Latest / Motivational Podcast / MY DAY IS COMING – The Power of Patience and Persistence
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- 0:01Speaker 1: So I'm here to tell you that it will take longer,
- 0:03Speaker 1: it will be more difficult, it will require more effort
- 0:06Speaker 1: on your part. But you know what I can tell
- 0:08Speaker 1: you about that when you do the hard things, you
- 0:12Speaker 1: will have a happy and easy life. But if you
- 0:15Speaker 1: constantly choose to take the path of easy and negotiate
- 0:17Speaker 1: and compromise, you will have a hard life, a hard
- 0:20Speaker 1: life that ends with regret. So I'm here to tell
- 0:22Speaker 1: you that if you live a no compromise life, if
- 0:26Speaker 1: you become unreasonable in your expectations, find a group of
- 0:30Speaker 1: fighter jets to belong to, and no more fucking crop dusters,
- 0:34Speaker 1: you will become the two point zero that you deserve
- 0:38Speaker 1: to become and that your family deserves to have as
- 0:40Speaker 1: a leader.
- 0:42Speaker 2: A lot of entrepreneurship and even personal growth is training
- 0:45Speaker 2: yourself on how you respond to hard, because in the
- 0:49Speaker 2: early days, hard was ooh, stop.
- 0:52Speaker 3: It's okay to be unbalanced for a while.
- 0:54Speaker 4: It's okay, don't be all this stuff.
- 0:56Speaker 5: People say you gotta be balanced to be the best
- 1:00Speaker 5: in the world at what you do.
- 1:02Speaker 4: It's them up being the Navy seal people the best at.
- 1:05Speaker 1: What you do.
- 1:06Speaker 4: You have to be unbalanced to find every bit of
- 1:09Speaker 4: fucking energy and strength that you have to pull it off.
- 1:13Speaker 4: Then you get balanced once you become great.
- 1:16Speaker 5: Don't don't stare at them.
- 1:17Speaker 6: Listen to me.
- 1:18Speaker 5: You don't get bumped by staring at Wait, you don't
- 1:21Speaker 5: get bumped by five. Look. You don't get healthier by.
- 1:23Speaker 7: Staring at it.
- 1:24Speaker 5: You get healthier by running up to it and grabbing
- 1:27Speaker 5: it and pushing it. Look, push through that stuff, push
- 1:31Speaker 5: through it. You can get through it. The sad you
- 1:33Speaker 5: won't put on your water. You can bear it. You
- 1:35Speaker 5: can get through it.
- 1:37Speaker 1: So I need you to work while you wait.
- 1:39Speaker 5: I need you to work, work on your focus perspective.
- 1:42Speaker 5: I need you to see difficult differently.
- 1:45Speaker 8: Talent and skill set might betray you along a journey
- 1:48Speaker 8: if they don't have a consistency of mindset and they
- 1:51Speaker 8: don't have a certain level of fortitude in every problem
- 1:54Speaker 8: they're being at a certain point, you can have a
- 1:56Speaker 8: cat that's talented, or you can have a cat that
- 1:58Speaker 8: has character and you know what he brings to the
- 2:00Speaker 8: table every single day. Right, you got cast as talented,
- 2:03Speaker 8: get tap out. Like anybody can go one or two downs, right,
- 2:06Speaker 8: anybody can go three downs. But it's very seldom that
- 2:09Speaker 8: you find a cat when he's standing in that tunnel
- 2:12Speaker 8: till it's four zeros on that cock. He's gonna give
- 2:14Speaker 8: you everything that's a man in me.
- 2:16Speaker 9: You know, this stuff is. This stuff that I say
- 2:18Speaker 9: is in the Bible, The stuff that I say is
- 2:20Speaker 9: in Stoicism. And Jordan Peterson, you know, says the stuff
- 2:25Speaker 9: that I say, or I say the stuff that he says. Again,
- 2:27Speaker 9: I'm not trying to compete with Jordan Peterson on any level,
- 2:32Speaker 9: especially some kind of an intellectual level, but we have
- 2:36Speaker 9: similar thoughts about things.
- 2:39Speaker 8: Regardless of the situation, regardless of circumstance, regardless of what happened.
- 2:43Speaker 5: I'm gonna show up and.
- 2:44Speaker 8: I'm gonna give everything I got to it because I'm
- 2:46Speaker 8: working for something that's totally different.
- 2:49Speaker 5: You can't change what you can't change. Stop trying to
- 2:52Speaker 5: change the situation. It's not yours to change. Stop trying
- 2:55Speaker 5: to change your wife, Stop trying to change your husband,
- 2:58Speaker 5: stop trying to change your kids, stop trying to change
- 3:00Speaker 5: your boss, Stop trying to change the program. If you
- 3:04Speaker 5: can change, and it would be changed, there's only one
- 3:06Speaker 5: person you can change, baby, and that person's hard, and
- 3:09Speaker 5: that person is you. Work on your felt, because watch
- 3:12Speaker 5: what's gonna happen. One day, ET gonna wake up, yup,
- 3:14Speaker 5: but he ain't gonna be homes No more yup. One
- 3:16Speaker 5: day Et gonna wake up, he ain't gonna be doing
- 3:18Speaker 5: a high school dropout, No more yep. One day I'm
- 3:20Speaker 5: gonna wake up and be exactly where I want to be.
- 3:23Speaker 5: But the question is when you are you so focused
- 3:25Speaker 5: on you? So focused?
- 3:26Speaker 1: Don't change?
- 3:27Speaker 5: If you don't change, you don't take it.
- 3:29Speaker 9: Back to what it was anyway? Are you hearing me?
- 3:31Speaker 5: So you better? What you can work on is you,
- 3:34Speaker 5: and so you better get you to get you better,
- 3:37Speaker 5: work on.
- 3:37Speaker 9: You and get you ripe.
- 3:40Speaker 2: I'm clear on what this path is supposed to look like.
- 3:43Speaker 2: And these rocks and these dragons are things that I'm
- 3:45Speaker 2: gonna have to slay along the way to get the princess,
- 3:47Speaker 2: to get the treasure. I get happier about the harder
- 3:50Speaker 2: it is because I know that no one.
- 3:51Speaker 10: Else will follow.
- 3:52Speaker 2: It's a selection effect, and I think if you can,
- 3:55Speaker 2: if you can shift from this is hard to no
- 3:58Speaker 2: one else will be able to do this, then it
- 4:01Speaker 2: flips from being this thing that you're like, oh poor me,
- 4:03Speaker 2: to oh poor everyone else who's gonna have to fucking try.
- 4:06Speaker 2: And I think that is so much more motivating as
- 4:08Speaker 2: a frame for the exact same circumstance he was tired.
- 4:11Speaker 1: Do you have personal problem?
- 4:12Speaker 11: Family?
- 4:13Speaker 4: Nobody?
- 4:14Speaker 7: Kids.
- 4:15Speaker 12: We have to like reframe our thinking about these statements.
- 4:19Speaker 12: It's not just hard work and it's not your smart work.
- 4:22Speaker 12: It's both. And if you lack both, you're gonna be
- 4:25Speaker 12: paid very little. And if you have both, you're eventually
- 4:29Speaker 12: going to be able to write your own check in life,
- 4:31Speaker 12: from where you want to go this drive.
- 4:34Speaker 11: And passion, and it may come from nothing Like for me,
- 4:37Speaker 11: there was no passion, no drive, no nothing, But I
- 4:41Speaker 11: had this fire that I'm gonna be somebody and it
- 4:45Speaker 11: has to be there because on all those bad days
- 4:47Speaker 11: and all those days you don't want to do bit,
- 4:49Speaker 11: you have to be your own motivator, your own coach,
- 4:52Speaker 11: you own your own trainer, you own everything. So to
- 4:55Speaker 11: do that, you have to come into work and work
- 4:58Speaker 11: as whatever your work may be ready to go.
- 5:01Speaker 12: There's lots of people that work really hard, digging ditches
- 5:04Speaker 12: every day, and then are digging ditches when you're seventy
- 5:06Speaker 12: years old. There's lots of people who work really, really
- 5:09Speaker 12: hard for a long time and never making And that's
- 5:13Speaker 12: because working hard is just part of the puzzle. The
- 5:16Speaker 12: other part of the puzzle is how high your skill
- 5:20Speaker 12: set is, how developed your skill set is. And so
- 5:23Speaker 12: we have these people that say these things like work
- 5:26Speaker 12: smart not hard. All right, Well you're a fucking moron.
- 5:30Speaker 12: All right, I'm gonna tell you that right now. Because
- 5:32Speaker 12: it takes both. It takes hard work and it takes
- 5:36Speaker 12: smart work. So while you have to be putting in
- 5:40Speaker 12: the work and you have to be showing up, you
- 5:41Speaker 12: have to be giving it all you have. You have
- 5:43Speaker 12: to consistently be aware and conscious of the intentional skill
- 5:48Speaker 12: set that you are building along the way.
- 5:53Speaker 8: Can you'd be committed to the process of what you're
- 5:55Speaker 8: doing without being emotionally attached to the results of what
- 5:58Speaker 8: you're doing. In other words, if you don't get what
- 6:01Speaker 8: you thought you was gonna get, where you still be
- 6:03Speaker 8: the same individual, If the situation don't turn out the
- 6:07Speaker 8: way you thought it would turn out, where you still
- 6:09Speaker 8: be the same individual. Where quote says it, you judge
- 6:11Speaker 8: the character of a man, not by where he's staying
- 6:14Speaker 8: in times of company and convenient You judge the character
- 6:16Speaker 8: of a man by where he's staying in times of
- 6:18Speaker 8: challenge and controversy, Like I don't care what a cat
- 6:21Speaker 8: do when everything goes right, I don't because everybody goes
- 6:25Speaker 8: to smile. Everybody gonna celebrate when you win a game.
- 6:29Speaker 8: Everybody gonna be in your corner and talking about how great.
- 6:32Speaker 13: You are, whether you like it or not, till the
- 6:34Speaker 13: time you wake up to the time you go to death.
- 6:37Speaker 13: A lot of us are award ourselves it was in
- 6:40Speaker 13: that war, Yet several battles, those battles are basically choice. No,
- 6:45Speaker 13: I'm not talking about a war that you might find
- 6:48Speaker 13: the coliseum.
- 6:49Speaker 5: I'm talking about a ward that's in your brain. The
- 6:52Speaker 5: ward exists, be otherdent some things not seen, even though
- 6:56Speaker 5: you can't see if it's thirty eight, even if you
- 6:58Speaker 5: can't see if it's see even if you can't see
- 7:01Speaker 5: it ninety day, even if it seems like you're gonna
- 7:03Speaker 5: go through this for the rest of your life. I
- 7:04Speaker 5: need you to have pain. I told you it's believing
- 7:07Speaker 5: in the dark. But you were told in the light.
- 7:09Speaker 12: And if you were told you.
- 7:11Speaker 9: Was gonna get that degree, just keep working.
- 7:12Speaker 5: If you were tall, you were gonna get that promotion.
- 7:14Speaker 5: Just keep working. If you were tall, you was gonna
- 7:16Speaker 5: win that championship. Just keep working. Nobody said it would
- 7:20Speaker 5: be easy. Again, if it was easy, everybody need to
- 7:23Speaker 5: do it.
- 7:23Speaker 7: So I need you to work on your faith. I
- 7:25Speaker 7: need you to work on your faith.
- 7:26Speaker 5: I need you to wake up every day and say today, eight, today,
- 7:29Speaker 5: but my day coming.
- 7:30Speaker 1: And I will not give up.
- 7:32Speaker 5: And I will not give in until I get to
- 7:34Speaker 5: that day. I will not stop, I will not give up.
- 7:37Speaker 5: I will not give in until my cake comes. You
- 7:41Speaker 5: will go to CALLI.
- 7:42Speaker 8: You'll live.
- 7:42Speaker 5: You will live in that house. You will get a pool,
- 7:45Speaker 5: you will learn how to swim. You will be in
- 7:47Speaker 5: the sun in the winter time. You will live your
- 7:49Speaker 5: best life. And you ought to be ashamed of yourself.
- 7:51Speaker 5: I say stuff that has happened on your watch.
- 7:56Speaker 7: Some of it might sound trucked up. First thing is
- 8:00Speaker 7: you gotta be selfish as hell. You gotta be selfish.
- 8:05Speaker 7: I don't give a fuck. It's it's the sacrifice. But
- 8:09Speaker 7: without great sacrifice and without great risk, there is no
- 8:12Speaker 7: such thing as a great reward. Can't have one that
- 8:18Speaker 7: doesn't There's no that math will never math. You know
- 8:22Speaker 7: what I'm saying you have to.
- 8:24Speaker 11: Have and what that means is you may have failed
- 8:28Speaker 11: miserably yesterday, but you come to work like people like, man,
- 8:33Speaker 11: you just lost everything, How the hell are you just
- 8:36Speaker 11: fucking damn motivated? Because this is what it takes, and
- 8:40Speaker 11: you gotta get it from wherever you can, whether you
- 8:43Speaker 11: make up this illusion of your life or this false
- 8:46Speaker 11: reality that gets you motivated, whatever gets you motivated, it's
- 8:51Speaker 11: got to be here at the tip of your brain
- 8:54Speaker 11: at all times because in those dark moments, you gotta
- 8:57Speaker 11: you gotta pull it out. So that's the big thing
- 8:59Speaker 11: for me. I was always fired up at all times.
- 9:04Speaker 12: So we end up listening to our family and our
- 9:07Speaker 12: and our immediate circle, our media network of people about
- 9:11Speaker 12: what it actually takes. And what usually comes out of
- 9:14Speaker 12: those conversations from the old people is, oh, man, you know,
- 9:18Speaker 12: you can work as hard as you want, but the
- 9:20Speaker 12: system is still going to be the system, and you're
- 9:21Speaker 12: not going to get ahead. They don't care about you.
- 9:23Speaker 12: Blah blah blah, blah blah blah blah. And the reality
- 9:26Speaker 12: is is those people will probably gave it their all
- 9:28Speaker 12: for a little bit five, ten years maybe, but they
- 9:31Speaker 12: didn't work on developing their skill set. They weren't intentional
- 9:34Speaker 12: about becoming better. They believe that if they just show
- 9:37Speaker 12: up and they give it their effort, that eventually things
- 9:40Speaker 12: will materialize. And when those things don't materialize, they get
- 9:43Speaker 12: bitter and they get pissed off, and they start blaming
- 9:45Speaker 12: other people. They blame their job, they blame their situation,
- 9:49Speaker 12: they blame capitalism. They make up all these excuses as
- 9:52Speaker 12: to why they're not getting where they want to get,
- 9:54Speaker 12: when in reality, they're just missing part of the equation.
- 9:56Speaker 12: And the reason that they don't know about the part
- 9:58Speaker 12: of the equation about gain skill as you put in
- 10:01Speaker 12: the hard work, is because nobody around them ever did that.
- 10:05Speaker 5: There is no excuse but not living up to your
- 10:07Speaker 5: fullest potential, no excuse.
- 10:09Speaker 10: For those of you that have experienced some hardships. Don't
- 10:13Speaker 10: give up on your dream. No one could have convinced
- 10:17Speaker 10: me by holding on, by continuing to push forward, by
- 10:22Speaker 10: continuing to run toward my dream.
- 10:25Speaker 5: I hope. I do not believe in you more than
- 10:27Speaker 5: you believe in yourself. Now listen to me, guys. The
- 10:30Speaker 5: transition is going to be hard. I'm not gonna lie
- 10:32Speaker 5: to you. Go from being on the block going to
- 10:34Speaker 5: be a high school dropout to get in the GED
- 10:37Speaker 5: is not The transition is not easy. So what happens
- 10:40Speaker 5: in order for you to go from one level to.
- 10:42Speaker 10: The next level.
- 10:43Speaker 5: In order for any man to transit, listen to me.
- 10:46Speaker 5: In order for any woman to transition, for any man
- 10:49Speaker 5: to transition, the thing that they want must be greater
- 10:52Speaker 5: than the thing they curly had listen to me very closely.
- 10:56Speaker 5: I didn't come in here to tell you're gonna finish school.
- 10:58Speaker 5: I came to ask you what's next. I came to
- 11:00Speaker 5: ask you what's next for me? It's the Nobel Prize.
- 11:06Speaker 8: Everybody wants to prize, but nobody loves the process. Everybody
- 11:09Speaker 8: wants to be a champion, but nobody's wanting to put
- 11:11Speaker 8: in the work that it takes to be a champion.
- 11:13Speaker 8: Everybody wants to hold up the trophy and say, man,
- 11:16Speaker 8: I did it, but nobody's wanting to put in the
- 11:17Speaker 8: work that it takes to do it.
- 11:19Speaker 1: I love the process.
- 11:21Speaker 8: I love the thought of working for what I want,
- 11:24Speaker 8: And I've learnly believe you never supposed to wish for
- 11:27Speaker 8: it more than you're willing to work for it. Your
- 11:30Speaker 8: expectations never supposed to exceed your effort. But a lot
- 11:34Speaker 8: of people they wish and they're not willing to work.
- 11:38Speaker 8: And the great thing about life, life has a funny
- 11:41Speaker 8: way of testing all of us and seeing how bad
- 11:44Speaker 8: we really want what it.
- 11:45Speaker 5: Is that we say we want.
- 11:46Speaker 8: People burn out and quipped because life makes them.
- 11:48Speaker 1: Forget why they do it.
- 11:49Speaker 8: The greatest trick that life plays on us all is
- 11:52Speaker 8: when we aspire to do something. When we say we're
- 11:55Speaker 8: gonna do something, gold streams aspirations, when we attack things,
- 11:58Speaker 8: when we want to do things drop.
- 12:00Speaker 14: The greatest trick.
- 12:01Speaker 8: That life plays on us once we put it out
- 12:03Speaker 8: in the atmosphere, life gets us with a level of adversity, uncertainty,
- 12:07Speaker 8: COVID pandemic and step back and say, let me see
- 12:09Speaker 8: if you remember your mother.
- 12:10Speaker 15: And now only thing.
- 12:11Speaker 8: I'll ask you to do is if you got to
- 12:13Speaker 8: step back, regroup, wipe your eyes, wipe your face, take
- 12:16Speaker 8: it off, say.
- 12:16Speaker 1: A prayer, step back.
- 12:18Speaker 8: I'll never forget why I do what I do.
- 12:24Speaker 2: Hard work is the goal, and so it's not like
- 12:28Speaker 2: work hard sew that X, because as soon as you
- 12:31Speaker 2: have a sew that, then the X is the thing.
- 12:34Speaker 2: But if the goal is to work as hard as
- 12:37Speaker 2: you possibly can. Then the only real output we have
- 12:41Speaker 2: is who we become along the way. And so in
- 12:43Speaker 2: reframing that, then it's something that I can win or
- 12:47Speaker 2: measure myself against every day in real time throughout the day,
- 12:51Speaker 2: which is how hard am I working? Because that is
- 12:54Speaker 2: the goal.
- 12:55Speaker 11: And then something in you has to wake up. And
- 12:59Speaker 11: usually the only person that canna make it up issue.
- 13:02Speaker 11: Sometimes you can read a David Gagin's book because I
- 13:04Speaker 11: was all this shit and then a lot more fucked up.
- 13:08Speaker 11: But if you don't have a little flame, you know
- 13:11Speaker 11: just that just barely you're done, I can't I can't
- 13:16Speaker 11: light it for you. And that's the harsh reality of
- 13:20Speaker 11: this life that I want to get across so fucking bad.
- 13:23Speaker 11: You can watch me, you can watch you. You can
- 13:25Speaker 11: watch fucking Rogan and Cameron Haynes, all these motherfuckers. You
- 13:28Speaker 11: can go to Tony Robbinson's fucking bullshit, dog shit, you
- 13:32Speaker 11: do all that shit.
- 13:33Speaker 10: I want you to know that you're blessed and highly favored,
- 13:37Speaker 10: and that as you go to the future, begin to
- 13:41Speaker 10: know that you have greatness within you, and if just
- 13:44Speaker 10: one of you here begin to envision yourselves as being
- 13:49Speaker 10: blessed and highly favored to reach your goals, if just
- 13:54Speaker 10: one of you capture the essence of what that means,
- 13:57Speaker 10: that you have greatness within you and responsibility manifest that greatness,
- 14:02Speaker 10: that you can make your parents proud, you can make
- 14:04Speaker 10: your school proud, You can touch millions of people's lives,
- 14:08Speaker 10: and the world will never be the same again because
- 14:11Speaker 10: you came this way.
- 14:13Speaker 12: Bro, this is not that hard. It's just hard to do.
- 14:16Speaker 12: There is no secret, there is no quick fix, there
- 14:20Speaker 12: is no hat, there is no path of least resistance.
- 14:23Speaker 12: The quickest way for you to go from where the
- 14:26Speaker 12: fuck you are to where you want to be is
- 14:29Speaker 12: that shit you're trying to avoid doing. And not only
- 14:32Speaker 12: is it the fastest way, it's the only way in
- 14:35Speaker 12: most cases to get where you're trying to go. I
- 14:37Speaker 12: must work hard, I must have failures so I develop skills,
- 14:41Speaker 12: and I must not quit so I can continue to
- 14:44Speaker 12: push forward as other people fall off the game.
- 14:47Speaker 11: My message needs to be in a way where I
- 14:50Speaker 11: can hit all twenty five people. It needs to be
- 14:52Speaker 11: broad enough to where all twenty five people may not
- 14:56Speaker 11: like the message, but they're getting something from it, and
- 14:59Speaker 11: that is evoluent. You must continue to evolve, and you
- 15:02Speaker 11: don't evolve for me in my job unless I cap
- 15:06Speaker 11: myself somewhere and say, Okay, you made this much money,
- 15:09Speaker 11: get back to fucking work.
- 15:11Speaker 5: Your dreams are phenomenal. The life that you have for
- 15:16Speaker 5: yourself is phenomenal. In your dreams, your bank account is phenomenal.
- 15:22Speaker 5: The things that you do, the way that you live,
- 15:25Speaker 5: what you have is phenomenal. But you as an individual,
- 15:29Speaker 5: your average. You as an individual, you're good. You as
- 15:34Speaker 5: an individual, you're breave. And what I'm challenging you to
- 15:37Speaker 5: do is to go from average to good, from good
- 15:40Speaker 5: to great, and from great to phenomenal.
- 15:42Speaker 7: Most of us, when.
- 15:43Speaker 5: It's time to do what beasts do, we don't do it.
- 15:49Speaker 7: Every moment of your life, you're answering three questions. Shot
- 15:53Speaker 7: them down three questions.
- 15:56Speaker 9: First question is what are you gonna focus on.
- 16:01Speaker 10: The breakthrough?
- 16:02Speaker 5: I'm gonna break these boys why because where they come from,
- 16:05Speaker 5: they couldn't get.
- 16:06Speaker 1: Up at drin'clock in the morning.
- 16:07Speaker 5: They wanted to. They smarter than me.
- 16:09Speaker 7: They come from privilege.
- 16:11Speaker 5: They got the language, they got the cold, they got
- 16:13Speaker 5: the rule, they grew up in it. But they will
- 16:16Speaker 5: not get.
- 16:16Speaker 7: Up earlier than me.
- 16:17Speaker 5: They will not put out more content to me. Be
- 16:20Speaker 5: smoke one two three, be smoth one two three, be
- 16:23Speaker 5: slow one two three, be slow. I'll be small my
- 16:26Speaker 5: way to number one. I be small my way to
- 16:29Speaker 5: number one. I looked at their weaknesses and I said, boom,
- 16:32Speaker 5: they will not outwork mere. I'll go quicker, I'll go harder,
- 16:36Speaker 5: I'll go longer, I'll go faster.
- 16:39Speaker 4: I'd rather you hate me and get better than like me.
- 16:44Speaker 4: If they're the same. A lot of us are fullish it.
- 16:47Speaker 8: I was one of those.
- 16:48Speaker 4: People back in the day, and sometimes I'm still fullishit.
- 16:52Speaker 8: We think they were working their ass off, working hard.
- 16:54Speaker 1: You know, we were.
- 16:55Speaker 4: Working out hard in the gym for a month, but
- 16:58Speaker 4: we haven't seen any results, so we get off fucking
- 17:01Speaker 4: down that poop me.
- 17:02Speaker 10: Past the jit.
- 17:03Speaker 4: You study for thirty minutes for a fucking test and
- 17:06Speaker 4: you can't.
- 17:06Speaker 5: Do as well as a thought, what the fuck did
- 17:09Speaker 5: you expect?
- 17:10Speaker 1: You're not putting in the work.
- 17:11Speaker 5: You have to do more.
- 17:13Speaker 4: You cant stop telling yourself that you're doing enough.
- 17:19Speaker 2: I used to define power by the distance between thoughts
- 17:22Speaker 2: and reality, meaning if you think about somebody who's omnipotent.
- 17:28Speaker 2: So if God or the God figure would be omnipotent
- 17:30Speaker 2: as he thinks things are, so there's zero space between
- 17:34Speaker 2: thoughts and reality. And so if we want to be
- 17:36Speaker 2: more godlike in our lives, the distance that we can
- 17:40Speaker 2: shrink between wanting to do something or thinking something should
- 17:43Speaker 2: be done and it being done is a direct indication
- 17:47Speaker 2: of our personal power in our lives. And so that
- 17:50Speaker 2: has helped me basically think, don't be a powerless bitch,
- 17:56Speaker 2: like just shrink the shrink the gap. And I think
- 17:59Speaker 2: that's why a lot of my my little like personal
- 18:01Speaker 2: hacks of waking up and then trying to shrink the
- 18:04Speaker 2: time between when I wake up and when I start working,
- 18:06Speaker 2: and shrinking the time between one task and the next task,
- 18:09Speaker 2: Like you don't need to take thirty minutes of getting
- 18:11Speaker 2: ready to start working, Like you can just start working,
- 18:13Speaker 2: because as soon as you get into it, you start
- 18:15Speaker 2: pulling the thread and you're like, oh, here it is.
- 18:17Speaker 9: You're like, oh wow, I did all that work, and
- 18:19Speaker 9: he's taken all the credit forward. They don't even know
- 18:20Speaker 9: that I made this happen, or he doesn't even know
- 18:22Speaker 9: that I made this happen. They know they know So
- 18:26Speaker 9: as long as you can keep you're a ego and checking,
- 18:29Speaker 9: you can let them have the credit.
- 18:31Speaker 5: Eventually they get promoted.
- 18:33Speaker 9: The team's doing well, you'll look good, you'll get promoted.
- 18:36Speaker 6: Your life is easy, You're gaining experience, You've.
- 18:40Speaker 9: Got a good reputation, like everything is going in your direction.
- 18:42Speaker 9: And eventually someone says, wait a second, you don't even
- 18:44Speaker 9: know how to do this. That was echo Charles, I
- 18:46Speaker 9: was doing this well?
- 18:48Speaker 8: My environment getting me?
- 18:50Speaker 1: Or will I make it?
- 18:50Speaker 8: I know him dripping, I know him ambitious, I know
- 18:53Speaker 8: him passionate. I know I want to make it happen.
- 18:55Speaker 8: I know him respectful. I know I never touched drugs
- 18:57Speaker 8: and I never will because I feed the collateral damage.
- 19:00Speaker 8: But with my environment, the thing that I'm coming in
- 19:02Speaker 8: contact with every single day, will that snipe me and
- 19:04Speaker 8: not my ambition and not my commitment and not my dedication?
- 19:08Speaker 8: And will you let me make it past this so
- 19:10Speaker 8: I can show others that it could be done.
- 19:13Speaker 10: Don't stop, don't stop, don't stop running toward your dream.
- 19:22Speaker 10: It's very important as you hold onto that dream. Now.
- 19:26Speaker 10: Moments when you're going to doubt yourself, they are rough
- 19:29Speaker 10: times have going to come. But they have not come
- 19:31Speaker 10: to stay. They have come to pants. It's very important
- 19:35Speaker 10: for you to know that. Don't say I'm having a
- 19:37Speaker 10: bad day, say I'm having a character building day. It's
- 19:41Speaker 10: very important for you to believe that you are the
- 19:45Speaker 10: one to make this happen.
- 19:47Speaker 5: Okay, because I'm capable, I can't. Because I'm capable, I
- 19:55Speaker 5: can do it. Yeah, I want you to think about that. Really,
- 19:57Speaker 5: you can do it, like literally, you have the he
- 20:00Speaker 5: said to do it.
- 20:00Speaker 1: I can't.
- 20:02Speaker 5: Because I can, I will because I'm strong now, I
- 20:08Speaker 5: can get through any obstacle on my way to my journey.
- 20:11Speaker 5: Say journey because it's not a destination. This is a
- 20:14Speaker 5: journey I must because they count on me.
- 20:20Speaker 7: And I don't like this word, but I'm gonna say
- 20:23Speaker 7: it because it's true. You have to be a little
- 20:25Speaker 7: maniacal with this shit maniac right. That word isn't good
- 20:30Speaker 7: in a lot of situations. But when you're pursuing your destiny,
- 20:36Speaker 7: when you identify with your destiny, you have to be selfish.
- 20:40Speaker 7: You have to be moniacal, you have to be uncompromising.
- 20:46Speaker 10: At one day, I would have my own talk show.
- 20:51Speaker 10: It's a long shot. Ladies and gentlemen from Liberty City
- 20:54Speaker 10: and abandoned building on a floor, never knowing my mother
- 20:57Speaker 10: or father. It's a long shot. I'm being here with
- 21:00Speaker 10: you today in this dome in Atlanta.
- 21:03Speaker 1: It's a long shot.
- 21:05Speaker 10: No college training labeled edgugable, mental retard it. But I
- 21:08Speaker 10: kept running to what my tree.
- 21:11Speaker 1: Because when you do hard things, you then are fortified
- 21:15Speaker 1: and reinforced for the inevitable hardship that life is. Because
- 21:18Speaker 1: all of life is hardship with brief moments of bliss,
- 21:21Speaker 1: my friend, And if you have created a zone of
- 21:24Speaker 1: comfort in a world of hardship, you become unstoppable. You
- 21:29Speaker 1: become the fucking virus against the virus. I was like, hey,
- 21:33Speaker 1: we are not going to wait for some PPP program
- 21:36Speaker 1: for some SBA loan. We are going to start attacking
- 21:39Speaker 1: this virus. We're no longer going to be reactive. We're
- 21:43Speaker 1: going to attack. We're going to attack. So myself, my
- 21:47Speaker 1: leadership team, and my entire team here at the building,
- 21:49Speaker 1: we decided that we are going to be the pandemic
- 21:51Speaker 1: against the pandemic. And it is then when we started
- 21:55Speaker 1: to turn the ship. It is then when we started
- 21:56Speaker 1: to add more locations. It is then and we started
- 21:58Speaker 1: to rebuild our brand and it is bigger, stronger, more
- 22:02Speaker 1: resilient today than ever before.
- 22:04Speaker 11: It's time to get back to work. Stop hearing yourself talk,
- 22:08Speaker 11: Get off the podcasts, don't be on social media too much,
- 22:11Speaker 11: cut out all the fucking noise. Get back to the
- 22:14Speaker 11: fucking mental lab, because that's where the knowledge came from.
- 22:17Speaker 8: Work on.
- 22:18Speaker 5: Your focus.
- 22:19Speaker 9: Perspective is everything.
- 22:21Speaker 7: Let me tell you something.
- 22:22Speaker 5: The problem with most of you is that you see
- 22:24Speaker 5: difficult at something negative for real, for real, and I
- 22:28Speaker 5: want you to I want you to see difficult differently.
- 22:31Speaker 1: Are you hearing me?
- 22:32Speaker 5: I need you to see difficult differently.
- 22:35Speaker 10: Now?
- 22:35Speaker 5: Now that weightlifting, when my man looking at those weights,
- 22:38Speaker 5: when he got that iron, that iron is heavy, but
- 22:41Speaker 5: he's not looking at that iron like, look how heavy
- 22:43Speaker 5: the iron is. And he knows what it's gonna do.
- 22:46Speaker 5: It's gonna tear his muscles to pieces. He gets it.
- 22:49Speaker 5: But what he understands is that if he tears them down,
- 22:53Speaker 5: they gonna rebuild themselves. And when they rebuild themselves, they're
- 22:56Speaker 5: that much stronger. Listen to me.
- 22:58Speaker 12: The more you go through, the more.
- 23:00Speaker 5: Difficult it is, the more challenging it is. Listen to me,
- 23:04Speaker 5: harder it is, are you hearing me? The more challenging
- 23:07Speaker 5: it is? All you doing, baby, is building my soul.
- 23:10Speaker 8: How can I work hard for something and my performance
- 23:14Speaker 8: is not based upon the outcome? How can I work
- 23:18Speaker 8: in my effort and my motivation and my driver It's
- 23:21Speaker 8: not based upon what the product will be, but more
- 23:23Speaker 8: so based upon me taking pride in what I do.
- 23:26Speaker 8: And so I came up with this thing called process
- 23:28Speaker 8: over product. Can I firmly believe the process saved my life?
- 23:32Speaker 8: And what I mean by the process, I'm talking about
- 23:34Speaker 8: the way I handle my business on a daily basis
- 23:37Speaker 8: and the way I go about every single aspect of
- 23:39Speaker 8: my life. I've lived by the thing called empty de bucket.
- 23:42Speaker 8: And when people hear it, they think it's a cute
- 23:44Speaker 8: sloping empty the bucket. But what they don't understand it's
- 23:47Speaker 8: an unspoken law empty the bucket. It's an unspoken law
- 23:50Speaker 8: of accountability and responsibility to me on this hurt of
- 23:53Speaker 8: my existence and everybody else's connected to me. I may
- 23:56Speaker 8: be crazy, but I don't know. I just believe that
- 23:59Speaker 8: I suppose to give everybody that's connected to.
- 24:02Speaker 1: Me the best version of me.
- 24:04Speaker 10: Pain is temporary.
- 24:07Speaker 5: It may last for a minute, or an hour, or
- 24:11Speaker 5: a day or even a year, but eventually it will
- 24:16Speaker 5: subside and something else will take its place. If I quit, however,
- 24:23Speaker 5: it will last forever.
- 24:25Speaker 16: You got to be hungry. People that are hungry are
- 24:29Speaker 16: willing to do with things today others won't do in
- 24:33Speaker 16: order to have to think tomorrow, others won't have. People
- 24:37Speaker 16: that are hungry believe always strive to get on top
- 24:40Speaker 16: of life because it's the bottom that took about it.
- 24:44Speaker 16: I didn't do what I'm doing right now because it
- 24:47Speaker 16: was hard.
- 24:49Speaker 15: If you do what is easy, your life will be hard.
- 24:54Speaker 10: Blame boring at your circumstances, give up your power, Blame
- 24:59Speaker 10: the government, blame the economy.
- 25:02Speaker 15: If you do what is easy, your life will be hard.
- 25:07Speaker 15: But if you do what is hard, your life will
- 25:11Speaker 15: be easy.
- 25:13Speaker 5: Is that if you're willing to go beast mode, you
- 25:15Speaker 5: can have whatever you want.
- 25:17Speaker 9: I'm a living example.
- 25:18Speaker 5: You could stop for nothing, start for nothing. You want
- 25:21Speaker 5: a story, Mom was a teenage mom. Start with nothing.
- 25:26Speaker 3: I always do. The answer to everything is raw action.
- 25:29Speaker 3: The answer to everything has always been raw action. My
- 25:32Speaker 3: dad had a tweet about this. He said that raw
- 25:34Speaker 3: action solves all, and he used to say this. I
- 25:37Speaker 3: give you an example. If you're a farmer and you
- 25:39Speaker 3: need rain for your crop and there's no rain. You
- 25:43Speaker 3: can sit there and say there's no rain, we're all
- 25:45Speaker 3: gonna starve, or you can stand up and do a
- 25:47Speaker 3: rain dance. Now will your rain dance work? Perhaps not,
- 25:51Speaker 3: Perhaps the rain won't come. But I would argue that
- 25:53Speaker 3: you're better off standing up doing that rain dance than
- 25:56Speaker 3: just sitting there waiting to die. You have to do something.
- 26:00Speaker 3: Raw action solves. So when I was broke, I was
- 26:02Speaker 3: never like, ah, I'm poor, I'm poor. What do I do?
- 26:05Speaker 3: It was I'm poor? What must I have to do something?
- 26:09Speaker 3: I'll just If I was broke, I'd go for a run,
- 26:11Speaker 3: that's all. It's such a great fighter. If I was broke,
- 26:13Speaker 3: I'd sit there and go, I'm actually poor.
- 26:15Speaker 1: I don't any money.
- 26:16Speaker 7: Done it?
- 26:17Speaker 5: Start with nothing, high school drop out, start with nothing,
- 26:20Speaker 5: homely twelve years to get a four year degree from
- 26:23Speaker 5: the university, Start with nothing.
- 26:25Speaker 1: If you are willing to ry.
- 26:28Speaker 14: So I want you to make up in your mind
- 26:29Speaker 14: right now. Whatever it is, whether you're playing a sport,
- 26:32Speaker 14: whether you have a business, whether it's a relationship that
- 26:33Speaker 14: you know is meant for your life. I want you
- 26:36Speaker 14: to make up in your mind right now that quintin
- 26:37Speaker 14: is not an option. It can't be an option, because
- 26:41Speaker 14: if you want.
- 26:41Speaker 1: To create something great, you want to meet your.
- 26:44Speaker 14: Potential, if you want to make your relationship the best
- 26:47Speaker 14: it's it's ever been, that it's supposed to be, if
- 26:50Speaker 14: you want to reach that dream and live the lifestyle
- 26:52Speaker 14: of whatever, or reach whatever it may be.
- 26:54Speaker 5: Right, Okay, don't quit.
- 26:57Speaker 10: Just keep moving, don't start feeling sorry for yourself. Don't
- 26:59Speaker 10: spend time blaming and talking about what happened to you.
- 27:02Speaker 10: Whatever you're talking about, that's what you multiply and expand
- 27:05Speaker 10: in your life experience. But I'll talk about stuff of
- 27:07Speaker 10: life you want to keep on happening to you, all right.
- 27:09Speaker 6: The easy path it calls to us to be weak,
- 27:13Speaker 6: for that moment, to break down, for that moment, to
- 27:17Speaker 6: give in to the desire and the short term gratification.
- 27:22Speaker 6: But the discipline will not allow that. The discipline calls
- 27:27Speaker 6: for strength and fortitude and will. It won't accept weakness,
- 27:33Speaker 6: It won't.
- 27:33Speaker 1: Tolerate another breakdown.
- 27:37Speaker 6: The discipline can seem like it's your worst enemy, but
- 27:42Speaker 6: the reality is discipline is your best friend. It will
- 27:45Speaker 6: take care of you like nothing else can.
- 27:48Speaker 12: It's gonna be hard either way. Being broke his hardest,
- 27:51Speaker 12: he is successful the hardest. All you get to do
- 27:53Speaker 12: is choose which hard you're gonna can be. And you
- 27:56Speaker 12: don't get to opt out of it being hard. That's
- 27:58Speaker 12: the thing where people got You've been thinking opt.
- 28:01Speaker 1: Out of life being hard.
- 28:02Speaker 12: No, life is going to be hard, but you get
- 28:04Speaker 12: to choose the result that it's going to produce because
- 28:06Speaker 12: of it.
- 28:06Speaker 5: But we're out there. Who wants it you have? Who
- 28:10Speaker 5: wants the position you are?
- 28:12Speaker 10: Who wants the.
- 28:12Speaker 8: Job you have?
- 28:13Speaker 10: Who wants the wife that.
- 28:15Speaker 8: You have or the husband?
- 28:16Speaker 5: And someone not too hungry?
- 28:21Speaker 2: If you lack confidence, build evidence. The fewer people you
- 28:25Speaker 2: try to impress, the more impressive you become, And you
- 28:28Speaker 2: can learn anything you want as long as you're willing
- 28:30Speaker 2: to look dumb in front of other people for an
- 28:32Speaker 2: extended period of time. Find people who are more ambitious
- 28:35Speaker 2: than you, and then stop letting them be more ambitious
- 28:38Speaker 2: than you. And then, no matter how behind you start,
- 28:40Speaker 2: it's hard to be the man who never stops learning.
- 28:44Speaker 11: We want to find out how to be someone else.
- 28:48Speaker 11: What we don't do is we don't go inside, so
- 28:51Speaker 11: literally turn yourself inside out.
- 28:53Speaker 5: Read the book.
- 28:54Speaker 11: That's like we're writing a book every day of our lives,
- 28:57Speaker 11: but we never read that book. So what I would
- 28:59Speaker 11: chant almos this young man or young woman to do
- 29:02Speaker 11: is you have to look inside of yourself to see
- 29:04Speaker 11: what you really want.
- 29:05Speaker 5: What are you passionate about.
- 29:07Speaker 11: We use these words and these little phrases of only
- 29:09Speaker 11: the strong survive and also the crap. They're all just
- 29:13Speaker 11: fucking words. I get so tired of hearing people just talking,
- 29:16Speaker 11: Like right now, someone may think God is just talking.
- 29:20Speaker 14: You don't know me.
- 29:21Speaker 11: So when I speak, I speak from passion, I speak
- 29:24Speaker 11: from experience.
- 29:25Speaker 13: I speak from suffering.
- 29:26Speaker 2: The best days of my life were ones when I
- 29:28Speaker 2: had nothing left in the tank. And so then the
- 29:30Speaker 2: goal becomes to empty the tank. Not what where I drive,
- 29:34Speaker 2: but just to drive the car as hard as I
- 29:37Speaker 2: possibly can. And that means that in the beginning, it's
- 29:40Speaker 2: just straightaways and just seeing how high I can rev
- 29:42Speaker 2: the engine. But as they become more advanced, it's like,
- 29:44Speaker 2: all right, well now we've got turns, and then it's
- 29:46Speaker 2: turns in elevation, and then it's turns in elevation without
- 29:48Speaker 2: guardrails because we have risk, and so when I think
- 29:51Speaker 2: about how hard I want to work, The interesting thing
- 29:54Speaker 2: about that is that the only person who can judge
- 29:56Speaker 2: you on your success is you, because you're the only
- 29:58Speaker 2: one who knows how much left and the tank you
- 30:00Speaker 2: really had, and the better you get, and you can
- 30:03Speaker 2: resonate with this, you start winning exteriorly. And that's when
- 30:07Speaker 2: people are like it felt so empty. It's because they
- 30:09Speaker 2: didn't actually work as hard as they could have. They
- 30:11Speaker 2: just worked hard enough to beat everyone else. But that
- 30:15Speaker 2: discrepancy between how hard you could have worked to work
- 30:18Speaker 2: your hardest versus what was required in order to win,
- 30:21Speaker 2: to me, that's the opportunity that shifting towards the work
- 30:25Speaker 2: being the goal unlocks for you.
- 30:28Speaker 13: Ah, you think Doc loses your ally, You merely adopted
- 30:34Speaker 13: the dock.
- 30:35Speaker 3: I was born in it, molded by it.
- 30:39Speaker 6: I didn't see the night until I was already a man.
- 30:43Speaker 1: Then it was nothing to me.
- 30:44Speaker 12: But brighten.
- 30:48Speaker 5: The shadows, say you, because they aren't belonged to me.
- 30:53Speaker 5: And many of you are taking anything because you don't
- 30:56Speaker 5: know what you want. And so if I can do
- 30:57Speaker 5: one thing for you when you lead us room, I
- 31:00Speaker 5: want nothing from you, but for you the leader's room
- 31:02Speaker 5: and know what you want? What do you want in
- 31:04Speaker 5: your marriage? What do you want with your son and
- 31:06Speaker 5: your daughter? What do you want in your health? What
- 31:09Speaker 5: do you want financially like? How much money do you
- 31:11Speaker 5: want to make a year? What do you want to drive?
- 31:14Speaker 5: How do you want to live? Stop just waking up
- 31:16Speaker 5: like an accident. What do you want? And then once
- 31:19Speaker 5: you find out what you want, spend the rest of
- 31:22Speaker 5: your natural life waking up and going after it.
- 31:25Speaker 10: I want you to be able to say something to
- 31:27Speaker 10: yourself that will enable you to maintain a level of
- 31:30Speaker 10: integrity with yourself that when you say this, even when
- 31:33Speaker 10: you face tremendous setbacks, and it will be a benchmark
- 31:37Speaker 10: to keep you in the game, to keep you moving
- 31:40Speaker 10: forward and experimenting and readjusting your strategy and your plan
- 31:44Speaker 10: of action, continuously looking for ways to win.
- 31:48Speaker 1: So, what is that something.
- 31:50Speaker 10: When you got an idea you want to move on.
- 31:51Speaker 10: You might not have the money, you might not have
- 31:53Speaker 10: the education, you might not have the support of the
- 31:56Speaker 10: resources you need. What is that something that can keep
- 32:01Speaker 10: us going that will enable us to act on our dream.
- 32:04Speaker 10: What's one of those keys that will began to help
- 32:08Speaker 10: us to discover the secrets to our dream.
- 32:11Speaker 5: And I need you to understand that the bigger your
- 32:13Speaker 5: dream is, the earlier you're gonna have to get up,
- 32:15Speaker 5: the longer you're gonna have to stay up. The bigger
- 32:17Speaker 5: your dream needs, the more efforts you're gonna have to
- 32:20Speaker 5: put in. And for those of you who raise your
- 32:22Speaker 5: hand and put them seventy percent your efforts needs gonna
- 32:26Speaker 5: get to the next lavel.
- 32:27Speaker 7: All right, So let's get started.
- 32:28Speaker 5: Let's get started.
- 32:29Speaker 7: Let's get started.
- 32:30Speaker 5: What is that one thing that you're saying that I
- 32:32Speaker 5: am going to get this thing done and I'm gonna
- 32:35Speaker 5: make my dreams become in reality.