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🏡 The Valley Deep & The Valley After Show Recap · Drama, Darling: A Real Housewives Comedy Podcast

• 0:05
  Speaker 1: Drama, Darling, drama, Darling drama, Darling.
• 0:18
  Speaker 2: Well, welcome in everybody, it's drama, Darling. Deanna and I
• 0:22
  Speaker 2: are here to talk about a little bit of a
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  Speaker 2: love valley. Hi Deanna, Oh.
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  Speaker 3: Hi, Amy Phillips. Wonderful to be here. It is just
• 0:30
  Speaker 3: a delight to see you. Listen, we want to talk
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  Speaker 3: about the valley. You know, as little or as much
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  Speaker 3: as we like it, We're going to talk about it.
• 0:41
  Speaker 3: And I actually did watch the after show, which I
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  Speaker 3: got to say I enjoyed more than the actual show.
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  Speaker 2: So interesting, you know, I like it. I like it.
• 0:51
  Speaker 2: I was really touched by the relationship and friendship that
• 0:57
  Speaker 2: Zach and Kristen have and back in Brittany. You know,
• 1:01
  Speaker 2: this is nice to see all these years later, how
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  Speaker 2: deep it goes. We knew, but we didn't really know
• 1:07
  Speaker 2: the depths.
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  Speaker 4: There's so many things about that party.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, very like vander Pump rules as you know deeply,
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  Speaker 2: and Ariana's place or aka shall I say Sandoval and
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  Speaker 2: Kristen's place originally.
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  Speaker 3: You know, I did, couldn't help but think of vander
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  Speaker 3: Pump throughout this entire episode. Yeah, because we're never a
• 1:38
  Speaker 3: half even a half step up in terms of just glamour,
• 1:43
  Speaker 3: price brackets of things like we're just right there, which
• 1:47
  Speaker 3: is hard. You know, I'd like to have a little
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  Speaker 3: bit of just something to drool over. And I am just.
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  Speaker 2: You're in the wrong valley.
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  Speaker 4: I'm in the wrong valley.
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  Speaker 3: I I yeah, we're in physical everyone's bodies are are
• 2:05
  Speaker 3: have come on done. This is all stuff that should
• 2:07
  Speaker 3: be done, like off season and working.
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  Speaker 2: God. Oh my wait, so are you saying that you
• 2:13
  Speaker 2: don't want to see bike over?
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  Speaker 4: That is okay.
• 2:19
  Speaker 3: I think I could take one mommy makeover, but I
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  Speaker 3: need to lose a knee and I need to I
• 2:26
  Speaker 3: need to lose the postpart. I just, I mean, I
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  Speaker 3: get it all. I just need one physical like breakdown,
• 2:33
  Speaker 3: you know.
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  Speaker 2: Right, we could lose one ailment for the sake of
• 2:38
  Speaker 2: gaining uh you know, a Lacey situation. Oh my god,
• 2:43
  Speaker 2: her itching at the pizza was so funny to me.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I found it funny. I found it funny.
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  Speaker 4: Well the pizza was, was it?
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  Speaker 2: I mean it was Dominos? They always order Dominoes. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know why. I don't know if there's a brand deal,
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  Speaker 2: but I remember that from vander Rules. I remember it
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  Speaker 2: being like Dominoes at every party, like over at Ariana
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  Speaker 2: and Sandoval's place, over at James and what's her name?
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  Speaker 3: James? And oh yeah, she has a new show, but
• 3:15
  Speaker 3: my husband's watching and I can't it's a dating show.
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  Speaker 2: Have you know? I heard you over there? Allie, Alie?
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  Speaker 2: How could I forget? Yeah, Allie's on it. It's like
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  Speaker 2: love coming into love. Love is not blind, love is here,
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  Speaker 2: love is love not on and love on a peninsula.
• 3:30
  Speaker 2: I don't know, but yeah, some rendition of one of those.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, you know, go for her, go for her?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, sure? I mean you didn't know, God bless.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, So Domino's is maybe branded, Okay, I fear it's not.
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  Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing I do too, And I have
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  Speaker 2: to tell you that there have been many pizza arguments
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  Speaker 2: in my home. So Brett is like, he will, he'll
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  Speaker 2: go for a deal. He will go for a deal
• 4:01
  Speaker 2: before he goes for you know, the quality. And I'm
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  Speaker 2: just not on the same par as him when it
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  Speaker 2: comes to that. So when he when Domino's hits his
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  Speaker 2: lips as an option, I'm like no. And so what
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  Speaker 2: ends up happening is if we do end up getting
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  Speaker 2: that for whatever, whether it's money reasons or and he
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  Speaker 2: wins the argument. He gets the wings, the chicken wings,
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  Speaker 2: and then I'm fine, okay, because that's what I like,
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  Speaker 2: the wings. And I'm like, you know what, I'll just
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  Speaker 2: have the wings and like half a piece of pizza
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  Speaker 2: and like we're fine. Matty doesn't seem to care as much.
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  Speaker 4: No, it's for kids, like you get it for kids.
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  Speaker 2: And husbands who clearly don't have as much of a
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  Speaker 2: picky taste. When it comes to pizza.
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  Speaker 4: Where is bred from Chicago?
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  Speaker 2: No, he's out West.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, all right? Then I thought, like, what sort of
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  Speaker 3: Chicago human is?
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  Speaker 2: Well, but he loves But here's the thing. Pizza is
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  Speaker 2: like one of his favorite foods. So he loves deep dish,
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  Speaker 2: he just loves. I think he loves any kind of pizza.
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  Speaker 2: That's what it comes to you. It's like he loves
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  Speaker 2: any kind of pizza and quite frankly, any kind of beer.
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  Speaker 2: Like he'll just drink it. He'll eat it, and he
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  Speaker 2: will drink it. When it comes to pizza and beer,
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  Speaker 2: I am absolutely not that person. I want, you know,
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  Speaker 2: I want a flat bread. I want it in a
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  Speaker 2: stone oven. I want to choose my toppings. More specifically,
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  Speaker 2: I would like more of a garlic spread or a
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  Speaker 2: pesto spread instead of a tomato sauce. For the most part,
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  Speaker 2: I am definitely not the customer that a Domino's wants.
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  Speaker 2: So when Lacy saw that, I said, I feel you,
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  Speaker 2: I hear you, And you know it's not for the parents,
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  Speaker 2: like you said, it's for the kids.
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  Speaker 4: Right, well, the whole party. I mean, can we just
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  Speaker 4: deal with the party.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, let's get in over to Zach and Bengies.
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  Speaker 3: Just having the runner of Zach, you know, in tears
• 6:02
  Speaker 3: over losing his Monster fridge.
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  Speaker 2: That was so great when they got that phone call,
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  Speaker 2: when Jasmine and they were like, oh god, that was
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  Speaker 2: great television, great moment for Zach. And he genuinely loves
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  Speaker 2: the fridge. He branded, He loves branded, loves branded decor.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. And guess what on the after show
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  Speaker 2: I heard a little bit more about it. Oh, he
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  Speaker 2: doesn't even drink Monster. He doesn't even drink it. And
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  Speaker 2: he bought that with his old roommate. They split the
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  Speaker 2: money to buy that. He said it was worth like
• 6:46
  Speaker 2: next to like six hundred to eight hundred dollars, and
• 6:49
  Speaker 2: they maybe they didn't buy it for that much, but
• 6:51
  Speaker 2: they did split it and it was a couple hundred
• 6:53
  Speaker 2: dollars each for sure. Huh that roommate thing went scorched earth. Yeah,
• 7:00
  Speaker 2: what in the world. Apparently he threw that sofa out
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  Speaker 2: by the you know, by the trash, by the dumpster.
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  Speaker 2: And not only that, but I think he like slit
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  Speaker 2: it allegedly with an you know, with an exact o
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  Speaker 2: knife or a box cutter, an exactly knife, exact, very precise,
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  Speaker 2: very precize. Yeah, he's horrible.
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  Speaker 3: He has a boyfriend, that's really serious. Why what's the
• 7:36
  Speaker 3: problem here? He wants to move in and the roommate
• 7:39
  Speaker 3: moved in with his boyfriend.
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  Speaker 4: I don't under what did Zach do?
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  Speaker 2: Well, okay, so that's where you went. And I thought,
• 7:47
  Speaker 2: well I did think what did Zach do? But like,
• 7:50
  Speaker 2: was he it? Was this person really a good friend
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  Speaker 2: the whole time? Clearly if he were to unravel like
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  Speaker 2: this in the end, clearly not.
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  Speaker 3: I mean something one down to rip an offering from
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  Speaker 3: Kristen right off the wall. TV offering to rip it
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  Speaker 3: off the wall.
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  Speaker 2: And be on your way. Oh yeah, the TV.
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  Speaker 4: You know that's a that's something so okay, Amy.
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  Speaker 3: So when they just having this party with I mean,
• 8:21
  Speaker 3: you know, not a wine opener, seats and it's not ready,
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  Speaker 3: you know, And there's a lot of things that happens
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  Speaker 3: on these shows that things are not ready for.
• 8:31
  Speaker 4: See Juried's book cover, you know, event, but.
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  Speaker 3: It's fine, like you have a window and you have
• 8:41
  Speaker 3: to figure it out. I understand that, But it really
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  Speaker 3: was not ready for any kind of warming.
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  Speaker 2: Was that yes? But was that purposeful where they're like, yeah,
• 8:51
  Speaker 2: we need a lot of stuff, so come send your gifts,
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  Speaker 2: you know. I don't know. I mean, was it because
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  Speaker 2: they just didn't have enough events that they could procure
• 9:01
  Speaker 2: for this season that they were like, well, you're moving
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  Speaker 2: in together, why not have a housewarming? Because he's now
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  Speaker 2: finally moved in, your roommate has moved out, has caused
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  Speaker 2: this drama. This can be a thing, and they went
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  Speaker 2: for it.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like the boyfriend what's his boyfriend's name, Zach's boyfriend,
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  Speaker 3: Benji Benji. I feel like Benji wants to present a home,
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  Speaker 3: you know, And so I feel bad for Benji.
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  Speaker 2: For the team on this.
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  Speaker 3: He's like, we'll do another party as soon as humanly
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  Speaker 3: possible once we have furniture in here. But Zach, I
• 9:40
  Speaker 3: know it was so sweet and I felt it and
• 9:43
  Speaker 3: being in LA we have all.
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  Speaker 4: Hit rock bottom.
• 9:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and friends have helped you out. But it was
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  Speaker 3: an Oscar speech and I couldn't help but keep giggling,
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  Speaker 3: like the way he presented it to the group, and
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  Speaker 3: he was like doing it he would. It just made
• 10:01
  Speaker 3: me laugh to be doing it with like I have arrived,
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  Speaker 3: but there's not a but.
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  Speaker 2: There's folding and chairs. Yeah, like he's finally made it,
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  Speaker 2: but there's nothing there.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: That is I think the most endearing part about it
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  Speaker 2: is that even if he was forced to do that,
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  Speaker 2: he truly means it. Yes, And here's the difference between
• 10:23
  Speaker 2: him and someone like a door eat because let's just compare. Yeah, uh,
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  Speaker 2: that he had money that he could pay Kristen back
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  Speaker 2: a debt that she was a not expecting and b
• 10:39
  Speaker 2: didn't even consider that there was ever a debt and
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  Speaker 2: felt that he's paid it off now. Wow, So he
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  Speaker 2: could have clearly, whatever the mount was, use that to
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  Speaker 2: head on over to Wayfair dot com wherever you go
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  Speaker 2: and get a bunch of stuff, and he didn't. He
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  Speaker 2: paid a debt and that is something that you don't
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  Speaker 2: see every day. And it wasn't a debt collector, it
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  Speaker 2: was a friend. So that just goes to show who
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  Speaker 2: he is as a person and also who Kristen is. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: she was like, you know, that's what I thought was
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  Speaker 2: really great, is that she stood out as a person
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  Speaker 2: who was like, here's the money, I'll never see it again.
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  Speaker 2: You are my friend. Give I give with open arms,
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  Speaker 2: expecting nothing.
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  Speaker 3: Back, and didn't know that was part of her who
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  Speaker 3: am I? You know, I didn't know.
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  Speaker 2: No, I don't think any of us knew, because the
• 11:33
  Speaker 2: money issue between friends is the first thing to come
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  Speaker 2: to the surface in any situation. And she could have
• 11:41
  Speaker 2: shown up at this housewarming party and if he had
• 11:43
  Speaker 2: a bunch of stuff, she could have said to somebody, well,
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  Speaker 2: he didn't have to buy all the stuff. He owes
• 11:47
  Speaker 2: me money.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
• 11:48
  Speaker 2: He could have been anything like that, and I bet
• 11:50
  Speaker 2: you she wouldn't have done that. But I think that
• 11:53
  Speaker 2: she thought that he paid it in full because he
• 11:56
  Speaker 2: was working for her as her social media this whole time.
• 12:01
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, you know it was.
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  Speaker 3: And Kristen has had she's out of the she's out
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  Speaker 3: of the weeds, you know. With Yeah, she's back on
• 12:15
  Speaker 3: some solid footing, which I'm happy for her to get
• 12:18
  Speaker 3: into the seat like this was also so great for
• 12:21
  Speaker 3: her because she's been a rough, rough road for her
• 12:25
  Speaker 3: to and now I feel like things are settling. And yeah,
• 12:30
  Speaker 3: she looked like an absolute queen, you know, and she's like,
• 12:33
  Speaker 3: I don't know what's happening. And she got up there
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  Speaker 3: and like received, you know, was part of the Oscar
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  Speaker 3: speech and it was just really lovely. She was the
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  Speaker 3: Lifetime Achievement Award.
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  Speaker 2: And Benji, like this couple is so perfect to see
• 12:51
  Speaker 2: two opposites like that. It happens all the time. Brett
• 12:54
  Speaker 2: and I are very opposite in many ways, and we
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  Speaker 2: are so similar in others. But to see Benji and
• 12:59
  Speaker 2: his like very buttoned up blazer with piping, you know, yeah.
• 13:06
  Speaker 4: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 2: I loved it.
• 13:09
  Speaker 1: Loved it.
• 13:10
  Speaker 2: And I also appreciated Lala being like I feel right
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  Speaker 2: at home. I feel like I'm in an AAA meeting.
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  Speaker 3: It was giving Lala's having a great season. It was
• 13:18
  Speaker 3: giving AA a big time. I mean truly, like seven
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  Speaker 3: day old pizza, you know, have some lot of coffee
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  Speaker 3: and a couple of cups, you know.
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  Speaker 2: For and I trusted in all kinds of different ways
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  Speaker 2: that and the other.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, everyone, it was a chooser and adventure truly.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my yead.
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  Speaker 2: So I learned that I didn't realize that Zach and
• 13:44
  Speaker 2: Jasmine were roommates for two years and the Janet lived
• 13:47
  Speaker 2: down the hall. Also, yeah, we.
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  Speaker 3: Really learned that these friendships go actually really deep.
• 13:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah that's good for us, good for the show. Good
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  Speaker 2: to lay that foundation totally. In the after show show, well,
• 14:05
  Speaker 2: they were talking about the monster fridge and Schwartz was like, oh,
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: it's an I soore, Bubba, Oh, oh, it's an sore.
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  Speaker 2: Stop it you want me?
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  Speaker 1: Did?
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  Speaker 2: He said it was an eye sore? Oh my god,
• 14:18
  Speaker 2: what were you gonna say? Though, you were gonna say something?
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  Speaker 3: Oh, I don't even know. I mean, I'd love to
• 14:23
  Speaker 3: talk about Schwartz. If we're making moves over there, let's.
• 14:25
  Speaker 2: Make a move over to Schwarz.
• 14:28
  Speaker 3: I need to just get this off my chest because
• 14:31
  Speaker 3: and maybe you've discussed it, so bear with.
• 14:34
  Speaker 4: Me if you have.
• 14:35
  Speaker 3: Have you discussed Schwartz's testimonial look his I have.
• 14:40
  Speaker 2: Not, And please remind me what it is because I
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: don't even know.
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  Speaker 3: It is just I've never in the history of these
• 14:46
  Speaker 3: shows seen someone who has rolled out of bed literally
• 14:52
  Speaker 3: seconds before cameras go up, like he has, you know,
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  Speaker 3: like like little kids wake up and they're just so sleepy,
• 14:59
  Speaker 3: Like he's so his eyes are just like there's crust
• 15:03
  Speaker 3: in them. They're like they're barely open. He's got that head. Yeah,
• 15:06
  Speaker 3: his face has like pillow prints on it, like it's
• 15:09
  Speaker 3: it is the most I just literally like I was
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: in bed and they were like, dun, dun, it's time
• 15:20
  Speaker 3: to shoot your testimonials, like, yeah.
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: He actually probably slept on that testimonial couch.
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  Speaker 5: No.
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: I now I remember because I remember seeing his hair
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: and I was like, is that fresh, jel or is
• 15:31
  Speaker 2: it wet? Still?
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: It is so rough. Look, I mean it's just so bed.
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: It's just so rolled out of bed, sleep.
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: In the eye.
• 15:40
  Speaker 4: You know.
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: He is way too comfortable, you know. I mean he's
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: comfortable in reality TV, but this is a whole other level,
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: a level comfortable in your confessional.
• 15:51
  Speaker 3: Too comfortable in the confessionals, Like h get less comfortable.
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, let's kind of kick it up a few notches.
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: Schwartz and Keanni Kana Kiannah. It's such a princess name.
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: It's such a Disney princess name Kiana.
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  Speaker 4: I think.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Well, in the after show, he does say like
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: she he really hopes that she's he wants her to
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: be the one, like he hopes he doesn't mess it up,
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: which he's very excited about her, and he I don't
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: know if he wants to get married again. I don't
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: think that he necessarily wants to do that. And he
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: reflects on his wedding with Katie as being like really
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: the most idealistic situation he could have ever dreamed of,
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: because it was like, you know, I mean remember that
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: amazing wedding in the woods, and it was great. But
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: he he really it seems like he's really falling in
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: love with this gal and beautiful. Yeah, and also he
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: said that she does not like reality TV. She does,
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: she's not into it, which I thought was.
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: Really yeah, because you know, speaking of Ali, there was
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: murmurs that she sort of strategically placed herself in front
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: of our DJ in order to get on the show.
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: Oh and now seeing her have her on, yeah, I'm like, okay,
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: that's not that. But yeah, no, you just go okay, like, yeah,
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: we were we were hopping along to get where we
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: needed to go and it's fine.
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: By the way, I heard that James has a girlfriend
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: who was pregnant.
• 17:37
  Speaker 4: Scary.
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: Scary, Yeah, but it is Actually is.
• 17:42
  Speaker 4: It weird that we don't see James on here at all?
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: Or no, it's it's so strange. What's more, for me,
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: it's strange that I don't even think about him at all.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: Right, that's strange. We seemed no, not till this moment.
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  Speaker 3: Wing seems to have. My husband seems to have gotten
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: he's he's he keeps bringing up if he comes by
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: and I'm watching The Valley, the fact that Sheena and
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: Rock were bounced off the show. He seems to not
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: be able to get over it, Like I think he
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: is so surprised. Yes, and I think he's not wrong.
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: To He's absolutely right. And as a matter of fact,
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: Emily feels very strongly about it and brings them quite often.
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: And I forget too, and I agree, like because it's
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: the point is like we're looking at Schwartz, like Schwartz
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: is on the show, but like not Sheena and Brock,
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: which is so strange. It would be so much more tumultuous,
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: and I mean there would be a lot more drama.
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: That's for sure.
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: Why what does Emily's take is she feeling? I mean,
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: I'll go like, go, no, I mean, but she wants
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: them on the show. She wants she wants them, Yeah,
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: and does she know why they're not there?
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: Well? We I mean, from what I understand, I think
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: I thought that there was some sort of negotiating problem.
• 19:04
  Speaker 4: Like a like a Jill's Aaron moment.
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: I don't know if it was that, Okay, I don't
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know if it was about money.
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: That's not the that's not the thing that I got.
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Why does anybody know why she's not
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: on it? She said? I believe she said no, I
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: don't know why. Maybe it was for Yeah, she because
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: of Lala.
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: Oh maybe Well listen, it feels like Lala is so
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: planted firmly in this group. Like last season she made
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: no sense to me. This season, I'm like, she's in,
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: she's powerful, she's delivering. I don't for a second question
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: her being there.
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, soon when we saw her in the background,
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: like she shouldn't even have come on as a friend
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: of But I I understand they wanted to have to
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: simmer in the back. Yeah, they get a prepared.
• 19:51
  Speaker 4: From us in yeah.
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but that was a dangerous thing to do because
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: we all had a pretty visceral thing reaction to, like
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: we don't want Katie or we don't want Shea, we
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: don't want La La, we don't want anybody over there.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: They're doing fine on their own, let them be right,
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: But here we are and she's doing I mean, we
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: love her on the show.
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so she may be like paving a path for
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: wayward vander Pumps to make their way, you know.
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and who who would be the next wayward vander Pumps?
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: I mean, obviously Schwartz has come along, who brings just
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: a neutral a neutralism he drinks, he brings like.
• 20:30
  Speaker 4: Yes, oh yeah, he's a great he's I mean, he's this.
• 20:36
  Speaker 4: You can't hate the guy.
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: He's so sweet's you know, likable And it's nice because
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: you out to dinner and you've got Jesse and Danny
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: who are you just are They're just so most of
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: the time very unlikable. I do find Jesse likable sometimes
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: and and I do like watching him sometimes so, but Danny,
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: I've hit my limit with him. I'm done so with
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: Schwartz being at that dinner I was like, thank god
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: Schwartz is here. You know, that's when you appreciate it.
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: And speaking of that little night out, you know with
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: on the heels of Danny sneaking drinks and he's like, oh,
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: I've got a voiceover job tomorrow, so I got to
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: keep my voice good. And they're like, okay, so one
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: drink minimum, and he's like, ah, I'll have a you know,
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: double this and hit that. And everyone else is like
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: I'll have a light beer. So it's just weird, you.
• 21:28
  Speaker 4: Know, and I don't.
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: I mean, listen, at this point, this, this charad that
• 21:33
  Speaker 3: he only drinks on camera.
• 21:35
  Speaker 4: Is a lie.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: Thank you, right, thank you. Yes, he's only drinking every
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: once in a while. And he says that, and he's
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: probably sneaking drinking from Nia at this point. That's what
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: I'm believing, okay, because she blindly is saying he never
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: he only drinks every once in a while. It's like,
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: right to your knowledge, because at this point I'm like, no,
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: he's way too comfortable because if he felt like he
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: was in a situation which he is where everyone's judging
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: him for the drinking, even still not just last season,
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: he wouldn't be drinking at all this season, but he's
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: actually in the background, like drinking white claw at the party.
• 22:18
  Speaker 3: And pouring whiskey. Like do you think there's like, buddy,
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: you're miked up with cameras. It's almost bizarre, you.
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: Know, speaking of like you know, we often refer to
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: like Robert Durst being miked up and then admitting to murdering.
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: It's he's doing it in plain sight. Does he think
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: he's being sneaky because he's he seems.
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: To because he's lying to people's faces and he's he's
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: not in the back, he's and he's shuffling off with
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: a claw, you.
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: Know, his sigh like the camera's pointing to it.
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, the camera's there, so I mean, leaving claws.
• 23:04
  Speaker 4: In the gym.
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: It's tough, you know, it's not I feel he could also.
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: The thing that also hits me is that he could
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: walk into a party, and I don't think this would
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: be clock.
• 23:18
  Speaker 4: I think this would be fine. Walk into a party.
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna, you know, take one beer and sip at
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: the night, yeah, or one drink, and no one's gonna
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: be like you canna have one? Like I mean whatever,
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: you know, right, But it's like I'm not drinking at all.
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: And then we're cutting too sneaks here, sneaks, sneak.
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a sneaker.
• 23:41
  Speaker 4: He's a real sneaker.
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: And then having the editors like, you know, bump up
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: the volume on the gulps of the white claw in
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: the gym.
• 23:52
  Speaker 4: That's harsh.
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: That was so bad and like a burp.
• 23:57
  Speaker 4: Yeah, they got youa bud. You lah.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: Those are not sound effects. Those are your real gulps,
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: the cartoon gulping.
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: Now do we think that producers knew he did a
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: white clon?
• 24:11
  Speaker 4: They were like Jasmine, when.
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: You go to check on Britt, see what's going on
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: in the gym, there might be a white claw, Like
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: she really stumbled upon it.
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: I don't know. She probably stumbled upon it and saw
• 24:23
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• 28:17
  Speaker 2: that little drink time when Jesse tells them that, like, yeah,
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: Brittany's co signing on like throwing you under the bus
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: and going after you. Because Danny's like, yeah, Jack's plotted
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: against me to go after me. And then Jesse's like, well,
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: you know who else did? And then he says Brittany.
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: And then he's now he's coming after Brittany because he's
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: saying she's a mean girl and is against him and
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: Lacey and all this stuff. So it looks like Jesse
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: is going for Brittany and so is Danny.
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean having Schwartz there to be like she
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: wouldn't her to fly. And I thought it was very
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: astute that you know Jack's going out. First of all,
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: seeing Jackson again was a jump scare and that throwback
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: I was like, oo, yeah, what a energy.
• 29:08
  Speaker 4: You know him saying.
• 29:14
  Speaker 3: If Jackson is going after Danny, then he's leaving her
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: alone and you have to pick your battles when you're
• 29:19
  Speaker 3: in that kind of toxic relationship. I thought like, wow,
• 29:21
  Speaker 3: that's very astute, And yeah, on the nose, it seems.
• 29:27
  Speaker 4: But like painting her as a mean girl is a stretch.
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's got that wrong. Yeah, you know, I understood
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: why Brittany was upset last year about how she was
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: the only one that they were focusing on her and Jackson.
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: She was frustrated at that because me and Danny were
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: like hiding stuff. And I was frustrated with Brittany at
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: that time because I was like, look, no one can
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: compete with what you're going through, So just be patient
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: and waited out, you know, like stop trying to get
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: the cameras off of you because you're not going to
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: go anywhere what's going on. So just relax, you know,
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: I know you want to break and you want but
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: there it's going to be. It's going to come to
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: the surface on its own, which it did with no
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: not because of Brittany or anybody else, but because of
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: Danny's behavior. So this is this is where where we are.
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: But let's hop on over to the night out with
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: Danny and Nia with the baby.
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: Okay, first of all, I do want to say wife
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: and some where they were I screamed is literally a
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: one minute walk from here, and you know, one of
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: our new Glassow Park, new Ish, So it's in Glassal Park.
• 30:35
  Speaker 3: It's literally in Glassow Park.
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: It is.
• 30:39
  Speaker 4: One and a half minute walk from my house from
• 30:41
  Speaker 4: my place.
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: I'm shocked that they were there.
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: I know they were still on the east side. And
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: then Silver Lake at forty one hundred bar. I'm like, now,
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: what how did you allow to.
• 30:53
  Speaker 4: The east side.
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: Here's the thing, because there is nowhere to go up
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: here in Santa Clarita for a night out that you're
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: going to enjoy.
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: I can't believe they when they said did you take
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: him air? Did you fly helicopter in? I was like,
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: I said, Santa Clarina caught.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: Astray, and.
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: We should on some level because it does sometimes depending
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: on traffic, you know, it just depends on traffic. But anyway, yeah,
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: you have to go somewhere else for dinner. You just
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: have to We hit up the Chilis all the time. Sure,
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: but you know at some point, yeah you can't. You're
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: over Chilid right right, You're gonna go to Lazy Dog.
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: You know, it's just there. The other night, a meeting,
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: like a PTA meeting. It's fine. You know, you're gonna
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: get what you get. You get you will never go
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: above a level of a restaurant that is like a
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: three star, a two point five.
• 32:00
  Speaker 4: It's hard.
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: Five, Yeah, that's hard.
• 32:03
  Speaker 4: You're a witty Yeah.
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: I know, I know, I know.
• 32:06
  Speaker 4: So's a challenge.
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it really really is. So I understand why they
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: went down to Glassel Park and they've got a lot
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: of driving going on. But I mean obviously they're going
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: to get, you know, cars to take them. You would
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: hope that is so cool. So you like that place.
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: It's really good and it's gotten, Yes, like I feel
• 32:25
  Speaker 3: it's a little pricey, I think for I don't know,
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: it's just a little pricey that I don't find my
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: way over there.
• 32:33
  Speaker 4: But they have a beautiful like wineless.
• 32:35
  Speaker 3: You can sit at the bar, I feel like sing
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: at the bar getting an appetizer M great, great ambiyonce,
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: or even sitting at the bar and getting.
• 32:44
  Speaker 4: One of their desserts great.
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: Nice.
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: It's not my go to restaurant, but it is a
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: lovely place to be.
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: Well, once you go back, maybe you can find the
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: chair and see if there's still some more baby to
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: get up on it. What is his problem? He is
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: blaming her because the baby spit up on him? The
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: look he gave her when that baby spit up on him,
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: and then he's like a gut on the chair. Nia.
• 33:12
  Speaker 4: I wanted to punch through the television.
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: I don't even know what to do with myself physically
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: having to watch this person. I know it is so.
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: She jumps up, I know, you know, yeah, I mean.
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: He wants to have more children and he's annoyed by
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: the ones that he actually has. He can't even handle
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: the ones that he has, and he wants more. Why
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: why would you want more? You don't even know how
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: to This is like the fourth baby and you don't
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: know how to bounce the baby. I am so confused.
• 33:46
  Speaker 4: Yeah, totally.
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: It does feel like a different perception than I had
• 33:54
  Speaker 3: of him completely, And I do feel like I have
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: to stand with Jazz and and look in myself too.
• 34:03
  Speaker 3: That first season I had a different understanding of him.
• 34:08
  Speaker 3: And so when she's feeling so frustrated that like Lala
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: is getting she's triggered for something has nothing to do
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: with her.
• 34:18
  Speaker 4: He didn't do anything to Lalla a thing.
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: It actually happened to Jasmine, her wife, and you know
• 34:26
  Speaker 3: the But I feel like I have more information about
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: him obviously now we all have seen so much more,
• 34:34
  Speaker 3: but it does do to I feel like everyone should
• 34:38
  Speaker 3: go back to Jasmine and be like, Okay, right now
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: we're really seeing the scope. And obviously your word was
• 34:46
  Speaker 3: always the word, but like now it's even so so
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: if we downplated at all, like message is so been received? Sorry, Yeah,
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: I think I feel for her because it's very frustrating.
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: We didn't have the information.
• 35:04
  Speaker 4: The audience didn't have as much information, right. I don't
• 35:08
  Speaker 4: know about.
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: The friends, like I think they had a decent amount
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: of information, but now they really have seen it.
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: But even Kristin and Luke who hang out with him
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: all the time, they don't seem to see this stuff,
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: which is strange because the restaurant was like such a
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: small moment in time where he had a little baby
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: fit that you would think that they would see them
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: a lot, right, have those moments. Yeah, it's weird and
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: it's not a press behavior, no, And I would think
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: that Christian would be like, what's your problem?
• 35:44
  Speaker 5: Right?
• 35:44
  Speaker 3: Well, that may be where you know they oh god, yeah,
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: I know, because we saw that cameras are on them.
• 35:52
  Speaker 4: He's having a rough season.
• 35:54
  Speaker 3: People are calling him out and he's still being a
• 35:58
  Speaker 3: machiese Mo. It's giving like Mormon polygamy sort of that
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: man who is running the roost.
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: Well, that's interesting that you say that, because he does.
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: They don't talk about their spiritual or religious life on camera,
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: but I from what I understand, they do. They are
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: very active in a church. And I'm correct. I think
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: I saw this on social media that his father was
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: the pastor of a church.
• 36:29
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that feels he looks like a kid. He looks
• 36:32
  Speaker 4: like the pastor's kid.
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, so I think that he does have a structure.
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: I think he's coming from that type of structure and
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: it just wasn't on our radar at all. Yeah, so
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: it does make sense. And Kristen seems to really and Luke,
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: they seem to really like them and look up to them.
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: I mean that that post that somebody pointed out right Jasmin. Yeah,
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: so yeah, they're seeing something different.
• 37:02
  Speaker 3: Well, but that also makes sense in their own They're
• 37:05
  Speaker 3: probably going to their house. They're in control of everything
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: they do. She's amazing, amazing, and she's a supermom and
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: a superwoman and like.
• 37:19
  Speaker 4: Someone to admire and.
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: So they're yeah, and they feel so new and so
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: out of their depth, you know, and Kristen is has
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: a bit of an arrested development to her.
• 37:31
  Speaker 4: Its fair to say safe space.
• 37:34
  Speaker 3: So you know, I can see why they look at
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: them and see like they are, you know, they're making
• 37:43
  Speaker 3: it all happen with all these kids, and they're she
• 37:46
  Speaker 3: is doing a lot.
• 37:47
  Speaker 4: Of the heavy lifting, right.
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: I think she's filling in so many blanks that it
• 37:53
  Speaker 3: feels like, oh, they're a great couple. But it's really
• 37:57
  Speaker 3: Mia doing like a lot of work. Yeah, sorry, doing
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: so much work? Yeah yeah, yeh yeah, yeah, right, it's tricky.
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: It is so all right anything else about Danny and
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: Nia before we I mean, see here's the thing about Nia.
• 38:14
  Speaker 3: But when we say what is she know? What doesn't
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: she know? Is he drinking at home? When he said
• 38:23
  Speaker 3: at the party he was just going to have one dren,
• 38:26
  Speaker 3: he was going somewhere, he's getting to something or he
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: was going to have an ice smeirof ice or something.
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: He was going to have an ice drink, which is alcohol.
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: You see it on her face. She doesn't want him
• 38:41
  Speaker 3: to have it. She knows what that means.
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, oh wow, good point. That's a really good point.
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: So she's either just and it is hard when everyone
• 38:53
  Speaker 3: else is drinking to be like, why am I getting
• 38:54
  Speaker 3: singled out?
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 38:56
  Speaker 3: And I don't think they've been able to fully articulate
• 39:00
  Speaker 3: as a team. You know, the issue is not that
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: he's drinking. That's actually not the issue. Not the issue
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: everyone's drinking. The issue is and we can't like reduce
• 39:15
  Speaker 3: it to you know, dark dark O, Danny Danny Darko, right,
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: because that's like making a joke of it, And it's like, no,
• 39:25
  Speaker 3: you are your misogynists comes out when you drink and
• 39:32
  Speaker 3: you're an asshole.
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, period, and does a straight up mean person.
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And women are getting the hits, yes, not really
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: the men. No, you're right, it's misogynist so or misogynistics
• 39:48
  Speaker 3: so like.
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: And Jesse's like if the guy wants to drink every
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: once in a while because he's not feeling the burn
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: from it.
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: You and he doesn't want people dictating who can drink
• 39:59
  Speaker 3: and who's drinking too much because he's drinking, you.
• 40:02
  Speaker 4: Know, that's the thing. But when you're not, it's.
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, right, But we don't have a problem with Jesse
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: drinking either. He's just because he's consistently most of the
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: time kind of a jerk. You know, right, when he's
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: not drinking and then when he is drinking, So that's
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: not the problem.
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: We also haven't seen him go like blotto like we
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: did when he had that but when he had that
• 40:23
  Speaker 3: house that he rented and everyone showed up.
• 40:25
  Speaker 4: He was stewed. He holds it very differently.
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: Oh right, yeah, I do remember that. Yeah, and so
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: does like Brittany. Yeah, Kristen, you know, yeah, he's their
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: party people, and we should expect mapping less.
• 40:39
  Speaker 3: And it's not the drinking, it's what is revealed, like
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: so you know that they should almost shut down. It's
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: like has nothing to do with the drinking. Well it does,
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: but it's not what our problem is, right, It's a result,
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: Like the result of the drinking is what our problem is.
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: What's interesting is that he didn't expect or anticipate any
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: of this coming on this show. I'm sure that's the thing.
• 41:04
  Speaker 4: Things he's perfect because they shed.
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: Right and so like that's that's what's so wild about
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: it and why reality television in this situation works so well.
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: And when people are like it's fake, it's fake, it's not.
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, you can I can tell you a
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: million fake things that happen on this episode. But it
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: doesn't even matter the setups or the conversation starters or
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: the you know, the bullet points. Yeah, that's all put
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: together and produce great. But the point is is that
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: you get these huge bombs of reality, which is their
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: lives being exposed for who they really are, and then
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: we see it and I'm wondering why they even came
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: back to the show because because all their dirty laundry
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: is out there for a second season, it's not better.
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: It's worse. Actually for Danny and Nia, it's worse. So
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: how are they going to come back from this? Are
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: they just going to like why would they even stay
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: on it if they're that protective of their rep mutation
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: and who they are when they're trying to hide. That's
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: what kind of is the most interesting part to me.
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: He's like, are you going to come back next season
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: after this?
• 42:10
  Speaker 4: I think they are?
• 42:11
  Speaker 3: And why I say that, Well, I heard they were
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: doing some sort of off camera thing. I don't know
• 42:17
  Speaker 3: what it was, like additional footage of some kind, maybe
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: social media. And he went to say something and she
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: was like, no, no, no, don't say that. They'll take money
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: away from us, because like, if you say something against
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: the show or reveal something Bravo like doxy.
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: Oh they penalize you. Oh interesting, right, So.
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: She was like, no, no, no, save her money. So
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: I think that they need the show.
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: For money, financial reasons, Okay.
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: And I really believe that Nia specifically believes that she
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: can control this.
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: I think she has been in her life and it's
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: worked until cameras and mics are on, that she can
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: be enough and be perfect enough to you know, look
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: over and manage him. You know, she managed him way
• 43:17
  Speaker 3: heavy in the beginning of the season. Beginning of the show,
• 43:20
  Speaker 3: like for you remember she was like, yeah, and we
• 43:22
  Speaker 3: didn't quite know that she can be coming with me.
• 43:26
  Speaker 4: Air traffic controlling.
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: And we're walking, we're walking and we're stopping. Put your
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: headphones are on, buckle up. There are two exits and
• 43:39
  Speaker 2: we're just the exits that either side of the plane. Yes,
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: you're so right, And that's what the cast members were
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: seeing and why the very mad about it Jasmine and Brittany. Yeah. Fair,
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: But now you know, and I think so so that
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: the bottom line is what you're saying, and I think
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: you're right, which is that even if the wheels are
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: coming off a little bit, and there are being shown
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: they're staying because for financial reasons, and.
• 44:04
  Speaker 4: I think they feel they're Okay, yeah, I think.
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: Well, you know, and I did appreciate that they've shared
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: Nia shared her laundry list of support, which is she's
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: in therapy, he's in therapy, they're in marriage counseling a lot,
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: and he has a wellness coach. But I don't think
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: that that matters.
• 44:24
  Speaker 4: That's to the side. That's so.
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, But to add to the list, I think that
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: that's what then I'm the list that's not.
• 44:35
  Speaker 3: We have a membership, you know, we have a we
• 44:39
  Speaker 3: get our curing pods direct once a month.
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: On Tribe for our air purified filters. Okay, so lots
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: of together, yeah, lots of support on auto pay, thank
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: you so much. Yes. So I do apprec that because
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: it makes me feel a little bit more secure that
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: Nia does have some support in terms of therapy and
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: marriage counseling. I think it's great. So at least they're
• 45:09
  Speaker 2: working at it. And I know that he's put out
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: a lot of apologies from the beginning, and so from
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: this show, you know, like he did apologize to his
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: wife publicly, and he realizes that he was a jerk,
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: and now we have to ride out this season, you know,
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: knowing that he's been a complete and utter just trash
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: person all season. And now I'm curious to see if
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: they do come back. Are we working it out? Are
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: we digging deep? Are we going to treat our wives
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: with respect?
• 45:42
  Speaker 4: He doesn't have that in him, But if he, I mean,
• 45:47
  Speaker 4: how would.
• 45:47
  Speaker 3: He do that?
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: Well, you can evolve and go to therapy and change,
• 45:52
  Speaker 2: and I think a lot of people who are willing
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: to see themselves on camera that does change your life.
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: You know. There have been a lot of couples that
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: have come through reality television when they should up getting
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: divorced and they're like, we see where the cracks were.
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: But I'm not saying that they all see it and
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: have the ability to or choose to change. Most people
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: see it and then they walk away from it, or
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: they just take the hits and then they keep going.
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: The question is is he going to be open to
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: seeing what's going on?
• 46:21
  Speaker 3: You have an issue that you and your wife need
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: to deal with, and it sounds like you have things
• 46:26
  Speaker 3: in place.
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: But are you dealing with them? We don't right, right, right, right, right?
• 46:30
  Speaker 4: So anyway.
• 46:30
  Speaker 3: I just it's it double sucks for Jasmine because like
• 46:36
  Speaker 3: it gets put on her again somehow, you know what
• 46:40
  Speaker 3: I mean?
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: I do, yes, Yeah, I agree with that. This episode
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: with Jasmine calling out Zach and last week Kristen by
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: saying like, you've been very vocal about other people and
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: sticking up for them. Why didn't you do that for me?
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: Why didn't you raise your hand? Why didn't you know?
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: I think it is such a good point to be
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: in right now, because we've had time to let this
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: simmer and to understand and for events to take place
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: so that she can say, hey, by the way, you know,
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: before we move on to the next let's just recognize
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: that this originally was was my problem with Daniel, you know, yeah.
• 47:20
  Speaker 3: That it all got and then and j and I
• 47:22
  Speaker 3: saw it going over to Janet and Jason and being like, actually,
• 47:25
  Speaker 3: thank you, you know, because we don't like the delivery
• 47:29
  Speaker 3: system of Janet. She's not wrong, she wasn't wrong, right,
• 47:35
  Speaker 3: We just don't like the delivery system. No, you know,
• 47:38
  Speaker 3: it's harsh, it's just uh, but she wasn't wrong. No,
• 47:42
  Speaker 3: And it's clear clearer now, way clearer.
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: Yes, time does tell the truth. You know, and that's
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: the thing. Sometimes you have to wait yep, and so
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: hard it is. It is hard. I want to mention
• 47:59
  Speaker 2: because I didn't talk about this on last week's episode,
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: but Jesse and Michelle and they're like divorce papers and
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: when they met, and the discovery that he took out
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: this loan during COVID and now she's going to take
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: the hit for it and pay half of that just
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: to get divorced and he doesn't have money to pay
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: for Isabella's insurance two hundred dollars and what this is
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: like mind blowing and I'm like, wow, we're just sitting
• 48:32
  Speaker 2: here watching this and like this is the undercurrent of
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: what's going on with him in that he took out
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: this loan and didn't tell her is horrified. Three hundred
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: thousand dollars and like where did that money go to?
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: Shoes to loafers?
• 48:50
  Speaker 4: I mean, where is it going?
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: Chateael Marmal?
• 48:54
  Speaker 4: What is going on at that chateau?
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: Like what.
• 49:00
  Speaker 3: Toe those two and that chatateau? But truly, Jesse, you're
• 49:06
  Speaker 3: also on a television show and I have to imagine
• 49:08
  Speaker 3: you get paid something, although I guess I don't know
• 49:11
  Speaker 3: because like it doesn't seem like anyone is flush.
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: You know, right, they're making up for lost times, like.
• 49:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, stuff back back pay. But it's wild and I
• 49:24
  Speaker 3: think I've also was just this this idea of Jesse
• 49:28
  Speaker 3: and Michelle like in their in their golden days Iseah,
• 49:31
  Speaker 3: mysterious too, but I I'm trying to imagine it, you know, And.
• 49:36
  Speaker 2: I understand it took a little time, but that when
• 49:40
  Speaker 2: they met and she had the papers, He's like, well,
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: we don't even have papers assigned. She's like, actually I
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: have them. I was like, WHOA, good, here we go. Yeah,
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: and he's like, well, I'll take them. He had no
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: choice because he's on camera because she is finally agreed
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: to pay half, and that's the only reason why she's
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: is going to present him with the papers. He never
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: thought that she would do that, I'm sure, which is
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: why he Now we know what he was referencing, because
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: he was like, we have an agreement. I sent you
• 50:10
  Speaker 2: an agreement. It's like, oh, now we know that agreement
• 50:14
  Speaker 2: was you asking her to pay for one hundred and
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: fifty thousand dollars of your debt.
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: Secret debt, secret debt within your marriage, and she's willing
• 50:24
  Speaker 3: to take that hit Oh my god. She is so yeah,
• 50:28
  Speaker 3: very nice to him. I mean they're sitting together. I mean,
• 50:31
  Speaker 3: she's she just wants out that she wants she just
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: wants out, and she wants freedom and she doesn't care.
• 50:38
  Speaker 2: At what costs. Now, her crying about, you know, thinking
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: and really reminiscing about what they had was very mature,
• 50:48
  Speaker 2: emotionally mature of her. And it's going to be great
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: for her to move on because she's feeling all of
• 50:52
  Speaker 2: that and grieving that, and then she's going to have
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: a very healthy future. But it was kind of sad
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: to watch that. I'm sure the way that she saw it,
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: what really was very fairy tale according to what she experienced,
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: and that they were working together and they really they
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: had a child, and they just were experiencing all these
• 51:11
  Speaker 2: wonderful things together and it was so good. I don't
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: think that she ever thought that he would really it
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: sounded like he really turned or she just never knew
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: the person that he was, and the person that he
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: was didn't really come out until a few years later. Yeah,
• 51:26
  Speaker 2: and then she's got so ugly.
• 51:28
  Speaker 3: I mean, I think her saying to this Lacey, who
• 51:31
  Speaker 3: I can't make heads or tails, so I can't tell
• 51:34
  Speaker 3: if it's I don't understand the look, which I think
• 51:37
  Speaker 3: it may be just stopping me in my tracks, my
• 51:39
  Speaker 3: true yeah, full disclosure. You know, I just can't understand.
• 51:43
  Speaker 3: I'm confused.
• 51:44
  Speaker 2: I can't get past that either.
• 51:46
  Speaker 4: I'm stick.
• 51:47
  Speaker 2: It looks like one of Alicia's brats dolls from Rhode Island.
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: You know, it's tough.
• 51:51
  Speaker 3: It's just I don't know what I I do, not
• 51:55
  Speaker 3: have the lay of the land when.
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: I when I take her in, so you can't go
• 51:59
  Speaker 2: beyond that, knowe, like what's behind the person the facade.
• 52:03
  Speaker 4: They try to just listen.
• 52:04
  Speaker 3: I try, and I try to get closer to understanding,
• 52:08
  Speaker 3: but it's hard. But Michelle's you know, she's getting real cut.
• 52:14
  Speaker 3: See you paid too much. She's getting should throw you
• 52:16
  Speaker 3: a party, divorced party at you?
• 52:18
  Speaker 4: How much you're in Okay, get cute.
• 52:22
  Speaker 3: But then when Michelle's like, y'll see, like you can
• 52:25
  Speaker 3: be cute right now. But he only has you around
• 52:29
  Speaker 3: because you have a lot of money. And I think
• 52:33
  Speaker 3: that I tend to believe, based on not much that
• 52:40
  Speaker 3: Jesse is a jiggool.
• 52:42
  Speaker 2: Absolutely okay, he's a grifter, yeah, and it's shocking that
• 52:48
  Speaker 2: he even married Michelle in the first place, and that
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: they had kind of a burgeoning real estate right career
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: together and that it had some promise. So it is
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: kind of surprising that he did start off not that,
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: but I think underneath it all he is and so
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: now he's become who he always was and will be.
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: On the after show, Michelle said that it was interesting
• 53:21
  Speaker 2: how they kind of like edited this. They went back
• 53:23
  Speaker 2: to back. So she says he can't be alone. He
• 53:27
  Speaker 2: will absolutely get married again. He will not be able
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: to be without somebody, and then it would cut to
• 53:33
  Speaker 2: him in the after show being like, I am very independent,
• 53:36
  Speaker 2: I am great on my own. I just like being
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: with Isabella and I can just do that for the
• 53:43
  Speaker 2: rest of my life. Cut to her saying when we
• 53:46
  Speaker 2: were separated, he got in touch with every single one
• 53:51
  Speaker 2: of the women that he was ever connected with, ex girlfriends,
• 53:55
  Speaker 2: women that he dated, women that he was friends with,
• 53:58
  Speaker 2: women at the office, and the only one that's stuck
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: was Lacey. And she has money and that's why he
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: will stay with her. That's what she said on the
• 54:07
  Speaker 2: after show, and then cut to him like, you know,
• 54:11
  Speaker 2: Lacey and I have a great thing going. We both
• 54:13
  Speaker 2: have young girls who are really good friends. And you know,
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: it was just all him saying all the opposite stuff
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: that you would imagine really funny.
• 54:22
  Speaker 3: I know, when Jesse, that's amazing. Amy, thank you Michelle
• 54:27
  Speaker 3: for the clarity. You know that that call around that
• 54:32
  Speaker 3: opened the rolodex and give her a spin and try
• 54:34
  Speaker 3: to find someone to land on is really good.
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: She's like, I know all this and I didn't doubt her.
• 54:42
  Speaker 2: She's like, I know it all.
• 54:43
  Speaker 3: Never doubt her. I never doubt Michelle. You know, I
• 54:46
  Speaker 3: think you're a very pightforward person. Yeah, you know, I
• 54:50
  Speaker 3: don't you know, I don't doubt her. I actually like
• 54:55
  Speaker 3: Michelle on the show. You know, for whatever it's worth,
• 54:59
  Speaker 3: j sees smile is the most chilling thing. When he's
• 55:04
  Speaker 3: at ease, you know, and the face is at rest,
• 55:07
  Speaker 3: it's fine, but whenever he smiles, I get chills up
• 55:13
  Speaker 3: and down my spline. I'm just like, it's so unnatural
• 55:19
  Speaker 3: and creepy. Just think about that next time you see it. Okay, thanks,
• 55:26
  Speaker 3: you are welcome.
• 55:27
  Speaker 2: Note to sell. So let's talk about Jason and how
• 55:33
  Speaker 2: he has to have his leg locked for five weeks.
• 55:37
  Speaker 2: And on the after show, Janet was saying like how
• 55:41
  Speaker 2: it really helped her reflect on Brittany and Michelle being
• 55:45
  Speaker 2: single moms because she had to pick up, you know,
• 55:47
  Speaker 2: double the work. And she was like, you know, and
• 55:50
  Speaker 2: I feel that. I get that. I thought it was nice.
• 55:53
  Speaker 2: She's like, I even I felt like I failed, you know,
• 55:55
  Speaker 2: I had to do She's like, I never took the
• 55:57
  Speaker 2: trash out, you know. And Jason, you know, does a
• 56:01
  Speaker 2: tremendous amount of work, and so for them to like
• 56:03
  Speaker 2: her to have to do everything that has got to
• 56:05
  Speaker 2: be hard. Yeah. I mean, I'm sure we've all been
• 56:08
  Speaker 2: in that situation before, but it sucks. It really does.
• 56:12
  Speaker 4: It's a nice eye opener to what like single moms
• 56:15
  Speaker 4: go through.
• 56:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and if you have a partner, what they do
• 56:18
  Speaker 2: to contribute, it's nice to see, Oh they do.
• 56:21
  Speaker 4: There, I never take it for them.
• 56:22
  Speaker 2: Then I came, yeah, yeah, totally, they're doing stuff. They're
• 56:28
  Speaker 2: doing stuff, Luke. I just want to give a shout
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: out to his T shirt. In the beginning, I believe
• 56:33
  Speaker 2: it was a McBee Farm T shirt from like the Mcbee's,
• 56:37
  Speaker 2: you know, the reality. Yeah, so I think that's what
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: it was. So I was really enjoying that. Oh and
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: jumping back to Jesse, Jesse and Lacey, and we saw
• 56:49
  Speaker 2: a scene with her brushing Isabella's hair and that was like, whoa, oh,
• 56:54
  Speaker 2: this is where we are. Oh my god, and like,
• 56:57
  Speaker 2: now Michelle has to see this on camera, it's hard.
• 57:00
  Speaker 3: I think she's going to be okay though, Michelle is.
• 57:04
  Speaker 3: I think Michelle May is here okay. And I think
• 57:08
  Speaker 3: that now that she's got those papers signed, she can
• 57:10
  Speaker 3: deal with anything, you know.
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: And it seems like Lacey's a very good mom. She
• 57:16
  Speaker 2: seems she was very sweet as we saw on camera.
• 57:18
  Speaker 2: I don't like, I don't see any red flags when
• 57:21
  Speaker 2: it comes to that. I at this point, yeah, I
• 57:24
  Speaker 2: don't know what I see, but yeah, I hear you.
• 57:27
  Speaker 4: I'm having.
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 57:30
  Speaker 2: We have to talk about how Brandon did not pick
• 57:34
  Speaker 2: up Britney's pain medication and also wanted to get paid
• 57:38
  Speaker 2: for his time to take care of her. And by
• 57:42
  Speaker 2: the way, on the after show, I learned he never
• 57:44
  Speaker 2: even ended up picking up the medication. Jasmine had it
• 57:48
  Speaker 2: sent to her house, obviously picked up by Uber or
• 57:50
  Speaker 2: something delivered. Jasmine texted Brittany a couple days later saying
• 57:55
  Speaker 2: did you get this? And she's like, yeah, I did.
• 57:58
  Speaker 2: Brandon to credit for it. He'd never even picked it up.
• 58:03
  Speaker 3: Oh what a piece of shit. So you do what
• 58:09
  Speaker 3: like throw him out? He's nothing.
• 58:12
  Speaker 2: So I don't think they're to gather anymore. But god,
• 58:15
  Speaker 2: thank god, that was awful. That's like somebody who just
• 58:18
  Speaker 2: does not know how to do anything and you're a
• 58:22
  Speaker 2: long han ride.
• 58:23
  Speaker 3: Surely he didn't want to, you know, he had no
• 58:27
  Speaker 3: desire to take.
• 58:30
  Speaker 2: He wants to be taken care of.
• 58:31
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 58:32
  Speaker 3: The when she thank god, you know, something like this
• 58:36
  Speaker 3: was early in their relationships, revealed Yeah, you just see
• 58:40
  Speaker 3: it like it's not there.
• 58:43
  Speaker 2: He failed. He failed the tust. You know. Something that
• 58:46
  Speaker 2: she shared in the after show, which I thought was
• 58:48
  Speaker 2: really interesting. She was sitting with La La and she
• 58:51
  Speaker 2: said that she's like.
• 58:53
  Speaker 5: I'll matertally, it's take it, and I just like to
• 58:56
  Speaker 5: take care of people.
• 58:57
  Speaker 2: And Lalla is like for grown men, and she's.
• 59:01
  Speaker 5: Like, well, yeah, but even at high school, a's like
• 59:04
  Speaker 5: my buddy that a player skate me with the somebody
• 59:06
  Speaker 5: at school this bow, I would just bob. She's or
• 59:09
  Speaker 5: I get of this and I get a bite and
• 59:10
  Speaker 5: I just don't think I'll always be like that. And
• 59:12
  Speaker 5: that's like, this's gonna go alight, that's all who I've
• 59:14
  Speaker 5: always been.
• 59:16
  Speaker 2: So hm, that's who she is. I get it.
• 59:19
  Speaker 3: You know, it's not who she is. It's not like
• 59:23
  Speaker 3: it's what you've done. I mean, I don't think that
• 59:25
  Speaker 3: specific thing is like you can change that pretty easily.
• 59:30
  Speaker 2: You know, well, I don't know. I think that you
• 59:33
  Speaker 2: can change it. You have to. It's just like anything else,
• 59:36
  Speaker 2: how to not be an asshole. You have to to
• 59:38
  Speaker 2: learn how to evolve and therapize yourself in order to
• 59:42
  Speaker 2: change those patterns. But deep down, that is her instinct
• 59:46
  Speaker 2: and that is her knee jerk reaction to do that.
• 59:49
  Speaker 2: And so why why does she do that? Because it's
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: not I know she's saying a maternal instinct, but like
• 59:54
  Speaker 2: it's it's more than that, Like where does that come from?
• 59:56
  Speaker 2: And why did Why do women feel like they do
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 2: need to take care of men like that? Like what
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: is that? I'm curious to see what where that comes from,
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 2: where it stems from, and why other women don't feel
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 2: that need.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 3: I mean, I think it's basic, you know, self esteem,
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 3: and it's something that like does I think make sense
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 3: more sometimes when you're younger and then you know you're like,
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 3: oh that doesn't work for me. Yeah, I actually need
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 3: my needs met as well. And I am not a mother.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 3: I don't want to be a mother like to this
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 3: big burly guy you know, who can't pick up a
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 3: prescription when I am in actual physical, terrible pain. Like, yeah,
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 3: that's not but you know she can lean on that.
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 3: It's not going to serve her. That is not the
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 3: that will always yield a douchebag.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 2: It will, and so the next person will. It'll be
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 2: the same situation over and over. Right, And she even
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 2: did justify saying, like I wanted to pay him because
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 2: I didn't want like his kids to suffer from him
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 2: not being there or like him to lose out because
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 2: he was taking work off, like she was justifying it. Still,
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 2: so that is tough to see. And you know what,
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 2: I did appreciate her honesty in that because I think
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 2: that a lot of women's show and maybe some men
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 2: can relate with that. Yeah. I also loved hearing like
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 2: Jason and Schwartz talked about how they would never be
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 2: able to do that, like take money like that or whatever.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 4: So it's just it's like another level.
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 3: Someone is out of the hospital having had well, not
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 3: hob or procedure surgery center, you know wherever we are,
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 3: and you know that is real recovery and to just
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 3: need to get paid like a you.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: Know, a nurse, task grab and call rabbit, right, you
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: know what that's That's what Brittany needs to start understanding,
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 2: is like, if you want something, don't get a man,
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 2: get task rabbit. Great, great, okay, task grab it. Yeah.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 3: And also if they need things, they have to pay
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 3: for the task rabbit to do their things.
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 4: Everything's task grab.
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 2: Everything is like, yeah, it's thank you outsourced.
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 3: Everything for at least a year. Everything's task rabbit.
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 2: I need to use task rabbit more often. You think
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 2: this is sponsored by it, but it's not. Do you
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 2: use task rabbit for stuff?
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 3: I only used it one time to like help set
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 3: up a piece of furniture.
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 2: That's the same with me. I did the same thing
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 2: one time for that.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 4: It ended up not being oh great for me.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 3: Oh, I think he was in the weeds and I
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 3: was pitching in and you know, like I don't know.
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 5: I was like, You're like, oh, but it's gonna give
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 5: you somebody for this extra Okay.
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, well this was good. This was good.
• 1:03:09
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• 1:03:11
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