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James 4:11-12 - Secret Meetings and Gossip Sessions Have No Place in the Church · The Bible Explained with Jenn Kokal

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  Speaker 1: Life Audio. Well, hello and good morning, friends and faithful listeners.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much for tuning into the Bible Explain
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  Speaker 1: podcasts on this lovely, lovely morning. We are in the
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  Speaker 1: Book of James today, because, as you guys know, on
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  Speaker 1: Tuesdays and Thursdays I cover the New Testament, and Mondays
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  Speaker 1: and Wednesdays I cover the Old Testament. So today is
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  Speaker 1: our day in the Book of James. And guess what
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  Speaker 1: We're only going to be talking about two verses today
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  Speaker 1: in James. I was really wondering if I would have
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  Speaker 1: enough content in these two verses to talk about them
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  Speaker 1: the entire episode, and now that I've done my research,
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  Speaker 1: I definitely think that I'm only scratching the surface actually
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  Speaker 1: of some of the stuff we can talk about based
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  Speaker 1: upon these two little verses. So I'm excited to delve
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  Speaker 1: into this. But first, please listen to this quick message
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  Speaker 1: you had enough time to grab your delicious cup of
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  Speaker 1: coffee or your cup of tea if that's more your style,
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  Speaker 1: and also your Bible out of whatever version you prefer
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  Speaker 1: to read from. I'll be reading as usual from the web,
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  Speaker 1: and we'll be discussing James four eleven and twelve. Don't
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  Speaker 1: speak against one another, brothers. He who speaks against a
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  Speaker 1: brother and judges his brother speaks against the law and
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  Speaker 1: judges the law. But if you judge the law, you
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  Speaker 1: are not a doer of the law, but a judge.
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  Speaker 1: Only one is the lawgiver, who is able to save
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  Speaker 1: and to destroy. But who are you to judge another?
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  Speaker 1: You know what, I've never hated the chapter breakdowns in
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  Speaker 1: the Bible more than I hate them in the Book
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  Speaker 1: of James. I also don't like the verse numbers in
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  Speaker 1: the Book of James, because, you know, even though the
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  Speaker 1: chapter numbers are there for our benefit so that we
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  Speaker 1: can find the verse that we're looking for easily, in
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  Speaker 1: the Book of James, it's almost a detriment because this
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  Speaker 1: book is so cohesive. James is bringing up points that
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  Speaker 1: he made all the way back in chapter two. So
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  Speaker 1: I really don't like the chapter numbers for James specifically,
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  Speaker 1: I can understand their point, I know why they were
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  Speaker 1: put in there, But for James, it doesn't make any sense.
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  Speaker 1: Starting in verse eleven of James four, here's what it says,
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  Speaker 1: don't speak against one another brothers. He who speaks against
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  Speaker 1: a brother and judges his brother speaks against the law
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  Speaker 1: and judges the law. James is speaking to the believing Jews.
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  Speaker 1: He is speaking to Christians. He is not speaking to
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  Speaker 1: non Christians. So he's telling the Christians. Don't judge a
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  Speaker 1: fellow Christian. It is not for you to do that.
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  Speaker 1: Don't speak ill of a fellow Christian. And on the surface,
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  Speaker 1: you know, somebody could take this verse and not read
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  Speaker 1: the rest of scripture and say, oh, we can't say
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  Speaker 1: anything bad about any Christian whatsoever, no matter what they're doing.
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  Speaker 1: Only God can judge them. But that is one hundred
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  Speaker 1: percent on true, because if you jump up to James
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  Speaker 1: four verse four, here's what James says you adulterers and adulteresses.
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  Speaker 1: Kind of sounds like James is casting some judgments on
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  Speaker 1: the church right there. And then also if you move
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  Speaker 1: to One Corinthians, chapter five, one through three, here's what
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  Speaker 1: Paul says about judging. It is actually reported that there
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  Speaker 1: is sexual immorality among you, and such sexual immorality as
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  Speaker 1: is not even named among the gentiles, that one has
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  Speaker 1: his father's wife. You are arrogant and didn't mourn. Instead
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  Speaker 1: that he who had done this deed might be removed
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  Speaker 1: from among you, For I, most certainly, as being absent
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  Speaker 1: in body but present in spirit, have already, as though
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  Speaker 1: I were present, judged him who has done this thing.
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  Speaker 1: And then in the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus tells
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  Speaker 1: us that we are to discern. We are to discern
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  Speaker 1: between the person who is a false teacher and a
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  Speaker 1: true teacher. You aren't supposed to just take every single
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  Speaker 1: Christian at their word. You're also not supposed to let
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  Speaker 1: just any Christian do whatever they want to do and
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  Speaker 1: get away with anything that they want to get away with.
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  Speaker 1: And a lot of times unhealthy pastors and church leaders
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  Speaker 1: will take verses like this one from James chapter four
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  Speaker 1: and say, well, you can't judge us, you can't do this.
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  Speaker 1: It is not for you to judge. You are an
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  Speaker 1: accuser of the brethren, or you are sitting in bitterness.
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  Speaker 1: That's the kind of stuff they'll say if you notice
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  Speaker 1: any kind of glaring sin that they have in their life,
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  Speaker 1: or if you notice people leaving the church because they're
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  Speaker 1: getting hurt. Unfortunately, verses like this get twisted all the time.
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  Speaker 1: In fact, this just happened to me recently. Somebody commented
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  Speaker 1: on the YouTube video I did with my sister and
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  Speaker 1: brother in law where they talk about the extreme manipulation
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  Speaker 1: they experienced in the IFB church and some of the
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  Speaker 1: absolutely damaging and terrible things that the pastor did spiritually
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  Speaker 1: to them and to other people around them. And my
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  Speaker 1: brother in lawn's sister. We're exposing some of these things.
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  Speaker 1: But somebody commented recently saying this is wrong, this is
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  Speaker 1: a sin for you to speak against a brother this way,
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  Speaker 1: And yeah, I did comment on that comment, and I said,
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  Speaker 1: you don't know the definition of sin if you believe
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  Speaker 1: that it's wrong to call out other people's sin, because
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  Speaker 1: Scripture is very clear that you are supposed to do that.
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  Speaker 1: So clearly in James Chapter four, James is not speaking
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  Speaker 1: about calling out sin. He's talking about something else. Because
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  Speaker 1: if you go back to the Greek word for speak
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  Speaker 1: evil against somebody, it translates to kataitalia. Okay, And this
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  Speaker 1: is a definition from Barclay. William Barclay quote, Katatalia is
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  Speaker 1: the sin of those who meet in corners and gather
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  Speaker 1: in little groups and pass on confidential information which to
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  Speaker 1: destroy the good name of those who are not there
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  Speaker 1: to defend themselves. Man, I know so many people who
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  Speaker 1: have had that exact thing happen to them, where they
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  Speaker 1: hear about little gossipings happening behind their back, where maybe
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  Speaker 1: you know, they're starting to present questions to the pastor,
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  Speaker 1: and the pastor in order to silence those questions, brings
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  Speaker 1: his elders into a little elder's meeting without that person
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  Speaker 1: there to talk about some of these little problems that
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  Speaker 1: are being stirred up. And they're doing exactly this thing Catitalia,
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  Speaker 1: where they're gathering in little groups to pass on confidential
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  Speaker 1: information to destroy the good name of those who are
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  Speaker 1: not there to defend themselves. This happened to my sister
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  Speaker 1: and brother in law. This has happened to my husband
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  Speaker 1: and I. This happened to my mom and my dad.
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  Speaker 1: And these were four separate churches that happened to my
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  Speaker 1: mom and dad twice, four separate churches that my family
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  Speaker 1: has been a part of in the forty five years
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  Speaker 1: that my parents have been married. Churches do this all
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  Speaker 1: the time, and if it's happened to my family as
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  Speaker 1: often as it has, I know it has happened to
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  Speaker 1: you faithful listeners as well. I know that many of
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  Speaker 1: you have had that experience at your church as well,
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  Speaker 1: and I feel sorry about that. But just know that
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  Speaker 1: James is calling this a sin. He says in verse eleven,
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  Speaker 1: he who speaks against a brother and judges his brother
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  Speaker 1: speaks against the law and judges the law. So what
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  Speaker 1: is this law that James is speaking of. He's actually
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  Speaker 1: talking about the law mentioned in James two, a couple
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  Speaker 1: chapters ago. Verse eight. However, if you fulfill the Royal
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  Speaker 1: law according to the scripture, you shall love your neighbor
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  Speaker 1: as yourself. You do well, And then, jumping to verse
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  Speaker 1: twelve of James two, so speak and so do as
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  Speaker 1: men who are to be judged by the law of freedom.
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  Speaker 1: This is the law that James is talking about in
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  Speaker 1: James four. He's talking about about the law of love
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  Speaker 1: and freedom. The Royal law is what it's called, the
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  Speaker 1: law to rule every other law. In fact, Jesus himself
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  Speaker 1: said that the entire Old Testament law can be broken
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  Speaker 1: down to two things, loving God first, and then loving
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  Speaker 1: your neighbor as yourself. The entirety of the law hinges
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  Speaker 1: on those two things, love of God and love of others.
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  Speaker 1: So anybody who is speaking against their brother to manipulate
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  Speaker 1: a situation to try to destroy that person's reputation, even
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  Speaker 1: if it's not necessarily slander, but just telling information in
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  Speaker 1: such a way to misrepresent that person while the person
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  Speaker 1: is not in the room. These people are speaking against
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  Speaker 1: the law of love, and they are judging the law
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  Speaker 1: of love, is what James says. They are saying that
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  Speaker 1: law of love doesn't apply to us, that law of
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  Speaker 1: love is not necessary. They are judging it. But if
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  Speaker 1: you judge the law, he says, not a doer of
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  Speaker 1: the law, but just a judge. And we went into
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  Speaker 1: that in James two about the person who is not
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  Speaker 1: fulfilling the law of love. And also in James Chapter three,
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  Speaker 1: James was talking about the tongue and how the tongue
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  Speaker 1: verse five James three is a little member that boasts
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  Speaker 1: great things. See how a small fire can spread to
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  Speaker 1: a large forest. And the tongue is a fire. The
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  Speaker 1: world of iniquity among our members is the tongue, which
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  Speaker 1: defiles the whole body and sets on fire the course
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  Speaker 1: of nature, and is set on fire by Gehennah verse nine.
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  Speaker 1: With it we bless our God and Father, and with
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  Speaker 1: it we curse men who are made in the image
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  Speaker 1: of God. Out of the same mouth comes blessing and
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  Speaker 1: cursing my brothers. These things ought not to be so.
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  Speaker 1: So James has already addressed the law of love and
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  Speaker 1: what it takes to actually be following the law of love.
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  Speaker 1: And it starts by controlling your tongue. And if you
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  Speaker 1: don't control your tongue, what does it say right here?
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  Speaker 1: It defiles your whole body, and it is set on
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  Speaker 1: fire by Gehennah. That means that sometimes our speech is
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  Speaker 1: coming straight from the manipulation of Satan himself. In fact,
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  Speaker 1: throughout the entire Book of James, he keeps mentioning that
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  Speaker 1: that there is a spiritual kind of wisdom that the
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  Speaker 1: church should be walking in, and there's also a demonic
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  Speaker 1: kind of wisdom. And this demonic wisdom is obviously behind
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  Speaker 1: the scenes trying to destroy the church by encouraging people
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  Speaker 1: to gossip and slander and manipulate stories and destroy the
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  Speaker 1: reputation of others, not to mention encouraging partiality in the church,
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  Speaker 1: encouraging divisions, encouraging selfish ambition and bitter jealousy. The entire
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  Speaker 1: Book of James is a warning to the church, and
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  Speaker 1: the church is not listening. That's why James says in
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  Speaker 1: chapter four, verse seven, be subject therefore to God. Resist
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  Speaker 1: the devil and he will flee from you. Draw near
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  Speaker 1: to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse
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  Speaker 1: your hands, you sinners, Purify your hearts, you double minded,
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  Speaker 1: and verse ten says, humble yourselves in the sight of
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  Speaker 1: the Lord, and he will exalt you. God is offering
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  Speaker 1: the church grace, and the Church is consistently rejecting it.
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  Speaker 1: Because all of these things that we have talked about
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  Speaker 1: in the Book of James, I have personally experienced and
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  Speaker 1: continue to personally experience. And it is not just me.
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  Speaker 1: This is the tale as old as time, and you,
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  Speaker 1: faithful listeners, I am sure, have experienced these same things
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  Speaker 1: as well, if you've been going to a church for
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  Speaker 1: any length of time. So what are we supposed to
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  Speaker 1: do here? Are we supposed to just abandon church, stop going? No,
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  Speaker 1: because Hebrews ten twenty five says, let us not forsake
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  Speaker 1: the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some,
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  Speaker 1: but let us exhort one another, especially as you see
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  Speaker 1: the day approaching. We are not supposed to abandon the church.
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  Speaker 1: We are not supposed to abandon the gathering together of believers. Instead,
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  Speaker 1: what we're supposed to do is just follow these things
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  Speaker 1: personally and do our best to not be like the
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  Speaker 1: people James is warning about. We are supposed to be
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  Speaker 1: people who don't slander our brothers and sisters in Christ,
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  Speaker 1: who don't speak ill of them behind their back. And also,
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  Speaker 1: if you happen to be where somebody is telling you
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  Speaker 1: gossip be things about somebody, it is not wrong for
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  Speaker 1: you to say, hey, you know, I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: engage in gossip. Or another thing you could do is
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  Speaker 1: go to that person personally and ask them, hey, you
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  Speaker 1: know I heard this and I really need to know
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  Speaker 1: is this the truth? Are you okay? Do you need help?
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  Speaker 1: In any particular way? That is called exhorting somebody, That
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  Speaker 1: is called encouraging them and not engaging in gossip, but
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  Speaker 1: truly talking to people as human beings, as our fellow
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  Speaker 1: brothers and sisters in Christ. And guess what, it doesn't
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  Speaker 1: matter the source of where this gossip is coming from.
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  Speaker 1: It could be the pastor of your church coming up
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  Speaker 1: to you and being like, oh, I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: you heard that so and so has you know issues
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  Speaker 1: here and there or they're really going through something right now,
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  Speaker 1: and I just want to tell you that, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I love this person very much, but they're going down
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  Speaker 1: the wrong path. Even in that case, if there is
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  Speaker 1: some sort of gossip coming to you, Scripture tells us
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  Speaker 1: to discern every spirit. It doesn't say, oh, discern the
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  Speaker 1: spirits of everybody except the pastor No, it says to
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  Speaker 1: discern every spirit. So it's not wise or discerning to
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  Speaker 1: take the word even of your pastor if you don't
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  Speaker 1: understand or really know what the situation actually is. We
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  Speaker 1: are to treat each other as if we are brothers
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  Speaker 1: and sisters, and we don't want to do that to
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  Speaker 1: our physical brothers and sisters. You know, we love our siblings.
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  Speaker 1: If we have a good relationship with them, we want
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  Speaker 1: to talk with them and you know, be friends with
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  Speaker 1: them and get to the bottom of the story. We
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  Speaker 1: don't want to hear other people gossiping about them and
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  Speaker 1: saying nasty things. We don't want to hear these things
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  Speaker 1: because we love our brothers and sisters in Christ. And
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  Speaker 1: that's what it comes down to love. When we love
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  Speaker 1: our brothers and sisters in Christ, we're not going to
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  Speaker 1: be engaging in gossip about them. We won't be speaking
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  Speaker 1: ill of them, especially if we don't know the situation
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  Speaker 1: or the story. We won't be judging them without them
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  Speaker 1: presenting their side of the story. Instead, we will be
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  Speaker 1: following the law of love. And here's what James says
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  Speaker 1: in verse twelve. Only one is the lawgiver, who is
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  Speaker 1: able to save and to destroy. But who are you
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  Speaker 1: to judge another? Basically, God truly is the judge. And
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  Speaker 1: when we start judging our brothers and sisters in Christ
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  Speaker 1: in the way that James is talking about here unfairly,
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  Speaker 1: then we make ourselves out to be like God. And
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  Speaker 1: who are we to do that? That's what James says,
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  Speaker 1: Who are you to judge another? When there is only
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  Speaker 1: one law maker? When there is only one judge. All
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  Speaker 1: of this connects perfectly with Romans fourteen. Starting in verse one,
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  Speaker 1: it says, now accept the one who is weak in
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  Speaker 1: the faith, but not for disputes over opinions. One man
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  Speaker 1: has faith to eat all things, but he who is
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  Speaker 1: weak only eats vegetables. Don't let him who eats despise
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  Speaker 1: him who doesn't eat. Don't let him who doesn't eat
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  Speaker 1: judge him who eats. For God has accepted him. Who
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  Speaker 1: are you who judge another man's servant to his own lord?
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  Speaker 1: He stands or falls, yes, he will be made to stand,
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  Speaker 1: for God has power to make him stand and then
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  Speaker 1: jumping down. In the same chapter to verse ten, But you,
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  Speaker 1: why do you judge your brother? Or you again, why
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  Speaker 1: do you despise your brother? For we will all stand
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  Speaker 1: before the judgment. See to Christ. For as it is written,
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  Speaker 1: as I live, says the Lord to me, every knee
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  Speaker 1: will bow, every tongue will confess to God. So then
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  Speaker 1: each one of us will give an account of himself
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  Speaker 1: to God. Therefore, let's not judge one another anymore, but
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  Speaker 1: judge this rather, that no man put a stumbling block
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  Speaker 1: in his brother's way or an occasion for falling. That
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  Speaker 1: is like the perfect summary of what we just read
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  Speaker 1: in James four In Romans fourteen, Paul says there are
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  Speaker 1: certain Christians who do certain things that aren't necessarily a sin.
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  Speaker 1: Even though we don't do those things. We should not
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  Speaker 1: be judging those Christians because they choose to live a
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  Speaker 1: different life, because they choose to do things differently in
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  Speaker 1: their walk with Christ. For example, one Christian decides it
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  Speaker 1: is not right to eat meat on Fridays, I will
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  Speaker 1: eat fish, But another Christian thinks it is totally fine
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  Speaker 1: to eat meat any day of the week, and they
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  Speaker 1: are going to eat meat. That Christian should not be
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  Speaker 1: judging the Christian who doesn't eat meat on Fridays, and
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  Speaker 1: the Christian who doesn't eat meat on Fridays shouldn't be
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  Speaker 1: judging the other Christian who decides to eat meat every
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  Speaker 1: single day of the week, because they both have their
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  Speaker 1: own personal convictions. As long as there is no blaring sin,
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  Speaker 1: we don't ostracize other Christians because they don't do life
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  Speaker 1: exactly the same way that we do. Instead, here's what
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  Speaker 1: we are supposed to judge Verse thirteen of Romans fourteen. Therefore,
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  Speaker 1: let's not judge one another anymore, but judge this rather,
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  Speaker 1: that no man put a stumbling block in his brother's
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  Speaker 1: way or an occasion for falling. That is the key.
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  Speaker 1: That is what we are allowed to judge and what
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  Speaker 1: we should be judging. Just like in First Corinthians five,
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  Speaker 1: where Paul was judging the man who was a member
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  Speaker 1: of the church sleeping with his stepmother, in fact, in
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  Speaker 1: a relationship with his stepmother. Paul was judging that because
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  Speaker 1: that was a sin, that was an occasion for stumbling,
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  Speaker 1: that was an occasion for falling. That's the kind of
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  Speaker 1: stuff that we judge. That's the kind of stuff we
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  Speaker 1: are required to judge in scripture, not silly and unnecessary things,
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  Speaker 1: but true problems and even occasions for stumbling, something that
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  Speaker 1: might might not necessarily even be a sin, but could
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  Speaker 1: be an occasion for sin. So that is what James
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  Speaker 1: chapter four, eleven through twelve is talking about, the wrong
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  Speaker 1: kind of judging, the nitpicky, critical kind of judgment that
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  Speaker 1: the church is so incredibly guilty of. As usual, you
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  Speaker 1: guys know that I try to end the episodes, a
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  Speaker 1: lot of them with a call to action, and that
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  Speaker 1: is exactly what I'm going to do. Right after this
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  Speaker 1: this episode, I'd like to move back to James three
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  Speaker 1: and talk about the tongue. It says in verse five
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  Speaker 1: that the tongue is a little member that boasts great things.
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  Speaker 1: See how a small fire can spread to a large forest,
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  Speaker 1: and the tongue is a fire. The world of iniquity
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  Speaker 1: among our members is the tongue, which defiles the whole
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  Speaker 1: body and sets on fire the course of nature and
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  Speaker 1: is set on fire by Gehenna. Unfortunately, many of us,
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  Speaker 1: myself included, have a very hard time with the tongue.
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  Speaker 1: We like to gossip, we like to hear gossip. We
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  Speaker 1: like to hold secrets and think that you know, people
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  Speaker 1: are coming to us because you know, we're great secret keepers.
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  Speaker 1: But something that has been interesting for me is there
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  Speaker 1: are probably more proverbs about controlling the tongue than any
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  Speaker 1: other topic in the Book of Proverbs other than potentially money.
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  Speaker 1: There's a verse that I read recently that gossip is
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  Speaker 1: like a dainty little mor soul that sinks deep into
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  Speaker 1: your soul. That really connected with me, because have you
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  Speaker 1: ever had somebody come up and tell you something like
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  Speaker 1: really juicy and you're just like grabbing your popcorn and
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  Speaker 1: rubbing your hands together, and you're like, yeah, tell me more.
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  Speaker 1: I want to hear about this person. What did they do?
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  Speaker 1: Spill the tea? You know, you get really excited about
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  Speaker 1: this gossip that somebody is saying. It sinks deep into
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  Speaker 1: our souls and what ends up happening after that We're
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  Speaker 1: never really happy because the person we hear the story about,
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  Speaker 1: our minds are changed about them, even if the story
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  Speaker 1: isn't necessarily true, and that's typically what happens with gossip,
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  Speaker 1: and the person that's being gossiped about doesn't have any
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  Speaker 1: defense because they probably don't even know that the gossip
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  Speaker 1: is taking place. And ninety nine times out of one hundred,
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  Speaker 1: people don't go to the person being gossiped about. They
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  Speaker 1: just agree with whatever gossip that they heard and never
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  Speaker 1: mention it ever. Again, it's a dainty morsel that sunk
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  Speaker 1: deep into their soul instead of going to the person
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  Speaker 1: and talking it through with them. So that is my
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  Speaker 1: call to action for all of you. If you've heard
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  Speaker 1: gossip about somebody recently, even if you think it might
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  Speaker 1: be true, maybe go try to talk to that person
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  Speaker 1: and just see what's on their mind. Try to strike
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  Speaker 1: up a friendship with them, if that's possible, or take
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  Speaker 1: them out to coffee and just say like, hey, I
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  Speaker 1: heard you might be struggling recently, and I just want
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  Speaker 1: to offer a listening ear if you want to do that.
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  Speaker 1: If not, we can talk about something completely different. Or
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  Speaker 1: if something is really bothering you about what you heard,
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  Speaker 1: you can go to them and say, yeah, you know
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  Speaker 1: I heard this or that, and I do have questions
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  Speaker 1: about what I've heard, and I want to talk to
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  Speaker 1: you about it. It is so important to get both
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  Speaker 1: sides of the story. There's that old saying, there's your
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  Speaker 1: side of the story, there's my side of the story,
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  Speaker 1: and there's the truth. There's only one truth. There's no
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  Speaker 1: such thing as multiple truths. People don't have their truth.
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  Speaker 1: There is one truth, and it's important as Christians to
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  Speaker 1: find out what the truth actually is, especially if nasty
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  Speaker 1: things are being said about our fellow brothers and sisters
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  Speaker 1: in Christ. So that's my encouragement for you. Don't engage
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  Speaker 1: in gossip. But if you do hear gossip and you
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  Speaker 1: hear little murmurings about somebody, go and talk to that
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