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Boris Kodjoe and Nicole Ari Parker Inter · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Real, for real celebrity joined the Breakfast Morning. Everybody is
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  Speaker 1: DJ M v Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are
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  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. We got two special guests in the building.
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  Speaker 1: Now our intern has really done his homework we have.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna try to pronounce his full name, Boris Frederick
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  Speaker 1: Cecil tating the tat tway. It pains me in my heart.
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  Speaker 1: Boris Frederick Cecil. Don't count the cole you posting though,
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  Speaker 1: that you study over and over. Thanks for having us absolutely.
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  Speaker 1: Now you guys have a TV show coming on Fox
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  Speaker 1: to talk show, Yes, daytime talk show. One kind of
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  Speaker 1: relationship with Vice. Because I get from a beautiful, rich couple.
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  Speaker 1: How can all relate to us regular see? Let me
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  Speaker 1: tell you my wife actually answered as best this morning
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  Speaker 1: when when asked the same question you want to repeat, No,
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  Speaker 1: I don't answer. Remember what she was on the day?
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  Speaker 1: She don't remember. It was like six in the morning.
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  Speaker 1: When it comes to open in the morning, putting sneakers on,
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  Speaker 1: the kids, checking the homework. Everybody's the same. We all
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  Speaker 1: got the same stuff going on at home. It doesn't
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  Speaker 1: matter where you live, doesn't matter what color you are,
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  Speaker 1: It's all the same, and that's what we want to
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  Speaker 1: talk about. We want to talk about stuff that everybody's
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  Speaker 1: passionate about, everybody's worried about, concerned with, whether it's current
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  Speaker 1: topics issues or whether it's parenting, love, relationship, sex. Um,
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  Speaker 1: that's the kind of stuff that we're gonna have on
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  Speaker 1: our show every day. But what about if there's a
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  Speaker 1: problem in the household and one goes one way, one
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  Speaker 1: goes the other way, who wins? You really have to
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  Speaker 1: ask that question, you have to answer, you know what,
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  Speaker 1: we accepted. Absolutely, we accepted. That's what we're signed up for.
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  Speaker 1: And we're learning how to communicate every day. We're getting
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  Speaker 1: better at it every day. Like guys have to learn
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  Speaker 1: how to be more present, to listen, how to listen.
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  Speaker 1: Women have to understand that we became parents the exact
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  Speaker 1: same second, right right, because they sometimes treat us we
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  Speaker 1: don't know. This is how you gotta do it. This
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  Speaker 1: is how you gotta feed them. Don't you understand I
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  Speaker 1: do it my way. That's what they do. It doesn't
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  Speaker 1: feel like it's a father. You become a parent the
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  Speaker 1: exact we do. Maybe comes out, I mean we do.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe you have kids, Oh, so were you there at
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  Speaker 1: birth about you, That's what I'm saying. You became father
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  Speaker 1: the same exact time she became a technically, but I
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  Speaker 1: don't feel the same attachment, probably not until her later. Okay, well,
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  Speaker 1: but maybe that's just your individual fee. I mean, I,
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  Speaker 1: for one, when my daughter was born, she came out screaming.
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  Speaker 1: They sort of washed her off, they put her down.
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  Speaker 1: She was screaming, and then I started talking to her
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  Speaker 1: in German and she recognized the voice. She opened her
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  Speaker 1: eyes and stopped screaming and looked at me. That was
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  Speaker 1: my first connection with my daughter. And that just literally
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  Speaker 1: turned me into a man right there. So I guess
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  Speaker 1: everybody has their own experience, but I feel that, um
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  Speaker 1: as it as it pertains to parenting, we're equal. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: like so if if if you don't think we're equal, no,
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  Speaker 1: because whatever they say wins Like she just said, no,
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  Speaker 1: that's nothing with parenting. That's that's that's your relationship with
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  Speaker 1: your wife. Absolutely, I'm just talking about. Yes, yes, well,
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  Speaker 1: I think as a wife, I needed to stop caring
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  Speaker 1: so much about the way he did things like he
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  Speaker 1: makes pancakes different than me, he combs the hair different
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  Speaker 1: than me, and then good as hair. My pancakes. They
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  Speaker 1: are the kind of pancakes you just sit here and
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  Speaker 1: be all perfect. Now, let me ask you something recently.
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  Speaker 1: He's always sat down and was on the news talking
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  Speaker 1: about last names, and her husband took her last name.
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  Speaker 1: Would you ever have considered being, you know, Boris Parker Kojoe. No,
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  Speaker 1: because it doesn't sound good pancakes. Nobody will believe me
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  Speaker 1: making great pancakes. And my name is BLUs No, no, no, seriously,
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  Speaker 1: though my heritage, my African heritage, you would go through
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  Speaker 1: a lot to because we we earn our name right.
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  Speaker 1: So when we named our children, we had to go
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  Speaker 1: back to Ghana. We had to talk to the elderly.
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  Speaker 1: My father had to approve it with everybody so that
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  Speaker 1: we could name Sophie Tanaki Lee and uh tanaki means
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  Speaker 1: firstborn daughter. There's a whole process and naming your child.
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  Speaker 1: And that's how I was named as well as you
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  Speaker 1: can see with my name, so and even didn't take
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  Speaker 1: the Parking name. But I don't care about that kind
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  Speaker 1: of stuff. I really don't, you know, It's I think
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  Speaker 1: it makes sense for the kids to have both names.
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  Speaker 1: Two individuals made these people like the Jolie Pitts, like
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  Speaker 1: Brad and Angelina, their names are the last kids last
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  Speaker 1: names are Jolie Pitt. And that makes a little bit
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  Speaker 1: of sense if you're going to try to combine it.
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  Speaker 1: I am, however, considering changing my name after ten years
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  Speaker 1: of marriage. Yeah. Yeah, And I'm trying to figure out
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  Speaker 1: I want to take a little pole the coosh like that,
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  Speaker 1: do you take us your wife take your name? Well?
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  Speaker 1: Do you think I should take his name? I mean,
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  Speaker 1: and a woman? Do you think I should take his name?
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  Speaker 1: I think you should keep yours too that I think
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  Speaker 1: you should do it like you Nicole are Parker Kojo.
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  Speaker 1: That's a whole lot ooh on the Oscar. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: it's kind of hard. That's a compromise only you know.
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  Speaker 1: The only reason I like her keeping it is because
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  Speaker 1: she's famous and she had her name and people know
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  Speaker 1: her by that name, and that's the name name. She's
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  Speaker 1: a wife, Yeah she was, but she would still have
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  Speaker 1: his name. But why can't she keep hers and then
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  Speaker 1: add his after? I think that's a great thing to do,
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  Speaker 1: you know, Honestly, I didn't really think too much about it,
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  Speaker 1: but I did think, like, what if I did all that?
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  Speaker 1: Change my name? And then it didn't work out like him,
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  Speaker 1: Chris Kardashian, I mean, I mean Chris Christian, Chris Chanter,
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  Speaker 1: he changed knew that thirty years or forty years ago
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  Speaker 1: he was going to do that. Look, I think we
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  Speaker 1: earned with ten years puts us in the category where
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  Speaker 1: we're pretty safe for now. For now. I mean if
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  Speaker 1: I would have gone somewhere, you would have done it
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  Speaker 1: like after two years. Yeah, but we kind of I
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  Speaker 1: mean we see we want to be here. Yeah, that's
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  Speaker 1: I think that's the basis of a good relationship that
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  Speaker 1: you actually want to be here. I don't need to
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  Speaker 1: be here. You don't need to be here by Kanye
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  Speaker 1: West logic. Ten years you run the manage too. Now
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  Speaker 1: you starting stuff that Kanye West logic? Okay, and that everybody.
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  Speaker 1: Let's come up today, Like somebody else asks us, what
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  Speaker 1: do we want to go on a date with? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: I was like, what a date with? Good? A date
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  Speaker 1: like dinner cheesecake for like a double date? Wow, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know, we are there. Yeah, I'm with swinging. Let
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  Speaker 1: me let me break it down, you know. But a
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  Speaker 1: lot of married people open the open up the stage
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  Speaker 1: for other things that have happened and I don't. I don't,
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  Speaker 1: I haven't gotten Look here, look look, Okay. The problem
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  Speaker 1: there's many different cultures in the world. They live their
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  Speaker 1: lives in many different ways. There's polygamy on both sides.
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  Speaker 1: There's arranged marriages, which which actually lasts longer than Western
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  Speaker 1: Western marriages on average. Um, So I don't judge. I
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  Speaker 1: just feel that whatever you do, your partner has to
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  Speaker 1: be on the same page. Right. So when we're talking
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  Speaker 1: about swinging, somebody always loses out. Somebody always loses out.
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  Speaker 1: Name any couple, Will and Jada. Okay, well, somebody will
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  Speaker 1: lose out, somebody. Somebody always loses out because somebody like
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  Speaker 1: yoll go sleep with the girl and your wife's not around. No, no, no, no.
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  Speaker 1: My point is that that that one of them is
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  Speaker 1: always less attracted to the other person than the other,
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  Speaker 1: so that one of them always feels like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: you got it, you got you, and I'm over here
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  Speaker 1: like not enjoying myself. So there's always gonna be trouble.
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  Speaker 1: But you always know your wife. You wouldn't you wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: want Will Smith smashing your wife. I just need to
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  Speaker 1: know what don't we're talking about that I Will and Jada.
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  Speaker 1: I do not want to smash either one of them.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to smash Kim and Kanye. Okay, I
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  Speaker 1: know thought j J and j P don't activate. Okay, listen,
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  Speaker 1: let's talk about the fact that we made it to
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  Speaker 1: ten years in Hollywood. Okay, for the most part, you
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  Speaker 1: guys are like and under the radar kind of couple.
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  Speaker 1: How do y'all like stay out of the news, Like
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  Speaker 1: you don't hear things about y'all Like I like that
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  Speaker 1: Boris was doing that and the Cold was doing this.
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  Speaker 1: You know what it is? It's parties. Yeah, well, it's
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  Speaker 1: the kids really and everything else comes second. And I
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  Speaker 1: think when you make that decision rather than trying to
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  Speaker 1: balance everything, you know, people are still concerned with the image.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I can't I'm married, I can't say I
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  Speaker 1: got a girl, all that stuff. It's way too much.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta live your life, and our life is our kids.
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  Speaker 1: And when we prioritize that way and we're instill good
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  Speaker 1: values and principles and our kids, we don't have time
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  Speaker 1: for all the other stuff. How personable you guys get
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  Speaker 1: on the show? Are you going to talk about like
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  Speaker 1: everything that goes on at home or do you feel
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  Speaker 1: like it might be difficult and affect your marriage. Well,
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  Speaker 1: it's not a reality show. It's a talk show, and
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna have guests. I mean, there's gonna be a
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  Speaker 1: lot of time hearing from other people. I think our
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  Speaker 1: challenge is not going to be talking about you know,
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  Speaker 1: what underwear I wear to bed, but more soap once
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  Speaker 1: you don't wear any so it doesn't matter. But you know,
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  Speaker 1: it's going to be like a give and take. You know,
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  Speaker 1: we want to hear from other people, and the challenge
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  Speaker 1: is going to be able to, you know, host that
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  Speaker 1: show and give great interviews. Now, let me ask you this.
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  Speaker 1: This is something that we've been debating a lot lately.
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  Speaker 1: And this is also in the news. Chris Rock and
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  Speaker 1: his wife are getting divorced. They've been married almost twenty years. Right,
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  Speaker 1: He's worth seventy million dollars and people are going back
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  Speaker 1: and forth, Well, she should get half his money. No,
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  Speaker 1: she shouldn't. That's his money, even though they were married
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  Speaker 1: for her however long, What do you think about that?
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  Speaker 1: Does a woman deserve half if they've been married twenty years?
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  Speaker 1: Pre nup is no longer valid. I think they passed
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  Speaker 1: that Mark, why do you say, why do you say woman?
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  Speaker 1: What if the woman has seven but she hasn't worked,
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  Speaker 1: and she said that general, but in this particular, in
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  Speaker 1: this particular, in this particular case, she also hasn't worked.
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  Speaker 1: She sacrificed her career, she said, to raise their two.
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  Speaker 1: That's the point right there, what you said. I think
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  Speaker 1: she sacrificed a lot. I think like my wife is
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  Speaker 1: my backbone, I'm hopefully her backbone. So we've we've been
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  Speaker 1: on this journey together, so I feel that. And Chris
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  Speaker 1: is a friend of mine to be a friend of
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  Speaker 1: mine started running your mom on the breakfast club. No, look, look,
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  Speaker 1: he deserves all the success. He's incredible. And I think
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  Speaker 1: they've been on a journey together, so they have to
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  Speaker 1: figure out what's fair. I'm sure that Chris is a
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  Speaker 1: fair person. I'm sure that he wants his wife, who
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  Speaker 1: gave birth to his children. Yeah, you know, when it's
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  Speaker 1: the mother of your children's lifestyle for her kids. Basically,
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  Speaker 1: I think custody is going to go both ways, So
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure that he's going to look out. Doesn't always
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  Speaker 1: take care of the mother of your children. Not only that, also,
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  Speaker 1: like I don't negotiate with my nanny, Yeah, I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I ask her what you need, and that's what I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to give her because she takes care of the
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  Speaker 1: most prized possessions that I have, which is my kids.
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  Speaker 1: And I feel he wouldn't be able to be here
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  Speaker 1: in New York. You divorce your wife or you divorce
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  Speaker 1: your husband, you want them to be as comfortable as
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  Speaker 1: possibly can because it affects your life, it affects your kids.
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  Speaker 1: And so I don't think there's going to be an
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  Speaker 1: issue with Chris at all. He's a he's a good
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  Speaker 1: he's a great guy, and trust and believe he's still
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  Speaker 1: going to make another thirty five milliards. He'll make it
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  Speaker 1: back if he has to split that seventy in half.
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  Speaker 1: Plus it's an investment. It's not like he's even you
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  Speaker 1: know what I mean. It's not throwing any money way.
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  Speaker 1: It's going back and children's life and there's life and
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  Speaker 1: everything else. So now Signe talks about fat people all
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  Speaker 1: the time and how he doesn't respect them, and I've
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  Speaker 1: never said anything of that sort. I would think that
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  Speaker 1: when you're fat, it shows that you don't really care
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  Speaker 1: about yourself the way you should. Okay, okay, Yeah, how
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  Speaker 1: do y'all feel about weight in a marriage and somebody
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  Speaker 1: gaining weight? First of all, actually said that because he
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  Speaker 1: got a lot of hating, a lot of trouble for
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  Speaker 1: that time. But you can't generalize like that, I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 1: because everybody has their own medicine. Some people is hennessy,
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  Speaker 1: some people as hamburgers. Everybody medicates their pain forget some
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  Speaker 1: people some people hennessy. Somebody's working out, yea healthy way,
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  Speaker 1: whatever thing you name the two things you name unhealthy.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying when you when you go through something
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  Speaker 1: that when you medicate yourself with weed or alcohol or food,
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  Speaker 1: you know you can't. This is what I do. I
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  Speaker 1: see somebody who's who's extremely overweight, I always assume i'm
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  Speaker 1: seeing them, I'm seeing progress, because they might have just
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  Speaker 1: lost forty pounds, you know. Yeah, you gotta always look, yes, absolutely,
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  Speaker 1: every they know what their struggles are getting on planes
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  Speaker 1: and getting through uh tight spaces. And no, I sat
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  Speaker 1: on up. I've got on a plane yesterday. I mean
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  Speaker 1: we got here too, three days ago. And I sat
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  Speaker 1: down and I had two extra double belts in my
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  Speaker 1: connected to because somebody was before me. They had to
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  Speaker 1: expand the seat belt, and I tried, and I was
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  Speaker 1: out here with it, and I was like, wow, I
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  Speaker 1: can't imagine what that person must have gone through just
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  Speaker 1: trying to get in that seat and having to ask
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  Speaker 1: for those two extensions. So you can't, you can't, You
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  Speaker 1: can't throw people. I think, no, no, no no, no, Look,
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  Speaker 1: I think I think there's two words. Oh sorry, there's
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  Speaker 1: there's two. Can you hear me? There's two words, compassion
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  Speaker 1: and understanding. And I think I think whenever you talk
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  Speaker 1: about something that you can't comprehend, you have to try
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  Speaker 1: to meet the person where they at yah and figure
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  Speaker 1: out what their struggles are before you. In the marriage.
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  Speaker 1: In the marriage, you said it was unacceptable for a
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  Speaker 1: woman to get fact. In the way you described it
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  Speaker 1: now you made it sound like they were transgender. Translation,
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  Speaker 1: they're fact. What I was what I was saying. What
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  Speaker 1: I was saying was that I think when you get married,
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  Speaker 1: you make a commitment, and you make a commitment, you
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  Speaker 1: make a commitment to be the best version spiritually, mentally,
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  Speaker 1: and physically for your wife or husband. Right. And I
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  Speaker 1: didn't make a commitment for two days. I made a
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  Speaker 1: commitment for life. That's what we say before God, right,
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  Speaker 1: so I expect my wife to pull the same commitment
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  Speaker 1: that I made pounds. Well again, my wife, she was
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  Speaker 1: very eloquent with her. She was none listen. She was
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  Speaker 1: very eloquent about this. She said, she said, look, uh,
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  Speaker 1: sometimes you struggle, and whether that's physically or spiritually, mentally,
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  Speaker 1: we all struggle. We all struggle on all those three levels.
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  Speaker 1: So as a husband, it's my duty, just as I
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  Speaker 1: made the commitment to be the best version of myself,
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  Speaker 1: to help her and support her in her struggles, whether
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  Speaker 1: it's physically, spiritually, or mentally. So if she gains forty pounds,
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  Speaker 1: I will address that with her and I will say, look, obviously,
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  Speaker 1: you gained forty pounds, what's going on. I have to
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  Speaker 1: take responsibility too because she's married to me, So her
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  Speaker 1: gaining forty pounds, I'm sure it has something to do
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  Speaker 1: with me as well, or it could at least I
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  Speaker 1: have to consider that. So I have to give her
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  Speaker 1: the help that she needs in order to be her
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  Speaker 1: best version again or be healthy and be happy, because
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  Speaker 1: oftentimes when you gained fifty pounds, there's a very very
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  Speaker 1: specific reasons for that, and often happy I'm a wife
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  Speaker 1: for guys, I don't care. I mean, keep meeting. This
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  Speaker 1: is a symptom. But you know I wouldn't care if
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  Speaker 1: she gained forty pounds. I would try to help her
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  Speaker 1: lose it. That's my point out. Together, eat healthy together,
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  Speaker 1: but she wouldn't make it feel bad. Best way that
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  Speaker 1: men can't get fat either get fat and get sloppy
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  Speaker 1: and expect you lost a bunch of weight. Did your
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  Speaker 1: wife when you had gain weight where she she didn't
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  Speaker 1: have to. I can look in the mirror and tell
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  Speaker 1: her like, I'm not where I want to be. That's
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  Speaker 1: the key. That's the key, best version of myself. If
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  Speaker 1: I'm not the best version of myself, I can't be
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  Speaker 1: the best version together for us. Yeah, let's talk sex
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  Speaker 1: a little bit. Recently, Uhla released a scene She's on Power,
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  Speaker 1: and they released the scene with her having sex with
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  Speaker 1: another guy and her top ties. Would ya swing with
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  Speaker 1: La mellow from Okay, hold on to repeat that what happens,
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  Speaker 1: I'll show you. Basically, she's in Power and they're both
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  Speaker 1: saying they would not want their wives to ever do
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  Speaker 1: a scene where they are tapless showing on TV. She
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  Speaker 1: is We've already crossed that met topless. We met topless naked,
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  Speaker 1: so yeah, right now, so you wouldn't mind if you
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  Speaker 1: if you had to do a new scene A well,
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  Speaker 1: he recently did that movie Addicted. I don't know. That
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  Speaker 1: was very sex and he had a very sexual, many
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  Speaker 1: very sexual scenes with the beautiful Sharon Little and you're
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  Speaker 1: out of it threw me for a loop. You know,
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  Speaker 1: even though I'm used to it. We're both in the
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  Speaker 1: movie business. This happens, not a big deal. I know
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: what it's really like on set. There's cameras and guy
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: holding the microphone. Sexy. That's sexy, really um, but it
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: was so hot. I felt very uncomfortable. This looks got
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: the video. Look, look, I'm sorry I can't frozen a
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: little bit like my wife and enjoy. Don't worry about
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: the goddess. You the closest bone boars his face. He's
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: a breastman too, so you know, No, I just want
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: to I just want to know what we're talking about. Really,
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: this is oh, there they go, this guy's friends swinging.
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: Now No, I'm just saying wow. I mean after the initials,
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: you know, after the first three seconds. There their boobs. Okay,
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: we all got them. We all seen them like, so
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: I don't really, I'm not that crazy about nudity. I
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: think when he is squeezing them and putting them in
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: his mouth, that's like, okay, that's a little to watch.
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: You can fake it, you know, pasties. I mean there's yeah,
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: like we have a rule. We don't shoot. We have
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: a rule we don't do nipples and mouths and mouths
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: and nipples. Okay, and we don't do. But you know,
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: when he went all the way to the edge of
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: that line in this last movie that he did, there
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: was like the mouth, I don't know, it's got all
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: the way to the areola. Didn't turn you on a
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: little bit? Turn me on, not at all. No, I
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: gotta get my man home. I had to like put
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: my head down and hard. I was sweating. I had.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: I did not know that I would feel this way.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: I do. No, I would at the car, I would.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: I didn't come to No. Wow, what we do, it's
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: all we do and it's not sex. But again, that
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: stuff is sexy. There's thirty people around. It would have
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: been worse if I would have called him and he
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: was in Sharon's trailer, you know, where there's no cameras
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: like that's that's a problem. But it happens on set
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: with people that they go off camera. It's the off
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: camera stuff that you worry about, you know. Yeah, it's
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: hard being faithful as a sex symbol. Bars girls have
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: been throwing it at you for years. Well, Nicole is
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: a sex symbol as well. They do throw their pin. Well,
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: you know, I want to again again. I want to
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: be here. I don't want to be anywhere else. I
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: want to be here here, you go. That's all that matters.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: I mean, so what, so what, I got to handle
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: my business. You know, I gotta make sure that I represent.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: I gotta make sure that And sometimes it's it's annoying
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: when people don't want to take no for an answer
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: and they get really ugly, you know, they start ye
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: don't get you and start calling your names because hey, no,
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: we're gonna just use that. We're gonna isolate that. And
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: the headline that you guys very much. Now we know
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: now we watch couple, he wants to smash you. Shan
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: comes down on the breakfast cup Jessica, Jessica, you and
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: I will just back out. That's why he was asking
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: all those swinging questions we had crystals. Let me let
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: me tell you, Let me tell you something I have.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: You know, sometimes women will walk up to you and say, look,
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: come to my room, blah blah blah, and you say no,
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: and they say, well, don't matter. I'm gonna tell everybody
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: I did it anyway. And that's it's hard to stay
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: calm because it's not cool. You know, it's not fair,
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: it's not cool. But this is we're in this business.
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: Somebody really has said that to you. I'm going to
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: tell everybody I had a paternity lawsuits when people I
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: never you know, anybody can accuse you of making them
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: pregnant and you no, no, no, listen, listen when a
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: lot of these cats, a lot of these cats they drink,
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: you know, they do drugs and stuff, and they don't
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: know who they you know, they don't remember, so that's
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: what they're counting on, so they just take a chance.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: When Nicole, did you ever in your head say think
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: any of those allegations were true, or for a second,
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: say what if he did do that? No? I have
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: never I met Boris with eight thousand women screaming, you know,
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: like this is how it's always been. And I don't
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: think we could have made it if I was a
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: crazy jealous type, but the one not because I'm so
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: perfect or anything or so confident that I didn't, you know,
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: trip It was more on him. And I tell men
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: this all the time. You're the ones that make us crazy.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: You're acting weird on your phone and riding it and
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: taking it to the bathroom whatever. He never acts weird
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: or shady. So I take my Phonecuse I take selfies
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: when i'm is a little different. Now you got to
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: take your phone in the bathroom because of social media?
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: Is that? What did you tell Jessica, I'm tweeting business
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: lots of the bathroom door to tweet. Yes, you take
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: more serious. When you first tried to high light you,
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: I was a little snobby because he was the model,
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: you know, and I was the serious actress and he
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: was hired to play my boyfriend. So I was a
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: little like oh, but then with him, you know, he
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: was just a pretty good big time So what made
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: you went your guard down? You know what? Exactly the
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: thing he was talking about? You take it to leave it?
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: What you gonna do? Everything before y'all got with each other,
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: like you know, the body count is very important. In relationship.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know, for sure you got to reveal
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: who you slept with. For sure, you have to reveal
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: who you slept with. I revealed that she was a
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: little secretive about it. I found out after a while
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: driving in New York, hanging out, walking down the street,
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: and I hear he made me a love nick love
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: some dude, some but some some bouncer some clubs. Like
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: he was like, oh, nicky love. I was like, whoa,
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: what is that? What anyway exactly that's exactly what time
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: because famous and now it's like everybody was the claim,
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: I don't know whatever. What about discipline and your children?
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: How do you guys discipline your children? We do, definitely
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: it's important well because kids need structured and they need
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: to they need to schedule. They need structured and discipline
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: because it gives them a sense of safety, you know,
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: that confidence. And I grew up in Germany. German mother
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: so boom, boom boom, everything was on time and dinner
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: at this time, and so I was. I was raised. Yeah,
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: he's kind of the dress, but I was really I
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: was spank discipline and I and I don't I haven't
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: spanked my children yet, but I do said yet ten
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: and eight. That's pretty good. No, but I jacked up. Yeah, yeah,
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: I yoke up because sometimes it's just you just have to.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: It's not about abuse, it's about you're all. You're almost
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: saving them for the real world. Like listen, watch yourself,
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: pull yourself together, because you know someone's gonna watch him out. Now.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: Did you too pitch this show or did they come
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: to you and say, you know it would be a
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: great idea. No, it came from us. We conceptionalized it
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: five years ago as a radio show, and then we
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: couldn't do it scheduling wise, And the last year we
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: looked at the show said the timing is right to
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: do it right now, we got to do it mental
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: Fox and they were excited about it. Yeah, yeah, we're
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: excited about it. That bors. You also said one time
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: that infidelity is justified in certain cases. Bo, what was it?
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: Hold on? What was the context? Is that? In a movie?
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: It's very out of context for me to say what
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: what do you remember what that was looking like? When
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: did he say that because it's justified in certain cases?
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: He was, I was gonna ask you what are those cases?
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: I don't know what that context was. Um, I know
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: where did you get that front there? Next question, I
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: don't know what I know how because I don't think
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: it is. Um, No, I don't. I don't remember what
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: I said that. I mean, it's not good answer. If
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: I'm on the talk show and I raised my hand
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: and I say, hey, mister Colejo, his infidelity justified. Well
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: you didn't ask that. You said, mister, infidelity justified in
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: certain cases. Yeah, well I don't think so. But you
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: would have to give me a case that I would
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: understand that to be. But generally speaking, I would not
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: agree with that statement. Got you, Now correct me if
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: I'm wrong on both of you. All products of ventiation relationships.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: No skin from Baltimore. Got you? I said. I wish
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: I could say I was half something, but I'm not.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: So you can't play Rachel with those album But you
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: know that you see it's all over Twitter. This hilarious.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: Now I want to ask question that we had a
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: very heated argument behind the scenes about this. Yesterday. Now,
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: this young lady was on Instagram. She posted a picture
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: of somebody that was her co worker I guess, kind
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: of above her at work, and um, she had quit
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: that day and she put out there that she quit
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: because she was tired of the b ass. You can
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: only take so much, and she was tired of pretending
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: like this fool is a good person. I couldn't do
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: it anymore. And then she put out there that her
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: boss had cheated on a wife, got another, got the
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: intern pregnant and had a baby. So on and so forth.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: She put all the business and she put all of
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: that on Instagram in name yes, and a picture of
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: him with the baby. All of it was true, Like,
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: I guess you know if it is true, he did
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: have a baby by the intern, And she said, I
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: refused to put up with this bs for another round.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: Not in my place of business. That's unacceptable for a
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: person to make my work environment uncomfortable because they can't
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: keep their d in their pants. Wow, and so on
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: and so forth, so forth. Do you think that was
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: a bad move or do you think she's okay to
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: do that because it's her experience. I think it's a
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: bad move. I agree, Oh my god, there's no because
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: because social media. Social media is very dangerous. I mean,
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: it can be very detrimental to your life, really, and
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: I think that, um, she cannot possibly know the whole story.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: I agree now, whether whether he did what he did
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: or not, it's not of her, it's not of her business.
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: She's she could and there's other ways to deal with
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: a with a with a boss who's abusing you. There's
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: h nor, there's the apartment to deals with all that,
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: and she could have handled it professionally to solve her
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: I think, I think that that social media has given
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: credibility to millions and millions and millions of people that
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: that do not deserve it. Word well, no credibilable voice.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: But I don't know if it's credible. No. But but
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: but as soon as somebody tweets something, it becomes news.
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: I don't care people think they are, where they are,
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: what they're doing, or if they have anything, if they
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: don't back up their stories true. That's why I include
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: ourselves in that discussion as well, because I have no
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: business talking about certain things. Um, I'm not an expert.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: I'm not I wasn't there when I have my opinion,
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: but I preface it saying this is just my opinion,
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: and that's how it's going to be on the show.
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: We're not trying to be When you make states statements
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: like this. You have to be accountable and a lot
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: of oftentimes people that tweet have like a picture of
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: a balloon or whatever, they don't they're not accountable. They
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: don't take responsibility for that, for their statements, and that's private.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: That's very dangerous because because I don't mind stating your opinion,
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: but then being man or woman enough to be accountable
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: and be responsible to say, look, it's me. How long
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: you've been married? Thirteen years? My wife's in sixteen? Wow? Yeah?
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: Four kids? Eazy? Those two boys, how old are they? Thirteen? Eleven,
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: two and one. We took a little break and then
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: right back to more. We just love kids, love kids.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: It wasn't easy. He was, you know, up and down.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: Tell us do you think it's beneficial? So what is
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: somebody like you working? Dad? Big family thirteen years? What
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: would make you tune into a new talk show? What
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: do you want to see with married people being there?
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: You know what, it's just real life conversation. I think
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: the best thing about the Breakfast Club is is we're real.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: If something happens in my relationship with my wife, good
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: or bad, we talk about it. It was just somebody
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: going through the same problem. Somebody going through the same
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: having the same health, and sometimes let's somebody else feel
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: like I can work through it or I can get
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: through it as well. You'll have to drop your own experiences.
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: I'd like to hear from y'all. I'd like to see
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: y'all be transparent right as opposed just telling everybody else
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: what to do. No, absolutely, I mean we relate everything
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: to what we have gone through. That's what we wanted,
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: you know. Whenever we whenever somebody an ask us a question,
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: we always bring it back to you know, where we
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: went through and what we have done, what we haven't done,
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: where we have learned, where we're still learning, where we
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: don't know, because we're not experts, you know, so all
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: we can be Israel. And you know, sometimes you think
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: it's the only one going through something right absolutely, and
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: then somebody says it on the radio or on TV,
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: and you're like, oh my god, I cannot believe that,
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: Like it's with kids especially, or you think your kids
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: the only one that googled kissing or sex on the computer.
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: And then you talk about that and you realize it
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: helps to share that kind of information. You can help
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: each other. How did you deal with that? What is
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: the age appropriate way to deal with something like that.
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: You know, let's go back to it a lot. So
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: do you think starting a relationship before social media was present? Probably, um,
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: is a beneficial thing because it's way harder now, so
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: it seems with the Twitter, with the Instagram, the Facebook
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: and all of that. Absolutely, um, social media is a
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: great thing because it's liberated people. It's helped people voice
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: their concerns, and you know, the whole Middle East has
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: changed because of social media. But I also think that
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: it can be, like I said, detrimental to relationships, especially
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: because we get so isolate and insulated by social media.
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: We don't we don't take in people anymore, we don't
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: communicate the same way. We don't look at people anymore.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: And we got people walking down the street like this
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: and bumping into you. I do that sometimes when people
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: do that and hold him, I say, hey, you would
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: have just missed me. Look it's me. Do you want
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: to smash me in? Right after the fourth of July
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: on and we got to give a shout out to
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: P Diddy, my Man and JB who I've been holding
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: it down with revolts. Congratulations, congratulations and everything until you guys, nice,
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: What if you're what if what if you're on stage
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: and you know, somebody stands up and goes, yo, Nikki
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: love me security out back right now, I'm get you
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: out back six for joining us. Thank you, they burst
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: his whole name again. Boris Frederick C Sue taking the
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: tute kojo. Okay, let's do real quick. There you Breakfast
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: Club game on