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You Must Get Back Up: Push Through the Toughest Days · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: The easy route never pays well. The only route in
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  Speaker 1: life that pays well is the hard route. The struggle,
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  Speaker 1: the pain, the frustration, and the overcoming of those things.
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  Speaker 1: And not only do they pay they fulfill you as well.
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  Speaker 2: As You'll go through the challenges of life and you
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  Speaker 2: look at it and embrace whatever comes to you. Don't
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  Speaker 2: run from it, step toward it, don't try and duck
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  Speaker 2: it like most people do. See most people want it
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  Speaker 2: easy see, easy come, easy go see. But when you
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  Speaker 2: go at what you're going to deal with and you
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  Speaker 2: deal with the difficulties of it, when you handle those
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  Speaker 2: hard things close at hand, making those hard decisions right
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  Speaker 2: now that you don't want to make, learning those things
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  Speaker 2: that you don't like to do, but you know that
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  Speaker 2: in audi you to get where you want to go.
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  Speaker 2: This is one of the hoops that you have to
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  Speaker 2: flip them. And I'm saying to you, whatever you gotta do,
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  Speaker 2: do it because if you don't, life is gonna whoop
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  Speaker 2: you and tell you surrender. So if it's hot, then
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  Speaker 2: do it hard.
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  Speaker 3: When things go wrong, they always seem to happen at
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  Speaker 3: once and they just compound on top of each other,
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  Speaker 3: and it's it's pretty easy sometimes to feel beaten when
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  Speaker 3: you're faced with all those issues and all those problems
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  Speaker 3: and they all hit you at the same time.
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  Speaker 4: But let me tell you.
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  Speaker 5: That that doesn't mean give up. In fact, it means
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  Speaker 5: the opposite. It means it's time for you to fight harder.
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  Speaker 5: To dig in, means it's time for you to go
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  Speaker 5: on the war path.
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  Speaker 6: I want to reassure you that you can do it.
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  Speaker 6: I want you to reassure you that you can make
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  Speaker 6: the decision. I want to reassure you that no matter
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  Speaker 6: what the night, no matter what the storm, no matter
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  Speaker 6: what the difficulty, there isn't anybody here that can't figure
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  Speaker 6: it out. Find some things to do. Step at a time, yes,
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  Speaker 6: minute at a time, yes, day at a time, yes,
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  Speaker 6: week at a time. Yes, But there isn't anything you
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  Speaker 6: can walk away from. There isn't any challenge you can't overcome.
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  Speaker 6: I want you to have that kind of belief in
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  Speaker 6: your self.
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  Speaker 4: The first thing I believe you got to do to
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  Speaker 4: turn yourself around is really take control of your mind,
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  Speaker 4: or specifically, you got to feed and strengthen the mind.
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  Speaker 4: The mind is an interesting place, isn't it. I mean,
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  Speaker 4: fear can take us over uncertainty. It kind of unleashes
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  Speaker 4: all these thoughts that make us start to believe very
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  Speaker 4: often that things will always be bad, that will never
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  Speaker 4: be able to turn it around, or that we don't
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  Speaker 4: have the capability. It's just the nature of those inner
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  Speaker 4: voices that everybody feels at times. Maybe you're not feeling
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  Speaker 4: it right now, but I'm sure there are times that
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  Speaker 4: you have so to take control of your focus. What
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  Speaker 4: do you do well? Then I was told all of
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  Speaker 4: a sudden I had a tumor, or way back when,
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  Speaker 4: when I'm on my own trying to figure out what
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  Speaker 4: to do, I realized that somehow to take control of
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  Speaker 4: my mind, how to feed it. That if I didn't
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  Speaker 4: feed my mind, I'd know I'd be living on the
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  Speaker 4: weeds that came around me. I mean, today, if all
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  Speaker 4: you do is, you know, pick up your phone. You've
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  Speaker 4: got all kinds of messages. They're going to get your
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  Speaker 4: full attention, or flip on Google and check out the news,
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  Speaker 4: or watch CNN or whatever it is you do, it's
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  Speaker 4: constantly coming at us. One of my first teachers, Jim Rohn,
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  Speaker 4: taught me something years ago. He said, Tony, every day
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  Speaker 4: you've got to stand guard at the door of your mind.
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  Speaker 4: He said, you know, I'll give you a good lesson.
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  Speaker 4: He said, think about this. What if your worst enemy
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  Speaker 4: in the whole world came and dropped some sugar in
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  Speaker 4: your coffee? He said, what would happen to you? I
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  Speaker 4: was just a seventeen year old kid, just getting started
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  Speaker 4: and I said, what do you mean, I'd have sweet sugar?
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  Speaker 4: He said, that's right. He said, what if your best friend,
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  Speaker 4: what the best intention in the world, drop one drop
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  Speaker 4: of strychnine in your coffee and said I'll be dead?
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  Speaker 4: He goes, that's right. So remember life is both sugar
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  Speaker 4: and strict nine and you better stand guard at your coffee.
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  Speaker 4: Stand guard at the door of your mind because things
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  Speaker 4: feed in there and you start to accept them, they
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  Speaker 4: start to become beliefs. You start to make up meanings
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  Speaker 4: that take over your life.
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  Speaker 7: Your focus must be on becoming a true alpha male. First,
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  Speaker 7: on yourself, your life, your career, and who you want
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  Speaker 7: to become. You see, life isn't just about attaining the
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  Speaker 7: career of your dreams, buying your dream house, your dream car,
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  Speaker 7: and having your dream girl. It's about the man.
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  Speaker 5: You become along the way.
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  Speaker 7: You aren't just creating those physical things in your life.
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  Speaker 7: You are creating and becoming a new man. Life isn't
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  Speaker 7: just about the journey and the path you will take.
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  Speaker 7: It is also about how you develop yourself. The problem
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  Speaker 7: has never that you are not an alpha male. The
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  Speaker 7: problem has always been that you have negative beliefs that
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  Speaker 7: have hidden your true alpha male self. Most, if not all,
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  Speaker 7: of us have had experiences in life that caused our
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  Speaker 7: subconscious mind to create beliefs about ourselves that are no
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  Speaker 7: help whatsoever. But your subconscious mind, with all of its
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  Speaker 7: superintelligence at keeping you alive and running well, is notorious
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  Speaker 7: for holding on too negative beliefs. Your subconscious mind is
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  Speaker 7: not concerned if you follow your bliss or become a
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  Speaker 7: self actuated person. All your subconscious mind is concerned about
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  Speaker 7: is your survival. It's very primal. Your subconscious mind will
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  Speaker 7: take fearful, scary, or bad events in your life and
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  Speaker 7: store them away permanently. Next, it will create a belief
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  Speaker 7: based upon those events. For example, if your father told
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  Speaker 7: you that you were no good when you were eight
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  Speaker 7: years old, and then a teacher told you the same
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  Speaker 7: thing when you were ten, then your subconscious mind would
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  Speaker 7: develop the belief that you are not good enough. Furthermore,
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  Speaker 7: if you tried to convince yourself that you are worthy
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  Speaker 7: and good enough, your subconscious mind will dutifully bring up
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  Speaker 7: events from the past to prove you wrong. It has
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  Speaker 7: a perfect memory, and it stores everything. The point is
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  Speaker 7: that the only thing standing in the way between who
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  Speaker 7: you are being now and your true alpha male self
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  Speaker 7: are those negative beliefs. Once those are cleared, then your
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  Speaker 7: true alpha male self can flourish. One of the misconceptions
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  Speaker 7: about being an alpha male is that he has to
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  Speaker 7: succeed at everything. That is not true. You don't have
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  Speaker 7: to be the best at everything. For example, if you
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  Speaker 7: are really bad at math and you have absolutely no
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  Speaker 7: desire to learn it, then don't beat yourself up for
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  Speaker 7: being bad at it. Hire an accountant and let them
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  Speaker 7: do the math for you. In other words, just because
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  Speaker 7: you are learning to become a true alpha male, it
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  Speaker 7: doesn't mean that you have to conquer everything in life.
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  Speaker 7: Focus on what you love to do in life and.
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  Speaker 4: Not on what you don't like.
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  Speaker 3: To do or are not good at.
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  Speaker 7: It's okay, we all have different talents. In reality, who
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  Speaker 7: you really are is who you are right now, but
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  Speaker 7: without all of the negative beliefs about yourself. Hence is
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  Speaker 7: why you need a way to remove the negative beliefs
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  Speaker 7: that you have about yourself. When it comes down to it,
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  Speaker 7: become an alpha male is not as difficult as it
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  Speaker 7: may seem. Basically, you have been programmed to have negative
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  Speaker 7: thoughts which turn into negative beliefs. So what you need
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  Speaker 7: to do is reprogram your subconscious mind with the positive thoughts, feelings,
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  Speaker 7: and beliefs of being a true alpha male. The other
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  Speaker 7: point about being an alpha male is that scope really
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  Speaker 7: doesn't matter. For example, if you are a single dad,
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  Speaker 7: then you are the alpha male to your children. Being
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  Speaker 7: a great dad as an alpha male is extremely important
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  Speaker 7: to them, and it's very important to society as a whole.
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  Speaker 7: There is no role as an alpha male that is
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  Speaker 7: not important. So whether you are the owner of a
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  Speaker 7: major corporation or a single dad, you are needed. Size
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  Speaker 7: and scope doesn't matter. The notion that you have to
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  Speaker 7: be the best in every group would set you up
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  Speaker 7: for failure. It's impossible. If you are the most powerful
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  Speaker 7: alpha male in every group or social setting, then there
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  Speaker 7: would only be one and you would be president of
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  Speaker 7: the United States or China. The point is that it
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  Speaker 7: is really good to always strive to be the best
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  Speaker 7: alpha male guy that you can, but have realistic expectations.
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  Speaker 6: You don't need to be the top.
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  Speaker 7: Dog everywhere you go. The only point you need to
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  Speaker 7: know is that scope doesn't matter. Do your best to
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  Speaker 7: be the top dog if you want in every social situation,
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  Speaker 7: but let it go if you can't be your new
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  Speaker 7: true alpha male self no matter what situation you find
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  Speaker 7: yourself in and no matter who comes before you. Don't
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  Speaker 7: become a beta male in one situation in an alpha
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  Speaker 7: in another. Be your true self always. The actionable steps
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  Speaker 7: that we are going to get into have to do
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  Speaker 7: with improving who you are and not what you do,
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  Speaker 7: but we will include what to do in some situations
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  Speaker 7: so that you get an idea of what is normal
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  Speaker 7: for the new alpha male you. One of the things
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  Speaker 7: that you must start to do is to visualize yourself
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  Speaker 7: as being a true alpha male. You have to feel it,
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  Speaker 7: you have to believe it. Understanding the law of attraction
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  Speaker 7: is one of the best ways to start to become
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  Speaker 7: a true alpha male.
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