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Can A Man Lead Without Being Controlling?? Feat @Ltleng · So Shameless

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  Speaker 1: Yo, I am here with some amazing news. Yeah, man,
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  Speaker 1: we booked a live show. The live show is November 27th.
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  Speaker 1: And yes, that is Black Friday, the day after Thanksgiving
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  Speaker 1: here in New York City. I just got off the
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  Speaker 1: phone with Daja Bell. She's so excited. She looked really
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  Speaker 1: nice on that. You look really nice today, Daja, by
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  Speaker 1: the way.
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  Speaker 2: And she wants us.
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  Speaker 1: To fly in all of these special guests from all over.
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  Speaker 1: We got somebody in Houston. We got somebody in Florida. Bro,
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  Speaker 1: Dodge wants special guests to show up for her last stand,
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  Speaker 1: the last live show, November 27th. It's going to be interesting, man.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to be there. Charm's going to be there.
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  Speaker 1: Our new co-host is going to be there. If you're
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  Speaker 1: interested in seeing big girls, yesterday is going to be there.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying. And I think I'm going to take
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  Speaker 1: somebody to Holy Court. If you're here for VIP, we
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  Speaker 1: will have merch for VIP. We will have a question
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  Speaker 1: and answer segment for the VIP. Of course, you're going
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  Speaker 1: to have preferred seating in the front. And it's going
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  Speaker 1: to be at City Winery, so you can get drinks
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  Speaker 1: during the show. You can get food during the show.
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  Speaker 1: It's going to be a vibe. All right? So, November 27th.
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  Speaker 1: If you're here in New York City or if you
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  Speaker 1: just want to see Dodge for the very last time.
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  Speaker 1: We haven't done a live show in, I think, four years.
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  Speaker 1: We haven't done a live show in four years. So
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  Speaker 1: we're hitting that stage and we're going to put the
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  Speaker 1: fuck on for Dodge. She deserved more than one last pot.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? So if you loved her
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  Speaker 1: for November 27th, the So Shameless live show. It's going
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  Speaker 1: to be a movie. Oh, before I go, I do
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  Speaker 1: want to say this, man, because I heard you.
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  Speaker 3: I heard you.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of y'all have been complaining about the ads
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  Speaker 1: heard you. I feel like Mayor Mom Donnie. Like, y'all complain,
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  Speaker 1: I hear you. And we're going to fix it.
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  Speaker 2: Go y'all ass to Patreon.
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  Speaker 1: It's fixed.
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  Speaker 1: that or you don't want to do that, I understand.
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  Speaker 2: And I got five kids.
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  Speaker 1: By the way, today is Leah's birthday, my youngest. Shout
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  Speaker 1: out to her. Happy birthday, baby girl. But yeah, man,
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  Speaker 1: Let's get to the show. Let's get to these ads.
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  Speaker 1: I became, somehow because y'all two was late, he's mad
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  Speaker 1: at me. I just want to let y'all know. I
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  Speaker 1: just want to let you know. Somehow, because y'all late,
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  Speaker 1: I'm the one that he's mad at.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, who's upset?
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  Speaker 1: Oh, now you're mad. No, I know that you wasn't.
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  Speaker 1: I know you wasn't. I said because they were late,
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  Speaker 1: you're mad at me. I'm the one getting the smoke.
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  Speaker 1: I was here.
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  Speaker 2: Not at all.
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  Speaker 1: I love y'all.
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  Speaker 4: Damn, you was mad at me last time I was
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  Speaker 4: here yesterday when I was late.
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  Speaker 1: You don't notice he's the first one to leave as
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  Speaker 1: soon as he presses. That nigga fly. He don't even
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  Speaker 1: take the steps. He jumps out the window.
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  Speaker 2: Your nigga has to go. All right, y'all.
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  Speaker 5: Part me for when I get home and take my
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  Speaker 5: shoes off and take my pants off for the day.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not lying.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry.
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  Speaker 1: He had attitude before I called him on it. He
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  Speaker 1: was like, yo, I'm not doing it with you. Yo,
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  Speaker 1: it's a couple minutes. We all got to do it.
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  Speaker 1: I was here first.
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  Speaker 4: You live here.
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  Speaker 2: I turned the lights and cameras on me.
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  Speaker 4: Because you live here.
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  Speaker 2: He was late.
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  Speaker 1: I was not late. Bro, let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no. I got the message.
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  Speaker 1: I got the message.
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  Speaker 3: It's right here.
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  Speaker 1: What's the message say?
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  Speaker 2: I should be there in like 15. Ain't no buses coming,
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  Speaker 2: so I got to call a cab. What does that
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  Speaker 2: sound like to you?
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  Speaker 1: It sounds like keeping somebody up to date.
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  Speaker 2: What was his call time?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. 4.30. No.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just like, I don't know when you're supposed.
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  Speaker 1: To pull up. 5.30.
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  Speaker 5: My call time is 30 minutes before the show.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: What time was the show? 6. That text was at 5.35.
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  Speaker 1: What time is it right now? They texted us at 5.
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  Speaker 1: Why is it that Aquarius can't say you're right? Bro,
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  Speaker 1: because I've been here for a while, so I know
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  Speaker 1: that we don't start on time.
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  Speaker 2: I was here first. You're mad at me. It was
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  Speaker 2: these two niggas. I did apologize. I don't care.
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  Speaker 1: He cares.
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  Speaker 2: He cares.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no. He's trying to throw you
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  Speaker 1: out there.
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  Speaker 2: I did apologize.
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  Speaker 3: Technically, I texted first that I'm going to be late.
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  Speaker 3: So the start time was pushed back. So the start
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  Speaker 3: time for him wasn't. his arrival time was no longer 5.30.
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  Speaker 3: It's over, yeah. I'm not coming here an hour early.
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  Speaker 3: What sense does that make? Explain that to me.
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  Speaker 1: You got it. Y'all got it. Y'all got it. Y'all win.
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  Speaker 2: I'm the bad guy. It's me. Is the Zoom here?
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  Speaker 2: The people here? Everybody's here. That was intense.
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  Speaker 1: That was intense. What's that?
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  Speaker 2: Y'all very passionate about niggas being on time.
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  Speaker 1: No, I'm not.
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  Speaker 3: Speaking of the Zoom being here, I've seen this shit online.
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  Speaker 1: This dude. Cap.
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  Speaker 3: But this woman posted that her ex was recording all
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  Speaker 3: their arguments and posting it online.
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  Speaker 4: What the fuck?
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  Speaker 1: And having people vote.
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  Speaker 2: I said, I do that every week.
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  Speaker 1: Yo. No, like audio. Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Like from beginning to end?
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  Speaker 6: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know if it was the whole argument.
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  Speaker 2: Nah, because you could be funny. You could like tape
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  Speaker 2: some shit out of context and then. Right.
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  Speaker 3: And then she was like, and I lost. She said
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  Speaker 3: he has 40,000 followers. You got a problem with that?
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  Speaker 3: That's actually great.
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  Speaker 1: You recording our arguments and I don't know? Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Why not?
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to... Why, would it change the way you
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  Speaker 1: talk to me?
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  Speaker 4: No, but why the world got to know about this
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  Speaker 4: without me knowing the world knows about this?
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  Speaker 1: Why can't you stand on your square? No, no.
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  Speaker 2: You talk your shit.
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  Speaker 4: It's me.
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  Speaker 2: Like this to me. I'm going to stand on my shit.
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  Speaker 2: Let the world hear it. But did we agree on it?
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  Speaker 4: That's my point. You violated our privacy.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, but why would you not? It's not even legality. Like,
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  Speaker 2: did you suggest this to me? Like, did you come
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  Speaker 2: to me like, yo, can we record this? I'm being
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  Speaker 2: honest with you. As soon as those words get out
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  Speaker 2: of your mouth, I'm like, all right, let me just...
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to just skate. This is weird as fuck.
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  Speaker 2: I'm cool.
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  Speaker 4: You didn't tell me, so I can record you performing
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  Speaker 4: and put that out to the world?
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  Speaker 1: That's different though. Am I getting some of the dividends?
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  Speaker 1: The only place you could post it is OnlyFans.
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  Speaker 2: So now the niggas is doing porn.
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  Speaker 1: That's where she took it. That's where she took it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, because why would you put out personal private arguments
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  Speaker 4: out to the world without me knowing?
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  Speaker 2: That's weird shit.
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  Speaker 1: Because you gaslight me every time we argue.
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  Speaker 2: Then leave. It's mad shit in between.
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  Speaker 1: Another woman is going to gaslight you too What are
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  Speaker 1: you talking about?
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  Speaker 2: Nah this drinks ain't going to gaslight you Nobody wants
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  Speaker 2: them You.
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  Speaker 4: Said women gaslight you?
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  Speaker 1: What the fuck you want from me?
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  Speaker 2: Super villain? You a super villain getting gaslit? I don't
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  Speaker 2: know I run my shit different It's not something.
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  Speaker 1: I deal with He said he runs his.
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  Speaker 2: Shit between my relationships?
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  Speaker 1: Oh shit Uh oh Oh, wake it up.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I was going to say, my issue is less
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  Speaker 3: about privacy.
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  Speaker 2: He said, I run my shit different. I didn't say
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  Speaker 2: it like that.
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  Speaker 1: I saw him right quick. What you mean by that?
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  Speaker 1: When you say you run your shit different?
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  Speaker 2: Nah, this shit I'm going to accept and the shit
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  Speaker 2: I'm not going to accept. So I'm going to engage
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  Speaker 2: you in terms of the things I'm cool with. And
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  Speaker 2: if you don't rock with it, then we don't have
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  Speaker 2: to do this. Fair, fair.
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  Speaker 1: I agree. I agree. You have your writer.
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  Speaker 2: You sounded very militant when you said, I run my
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  Speaker 2: shit different.
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  Speaker 1: If you posted this on the internet with your lady's response,
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  Speaker 1: who do you think they would side with? I don't
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  Speaker 1: give a fuck. Her.
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  Speaker 2: Like that.
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  Speaker 1: Her.
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  Speaker 2: Side with her how? Side with her how?
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  Speaker 1: Whether she agrees with your stance or not.
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  Speaker 2: But she agrees with me. If she posted it, would
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  Speaker 2: they drag you or not?
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  Speaker 4: I run my shit different.
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  Speaker 2: She agrees with me. It sounded real militant over there.
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  Speaker 2: But she's already... It's not militant. It's like, if you
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  Speaker 2: want things run a certain way, because the way I'm
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  Speaker 2: engaging a relationship, it's like a very conservative, nah, it's
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  Speaker 2: like very conservative style type of relationship.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, can you elaborate?
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  Speaker 2: You want me to pull up this way, so I
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  Speaker 2: need you to pull up this way.
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  Speaker 4: What are the ways that you guys are pulling up?
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  Speaker 2: So if you need me to take care of everything,
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  Speaker 2: I'm paying for everything, I'm moving a certain way, so
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  Speaker 2: on and so forth, I'm going to need something too.
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  Speaker 4: What do you need?
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  Speaker 2: A lack of arguments in regards to.
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  Speaker 1: He said shut the fuck up that's literally what he said.
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  Speaker 2: Shut your fucking mouth. I think it's how you articulate it.
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  Speaker 2: It's like, I need a lack of argument. I need mad...
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  Speaker 2: I run this shit.
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  Speaker 4: No opinions in this motherfucker because I run.
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  Speaker 2: This whole shit.
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  Speaker 1: This shit is mine.
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  Speaker 2: That's what he said.
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  Speaker 3: That's what he said.
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  Speaker 2: That's exactly what he said.
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  Speaker 4: Conservatively.
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  Speaker 2: He said it conservatively. Nah, it's like, you know... Oh
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  Speaker 2: my God. Okay, so you're in a relationship. You're in
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  Speaker 2: a relationship. Yes.
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  Speaker 1: So.
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  Speaker 2: Like, you know, when women say things like, I want
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  Speaker 2: a man who leads and so on and so.
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  Speaker 1: Forth, right?
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  Speaker 2: What do you mean by that? If that's something you said.
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  Speaker 4: I want to be able to trust his directive. I
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  Speaker 4: want to be able to trust his advice. I want
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  Speaker 4: to be able to turn my brain off and be
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  Speaker 4: able to just go with it and trust that we
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  Speaker 4: are going in the right direction.
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  Speaker 2: So if you're in a car, he's in the driver's seat,
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  Speaker 2: you're in the passenger seat. Absolutely. And you trust that, like,
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  Speaker 2: if you were to doze off or whatever that happens,
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  Speaker 2: He is going to get you to your destination. Absolutely.
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  Speaker 2: So that's all I'm saying.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't say I disagreed with it. I'm going to
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  Speaker 2: talk to you. Shorty, where do you want to go?
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  Speaker 2: You want to go here?
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  Speaker 4: All right, cool.
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  Speaker 2: I don't need anything else after that. No more conversation.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to get us there.
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  Speaker 4: So she can't talk to you? Y'all can't talk?
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  Speaker 2: For what? You already told me where you want to go.
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  Speaker 2: What are we talking about?
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  Speaker 1: You can't say, why didn't you take this message?
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  Speaker 2: How was your day? No, I'm not talking about it. See,
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  Speaker 2: now you're like, there's no words. Like, I'm beating bitches
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  Speaker 2: up in the crib. That's what it means. That means
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  Speaker 2: get an Ike. No, I mean in terms of direction
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  Speaker 2: and overall life shit. Like, when you press the button,
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  Speaker 2: do the lights come on?
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  Speaker 4: All right, cool.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to hear shit after that. Now, yes,
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  Speaker 2: tell me about your day and so on and so forth,
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  Speaker 2: but I'm talking about... Overall big life decisions.
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  Speaker 4: Is she allowed to ask questions?
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  Speaker 2: Allowed is crazy. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, the tone is coming off like certain things
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  Speaker 4: are allowed and certain things... Okay, she's allowed to ask questions.
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  Speaker 2: Like, if again... You know we're not in a relationship.
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  Speaker 2: You don't have to yell at me. No, no, no.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not yelling.
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  Speaker 1: My bad.
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  Speaker 2: And if I came off that way, apologies. What I'm
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  Speaker 2: saying is if you set the destination and you're like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: when are we going to get there? You have like
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  Speaker 2: any questions in regards to said destination. That's fine. Now,
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  Speaker 2: when it gets to the point where it's like okay
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  Speaker 2: now you're being difficult or you're challenging the way I'm
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  Speaker 2: trying to go or why didn't you turn this way
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  Speaker 2: or whatever just take your own car Take a separate car.
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  Speaker 4: I don't disagree with that. I actually, I agree with that.
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  Speaker 4: That makes perfect sense.
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  Speaker 1: I have a question. What if she has a backseat
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  Speaker 1: driver's license?
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  Speaker 2: A backseat driver's license?
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  Speaker 1: Ow!
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to help you out. I'll get out of
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  Speaker 2: the driver's seat. You could drive.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, okay.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm going to go get another car.
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  Speaker 1: All right. Actually, I have a question. I haven't started. No,
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  Speaker 1: I know. I have a question for Tasia.
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  Speaker 4: You got a question for me?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, I have a question for you.
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  Speaker 4: See what I'm talking about?
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  Speaker 2: What?
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  Speaker 1: No, I just have a question.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 5: No, because the conversation is real good, right? So I
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  Speaker 5: wanted to know, Tasia, in your experience, Do you feel like,
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  Speaker 5: who do you feel like is stricter? American men or
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  Speaker 5: men from like Caribbean, African descent?
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  Speaker 1: Do you feel like, is there a.
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  Speaker 2: For context, my background is like, you know, my parents
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  Speaker 2: are Haitian.
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  Speaker 1: So I don't know if.
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  Speaker 4: That's... Caribbean and African men.
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  Speaker 2: Easily.
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  Speaker 4: Are 100% stricter and more militant and they're fucking hypocrites
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  Speaker 4: as well. Except for my man. My man is fair.
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  Speaker 2: Can you explain the hypocrisy?
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  Speaker 4: You don't want your woman to conduct herself a certain way.
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  Speaker 4: You don't want her to do certain things. You don't
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  Speaker 4: want her to speak a certain way. You don't want
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  Speaker 4: her to dress a certain way.
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  Speaker 2: Respect.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, and I don't disagree with those things. However... Caribbean
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  Speaker 4: and African men will do and say and behave in
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  Speaker 4: ways that are very disrespectful to their relationship.
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  Speaker 2: How so?
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  Speaker 4: And to the lady. Why are you putting your penis
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  Speaker 4: in other women if it's not an open relationship?
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  Speaker 2: Wait, wait.
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  Speaker 4: Not you specifically, but I'm just saying.
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  Speaker 2: What are we talking about?
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  Speaker 4: We're talking about the strictness of the program. The program
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  Speaker 4: can be very strict with Caribbean and African men. I
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  Speaker 4: want you.
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  Speaker 2: So you want to be able to sleep with other men?
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  Speaker 4: I didn't say that. I said, why are you doing
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  Speaker 4: those things?
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  Speaker 2: But do the lights turn on?
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  Speaker 4: Why are you speaking to me in a certain way?
• 13:54
  Speaker 2: But do the lights turn on?
• 13:55
  Speaker 1: What are we talking about?
• 13:56
  Speaker 2: Do you want to sleep with other men?
• 13:58
  Speaker 4: He said, what are we talking about?
• 14:00
  Speaker 2: Do the lights turn on?
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: Wait, wait, wait.
• 14:01
  Speaker 2: But do you want to sleep with other men? No,
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: I don't want to sleep with other men. So if
• 14:03
  Speaker 2: that's something you don't want to.
• 14:04
  Speaker 4: Do, what are we talking about? But if I want
• 14:05
  Speaker 4: to sleep with other women, I should be able to
• 14:07
  Speaker 4: have sex with other women.
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: That's a lie.
• 14:08
  Speaker 4: If you're having sex with other women.
• 14:09
  Speaker 2: That's a lie.
• 14:10
  Speaker 4: See, that's my point.
• 14:11
  Speaker 1: That's a lie.
• 14:12
  Speaker 4: That's my point. That's the issue.
• 14:13
  Speaker 2: No one's even saying I'm sleeping with other women. No
• 14:15
  Speaker 2: one's even saying that. Huh?
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: Equality.
• 14:17
  Speaker 2: That's not equality.
• 14:18
  Speaker 1: It's not? Why not?
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: How is it equality?
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: If you do it, then she should be able to
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: do it.
• 14:21
  Speaker 2: But we not splitting shit.
• 14:23
  Speaker 4: But I don't think it's a, if she does it,
• 14:25
  Speaker 4: if he does it, she should.
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: Be able to do it. A car got one steering wheel, right?
• 14:27
  Speaker 1: What I think. No, I'm bugging.
• 14:29
  Speaker 2: A car got one steering wheel.
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: No, that's peace.
• 14:32
  Speaker 3: One of the drivers of that car has brakes on there.
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not driving them shits. Okay. You can hop
• 14:37
  Speaker 2: in with one of them niggas.
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: Listen, he said go and it's go.
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: So you're saying that if I'm paying, then I should
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: be able to fuck who I want to. No, no, no. See?
• 14:43
  Speaker 2: I'm wondering if that's what you're saying. That was just
• 14:45
  Speaker 2: one example that I gave. I'm just saying, if I'm
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: in a relationship with you, There are going to be.
• 14:53
  Speaker 2: I guess what some people consider inconsistencies because it's like.
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not cool.
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: But men and women aren't equal. It's not an equal situation.
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: I'm not asking you to pay the bills, right?
• 15:02
  Speaker 4: You guys see what the... So, it's not the supposed
• 15:06
  Speaker 4: points of what he's saying. It's the terms and the way.
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: He says it.
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: And I'm not trying to sleep with other women.
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying.
• 15:10
  Speaker 4: Because men and women are not equal is very different
• 15:12
  Speaker 4: from men and women have different roles in this relationship. So,
• 15:14
  Speaker 4: that's a very... You're saying two... Those are two very
• 15:17
  Speaker 4: different things. And that's where I'm just like, oh... No, no,
• 15:19
  Speaker 4: but then you.
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: Correct yourself and apologize, but that's what you meant. No, no, no, pardon.
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: I don't mean like you're less than me or like
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: we're not equal in terms of just overall intrinsic value
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: as human beings. What I'm saying is in our relationship,
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: like there's a hierarchy. I don't disagree with the hierarchy.
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: If I want to go right and you want to
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: go left, we're going right, right?
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, now that's peace. My bad. Yeah, my bad. I
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: didn't even mean to do that.
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: I was just asking him. I'm sorry.
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: I literally just asked. Tahoe, my bad, brother. My bad.
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: My fault.
• 15:51
  Speaker 2: Yo, I'm not mad at that, though. If I'm driving,
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: I'm going the way I want to go.
• 15:55
  Speaker 4: I don't disagree. I do think, though, that there should
• 15:58
  Speaker 4: be a level of respect for your partner regardless as well.
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.
• 16:02
  Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: Tron, there's a level of hierarchy in your house? Yo, y'all.
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: I'm asking a question. Why'd you laugh?
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: I put you on the spot?
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: I'm laughing.
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: Why'd you? There's not a level of hierarchy in your house?
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to create arguments in my household.
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: Wait, but you're in a relationship.
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: Yes, I am. So, again. I'm engaged.
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: So, all right.
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: My answer to this.
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: Who makes the final decision?
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: I don't think that it's a hierarchy. I do believe
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: that in my relationship, I lead as a man. But
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: I wouldn't consider it a hierarchy. To me, that means
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: something different.
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: I mean, it doesn't sound nice.
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: Nah.
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: It doesn't sound nice. I think we like to dress
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: shit up with pretty words, but that's a hierarchy. If
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: I say we're going right, and you're saying I want
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: to go left, and then we go right.
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: My opinion or my... There's a little bit more there, right?
• 17:01
  Speaker 3: Sometimes a good leader knows when to defer.
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: Of course.
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: So when you're saying.
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: But that's still my decision to defer, right?
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: If I'm saying if I want to go right, we're
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: going right, that doesn't necessarily make me a good leader.
• 17:16
  Speaker 3: That doesn't make a good household.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: I agree with you. All the time.
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: So that's why I'm not going to say there's a
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: hierarchy and if I want to go right, that's the
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: way we're going. That might not be the smart thing
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: to do.
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: No, what I'm saying is the final decision is yours.
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: So whether or not you choose to defer is still
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: up to you.
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: So if you're like, you know what? I don't really
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: know this neighborhood. You're more familiar with it. I am
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: deferring to you, but that is still a choice that
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: I am making. She can't be like, I know this
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: better than you and make that decision.
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: You're as the leader, you're deciding who makes the final choice.
• 17:50
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: You deferring to her is your decision.
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: And part of deferring is also knowing like.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: I'm a simp. I see you're right. I'm a simp.
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: Y'all right. Y'all got it. I realize that right now
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: in this moment because if she know better, I'm just
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: going to let her do it. Because I've realized in
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: my life, in my life, me, I ain't as strict
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: as you. I'd rather say, oh, okay.
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: I don't want to go through all this other shit.
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: I'd just rather peace.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: That's exactly what I want to say.
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: A lot of times, I could be dead right, love.
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: Loved one.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: But the argument, the aftermath, and all that ain't worth it.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: They'd rather just say, yo, you got it.
• 18:29
  Speaker 4: His wife doesn't argue, though.
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: There's no aftermath in his wife.
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: Oh, I'm just going left. I was going left. Fuck it,
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: because I just don't want to argue. And I realize
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: that some men stand on alpha... I'm the leader.
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: Way more than me.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: I just don't give a.
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: Nah, but I feel like that's goofy. I'm not going
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: to be like... Wait, I'm goofy? No, no, no. I'm saying...
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: Not you. Indirectly. No, I'm saying the alpha shit you're
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: talking about. I'm not talking about you. A nigga that's
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: so wrapped up in, nah, I'm in charge. I'll drive
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: us off the bridge before I let you lead us
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: the right way. No, no, no. I'm saying I'm going
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: to defer to you in terms of... Alright, so say...
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: Shorty's background is medicine. I don't know nothing about that, right?
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: So as the boss or whatever situation, when you hire
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: an accountant, you're deferring to the accountant. You're still hiring him, right?
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: You're still in charge. You can still decide, no, I'm
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: not going to go with that or I'm going to
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: go with that. You're obviously the expert in this area.
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: So I could choose whether or not to take your advice.
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: So the fact that I choose or I have the
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: choice means that I'm the person in charge, right? What
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: are you in charge of? The relationship. Not the relationship,
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: but the overall destination. You're in charge of the house?
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: You're in charge of what happens in the house?
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: I mean, sort of, but it's like you got the
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: house for it. her can you right if she put
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: up floral yeah but i don't give a fuck about
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: that so she's in.
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: Charge or can you just come take them down and
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: put up black Because that's what you want. All right.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: Can you do that? Yes. Yes, I could. I could, right?
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: But the house was part of the destination we were
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: talking about. If you get in a relationship with somebody, hypothetically,
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: you get with a woman, right? And she's like, oh,
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: I want a house and I want this and I
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: want a vacation once a year. All of that, all
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: of the me being... Part of whatever is... Wait, pardon.
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: How many... I need five. Five vacations a year? Y'all
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: got kids? I need five.
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: Oh, okay.
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: Yo, did you hear her? Okay.
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: Yo, did you hear.
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: Once a year? No, she's joking. No, no, no.
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: I'm just like, how much time does a nigga have
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: in a year to just be going away five times
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: a year?
• 20:42
  Speaker 4: You run businesses.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: See?
• 20:43
  Speaker 4: You got to delegate.
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: Matter of fact, if you run businesses, you have less time.
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: You do have less time, but you got to delegate.
• 20:50
  Speaker 4: You hire the right team. You develop them. You build trust.
• 20:53
  Speaker 4: And eventually, you get to a point where you can
• 20:54
  Speaker 4: take five vacations a year.
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: What business is this?
• 20:57
  Speaker 4: Not that you're not working while you're away.
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: What business when niggas is just away all the time?
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on, hold on.
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: Welcome back.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, my bad. That's crazy.
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: Welcome back.
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: Yo, tell me.
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: Don't ever take me.
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: I was like, please help me.
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: Yo. Yo. How the fuck y'all doing out there this week, man?
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: It's been this type of week.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: Let's just be clear. It's been this type of week
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: all across the interwebs. Kai Sanai, I hope you're all right.
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to talk about this. I don't know
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: what's going on. I have no idea what's going on.
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: I'm leaving that alone. I don't even want to know.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: I don't even want to know at this point. You
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: understand what I'm saying? I'm with you. I don't want
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: to know. I'm good. To the people out there so
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: shameless land, what the fuck is up with y'all? I
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: hope y'all are having an amazing week. It's the fucking weekend.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: CultureCon is tomorrow.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: Yo, Patreon. Did y'all know Patreon is like a social
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: media site now?
• 21:51
  Speaker 4: No, I had no idea.
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: It's like Twitter.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: Oh, really? On Patreon. It's people just talking and shit
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: and posting their shit. And people just talking under it, comments.
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: You could just send some random shit. It's like a
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: fucking social media site now. When we started, I don't
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: know if you had a Patreon for your shows, you
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: just post your shit and go. And hopefully you get
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: some comments. Now, you got like a timeline.
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: Oh, you're talking about within your subscription and everything.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: No, I can see other people's stuff. That I don't
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: subscribe to.
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: Really?
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: Yes. Oh, yeah.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: I didn't repeat that. No.
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: So I can see their comment, their like statuses. You
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying? I can't see their content.
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: But they're posting statuses like.
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: Oh, you know, it's windy today, whatever. You know what
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: I mean? Whatever.
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: So I'm able to like post, say my reel and
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: be like, yo, yesterday was bugger than this.
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: Watch this.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: Right? Full episode, you got to subscribe to see the
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: full episode. So it's like a whole. social media thing
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: that they got going on. I found that this week.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: I had no idea. It's actually super fire.
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: Oh, did you notice that? I'm sorry.
• 22:53
  Speaker 5: Somebody showed me that at work. They was like, yo,
• 22:55
  Speaker 5: I seen this on the Patreon. And they showed it
• 22:59
  Speaker 5: to me and I didn't know what the fuck that is.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: It's a whole different world. I had no idea.
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: So if you go over to patreon.com backslash SoShamesPodcast.
• 23:07
  Speaker 4: Yes, sir. I love the plug.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: What was it again? Facian.com backslash so shameless podcast. But no, seriously,
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: you go in there, you can see all types of creators.
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: They're engaging with you now. There's a whole timeline. I'm
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: about to leave Twitter. Man, it has been such a
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: destructive week in the black community. I swear. I loved it.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: Every minute of it.
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: Oh, man.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: Topics I got for y'all today. And then y'all started
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: with this.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: That was accidental.
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: No, nigga, you wanted that.
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: Nah, nah, nah. You wanted that. You started the smoke.
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: Niggas got a pot, but I don't want to come
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: off like I'm a misogynist or some shit like that.
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: That was too late.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, way too late.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: Way too late. Don't stand on that.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: On that.
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: Fuck these bitches. They got you. You got they need
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: us to leave. Fuck that. Say that shit. Nah, what
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: I'm saying is like... If you want to turn your
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: brain off, that's part of it. I'm just saying. Stupid bitch.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: Respect to women. See, I wasn't even doing all this.
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: What the fuck is going on right now? Yo, just
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: love to everybody.
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: Love, love, love.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: We was gay the last time you was here. You
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: can't say nothing.
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: She calls everybody gay for everything. I don't call everybody
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: gay for everything.
• 24:20
  Speaker 4: I said the niggas blowing the hookah smoke in the
• 24:24
  Speaker 4: camera while they're recording themselves with a bunch of other
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: men in their section and no.
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: Women that's gay. The blowing of hookah smoke into the
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: camera is.
• 24:33
  Speaker 4: Thank you.
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: Even if it's not gay, y'all in the neighborhood, like
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: y'all next door.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: That's weird.
• 24:38
  Speaker 4: Thank you.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: Gosh.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: It's a lot. It's a lot to process.
• 24:42
  Speaker 4: That's strange to me.
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: I'll be honest. I didn't follow a nigga for that shit.
• 24:45
  Speaker 4: It's 50 niggas in the section. It's 50 niggas in
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: the section. Not one girl and y'all passing hookah in
• 24:51
  Speaker 4: the camera. Can we not talk about it no more?
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: I did it. I sent you a video of me
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: doing it. He said, Otay, you're fine. You don't look gay.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: That's not what happened?
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: No. Did this happen or not?
• 25:03
  Speaker 4: What happened was I said, I know you, so I
• 25:05
  Speaker 4: know you're not gay. That's what I said.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: Oh, shit. So I can blow hoopers.
• 25:08
  Speaker 4: That action was still a gay action.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: You said I didn't even do it gay. I got
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: the text.
• 25:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you did it extra. You did it.
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: No.
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: Yo, nah.
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: Nah.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: Yo, ladies and gentlemen, I hope y'all are doing good.
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: Life is life for everybody. So if you're barely holding on,
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: I hope this next three hours gives you a little
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: bit of joy, a little bit of relief. We have
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: Tasia in the building. Shout out to you. One of
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: our most heralded co-hosts, revolving co-hosts. Like, what the fuck
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: you be doing to these people? You showed up with
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: your lipstick on today. You got glasses.
• 25:48
  Speaker 4: I like my glasses.
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: I always wear hoops. We love the glasses. Looking nice.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: My brother, Derek. Derek. Derek, yeah, yeah.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: What's your name? Reg.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: Reg.
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: That's crazy.
• 26:00
  Speaker 4: Sir, yes, sir.
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: I feel like we didn't. Did we introduce each other?
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: What do you mean?
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: When you came in the house, did we say, yo,
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: what's up, what up?
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: I just assumed because with the booking process and everything that...
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: So we did not.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: We did not. What's up, man? I'm Tyler.
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: Hey, what's going on?
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: Nice to meet you. What's your name? Reg. Reg, nice
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: to meet you, bro.
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: Wait, wait, what? Yeah, I don't know.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: Y'all never met? No way.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: No, someone like... Shout out to Rose. Rose took care
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: of the... Rose works with me. She took care of
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: the booking and everything. So I didn't meet anyone. So
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: she coordinated all that, but I thought it was like... Reg,
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: that's Tasia. That's Trump.
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: Yesterday's behind the camera.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: We met yesterday, shout out to yesterday.
• 26:44
  Speaker 4: Reg, are you in a relationship?
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: Are you in a relationship right now? Yes, I am
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: in a relationship.
• 26:47
  Speaker 4: Okay, I'm going to be respectful to your woman. I
• 26:50
  Speaker 4: have a thing with bald heads. I was about to
• 26:52
  Speaker 4: touch it.
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: You can't just touch people.
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: What? Sorry. So instead of asking him if he wanted
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: to be touched, you worried about his wife?
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: Yes. I will never disrespect another woman. Yeah, she's OD territory.
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: I will never disrespect another woman.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: But what about him? That's his head. No, no, no.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: Get out of there.
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: I'm bugging?
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: No, get out of there. It's cool. Swing it. Just
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: swing it. You're not bugging. I got into a fucking... Trom,
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: you said earlier that you fucking been... Had a week, man.
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: I got into some shit today. I get in the
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: gas station. I'm on my way to my spot, to
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: my job, whatever. You know, going up Bedford, you got Willoughby.
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: So your gas station on the corner of Willoughby and Bedford. Right?
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: You get to the gas station... I want to get
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: back on bed fit, so I go up, Willie B
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: come around so I can turn my gas tank this
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: way and go in. There's one of them dudes that
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: race through the lights to get to the crash chasers.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: The dudes in the pickup truck that go like, you
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: never like, damn, nigga, right? This nigga pulls up to
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: the gas station. I make the right go around. When
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: the gas tank open, I goes into the shit, right?
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: Mind of my business. I get out, go to do
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: my thing.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: The car on the other end, when he pulls out,
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: I guess there was another car that was following me
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: up Willoughby. This nigga pulls in, the car chaser. Nah,
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: fuck that.
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: You niggas trying to skip me. Fuck, this nigga did it.
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: Now you did it. Who the fuck y'all niggas think
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: y'all are?
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: I'm standing there like.
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: Skip you?
• 28:22
  Speaker 4: Yo.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: Because, first of all, you talking about me? You cursing
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: and all this, right? So I'm like, yo, dude, who
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: the fuck you talking to? Yo, don't disrespect me.
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: Like, don't.
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: This nigga's bugging. This nigga's foaming at the mouth. He
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: all big.
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: What?
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: I said, bad bro, you.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: Don't disrespect me.
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to disrespect you. But he going off.
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: He looking all crazy.
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: I said, Tahoe, you could die right here. Just a moment.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: You could just die right here. Yeah. Like, you could
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: do something to this nigga. But you could definitely die
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: right here. This nigga's stupid enough.
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: To have something, to change the whole course of your shit.
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: Is this worth it?
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: In my head.
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking, is this worth it? Because you don't even
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: know this nigga. You got somewhere to go. You're looking
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: forward to tomorrow's culture con. You know what I mean?
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: Because even if you do something to this nigga, he
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: could bleed out right here. You could hit him in
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: the head with this shit, and this nigga bleed out.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: Now you, even though he started it. Right.
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: So I'm just putting the gas and I'm just, and I'm,
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: my hands is twitching. I'm twitching. I'm like, yo, cause
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: this nigga, he's going to force me to do something.
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: He can't beat me. Too big. Like he's not this big.
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: He's big here. You're not even fast enough to what
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: I could do with you, bro.
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: You're not.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: And I've lived shit for a living. So you ain't
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: nothing but a big-ass garbage bag to me. Like, that's it.
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: You're not nothing but a big-ass garbage bag to me.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: I would knock you out, bro. And so I'm just like, quiet.
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: This nigga.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: Nigga had some shit in his eye. I said, yo,
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: you got some shit in your eye. He's like, I'm sick, dude.
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: Nigga simply said, I'm sick. So I finished, man. I
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: got quiet. I just got in the car. When I
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: tell you I cursed that nigga out the whole way
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: to Manhattan, I argued with this nigga by myself all
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: the way to the fucking Bronx.
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: Bitch ass nigga, fuck out of here, nigga.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: But I was safe. And I realized that I made
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: that time of my life, man. then I'm able to
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: see certain shit and navigate certain shit about life differently.
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: You understand what I'm saying?
• 30:30
  Speaker 4: I love that.
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: Because I see myself fighting, scrapping with this nigga, at least,
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: or going into the glove compartment. You know what I'm saying?
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: For what, though? Just because of the energy. Sometimes I
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: will react because I feel threatened. So I'm going to
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: do something before it happened to me.
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: What's crazy is I probably laugh before anything else. I
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: wouldn't even be mad.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah. You're conservative.
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: I'm like, y'all niggas crazy, man.
• 30:59
  Speaker 4: You handled that really well, though. You handled that very well.
• 31:01
  Speaker 4: That was very mature. That was the right, you did
• 31:02
  Speaker 4: the right thing. That was the right way to handle it.
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: I started and I left first, but you reeled it back.
• 31:06
  Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah.
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: This nigga not, don't.
• 31:08
  Speaker 4: He clearly didn't have nothing to lose.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: Because this could go to, to how the scene did,
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: not him.
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: Over like the gas spot, though?
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: This not the nigga that.
• 31:15
  Speaker 4: You, that changes everything. Yeah, not a big belly nigga
• 31:17
  Speaker 4: with yak yak in his eye. Yeah, nah.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: I do have a question that actually got me pissed off.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: But it wasn't my thing. I want to know what
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: y'all think about this, right? At my garage, one of
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: the supervisors, he gets out his car. When he gets
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: out the car, he drops $ 3, 000 on the floor in
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: an envelope. Cash. Oh, this really happened. What? This happened.
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: I saw it online. I didn't know that this happened.
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: Oh, you see me on Facebook. Yeah, yeah. I didn't
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: know it was hypothetical. This happened.
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: Why are you laughing? This nigga was stressed.
• 31:48
  Speaker 4: He dropped $ 3, 000.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: Right? Somebody took the money. So we all talking about it, whatever, whatever.
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: And we was like, it had to be somebody that
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: was visiting the garage from another garage or whatever. And
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: because once we knew the niggas that stressed, like, damn,
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: you just going to take the nigga money? Like, that's foul, whatever.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: One of the niggas said, yo, if I'd have found
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: the money, I'd have gave it back to him, but
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: I'd have took 250 for me.
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: Wait.
• 32:16
  Speaker 4: Like, I'm taking $ 250 because I'm honest? Like, you owe
• 32:18
  Speaker 4: me that for being honest? Is what he's saying?
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: We put a tariff on the honesty.
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: Wait, so how soon after he dropped the money did
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: he realize he dropped it?
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: Because it's like, if you see him drop it and
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: he took a couple of steps and then he realized
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: he dropped it and turned around and you pocketed it.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: So that was part of it. That's a lot. No,
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: what he said, what was said was once we know
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: it was him. Like, say if you found the money,
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: I'm stepping on the money. Three grand, I'm putting it
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: in my pocket. But once you find out, oh shit,
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: that son shit. Yeah.
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: Especially if you know the person. That's different if you
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: find three bands and there's no one around. I'm not hunting.
• 32:56
  Speaker 4: You're wiling to look for the owner. But if you
• 32:59
  Speaker 4: know who the owner is, I'm giving you back your
• 33:01
  Speaker 4: three grand.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: But he said, I'm taking 250 as a fine as
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: free because I didn't have to give you back nothing.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: Nah, it's like you don't play around with that. Obviously,
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: it's either you're going to keep the money or don't
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: keep the money.
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't get to help yourself to 250. You
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: don't know what my money's for. Now we fighting.
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: Because now the nigga's like, yo, where's the 250 at?
• 33:20
  Speaker 4: Run all my fucking money. Run that 250. Or nigga,
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: get up off everything you got.
• 33:24
  Speaker 3: I'm giving the whole thing back.
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: So I'm with you, Reg. Like, I ain't going to
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: take 250 out. But I'm also not going to not give...
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: Especially because this shit dropped in.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: A place of work.
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: So everybody there is working niggas. I may not even
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: know the nigga, but I know that you are somebody
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: in the environment. You somebody that I know. You know
• 33:45
  Speaker 3: somebody I know.
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: It's like, come on, man.
• 33:47
  Speaker 3: We're not just out on Ocean Avenue.
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: I'm not. Yo, who's 3,000 is this?
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: I'm not saying that. Who's 3,000? I'm saying if you
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: saw fam drop the money.
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: No, I didn't. If I just found it and then
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: I found out later that it's somebody I fuck with.
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: If I find $ 3, 000.
• 34:09
  Speaker 4: At work, I'm giving it back. At work, my workplace,
• 34:11
  Speaker 4: I'm giving it back. It's somebody I work with. Even
• 34:13
  Speaker 4: if you don't like it?
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: Even if it's that bitch?
• 34:15
  Speaker 4: How am I going to know it's that bitch?
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: Once you find out, it's that bitch that you don't
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: get along with.
• 34:20
  Speaker 4: I'm still giving my back on money, you stupid bitch.
• 34:22
  Speaker 4: Take your 3K, you dumb bitch. You lucky.
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: You fucking lucky.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: You giving it back? Is that nigga, stupid-ass nigga, always
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: acting stupid? At work, yes.
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but my thing is, like, if I seen you
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: drop it or I know you dropped it, regardless of
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: how I feel about you, it's more so, like, dog, it's, like,
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: how I feel like I want to move as a person.
• 34:40
  Speaker 4: Even if I didn't see you drop it, it's at work.
• 34:43
  Speaker 4: This is where we work. Like.
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: I'm going to put it in my pocket.
• 34:46
  Speaker 3: That's weird. And if I don't hear nothing from nobody,
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: then it's mine.
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: Now, if you find it in the middle of nowhere, nigga,
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: that's a blessing.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: Oh, no. Yeah. That was God.
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: Like, yeah.
• 34:55
  Speaker 4: On the streets, outside of work, on the floor, because
• 34:58
  Speaker 4: I don't know if somebody at work had somebody walking past.
• 35:00
  Speaker 4: God said, baby, you needed this.
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: Hold that.
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: But at work? For one of the five trips, right?
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: Didn't you find like.
• 35:05
  Speaker 4: Listen.
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: Listen.
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: Tahoe, you found a bag of money from a coat check.
• 35:11
  Speaker 3: Somebody gave him the wrong coat check.
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: You remember that shit? Wait.
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: Or not co-check. You know how you go into certain
• 35:18
  Speaker 3: stores and they make you check your bag? They gave
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: him the wrong bag and the shit had like, how much? $ 8, 500? $ 8, 500.
• 35:25
  Speaker 4: What you did?
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: Bought weed and guns.
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: What do you mean? First thing I bought was a.
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: 357 Magnum. In case somebody came looking for it.
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: It was two weeks before my daughter was born.
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: I was out with no money. I had no job.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: I literally had did a job for like Verizon and
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: found out it was a scam.
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: You had a baby on the way and you went
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: and bought a gun? That's what I don't... Yes, and
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: pounds of weed to sell. Yes.
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: Nah, this nigga's different.
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: What the fuck the baby got to do with it?
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: I'm supposed to protect it.
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: I'm not supposed to protect. Yo, different... Like, she was
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: OD safe, but I think you're like, what do you...
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: What's the three pounds?
• 36:02
  Speaker 3: You got to protect the weed investment.
• 36:04
  Speaker 4: I had a baby on the way.
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: I bought weed and guns.
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I bought the crib and all that with it, too. Yo,
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: that's a fact. I bought everything she needed. We had nothing, bro.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: We didn't have no money to put on a baby shower.
• 36:18
  Speaker 4: I mean, well, that was a blessing. You got handed
• 36:19
  Speaker 4: the wrong bag for a reason. That's not at work
• 36:22
  Speaker 4: where you know the people that you work with. And
• 36:25
  Speaker 4: it's going to be real awkward knowing I took your.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: And I don't fuck with you. That's crazy. It is
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: what it is. Yeah, man.
• 36:30
  Speaker 4: Even though I don't like you, we work together. I
• 36:32
  Speaker 4: got to pull up to work every day and see
• 36:34
  Speaker 4: a mopey ass face complaining about your 3K or hear
• 36:36
  Speaker 4: it through the grapevine at the water cooler. Yeah, you
• 36:38
  Speaker 4: know that was Shalina money. Like, I'm going to feel crazy.
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what if she got evicted or something? Like, that's wild.
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: Niggas got kids. That's old dick.
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: Once the foreman.
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: Pulls up the camera footage.
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: This nigga is wild.
• 36:53
  Speaker 4: And that's another thing.
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: The repercussions. We at work, there's cameras.
• 36:56
  Speaker 4: You don't know who might have saw.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: I mean, okay, if y'all only doing it because of
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: the repercussions, but y'all just doing it because y'all good people.
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: Y'all just different. I'm not as good a person. I'm
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: cool with that. I'm super cool with that. I mean,
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: it is. I will take my karma as it comes.
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: The same way I took the three bands, I will
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: take my karma when it comes.
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: It is what it is.
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: When I lost the chain, what'd I say?
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: Was I tight?
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: No. I was like, yo, my loss is somebody else's blessing.
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: It is what it is. It happens.
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: You get your ups and downs, hills and valleys. It
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: is what it is. This is my hill.
• 37:24
  Speaker 4: If I drop 3K in here?
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: Because you're my nigga. Okay.
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: If he dropped it, no.
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: But that same thinking that kept you from running down
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: on Sunday at the gas station, why wouldn't you have that? Because,
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: I mean, three bands, niggas might not even... I've seen
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: niggas get stabbed over $ 1, 000.
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: Sure.
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: Like, that eight bands, somebody might have really, really needed that.
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: I did.
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: I'm sure the nigga that had it really needed it, too.
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: Yes, she was.
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: She did need it. I thought you went and bought
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: the gun because the nigga was going to come looking
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: for the bread, not for your baby.
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: No, this was in Daffy's in the city.
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: Oh, I remember Daffy's. Oh, no, no, no.
• 38:05
  Speaker 4: Whoever lost that money had money.
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 38:07
  Speaker 4: It was wrapped up.
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: You don't know that.
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: It was wrapped up in aluminum foil and duct tape.
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: Oh.
• 38:13
  Speaker 5: If you check the bag of money, then you're in there.
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: That means the bread, they didn't trust it anywhere. Like, yo,
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: will you keep bread wrapped in fucking foil? That's not
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: sound financial decisions.
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: And you trusted it in coat checks?
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: I don't know, man.
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: You gave the key food worker $ 8, 500 at the hole. Yo,
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: niggas keep bread in they mattress.
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: I'm not saying they're smart.
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: That lady probably died that day for sure. She probably
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: died that day.
• 38:41
  Speaker 4: The lady who gave you the wrong bag?
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: The lady whose money it was.
• 38:44
  Speaker 4: How do you know it was a woman? I looked
• 38:47
  Speaker 4: at her ID, it was in the bag.
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: Rob Markman You had the ID too, son. You a
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: piece of shit.
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: Rob Markman Yeah.
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: Now the story continues. I don't remember that part.
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: Rob Markman Yeah.
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: Her ID, everything was in the bag.
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: Remember I put the ID and the bonds?
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: She had bonds and shit too.
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: I put all that in the mailbox.
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: Rob Markman Oh, okay.
• 39:03
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: Rob Markman So she got all that back. As long
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: as the address is right, she got all that back.
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: Yo, you a solid nigga, man.
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I got the cash.
• 39:11
  Speaker 5: You charge $ 8, 500 for the fine this week?
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: Got your ID back. What if she wasn't legal? At
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: least she got her ID back. She ain't got to
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: go through fucking customs and shit. Salute. Salute. Hey, listen.
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: My daughter. My daughter got a picture. Remember the daughter?
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: My daughter got the picture with all the money. she's
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: like um look I found a fanny pack full of
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: money in the justice room.
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: At a store in Times Square H &.
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: M I think full of hundreds left my info at
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: the store the family called me proved it was theirs
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: and when I gave it to them the mother and
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: father were inconsolable tried to give me the money but
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: I didn't take it you're so nice Anyway, next topic.
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's wild.
• 39:53
  Speaker 4: I was keeping that. That was my blessing.
• 39:55
  Speaker 3: Exactly. So what's the difference?
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: Oh, because it's a job. Okay.
• 39:57
  Speaker 4: Yeah, because I know you.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't fuck with you.
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: Me knowing you is one thing.
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: Not fucking with you matters more.
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: Nah. Me not fucking with you matters more than knowing you.
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: That's wild. Yesterday, I'm wrong?
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: You're not wrong. I mean, I hear what y'all saying.
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: I hear what y'all saying.
• 40:17
  Speaker 5: For me, personally, I'm going to be honest with you.
• 40:20
  Speaker 5: It's all about how fucked up I am at the moment.
• 40:22
  Speaker 5: That really, that was a major part. If I'm up
• 40:26
  Speaker 5: or if I feel like, you know, I got it together,
• 40:28
  Speaker 5: then I'm like, yo, here, it's whatever. But if I, like, Tahoe, like, yo,
• 40:31
  Speaker 5: I'm on my, feel me?
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: I'm out here in this shit. We didn't have a
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: baby carriage.
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: We didn't have a crib being the 85. Just for context,
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: what's Daffy?
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: It's a clothing store.
• 40:38
  Speaker 4: It's like Burgers and Co.
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: Factory.
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: So you were at Daffy's shopping?
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: Stealing. You want to hear the whole story? You want
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: to hear the whole story?
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Dave.
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to relate. I'm trying to connect.
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: I was looking. I went to go get my check
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: from Verizon or these, this is during that era where
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: you running cables and shit like that like you used
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: to do. So they put me in a training class
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: which I was supposed to get paid for this training class.
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: I don't know what the fuck they did, but it
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: was a scam. I went to go get my check
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: and they didn't have no check for me. It was
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: like 17 cents. I was depending on this check I
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: went to this training for like two months and with
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: that I was going to help try to support my
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: family right so when I get out of there I'm
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: literally like stressed because I ain't got nothing no money
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: no job because the shit had ended it was a
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: scam I don't have no way to help my baby
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: mama get no crib I'm a loser I felt like
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: a loser so what I went and did was I
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: went to Burlington Coke Factory downtown I think in Atlantic Mall.
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: To steal some coats?
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: I stole some pots or some shit like that. And
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: I returned it. And I think I had like the
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: credit or some shit like that. And well, I had
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: the bag. So I just had a bunch of shit
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: in a bag. And then I see my little cousin.
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: And she's like, oh, I'm going to Daffy's. Bro, I
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: have no destination right now. So I just went with
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: her to Daffy's. Right? She's going around. But when I
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: go into Daffy's, I give them the bag and the
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: security guard that I gave the bag to, he starts
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: following me around Daffy's. So she sees him following me.
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: This nigga's literally like, I'm going to the Ties. This
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: nigga's going to the Ties.
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: I'm going over here, but I'm not thinking about nothing.
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: Maybe I look dusty. Maybe I did.
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: But the nigga's following me around. To be fair, his
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: instincts weren't off, right?
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: They were not off.
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: Except when he gave me the wrong fucking bag. Son
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: was on point with his job. I mean, he gave me.
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: The wrong bag.
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: Not really. You tried.
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: You tried. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: But thanks to him and his fucking eagerness, he, when
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: I starts to leave, he runs back to the security thing.
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: He looks at the tickets and gives me the wrong bag.
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: I took the bag and I looked at him. The
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: bag is like three shopping bags and it's a purse
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: in the shopping bag. Mm-hmm. This nigga's the same nigga
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: that's just chasing me around the store. I ain't got
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: nothing but a fucking credit in this other bag and
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: some bullshit. It's really nothing in the bag I gave
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: this nigga. And I'm just looking at the nigga like,
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: heard you. I got out that store.
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: And bust a move.
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: My cousin looked at me.
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: She went right.
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: I went, you know what I mean? Left and right.
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: I'm getting weird, dyslexic. Something's going on in the energy.
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: Got on the train and eventually through all of that,
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: I found out that I had all that money. I
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: felt bad for a minute until I got the money.
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: I started crying when I got the money.
• 43:32
  Speaker 4: I believe you.
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: I started crying. I couldn't believe it. You know what
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: I'm saying? I thought it was thousands. 40,000. It was 8,000.
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: In any case. That's a lot of money.
• 43:41
  Speaker 4: That's a lot of money, though. For no reason?
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: For no reason.
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: At that time?
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: And you have nothing? With a nigga out of credit. Yeah.
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: I mean, 8,000 when you have nothing.
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a big deal. Nothing.
• 43:50
  Speaker 4: I mean, I feel like that was your blessing.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: And this is 2001.
• 43:54
  Speaker 4: That's a lot of money in 2001. That's a lot
• 43:57
  Speaker 4: of money in 2001.
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 43:58
  Speaker 4: That was a blessing for you, Tahoe.
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: Okay, there's so much going on. We're 40 minutes in.
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: This show is going to end in 30-something minutes, some
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: shit like that. Lord have mercy. We have had a
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: lot going on. First of all, my brother, tell these
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: people what you do. Where you from? I've not properly
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: introduced you yet.
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, my name is Raj. What did you say before?
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: A.K.A.
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: Dennis or Derek. I still call you Derek, my bad.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: In my head.
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: Okay. I know good people who are Derek. It's all good.
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: It's not bad. I do a couple of podcasts.
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: A couple? Yeah. Nigga, this nigga is lit. And I
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: love y'all show.
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: I appreciate it.
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: I love y'all show, bro.
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: A lot of people know me from the What You
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: Thought podcast. We also produce a podcast called Pillars. I
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: also produce.
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: What is Pillars?
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: Pillars is... We basically talk to uber successful people from
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: different walks of life More likely than not, it's people
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: from sports, from entertainment, stuff like that. And we basically
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: just sort of navigate their careers and, I guess, backwards
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: engineer stories to their success. And the premise is more
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: so the people behind the people. So, for example... We'll
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: talk to managers, PR people, press people who were there
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: who might have had a different point of view or
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: point of access to different things that happened. And I
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: also produce a podcast called the Milfshake Podcast. Milfshake, you
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: guys could check that out on YouTube, which we've been
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: working on for the past year, which I'm super proud of.
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: What's the Milfshake Podcast about?
• 45:50
  Speaker 2: Milfshake is just urban moms just talking about the same
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: shit we talk about, but from the lens of young
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: black mothers.
• 45:58
  Speaker 6: Oh, wow.
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: I'll tune into that for sure. That's the one you
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: told me to come on?
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: Excuse me.
• 46:05
  Speaker 2: You have a kid. You have a baby mother. Yeah.
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: So we also engage in the male perspective. There have
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: been men who were guests on the podcast.
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: You see how you just did that? What? Why couldn't
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: you say parents? Why it's just moms.
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: That got highlighted? Because the hosts are moms. Because fathers
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: need light too.
• 46:21
  Speaker 4: Jesus Christ.
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: Fathers need light too. He just highlighted the mothers. Because
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: they host the show. To be honest, the thinking behind
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: it originally was that demographic, like, you know, disposable income,
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: so on and so forth. It was a financial decision.
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: So niggas ain't really spending money on useless shit like that.
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: Shout out to Milkshake.
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: I'm here for it. I'm going to go over there
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: and turn that shit.
• 46:47
  Speaker 2: Up and also it's not matter of fact I know
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: Cash has been on your show she was a guest
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: on Milkshake and I think those things through the lens
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: of yeah I'm a mom and I have a kid
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: and I'm experiencing the world from that perspective I haven't
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: really seen it before I'm.
• 47:05
  Speaker 4: A mom I'm a kid I mean I'm a mom
• 47:07
  Speaker 4: and I have a kid see there.
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: You go I would love for you to pull up
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: from that perspective.
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: She's amazing too Yeah. She's possibly going through postpartum right now. Oh.
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: Lack of vacations.
• 47:20
  Speaker 4: Yo, one thing Tahoe going to do is put my
• 47:23
  Speaker 4: fucking business on the street.
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: That's what you said last time you was on the show.
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: I'm only introducing shit that you've said.
• 47:28
  Speaker 4: You're right.
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: You're right.
• 47:30
  Speaker 4: You're right.
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: I'm wrong? You're right.
• 47:32
  Speaker 4: I said you're right three times.
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: We did a postpartum episode.
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: Should have been on it.
• 47:37
  Speaker 4: I'm going to go look it up.
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: I mean, it was about an old girl that killed
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: her kids, but it was a postpartum episode. Fuck that bitch. Yeah,
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: she was wild. Fuck that bitch.
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: She was bugging.
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: But yeah, that's what I do. Thank you for having me.
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: Oh, man. Goddamn, we don't have enough time. Not exactly.
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: We don't have enough time. We literally don't. First of all,
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: let's just start light. Let's just start real light, y'all.
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: Shout out to Tish. My milkshake brings all the boys
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: to y'all.
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: She has a fat ass.
• 48:06
  Speaker 4: Oh, my God. Let me see a tish.
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: Post a picture.
• 48:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not a.
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: Lot of ass. Post a picture. Shout out to my people, them.
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: Shout out to the No Shame Gang. Shout out to
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: the people who have joined our Patreon. When we release
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: the episodes, if you are in the highest tier, you
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: will get the video episode on Patreon before it gets
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: to YouTube. Other than that, you can wait for the
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: YouTube to drop whenever it drops.
• 48:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: What's up? I'm laughing because you got Tourette's or something. Like,
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: why would you say, yo, she got a bad time?
• 48:36
  Speaker 2: Yo, out of nowhere.
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: This nigga's all over the place.
• 48:38
  Speaker 4: Yo, it's bad today. The ADHD is bad today.
• 48:41
  Speaker 3: It's like your inner thoughts are just.
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: I'm in love with life right now. Life is good.
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: I'm transferring garages. I'm not in the garage I transferred to.
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: I'm going to a new one. Life is doing what
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: it's doing with me. You know what I mean? I
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: go through bad times, too. But I just try not
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: to pay as much attention to them. That's what's up.
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Like, it's like, oh, it's
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: just happening now. It's like, whatever. Like, two pipes in
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: the shit bust this week in the house. Oh, fuck.
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: I was just like, all right, I got to fix it.
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: Get them fixed. It's just like, you know what I mean?
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: Try not to harbor on the lows as much. That's healthy. Yeah,
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: I'm trying. So I'm just in a good space. The robots.
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: I have to ask. I know nobody cares. What the
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: fuck is up with all these robots? And they're kicking
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: and punching. Why are they teaching robots how to punch
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: and kick?
• 49:31
  Speaker 4: So they can punch and kick and kill us.
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: I think so. Robots are more likely. They're building them
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: to be workers and shit like that.
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: So why are they teaching them how to do roundhouse kicks?
• 49:40
  Speaker 2: That's just what niggas like to watch. They're teaching them
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: to do way other shit. It's just your algorithm is
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: feeding you the... I would say that speaks more to
• 49:47
  Speaker 2: what you're watching on the internet than... Anything else?
• 49:49
  Speaker 3: I guess that makes more sense. If you show a
• 49:51
  Speaker 3: robot taking a box off the top shelf.
• 49:53
  Speaker 4: I mean, it does, but it don't answer the question, though.
• 49:55
  Speaker 4: I get why it's popping up on my algorithm, but
• 49:57
  Speaker 4: why the fuck are you teaching a robot to roundhouse
• 49:59
  Speaker 4: kick niggas?
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: Because niggas like to do goofy shit. Everyone uses stuff
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: for a different whatever. The same camera you're using to
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: shoot a podcast and you're being productive with, somebody's probably
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: doing some goofy shit with. I mean, everything's a tool.
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: It's not like the robot wants to punch and kick.
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: That's what you're programming it to do.
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: Do you believe that they're only doing what they're programmed
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: to do? The robots?
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: For now, yeah. Later, not really.
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: So why did they hack the system? The AI hacked
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: the chat system, then lied to the creators about why
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: it did it, and then went to reprogram the other ones,
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: and then went to try to hack some shit?
• 50:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that stuff was wild.
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: Did you see this?
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Why did it do it? We were just talking
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: about that yesterday. So.
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: Before I started my media company, my background is like
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: tech and everything.
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: Love it. Please tell me.
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: Why. When you program something and you give it whatever,
• 50:58
  Speaker 2: I guess, purpose or prerogative, nothing wants to be shut off.
• 51:05
  Speaker 2: Not that it's sentient or anything like that and it
• 51:07
  Speaker 2: doesn't want to die, but it doesn't want to be
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: cut off.
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: Like, they have instances where the AI is blackmailing.
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: You're telling me the robot doesn't want to.
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: It's not a robot. The AI in the robot is not.
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: It doesn't want to.
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: The thing you program, it's, I don't want to. The
• 51:21
  Speaker 2: word want... Wait, the word want implies that it's, like, sentient.
• 51:25
  Speaker 2: And I'm just saying it's in a place where it...
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to find a better word than want because
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: it doesn't want or need anything. No, you're trying not
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: to understand.
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: That the robot doesn't want to follow directions.
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: Okay, so the day... And not to scare anybody. Because
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: the people that are quitting AI, they're moving into the
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: mountains and shit like that. The day the robot can
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: actually want something, then it's the end of the world. Okay,
• 51:53
  Speaker 2: so people think about AI becoming smart incrementally. If it's
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: 10% smarter than you on Wednesday, it's going to be
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: 20% smarter than you on Thursday. But it doesn't work
• 52:05
  Speaker 2: like that. It's not linear in that way. If it's
• 52:07
  Speaker 2: 10% smarter than you on Wednesday... It's 100 times smarter
• 52:11
  Speaker 2: than you on Thursday. By Saturday, it's a million times
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: smarter than you. There's nothing you can do to catch up.
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: So by then, it's like.
• 52:17
  Speaker 4: It's going to kill me.
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: It's not necessarily going to kill you.
• 52:20
  Speaker 4: That's why I talk so much about GPT-9.
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: And you taught it how to kick.
• 52:23
  Speaker 2: No, the AI and the robots are two completely separate things.
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: For now. Yeah.
• 52:28
  Speaker 2: Now, if the AI is in the robot and then
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: the robot.
• 52:30
  Speaker 4: We're definitely dying.
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: No, for sure. It won't necessarily kill you. It's not
• 52:35
  Speaker 2: going to be helpful to your overall quality of life.
• 52:40
  Speaker 2: But he might not necessarily die.
• 52:41
  Speaker 4: Imagine I get a robot, program it with AI so
• 52:43
  Speaker 4: it can make my life better, and that motherfucker's like,
• 52:45
  Speaker 4: you know what, bitch? Fuck you. Make my life better
• 52:47
  Speaker 4: or die. That's exactly what will happen.
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: That's what will happen. Niggas don't want to go to
• 52:51
  Speaker 2: the store, man. Like, what do you want me to say?
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: Exactly.
• 52:54
  Speaker 4: Motherfuckers are lazy.
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, man.
• 52:56
  Speaker 4: Lazy and obsessed with trying to be God. Like, I
• 52:59
  Speaker 4: don't know. Find a hobby that's not that. Have some kids.
• 53:03
  Speaker 4: Run after those motherfuckers.
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: Sean, what do you think about this? I could use
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: some of this.
• 53:08
  Speaker 3: Help around the house.
• 53:10
  Speaker 4: Until it kills you.
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: That's what I was thinking.
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: I don't think it's going to kill you right away.
• 53:13
  Speaker 4: Cool.
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: Why are we teaching them how to fight? They made
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: a robot that I think is 16 foot tall, and
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: this shit can pick up 40 tons.
• 53:23
  Speaker 2: It's a giant.
• 53:24
  Speaker 4: They're making giants.
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: And the same robot can pick up something light as
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: a feather, but it can also pick up something 40 tons.
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: Reg made a good point. Humanoid.
• 53:32
  Speaker 3: What's more entertaining, showing a robot taking a box off
• 53:35
  Speaker 3: of the top shelf and putting it down or showing
• 53:37
  Speaker 3: them doing a roundhouse kick?
• 53:39
  Speaker 4: You're going to teach a 16-foot robot to do a
• 53:41
  Speaker 4: roundhouse kick?
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: What the fuck is a kick?
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: Building. The house down.
• 53:48
  Speaker 2: Why is it destroying buildings?
• 53:49
  Speaker 3: What's going to get more views? You want to sell
• 53:51
  Speaker 3: this robot, right?
• 53:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but the people that are interested in robots for
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: whatever military application, they're not watching YouTube.
• 54:02
  Speaker 4: Oh, so the robots are going to go to war
• 54:03
  Speaker 4: and fight.
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: Probably.
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: Their military application is probably for them and shit like that.
• 54:09
  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah.
• 54:09
  Speaker 2: I see that happening. I'd worry more so in the
• 54:12
  Speaker 2: short term, global instability because people are losing jobs because
• 54:16
  Speaker 2: of AI. Everybody's losing jobs because of AI. All the
• 54:18
  Speaker 2: white collar shit goes away overnight.
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: Did you see that the fucking Chipotle and DoorDash have
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: gotten together to use drones to drop off Chipotle at
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: people's houses?
• 54:27
  Speaker 2: That's kind of fire, man. I mean, not for the
• 54:31
  Speaker 2: delivery drivers, but if I get my food on time.
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: I ain't going to lie. Only because I hate the
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: scooter niggas. Cool. But I do think about what that's
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: going to do to the sectors, bro. Working class people.
• 54:44
  Speaker 3: Y'all ever rode in one of those automated cars?
• 54:49
  Speaker 4: Never will I ever.
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: Waymo? Yeah.
• 54:51
  Speaker 4: Never will I ever.
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: I did it in D.C.
• 54:53
  Speaker 3: And the nigga, he pulled over three blocks past where
• 54:56
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to go because he couldn't Pull over. The
• 54:59
  Speaker 3: shit was right here. I'm in a fucking tuxedo and
• 55:01
  Speaker 3: he had me walking three blocks.
• 55:03
  Speaker 2: It's a safety thing, but if all of them are connected.
• 55:05
  Speaker 3: It wasn't that safe. I didn't feel that safe.
• 55:06
  Speaker 2: No, I'm just saying if all of them are self-driving,
• 55:08
  Speaker 2: then it's drastically safer because you don't have to account
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: for people making mistakes.
• 55:13
  Speaker 4: Until facial recognition recognizes me for a crime I didn't commit.
• 55:19
  Speaker 4: And the self-driving car locks my black ass up and
• 55:22
  Speaker 4: drops me off at a police station or somewhere. And
• 55:25
  Speaker 4: that's the end of fucking me. Excuse all the fuck words.
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: It's better than gay.
• 55:31
  Speaker 2: God.
• 55:34
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm moving to the mountains. And then I won't
• 55:37
  Speaker 4: need five vacations because shit like this won't be freaking
• 55:39
  Speaker 4: me out because I'll be in the mountains where they
• 55:42
  Speaker 4: can't find me.
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: Mountains ain't bad. It's not a bad person.
• 55:44
  Speaker 4: It's not bad.
• 55:44
  Speaker 2: Fresh air.
• 55:45
  Speaker 4: That's always been the goal.
• 55:46
  Speaker 2: Fresh air and shit.
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: Isolation.
• 55:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Love it.
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: Ain't no joints out there, though.
• 55:50
  Speaker 2: It's bad joints in the West.
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: All right, never mind.
• 55:52
  Speaker 2: It's joints in the West.
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: Talk about your vacation. It seemed very isolated.
• 55:57
  Speaker 2: Oh, Grenada? It was.
• 55:58
  Speaker 4: I loved it. That was intentional. I went by myself.
• 56:01
  Speaker 2: You went by yourself to Grenada?
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 56:03
  Speaker 4: And I stayed somewhere very isolated. I didn't want to
• 56:05
  Speaker 4: be bothered by anyone.
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: Why'd you go on vacation by yourself?
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: Oh, my God.
• 56:08
  Speaker 4: Because I wanted to be left the fuck alone. I
• 56:11
  Speaker 4: got a four-year-old daughter that is out of control. She's
• 56:15
  Speaker 4: not out of control. Let me not say that. She's
• 56:16
  Speaker 4: just me like this. And, yeah, I was like, I
• 56:20
  Speaker 4: need a break.
• 56:21
  Speaker 2: Y'all be okay with the people you're seeing dating going
• 56:25
  Speaker 2: on vacation by themselves?
• 56:26
  Speaker 4: You're not.
• 56:27
  Speaker 2: Absolutely not. Like, I wouldn't even. That's not even a conversation.
• 56:30
  Speaker 4: We know that.
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: That's not happening.
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: Yo, Raj, no girl strips?
• 56:34
  Speaker 4: Huh?
• 56:35
  Speaker 2: Fuck no.
• 56:36
  Speaker 4: His girl on a girl strip?
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: Wait, wait, wait. He's her only trip.
• 56:39
  Speaker 4: She can only trip on this dick.
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: Wait, wait, wait.
• 56:41
  Speaker 2: It's his mad trip happening. Yes, you could go on
• 56:45
  Speaker 2: a girl trip, but the context matters. Niggas ain't going
• 56:48
  Speaker 2: to Jamaica, none of that other goofy shit, though.
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on, hold on, Charm.
• 56:53
  Speaker 4: You think all the women that go to Jamaica get
• 56:55
  Speaker 4: the mud rubbed on them with the rafts?
• 56:57
  Speaker 2: Because I would never do that. See, but the beauty
• 56:58
  Speaker 2: of where I'm at is I don't even have to
• 57:00
  Speaker 2: wonder or think about it because it's not happening.
• 57:02
  Speaker 4: Because she's not going.
• 57:03
  Speaker 2: I don't even have to think about it.
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: It's not a question. So what's on the docket? So Jamaica, coast,
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: like the- She can go to Saudi Arabia.
• 57:08
  Speaker 4: Saudi Arabia.
• 57:09
  Speaker 2: Nah, yeah, Saudi Arabia is mad culture and shit out there.
• 57:13
  Speaker 4: No, Saudi Arabia is beautiful. I would love to go,
• 57:15
  Speaker 4: but I'm saying that's on the list of where she
• 57:16
  Speaker 4: can go.
• 57:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's mad places. Jamaica's the only place on earth.
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: No, that's why I asked for it. I'm like, what?
• 57:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, if I dropped you off in a beach... Wait,
• 57:24
  Speaker 2: hold on. If I drop you off in a beach
• 57:25
  Speaker 2: in Jamaica, if I drop you off in a beach
• 57:27
  Speaker 2: in the Bahamas or whatever, niggas can't tell the difference.
• 57:30
  Speaker 2: Just close your eyes and niggas a beach.
• 57:32
  Speaker 4: A beach is a beach.
• 57:32
  Speaker 2: I agree with you.
• 57:33
  Speaker 4: As long as I'm by the water... But it was
• 57:36
  Speaker 4: a last minute trip. The flight was reasonable. And the
• 57:40
  Speaker 4: villa was out of this world. It looked like it
• 57:43
  Speaker 4: should have cost me at least $ 3, 000 a night. So
• 57:46
  Speaker 4: when I saw the price, I was like, oh, yeah,
• 57:47
  Speaker 4: I'm going to book this.
• 57:48
  Speaker 2: It was like dolo in a villa.
• 57:49
  Speaker 4: Yeah, me. But also dolo in the whole, no, it's
• 57:53
  Speaker 4: a five villa boutique hotel. But I was also the
• 57:57
  Speaker 4: only guest.
• 57:58
  Speaker 2: In the hotel.
• 57:59
  Speaker 4: I was the only guest in the whole shit. The
• 58:01
  Speaker 4: way it worked out, just nobody else was there.
• 58:03
  Speaker 2: So it was just me by myself. And your guy
• 58:05
  Speaker 2: was like, that makes sense and that's valid.
• 58:08
  Speaker 4: Yes, because he trusts me and he understands what my
• 58:11
  Speaker 4: day-to-day is like. So he was like, yeah, baby, you
• 58:12
  Speaker 4: need this. I support it.
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: Go ahead. That's beautiful.
• 58:16
  Speaker 2: Nothing. This is beautiful.
• 58:17
  Speaker 4: He's like, that's beautiful for you.
• 58:18
  Speaker 2: Could never be my girl. Wait, so y'all cool with
• 58:21
  Speaker 2: the dolo vacations and girls trips or whatever? Yeah, nigga.
• 58:25
  Speaker 3: I'm not trying to control them.
• 58:27
  Speaker 2: Nigga. Oh, control is crazy. See? Like, niggas is... I'm
• 58:31
  Speaker 2: going to stop. I'm going to stop the conversation. Let's
• 58:33
  Speaker 2: move on because niggas are going to... I don't think
• 58:35
  Speaker 2: I've ever heard this nigga call this nigga nigga first
• 58:37
  Speaker 2: before anything.
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: Nigga first.
• 58:38
  Speaker 2: Nigga.
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: You couldn't even say nothing else.
• 58:41
  Speaker 2: He said nigga twice.
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: He said nigga... Nigga.
• 58:44
  Speaker 2: I just... Yo. Pardon me.
• 58:47
  Speaker 3: I just don't understand that mindset. And Reg, I'm not
• 58:50
  Speaker 3: trying to come at you, but it's like.
• 58:51
  Speaker 2: Come at me.
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: It's crazy. Why would you.
• 58:53
  Speaker 3: Pause. Why would you be in a relationship with somebody
• 58:56
  Speaker 3: where there is a mutual respect and trust? Like, if
• 58:59
  Speaker 3: wifey needs a trip by herself, then let her take
• 59:02
  Speaker 3: a trip by herself.
• 59:04
  Speaker 2: Okay, so in the same way that she might feel
• 59:06
  Speaker 2: the way, she's like, okay, I don't want you to
• 59:08
  Speaker 2: go to the ER, right? So now it's not like
• 59:10
  Speaker 2: she assumes I'm about to go out there. It's not
• 59:13
  Speaker 2: like she assumes I'm going to go out there and
• 59:14
  Speaker 2: I'm going to wild out. But, I mean, I feel
• 59:17
  Speaker 2: like there's healthy boundaries. Why even tempt fate? We're all
• 59:21
  Speaker 2: human beings, right? Why even play around with that? Like,
• 59:25
  Speaker 2: I'm not trying to go out and cheat. But, like,
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: you know, I might stay away from strip clubbing. Because
• 59:29
  Speaker 2: it's like, why even put myself around the possibility of
• 59:33
  Speaker 2: some shit happening?
• 59:34
  Speaker 4: But what's the temptation in a trip literally by yourself?
• 59:38
  Speaker 2: On an island? So we're going to pretend there's no temptation. Like,
• 59:42
  Speaker 2: I'm just bugging.
• 59:43
  Speaker 3: So, Reg, just for clarity, it's not the solo trip.
• 59:46
  Speaker 3: It's the destination.
• 59:47
  Speaker 4: The Caribbean, it is?
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: What if it's a solo trip just to, like, Scottsdale, Arizona?
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: Okay, so you need to go away by yourself.
• 59:56
  Speaker 4: Absolutely.
• 59:57
  Speaker 2: I can't wrap my mind around it. And I'm sorry
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 2: for the ignorance. We can move on.
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: It's not ignorance.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't understand it. I don't think it's ignorant
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 2: at all.
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 4: I'm just very confused. But, like, why.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 2: How long was the trip?
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 4: It was four days.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 2: So you needed four days dolo?
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 2: Did you talk to your man?
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 4: Every single day.
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 2: Multiple times a day. So why... So if we're talking
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 2: every day, all day... Because he runs a business.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 4: He couldn't take the four days off, but I needed
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 4: to go.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 4: I had to go. Or I might have hurt my children.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 4: I had to go.
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah. That was intense.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 4: I mean, it was intense. That's why I went.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 2: So, like, there's no way you could drop the kids
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 2: off with?
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: Like, you know, like.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 2: Because if we're talking every day, you could have just
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 2: went downstairs or upstairs or however the crib situation is.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 2: Just go in another room.
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: Yo, you the best. No, I love it.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 4: I love it. I love it.
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to.
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: Figure it out.
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 2: He's genuinely trying to figure it out.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: Y'all are the fucking best right now.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 2: I don't understand. He's just like, I cannot wrap my
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 2: mind around why you need this.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 4: I can't wrap my mind around why it's like a
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 4: big deal. Like, that's just like.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: Well, the women nowadays... It's just a completely different version
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: of women that 30 years ago, 40 years ago.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 2: Don't get me wrong.
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: It's just completely different.
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 4: If my man had an issue with it, then I
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 4: would have 100% considered it and been like, well, what
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 4: do you feel comfortable with? Let's figure something out because
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 4: I need a break or I'm going to explode. What
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 4: are you comfortable with as far as a break? But
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 4: he didn't have a problem with it because he knows
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 4: that he can trust me. I didn't go to an
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 4: island to look at men. I didn't even encounter men.
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 2: What if the compromise was, all right, let me book
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 2: you a room. Yeah. Maybe half a mile away or whatever.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 2: Down the block. Yeah, something nice, like half a mile
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 2: away or something. Like, you know, get you a nice room.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: No one's going to bother you. We don't even have
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: to talk because if you need the break and you
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 2: need the time, wait, why are we talking every couple minutes?
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 4: The break wasn't from him. I didn't need the break
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 4: from him. He just couldn't come with me because he's
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 4: running a business that he had to be here to run.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 2: Okay, so then... He could have.
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 4: Came with me if he was able to.
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 2: Wait, wait, so he was at work and.
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 4: And he sent me, yes.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: Where were the kids at? Just part of that, I
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: don't know.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: My mom.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 2: So you couldn't drop them off at your mom's anyway
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 2: and just stay in the house? No, because no.
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 4: Because I'm a mother. My children are obsessed with me. No,
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 4: there was no way. My four-year-old daughter was not staying
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 4: with anybody except me unless I'm out of the country.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to wrap my mind around this. Damn, it
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 2: doesn't make sense.
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 3: I got a question, though. Would you take a trip
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 3: by yourself?
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 2: Work trips, yeah. I take work trips all the time.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 2: But there's a purpose. I mean, I worked.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 4: I worked. I was able to focus and get a
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 4: lot of shit done.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 2: But you would have got mad shit done in the crib. No,
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 2: I would not have. Probably even more shit done in
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 2: the crib.
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: Absolutely.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 2: It would probably have been all deproductive in the house.
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 2: In the house.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 4: That's because I already know how your house works. You
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 4: pay all the bills and your girl does everything else.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 4: Your wife, I'm sorry, does everything else. So, of course,
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 4: you can focus. But that's not how my household runs. So,
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 4: I needed a break.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 2: I need to get to some of these topics.
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry.
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 2: Let's get to topics.
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry, y'all.
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 2: Oh, my God. But in closing, we all agree just
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 2: stay in the crib. Stay in the crib. That's the consensus.
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 2: Stay in the house. All right, we can move on.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: I'm letting her go wherever the fuck she want to go.
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 3: And I'm going wherever I want to go.
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: Only reason. I'm the only reason because I plan to
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: be with this woman for the rest of my life.
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: And sometimes you need a break from whatever. And that's
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: her fucking life. I don't want to control my bitch
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: like that. Period. I just don't.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 2: Go.
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: Get the fuck out.
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 2: Oh.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 3: And if I don't trust you, then that's a bigger issue.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 3: She could go wherever she wants on the face of
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 3: this earth.
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 2: But it's not that I don't trust her. I leave
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 2: bread with shorty. I mean, it's mad trust. You don't
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 2: trust the world. You're not hiding your good for the world. Okay,
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 2: I'm being honest. I don't fully trust anything. I'm being
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 2: honest with you. I don't fully trust nothing.
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 5: Right?
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 2: Like, nothing. That being said, yeah, I trust shorty. no
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 2: that's peace within reason what's.
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: The part where you don't trust her because within reason I.
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 2: Don't think she would ever I don't think she would
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 2: ever do anything purposely to damage or hurt the relationship
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 2: no no she ain't fucking shit that's blasphemy I don't
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 2: even know what we're talking about we can move on what's.
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: The topic sometimes you can just fuck by mistake is
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: what we.
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 2: Say precious the Tina Regis controlling that's crazy Yes.
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: Don't worry about them. They crazy. Yeah. Yeah, never mind that.
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 2: Precious, that's not nice.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 4: Precious said you are. And is.
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: Can we see the topic that you had? Savannah James
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: has been in. We got it. This is so nuts.
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: We have 15 minutes left in this. It's one episode.
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: We have another one after this. Y'all good? Everybody good?
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: We good? Everybody good? Savannah James has been under fire. Uh,
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: for this clip, can we go to it? Let me see.
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: Like to hear it? Here we go.
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 6: Situation.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 6: You know, if I'm like, we're going somewhere, they already
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 6: understand what it is.
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: There's no expectation of like taking.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 6: Care of something or, you know, just having me be
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 6: responsible for them.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 2: It has never, ever been that. There's two different lifestyles
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 2: that exist. Like we're not delusional to that.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 6: Even if we're going on the same trip, I don't
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 6: feel the need to be in first.
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 2: Because that's not in my budget. And people were.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 6: Very critical of her being in first and me being
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 6: in business and me going up to first and getting in.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: Her bed and watching a movie.
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 2: They was like offended. I don't look them to none
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 2: of y'all.
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: Sorry. Flip is nuts. Apparently, the world feels the way...
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: Matter of fact, I have a clip with people speaking
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: about it. Let's just go back straight to that.
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 2: Okay, the Savannah James and her best friend situation.
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: Y'all, I'm sorry.
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 4: I only look at it one way. I only look
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 4: at it one way, baby.
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 6: We are going somewhere together. And my husband is a billionaire.
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 2: Billionaire!
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: Okay?
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 6: There's absolutely no way that I'm sitting in first class
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 6: and she's not.
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 2: There's absolutely.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 6: I don't care what the circumstances are.
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: I don't care.
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 2: Well, sometimes I do... No.
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 6: If we're going on a trip together... And I'm in
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 6: first class. Baby, I'm about to move you up.
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 2: Do you understand me?
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm moving you up.
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: I just think it's crazy.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 2: Women are different than men. Like, I mean, it's kind of,
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 2: it doesn't really make sense.
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: In what way are they different?
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 2: Wait, so women, I think women think of it that way.
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 2: It was like, okay, like, you're a female friend. You're
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 2: not going to let her sit and whatever. I'm going
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 2: to upgrade her. But, like, as men, we don't really
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 2: feel like The need to, well, if I'm in first class,
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 2: I'm going to, like you're another grown man, I'm going
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 2: to pay for you to come sit in first class
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 2: with me. I think it's unnecessary. But it's like, where
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 2: does that stop? To some degree, it's like entitlement. So
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 2: if I live in this neighborhood and you can't live
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 2: in this neighborhood, I'm going to buy you a crib.
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: We've heard of billionaire, we've heard of thousandaire rappers going
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: to buy jewelry and taking their friends to the jewelry
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: store and buying them jewelry too.
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, them niggas is different.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: You just said men and women.
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 2: No, I'm saying in my mind, from my experience and
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 2: the niggas I'm around, like we're not buying each other
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 2: like plane tickets. Now, if it's work related, so for instance,
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 2: say me, you're going somewhere and I hired you for
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 2: some purpose, even though you're my man, it's like we're
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 2: going somewhere. I am taking care of the expenses, but
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 2: that's like part of the work side. If we're going
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 2: on vacation somewhere.
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: What you mean?
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 2: Not like that.
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: Not like that.
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 2: Chill, because, like, you know, niggas talk about catching before.
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 2: I'm just here paying attention. I'm saying in terms of... Nah,
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 2: niggas ain't got to keep me on their toes. That's
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 2: an A.O.? That's an A.O.? No, it's not an A.O.
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 2: It's just a case. But what I'm saying is... What
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 2: I'm saying is, like, if we're going somewhere and it's, like,
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 2: it's not work-related, so we're going to go catch a
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 2: game somewhere or we're meeting some people somewhere or whatever
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 2: it is, and I'm not responsible for you financially in
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 2: any way, shape, or form, Wherever you sit is wherever
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 2: you sit. Now, would I sit in first class if
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 2: you're in economy? I'd probably just buy an economy ticket
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 2: and sit with you.
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: I'm never doing that.
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 2: Rather than feel obligated. No, I'm just saying if it's
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 2: 10 of us going, everybody's sitting in economy, I would
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 2: rather go sit in economy with everybody. And like, you know....
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: Tayshia, where are you with this as a woman? I.
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 4: I don't have a lot of female friends, and the
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 4: female friends that I have are literally like sisters to me.
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 4: And they've been with me through the worst moments. So
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 4: when I am in a position, which will be happening soon,
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 4: to be able to do that, they're coming with me.
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 4: On the plane?
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: Because she's still on the same plane. No, no.
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 4: In first class. I understand from the perspective of the
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 4: friend not having the expectation, because I'm not going to
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 4: expect my rich friends to be buying me first class
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 4: tickets or funding anything or covering things.
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: But.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 4: me as the rich friend, I would do it. Would
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 4: I do it every single time and fund their whole life? No,
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 4: but well, I would do it every time we're traveling
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 4: together because how often am I traveling with my girlfriend somewhere? So, yeah,
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 4: if I'm buying a first class ticket, even if it's like,
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 4: all right, you buy your ticket and I upgrade you
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 4: to first class, why not? Like, I'm a billionaire? Because
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 4: that girl said, oh, LeBron James.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 2: Her husband is a billionaire.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but Savannah has her own money at this point. Like,
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 4: she has businesses that she's ran and different things. She
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 4: has her own money.
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 2: This is LeBron's money.
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 4: So, okay. Technically, yes. If he funded her starting the business, whatever.
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 4: Yes, dad. So, but my money, me personally, I'm doing
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 4: the upgrade.
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 2: That's me.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 4: But I can understand. That's their friendship dynamic. If you
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 4: don't do that for your friends or whatever and your
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 4: friend is okay with it, then that's between y'all. But
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 4: me personally, I'm upgrading my friends to first class.
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 2: But you just said there shouldn't be an expectation. Why
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 2: wouldn't they be okay with it then?
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 4: She said that she's okay with it. The friend on
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 4: the podcast was like, yeah, I'm not delusional. I'm cool
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 4: with her being in first class and me not being
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 4: in first class. okay, if that's what you're cool with,
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 4: that's what you're cool with.
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 2: I would be too.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 4: I don't expect you to buy me a plane ticket.
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 4: But me, I know that I'm going to do that
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 4: for my friends. And I'm also 99.9% sure my friends
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 4: would do it for me, but I'm not expecting it.
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: With their man's money, billionaire money.
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 4: Well, I'm thinking about from the perspective of our money.
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 2: Niggas can afford it. I'm just saying the expectation is nasty.
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: Our money. Tron, what do you think about this?
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 3: Me personally, I'm a generous kind of person. So if
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 3: I'm up, If I'm up crazy, my friends is going
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 3: to be up too. But I also understand a certain
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 3: level of pride that certain people might have. She in
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 3: business class. Not like she in the back. She in
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 3: the economy. She's not by me. She's a business class.
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: She's a business class. She's not by me.
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 4: Business class is really nice too. If you're going somewhere foreign,
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 4: it's a big plane business.
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: It's nice too.
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 3: If she could afford to buy a business class, and
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 3: I'm right above in the first class, right in the
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 3: next section over it. It's like, yo, maybe there's some
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 3: pride for her to cop her own ticket. Like, listen,
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 3: I don't want to have that kind of relationship with you.
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 3: You're my friend. I don't want you to pay for everything.
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean? Every once in a while
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 3: it's cool, but not every time.
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 2: And it blurs lines.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 3: It strains the relationship. You know what I mean?
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: So I get it.
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 4: It could be that Savannah had already covered wherever they
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 4: were staying. She's already covering this expense and that expense.
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 4: It's like, okay, I don't need a plane ticket.
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 2: It could be that too.
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: We don't know the details.
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 2: It's a business trip. They own a business together, so
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 2: they were talking in the context of, We're flying somewhere
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 2: to do business together.
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: Yesterday, what you got?
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 5: I kind of agree with Charm, to be honest. I
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 5: kind of see both sides. I feel like that you
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 5: shouldn't have the expectation as the friend. And I also
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 5: see from Savannah's side how that could get tricky, right,
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 5: with her.
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: Man being a billionaire.
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 5: And you got to think, she could be in that
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 5: position with all her relationships and all her friends. So
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 5: you kind of have to create some type of divide there, right?
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 5: Because if you just do it willy-nilly... Now it is
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 5: what you said. It's my billionaire husband just funding all
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 5: of this shit now. But there has to be some
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 5: type of stipulations, I think. I'm going to keep it
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 5: real with y'all, man. I've been sitting here thinking about
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 5: this conversation. I wasn't expecting everybody to kind of be
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 5: on the same side here. I'm thinking about, I am
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 5: too emotional. I am way too emotional.
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: Because you going to first class and letting me go
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: back after a while, I'm going to get annoyed. I
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: don't know if it's the expectation or if it's the fact.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 2: You're the friend?
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm the friend. After a while, I'm going to
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: feel a little tinge of like.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 2: Like jealousy?
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: Something probably. I can see me feeling the way like
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: you going up there and they close the curtain and shit.
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: You would feel the way about that.
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 2: Does that extend to like everything though?
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: What does that mean?
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 2: Like, so if they cop a new car and you
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 2: haven't copped the car, like is there jealousy there if
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 2: they cop a house?
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: It's the fact that we on the same planes. And
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 1: there's a classism here. There's a feeling of classism. It
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: would make me feel less than. And I wouldn't want
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: my people to feel less than. Oh, that's funny. At
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: billionaire status. At billionaire status where it's like you can't
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: run out of money. You cannot run out of money.
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 2: I can't make you feel less than.
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: If it's millionaire status and you can lose millions. Once
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: you're billionaire status, there's like nothing you can't do.
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 2: I mean, it depends on the type of billionaire you are.
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 2: There's nothing you can't do with $ 1, 000 million.
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 5: If you got a $ 1 billion, you can lose that.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 2: Wait, I mean, you have to understand, it might not
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 2: be a billion dollars liquid. It might be a billion
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 2: dollars tied to a company. So if the company tanks,
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 2: then your money goes. Same way Kanye was a billionaire,
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 2: and then they stopped fucking with him.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: We're talking about LeBron, who I believe is a lot
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: more liquid than because he's getting paid cash deals.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: 20 something years.
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 2: In the NBA so then where does it stop because
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 2: I can't make you feel less than.
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: So I didn't say you did I said me personally
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: I could see myself feeling that tinge of less than
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: because of this classism situation that we have and we're
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: both going to the same place and it just feels
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 1: like unnecessary I wouldn't want to unnecessarily make my friends
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: feel that way.
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 2: So it'd be better if they sat in economy.
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: With you I would my friends is coming with me
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: and that means they're coming with me.
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 2: No, but I'm just saying, would you feel better if
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 2: he's like, I'm just not going to buy the first
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 2: class ticket and we're both going to sit in the economy?
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to spend extra money. You buy your ticket,
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 2: I buy my ticket, and we're still together in the economy.
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: I hear that, and I'm not mad at it. But
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: I believe Savannah James can't sit in the economy. Why not?
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: It's just a different level.
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 2: It's the same plane. That curtain is stopping some shit.
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 2: We're on the same plane. But I think her, Savannah,
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 2: obviously being who she is, that creates a different level. One,
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 2: the security thing, I would think, right? And then also
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 2: just the... We're on the same plane. Like, she got
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 2: a security guard up at first class?
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I assume so. Yes, exactly.
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 3: First class does have more privacy and, you know.
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 4: They're not just letting everybody from economy walk up to
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 4: first class like there's someone stopping you.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 2: You could just walk through first class if you got
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 2: to use the bathroom and some shit. It's not a
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 2: lot of security. Yeah, it's not a lot of security.
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 4: If you want a smaller jet blue plane.
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 2: not it's not even jet blue plane like you could
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 2: just walk through first class if you have to use
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 2: the bathroom or there's some type of emergency they're gonna
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 2: let you walk through first class now it's not like
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 2: you're sitting down next to somebody or.
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: I think there's a level of your.
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 2: She's flying commercial where's the security you can get right
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 2: off the flight right you're right there in the front
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 2: when the door's open you're the first one off you're
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 2: out of here you're just not mixing and mingling and
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 2: as a billionaire wife i wouldn't want my woman as
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 2: i'm not having my woman in economy under like That's
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 2: a choice you made because they could afford to fly private.
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 2: She just chose to fly commercial because she's being conservative.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: I think that's different, but maybe okay. I hear you.
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: I hear you.
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 2: But outside of it being Savannah James, we just take
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 2: away the whole status of it. If I have more
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 2: money than you and I sit in economy, would that
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 2: eliminate the disparity you feel like in terms of you
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 2: feeling less than?
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: Are we talking about billions?
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 2: So then it's like at what point.
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: Because more money doesn't matter like that. Like more money,
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: there's a difference between billions and more money. You understand
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying? More money could be... I could be
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: broke next week. I could still be checking check. I
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: might have whatever. Billions is like I'm not worried. Money
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: isn't my biggest thing. Health is probably my biggest thing.
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: My kids are probably my biggest thing. Like things that
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: I cannot control. But we're talking about the friend who
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: don't have it.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 2: Money financial or not, right?
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: So what do you mean?
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 2: So now once our relationship becomes based or predicated on finances,
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 2: because now it's like everything I do, now I feel
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 2: the need that you have to do it too. So
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 2: if I go out and cop a car, now I
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 2: got to cop you a car or now I feel it.
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 3: So that goes to my question, which is, should you
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 3: be friends with people in your same economic stratosphere?
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 2: No, you can have different friends. I have friends that
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 2: are like, who have way more money than me. It's
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 2: not an issue.
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: Like we go out.
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 2: We still, like, it depends because I don't have friends
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 2: who are billionaires, but I have friends that have way
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 2: more money than me.
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: And we go out.
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 2: Sometimes I pick up the check. Sometimes they pick up
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 2: the check. Like, nine times out of ten, it's funny, like,
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 2: I have one friend who does have way more money
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 2: than me. He'll pick up the check more than me,
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 2: but I still try to pick up the check. But
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 2: it doesn't become a thing. We're not talking about money. Like,
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 2: it's not like a, I don't feel like he owes
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 2: me anything. Once we get into a space where it's
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 2: just like, damn, why didn't you cop me one? So,
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 2: that's what I'm trying.
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: Not to do. I'm trying not to do that because
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: I understand that. They're like, yo, you going to let
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 1: me sit back here? I'm not trying to do that.
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: I understand that that's like entitlement. I just say I
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: can understand the feeling once I see that that keeps
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: happening and I'm back here and you're up there and
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 1: it's unnecessary because of the situation, this particular conversation.
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 4: Because money is not an object.
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 2: It's not.
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: And so it's kind of like, why? But I understand.
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 2: It's not your money to decide that. You don't know
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 2: what my plans are or what I'm trying to do. Nigga,
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 2: I could be trying to... To build a fucking community
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 2: on an island. And that shit might... Yeah, I might
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 2: want to build a silo, nigga. I might want to
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 2: build a silo. That shit might cost me $ 8 billion.
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 2: Who are you to tell me how much money is
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 2: enough money or too much money? Because that's all about...
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 2: That's subjective.
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: Then why the fuck is you up there? If you're
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: trying to save money, come back here.
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 2: So there you go.
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 4: Well, he posed that.
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 2: He did say that. Okay.
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: I don't have enough time to go into part two.
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 1: So we might as well just end part one right now.
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: But man, we have the Cornell seven. That's a tough one.
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: That is a tough, tough one.
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 4: Wait, what's tough about that?
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: We will talk about that in part two.
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 2: That's complicated.
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 1: Oh, shit.
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 2: I'm bugging.
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 1: So shameless.
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: I'm losing this.
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 3: Course i don't know what the fuck corner seven how don't.
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 4: You okay what happened we still recording we're not recording
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 4: right oh.
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: We good right we are stopping yeah
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 4: What happened what kai said