Latest / Stuff Mom Never Told You / Female Firsts: Mary Fields
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha. I'm welcome to stuff
- 0:07Speaker 1: I've never told you, a production of I Heart Radio.
- 0:18Speaker 1: And today we are thrilled, thrilled, and once again be
- 0:22Speaker 1: joined by our good friend, the amazing Eves. I'm so
- 0:27Speaker 1: glad to have you back, yes, because you took you
- 0:32Speaker 1: took a month off and you were greatly missed. Thank you. Yes,
- 0:40Speaker 1: How how have you been? Do you have anything that
- 0:42Speaker 1: you're excited about or that you would like to share?
- 0:44Speaker 1: What's been going on? Eves? I don't know. I'm excited
- 0:48Speaker 1: about life, so I guess there's a good place to start.
- 0:51Speaker 1: You know, Like times are hard and it's really hard
- 0:54Speaker 1: to stay ground it right now, so I'm excited about life.
- 0:58Speaker 1: I feel like this is one of those tough of course,
- 1:00Speaker 1: we're at the end of the year, so everybody's reflecting
- 1:04Speaker 1: on how the year was, what it's been like, and
- 1:08Speaker 1: I know that's like a pretty heavy load for a
- 1:10Speaker 1: lot of people. But I think it's really nice to
- 1:13Speaker 1: have this moment when we can all expect to think
- 1:16Speaker 1: about change and expect to be hopeful, because that can
- 1:20Speaker 1: get really weedy and difficult when, like so many things
- 1:26Speaker 1: that we talk about on a daily basis hard about hope. Yeah,
- 1:33Speaker 1: so yeah, I'm excited and I'm glad to be here
- 1:36Speaker 1: with y'all. Yes, that's a I love that. That's such
- 1:39Speaker 1: a positive take on it, which I really appreciate because
- 1:44Speaker 1: we're kind of like me and Samantha been so everything
- 1:50Speaker 1: is terrible, but that's that's good. I like that taking
- 1:53Speaker 1: that moment. But I also, yeah, I'm a big at
- 1:55Speaker 1: least right now, I'm a big proponent of like taking
- 1:57Speaker 1: that moment, but also being gentle with yourself that that
- 2:00Speaker 1: that moment of like, it's been rough, but there are
- 2:04Speaker 1: positives and it's nice to think about still what changes
- 2:09Speaker 1: you would like to make, however small they may be.
- 2:13Speaker 1: I am also very, very excited about the woman you
- 2:19Speaker 1: bought for this episode, because we discussed her very briefly.
- 2:24Speaker 1: We did a history on women and the USPS, which
- 2:30Speaker 1: was surprisingly fascinating. It felt like a Western and so
- 2:35Speaker 1: you actually brought us a Western. Yes, yes, yes, all
- 2:41Speaker 1: of the dangers people used to face, and I loved
- 2:45Speaker 1: kind of the community aspect of it too, where everybody's
- 2:48Speaker 1: sort of new the post person and also a lot
- 2:53Speaker 1: of controversy around outfits. Of course always are y'all good
- 2:59Speaker 1: at that. Do y'all converse with your post people? So, like,
- 3:09Speaker 1: I know, I just had a whole thing because I
- 3:11Speaker 1: usually give our mail carrier like a gift card for
- 3:15Speaker 1: the holidays and today thank you, and I had to
- 3:18Speaker 1: sit back and forth and starting I'm like, I don't
- 3:20Speaker 1: know their name, and to be honest, they switched up
- 3:23Speaker 1: so often because I live in an area that's just
- 3:25Speaker 1: pretty high traffic, there's a lot of complaints. I think
- 3:28Speaker 1: we had an issue with like mail going missing, slash dumping,
- 3:33Speaker 1: and I don't know, I don't think it's that person,
- 3:35Speaker 1: but like issues like that. So I was like, I
- 3:37Speaker 1: don't even know if they're a man or a woman.
- 3:40Speaker 1: I don't know, so I don't want to say, you know, postman, postwoman, Malkie.
- 3:44Speaker 1: So I just called them Maril carrier. But it felt
- 3:47Speaker 1: awkward and so impersonal. I felt really bad. Yeah, that's
- 3:52Speaker 1: that's tough. I know. I know the person who does
- 3:57Speaker 1: most of the like USPS person who does most of
- 4:00Speaker 1: delivering of my mail, and he's super nice. He's seen
- 4:02Speaker 1: me like in all kinds of states of like being
- 4:06Speaker 1: soaked by the rain or like in my pajamas, and
- 4:09Speaker 1: once I came out, I just happened to open the
- 4:11Speaker 1: door randomly, and he was right outside my door, and
- 4:14Speaker 1: I'm easily startled. As you all know. It was a
- 4:17Speaker 1: huge moment of like like I'm jumping back and almost screaming.
- 4:21Speaker 1: But then he was like, I hope you don't mind.
- 4:23Speaker 1: I've just been signing for you. And I was like,
- 4:27Speaker 1: oh no, I appreciate that because I've never I never
- 4:29Speaker 1: hear them, and I'm never there to sign or at
- 4:32Speaker 1: least I never hear it. I'm always here in my apartment.
- 4:35Speaker 1: But anyway, and he showed me the signature and he
- 4:38Speaker 1: was like, this is okay with you. It's better than mine.
- 4:42Speaker 1: That doesn't get have been any trouble. I really do
- 4:44Speaker 1: appreciate it, but you just got a fine way to go.
- 4:48Speaker 1: Oh no, I I don't know that that. I don't
- 4:54Speaker 1: know that. It was like a I actually have no
- 4:57Speaker 1: idea what he was doing, but he was signing my
- 4:59Speaker 1: name is owed it to me, And I was like, yeah,
- 5:01Speaker 1: I've been to it. I love to continue doing that.
- 5:04Speaker 1: I have missed the many packages for that reason. Yes,
- 5:08Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. That's so that's why I'm so appreciative.
- 5:11Speaker 1: I think I have indicated somewhere like, for the love
- 5:14Speaker 1: of God, I don't care. Just leave it if it
- 5:18Speaker 1: needs a signature, and I will take the blame. I
- 5:21Speaker 1: think I've actually gone into the website and said that, like,
- 5:24Speaker 1: please please just leave it. What about you, Eaves? No,
- 5:30Speaker 1: I'm really bad at stuff like that. Um, I feel
- 5:32Speaker 1: like my social anxiety shows up this kind of thing. Um,
- 5:37Speaker 1: I want to get better at it though, Like I
- 5:39Speaker 1: I would love to get better at that. So, like,
- 5:41Speaker 1: that's that's definitely a goal of mine. It's good to
- 5:44Speaker 1: be on good terms because, as we talked about in
- 5:46Speaker 1: my episode, sometimes they'll notice if you like don't answer
- 5:49Speaker 1: the door, they haven't seen you in a while, and
- 5:51Speaker 1: then reports stuff and people have been like saved by
- 5:56Speaker 1: their mail carrier, being like saved about miss Yes. Now
- 6:00Speaker 1: that's a that's a movie, saved by the mail carrier.
- 6:07Speaker 1: All right, well, Eves, let's get into the story. I'm
- 6:10Speaker 1: so excited. Who did you bring for us today? So
- 6:12Speaker 1: today we're going to be talking about Mary Fields, also
- 6:15Speaker 1: known as stagecoach Mary. So I have a feeling that
- 6:19Speaker 1: that's going to be a name that's that a lot
- 6:21Speaker 1: of people might be familiar with, even if they don't
- 6:24Speaker 1: know anything about her exactly what she did or even
- 6:27Speaker 1: what her first was. So Stagecoach Mary Mary Feels was
- 6:32Speaker 1: the first Black American woman to carry mail on a
- 6:36Speaker 1: star route for the US Post Office Department. We'll get
- 6:39Speaker 1: into the weeds of like what a star root is
- 6:41Speaker 1: in a little bit of the context for the U.
- 6:43Speaker 1: S Post Department back then. But yeah, like I'm sure
- 6:48Speaker 1: a lot of people have hurt that because she has
- 6:50Speaker 1: one of those monikers that like just rolls off the tongue.
- 6:52Speaker 1: That's so easy to say, stagecoach Mary. It sounds so cool,
- 6:56Speaker 1: like the two of you were saying earlier, like it's
- 6:58Speaker 1: the whole persona uh. And the story of Mary Fields
- 7:03Speaker 1: just is so right for the imagery and the idealism
- 7:08Speaker 1: and all the like fluff that came along with what
- 7:12Speaker 1: the old West is. And I was I was recently
- 7:15Speaker 1: in the West, because I was recently over there. This
- 7:17Speaker 1: is kind of what inspired me to start thinking about
- 7:19Speaker 1: black women in the West and like reading about them
- 7:23Speaker 1: because I'm a Southern girl forever and I've been in
- 7:26Speaker 1: the South. Um, a lot of my family is from
- 7:29Speaker 1: the South, So yeah, there's a lot of this mythologizing
- 7:32Speaker 1: and romanticizing of the Old West, and also the making
- 7:36Speaker 1: larger of her character itself. When it comes to her,
- 7:39Speaker 1: she's the perfect subject for legends and myth making. Um.
- 7:43Speaker 1: So a lot of the tales about who she was
- 7:46Speaker 1: and what she did during her lifetime, which was in
- 7:48Speaker 1: the eighteen hundreds in the early nineteen hundreds, is embellished.
- 7:53Speaker 1: There are definitely a lot of apocryphal stories there. But
- 7:57Speaker 1: on the other hand, it also means that she's been
- 7:59Speaker 1: recogniz eyes um. She has a nickname, you know, and
- 8:03Speaker 1: she's had books written about her. She's been fictionalized in
- 8:07Speaker 1: TV and film and over the years as well, including
- 8:11Speaker 1: more recent things. And yeah, so she just has a
- 8:15Speaker 1: really cool story. Yeah, she absolutely does. Cool picture too
- 8:18Speaker 1: that usually comes up when you search her pretty pretty bad. Yeah,
- 8:24Speaker 1: and there's some excellent quotes the picture. I've seen that
- 8:27Speaker 1: picture even before we were talking, and we've been talking
- 8:29Speaker 1: about who she was or what she was in relations
- 8:32Speaker 1: to the US Postal Service, because you've seen that picture,
- 8:35Speaker 1: whether or not you know where it's from or it's
- 8:38Speaker 1: pretty famous. And her kind of like she became like
- 8:41Speaker 1: you said, very very like romantic size and then again
- 8:45Speaker 1: like a legendary tale almost, but that picture in itself
- 8:47Speaker 1: so like, oh, you know, like every every man now
- 8:51Speaker 1: and then you're like, that's one of those that I recognized.
- 8:53Speaker 1: I don't know why, but it is badass and I've
- 8:56Speaker 1: seen it. Yeah, it's a legendary picture. So there is
- 9:04Speaker 1: an author who wrote a book Deliverance Mary Fields, the
- 9:07Speaker 1: first African American woman's star roots mail carrier in the
- 9:10Speaker 1: United States of Montana history, had to go through the
- 9:14Speaker 1: full thing there. Um. But yeah, so according to her,
- 9:17Speaker 1: the author, I don't want to get her name wrong,
- 9:20Speaker 1: but I believe it's pronounced Meante metcalfe McConnell. But according
- 9:25Speaker 1: to the author, the documentation that the author provided to
- 9:28Speaker 1: United States Postal Service historians enable them to verify her
- 9:34Speaker 1: quote unquote first. So McConnell also says that through her work,
- 9:38Speaker 1: she was able to confirm that Mary Fields was the
- 9:41Speaker 1: first black person to register to vote in Cascade, Montana. Um.
- 9:45Speaker 1: So that author is also scheduled to release another book. Umo.
- 9:51Speaker 1: So well, we can get into more of the context
- 9:54Speaker 1: of all the things that, um, the Postal Service stuff
- 9:57Speaker 1: and Mary Phil's life, um, and all of that later. Yes,
- 10:14Speaker 1: I start at the beginning. So Mary Fales was born
- 10:19Speaker 1: around eighteen thirty two in Hickman County, Tennessee. She didn't
- 10:23Speaker 1: know her birthday, as so many black people didn't. She
- 10:26Speaker 1: was born enslaved. She was a servant for the Warner
- 10:30Speaker 1: family in the years before the Civil War, and she
- 10:34Speaker 1: was emancipated sometime around emancipation or just after the Civil War.
- 10:40Speaker 1: She could read and write, but there isn't a lot
- 10:43Speaker 1: more that's documented about her early years. There's a lot
- 10:45Speaker 1: more that's documented um into her later years, but it
- 10:50Speaker 1: is known that after emancipation she worked on steamboats on
- 10:53Speaker 1: the Mississippi River in the southeast, and one of the
- 10:57Speaker 1: steamboats that she worked on was the Robert E, which
- 11:01Speaker 1: garnered attention when it beat the Natchez in a publicized
- 11:04Speaker 1: race from New Orleans to St. Louis in eighteen seventy.
- 11:08Speaker 1: So Mary eventually made her way to Toledo, Ohio, and
- 11:12Speaker 1: there she started working at an Ursulin convent. The Ursulin's
- 11:16Speaker 1: are a Catholic religious order of women. It's not completely
- 11:20Speaker 1: clear while she gravitated to the convent. There is speculation
- 11:23Speaker 1: around it um but one theory being that there was
- 11:26Speaker 1: some familiarity there because she was a servant for the
- 11:30Speaker 1: duns for several years and they had relatives who were
- 11:32Speaker 1: nuns at the convent. But either way, she made it
- 11:36Speaker 1: there by train in eighteen seventy and she did jobs
- 11:39Speaker 1: like wash laundry, work in the kitchen, and maintain the grounds.
- 11:44Speaker 1: And these are things that you'll see come up throughout
- 11:46Speaker 1: her entire lifetime. As she moved from place to place.
- 11:49Speaker 1: She continued to do laundry, continued to cook and work
- 11:53Speaker 1: in the garden. But as a worker there at the convent,
- 11:57Speaker 1: Mary met Ursulin. Mother Mary Amadeus, and then many of
- 12:01Speaker 1: the nuns that were there ended up going to Montana
- 12:04Speaker 1: and running a school for Native Americans. Mary Fields also
- 12:09Speaker 1: ended up moving to Montana Territory in eight So for context,
- 12:15Speaker 1: Montana was admitted as a state in eighteen eighty nine,
- 12:20Speaker 1: so just four years after she moved to Montana Territory.
- 12:23Speaker 1: It said that she moved to Montana when Arslan Mother
- 12:25Speaker 1: Amadeus was sick with pneumonia there um Some sources say
- 12:30Speaker 1: that they knew each other before the convent because Mother
- 12:34Speaker 1: Mary was related by marriage to the family who had
- 12:37Speaker 1: enslaved Mary Fields in Tennessee. But like we could go
- 12:41Speaker 1: on forever with the links and all of the stories
- 12:44Speaker 1: and speculations, so fly past that. But in Montana she
- 12:51Speaker 1: worked at St. Peter's Mission near a cascade. She helped
- 12:55Speaker 1: with construction again, did laundry in the garden and other
- 12:58Speaker 1: odd jobs, and she also delivered food and supplies in
- 13:02Speaker 1: the mission. So she drove horses and a freight wagon
- 13:04Speaker 1: for miles to get stuff to the Ursulain nuns. So
- 13:08Speaker 1: in a lot of these secondary accounts of Mary Feels
- 13:12Speaker 1: she is described as being crass, hardened, mean, quick, tempered, um,
- 13:21Speaker 1: which goes into the myth making around her as a
- 13:26Speaker 1: figure more so than an actual person. Even if she
- 13:30Speaker 1: had some of those qualities, a lot of the descriptions
- 13:33Speaker 1: can be embellishment, exaggerated, and even inaccurate. She has been
- 13:38Speaker 1: made into this character, as it goes with a lot
- 13:42Speaker 1: of people who are nicknamed. So she had other There
- 13:47Speaker 1: were other things people called her as well, um, like
- 13:50Speaker 1: black Mary, white crow, colored Mary, inward Mary. There's something
- 13:56Speaker 1: to be said about the way that the Old West
- 13:58Speaker 1: mythologizing mixed with the stereotypes of black women in her story,
- 14:04Speaker 1: those things were all wrapped up together. Um. Because she
- 14:07Speaker 1: was both she lived in the West in this time
- 14:10Speaker 1: that is portrayed with so much fantastic imagery. Um that
- 14:16Speaker 1: is understandably fascinating, you know for us to look back on,
- 14:22Speaker 1: but it is wrapped up in so many so so
- 14:25Speaker 1: many conceptions that we have of the time that are
- 14:28Speaker 1: built on media and the propagandizing of of the character
- 14:37Speaker 1: of the time. So you know, there were sources that
- 14:40Speaker 1: says she was six ft in two hundred pounds, which
- 14:44Speaker 1: is like, you know, why we need to talk about
- 14:47Speaker 1: her weight, but whatever, um, which McConnell says, it's not
- 14:52Speaker 1: true that she did quote unquote Man's work. So a
- 14:55Speaker 1: lot of the secondary sources that you'll see, which is like, oh,
- 14:58Speaker 1: you know, great there talking about this this woman, Like
- 15:02Speaker 1: it's great that we do have so many, like mainstream
- 15:05Speaker 1: sources that talk about her, that talk about her history,
- 15:08Speaker 1: but still fall victim to all of the stereotyping and
- 15:14Speaker 1: the racism that's been perpetuated from her over time, because
- 15:17Speaker 1: it's just kind of regardgitating those things so that she
- 15:20Speaker 1: did Man's work because she was doing things like construction,
- 15:23Speaker 1: gardening and carried a gun and things like that, and
- 15:26Speaker 1: that she was generally imposing so with the building of
- 15:29Speaker 1: this figure, like in my head, you have a picture
- 15:32Speaker 1: to go along with it. So that picture that Samantha
- 15:34Speaker 1: mentioned earlier, that is of her standing in a very
- 15:38Speaker 1: like stately way holding a long rifle that's almost as
- 15:42Speaker 1: tall as her and in black and white, you know,
- 15:46Speaker 1: that helps as well, just makes it so that wow, yeah,
- 15:49Speaker 1: I can see this woman being that person. Maybe these
- 15:53Speaker 1: things are true. So people have created this larger than
- 15:57Speaker 1: life character for it was gun toting, pain swearing, fight picking, drinking, smoking,
- 16:05Speaker 1: cussing woman. But it's important to remember that she was
- 16:08Speaker 1: a dark skinned black woman in the United States in
- 16:11Speaker 1: the mid to late eight early nineteen hundreds, and that
- 16:16Speaker 1: happens all the time with dark skinned black women, where
- 16:18Speaker 1: they're portrayed as more masculine um and they have to
- 16:21Speaker 1: be a certain way. Power is inherent in a person,
- 16:24Speaker 1: especially one who's in the Old West, Like, how could
- 16:26Speaker 1: a dark skinned black woman who lived, you know, we
- 16:29Speaker 1: lived and worked just after the Civil War and knew
- 16:32Speaker 1: how to ride horses and was a sharp shooter and
- 16:35Speaker 1: all these how could she not be masculine? So yeah,
- 16:39Speaker 1: this is it's been definitely like that's what spewed in
- 16:44Speaker 1: her history. Um, So she was a good shooter and
- 16:47Speaker 1: horseback rider, but she wasn't in gunfights since she wasn't
- 16:50Speaker 1: in a gang, and she wore pants under her skirt,
- 16:54Speaker 1: and she was tough. She was devoted to her work
- 16:56Speaker 1: and the people she cared about. But it's really clear
- 16:59Speaker 1: that during even during her time, so this wasn't just
- 17:02Speaker 1: post her you know, posthumous Lee, this was also during
- 17:06Speaker 1: her time, you know, when she was getting these nicknames
- 17:08Speaker 1: and things like that. But her figure has been stretched
- 17:11Speaker 1: beyond her actual personhood with it being clear that racism
- 17:15Speaker 1: plays a big role in that, which is something that
- 17:18Speaker 1: I know y'all enculed her a lot, like when y'all
- 17:20Speaker 1: are doing your history research, um and in feminist history
- 17:25Speaker 1: in general, I think it's funny that anything that isn't
- 17:29Speaker 1: shrinking is obviously the opposite of that. Like if you're
- 17:33Speaker 1: just being, that means you're trying to take up space,
- 17:35Speaker 1: especially for women of color, especially as you were talking
- 17:38Speaker 1: about like that, this specific woman in this time. Oh
- 17:42Speaker 1: my gosh, even today, we know that that still happens
- 17:45Speaker 1: for people who are not seen as the top tier
- 17:49Speaker 1: of what they think is success, which is a white
- 17:52Speaker 1: man in general, so having that and just could just
- 17:56Speaker 1: clearly be existing, surviving, doing what they're good at. So
- 17:59Speaker 1: they're for, oh, we have to make a reason as
- 18:02Speaker 1: to why you were okay with you doing that. We're
- 18:04Speaker 1: gonna allow this to happen, and it's usually very big
- 18:07Speaker 1: and very sexist, very racist reasons. Yeah. Can I repeat
- 18:10Speaker 1: what you just said, Samantham, because I really love that
- 18:13Speaker 1: when you just said, even if someone is not shrinking,
- 18:16Speaker 1: it seems like they're taking up space. And I feel
- 18:18Speaker 1: like you really beautifully worded that, because I don't that
- 18:22Speaker 1: is just really poetic in a way, even though poetic
- 18:26Speaker 1: kind of connotes a good thing. But because she was
- 18:30Speaker 1: like that six ft and two hundred pounds, like that
- 18:32Speaker 1: translated in a literal way for people who were recording
- 18:36Speaker 1: her history, like she was a large person, as if
- 18:39Speaker 1: she couldn't do the things that she did and also
- 18:41Speaker 1: still have character and you know, be this person who
- 18:45Speaker 1: was full of life, but you know, she was clearly
- 18:50Speaker 1: bigger than she needed to be, because I mean, oftentimes
- 18:53Speaker 1: I guess this is a conundrum in this you know,
- 18:56Speaker 1: where black people and black women are made more masculine
- 18:59Speaker 1: and larger, we're all so diminished like made diminutive as well.
- 19:03Speaker 1: So yeah, I really love the way you put that santhis.
- 19:06Speaker 1: Thank you for saying that, UM. And I also feel
- 19:09Speaker 1: like it's important to say that both things can exist
- 19:12Speaker 1: at the same time. I feel like we talked about
- 19:13Speaker 1: this a lot when we are talking about these figures
- 19:16Speaker 1: in history, especially because their first Like there is so
- 19:19Speaker 1: much contradiction in them where there are people who came
- 19:22Speaker 1: before them, but this is also accomplishment for them. It's
- 19:25Speaker 1: the same case in this. It's like, yeah, she could
- 19:27Speaker 1: have you know, people can't be tough, they can be rowdy,
- 19:31Speaker 1: they can be all of these things today and yesterday
- 19:34Speaker 1: and far back in history. Um, they can contain all
- 19:37Speaker 1: of those characteristics in themselves. But that can also be
- 19:41Speaker 1: There's so many different elements to it. Like people who
- 19:43Speaker 1: lived during her time and interacted with her were also
- 19:46Speaker 1: colored by their perceptions of her based on the world
- 19:51Speaker 1: views that they had at the time, a lot of
- 19:53Speaker 1: which was racism, but also ignorance and not interacting with
- 19:56Speaker 1: black people and expecting a certain thing when it was
- 19:58Speaker 1: time for them to interact with black people, UM, and
- 20:02Speaker 1: expecting black people to take certain what roles is specifically
- 20:07Speaker 1: black women. So yeah, like it could be that she
- 20:11Speaker 1: had some of those elements in her and also that
- 20:14Speaker 1: other people who remarked about her, we're remarking from their
- 20:17Speaker 1: own personal world views. And also that she might have
- 20:22Speaker 1: been that way for a certain reason because in rural
- 20:26Speaker 1: Montana in the eighteen hundreds and she had to deal
- 20:29Speaker 1: with people in their prejudices, Like, it's not it's not
- 20:32Speaker 1: that it's not that complicated. It's definitely complicated, but it's
- 20:35Speaker 1: not that complicated. So as if the story goes, the
- 20:55Speaker 1: state Bishop of Montana ended up ordering Mary to be
- 20:58Speaker 1: dismissed from the car event, and supposedly because she had
- 21:02Speaker 1: got enough fight with someone and got an in a
- 21:06Speaker 1: fight with someone, and he deemed her behavior inappropriate for
- 21:11Speaker 1: the work that she was doing, the customs that they
- 21:13Speaker 1: were trying to impart up upon the children, the Native
- 21:15Speaker 1: American children at the mission school. So after she left
- 21:19Speaker 1: the mission, she went to near Cascade, which was just nearby,
- 21:23Speaker 1: and opened a restaurant there. But the restaurant didn't do
- 21:27Speaker 1: so hot. She gave a lot of away, a lot
- 21:29Speaker 1: of meals for free, so it wasn't that profitable of
- 21:32Speaker 1: a venture. And that's in comes the part where she
- 21:36Speaker 1: gets her first because she pursued a job as a
- 21:39Speaker 1: mail carrier was that restaurant. Being a restaurateur didn't work
- 21:43Speaker 1: out for her, she pursued that job as a mail
- 21:46Speaker 1: carrier for a route between cass Gate and St. Peter's Mission,
- 21:49Speaker 1: so she knew she knew the area already, and in
- 21:55Speaker 1: she got that contract to be a star Root mail
- 21:58Speaker 1: carrier for the U. S. Post Office Department. At this
- 22:02Speaker 1: point she was in her sixties, so for a little context.
- 22:08Speaker 1: The department introduced rural free delivery in eight nine in
- 22:14Speaker 1: West Virginia and it spread from there, though it took
- 22:18Speaker 1: several years for it to be implemented across the country,
- 22:20Speaker 1: so it's kind of slow moving because before then, rural
- 22:24Speaker 1: people would have to travel to pick up their mail
- 22:26Speaker 1: at the post office are paid private services to deliver them,
- 22:29Speaker 1: while folks in the city it could have it conveniently delivered.
- 22:34Speaker 1: And in the years already by default, i should say
- 22:37Speaker 1: um in the years leading to rural free delivery, customers
- 22:40Speaker 1: were asking for routes to be established to rural places
- 22:43Speaker 1: for obvious reasons, like a lot of the time they
- 22:44Speaker 1: had to travel far to pick up their mail. So
- 22:48Speaker 1: what exactly is the Star route it is In five
- 22:53Speaker 1: to reduce mail transportation cost, Congress had a preface for
- 22:57Speaker 1: stage coaches, but they ditched that, and they made it
- 22:59Speaker 1: so that contracts would be awarded to the lowest bidder
- 23:02Speaker 1: for quote, what may be necessary to provide for the due, celarity, certainty,
- 23:09Speaker 1: and security of such transportation. So postal clerks often shortened
- 23:14Speaker 1: that phrase to three asterisks for the three points or
- 23:19Speaker 1: and or stars, whatever you wanna call them. The bids
- 23:21Speaker 1: became known as starbids, and the roots became known as
- 23:24Speaker 1: star roots, and they the star roots started off being
- 23:28Speaker 1: implemented in places that weren't populated enough for an official route.
- 23:32Speaker 1: So star roots just sounds amazing, though, like she did
- 23:35Speaker 1: a Star route in actuality, it's it's a lot more
- 23:39Speaker 1: mundane than than what it sounds like, because the stars
- 23:43Speaker 1: for astress. But still, you know, a Star route, like
- 23:47Speaker 1: you know, it's still it felts upgraded, for sure. That's
- 23:54Speaker 1: the minute the work that she did. Of course, like
- 23:56Speaker 1: I'm being money, but Mary, she did carry a mail
- 23:59Speaker 1: on her root for years until nineteen o three. It
- 24:02Speaker 1: was a thirty four mile round trip. She had to
- 24:05Speaker 1: deal with the harsh weather and the wildlife like wolves,
- 24:09Speaker 1: which is where you know, what is the uh is
- 24:12Speaker 1: it balto? Yeah, that kind of idea of like, oh
- 24:15Speaker 1: my gosh, it's it's huge adventure that you have to
- 24:18Speaker 1: go on and make sure day job and you're in
- 24:20Speaker 1: the wild West like in the United States. Hey was
- 24:31Speaker 1: low and hours were long, uh. And she would drive
- 24:35Speaker 1: that stage coach are she wouldn't even walk in snowshoes
- 24:38Speaker 1: at times when it was necessary, and she was reliable
- 24:42Speaker 1: and she was quick at her job, and her work
- 24:44Speaker 1: as a carrier earned her that nickname that you know,
- 24:47Speaker 1: stage coach Mary. Yeah. I mean it's one of those
- 24:50Speaker 1: things that I guess, you know, we take for granted
- 24:54Speaker 1: that mail just arrives and at a time, Yeah, there
- 24:57Speaker 1: was you going out into the the elements and dealing
- 25:03Speaker 1: with wolves and all of these things. And I can
- 25:07Speaker 1: imagine like how you know, people were grateful to be
- 25:12Speaker 1: able to have the service and that's kind of like wow, yeah,
- 25:17Speaker 1: here she comes stagecoach Mary. And if you go watch
- 25:21Speaker 1: videos on I think about how I don't I don't
- 25:24Speaker 1: know if this is the official slogan, but like the
- 25:27Speaker 1: for the U. S. Postal Service today, how it's like
- 25:30Speaker 1: we'll go rain sleek Snow, that's what I thought you
- 25:36Speaker 1: were referencing at first. So there's kind of pride around,
- 25:40Speaker 1: you know, being able to deliver at any time and
- 25:44Speaker 1: get the things to people when they need them. Um.
- 25:47Speaker 1: And I also want to you know, I said earlier
- 25:49Speaker 1: that I was thinking about the West, but also another thing.
- 25:53Speaker 1: You know, it's the time of season when we're all
- 25:55Speaker 1: talking about the post office. A lot of that talk
- 25:58Speaker 1: is maligning, but they're doing a lot of work right now,
- 26:02Speaker 1: and they always are at this time of the year,
- 26:04Speaker 1: so I feel like it it fits, you know, within
- 26:07Speaker 1: the theme when we're all the stressed over like when
- 26:11Speaker 1: things are going to get to certain places and packages
- 26:13Speaker 1: are going to get to certain places, and if they're
- 26:15Speaker 1: going to make them one time or not, and if
- 26:16Speaker 1: they're going to get there safely there's gonna be anything
- 26:19Speaker 1: in the box when it gets there. Oh my god.
- 26:20Speaker 1: I could go on about like are you okay? I'm
- 26:25Speaker 1: just thinking about the things that we complain about, like
- 26:28Speaker 1: but also thinking about how far we had to come
- 26:31Speaker 1: to get to a place where we had our male
- 26:32Speaker 1: conveniently delivered like this. It just feels so extra to
- 26:37Speaker 1: be complaining about this. I love watching episodes where it's
- 26:41Speaker 1: supposed to be in the future and you have someone
- 26:43Speaker 1: from the past and you're trying to explain like deliveries
- 26:45Speaker 1: in or mail, and they're like, oh, yeah, we'll be
- 26:48Speaker 1: here like immediately, and it's like, yeah, not really. They
- 26:51Speaker 1: it worse like that. They're like, those are my favorite
- 26:54Speaker 1: moments of those comparisons they express is delivered by play.
- 27:01Speaker 1: I mean it's amazing because I mean the logistics alone
- 27:06Speaker 1: are make my brain hurt. Yeah, yeah for real. Yeah,
- 27:11Speaker 1: So Mary was It's part of that history. You know,
- 27:14Speaker 1: it's not just some separate woman history, not some separate
- 27:18Speaker 1: black person or black woman history. She's part of the
- 27:20Speaker 1: whole history of the United States Postal Service that got
- 27:23Speaker 1: us to this day. And after finishing her stint with
- 27:26Speaker 1: the post Office Department, she opened a laundry service and Cascade.
- 27:31Speaker 1: She babysat children, gave them treats, She continued gardening, and
- 27:37Speaker 1: she went to baseball games in Cascade, and even chose
- 27:40Speaker 1: to be mascot for the town's baseball team. Which sorry,
- 27:45Speaker 1: when I heard this, I had to laugh because I
- 27:48Speaker 1: was like, she was mascot for the team, you know, like,
- 27:51Speaker 1: did she choose that or know, right, but she did.
- 27:55Speaker 1: She really liked baseball and you can actually go and
- 27:58Speaker 1: find a picture of her with the baseball team online,
- 28:02Speaker 1: so that's pretty cool to look out. And yeah, and
- 28:05Speaker 1: people in her townel would help her out as well.
- 28:08Speaker 1: She got free meals and when her house caught on
- 28:10Speaker 1: fire nineteen twelve, people helped her rebuild it. So it's
- 28:13Speaker 1: not to say that everybody in Montana treated her will
- 28:17Speaker 1: like obviously she everybody didn't like her, people had it
- 28:21Speaker 1: out for her. UM. She didn't necessarily jail immediately in
- 28:24Speaker 1: the communities that she was in UM, but she did
- 28:28Speaker 1: have support in her communities, and she did four bonds
- 28:32Speaker 1: with the nuns also that she worked with UM from
- 28:35Speaker 1: the mission. So yeah, there were people on her team
- 28:39Speaker 1: and there were people who weren't on her team, as
- 28:40Speaker 1: we can say about so many of us in life,
- 28:42Speaker 1: with the caveat that she's her own individual, last person
- 28:44Speaker 1: who had her own struggles. But of course, so she
- 28:48Speaker 1: died on December five, nineteen fourteen, and she's buried in Cascade,
- 28:52Speaker 1: and December is her month, So I feel like that's
- 28:54Speaker 1: another good reason for December the month of remembrance. I
- 28:59Speaker 1: should I'm into it. Yeah, this is it's such a
- 29:05Speaker 1: it's such an interesting story. And I do think, like,
- 29:09Speaker 1: you know, going back to what you were saying, Eve's
- 29:10Speaker 1: about taking this time to kind of reflect and think
- 29:14Speaker 1: about change and things you want to change. And I,
- 29:20Speaker 1: I don't know. I remember when Samith and I did
- 29:22Speaker 1: this episode on this and I had never really considered
- 29:24Speaker 1: how I just take for granted the mail arriving, but
- 29:28Speaker 1: also how important you know, that relationship would be to
- 29:32Speaker 1: somebody if this person bringing you something and bringing email
- 29:35Speaker 1: and it would foster this and I can totally see
- 29:37Speaker 1: how it would build this reputation and you would just
- 29:40Speaker 1: be like, thank goodness, she's she's coming with the mail.
- 29:44Speaker 1: And I think it's worth like remembering that kind of
- 29:47Speaker 1: stuff and remembering the history that got us to where
- 29:51Speaker 1: we are today. Yeah. I agree. That's what I was
- 29:55Speaker 1: going to say earlier that if you go and look
- 29:57Speaker 1: at videos of about the Star Roots, just the the
- 30:01Speaker 1: pride that people in later years also took in being
- 30:05Speaker 1: the people who were independent carriers to get the mail
- 30:07Speaker 1: to people like this is this is my boat. I
- 30:10Speaker 1: know these waters. I'm going to get it to you
- 30:12Speaker 1: no matter what flood comes it's pretty inspiring. I feel
- 30:16Speaker 1: like you could add it to a workout playlist or
- 30:18Speaker 1: like your daily affirmations, morning affirmations. I love that, so
- 30:25Speaker 1: it's like, what do you do in your daily affirmation?
- 30:28Speaker 1: So I watched these old us. They really get me going,
- 30:34Speaker 1: probably works better than the ones we have today, So
- 30:36Speaker 1: let's do it. That's that's fair. That is really rare. Well,
- 30:41Speaker 1: this is has always been such a delight. Eaves anything
- 30:44Speaker 1: else you want to add before we close up? No,
- 30:47Speaker 1: I think that's all. That's that's it, y'all. Well I do.
- 30:50Speaker 1: I will have a question though, So as we were,
- 30:52Speaker 1: you were talking at the beginning that she's portrayed down
- 30:55Speaker 1: even now today because she's become kind of such a figurehead.
- 30:59Speaker 1: So apparently both she uh stagecoach Marya as well as
- 31:04Speaker 1: Cathay Williams are on our portrayed. I think this is
- 31:08Speaker 1: very loosely base, but they're they're characterized as this on
- 31:12Speaker 1: Harder to Fall. Has anyone seen this? Yeah, I was
- 31:15Speaker 1: gonna bring it up, but I hadn't seen it, so
- 31:17Speaker 1: I haven't seen it, but I do plan on watching
- 31:22Speaker 1: it because I feel like it's a very loose Uh,
- 31:24Speaker 1: it's a pretty loose um portrayal of who they were.
- 31:28Speaker 1: I mean, I will say there was some criticism on
- 31:30Speaker 1: the on the people who portray it because they were
- 31:32Speaker 1: trying to make it. As we were talking about like
- 31:34Speaker 1: the larger than life she is portrayed by Zusi beats.
- 31:39Speaker 1: I think I'm just saying the right on harder to fall.
- 31:42Speaker 1: And obviously I think from the photo of what we
- 31:45Speaker 1: have for who she is, uh in the way back,
- 31:50Speaker 1: way back when, it's definitely different portrayal, and I think
- 31:53Speaker 1: that was kind of the same idea with Cathay Williams.
- 31:56Speaker 1: They're like, Okay, obviously they're not doing it exactly, They're
- 31:59Speaker 1: not trying to find people looking like them, but representing
- 32:02Speaker 1: what they did. So I just wondered how that came
- 32:05Speaker 1: because I've heard a lot of back and forth, and
- 32:06Speaker 1: I'm really excited about the movie because I do have
- 32:08Speaker 1: a lot of famous black Western cowboys slash people in
- 32:12Speaker 1: that time, so I do want to see it and
- 32:14Speaker 1: I'm really excited by it. But I wondered if anybody
- 32:16Speaker 1: had actually seen that portrayal. But I'll answer my question
- 32:21Speaker 1: so a audience, our listeners have seen it, let us know, yes, yes,
- 32:26Speaker 1: us now maybe we will revisit this episode. Yeah, and
- 32:30Speaker 1: maybe you can drop a comment on any discrepancies that
- 32:33Speaker 1: you felt like we're in the film or anything you
- 32:35Speaker 1: thought that they got really right about. Yeah, yeah, i'd
- 32:40Speaker 1: been great. We'll do a female first round up that
- 32:49Speaker 1: would that would be really good of portrayals and fictional media.
- 32:55Speaker 1: I like that. Yeah. The book that McConnell wrote is
- 32:57Speaker 1: actually a fictionalized historical account as well. And apparently the
- 33:00Speaker 1: book that she's supposed to be releasing next year is
- 33:06Speaker 1: going to be more on the non fiction side based
- 33:08Speaker 1: on the sources that she used to create the falized account.
- 33:12Speaker 1: A lot of stuff to check out. I love it, um,
- 33:17Speaker 1: and we love having you here, Eaves for the last
- 33:21Speaker 1: female first of one, So we'll see you in two.
- 33:31Speaker 1: In the meantime, where can the listeners find you? You
- 33:34Speaker 1: can find me on Twitter at Eve's Deep Code, on
- 33:37Speaker 1: Instagram at not Apologizing, and on here this very show.
- 33:44Speaker 1: UM for a lot of other female first episodes, so
- 33:47Speaker 1: you can go back through the archives and listen to those. Yes,
- 33:49Speaker 1: but you absolutely should. Thanks as always, Eves. It was
- 33:53Speaker 1: delight and I hope you enjoyed the rest of your year.
- 33:56Speaker 1: Thank you. For a wonderful new year. Same to everyone else. Yes,
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