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"Pick me" Girls are undercutting the affection economy! | Rantzerker 206 · Honey Badger Radio

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  Coming to you live from deep within. Well, I guess you could say
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  it's a thawing, radioactive wasteland. We are the survivors of the alt right
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  kick apocalypse, the Few, the brave, the bitchy, once more wading
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  into battle against the froggy lobster pick me hordes, and with one I swear
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  to God this this microphone is possessed because it keeps You don't know what's going
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  on with that, Yeah, it just keeps changing the gain. If anybody
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  knows how sure microphones work, you know, I'd love to get like a
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  comment explaining what I'm doing wrong, But apparently it just wants to put the
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  gain everywhere. So chumming to you. Live with the Few, the brave,
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  the bitchy, and one possessed microphone that will not keep its gain at
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  the same level every time. This is rent Zurker Number two O six?
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  Is that correct? Two six? Uh? I think that's what I named
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  the room that I already forgot. Yeah, okay, number two oh six.
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  Pick me girls are undercutting the affection economy, and I am Allison.
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  I will be your host, uh of a sort, And with me is
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  Brian and later on after she gets her coffee because I screwed up the time.
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  We'll be Karen and uh yeah, so welcome aboard to our discussion of
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  this lovely offering from our new friend Hannah Cox. Yeah, it seems like
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  Hannah Cox has been she's been like the topic dajour mm hm that what is
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  that appropriate use of the term DuJour? Sure of the day. Yeah,
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  I mean usually there's I mean, there's no more like bedroom feminists anymore.
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  Really, they've disappeared for some reason. Not really. Yeah, now there's
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  like you know, old bedroom old haggard married super angry feminists and uh libertarian
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  feminists. Okay, the the bedroom femine of yesteryear that we did like ten
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  years ago have now graduated to being the the thirty year old feminists of now,
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  is what I've seen. Yeah, so now they're explaining to us why
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  feminism is still good. I guess I don't know why. It's made them,
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  well, not happy, but and not particularly empowered because they're always looking
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  at how they're victims of things. But feminism has made them nobody's fool I
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  guess unlike pigmies. There you go right back to the topic. Okay,
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  did you see how stealthful. That was Brian. Uh, yes, that
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  was stealthful. Nobody saw that coming. They never see the pigmy coming.
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  Yeah, okay, get let's let's do the things. Okay, So we
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  are once more doing our monthly fundraiser. It feedbadger dot com slash support very
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  much appreciated. It's stalled out a bit, so I might have to do
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  some arm twisting. I do have a hard limit on today's length of show
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  because I have sort of signed on to do a maybe debate with a bunch
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  of feminists on the issue of a rape of men and false accusations on spaces
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  if you Yeah yeah, And I actually talked to Aiden and she might be
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  joining us as well, because she recently sent me a script for her latest
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  video on false accusations where she went into the false accusation research mind and discovered
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  it's all pooh oh yeah home. She did do a video about or pretty
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  sure she did, or she tweeted or something about. Yeah no, it's
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  like the uh, the fact that it's like two percent is the lower bound,
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  right, not the upper round. It's not it's not nat Lee's number.
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  It's or it's not a it's not an only number, it's nat least
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  number. Yeah, and she was like, yeah, no, that's the
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  least of the problems with this research. So yeah, and if you stay
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  tuned to Honey Badger Radio on at the Twitter, it's Honey Badger Bite at
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  Twitter, we'll be I'll be doing that x space with another Twitter user called
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  Brooke Brooke who has very graciously invited us on previous streams. And again we've
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  had her on our show before Buckeye Betty on Twitter I think, yeah,
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  we've had her on for a fireside chat. Yeah, so she's been hosting
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  these kinds of streams. She's hoping to get a debate going. But I
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  think, uh, I think I might have scared off a feminist. Well
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  maybe you'll just get like the evil psych tradbro guys on again. Yeah.
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  Well that's really in their wheelhouse, the rape of men and false accusations.
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  Yeah, they'll just said tell them, we'll walk it off and like just
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  like just game harder, bro, just maintain frame and it's a ship test
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  when they rape you, don't you know that this is a shit test,
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  Allison, I think they care about false accusations, Briant, Yeah, they
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  probably do, particularly people who follow Andrew Tait. You see give them that
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  speaking of false speaking of false accusations, did you hear about Okay, so
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  you guys are familiar with Claudine Gay, Right, it was the Harvard dean.
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  Oh yeah, and then Black, the black economics professor, the youngest
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  black professor to get tenure at Harvard, age thirty. Right, Yes,
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  and then he looked into police violence against blacks and found that, like the
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  narrative does not fit the reality, and for his trouble, he was essentially
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  forced to like go under police protection and the treatment. Yeah, he got
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  the Aaron Pitsy treatment. On top of that, one of the things that
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  was used to suspend him without pay was a false allegation. Yeah, so
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  like that, I'm bringing it up because false allegations are extremely powerful tools.
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  We know this already to be true, and there's just like endless, endless
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  evidence of that, and clothing Gay was right there right basically saying he needs
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  to go, he needs to go. That she spearheaded that because she I
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  don't think she was the president at the time, but she was a professor
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  there, and so she just like launched a bunch of blacklisting against this guy
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  and mounted a campaign to get him to like get them to fire him.
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  And you know, but he he found that and this is the thing that
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  pisses me off, right, because he found that when it comes to non
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  lethal kind of everyday ordinary use force, you know, shoving someone up against
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  the car or you know, like frisking them or whatever, right, blacks
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  were actually much more likely to experience that. Right. But when it came
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  to getting shot at, blacks were eight point five percent less likely than Hispanics
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  to get shot at and twenty three point eight percent less likely than whites to
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  get shot out by police. And then he concluded that there was no racial
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  bias in police shootings. And I'm like, wait a minute, Yeah,
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  like bius against blacks, maybe bias in favor of blacks. And I can
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  understand that. I mean, if you know that if you had shoot at
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  someone and it turns out like to even be justified, right, but that
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  person is black, you're in for a world to hurt, right. Yeah.
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  Okay, So Darren Wilson, so if you wanna, if you wanna
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  come and hang out on spaces and talk about false accusations and the rape of
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  men and potentially a debate with feminists, we'll see uh. Once again,
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  just check it out. There should be a link eventually on Honey Badger radios.
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  Some people, some people don't have some of the people that watch us
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  are not on Twitter. So I was thinking maybe after this is over,
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  I can do a livestream on the Arcade channel and just sort of like have
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  that playing in the background, or you could, I mean, like you
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  can. You don't need to have a Twitter account to look at Twitter,
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  No, yeah, I guess so. Yeah, the spaces are different.
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  As far as I can tell, you do need to have a Twitter account
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  to be part of space, I think. So to listen in, just
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  just give a heads up if that's if you if you're yeah, let her
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  know if I decided to do so, potentially you know, we might have
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  it out. It's I mean, it's not really gonna steal much of her
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  I'm on the freaking air and you're in there because you ate a spring roll
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  off the kitchen counter. Oh my god, bad dog box. He and
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  she probably isn't even tall enough to just like, like Skippy's tall enough that
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  if he, if he was bad, he could probably just lick things off
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  the counter. Oh she can lick things off the counter, really, I
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  mean she can get up there. Yeah, she could sit. He could
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  sit at the counter and his his his eyes are over the top of the
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  counter. Yeah, no, Kevin's not that big. She gets up with
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  her paws on the kitchen counter and then she, uh, she licks the
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  cutting board. But you know, my Scipio has never done that. He's
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  never really stolen food from the counter. He just will sit there and wait
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  for us to give it to him or for the cats to drop it off
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  or off. Yeah they yeh, yeah, no. Georgia used to she
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  used to live with with a cat. Who would she that the previous owners
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  would order chicken wings or something, and they'd leave the you know, the
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  bones on the counter and uh and the cat would eat the you know,
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  little bits of stuff off of the bones and then flick the bones to the
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  dog and uh. Yeah, they have some kind of symbiosis those they did.
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  Yeah. Yeah, that's how I discovered that Scipio likes green beans.
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  I don't. The cat has no interest in the green beans, but she
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  would drop them off on the floor for him. Well, there you go.
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  And green beans are good for dogs. Yeah, okay, all right,
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  any kind of like you any kind of legume? Well you heard it
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  here. Leggames are good for dogs. Oh god, yeah, accusations are
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  bad for society, and you want to make the dog go crazy? Sugar
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  sugar snap piece. Oh okay, well I'll keep that in mind. Map
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  peas, map piece, Jojo loves snap peas. Yeah, Lindsay guest sometimes
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  and loves the dog. Yeah. I don't get it. I don't I
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  don't get it. I'm not a fan. But let me try to awkwardly
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  bring this back to topic. Okay, to incredibly pick mesh pigmies. Me
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  and Karen. Oh yeah, yeah, we're we're like the biggest pigmies.
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  M mm hmm. Apparently yes, yes, uh, I have it on
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  good authority, so we shall be discussing this Hannah Cock's discussion of pickmies,
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  which we are two very large examples of. So yes, okes. No,
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  I've been a pick me uh for at least since twenty ten. Yeah,
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  I probably. I think when I start when I started talking about this
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  stuff online, which I only did because the man who is my husband encouraged
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  me to do. So, Oh my god, you're like a double pick
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  me Karen. Yeah, like at the very least I can say, you
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  know, my husband is like yeah, well he's like he's not He's not
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  like no, no, no, my my guy, Mike. He encouraged
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  me. I mean he encouraged his blog, encouraged me to start a blog,
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  and then and then he sent my first blog post to Warren Ferrell.
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  And then Warren Ferrel got back to me. Oh, man was like you
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  know, oh yeah, no, we need to keep keep doing this.
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  This is this is great and awesome. Yeah. Yeah. My husband is
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  like he encourages me with my writing, but he's like, why are you
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  on Twitter again? Get off Twitter? Oh? My off is like Marvin
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  K. Mooney will you please stop typing now? Okay, so let's as
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  to gigantic pick me is let us respond to Hannah Cox. All right,
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  so I'm gonna start playing the video. This begins with a TikTok video of
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  an example. I guess that Hannah Cox is launching off of. Well,
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  let's see her video about pick me girls. Let's rate this example, Karen,
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  Yeah, let's let's let me play it. It's like thirty seconds on
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  on on one. Which what what what would be the lowest pick me number?
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  What? What? What would be an example of the lowest pick me?
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  Okay, I'm just gonna say. I'm just gonna say, she's an
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  extremely attractive woman, this woman here, So is this Yeah, she's got
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  this scarlet Johanson thing going on. This is the pick me? This is
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  the pick me? Yes? Yeah, no, so I mean possibly a
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  pick me possibly, well, because she's at least she's got the goods,
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  right, Like, well, let's see what she says. Let's see what
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  she's She's all put together and she's made up, and you know, she's
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  like looking real, she's looking like she's about to go on a date.
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  Okay, so does that really that's not really the quality for the dependent.
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  It's not necessarily the only thing. But if you're gonna be a pick me,
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  you better look date ready. Okay, well then I'm definitely not a
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  pick me. Yeah me, neither. I think. I think. I
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  remember you straightened your hair and put on makeup for one of your first videos.
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  Yeah, never did that again. It's a lot of work it was.
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  Yeah. No, I'm not a girl this girl, and I have
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  reasons for that because like, yeah, bitches are trifling, like riling.
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  Okay, that's interesting, this is I'm sorry, but if you've, if
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  you've ever tried to make another female friend nowadays, tell me how that's going
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  for you, because I genuinely want to know. Stop. And then we
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  got to the banana. All right, she's gonna put on Like what does
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  trifling mean? Trifling mean? We need a you're shallow? Uh? You
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  know? Like absolutely no, look up, look it up on a on
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  Urban dictionary or something. Oh you trifling to mean cheating or false? Is
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  the oldest wo like this? Yeah, like not good friends essentially dishonest,
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  manipulative teenth centuries slang. We're going back, Okay, interesting, it's southern.
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  It's southern. It's not old. No, it's it's just from the
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  fifteenth century. Well I know, but people have been using it in the
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  South forever, like it's still we still use that term France even longer than
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  that. So there you go. Yeah, it's like being a backstabber,
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  like being like double you know, two faced. Okay, so anyway,
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  yeah, let's keep going. No, let's talk about like why what what
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  is there? What? All? Right? Okay, she's criticizing women.
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  Well, like she's saying, I can't make friends with girls because they're trifling.
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  Well this is this is because she criticizes women, this makes her heal
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  me. Yeah. Well okay, well we can continue or we can discuss
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  this, because there's some stuff to say, like the majority of the abuse
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  for women online comes from other women. That's a fact. Yeah, and
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  I mean like okay, and I don't you know, as someone who doesn't
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  have a whole lot of female friends, I have found that men are more
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  likely to be steady solid, you know, like not fuck with you,
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  not like ud unless they're a narcissistic well not not screw with you, not
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  just forget to ever pick up the phone if they know that you're in a
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  bad spot, right, you know that you're going through something difficult all of
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  that, uh and and definitely uh less likely to uh stab you in the
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  back, so generally less likely to try to steal your husband, I would
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  in my experience. Also my apologies, I I had a bit of a
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  possessed microphone moment. Okay, So in my experience, from my experience,
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  I've been talking about these issues for about twenty years. I would say that
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  even twenty years ago, the feminists were more polite because the online space was
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  a lot more I don't know, it was a little more rarefied, shall
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  we say, uh, yeah, no, it was. It was the
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  polite form of telling you you're a horrible person. Yeah, a polite or
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  you know. I mean, it wasn't great. If you disagree, you
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  definitely you got shit on even when you were just like, well, okay,
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  I'm trying to understand this. That's where I started. I'm like,
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  I'm trying to understand this. You could you stop abusing me because that doesn't
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  make me think you were right? And and then just sort of snowballed from
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  there. But lately, for a good long time, for the most part,
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  I was only like talking mostly to male majority spaces, I rarely got
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  insult. I mean, you get assaulted occasionally, like you know, you're
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  ugly, fuck off, that kind of thing, but it was rare.
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  It was actually more often men would either compliment me on, you know,
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  my thoughts, which is more common, or occasionally they'd say, oh,
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  you're so cute or whatever, and I'd be like, okay, well thank
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  you. It's not really what it's about, but it's okay. You know,
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  it's not impolite as far as I can tell. But then recently,
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  like in twenty twenty, because of the the I suppose that Johnny Depp trial
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  a whole there was a whole, huge influx of women into this space,
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  and not just in Honey Badger. Apparently it also happened at a Voice for
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  men, Like there's a whole bunch of women checking this stuff out because I
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  guess they got a peek behind the curtain. Yeah, and now I'm not
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  saying that those women who were like generally pro Johnny Depp are recognized that Amber
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  Heerd is a complete another sociopath were the ones doing this. Actually was quite
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  the reverse. But they're fellow travelers who were the harpies, shall we say
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  following the herd, they increased the level of abuse that I get for my
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  physical appearance from almost zero to like multiple times a day. Oh yeah.
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  I have been told I am balding, which I am not, that my
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  teeth are bad, which is sort of true. You know that I don't
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  know that I'm gig obese. I mean, I guess I'm not skinny,
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  you know, all of this other stuff. Constant stream of picking at things
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  that they can everything that they can possibly find pick at. And I'm like,
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  well, so are you going to take responsibility for that, ladies,
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  because this is a very very ugly look. Yeah, no, it's it's
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  I always you know, like the only times that I ever got shots on
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  my appearance, like on my YouTube channel right from men was when they looked
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  at the thumbnail and saw the short hair, and then they looked at the
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  title of the video look out it's a nice guy, destroy him or whatever,
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  right, and you know, the ironically named title of the video,
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  right, And and they didn't watch the video, and they let it would
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  leave a drive by comment, and then all the other men on that channel,
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  right would see the comment and go like, did you watch the video?
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  Because I think you might want to watch the video. And then half
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  the time these guys would apologize, sorry, I was just reacting because I
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  thought you were a feminist, and it's just like, yeah, well don't
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  don't freaking do that though, But I mean it's it's not common. Yeah,
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  I mean it's it isn't very common. And you like, for me,
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  if if men disagree with me, most often I would get the well,
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  you're just not con and you know, the the you know, the
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  typical well actually, which I can say with fondness, you know, just
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  the the autistic springing out on some detail, and very much less often would
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  men go after you for your appearance. Yeah, and uh but yeah,
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  so yeah, that's a very very bad look. And she's got a point.
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  She's got a point. And I think one of the things that is
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  really important is a lot of what we we we thumb our nose at in
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  terms of the virtues of the past. We're about controlling intra sexual competition between
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  women. Oh yeah, so making sure women can live with each other.
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  And we've thrown all of that out, thinking well, let's get rid of
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  all of the misogynists standards on women. Now you're opening the flood games to
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  an absolutely low level of competition. Yeah. Yeah, we're in Bonobotown now,
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  Elise, Yeah, we're in Bonobotown now. Okay, let's keep going.
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  We're going back to the video now, so let me just put it
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  back on the screen. All right, here we go, Let's play some
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  more. Girls nowadays are not nice and they don't have your back. They're
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  not your friends. Uh, maybe it's just you, because I have tried
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  making female friends lately and it's going great. Hey, guys, I'm Hanna
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  Cocks with based politics and you're watching my show History handa Cox. Okay,
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  Okay. I wanted to end myself because I got called out, but you
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  and I got called out by someone else. It's a supporter. Maybe it's
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  Caddie. But every time I see the obvious botox, right, and it's
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  not just her, it's a whole bunch of other women in this particular thought
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  sphere, I realized what it was that was triggering me. If I could
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  use that, I don't care about the botox, I don't care. I
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  don't even care if she used like a plumping serum, you know, applies
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  it to her lips like that that I get on all my YouTube videos.
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  Right, she draws outside the lines. Do you hate the sloppy drawing?
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  Okay, Well, here's what was bothering me, and I finally I had
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  to drill down to finally articulate it. I just can't stand drawing outside the
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  lines. I've never been able to stand it. I've I've known women who
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  have done this all my life, and it's like, you look like Ronald
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  McDonald. Okay, that's what is the thing. The overall point is that
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  you Okay, The overall point is beyond the aesthetic. What was bugging me
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  is the fact that I could see she is extending no good no good faith
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  to men, no willingness to understand them, at the same time as she
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  is presenting herself as having dick sucking lips for what reason, in order to
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  gain sexual power over men. So she has no interest in really the man
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  as a person. She just has an interest in the man as a slave.
• 26:21
  And that is reflected. I mean, it's not like she's got the
• 26:23
  dick sucking lips because well, I don't know. She's the combination of the
• 26:33
  inability to look at the situation from men's point of view and the parent desire
• 26:41
  to want to elicit power over them from sex is really pissing me off.
• 26:47
  Yeah, Like, you will damage your body by injecting a poison into it,
• 26:53
  but you will not cultivate human understanding. That has to be a freaking
• 27:00
  degeneracy of the highest order. I'm just saying, I don't know. I
• 27:07
  still can apply outside the lines. Okay, yeah, okay, all right,
• 27:10
  let's go on. I will not bring it up again. Okay.
• 27:14
  Trionics where every week I talk about women's issues from a sane, middle ground
• 27:18
  perspective. If you like this episode, don't forget to like, comment and
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  subscribe, and also check out former videos in the series. This week we're
• 27:26
  talking about pick me girls and why they need to perform their ways. That's
• 27:30
  the middle ground, is it. That's little bit so Yeah, of course
• 27:37
  she's a pick me. But here's the thing. She's essentially saying, women
• 27:41
  cannot criticize women, right, I know, Yeah, women cannot criticize women
• 27:48
  can women can't even point out? Hey, social media has really brought the
• 27:52
  worst out in women, the worst. Okay. Now, everybody is has
• 27:57
  is like one click away from being the the Omega girl who's sitting in the
• 28:03
  in the corner hiding from the from the from every other woman in the school.
• 28:07
  Right, there's two women I trust in this world. One is my
• 28:14
  mother and one is my friend Shari. And uh, you might have noticed
• 28:19
  that neither of my sisters are in there. I do and and and you
• 28:26
  know they were in there until COVID. Oh so all right, So the
• 28:37
  the the point is that she's essentially saying that women can't criticize women and if
• 28:41
  they do, they're out of the sisterhood. Well what kind of sisterhood do
• 28:45
  you want to be part of if you're not able to criticize the behavior of
• 28:49
  women in it? Like that means you have to tolerate any level of abuse
• 28:56
  in order to be part of the sisterhood. That's sick. All thanks,
• 29:00
  move on, moving on. Oh all right, I got a super chat.
• 29:06
  I'm just gonna read it out really quick before it disappears. Albertnata retro
• 29:10
  gives us five dollars Canadian and says, breach hears for the pickmy queens.
• 29:14
  Hurrah haurrah, hurrah, yay, cool girls, thank you Albert for that
• 29:21
  super chat. Okay, let's play more. Hannah episode is called Death to
• 29:27
  the Pigmies. No, not because I wish these girls physical harm, but
• 29:32
  rather because I wish a speedy death to their toxic outlook and attitude on life.
• 29:36
  Let's begin for the uninitiated, Let's turn to dictionary dot com to cover
• 29:41
  what exactly defines a today A pick me girl as a woman who obsessively does
• 29:48
  what was I have to want me to pause? Yes, sure, let's
• 29:49
  here, so I'm guessing. Okay, let's hear her definition. This is
• 29:53
  this urban dictionary because we all know that's basically Webster Sire's malp val and validation,
• 30:00
  often at the expense of other women. Despite the word girl being used,
• 30:04
  the term picny girl is almost always used to describe adult women. Term
• 30:08
  pitne girl is used to describe a woman who obviously and obsessively works to gain
• 30:14
  men's attention or acceptance. Typically, a picnic girl loves to talk about how
• 30:18
  she's not like other women, especially in ways considered typically feminine. A picny
• 30:22
  girl may point out how she doesn't wear makeup or prefers sports to fashion.
• 30:29
  All right, I'm pausing there just for the banana. So apparently a pickny
• 30:33
  girl is all is only is used at the expense of other women. Picck
• 30:41
  me girls behavior is at the expense, often of other women. So when
• 30:48
  you guys are being called pick me girls, okay, are you are you
• 30:52
  harming women with your actions? Are you doing this at the expense of other
• 30:56
  women? No? But yes we are. Actually it depends on what other
• 31:02
  women want in terms of profiting from what the gibbs the Okay, like,
• 31:07
  let's look, we don't wear makeup, I don't like sports, but I
• 31:11
  do tend towards masculine activities. I was actually kind of happy that this is
• 31:18
  an early year stream that I thought, because it will give me time to
• 31:21
  fix a toilet. But so it's like, okay, so I'm not typically
• 31:30
  feminine and I don't wear make up. Basically this is this is masculine women.
• 31:37
  Yeah yeah, and interesting look there. Yeah, but it's like,
• 31:42
  okay, pick me okay. How does that? How does how does being
• 31:48
  okay a woman who doesn't really like feminine things or activity, like, how
• 31:56
  does that translate into an attempt to get men's attention and desire? It doesn't
• 32:04
  really, I mean it just just like literally she's saying, butch women are
• 32:07
  gross. Well, I mean most men aren't really particularly attracted to but they
• 32:14
  like, they like tomboys apparently anyway, one other, one other thing I
• 32:20
  have a problem with this is is that the suggestion is that a pigmy girl
• 32:23
  who says I'm not like other girls, or uh, you know, is
• 32:28
  into sports as opposed to fashion, or is not you know, typically feminine
• 32:32
  or whatever it is. The suggestion is is that it's not genuine that that
• 32:37
  pigmy girls are not being honest with themselves about the kind of person they are,
• 32:43
  and they're only doing this to get male attention. But if a girl
• 32:46
  happens to be more masculine minded and this is not some show they're putting on,
• 32:52
  some performance or mask that they're wearing, you know, like they're like
• 32:55
  like it says here. I don't know if she's gonna read this part,
• 32:58
  but it says the pigmy girls often discussed as the female equivalent of a simp,
• 33:01
  a term often used to describe a man who obsessively seeks female attention.
• 33:07
  Now I wouldn't. I don't know if it's that's comparable, but maybe if
• 33:12
  what Okay, I'm just I don't want to take up too much time because
• 33:15
  I know people don't aren't listening for me. But when a woman is does
• 33:21
  not behave in a typically I guess an a typical fashion that people expect,
• 33:27
  and that makes her a tomboy or maybe she likes football or whatever. And
• 33:30
  I think it's stupid that people even have these preconceived notions anyway. But if
• 33:36
  it turns out that they say, look, you know, I'm not like
• 33:39
  other girls, and they are legitimately not like other girls, then I don't
• 33:45
  see why it's bad for them to be themselves, even if that's a little
• 33:51
  atypical. Like my wife is kind of tomboyish and she, you know,
• 33:55
  is into mma and she likes to play video games and what she's not traditionally
• 34:00
  feminine. She only started wearing dresses like in the last six months. She
• 34:05
  never really did that before, and she likes it. But I mean,
• 34:07
  she's still she hasn't changed that much. None of that. This is sort
• 34:12
  of assuming that her whole life was a lie just to get male attention and
• 34:15
  approval, which doesn't make sense. And when I say it's not really a
• 34:20
  good comparison to the SIMP, I think it's maybe a better comparison to what
• 34:23
  we call the nice guy. And I know that people don't like that term
• 34:28
  being used in a pejorative way. But what I mean is there are men
• 34:31
  who pretend to be someone else because they think that the person that they are
• 34:37
  is not attractive, and so they put on a mask. They basically like
• 34:42
  act in a way that they think women will appreciate and find attractive. This
• 34:46
  is what male feminists do. I think that's the equivalent. But again,
• 34:51
  you know that is assuming that that is not the kind of person they normally
• 34:54
  are. So this is I don't know if you guys are following what I'm
• 34:58
  saying, but yeah, yeah, yeah. The pick me girl thing is
• 35:01
  weird because there isn't there's an allegation of dishonesty, like embedded in the label.
• 35:07
  Like when they call you pick me girls, are saying, this isn't
• 35:10
  what you normally are. You're the way that we think you should be,
• 35:14
  and you're lying to all of you. The men that watch you or follow
• 35:16
  you are talking no no, no, no, no, no no no.
• 35:19
  What you're saying, Brian, is it Alison and I are actually trans
• 35:22
  men? Yeah? Oh good lord? Yeah, because because apparently the only
• 35:30
  way to be a not very feminine presenting woman, right if I chop my
• 35:37
  tits off and get a fallow plasty. I just this is so okay.
• 35:46
  Yeah, you're absolutely right. There's an there's an allegation of dishonesty at the
• 35:51
  heart of this. Well, if I was really committed to being who I
• 35:53
  am, I would chop my tits off and get a fallow plasty and just
• 35:59
  get it, get it. A know. Sometimes I dream, sometimes I
• 36:01
  have sex dreams where I have penis. You ever had that, Allison?
• 36:07
  Uh, it's quite fun. I don't necessarily like going this deep into my
• 36:15
  psyche. Okay, yeah, no, but it's okay. Don't you ask
• 36:19
  me about the sex dream I had about Tucker Carlson because that was willet.
• 36:25
  Was he making the Tucker face in your sex dream? Like? Oh,
• 36:30
  you want to hear? You want to know? I don't know. He
• 36:35
  was doing a segment here, was doing a segment where he had some like
• 36:38
  scrawny Russian prostitute or something laid out on a table, and his guest was
• 36:45
  telling him, oh, go ahead and just just press your fist on her
• 36:49
  anus, just just gently, just gently, and then and then he's like
• 36:53
  doing it, and he's like just kind of starts really mashing his fist in
• 36:57
  there, and then he looks up and he gives a tucker lab right,
• 37:02
  and I'm like, what the fuck? Oh woke up? Okay, yeah,
• 37:08
  all right, well that that was something that happened. Okay, I
• 37:14
  don't know if she was Russian, she could have been just Eastern European.
• 37:16
  Looking very critical detail, now, was he right? Scrawny little butt?
• 37:22
  You know, she's like tall and skinny, you know, small bobs.
• 37:29
  Okay, yeah, I just okay. So to get back to Brian's point,
• 37:31
  there's some allegation of non authenticity to pick me girls, And yeah,
• 37:37
  that is a good point because honestly, I'm not putting it on, like
• 37:43
  I'm not pretending to be interested in these things to get the interest of men.
• 37:49
  And incidentally, that's not how it works feminists. Yeah, no,
• 37:52
  my husband, you guys, you guys get the interest like you are the
• 37:57
  ones who are engaging the instinct to say the damsel. Well we weren't.
• 38:01
  Yeah, my husband, he was like, Okay, we're gonna do the
• 38:05
  Marie Condo thing, the Marie Condo thing. We're doing it. We're doing
• 38:08
  it this weekend, right months ago, months and months ago. Right,
• 38:13
  first thing you have to do, get all your clothes together and lift every
• 38:15
  item up and if it doesn't spark oh does this bring me joy? Is
• 38:20
  that what you're talking about? If it doesn't, Oh yeah, yeah,
• 38:22
  you got to get rid of it, right, Okay? So I did
• 38:24
  that. I got rid of everything that didn't spark joy. I was just
• 38:28
  like, oh God, I haven't worn this in like twelve years. It
• 38:31
  sparks no joy, I don't. I can't see myself wearing it again.
• 38:36
  So all I was left was with was two pairs of jeans, a couple
• 38:38
  pairs of lounge pants, and eighteen tank tops. Okay, all right,
• 38:45
  and and okay, and then he's like, this says why her cartoon is
• 38:50
  wearing a tank top? Guys, we gotta go to the gala, the
• 38:54
  Christmas gala for my work. And I'm like, oh, I don't.
• 39:04
  I don't got anything to wear. And he's like, what do you mean
• 39:08
  you don't have anything to wear? I was like, he made me do
• 39:12
  the Marie Condo thing. I had to throw everything away because it didn't spark
• 39:16
  joy. Now while I have his jeans and tank tops. And lucky for
• 39:21
  me, there was a bin underneath the bed that I forgot was there,
• 39:25
  and it had a three quarter length, fine knit cardigan sweater with a belt
• 39:31
  that I could put on over my tank top and GK and jeans and look
• 39:39
  somewhat presentable for this, like lush gall of four thousand people, right that,
• 39:46
  you know. And then I was like, I go to go along
• 39:51
  the buffet to see if I can find anything that there that he can eat.
• 39:55
  They didn't even have crud to tay. They didn't even have a green
• 40:00
  salad nothing. I come back with an empty plate and I'm like, yeah,
• 40:06
  no, everything everything on that buffet it'll kill you. And he's like,
• 40:10
  oh okay, and no beverages that he could drink, so he just
• 40:15
  sat there and drank water at the galla. Good. I got, Okay,
• 40:22
  I want to well, I want to keep going, but I got
• 40:23
  some super chats I should read really quick, so I'm gonna read them,
• 40:28
  and then if there's like a point that you wanted to finish, go ahead.
• 40:30
  I just wanted to say. I just wanted to say the reason that
• 40:35
  I don't wear dresses is because I don't wear dresses. They don't spark joy.
• 40:39
  No, there you go, but you're being a See that's the thing
• 40:45
  though, if you authentically don't like wearing dresses and you prefer to wear tank
• 40:51
  tops. That then the act of the allegation that you're being a pick me
• 40:55
  is silly. It's like it's it's almost like made up. So why is
• 41:00
  it project? The thing is, Hannah Cox is supposedly like an intellectual libertarian,
• 41:05
  like one two thousand IQ person, and she can't even like conceive of
• 41:09
  the idea that there are women who literally are not like their peers. You
• 41:15
  know, can I just get something in before you do the super chats?
• 41:19
  All right, this this accusation of authenticity, Okay, maybe these women like
• 41:23
  me. They don't care. They're not evaluating themselves relative to you outside of
• 41:32
  moral markers based on behavior. They're not actually after men, they're not actually
• 41:39
  after men's approval. They're just doing something that they enjoyed. Like, here's
• 41:44
  here's the news flash to everybody who thinks that a tomboys a pick me,
• 41:47
  which which is essentially what this is saying. Tomboys are pick meies. Tomboys
• 41:52
  are just doing what they want to do. Most likely, they're just just
• 41:55
  living their life. They're living their best life. They're enjoying themselves, and
• 42:00
  they just so happen to be attractive to men because of it, right,
• 42:06
  and you guys who are, let's face it, a lot of the feminine
• 42:10
  women are really and I don't mean to make this between like masculine and feminine
• 42:14
  women aren't because it's not. Because there's a lot of feminine women who are
• 42:16
  also living their best lives and they and they just and they are attractive to
• 42:21
  men. Right. But here's the thing. The feminine women who are putting
• 42:25
  on all of this, you're getting botox, putting on, all this makeup,
• 42:28
  putting on, who are literally doing this to attract men. They look
• 42:34
  at the women who are doing nothing, no makeup, no fancy clothes,
• 42:38
  out covered in mud, having fun, doing boyish things, and they see
• 42:45
  these women getting male attention and they consider it all to be illegitimate because they're
• 42:52
  not doing it in the way that they're doing it, and it looks to
• 42:55
  them like some kind of black magic, some horrible black magic. They don't
• 43:00
  understand, sometimes not even having fun. I mean like when I'm out shoveling
• 43:04
  snow, women walk by and they're like, they think that I'm single,
• 43:10
  and it's just like no, I just I'm the one who shovels the snow.
• 43:15
  My husband's the one who makes the six figures. I'm the one who
• 43:17
  spends his money and shovels the snow. Yeah, but like you see what
• 43:23
  I'm getting at. It's like the tomboys are just being who they are.
• 43:29
  It happens to be attractive to men, and these women who spend so much
• 43:34
  time trying to be attractive to men. I guarantee Hannahocks thinks about being attractive
• 43:37
  to men infinitely more than I do or Karen does. Like I don't spend
• 43:45
  a lot of time thinking about that at all, to be honest, And
• 43:50
  there are days when I don't even look in the mirror before I leave the
• 43:54
  house, and I get in the car and I take a glance at myself
• 43:59
  in the rearview mirror, and I'm like, fuck, ben a bat,
• 44:01
  You got a bat in the back cave or something? Yeah, No,
• 44:05
  I got No, I got, I got BedHead, you know, or
• 44:07
  I got like booger schunka's still in my eyes or whatever. Okay, But
• 44:12
  but the point is that she looks at women who are obviously not trying,
• 44:17
  and she sees that they're getting attention from men, and it seems completely illegitimate
• 44:22
  because they're playing, they're they're they're they're they're cheating the game. And you
• 44:25
  know what it is. It's because tomboys can appreciate men's hobbies. I mean,
• 44:31
  you know what, not even tomboys like Cleopatra wasn't a tomboy, but
• 44:36
  she could talk to men. She could take an interest in the things that
• 44:38
  they took an interest in. She was present presumably a very feminine woman,
• 44:44
  at least the way you know she she was she yeah, yeah, but
• 44:47
  she had an interest in men's interests. She had ability to talk to them.
• 44:51
  They regarded her as charming because she took an interest. Right. That
• 44:57
  is something that that a woman Hannah apparently looks at and says this is illegitimate.
• 45:02
  Why because she's weirded out by men at the same time as she apparently
• 45:08
  puts a great deal of emphasis into beingcoming desirable to them, which she can't
• 45:14
  deny because the physical evidence is there. It's all over her face. It's
• 45:20
  all over her right, Okay, And and you know, like I said,
• 45:25
  it's not about the makeup, and it's not about being feminine. It's
• 45:29
  about this kind of squeally competitive jealousy. Like I'm pretty sure a feminine woman
• 45:35
  who's being feminine because she enjoys it, isn't looking at tomboy who's being a
• 45:39
  masculine because she enjoys it, and says, well, she's getting attention that
• 45:44
  I deserve because she's enjoying her life. She's painting her freaking nails, like
• 45:49
  all of the women on those nail painting reddits that I sometimes go to because
• 45:54
  it's it's fascinating, you know, I don't think they care. They're busy
• 46:00
  putting like Michelangelo's David on their nails, which they have, yeah, you
• 46:06
  know. And the ones who do on their nails, you know, and
• 46:09
  the ones who do the elaborate makeup that looks crazy but just is so enticing.
• 46:16
  It's interesting and enticing. They don't care either, because they're living their
• 46:21
  best life. The problem here is that women are looking at these women who
• 46:27
  are doing the things they're doing specifically to get male attention, are looking at
• 46:31
  the women who are not doing those things and saying they're getting male attention.
• 46:37
  That's not fair, that's they don't deserve. They don't they don't have a
• 46:43
  right to that. That resource, that's our resource. And then they call
• 46:46
  them pigmies, which is the exact opposite of what's happening. Oh, good
• 46:51
  grief. Okay, all right, you have to realize too, you know,
• 46:57
  like women do deserve criticism, Yes they do. If if if women
• 47:02
  didn't deserve criticism, I wouldn't only have one female friend like I. I
• 47:09
  uh, I could say the only one, she's the only one I trust.
• 47:16
  I mean, I could say you a friend. And Hannah, oh
• 47:20
  well okay, yeah, but we're not. Okay, yes, you're my
• 47:23
  friend. Okay, Hannah too, and Laura, I extorted, we wouldn't.
• 47:30
  We wouldn't. We wouldn't even know each other if it wasn't for like
• 47:34
  this project that we're well, yeah, we wouldn't know a lot of who
• 47:38
  wasn't for mutual projects. But that's the thing, Like I bond better with
• 47:44
  other people with specifically women, through a mutual project, which is something that
• 47:49
  I think is masculine too. Yeah, most women aren't really interested, they
• 47:53
  would They just want to go out and have a good time or whatever,
• 47:58
  and it's just fun. Okay, let's let's keep going, all right.
• 48:02
  I got a super chat from Albert Nata retro again gives us five dollars.
• 48:07
  Canadian says pick me girl is cool girl spelled sideways. Ask Amy Dunn lord
• 48:12
  forbid a chick enjoy sports, fast food and doing it doggie style during the
• 48:15
  hockey game A And I think Amy Dunn is the character from Gone Girl who
• 48:21
  does a whole thing about the cool girl. But that's a monologue from the
• 48:24
  book, because it's yeah, it's from the book. I think, yeah,
• 48:30
  that the woman that she's directing it at is actually with a female friend
• 48:32
  and they're just chilling. Yeah, so it's it's the whole monologue is actually
• 48:38
  against women who monologue this shit like apparently hannahocked. So let's keep going.
• 48:45
  And then ZARINX gives us two dollars and says, Brian asked for Karen's story,
• 48:49
  but it was worth it. Thank you, Zaryinx. Okay, I'm
• 48:51
  going to play more of the video. Groundbreaking pitm girl is often discussed as
• 48:58
  the female equivalent of a scent, a term often used to describe a man
• 49:01
  who obsessively seeks female attention. Like scent, pick me girl is almost always
• 49:07
  used as a negative term. In short, these women actively dislike other women,
• 49:12
  and they often work to belittle them in order to gain the male validation
• 49:15
  and attention that they So that's probably wantchell Is that just complete projection from stem
• 49:21
  to stern there you're literally okay, like no, I mean, we criticize
• 49:29
  women all the time, but you know, like it, I don't differently
• 49:35
  though, criticize men uh as as much as we criticize women. But but
• 49:42
  that's because there's plenty of criticism of men out there, right, It's that's
• 49:45
  a saturated market, you know. I was thinking about this. If you
• 49:51
  think about it, men keep other men in check all the time. The
• 49:55
  entire justice system is men keeping men in check. And there's a in the
• 50:00
  in Canada, and I think in the States, there is a whole entire
• 50:05
  body of judas prudence that has emerged since the sixties that exclusively, almost exclusively
• 50:10
  deals with men's violence against women. So punishing men's violence against women. There
• 50:15
  are laws that do not apply to women's violence against men, that basically apply
• 50:19
  only to men's violence against women. Men put that in place to protect women,
• 50:23
  an entire like new form of judas prusence to protect women. You know.
• 50:29
  I like the fact that you're mispronouncing it in that way because it is
• 50:31
  kind of judas prudence, but it's it's an unintended pun jurisprudence. Okay,
• 50:37
  so there's a and so men keep other men in check. They they police
• 50:45
  other men and other men's behavior towards women, and there's like you can lie
• 50:51
  about it, but it's not the case. Oh yeah no. And you
• 50:53
  know what, you know what the special jurisprudence is for for women infanticide laws.
• 51:02
  Yep. So if a woman kills her baby, she can only be
• 51:08
  jailed for X number of years. I think it's five something like that,
• 51:15
  whereas if a man kills his baby, you know, then it's like fourteen
• 51:20
  or fifteen years or whatever it is. Despite the fact that men can also
• 51:23
  go through postpartum depression and psychosis because there are normOn hormonal shifts as well,
• 51:29
  though they apparently don't as much. But okay, anyway, well it's not
• 51:32
  as serious. But yeah, no men. I got into an argument with
• 51:37
  a feminist about that, and I said, so, what you're saying is
• 51:39
  that when men go through the hormonal changes associated with pregnancy, they become more
• 51:44
  loving and women become more aggressive and violent towards their children. She's like,
• 51:50
  yeah, what I'm saying, it's exactly what you're saying. You're saying no,
• 51:53
  no, what happens. What happens is men's testosterone levels drop when they
• 51:59
  find out that partner is pregnant, and those levels remain fairly low throughout early
• 52:07
  childhood of their children, throughout like the baby years. And there's a reason
• 52:13
  for that, and it's to drive them out of the house where they can
• 52:15
  go get the testosterone effect and bring home the bacon, right, get that
• 52:20
  surge of testosterone from making money, killing the taper whatever, right, you
• 52:24
  know, and come home and share it with their family. But what does
• 52:30
  low testosterone do. It makes you depressed, It makes you anxious, it
• 52:32
  makes you irritable, it makes you quick to anger, shorter fuse all of
• 52:38
  those things. Right, So if you if you don't go out and replenish
• 52:45
  on a regular basis, So if you're like chronically unemployed or something like that,
• 52:50
  if you don't have that kind of sense of daily making a killing you
• 52:59
  know in the forest or in the stock market, or you know at work
• 53:02
  or whatever, right like bringing home the resources. If you don't have that
• 53:09
  right, it can be really really, really really depressing for a man,
• 53:14
  and he can get really irritable and very short tempered and frustrate easily frustrated.
• 53:22
  So I mean it. I mean it exists for a reason, this drop
• 53:28
  in testosterone, and part of that is probably to make him less overtly aggressive.
• 53:37
  Well it's not aggressive, it's like the testosterone is more status seeking,
• 53:40
  right, yes, yeah, so it probably means that in part he also
• 53:45
  focuses more on his family. So there's other hormonal effects, but that's a
• 53:50
  little bit beside the point. We should probably get back to the picnic psychology.
• 53:55
  And yeah, I think there's a difference though I've been really trying to
• 54:00
  think about that. There's a difference between women who criticize each other in an
• 54:05
  intersectional way that's destructive, and that usually means that they're competing over resources.
• 54:12
  So there's this female competition over resources, which is really what Hannah's doing.
• 54:16
  She's essentially saying the pick me girls, the tomboys are getting resources that she
• 54:21
  deserves because she puts all this effort and probably doesn't even want to into acquiring
• 54:28
  power over sexual power over men to acquire resources from them. So she's putting
• 54:31
  all this extrain. Like, I don't think if she's I'm guessing here,
• 54:37
  but I don't think that this is what she naturally is she probably would rather
• 54:44
  not do the makeup, not do all of this other stuff, but she
• 54:47
  wants this power over men in order to gain or resources over them. So
• 54:52
  she looks at women who don't do that and still get attention. She says,
• 54:54
  that's unfair. So that's resource competition. There is resource competition between women,
• 55:01
  and that is can be very devastating. And also they'll yankee in men
• 55:07
  and start to develop wars around that. And this is the argument that I
• 55:09
  get into the in Twitter, Oh, men make wars. No. Actually,
• 55:14
  if you get right down to it, the reason why wars happen is
• 55:17
  because Ma Baker teaches their sons to handle their guns and decides to take your
• 55:23
  shit. That's why wars happen. Okay, and she tells you to come
• 55:29
  home with your shield or on it. Yeah, that's why wars happen.
• 55:32
  They are resource acquisition enterprises, right, and what women will look at the
• 55:38
  tribe over there and say, well, they don't deserve their resources. For
• 55:43
  whatever reason, I want whatever they have and I want some maid servants.
• 55:49
  Go and get them, you know that kind of thing. And that's that's
• 55:52
  a lot of the dynamic behind the Viking rating. Okay, so this is
• 55:58
  the women's competition. Resources is incredibly feral. Now there's a difference between that
• 56:06
  and criticizing women's behavior, because criticizing women's behavior encouraging their virtue is what builds
• 56:15
  up resource sharing. Get what I'm saying, what builds up the process of
• 56:21
  creating a good base for cooperation between men to develop resources. It's Christian women's
• 56:28
  virtues that created the foundation for a market economy. Oh well, you look
• 56:35
  at you look at charity, right, and how that used to be kind
• 56:40
  of the domain of male patrons and female seekers of patronage. Right. It
• 56:52
  was women who would go and do all of the organizing and do the bake
• 56:58
  sales and all of that, and they would get the go and get the
• 57:01
  funding from I mean, it's like Aaron Pitsey, right, she you know,
• 57:06
  who donated all the money to for her to open that domestic violence shelter
• 57:12
  in Chiswick. Right, it was all rich men around the town, right,
• 57:17
  rich men in the neighborhood. And so it's like, you know,
• 57:23
  but then she gets you know, female volunteers, and she's a woman,
• 57:28
  and she organized it and she made it happen and all of that, right,
• 57:32
  So you have this symbiosis of you know, women doing sort of the
• 57:39
  work of the charity. They show that they have something of value to provide,
• 57:45
  they get the men to contribute money, and then they build something out
• 57:49
  of that. And that's always been women's domain, you know, over at
• 57:52
  least in the twentieth century and the eighteenth nineteenth centuries was women doing charity organization
• 58:00
  and men funding that. Yep. And so the idea is that there's different
• 58:14
  kinds of there is. There is men engaging in fighting each other like I
• 58:23
  don't know, Gilgamesh before ink you do, right, just getting shit from
• 58:29
  other men and dominating them. And then there's men policing other men's behavior.
• 58:35
  Do you get the difference, you know, dominating men dominating other men's to
• 58:38
  get all the women, and men policing each other's behavior so that they can
• 58:43
  create a constructive, cooperative society. That's the difference. There are women trying
• 58:46
  to dominate each other so they can grab up all the resources or construct resource
• 58:52
  graft groups, self justifying to grab up all the resources. And then there's
• 58:58
  women who police each other's behavior so we can all live in an incredibly safe,
• 59:06
  comfortable society together and hand it to our children. Right, do you
• 59:14
  get the difference. The difference though, it's you look at you look at
• 59:17
  even the tale the epic of Gilgamesh. Right, it's it's like, oh,
• 59:22
  he was an asshole, and then he went through a masculine journey of
• 59:27
  becoming an actual man. Right, he was basically like a stunted teenager and
• 59:34
  and uh and and just an absolute jerk. And and then he and it
• 59:38
  was not women who took him through this journey. It was another man,
• 59:43
  Yes, exactly, it's men policing men's behavior for the benefit of those men.
• 59:49
  And it was with the too, Gilgamesh's benefit as well as the benefit
• 59:51
  of these society was a part of. And there's a difference between women competing
• 59:54
  with each other over resources and policing each other's behavior for the best of making
• 1:00:00
  sure those resources exist and the benefit of their future life. Like I mean
• 1:00:07
  recently, I just yesterday and the day before I responded to a woman who
• 1:00:13
  put out a video on why men get dumped, And essentially she was like,
• 1:00:17
  I'm just gonna do a theoretical to explain why men get dumped. Just
• 1:00:22
  imagine this man and this woman, they're in the perfect relationship. It's perfect,
• 1:00:25
  it's wonderful, it's they're happy. But then the woman is like,
• 1:00:30
  I need you to jump through this hoop. And the man tries to jump
• 1:00:36
  through the hoop, but then he forgets, and when he forgets, the
• 1:00:38
  woman's like, oh, he doesn't care about me, and she reminds him,
• 1:00:44
  but then he forgets again because it's you know, it's hard to establish
• 1:00:47
  a habit. And now she starts actively finding things to hate him over.
• 1:00:53
  Okay, and it's like, yeah, okay, and then she says and
• 1:00:57
  this is why men get dumped. And I'm like, it's so what you
• 1:01:00
  did is you sabotaged a good relationship with hoops. And what happens if he
• 1:01:05
  successfully jumps through that hoop? He donic adaptation would suggest that you will start
• 1:01:09
  to think he doesn't love you again until you've set up another hoop, until
• 1:01:14
  he's jumping through so many hoops that he kills himself or he jump through a
• 1:01:20
  hoop, and then you suddenly decide he doesn't love you. This is a
• 1:01:22
  and I said, this is a you problem. And the thing is that
• 1:01:27
  I had women who were like, oh I would, and then I did
• 1:01:30
  the reversal and they said, oh, that's okay behavior from men. I
• 1:01:32
  mean, if you're in a relationship with a man and it's perfect, it's
• 1:01:36
  absolute, and he's like, oh, this is the most one. But
• 1:01:38
  you know what, you could really jump through some hoops from me, lady
• 1:01:42
  to prove that you love me. And they were like, yeah, that's
• 1:01:45
  that's fine. I would accept that. I'm like, no, you wouldn't
• 1:01:49
  sandwich. What if he asked you, okay, I want you to jump
• 1:01:52
  through I want you to make sandwiches? You would lose your fucking shit if
• 1:01:57
  you were in a relationship with a man who expected you to through hoops to
• 1:02:00
  prove your love. Oh my god. You know, like these people,
• 1:02:05
  I don't understand these people with these ideas of relationships, right because I've been
• 1:02:08
  I've been with Mike for like what fourteen years almost now, right, thirteen
• 1:02:13
  and a half or whatever. And the other night, you know, he
• 1:02:19
  stayed up really late talking on the phone with someone. I think he came
• 1:02:22
  to bed around two and he comes stomping in like a herd of elephants into
• 1:02:28
  the bedroom like he always does, and because he doesn't know how to walk
• 1:02:32
  quietly, so I'm already awake right, he's already woken me up. And
• 1:02:38
  then he's like, oh, I need my work phone. And I'm like,
• 1:02:44
  thenk go find your fucking work phone. And so he walks around the
• 1:02:49
  house and he's looking for it, looking for it, and he comes into
• 1:02:52
  the bedroom again he says, I can't find it, like he's expecting me
• 1:02:59
  to get up look all over the house for his work phone, like maybe
• 1:03:01
  it's in the couch cushions or something, right, And I'm like, I'm
• 1:03:07
  like, is it in your pants? And he's like what? And I
• 1:03:09
  was like, is it in your pants? And he's like, oh,
• 1:03:15
  I feel like this is the setup for a joke. He's like, oh,
• 1:03:19
  it's in my pants. And I'm like, Jesus fucking Christ, sleep
• 1:03:23
  was one eye open right like two in the morning. Kids, You're not
• 1:03:29
  right. He does this shit to me. I do shit like this to
• 1:03:32
  him all the time, not to that degree, but but it's just like
• 1:03:38
  it's like we annoy the fuck out of each other sometimes, right, yeah,
• 1:03:44
  well, but the thing is that you're not putting up hoops like I
• 1:03:47
  can't even imagine. It's like, oh, I'm with my husband Jonathan,
• 1:03:51
  Oh well, we have a great relationship. We bitch at each other a
• 1:03:55
  lot. But you know what I'd really like, I'd really like you to
• 1:03:59
  learn broom dancing if you loved me. If you loved me ballroom dance,
• 1:04:05
  I imagine women would not tolerate. If you loved me, you would make
• 1:04:09
  me a sandwich if you guys look at me. If you loved me,
• 1:04:13
  you'd buy this lingerie and striptease for me every night, like you wouldn't.
• 1:04:18
  Like, No, there's no way you would accept that from a man,
• 1:04:21
  any kind of if you love me, a hoop jumping, and nor should
• 1:04:27
  you. If your loved me, it wouldn't matter that your nose is completely
• 1:04:30
  plugged up because you're sick as a dog. You'd still suck my dick.
• 1:04:35
  Yeah, it's you know, like you not. And so these women are
• 1:04:39
  like, oh, we totally. It's there's no doubles dand I'm like,
• 1:04:41
  yes, there is. You would not and nor should you. That's the
• 1:04:45
  other thing I said. I wouldn't accept this, like I'm not going to
• 1:04:48
  have a good relationship with somebody and then have them. But if you loved
• 1:04:54
  me, you jump through these hoops. That's bullshit, that's abusive. No
• 1:04:58
  I'm not going to jump through your fucking he We're either in love or not.
• 1:05:02
  Okay. So so anyway, so I said this, and there were
• 1:05:06
  some few women who got it and said, you know, there was one
• 1:05:12
  in particular that you said, you know, I did this with my with
• 1:05:15
  with one of my uh with my current boyfriend or my current view and I
• 1:05:18
  had to learn not to do it because it was destroying my happiness. And
• 1:05:23
  I'm thinking, yes, exactly. There are women who are engaged in a
• 1:05:28
  competition over resources and they're trying to destroy each other because they do not think
• 1:05:32
  these other women deserve their resources those resources. And there are women who are
• 1:05:38
  trying to tell you you got to overcome this shit because it's self destructive.
• 1:05:45
  Not only is it destructive to society, you're not going to have as good
• 1:05:49
  a life as you could if you stop doing it, Like this is the
• 1:05:54
  thing. Let's say this is the end of the day. This woman had
• 1:05:57
  a relationship. If she's describing something that's actually happened to her, she had
• 1:06:00
  a relationship in which she was perfectly happy, she was thrilled, it was
• 1:06:04
  marvelous, it was perfect. But then she just had to set up that
• 1:06:09
  hoop and say, if you love me, okay, and once he gets
• 1:06:15
  through that hoop, gets what she's gonna do again, another hoop if you
• 1:06:18
  love me, and he's that's gonna go until he can't jump through in the
• 1:06:23
  hoops anymore, he kills himself, and then she's gonna be ut and she
• 1:06:29
  is gonna have destroyed a perfectly good relationship for nothing. Who really is hurt
• 1:06:34
  by this? Do you really think that I'm hurt by her destroying her relationships
• 1:06:39
  and me pointing it out and saying, hey, you're destroying your relationships.
• 1:06:42
  You think that hurts me? They think I'm doing that because I hate her.
• 1:06:45
  Okay, maybe who knows, Maybe I'm that hateful. But at the
• 1:06:49
  end of the day, I'm telling her, hey, you're you're walking throughwards
• 1:06:54
  an open manhole. You might want to stop. Oh you just to pick
• 1:06:58
  me? You just have to. Are you criticized? We see and my
• 1:07:03
  husband, My husband would would tell you all, probably right now, that
• 1:07:06
  I'm an abusive wife because I yelled at him when he paid fifty dollars for
• 1:07:14
  an EMF detector. If the hell's an EMF detector, it's a ghost detector.
• 1:07:20
  Oh well, it's actually pretty cool though, Yeah, but I told
• 1:07:26
  him. I told him, Okay, I personally don't think this is this
• 1:07:30
  EMF detector is going to work to detect ghosts, Okay, but even if
• 1:07:36
  it does, I don't want to know. Okay, I don't want to
• 1:07:43
  know that there's ghosts. And maybe he could use it on my microphone to
• 1:07:46
  discover what the hell is going on with it. There's like, it's I
• 1:07:50
  don't know, but I'll it to you because it goes some of those it's
• 1:07:57
  one of those gadgets that he'll lose interest in with, like within two weeks.
• 1:08:00
  He's like, well, I can use it for work, and it's
• 1:08:02
  like, yeah, you're going to use it for work, like give me
• 1:08:04
  a freaking detection in the sewers, well, EMF electromagnetic field detectors. You
• 1:08:11
  could use it for like all kinds of stuff, right, yeah, you
• 1:08:15
  know, computers going, hey, why are you know? I'm just imagining
• 1:08:18
  him like sneaking through like the basement of his workplace. Yeah, like the
• 1:08:24
  thing with the Ghostbusters that goes yeah no, And it's like and then then
• 1:08:30
  he tells me this morning, as we're leaving for it to get him to
• 1:08:34
  work, and he tells me, oh, there were ghosts last night.
• 1:08:41
  And I'm like and I'm like what, And he says, well, I
• 1:08:45
  detected ghosts in the room last night, but this morning they were gone.
• 1:08:51
  And I'm like, why would you tell me this? Why didn't you tell
• 1:08:59
  me this? So you know we're you know, I'm prone to hallucinations,
• 1:09:03
  right, Like I'm prone to you know, sort of dreams, uh,
• 1:09:10
  night terrors and sleep paralysis and stuff like that. Right, So like you
• 1:09:16
  know that I have a history of this. This is why I've never ever
• 1:09:19
  ever touched psychedelics. Right, It is because I know I know well in
• 1:09:25
  advance of any of that, right, shrooms, DMT, whatever, MBMA,
• 1:09:32
  anything right on, any trip I'm going to have is going to be
• 1:09:36
  really bad. Right. And I literally like, i got up one night
• 1:09:44
  recently to go pee, and I'm looking for these ghosts down the hallway and
• 1:09:51
  the house is dark, and I'm seeing this baby, a baby. And
• 1:09:59
  this is just after I'd had a baby raping dream. Okay, so not
• 1:10:02
  a baby raping dream were where adults were raping babies, but where babies were
• 1:10:10
  raping each other. Okay, so this is this is my fund Yeah yeah,
• 1:10:16
  no, literally a one and a half year old baby. Do you
• 1:10:20
  want to know, das going at it? You wanted up with a nine
• 1:10:25
  month old baby. And and I'm looking and there's this baby just kind of
• 1:10:30
  leaning up against the piece of furniture and staring at me. Okay, and
• 1:10:36
  I'm like, that shit ain't real good, but it's it's moving, but
• 1:10:44
  it's definitely not real. I could just imagine Mike creeping around your bedroom with
• 1:10:48
  that EMF detector and then just like you're trying to sleep, and then he
• 1:10:53
  just sort of he's going on the ground and then he just sort of like
• 1:10:57
  slides up the side of the beds. I think there's a ghost in the
• 1:11:01
  room right now. It's kind of a wonder that anyone can sleep next to
• 1:11:04
  me and still be alive. Ooh, startle response. Okay, can I
• 1:11:11
  tell you what my dreams are abouties that rape other babies? No, not
• 1:11:17
  in the slightest I have never had a dream like that. Yeah, no,
• 1:11:21
  I okay, lucky, Okay. I have dreams, For example,
• 1:11:28
  that I'm in like the British Museum right and I noticed that the walls are
• 1:11:32
  being discolored by what I presume is a hidden fire in the walls. Oh,
• 1:11:40
  and I'm like looking at this and I'm like, Okay, this is
• 1:11:42
  not good. We need to do something about it. And a bunch of
• 1:11:46
  people come and they argue over whether or not to paint the walls. Oh,
• 1:11:54
  you are red, but seems useful. Yeah, And I'm like,
• 1:11:57
  no, that's not going to fix things. We need to we need to
• 1:12:00
  actually find the source of the fire. Nobody starts fighting. Then then floors
• 1:12:03
  of the British Museum start to get eaten by the fire that was never addressed,
• 1:12:08
  and I'm like screaming, we got to get the fuck out of it.
• 1:12:10
  It's too late. And there's a whole bunch of people who are like,
• 1:12:14
  no, no, we can, we can save it. I'm like,
• 1:12:15
  no, you're the bottom is on fire, the top will be on
• 1:12:18
  fire. We gotta get out. And then there's a there's a small amount
• 1:12:23
  of people that are like, oh, yeah, you're right, we should
• 1:12:26
  probably get out, and we'd like go up the the the endless staircase,
• 1:12:30
  and then we get onto the roof and we're like and I'm like, okay,
• 1:12:33
  well we got to get off this building, so let's let's construct a
• 1:12:39
  bridge to the next uh roof. The next building, and so we're doing
• 1:12:45
  that, and then the are the other people who are still in the fire.
• 1:12:47
  They're like, what are you doing You're destroying the building, or like
• 1:12:51
  we're constructing a bridge to the other building. This building is on fire.
• 1:12:56
  Those are the kinds of dreams I have. Oh no, me, it's
• 1:13:00
  the baby rapers. Okay, we got different. No, the ones that
• 1:13:03
  can walk, the ones that can walk, they they they rape the ones
• 1:13:08
  that are just crawling because the ones that are just crawling can't get away.
• 1:13:12
  You got okay, all right, I gotta twist some arms now, like
• 1:13:15
  let's let's uh. I mean, who doesn't want this kind of content?
• 1:13:18
  Right? Yeah? No, you do. Not like it. Every time
• 1:13:24
  my my husband says, you know, like oh you know, we canup,
• 1:13:28
  and I'm like, you don't want to know what's in my fucking brain,
• 1:13:30
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• 1:13:35
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  just the tip get them started, all right, Let's do a little bit
• 1:14:19
  more. They see other women as competition at best, and most of the
• 1:14:26
  time as an outright threat. Direction Usually they end up being very passive aggressive
• 1:14:30
  towards other women in that pursuit. Right now, I'm pretty sure all of
• 1:14:33
  the women listening are conjuring up versions of the pigmy girl they are running to
• 1:14:39
  throughout the course of their life. But for the mens who maybe still don't
• 1:14:42
  know quite what I'm talking about, let's roll a few examples. Stop for
• 1:14:45
  the men's because this is all about what the men want. So I'm curious
• 1:14:51
  how she's going to try to protect her resource or which is men. Okay,
• 1:15:01
  real quick, I got a super chat from Max Matt and he sent
• 1:15:10
  four and uh has like a little animated gift thing. No, actually it
• 1:15:15
  just says one. I think this is first super chat. You're super Yeah,
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  first super chat. So thank you, Max Matt. You didn't include
• 1:15:24
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• 1:15:30
  chat because it's you know, but we appreciate the four, nine and nine
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  again. Go to feed the Badgel dot com forard slash. Just a tip
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  if you want to send some support that way. It's it's it's better for
• 1:15:42
  us. But this is still appreciated. Okay, what were you guys gonna
• 1:15:45
  say about this or do you want me to play more? I'm just curious
• 1:15:47
  how she's going to defend her resource, which is men. So let's go,
• 1:15:53
  Hi, So nice to meet you. You have filler, right right?
• 1:15:57
  Okay, yeah I thought so. So this is a video she's it's
• 1:16:02
  an example. This is a meeting the pick me girl that secretly hates you.
• 1:16:09
  So this that's what this is. This is women have like lip filler,
• 1:16:12
  Like, is this like the thing? No, the pickmies have lip
• 1:16:15
  filler is the thing? Well no, no, no, no, no,
• 1:16:17
  no, no, no, wait no, she's the pick me.
• 1:16:20
  We we she's pointing out that the she's playing the pick me, she's doing
• 1:16:25
  the thing where women, you know, they they compliment you, but they
• 1:16:30
  they're really like attacking you or whatever. How how women attack each other.
• 1:16:35
  It's passive aggressive. Okay, but that's not Oh yeah girl, that that
• 1:16:43
  that is what they're calling a pic me girl. I just I think I
• 1:16:47
  was pretty pretty overtly aggressive towards Hannah Cox and the other women in their filler.
• 1:16:53
  Yeah, like I was, like, I'm pretty I'm pretty sure that
• 1:16:56
  I just laid it right out there. You guys, are you guys?
• 1:16:59
  While you are yeah, while you are incapable of extending good faith, you
• 1:17:03
  want sexual power, which is sort of gross. Yeah, okay, that's
• 1:17:12
  your losh is done. Yeah, they're just really fluffy, like a caterpillar.
• 1:17:16
  Almost. You're an actual blot though, right you're not. Oh my
• 1:17:21
  god, wow that must feel a lot of upkeep. Yeah. Wow,
• 1:17:27
  this would just waveng. I mean, if I was you, I'd just
• 1:17:30
  be rocking the brunette. At this point, I'm so alone maintenance. I
• 1:17:33
  need you to teach me how to do such heavy makeup, never never done
• 1:17:38
  it before. I like wear c yeah, but don't wear any makeup at
• 1:17:44
  all? Is everything just revolve around the visual for these women. Like the
• 1:17:49
  closest that I've ever come to say in anything like that was my friend Shari.
• 1:17:56
  I was like, those fingernails are not getting anywhere near my couch,
• 1:18:00
  okay, because uh, you know, I was just like, how do
• 1:18:03
  you even like, how do you like, uh help your daughter get dressed
• 1:18:11
  with those freaking swords. I don't think this is a pick mey. I
• 1:18:14
  think this is the relational aggression that you oh yeah no to each other.
• 1:18:17
  This is this is basically women undermining each other's resources. I know, I
• 1:18:24
  don't regret she handed box and resources. Well, this is a pickny,
• 1:18:28
  I've just never seen one in the wild. No, this is not a
• 1:18:31
  pigmy. That's because I'm pretty sure I get called to pick me and I
• 1:18:34
  very rarely no, no, no, But this is this is what they're
• 1:18:38
  trying to portray as a pick me right, is someone trying to undermine other
• 1:18:44
  women's abilities? Yeah, I think it's just a woman that isn't a part
• 1:18:47
  of the sisterhood. I don't know, this is a part of this is
• 1:18:53
  this is okay, this is a mean girl. This is a mean girl.
• 1:18:57
  She's like really mean fucking girl. And yes, she if she existed,
• 1:19:01
  she would be a pigmy. Why would she be a pigmy? Well,
• 1:19:06
  because she's undermining the other woman and basically presenting herself as the more attractive
• 1:19:13
  option. Okay, so a lot of maintenance and blah blah blah, and
• 1:19:17
  her lips are fake and blah blah blah. And it's like, yeah,
• 1:19:21
  okay, so if that's the motivation, is to get male attention by doing
• 1:19:28
  that to other women, right, And it's all passive, aggressive and smarmy
• 1:19:32
  like that, I can see calling that that pigmy. But I find it
• 1:19:35
  amazing that, you know, they have to find someone, right, the
• 1:19:41
  one that they actually opened with, who was an actual you know that,
• 1:19:49
  you know, the first the first woman who was applying makeup, right,
• 1:19:55
  okay, and like, well, she's not gonna knock some woman for wearing
• 1:20:00
  makeup. She's not gonna like criticize some woman for doing her hair nice.
• 1:20:05
  She's not gonna do any of that. She looked like she was like ready
• 1:20:11
  to go out on a date. She was criticizing women for being undermining like
• 1:20:15
  this, well, for being shallow, and again I just struck. Okay,
• 1:20:19
  Hannah Cox, you just showed us a pigmy who was criticizing women for
• 1:20:27
  making like I guess, being passive aggressive and backstabbing. And now you're showing
• 1:20:30
  another woman who's criticizing women for being passive aggressive and backstabbing. Well, but
• 1:20:35
  this woman doesn't exist. Yeah, I know, but my point is she's
• 1:20:40
  an actor. But my point is what's wrong with the first woman saying women
• 1:20:46
  are being passive aggressive and backstabbing. And then this woman is saying, ah,
• 1:20:51
  this is the demonstration of being in the presence of a woman who's being
• 1:20:56
  passive aggressive and backstabbing. This is okay, But the first woman wasn't.
• 1:21:00
  Why, Well, no, she's not saying this is okay. No,
• 1:21:04
  no, no, no no, I'm saying the criticism like this woman is
• 1:21:09
  criticizing criticizing women for being passive aggressive and backstabby. The first woman we saw
• 1:21:15
  was criticizing women for being passive aggressive and backstabby. Yeah, and then but
• 1:21:20
  the whole the whole idea is that the pick me is passive aggressive and backstabby.
• 1:21:26
  Right, So Hannah Cox is like, I hate picknies. They're so
• 1:21:30
  passive aggressive and backstabby. Here, let me be passive aggressive and backstabby towards
• 1:21:36
  them. It's like, you know what, this is all fucking bullshit.
• 1:21:41
  But my point is that the first woman, who was presented as the the
• 1:21:45
  the the horrible pick me, was essentially saying I don't want to be around
• 1:21:50
  women because they're passive, aggressive and back I don't because they're pickmies. But
• 1:21:56
  that but Krona Cox was presenting her as the pick me, I know,
• 1:22:00
  like the I'm sorry that people are so jealous of me, but i'n't help
• 1:22:04
  it that I'm popular. Good lord, Like, like what okay, but
• 1:22:10
  what's the difference? Like the first woman is like, I don't want to
• 1:22:13
  be around you women, you're passive, aggressive and backstabby. This woman is
• 1:22:16
  like these what is it? Because she said women instead of pigmies. Yeah,
• 1:22:21
  because I can tell you there's a lot of women who are like this.
• 1:22:25
  Apparently, well apparently it's it's like apparently a major freaking problem. It's
• 1:22:31
  such a huge problem that Hannah Cox had to make a video about it.
• 1:22:36
  Yeah, apparently, But Also, she has to call out women who say
• 1:22:41
  women do this as pigmies, even though she's she's a woman calling out women
• 1:22:44
  who do this as like, is it just all is it just like a
• 1:22:48
  funhouse mirror of pickmies? I can't know. I'm just like, it's infinite
• 1:22:55
  regression of pigmies. Yeah, this is a conception. Yeah, it's instead
• 1:23:00
  pick me seception, it's pick me sception. Just call out the behavior.
• 1:23:05
  You don't have to label it. Women do it more than men for whatever
• 1:23:09
  reason. Although there's a lot of men who seem to want to do this
• 1:23:11
  now too, women do it more than men. It's just shitty behavior that
• 1:23:15
  mostly women do, Okay, And if you just call out the behavior,
• 1:23:20
  you don't have to define a subset. You don't have to define women like
• 1:23:24
  you don't have to define a subset of women by this behavior. Just call
• 1:23:28
  out the behavior. The behavior is shit. Women mostly do it. It's
• 1:23:31
  mostly women who the people who do it are mostly women the end. Just
• 1:23:35
  call out the behavior. It's destructive, so what call it out? Police
• 1:23:40
  it. That's fine. There's nothing wrong with the first woman who's like,
• 1:23:43
  women you do this. It's true. Women do do this more than men.
• 1:23:45
  They do do this more than men. You don't need to scapegoat a
• 1:23:50
  particular group of women. Just call out the behavior when you see it,
• 1:23:56
  call it out, don't do it yourself, right, okay. And there
• 1:24:00
  is a difference between saying trying to undermine a woman ability to acquire resource and
• 1:24:09
  pointing out that what she's doing is destroying the resources. Okay, there's a
• 1:24:13
  difference there. The difference is fighting over a dress versus telling a woman who's
• 1:24:23
  lighting fire to the dress factory to stop. Right, do you see the
• 1:24:27
  difference? Why do you deserve the resources? You could earn them, but
• 1:24:33
  it's really bad if you're destroying them completely. It would it make me a
• 1:24:39
  horrible pick me if I said I don't want the dress though, it's fine,
• 1:24:43
  you cannot want to dress like okay, But my overall point is this,
• 1:24:47
  Like, there's a difference between just saying this behavior is destructive, all
• 1:24:53
  right, and trying to destroy another woman because you feel like you get you
• 1:24:59
  have the to the resources that you think that she's accessing, which is what
• 1:25:02
  is happening here, right, okay, okay? And what does this have
• 1:25:11
  to do with them? I know that's natural, it's oil on my skin.
• 1:25:16
  Yeah, why would you know? Oh my god, Hi, how
• 1:25:21
  are you could to see you? You look so dressed up? Yeah no,
• 1:25:28
  I mean I just didn't know that tonight was that big of a deal.
• 1:25:30
  But hey, I love the enthusiasm. Wait, let me see your
• 1:25:33
  nails. Who those must take so long? I could never, I can
• 1:25:40
  never. You must care a lot. The clocking on the screen of those
• 1:25:42
  doesn't bother you. Hey, Brian, just make sure each pause for the
• 1:25:45
  banana. But I have no interest in responding to this. Well, I'm
• 1:25:49
  just looking at Mike. Maybe I'll just skip to the end of this because
• 1:25:54
  it kind of goes on for a while, and I'm sure, well let's
• 1:25:58
  let's listen to it, but let's go through it. But I'm just all
• 1:26:00
  right, all right, Yeah don't. I don't think I can handle it.
• 1:26:03
  But brave, Oh my god, I ran into your boyfriend at the
• 1:26:06
  grocery store the other day. I had no idea he was hot. Congrats,
• 1:26:13
  good for you for you. We all see your hair grows. Of
• 1:26:16
  what. I've never met a woman like this. I don't understand. I
• 1:26:23
  think that I don't think this woman really exists, like especially like a half
• 1:26:27
  friend or she does but we just don't meet him because we don't go in
• 1:26:30
  those circles. Yeah, I mean, I'm I'm already freaking bored. I'm
• 1:26:34
  okay, let's get to the meat. Let's get to the philosophy. This
• 1:26:38
  is just cattiness. You're acting like there is philosophy. Yeah, I don't
• 1:26:43
  think it. I don't think it's super deep. I got a super chow
• 1:26:46
  thank you from David Lobby and he gives us David low boy and gives us
• 1:26:53
  five bucks and says, w h ow my arm Alison, pick me Earl
• 1:27:00
  shall receive light duty and extra rations and the sandwich minds. So it has
• 1:27:03
  been written, so let it be done. Thank you appreciate it. I'm
• 1:27:11
  not going into those sands. Might kill you with my sandwiches, though I'm
• 1:27:15
  not intentionally. I just I'm all my sandwiches are for jink Oh. Yeah
• 1:27:23
  that's right. So also, Karen Sandwiches, give thank you, give me,
• 1:27:29
  thank you for feminists, forgetting your right to vote. Go make my
• 1:27:32
  hand sandwich. Karen's. Karen Sandwiches must all go to jink As as the
• 1:27:41
  one good man, the one good walrus on good Sea Lion. Yeah,
• 1:27:46
  he's the the the Alpha Buffalo. All right, let's play more extensions,
• 1:27:56
  okay? And I saw a little left pop out there. No, no,
• 1:28:00
  they look great. I can't even tell. I mean like, it
• 1:28:03
  just doesn't follow you when you're trying hair. Oh, I just get it.
• 1:28:09
  I get it. I get why this is fascinating. It's m m
• 1:28:13
  A for women. Yeah, that's what this is like. There there are
• 1:28:16
  actually engaging in all kinds of maneuvers to try to out out out compete each
• 1:28:21
  other. And it needs the Mortal Kombat theme over the top of it.
• 1:28:27
  That's that's why you can't tell because it doesn't have Yeah, well can deal
• 1:28:38
  with those nails. And I don't understand how women can handle hair extensions.
• 1:28:45
  If I can't, if I can't brush through my entire head of hair all
• 1:28:48
  the way down to the scalp, right, if there's like chunks with glue
• 1:28:55
  gluing the hair extensions on, Yeah, no, I I just it would
• 1:29:00
  drive me crazy. It would make me nuts. You know, I'm just
• 1:29:02
  obsessive that way. I'm sorry. Can I can I just tell a little,
• 1:29:05
  a quick little story. When I was in my mid twenties, I
• 1:29:10
  think it was like twenty six, and I worked in the Sears Tower now
• 1:29:13
  called the Willis Tower downtown Chicago. And there was this girl. She was
• 1:29:17
  a a secretary in one of the offices, and I worked in the gift
• 1:29:21
  shop and I thought she was just like, you know, the bomb like
• 1:29:27
  and she was so attractive to me and I and she liked me. I
• 1:29:31
  could tell. So I asked her on the date once we went and watched
• 1:29:33
  Memento. This is when the movie just came out, you know, the
• 1:29:36
  Memento with by Christopher Nolan, right, it kind of a kind of cerebral
• 1:29:43
  movie if you've never seen it. And after the movie's over, I'm like
• 1:29:47
  trying to talk to her about it, and she had like no hobbies,
• 1:29:51
  no nothing, She lived with her dog. She didn't understand the movie.
• 1:29:57
  I'm like, oh, I thought it was pretty good, and I'm like
• 1:29:59
  talking about, like, you know, the way that it was filmed and
• 1:30:00
  everything, and she's like, I didn't get it. And then and then
• 1:30:03
  we're like on the way I'm taking her to her place and I realized or
• 1:30:09
  I noticed, because her hair is really long on this date, and I'm
• 1:30:12
  like, well, your head's a lot longer than then. I remember when
• 1:30:15
  I saw you in the store and she's like, oh, well, you
• 1:30:17
  know, at first she didn't say anything, and then she kind of said,
• 1:30:19
  well, I have extensions, And my first thought was well, I
• 1:30:24
  said to her, I said, why did you do that? And she
• 1:30:28
  never went out with me again. Like I didn't think I did anything wrong,
• 1:30:31
  but it's just funny, like, guys, we don't care about that,
• 1:30:36
  Like I'm sorry, but we don't. Like it was weird that I
• 1:30:39
  thought. I'm like, why are you getting extensions? Like in you know,
• 1:30:43
  I live in it. I lived in the West Side of Chicago.
• 1:30:45
  I grew up around a lot of black people, and black women get weaves
• 1:30:49
  and extensions put in all the time, and they act like men impose this
• 1:30:54
  on them when I know for sure most of us are just like, why
• 1:30:58
  don't you just wear your hair natural? Like when I went to college,
• 1:31:00
  there was a girl that I went to school with. She was from Ghana,
• 1:31:04
  and she was gorgeous and her hair was all she had like a you
• 1:31:08
  know, like an Afro ponytail thing. And I was like, yeah,
• 1:31:11
  that's a beautiful woman right there. Like I didn't understand it, but it's
• 1:31:15
  just weird because this whole conversation that this whole pigmy thing that's happening. Men
• 1:31:19
  have nothing to do with this, but men will be to blame for this,
• 1:31:24
  yeah yeah, yeah no. And you look at you look at the
• 1:31:29
  you know, like the the Jamaican most mostly women, mostly Jamaican people who
• 1:31:38
  work at my local run my local liquor store. And one she just basically
• 1:31:45
  buzzes her head and wears wigs. And it's a bunch of sisters and like
• 1:31:50
  siblings and nieces and stuff, right who worked there, and nephews and and
• 1:31:57
  the other she gets brave every once in a while, and and then the
• 1:32:01
  niece gets she has braids. Sometimes she you know, pulls a whoopee and
• 1:32:09
  and we've some you know, uh other color through them, right, And
• 1:32:14
  it's like I always thought, you know, that would be handy, right,
• 1:32:19
  like that would be I mean, you just get up. There's no
• 1:32:23
  way you could have BedHead mm hmm. Right. But but it's like I
• 1:32:30
  okay, that that that's that's fine. But the man are just uh,
• 1:32:38
  they just do the standard fro. Except for the Hindu Jamaican one you know,
• 1:32:46
  who has like long, almost completely white hair is always a mess.
• 1:32:55
  Okay, So what what is There's something that occurred to me while you were
• 1:32:59
  first Well, I just want to do a shout out, Brian. You
• 1:33:01
  were the one who said that social media is like call of duty for women.
• 1:33:06
  Yeah, yes it is. It's online multiplayer for women. Yeah,
• 1:33:14
  you know what they need to do. They need to give rules and like
• 1:33:16
  a points scoring system, and then men will really get into this. They'll
• 1:33:20
  be like polar extensions. Oh, mentioned mentioned the new how do you do
• 1:33:29
  that? When? How do you do that? When you're getting frisky with
• 1:33:32
  with your date? You know, like doesn't this hand get stuck on those
• 1:33:36
  extensions? Like how does that even work? Yeah? I see you've got
• 1:33:42
  a new You've got a new plastic surgeon. Very very good work. Excellent.
• 1:33:47
  Yeah. Okay, but but I'm telling you this is how, this
• 1:33:50
  is how these women will get more men's interests. You gotta make this a
• 1:33:55
  sport. And you got some great material here, because once I realized that,
• 1:34:00
  I totally got more interested. But it needs to have a point scoring
• 1:34:02
  system. Once in a while, it needs to descend into like fists at
• 1:34:06
  fisticuffs and hair pulling. Yes, yeah, a little bit more action would
• 1:34:11
  would help it quite a bit, just a little bit. And I'm telling
• 1:34:15
  you point scoring system and referees. That's what you need. Make it.
• 1:34:20
  You need you need like an entire board full of stats. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:34:27
  exactly, you need to have a fantasy league pick me. Oh yeah,
• 1:34:31
  come on, that's that's that's a million dollar idea idea right there.
• 1:34:36
  Yeah. But the point I wanted to make it likes but fights, but
• 1:34:43
  with with women. But the the overall point that I wanted to make was
• 1:34:48
  again, oh actually let me let me let me frame it like this.
• 1:34:51
  So when this woman that you went out with you thought was really hot started
• 1:34:56
  to reveal the fact that there was nothing there, did she retain that attractiveness
• 1:35:01
  to you? I mean, I mean she was still really hot. But
• 1:35:06
  I was twenty six, Alison. I wasn't thinking with my brain, but
• 1:35:11
  but yeah, I mean I was. I thought I blame myself because I
• 1:35:15
  thought, well, I shouldn't have I shouldn't have pride. I should have
• 1:35:17
  allowed the mystery, you know, about her hair, because I called it
• 1:35:23
  out and I didn't realize it, you know what I mean, Like I
• 1:35:25
  was just kind of innocent. I was like, oh, why why did
• 1:35:28
  you why are your hair so long? And she was like, oh,
• 1:35:30
  well it's an extension, and I'm like, why did you get extensions?
• 1:35:32
  Why would you do that? I don't need to do that. It's kind
• 1:35:35
  of like when guys say, well, you know, like you know,
• 1:35:40
  you don't have to wear a lot of makeup, and I think they mean
• 1:35:43
  it. They're they're being really practical, like, you know, we wonder
• 1:35:46
  is that even good for your skin or whatever, And then women get upset
• 1:35:50
  because they're like, you're not supposed to notice that I'm wearing makeup. It's
• 1:35:53
  like that, like you're not supposed to see through the veil, and it's
• 1:35:56
  like, no, it's obvious, Like your neck is like three three shades
• 1:36:00
  darker than your face. Before you start, Karen, let me just I
• 1:36:04
  think part of the problem that we're having here is, first of all,
• 1:36:09
  I don't see a lot of connection between this and the definition of pick me,
• 1:36:12
  and I think what is actually happening is that the pickmies, based on
• 1:36:17
  the definition, are women who simply just go with whatever God gave them in
• 1:36:25
  terms of their looks and then focus on other things like hobbies, virtues,
• 1:36:29
  whatever else. Right, And this is for some reason that has been conflated
• 1:36:35
  with this, which is honestly this is not This is not that behavior because
• 1:36:41
  they're just they're just most of the women who are more masculine are just living
• 1:36:45
  with whatever God gave them in terms of looks and focusing on other aspects of
• 1:36:50
  themselves to build up. Well, this sounds like the behavior of women who
• 1:36:56
  exclusively focus on looks. Yeah, well see what I'm saying. Look at
• 1:37:01
  this woman. I mean, she's like beautifully made up, and she's like
• 1:37:05
  wearing a really nice dress and you know, and all of that. And
• 1:37:09
  it's like, yeah, I wouldn't go out like that. I feel like
• 1:37:13
  I was in a costume. Yeah, and I would. I would not
• 1:37:15
  look good, so I wouldn't do it. But you know, it's and
• 1:37:18
  a lot of that. This is interesting because when I criticized women's behavior and
• 1:37:25
  not not like, I'm not saying that I don't necessarily fall into some of
• 1:37:29
  the things that I'm criticizing. Yes, I have seen myself do shitty things
• 1:37:32
  like put up hoops and then I have to go and I have to slap
• 1:37:35
  myself. Don't do that. And but when we're criticizing the behavior, if
• 1:37:43
  you overcome the behavior, you're gonna have a better life. I don't think
• 1:37:46
  this what these women are in their criticism, are giving you anything that's gonna
• 1:37:53
  make your life better at the end of the day, They're simply trying to
• 1:37:57
  destroy your access to resources. You see the different like when we criticize women,
• 1:38:01
  if you actually listened to the criticism that we're saying, if you listen
• 1:38:06
  to here's the things that concern men. You know, have some consideration,
• 1:38:11
  have some compassion, develop these other things, develop the virtues the extension of
• 1:38:15
  compassion, Develop your discipline, develop your your your contentment and gratitude. Develop
• 1:38:21
  your humility to a certain degree, because some of us aren't very don't have
• 1:38:26
  a lot of that. But you know, whatever, to what degree you
• 1:38:29
  can are you aiming? That is a jab at me? I'm such a
• 1:38:33
  pick me. Okay, it's fine, you're charming. Okay, I have
• 1:38:43
  a big ego too, and I know all right. But but overall,
• 1:38:46
  like, develop these virtues and these are long term self interest. This is
• 1:38:51
  this is how you develop long term self interest, you know, and you
• 1:38:56
  will have a better life, you know. And it's not about trying to
• 1:39:00
  destroy your resources. Is about trying to impart the information so that you can
• 1:39:05
  best preserve those resources and enjoy them into your old age. You know,
• 1:39:13
  there's a big difference between that and tearing each other apart like this. And
• 1:39:20
  the horrible thing is is that you will get old. M hmm. Right,
• 1:39:25
  all of this is going to go away at some point. You're going
• 1:39:28
  to end up looking like you know, you're probably not going to age like
• 1:39:33
  Ellen Mirren, no name Ellen Mirren or like some of the older like classical
• 1:39:40
  actresses. Yeah, you're probably not going to age. Well I got to
• 1:39:45
  find out that actress's name, but yeah, you're probably not. And the
• 1:39:53
  more you pick it yourself, the worse you'll age, to be honest.
• 1:39:56
  Yeah, the moment you go through menopause, you're probably going to lose thirty
• 1:40:00
  of your collagen. Mm hmmm, yeah, sir. But my overall point
• 1:40:06
  is, yeah, it's all waiting for us in the end. This is
• 1:40:09
  what I found funny because people were like, oh, you're old and black,
• 1:40:13
  and I'm like, well, yeah, I as soon you're going to
• 1:40:14
  be my age. You're going to have like I had anol I'm old.
• 1:40:19
  I survived for like fifty three. Yeah. Someone some woman was like,
• 1:40:24
  yeah, you should put some makeup on. It could take the years off.
• 1:40:27
  And I said, well, why would I take my years off?
• 1:40:29
  I earned them? The Uh, why would I take my years off?
• 1:40:33
  The only man that I want to have anything really to do with is perfectly
• 1:40:39
  happy with the way I look. Yeah, And I actually went to my
• 1:40:42
  husband, I said, all these people are like insulting me, and He's
• 1:40:44
  like, well, they fuck them. You're you're beautiful to me. There
• 1:40:47
  you go, yeah, there you go. Those weird things, right,
• 1:40:50
  Like they've done studies on it, on people who like fell in love when
• 1:40:58
  they were young and then medi each other when they were significantly older, like
• 1:41:02
  twenty thirty forty years later, right, and the feelings are still there,
• 1:41:09
  The attraction is still there. They they still You ask them and they say,
• 1:41:17
  no, no, she looks exactly like the day I met her.
• 1:41:21
  Like, it's the weirdest thing, right, and it's it's a mental trick.
• 1:41:27
  It's something in the brain, not in the eyes. But even my
• 1:41:33
  dad, you know, like when you know, my parents had one of
• 1:41:38
  those photo frames that would just like scroll through all the different family photos and
• 1:41:44
  stuff, and whenever a picture would come up of my mom and it didn't
• 1:41:46
  matter what age she was, right, she could be like when he right
• 1:41:50
  after they met you know, or before they met, or you know,
• 1:41:56
  when she was fifty, when she was sixty, when she was eighty.
• 1:42:00
  Right, he would just start talking about you know how when he met her
• 1:42:06
  on that first blind date, right, he took one look at her and
• 1:42:11
  said, that's the woman I'm going to marry. She's like Elizabeth Taylor and
• 1:42:15
  Audrey Hepburn, just in one woman, and and that's that's what I'm going
• 1:42:24
  to do with my life. And he would he just he absolutely adore her.
• 1:42:30
  And they picked at each other and bickered with each other the way I
• 1:42:33
  do with my husband too. Right, But she would like stomp around and
• 1:42:39
  threaten to divorce him when he was like being when he's like smoking or whatever,
• 1:42:44
  she catch him smoking, I swear, I'm going to divorce you.
• 1:42:46
  And he put his hands together and look up at God and pray, please
• 1:42:49
  let her be, Please let her meet it this time. But you know
• 1:42:57
  I loved each other, yes, and like I'm I'm I'm she's talling me
• 1:43:03
  old. Well, I mean I have a twenty six year relationship now,
• 1:43:06
  it's probably older than you're alive. And I'm not planning to leave them,
• 1:43:12
  so oh, you know, like uh, and he's not planning to leave
• 1:43:16
  you, and it's like yeah, no, yeah, we build a lake
• 1:43:20
  together. That's that's that's what you do. And if you wanna, if
• 1:43:25
  you want to be actually beautiful even when you're old, that's what you do.
• 1:43:31
  You don't play these shitty games. You listen to people who have long
• 1:43:36
  term relationships on the kind of mentality that they need to maintain them. And
• 1:43:41
  that is completely different than trying to undermine another woman's access to her resources.
• 1:43:46
  Okay, if you listen to me, you're not gonna have Maybe it feels
• 1:43:53
  bad initially because I'm criticizing some aspect of your behavior. You know, maybe
• 1:43:59
  that feels bad. But at the end of the day, if you overcome
• 1:44:03
  whatever it is that's making you behave this way, you're gonna have a better
• 1:44:09
  life. Whereas if you succumb to what these women are saying, it's just
• 1:44:14
  a permanent hit to your self esteem. That's it. Does that make sense,
• 1:44:17
  Like there's a difference there, Well, it's you know, like,
• 1:44:20
  honestly, these women should be like worried less about competing with each other a
• 1:44:27
  little bit worried more about securing a man who's a long term prospect, who
• 1:44:35
  actually does have the potential of staying with you forever and you age together and
• 1:44:44
  you know, and so you're looking at his midsection expanding and his hair going
• 1:44:50
  gray, and he's looking at you know, the same with you, and
• 1:44:58
  you're you're okay with that because you're not on the market. Mm hm,
• 1:45:04
  well you are on the market. Neither of you really have to worry about
• 1:45:11
  any of that. And so it's just like I'm thinking, like, if
• 1:45:15
  if I had to start dating now, I just wouldn't do it. Okay,
• 1:45:19
  this is ultimately it. Don't let intersexual female intersectional competition ruin your life.
• 1:45:28
  And this is what's happening here. And the thing is that Hannah Cox
• 1:45:30
  is still engaging in it. Yeah, okay, let's keep going. I
• 1:45:35
  just find it hilarious that she calls the woman calling out the picknies a pickny
• 1:45:43
  yeah. Well, she calls the woman calling out this behavior a pickmy yeah
• 1:45:46
  yeah, and then she calls I'm finding it very difficult to follow her logic
• 1:45:51
  because I suspect there is none. All Right, I got some thank you,
• 1:45:56
  So I want to do a big thank you to cry. I'll just
• 1:46:01
  say cry k r y who gives us a thirty dollars subscription, So thank
• 1:46:08
  you. Who's that's very appreciated. It's we've had some a lowering of subscription
• 1:46:15
  revenue lately, so anything that brings that back up is really appreciated. That
• 1:46:20
  takes a weight off my mind to make sure that we have that some at
• 1:46:25
  least some monthly income coming in. All right, So the next one I
• 1:46:28
  want to thank is Power of seven, hopefully not your legal name, who
• 1:46:31
  gives us ten bucks. Thank you, Power of a seven. You're saying
• 1:46:36
  that we should organize a society's little mind. Yes, that's exactly what he
• 1:46:43
  said, the Crustacean, the Tao of the Crustacean. Okay, and I
• 1:46:47
  want to thank Shila Gaga for fifty dollars. Thank you, Sheillagaga. All
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  Right, so we have where are we at? We have one eight and
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  thirty left to go, which is actually pretty good for seven days remaining.
• 1:47:08
  I really appreciate everybody putting it in early, like that's a weight off of
• 1:47:12
  my mind. I think it might also be a weight off of Brian's mind,
• 1:47:15
  but I know I'm a lot more nervous than Brian and frenetic. So
• 1:47:19
  yeah, thank you so much. Just very appreciated, and again thank you
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  for the the ongoing support. Don't think that the ongoing support isn't appreciated it
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  get a lot of the attention, but it is. It's good to know
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  that you're giving every month and that we have that to rely on. All
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• 1:47:55
  Brian, all right, a couple of things before we continue. Firstly,
• 1:47:59
  I got a couple superchows and super chats. But also don't you have
• 1:48:04
  to go to the Twitter spaces soon? Yeah? Probably, I'll see what
• 1:48:09
  they say. All right. Well, let me read the superchows and superchats
• 1:48:13
  and then I guess we'll decide what's happening next. So great, indoors.
• 1:48:16
  I'm sorry I can't display it now because the chat has disappeared. Gives us
• 1:48:23
  five dollars and says Brian. At this point, I don't know what a
• 1:48:26
  pigmy girl is anymore. It's all very confusing. Can you tell me about
• 1:48:29
  your dreams instead? I don't really have any. He wants to know if
• 1:48:34
  you have any baby rapers in your No, I don't have any. I
• 1:48:38
  don't have any dreams like that. I think the last time I had a
• 1:48:40
  dream it was I was in school and graduating. It was very boring.
• 1:48:49
  Yeah, that's getting in there. And then he's like, oh my god,
• 1:48:53
  this is amazing. And then he's like yeah right into the camera and
• 1:48:59
  I'm like, what, what the fuck? And then I got a super
• 1:49:03
  chow from the one good Man I can't display, and he gives us five
• 1:49:08
  bucks and says, what's the difference between a shopping trolley and a male feminist?
• 1:49:11
  A shopping trolley has a mind of its own. Thank you for that.
• 1:49:15
  Very funny. And then I got a couple super chats. Albert Nata
• 1:49:21
  Retro gives us three super chats. I'm just gonna read the amounts and then
• 1:49:25
  read through them all. One for two dollars Canadian, one for five dollars
• 1:49:29
  Canadian, and one for two dollars Canadian. And he says, this is
• 1:49:32
  basic chick on chick aggression. Brian, Yes, I know, I know
• 1:49:35
  what that looks like Albert Nata then gives and then says only one Alison MMA
• 1:49:41
  has rules and combatants generally do have respect for each other. More like pro
• 1:49:45
  wrestling talking to talking to build a died, shit talking to build a died
• 1:49:51
  Okay, yeah, I think this online like social media aggression between women.
• 1:49:58
  There should be a referee of some kind, but I don't know. And
• 1:50:00
  then and then Albert says that should have read only one problem. Okay,
• 1:50:06
  it so sorry. That's all of the I've read through them all. I'm
• 1:50:12
  done with that. Okay, let's play some more of the video. I
• 1:50:15
  guess oh, I got another super child because Richard Bierre likes to wait till
• 1:50:17
  the last second because it's five bucks and says a lot of these women seem
• 1:50:20
  to be in a state of arrested development, and somehow they don't realize that
• 1:50:25
  they will visibly age at all. They do seem to be perpetually in their
• 1:50:28
  high school mindset. Too bad. There isn't any of these types of women
• 1:50:31
  giving their life perspective in their nursing home years and now it is working and
• 1:50:36
  how it is working out for them. But women wouldn't listen to the advice
• 1:50:42
  from other women anyway, would they? I mean, some probably will,
• 1:50:45
  but like, why would you listen to the advice of some old bit she's
• 1:50:48
  old and ugly? Yeah, exactly, what the hell? Like that's the
• 1:50:55
  thing, Like, you guys are going to end up in that position.
• 1:50:58
  Yeah, you gotta get that you're gonna be old and ugly. Like this
• 1:51:02
  is very very fleeting, very fleeting, like if you're if you're fifty and
• 1:51:06
  you dress like that, right, everybody's gonna look at you like a bitch.
• 1:51:12
  You're trying too hard, Like you're gonna be a try hard at act
• 1:51:15
  your age? Right? Are we doing more? Are we calling it?
• 1:51:18
  Okay? What do you have to do? Well? I'm trying to figure
• 1:51:21
  out what's going on because they're they're still sort of dicking around, you know,
• 1:51:25
  like these things are sort of informal, So I imagine that it might
• 1:51:29
  be a while before they start, and you know, it'll probably take a
• 1:51:34
  while to get everybody REVVD up. I suppose, all right, so now
• 1:51:41
  I get I'm gonna play the video. Okay, yes, your boyfriend or
• 1:51:45
  something like that, like when he's trying to okay, cool, none of
• 1:51:50
  this is going to Are you trying to impress the boys in the middle of
• 1:51:56
  my class. You guys, see that she's trying to impress you. Sounds
• 1:51:59
  that any of you boys me at the football game last night. I know
• 1:52:01
  you did because you were playing extra hard. Okay, what the fuck You're
• 1:52:08
  going to focus on the fact that she's engaging in intersexual competition when the fact
• 1:52:13
  that she is grooming boys might be the more important thing to focus on.
• 1:52:20
  That's inappropriate. Yeah, clearly inappropriate. And I think she kind of acknowledged
• 1:52:26
  it, but doesn't. But it's still men's fault if we keep going.
• 1:52:30
  Does this even exist? Yeah, probably it does. But it's like,
• 1:52:36
  honestly, Karen, you don't know, well, you don't, you don't.
• 1:52:40
  You don't go in these circles. I guarantee it. So I'm sure
• 1:52:43
  that they are actually being honest about the women that they're seeing. But the
• 1:52:47
  other thing is that all of this, all of this is irrelevant to your
• 1:52:54
  long term well being. This is just you, guys fighting over res and
• 1:53:00
  not developing the virtues to actually maintain those resources long term over your lifetime.
• 1:53:08
  Like these, these these are women who look at things the way. A
• 1:53:13
  lot of this is the criticism that I have about millennials consumers and stuff,
• 1:53:16
  and they're like, oh, I'll never be able to afford to buy house.
• 1:53:19
  Yeah, how about this, buy a shitty house like I did.
• 1:53:23
  How about that? Like, you don't need no twenty five hundred square foot
• 1:53:27
  frickin' pseudo McMansion, right with a perfectly landscaped yard. Right, do what
• 1:53:34
  my parents did, Do what I did, you know, buy some crappy
• 1:53:39
  thing and fix it up. Right, that's what you do when you don't
• 1:53:44
  have money, right, and maybe maybe buy a used car and buy it
• 1:53:49
  cash. Okay, don't get out take out a car loan on a new
• 1:53:55
  car. Right. Use your credit cards absolutely, use for groceries. Pay
• 1:54:00
  them down to zero every month. It'd be amazed at how that helps your
• 1:54:05
  credit rating. Right, you're gonna have the most perfect credit score. You're
• 1:54:09
  gonna get like the kind of interest rate that I can get. Right,
• 1:54:14
  if you do that, right, if you actually look into the future and
• 1:54:18
  plan for it. My kids all have savings. My kids have freaking tax
• 1:54:24
  free savings accounts. They all have savings. They all have like regular savings
• 1:54:29
  accounts. They all live independently, none of them have great jobs. Right,
• 1:54:33
  they could buy a house, right, The youngest is twenty one.
• 1:54:41
  He's about five years away from being able to buy a house. He works
• 1:54:46
  at Walmart. Like, I'm sorry, but like lower your expectations, right,
• 1:55:00
  And this is this drives me crazy with all of the oh, yeah,
• 1:55:03
  no, now you have to, oh, I have to How much
• 1:55:08
  money are you spending on makeup? How much money are you spending on your
• 1:55:11
  hair? How much money are you spending on your nails? Right? And
• 1:55:15
  how much money are you putting in the bank? Right, and all of
• 1:55:17
  this shit. And it's all about having the flash. It's all about having
• 1:55:23
  the attractiveness right now, and no thought to the future, no thought to
• 1:55:27
  who you want to grow old with, right, because that person is going
• 1:55:30
  to eventually look like that pair of slippers that got lost under the bed and
• 1:55:35
  has been lying there collecting dust and dog hair for like twenty five years.
• 1:55:41
  That's what that person is going to look like someday. Right. It's not
• 1:55:45
  even going to be able to find a new freakin' brad pit when you're fifty
• 1:55:50
  five years old. It's not gonna happen. It's not going to happen.
• 1:55:54
  But here's the thing, this isn't even like there's always beyond going their whole
• 1:56:00
  fucking wad, right, all of their value on their competition with each other.
• 1:56:06
  That's the thing. It's not even it's not even a competition over men.
• 1:56:12
  It's competition with each other. Yeah. And then they're they're there,
• 1:56:15
  men, I do it too, right, And then you know, I
• 1:56:17
  know, do that. But then they pick one and there's part one.
• 1:56:23
  Yeah, but they're smart. Okay, we got this guy. He he's
• 1:56:27
  like the son of the owner of like one of the very successful rest family
• 1:56:31
  owned restaurants in the neighborhood, right, And well, you know, he
• 1:56:38
  works there several nights a week, and and he wears nice shoes, and
• 1:56:43
  he wears nice clothes, and and uh, sometimes he's driving a Lamborghini and
• 1:56:49
  sometimes he's driving some other freaking car I don't even know, right, And
• 1:56:54
  everybody walks through the parking lot, and they're like, oh my god,
• 1:56:59
  that car, Right, everybody admires it because, like, you know,
• 1:57:00
  it's an admiral. It's it's something to look at, right, Like it's
• 1:57:04
  it's amazing. Right. He rents those, he rents them, he doesn't
• 1:57:12
  buy them. What this is is like they're so obsessed with this competition with
• 1:57:16
  other women. It's almost like Gilgamesh, obsessed with this competition with other men
• 1:57:21
  to the destruction of everything. Yeah, and they are so obsessed with this
• 1:57:27
  competition with other women that they are failing to develop the skills necessary to have
• 1:57:32
  a long term relationship. They think everything they don't have any kind of future
• 1:57:38
  mindset either. Everything is about attracting a man because that's the point scoring system
• 1:57:44
  that they're interested in. Yeah, but you know a man. Yeah.
• 1:57:47
  But anyway, it feels like we're getting out sort of a window into a
• 1:57:50
  world that we're not necessarily part of. So maybe just keep going. Oh,
• 1:57:57
  they continue. I just don't know why. I just don't know why
• 1:58:00
  tom boys got lumped into this because I don't see this as tom boy behavior.
• 1:58:05
  To the bathroom you had five minutes ago before my class started. So
• 1:58:10
  does anyone want to sit by? Miss Jackson says today, of course you
• 1:58:14
  do, Jessica, you're becoming a teachers spot. How about we give someone
• 1:58:16
  like Ada a chance? In said, why do you boys keep asking me
• 1:58:19
  to go to the bathroom. You don't have to ask for my permission.
• 1:58:21
  I'm not your mommy. Actually, stop putting on lip gloss. It's not
• 1:58:25
  like anybody's gonna complaining about female teachers that have preference for the boys, Like
• 1:58:31
  it does that even happen very often? I don't think it does. It
• 1:58:38
  doesn't statistic only only if the female teacher is a freaking pedo. Yeah,
• 1:58:44
  Like, what are you say? Oh my god, I can't believe that.
• 1:58:48
  Can you imagine like men doing this and they're like, oh uh,
• 1:58:51
  mister sticky fingers really likes the girls. I can't believe he's such a pick
• 1:58:57
  me man, Like, I'm sorry, this is a editor, you're describing
• 1:59:00
  a predator. Weird. Yeah, it's really the school. It's vanilla cake
• 1:59:09
  flavor, and I know that's your favorite. Kidding. No, I don't
• 1:59:12
  mean kiss me. I mean like taste, like I'll put on your lest
• 1:59:16
  Okay, And that's a real thing according to you know, Like okay,
• 1:59:24
  well, do you know these are there are women who who do prey on
• 1:59:29
  school age boys on their students, right, but they don't act like that
• 1:59:36
  in class in front of everybody. You don't know that it could be true.
• 1:59:42
  But my point is that why is the emphasis on the fact that she's
• 1:59:46
  competing with the girls when she's sexually abusing the boys are you fucking mental?
• 1:59:53
  Okay, what is what is her response? One triggered me off. I
• 1:59:59
  only went to school for about two years at the end of high school,
• 2:00:01
  and the number of teachers I had who acted like that is just inexcusable,
• 2:00:09
  Like, why are you flirting with your students? I think every woman has
• 2:00:13
  had to deal with this prototype from time to time, and if I'm being
• 2:00:15
  honest, we've also probably all been this prototype at least occasionally, and not
• 2:00:25
  lady, she had an exorbitant number of teachers of female teachers who acted like
• 2:00:31
  that. Okay, were you part of pedophile high? Yeah? No,
• 2:00:35
  like because I had I have. I have a twenty nine year old,
• 2:00:39
  a twenty eight year old, and a twenty one year old, and they
• 2:00:41
  all went to school, right, And none of the male teachers were acting
• 2:00:49
  that way towards my daughter, and none of the female teachers were acting that
• 2:00:55
  way towards my sons. And my sons were both tall and attractive. Okay,
• 2:01:00
  so my daughter right, Like it's it's like, okay, you know
• 2:01:08
  what, the veracity of this isn't the point. Let's just give her that
• 2:01:12
  this is an accurate reflection of reality. Let's just give it to her.
• 2:01:18
  Your takeaway is that these sexual predators were competing sexually with you. Are you
• 2:01:26
  fucking mental? Like that's like a man saying, well, I just think
• 2:01:30
  rapists they just they just they just they did they outcompete me? What?
• 2:01:33
  What that's unfair? Like, I mean, has anybody considered for the rest
• 2:01:42
  of us, you know, has anybody considered the effect of rapists serial rapists
• 2:01:47
  on men's ability to get sex? Like, really, we need to talk
• 2:01:51
  about the real issues here. Are you fucking mental? Oh god? Is
• 2:01:57
  that's the only thing? She says, Brian, like, this is insane.
• 2:02:00
  Well, okay, okay, you know, okay, no, no,
• 2:02:04
  I will call you on that, Allison. When you look at people
• 2:02:08
  like the object the male objections to people like Andrew Tate and pick up artists
• 2:02:13
  and stuff, a lot of it is, you know, a complaint about
• 2:02:17
  the eighty twenty rule, right, and that these men are monopolizing the sexual
• 2:02:24
  marketplace. So there is that. And let's say you have been lucky enough
• 2:02:33
  to not run into a woman who behaves this way towards other women, you
• 2:02:38
  have still seen the effects of this mentality in the culture. I listen to
• 2:02:43
  a really good podcast, the sexual abuse of boys, lady, like,
• 2:02:45
  you're not going to get me off of this now, Like you can parade
• 2:02:50
  a female pedo, or even if she's in a ped Okay, let's say
• 2:02:55
  they're over the age of thirteen, so they're pre postprepescent, she's still a
• 2:02:59
  predator. You parade a female sexual predator, and you say, but what
• 2:03:02
  about her effect on all the other ladies. No, I don't give a
• 2:03:06
  fuck. You're adults. Deal with it. You're not the ones being raped,
• 2:03:11
  Okay. I think the important issue here is that as the sexual predator
• 2:03:15
  of young men, and maybe she should be stopped because of that, not
• 2:03:19
  because she makes you feel jealous when you were like fifteen, like priorities.
• 2:03:27
  Yeah, like what lord, right out the gate? You just fail.
• 2:03:34
  A cast episode a few months ago. It's called a Big Hit Show and
• 2:03:38
  it has a few seasons now, but the first one deals with Twilight and
• 2:03:42
  the phenomenon around the movie franchise. Even though it was massively, ridiculously commercially
• 2:03:47
  successful, it was still looked down upon and seen as something that was embarrassing
• 2:03:53
  to be shown out in public liking or appreciating. And actually they trace this
• 2:03:57
  back through decades of pop culture and they look at many of the largest commercial
• 2:04:01
  successes throughout history. Okay, okay, Twilight, Okay, because I was
• 2:04:09
  on all of the romance writers forums and stuff when that came out, so
• 2:04:15
  I just got to interrupt you announcement. Apparently I got the day wrong.
• 2:04:18
  The X space is happening tomorrow, so okay, keep all right. What
• 2:04:24
  I'm saying is, okay, I was online dealing with all of these freaking
• 2:04:29
  rabid feminists when Twilight came out. And what was the number one complaint about
• 2:04:34
  Twilight from anyone involved in the slightly feministy romance erotica, you know, genre
• 2:04:45
  of writing, you know, and anything that even remotely was feministy. The
• 2:04:54
  dude was a stalker, right, and she was a damsel? Right?
• 2:05:00
  Okay, I guess before it was embarrassing to like it because it was so
• 2:05:04
  misogynistic. So we're weird. Weird it was. We're about to go into
• 2:05:12
  a The feminism of yesteryear is totally patriarchy now, okay, all right,
• 2:05:20
  feel free, Okay, I'll play. I'll play more of this. Things
• 2:05:25
  like Elvis, the Beatles, the boy bands of the nineteen nineties, Britney
• 2:05:30
  Spears, Justin Bieber, and The common thread throughout all of these is that
• 2:05:33
  females were the original fan base. Females got really excited about these pieces of
• 2:05:39
  art or cultural contributions, and because of that, they usually didn't really get
• 2:05:44
  respect right away, even though they were unquestionably all really great in their own
• 2:05:47
  right and very talented. Annie again, just so, I think what she's
• 2:05:54
  getting at is that women things that women enjoyed are frowned on. They're seen
• 2:05:59
  as lesser. Because I think that's what she's getting at. But let's say,
• 2:06:03
  are you let's get going like when when men have things that are being
• 2:06:08
  presented as making them more beady and rape like you were going to compare this
• 2:06:14
  like the stanmatization. At least at least women's things are are presented as innocuous,
• 2:06:18
  not you know what I say. At least that shouldn't be the case,
• 2:06:21
  because you just presented that female predator as being you know, the most
• 2:06:26
  important thing is sort of an innocuous jealousy that you add, Uh, yeah,
• 2:06:30
  that's the way it happens with women. A lot of your stuff is
• 2:06:34
  considered innocuous when it shouldn't be. So the the harm of that is it's
• 2:06:40
  not taken seriously when it should be well and and and look at look at
• 2:06:45
  Twilight again, look at like the big complaint as to why Twilight sucked,
• 2:06:53
  right, and and people who who liked the movie and the books were like
• 2:06:58
  bad and wrong is because it was it showed a horrible patriarchal relationship between a
• 2:07:08
  domineering man who was a Stockerish and a submissive woman who basically centered her entire
• 2:07:15
  life around him. Right. And I'm just like I wasn't interested in the
• 2:07:25
  book or the movie or the fanfic fifty Shades of Gray that was based on
• 2:07:30
  Twilight. Not interested. But it's like you look at the complaints, Like
• 2:07:40
  you said, Alison, the feminism of yesteryear is the patriarchy of today.
• 2:07:45
  Right. So if you were a woman and you liked it, you were
• 2:07:48
  bad and wrong. If you were a man and you liked it, you
• 2:07:51
  were extra bad and wrong, because hey, you know, you must be
• 2:07:56
  a rape ee raper, maybe even a baby raper if you freaking liked Twilight,
• 2:08:05
  which was very you know, male dominant, and you know the woman
• 2:08:09
  was so the young girl was so submissive, and you know, and and
• 2:08:13
  all, and he was so stockerish and he would like break into her house
• 2:08:18
  and watch it while she slept, and you know, and it's like it's
• 2:08:22
  so creepy. And now it's like you're not allowed to not like it because
• 2:08:30
  I guess because it stood the test of time for women's tastes Like I,
• 2:08:37
  I don't how the internal incoherence and inconsistency of feminism is well, okay,
• 2:08:54
  I can't next level Okay, next level doesn't even like. We need another
• 2:09:01
  word for that, just like you know, the Afghanistan withdrawal, We need
• 2:09:07
  a new word for botch right, Okay, we need a new word for
• 2:09:11
  next level when it comes to this shit. All right, let's continue.
• 2:09:18
  And even though as they progressed in their careers, the culture at large came
• 2:09:22
  to appreciate them, but oftentimes when something is attributed to being inherently female or
• 2:09:26
  liked by females, it's looked down upon. Most recently we've seen this with
• 2:09:31
  the Taylor Swift phenomenon, where she is undoubtedly the biggest female star on the
• 2:09:35
  planet and means a lot two millions and millions of women who identify with her
• 2:09:39
  lyrics on top of being a human. Oh you mean the fact that Taylor
• 2:09:43
  Swift just shits on men for entire albums at a time, and women relate
• 2:09:48
  to it a lot. It's an issue because men are not really a fan
• 2:09:50
  of this kind of like anti male sentiment that's coming out. I wonder,
• 2:09:56
  you know, that reminds me of another product that came out last year that
• 2:10:01
  was extremely popular with women, that made over a billion dollars, and yet
• 2:10:05
  the message was fuck men, It's hard to be a woman. I wonder
• 2:10:09
  if there's a theme here that pushes men away from these things. And yet
• 2:10:13
  somehow this is still men's fault, even though it's really just women mad at
• 2:10:18
  everything, despite living in the most free, the most secure, and the
• 2:10:22
  most like technologically advanced time in our entire history of our species. Yeah,
• 2:10:28
  but there's still shit to complain about, especially because men aren't complaining with us.
• 2:10:33
  We had a beautiful relationship. He was so wonderful. It was great.
• 2:10:39
  But then I just felt like I had to create a hoop for him
• 2:10:43
  to jump through. That's it. Yeah, yeah, well, and oh
• 2:10:52
  let's go, let's just some worse. I listened to CBC Radio in the
• 2:10:58
  car. I'd like to keep an eye on what the crazies are up to,
• 2:11:01
  Okay, and hey, yeah, no, And there's this there's this
• 2:11:07
  host on the Edmonton AM Morning Show, right Mindari Wall right, and he
• 2:11:13
  is, uh, he's East Indian, no accent, but he's he's a
• 2:11:20
  big swiftye. He's a huge swiftie. And and all of the hosts on
• 2:11:26
  CBC are like big Taylor Swift fans. And I'm like, really, even
• 2:11:33
  Rod Kurtz or whatever his name is, who's like completely gray, he's he's
• 2:11:39
  a big Taylor Swift fan. Like, I'm sorry, but I don't know
• 2:11:48
  if I'm buying it. And if I am buying it, uh, then
• 2:11:54
  this Hannah Cox bitch she needs to like Taylor Swift is a billionaire. And
• 2:12:03
  yes, her songs are a little catchy, at least the ones that I've
• 2:12:07
  heard that I can identify with her. The shake It Off one, you
• 2:12:13
  know, it's a little catchy, Okay, But it's like twenty seven thousand
• 2:12:20
  dollars for a freaking ticket to a Taylor Swift concert, right, This is
• 2:12:26
  why you freaking women can't find men willing to bet on you for life.
• 2:12:33
  Like I'm mad at my husband for buying a fifty dollars ghost detector? Are
• 2:12:37
  you mad? Because it's a fifty dollars ghost detector because he detected ghosts in
• 2:12:41
  the in the the middle of the night. No, I'm mad because he
• 2:12:43
  spent fifty dollars on nothing. Right, he's doing fucking toy that he's gonna
• 2:12:50
  play with for a few days and and like try and creep me out,
• 2:12:56
  and and then then he's gonna it's gonna sit gathering dust in a Yeah,
• 2:13:01
  it can't be annoying, all right, Let's let's listen to some more annoyance
• 2:13:05
  among us. Commercial success who literally has the ability to move the economy with
• 2:13:09
  her tour. She also seems to be a very good person. She's very
• 2:13:13
  involved in charity. She conducts herself with grace. She's never seen acting out
• 2:13:18
  or being a mess. He's a very well wait wait a minute, Wait
• 2:13:22
  a minute, wait a minute. On every extent. Yeah, like she
• 2:13:24
  can't. She can't keep a man to save her life. She endorses Joe
• 2:13:31
  Biden. She thinks everything should be free, Like, what are you a
• 2:13:35
  libertarian? Are you seriously saying this? Every time she loses another relationship?
• 2:13:43
  Right? Every time? She like tanks one? Right, Okay, she
• 2:13:48
  writes the entire album fucking shitting on the guy. Right, Oh, she's
• 2:13:54
  never Oh yeah, but like by extension, shitting on all men, like
• 2:13:58
  it's it's obviously everyone else's fault. She's so wholesome. Yeah, I'm sorry
• 2:14:05
  if you turn her in, if she if you change your no, man,
• 2:14:09
  and it sounds like the most deranged insel possible. I don't think she's
• 2:14:15
  particularly wholesome. I don't know, is that is that true? I'm not
• 2:14:20
  particularly not not just that. It's just it's just it's nuts because she's absolutely
• 2:14:26
  like Taylor Swift is absolutely a statist, and this woman is supposed to be
• 2:14:31
  anti statist, and she's over here defending her because she's a woman. That's
• 2:14:37
  it. It's all about the sisterhood. Well, I don't understand. Okay,
• 2:14:43
  how does tamor Swift need defending. Yeah, that's that's a good point.
• 2:14:48
  She's worth more than a billion fucking dollars. She's dating something. She's
• 2:14:52
  one of the good billionaires though, Okay, dating some fucking football player,
• 2:14:56
  right, NFL player who who like didn't they just win the freaking Super Bowl
• 2:15:03
  or like the World Cup or the like Stanley Cup or something? Right?
• 2:15:07
  Like she's trying to remember how we got on the topic of Taylor Swift because
• 2:15:13
  it feels like we're in a has this bitch brought her up? She she
• 2:15:16
  brought up Taylor Swift as a good example. Let me explain. Let me
• 2:15:18
  explain. She brought up Taylor Swift as an example of something that women are
• 2:15:24
  drawn to, something popular with women that men are not drawn to, and
• 2:15:31
  that this is the reason for intersexual competition between women and pick me behavior,
• 2:15:39
  which really I think she's getting at the point that because men don't give it
• 2:15:43
  the same amount of I don't know support that they do to the Beatles,
• 2:15:48
  then it's because of that, it's it's men's fault something like that, or
• 2:15:54
  like insanely popular. Okay, but beatle Mania was all about women throwing panties
• 2:15:58
  at the Beatles. Okay, right, that's the Beatles are men though.
• 2:16:05
  Okay, but the Beatles were men. Same with Justin Bieber, same with
• 2:16:09
  Taylor Swift, right, same with Britney Spears. Right, women were the
• 2:16:13
  most enthusias No, women were the most enthusiastic fan base for the Beatles,
• 2:16:20
  for Taylor Swift, for Britney Spears, for Justin Bieber, right, who
• 2:16:24
  is also not a woman as far as I know. But okay. Uh,
• 2:16:33
  same with the Spice Girls, same with the fucking Backstreet Boys, same
• 2:16:37
  with all of these freaking you know phenomena. Okay, women, major fan
• 2:16:43
  base. Okay, you know what concert I would pay? Okay, I'm
• 2:16:48
  not gonna say i'd pay like two thousand dollars to see anybody live, Okay,
• 2:16:54
  but you know what concert I would pay Let's say two hundred dollars,
• 2:17:01
  right, two hundred dollars to go and see Rage Against the Machine? Okay,
• 2:17:11
  sound Garden? Right? I would have paid that kind of money to
• 2:17:16
  see those guys tragically Hip if they were doing like the their first three album
• 2:17:22
  tour. Right. I would have paid money to see those guys, right,
• 2:17:26
  Peter Gabriel, I would I would have paid money to see those acts,
• 2:17:35
  right. Okay? Were there women throwing their panties at Peter Gabriel from
• 2:17:41
  the audience? Right? Were women demanding Genesis friends spring like for one thousand
• 2:17:52
  dollars, two thousand dollars, ten thousand dollars tickets to take them to see
• 2:17:56
  freakin' uh Rage against the Machine? No, No, nobody did that,
• 2:18:07
  right, So all you're complaining about is that all of these acts that attracted
• 2:18:13
  so much attention. The boy bands, the girl bands, right, the
• 2:18:18
  Justin Bieber's, the Britney Spears, the Taylor Swifts, the you know all
• 2:18:24
  of those. Right women demand their men buy the tickets, and those acts
• 2:18:33
  get rich despite having no real talent. Shots fired. Okay, Justin Bieber
• 2:18:41
  had talent. Let's play some more, Brian, I got some super child.
• 2:18:46
  I want to read. Richard Bier gives us five bucks and says,
• 2:18:50
  would women be this competitive and shallow? After all? Technology, which makes
• 2:18:56
  life as comfortable as it currently is completely fails? Slash collapses though. Also,
• 2:19:01
  why is the pick me girl the mirror image of the stereotypical mean girl?
• 2:19:05
  I don't know that there's even a difference. It's it's not really well
• 2:19:09
  defined. No, can you please, just like Hannah, could you make
• 2:19:15
  a distinction between a mean girl and a pigmy? Because that definition doesn't apply
• 2:19:22
  like tomboys, I've never seen a tomboy engage in this behavior. No,
• 2:19:26
  they're not interested and they and honestly, I haven't really seen tomboys say well,
• 2:19:31
  I'm not like the other girls. They're just doing their thing, because
• 2:19:35
  that's what defines a tomboy and I'm not. Yeah, it doesn't define a
• 2:19:39
  feminine girl who's genuinely feminine. Let's let's just call it. You know,
• 2:19:43
  we need a new term, doing their own thing, girls doing their own
• 2:19:48
  thing, girls feminine or masculine. I do talk about being a tomboy recently
• 2:19:54
  because of the whole thing with like if I'd been if I was six years
• 2:20:00
  old right now, I'd probably have a whole freaking bunch of adult mental health
• 2:20:03
  experts trying to convince me to like transition. Yeah, okay, that's a
• 2:20:11
  different that's a different beast, but yes, different beasts, so let's not
• 2:20:13
  get into it. Okay, Blade Kaiser gives us, did you read the
• 2:20:18
  did you read the super child above? That a lot of these women seem
• 2:20:20
  to be in a state of arrest. These things disappear after a while,
• 2:20:24
  so uh no I read that one. I read that one? Okay,
• 2:20:28
  Okay, just wanted So Blade Kaiser gives us five dollars and said just the
• 2:20:33
  tip, Thank you, Blade Kaiser, and then one more from Richard.
• 2:20:37
  He says, for five dollars, Karen. Depending on the type of EMF
• 2:20:39
  detector that he purchased, it can also be used to determine if any wireless
• 2:20:43
  listening devices are operating in the vicinity. However, there is a learning curve
• 2:20:48
  in determining just what the particular emissions are coming from. The more you know,
• 2:20:54
  well, I don't think any Department of Homeland Security agents have been in
• 2:21:00
  my house planting listening device. You never know. There could be like a
• 2:21:03
  black like one of those black vans outside, you know. Okay, can
• 2:21:07
  I can I say something? Really Caddy? Yes, race yourselves? All
• 2:21:13
  right, Okay, this is really fucking Caddy. She's never read those books.
• 2:21:18
  What Twilight? No, No, No. The books behind her Arena
• 2:21:22
  Anna Catt, her big brain books, her big brain shelf. Yeah,
• 2:21:28
  her big brain shelf. It's like, I'm looking at this. I'm like,
• 2:21:31
  okay, unless she is the most delicate of readers, those books have
• 2:21:37
  never been cracked open, and maybe she's just showing them. But so she
• 2:21:43
  bought a bunch of books just to show. Okay, maybe she has them
• 2:21:48
  on Kindle or something and she's like, ah, I'm like, uh,
• 2:21:52
  I don't know. It seems a little dishonest to show books you don't read.
• 2:21:58
  I never show a book I don't read, Like all the books that
• 2:22:01
  behind me I have read. Oh god, I don't have any books on
• 2:22:05
  display. They're all in the office. Most of them are like said and
• 2:22:09
  awk and you know, understanding Python, and yeah, like my books are
• 2:22:16
  currently the history of banking, the history that one. Yeah, okay,
• 2:22:26
  I've got a handful of I've got a handful of books, almost all the
• 2:22:30
  books in the house. The history of banking is fascinating. The history of
• 2:22:33
  money, Medieval Europe, religious poverty, and the prophet economy. Let me
• 2:22:41
  say that again, because I sound like I have a lisp. Medieval Europe,
• 2:22:46
  religious poverty, and the prophet economy, the taine like Norwegian folk tales,
• 2:22:54
  and a bunch of other stuff, all of which I'm actually reading,
• 2:22:58
  you know, And I'm just I'm just like I told you this was Caddie.
• 2:23:01
  I don't know, but yeah, no, I doubt it. And
• 2:23:05
  it's like when I think about like all of the books that my husband has
• 2:23:11
  bought over the years we've been together, probably like eight thousand dollars worth of
• 2:23:16
  books, and they're all about coding languages and programming frameworks and full stack development.
• 2:23:28
  And I was actually thinking like that, I'll actually throw this out to
• 2:23:33
  the audience. I've been thinking about because I got an Amazon wish list of
• 2:23:37
  books, because that's one of the big expenses. They get really expensive once
• 2:23:41
  you're up on a certain level of scholarship because I don't know, they publish
• 2:23:45
  like one hundred of them total and then they like two hundred books. But
• 2:23:48
  I was thinking of putting it out there so you guys can help me get
• 2:23:52
  my research in. But anyway, if you does something of interest, just
• 2:23:56
  tell me give me a ping on that, because I know sometimes people like
• 2:24:00
  to support by giving something rather than just fun. Yeah. Yeah, yeah.
• 2:24:05
  And one of the big things that I'd really like is to get books
• 2:24:09
  that are a little bit out of my league. Like there's one I've been
• 2:24:13
  eyeing for years, which is basically The Fall of Civilizations. Yeah, but
• 2:24:18
  it's it's like a two hundred dollars book. Eh yeah, yeah, no,
• 2:24:26
  I I I start to freaking have nightmares when my husband wants to buy
• 2:24:30
  some seventy five dollars freaking book on coding m And I'm like, Okay,
• 2:24:35
  well it's going to pay off in the end, right, But well,
• 2:24:39
  yeah, I mean I think that the book will pay off in the end
• 2:24:41
  and that it'll deepen my analysis of the stuff going on today. Yeah,
• 2:24:46
  or he's going to learn how to do some new thing. That's like yeah,
• 2:24:52
  So I mean, like if that's something that might interest you guys,
• 2:24:54
  because I know, like again, some of some people prefer to just purchase
• 2:25:00
  things and that is a big, big expense. A couple of weeks ago,
• 2:25:07
  somebody was on the video that I did it's all my fault. Somebody
• 2:25:09
  said, wow, what a what an excuse for failing and doing the least
• 2:25:15
  amount of work, And I'm like, I know it sounds like these these
• 2:25:18
  streams are low effort, but consider that I spend a lot of my time
• 2:25:26
  not necessarily doing production or writing things out, but I spend a lot of
• 2:25:31
  my time outside of the stream, reading and researching, so which informs what
• 2:25:37
  we tell you. I mean, it's it's like and I know that Karen
• 2:25:39
  does the same, and I'm Brian probably does too, like or at the
• 2:25:45
  very least he's like looking at the videos, which you know, kudos to
• 2:25:48
  Brian because I'm pretty sure this is the second time he's watched this, So
• 2:25:52
  you know, like that there's more that goes into these streams than just us
• 2:25:56
  talking. It's also us doing going out and researching our separate spheres of interest
• 2:26:01
  and then coming together to argue them. I guess. Anyway, let's watch
• 2:26:09
  a little bit more, a little bit very smart and savvy is this woman
• 2:26:11
  who is far surpassed most artists throughout history and their ability to stay relevant and
• 2:26:16
  make money with their craft. Yet oh yeah, she's able to stay relevant
• 2:26:24
  because all she does is bash men. Yeah, it's almost like it's almost
• 2:26:31
  like bashing men through media is a very lucrative way of making money and becoming
• 2:26:37
  popular. You remember that thing we responded to on Wednesday, Brian where the
• 2:26:43
  woman was like the woman was just raging at men, wanting them to die
• 2:26:46
  alone. Yeah, I kind of remember that. Yeah, Well, but
• 2:26:48
  she said that men hate women. And then she said later, well,
• 2:26:52
  men have figured out that women hate them and their children hate them. And
• 2:26:56
  I'm like, well, yes, Taylor Smith expresses hatred towards men, so
• 2:27:03
  men don't like her. This is not really rocket science. Okay, like
• 2:27:11
  what the hell? All right, let's hear a little bit more and our
• 2:27:15
  provoked to outrage. It's just the side of her on their TVs. They
• 2:27:18
  put down her talent. They say she can't sing that good, she's not
• 2:27:22
  that great an artist, and listen. One's taste in music is absolutely subjective.
• 2:27:26
  But I don't have to like the Beatles to understand why so many people
• 2:27:30
  think that they were great. But because she's popular with women. No,
• 2:27:35
  it's because it's popular with women. It's because she expresses hatred towards men.
• 2:27:39
  Go ahead, Brian, Oh, I was just gonna say, like,
• 2:27:41
  Lindsay's not a big fan of the Beatles, but she does get why they're
• 2:27:45
  very popular. I think she has bad taste because the Beatles are great.
• 2:27:50
  I mean, even if you don't like every album or every era, you'll
• 2:27:54
  like like at least an album or like a specific era, whether you like
• 2:28:00
  the Mop Top Beatles or the you know, post Weed Beetles or the long
• 2:28:05
  hair Beard like on the Decline Beatles, like whatever it is. You know,
• 2:28:11
  there's gonna be like an area. You know, you're either revolver or
• 2:28:13
  you're Sergeant Pepper or something. But there, but there is a I can
• 2:28:18
  acknowledge that Taylor Swift is popular without saying like basically saying, look, that's
• 2:28:24
  not for me. And that's the funny thing is that for a long time,
• 2:28:26
  in the last decade or so, we've been told this guys this is
• 2:28:31
  you. I don't care if you like this. It's not made for you.
• 2:28:35
  And now that men are like, oh, I guess it's not made
• 2:28:37
  for me. They're like, why don't you like this? Yeah? No,
• 2:28:41
  And like, okay, tell me, tell me anybody, anybody who
• 2:28:46
  could listen to the Beatles Blackbird and not love that which one Blackbird? Yeah?
• 2:29:00
  Like yeah, I mean there are you know what, there are songs
• 2:29:03
  that they've done that people like and they didn't even know they did it.
• 2:29:07
  Like, there are songs that you like that you don't even know the Beatles
• 2:29:09
  did, and if you heard it, you'd be like, oh shit,
• 2:29:11
  that's a Beatles song. Yeah No, Like it's it's like Storry Storry Knight
• 2:29:18
  or whatever, you know, that tribute to Vincent van go right, and
• 2:29:22
  it was done by that freaking dude that did by American Pie. Yeah,
• 2:29:26
  that's a beautiful song. Bye Bye Miss American Pie. I hated Bye Bye
• 2:29:31
  Miss American Pie. McLean, Don McLean, yeah, don McLean. Yeah.
• 2:29:37
  But Storry Storry Night. Oh oh, it's just I like, I
• 2:29:43
  like bye Bye Miss American Pie. But like it. That's okay, you
• 2:29:48
  don't have to. I also like no but spoon man. Okay, but
• 2:29:52
  let's let's talk about spoon Man. Spoon Man. No Jesus Christ post Jesus
• 2:30:00
  Christ pose is good too. I knew you're gonna say that though, Yeah
• 2:30:03
  yeah no, and then also the one with the rusty cage. Yeah that
• 2:30:11
  one, yeah, oh yeah, oh that one. Oh yeah, Okay,
• 2:30:16
  I'm sorry, Alison, go ahead, what are you going to say?
• 2:30:18
  I really like angry music. I wish I could I could engage in
• 2:30:22
  this conversation. But although I do like a lot of music, I do
• 2:30:26
  not retain any memory of the bands or the sounds the song. This is
• 2:30:31
  why I would I would demolish Alison in music trivia. Yes, you would,
• 2:30:35
  you would probably, I know, I know on every aspect of trivia,
• 2:30:39
  because I think Karen could give me some stuff competition. She's she's pretty
• 2:30:43
  knowledgeable, especially of like eighties and nineties stuff. Right, no, no,
• 2:30:48
  no, no. The only reason why I know anything from the nineteen
• 2:30:52
  thirties onward. Oh yeah, I can kick your ass wellal pursuit like you
• 2:31:00
  know, I I'll just be like the one that's ever No, just what's
• 2:31:03
  the next line? Oh, what's the next lyric type of thing? Yeah?
• 2:31:07
  Yeah, what's the next lyric in the song I could I would kill
• 2:31:13
  with that, Okay, yeah, and I would be slayd. I know
• 2:31:16
  this, I know that this is a This is not an ability I have.
• 2:31:22
  But let us continue, all right. So I got a couple of
• 2:31:24
  super chats again or super Child's again from Richard Vierre. So he likes to
• 2:31:28
  send them through. We have to read them. He gets us five bucks
• 2:31:31
  and says, you don't know for certain weather, and just which consumer products
• 2:31:35
  actually have listening microphones built right into them out of the box, and just
• 2:31:39
  who they are sending said audio captures to. There is speculation that the switch
• 2:31:43
  on the smart speakers don't actually disable the microphone, but rather it just tells
• 2:31:48
  the device to not respond to the commands from the user as to give the
• 2:31:52
  illusion that the microphone is not listening while the switch is in the mute position.
• 2:31:56
  And then he says for five dollars back, men is lucrative. But
• 2:32:01
  somehow Anita Sarkisian is no longer currently relevant. Yes she is, she's actually
• 2:32:05
  working in game studios. Countdown until she calls her way back into trying to
• 2:32:09
  be relevant again. Though there will be a replacement for Tate, who will
• 2:32:13
  eclipse her and will overnight she will be thrust into the dumpster of obscurity only
• 2:32:18
  until they replace her with the next you know, young lady singer. I
• 2:32:24
  don't know if you noticed, but every decade there's a different young female pop
• 2:32:28
  star that is essentially saying what the studios want, and there are plenty of
• 2:32:35
  women who will listen. And I think it gets a little bit more radical
• 2:32:39
  every time. Not saying it's a syop, but it sounds like a syop.
• 2:32:43
  Well yeah, and also like listening is going to like. The thing
• 2:32:46
  is that Taylor Swift will likely have a warm cock her entire life because she's
• 2:32:54
  a millionaire. She's a billionaire, right, she doesn't she's not dealing with
• 2:33:03
  what the average woman is dealing with. Right. The single biggest thing that
• 2:33:07
  will improve average woman's odds of having a satisfactory and happy life is having a
• 2:33:13
  relationship with a man. And all of these forces are coming together to make
• 2:33:22
  you sabotage that. Yeah, and and it's unfortunate to see. And the
• 2:33:28
  thing is that when you point this out, you get these defensive responses like,
• 2:33:31
  oh, you're just to pick me, yeah, yeah, And all
• 2:33:35
  of this picking at your looks, and I'm like, you can't tell that
• 2:33:39
  I'm not really presenting myself in such a way that my looks are the focus.
• 2:33:45
  Like, oh, yeah, that's not my point. I'm trying to
• 2:33:48
  tell you things that will make your life significantly better if you listen. And
• 2:33:58
  okay, I mean it's okay if you want to tell I'm just free serving
• 2:34:03
  here. You've been with a man for twenty six years and he's not going
• 2:34:07
  anywhere, and so you know, and you don't have to straighten your hair,
• 2:34:15
  you know, or use some kind of here's the other thing. I
• 2:34:18
  got into an argument like product in it and you don't have to apply makeup
• 2:34:22
  every day and you don't have to like look perfect all the time. No,
• 2:34:26
  And here's the other thing I don't like I don't have to do,
• 2:34:31
  which is what I got into with one of this women on the on the
• 2:34:33
  oh, the relationship was beautiful. Then I asked him to jump through hoops
• 2:34:37
  to prove he loved me. I got into it and I was like,
• 2:34:41
  well, that's just an extra. Don't ask for that. I can't ask
• 2:34:45
  for it, okay. And then this woman was like, well, and
• 2:34:48
  I said, you know, I get those extras you know, Jonathan goes
• 2:34:52
  out of his way to do things for me, Like he renovated the front
• 2:34:56
  foyer of the Badger Cave because I was feeling depressed about what we had accomplished
• 2:35:03
  over the ten years, and he's like, well, why don't I show
• 2:35:05
  you? And then he put all of these pictures of all of the events
• 2:35:07
  that we've gone to, all of the artwork we've created, all the all
• 2:35:13
  of the publications we've done, and the events we've put on, like the
• 2:35:16
  convention, which apparently was the best convention ever, and all of this other
• 2:35:22
  stuff, and he put it on the walls so that every time I walk
• 2:35:24
  in, I see, that's been great for my mood generally. And you
• 2:35:30
  know, he does things like that. He goes out of his way to
• 2:35:31
  do things like that. And you know, if anybody ever comes to the
• 2:35:35
  Badger Cave, now there's something to see. Yeah, you know, there's
• 2:35:39
  something that's worth coming to look at. And he does things like that.
• 2:35:43
  I don't ask him to do it. I don't demand it. I'm not
• 2:35:46
  like this woman saying, oh, wouldn't it be great if you did this
• 2:35:50
  thing? And actually what she's saying is I'm gonna dump you if you don't
• 2:35:54
  bitch, and I don't have to do that to get these extras. She
• 2:36:00
  was. And this woman's came back with, well, how how can you
• 2:36:03
  judge women for demanding these extras? And I'm like, well when you get
• 2:36:07
  them, And I'm like, but the point is that I don't like,
• 2:36:11
  I don't ask, Yeah, you don't demand. And it's it's like my
• 2:36:16
  mom she you know, when she was first with my dad and and they
• 2:36:20
  were, you know, they were struggling. They just bought a house and
• 2:36:22
  they were like building a garage and pouring a driveway and you know, and
• 2:36:28
  and doing all of that stuff. And she said, you know, he'd
• 2:36:30
  come home from work and he'd pick some dandy lions from the flower beds and
• 2:36:37
  he'd bring them to you know, tour when he came in, like he'd
• 2:36:43
  be like these are for you, and uh, and she'd put them in
• 2:36:46
  a vase because she was like, well, he's thinking about me and he's
• 2:36:52
  not pulling my He's not he's not taking my roses that I planted or you
• 2:37:00
  know, he's he's not damaging my garden, my flower bed that I you
• 2:37:05
  know, plant it. He's he's but it shows that he's thinking about Yeah,
• 2:37:11
  exactly. Yeah, it's just it just shows that they're thinking about you,
• 2:37:16
  and you cannot demand that. Yeah, because once you demand, first
• 2:37:20
  of all, once you it's it's hollow. Once you demand it, it's
• 2:37:22
  hollow. And you know it's hollow, which is why once you successfully train
• 2:37:26
  him to go through that hoop, you put up another hoop, because it's
• 2:37:30
  hollow, because it's a you thing. Right, you become a woman who
• 2:37:35
  gets those extras, you don't demand them, and she didn't understand that.
• 2:37:41
  Well, if you want to be a woman who gets those extras, you
• 2:37:45
  might want to listen to women who do. Yeah, okay. And and
• 2:37:52
  because so many men don't get why she's popular with women, they write off
• 2:37:56
  her talent and demean her and again can't even stand the side of her at
• 2:38:00
  a football game. I guess I could make an entire video about how pop
• 2:38:03
  culture that women like is often to mean. Maybe I'll do that some other
• 2:38:07
  time. But back to the original subject. Uppick, thank you, thank
• 2:38:11
  you, because this is a stupid digression. Well it's it's basically wait wait,
• 2:38:18
  wait, wait, how does that even work? Like if women are
• 2:38:20
  more than half of the population, why why is it a problem that like,
• 2:38:26
  some men don't care for it? Y? And do men demand that
• 2:38:31
  women like what men like? Because because I've never heard that, it's validation.
• 2:38:35
  Okay, Okay, you know, honey, if you don't like the
• 2:38:39
  song Hey Joe or down by the River, if you don't like those songs,
• 2:38:48
  then yeah, I just can't be with you. You don't appreciate art.
• 2:38:56
  Hey Joe, where are you going with that gun in your hand?
• 2:39:00
  I'm going to shoot my lady. Caught her messing around with another man down
• 2:39:07
  by the river. I shot my baby down by the river. Okay,
• 2:39:15
  if women, if women don't like those songs, right, it means there's
• 2:39:20
  something wrong with them. I mean, yeah, that means they don't have
• 2:39:28
  taste. So they're like too concerned with I don't know, incidental shit,
• 2:39:31
  but they But that's okay because they'll work to like caring their girlfriends. Well,
• 2:39:37
  she had to come in, I think, I mean, wasn't there
• 2:39:39
  there's a Beatles song about a guy threatening to kill a woman. I can't
• 2:39:46
  remember how it goes. I think John Lennon sang it. There's a Beatles
• 2:39:50
  song about it too, And I don't mean the Lennon song like woman is
• 2:39:54
  the n word of the world. That's some different shit. Yeah yeah,
• 2:39:58
  but I mean like you got you got all kinds of songs by men about
• 2:40:03
  how women done them wrong and how women like were mean to them, and
• 2:40:09
  how women you know, they they're they're faithless and horrible and all of that.
• 2:40:16
  Nobody expects women to like those songs. Although I do like Hey Joe,
• 2:40:20
  and I do like down by the River. Yeah, but you know,
• 2:40:26
  because Neil Young, I guess he's an acquired taste. But and Jimmy
• 2:40:33
  Hendrix, I mean, how can you not like that? I like some
• 2:40:37
  Jimi Hendrix yeah yeah, but no like massive talent. But but you're looking
• 2:40:43
  at You're looking at a situation where they're like, oh, you don't want
• 2:40:48
  to hear the constant man dashing. You're not respecting her art? Oh I
• 2:40:54
  see? Yeah, And well, I mean these girls, like the lot
• 2:41:00
  of rap music is pretty uh. I don't want to say like problematic or
• 2:41:03
  anything, but there's definitely a lot of criticism of women, I'll put it
• 2:41:07
  that way. Ludacris had a great song called use a Hoe, which is
• 2:41:13
  one of my favorite Ludacros songs. But yeah, oh, and women loved
• 2:41:16
  it. They ate that shit up. Oh yeah, yeah, did you
• 2:41:20
  ever listen to that? I think it was Johnny Cash. Oh yeah,
• 2:41:28
  Uh took a shot of cocaine. Then I shut my baby down. I
• 2:41:31
  shut and then I went to bid. Oh. The song is called Run
• 2:41:35
  for Your Life by the Beatles. Yeah, that's the one house thinking about.
• 2:41:41
  Okay, shall we do it just a little bit more? All right,
• 2:41:45
  Yeah, let's do a little bit more now that we're back on top.
• 2:41:48
  Women are in competition with one another on multiple fronts, the same as
• 2:41:52
  men are. We're competing for the best men on the market. Yes,
• 2:41:54
  of course, it goes a lot deeper than that. Women are also competing
• 2:41:58
  for what feels like society's limit attention span for women. They're competing for jobs
• 2:42:03
  and industries where women are still the minority. They're competing for leadership roles and
• 2:42:07
  the chance to advance, and it often feels like only one or two women
• 2:42:11
  will get picked to keep moving up. And usually look at this the statist
• 2:42:15
  argument, the fundamental statist argument. Society can't be free because when it's free,
• 2:42:20
  it oppresses women. This is like the fundamental statist argument. And she
• 2:42:24
  calls herself a libertarian. Oh lord, yeah, okay, God, does
• 2:42:33
  that man ever have sex? Okay, I can't imagine a universe in which
• 2:42:37
  that happened. Maybe he ejaculates that every time he's orgasms. You're literally chay
• 2:42:43
  chattel. Sorry, okay, I just want to say to the message before
• 2:42:52
  you continue. Sorry, that's the statust opinion. And why is it that
• 2:42:58
  you think that women shouldn't compete, Like, I mean, there's there's there's
• 2:43:01
  competition that's tearing other women down. But in a meritocracy, you're gonna compete
• 2:43:07
  with other women for jobs, Like that's what's gonna happen. Like it's like,
• 2:43:11
  oh my god, men have constructed a meritocracy and there's competition it.
• 2:43:15
  Yes, bitch, yes, that's that's the nature of a meritocracy, right,
• 2:43:18
  You are going to have to compete with other women for things in a
• 2:43:22
  meritocracy. And you know, there's that competition in which you earn recognition,
• 2:43:31
  and then there's the competition that you're decriding, in which you basically undermine each
• 2:43:37
  other's right to resources. Do you see the difference? It's like one is
• 2:43:41
  you're gaining a skill or ability that benefits everyone, and the other is you're
• 2:43:50
  tearing down someone else. There's a difference there. I wonder if she understands
• 2:43:54
  the difference. Well, so when men are competing for jobs, only a
• 2:44:01
  few of them get it too, So even less it's weird. It's like
• 2:44:05
  she thinks that men are just being given these great jobs and women are like
• 2:44:11
  fighting tooth and nailed, like the one of them scrapes by and gets something.
• 2:44:15
  No, actually, most men get rejected too. Yes, in fact,
• 2:44:18
  they getting rejected more by definition because of all of the initiatives to increase
• 2:44:24
  the acceptance of women. So you're you don't you have a playing field slanted
• 2:44:30
  for you, and you're still complaining about the meritocracy. Well, here's the
• 2:44:35
  thing we started on that shit. Maybe men are better at navigating a meritocracy
• 2:44:39
  inherently for the same reason why you keep calling them toxically masculine, Like they
• 2:44:50
  just have an instinctual desire to see themselves in terms of achievement and their effecting
• 2:44:58
  the environment. And also so they have a greater level of cooperation with each
• 2:45:01
  other. Strangely enough, I know that sounds strange, but men are more
• 2:45:07
  likely to share research with each other, for example. Yeah, and it
• 2:45:11
  used to be that male like scientists would share research with female scientists, but
• 2:45:15
  now they're they don't do that as much because of me too shit. Right,
• 2:45:20
  So it's just maybe men men were always more likely to mentor their their
• 2:45:26
  grad students and stuff like that, right, so men know, they have
• 2:45:31
  men operate, they understand meritocracies better, and honestly, women could improve by
• 2:45:39
  looking at men and saying, hey, how can I learn from them?
• 2:45:41
  But that's not they do can't do that, we can't recognize that maybe maybe
• 2:45:46
  men, having constructed all of this edifice of the modern society through their cooperation
• 2:45:54
  and their meritocracy, might have something to teach women. No, no,
• 2:45:58
  no, And and here's the thing too, right, like because you have
• 2:46:01
  you have like the mentorship thing in academia and stuff, right, And men
• 2:46:07
  used to be much more likely to mentor uh their underlings, I guess,
• 2:46:13
  right, of either sex. Right, And they're they're not as likely to
• 2:46:20
  do that with female underlings now because of the me too stuff, right,
• 2:46:26
  But they're still more likely to take a female grad student under their wing than
• 2:46:33
  a female professor. Is They're still more likely to do that, Like,
• 2:46:41
  I'm sorry, but you have to realize you have to read like you got
• 2:46:48
  it, and I heard I think this is future focused, right, I
• 2:46:50
  think this is absolutely future focused. It's like, well, somebody's going to
• 2:46:56
  have to carry the torch when I'm gone, right, or when I'm too
• 2:46:58
  old, somebody's going to have to Women don't get over that competition enough to.
• 2:47:03
  Women can never fucking get older than thirty. They stay thirty forever now.
• 2:47:13
  They don't acknowledge the eventual need to the past success of the passing event,
• 2:47:20
  the eventual need to pass on the torch, the eventual need that somebody's
• 2:47:24
  going to have to take up the work when they're too old to do it.
• 2:47:28
  Women don't have that, right or in general, yeah, right,
• 2:47:33
  they used to have that because matrons used to be well chepected. Matriarchs used
• 2:47:39
  to be well respected. The elder women in the church used to be well
• 2:47:43
  respected, right, all rise women in Viking society used to be well respected.
• 2:47:48
  They they used to be well respected. They were looked on with honor.
• 2:47:52
  And you know, like you have a special status because you are older
• 2:47:56
  and wise, and you have the ex buriance of your entire life to help
• 2:48:03
  the younger generations figure things out, right, and you are valued, right,
• 2:48:09
  and it's women like this with her fucking drawn outside the lined lipstick,
• 2:48:15
  right, who's clinging to thirty by the Adams on the tips of her fucking
• 2:48:20
  fingernails. She's never gonna give it up. She's never gonna not dye her
• 2:48:24
  hair right, she can get gray right, You'll never know, You'll never
• 2:48:30
  know. She's never gonna let her roots grow out. She's always gonna freaking
• 2:48:35
  have She's gonna plump her lips, She's gonna do the botox. She's gonna
• 2:48:39
  stay young forever. She's gonna be thirty years old forever until thirty years old
• 2:48:46
  looks like it's been stretched across her damn skull, until she looks like Nancy
• 2:48:50
  Pelosi, and she's bathing in the blood of virgins like Elizabeth Bathory. Okay,
• 2:48:56
  Also, she doesn't understand the difference because between I don't think she understands
• 2:49:01
  the difference between criticism, well, criticism and what is a good word for
• 2:49:11
  the mean girl stuff. It's not criticism. It is degrading, denigrating,
• 2:49:16
  destruction, hostility. Uh, what is destruction? Warfare like something a word
• 2:49:28
  that reputation annihilation, annihilation. She doesn't understand the difference between meritocracy and war
• 2:49:37
  is basically because you know, men know the difference. They know when they're
• 2:49:41
  at war with another man, and they know when they're engaging in criticism related
• 2:49:46
  to a meritocracy. I don't think women understand that because when like, for
• 2:49:52
  example, if you're a woman and you're listening to us, we would be
• 2:49:58
  mentoring you to understand how to develop the skills to give yourself a soft landing
• 2:50:05
  when you're on the other side of menopause, right, But that is not
• 2:50:11
  the same as competing with you for resources. I don't think I, myself
• 2:50:16
  or Karen are competing with any other women for resources because we're not going to
• 2:50:22
  take your man away. I know, I'd be really happy to see more
• 2:50:26
  women happy with men like that would that would be awesome. I really like
• 2:50:31
  seeing women happy with men. Maybe I'm a weirdo, but that makes me
• 2:50:37
  happy. To see relationships, strong relationships forming, to see women have the
• 2:50:43
  skills to make sure that they can create families. Like I'm a static that
• 2:50:50
  somehow we touched for example, Cassie j and improved her relationship with her husband.
• 2:50:58
  Yeah, you know, and now she is happy with him. Yeah.
• 2:51:01
  And I love to hear that I love to hear. Like occasionally on
• 2:51:05
  these these videos that I do, I get some woman who says, you
• 2:51:07
  know, I appreciate what you said because it improved my life. Yeah,
• 2:51:13
  it improved my attitude towards men. I listen to you, and I feel
• 2:51:16
  like that made my life better, right, Yeah, And that's crazy here.
• 2:51:22
  It's the same with men too, Like apparently we're teaching everybody to be
• 2:51:26
  misogynistic. But like the number of messages that I've gotten from men that have
• 2:51:31
  been like, yeah, thank you for what you do, because you know,
• 2:51:37
  I was starting to hate women, and now I don't, right,
• 2:51:41
  because at least I understand why they're behaving the way they behave and why my
• 2:51:48
  situation is the way it is, And like I kind of understand what's going
• 2:51:52
  on now, and it doesn't feel mean and it doesn't feel arbitrary. It
• 2:51:56
  just feels like, you know, things are a little messed up. But
• 2:52:00
  maybe I don't have hope, but at least I don't see women. Yeah,
• 2:52:09
  I get the I don't hate women because at least I, you know,
• 2:52:13
  like there's a woman who actually feels like listening, like they're listening to
• 2:52:16
  you and not not not putting how you affect them first instead of the feelings
• 2:52:26
  that you're going through. Right, But it's like, that's that to me,
• 2:52:31
  you know, to know that, and I know from the community that
• 2:52:33
  I'm part of. You know, there have been multiple relationships that have formed
• 2:52:39
  out of that community and they've been positive. You know, Lauren, I
• 2:52:46
  would say, Brian and and Lindsay met through the community. I believe,
• 2:52:52
  yes, and sort of Lauren and Mike, and then there's also some other
• 2:52:56
  people you know or or I've seen relationship form. That's what I want to
• 2:53:01
  see. Yeah, I want to see women grow old with men they love.
• 2:53:07
  That's what That's the world that I want a whole. And I'm not
• 2:53:11
  competing. I'm not competing with Anna Cox with whatever man that she wants.
• 2:53:16
  I'm trying to tell her, you want to you want a really good relationship.
• 2:53:20
  Then you got a jettison some of your attitudes. And this is a
• 2:53:24
  big one, like why are you why are you get you having this resentment
• 2:53:31
  towards women because of Taylor Swift or whatever else? Did this? This?
• 2:53:35
  What? What was this? Men don't like hearing about how men be bad?
• 2:53:39
  They are anyway, I have to go, I have to go.
• 2:53:43
  We probably should should stop this, you just just wait. Well, well
• 2:53:46
  we got pretty far, right, Brian, this is not bad. We
• 2:53:50
  got eight and a half minutes in this. Yeah, it's out of a
• 2:53:54
  half an hour, so that's that's fine. I got some super super childs
• 2:53:58
  to read and uh, okay, I'm gonna go. Yeah, just go.
• 2:54:03
  Well, one of them is a recommendation for you, so I should
• 2:54:05
  probably read it before you leave. Great Indoors gives us five dolls. I
• 2:54:09
  know, I know, hold on. Great Indoors gives us five dollars and
• 2:54:13
  says music tip for Karen, check out the album Handsome by the band Hands
• 2:54:18
  from nineteen ninety seven if you also liked the band Quicksand so there you go.
• 2:54:24
  Thank you, Karry. You want to say your goodbyes before I keep
• 2:54:28
  going goodbye? All I have to get in my new to me car And
• 2:54:35
  oh, congratulations, you got a new car. It's a way new to
• 2:54:39
  me awesome. I hope you enjoyed. Two thousand and seven. Lexus mechanic
• 2:54:46
  owned not a mechanic like my dad, who when the car would start making
• 2:54:54
  noise and you'd call him and say it's making a noise, and he'd say,
• 2:54:58
  turn the radio up. But the other kind of mechanic who takes care
• 2:55:03
  of his car. And it was like a private sale from the mechanic who
• 2:55:09
  looks after my car, my my dad's car. And it was the price
• 2:55:13
  was right and we could buy it cash and and yeah no, and it's
• 2:55:18
  I love it and it's it's beautiful, can Ie, it's it's it's an
• 2:55:24
  s u V so I can go all things in it. That sounds awesome
• 2:55:31
  before you go, congratulations on your new car. Monday at new to me
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  car, Monday at Monday at noon or Monday at one. I guess it
• 2:55:41
  would be noon for you, because this is a pretty good time. So
• 2:55:45
  all right, it's ok. It's a good time. All right, Well
• 2:55:50
  text me, text me. I'll definitely text you. One is okay,
• 2:55:56
  we got it set up, guys, We're not going to leave you hanging.
• 2:55:58
  Let's go all right? By Karen. Okay, I got another super
• 2:56:05
  child from Richard Berre. I'm gonna make Karen disappear. Where is it?
• 2:56:13
  I have another? Yeah? He hear me? By Karen. Richard Beerre
• 2:56:20
  gives us. Let me just make sure I got this five dollars and says
• 2:56:24
  he had it coming from the Chicago soundtrack and the petty reasons why he had
• 2:56:30
  it come into him, and that was celebrated as empowering for women. I
• 2:56:35
  don't know. I don't think it was. I don't think it was celebrated
• 2:56:37
  at the time. It might be now though, Yeah, maybe I don't
• 2:56:41
  know. I've never seen that. And then we got one more from Richard
• 2:56:46
  Beer for five dollars. He says, remember all the female media company that
• 2:56:50
  went out of business after two years and how the work environment devolved into mean
• 2:56:54
  girl versus other mean girls. And I think that's it. Oh no,
• 2:56:58
  I got one more from Richard Bierre again. He gives his five dollars and
• 2:57:01
  says, Alison, wanting women to grow old with the man they love means
• 2:57:05
  that you want women to grow old. Heresy, all right, thank you
• 2:57:09
  for that. I want women to do something that's inevitable. Yes, well,
• 2:57:15
  that's how Polly they would see it, or you remind them of it
• 2:57:18
  or something. I don't know. I don't know, Alison. I don't
• 2:57:20
  make the rules, and they just are what they are. Okay. That's
• 2:57:26
  all the super chows. And I don't think I think there was a super
• 2:57:31
  chat. I can't post it, but I can read it really quick.
• 2:57:35
  Albert Nata says for two dollars. He Canadian says that should have read only
• 2:57:39
  one problem and then another two dollars. Canadian says, how does autocorrect get
• 2:57:43
  died from from few fuid you'd maybe? I don't know, man roofreed,
• 2:57:52
  Okay, okay, all right, So I believe that the X space that
• 2:57:58
  I spoke about earlier in the day we're in the stream is actually tomorrow at
• 2:58:03
  three. Yeah, okay, all right, says it's tomorrow. Okay,
• 2:58:07
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