an interesting topic we can all
- 1:03:28Speaker 1: relate to sitting through some pretty uncomfortable speeches at weddings. Right, So,
- 1:03:31Speaker 1: if you're looking for a topic for a podcast, whether
- 1:03:33Speaker 1: it's on the Almost Papers podcast or the I Don't
- 1:03:37Speaker 1: Get a podcast, I think this is a good one. Yeah,
- 1:03:40Speaker 1: shout out to you. So here's the funny part, and
- 1:03:42Speaker 1: this this emaie is just kind of funny. I think
- 1:03:43Speaker 1: it's good because if you're wondering why my dad beach
- 1:03:46Speaker 1: are so awful, it's because during his beach you count
- 1:03:48Speaker 1: of time having sex with my mom where my brother
- 1:03:50Speaker 1: and I walk in mid act. That a really sore
- 1:03:58Speaker 1: spot with you. Actually, I can tell never happened. It's
- 1:04:00Speaker 1: never happened, but it's a fear. If that story isn't
- 1:04:04Speaker 1: bad enough on its own, let me add that my
- 1:04:07Speaker 1: parents are divorced and aren't really friends. I was reliated
- 1:04:10Speaker 1: and basically locked myself in the back room crying for
- 1:04:12Speaker 1: a while. At my own way is pretty tragic, and
- 1:04:14Speaker 1: it still makes my print skin crawl thinking about it.
- 1:04:17Speaker 1: Just so i'd throw that idea your way. I also
- 1:04:20Speaker 1: want to just let you guys know how much I
- 1:04:22Speaker 1: love your podcast and to keep up the good work respectually.
- 1:04:25Speaker 1: That is thank you, Visus. That's hilarious, tom Amy. Have
- 1:04:28Speaker 1: you ever happened to you? Have you ever walked in
- 1:04:30Speaker 1: on your parents? Yeah? I had to ask you guys
- 1:04:32Speaker 1: this question. Thanks for taking the words out of my mouth. No, no, no, no,
- 1:04:36Speaker 1: no time right now? Why why is it such a
- 1:04:41Speaker 1: bad nightmare? Oh my god, Ben, come on now? Why
- 1:04:46Speaker 1: see that? Oh? I don't know. It's the most disturbing
- 1:04:49Speaker 1: that you you know. I actually we don't have to
- 1:04:53Speaker 1: go up on a tangent here. I actually have a
- 1:04:54Speaker 1: buddy of one of my best postest friends who, uh this,
- 1:04:58Speaker 1: this I think is worse walked in on his ram parents.
- 1:05:01Speaker 1: That's a lot less disturbing to me, honestly, because I
- 1:05:04Speaker 1: think it'd be more funny. Like I think it's kind
- 1:05:06Speaker 1: of hysterical because you just don't have the same sort
- 1:05:09Speaker 1: of like relationship. It's just you're so much more removed. Hey,
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: you weren't there. You don't know, maybe there's maybe they're
- 1:05:16Speaker 1: doing some wild stuff. Maybe they were very interesting non
- 1:05:20Speaker 1: elderly position. That is a hilarious email, though, I mean,
- 1:05:24Speaker 1: how terrible. And I hope that everybody out there listening, Um,
- 1:05:28Speaker 1: if you're playing on getting married anytime soon or in
- 1:05:30Speaker 1: the future, I just hope that your speeches and the
- 1:05:33Speaker 1: whole night goes magically, or if all has failed, you
- 1:05:36Speaker 1: have a really good story to tell afterwards, which sounds
- 1:05:38Speaker 1: like this is what this is. Actually we have one
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