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62. Transurfing and Excess Potential · The Kathie Owen Perspective Podcast

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  You're listening to the stop, the mind screw podcast.
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  I'm your host, Kathie Owen certified fitness trainer and life coach since 2002, teaching others the stop, the mind screw process on this channel, we talk about fitness, growth mindset,habits, and even some reality Transurfing it's Tuesday so we are talking Transurfing on Tuesday.
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  Today we are discussing balanced forces and excess potential.
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  Quote of the day, the destructive pendulum sways even higher when you are suffering emotionally.
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  Finally, when you hate something, you create excess potential.
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  Balanced forces are then directed against you because it is easier for them to eliminate one opponent than to change a world that does not suit one individual who would've thought there could be so many harmful aspects to a negative attitude in life.
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  Vadim Zeland Reality Transurfing When I was in high school, I had a wonderful Sunday school teacher.
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  His name was Mr.
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  Fry.
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  He was actually a green beret in the Marine Corps and fought in the Korean war.
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  The green Berets include elite members of one of the highest ranked military services.
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  Mr.
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  Fry, exuded confidence and everyone respected him.
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  Especially as high school students, he was an excellent teacher of life in general.
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  And one thing he taught us that I will never forget is not to ever under any circumstances, say the word hate.
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  If he caught us using that word, he would call us out to this day.
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  I remember this lesson and when I catch myself using the word, I stopped dead in my tracks and reframe this word.
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  I do this in my self talk to, I think Mr.
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  Fry was on something here because Vadim says, when you hate something, you create excess potential.
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  Having a negative attitude can be harmful, especially when you create excess potential and balanced forces can and will come into play.
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  Think of the seven deadly sins, also known as the capital vices or Cardinal sins, which are a grouping vices or sins within Christian teaching.
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  Behaviors or habits are classified under this category.
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  If they directly give rise to a negative attitude towards life and they can be harmful.
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  The seven deadly sins are pride, greed, wrath, envy, lust, gluttony, and laziness.
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  each of these sins can wreak havoc on your life and bring in the destructive pendulum.
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  Notice how each of these is listed in the levels of force, in the levels of consciousness by Dr.
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  David Hawkins and his book power versus force.
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  Yeah, they're all in force.
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  I did an episode on this and you can find the link in the post that is linked with today's episode and it'll be in the show notes.
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  Destructive pendulums.
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  A pendulum is a thought structure that everyone thinks and only wants to hook your energy.
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  There are constructive and destructive.
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  Pendulums negativity is a destructive pendulum.
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  In most cases, how does one handle a destructive pendulum?
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  Well, first we must become aware of the exact pendulum that are causing problems in our lives.
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  Also known as taking our energy.
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  You know, I created a guide on pendulums.
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  Not all pendulums are bad and knowing which ones are destructive is key to understanding how to interact with them.
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  You can download that guide at www.kathieowen.com/reality-transurfing so one big sign that you are caught in a destructive pendulum is becoming aware.
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  Of what you hate, where you are caught in the trap of one of those seven deadly sins.
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  Have you ever found yourself saying, but I don't want to, I hate it.
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  Or why does this always happen to me?
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  It is difficult to accept the fact that even though you do not want something to happen, there is nothing you can do about it.
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  And if you hate something, it will follow you around wherever you go.
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  You can Harbor a hate for poverty, your work, your physical flaws, your neighbors, alcoholics drug addicts, dogs.
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  Who would hate dogs?
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  I don't know, thieves, criminals, the government escalating prices, and the list goes on and on and on.
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  The more, you love to hate something.
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  The more likely you are to experience it in your life.
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  The reason for this is clear when something gets to you, you think about it, which means you radiate the energy at that frequency of a lifeline where that thing exists in abundance.
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  It does not matter which polarity you embody, liking or not liking.
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  The second is of greater benefit to the pendulum because emotions associated with not liking are more powerful than emotions associated with liking.
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  Remember that insult that stuck with you for too long, the bad news you can't quite shake off or the mistake that you fixate on.
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  As it turns out, we are evolutionary wired to give greater weight to negative experiences.
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  Instead of positive ones.
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  We automatically respond faster and stronger to the bad, easily dismissing the good.
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  Neuropsychologists call this the brain's negativity bias, and you can blame our ancestors for such a negative nature.
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  Here's why.
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  From an evolutionary standpoint, our survival depended on this negativity bias.
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  It was a way for our ancestors to be cautious of all environmental dangers around us being constantly so alert to threats and worst case scenarios is what helped our ancestors survive.
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  It is automatic.
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  But there is a way to change the brain's negativity bias.
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  It is a matter of training our brains for positivity to actively become more attuned to positive emotions, such as joy, interest, creativity, and love.
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  Science claims that for a positive experience to get into our long-term memory, we should hold it in our field of attention for at least 10 to 20 seconds.
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  If not, it disappears.
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  Abraham Hicks was onto something when they mentioned the 17 second rule, the 17 second rule states that when you focus on a thought for 17 seconds, you activate the vibration of the thought.
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  A quick note here.
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  Abraham Hicks is the name of a nonphysical entity that is channeled by Esther Hicks and Esther describes them as a group of nonphysical entities who present themselves as Abraham and who speaks through a process known as channeling.
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  Remember the brain sees what it expects to see.
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  What it becomes primed for.
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  Here's an example.
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  Think about buying a new car and you are looking at a white range Rover, and suddenly you keep seeing those white range rovers everywhere.
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  Actively build up on the positive.
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  Look for the good and turn them into positive experiences.
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  Try to do this at least half a dozen times a day.
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  Each time for half a minute, the longer we hold our awareness of it, the more emotionally stimulating it is, the stronger the trace and the memory.
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  So the taste of good coffee, a lovely sunset or an unexpected compliment, try to turn it into a good experience, notice it and savor it, train your brain to do so.
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  So let's go back to Mr.
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  Fry.
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  He was onto something when he brought our attention to the use of the word hate.
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  I would add to that use of any of the seven deadly sins as Vadim states.
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  When you hate something, you create excess potential who would've thought there could be so many harmful aspects to a negative attitude towards life.
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  Let's change that.
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  So you can spend your energy elsewhere.
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  Or where you really want to and bonus content on stop the mind, screw and reality trans surfing, which includes a mental resource guide, a definite chief aim template, and even more.
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  I sure hope to see you there.
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  All right.
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  That's my episode for today.
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  I hope you liked it.
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  If you did, and you know, somebody who can benefit from this, please share it with them.
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  And until next time I'll see you next time Peace out and Namaste.