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Happy Hour #145: All or Nothing (SATC S3, Ep.10) · Stuff Mom Never Told You

• 0:05
  Speaker 1: Andy and Samantha and welcome to stuff I never told
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  Speaker 1: your production if I heard you.
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  Speaker 2: And welcome to another edition of Happy Hour where we're
• 0:21
  Speaker 2: gonna watch Sex and the City. Yeah. I love these Andy,
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  Speaker 2: It's just so fun to see your reaction.
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  Speaker 1: They are fun. I can never anticipate you've done that.
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  Speaker 2: You've done better. You've done a lot of like deciphering
• 0:37
  Speaker 2: of the Sex and the City code. And by the way,
• 0:39
  Speaker 2: Joey contributed to Joey has talked about the fact that
• 0:42
  Speaker 2: they have watched I think all of them at this
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  Speaker 2: point because they've really gotten caught up and I love that.
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  Speaker 2: So we're gonna have to have them back on to
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  Speaker 2: see their review on Sex and the City and how
• 0:53
  Speaker 2: they like it. As a gen zer who lives in
• 0:57
  Speaker 2: New York, I think they feel really connected now, just kidding,
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  Speaker 2: but yeah, So we are watching another Sex and the
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  Speaker 2: City episode of season three. But before we begin, this
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  Speaker 2: is a Happy Hour. Are you partaking of anything?
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  Speaker 1: Annie, I am. I'm drinking red wine. I was going
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  Speaker 1: if we had more time, I got sent a lot
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  Speaker 1: of lemons, Samantha, a lot of lemons. Why first sponsorship.
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  Speaker 2: To you lemons?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like an entire shelf of my refrigerator. Wow,
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  Speaker 1: I was gonna make some kind of lemon drink. But
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  Speaker 1: the idea, the idea of juicing a bunch of lemons
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  Speaker 1: is it's not flying for me a lot.
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  Speaker 2: And if you have any kind of paper cuts, like
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  Speaker 2: I have a little cuts on my fingers right now
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  Speaker 2: because of my new hobby, that would be bad.
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  Speaker 1: That would be that one so real bad.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I am drinking on sparkling water guava flavor. It
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  Speaker 2: kind of just tasts like muskadye, which is odd, but anyways,
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  Speaker 2: it's delicious. Nonetheless, if you are also partaking of things,
• 2:14
  Speaker 2: do so responsibly. We are back and we are watching
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  Speaker 2: season three, episode ten. I did just get confused because
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  Speaker 2: the titles got me. But just as a reminder, we
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  Speaker 2: are still doing an listener watch, meaning you one of
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  Speaker 2: you listeners. If you want to join us on a
• 2:31
  Speaker 2: watch of Sex and the City, you could have never
• 2:34
  Speaker 2: watched it. You don't have to be a fan, or
• 2:36
  Speaker 2: you might be a rabbit fan.
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  Speaker 1: As they say.
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  Speaker 2: Either way, we would love for you to join us.
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  Speaker 2: So if you are interested, at the end of this
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  Speaker 2: episode and you will tell you how to get your
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  Speaker 2: name in all you need is some headphones and a
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  Speaker 2: laptop and an internet connection and maybe some kind of
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  Speaker 2: subscription to get to the Sex and the City. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know. Oh no, no, you usually do it.
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  Speaker 1: Christina is magic and makes that work. That's right, that's right.
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  Speaker 2: You don't even need that, so hah, so simple. But
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  Speaker 2: with that, yes, we are in season three, episode ten,
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  Speaker 2: and Annie, can you kind of give us a playthrough
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  Speaker 2: of what's been happening in the season three.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, it's a lot of upheaval, a lot of upheaval
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  Speaker 1: in this one. But you told me this was a
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  Speaker 1: big season. Okay, all right. So, as always, Samantha's doing
• 3:25
  Speaker 1: her thing, which in the last episode involves some quite
• 3:30
  Speaker 1: surprising discussion around bad smelling and tasting spunk funk. And
• 3:38
  Speaker 1: then you've got Charlotte, who has constantly been on the
• 3:44
  Speaker 1: lookout for a husband. She has been proposed to, but
• 3:52
  Speaker 1: it was not how she wanted the proposal to go. Nonetheless,
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  Speaker 1: she is engaged. Then you've got Moran, who had been
• 4:01
  Speaker 1: dating Steve. Seemed like she was pretty settled in that,
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  Speaker 1: but then she felt like he was just too immature
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  Speaker 1: for her. They broke up, but he was still living
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  Speaker 1: with her as he was looking for an apartment. So
• 4:15
  Speaker 1: they're in the kind of like in between space after
• 4:20
  Speaker 1: a breakup, which is funny because I remember in the
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  Speaker 1: last episode, I kept saying the vending machine, you got
• 4:26
  Speaker 1: to push it over, you got to push it over.
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  Speaker 1: And then Carrie is dating Aiden and she's been kind
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  Speaker 1: of dealing with issues around. She's used to a relationship
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  Speaker 1: having a lot more drama than he has brought the relationship,
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  Speaker 1: and so she was like, seemed like she had happily
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  Speaker 1: decided you know what, I like this. And then her
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  Speaker 1: ex mister Big, comes into her life says he is
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  Speaker 1: going to leave his wife, and they end up back
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  Speaker 1: into an affair and they have sex, and like I said,
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  Speaker 1: it's Taylor Swift song Listed Affairs that allegedly is based
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  Speaker 1: on this, and uh, it's given me some hints and clues.
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  Speaker 2: I think. I think, apparently you did really well Lockhome round,
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  Speaker 2: so I'm gonna give you that. Well, this episode is
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  Speaker 2: titled all or Nothing. Do you have a prediction for me?
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  Speaker 1: All or nothing? Okay? Well, if I lean into the song, okay,
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  Speaker 1: I think I think there's gonna be a lot of
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  Speaker 1: big choices in this one. Then, and I think Carrie
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  Speaker 1: is gonna be still being with mister Big and hiding
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  Speaker 1: it from everybody, but they're all kind of suspicious. And
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  Speaker 1: then like some decision is gonna come up and she's
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  Speaker 1: really got to make it to Sion. Hmmm. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know about I feel like Charlotte's gonna go through with
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  Speaker 1: this guy, but it's gotta be some decision she's gotta
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  Speaker 1: make all or nothing, all or nothing. And then Miranda,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like she's moving on from Steve. I know
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  Speaker 1: he's back in the picture because I have seen later things,
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  Speaker 1: but I feel like she was moving on, So maybe
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  Speaker 1: she's nothing. And then I don't know what Samanthah's gonna do.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe they'll go to brunch and.
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  Speaker 2: They're gonna go to production. Okay, okay, okay, that and brunch.
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  Speaker 2: All right, Well, let's hop into it.
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  Speaker 3: I had an amazing boyfriend who had all his hair,
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  Speaker 3: good friend.
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  Speaker 4: Right roll.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and a married ex boyfriend I had slept with
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  Speaker 3: a week ago.
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  Speaker 2: It does have intrusive thoughts when you've done something like
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  Speaker 2: not great, it just pops off like that's not wrong.
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  Speaker 5: I am trying good DVD's delivery.
• 7:21
  Speaker 2: I use this hot new home delivery service.
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  Speaker 4: You call them anything you want, they bring you within
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  Speaker 4: an hour anything.
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  Speaker 2: Last night I ordered condoms.
• 7:29
  Speaker 1: Please tell That's so funny because now nowadays it's like, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: But you have to pay too much for like immediate delivery.
• 7:38
  Speaker 2: I'll wait two days for not for not for for
• 7:42
  Speaker 2: Sam's lifestyle, I cut and I guess. But again, we said,
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  Speaker 2: her expense account is much better than ours, So who
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  Speaker 2: cares about that? Five ninety nine.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I am trying.
• 7:58
  Speaker 3: Big, And I have this thing all about the pheromones.
• 8:03
  Speaker 1: We're all just animals reacting to each other's.
• 8:05
  Speaker 2: Smell, but I love the smell is always a thing.
• 8:08
  Speaker 1: Yes, I had a guy who smelled my neck once
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  Speaker 1: and then looked at me and said, no.
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  Speaker 2: I did not know that was gonna go that way.
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  Speaker 5: He's like, no, that's fuddy downtown.
• 8:31
  Speaker 3: Samantha woke up to discover she did have it all,
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  Speaker 3: including the flu.
• 8:36
  Speaker 2: Oh, it is the worst waking up sick, not realizing
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  Speaker 2: that you've been sick, you know, like you kind of
• 8:41
  Speaker 2: have hands, and then you wake up you're like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: what just happened.
• 8:47
  Speaker 1: Also, this is a nightmare that a lot of times,
• 8:49
  Speaker 1: when I think of moving, I think we're having to
• 8:52
  Speaker 1: put up curtains, and I'm like, no, never mind.
• 8:54
  Speaker 2: I guess whose car is still not up in our house?
• 8:57
  Speaker 2: It's been never t some years.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, right, listen, I was wondering if you might
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  Speaker 4: be able to drop by on your way to work
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  Speaker 4: this morning. Honey, I can hardly blow my nose, let
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  Speaker 4: alone blow you.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Well, I wouldn't want you to get sick either.
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  Speaker 2: That's legitimate.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fair.
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  Speaker 5: There's too many.
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  Speaker 2: Things going around. Can't be coming to your ls if
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  Speaker 2: you're coughing. We don't know you that well.
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  Speaker 3: Later that day, in the bridal registry department at Bergdorf Goodman,
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  Speaker 3: Charlotte discovered she wanted it all and more.
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  Speaker 1: Thirteen hundred dollars.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, and we do very up.
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  Speaker 1: It's really beautiful.
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  Speaker 2: So I know this is a thing for a lot
• 9:53
  Speaker 2: of people to get, like China for their wedding. Is
• 9:56
  Speaker 2: that still a tradition?
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  Speaker 1: I would love if someone wrote it to me. No,
• 10:02
  Speaker 1: but my mom had She's right.
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  Speaker 2: I believe my sister actually ordered some as well when
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  Speaker 2: she first got married, but that was in again, the
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  Speaker 2: early two thousands, early nineties. Yeah, so I wonder if
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  Speaker 2: past that has that still been a thing or is
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  Speaker 2: this like a rich people think.
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  Speaker 1: It's funny because my mom, we never use them because
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  Speaker 1: they're too nice.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, they just get displayed. And I have a
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  Speaker 2: set of like china that's from my grandmother, but it's
• 10:33
  Speaker 2: not china. It's not nice to it's just place that
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  Speaker 2: she had that. Like I wanted the really announcements that
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  Speaker 2: were displayed, but I got the second round because my aunt,
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  Speaker 2: the actual daughter, got it. I'm like, that's fair, but
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  Speaker 2: I got these instead. I'm like, what do I do
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  Speaker 2: with these? So they're just in a box? Have I
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  Speaker 2: used them?
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  Speaker 3: No? Charlotte wasted no time having a lawyer look over
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  Speaker 3: the papers.
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  Speaker 4: Normal.
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  Speaker 3: We haven't even gotten married yet, and already we're talking
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  Speaker 3: about divorce. A lot of people do prenups these days.
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  Speaker 4: Marriage is supposed to be about love and happiness and
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  Speaker 4: emerging and protection of them.
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  Speaker 1: We should do an episode on prenups. And yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: actually have no idea how common they are. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know how after strange this is or not strange this is.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well, like so taboo. And I think once upon
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  Speaker 2: a time, because men were making the money, prenups were
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  Speaker 2: to save their assets and now, it's like not as
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  Speaker 2: much like the Ali Wong her whole like like special.
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  Speaker 2: At one point was talking about the fact that her
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  Speaker 2: mother in law at the time wanted a prenup and
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  Speaker 2: in the end it protected her because she was the
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  Speaker 2: one who made all the money. So I found that
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  Speaker 2: and she was like, that's the ultimate revenge type of thing.
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  Speaker 2: But that is an interesting conversation of like, how where
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  Speaker 2: do we see this today? Because it makes sense, especially
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  Speaker 2: more so now as women are making more or more
• 12:00
  Speaker 2: as they're coming in to marriages. Like we talked about
• 12:03
  Speaker 2: the fact that single women are the ones who are
• 12:04
  Speaker 2: buying the homes, so what does that look like?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and we've also talked about how a lot of
• 12:11
  Speaker 1: people like to keep their own I would finances, like
• 12:17
  Speaker 1: kind of separate it. It gets Charlotte's point of like
• 12:20
  Speaker 1: it doesn't feel romantic, but it's it's smart and rational
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  Speaker 1: right to be like, no, I need to have this
• 12:27
  Speaker 1: plan in place, and that can be I think perfectly healthy.
• 12:31
  Speaker 1: It's healthy to talk about it and have your own.
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  Speaker 3: We gave into our baser instincts. It happens blah blah blah.
• 12:44
  Speaker 1: Are you wearing glasses?
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  Speaker 3: No, you sound like you're wearing glasses.
• 12:48
  Speaker 2: It can't happen again.
• 12:50
  Speaker 3: You're married.
• 12:51
  Speaker 1: I'm aware of that.
• 12:52
  Speaker 2: Why does she need to talk to him? That's this
• 12:55
  Speaker 2: is where I'm like, Carrie's the worst the point, Why
• 12:58
  Speaker 2: would you do this?
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  Speaker 1: I think it's the and she's like, I've got to
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  Speaker 1: get rid of these intrusive thoughts. I'll put it to
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  Speaker 1: an end and then clearly does it next time we're
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: going to a hotel.
• 13:10
  Speaker 6: I can smell the guy on your sheets, wood chips
• 13:14
  Speaker 6: and Paco Raban does.
• 13:17
  Speaker 2: First of all, how dare you have a second little
• 13:20
  Speaker 2: letting him on your boyfriend at the time? That is disgusting.
• 13:26
  Speaker 2: I was very mad about these episodes.
• 13:34
  Speaker 3: Meanwhile, that night, Miranda was enjoying her new flame. I
• 13:39
  Speaker 3: can't believe I have to catch an eleven o'clock flight.
• 13:44
  Speaker 3: It was fun.
• 13:49
  Speaker 2: This is nothing, though, this is not nothing. I will
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  Speaker 2: say she's got something.
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  Speaker 1: Is it all?
• 13:56
  Speaker 5: No?
• 13:57
  Speaker 2: But it's definitely not nothing.
• 13:58
  Speaker 1: Always trying to grade meat.
• 14:03
  Speaker 2: Gotta keep you honest.
• 14:06
  Speaker 3: In the meantime, there's always the phone.
• 14:09
  Speaker 1: I have one of those. The no, our relationship would
• 14:15
  Speaker 1: be over if it was me.
• 14:17
  Speaker 2: I will admit I have never ever had phone sex,
• 14:21
  Speaker 2: nor have I ever done like sexting, that's not it's
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  Speaker 2: weird to me. And I say this as a person
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  Speaker 2: that maybe I'm too much of like a gen xer
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  Speaker 2: to not be able to do this and remembering when
• 14:33
  Speaker 2: those hotlines existed and knowing that they're shame in that.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe that's just me being stunted.
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  Speaker 1: I've never done either, but it's mostly I'm just uncomfortable
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  Speaker 1: with it. I have. I don't like talking on the phone.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the other thing I have.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want any record of me being like a
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: bad pun that I thought was sexy, Like I don't
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: need that in my life. Really, That's where you went through,
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: like I know I'll do a bad p It would
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: not be good because I get nervous and so it
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: would be a joke. It would be something joking.
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the thing that I couldn't take it seriously either,
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: And then like I'm definitely not sending you pictures because
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: that hangs on too much. I have been like an
• 15:16
  Speaker 2: investigator for way too long when it comes to different
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: kinds like that that, I'm like, nah, thank you, but yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I don't.
• 15:23
  Speaker 3: I don't.
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: I've never that's never been a thing for me. But
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: I think it's funny because, like, I'm also the same
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: person who hates phone calls being very awkward. They can't
• 15:31
  Speaker 2: figure out when who's pausing when we're supposed to figure
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: out who's talking.
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: Type of thing. Is this done?
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: And then I just I'm not gonna hang out in
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: the middle of your sentence and be like, sorry, I
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: think we were done.
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're so socially competent.
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, everything's fine, We're completely normal here. Oh, I'm gonna
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: there's nothing about this. Her second line be damp, damn it.
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: Hold on Hello, Trey says his mom won't negotiate. Hold on,
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: are you okay? I'll be right back. How would you
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: answer the Why would you answer? So? Now you know
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: the mom's the one holding the cards, She's the one
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: you're gonna have to go up against. How do I
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: do that?
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  Speaker 5: Charlotte?
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: This isn't a good time. I'll call you tomorrow, I answer.
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  Speaker 1: The comedic value.
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: This cordless phone is even better though, Yeah, that was
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: the coolesto. You didn't although I'm the fidgitter, so I
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: love wrapping the corda my fingers. And then it's kind
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: of like everywhere like I ended up being tangled into it.
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: But I can't.
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: I have to undo myself, and that's a three minute process.
• 16:58
  Speaker 6: I've gotten married, then at least i'd have a curtain
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  Speaker 6: that closes.
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: That's the only reason you get married. So I'm gonna
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: take care of you when you're sick.
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: I remember one time I was struggling with like a
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: mattress and somebody was like, this is why you have
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: a boyfriend.
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: It's like, okay, Or you have a friend who has
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: a boyfriend, he'll send them over.
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: Yes, I.
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: Haven't signed the prenup.
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  Speaker 1: What are you gonna do?
• 17:34
  Speaker 4: I don't know.
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: I'm so confused.
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: I really love him, I do, but I feel like
• 17:39
  Speaker 4: no one cares about me.
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: I thought that maybe if we could negotiate it to
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: be okay, but now.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: This, this all feels so wrong.
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: What does terracay nothing?
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: He leaves his stuff up to his mother.
• 17:51
  Speaker 4: A remedy by honey, you.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: Can don't if he cannot say no to the mother,
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: and everything is based on his mother. Yeah, we've seen
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: this is I've read it like tens of thousands of
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: Reddit threads. And then my addiction found me.
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: Hello, I need to see you, Miranda I'll.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: Call you back.
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: I'm downstairs. If you don't come down, I'm coming up right,
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: I'll call you later.
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: Oh, he's threatening to come up.
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: I told Aiden I was taking Pete for a walk,
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: and he believed me, which only.
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: Made it worse. She's bringing the dog into it.
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: That's a no. If Peaches was involved, someone is gonna
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: get smacked. I do not condone violence, but at this point,
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: all right, I'll give you. I'll give you an a.
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: A for effort. I think I did pretty good.
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: Did you did pretty good? You did pretty good? Okay,
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: So the thick this is hard to come on to.
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: A prenup is hard to predict. But you did say
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: he would she would follow through. However, there was no brunch, Anie,
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: damn brunch.
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: Did they go to a club? They didn't.
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: They didn't do that either.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: Now it's like a little function.
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: Yes it's true. But yeah, so this season is really
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: really crazy. I feel like this was the season that
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: really took on everybody loving sex in the city because
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: it felt somewhat realistic and also people really hated carry
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: Like this is where I think people realized this is
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: not cool, but they still they still have the big
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: conversation about Big versus Aiden. Still, you know, like team
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: whoever with even that type of ploy, and it's kind
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: of like how did we get here? But there you go.
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: Do you have a prediction of what might come up?
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: Okay? Okay, Oh no, he's that wrong. I think I think,
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: based on my song.
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: Clues, Taylor Swift has done too much.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: I think I think Carrie's gonna break up with Aiden
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: and Big. I think there's gonna be a big shake up,
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: and I think her friends other than Samantha are gonna
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: find out and they're gonna be real mad. I think
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: Charlotte's gonna go through with this marriage. I can't The
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: Taylor Swift song only extends to what happens with Carrie
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: and Big, so I can't predict from there. I think
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: Charlott's gonna go through with this marriage and or break
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: it off at last minute. I know he's involved, but
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: I also know she doesn't end up with him ultimately,
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: so I don't know. I don't know when Steve is
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: gonna come back in the picture either, but I think
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be a minute. I think it's gonna be
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: a minute for Steve.
• 21:19
  Speaker 6: Okay's gonna I think he's gonna get either found out
• 21:26
  Speaker 6: or breakup with both of them, and I don't know.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna listen to the song again.
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: That's that's gonna breathe the Tale. Okay, I gotcha, I gotcha. Okay,
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: go listen to the album to get your U get
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: your hands. I know that not bad. I really think
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: like these episodes are really interesting. It does bring in
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: a shake And I'm very very judgmental in this whole
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: like cheating aspect. I will say I have a heard
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: take when it comes to cheating, and I know not
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: everyone feels that way, and I think that's like a
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: whole conversation that we should have. But in general, especially
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: when you're in a monogamous relationship that is said to
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: be monogamous, like there's no reason for it. People make mistakes, sure,
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: but to continue to live in the mistakes is like
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: I just have a hard time reckon like trying to
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: reason that out. Yeah, Like it just don't Maybe it's
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: just because I'm such a like black and white person
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: when it comes to that, Like if I don't want
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: to be in a relationship, I'm not going to be
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: in a relationship. If this is not working, then why
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: would you do this to yourself? The other part, I
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: can't handle the guilt.
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: The and trusive thoughts that we're being showcased here. Yeah,
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: that's always been my thing too, Like I don't people
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: ain't mistakes, but if it's a continuous mistake, like if
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: you're continually doing it, then then it's like the other
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: person is your safety option, right, and you don't want
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: it's cruel because they it's time. It's time wasted that
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: they could be healing or finding someone else. You can't
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: have your cake and eat it too.
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: So did me forever to figure out that's saying by
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: the way, I'm like, why can't I I can eat it,
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: I have it. I don't understand.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: People like to fight about that saying.
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it didn't make complete sense to me.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: I I this will surprise no one. But there's a
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: particular Star Wars argument I get in and I'm always like,
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: you can't have your cake and eat it too? And
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: they're like, yes, you can, you know what I mean.
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: Literal sometimes and I was like, what, yess A can?
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: That doesn't make any sense. I guess it's mine, so
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: obviously I can eat It's what's happening. I only that
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: I can share it if I want to, So screw you.
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: Oh no, it took me a long time to figure
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: out what people were saying and then I went down
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: literal ways. Anyway, Yeah, there you go, y'all. So we
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: are ending on episode ten. We'll be back probably a
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: couple more throughout the year, and then next year we'll
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: probably finish it out with the episode with a listener
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: because holidays are too chaotic. Yeah, so, no worries. If
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: you are interested. We're not trying to finish it up
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: by the end of this year. That's not going to happen.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: But to have your name picked out, we do want
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: to let you know before next year. Who are you
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: going to be?
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, are in the early next year so you can
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: have time to plan, We can have time to schedule.
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah, we do already have a list. If
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: you sent your name in, it is on there. But
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: if you are interested, Samantha's already got the episode picked out,
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: so it should be fun. I've never seen it, so
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: no again, no worry. You don't have to know anything,
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: or you can know everything. It'll be great either way.
• 24:56
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