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440: Upgrade Your Identity with Human Design · Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast

• 0:11
  Nicole Laino: Come here to become an unshakable human and build an unshakable business according to your human design.
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  Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
• 0:22
  Nicole Laino: Hello and welcome to Unshakable with Human Design.
• 0:25
  Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino, and I am so happy to be here with you.
• 0:30
  Nicole Laino: Wow.
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  Nicole Laino: We're doing our second episode of the new year.
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  Nicole Laino: How are we all feeling?
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  Nicole Laino: This one is going to be specifically about upgrading who you are.
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  Nicole Laino: We're at the beginning of the year, and one of the things that I wanted to talk about is January is really about.
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  Nicole Laino: We think that it's about hitting the ground running, and it is to some degree.
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  Nicole Laino: But we can often feel like we're already behind on January 5, January 6, January 7.
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  Nicole Laino: It can already feel like we're behind, like we're not there yet.
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  Nicole Laino: And that is a definite function of the fact that we are in January is a month of pressure.
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  Nicole Laino: But remember how pressure works.
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  Nicole Laino: Pressure works where it builds.
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  Nicole Laino: It builds and builds and builds until there is enough pressure for it to do what it needs or it needs to be released.
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  Nicole Laino: We're still in the building phase.
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  Nicole Laino: So if you feel like you are behind, if you feel like you are feeling pressure, then the key is to not try to outrun the pressure.
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  Nicole Laino: That's one of the lessons that human design teaches us, is that you can't outrun pressure.
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  Nicole Laino: You can't get rid of it.
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  Nicole Laino: It doesn't just go away.
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  Nicole Laino: You have to learn to work with it.
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  Nicole Laino: And you don't work with it by forcing it to do something too soon.
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  Nicole Laino: You have to allow the pressure to build or you're fighting against it.
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  Nicole Laino: So now is not the time.
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  Nicole Laino: This beginning of January.
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  Nicole Laino: If you're listening to this episode when it airs, the beginning of January is not a time for you to be pushing.
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  Nicole Laino: It's a time for you to be planning.
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  Nicole Laino: It's a time for you to be checking in on your vision that you set for yourself in 2025.
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  Nicole Laino: I'm.
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  Nicole Laino: I'm a big believer in you plan so that you have some structure and allow those plans to change.
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  Nicole Laino: So I plan always at the end of the year for the following year.
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  Nicole Laino: I'm always looking forward, so I don't feel like I'm wondering what I'm going to do.
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  Nicole Laino: I don't want to feel like I'm pulling things together too much, but I'm reassessing them all the time.
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  Nicole Laino: And this is absolutely one of those reassessing points.
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  Nicole Laino: But now is the time for you to dial in the vision for 2026 and really be looking at what is it that feels right for me right now?
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  Nicole Laino: What is the purpose that I have?
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  Nicole Laino: What is the direction that feels really true for me?
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  Nicole Laino: What are the ambitions that I have that I want to make a reality this year?
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  Nicole Laino: And if you have those ambitions, you know, we're going to talk about upgrading your identity in this episode, because if you have ambitions and you have new levels that you want to achieve, it's going to require a new level of identity from you.
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  Nicole Laino: And this is the part that a lot of people leave out.
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  Nicole Laino: They leave out the idea of them having to change.
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  Nicole Laino: Or we do some worksheets and we answer some questions, but we're not really looking at it.
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  Nicole Laino: We look at what we have to do in the new year.
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  Nicole Laino: A lot of times we don't necessarily put as much attention on who we have to be outside of asking maybe some really surface level questions about that.
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  Nicole Laino: And that's what we're going to be addressing in today's episode.
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  Nicole Laino: Now, in the last episode that I did just a couple of days ago, episode 439 on recalibrating the G Center, please go listen to that if you didn't listen to it already.
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  Nicole Laino: Because I went into, you know, how the G Center works and what it means to have it calibrated to what you want and what it means to have it calibrated to misalignment to something that's not right for you.
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  Nicole Laino: And today I want to speak about, specifically about the identity.
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  Nicole Laino: So if you didn't listen to the recalibration episode, listen to that, and then come back to this one, you could honestly listen to them in, you know, out of order.
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  Nicole Laino: It would be fine.
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  Nicole Laino: I think you know enough about this stuff to glean what I'm saying.
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  Nicole Laino: But listen to both of them.
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  Nicole Laino: Definitely.
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  Nicole Laino: You can pick the order.
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  Nicole Laino: Obviously, I did that one first for a reason.
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  Nicole Laino: But if you're listening to this one and you're like, nicole, I don't want to go back in the player and find a new one and go back and listen to it and then come back to this one, that's fine too.
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  Nicole Laino: You do you.
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  Nicole Laino: So we talked about recalibrating the G Center in the last episode, but today we're going to talk about upgrading our identity specifically, how do we step up into a higher level of ourselves?
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  Nicole Laino: And that's really what I want to discuss in this episode.
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  Nicole Laino: I want to focus on it.
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  Nicole Laino: I wanted to focus these two topics because they can get a little conflated sometimes.
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  Nicole Laino: And I want to make sure that we're pulling them apart so you can see these two concepts at work.
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  Nicole Laino: But.
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  Nicole Laino: But if you are interested in this topic, if you are interested in upgrading your identity and doing it through recalibrating your G center, so doing this in a conscious and unconscious way, doing this, working on the energetic side and on the strategic side, because that's what I'm all about here.
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  Nicole Laino: If you're interested in that, please come to the recalibrate workshop that I'm doing.
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  Nicole Laino: This is all about aligning your identity to the frequency that your vision is at.
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  Nicole Laino: And we're going to be hosting that on January 20th.
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  Nicole Laino: Even if you listen to it after, you can still buy the replays.
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  Nicole Laino: But if you're listening to this before, please sign up for this.
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  Nicole Laino: This has the potential to really make or break your goals for 2026.
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  Nicole Laino: Because this is sort of the cosmic backdoor that a lot of people bypass.
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  Nicole Laino: They don't realize that if you have been setting goals for yourself, setting intentions, but you feel like maybe every year you feel fall short of your goals, every year you're kind of struggling with lessons more than getting what you want and checking things off your list and noticing how you are progressing and feeling like that is an easy thing, then there's most likely identity work that you need to do.
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  Nicole Laino: And if you've done some identity work with the workshops and like worksheets and things like that before, where you've asked yourself the questions of like who do I need to be?
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  Nicole Laino: And you've come up with things like this is what my highest self's morning routine would be like, this is what my highest self would dress like.
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  Nicole Laino: And you have that picture but it's not coming through for you, or you feel like something is just still not happening in that arena for you, that you don't feel different, then this is probably that secret that you have been looking for, that key that has been elusive for you.
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  Nicole Laino: So I highly recommend you showing up to this.
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  Nicole Laino: It's going to be awesome.
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  Nicole Laino: We have a regular session and then we also have a bonus session where I'm going to go into some roll gates and some other really cool things, that extra human design stuff that we go into in a Q and A so you can ask questions and all of that.
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  Nicole Laino: So we have that set aside.
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  Nicole Laino: But this is a working session.
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  Nicole Laino: So this is not like a masterclass where I'm just going to tell you a bunch of stuff.
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  Nicole Laino: This is a working session where we're going to be resetting your identity and recalibrating your G Center in the workshop.
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  Nicole Laino: So it's a very hands on thing.
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  Nicole Laino: So I hope you can make it.
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  Nicole Laino: All you have to do to get access to it and to purchase is go to nicolelino.com identity or DM me the word identity on Instagram.
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  Nicole Laino: I'm icoleno official and we will sign you up right there in the DMs.
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  Nicole Laino: We'll get you the link and everything.
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  Nicole Laino: All right, cool.
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  Nicole Laino: So let's talk about the two different things.
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  Nicole Laino: We have conscious upgrading and we have unconscious upgrading.
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  Nicole Laino: The unconscious definitely has a lot to do with the recalibration that we're talking about in the G Center.
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  Nicole Laino: The G Center is the key for this.
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  Nicole Laino: But the problem with the way that upgrading your identity is usually taught is there's typically inherent conditioning in it.
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  Nicole Laino: Most coaches, the way that they teach it is that they say this is what worked for me.
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  Nicole Laino: Which honestly, I mean, it's valid.
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  Nicole Laino: They're selling you their success story.
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  Nicole Laino: They're saying this is what worked for me here.
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  Nicole Laino: Maybe it'll work for you too.
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  Nicole Laino: But what you've probably found is that a lot of that stuff doesn't end up working for them.
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  Nicole Laino: Because what worked for them and might be the exact thing that worked for them, that made them a millionaire actually puts you right into your not self.
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  Nicole Laino: I see this all the time.
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  Nicole Laino: I see this with well meaning parents.
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  Nicole Laino: So that's the other thing with this G Center workshop that we're doing.
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  Nicole Laino: Anybody who's interested in human design should really take this because if you don't understand how the G Center works, you're kind of missing the whole thing.
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  Nicole Laino: This is the whole piece that pulls you on your path of purpose in this life.
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  Nicole Laino: Everything that people come to human design for really does sit in the G Center.
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  Nicole Laino: Obviously there's a whole chart to work with, but the G Center tells you so much about the person and how they operate and what's going to be correct for them and what their life might look like and what's the correct path for them to find their path versus just, you know, go find your path.
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  Nicole Laino: I see so many well meaning parents get frustrated with their kids and get upset with their kids or guide them wrong or don't guide them at all.
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  Nicole Laino: Don't give them what they need because they're guiding them based on what worked for them.
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  Nicole Laino: Versus what is right for the kid.
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  Nicole Laino: And it's not their fault.
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  Nicole Laino: They want to do the right thing.
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  Nicole Laino: And eventually, when they find me and we're working together, usually it's my private clients, but I've had clients come to me, and they're like, you know, my son is just really like, he just needs to find some direction in life, and he just doesn't know where he's going.
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  Nicole Laino: And I don't know.
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  Nicole Laino: We've talked about this, and they're giving this kid advice that they really believe will help them, but they're also parents, and they're worried, and then they're either frustrated or worried about their child.
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  Nicole Laino: And these are all coming from, again, from a really good place of wanting to help.
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  Nicole Laino: But what they end up doing is making the kid feel wrong for being who they are and doing what feels right to them.
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  Nicole Laino: And sometimes the kid is a bit lost.
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  Nicole Laino: Sometimes the kid does need help, but they're not guiding them in the way that's correct for the kid to find that they're guiding them in the way that worked for them or the way they wished that they were guided in their life.
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  Nicole Laino: So it's the exact same thing.
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  Nicole Laino: Well, meaning people saying, here's my advice to you based on my personal experience.
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  Nicole Laino: And here, now you go do it.
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  Nicole Laino: Then you take that advice, you run with it, and you run into a brick wall, and you think you're the problem, and that's not the case.
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  Nicole Laino: The key is to do the unconscious work first.
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  Nicole Laino: That's what's usually missing.
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  Nicole Laino: Because we'll say, like, you know, you have to figure out who you are.
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  Nicole Laino: You have to figure out who you want to be.
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  Nicole Laino: Well, someone who has an open G center that actually might do more harm than good.
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  Nicole Laino: So we have to really honor the design of someone first and then determine what advice, what work will get them to the destination that they choose or really to the one that's correct for them.
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  Nicole Laino: Because we don't get to choose the destination, because usually that would require some sort of forcing.
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  Nicole Laino: And that's not what we teach with human design.
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  Nicole Laino: We teach alignment, and human design will find your path of alignment.
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  Nicole Laino: It.
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  Nicole Laino: It will find you what's correct for you.
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  Nicole Laino: And then the idea is that things are taken care of in that space.
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  Nicole Laino: Things become easier in that space.
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  Nicole Laino: So the key is really to approach that unconscious work and then approach the conscious awareness, the habits, the routines.
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  Nicole Laino: What does she look like?
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  Nicole Laino: What does she feel like?
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  Nicole Laino: And doing that in a way that supports the G center makeup that you have.
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  Nicole Laino: And Then there's also.
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  Nicole Laino: There's all of these other aspects to the G center.
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  Nicole Laino: It's such a complex piece.
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  Nicole Laino: But this is the main key for the unconscious work, is this center of identity.
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  Nicole Laino: The way you process your identity and the way that you feel and relate to your own identity is going to vary person to person.
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  Nicole Laino: And the way that makes you feel, what fuels your identity, that matters based on your channels and what connects to your G Center, the gates that are activated, or if you have any at all.
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  Nicole Laino: All of this determines what your personal identity is.
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  Nicole Laino: And what's going to be your correct path, what's going to be the thing, what's going to be the right set of codes, so to speak, that lock you onto your path, which also might be the same thing that take me right off of mine.
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  Nicole Laino: So the health of your G center determines.
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  Nicole Laino: Does determine your path in life.
• 12:32
  Nicole Laino: I suppose the health of this center determines your path in life in the sense that it will either take you to where you're meant to go, or you are trying to engineer things and you're misaligned.
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  Nicole Laino: And you have a GPS that has the wrong codes put in.
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  Nicole Laino: So you don't end up in a place that is right for you.
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  Nicole Laino: You end up feeling lost.
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  Nicole Laino: And that's what happens when we have an unhealthy or a conditioned G center.
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  Nicole Laino: But when we're upgrading our identity to match the life we desire.
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  Nicole Laino: There are multiple paths that we could take.
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  Nicole Laino: But there is only one correct path for the individual.
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  Nicole Laino: That is you.
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  Nicole Laino: And there are these certain codes and energies that bring you closer to who you were meant to be.
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  Nicole Laino: And then there are the codes that worked for everyone else that you keep trying to pick your own lock with.
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  Nicole Laino: And it's not working.
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  Nicole Laino: So the next level you is operating at a different frequency than you're at right now.
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  Nicole Laino: Yes, they do different things.
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  Nicole Laino: Yes, they dress differently.
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  Nicole Laino: Yes, they think differently.
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  Nicole Laino: All of that is true.
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  Nicole Laino: But that comes from deconditioning.
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  Nicole Laino: That doesn't just come from writing answers down on a piece of paper.
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  Nicole Laino: That's the start of it.
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  Nicole Laino: The work of it is actually changing yourself from the inside, which then changes you from the outside.
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  Nicole Laino: This is exactly why I'm hosting the recalibrate workshop, because I believe in this so much.
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  Nicole Laino: This is very much a new year, new you kind of setup.
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  Nicole Laino: But it's a new year, next level you, not new you.
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  Nicole Laino: It's the you that you were always meant to be.
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  Nicole Laino: If these codes never got taken out of their realm, if they never got miscalculated, if you never got turned around, this workshop is designed to bring you back home.
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  Nicole Laino: So please, if you have a vision for 2026 and you want to bring it to life and you want to be the person who is able to make that happen and to be able to walk the path of your purpose with courage and trust and ease versus struggle and second guessing yourself and wondering if the path is right, is this really where I'm supposed to go?
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  Nicole Laino: If you found yourself asking for guidance, saying, you know, please just show me my path.
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  Nicole Laino: This workshop is made for you.
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  Nicole Laino: That's exactly who I created it for.
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  Nicole Laino: So I encourage you to show up.
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  Nicole Laino: This is going to be great.
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  Nicole Laino: All you have to do to register is go to nicolelino.com identity or go to Instagram.
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  Nicole Laino: I'm icolenofficial and DM me the word identity and we will sign you up there.
• 15:08
  Nicole Laino: But I'm going to go into great detail and like I said, this is a working session.
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  Nicole Laino: We are working through this entire thing.
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  Nicole Laino: This isn't just me giving you a few quick tips.
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  Nicole Laino: This is gonna be working through the entire all of the gates of the G Center.
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  Nicole Laino: What's the difference between being defined and undefined?
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  Nicole Laino: We're going to do that conscious work of upgrading how you see yourself and even working some of the other things in the chart into it.
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  Nicole Laino: So it's gonna be really powerful.
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  Nicole Laino: You will walk away with a very different view on who you are and how to step into your highest self each and every day.
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  Nicole Laino: So I hope to see you there.
• 15:40
  Nicole Laino: Thank you so much for being here.
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  Nicole Laino: I appreciate you.
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  Nicole Laino: And remember, in order to have an unshakeable business, you must first become an unshakable human.
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  Nicole Laino: So thanks for letting us help you become unshakable with human design.
• 15:50
  Nicole Laino: We'll see you next time.
• 15:52
  Nicole Laino: If you love this episode and you're a fan of the show, please show us the love on itunes, Spotify or wherever you're listening to the show and leave us a review.
• 15:58
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• 16:06
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  Nicole Laino: We'll see you there.