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REPROGRAMMING EPISODE 9 – Transform Your Mind for Success · Motivational Podcast

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  Speaker 1: To be alive is the biggest fear humans have. Death
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  Speaker 1: is not the biggest fear we have. Our biggest fear
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  Speaker 1: is taking the risk to be alive and to express
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  Speaker 1: what we really are. Just being ourself is the biggest
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  Speaker 1: fear of humans. What you are seeing and hearing right
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  Speaker 1: now is nothing but a dream. You're dreaming right now,
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  Speaker 1: in this moment. You're dreaming with the brain awake. Dreaming
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  Speaker 1: is the main function of the mind, and the mind
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  Speaker 1: dreams twenty four hours a day. It dreams when the
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  Speaker 1: brain is awake, and it also dreams when the brain
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  Speaker 1: is asleep. The difference is that when the brain is awake,
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  Speaker 1: there is a material frame that makes us perceive things
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  Speaker 1: in a linear way. When we go to sleep, we
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  Speaker 1: do not have the frame, and the dream has the
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  Speaker 1: tendency to change constantly. Humans are dreaming all the time.
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  Speaker 1: Before we were born. The humans before us created a
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  Speaker 1: big outside dream that we will call society stream, or
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  Speaker 1: the dream of the planet. The dream of the planet
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  Speaker 1: is the collective dream of billions of smaller personal dreams,
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  Speaker 1: which together create a dream of a family, the dream
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  Speaker 1: of a community, a dream of a city, a dream
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  Speaker 1: of a country, and finally, a dream of the whole humanity.
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  Speaker 1: The dream of the planet includes all of society's rules,
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  Speaker 1: its beliefs, its laws, its religions, its different cultures and
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  Speaker 1: ways to be, its governments, schools, social events, and holidays.
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  Speaker 1: We are born with the capacity to learn how to dream,
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  Speaker 1: and the humans who live before us teach us how
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  Speaker 1: to dream the way society dreams. The outside dream has
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  Speaker 1: so many rules that when a new human is born,
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  Speaker 1: we hook the child's ten and introduce these rules into
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  Speaker 1: his or her mind. The outside dream uses mom and dad,
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  Speaker 1: the schools, and religion to teach us how to dream.
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  Speaker 1: Attention is the ability we have to discriminate and to
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  Speaker 1: focus only on that which we want to perceive. We
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  Speaker 1: can perceive millions of things simultaneously, but using our attention,
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  Speaker 1: we can hold whatever we want to perceive in the
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  Speaker 1: foreground of our mind. The adults around us hooked our
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  Speaker 1: attention and put information into our minds through repetition. That
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  Speaker 1: is the way we learned everything we know. By using
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  Speaker 1: our attention, we learned a whole reality, a whole dream.
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  Speaker 1: We learned how to behave in society, what to believe
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  Speaker 1: and what not to believe, what is acceptable and what
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  Speaker 1: is not acceptable, what is good and what is bad,
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  Speaker 1: what is beautiful and what is ugly, what is right
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  Speaker 1: and what is wrong. It was all there already, all
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  Speaker 1: that knowledge, all those rules and concepts about how to
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  Speaker 1: behave in the world. The outside dream hooks our attention
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  Speaker 1: and teaches us what to believe, beginning with the language
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  Speaker 1: that we speak. Language is the code for understanding and
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  Speaker 1: communication between humans. Every letter, every word in each language
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  Speaker 1: is an agreement. Once we understand the code, our attention
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  Speaker 1: is hooked and the energy is transferred from one person
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  Speaker 1: to another. As children, we didn't have the opportunity to
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  Speaker 1: choose our beliefs, but we agreed with the information it
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  Speaker 1: was passed to us from the dream of the planet
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  Speaker 1: via other humans. As soon as we agree, we believe it,
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  Speaker 1: and this is called faith. To have faith is to
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  Speaker 1: believe unconditionally. That's how we learn as children. Children believe
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  Speaker 1: everything adults say. We agree with them, and our faith
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  Speaker 1: is so strong that the belief system controls our whole
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  Speaker 1: dream of life. The result is surrendered to the beliefs
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  Speaker 1: with ours agreement, and through this domestication we learn how
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  Speaker 1: to live and how to dream. In human domestication, the
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  Speaker 1: information from the outside dream is conveyed to the inside dream,
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  Speaker 1: creating our whole belief system. First, the child is taught
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  Speaker 1: the names of things mom, dad, day by day, at home,
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  Speaker 1: at school, and from television. We are told how to live,
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  Speaker 1: what kind of behavior is acceptable. The outside dream teaches
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  Speaker 1: us how to be a human, and we also learn
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  Speaker 1: to judge. We judge ourselves, we judge other people, We
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  Speaker 1: judge the neighbors. We train our children, whom we love
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  Speaker 1: so much, the same way that we train any domesticated animal.
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  Speaker 1: When we went against the rules, we were punished. When
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  Speaker 1: we went along with the rules, we got a reward.
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  Speaker 1: Soon we became afraid of being punished and also afraid
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  Speaker 1: of not receiving the reward. With that fear of being
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  Speaker 1: punished and that fear of not getting the reward, we
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  Speaker 1: start pretending to be what we are not, just to
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  Speaker 1: please others, just to be good enough for someone else,
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  Speaker 1: And so we start acting. We pretend to be what
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  Speaker 1: we are not because we are afraid of being rejected.
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  Speaker 1: The fear of being rejected becomes the fear of not
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  Speaker 1: being good enough. Eventually we become someone that we are not.
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  Speaker 1: All our normal tendencies are lost in the process of domestication.
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  Speaker 1: The domestication is so strong that at a certain point
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  Speaker 1: in our life, we no longer need anyone to domesticate us.
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  Speaker 1: We're so well trained that we are our own domesticator.
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  Speaker 1: We are an autodomesticated animal. We can now domesticate ourselves
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  Speaker 1: according to the same belief system we were given in,
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  Speaker 1: using the same system of punishment and reward. We punish
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  Speaker 1: ourselves when we don't follow the rules according to our
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  Speaker 1: belief system. We reward ourselves when we are the good
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  Speaker 1: boy or the good girl. Just as the government has
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  Speaker 1: a book of laws that rule the society's dream, our
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  Speaker 1: belief system is the book of laws that rules our mind.
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  Speaker 1: Without question, whatever is in that book of law is
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  Speaker 1: our truth. We base all of our judgments according to
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  Speaker 1: the book of law, even if these judgments go against
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  Speaker 1: our own inner nature, and these agreements rule our personal dream.
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  Speaker 1: There's something in our minds that judges everybody and everything.
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  Speaker 1: The inner judge uses what is in our book of
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  Speaker 1: law to judge everything we do and don't do, everything
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  Speaker 1: we think and I don't think, and everything we feel
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  Speaker 1: and don't feel. Everything lives under the tyranny of this judge.
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  Speaker 1: Every time we do something that goes against the Book
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  Speaker 1: of law, the judge says we are guilty, we need
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  Speaker 1: to be punished, we should be ashamed. This happens many
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  Speaker 1: times a day, day after day, for all the years
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  Speaker 1: of our lives. There's another part of us that receives
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  Speaker 1: the judgments, and this part is called the victim. The
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  Speaker 1: victim carries the blame, the guilt, and the shame. It
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  Speaker 1: is the part of us that says, poor me, I'm
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  Speaker 1: not good enough, I'm not intelligent enough, I'm not attractive enough,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not worthy of the big judge agrees and says, yes,
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  Speaker 1: you're not good enough. And this is all based on
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  Speaker 1: a belief system that we never chose to believe. These
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  Speaker 1: beliefs are so strong that even years later, when we're
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  Speaker 1: exposed to new concepts and try to make our own decisions,
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  Speaker 1: we find that these beliefs still control our lives. Whatever
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  Speaker 1: goes against the Book of Law will make you feel
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  Speaker 1: a funny sensation in your solar plexus, and it's called fear.
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  Speaker 1: Breaking the rules in the Book of law opens your
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  Speaker 1: emotional wounds, and your reaction is to create emotional poison.
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  Speaker 1: Because even if the book of law is wrong. It
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  Speaker 1: makes you feel safe. Anything that challenges what you believe
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  Speaker 1: is going to make you feel unsafe. That is why
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  Speaker 1: we need a great deal of courage to challenge our
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  Speaker 1: own beliefs. Because even if we know we didn't choose
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  Speaker 1: all these beliefs, it's also true that we agreed to
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  Speaker 1: all of them. All these laws exist in our mind.
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  Speaker 1: We believe them, and the judge inside us bases everything
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  Speaker 1: on these rules. The judge decrees, and the victim suffers
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  Speaker 1: the guilt and punishment. How many times do we pay
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  Speaker 1: for one mistake? The answer is thousands of times. The
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  Speaker 1: human is the only animal on earth that pays a
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  Speaker 1: thousand times for the same mistake. The rest of the
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  Speaker 1: animals pay once for every mistake they make, but not us.
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  Speaker 1: We have a powerful memory. We make a mistake, we
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  Speaker 1: judge ourselves, We find ourselves guilty, and we punish ourselves.
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  Speaker 1: Every time we remember, we judge ourselves again. We are
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  Speaker 1: guilty again, and we punish ourselves again and again and again.
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  Speaker 1: If we have a wife or husband, he or she
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  Speaker 1: also reminds us of the mistake, so we can judge
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  Speaker 1: ourselves again, punish ourselves again, and find ourselves guilty again.
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  Speaker 1: How many times do we make our spouse, our children,
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  Speaker 1: or our parents pay for the same mistake. Every time
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  Speaker 1: we remember the mistake, we blame them again and send
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  Speaker 1: them all the emotional poison we feel at the injustice,
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  Speaker 1: and then we make them pay again for the same mistake.
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  Speaker 1: Is that justice? In the dream of the planet, it
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  Speaker 1: is normal for humans to suffer, to live in fear,
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  Speaker 1: and to create emotional dramas. The outside dream is not
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  Speaker 1: a pleasant dream. It is a dream of violence, a
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  Speaker 1: dream of fear, a dream of war, a dream of injustice.
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  Speaker 1: The personal dream of humans will vary, but globally it
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  Speaker 1: is mostly a nightmare. If we look at human society,
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  Speaker 1: we see a place so difficult to live in because
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  Speaker 1: it is ruled by fear. Throughout the world, we see
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  Speaker 1: human suffering, anger, revenge, addictions, violence in the street, and
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  Speaker 1: tremendous injustice. Fear is controlling the outside dream. If we
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  Speaker 1: compare the dream of human society with the description of
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  Speaker 1: hell that religions all around the world have promulgated, we
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  Speaker 1: find they are exactly the same. Religions say that hell
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  Speaker 1: is a place of punishment, a place of fear, pain,
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  Speaker 1: and suffering a place where the fire burns you. Whenever
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  Speaker 1: we feel the emotions of anger, jealousy, envy, or hate,
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  Speaker 1: we experience a fire burning within us. We are living
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  Speaker 1: in a dream of hell. If you consider hell as
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  Speaker 1: a state of mind, then hell is all around us.
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  Speaker 1: No human can condemn another to hell, because we are
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  Speaker 1: already there. Others can put us into a deeper hell. True,
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  Speaker 1: but only if we allow them to happen. Every human
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  Speaker 1: has his or her own personal dream, and just like
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  Speaker 1: the society dream, it is often ruled by fear. Our
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  Speaker 1: personal dream can also become an ongoing nightmare where we
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  Speaker 1: suffer and live in a state of fear. But we
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  Speaker 1: don't need to dream a nightmare. It is possible to
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  Speaker 1: enjoy a pleasant dream. All of humanity is searching for truth, justice,
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  Speaker 1: and beauty. We are on an eternal search for the
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  Speaker 1: truth because we only believe in the lies we have
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  Speaker 1: stored in our mind. We keep searching and searching when
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  Speaker 1: everything is already within us. There is no truth defined.
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  Speaker 1: Wherever we turn our heads, all we see is the truth.
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  Speaker 1: But with the agreements and beliefs we have stored in
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  Speaker 1: our mind, we have no eyes for this truth. We
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  Speaker 1: don't see the truth because we are blind. What blinds
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  Speaker 1: us are all those false beliefs we have in our mind.
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  Speaker 1: It is as if we live in the middle of
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  Speaker 1: a fog that doesn't let us see any further than
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  Speaker 1: our own nose. This fog is our personal dream of life,
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  Speaker 1: everything we believe about ourself and the world, all the
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  Speaker 1: concepts we have about what we are, all the agreements
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  Speaker 1: we have made with others, with ourselves. During the process
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  Speaker 1: of domestication, we form an image of what perfection is
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  Speaker 1: in order to try to be good enough in order
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  Speaker 1: to be accepted by everybody. But we don't fit this image.
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  Speaker 1: We create this image, but this image is not real.
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  Speaker 1: We reject ourselves after domestication. It is no longer about
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  Speaker 1: being good enough for anybody else. We are not good
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  Speaker 1: enough for ourselves because we don't fit with our own
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  Speaker 1: image of perfection. We cannot forgive ourselves for not being
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  Speaker 1: what we wish to be, or rather, what we believe
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  Speaker 1: we should be. We cannot forgive ourselves for not being perfect.
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  Speaker 1: We know we are not what we believe we are
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  Speaker 1: supposed to be. We feel false, frustrated, and dishonest. We
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  Speaker 1: try to hide ourselves and we pretend to be what
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  Speaker 1: we are not. The result is that we feel unauthentic
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  Speaker 1: and wear social masks to keep others from noticing this.
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  Speaker 1: We judge others according to our image of perfection as well,
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  Speaker 1: and naturally they fall short of our expectations. We dishonor
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  Speaker 1: ourselves just to please other people. We even do harm
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  Speaker 1: to our physical bodies just to be accepted by others.
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  Speaker 1: Humans punish themselves endlessly for not being what they believe
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  Speaker 1: they should be. They become very self abusive, and they
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  Speaker 1: use other people to abuse themselves as well. But nobody
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  Speaker 1: abuse uses us more than we abuse ourselves, and it
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  Speaker 1: is the judge, the victim, and the belief system that
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  Speaker 1: make us do this. The way we judge ourselves is
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  Speaker 1: the worst judge that ever existed. In your whole life,
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  Speaker 1: nobody has ever abused you more than you have abused yourself,
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  Speaker 1: and the limit of your self abuse is exactly the
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  Speaker 1: limit that you will tolerate from someone else. If someone
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  Speaker 1: abuses you a little more than you abuse yourself, you'll
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  Speaker 1: probably walk away from that person. But if someone abuses
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  Speaker 1: you a little less than you abuse yourself, you'll probably
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  Speaker 1: stay in the relationship and tolerate it endlessly. If you
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  Speaker 1: abuse yourself very badly, you can even tolerate someone who
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  Speaker 1: beats you up, humiliates you, and treats you like dirt.
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  Speaker 1: Why Because in your belief system you say I deserve it.
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  Speaker 1: This person is doing me a favor by being with me.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not worthy of love and respect. I'm not good enough.
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  Speaker 1: The more self love we have, the less we will
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  Speaker 1: experience self abuse. Self abuse comes from self rejection, and
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  Speaker 1: self rejection comes from having an image of what it
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  Speaker 1: means to be perfect and never measuring up to that ideal.
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  Speaker 1: Our image of perfection is the reason we reject ourselves.
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  Speaker 1: It is why we don't accept ourselves the way we are,
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  Speaker 1: and why we don't accept others the way they are.
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  Speaker 1: Prelude to a new dream. There are thousands of agreements
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  Speaker 1: you have made with yourself, with other people, with your
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  Speaker 1: dream of life, with society, with your parents, with your spouse,
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  Speaker 1: with your children. But the most important agreements are the
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  Speaker 1: ones you made with yourself. You tell yourself who you are,
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  Speaker 1: what you feel, what you believe, and how to behave.
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  Speaker 1: The result is what you call your personality. This is
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  Speaker 1: what I am, This is what I believe I can
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  Speaker 1: do certain things and some things I cannot do. This
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  Speaker 1: is reality, that is fantasy. This is possible, that is impossible.
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  Speaker 1: One single agreement is not such a problem, but we
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  Speaker 1: have many agreements that make us suffer, that make us
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  Speaker 1: fail in life. If you want to live a life
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  Speaker 1: of joy and fulfillment, you have to find the courage
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  Speaker 1: to break those agreements that are fear based and claim
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  Speaker 1: your personal power. The agreements that come from fear require
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  Speaker 1: us to expend a lot of energy, but the agreements
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  Speaker 1: that come from love help us to conserve energy and
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  Speaker 1: even gain extra energy. Each of us is born with
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  Speaker 1: a certain amount of personal power that we rebuild every day.
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  Speaker 1: After we rest our, personal power is dissipated by all
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  Speaker 1: the agreements we have created, and the result is that
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  Speaker 1: we feel powerless. We have just enough power to survive
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  Speaker 1: each day because most of it is used to keep
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  Speaker 1: the agreements that trap us in the dream of the planet.
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  Speaker 1: How can we change the entire dream of our life
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  Speaker 1: when we have no power to change even the smallest agreement.
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  Speaker 1: If we can see that our agreements rule our life
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  Speaker 1: and we don't like the dream of our life, we
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  Speaker 1: need to change our agreements. Each time you break an agreement,
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  Speaker 1: all the power you use to create it returns to you.
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  Speaker 1: The transformation in your life will be amazing. You will
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  Speaker 1: see the drama of hell disappear right before your eyes.
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  Speaker 1: Instead of living in a dream of hell, you will
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  Speaker 1: be creating a new dream. To be alive is the
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  Speaker 1: biggest fear humans have. Death is not the biggest fear
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  Speaker 1: we have. Our biggest fear is taking the risk to
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  Speaker 1: be alive and to express what we really are. Just
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  Speaker 1: being ourself is the biggest fear of humans. Be impeccable
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  Speaker 1: with your word. It sounds very simple, but it is
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  Speaker 1: very very powerful. Your word is the power that you
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  Speaker 1: have to create. Through the word, you express your creative power.
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  Speaker 1: It is through the word that you manifest everything. What
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  Speaker 1: you dream, what you feel, and what you really are
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  Speaker 1: will all be manifested through the word. It is the
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  Speaker 1: power you have to express and communicate, to think, and
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  Speaker 1: thereby to create the events in your life. The word
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  Speaker 1: is the most powerful tool you have as a human.
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  Speaker 1: It is the tool of Your word can create the
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  Speaker 1: most beautiful dream, or your word can destroy everything around you,
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  Speaker 1: depending upon how it is used. The word can set
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  Speaker 1: you free, or it can enslave you even more than
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  Speaker 1: you know. All the magic you possess is based on
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  Speaker 1: your word. Your word is pure magic. The human mind
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  Speaker 1: is like a fertile ground where seeds are continually being planted.
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  Speaker 1: The seeds are opinions, ideas, and concepts. You plant a
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  Speaker 1: seed a thought, and it grows. The word is like
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  Speaker 1: a seed, and the human mind is so fertile. Seeing
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  Speaker 1: the awesome power of the word, we must understand what
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  Speaker 1: power comes out of our mouths. One fear or doubt
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  Speaker 1: planted in our mind can create an endless drama of events.
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  Speaker 1: One word is like a spell, and humans use the
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  Speaker 1: word like black magicians, thoughtlessly putting spells on each other.
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  Speaker 1: Every human is a magician, and we can either put
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  Speaker 1: a spell on someone with our word, or we can
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  Speaker 1: release someone from a spell. We cast spells all the
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  Speaker 1: time with our opinions. During our domestication, our parents and
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  Speaker 1: siblings gave their opinions about us without even thinking. We
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  Speaker 1: believed these opinions, and we lived in fear over these opinions.
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  Speaker 1: Someone gives an opinion and says, look, this girl is ugly.
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  Speaker 1: The girl listens, believe she is ugly, and grows up
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  Speaker 1: with the idea that she is ugly. It doesn't matter
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  Speaker 1: how beautiful she is. As long as she has that agreement,
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  Speaker 1: she will believe that she is ugly. That is the
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  Speaker 1: spell that she is under. By hooking our attention, the
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  Speaker 1: word can enter our mind and change a whole belief
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  Speaker 1: for better or worse. You may believe you are stupid,
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  Speaker 1: and you may have believed this for as long as
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  Speaker 1: you can remember. This agreement can be very tricky, causing
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  Speaker 1: you to do a lot of things just to ensure
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  Speaker 1: that you are stupid. Then one day someone hooks your
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  Speaker 1: attention in using the word lets you know that you
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  Speaker 1: are not stupid. You believe what the person says and
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  Speaker 1: make a new agreement. Result you no longer feel or
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  Speaker 1: act stupid. A whole spell is broken just by the
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  Speaker 1: power of the word. Conversely, if you believe you are
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  Speaker 1: stupid and someone hooks your attention and says, yes, you
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  Speaker 1: are really the most stupid person I've ever met, the
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  Speaker 1: agreement will be reinforced and become even stronger. The end
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  Speaker 1: inimpeccable means without impeccable means without sin. Religions talk about
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  Speaker 1: sin and sinners, but let's understand what it really means
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  Speaker 1: to sin. A sin is anything you do that goes
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  Speaker 1: against yourself. Everything you feel, or believe or say it
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  Speaker 1: goes against yourself is a sin. You go against yourself
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  Speaker 1: when you judge or blame yourself for anything. Being without
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  Speaker 1: sin is exactly the opposite. Being impeccable is not going
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  Speaker 1: against yourself. When you are impeccable, you take responsibility for
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  Speaker 1: your actions, but you do not judge or blame yourself.
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  Speaker 1: The whole concept of sin changes from something moral or
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  Speaker 1: religious to something common sense. Sin begins with rejection of
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  Speaker 1: yourself self. Rejection is the biggest sin that you commit.
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  Speaker 1: If I see you in the street and I call
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  Speaker 1: you stupid, it appears that I'm using the word against you,
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  Speaker 1: But really I'm using my word against myself because you
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  Speaker 1: are going to hate me for this, and your hating
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  Speaker 1: me is not good for me. Therefore, if I get
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  Speaker 1: angry and with my word send all that emotional poison
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  Speaker 1: to you, I'm using the word against myself. If you
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  Speaker 1: make an agreement with yourself to be impeccable with your word,
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  Speaker 1: the truth will manifest through you and clean all the
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  Speaker 1: emotional poison that exists within you. The word is pure magic.
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  Speaker 1: The most powerful gift we have as humans, and we
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  Speaker 1: use it against ourselves. Misuse of the word is how
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  Speaker 1: we pull each other down and keep each other in
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  Speaker 1: a state of fear and doubt. Whenever we hear an
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  Speaker 1: opinion and believe it, we make an agreement and it
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  Speaker 1: becomes part of our belief system. There's an old expression
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  Speaker 1: that says misery likes company, and people who are suffering
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  Speaker 1: in hell don't want to be all alone. Using the
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  Speaker 1: analogy of the human mind, as a computer gossip can
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  Speaker 1: be compared to a computer virus. A computer virus is
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  Speaker 1: a piece of computer language written in the same language
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  Speaker 1: all the other codes are written in, but with a
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  Speaker 1: harm full intent. This code is inserted into the program
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  Speaker 1: of your computer when you least expect it. Imagine that
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  Speaker 1: every single time others gossip to you, they insert a
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  Speaker 1: computer virus into your mind, causing you to think a
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  Speaker 1: little less clearly every time. Then imagine that, in an
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  Speaker 1: effort to clean up your own confusion and get some
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  Speaker 1: relief from the poison, you gossip and spread these viruses
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  Speaker 1: to someone else. When we see the world through a
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  Speaker 1: computer virus, it is easy to justify the cruelest behavior.
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  Speaker 1: What we don't see is that misuse of our word
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  Speaker 1: is putting us deeper into hell. We must begin to
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  Speaker 1: understand what the word is and what the word does.
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  Speaker 1: You begin to see all all the changes that can
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  Speaker 1: happen in your life, first in the way you deal
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  Speaker 1: with yourself, and later in the way you deal with
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  Speaker 1: other people, especially those you love the most. Any emotional
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  Speaker 1: poison will eventually be cleaned from our mind and from
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  Speaker 1: our communication and our personal relationships. The impeccability of the
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  Speaker 1: word will also give you immunity from anyone putting a
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  Speaker 1: negative spell on you. When you are impeccable with your word,
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  Speaker 1: you feel good. You feel happy and at peace. To
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  Speaker 1: be impeccable with your word is very powerful. Use the
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  Speaker 1: word in the correct way. Use the word to share
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  Speaker 1: your love, beginning with yourself. Impeccability of the word can
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  Speaker 1: lead you to personal freedom, to huge success and abundance.
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  Speaker 1: It can take away all fear and transform it into
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  Speaker 1: joy and love. You can transcend the dream of fear
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  Speaker 1: and live a different life. Be impeccable with your word.
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  Speaker 1: Don't take anything personally. Whatever happens around you, don't take
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  Speaker 1: it personally. You take it personally because you agree with
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  Speaker 1: whatever was said. As soon as you agree, that poison
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  Speaker 1: goes through you. Personal importance, or taking things personally, is
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  Speaker 1: the maximum expression of selfishness because we make the assumption
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  Speaker 1: that everything is about me. During the period of our
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  Speaker 1: education or our domestication, we learn to take everything personally.
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  Speaker 1: We think we are responsible for everything. Nothing other people
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  Speaker 1: do is because of you, It is because of themselves.
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  Speaker 1: All people live in their own dream, in their own mind.
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  Speaker 1: They are in a completely different world from the one
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  Speaker 1: we live in. Even when a situation seems so personal,
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  Speaker 1: even if others insult you directly, it has nothing to
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  Speaker 1: do with you. What they say, what they do, and
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  Speaker 1: the opinions they give are according to the agreements they
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  Speaker 1: have in their own minds. Their point of view comes
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  Speaker 1: from all the programming they received during domestication. Taking things
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  Speaker 1: personally makes you easy pray for these predators, the black magicians.
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  Speaker 1: They can hook you easily with one little opinion and
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  Speaker 1: feed you whatever poison they want. Because you take it personally,
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  Speaker 1: you eat it up, You eat all their emotional garbage,
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  Speaker 1: and now it becomes your garbage. But if you do
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  Speaker 1: not take things personally, you are immune. In the middle
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  Speaker 1: of hell, whatever you feel and do is just a
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  Speaker 1: projection of your own personal dream, a reflection of your
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  Speaker 1: own agreements. It is the way you see the world.
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  Speaker 1: Others are going to have their own opinion according to
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  Speaker 1: their belief system. If you may even tell me, hey,
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  Speaker 1: what you're saying is hurting me, but it is not
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  Speaker 1: what I am saying that it is hurting you. It
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  Speaker 1: is that you have that I touch. By what I
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  Speaker 1: have said, you were hurting yourself. There is no way
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  Speaker 1: that I can take this personally, not because I don't
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  Speaker 1: believe in you or don't trust you, but because I
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  Speaker 1: know that you see the world with different eyes. With
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  Speaker 1: your eyes, you create an entire picture or a movie
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  Speaker 1: in your mind, and in that picture, you are the director.
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  Speaker 1: You are the producer. You are the main actor or actress.
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  Speaker 1: Everyone else is a secondary actor or actress. It is
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  Speaker 1: your movie. The way you see that movie is according
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  Speaker 1: to the agreements you have made with life. Your point
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  Speaker 1: of view is something personal to you. It is no
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  Speaker 1: one's truth but yours. Whatever people do feel, think, or say,
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  Speaker 1: don't take it personally. If they tell you how wonderful
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  Speaker 1: you are, they're not saying that because of you. You know,
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  Speaker 1: you're wonderful. It is not necessary to believe other people
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  Speaker 1: who tell you that you're wonderful. Don't take anything personally.
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  Speaker 1: Even if someone got a gun and shot you in
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  Speaker 1: the head, it was nothing personal. Even at that extreme,
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  Speaker 1: even the opinions you have about yourself are not necessarily true. Therefore,
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  Speaker 1: you don't need to take whatever you hear in your
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  Speaker 1: own mind personally. All of those agreements we have made
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  Speaker 1: are not necessarily compatible with each other. Every agreement is
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  Speaker 1: like a separate living being with its own personality. There
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: are conflicting agreements that go against other agreements, and on
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  Speaker 1: and on until it becomes a big war in the mind.
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  Speaker 1: Humans are addicted to suffering at different levels into different degrees,
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  Speaker 1: and we support each other in maintaining these addictions. Humans
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  Speaker 1: agree to help each other suffer. If you have the
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  Speaker 1: need to be abused, you'll find it easy to be
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  Speaker 1: abused by others. Wherever you go, you will find people
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  Speaker 1: lying to you, and as your awareness grows, you'll notice
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  Speaker 1: that you also lie to yourself. Do not expect people
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  Speaker 1: to tell you the truth, because they also lie to themselves.
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  Speaker 1: You have to trust yourself and choose to believe or
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  Speaker 1: not to believe. What someone says to you. When we
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  Speaker 1: really see other people as they are without taking it personally,
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  Speaker 1: we can never be hurt by what they say or do.
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  Speaker 1: Even if others lie to you, it's okay. They're lying
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  Speaker 1: to you because they're afraid. They're afraid you will discover
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  Speaker 1: that they are not perfect. It is painful to take
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  Speaker 1: off that social mask. If others say one thing but
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  Speaker 1: do another, you're lying to yourself if you don't listen
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  Speaker 1: to their actions. But if you're truthful with yourself, you'll
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  Speaker 1: save yourself a lot of emotional pain. Telling yourself the
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  Speaker 1: truth about it may hurt that you, you don't need
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  Speaker 1: to be attached to the pain. You'll find that you
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  Speaker 1: don't need to trust others as much as you need
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  Speaker 1: to trust yourself to make the right choices. When you
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  Speaker 1: make it a strong habit not to take anything personally,
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  Speaker 1: you avoid many upsets in your life. Your anger, jealousy,
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  Speaker 1: and envy will disappear, and even your sadness will simply disappear.
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  Speaker 1: If you don't take things personally, you will find that
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  Speaker 1: nothing can put you back into hell. There is a
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  Speaker 1: huge amount of freedom that comes to you when you
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  Speaker 1: take nothing personally. You become immune to black magicians, and
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  Speaker 1: no spell can affect you, regardless of how strong it
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  Speaker 1: may be. The whole world can gossip about you, and
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  Speaker 1: if you don't take it personally or immune, someone can
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  Speaker 1: intentionally send emotional poison, and if you don't take it personally,
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  Speaker 1: you will not eat it. When you don't take the
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  Speaker 1: emotional poison, it becomes even worse in the sinder, but
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  Speaker 1: not in you. Taking nothing personally helps you to break
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  Speaker 1: many habits and routines that trap you in the dream
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  Speaker 1: of hell and cause needless suffering. You begin to break
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  Speaker 1: dozens of teeny tiny agreements that cause you to suffer.
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  Speaker 1: As you make a habit of not taking anything personally,
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  Speaker 1: you won't need to place your trust in what others
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  Speaker 1: do or say, will only need to trust yourself to
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  Speaker 1: make responsible choices. When you truly understand this and refuse
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  Speaker 1: to take things personally, you can hardly be hurt by
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  Speaker 1: the careless comments or actions of others. You can say
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  Speaker 1: yes or you can say no, whatever you choose without
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  Speaker 1: guilt or self judgment. You can choose to follow your
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  Speaker 1: heart always don't take anything personally. The new dream. I
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  Speaker 1: want you to forget everything you have learned in your
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  Speaker 1: whole life. This is the beginning of a new understanding,
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  Speaker 1: a new dream. The dream you are living is your creation.
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  Speaker 1: It is your perception of reality that you can change
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  Speaker 1: at any time. You have the power to create hell,
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  Speaker 1: and you have the power to create heaven. Why not
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  Speaker 1: dream a different dream? Why not use your imagination and
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  Speaker 1: your emotions. Imagine that you have the ability to see
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  Speaker 1: the world with different eyes whenever you choose. Each time
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  Speaker 1: you open your eyes, you see the world around you
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  Speaker 1: in a different way. Close your eyes now, and then
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  Speaker 1: open them and look outside, using your imagination and your
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  Speaker 1: new eyes of perception. I want you to see yourself
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  Speaker 1: living a new life, a new dream, a life where
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  Speaker 1: you don't need to justify your existence and you are
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  Speaker 1: free to be who you really are. Imagine that you
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  Speaker 1: have permission to be happy and to really enjoy your life.
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  Speaker 1: Your life is free of conflict with yourself and with others.
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  Speaker 1: Imagine living your life without fear of expressing your dreams.
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  Speaker 1: You know what you want, what you don't want, and
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  Speaker 1: when you want it, you are free to change your
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  Speaker 1: life the way you really want to. Imagine living your
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  Speaker 1: life without the fear of being judged by others. You
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  Speaker 1: no longer rule your behavior according to what others may
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  Speaker 1: think about you. You have no need to control anyone,
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  Speaker 1: and no one controls you either. Imagine living your life
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  Speaker 1: without judging others. You can easily forgive others and let
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  Speaker 1: go of any judgments that you have. You don't have
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  Speaker 1: the need to be right, and you don't need to
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  Speaker 1: make anyone else wrong. You respect yourself and everyone else,
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  Speaker 1: and they expect you in return. You're no longer afraid
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  Speaker 1: to be rejected, and you don't have the need to
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  Speaker 1: be accepted. You can walk in the world with your
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  Speaker 1: heart completely open and not be afraid to be hurt.
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: Imagine living your life without being afraid to take a
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  Speaker 1: risk and to explore life. You're not afraid to lose anything.
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  Speaker 1: You're not afraid to be alive in the world, and
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: you're not afraid to die. Imagine that you love yourself
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  Speaker 1: just the way you are. The reason I ask you
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  Speaker 1: to imagine these things is because they're all entirely possible.
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  Speaker 1: You can live in the state of grace, the state
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  Speaker 1: of bliss. Only love has the ability to put you
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  Speaker 1: in that state of bliss. Being in bliss is like
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  Speaker 1: being in love you're floating in the clouds. You're perceiving
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  Speaker 1: love wherever you go. It is entirely possible to live
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  Speaker 1: this way all the time. This way of life is possible,
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: and it's in your hands. But your identity is mixed
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  Speaker 1: with the dream of the planet. All of your beliefs
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: and agreements are there in the fog. Suffering makes you
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  Speaker 1: feel safe because you know it so well, But there's
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  Speaker 1: really no reason to say suffer. The only reason you
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: suffer is because you choose to suffer. If you look
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  Speaker 1: at your life, you'll find many excuses to suffer, but
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  Speaker 1: a good reason to suffer you will not find. The
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: same is true for happiness. The only reason you're happy
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  Speaker 1: is because you choose to be happy. Happiness is a choice,
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  Speaker 1: and so is suffering. Maybe we cannot escape from the
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: destiny of the human but we have a choice to
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  Speaker 1: suffer our destiny or to enjoy our destiny. To suffer
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  Speaker 1: or to love and be happy. Everyone talks about freedom
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: all around the world. Different people, different races, different countries
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: are fighting for freedom. But what is freedom? Are we
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: free to be who we really are? True freedom has
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  Speaker 1: to do with the human spirit. It is the freedom
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  Speaker 1: to be who we really are. Who stops us from
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: being free? We blame the government, we blame the weather,
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: We blame our parents, our religion or God. Who really
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: stops us from being free? We stop ourselves. What does
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: it really mean to be free? What stops us? Why
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: can't we be ourselves? We have memories of long ago
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: when we used to be free, and we loved being free,
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: but we've forgotten what freedom really means. If we see
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: a child who is two or three, perhaps four years old,
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: we find a free human. Why is this human free?
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: Because this human does whatever he or she wants to do.
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  Speaker 1: The human is completely wild, just like a flower, a tree,
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  Speaker 1: or an animal that has not been domesticated. They are
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  Speaker 1: exploring the world. They're not afraid to play. These humans
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: have a big smile on their faces and they're having fun.
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: They don't worry about the past, don't care about the future,
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: and only live in the present moment. Very young children
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: are not afraid to express what they feel. They're so
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  Speaker 1: loving that if they perceive love, they melt into love.
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: They are not afraid to love at all. Our normal
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: human tendency is to enjoy life, to play, to explore,
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  Speaker 1: to be happy and to love. You don't need to
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: blame your parents for teaching you to be like them.
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: What else could they teach you? But what they know
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: it is time to be free from the role of
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: the victim. The real you is still a little child
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  Speaker 1: who never grew up. Sometimes that little child comes out
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  Speaker 1: when you're having fun, or playing or expressing yourself in
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  Speaker 1: some way. These are the happiest moments of your life.
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  Speaker 1: When the real you comes out, When you don't care
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  Speaker 1: about the past and you don't worry about the future,
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  Speaker 1: you are childlike. The freedom we're looking for is the
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: freedom to be ourselves, to express ourselves. But if we
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: look at our lives, we'll see that most of the
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: time we do things just to please others. We need
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: to be aware of what the problem is. In order
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: to solve the problem. With awareness, you can rebel and
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: say this is enough. You can look for a way
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: to heal and transform your personal dream. If you go
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: into the dream and start challenging your beliefs, you'll find
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: that most of the beliefs that guided you into the
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: wounded mind are not even true. You'll find that you
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: suffered all those years of drama for nothing. Why Because
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: the belief system that was put inside your mind is
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: based on lies. That is why it is important for
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: you to master your own dream. Your life is the
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: manifestation of your dream. It is an art and you
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: can change your life anytime if you aren't enjoying the dream.
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: Dream masters create a masterpiece of life. They control the
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: dream by making choices. Everything has consequences, and the dream
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: master is aware of the consequences. It is a way
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: of life where there are no leaders and no followers,
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  Speaker 1: where you have your own truth and live your own truth.
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: From the Toltec point of view, all humans who are
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: domesticated are sick. They are sick because there is a
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: parasite that controls the mind and controls the brain. The
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: food for the parasite are the negative emotions that come
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: from fear. The parasite can be compared to a monster
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  Speaker 1: with a thousand heads. Every head of the parasite is
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: one of the fears that we have. If we want
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: to be free, we have to destroy the parasite. Every
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: time we face one of the fears. We are a
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: little more free. If we don't give the parasite any food,
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: we kill the parasite by starvation. To do this. We
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: have to gain control of our emotions. We have to
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: refrain from fueling the emotions that come from fear. The
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: way you are living now is the result of many
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: years of domestication. You cannot expect to break the domestication
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: in one day. We are addicted to being the way
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: we are. We are addicted to anger, jealousy, and self pity.
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: We are addicted to the beliefs that tell us I'm
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: not good enough, i am not intelligent enough, why even try.
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: All of these old agreements which rule our dream of
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: life are the result of repeating them over and over.
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: You need to put repetition in action. Practicing the new
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: agreements in your life is how your best becomes better.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: Repetition makes the master. Every day we awake with a
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: certain amount of mental, emotional, and physical energy that we
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: spend throughout the day. If we allow our emotions to
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: deplete our energy, we have no energy to change our
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: life or to give to others. The way you see
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: the world will depend upon the emotions you're feeling. We
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: are able to break our domestication, become free again, and
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: heal our mind. This is the beginning of a new understanding,
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: a new dream. And it's in your hands ends. The
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: dream you are living is your creation.