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Abby's mom is bring her a date to her brother's wedding?! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's Best Music is.
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  Speaker 2: Nine and welcome to another episode of Scotty and Abby Unfiltered.
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  Speaker 2: I'm excited to get the update from you, Abby on this,
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  Speaker 2: especially the wedding stuff that's coming up. But I was
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  Speaker 2: curious all morning because on the podcast yesterday I talked
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  Speaker 2: about the risk I was ready to take. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it's been talking about this stupid hair situation for way
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  Speaker 2: too long. I get it if you're tired of it.
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  Speaker 2: But now we have video proof of this. So I
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  Speaker 2: decided yesterday I'm just gonna go back to my same
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  Speaker 2: hair person that was cutting it short. I'm gonna give
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  Speaker 2: them the benefit of the doubt, and I'm gonna bring
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  Speaker 2: my idea because I thought to myself, I'm going to
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  Speaker 2: a place that's like a salon. She cuts beautiful women's
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  Speaker 2: hair all day every day. I'm like, maybe the one
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  Speaker 2: of like a few dudes that she sees. So I said,
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  Speaker 2: I got a wedding coming up. Let me go ahead
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  Speaker 2: and get in there and get cut up and share
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  Speaker 2: my idea. So first off, all morning, I'm like, did
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  Speaker 2: I haven't even notice the cleanup job I got? Let
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  Speaker 2: me go ahead and take off my headphone. So I
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  Speaker 2: could tell you everything that went down. So obviously it's
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  Speaker 2: cleaned up. Check out the ears.
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  Speaker 1: I can tell it's a little bit shorter, you know.
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  Speaker 3: Just a little bit in the back of my head.
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  Speaker 3: Nice yep. So I had to do.
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  Speaker 2: Some research before I got this cut because I needed
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  Speaker 2: to know how I was gonna go in and have
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  Speaker 2: this conversation.
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  Speaker 3: So what I did is I went on Chat TBT, of.
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  Speaker 2: Course, and I want to show you what Chat things
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  Speaker 2: I could look like if I commit fully to this.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm gonna tell you how long it's gonna take
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  Speaker 2: to commit, which that's the part of me that's kind
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  Speaker 2: of worrisome. But I got on Chat and I'm like, Chat,
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  Speaker 2: here's a picture in my face. Here's what my hair
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  Speaker 2: looks like. Could you give me a realistic look of
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  Speaker 2: what I will look like if I decided to commit
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  Speaker 2: to my hair and the picture.
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  Speaker 3: That came up. I mean, I'm just saying, brace yourself, Tampa.
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  Speaker 2: Bay, better watch out, because your boy's gonna look spicy.
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  Speaker 3: That's what Chat things I could look like.
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  Speaker 1: Right, Why doesn't look like a mug shot? I mean,
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  Speaker 1: show the camera shows.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, let's see there it is. We got cameras now, well, what.
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  Speaker 1: Crime do we think this man has committed?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, but that guy looks I had to make sure
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  Speaker 2: I wasn't smiling and goofy. I wanted to see, like
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  Speaker 2: what I would look like if I just let the
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  Speaker 2: flow go all the way. I felt so dorky, though,
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  Speaker 2: because I showed my haircut person this and she's like,
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  Speaker 2: got it, Okay, you can put your chatchy bet away.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, She's like, you could have just said hockey hair.
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  Speaker 4: I would have understood perfectly.
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  Speaker 2: But I sent it to my lady and she was like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: my Lord, have mercy. And I was like, well, now
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  Speaker 2: I got a decision to make. So I send my
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  Speaker 2: hair person that picture and she gives me the hard
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  Speaker 2: truth that I don't know if I was truly ready
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  Speaker 2: to accept, because on chat, chat gives you an idea
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  Speaker 2: that it's going to take.
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  Speaker 3: Time to achieve. Chat says three to five months.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, that's not that bad.
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  Speaker 3: I'll be around my birthday. That'd be kind of nice.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, hit my thirtieth looking like a hockey player. I
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  Speaker 2: talked to my haircut person. She's like, well, you're gonna
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  Speaker 2: have to just at the end of the day be
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  Speaker 2: patient because this is going to take a year a
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  Speaker 2: year to get to that kind of flow, like that
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  Speaker 2: guy in the picture has that imaginary dude and all
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  Speaker 2: that length that he has in his hair.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, an entire year.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's probably pretty accurate.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, so for context, like, my hair has been
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  Speaker 4: the same length my entire life, Like it doesn't matter
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  Speaker 4: what I do, it's always going to be like right
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  Speaker 4: above the boob. I don't know if it's just because
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  Speaker 4: of where like you fall asleep, if you get breakage
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  Speaker 4: or whatever. But I had somebody send me a DM
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  Speaker 4: They were like, well, why don't you cut your hair?
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm not taking the risk of cutting my
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  Speaker 4: hair and then spending the rest of my life just
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  Speaker 4: trying to get it back to this length.
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  Speaker 2: I mean that's what she said. She said on average,
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  Speaker 2: and she sees this all the time. You grow about
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  Speaker 2: six inches a year about yeah, And that's what they
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  Speaker 2: would take to get to that kind of.
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  Speaker 1: You guys are like, well that's a lot.
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  Speaker 3: Right, that's a lot of length.
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  Speaker 2: Well that's why I sat there in the chair and
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  Speaker 2: I was like, am I ready to commit? And as
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  Speaker 2: I got cleaned up and my ears cut out, I
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  Speaker 2: was like, you know what, I'm in one full year
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  Speaker 2: of letting it grow, cleaning it up here and there
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  Speaker 2: to kind of make sure that it stays shaped.
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  Speaker 3: But in one year, I mean, we're looking at June
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  Speaker 3: of twenty twenty seven. That's insane. I might be I'm
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  Speaker 3: gonna be thirty years old.
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  Speaker 2: Who knows what's gonna be happening in that life, But
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  Speaker 2: I guess it's the time to finally see if I
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  Speaker 2: could get that hair flow.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I mean, the time's gonna pass anyway.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm gonna look what's tough. And she told
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  Speaker 2: me this is You're gonna look rough for a little bit. Well,
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  Speaker 2: you're gonna grow. It's gonna grow, she said, sideways first
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  Speaker 2: before it comes down. And I thought, Lord, have mercy,
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna look like Bozo the Clown.
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  Speaker 4: Well, here's the good thing. You're already in a relationship.
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  Speaker 4: Homegirl knows what you're working towards. So whenever she's like,
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  Speaker 4: oh my god, he looks horrible, you can just show
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  Speaker 4: her the inspo pick so she can be like, Okay,
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  Speaker 4: this is this is.
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  Speaker 1: What we're in for.
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  Speaker 4: I know.
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  Speaker 2: And that's what I was thinking as I was telling her,
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I just you know, we're still in
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  Speaker 2: the early part of the relationship where I'm like, man,
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  Speaker 2: I don't want you to thinking I'm ugly yet, like.
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  Speaker 3: I could be ugly and maybe like a little bit,
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  Speaker 3: but not now.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, well I can relate to this because I mean,
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  Speaker 4: when you get a nose job, that's what they tell
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  Speaker 4: you is it's gonna take you a year to look normal,
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  Speaker 4: And honestly, as somebody who's gotten one, I could say,
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  Speaker 4: I feel like it takes even longer than a year.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 4: And so but what I will say is what keeps
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  Speaker 4: you in that sane state when you see a photo
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  Speaker 4: of yourself and you're like, why does my nose look
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  Speaker 4: like a hot dog right now? Is your surgeon will
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  Speaker 4: take a postop photo, so so he'll say this is
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  Speaker 4: what it will look.
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  Speaker 1: Like when all the swelling's gone.
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  Speaker 4: And so it's just like you have to hang on
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  Speaker 4: to like what you're going after, what you know you're
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  Speaker 4: going to get at the end of this year. So
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  Speaker 4: if you want the long hockey hair, the time's gonna
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  Speaker 4: pass anyway, you might as well commit.
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  Speaker 3: To the bit is there things that could help?
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  Speaker 2: Because I know there are vitamins and different things that
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  Speaker 2: especially women use for their.
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  Speaker 3: Hair for growth.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if those things are scams or just
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  Speaker 2: a bunch of baloney.
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  Speaker 3: But now I'm like, would it help? Would's speeded up?
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  Speaker 3: Could I get it from a year to nine months?
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  Speaker 4: Well? I think I think a lot of it is
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  Speaker 4: snake oil, But I will say my brother's fiance is
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  Speaker 4: taking something called neutrofoil, and she says that she she
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  Speaker 4: says that she thinks that it works. So I mean
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  Speaker 4: you can try it. I mean, at the very least,
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  Speaker 4: like you're gonna get some more vitamins in.
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  Speaker 3: You know what valid If anything, it's not gonna hurt
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  Speaker 3: the body right now?
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  Speaker 1: Do you want to sit down?
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  Speaker 3: Oh? Well, let's see because we're doing the whole camera
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  Speaker 3: thing now. So I got to see all the cameras. Look.
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  Speaker 4: When I was about to say, IM like, I just
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  Speaker 4: noticed it, you're standing up. I'm like, I feel like
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  Speaker 4: you'd be more comfortable with your side down.
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  Speaker 3: Let me fix my camera. Then we got this whole
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  Speaker 3: set up in the studio where now we're gonna be
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  Speaker 3: doing things on video, and it was hours of work yesterday. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: that's not gonna work here.
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  Speaker 1: Just you gotta do like the wave with it.
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  Speaker 3: Oh Lord, have mercy.
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  Speaker 1: That's how it catches you.
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  Speaker 4: Oh god, if you're watching this, So if you're listening
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  Speaker 4: to this, you're like, what are they talking about? We
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  Speaker 4: just started recording our our our stuff. We had these
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  Speaker 4: new fancy cameras and they have this cool AI technology
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  Speaker 4: to wear there go. They can track you, so you
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  Speaker 4: kind of have to do like the wave to get
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  Speaker 4: its attention.
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  Speaker 2: There it is, okay, I got it cool, all right,
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  Speaker 2: I'll sit and be cozy anyway.
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  Speaker 3: So there's a hair update. I decided to go in.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna stick with her. I'm gonna like ride it
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  Speaker 3: out for a little bit. I won't be seeing her often.
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  Speaker 3: But it was, you know, what was actually worrisome. And
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  Speaker 3: this is kind of silly to talk about, but I
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  Speaker 3: was like, I didn't want to pay a big price
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  Speaker 3: to get the cleanup. Like guy she was doing it.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, all she did is
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  Speaker 2: shave my neck and like do a little line over
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  Speaker 2: my ears. And I'm like, if this is the full
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  Speaker 2: haircut price, I'm gonna throw up.
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  Speaker 3: And it wasn't. I was like, oh, I didn't know.
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  Speaker 2: There's a difference nobody says that there's no prices on
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  Speaker 2: the wall like a barber shop. Yeah, so she's like,
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  Speaker 2: oh no, she's the regular trim and it was like
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  Speaker 2: twenty bucks.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, it's doable.
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  Speaker 1: It is scary.
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  Speaker 4: I will say, I've had this before and I'm not
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  Speaker 4: saying this how every hairstylist does it. Because the girl
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  Speaker 4: I just went to actually put it on like a
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  Speaker 4: sticky note.
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  Speaker 1: She was like, by the way, this is what it's
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  Speaker 1: gonna cost. I'm my girl, do whatever.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my god, Like I'm already sitting here, but like
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  Speaker 4: you'll get your hair done. And it kind of changes
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  Speaker 4: every time they're like, oh, by the way, it's twenty dollars.
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  Speaker 4: More of the time I'm like, what what the hell?
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  Speaker 4: It's so so messed.
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  Speaker 3: Up on that. And then the tip, which they deserve.
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  Speaker 3: I know, if you go to a place that's like
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  Speaker 3: a corporation, then they get cut and you want to
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  Speaker 3: tip your person so they get the full thing.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, they do deserve a tip, but I do wish
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  Speaker 4: they could just factor it into the price, do you
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  Speaker 4: know what I mean? Like I will tip you, and
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  Speaker 4: I'll probably tip you in cash, but at the same time,
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  Speaker 4: like I wish they would just charge me fifty.
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  Speaker 1: Dollars more or whatever it is.
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  Speaker 2: It.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, like I wish tipping culture was just adding just
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  Speaker 4: adgratuity dot. Don't make me look like the a hole.
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  Speaker 4: If you wanted twenty percent and I only gave you
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  Speaker 4: fifteen percent.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a whole problem right now because I didn't realize,
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  Speaker 2: Like if you go to let's say a coffee shop
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  Speaker 2: and they flip around the thing and all they do
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  Speaker 2: it this is you know what if you're a burrista,
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  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but if all you're doing is just literally
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  Speaker 2: taking the little tab and just putting coffee in the cup,
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  Speaker 2: but you flip around the screen, it's like twenty percent. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I didn't know you could see what you click,
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  Speaker 2: but I think they can on the other side when
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  Speaker 2: they flip it back of what you decide. Yeah, And
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  Speaker 2: that feels horrible because that's why I never tip zero.
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  Speaker 2: I just I can't give you no tip because I
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  Speaker 2: feel horrible when you look me back in the eyeballs
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  Speaker 2: and you're like, there's the jerk that didn't tip me.
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  Speaker 4: So I will say I always to my bartenders. Let
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  Speaker 4: me put that disclimer out yes, but I will say
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  Speaker 4: when I order something like a high noon and they
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  Speaker 4: just crack the can open, it does cross my mind
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  Speaker 4: that I'm like, do I need a tip? You?
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  Speaker 3: That was the easy I always want to ask.
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  Speaker 2: I've never asked, so if anybody's in the industry, I
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  Speaker 2: want to know, like, do you get that money? If
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  Speaker 2: it's on the screen, Like, how do they divide that up?
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  Speaker 2: Because if I go to a Starbucks, well, I don't
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  Speaker 2: think they ask for tips, but if I flip around
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  Speaker 2: the screen, are you the person I'm talking to getting
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  Speaker 2: that full let's say, three dollars tip or is it
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  Speaker 2: just kind of going into this piggy bank that everyone's
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  Speaker 2: gonna split at the end of the day. Because that
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  Speaker 2: kind of goes back and forth. Sometimes I'm only dealing
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  Speaker 2: with one person at a restaurant.
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  Speaker 3: I want them to get the tip. I don't want
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  Speaker 3: the whole restaurant to divide it up. They didn't do
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  Speaker 3: anything for me, you did. That's where I kind of
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  Speaker 3: have a little controversy.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think bartenders are like waiters where they do
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  Speaker 4: get the tip as long as it's you're closing the
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  Speaker 4: bill with them. Yes, But I think with coffee shops.
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  Speaker 4: It's like a it's like a pot and they just
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  Speaker 4: kind of share it all, which is kind of messed
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  Speaker 4: up because what if somebody's really pulling their weight. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: with customers. And I will say I went to Starbucks
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  Speaker 4: this weekend and the cashier was just so nice. I
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  Speaker 4: mean just very genuine, not over the top like trying
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  Speaker 4: to work for a tip.
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  Speaker 1: She was just like very sweet. And I was like,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna tip this girl. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Did you do it on the screen or did you
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  Speaker 3: do a cash No, it was on the screen. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: so that's where I wonder. I'm like, dang it, I
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  Speaker 3: hope it goes to Allison.
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  Speaker 1: It was so easy. I'm like, Alison, please take my money,
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  Speaker 1: take it.
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  Speaker 2: I wanted to go right to you, not to the
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  Speaker 2: Starbucks like Lord's up at the top.
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  Speaker 3: I wanted to go to you. Well, I hope this works.
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  Speaker 2: I'm curious in a year, hopefully I still have all
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  Speaker 2: my hair, Hopefully it's still there.
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  Speaker 3: She said it was thick. It look good.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think you're hanging in there pretty well. I
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  Speaker 4: would tell you if you I had a pretty mess
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  Speaker 4: up hairline.
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  Speaker 2: Well I will, I promise you, right now I will
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  Speaker 2: say this publicly. If that starts to happen, I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to get hair treatment like immediately.
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  Speaker 4: Honestly, as you should. I think men should have to
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  Speaker 4: feel the way to beauty standards.
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  Speaker 1: It's just like women do.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well it's luckily more I guess more accessible. It's
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  Speaker 2: just expensive and sorry, it's what, isn't it accessible?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know what you just said. Okay, then I
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  Speaker 3: don't know accessible accessible. Yes, I'm like, uh, it's just
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  Speaker 3: my first language. Give me a break.
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  Speaker 1: Is it your second language?
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  Speaker 2: Well, I think a lot more men are more comfortable
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  Speaker 2: getting that hair treatment, but it is still very like
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  Speaker 2: you don't want to admit yeah, having hair problems, which
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  Speaker 2: is it's awkward.
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  Speaker 3: I get it.
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  Speaker 2: Like even me and my buddies will sometimes mention it
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  Speaker 2: to each other, and we just started doing it where
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  Speaker 2: it's like you're comfortable saying, guys, I think my hairline
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  Speaker 2: is like going back in a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: But why is that so shameful for men?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, because it's like embarrassing. It's like admitting
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  Speaker 2: that there are changes happening. It's the first time ever
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  Speaker 2: this year that that's even been a thought where I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: oh my god, I think in the next.
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  Speaker 3: Couple of years, I could have a receding hairline.
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  Speaker 1: You could, I could, but some people don't.
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  Speaker 4: Like my friend is talking to someone who's thirty eight,
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  Speaker 4: thirty nine, and he has the most glorious head of hair.
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  Speaker 1: He has the hockey hair.
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  Speaker 4: He grew out his hair in his thirties, and we're like,
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  Speaker 4: oh my god, this is not the same guy that
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  Speaker 4: we just saw when we scrolled back to twenty seventeen
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  Speaker 4: on his Instagram.
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  Speaker 3: Say good for him. He decided to commit to the
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  Speaker 3: whole thing.
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  Speaker 2: That's very rare, though, Yeah, for anybody to be someone
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  Speaker 2: that's like, all right, I'm gonna grow it out, and
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna be able to grow it out because most
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  Speaker 2: of us.
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  Speaker 3: I'm seeing so many of my friends where it's like
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  Speaker 3: a little bit gone here, a little bit gone there.
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  Speaker 3: And I wish.
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  Speaker 2: I guess with chat you could do this, but you
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  Speaker 2: could see what you would look like bald, because I
• 11:41
  Speaker 2: will say a lot of my friends that are bald,
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  Speaker 2: they look dope.
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  Speaker 4: Well, some people can pull it off, and I honestly
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  Speaker 4: think some people look better bald. I agree, And some
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  Speaker 4: people are into the bald thing, like our boss loves
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  Speaker 4: her husband and she loves him bald.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it looks real good bald.
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  Speaker 1: That's her thing.
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  Speaker 2: If I knew, because I did shave my head bald
• 11:56
  Speaker 2: once and I was like, that's the scary dude I
• 11:58
  Speaker 2: did when I didn't like twenty seventeen.
• 12:01
  Speaker 1: That's horrifying.
• 12:02
  Speaker 3: It was horrible.
• 12:03
  Speaker 1: So how long did it take for your hair to
• 12:04
  Speaker 1: get back to ground zero?
• 12:05
  Speaker 3: I think it took a couple months.
• 12:07
  Speaker 2: It didn't take super long, Like I had a little
• 12:08
  Speaker 2: peach fuzz on my head within a week. Yeah, and
• 12:10
  Speaker 2: then I had like a buzz cut within a month,
• 12:12
  Speaker 2: and then it kind of just grew back to what
• 12:13
  Speaker 2: it is.
• 12:14
  Speaker 4: I feel like that's a cannon event for guys where
• 12:15
  Speaker 4: they see one dude who has a really sick buzz cut.
• 12:18
  Speaker 1: And you think you can pull it off. Women do
• 12:20
  Speaker 1: the same thing, but with bobs. Every girl has a
• 12:22
  Speaker 1: bob phase.
• 12:22
  Speaker 2: Well that's exactly us with the buzz cut, like it's
• 12:25
  Speaker 2: the easiest. But also I rocked the buzz cut for
• 12:28
  Speaker 2: most of my life until I learned how to properly.
• 12:31
  Speaker 2: I didn't learn how to even do my hair until
• 12:34
  Speaker 2: second year of college, where I had some friends that
• 12:35
  Speaker 2: like had like I don't know all the pace stuff. Yeah,
• 12:38
  Speaker 2: and they're like styling it hairjel, hair jel, Yeah, and
• 12:41
  Speaker 2: like Okay, when I was in like seventh grade, I
• 12:43
  Speaker 2: spiked it all the way up.
• 12:44
  Speaker 3: I looked ridiculous.
• 12:45
  Speaker 2: In college, then somebody chilled me like how to do
• 12:47
  Speaker 2: a little bit of the flow with Then I was like, oh,
• 12:51
  Speaker 2: that's fascinating, because before that I was just like, all right,
• 12:53
  Speaker 2: keep it close on the sides, close on top, it'll
• 12:56
  Speaker 2: be fine.
• 12:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I look like a chia pet.
• 12:58
  Speaker 4: So finally somebody took that it's like a different offset
• 13:02
  Speaker 4: of furries. Instead of furries, it's like chia's.
• 13:06
  Speaker 2: It looked horrible, so I'm glad I got it styleed.
• 13:08
  Speaker 2: But now we're going to the whole length, so it
• 13:10
  Speaker 2: would be good. From now, I think it's gonna be great.
• 13:12
  Speaker 4: And what I love about this is I'm hoping you
• 13:14
  Speaker 4: encourage other gentlemen to try out the hockey.
• 13:16
  Speaker 3: Hair if they can go for it. It's that's the
• 13:19
  Speaker 3: thing right now. It's commitment.
• 13:20
  Speaker 2: So a year from now, man, I'm gonna be like, damn,
• 13:24
  Speaker 2: that guy's got it.
• 13:25
  Speaker 4: Well. I think what you should do is I think
• 13:27
  Speaker 4: you should track this on TikTok. Maybe do you do
• 13:30
  Speaker 4: like a once a month check in and be like,
• 13:31
  Speaker 4: oh my god, I saw off campus.
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: I love their hair. I want hair like them. This
• 13:35
  Speaker 1: is what I'm gonna do.
• 13:36
  Speaker 3: That's a really smart idea.
• 13:38
  Speaker 4: I went to my hairstylist. She said, it's gonna take
• 13:39
  Speaker 4: one year, one year for my hair to look like this.
• 13:42
  Speaker 4: Then showcase you're a little mugshot for your crime of
• 13:45
  Speaker 4: looking too good, and then just document it and show
• 13:48
  Speaker 4: guys what it's gonna take or what it would be
• 13:50
  Speaker 4: like for them to try and grow their hair out
• 13:52
  Speaker 4: if they always wanted to do that, or if they
• 13:54
  Speaker 4: have the.
• 13:54
  Speaker 1: Capability to do that.
• 13:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, if they can, they should try if they want to.
• 13:58
  Speaker 2: But I think that's because we see some guys with
• 14:00
  Speaker 2: that flow and I'm like, damn, like, did you just
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: commit to it a long time ago and you just
• 14:03
  Speaker 2: have always had it? Or have you literally always had
• 14:05
  Speaker 2: that hair? Like I think about that with our dude
• 14:07
  Speaker 2: here in the office. I'm like, gosh, you got great
• 14:09
  Speaker 2: hair man. Oh yeah, but when did that start? When
• 14:11
  Speaker 2: did you decide I'm gonna grow it out? And how
• 14:13
  Speaker 2: did you push through?
• 14:14
  Speaker 4: Maybe some people just have really fast growing hair and
• 14:16
  Speaker 4: it just kind of like happens, like, oh my god,
• 14:18
  Speaker 4: my hair is super long. Yeah, and then they just
• 14:19
  Speaker 4: work with it like it wasn't even intentional. They're like,
• 14:21
  Speaker 4: this is I came out.
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: The womb with this.
• 14:23
  Speaker 3: That's what I'm hoping for. Like I'm hoping chats right
• 14:25
  Speaker 3: where it's like Chat's like four to seven months. I'm like, yeah,
• 14:27
  Speaker 3: that'd be great. Yeah, but I don't think that's realist.
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: But maybe you should start doing that.
• 14:31
  Speaker 4: You need like a community of other guys giving each
• 14:33
  Speaker 4: other hair advice.
• 14:34
  Speaker 3: Hair.
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: Hey, I'm on month six.
• 14:36
  Speaker 4: I'm experiencing a little bit of tingling above my ears.
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: Should I be concerned?
• 14:41
  Speaker 3: Are too ugly?
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: Guys?
• 14:42
  Speaker 3: What do I do? They're just pushed through. You could
• 14:44
  Speaker 3: do this. It's so ridiculous, but it will be worth it.
• 14:47
  Speaker 4: It will be worth it, and you've got your ladies,
• 14:49
  Speaker 4: so you don't have to worry about turning off the
• 14:50
  Speaker 4: girls either.
• 14:51
  Speaker 2: As long as she still thinks I sexy and like
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: two months when it looks absolutely insane, well.
• 14:58
  Speaker 4: Chat said three to five months, I mean you may
• 15:00
  Speaker 4: be cruising by Christmas.
• 15:01
  Speaker 3: Honestly, that'd be sweet. Merry Christmas to all it's all
• 15:05
  Speaker 3: a good night.
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: Hopefully Santa Claus still recognizes you.
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: And also get a shout out one more time to
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: Beatbox actually helping us put on this podcast.
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: For the best summer ever.
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: It is like the drink of the summer. Their little
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: box resealable eleven something percent, which is wild.
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: Don't forget the point one.
• 15:21
  Speaker 3: I'll tell you what that in a boat day. That
• 15:23
  Speaker 3: sounds very nice.
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: That point one. I'll take you over the edge.
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: All I need is one.
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: You know what I was.
• 15:27
  Speaker 4: Thinking would look really good because I'm really into frozen
• 15:30
  Speaker 4: drinks these days for summer. I think it's because the
• 15:32
  Speaker 4: like Florida, I feel like it's a frozen drink vibe
• 15:34
  Speaker 4: is I feel like the cherry limeade flavor frozen would
• 15:39
  Speaker 4: be so good.
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: I think there's okay, you gave me a TikTok idea.
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: There's your TikTok idea making the cherry limaid with a beatbox.
• 15:46
  Speaker 2: I don't have a blunder though, okay, Well, nine case
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: one of those Ninja the slushi machines.
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, all the time.
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: My friend just bought one. She has a frozen drink machine.
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: Bring over a beatbox. I got like thirty of them
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: in the office.
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: Well, she lives in Atlanta, so there's that.
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: All right, Well, don't do that yet.
• 16:01
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know if I can travel with eleven
• 16:03
  Speaker 4: point one abb I think they're going to be like, uh,
• 16:05
  Speaker 4: there's a bomb.
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: There's a bomb in her carry on?
• 16:09
  Speaker 3: Well is she okay?
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: Well, then let's jump into your wedding, because I was
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: wondering if you're ended up bringing a friend. But it
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: sounds like there's another course taking place.
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, did I not tell you this would happened?
• 16:19
  Speaker 4: Is the second I told my sister in law that
• 16:22
  Speaker 4: I don't need a date. I was going to find
• 16:24
  Speaker 4: some somebody was going to want to come to the wedding.
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: Well that's kind of how it is with like, well
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: let me be careful here, but with dating, when it's like, well,
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: just don't look anymore and then something's gonna happen.
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sure you've heard.
• 16:34
  Speaker 4: That a thousand You know how many times I've like,
• 16:36
  Speaker 4: quote unquote stopped looking and like legitimately stop looking. Yeah,
• 16:39
  Speaker 4: that doesn't work, don't there's no voodoo magic?
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: Sorry about that. Well, Well, we had a feeling was
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: going to happen for the wedding. It sounds like it did.
• 16:46
  Speaker 4: It did, but that's because I didn't want to happen.
• 16:48
  Speaker 4: I feel like maybe when you don't want it to happen,
• 16:50
  Speaker 4: that's what it is. But then it's almost been plenty
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: of times where I haven't wanted a boyfriend and then
• 16:53
  Speaker 4: that never happened either. Anyway, So what I'm trying to
• 16:55
  Speaker 4: say is my mom thinks that she found.
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: Me a wedding date.
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: I'm so curious on how she came across this person.
• 17:00
  Speaker 4: This was a really uncomfortable I just got an email
• 17:05
  Speaker 4: that just pissed me off. All it was about what
• 17:08
  Speaker 4: we were just talking about. Really, they don't know, they
• 17:12
  Speaker 4: don't have any answer for us.
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: Okay, well then I'm glad we still did it right.
• 17:15
  Speaker 4: Well, no, because we are about meeting today, I'm sorry we're
• 17:17
  Speaker 4: being cryptic. Oh sorry, you're in our HI podcast. You're
• 17:20
  Speaker 4: interrupting our our station meeting. So my mom was in
• 17:26
  Speaker 4: the Bahamas this week with a bunch of her friends
• 17:29
  Speaker 4: and my and my dad and some of his friends,
• 17:32
  Speaker 4: and so randomly I get I got a message from
• 17:38
  Speaker 4: her where I'm like, okay, so she's drinking, which love
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: that for you, Carrie, love that you're having a good time.
• 17:43
  Speaker 4: But it's one of those things where I'm like, text
• 17:45
  Speaker 4: me tomorrow, like this is one of those situations where I'm.
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: Like, this is not but it's so much more fun
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: when you got like a good buzz on and you're like,
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: I have the greatest idea ever.
• 17:55
  Speaker 4: So Wednesday May twenty seven, at seven thirty pm, I
• 17:58
  Speaker 4: am having dinner with one of Dad's good friends who
• 18:01
  Speaker 4: will be at the wedding. This person is the woman
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: who listens to you from Sarasota, and I've sent you
• 18:08
  Speaker 4: some things that she's texted me. Anyway, her two sons
• 18:11
  Speaker 4: could not be more of the two most handsome young
• 18:13
  Speaker 4: men I've ever met. Blank is twenty four twenty five
• 18:16
  Speaker 4: and her other son Blank I want to get him
• 18:19
  Speaker 4: on beas a bay shore. He said, no way, he
• 18:22
  Speaker 4: wouldn't do it. He's too reserved. But the other one,
• 18:24
  Speaker 4: who is a blank blank at uf is twenty one
• 18:27
  Speaker 4: and wants to do it, and I'm like, I think
• 18:28
  Speaker 4: he's too young. He is the most personable, handsome, dynamic
• 18:32
  Speaker 4: young man. Secondary text they are more. They are crazy handsome,
• 18:37
  Speaker 4: which I'm sure you're like, Abby, why are you putting
• 18:39
  Speaker 4: your mom on blast, I guarantee you, this woman said.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: If she's texted me this, she said this to their face.
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: Oh, one hundred percent.
• 18:45
  Speaker 4: I'm like, stop making these men uncomfortable. And I said,
• 18:48
  Speaker 4: I was like, great, sounds good. And then she sends
• 18:49
  Speaker 4: me a screenshot of one of their facebooks. Oh, here
• 18:52
  Speaker 4: is the older one that lives in sarah Sota and
• 18:54
  Speaker 4: does blank blank for work. The younger one is even
• 18:57
  Speaker 4: more handsome and so personable it's crazy.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: A screenshot from his Facebook.
• 19:02
  Speaker 4: They're so hot, you're speechless. Oh wow, the parents will
• 19:06
  Speaker 4: be at the wedding. And then I just replied fun.
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, she's putting in all this, and then.
• 19:11
  Speaker 4: This is how you know she's drinking. So I'm gonna
• 19:13
  Speaker 4: translate after I tell you what she said.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: But she said, so he's hot. Do you want him
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: on bees.
• 19:18
  Speaker 4: Which means beza bashort, Okay, thank you, and I just
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: said text me tomorrow. Wednesday, May twenty seventh, nine thirty pm.
• 19:25
  Speaker 4: Their whole family is strikingly gorgeous. Someone needs to help
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: them go viral. A photo of one of the sons
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: and my dad's friend.
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: I'm expecting these guys to be like top model status
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: at this point.
• 19:40
  Speaker 4: My mom is after after four white wines. My mom
• 19:42
  Speaker 4: is a different person who knows these people could be
• 19:44
  Speaker 4: Donkey and Shrek and she would be like, they're so
• 19:47
  Speaker 4: nice though, So she's sant to photo of my dad's friend,
• 19:51
  Speaker 4: and then one of the sons his dad is very
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: handsome too.
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: Oh.
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: The mom is beyond excited to meet you at the wedding.
• 20:00
  Speaker 4: I love our fans. And then I didn't hear from
• 20:03
  Speaker 4: her blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah.
• 20:06
  Speaker 4: And then she said, Blank said he would do bays
• 20:09
  Speaker 4: if you can confirm other people at his work can
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: do it too, Oh my god. And then a photo
• 20:15
  Speaker 4: of the two kids. I'll send you his Instagram and
• 20:18
  Speaker 4: he said DM him.
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: Oh he did.
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: I told Blank.
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: He's too young, Oh my god.
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: And then I said thanks.
• 20:24
  Speaker 4: And then she said I think I sent you his
• 20:26
  Speaker 4: Instagram contact for you to DM him.
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: I wish he was two years older.
• 20:29
  Speaker 4: He could not be more handsome with his brown hair
• 20:32
  Speaker 4: and muscles.
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: And I said, then you should have invited me to
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: the Bahamas.
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: Rude, that's a good point. So the sons are on
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: the trip too.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: Yes, I'm like, why didn't you invite me?
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: So they are definitely all talking about this at the table.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: That's what I mean is I'm playing with my mom
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: on blast. I guarantee you. She went, I you guys
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: are so gnolly.
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: You gotta get on my daughter's Instagram. It's bays on
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: Bay Shore and I'm sure they looked at it. They
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: looked at your profile. Probably they went through everything.
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: And then continued, the only white wine at this dinner
• 21:01
  Speaker 4: is shardon nay, which I'm like, that's not stopping you.
• 21:06
  Speaker 4: You may have to let the age requirement go and
• 21:08
  Speaker 4: go for this younger man. And then she sent me
• 21:10
  Speaker 4: a video of her dancing with him. Oh my god,
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: he did that with all of us old ladies.
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: What a sweetheart. Sounds like a great guy.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: I said, why did you not invite me?
• 21:20
  Speaker 4: And then he said, yes, I didn't realize this incredibly
• 21:24
  Speaker 4: handsome young man would be here, but he seems very
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: interested in sliding into your GMS. And I said, okay,
• 21:30
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna get him on Big Shore. And then that's
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: the end.
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: That is actually a beautiful love story in the making
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: right there. How did you meet? Well, my mom was
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: having a couple of white wines. Talk to me way
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: up to these guys. Can I see a.
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: Picture of these guys.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: I'll pull up.
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: Let me see what we're working with here up, you
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: want to see the dad first of the sons. Actually, yes,
• 21:49
  Speaker 3: let me see the dad.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: So here's the dad with one of the sons. But
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: you can't really see the son.
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: Cause these are things to consider. You want to, Oh
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: my lord, have mercy with Jesus.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: God has a man crush.
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: I've got it. And then this is and a full
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: head of hair, a great beard. He had a good
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: tan on his skin. Good skin.
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: This is the college student.
• 22:07
  Speaker 4: I should note he's wearing a muscle shirt with a
• 22:10
  Speaker 4: guy with Abraham Lincoln that is wearing.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: A shirt, so it's very meta.
• 22:13
  Speaker 4: So he is wearing a shirt with a photo of
• 22:15
  Speaker 4: Abraham Lincoln wearing a T shirt and the T shirt
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: says just here to bang.
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: Oh my lord, Wow, that's okay these guys.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: And this is the older one.
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: Holy crap. How old is he?
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: I think he's twenty four?
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, there, here's the thing.
• 22:32
  Speaker 4: I have a frontal loberal. I've been I'm very strict
• 22:34
  Speaker 4: about the frontal loberl.
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: Oh, No, that guy look mature, real mature.
• 22:39
  Speaker 4: That sounds a little pet of We're like, well, he's
• 22:40
  Speaker 4: so young, but he looks mature. That's not that doesn't
• 22:44
  Speaker 4: that logic doesn't logic.
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: Well, okay, he didn't look like he was twenty four.
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: He looked like he was toy fair. I would say,
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, I'm very okay. First off,
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: your mom said DM them.
• 22:53
  Speaker 4: Yeah, So I think I did add the older one
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: because I think he lives here and I know the
• 22:59
  Speaker 4: girl would eat up for bea at the end of
• 23:03
  Speaker 4: the day, I'm here for the girlies, like I'm I'm
• 23:05
  Speaker 4: here to find the ladies some men.
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: That is beautiful, the way you look out for people
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: like that.
• 23:09
  Speaker 4: I just I want I want other women to know
• 23:11
  Speaker 4: that there are good guys out there, and I want
• 23:13
  Speaker 4: good guys to know that women aren't scary.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: That's true, you know, like just just go mingle, go talk.
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: I do like a lot of the ones on your
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: bail on Bare They're like, just DM me. Because we
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: literally were out on Saturday night and one of the
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: girls at the table was like, oh my god, I
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: saw this guy on Abby's Instagram and I want to DM.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: Them, And I was like, ohwa's do it?
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: Is it?
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: I think I don't even know what you said?
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: Oh for the guy or was it a girl?
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: It was a girl with us that wanted to DM
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: one of the guys. Okay, well, I don't know which
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: one it was. I haven't yeah, oh yeah, is everyone
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: going after that?
• 23:54
  Speaker 4: No? Well, I mean I assumed hang on, I had
• 23:56
  Speaker 4: a couple of drinks.
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: I don't really remember it.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: This one. Yeah, that guy.
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: I figured, oh did he reach.
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: Out because that's that's the one.
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: When I when I was out, I was like like,
• 24:05
  Speaker 4: I feel like I'm fishing.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: I'm like, look, girls, look what I caught.
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: It's a big one.
• 24:09
  Speaker 4: Like I know you girls are gonna like this one.
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: And yeah, yeah, no, that was immediately and so you
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: know what, I don't think it was actually that guy,
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: but anyway.
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: You don't think. So now I'm interested.
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: Because now I okay, let me go to let me
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: see because there was a specific thing that she really
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: liked about him that I was like, well then make it.
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: Oh okay, no that was that guy. Yep, yeah, my
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: fa that's the one. I just had to look closer.
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: But she was like, I want to reach out to him.
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: I was like, well, do it. We've had a couple
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: of drinks.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, why not.
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: Well, she gave me her phone and so I did it.
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: I DM a dude from your basil.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: What did you say to him?
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: I said, Hey, I saw you on a Besel Bay shore.
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: You caught my eye.
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: And then I gave the phone over to my girlfriend
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: and she added a nice little spicy ending to it.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: Oh what was this spicy ending?
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: Well, if I give it away, it's going to give
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: away who it was.
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: Well, he's not listening.
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: Okay, that's valid.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: Oh wait, so it's yeah, just go for it.
• 25:04
  Speaker 3: Okay. It was kind of like I like your shirt.
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: And then my girlfriend said, and I would like to
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: see what it's like off or something like that.
• 25:10
  Speaker 4: Oh wait, that's so good. Oh that doesn't give him away.
• 25:12
  Speaker 4: They're all wearing shirts.
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, well exactly it was something with a shirt.
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: But put it out there. I'm still waiting for the
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: update to see if you reply.
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: He probably didn't. I feel like you would know.
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: You would have heard. Yeah, I would have. Yeah, Well,
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: let's see what day is it's it would have been Saturday.
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: I gave him the benefit of the doubt.
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: I was like, he's not gonna reply at least in
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: twenty four hours, okay, Like we always wait at least
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: a day, and then we hit you back because you
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: don't want to seem too eager.
• 25:38
  Speaker 4: I just love that even weeks after something's posted, people
• 25:43
  Speaker 4: are still like sliding into the dms.
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: Oh one hundred percent.
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: I you know, I.
• 25:47
  Speaker 4: Understand it's a little bit tough putting yourself in a
• 25:48
  Speaker 4: vulnerable position, and so I like hope that the validation
• 25:52
  Speaker 4: reaffirms to these guys or girls like, hey, I'm glad
• 25:54
  Speaker 4: I did that.
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, one hundred percent. You gotta at least try, Yeah,
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: put yourself out there.
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: And then again, let the algorithm do its thing where
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: it runs through people's profiles at different time periods. Yeah,
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: and then you'll get a DM in like a month,
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: and all of a sudden you're like, oh, wait, yeah,
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: maybe I should give it a chance.
• 26:08
  Speaker 4: And what I love about doing this is I feel
• 26:10
  Speaker 4: like most people know what they're looking for. And so
• 26:12
  Speaker 4: if you see someone just casually come across your page
• 26:14
  Speaker 4: like oh my god, like I think I get along
• 26:16
  Speaker 4: with him.
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: Well, that's what's so funny about your page, is like
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: everyone has seen it now at this point, which is
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: really cool.
• 26:20
  Speaker 4: It is weird, And I was telling you because I
• 26:21
  Speaker 4: was at a networking event on Monday. I think a
• 26:23
  Speaker 4: lot of people thought because the Birch Show has been
• 26:25
  Speaker 4: around for so long that like, you're just constantly getting
• 26:27
  Speaker 4: recognized in but like, most people don't know what you
• 26:30
  Speaker 4: look like.
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: They know what you sound like, but they don't know
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: what you look like.
• 26:32
  Speaker 4: Whereas I get recognized all the time from bes on
• 26:35
  Speaker 4: beishor That's just so funny because it's objectively like not irrelevant.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: But it's not like I'm going viral.
• 26:41
  Speaker 4: I'm getting like a couple tens of thousands of us,
• 26:44
  Speaker 4: which apparently is just everybody in Tampa.
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well it's especially I feel like it's that niche
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: of people. It's like the twenty and thirty year olds, yes,
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: that you're out at these events for and they're like,
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm on instagram sadly seven hours a day.
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: Which is great because it's literally why I started doing this.
• 26:57
  Speaker 4: I mean, yes, like I want to help people find love,
• 26:59
  Speaker 4: and for me, it's a great way for me to
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: meet girls, for me to meet guys, for me to
• 27:02
  Speaker 4: meet like connections that I can connect with other people.
• 27:05
  Speaker 4: But I literally did this because I'm like, how can
• 27:07
  Speaker 4: I get my name out there with people in this
• 27:09
  Speaker 4: demo in Tampa?
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: And so I'm like, it's it's literally working.
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: It's working perfectly.
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: Will you have that young man that you just showed
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: me on your phone on you followed him?
• 27:19
  Speaker 4: Oh, I do need to DM him? But he doesn't
• 27:21
  Speaker 4: live here. He lives like an hour from here.
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: I thin that far.
• 27:23
  Speaker 4: Well, I know, but it's still like it's a five
• 27:25
  Speaker 4: minute interview. So you got to like make a a
• 27:27
  Speaker 4: You have to have a reason.
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: Well, you know what, say you could come on Beza
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: Bay short. Then we can just go grab some lunch
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: after or something.
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I was like, come up.
• 27:33
  Speaker 4: Although, so here's here's we totally got We lost the sauce.
• 27:37
  Speaker 4: We got lost in the sauce. When I was telling
• 27:38
  Speaker 4: you why we're doing this, So my mom texted me,
• 27:43
  Speaker 4: let me pull up my mom' sex message.
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, wait, we gotta get back to the wedding.
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah I know.
• 27:47
  Speaker 4: So my mom goes, should we get Blank to be
• 27:52
  Speaker 4: your plus one at the wedding?
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: For the radio bit.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: He's a mysterious stranger and I said.
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: Who is blank?
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: And then she sent me a photo of her with him.
• 27:59
  Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god, this is so embarrassing, Like
• 28:01
  Speaker 4: I just know, like the entire night, she's just going,
• 28:03
  Speaker 4: You're so handsome.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: Just so weird.
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: Your mom is the most social butterfly I think I've
• 28:07
  Speaker 3: ever met.
• 28:07
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and then you had it's like putting gasoline on
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: a fire when she drinks white wine.
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Like everybody's a friend at that point.
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: And then I said, ah, yes, and I said, I
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: don't care, do whatever.
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: Oh wow, you're just open for it.
• 28:19
  Speaker 4: Well, because I'm like, if you Because here's why I
• 28:21
  Speaker 4: said yes. I'm like, if you're having a fun time
• 28:23
  Speaker 4: with this guy, like inviting him to the wedding, if
• 28:25
  Speaker 4: you're having fun with him, and his parents are gonna
• 28:27
  Speaker 4: be at the wedding, like sure, Like it's not like
• 28:29
  Speaker 4: I'm bringing somebody else anyway.
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: So if he wants to come, fine.
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: And it's green flags all around, Like if he's down
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: to go, that means he's down for adventures spontaneous. He's
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: obviously at least at the bare minimum slightly interested.
• 28:43
  Speaker 4: But I don't even mean it in like a romantic situation.
• 28:46
  Speaker 4: I just more of like, if he wants to come,
• 28:48
  Speaker 4: then come, then be a part of the wedding.
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: Come hang out. My mom will gash you up the
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: entire night.
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: Absolutely, it doesn't have to be a thing with you two,
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: it'll be there.
• 28:57
  Speaker 4: It'll give people something to talk about and listen. I
• 28:59
  Speaker 4: am no stranger to going on first date set weddings.
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: That's so wild to me. But I love the adventure for.
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: You, I know, and I love it for the story.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: So did he confirm that he would go?
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: I don't think he is.
• 29:08
  Speaker 4: I think my mom, like, I think if I really
• 29:12
  Speaker 4: wanted him to go, i'd.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: Be like or she would for sure say yeah.
• 29:15
  Speaker 4: But for me, I'm like, super young, you'll live here,
• 29:18
  Speaker 4: Like if you wants to come on Basembay Shore, Hell, yeah,
• 29:20
  Speaker 4: if you wants to come to the wedding, sure a
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: hang out with them. Like I was like, I don't
• 29:25
  Speaker 4: know this man, Like, don't put this pressure on me.
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: That'd be so funny. I don't know, does your Well no,
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: I guess who would be the one that would bring
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: in any like good groomsmen or friends?
• 29:34
  Speaker 4: Well, all my brothers groomsmen I've either tried to date
• 29:37
  Speaker 4: or married.
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: Okay, Well, that's awful, It's okay, gotcha, gotcha? Yeah, any
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: cool cousins from your future sister in law that are
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: like coming in or like, well, that'd be weird, but
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: it does happen.
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, siblings. Does she have siblings?
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: She has a sister who's married. And I'm also I'm
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: not a lesbian oka, but she was, she said she's.
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: So there's also the coveat for that.
• 29:56
  Speaker 4: So she was doing the map and she said to
• 29:58
  Speaker 4: our family group chat that I guess we take up
• 30:01
  Speaker 4: like eighty percent of the wedding, like our side of
• 30:03
  Speaker 4: the family lord, which I wasn't even aware we had
• 30:06
  Speaker 4: that many people in our family. So one hundred and
• 30:09
  Speaker 4: forty people are coming to the wedding, which I feel
• 30:12
  Speaker 4: like is an average medium sized wedding, like for example,
• 30:15
  Speaker 4: I consider a large wedding and anything over like two hundred.
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's massive. So we don't have any idea how
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: you're going to know that many people we.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: Have like one thirty one forty and what are you doing?
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to get the camera back on.
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: Why we're not I we can't even record now because
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: my camera's sad.
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: I know, but I don't.
• 30:29
  Speaker 4: Also, I don't like it when you stand up, it
• 30:30
  Speaker 4: feels weird. I know, it's fair like you're like looking
• 30:32
  Speaker 4: down at me, like what is going on wrong? So
• 30:35
  Speaker 4: there's like one hundred and forty people come to the
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: wedding and apparently only forty of them are hers.
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: Oh, which I was like, really we have that many people.
• 30:44
  Speaker 4: And I don't know if my brother just invited a
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: bunch of random ass friends or people or whatever, but yeah,
• 30:50
  Speaker 4: we have a ton of people.
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: That's awesome for your brother's side. I mean, that's really cool.
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: I'm hoping that obviously your future sister in law is
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: able to have just as good of a time, like
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: interacting with them everybody, well for sure, ending along with everyone.
• 31:02
  Speaker 4: She's the bride and it's her wedding day. Like if
• 31:04
  Speaker 4: you're not having a good time, that's on you.
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: I mean.
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: But truthfully though, it's so much stress during the day
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: because I've seen it so many times where it's like
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: the day flies by and all of a sudden you're like,
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: where'd the wedding go? Or like some kind of drama
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: will come up, And I feel like that is the
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: biggest fear for like a bride, especially with like you
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: got to be so careful with your bridal party because
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: you need someone that's in charge there that's like, we're
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: not gonna let one drop of drama come in this day. Yeah,
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: not one. But that's how mine would be if I
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: got married, I'd be like, I have thirty people on
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: my side.
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: I feel like any quote unquote drama, not that we've
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: had any drama on the wedding planning, happens before the wedding,
• 31:37
  Speaker 4: just because there's so many logistical things you have to
• 31:39
  Speaker 4: figure out. Figure out like who's paying for the wedding.
• 31:41
  Speaker 4: If we're splitting it hot, what is the split? Like, Oh,
• 31:44
  Speaker 4: I want to invite this person, but do we have
• 31:45
  Speaker 4: it in the budget? And then the bachelorette party, and
• 31:48
  Speaker 4: then you know, the rehearsal dinner, Like my mom and
• 31:50
  Speaker 4: I are kind of tagged teaming the rehearsal dinner, like
• 31:53
  Speaker 4: what kind of cake should we get? Do we do
• 31:55
  Speaker 4: this flavors? Or you know what I mean, like all
• 31:57
  Speaker 4: the like the dumb patty stuff. And then I feel
• 31:58
  Speaker 4: like when the wedding happens, people are just so thrilled
• 32:01
  Speaker 4: for it to be over that the only drama that
• 32:03
  Speaker 4: I think could come out is just people getting too drunk, which,
• 32:07
  Speaker 4: to be fair, been there you. Yeah, I always get
• 32:12
  Speaker 4: a little bit too drunk at family weddings.
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: That's actually kind of my I don't think it's my
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: worry for this weekend, but I have thought about that
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: because I'm gonna be with some old buddies from like
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: we grew up together. Yeah, and you get a whole
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: new like it's with family or with like really close friends,
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: you get that comfort where like I could really let loose.
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: Yes, I don't wanna go bonkers.
• 32:31
  Speaker 4: I think it's because you're in a really comfortable environment.
• 32:33
  Speaker 4: And it also feels like a once in a lifetime event.
• 32:36
  Speaker 4: So it feels like this scarcity mindset of we need
• 32:38
  Speaker 4: to have a lot of fun.
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: Get it all out right now.
• 32:41
  Speaker 4: Yes, like let's let's have a good night. So yeah,
• 32:43
  Speaker 4: let's have another shot. Why it's your wedding, And of
• 32:45
  Speaker 4: course I'm gonna have another shot.
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: What happened to you with the last one that you
• 32:49
  Speaker 3: went to?
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: The last wedding I went to is my cousin's wedding?
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: Did you turn all the way up?
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: I did, but not in an embarrassing way.
• 32:56
  Speaker 4: I just have some videos where I'm like, oh, like,
• 33:00
  Speaker 4: why why are me and my dad like jumping up
• 33:02
  Speaker 4: and down on the dance floor like that? Like that's
• 33:04
  Speaker 4: so weird, Not in like a weird way, but like
• 33:07
  Speaker 4: I'm clearly hammered.
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, like okay, I could look back and
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: be like, oh my.
• 33:10
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, why did I try to Why did I
• 33:12
  Speaker 4: try to sing Abba at the end of the wedding?
• 33:13
  Speaker 4: Do you know what I mean?
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: So funny? Are you the person that goes to the
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: DJ and requests songs constantly?
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: No, not at the wedding, because I know that the
• 33:19
  Speaker 4: bride puts a lot of effort into the playlist. But
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: I think somebody brought out like a karaoke machine and I.
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: Was like, I'm simply gonna sing Abba?
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: Is there a tradition that I was just talking about
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: this with my girlfriend. I like that you truly love
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: at weddings, or that you truly dread at weight weddings.
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: I don't know that I dread anything about weddings, or.
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: Maybe you think it's corny or actually, let's just focus
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: on the positives here. Yeah, if it was to be
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: your you know, whatever, your wedding, if there's one tradition
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: or one thing that you could have at it, what
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: would you have?
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: I think the obvious answer.
• 33:53
  Speaker 4: Well, here's the one thing I feel very strongly about
• 33:55
  Speaker 4: because I could give you one hundred answers for that,
• 33:57
  Speaker 4: because I am very excited to get married one day.
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: Because I do love tradition. I'm a bit I love.
• 34:01
  Speaker 4: Traditions when they make sense, and I think weddings are
• 34:04
  Speaker 4: like the last human tradition that we've kind of kept
• 34:07
  Speaker 4: sacred and like held on to. And one of those
• 34:09
  Speaker 4: things I feel very strongly about is I'm so for
• 34:13
  Speaker 4: me specifically if you did this at your wedding. That's
• 34:15
  Speaker 4: not me saying I think you did it wrong, but
• 34:18
  Speaker 4: I am so anti first look for me specifically.
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: You know what the first look is.
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we're like, before the ceremony happens, you go and
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: get to see them.
• 34:25
  Speaker 4: So instead, and I understand, like and listen, I know
• 34:28
  Speaker 4: that some people are so thrilled that they did it,
• 34:30
  Speaker 4: they were able to get more pictures.
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: Do what feels right for you, truly. That's yes.
• 34:35
  Speaker 4: That's my disclaimer is when I say I'm anti first
• 34:38
  Speaker 4: look for me specifically, I'm like, that is such a
• 34:42
  Speaker 4: once in a lifetime moment to where you get to
• 34:46
  Speaker 4: kind of see each other again for the first time,
• 34:48
  Speaker 4: and I see each other in a different light because
• 34:51
  Speaker 4: I'm assuming if you're getting married to this person, you
• 34:53
  Speaker 4: see them every day blah blah blah, kind of getting
• 34:55
  Speaker 4: stuck in the mundane noess of life.
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: And this is kind of that last moment where like, there's.
• 35:00
  Speaker 4: Lot of anticipation and nervousness with this person and you're
• 35:03
  Speaker 4: gonna get to see them as your life partner for
• 35:05
  Speaker 4: the first time, and you're in the big dress that
• 35:07
  Speaker 4: you've hit kept a secret and it's this big moment
• 35:10
  Speaker 4: and you want them to tear up. And I just
• 35:12
  Speaker 4: feel like the first look kind of takes the grandeur
• 35:15
  Speaker 4: out of that. Now I understand, I'm gonna stop giving
• 35:18
  Speaker 4: the disclaimer. I understand there's arguments for the first look,
• 35:20
  Speaker 4: but that is my argument for the walking down the aisle.
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: See, that's a really good one because I've never heard
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: somebody argue like for that or against that.
• 35:28
  Speaker 3: Like I just thought, okay, I never even thought about that.
• 35:30
  Speaker 4: And yeah, and again, I know that there's so many
• 35:32
  Speaker 4: people doing first looks. My brother and his fiance are
• 35:34
  Speaker 4: doing first looks, So it's not me being like.
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: I think they're doing it wrong. I just think it is.
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: It's such a special and iconic moment, and I want
• 35:45
  Speaker 4: that moment so bad to be right.
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I could already envision what that would be
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: like of like standing there and you're so nervous because
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: it's been something that you've been planning for a year.
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: All your friends and family are sitting there watching you,
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: and I just know myself, I'm like, I'm gonna get
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: to that moment and I'm just going to break.
• 36:03
  Speaker 4: And the door's open, and you walk down the aisle
• 36:05
  Speaker 4: and God willing, your dad gets to be there, or
• 36:08
  Speaker 4: a father figure or your mom, whoever you want to
• 36:10
  Speaker 4: walk down the aisle and just think it's beautiful.
• 36:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean definitely see that being like the let
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: the Tears fall, Let the Tears Phone Dawn, I.
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: Would say, See, mine doesn't even have to do like that.
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: We did something at a friend's wedding that I thought
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: was hilarious, so fun. Where you ever go to a wedding,
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: they have like a phone you could leave like messages on,
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: Oh that's cool.
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: It was so fun.
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: And me and my buddy, my best friend, we got
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: super drunk and we left probably fifteen messages on the
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: phone kind of annoying but also hilarious. If you're the
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: bride and groom after the wedding and you're going through
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: all the pictures and the videos and then you're like,
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: let's go check out the recordings, and you got like
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: Uncle John that's like.
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: So happy for your guys crash, And then.
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: You get your best friends on the phone that are like,
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: it starts off very calm, like, oh my god, you
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: guys so happy. Before you were having a blast, and
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: then by the end of the night, we're just screaming
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: lyrics into the phone.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, those are memories that I want, Like, I want
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: those kind of memories, not just the perfect photos but
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: the sloppy ones. I want the disposable camera where I
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: want friends to take it and I don't even know
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: where it goes until I get back from my honeymoon
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: two weeks later and I get to go through what
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: the hell did our friends do?
• 37:14
  Speaker 3: Because we did a wedding. Well, I was like two
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: years ago, some good friends got married and they brought
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: a GoPro and I remember they gave me the GoPro
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: for like the night and I had a ball with it.
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: Interviews with people, putting the camera where the camera shouldn't
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: even be exactly, and letting them look at that footage
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: when they got done with their wedding.
• 37:34
  Speaker 3: That has to be so.
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: Fun, I know, because that's what you're going to look
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: back on when you're like sixty and be like, oh
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: my god, what a night. Yeah, seeing friends that you
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: may not see after that wedding.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: That's another thing.
• 37:45
  Speaker 4: I'm very pro wedding video as well. And I know
• 37:48
  Speaker 4: some weddings are expensive. Videography is expensive, but video is
• 37:51
  Speaker 4: kind of the one thing you get to take away
• 37:54
  Speaker 4: from your wedding other than the marriage, is you get
• 37:56
  Speaker 4: to relive that day through a video.
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: Oh that's a good point. It's a price that is
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: probably worth to pay. You'll make it back, but that
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: video will live forever. Yeah, that would be sweet.
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: Well, that's cool.
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: I'm excited for your wedding. I'm excited that you not
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: your wedding, but your brother.
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: Say, I'm like, I'm I'm still trying to get a
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: dates guy.
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: Well, you know what, at this point, you're just going
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: solo and somebody might be at the wedding.
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: It'll be fine.
• 38:20
  Speaker 4: And honestly, I think I'm less stressed out because of it.
• 38:23
  Speaker 4: Like I think I don't need more stress on my
• 38:26
  Speaker 4: plate trying to entertain somebody.
• 38:27
  Speaker 3: Absolutely not. You get to just go sit back and
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: joy and literally do anything that you want to do
• 38:31
  Speaker 3: at this wedding.
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: I want to get so so drunk.
• 38:34
  Speaker 4: Hell yeah, like a like a non alcoholic yeah, of course,
• 38:39
  Speaker 4: self medicating kind of way. I just I remember my
• 38:42
  Speaker 4: cousin's wedding. I was so stressed up leading up to
• 38:45
  Speaker 4: that wedding.
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: Why for that one?
• 38:47
  Speaker 4: So I was going through some health issues and I
• 38:50
  Speaker 4: gained all this weight and I couldn't lose it, and
• 38:52
  Speaker 4: so I had this bridesmaid stress on. And every girl
• 38:55
  Speaker 4: gets the text message where you got to wear the
• 38:57
  Speaker 4: silver or not the silver? The gold satin halter bride's
• 39:00
  Speaker 4: may dress.
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: We've all been there. It just shows.
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: Everything, oh lord.
• 39:04
  Speaker 4: And I remember just being like, oh my god, I
• 39:07
  Speaker 4: do not want to.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: Wear this dress.
• 39:08
  Speaker 4: The wedding itself is already kind of stressful, and one
• 39:10
  Speaker 4: of the maid of honors and so like there's all
• 39:12
  Speaker 4: this stuff going on, and I just remember, like I
• 39:15
  Speaker 4: didn't eat sugar, I didn't eat gluten, Like I literally
• 39:17
  Speaker 4: ate just like chicken for four weeks, and I.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: Mean I felt a little bit better.
• 39:22
  Speaker 4: I will say it did feel better, but I didn't
• 39:26
  Speaker 4: really change that much. And I just remember running from
• 39:30
  Speaker 4: the family photos straight to the champagne wall. Say'd like
• 39:33
  Speaker 4: the champagne wall.
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: Oh that sounds nice, you like ring a bell?
• 39:35
  Speaker 4: And then they gave you a champagne and I literally
• 39:37
  Speaker 4: just started knocking back glasses.
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: I was like, golpe, Nope, gope, and it showed oh
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: because I was super drunk.
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, That's what I was talking to old buddy about
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: over text yesterday. I was like, what are we gotta
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: be drinking as we're getting ready for the grooms man?
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: I was like, are we going to bringing out the bourbon?
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: He's like, absolutely not, nope, because we got to get
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: the groom down the aisle. We got to make sure
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: we make it to the actual ceremony. I said, all right,
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: that's valid tequila and beer only.
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll keep it very simple.
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: But then when we hit the actual party of it,
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: that's where I'm like, all right, I might hit a
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: level that I haven't hit in a long time.
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: Maybe maybe.
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: I also don't want to freak out my girlfriend because
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: she's going to be in a whole new environment.
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you got to look out for her too.
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: So yeah, maybe keep it till like a like a
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: level seven.
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: A level seven where it's like a fun drunk, but
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: like it's a still comprehendible not making an ass out
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: of myself.
• 40:25
  Speaker 4: That's what I'm always trying to aim for on a
• 40:26
  Speaker 4: Saturday night. I know what I'm doing and I'm not
• 40:30
  Speaker 4: and I know I'm not the rowing hope, but I
• 40:31
  Speaker 4: get home.
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: That's exactly right. Well, we got some of the video up.
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: We're gonna still figure this out every time we get
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: on this podcast. One first off, thanks to beat Box.
• 40:40
  Speaker 4: Shout out beat Bucks for the customer. Ever, as we're
• 40:43
  Speaker 4: doing that, they're gonna get me a chord for this laptop.
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: And then we're gonna be getting the video up soon
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: at least a little bit will be kind of posted
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: on stories eventually, maybe.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: Maybe we'll see.
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: All right, I mean, one last thing for your getaway.
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: I know there's a couple spots available.
• 40:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we're trip.
• 40:57
  Speaker 4: We're about halfway full on the Trampa Bay getaway, so
• 40:59
  Speaker 4: they're twelve spotch So it's a good size trip.
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: This's my favorite size trip to do.
• 41:04
  Speaker 4: I think a good twelve is a solid number because
• 41:07
  Speaker 4: it feels like there's people on the trip.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: But it still feels smaller and more intimate.
• 41:11
  Speaker 4: Yeah, we actually make friends. You actually make friends a
• 41:14
  Speaker 4: lot of people. Some FAQs I've been getting is what's
• 41:16
  Speaker 4: the age. There's no age. I think on Columbia we
• 41:19
  Speaker 4: had people from like twenty eight to forty something, So
• 41:23
  Speaker 4: it's a wide range and it's a good time you'll find.
• 41:25
  Speaker 4: My goal is for you to make one good friend
• 41:28
  Speaker 4: on this trip.
• 41:28
  Speaker 2: I like that you're gonna hit a lot of the
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: cool spots in Tampa Bay that we talk about that
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: we go out at.
• 41:32
  Speaker 3: So that seems super super fun.
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: And honestly, I know so many people that are listening
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: to this are probably like, when's the last time you
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: took a trip for yourself.
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: Like not with the family. We talked about this a
• 41:41
  Speaker 3: lot on the show.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: See, it's like we're when you go on these trips
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: with your family or maybe you have kids, and you're
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: like you're not really like, yeah, you're getting a vacation,
• 41:51
  Speaker 3: but you're responsible this trip. You get to kind of
• 41:53
  Speaker 3: be irresponsible.
• 41:54
  Speaker 4: You need to be a little irresponsible and like a
• 41:56
  Speaker 4: because I'm like, a, I know, we just talked for
• 41:58
  Speaker 4: five minutes about how drunk we want to get into.
• 42:00
  Speaker 4: I'm like a very even keeled. I'm like, I like
• 42:03
  Speaker 4: to go out and have a good time. You're not
• 42:05
  Speaker 4: gonna catch me doing like lines up coke at show bar. Lord,
• 42:07
  Speaker 4: have mercy, Like you're gonna see me like two to
• 42:09
  Speaker 4: three glasses of wine deep and getting a little crazy,
• 42:12
  Speaker 4: maybe a little bit crazier on Saturday, and then enjoying
• 42:16
  Speaker 4: like a marg at the pool party. So it's gonna
• 42:17
  Speaker 4: be a good mix of like some chill activities some
• 42:20
  Speaker 4: crazier activities. You're welcome to opt out of if that's
• 42:23
  Speaker 4: not your thing, but yeah, come have like a It'll
• 42:25
  Speaker 4: be like a boutsorette party, but without the obligations, and
• 42:31
  Speaker 4: there's no bridey.
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: You get to be the right.
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: Hey, everybody's the bride on this trip. Okay. So linked the description.
• 42:36
  Speaker 4: Link in the episode description, and you can follow me
• 42:39
  Speaker 4: on Instagram at the Abby Murphy.
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: And I'm at Scott Tavlin. All the rest of the
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: station stuff is at Magic ninety four nine.
• 42:45
  Speaker 3: Thanks for being part.
• 42:45
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• 42:47
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• 42:50
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• 42:52
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• 42:54
  Speaker 2: four stars't doesn't exist, does not exist, so thanks for
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: being part of it.
• 42:57
  Speaker 3: We'll be back tomorrow.