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EP 4 - DO YOU WANT HIM TO CRY WHEN YOU WALK DOWN THE AISLE? · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables. You could only do two weeks.
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  Speaker 2: That's why I don't need more than that. I don't
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  Speaker 2: need to be greedy. Yeah, you're a grub, but you
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  Speaker 2: don't even change your bed.
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  Speaker 1: You could do a year. A year, I do a year.
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  Speaker 1: I could do it, genuine I could do it year.
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  Speaker 2: You are a disgusting human being.
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  Speaker 1: by myself. It's a Jake Craig. Okay, daddy, what are
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  Speaker 1: you doing? Mate? I'm hungry.
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  Speaker 1: Please, I'll talk about you all the time.
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  Speaker 2: I reckon. Honestly, I am basically a GYG calorie calculator
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  Speaker 2: at this point. Really yeah, I reckon. You could name
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  Speaker 2: any dish okay from their restaurant and I will have
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  Speaker 2: the calories in my head.
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  Speaker 1: Oh okay, let's do that. Why not? So you think
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  Speaker 1: any dish?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, name one?
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  Speaker 1: Go okay, chicken, nacho fries regular.
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  Speaker 2: Mate easy start, nine to seventy.
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  Speaker 1: Nine to seventy too bad, pretty good. Actually it's got
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  Speaker 1: a hearty meal.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Next, pulled pork inchilada easy again. Ten to fifty,
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  Speaker 2: like a thousand and fifty, I mean fifty, Oh a
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  Speaker 2: big too, they're massive crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, what else have we got? Let's go something mini
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  Speaker 1: and can get mini burritos. Go chicken again. It's my favorite.
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  Speaker 2: I know that one because it's great for cutting four
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  Speaker 2: forty brother.
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  Speaker 1: For forty yeah, under five hundred. What about protein? Do
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  Speaker 1: you know how much proteins cat?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: How much?
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  Speaker 2: Recording my calculations, my friend, twenty four grams of protein.
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  Speaker 2: That's actually not bad, quite good if you ask me
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  Speaker 2: after a session. Anyway, GYG, this, baddies, this is our
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  Speaker 2: our audition.
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  Speaker 1: Is there our audition? Like we've been trying to get
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  Speaker 1: GYG for I think two years?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, two years. Look at my shirt, batties, I want
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  Speaker 2: GYG to sponsored me.
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  Speaker 1: We actually went and got one time, we went through
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  Speaker 1: and like we got I think we got in contact
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  Speaker 1: with GYG.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, they're going to send us some free stuff.
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  Speaker 1: And it was like some free stuff, and I think
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  Speaker 1: we got to be part of like some sort of
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  Speaker 1: like just like a creator program. And we didn't do it, but.
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  Speaker 2: We every single work Christmas party, which is just me
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  Speaker 2: and Jake at the Relatable Studios, we have GYG.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we've had two Christmas parties. Now, yeah, we have
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  Speaker 1: two Christmas parties.
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  Speaker 2: But well, let's enjoy these mini meals and have a
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  Speaker 2: bit of an intermission and then we'll get in the episode.
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  Speaker 1: Eh, Okay. Before we actually did start recording this episode,
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  Speaker 1: I went and I picked up The Goodsman. Yeah, but
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  Speaker 1: before that, I went just like to a local shopping
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  Speaker 1: center to like pick up a couple of things. And
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  Speaker 1: the shopping center is from where we grew up. So
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  Speaker 1: I saw someone that I.
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  Speaker 2: Hate that a I hate going shopping and seeing something,
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  Speaker 2: you know, so.
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  Speaker 1: Some of them like acquainted with and but just like
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  Speaker 1: a very I don't know if this is even a
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  Speaker 1: man coded thing. I think this is a very just
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  Speaker 1: Australia coded thing. So I don't know this person well
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  Speaker 1: enough to actually remember their name, you know who they were? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: well clearly not, but yeah, good interaction or uh so
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  Speaker 1: I didn't talk to them, which was good, Well that's great, great.
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  Speaker 1: I'm I'm not complaining. I'm just saying, like I just
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  Speaker 1: think I just thought to myself as such, it was
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  Speaker 1: a bit of a funny interaction. So we're just crossing
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  Speaker 1: paths at the shopping centers. Know their name, no I
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  Speaker 1: don't remember the name. I know, but like not friends
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  Speaker 1: with them, just know them, but dies And then I'm
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  Speaker 1: kind of like, oh, like I always be like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: oh yeah, so I say we both say these exact
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  Speaker 1: same time, like oh, good day, how you going? And
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  Speaker 1: that's all either one of us said to each other.
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  Speaker 2: But that was enough, very male oriented.
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  Speaker 1: Thing or just Australia, because literally we're walking past and
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  Speaker 1: like he says good day. I didn't say good day,
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  Speaker 1: but so he said good day, how you going? And
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  Speaker 1: I just and I was like, oh, hey, you going?
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  Speaker 1: And we both said it at the exact same time
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  Speaker 1: and passed quick enough where neither one of us actually
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  Speaker 1: could have answered the question, and it just was enough,
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  Speaker 1: and we just kept going and it wasn't awkward nothing,
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  Speaker 1: Like all we said was how you going? As a hello,
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  Speaker 1: and no answer. Is that Australia coded or is that
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  Speaker 1: men coded?
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  Speaker 2: I think that's Australia coded. I'll tell you one thing
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  Speaker 2: that I don't reckon. You would miss it, but I
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  Speaker 2: definitely would miss it. Now that you have lived in
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  Speaker 2: Sydney for a year and you're moving to the Gold Coast,
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  Speaker 2: people don't talk to each other up there. Not really,
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  Speaker 2: I don't actually know.
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  Speaker 1: Everyone's quite friendly up there. My stepmom said that she
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  Speaker 1: noticed a lot of people are really friendly and she
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  Speaker 1: went and got her hair done once. And because it's
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  Speaker 1: very very common for people to relocate to the Gold Coast,
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  Speaker 1: like a lot of people grow up there, but it's
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  Speaker 1: just so common for people to relocate to the Gold
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  Speaker 1: Coast that everyone's in a similar boat of like not
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  Speaker 1: knowing anyone. So everyone's quite nice, and so she said,
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  Speaker 1: it does sort of give small town vibe.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, interesting, but Sydney the comparison. One thing I love
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  Speaker 2: about living in like a small town in quotes, or
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  Speaker 2: a beach town is you go to the beach, especially
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  Speaker 2: you're walking down the beach tracks and hey, how's it going, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: your day, how's the water? Yeah, how's the beach? You
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  Speaker 2: go to? Well, Sydney. I don't know about the goldie Sydney.
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  Speaker 2: You go there and it's just like, where's my fucking past.
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  Speaker 1: Sydney is very like if you're in the city.
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  Speaker 2: Selfish, very I don't know, it's just like.
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  Speaker 1: It's a people just like are busy for some reason.
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  Speaker 2: That's one thing that like, I don't know, maybe you
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  Speaker 2: call it, could call it a bit hippie lardy, dooty
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  Speaker 2: dooty dar but.
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  Speaker 1: It's just small town.
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  Speaker 2: I like feeling special, Like you go to a national
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  Speaker 2: park and you don't see anyone and you feel like
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  Speaker 2: a main character, like you're the only person in the
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  Speaker 2: world that exists. I love that. But you go to Sydney,
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  Speaker 2: like we go to Sydney for meetings and stuff, the
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  Speaker 2: high rise buildings, can't find a park, I'm stressed. There's
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  Speaker 2: a billion people doing billion different things, and I'm like, well, fuck,
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  Speaker 2: I just feel like I don't even matter here.
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  Speaker 1: I actually Sydney is an interesting one, I would say. Lately,
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  Speaker 1: I've been getting some so some different feelings about it.
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  Speaker 1: And what I mean is so when I first moved there,
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  Speaker 1: I actually really did I really liked it, and I
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  Speaker 1: don't dislike it now. But where I am I quite like,
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  Speaker 1: but I think that the sheer density of population in
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  Speaker 1: the last like two months has started to get to me.
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  Speaker 1: Just like I had a great run with getting a
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  Speaker 1: park spot out front of my house and then I
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  Speaker 1: just for for a little while there, I just wasn't
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  Speaker 1: having a good run, and I was like, ah, it's
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  Speaker 1: really like fucking like it is what it is. It's
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  Speaker 1: just so kind of annoying, and I'm like, how can
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  Speaker 1: I leave? And then someone takes my spot instantly, and
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  Speaker 1: I was like, there's just so many people, I guess,
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  Speaker 1: But just the sheer density of population, I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: it's just getting to me.
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  Speaker 2: There's two ways to look at it, because like I
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  Speaker 2: see that as I'm in the rat race, whereas some
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  Speaker 2: people see that as motivation. Yeah, like people I don't know, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: like Sounder fox me up a lot. What Sounder? Do
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  Speaker 2: you know what that is? Sound It's when you think
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  Speaker 2: about how everyone has their own lives and their own problems.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, Sounder fucked me up all the time.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Sunder fox me up all the time.
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  Speaker 1: That's what that's called. Yeah, I didn't know they had
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  Speaker 1: a name, dude, I get absolutely fucked up.
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  Speaker 2: By Sonda the same and like you think, like how big.
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  Speaker 1: The world is to I, I can't rap mate around?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and then like there's no possible way in the
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  Speaker 2: world that you could like go everywhere. That wigs me out.
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  Speaker 2: So it's so dumb.
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  Speaker 1: Sonder actually wigs me out to the point where it's
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  Speaker 1: like sometimes I'll start to think deeply and be like
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  Speaker 1: I actually can't even believe Oddie is his own sentient thing.
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  Speaker 1: I can't believe Beth actually just like sees our life
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  Speaker 1: and her own life away from her life, but just
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  Speaker 1: like our life from her perspective, Like everything since I
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  Speaker 1: was born has been from my perspective and my perspective
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  Speaker 1: only it's crazy same as you. And it's like the
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  Speaker 1: fact that like to make it go even like your
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  Speaker 1: dad's in Bali right now. Your dad's just in Bali
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  Speaker 1: right now. Yeah, it's just like living his own experience,
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  Speaker 1: seeing stuff through his eyes. Like my one thing, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if this is Sonder, And I don't really know,
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  Speaker 1: like like I have always thought how I'm sure it's provable,
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  Speaker 1: but I don't know how it's provable, Like how you
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  Speaker 1: I know that the black cameras and the white walls
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  Speaker 1: and the monitors and the lights that I'm looking at
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  Speaker 1: right now look the same to you. Because it's like
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  Speaker 1: I don't wig out that much, you know what I mean,
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  Speaker 1: Because it's like yellow on your shirt is yellow to you.
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  Speaker 1: But like, how do I know that our yellows are
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  Speaker 1: the same?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Is this a stupid thing?
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  Speaker 2: I think that more of conversations. So when it's like
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  Speaker 2: I think something is awkward or conversation is going slow,
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  Speaker 2: but you think it's great. Ah, And like especially at
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  Speaker 2: like dinners with a lot of friends and stuff, and
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  Speaker 2: there's like an awkward silence and I'm thinking this is
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  Speaker 2: so awkward, and then they're sitting there happy and shit,
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  Speaker 2: I'm like they think this is normal. That's so weird. Really, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that's what I get.
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  Speaker 1: I don't really get wrigged out by that.
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  Speaker 2: I get that, and it's crazy. But like going back
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  Speaker 2: to like big cities, and it's always been like I
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  Speaker 2: reckon in my roots just because of the way I
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  Speaker 2: was brought up. There's something about even with Sonda, its
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  Speaker 2: wigs me out there because I'm thinking, like it makes
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  Speaker 2: my problems feel so minuscure. Yeah, because everyone else has
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  Speaker 2: problems and I see it and I know it's there.
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  Speaker 2: But like in this case, I guess ignorance is bliss
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  Speaker 2: because when I'm in a space where I feel so special,
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  Speaker 2: I feel like my problems are special. Oh okay, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: like they mean something to me. Okay, Like when I'm
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  Speaker 2: going down, like especially like if I'm not driving or something,
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  Speaker 2: because I have to concentrate going on a train or
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  Speaker 2: a plane and I have time to think, I just
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  Speaker 2: wig out heaps, and I'm like wow, especially going into
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  Speaker 2: a new city and you're like there's so much fucking
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  Speaker 2: space and people in cars, and like, oh, when you're
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  Speaker 2: driving home at night, I get a lot of sounder really,
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  Speaker 2: because if I came home from a festival like twelve
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  Speaker 2: thirty one am the other day and there's cars on
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  Speaker 2: the road, like, what the fuck are you doing? It
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  Speaker 2: was Wednesday night? Yeah what you like, what the fuck
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  Speaker 2: are you doing? People always do there's a.
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  Speaker 1: Chance they're driving home from the same festival as you
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  Speaker 1: do the same or whatever, wigging me out that yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so fuck? What was? Actually? So sonder? Fucks me up.
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  Speaker 1: That's something that gets me. But also I think with
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  Speaker 1: where I live at the moment, it's I think I've
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  Speaker 1: been starting to get a bit of like underlying anxiety
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  Speaker 1: nearly can't relax.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I think that also because in the last few weeks,
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  Speaker 1: Best and I've been selling things spoken about that. For
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  Speaker 1: the last couple of weeks, I've been selling a lot of
• 11:00
  Speaker 1: our stuff that we don't need to bring to Queensland.
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  Speaker 1: And so it's like we listed up our dining room
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  Speaker 1: table and someone straight away took it for like the
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  Speaker 1: amount Beth put it up for, and she was like, well, shit,
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  Speaker 1: like I may as well let him take it. So
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  Speaker 1: I didn't realize how much I used our dining room table. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Like if you would have asked me before we sold it,
• 11:19
  Speaker 1: how often do you use your dining room table, I'd
• 11:20
  Speaker 1: be like, oh, we actually don't want to use it
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  Speaker 1: that often. But then the first meal I made, I
• 11:24
  Speaker 1: was like, am I going to see it? Because I
• 11:26
  Speaker 1: would always just sit down there and eat it and
• 11:27
  Speaker 1: then go back upstairs to my office.
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  Speaker 2: Didn't process it, and I didn't.
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  Speaker 1: I just was like, yea, let's give rid of the
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  Speaker 1: fucking thing.
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  Speaker 2: I guess also too, we like to be glass half
• 11:34
  Speaker 2: full on this podcast. I guess like reflection and Change
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  Speaker 2: is really good. Yeah, yeah, because like as humans, we
• 11:41
  Speaker 2: take everything for granted, Like you just took that table
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  Speaker 2: for granted.
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  Speaker 1: It's I took that table for granted hard because I
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  Speaker 1: don't know where to eat.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and comfortability too, Yeah, like being comfortable is so
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  Speaker 2: nice as a human, but sometimes you do just need
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  Speaker 2: to chuck yourself out of the comfort zone a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I would agree. But but yeah, if I think
• 12:01
  Speaker 1: if I was to end up back in Sydney at
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  Speaker 1: one point in my life, I really want to try
• 12:05
  Speaker 1: and be like suburbs, like to be fair in the suburbs,
• 12:09
  Speaker 1: but I just want to be like the Inner West
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  Speaker 1: is so densely popular.
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  Speaker 2: Your girlfriend, she's a city gallet. She I think is
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  Speaker 2: completely one fine. Yeah, would she would she go like
• 12:18
  Speaker 2: a little bit out whereas I was busy?
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  Speaker 1: Though, that's a great question. I think that she would. Okay, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, Like I actually don't even think I
• 12:27
  Speaker 1: would hate living in like a high rise building because
• 12:30
  Speaker 1: it's like you go, the way you get away from
• 12:32
  Speaker 1: it all is by going up. Really like, I don't
• 12:34
  Speaker 1: think I would dislike that, especially if everything's kind of
• 12:37
  Speaker 1: want to go out?
• 12:38
  Speaker 2: Do you not want that?
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  Speaker 1: Right now? It's not something that I would say, I'm like,
• 12:43
  Speaker 1: I like earning.
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  Speaker 2: For I love air. Yeah yeah, like fresh air, fresh air,
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  Speaker 2: and like just yeah not apartments.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah that's so fair.
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  Speaker 2: I feel also like, I don't know if it's something
• 12:53
  Speaker 2: of being tall or I'm a SIOK something about I
• 12:56
  Speaker 2: like having high ceilings.
• 12:57
  Speaker 1: You're so grup here, Yeah exactly.
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  Speaker 2: But like the first thing I'm if I go into
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  Speaker 2: an apartment or like an older house is like if
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  Speaker 2: I can touch the ceilings, I feel like I'm being
• 13:04
  Speaker 2: like restrained and classify. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't actually think that's a weird thing.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's probably pretty normal.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I've always wanted to as well, because
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  Speaker 2: my grandpa, my grandpa built his house, Dad built this house.
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  Speaker 2: I want to build my own house.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's pretty cool.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just like a thing you grew up with
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  Speaker 2: as a dream of mine.
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  Speaker 1: And then also just I think laying in bed and
• 13:22
  Speaker 1: being able to hear cars go past out because I
• 13:25
  Speaker 1: live on the main road is just very slowly been
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: getting to me. And I think the thought of knowing
• 13:32
  Speaker 1: that I'm moving to a quiet suburb on the Gold
• 13:36
  Speaker 1: Coast has been has made me really really, do you reckon.
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  Speaker 2: It's going to have an effect on you in a
• 13:41
  Speaker 2: sense of like, shit, I can't go back now.
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  Speaker 1: I like the piece that I'm a little I'm thinking about.
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking like what if I get there and I
• 13:47
  Speaker 1: absolutely love it and I never want to go back,
• 13:48
  Speaker 1: And what if Beth gets there and absolutely hates it,
• 13:50
  Speaker 1: wants to go back? True, And I'm like, let's just
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: cross so bache when we get there.
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  Speaker 2: There's also I guess that's actually making it a bigger
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  Speaker 2: problem for people as well, especially in like the cost
• 13:59
  Speaker 2: of crisis in Australia and the world being comfortable. You're
• 14:04
  Speaker 2: going to your parents' house, Yes, very nice house, slation.
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  Speaker 2: I haven't been there, but I know your parents pretty
• 14:08
  Speaker 2: nice house. Yeah, this is a very nice house too.
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  Speaker 2: And the next step though, like that's your next step.
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  Speaker 2: It's kind of like it feels like as an adult,
• 14:15
  Speaker 2: like if you get your own place or whatever, you're
• 14:17
  Speaker 2: kind of taking a little bit of a step back. Yeah,
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: you do in nicess and you have to do that,
• 14:21
  Speaker 2: and it's like why the fuck am I doing that?
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  Speaker 2: But you have to for affordability. In being young, it's
• 14:24
  Speaker 2: very just like well, I'm just fucking making my life harder.
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  Speaker 2: But that's the right step, and it doesn't really compute
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  Speaker 2: in your brain.
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  Speaker 1: It's interesting, isn't it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, And it's like because you're back in yourself.
• 14:33
  Speaker 2: But then you're also like, well, fuck, this isn't very nice.
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: No true, very true. Also, having lived in the place
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: I'm at, I would say, just the fucking the cleaning.
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: I think the cleaning.
• 14:47
  Speaker 2: I reckon something was wrong with your fin too.
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: I genuinely think something is wrong in my house. My
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: dad thinks that they because I've complained to him about
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: it at a bunch. I'm like this, fuck, I just can't.
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: See the design clean. So it's like so up because
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: it's like three stories and not like long. That's something
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: the dust just must fucking congregate somewhere.
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: It's interesting, yeah, three stories because we have like we
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: got really it's a great place, Like there's three of
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: us that live there. Won't be able to afford it
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: without the three of us. But it's so upstairs. If
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: you do a nice clean of upstairs, which is the
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: middle floor because the very top is the rooftop, if
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: you do a very nice clean of the middle floor,
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: like it actually does feel like it stays clean a bit. Yeah,
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: and you're kind of like, okay, cool spoken, kind of
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: escape too, something about downstairs, you've got to be it's right,
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: you gotta be right about the design, something about the design.
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: Adulting mate, that's what I like. I reckon a harsh
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: realized it is going to be too. A lot of
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: people don't realize, like how much fucking work it is
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: to maintain a house.
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: I know, so much work. That's why Actually that's a
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: reason why I don't want a big yard.
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: Like we make a joke that like our parents can't
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: sit still and they're always doing something. But because there's
• 15:51
  Speaker 2: always something to always something to do, especially with the
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: houses we're going to be affording, we're going to fucking
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: inherit a fucking problem. That's we're not gonna be able
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: to buy a beautiful house. Is where everything's just set up.
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: We don't have to get creative, start working hard doing
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: that shit, which I like to a certain extent. But
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: also then I understand the apartment fucking mentality of like,
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: well I just don't have to think about anything, but
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: then you have to deal with people with strata and
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: I don't like people.
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: No, that's a fair point. I think that the more
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: I've gotten, so the older I've gotten, the more I
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: want my house to be small.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I reckon it depends with like kids though, because
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: like you kind of plan for the future, but then
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: you're also like, I don't need it right now.
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: You just can't win. No, that's a very good point.
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: I genuinely want my house, like I want where I
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: live to be very just like small. But then again,
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: it's like what if you start having kids and then
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: you have no escape exactly, you have no escape from them.
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's also like round circle. You buy a
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: big house you have kids in that this is perfect.
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: Your kids get old and move out, and you're like,
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: I don't need all this space.
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what are we gonna do with this house? Man? Like, fuck,
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: I just sell it.
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: Make eight billion dollars in fucking twenty to fifty three.
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the first billion dollar hours will be sold in
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: the next few year. I'm telling you it's got to
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: slow down on the topic of money. Actually, I saw
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: this question on Instagram the other day, and it's you
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: get one hundred thousand dollars for every day you don't shower.
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: How many days do you not shower? And now keep
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: in mind your day to day life stays the exact same,
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: like you can't. Just like you only get the money
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: when you're done the amount of days, so by the
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: time you have a shower, that's when you get them.
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: This is actually a really hard question for me because
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: I shower so much and I need it to wake
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: up in the morning. Else I feel discussing. I need
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: it before I got a better Else I feel dirty. Yeah,
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: one hundred thousand dollars.
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: Hundred thousand dollars a day and you but you can't.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: It's for every day you don't shower.
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: Same, I get sweaty at the gym. We do you
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: have the sex too.
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: There's going to be a certain point in time very quickly.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: Cassie doesn't want to have sex with you anymore either.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: One hundred thousand. But then I'd be like, fucking it's
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: a hundred thousand dollars, babe. Yeah, I reckon.
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: I could do two weeks, that's all.
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, at one.
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: Point four mil, you could only do two weeks.
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: That's why I don't need more than mate. I don't
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: need to be greedy. Yeah, you're a grub, but you
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: don't even change your bed.
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: You could do a year. A year, I'd do a year.
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: I could do it with genuine I could do it year.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: You are a disgusting human being.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: A Why I could do a year?
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: Really? Yeah you should go one of those mister Beast challenges. A.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: Oh what do they do it?
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: Like crazy shit like that?
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: Oh, I could do something.
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: Not shower.
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: I'm going to contact with them. I'll do something. I'll
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: make us some money.
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: A year.
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: Really, I could do a year, no problem? Nah or no,
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: not no problem. It would suck, but I could do it.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: I could see you doing a year.
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: Eight Am I allowed to wash my hands after I
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: eat shortly?
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah? I can you get Oh yeah, I can even
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: wash your hands because like you'll get sick and ship.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: I could definitely do a year.
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: We went We went camping together. That's how the podcast
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: started up the East Coast of Australia for three months
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: Fraser Island. We're there for a week. Yeah, and we're
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: at the beach. Didn't shower for a week. I think
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: it was just like jumping and the salt water to
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: have a shower, and I felt discussing after.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: I definitely remember feeling pretty gross.
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: We went to a caravan park after and I was just.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: Like, oh, this is good. The first the first so
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: we also the first moment of the tour up the
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: east coast. So we stopped at a place called Crescent Head,
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: and that was actually I think like five days to
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: a week of no hot showers. Yeah, and we had
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: cold showers, so we did get clean. But I remember
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: we only drove like two hours further north and stopped
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: at this place that had hot showers and they were
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: timed five minute showers, and so I remember what we
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: would do is we were there. We got there late,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: so we were the only ones in the shower block,
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: and there was like maybe ten rows of showers, right,
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: so it was like ten showers, and we both like
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: started on the outside. First out, we turned one on
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: and it waited for it to get hot, right, and
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: then we go in. And then when when it was
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: nearly done, I'd run out turn another one on, and
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: then by the time the one I'd started with first
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: got cold, I'd go into the one that just got
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: hot and just keep up and pattern and had like
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: a thirty minutes shower.
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: And this is the guy who says you can do
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: a year without showers.
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: I could do a year without sharing for one hundred
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: thousand dollars a day.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: Even just having cold water showers like I recently had
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: it going camping with my girlfriend and like, it just
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: takes it out of you a little bit.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know how I feel about the cold
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: water therapy thing people used to do, used to people
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: still do it.
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: I'll like to be bigger ice bathing than that.
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: It's great, you feel refreshed, you feel I.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: Said this to I don't know how this came up
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: with Bethanar the other day, but she said something and
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: I go Also, she said something on the topic of
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: like saunas and ice baths, and I said, yeah, I
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: don't know how I feel about ice bats and she goes, yeah,
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: but you don't like hard things.
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: If there was one sentence to describe mister Jake Craig
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: over here, it would be I don't like hard things.
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: Hey, you know what live and die by that I'll.
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: Make that my personal I reckon, you've gotten softer a.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: I don't care I'm changing last like two years. I
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: don't care.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: You've got way softer used to love camping.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: Oh, I'll give me that. I have gotten so why
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: you don't do it anymore.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: Why it's hard work? It is?
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: It is hard. Give me a five. I hate it
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: when my feet get dirty. Now you're fucking diva. Two.
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: Ay, give me my five star resort.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: Everyone's daddy and Jake needs to touch grass? How about everyone?
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: Fuck off?
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: I'm living my high rise apartment.
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: You got, you'll live in your higher eyes building. Not
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: have showers, not have oxygen, no sound up there?
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Everyone common blow? How many days could you go without
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: a shower for a hundred thousand dollars a day in
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: two weeks? Is heaps? Yeah? But like, yeah, so after
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: two weeks, you're gonna have one point four mil. And
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: then after my three hundred and six five days, I'm
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: gonna have thirty six three hundred thirty six million. Yeah, yeah,
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: thirty six point five mil.
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And you're going to be.
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: Thinking he's stunk for a while there, but I got
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: used to it, and now he's got thirty six point
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: five million. I'm not giving you any But I'm not
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: giving you.
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: Any You know how, you're a bit of a diva
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: and you've gotten soft. You're also the type of person
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: who's like it will start to affect all your relationships
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: around you, but you'll be like.
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: I don't care.
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: It's like when we tried to do the no phone thing,
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: yeah and no, you just started to do it at
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: the start on your own terms, and we had business
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: to do and Jake was just unable to contact because
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: you had a fucking phone that he left at his
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: house while he did things. All genuinely, though.
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: I want to know how people did business back in
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: the day, because there's a reason why we're all stressed
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: and anxious. And for one, I think definitely the reason
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: it's gone up is because people can feel like they
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: can talk about it more. But two, it is one
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: hundred percent partly because of phones. Because no hate against
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: our manager, but like they have such instant access to
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: us with just a message, and it's like asking us
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: about ideas for sponsorships or this or that on numbers
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: for a podcast episode that's the network needs, or all
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: these things. Yeah, And I'm thinking, like we actually technically
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: work for ourselves and we could just say, like not
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: answering texts today, see you tomorrow or whatever, right, And
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: so it's like these things stress us se out because
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: we felt when need answer them straight away. Imagine working
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: for someone and like emails instant, like everything's instant.
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: The obligation. Yeah, but you're also really good at not
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: replying exactly and you get stressed a little bit. But like, well,
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: I have the mindset.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: That like, let me just rub off on you.
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you should also say thank you, because let
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: me rub one.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: Off, I still get done. They will just message us again.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: I make it easier for you.
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: But my mindset with it is I would prefer not
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: to have it on my conscience. And if I just reply,
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: I'm on my phone. Like it's not like I'm not
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: on my phone. I'm on it anyway, and I'm just
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: reply right now. Okay, that's so funny, So let's se okay,
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: And I feel like you have the opposite mindset.
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: He joined a care I can explain to you how
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: my mind works, so your mind works like this. We're
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: get a message from our manager and they're like, can
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: you answer this by end of day? Yeah? Right, And look,
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: if it's not answered by end of day, I'm sure
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: it's not the end of the world. But because you
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: saw that end of day thing, you're like, I better
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: answer it me. I could see that, and I could
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: be like, it's like a big of a deal. And
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: then the reason that I could actually not answer it
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: until the next day is because I genuinely forget. That's
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: why it didn't stress me out, because I actually forget.
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's not the way my brain works. And
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: but you don't forget it, clearly, don't forget about I
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: don't forget anything.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: The same with episodes, like scheduling episodes, if it episode
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: is ever late.
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: Guys because of me. Also, I can guarantee you a
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: Monday episode or a Thursday episode has never been late,
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: and only the book Club episodes that we aren't doing anymore.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: But the book Club episodes are the only ones that
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: were ever late because I forgot.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I'll tell you. What also wigs me out too,
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: is like why I feel like I was gonna say,
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: is this a morning episode? But also I feel like
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: it's relatable. I don't know if you moan why do
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: we normalize working eight hours a day?
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: Wow?
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, five days a week? Why is that the normal?
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: Why did someone not be like, look, we've got seven
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: days in a week.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: I'm going to ask, there's a thing here.
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: Go on, let's work about three to four and make
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: our world funded to working three to four hours a
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: day for five days a week, not fucking eight. Yeah, Okay,
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: Like why wouldn't we want to be happy? And everyone's like,
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: let's just but I assume someone got greedy started making
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: a fun ton of money by working more. Everything that
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: went up in prices. Everyone's like, I got to catch up.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So Henry Ford, yeah, is widely credited. So
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: Henry Ford is widely credited with popularizing the five day,
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: forty hour work week.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: Credited, credited to be fucking could.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: Cooled Yeah in nineteen twenty six by implementing it for
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: Ford Motor Company employees. Well, labor movements had long advocated
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: for shorter hours. Ford's move was driven by a desire
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: to increase productivity and ensure workers had enough leisure time
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: to consume goods. Yeah.
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: So yeah, that's what I want to do. I'm going
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: to be a Google boss.
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: A Google boss. Yeah.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: I don't know if they still do it, but like,
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: if we ever are in the position to hire someone,
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: I'm going to be like, dude, if you get the
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: work done, I don't care how long it takes you.
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: You can do whatever.
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna give you jobs and you do it and
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: then after that you can do whatever you want.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: See, I'm like, I actually am the same like I
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: would say, like to an employee, I don't want to
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: be the boss that's like, and I don't know unless
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: this person just is like that, but I don't ever
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: want to be the type of person that just expects
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: an employee to be just like so go get them
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: and just like want to build the company because they
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: just love working for us, Because I think that's such
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: an unrealistic thing, Like anyone that I've ever worked for,
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: the harder I work, the more they get. So it's like,
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: why am I going to work more for the same
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: amount just to make you more money? Like I don't
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: understand that. I don't know if that's a bad mindset
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: or not, But if we have a hier employee, I
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: just want to give them the stuff that they need
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: to do if they get it done. You can work
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: twenty hours a week or forty hours a week, but
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: if you want to do more, go for it. I'm
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: not going to stop you.
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree too. I've always had like the mindset
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: of like it annoyed me, especially like when you it
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: depends with certain roles. I guess you have to be there,
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: but I've never understood you finished a job and then
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: your employer says you got to stay here for the
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: extra forty five minutes on your shift, but you're like
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: I'm done, yeah, and they're like you just have to
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: sit there in your car, and you're like hectic. This
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: is the biggest ways of my life ever. And it
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: made me feel so stupid, so so valid.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: My dad one time actually had to so I my
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: very first like proper job was at Coals and I
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: was like trolley guy. And then also like on certain
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: shifts they had the team I was a part of
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: had to do like some cleaning of like the chicken
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: racks and shit or whatever. And I'd always get if
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: it was a week they I'd always getrosted on from
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: six till nine. Yeah, like three hour shift. And my
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: parents had picked me up, and one time I got out,
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: I didn't get out until nine thirty, and my dad
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: was like where were you when I was like, oh,
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: they said I had to finish this thing, and he goes, no,
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: They've rostered you on from six until nine, like you
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: leave at nine, And I was like, oh that makes
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: so much sense. Yeah, I was like, what if I'm
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: not done the job. He's like that's fine, and like
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: someone takes over after you. This is cold.
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, it's funny too, because also, I
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: don't know, you feel like a little bit of a
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: diva soft or whatever because of society's expectations. But I
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: remember when I was laboring and stuff, and I remember
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: I was I'm into my fitness. I've always been into
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: my fitness. And I used to go and have like,
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: go make just a little protein shake, have take three
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: minutes out of my day and shift. And someone's like,
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: don't let the boss see that, he'll get angry. Don't
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: let the bos see that he'll get angry. Yeah, that's crazy,
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, mate, this literally takes like three minutes
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: and I'll be back. Let me stole my protein shake.
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: And I was like, I don't give a fuck this
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: boss is and if he says something to me, I'm like,
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: I'm not coming back. Yeah, at least I was in
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: a position to do that, But I'm like, like, operating
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: your life like that, especially as a boss like I can.
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: I don't know, just something goes wrong with Like I
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: suppose they also do it because people take you for
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: a ride, because we'd have to be careful. With that mindset,
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: people would be like, oh, I don't even have to
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: do anything when I work for the boys. Yeah, and
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: then they have to have that structure. I guess it's
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: the same way with parenting. You can parent in any way,
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: and if you have a lackadaisical approach you get to
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: taken advantage of. So that's why parents are st strict,
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: and that's why bosses are strict. At this point, there's
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: just no winning.
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: Is there a right answer to anything? Is the question?
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: No? No, no.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: I also, for some reason hated when people gloat about
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: like just working twelve fifteen hours a day every single day,
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: and they're like, I work weekends, wouldn't.
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel like it's a masculine thing to think
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: that the more you work, the more of a man
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: you are.
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: Whoa, Yeah, it makes you feel like a man.
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's I guess I think where a lot
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: of men go wrong is a sense of masculine and
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: feminine energies aren't to deal with gender. They're to deal
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: with like the expectations in your head, and a lot
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: of men just think they have to try so fucking
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: hard to provide and be seen in society's expectations as
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: successful in a provider, but they in reality, they just
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: don't really know how to balance.
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: And whose fault is that? Men's Yeah, toxic mens for
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: starting it in the first place.
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they started it and then the problem and now
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: they're complaining about it or we we're combining about it now.
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: AnyWho? Off topic? Sharp left turn?
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: I like left turns.
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: I am my parents. So I have a mother and
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: a father obviously divorced. I have a stepmother and a stepfather.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: I like when you say you're a child of divorce,
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: I am a child of divorce.
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel like that's like not a cool title,
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: but like kind of makes it sound.
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: I feel like being a child of divorce is like
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: actually more common than not being a child of divorce,
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: So you're the odd one. No, it's a cool title
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: to have. It's like a child of divorce.
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: Anyway. I just wanted to say, Okay, my dad will
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: send funny text messages to me and my sister, but
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: he really sent me this funny thing and this is
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: just like so I think this is so me coded. Okay,
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: this is something I would do, he goes. So he
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: sends a couple of messages and then he just gives
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: me an update. So I'm moving soon. My dad's bringing
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: his trailer here from Queensland and I'm leaving it here
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: with me and I'm taking it back up to Queensland
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: it to move. He goes, Jakie, I took one of
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: the tires off the trailer to a mechanic today because
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: it has been going down all the time. And he
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: called me after ten minutes and said he just has
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: to screw the valve in a bit more. I think
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: he felt bad for me, and he didn't charge me.
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: Why didn't tell me that? He didn't have to tell
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: me that. I know, he just felt like, tell me
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: he's like my dad is actually okay, my dad. I'm
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: a lot like him. Yeah, pretty chure Lackaday's cal blah
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah. But also like he is so
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: slyly or like you wouldn't guess this about him, but
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: like when it comes to the family, he fucking loves
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: being the center of attention.
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: Really, it's the funniest thing. Main character and he's like
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: the most classic.
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: If he was to make us laugh right like, he
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: makes us say we're out and as a family gathering,
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: makes everyone laugh like that's the pinnacle of joy to him.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: And then for like three years he'll say the same
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: joke and then we'll all be like, it's getting old,
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: but us recognizing that it's getting old makes him really
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: happy because again, he's the center of attention.
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: My parents are. They're a different bree day. He's the
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: funniest we figure out about our parents.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: How do we get too?
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: Do you reckon?
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: Who do you reckon? Is the favorite child out of
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: your family?
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: So for my dad, it's my older sister Joanna. I
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: thought you'd be up there, but because I'm not. I'm
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: just because I'm easy to forget about.
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: Easy to forget about. I think I'm very easy figured
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: about it. Successful podcast. Yeah, yeah, Like they're proud of
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: me with your best friend. They're proud of me. They're
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: definitely proud of me. They've said that before.
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: But I'm just the easiest to forget about it. Ever
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: since I was young. I think I've been the easiest
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: forget about. Jaco. I don't know. I don't ask for much.
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fair.
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: They've given me a lot and like obviously super grateful
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: for it, but yeah, I feel like I just don't
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: really ask for too much. And then for my step mom,
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know if it's my younger brother Ethan or
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: my sister Hayley, but it's got to be one of them.
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: I got to be one of the fuse like full blood,
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: it's gotta be. Yeah, you're like a muggle to that.
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: I'm a dirty blood.
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: I'm dirty blood, not pure bread.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: And then for my mom in Canada, so my biological mom,
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: I think my older sister Juanna would say it's me,
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: but like it's not because if it was me, she
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: would have come and visit me by now. And I've
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: lived here for fifteen years, and so I think that.
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: With my I think it's my younger brother Cole. He
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: was my replacement if I still live there, Probably me though,
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: yeah you reckon one hundred percent.
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my god. Yeah.
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: And the sons, she's like she's a major Mum's in
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: their son's top of mom. But so then the reason
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: I would have been in Subje because this week I
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: got something funny from both my parents. My mum likes
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: to send me memes and she sent me this meme
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: actually from the Batche and Arthur podcast. It was a
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: video from the Batch of Arthur. I might show it
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: to you.
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: Quickly as forks.
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so she yeah, yeah, Like, she sends me this
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: thing and it's like a video. We can put it
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: up on screen if we can be bossed, and it's
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: I'll show the camera anyway. But it's like the background
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: is this purple carpet Mike material, and then there's four forks
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: there and my mom sends it to me, and I
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: watched the whole thing and realized that not everyone sees forks. Yeah,
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: but straight away like you, I saw the forks. So
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: I said to my mom, I saw the forks straight away. Haha.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: She goes, oh, really, well, you are left handed, so
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: that makes sense.
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: Is that like, is that a dig you?
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: I'm just like she just always.
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: Has an excuse for me to be able to do something.
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: Do you reckon left Being left handed was a choice
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: when you were a kid? No, I think it comes
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: naturally to some people. And then a long time ago,
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: back in the day, if someone was starting to write
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: left handed, they get like whipped and then they have
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: to write right handed. Really yeah, So you can be
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: taught to write right handed from young if you're right
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: in left hand, it's a great idea.
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I worked with a guy a carpet what.
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: Disagreed might start bringing a whip the work when you're
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: writing on the whiteboard.
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: I was like, so involved in my own story that
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: what you were saying, just say yes and just keep.
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: Going, start writing.
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: But I worked with a carpenter who was a left
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: handed carpenter, and he said that when he first got
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: his apprenticeship, his boss didn't realize he was left handed.
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: A couple of months and he realized he was. And
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: he goes, if I knew that a start wouldn't hired you,
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: like full serious with the hate with the left handers.
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's something about you guys.
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: And then but my mom sent me one more things.
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: She goes, next time your mom shows you a meme
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: that isn't funny. Remember how excited she was when you
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: showed her your Crown drawings as a kid.
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: And I was like, whoa, that's a fucking shot fired
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: at my Crown.
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: Drawings, saying your mom didn't give a single fuck.
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: Not clearly, clearly the effort I put in that is
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: so hard that's crazy something.
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: You just got to keep to yourself.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, keep that to yourself.
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: I'm looking forward to having kids in there bringing me
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: like this piece of shit un't work, and I'm like, dude,
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: they fucking see, Yeah that is heck that you could
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: be then expert cast over my friends.
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna full on fucking hype my kids.
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: And then a friend that stuff put it on the fridge.
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: You got it. You're gonna have a problem as a
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: father though you hate clutter. The kid's going to bring
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: home some drawings of the family, and then two days later,
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: your son's gonna be like, it was the photo made,
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: but isn't it on the fridge.
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: You're like, I don't know, son, Yeah, Santa took it.
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: I send it to Santa. How good of a drawer
• 36:38
  Speaker 3: you were, and he's gonna bring you extra. But no,
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: for real, are you going to actually keep like, hang up.
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: Your kids, I'll make you all of them.
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: I reckon, I can.
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: I have a box and put it in there and
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: file it away.
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: Biggest nightmares when my kids start bringing me home drawings.
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: Imagine when you're like your kids are twenty and you're
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: like sixty or seventy or whatever, and like you just
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: bring out this box and then you show them all
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: the drawings that they used to do. Okay, that's cool,
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: he's got time for My mum kept a diary, which
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: I reckon is a really nice little tip of like
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: random shit. I used to say, and like my brother
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: used to say, that's cool.
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: I like it because it's in a book.
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, whip it out and then she'll read it. And
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: then like rememberdie when you said like fucking cows are
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: going to fly in twenty thirty, this.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: Book, Yeah, please please please read it?
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: Can we get actually yeah, she wouldn't.
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: It's like nothing bad in there because you're a kid.
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: I was a kid. That's fucking it's me. It's me
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: and my brother. I think she's got it somewhere.
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: Let's get eating on the pod and read him out.
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: You remember this idiot, you idiot?
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: I think I think Aiden was a day dreamer, and
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: then I was a questioner. I questioned everything. I think.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, if I have a kid that asks
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: me a million questions, I'm gonna be like, shut up.
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: I don't think we're ready to be parents.
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: No, hell no, said no. I sometimes I feel paternal.
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: My biggest fear is actually when my kids start bringing
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: home drawings, what am I going to do with them?
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: He just keep them? Surely you're what Beth will like him?
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I could put him in a box.
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: Then where's the box going to go? And be cluttered somewhere? Mate?
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: I find with me like I can declutter in a
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: way where if everything's at least just in a pile,
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: it doesn't feel cluttery.
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: Funny story like Jake saying he's an't aal about cleaning
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: and stuff and whatever. Granted you're moving, but we went
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: to your house to say goodbye the other day.
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: And my house gives me anxiety.
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: And I went in his spare bathroom to take a piss,
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: and there was like three vacuum cleaners on the ground
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: and just random shit anywhere. So I know this guy's
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: mindset out of sight, out of mind.
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: So that's what it is.
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: So as long as where he hangs out is clean,
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: then it's good. And then you'll forget about that room
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: for like three days. You'll go in there and.
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: Be like, oh, when I when I'm older. Actually, if
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: I do have a say, maybe it's like a rumpus
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: room for my kids. That that room can be as
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: messy as they want it.
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: I don't care.
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, so as long as it doesn't like trail
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: out into the main living area, then by all means, yeah,
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: I give a shit.
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: Now I'm looking forward. I reckon, I'm getting a bit
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: more paternal as well. The other we're getting what are
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: we twenty you're twenty six and twenty five? Yeah, yeah,
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: I get old. I reckon. If you had to, we'll
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: finish on. If you had to have a kid and
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: you got to pick what d you were, what would
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: it be? Ideally no other considerations in the world.
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: That's funny. I mean I always fucking land on like
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: twenty nine thirty. That's why I don't know why.
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: Thirty.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know if that's the new norm. I
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: don't want to Obviously, it's hard to put a number
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: on it. I've kind of like spoken to Beath about it,
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: and she's like, I don't want to put a number
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: on it's because she doesn't want to like either be
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: disappointed or anything like that. And I think that's pretty fair.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: But I always lean towards thirty because I think like
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: that's when I'll be ready, but I think that we're
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: never going to feel fully.
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: I don't think we'll ever feel ready. Hey and well,
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: one of our friends is having a kid soon, and
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: like seeing that has made me more excited too.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, that's a very good point.
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: So exciting and seeing the glow of both people in
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: their own ways, the pregnant person and the partner. They
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: both blow in different ways, talking different ways. It's really
• 40:01
  Speaker 2: cool to see because like for us, I've never been
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: exposed to that, especially saying a close friend like that,
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: and it's kind of like, oh I really felt before.
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: I think for me, I'm also I'm just so for
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: some reason, I have this just really like I don't
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: like to do hard things, so I don't think having
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: a kid is going to be hard. Well, sorry, it
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: will be very hard, but that's like a hard thing
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: that I want to do. I'm glad I don't actually
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: have to have the kid, but once it's born, obviously
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: it will be a hard thing. But for me, it's
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: like I'm not taking my kid on a plane until
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: it knows not to cry, if that makes sense.
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: So once I have a child, it's also I feel
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: like that's like a naive mindset.
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: I'm not taking my kid on a plane.
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: What happens if, like, I don't know, I'm having some
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: Christmas party and I invite you and you've just had
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: a kid and you really want to come.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: Is it in Australia, But if it's overseas, I'm actually
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: if I have a newborn kid, I'm not coming, Like
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: I can't. I don't want to free my kid on
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: a plane. I like some people do it and they
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: have to do it, but I don't know. I've just
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: never thought like and it's not it's partially for the
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: people around me, but mainly for the kid. Just seems
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: crying the whole time. Clearly it's uncomfortable on the plane.
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, it's also Yeah, it's a tough one though,
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: because you just like, I don't know, you need to
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: break sometimes. What if you want to go on holiday,
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: He's not gone.
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: Just stay in Australia.
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: Get the It's like, I feel like this episode could
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: be like called You're never right.
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: But I always feel right.
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: But you do always feel right.
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: You always feel right.
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: I guess what life is about is feeling right to yourself.
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: Quite okay, last question, I know you said yeah, did
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: last question, But I got last question.
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: You just let that have the final say, don't I do?
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah? I really like to be in control such so
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: man coated of me. Anyway, Are you gonna let kids
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: be at your wedding?
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: Depends who I don't know, like yours. Yeah, but if
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: like it's just I don't know. To be fair, I'm
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: probably only inviting people who I like, so they kids, Yeah,
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: depends how old. But like if the kid can't process that,
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: it's my wedding, Like there's no point of him being there. Yeah,
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: and if I don't have a kid, sounds dumb, but.
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: Like I've kind of for some reason. I don't know
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: if my mind will change on this, but I've always
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: thought I want to have a kid. This wedding are
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: going to be good.
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: But what if, like I don't know, what if you
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: have a kid, do you let it come?
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: I ain't have an old bastard kidding, IM don't care
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: if I have a kid, then get married. It's a
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: good question because I feel like I feel like I
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: would want my kid at my wedding. That's a great question.
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: But I can friends, like close friends, You'll probably considered family,
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: but mainly family. If they had kids, I'd say yes,
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: but anyone else I'd probably say no.
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good point. Also, like can we talk
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: about quickly how at like and comment below baddies, who
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: do you cut off from your wedding when you want
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: to have a small wedding but you have a big family,
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: you have a big.
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: An overseas wedding. I've said no, that's the easiest, get
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: our jail free.
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: Cart hates the idea of an overth.
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: Have a boodie want She hates it goes somewhere cool
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: in Australia like idelope, yeah, idlope, which is like I
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: want to have I'm excited for a wedding hate Yeah, yeah,
• 43:08
  Speaker 2: I'm super excited because you're a small fucking family, That's
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: why you're excited. On No, I'm thinking about my special
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: day with cassandra'sself. I reckon it'd be sick to fucking
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: get all dressed up and ship and like I want
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: to still do it in Bali too, So I'm just
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: gonna have the people I really want to be there,
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: depending on seeing if our guard issues can sort out
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: by them, especially Cassie, and then not sweating in a
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: dress and shit, see if we canaclimatize, We've got to
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: figure out a few things. But right now it's a
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: Bali wedding. But yeah, I'm fucking super excited even just
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: to like I'm picturing her walking down the aisle and
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: like I reckon, I will cry, not fully, I can,
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: I just tear up. I'm excited for that.
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: I want to see you sob.
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: I don't reckon I'll sob. I don't think i'll sob
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: because I don't ever sob, like even in like life,
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: I just have a little tear. I've never really like
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: fucking sobbed. I wish I could sob.
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: And if you don't sob for her, then you don't
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: love her.
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: Tears of I've had tears of joy, and that's what
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: it will be. And I'll just be like I don't
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: know what to do with my mouth and then just
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: a little bit of like my eyes wigging out in
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: a little bit of water.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: I'm getting acting classes, going and get acting classes.
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: I feel like that is so toxic.
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: Why is that toxic?
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: We've said this before. If you can't cry organically, then
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: you don't love it. But if you go and get
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: acting classes so you can cry on cue. I feel
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: like that's cheating.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: Why that is so cheap? That's not cheating because it's
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: not real.
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: It makes her feel good and it's real if like,
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: it's clearly a real cry, if it's coming out as
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: a cry, even if I'm an actor, because what actors
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: do is they think of something so sad or so
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: happy that it makes them cry. You don't need you
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: don't need the classes there, but would you see you're
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: saying movies are real, then like when they act, and shit,
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: that's real because they are acting. I feel like, I
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: ask your girlfriend, I reckon she wouldn't like that.
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: Really?
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: Have you asked her before?
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: No, but she won't know. I'll clip that and see what.
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: She says, like that best of it different because she's
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: obviously like you, so she probably there's even two responses.
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: She would say, I don't like that or I don't care.
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: True true, I can see best saying I don't really.
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: Care, I don't know.
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: I feel like, if you're scared you're.
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: Not going to cry at your wedding, then get some
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: acting classes and cry at that fucking wedding. If your
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: fiance wants you to cry, I reckon yourself. See what happens. Okay,
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: that's what you should do, because what happens if.
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: And then what if someone takes out What if a
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: man takes that advice and then he doesn't cry at
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: his wedding because he's not a crier, right, and then
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: if fiance wants him to cry and she doesn't see
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: him crying and she turns the fuck around.
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: But no, that's and she has every right to do that.
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: No, but that's who you are. You don't put up
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: a false pretense of who you are when you're on
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: a date just because she wants someone to be confident,
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: people to do and cocky like it's like, I don't
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: know when you first started seeing Beth and she wanted
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: to fucking I don't know, heaps confident? Man, You didn't
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: pretend to be that, you were yourself?
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: True?
• 45:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you should think you should just be
• 45:52
  Speaker 2: yourself and then see what happens.
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: And I don't.
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: And I think it's the same with having a kid.
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: It's people say like I want a boy or I
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: want a girl, and then things born You're like, I
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: don't care. It's like, oh, I want my husband to
• 46:01
  Speaker 2: cry when she walks down the aisle. She's not going
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: to care, okon, She's just going to be so in
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: the moment with you and so in love that it's
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: special no matter what true and the same with you,
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: I reckon, even if you did take acting classes, or
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: can you be so in the moment that you forgot
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: to cry if you weren't going to cry?
• 46:19
  Speaker 3: Or yeah, or you would be like start crying before
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: she walks down the aisle.
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: This is your mindset. You'd be like, no one's there. Yeah,
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: And you would be like Tommy, saw.
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: I have to go sh biggest fear of mine the ship.
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: The biggest fear of mine is needing to ship on
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: my wedding day. While I'm standing in front of my wife,
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: I can see that too, Like, we better fucking hurry
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: this up. What do you even do?
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: You'd probably just pause it, give me five seconds. You're
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: the like it's your day too, Yeah, give.
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: You five seconds anyway that.
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: Your wife best like did you run away your cold? Oh?
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: We love your baddy, Stay bad