Latest / Repcolite Home Improvement Show / The Mystery of the Kitchen Cabinets Nobody Could Reach
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- 0:02Speaker 1: Hey everybody, thanks for tuning in. You're listening to Home
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- 0:08Speaker 1: And I want to start today's episode with a question
- 0:11Speaker 1: for all of you. You know, we're just jumping right in.
- 0:14Speaker 1: I've got a question. What is the weirdest thing in
- 0:16Speaker 1: your house? And I don't mean people. I don't mean people.
- 0:20Speaker 1: I mean things. What is the weirdest architectural element or
- 0:24Speaker 1: the most unusual thing in your house? You know, something
- 0:26Speaker 1: that you can't explain. You can't figure it out. A
- 0:29Speaker 1: door that opens the wrong way. You know, you wonder
- 0:31Speaker 1: why did they do this? Why does it do that?
- 0:34Speaker 1: Maybe it's a patch in the floor where something used
- 0:36Speaker 1: to be, but nobody really knows what it was. Can't
- 0:39Speaker 1: figure it out. You wonder about it for years. Eventually,
- 0:42Speaker 1: you just forget about it and you just live with it.
- 0:44Speaker 1: What is that weirdest, most unusual thing? Another question. What's
- 0:49Speaker 1: the coolest or the weirdest thing? that you ever found
- 0:51Speaker 1: in your house, you know, something unexpected in a wall
- 0:55Speaker 1: or under a floorboard, you know, something that you found
- 0:57Speaker 1: when renovating, you know, anything like that. If you did
- 1:01Speaker 1: find something, what was it? And what did you think
- 1:03Speaker 1: when you found it? You know, did it tell you
- 1:05Speaker 1: anything about the house, about the people who were in
- 1:07Speaker 1: it before you got there? Because I think most of
- 1:10Speaker 1: us live in a place that had a whole life
- 1:13Speaker 1: before we showed up and we almost never think about it.
- 1:16Speaker 1: I didn't. And then, and then I did. So today
- 1:19Speaker 1: I want to talk about my old house in Zeeland.
- 1:22Speaker 1: It's Zeeland, Michigan, for all of my podcast listeners from
- 1:26Speaker 1: around the world. I've got like three of them, maybe
- 1:29Speaker 1: four of them. You know who you are. For all
- 1:32Speaker 1: of you podcast listeners around the world, it's Zeeland, Michigan.
- 1:35Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about. My first house, built in 1928,
- 1:39Speaker 1: bought by me in 1999. Now we moved in. We
- 1:44Speaker 1: were super excited about all the work that the previous
- 1:46Speaker 1: owners had done. You know, that was a huge selling
- 1:48Speaker 1: point of the house. They'd redone the entire main level, right?
- 1:53Speaker 1: You know, beautiful wallpaper in the dining room, beautiful original trim,
- 1:57Speaker 1: all cleaned up, painted throughout some of it, stained and
- 2:00Speaker 1: varnished in the bedrooms, new crown molding, new carpet. The
- 2:04Speaker 1: whole thing, that whole main level was absolutely beautiful. And
- 2:08Speaker 1: we were so, so happy when we bought it, when
- 2:11Speaker 1: we moved in. The house was perfect. You know, it
- 2:13Speaker 1: had a screened in front porch, I basically lived there.
- 2:17Speaker 1: You know, three seasons out of the year, I was
- 2:19Speaker 1: out there, you know, sitting there early in the morning
- 2:21Speaker 1: with coffee, late in the evening, reading, reading. I was
- 2:25Speaker 1: going to say reading books, but I guess that could
- 2:28Speaker 1: have been said, right? We read other things. Anyway, I
- 2:31Speaker 1: was out there reading late into the evening. I love
- 2:33Speaker 1: the sounds of the neighborhood, you know, the screened in porch.
- 2:36Speaker 1: I could hear everything. The great breeze is blowing through.
- 2:38Speaker 1: You know, you hear dogs over here, people talking over there.
- 2:42Speaker 1: And yet I'm in my own space. That was really
- 2:45Speaker 1: important to me. I'm participating in the life, the collective
- 2:50Speaker 1: life of the neighborhood, but I'm still in my own space.
- 2:53Speaker 1: There's an element of privacy to it. I loved that porch.
- 2:57Speaker 1: I miss that porch in a big way. Anyway, being
- 3:01Speaker 1: in an older house, the whole thing, it had its
- 3:03Speaker 1: share of weird little quirks, things like that. One of
- 3:07Speaker 1: those quirks, probably the most intriguing and probably the most frustrating,
- 3:12Speaker 1: if I could say it that way, was our kitchen cabinets.
- 3:15Speaker 1: I think I've talked about them before on the show,
- 3:18Speaker 1: but we had uppers and lowers around two walls of
- 3:20Speaker 1: the kitchen, just like normal, but a third wall had
- 3:23Speaker 1: just uppers. And man, let me tell you, they were uppers.
- 3:28Speaker 1: I'm not a tall person. I'm a little bit on
- 3:33Speaker 1: the shorter side of average, let's say. But still, even
- 3:36Speaker 1: to tall people, these things were nuts. You know, I
- 3:39Speaker 1: could literally stand up underneath them without hitting my head.
- 3:42Speaker 1: I could stand up underneath them and jump a little
- 3:44Speaker 1: bit and not hit my head. I needed a ladder,
- 3:47Speaker 1: and I'm not being, you know, funny here or sarcastic.
- 3:50Speaker 1: I really did need a ladder, literally, to get to
- 3:53Speaker 1: the second of the four shelves, right? The top shelf,
- 3:58Speaker 1: it was veiled in mist. You know, it seemed so
- 4:02Speaker 1: high up, like the peak of Everest, right? It was
- 4:06Speaker 1: up there. I don't know what we ever put up
- 4:08Speaker 1: there or why we would ever put anything up there
- 4:10Speaker 1: because we're never going to get it down without an
- 4:12Speaker 1: extension ladder. Kitchen cabinets. Everybody who came to the house
- 4:17Speaker 1: had a theory about them because they all noticed them.
- 4:20Speaker 1: It's not like something that you had to be there
- 4:21Speaker 1: a while to really notice. People would walk in. Oh,
- 4:24Speaker 1: what a nice kid. Whoa, those cabinets are high. That
- 4:27Speaker 1: was pretty much how every interaction went for people first
- 4:30Speaker 1: visiting the house. And everybody had a different theory about them. Now,
- 4:34Speaker 1: for me, the best working theory that I could come
- 4:36Speaker 1: up with was that the first owners were monstrous, right?
- 4:41Speaker 1: Incredibly tall. Amazons. You know, they had to be. It
- 4:45Speaker 1: turns out that wasn't, in fact, the case. And I
- 4:48Speaker 1: found out literally what was going on because about 10
- 4:51Speaker 1: years after we moved in, I met a lady in
- 4:53Speaker 1: her 80s who walked into our kitchen one Saturday afternoon
- 4:57Speaker 1: and explained exactly what why they were built that high
- 5:02Speaker 1: and in that manner. And she was really confident, you know,
- 5:05Speaker 1: in the reasoning behind, you know, what she was saying
- 5:07Speaker 1: because her dad was the one who had built them
- 5:09Speaker 1: and she'd grown up in the house. That was such
- 5:12Speaker 1: a great opportunity, you know, to meet her, to walk
- 5:16Speaker 1: through my house and hear all the stories that she
- 5:20Speaker 1: remembered from years and years back, you know, growing up
- 5:23Speaker 1: there as a little girl. I ate all of that
- 5:25Speaker 1: up and I ate it up because I'd been thinking
- 5:28Speaker 1: about all of these stories and wondering about these stories,
- 5:31Speaker 1: not just the cabinets, for years. You know, thinking about
- 5:34Speaker 1: the people who had lived there before me, what they'd done,
- 5:37Speaker 1: what they'd been like, all of that stuff. And I
- 5:40Speaker 1: was thinking about all of those things, partly because the
- 5:43Speaker 1: cabinets get you wondering, because it was so strange. But
- 5:47Speaker 1: mostly I was thinking about those things when that lady visited,
- 5:51Speaker 1: because like a year or so after I bought the house,
- 5:54Speaker 1: There was this old dingy room in the basement, you know, far,
- 5:59Speaker 1: far reaches of the of this old Michigan basement. There
- 6:02Speaker 1: was this little room. It had a workbench of sorts
- 6:05Speaker 1: against one wall. And then it had floor to ceiling
- 6:07Speaker 1: wood shelves that ran all along an adjoining wall. You know,
- 6:10Speaker 1: like I said, it was this creepy old basement, old
- 6:12Speaker 1: Michigan basement, whatever you want to call it. So at first,
- 6:15Speaker 1: when we moved in, we didn't really do anything with it.
- 6:18Speaker 1: You know, we just kind of, yeah, the basement's there. Yeah, unfortunately,
- 6:21Speaker 1: that's where the laundry is. And let's just not spend
- 6:24Speaker 1: a lot of time down there because we don't know
- 6:26Speaker 1: what's lurking down there. It was a creepy old basement.
- 6:30Speaker 1: But once I got there and, you know, we started
- 6:33Speaker 1: living in the house, I really soon began to need
- 6:36Speaker 1: a dedicated, you know, room or workshop, you know, for tools,
- 6:41Speaker 1: for things like that. Since there already was a workbench
- 6:44Speaker 1: in that room and the shelves were already there, I
- 6:46Speaker 1: decided that was the room for it. So I started
- 6:48Speaker 1: working down there to get it all fixed up. And
- 6:51Speaker 1: it was so much fun at that point. You know,
- 6:53Speaker 1: it's a new house. It's my first house. This is
- 6:56Speaker 1: my domain, right? And I'm making this little space that
- 7:01Speaker 1: I'm going to, you know, largely be the person working
- 7:03Speaker 1: in it. I'm making it exactly the way I wanted
- 7:05Speaker 1: it to be. I remember just completely on top of
- 7:09Speaker 1: the world. My kid has his first house right now.
- 7:12Speaker 1: Same thing. You know, once you get to your second
- 7:14Speaker 1: and third, now the work, it's not quite as exciting
- 7:18Speaker 1: when you see that you get to do these things.
- 7:19Speaker 1: But in the beginning... It's like, oh, wow, you know,
- 7:22Speaker 1: I can do this and dad's not going to take
- 7:24Speaker 1: the sander out of my hand and do it for me.
- 7:26Speaker 1: I get to do all these things. The world at
- 7:29Speaker 1: that point was my oyster. I really, really remember those days. Anyway,
- 7:34Speaker 1: I worked at Repcolite back then. I was already doing that.
- 7:37Speaker 1: I was working in the Lakewood store in Holland. And
- 7:39Speaker 1: so many of the conversations that I had with customers,
- 7:43Speaker 1: you know, all through those times revolved around exactly that.
- 7:46Speaker 1: what I talk about on the radio now, making your home,
- 7:49Speaker 1: your space, exactly what you want it to be. And finally,
- 7:52Speaker 1: I was able to do that with my own home.
- 7:55Speaker 1: The previous owners had made that main level almost perfect,
- 7:58Speaker 1: and that was really nice. You know, it was a
- 8:00Speaker 1: big selling point to the house. But God, you know,
- 8:04Speaker 1: just after a little bit of time there, I realized
- 8:07Speaker 1: that I really had the itch to do something, but
- 8:10Speaker 1: everything seemed to be done. I could tackle the upstairs.
- 8:12Speaker 1: The upstairs needed work, but it needed A lot of work.
- 8:15Speaker 1: I needed a mid-range project to kind of get me
- 8:17Speaker 1: moving because I hadn't done a lot of this before.
- 8:20Speaker 1: You know, I'd done some furniture refinishing and things like that, but,
- 8:23Speaker 1: you know, not taking on rooms and stuff. So that
- 8:25Speaker 1: upstairs was going to wait. This workshop was perfect. You know,
- 8:29Speaker 1: this was my way that I was going to put
- 8:30Speaker 1: my stamp on the house. And I know it was
- 8:33Speaker 1: just a workshop. You know, nothing that exciting. But anybody
- 8:36Speaker 1: who has one knows there's really no such thing as
- 8:38Speaker 1: just a workshop. They're like man caves with a purpose.
- 8:42Speaker 1: You know, a purpose beyond TV and lounging or whatever
- 8:45Speaker 1: man caves are for. These are creative hubs, these little rooms.
- 8:49Speaker 1: This is where maintenance gets done. You know, you do
- 8:53Speaker 1: tool stuff. This is where Pinewood Derby cars get, you know,
- 8:56Speaker 1: built and painted and stuff like that. This is where
- 8:58Speaker 1: dollhouses are painstakingly glued together and painted and wallpapered and
- 9:04Speaker 1: prepared for Christmas presents for daughters. This is where bookcases
- 9:08Speaker 1: are constructed. That's workshops. It's a great space. So I
- 9:11Speaker 1: was super excited to make this space, this workshop, mine.
- 9:14Speaker 1: So I got to work in there and I started
- 9:16Speaker 1: with the floors and the walls, spent some time getting
- 9:19Speaker 1: them all cleaned up, you know, getting rid of the
- 9:21Speaker 1: spider webs and the dirt and all of that stuff.
- 9:24Speaker 1: And in the process of doing all of that, you know,
- 9:27Speaker 1: while constantly brainstorming what I was going to do with
- 9:29Speaker 1: the room, I found some writing on one of the walls,
- 9:32Speaker 1: you know, real writing, you know, not, not figurative writing
- 9:35Speaker 1: on the walls, real writing on the walls. And it
- 9:37Speaker 1: was all done in pencil and It was all cursive.
- 9:41Speaker 1: And at first I absolutely thought I'd struck it rich.
- 9:45Speaker 1: I really did. It was tough to read in the
- 9:48Speaker 1: light that I had. I didn't have very much light
- 9:52Speaker 1: in there. And so it was tough to read, tough
- 9:54Speaker 1: to notice. And in fact, I only noticed it in
- 9:57Speaker 1: the first place because I was moving a work light
- 9:59Speaker 1: around the room. so I could actually see what I
- 10:01Speaker 1: was doing in another corner. And as the light played
- 10:04Speaker 1: across it on the wall, I noticed it when I
- 10:07Speaker 1: did that. Anyway, I started looking at it. It was
- 10:10Speaker 1: tough to read. And as I stood there with my
- 10:12Speaker 1: light against the wall, I really did feel a little
- 10:15Speaker 1: bit like Indiana Jones. I was not nearly as mature
- 10:19Speaker 1: as I am now back then. I had dreams of grandeur.
- 10:24Speaker 1: You know what? I just had dreams. The dreams quit
- 10:27Speaker 1: after a while, but back then I still had them.
- 10:30Speaker 1: You know, anyway, I felt like Indiana Jones and I
- 10:32Speaker 1: was sure that I was going to read on the
- 10:34Speaker 1: wall at some point, you know, something that said five
- 10:37Speaker 1: paces west from the giant maple. There we buried the
- 10:40Speaker 1: great treasure. You know, something like that. Like I said,
- 10:43Speaker 1: like Sam joking, but I was really convinced there was
- 10:46Speaker 1: something pretty good out there. You know, there's a reason
- 10:49Speaker 1: somebody wrote this this cryptic stuff on the walls. and
- 10:53Speaker 1: it's going to be treasure, and I'm going to find it,
- 10:55Speaker 1: and oh my goodness, every dream I've ever had is
- 10:58Speaker 1: going to come true when I'm looking at all that gold.
- 11:01Speaker 1: That's what I was thinking. Something like that. Anyway, I
- 11:04Speaker 1: leaned in close. I started working out the faded words,
- 11:07Speaker 1: and I could see 1940. I figured that out, and
- 11:11Speaker 1: a great big line underneath it, and I was so excited.
- 11:14Speaker 1: This was old stuff, right? Old treasure. I was wondering
- 11:18Speaker 1: where my shovel was. so I could get out there
- 11:21Speaker 1: and start digging right away. But I needed the exact
- 11:23Speaker 1: location first, so I kept reading. In 1940, four, what's
- 11:28Speaker 1: that word? Four quarts of pickles, five quarts of peaches,
- 11:33Speaker 1: eight quarts of green beans, and so on. So no treasure,
- 11:38Speaker 1: just a list of foods that the people back in
- 11:42Speaker 1: 1940 had canned. And I was a little bit bummed,
- 11:44Speaker 1: but it really wasn't too bad, right? It was still
- 11:47Speaker 1: pretty interesting to read all those things. And when I
- 11:50Speaker 1: kept examining the wall, I found more lists, the same
- 11:53Speaker 1: thick cursive strokes, but this time for 1941, 1942, 1943,
- 11:57Speaker 1: ending in 1944. Quarts and quarts and quarts of pickles
- 12:00Speaker 1: and beans and tomatoes and peaches and jams. You name it,
- 12:04Speaker 1: they canned it. So I stood there a long time
- 12:07Speaker 1: reading over all of these things and then, you know,
- 12:10Speaker 1: looking at the shelves against my other wall and I
- 12:13Speaker 1: started imagining them. full of these jars, you know, mason
- 12:16Speaker 1: jars lined up, you know, two deep, three deep, you know,
- 12:20Speaker 1: I could picture it all. And I started thinking about
- 12:23Speaker 1: the work that somebody put in all those years ago
- 12:25Speaker 1: to stock those shelves. And then I started thinking about
- 12:28Speaker 1: the kids coming down to get a jar of peaches.
- 12:31Speaker 1: I could hear the pop of the lid when the
- 12:33Speaker 1: seal broke, you know, that little, you know, that Pop,
- 12:37Speaker 1: I can't do it, but you know what I'm talking about.
- 12:38Speaker 1: You know what mason jars sound like when you break
- 12:41Speaker 1: that seal and open them up. Pretty good stuff. You know,
- 12:44Speaker 1: I bet those kids snuck peaches. That's what I kept thinking,
- 12:47Speaker 1: because I would have snuck peaches. I bet they did.
- 12:50Speaker 1: I thought about all of that stuff, and it was
- 12:52Speaker 1: a little bit strange to think about how my home
- 12:56Speaker 1: wasn't really mine. This should not have been a newsflash
- 13:00Speaker 1: to me, and I don't know really why it was,
- 13:02Speaker 1: and I don't really know why it still plays out
- 13:04Speaker 1: in my mind as such a Such a big deal,
- 13:08Speaker 1: you know, but I could clearly picture that that was
- 13:11Speaker 1: one of the first times that it hit me that
- 13:13Speaker 1: this isn't really, you know, mine, not solely mine anyway.
- 13:17Speaker 1: I'm kind of moving through here. The house had already
- 13:20Speaker 1: seen so much by the time I got there. You know,
- 13:24Speaker 1: that was the first time I really appreciated its age
- 13:26Speaker 1: and its history and all of that. I think it's
- 13:29Speaker 1: just so easy to get focused on the changes that
- 13:32Speaker 1: we're going to make or the upgrades that we're going
- 13:35Speaker 1: to do to this space because it's our house. You know,
- 13:39Speaker 1: we get so focused on it. This little discovery made
- 13:41Speaker 1: me realize how much bigger things were and how much smaller,
- 13:45Speaker 1: you know, my part in the house's history really was.
- 13:49Speaker 1: I don't know. It was a little strange, and for
- 13:51Speaker 1: some reason, I really enjoyed reading all of that and
- 13:53Speaker 1: connecting with the people who'd been there before. But that
- 13:57Speaker 1: turned out to be just the start. There's way more
- 14:00Speaker 1: that happened, and we're going to dig into that right
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- 14:24Speaker 1: sponsored by Benjamin Moore. And we're talking about my first
- 14:28Speaker 1: house in Zealand. It was a nice little house in
- 14:31Speaker 1: town built in 1928. And I mentioned last segment, but
- 14:35Speaker 1: after about a year or so being there, I decided
- 14:37Speaker 1: I was going to convert this old dingy room in
- 14:40Speaker 1: the basement into a workshop. And when I started doing
- 14:42Speaker 1: the work, I found several lists of food items that
- 14:46Speaker 1: the previous owners had canned and stored down there dating
- 14:49Speaker 1: all the way back to the 1940s. And that was
- 14:52Speaker 1: super cool. But there was way more to be discovered,
- 14:56Speaker 1: you know, because after finding those lists on the walls,
- 14:59Speaker 1: I went and finished the cleaning and I painted the
- 15:01Speaker 1: walls and the floors. I painted all the areas on
- 15:04Speaker 1: the walls except the parts with the writing on them.
- 15:07Speaker 1: You know, I left those alone. I couldn't paint over those.
- 15:10Speaker 1: I left them alone. But when I got all, you know,
- 15:12Speaker 1: everything painted, the floors and the walls, I turned my
- 15:15Speaker 1: attention to the shelves. Because like I said, there was
- 15:17Speaker 1: an entire wall of shelves that needed some attention as well.
- 15:22Speaker 1: You know, they were empty, but they needed to be cleaned,
- 15:24Speaker 1: and I wanted to get them painted. So I started
- 15:27Speaker 1: working on those, and I discovered very quickly that the
- 15:30Speaker 1: top shelves were all lined with newspapers that were all
- 15:33Speaker 1: from October of 1943. Now, they weren't in pristine condition.
- 15:37Speaker 1: You know, they weren't inherently valuable items. but they were
- 15:40Speaker 1: so interesting to read through. You know, I was reading
- 15:44Speaker 1: them and there's news regarding the war. You know, of course,
- 15:47Speaker 1: that was the big story throughout all of the little
- 15:50Speaker 1: paper sections that I had. American troops were fighting their
- 15:54Speaker 1: way through Italy at that point. Bombers were being sent
- 15:57Speaker 1: over Germany. So all of that was the big news
- 16:00Speaker 1: of the day in those newspapers that I found. And
- 16:02Speaker 1: I'm reading that in that little room. But right alongside
- 16:05Speaker 1: all of that There were the normal ads and the
- 16:08Speaker 1: ordinary local stories you'd expect to find. It was so
- 16:12Speaker 1: crazy interesting. I sat there, I don't know, I sat
- 16:17Speaker 1: there for probably a good couple hours, I would think,
- 16:19Speaker 1: just reading through the stories, looking at the ads and
- 16:22Speaker 1: thinking about how all these people had no idea where
- 16:26Speaker 1: anything was going, you know, in terms of world events.
- 16:30Speaker 1: I was reading it, you know, 60 years after the fact,
- 16:33Speaker 1: and I knew how things turned out. But back then,
- 16:36Speaker 1: Of course, this isn't rocket science, but of course, they
- 16:38Speaker 1: were living it day to day, paper to paper. All
- 16:42Speaker 1: of that discovery in my home happened in one single day.
- 16:46Speaker 1: And I remember that day so vividly. You know, it's
- 16:49Speaker 1: one of the days that just it's emblazoned in my
- 16:52Speaker 1: memory for some reason. I don't quite get it. But
- 16:55Speaker 1: I know it was a Saturday morning. It was December.
- 16:58Speaker 1: There was snow on the ground. Snow was coming down.
- 17:01Speaker 1: kind of hard. We were getting a storm coming in later.
- 17:03Speaker 1: I was watching it continue to pile up outside the
- 17:05Speaker 1: window of that little room. I had a little space
- 17:08Speaker 1: heater going. The work light was hanging from a hook
- 17:10Speaker 1: in a corner. And I was sitting on the top
- 17:12Speaker 1: step of a stepladder so I could get at the shelves,
- 17:15Speaker 1: reading old newspapers and thinking about life and about how
- 17:19Speaker 1: life moves. I was thinking about the people who were
- 17:23Speaker 1: living in the house at the time, the same people
- 17:26Speaker 1: who were canning all those vegetables and all that fruit
- 17:29Speaker 1: and all those pickles and You know, they'd sat down
- 17:31Speaker 1: one night with this exact paper, kept thinking about that.
- 17:34Speaker 1: They were holding it probably, you know, exactly like I
- 17:37Speaker 1: was holding it right now, holding it in the same spots.
- 17:40Speaker 1: Their hands were in the same spots as they read
- 17:41Speaker 1: through these stories. But they weren't reading them, you know,
- 17:45Speaker 1: and feeling the interest or the excitement that I was feeling.
- 17:48Speaker 1: They were literally living those events. You know, I'm looking back.
- 17:51Speaker 1: I knew the outcomes. But for them, each story they
- 17:54Speaker 1: read ended with a giant, you know, unspoken to be
- 17:57Speaker 1: continued story. There was no guarantee of any given outcome.
- 18:01Speaker 1: Nobody knew what was coming. I sat there wondering if
- 18:04Speaker 1: they had a son in the fighting or a nephew
- 18:06Speaker 1: or a grandchild. If so, did he come home safely?
- 18:09Speaker 1: Did they lose him? How worried were they when they
- 18:11Speaker 1: read the stories? You know, did they have kids in
- 18:13Speaker 1: the house? Were they telling the kids to shh, just
- 18:15Speaker 1: be quiet a little bit because I'm reading through this.
- 18:17Speaker 1: You know, they needed a little more peace and quiet
- 18:20Speaker 1: to get through a stressful report. I don't know. But
- 18:23Speaker 1: as I flipped through those papers, I realized I did
- 18:26Speaker 1: know that whatever happened and however they experienced the news
- 18:29Speaker 1: in the war, they kept going, right? I had lists
- 18:32Speaker 1: of all the canned goods that they produced and stored
- 18:34Speaker 1: down there a year or so after the date on
- 18:36Speaker 1: this paper, and I'm sure they did that work beyond. Anyway,
- 18:40Speaker 1: I remember just sitting there and realizing that this wasn't
- 18:43Speaker 1: just my house, right? That was the real heavy point
- 18:46Speaker 1: that landed on me. So many other people had been here,
- 18:49Speaker 1: laughing and crying and living in all these different rooms.
- 18:52Speaker 1: It was so interesting. And it got in my head.
- 18:55Speaker 1: And really, there's just tons more that I want to
- 18:57Speaker 1: talk about. So we're going to do that right after this.
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- 19:16Speaker 1: And we're back. You're listening to Home in Progress by
- 19:18Speaker 1: Repco Light Paints, sponsored by Benjamin Moore. And we're talking
- 19:22Speaker 1: about houses. More specifically, I guess, we're talking about some
- 19:25Speaker 1: strange or interesting things that we found in our houses
- 19:29Speaker 1: and what they say about the people who lived there
- 19:31Speaker 1: before us. And I was focusing mostly on my own
- 19:34Speaker 1: home in Zeeland, my first house, and how I found
- 19:37Speaker 1: some interesting stuff from the 40s in the basement when
- 19:40Speaker 1: I went to renovate a room down there. I found
- 19:42Speaker 1: lists of goods that had been canned in those years.
- 19:45Speaker 1: And I found some newspaper articles about World War Two
- 19:48Speaker 1: that had been kept on some shelves. But those weren't
- 19:51Speaker 1: the only things that we found in the house. You know,
- 19:53Speaker 1: I found an old screwdriver in the walls when we
- 19:55Speaker 1: were doing some electrical work and we had to pull
- 19:58Speaker 1: the boxes out. That was super cool. You know, it
- 20:00Speaker 1: was fun to imagine the story behind that. You know,
- 20:03Speaker 1: I assume somebody dropped it and either tried and tried
- 20:05Speaker 1: to fish it out or they didn't know that it
- 20:08Speaker 1: had slipped in and they spent a couple hours looking
- 20:11Speaker 1: for it. Right. You know, trying to figure out where
- 20:13Speaker 1: in the world did I leave that? I thought that
- 20:15Speaker 1: was kind of fun. You know, so I found that.
- 20:17Speaker 1: I also found more scribbled writing behind some cabinet doors
- 20:21Speaker 1: that were just fakes, you know, in the kitchen. They'd
- 20:24Speaker 1: been installed over a run of ducks or something like that,
- 20:26Speaker 1: and they were just nailed in place with hinges. So
- 20:29Speaker 1: it looked like they were cabinet doors. I assumed they
- 20:31Speaker 1: were just painted shut. I didn't put it together that
- 20:35Speaker 1: there was nothing behind them until we were doing some
- 20:37Speaker 1: work in the kitchen. We were painting everything. And I
- 20:39Speaker 1: pulled the doors off, popped them off finally. And rather
- 20:43Speaker 1: than new storage space, which is what I expected to
- 20:46Speaker 1: discover there, I was so excited to find new storage
- 20:49Speaker 1: space for the kitchen. But instead of finding storage space,
- 20:53Speaker 1: I found a bunch of writing on the wall behind
- 20:56Speaker 1: where those cupboard doors were. And this time it was
- 20:59Speaker 1: a map or at least instructions to find some item
- 21:04Speaker 1: in the yard. You know, if you remember the first segment,
- 21:06Speaker 1: I talked about the canned goods and all of that.
- 21:08Speaker 1: When I first found those lists, I didn't know what
- 21:10Speaker 1: I was looking at because I couldn't read them in
- 21:13Speaker 1: the dark down there until I got lights on them.
- 21:15Speaker 1: And at first I thought I was going to find
- 21:17Speaker 1: a treasure map down there because I live in a
- 21:21Speaker 1: kind of a crazy reality in my head, you know.
- 21:25Speaker 1: I'm always looking and expecting to find something amazing just
- 21:28Speaker 1: around the corner. Some buried treasure or something like in
- 21:31Speaker 1: the movies. But this time when I pulled those doors down,
- 21:35Speaker 1: I could see it literally was a map. It was
- 21:37Speaker 1: giving coordinates and instructions west, east, this many steps. It
- 21:42Speaker 1: was super exciting. I was pumped. And I don't think
- 21:46Speaker 1: I've ever told anybody out loud. I've talked about this
- 21:49Speaker 1: find before. But I don't think I've really stressed how
- 21:54Speaker 1: literally I believed something valuable was hidden in the yard.
- 21:59Speaker 1: I've always kind of made a joke about it that, oh,
- 22:02Speaker 1: I'm going to go find treasure. I 100% believed I
- 22:06Speaker 1: was on the verge of a treasure find that people
- 22:10Speaker 1: were going to be talking about for years. You know,
- 22:13Speaker 1: the pirates who came to Zealand and buried treasure and
- 22:16Speaker 1: little Danny Hansen found it on his yard when he
- 22:19Speaker 1: was remodeling his kitchen cabinets or something like that. Anyway,
- 22:22Speaker 1: I found those instructions. I followed them to the T.
- 22:25Speaker 1: I went out in the dark at night, which I
- 22:28Speaker 1: thought was smart at the time. I thought that was
- 22:32Speaker 1: smart because people wouldn't see me digging because I'm very
- 22:35Speaker 1: self-conscious about things like that. And I didn't want to
- 22:38Speaker 1: look dumb. You know, I don't know why digging my
- 22:42Speaker 1: yard would look dumb. Digging in my yard in daylight
- 22:46Speaker 1: doesn't look dumb. It doesn't look suspicious. It's just a
- 22:49Speaker 1: guy digging in his yard. I should have thought that through.
- 22:52Speaker 1: But instead I went in, you know, at night under
- 22:55Speaker 1: the cover of darkness and I dug then and I
- 22:59Speaker 1: didn't stop to think that that's really weird. That is
- 23:02Speaker 1: something that will draw attention. Guys digging in their yard
- 23:05Speaker 1: in the daylight, who knows what they're looking for, but
- 23:07Speaker 1: nobody thinks twice. Digging in your yard at night, you're
- 23:10Speaker 1: burying something. right? Somebody, maybe. Fortunately, none of that played out.
- 23:18Speaker 1: And I did my little digging and dodged all those
- 23:21Speaker 1: bullets of what the neighbors might have thought, at least
- 23:23Speaker 1: as far as I know. But I didn't find anything.
- 23:27Speaker 1: But I did learn what those instructions were for. You know,
- 23:30Speaker 1: I mentioned that a lady visited my house. I mentioned
- 23:32Speaker 1: that in the first segment, like 10 years after we
- 23:34Speaker 1: bought the house, a lady visited and she had lived
- 23:38Speaker 1: in the house. Her dad had built the house And
- 23:40Speaker 1: when she visited, she explained that what those instructions were
- 23:44Speaker 1: for was probably for what you've already guessed. It was
- 23:48Speaker 1: the property line, you know, or the corner where the
- 23:50Speaker 1: property lines meet. So that's what I was digging for. No,
- 23:54Speaker 1: no treasure. And I wasn't burying bodies or anything like that.
- 23:57Speaker 1: It was kind of a big letdown. But I did
- 23:59Speaker 1: find that in the house. Anyway, those were some of
- 24:02Speaker 1: the things that I discovered in the old house. But
- 24:04Speaker 1: let's get back to that visitor, right? Because we've got
- 24:07Speaker 1: to deal with this. I had this lady stop by.
- 24:10Speaker 1: You know, I'd been in the house for, like I said,
- 24:13Speaker 1: probably 10 years, maybe less than that at that point.
- 24:16Speaker 1: And I'm working. It's a Saturday and there's a knock
- 24:19Speaker 1: on the door. I open it up. There's our neighbor lady.
- 24:22Speaker 1: And there's this lady that I didn't know. And I
- 24:25Speaker 1: don't normally get visitors. I'm not socially good, I guess,
- 24:27Speaker 1: is maybe the It's not the best way to say it,
- 24:34Speaker 1: but you know what I'm talking about. I'm socially awkward.
- 24:36Speaker 1: I stumble a lot. And so I was very nervous. Oh,
- 24:41Speaker 1: there's new people here. Oh, my goodness. I've got to,
- 24:44Speaker 1: you know, entertain or, you know, just have a normal conversation.
- 24:47Speaker 1: And I struggled to do that. But I stumbled through
- 24:50Speaker 1: and it turned out that this lady who I didn't
- 24:53Speaker 1: know was a friend, obviously, of my neighbors. And she
- 24:56Speaker 1: was visiting for the weekend. And that she'd love to
- 24:58Speaker 1: walk through our house because her dad had built it.
- 25:00Speaker 1: And that was really exciting to me. And, you know,
- 25:02Speaker 1: who in their right mind says no to something like that?
- 25:05Speaker 1: You can't come through. So, of course, just please come through.
- 25:09Speaker 1: Walk through the house. That'll be great. So she came in,
- 25:12Speaker 1: walked through, and that's another day that I remember so
- 25:16Speaker 1: vividly that Saturday afternoon. She was so happy. She walked
- 25:19Speaker 1: from room to room. She told a story after story.
- 25:23Speaker 1: It was absolute gold to just be walking through and
- 25:26Speaker 1: listening to everything she said. I can't recount all of it.
- 25:30Speaker 1: It would take too long. But I remember a story
- 25:33Speaker 1: about the dining room. We walked through the dining room.
- 25:36Speaker 1: She pointed out the three big windows that are above
- 25:38Speaker 1: the table. And she explained how one day they were
- 25:41Speaker 1: eating dinner. Her mom, her dad, her brother, they're all
- 25:45Speaker 1: sitting there eating dinner. A storm's coming through. and lightning
- 25:48Speaker 1: literally came in through the window, is how she described it,
- 25:51Speaker 1: flew across the room, you know, along the wall, and
- 25:54Speaker 1: then shot away into the kitchen somewhere and left the
- 25:57Speaker 1: house in one way or another. But she pointed out
- 25:59Speaker 1: a corner in the dining room. It's all covered with
- 26:01Speaker 1: wallpaper now. But she pointed out a corner that she
- 26:04Speaker 1: said was completely scorched after that. They had a line
- 26:08Speaker 1: across it where the lightning had gone. She described all
- 26:11Speaker 1: of that. It was so interesting to sit there and listen.
- 26:14Speaker 1: And then every time we had a storm... We all
- 26:16Speaker 1: hunkered down a little bit lower. Didn't know, you know,
- 26:20Speaker 1: I know lightning doesn't strike twice in the same place.
- 26:23Speaker 1: That's what they say. But, you know, when you're me,
- 26:26Speaker 1: you plan on it anyway. So that was interesting. Then
- 26:29Speaker 1: we went to the porch, you know, my front porch.
- 26:31Speaker 1: I talked about that earlier, how I love that porch.
- 26:33Speaker 1: That was my porch. She talked about how this was
- 26:36Speaker 1: her brother's porch. And he was a year older, maybe
- 26:40Speaker 1: a couple years older than her. I can't remember anymore.
- 26:42Speaker 1: But that's where he slept all summer long and into
- 26:46Speaker 1: the fall. He loved it as much as I loved
- 26:48Speaker 1: it all those years ago. You know, it was his
- 26:51Speaker 1: makeshift room because his usual room upstairs was way too hot.
- 26:56Speaker 1: So she talked about that. She talked about how all
- 26:57Speaker 1: the porches up and down the block usually had somebody
- 27:00Speaker 1: sleeping on it through the summer months to stay cool.
- 27:03Speaker 1: So we talked about all of that. Then we made
- 27:05Speaker 1: our way into the kitchen and she talked about how
- 27:07Speaker 1: her dad built all of this, you know, the whole house,
- 27:10Speaker 1: but the cabinets and all of that and how he
- 27:12Speaker 1: laid it out himself, you know. And finally, I couldn't resist.
- 27:17Speaker 1: I had to get these answers. So I asked about
- 27:19Speaker 1: the cabinets because if you remember the cabinets in the kitchen,
- 27:22Speaker 1: I had two walls that had normal upper and lower,
- 27:25Speaker 1: you know, basic cabinets. And then we had this one
- 27:28Speaker 1: section where the uppers, that's all there were against this
- 27:31Speaker 1: one wall, were uppers. And It was crazy high, crazy high.
- 27:36Speaker 1: I could stand underneath them and not bump my head.
- 27:39Speaker 1: You know, we couldn't reach the shelves. I talked about that.
- 27:42Speaker 1: I needed to know why that was there. Why was
- 27:45Speaker 1: it like that? You know, why so high? And her
- 27:48Speaker 1: answer was so crazy simple. You know, I don't know.
- 27:52Speaker 1: Maybe you thought about it. Maybe you guessed at it.
- 27:55Speaker 1: But when they built the house, they had a huge
- 27:57Speaker 1: chest freezer that sat right there. As simple as that,
- 28:01Speaker 1: as practical as that. Her dad wanted to make sure
- 28:03Speaker 1: that when you open the lid... You know, when his
- 28:05Speaker 1: wife would open the lid to get something out, it
- 28:07Speaker 1: could completely open without bumping into the cabinets above it.
- 28:11Speaker 1: That's it. As simple as that. That's why they were
- 28:13Speaker 1: that high so that the lid, you know, the, yeah,
- 28:17Speaker 1: the lid, the door could be opened up. And then
- 28:20Speaker 1: later when that chest freezer was moved out and life
- 28:23Speaker 1: moved on and different appliances came in, the cabinets, of course,
- 28:26Speaker 1: remained and they just stayed there just like that. And
- 28:30Speaker 1: eventually the whole meaning behind the architectural, you know, weirdness
- 28:34Speaker 1: of it, was completely lost and people were just wondering
- 28:37Speaker 1: about it. I'm sure other people who've lived in that house,
- 28:39Speaker 1: the people in there now, have to be wondering why
- 28:41Speaker 1: they're that high. I know. If they're listening to the show,
- 28:45Speaker 1: now you know why they're that high. If you're on
- 28:47Speaker 1: Park Street in Zealand, you got high cabinets, that's why. Anyway,
- 28:51Speaker 1: when the lady left, she told us that she was
- 28:53Speaker 1: going to send us something special as a thank you
- 28:56Speaker 1: for letting her visit. And I figured we'd get a
- 28:58Speaker 1: card Or something like that. You know, if she even
- 29:01Speaker 1: thought to send anything, you know, that's me. I'll send
- 29:05Speaker 1: you a thank you. Oh, I can't wait to send
- 29:06Speaker 1: you this or that. And I completely forget. People never
- 29:09Speaker 1: get anything from me. I mean, well, it's not that
- 29:11Speaker 1: I'm lying when I say that I want to send
- 29:14Speaker 1: these things. I do want to send them. I guess
- 29:16Speaker 1: I just don't want to send them bad enough to
- 29:18Speaker 1: actually send them. So anyway, I wasn't really expecting anything
- 29:22Speaker 1: from her. She lived in Texas or something like that.
- 29:25Speaker 1: I assumed she'd forget she was older. She was older.
- 29:29Speaker 1: Not sure. Well, her memories seem pretty good, though, so
- 29:32Speaker 1: I guess I should have expected something. But anyway, blah, blah, blah.
- 29:36Speaker 1: I didn't expect to get a little thank you or anything,
- 29:38Speaker 1: but a couple weeks later... something did show up. A
- 29:41Speaker 1: little note with a box. And I'll tell you what
- 29:43Speaker 1: she sent, and we'll wrap all of this up right
- 29:46Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to Home in Progress, where the
- 29:51Speaker 1: projects are real, the mistakes. They're educational, sometimes painful, mostly educational.
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- 30:01Speaker 1: on your bathroom wall is your determination to get it fixed.
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- 30:14Speaker 1: in Progress by Repco Light Paints, sponsored by Benjamin Moore.
- 30:18Speaker 1: And I'm just kind of talking about some experiences that
- 30:20Speaker 1: I had with my first house. You know, how it
- 30:22Speaker 1: was an old house, how I found cool things in
- 30:25Speaker 1: it that dated back decades and decades, and how those
- 30:28Speaker 1: things that I found kind of connected me to the
- 30:31Speaker 1: people who lived there before me. You know, it was
- 30:33Speaker 1: just a really interesting experience. And last segment, I talked
- 30:37Speaker 1: about how I met the daughter of the guy who
- 30:39Speaker 1: built the house. She had grown up in the house
- 30:42Speaker 1: and she had so many stories about it. and all
- 30:45Speaker 1: the time that she spent there. You know, she loved
- 30:47Speaker 1: it as much as I loved the house. Anyway, when
- 30:49Speaker 1: she left, she promised to send us a thank you.
- 30:52Speaker 1: And a few weeks later, this little package with a
- 30:54Speaker 1: note showed up. And the note, you know, it was
- 30:58Speaker 1: a nice thank you. And then it mentioned at the
- 31:01Speaker 1: bottom of the little note that in the box, there
- 31:03Speaker 1: was something that as a little girl, she really had loved.
- 31:07Speaker 1: And when we opened up that box, what we found
- 31:09Speaker 1: was a globe for a ceiling fixture. And she explained
- 31:12Speaker 1: in her note that this was the globe that was
- 31:15Speaker 1: positioned over the light in her room all the time
- 31:18Speaker 1: that she lived in the house. And she'd taken it
- 31:20Speaker 1: with her when she left the house. And now she
- 31:23Speaker 1: wanted to have it back in the house. It was
- 31:25Speaker 1: such a cool series of events for me. You know,
- 31:28Speaker 1: I love that old house because of what it was
- 31:31Speaker 1: for us and for my family. You know, the story
- 31:33Speaker 1: that we told when we were living there, the story
- 31:35Speaker 1: that we lived when we were living there. But I
- 31:37Speaker 1: also loved being part of the house's story. Right. You know,
- 31:41Speaker 1: I tend to think of a home as something that
- 31:44Speaker 1: moves into and out of my life. You know, I
- 31:47Speaker 1: keep my focus on me and my family and so on.
- 31:50Speaker 1: But all those events with that old house, all the
- 31:52Speaker 1: things that I just talked about kind of made me
- 31:54Speaker 1: rethink that a bit. And it really changed how I
- 31:58Speaker 1: look at houses and all of these things. But let's
- 32:01Speaker 1: just keep it to houses specifically from that point on,
- 32:05Speaker 1: you know, that the house was there for all these people.
- 32:07Speaker 1: It wasn't just for me. It wasn't just my place.
- 32:11Speaker 1: It was there for all these people, you know, all
- 32:13Speaker 1: these families and through all kinds of situations through all
- 32:16Speaker 1: those years. You know, it was built 10 years after
- 32:19Speaker 1: World War I ended, just years before the Great Depression started.
- 32:23Speaker 1: It was there through World War II, Korea, Vietnam. You know,
- 32:26Speaker 1: at some point in the mid-60s, Beatles songs were bouncing
- 32:31Speaker 1: off the walls, you know, coming out of a record
- 32:33Speaker 1: player or a radio or something like that. The house
- 32:35Speaker 1: was there through the 70s, through the 80s. We bought it,
- 32:38Speaker 1: like I said, in 1999. Raised five kids there, or
- 32:41Speaker 1: at least started the process of raising them. I changed
- 32:44Speaker 1: my first diapers. You know, the first diaper, not my diapers.
- 32:49Speaker 1: Changing my own diapers. That's an interesting thought, but I'm
- 32:52Speaker 1: not going to think about that. I'm just going to
- 32:53Speaker 1: move on. I changed the first diapers of my career
- 32:57Speaker 1: in that house. You know, dealt with babies crying, with
- 33:00Speaker 1: kids laughing, with the TV blaring. I remember watching the
- 33:03Speaker 1: Tigers go to the World Series in 2006, standing just
- 33:07Speaker 1: feet away. from where the lightning came through the window
- 33:09Speaker 1: and scorched the wall back in 1952 or whatever year
- 33:13Speaker 1: it was. And that's just my home, my experiences, and
- 33:17Speaker 1: the 20 or whatever people who've shared that space since
- 33:24Speaker 1: 1928 with me. I don't know how many there were,
- 33:26Speaker 1: but those are the things that we've kind of shared,
- 33:29Speaker 1: whether we know it or not. We've kind of collectively
- 33:31Speaker 1: shared those things. It's just my home, that home, that
- 33:36Speaker 1: one place. So many stories. in that one spot. And
- 33:39Speaker 1: all of our homes are like that. That's what I
- 33:41Speaker 1: think is so interesting. They've either got a past, you know,
- 33:44Speaker 1: a history, lives lived and experienced long before we bought them.
- 33:48Speaker 1: They've either got that or, you know, maybe we built
- 33:51Speaker 1: them and we're the starting point of all those stories.
- 33:55Speaker 1: But even though that may be the case and you
- 33:57Speaker 1: built the house that you're in, not to be all,
- 34:00Speaker 1: you know, rain cloudy here. or it's not really pessimistic.
- 34:04Speaker 1: It's not even meant to be dark, but there's coming
- 34:06Speaker 1: a day when somebody else is going to be wandering
- 34:09Speaker 1: those halls, right? You know, heading to go feed a
- 34:11Speaker 1: new baby at three in the morning, hoping to get
- 34:13Speaker 1: two more hours of sleep before the day starts, right?
- 34:16Speaker 1: That's all coming. Maybe you're the first people to have
- 34:20Speaker 1: that house, but more are coming. So what in the
- 34:23Speaker 1: blazes am I saying about all of this? And I
- 34:26Speaker 1: really don't know. I just got thinking about this because
- 34:30Speaker 1: of a story that I ran into last week. about
- 34:32Speaker 1: this guy who was doing renovations and he found a
- 34:35Speaker 1: first edition of the first Superman comic that came out.
- 34:38Speaker 1: You know, the first Superman comic. He found it in
- 34:41Speaker 1: his walls and it sold for $ 175, 000. He found it
- 34:45Speaker 1: in a house that he paid $ 10, 000 for in 2013.
- 34:49Speaker 1: And it had that wonderful little find tucked away in
- 34:53Speaker 1: the wall somewhere or on a shelf. I can't remember
- 34:55Speaker 1: the details. It doesn't matter. He found it in the house.
- 34:58Speaker 1: What's funny is, is that he lost, they estimate, about $ 75, 000
- 35:01Speaker 1: from the value. He sold it for $ 175, 000, but it
- 35:07Speaker 1: could have been $ 75, 000 more, except when he found it,
- 35:11Speaker 1: he and his, I believe it was his mother-in-law or
- 35:15Speaker 1: his wife's aunt or something like that, an in-law of
- 35:19Speaker 1: some sort, they kind of went back and forth tugging
- 35:22Speaker 1: on it because they were both intrigued about it, and
- 35:24Speaker 1: it ripped a little bit. So lost a fair amount
- 35:27Speaker 1: of value because of that, which is kind of funny.
- 35:30Speaker 1: Kind of funny if it's not you, you know, and
- 35:33Speaker 1: probably if you like that kind of thing, a lot
- 35:35Speaker 1: of people are nice and wouldn't find that funny at all.
- 35:37Speaker 1: I found it a little bit funny. Anyway, that story,
- 35:41Speaker 1: I found that story and I was going to focus
- 35:44Speaker 1: on that on the radio. And I was going to
- 35:46Speaker 1: make this one single segment about that. I was going
- 35:49Speaker 1: to start with my little nothing find of canned good
- 35:51Speaker 1: lists and old newspapers. And then I was going to
- 35:53Speaker 1: transition to stories about really valuable things that people have discovered,
- 35:57Speaker 1: you know, when they're doing renovations. But as I was
- 35:59Speaker 1: working on all that, I realized that my find in
- 36:03Speaker 1: the house was pretty valuable to me. You know, it was,
- 36:07Speaker 1: I can't say priceless, but it was really valuable to
- 36:09Speaker 1: find those things. It connected me in spirit, at least,
- 36:13Speaker 1: to people, you know, strangers who lived long before I
- 36:17Speaker 1: was even thought about. You know, there was a really
- 36:19Speaker 1: compelling human connection between And a strong feeling that while
- 36:24Speaker 1: I'm making this space suit my needs at this point,
- 36:27Speaker 1: the house is going to go on. And it's going
- 36:30Speaker 1: to adapt to meet other people's needs in the future.
- 36:32Speaker 1: There was just something profound about realizing that. And also
- 36:36Speaker 1: in realizing that as much as I loved my home,
- 36:39Speaker 1: people ahead of me, people who were no longer living,
- 36:41Speaker 1: in fact, also had loved my house, you know, really,
- 36:44Speaker 1: really dearly. So at the end of the day, at
- 36:47Speaker 1: the end of all of this, what's the point? I
- 36:50Speaker 1: really don't know. One thing that's clear to me as
- 36:53Speaker 1: I've worked through this is that the walls in your home,
- 36:57Speaker 1: your home itself, the rooms in your home, the spaces
- 37:01Speaker 1: in your home, whatever you want to say, they tell
- 37:03Speaker 1: a story, right? They listen to your story. They're a
- 37:06Speaker 1: part of it. They're recording your story. You're recording your
- 37:10Speaker 1: story with them. They catalog everything that they're seeing, and
- 37:13Speaker 1: they're a part of it all. And no matter what
- 37:16Speaker 1: your home looks like, you know, no matter how perfect
- 37:19Speaker 1: it isn't, you know, how perfect it isn't, how much
- 37:22Speaker 1: you wish you could change it, no matter all of
- 37:24Speaker 1: those things, it's still your home. And it's beautiful for
- 37:27Speaker 1: that reason. You know, it's beautiful because it's capturing your
- 37:30Speaker 1: memories and helping you create those memories. It was important
- 37:34Speaker 1: to other people before you, and it's going to impact
- 37:37Speaker 1: other people beyond you. And it has dignity and value
- 37:41Speaker 1: because of that. You know, if a thing can be
- 37:43Speaker 1: said to have dignity and if it can be said
- 37:47Speaker 1: to have dignity, a home has dignity because of the
- 37:50Speaker 1: role it plays in what it does for all of us.
- 37:53Speaker 1: But that little old lady who toured my home, she
- 37:55Speaker 1: never once complimented the beautiful updates that were accomplished after
- 37:59Speaker 1: she had left. I don't think she even saw those
- 38:02Speaker 1: beautiful updates that the people who had the house just
- 38:04Speaker 1: before me had brought to the house. I don't think
- 38:08Speaker 1: she saw them at all. She saw the house as
- 38:10Speaker 1: it was years and years ago as she wandered through it.
- 38:12Speaker 1: That's what she was seeing, and she loved it. With
- 38:16Speaker 1: all of its warts and all of its blemishes, she
- 38:18Speaker 1: loved it. So often in my business, I get on
- 38:23Speaker 1: the radio or wherever I do, I talk about the
- 38:25Speaker 1: importance of updating and changing and beautifying your space. And
- 38:29Speaker 1: all of those are really good things. All really good things.
- 38:32Speaker 1: But I think it's possible that when you can't swing
- 38:35Speaker 1: it economically, because we can't all swing those things economically
- 38:40Speaker 1: all the time. When you can't do that or when
- 38:43Speaker 1: you can't find the time or the energy to do it,
- 38:46Speaker 1: when that happens, there's a low level guilt that we
- 38:49Speaker 1: start to feel. Maybe not you. I feel a little
- 38:51Speaker 1: bit of guilt when, you know, I hear talk about
- 38:55Speaker 1: when I talk about it, making these changes in your homes.
- 38:58Speaker 1: I should be making them in mine. And there's low
- 39:00Speaker 1: level guilt that I start to feel. I should be
- 39:02Speaker 1: doing more. Next week, I'm going to get back to
- 39:04Speaker 1: encouraging projects and updates and painting. But for this week,
- 39:08Speaker 1: just all of us appreciate your home for what it is,
- 39:11Speaker 1: not what it could be, what it is and what
- 39:14Speaker 1: it's been for all the people through all the years
- 39:17Speaker 1: who've called it home or all the people in the
- 39:20Speaker 1: future who are going to call it home. Just appreciate
- 39:22Speaker 1: that space for what it is and what you've got.
- 39:25Speaker 1: And if you've got you know, an interesting story of
- 39:28Speaker 1: something you found in your house, you know, I asked
- 39:30Speaker 1: that question at the beginning. What's the weird thing in
- 39:31Speaker 1: your house? What's the craziest thing you ever found? If
- 39:34Speaker 1: there is something, let me know. Radio at RepcoLite.com. Just
- 39:39Speaker 1: send your emails. I'd love to read about it. All right,
- 39:41Speaker 1: that's going to do it for this week. If you
- 39:42Speaker 1: want to catch this one again, you can find it
- 39:44Speaker 1: online at repcolite.com. Whatever you do today, you don't have
- 39:47Speaker 1: to make paint a part of it. I'm not going
- 39:49Speaker 1: to cry if you do, but if you don't, that's okay.
- 39:52Speaker 1: Just appreciate your home and have a great weekend. I'll
- 39:55Speaker 1: see you next week. For Home in Progress, I'm Dan Hanson.
- 39:59Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. do do