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Inspiring Human Potential Inner Growth 5D Self-Empowered Enlightenment Time · Inspiring Human Potential

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Welcome back to my lovely HP Community.
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I was unsure that I wanted to use some of our time with
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Enlightenment time or relationships, but figured I
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could do two into one since Enlightenment.
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Time is still about relationships.
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Let's begin with those who are new.
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Welcome your new being a person whose In this 5D self-empowered,
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enlightened State of Consciousness in the indictments
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will agent. Means that when you think of
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humanity, you have a compassionate heart and mind and
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that no matter what areas and or relationships in your life, have
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brought whatever it is. You actually have again,
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compassion. This does not mean, you're not
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someone who considers and evaluate circumstances, it means
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you consider and evaluate circumstances with again
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compassion. It's a physiological state that
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a person who's in a restorative embodied self can be in.
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This does not mean that you do not have ways that your nervous
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system will engage. So the panic attacks.
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Sample even though when it comes to that, we have our
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lightworkers life in the subscription-based, model
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content, for Ascension, energies, and all these things.
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So you know, again if you're curious about talking with
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Claire's in mind and bringing in those human elements and
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grounding it in the biggest difference of the world.
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Like, I mean, there's just so many things, I need to try and
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write down notes. I can remember as we grow, but
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I'm also curious about What you all have questions on.
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So I'm going to wait till we grow to the number.
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I will deem fit because I'm sure you'll start asking your
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questions because that's where people with Claire's who are
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inclined to be in 5D are going to have questions since outside.
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You don't really see people talking about the Claire's in a
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way that says it's part of our journey as people who have a
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nervous system and some people have unresolved trauma to the
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extent that there shall Cycle, which is this inner critic,
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outer critic that those of us who have a love cycle.
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So, here is, where Enlightenment is.
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So age group you come at it in one of two ways and that would
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be where so far mean, I don't know any people that have come
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from the love cycle, I can say that, I mean, I don't know the
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stories of people who are in the environment.
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So a trip, like, I don't know said grew story but from the
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little bit of that, I've been able to gather.
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I mean, he's a spirituality Guru, so his path.
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Was clear from the get-go and just the way he shares
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everything, he knew this already.
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So I would say that he's always been in the Moonlight mental age
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group if you will, and always curious.
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But what I was trying to get at is, I don't know if he had an
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inner critic or not, I don't think so, because of the way he
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talks about aspects, where he deems, you know, just your
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sadhana, do your yoga and you'll be able to move Beyond it but
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that's where it's for Of thinking Some people, that's the
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way they have addressed me as well, when it comes to the panic
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attacks, just don't think about it.
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Like, well, I mean, okay, some people, they're okay with my
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thinking. Some of us, we actually like to
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know things. And this is where the liking to
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know is of the 5D a person who is their own agent, why?
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Because they actually take ownership of their own body,
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their own mind. There's something that caused
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them to be their own. Way Out, quote unquote and
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really its way back in. So, for the love cycle, we don't
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have an out. We're always really trying to
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say, we don't fit a box and this is one of the parts of why we
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will contemplate different types of relationships for different
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reasons. And the entire experience of the
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oversoul with the twin flames soul mates.
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For those who are here, it's one of the aspects you recognize
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Very interesting because you will move Beyond these societal
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customs and barriers without any issue by mouth and by being able
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to dress it. But within you'll contemplate,
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it like any other person. So they these struction if you
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will this ego death. It's not an ego that I when they
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coin words and then they don't expand on it.
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That doesn't mean anything. So people will use words, they
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don't know what they're talking about, okay?
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So this is the biggest Is difference.
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And here's where, again those who move into their healing
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Journey from a shame cycle with their own love.
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And this is what I want to get through.
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Before I more into the topic is when you're in the 5 D Spectrum
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your entire life from a love cycle, you don't know human
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suffering. The way people who have shame
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Cycles do. I keep on getting the knowledge
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that I don't know this suffering at all.
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And so, that's one way I will raise my hands and move out of a
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conversation. If somebody is, you know,
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letting me in on the fact that since you don't understand this
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feeling, please stay out of it. Right.
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And that's actually very normal for someone who's still moving
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through their own process of dysregulated, modulator, and
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body itself to restorative. Okay, so they're not there yet.
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When you're in your restorative and body itself, there's this
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connection in with Akash, this Consciousness field and it's the
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sense of safety, but it's not outside, it's within your own
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body. And this is where there's a
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difference. Because for those of us who have
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the love cycle, we are already our own agents with a level of
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compassion. That is something we won't even
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know it's there because we don't tend to apparent the siblings.
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The people around us because we have to, or because we need to
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belong. No, we actually are.
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Immediately in that, prefrontal cortex, this is why we're in
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compassion because if you sit in empathy alone you also get this
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burnout thing that, you know than Siegel and I asked him the
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question. He made a point to specify
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differentiation and burnout and he's like, maybe you're not
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differentiating, that's why burn out.
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But this is where for the experience of those of us who
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are somatic empaths, we don't burn out, there is a period of
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adaptation to understanding and This is why I share with you the
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five DC and the indictment alleged, because this is a
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difference, is that understanding this for me, is
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giving me the ability to share it with those who are wanting to
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be here, or are already inclined to be in compassion.
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The ones who are not, they're not going to be tuning in.
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They are the ones who move into their Claire's and then they
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burn out or they're in emotional states that don't move into
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coherence resilience and more vital.
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Okay, and so, here's where again this is not a race.
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I'm explaining things to those who might want to pick up on it
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and use it because you're a person.
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And that's where if your person and you're having a way that you
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tend to people, and you have noticed your body's, if you have
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a good relationship with it, or if you're your own agent, you're
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moving towards healing. Again, the indictments will age
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group is not for all because most people that I've Noticed
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they want to stick to their societal constructs.
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I don't care for societal construct, its Monopoly like the
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Monopoly game. Same thing with money like I
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serious and I won't create it though into this whole show The
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Matrix not on that that's that's the other part, the way of
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people treating Law of Attraction but then again,
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they're focused. That's why they just want,
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either the money or the relationship, okay?
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So their actual feelings. towards what life is is very
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focused, not good or bad just different When you love life you
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love Consciousness. That's what life is.
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Okay, so people that come out of a shame cycle any time I'm
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getting the gift to talk to them and it's happened of course
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others and be sure and I wouldn't we get to share and I
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share some of my stories because for me what I feel when I'm
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eating a person who's made it out of meaning, NG meaning they
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look at life with brighter eyes and they're able to talk about
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their experience. In fact I asked these people if
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they're interested in being on the podcast because I would love
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to have people that want to share their story and so we'll
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see if we will have a speaker or not.
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Yeah, I would love to have one of them particularly if they're
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okay with sharing again because that's where some people are
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very private and personal, but I shared with them.
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How I think one, you know, to look at themselves with honor
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and gratitude like to be a place of wow.
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Like this is amazing. Do you realize that you sir like
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because? See, here's where again, not
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knowing that level of trauma, that level of that cycle, I've
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only learned of it, right? And so I've learned of it and I
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hear people in, when I see a person triumphant out of it, and
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they're talking about it, this is why people need to hear that.
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Because what we see are the ones who are using the labels to name
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each other are using the labels to name the world.
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They were using a lot of strong words.
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Really what it is is there's this is why we're in 5D.
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We're going to be talking about everything in more ways than
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this involves the nervous system and it involved in line and
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it'll involve everything that you know I didn't get to hear in
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my teens but that it's like being back in my teens, just I'm
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43. So it's really that cultural
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shift that happens in the human evolution.
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If you look at Linguistics, I took Couple of linguistics
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language language and gender was one of them and it was in that
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one where we looked at how words made they went through
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transformation in time. Okay, so here is where that
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person who's inclined to be an Enlightenment is not feeling
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threatened by the change of sexuality.
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For example, in the expression of it, the change in how
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relationships and people want to be in them all of it.
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None of it is threatening because we So those who are here
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already, we are not identifying with people in a way that they
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have to match this past. There is an immediate way of
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knowing, that's not what life is.
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But back to the shame cycle and being able to get out of it and
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seeing people regain their vital energy, but also gain a
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relationship with their body and hearing, it makes me so happy.
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And then though, at the same time, it's sad because I'm
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reminded by those same individuals by something that I
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had already learned. My, one of my learning lessons
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in life. Two, very important ones.
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And real, I didn't learn anything.
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Different because the reality is they were the most important
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lessons that I could ever have learned in my life.
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And I even remember knowing that these would be and I'm staying
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private on the, you know, who was in, what's on purpose.
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But what I'm going to say is that when you only have
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compassion to share because there's a way of knowing what's
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beneath the surface without you, knowing that your somatic,
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impasse Both. Okay, so I'm talking about the
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people who don't get burned out the people who actually don't
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believe in evil, the people who don't believe in evil because
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you, when I'm looking at a human being in their face, they are
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not an energy vampire. They're not an evil person like
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this, you know, this from the depth of the core of your soul.
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There's something that just, you know, and it may not be express
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the same way because, of course, at a time, not expressing my
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thoughts in the same way, but the feeling is the Accessing if
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not more. So what I'm trying to get at is
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I will be happy and I'm always happy because I like, yes,
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there's another person who's willing to fight for their life,
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how beautiful their out of it, you know, some like wow.
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So I celebrate you. And I asked you to you want to
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share stories that we can encourage other people that
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other people know, it's possible versus hearing what really is
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still 3D 4D. When it comes to trauma these
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labels, these ways of making it sound, you know, like even Then
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there's this other book that one of our teachers was talking to
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us about. I do not, I do not appreciate it
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but I understand it in the context of societies built and
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changes, come with conversation. So it was going to have to be
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extreme sides of people talking in order for what it's just, not
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part of what happens. But long story short, what also
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happens is my heart breaks because I've already known and
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seen that the only way a person I can fight for their life is if
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they stand up and believe in themselves, this is the hole
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behind the inner growth mindset and following your heart and
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being yourself. It's because of knowing that the
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core of every person is pure Consciousness.
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In a way of you were an infant, not in a way of your, from
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Viking Land. No, it's in a way of you.
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Were an infant and you began life here.
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And then your parent before you were born.
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They were also an infant. And so this is where that actual
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so powerlessness and hopelessness not even hope it's
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not hopelessness. It's I actually will have
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recognized in these moments that I am tied with my hands behind
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my back. I am imprisoned and I cannot do
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anything to help another human being to actually Choose Love.
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Therefore, I am a person who has already lost.
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Because the only way for person to choose love is if they
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believe in themselves and with the knowledge of what trauma
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memory is this is why I was like, you have to go after the
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other without cry. This is why as I'm listening to
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the story and that I sure this is where I was like you.
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I hope you share your story. People need to hear you because
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I don't know that, but I know that you and your representation
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because people will know since if you share you know they'll
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chew I went through something that I went through.
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So people that see because it's different when you have painted
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glasses and Rosie Sun Shines, right?
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This is the part where being objective is something that
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we're always naturally inclined to be those who are 5 DC
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functional adults and their Enlightenment.
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So, they droop that is okay, the other ones, not yet, they're not
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objective. So I am objective to know that
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if I go around telling some person has trauma.
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Hey, smile at life, they're going to be like, fuck.
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Everything works out always, you know, leave me alone.
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What do you want? Okay.
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And so that's why it's just something that you get but
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doesn't change how I feel when I'm thinking about the aspect of
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how amazing it is. Yes, because every person will
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be the agent and the shoes, ER of if they deem, that they are
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worthy and it's wild. Oh, for those who have a shame
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cycle, they think they're unworthy.
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That they're unworthy, that they're unlovable that they're
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bad. The same cycle, is that and it
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isn't something. That they actually think from
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their thinking, bring a feeling they embody because they didn't
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get the ability to stay in our store and body itself.
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Now, people want to give this words, I gave it words because
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it was the only way I knew how to express how I personally feel
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about life. But today that I have all this
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knowledge I don't give it belief systems and I don't It
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hypotheticals they give it the human body has three modalities.
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Thank you cymatics and cymatics, practitioners and Chris dr.
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Christopher having the awakened embodied program because that's
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where I get to know and share with you.
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There's a strangulated modulated and restorative embodied self.
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And the people who get to move into restorative and body cells,
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you can better bet that they're in this lovely inclined to be
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over here than in life. Until age group.
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But at the very least in a 5D Spectrum, all the episodes are
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always going to support personal development.
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They integrate Claire's because I get to have them and I'm one
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of those lucky ones. But so are other people.
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Lucky part is that I get to share with you how it's related
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to your own human, Master humanity, and if you can allow
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yourself to stay grounded and start with the fact that
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everyone has A window of tolerance.
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So if you have an inner critic, outer critic, that's a shame
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cycle, okay? If you have instead, the ability
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to always sit with yourself and be in a conversation, then you
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are not in a shame cycle, you would be in a love cycle, so if
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you're able to be balanced, which means your fare, it means
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you don't look at yourself as good or bad.
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You don't look at others as good or bad.
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You don't have any Angels, or God or anything like that.
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There's nothing. Nothing zero Darkness. 0.
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Okay? And and then just I'm going to
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underline no belief systems not because you don't have
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experience that I got plenty of angels and fairies.
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And in fact, the other day I had a visit and if you will, you
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know, I just don't again share because this for the
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subscription-based model constant and it sounds silly for
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those who don't believe in it in the first place.
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Plus it's energy. I know that but they come in a
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way that you also know that it's not just energy.
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This is the beauty of being able to English and energy of an
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Angel vs. A fairy of a twin flame versus
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soul mate. So when it comes to
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relationships for the people who have a love cycle, we don't pick
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and choose because we can't, it's like my sixteen-year-old
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discussion at the table where they're asking me, you have to
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pick who you love more stuff like that.
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So we, the love psycho people we don't fit in boxes which is why
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as we go through life, We actually know why we go through
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life. The way we do is very
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interesting again because you always not know everything, but
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the love cycle, we don't worry. Meaning.
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This is where my mother would say.
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Yes you do, we worry about other things.
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Like if I have to get to point A to point B and then we also
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don't like leaving our homes because our home is our safe
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space and that means we have to get from place a to place B.
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So we have this The part I think I'm lucky compared to what I've
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heard. Trauma memory is and the little
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sliver that I have. And so more of us can be
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compassionate, which is my, my goal is to support people on
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their personal development and ascensions but to create more
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compassionate human beings honestly.
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So that's why the nervous system 5D Enlightenment.
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These are all actually Optical. Not everybody has to move into
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this. Again and light, mental age
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group, but recognizing that if your neighbor throw shit in your
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face, that you have a choice to be able to be compassionate is
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what I'm trying to get people to understand.
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Because if you actually think you can be in the body of
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another person, you're an asshole, quote-unquote, you
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don't know anything about the body and you don't know anything
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about being human. And that means that you don't
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know anything yet. And if you want, you can learn
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because there's academics and There's courses.
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And if you don't want to take them, I'm happy to Enlighten you
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all for free and then send you to the resources.
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You know, this is the part. What I I love saying evil does
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not exist. A person who has a shame cycle
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and it's so bad that they don't even know what the fuck they're
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doing. Because here's where I actually
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found out that besides attachment secure non-secure
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which has avoided ambivalent. And then we also have
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disorganized attachment. This is from the developmental
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attachment group. Not the relationship group,
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relationship group, they have attachment Styles, they have
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different words or similar ones but It's a different category.
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So what I found out is that there's also the possibility for
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someone to not have attachment at all.
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I'm not sure if Dan Siegel offers a course on that one, but
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I'm definitely going to stay in the loop on seeing if he does.
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Because now I'm like, okay, so if this organized means a
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person's all over the place and they don't know how to handle
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themselves, because of course, you know, the poor child was not
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able to get their needs met. At all, how is it child that has
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no attachment whatsoever? How's that going to play out?
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So like I'm like really wondering like wow, okay, that
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that one, you know, made me feel like, huh, I hope you know, I
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don't know. It's a good thing that they
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don't have attachment all or does that mean that they can't
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create human relationships in a way that sentiment.
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And so, Reflective dialogue. That's the word for those of you
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who have a love cycle and those who move out of a shame cycle,
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eventually, because they're able to work with their trauma
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memory, and their unloved, unloving Nest.
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So there's that, I'm unworthy, I'm unlovable.
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I was left and that's the range of emotions that one will go
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through. So, shame blame fault.
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Well, I should say. Shame blame.
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Fear and anger, because the ones who are being proactive, they
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will recognize the shame. They'll recognize the blame,
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they'll recognize the emotion of fear.
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They'll recognize the emotion of anger.
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They will also recognize placing the responsibility not upon
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themselves and this is very different again.
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So that's why some people they get lost into the revenge or the
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blame, okay? Because when that moment comes
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it's only if a person is able to move towards there.
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Reflective dialogue and that's where compassion towards self
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and the other. And so here's where my hands
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continue to be tied. Okay, so right here is where I
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will present you for me Maria from the love cycle.
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I only think of one thing. I'm so happy for when people are
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out of Shame. I'm so sad for those who are in
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shame, I'm so happy for the, okay.
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And that knowing that their Free Will is the same as any other.
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They get to choose their life is worth fighting for And it
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doesn't mean fighting as a fight.
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It means if they actually are able to understand what trauma
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memory, and inner critic means, that's why you don't do that,
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just it spirituality and so, sorry.
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But that's not what I've seen help people to become more
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Humane and helps them become devotees.
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That's for sure because they gained a well-being, but they do
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not become more human, they're too busy doing only things with
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The idea of spirituality as their objective again that is
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one of the sole age groups. That's why I'm here.
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I'm not in that silly jury indictments Leisure.
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I'm trying to help people to leave their human life.
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Infinite higher human consciousness experience, not
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the other not that halfway through.
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So from all, you know, we have this one life and one life
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alone, there you go. And let's make the best out of
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it and let's help Humanity without of suffering.
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I do. Believe it's something possible
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but I believe there's been a need for more human beings who
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when that neighbor throw shit in their face, they actually say,
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wow, I hope they're okay. And then they know that the
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structure will support. So here's where this book that
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was introduced is a very extreme person who's still, you know,
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whenever I hear a tone of anger, in a tone of extremism, I
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immediately say, okay, you did not necessarily think through
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before you contemplated, what to write, what not but see, this is
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where as a content creator of done it myself, right?
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When you've heard Kali be in the mix, sometimes this is where
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that's Something that I will speak of.
25:46
So I'm not going to say I'm not included when I'm trying to get
25:50
out, we all can do that. Where speak from a place of
25:53
anger, but what I do acknowledge is that when I speak from a
25:56
place, if it's for me, it's not anger, but somebody externally
25:59
would consider it. So In order to not create, you
26:05
know, differentiation in this case I'm just saying I will
26:07
acknowledge that I should not have.
26:10
Let us know as soon as I'm coming if you will and that's
26:14
why I've learned more and more and more and I keep learning
26:17
more and more have to stay at the level of equanimity because
26:21
wisdom is shared only. If I'm in a space of neutrality,
26:25
the minute I get too much involved too much involved in a
26:30
personal ways. The minute this is where he goes
26:32
in the middle. I'm not No longer a person who's
26:35
speaking to serve the best interest of everyone, and that's
26:40
every life, okay? But again, there's different.
26:44
So age groups for reasons, a societal structure is built in
26:48
time because there's transformation that happens.
26:52
Again, I come with the enlightenment, still, a jury
26:54
perspective, a 5dc perspective, not the other ones.
26:58
So when I see something that's in Anger like that, like what I
27:02
was reading I get what it's going to do and how it's going
27:05
to support Society. I disagree with the person
27:08
having shared it because now they've given fuel to a specific
27:13
group of people who don't know how to manage their own
27:16
emotional stuff. They're not even going to bother
27:18
moving into Enlightenment because and in this case,
27:21
enlightened themselves a little bit further because you've given
27:24
them fuel to feel that they're going to fight for justice.
27:27
So my breakdown is different because there is the human stuff
27:30
that is clear to me. It's clear when a person is in
27:35
their suffering that they won't see it and they will find that
27:39
piece of information. And now they've got power,
27:43
they've got power to use it against the very people that
27:46
hurt them. So, here's where again when I
27:50
hear people who are softer and are aware of their healing
27:56
journey and they're on it, there will be a hint of self and
28:01
compassion for the external, and that's a good sign because it
28:04
means that they won't be blinded by their protective lenses.
28:08
But when you grab someone who's suffering.
28:10
Let's grab my attachment style friend who ruptured our
28:14
relationship because of a splinter, because of their
28:16
suffering, which they're not choosing this.
28:19
But they choose to distance a human being that has always and
28:23
is always caring for them to this day if they reach out, they
28:26
know this. But their way of handling, their
28:30
inner critic out of all of it is in a way of rigidity.
28:34
So they did not move one inch away from their human suffering
28:38
and they have all of their material to give themselves
28:43
confirmation bias. So, this is a difference.
28:47
If your objective, you don't seek to confirm what you're
28:50
saying. One, you will share what you're
28:53
saying. Knowing that others have what
28:55
they're saying. Okay, so this is what you do.
28:57
Don't you try not to create all this or all that?
29:01
But of course every time we have conversations is where I do
29:04
know. We makes the I know I make
29:06
statements never ever always. Sometimes I'll come out with
29:09
these words and I again try to hear myself more and more into
29:13
allow myself to use open-ended vocabulary to the best of my
29:19
ability. But the part that I do know is
29:23
that the energy that comes forth is always going to speak.
29:27
Eek so I have no worry on that note.
29:31
And this is where I am sharing for people who are going to be
29:35
here. Not for people who are going to
29:37
stay in a battle with Humanity. So I also am not really
29:43
concerned with the ones who misunderstand because they will
29:46
just put me in a box like anybody else does anyways.
29:49
Society Lea speaking, if people are not their own agents, they
29:53
put people in boxes because they got an in-group.
29:57
The in group is basically, Whoever has all the list of
30:01
attributes that they side with. So there you go, it's very
30:03
straightforward. Having our hands tied behind the
30:08
back. This is why we get pissed.
30:10
When we hear things such as energy, vampires or perfect
30:13
timing or, you know, a person's going to be removed from your
30:18
life, blah, blah, blah. This is where it's like, not for
30:22
the love cycle. People is a bullshit bullshit
30:24
bullshit. Like, what are you talking?
30:26
Not. And this is not something that
30:28
we will agree with, because there's no way in hell that we
30:32
would want this tends to happen with people that need our
30:37
support. And there's no perfect timing,
30:40
because that would mean, you think that there's a God up
30:42
there, that's pulling strings. And again, that doesn't make you
30:46
empowered or your own Creator. So we call bullshit our body
30:49
does immediately to anything that wants to give this
30:54
invisible space of life. Here I'm going to set you down
30:58
and give the rules the part about balance with Karma.
31:03
Now see here is where that's a fascinating one that we were
31:06
exploring together. I'll touch up a little bit of
31:08
pain that one and it's always with the aspect of if you know
31:14
who you are as a person. Okay.
31:18
And this is in a way that is not rigid.
31:21
Your person who's always expanding it.
31:24
So again, let me be clear if you have had a A shame cycle and
31:27
you're out of it, this means you're able easily to have
31:29
reflective dialogue. This means you're able to easily
31:33
sit and stand, only in the aspect of compassion, this does
31:37
not mean that your devoid of your nervous system having
31:40
stuff, go on. I get still I'm working through
31:43
again. I get excited, nervous, all
31:45
these things. And I actually laugh about it
31:49
because okay, you know how they say that, people choose how
31:53
they're going to do their souls Journey.
31:56
Abla. Okay.
31:57
I don't want to bring it into the metaphysics plane but let's
31:59
add that one here for a minute. Okay, so that's story.
32:03
Basically, tells us we've chosen how we're going to remember who
32:06
we are. It's not always makes me laugh
32:08
because I'm like, who the fuck do you think you are?
32:11
But what I'm saying is people don't look at their actual human
32:14
life, okay? There Vic dishes.
32:16
They cool at night. Well, you begin with you.
32:19
So what I, what I want to point out is if you actually look at
32:25
your life. Okay, and you look at your
32:29
caregivers and you look at your household and you look at your
32:32
town, and you look at you, look at all these things, one after
32:35
one, after one. Okay.
32:37
Without judgment, though, if you're out of the same cycle,
32:41
this is easy for you now reflective dialogue, okay?
32:44
So I'll use me. I look back at my life.
32:48
That's why I always tell people I haven't changed.
32:51
Even the part about when I get emotional, which I want to
32:53
change, because it puts my window of Tolerance into Because
32:56
I get that mean. I don't get more emotional.
32:59
I think I'm just still mastering the nervous system stuff.
33:03
That's all, that's all I think it is.
33:06
So but what I'm trying to get at is the depth of emotions.
33:11
It's always been a part of my journey.
33:14
It's who I am being a forever friend.
33:17
It's what am I being a person who doesn't like changing my
33:22
home environment? It's what this is the part where
33:26
We hear our loved ones and we don't fit a box, because once
33:30
you've told us enough times, and we've actually looked at it and
33:33
we know who we are. Stop telling me, can you just
33:35
let it go now? And just, can we move to other
33:38
conversation and you leave those traits there?
33:41
You know what I mean? So this is the part about for
33:45
the love cycle. People again, we don't have an
33:47
issue with being flawed and imperfect.
33:50
Because why would we we all are apparently, you know, again,
33:53
nobody got the memo, we all have an ego.
33:55
So This is where. When I look back, I don't have
34:03
anything to say, except for this makes sense with who I am and
34:08
that I don't fit a box. I'm life, right?
34:11
I'm love. I'm expanding Consciousness.
34:14
This is what some of us are and and here's where it's not about
34:19
anything specific. It's about being able to feel
34:24
like free Souls, it's beautiful. And to me where the lucky group
34:29
if you will because honestly whenever I meet people who have
34:35
come out of Shame cycle, again I celebrate them and then I'm
34:40
reminded of 94% of people have that what was it?
34:44
That Tara Brach told us have the fear Loop fear failure.
34:49
You're not good enough. Self-doubt unwanted thoughts and
34:53
most are based in that and rejection and not good enough.
34:56
So this makes me very sad for Manatee, and then seeing again,
35:01
extreme writers basically say that people should accept that
35:08
trauma is forever. And although, that's not their
35:10
point, they still they've created a word.
35:12
Now, you know, they create a whole book in a tone, it's a
35:16
specific tone which is going to track the same people that are
35:19
of that specific tone and and so here's where there's the
35:25
understanding again we have no other option, those of us who
35:28
are Are in this indictment alleged, except to already know.
35:31
Wait, well, you know, there's the rainbow of colors here.
35:34
Maria. And so, this is the part of
35:37
where you remember. Once again, you're not here to
35:43
share with people how to achieve their own unconditional, love
35:47
your own selves. They're the ones who do this
35:51
sadhguru supports people, by helping them to embrace
35:55
spirituality, it was of us who are in the United.
35:58
And so age group, we have a very different journey and that is to
36:02
spread compassion and some talking now to my community and
36:07
those who want to regularly tune in or what not.
36:10
This is where, when a person treats you like shit, it's not
36:16
about it being right or not, right?
36:18
It's about the forgiveness and that's where again, lovely, Dan
36:23
Siegel. Where is he?
36:24
I have found this sentence that he wrote Forgiveness is about
36:30
allowing yourself to know that all that is in the past is not
36:34
ever going to change. It's basically, you allowing
36:38
yourself to understand that. It is what it is, and it's not
36:41
about perfect timing. I mean the reality is we never
36:45
can change the past because actions that will have been
36:48
taken, will have been taken and then words that will have been
36:52
spoken will have been spoken and this is exactly why I for love
36:57
cycle people we don't Need to do forgiveness because we're not
37:02
actually trying to say let's change the past.
37:08
We usually will try to say let's move forward and let's talk
37:11
about it, you know. But the people that have same
37:16
Cycles. Shame hides doesn't want to talk
37:20
and that's why we need more people who are ready and open to
37:25
being the corrective experience. That's What I see missing.
37:30
I see a lot of great talk talk. Talk talk, talk all for money.
37:34
All for the one, and only person in their life to be everything.
37:39
This is the reason why I'm like, yeah, I was I definitely have
37:44
never been a person who's been surprised at a certain point of
37:48
my journey. That's where I'm headed because
37:52
I know where I'm going and it does not involve one human
37:55
being, it involves wanting to help people.
37:59
So here's the other part, I'll share.
38:02
Again, using me as the example, as I move through my years, I
38:07
knew I didn't want children and I knew I didn't want to have
38:11
family in this way of just, you know, it's not meat.
38:16
I have better things to do with my life but it's not.
38:19
Because I don't enjoy having a person to share.
38:23
No, I sure. With all my love that, this is
38:25
the point, like, I never really understood except for one thing
38:29
as like, well, maybe, you know, the part about finances.
38:32
I guess that could make life easier, you know.
38:34
But but other than that there was nothing that made me think
38:40
this has to be, you know the best thing ever.
38:43
This is a person who has self-agency.
38:46
It's all a person who knows where they're going.
38:49
What They want and it's not in me.
38:51
I'm afraid to love. It's enough.
38:53
I know where the fuck I'm going and you can ride along or you
38:56
don't have to the people who need to belong.
38:59
They have a different drive and that's where there is other sole
39:02
troops for reasons that people who need certainty.
39:05
Same thing goes. So those of us who are very
39:08
independent in a way of the heart, I would say those are the
39:14
people who are going to be inclined one to move into their
39:16
Enlightenment, so a troop to there.
39:19
So the ones who are going to be inclined to either move into our
39:24
already be in 5D, or if they come across anything, that
39:29
supports something specific that they've been driving themselves
39:35
towards. And these are all again, Food
39:39
For Thought. In the meantime, for your
39:41
specific Journey, identifying one again, if you have the
39:46
ability to be a reflective dialogue person or not yet.
39:49
It's a really great place to start because even with
39:54
reflective dialogue, as I was explaining 5, DC in the
39:57
enlightenment, so a troop when we are presented, because every
40:00
year, we go through expansion of consciousness.
40:03
So right now for me to everyone. So we are working the person
40:07
who's in there. Restorative embodied, self is
40:10
getting to move Beyond more of the social constructs.
40:16
Furthermore also what's the word, the physical aspect that I
40:21
keep telling you about? And I'm speaking from my
40:25
personal experience as somebody who's in this space that I'm
40:27
talking to you about, okay? So it's one perspectives, not
40:30
all, if it doesn't resonate, just doesn't have to resonate,
40:34
they'll make it fit. I'm going to try and break it
40:36
down. Also, in different ways, to
40:38
allow myself, to support those who are in different spots, of
40:41
course. So then for shame cycle, people
40:46
forgiveness is something that they will achieve on their own
40:51
if they're able to achieve compassion for themselves first.
40:56
And then at some point instead of staying in the anger once
40:59
they validated, I am worthy. I am lovable.
41:02
I am this. You're not, you are not the
41:04
person who hurt the person, who or the situation.
41:07
Okay. The trauma event the crisis
41:09
event the minute. They claim their power back.
41:14
Is the minute that they can then decide if they're going to give
41:18
up on all hope of the past being any different.
41:22
Okay, so the forgiveness is, once you have given up all hope
41:26
of a different past and I like these words, I'm going to have
41:30
to write this down so that I can keep them in mind because it's a
41:34
very good way to think of forgiveness because the past
41:37
doesn't change. Not when we work.
41:39
For example, when I work with people and distance feeling, I
41:42
am able To support them to process their own emotional and
41:53
thoughts their own personal development because I get to
41:57
work with them one-on-one or, you know, we get to work on that
42:00
and the Akash the energy, it does it makes that difference,
42:05
okay? So people who are in the process
42:08
of releasing they find this beneficial again the love Cycle
42:14
people we don't because we're automatically transmuting it all
42:18
on our own because we are always in this process were always in
42:22
this state of love. We are always aware.
42:25
So this is the part we take our power back quote on quote, when
42:28
I'm reminded of my powerlessness that I cannot help person love
42:33
themselves, because that's not my job because that's not any of
42:37
our jobs because we don't live in the body of another human
42:39
being. It's not because of a god, it's
42:42
not because of an energy. It's because we do not live in
42:45
the body of another human being So, when I get that power taken
42:52
away, I'm just reminded that I'm not able physically and it's not
42:58
my job because that's not how life works.
43:02
And it's not a job by the way to love, it's very easy, it's easy
43:06
for us. So the ones who are expanding
43:10
Consciousness, it's not easy for the ones who have shame.
43:16
That's the part of why we need more people who can handle the
43:21
neighbor throwing shit in their face and actually being there.
43:24
Wiping it off. I'm pretending to wipe off my
43:27
face and say hey how's it going? You okay.
43:33
Or maybe not that. But at least at least leave with
43:38
the knowledge of humanity. Meaning wow, who knows what the
43:43
fuck's going on there? This isn't about justifying
43:48
anything, it's about understanding that we don't
43:52
actually know any persons experience.
43:55
The moment they were birthed. And here I'm going to give you
43:59
as we begin learning about secure attachment because I'm
44:03
doing attachment still with one of my courses with Dan.
44:06
And then I have another one fully only on attachment.
44:09
So he's explaining how when we are beginning to be shaped in
44:14
the womb, okay? That we have a bunch of nervous
44:23
system skin cells. Okay, so you know the
44:27
interception our external substance stuff like that, he
44:30
says we also have experience expectant.
44:35
And so what this means he says is that every human being
44:39
basically is going to expect to experience Attachment.
44:47
So this is what his findings are and he mentioned some people and
44:51
their and what, you know they found.
44:53
So this isn't something he created.
44:56
Okay. I'm looking to see if so it
44:58
appears as he says that every member of the human species can
45:01
expect to have a caregiver and so there's an expectation once
45:06
you are out of that womb. Also he says you know, imagine
45:10
this the last three, the last three months of gestation or
45:13
something. I forget the words but that's
45:15
where The parents, the mother, obviously the mothers emotional
45:20
state, and how they're doing that is going to be impactful
45:24
how their womb is how the environment is, okay?
45:26
But he goes to describe how you're in this womb.
45:30
You don't have to, you just get to be and that's without doing
45:35
anything. You eat everything, right?
45:37
So now though you're born, he says the first minute of your
45:41
life whether it's through the natural birth or C-section.
45:46
You move from a warm environment where you're just being too cold
45:50
and and noise and light and bright light.
45:53
And he's going in this description, which I Won't Do by
45:55
the way, because he mentions how it can trigger implicit memory.
45:58
And I want us to always remember please, whenever you're tuning
46:02
in, keep in mind your window of tolerance.
46:05
So if anything ever gets uncomfortable, just turn me off,
46:08
you know, reach out. You can ask me, hey, would you
46:11
mind letting me in on what you finish talking about or
46:13
something like that but or just With resources because this is
46:18
where there's aspects that I've understood can be, you know,
46:23
woken. So again, I'm not going to move
46:26
forward with the description because I know for me I'm good
46:30
and I need to finish hearing all of it but I just don't want to,
46:36
you know, again, trigger anything because you never know
46:39
who could tune in but as he's describing this as like wow
46:41
that's a fucking I've never thought about it that way, you
46:44
know, like to actually think of Of the fact that you go from in
46:47
a womb to out, it's cold, the lights, all of that.
46:50
And that and then he says, and what do you need to do?
46:53
You start feeling hungry, right. And he says that something you
46:56
didn't know before, what do you have to do to?
47:00
Now, what do you? What's your next step?
47:02
You're going to cry and maybe they're slapping on the but you
47:05
know, and stuff like that. So he's he begins to share stuff
47:08
like that and I'm like that is nobody ever thinks of that.
47:12
So there you go, think of that, okay.
47:15
And so, Why none of us can know what happens in the body of
47:21
another. And when you talk about
47:24
Enlightenment, while people are thinking of some badge of honor,
47:27
I never thought of it as a badge of honor.
47:29
I thought of it as Jesus and Buddha and said morrel in the
47:34
sadguru reminds me of, you know, more for those who are on a
47:37
spirituality path because, you know, that's where it's at but I
47:40
definitely know he's obviously, you know, that Enlightenment is
47:45
part of it. It what I know is compassion is
47:51
5D and that's why it's called Christ Consciousness and the
47:56
thing is he did leave us that key again like I told the person
47:59
when he's like a, he leave us the key.
48:01
No, no he did leave us the key, it's the same person's heart.
48:04
It's only if that heart thinks that they are worthy and they
48:09
decide I want to fight for myself because I deserve it.
48:13
And that's what I am cover from the people who Again, our out of
48:17
Shame and that I hope they want to share their stories with us
48:21
because I want more people to hear when Healing Begins what it
48:26
sounds like and that might help me to feel like we can make a
48:34
difference for those who actually still aren't here.
48:37
This is very sad. It's very sad because usually
48:41
what you find is people who are angry, we need those people who
48:44
are angry, we need need more people who are in love with
48:47
their healing Journey. This is why I didn't like the
48:49
book that this teachers. Like oh let me talk about it
48:52
because all the social injustice and I'm thinking.
48:54
Yeah, I think we have enough people out there yelling at each
48:57
other. We have not many people loving
49:00
each other while saying, hey, guess what we're different?
49:03
Let's talk about it. No, let's talk about shame.
49:07
We need people who don't get angry because of imperfections
49:12
and biological rudeness, that to me is where the DC United until
49:17
age group is, at its understanding those who are
49:19
still angry and that's called modulated in my book.
49:23
Which is actually why I'm not surprised that certain people
49:26
will present certain things because they're not completely
49:28
in their restored. Embodied selves yet, if they
49:31
were they'd be talking about compassion and they would be
49:35
talking about the hope, they wouldn't be looking at it, you
49:39
know, this whole thing of toxic positivity.
49:41
Well there we go, it's not toxic when you actually do know it
49:45
from Her heart. The only people think of it as
49:47
toxic. And then the ones who are plying
49:49
toxic because the ones are playing, it are trying to help
49:52
themselves feel better if they get taught, how to acknowledge a
49:55
difference, in a way of, if you stop being angry and or thinking
50:00
that you have to have signs. So the part about trauma and the
50:06
way that it has an effect on people again, it's clear to me
50:11
and that's why for me it's about one having more people share
50:16
Without the anger, but with their celebration with their
50:21
curiosity, with everything they've been able to see once
50:24
they took their power back and that they began this with love
50:28
and compassion and that they keep moving forward with it
50:31
because they actually understand from their own mind.
50:36
All these people have trauma to the ones who did me wrong,
50:39
whatever it is. So there is somehow an inner
50:42
knowing of. Okay, I'm going to claim my
50:44
right, but I am also going to Stay within the line of
50:47
compassion and remember that their self and other and I have
50:52
a right to be upset and to use again, that discourse reflective
50:56
discourse versus using. What would be an outer critic
51:01
because that's the part. When people begin to just be
51:04
angry or voice with anger there in outer critic and that
51:08
separation consciousness. and, for the people who are in a
51:16
state of, Love we understand the role that that plays as our
51:23
society doesn't move into a new way of being but it's again used
51:29
by others. I want to share more love and
51:33
hopefully you do too and that's where the enlightenment still a
51:37
troop. It's not about something that
51:39
comes from the sky. It's about the person choosing
51:44
compassion. Choosing love choosing to be in.
51:47
Your ventral vagal system learning how to be an integrated
51:50
brain. So, flexible adaptive coherent,
51:52
energized stable, you are learning to be a functional
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adults. It's learning to be a grown-up
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as said, grew says, Consciousness is not something
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that descends upon us. It is something we must strive
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for, in order to strive for its there is your physical mind,
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your masculine or physical body, or feminine that you want to
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work with the part of working with it is unique to each
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person. If you have a shame, And there's
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likely an inner and outer critics.
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So, that's a bit more challenging, and more more,
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depending on the level of, I want to say, the, if you have a
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whole, a whole bunch of, okay, here's the thing.
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Trauma gets misused as the professor was explaining to us.
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So if you have very, very uncomfortable body, and more
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than just that, okay, we'll talk about another episodes, but let
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me just put it this way, if you have a shame cycle, inner
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critic, outer critic, then there is deniers, which would be
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compulsive activity, drugs, alcohol, sex food, anything that
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keeps you busy and away from people that would make you
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happier and things that would make you happier a low level of
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energy so withdrawal. Okay, moving from feeling hyper
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and Vigilant to no energy. Okay?
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So if there are extreme movements of highs and lows and
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you don't trust anyone and you're always in a specific
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space, the more that that is actually your day-to-day life
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where it's not comfortable at all.
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The more you just want to understand there's cymatics and
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somatic experiencing therapists, okay.
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Please look into trauma. Informed, the good ones because
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there's more trauma memory. If you're aware of this, this is
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a good thing. I've met people again that are
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working on it and they began their entire knowledge with body
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and energy, work body touch and they are in a state of love.
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I've met others, they're in a state of awareness, but they're
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more rigid. So, they're external still
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presents a threat and they have an in-and-out group, so that's
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not beneficial and and that's where there's no better or
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worse. These are just other areas that
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I'm sharing with you at the last a couple minutes to keep
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awareness of. And if you're able to stay in a
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discourse that involves compassion, towards all the
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Motions, all thoughts, and allow yourself to sit.
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It doesn't mean you believe in anything or not.
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This is I'm talking to you, human-to-human you have what is
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a nervous system and a mind? That works a specific way able
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to breathe connect to that breath and just ease yourself
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into a discourse. If you will, if you can't again,
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this is an indication that you want to.
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Find what your body and mind feels is most ideal for your
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journey and I would begin with cymatics practitioners and or
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somatic experiencing practitioners I would vote.
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For those terms, the people who have loved Cycles, we don't have
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any of this. We are easily able to work with
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our emotions. The people who are in the
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middle, who think they have some stuff going down.
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But they really don't, they're the ones who are Are talking
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about energy, vampires and canceling here and there, and
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they're yelling at each other. They're not the ones who are
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teaching, they're not the ones who are taking positions, you
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know, they're the ones who are just habla.
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The individuals are subject. Matter, experts their role is
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important because again their different ideas from the extreme
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or what allow us to move into new places.
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The ones of us who are in 5 DC and in the indictments will age,
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we are here to shake things up. With only the word love.
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So like with the whole solo Poli and great a monogamy polygamy,
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know more about o families have to only be this or people have
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told me be that we want to bring in the conversations from
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compassion. Because again, the ones who are
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modulated, they think that us wanting to handle it with
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Equanimity is US denying it? No.
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We know that there is what is called a space of Oneness, for
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all. And so, our goal is to bring it
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to this lovely plane. We are expanding, Consciousness,
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and human evolution. So that's all for now.
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I wish you a wonderful day. Talk to you again soon.
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We know that there is what is called a space of Oneness, for
56:22
all. And so, our goal is to bring it
56:24
to this lovely plane. We are expanding, Consciousness,
56:28
and human evolution. So that's all for now.
56:31
I wish you a wonderful day. Talk to you again soon.