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You Can Do It: Be Better Than Yesterday, Every Single Day · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: As a child, my parents always told me you could
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  Speaker 1: be whatever you want to be, you can do whatever
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  Speaker 1: you want to do. And it was something I heard
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  Speaker 1: my parents saying it, but I didn't totally believe it yet.
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  Speaker 1: I went out in the world and I carried myself
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  Speaker 1: and I held my head high, and I stood there
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  Speaker 1: and I look people in their eyes, and I talk
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  Speaker 1: to people as if I was deservant of everything that
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  Speaker 1: this planet has awful. He who says he can and
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  Speaker 1: he who says he can't are both usually right.
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  Speaker 2: Well, you shouldn't be afraid of taking risks and pursuing
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  Speaker 2: something meaningful, but you should be more afraid of staying
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  Speaker 2: where you are. If it's making me miserable, you're paying
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  Speaker 2: a price by sitting there being miserable. And you might say, well,
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  Speaker 2: the devil I know is better than what I don't.
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  Speaker 2: It's like, don't be so sure of that. The clock
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  Speaker 2: is ticking. And if you're miserable in your job now
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  Speaker 2: and you change nothing in five years, you will be
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  Speaker 2: much more miserable, and you will be a lot older.
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  Speaker 3: Most things that never get done never get done.
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  Speaker 4: Because they never get started. You prograsty.
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  Speaker 3: Procrastination is a cure. It kills plans, and it kills projects.
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  Speaker 4: And it kills dreams. See here's what I'm looking at.
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  Speaker 5: What are the uses for your life right now that
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  Speaker 5: you haven't.
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  Speaker 4: Even reached for you?
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  Speaker 6: See, I believe that when you don't have enough encouragement
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  Speaker 6: to act on your dreams or ideas, or you're not
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  Speaker 6: enlightened enough, the life will act on you.
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  Speaker 5: You've got to continue to work on yourself personally, to
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  Speaker 5: work on yourself professionally, to continue to achieve technical mastery
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  Speaker 5: of the information that's out here. You've got to set
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  Speaker 5: high standards that will begin to set the pace. You've
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  Speaker 5: got to decide to be relentless. You've got to decide
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  Speaker 5: never to give up. You've got to find some reasons
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  Speaker 5: within yourself that will give you the stamina when life
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  Speaker 5: catches you on the blind side to get back up again,
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  Speaker 5: to keep on calling and coming back again and again
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  Speaker 5: and again.
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  Speaker 7: Every opportunity of the last opportunity, every opportunity, I have
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  Speaker 7: to reprove myself again.
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  Speaker 1: Because the day you'll be conking gents.
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  Speaker 8: Day you stop me valuating yourself, the day you stop growing,
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  Speaker 8: the day you stop getting better, is the.
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  Speaker 5: Day you die.
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  Speaker 7: Is the day the person who's trying to catch you
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  Speaker 7: will get you.
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  Speaker 9: I'll get around to being happy, I'll get around to
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  Speaker 9: making my masterpiece of my life.
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  Speaker 4: I'll get around to my dreams.
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  Speaker 9: I'm going to get around to fixing this relationship that's broken.
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  Speaker 4: I'm going to get around to feeling those emotions.
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  Speaker 9: And then it's another day and another day, and they
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  Speaker 9: keep it in the distance until there are no more days.
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  Speaker 9: And I don't care if you're eighteen years old listening
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  Speaker 9: to this, twenty eight or forty eight. We don't know
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  Speaker 9: if we have one more day, or one hundred more days,
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  Speaker 9: or a thousand more days, but we know this, there'll
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  Speaker 9: eventually be a time where we don't have any more days.
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  Speaker 5: Practice only makes improvement. Perfection doesn't exist.
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  Speaker 4: They need to take it out of a dictionary. It
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  Speaker 4: doesn't exist.
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  Speaker 5: Practice only makes improvement. You can always better your best.
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  Speaker 5: You have not done your best work.
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  Speaker 10: Yet, all right, I'm one day better than I was yesterday.
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  Speaker 10: And that's how we have to look at life. That's
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  Speaker 10: how we have to look at these situations. And eventually
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  Speaker 10: you'll stop feeling the way that you feel right now,
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  Speaker 10: and because of the actions that you're taking by the
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  Speaker 10: time that you stop feeling Because here's the thing. If
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  Speaker 10: you did nothing, if you just continue to like live
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  Speaker 10: and you did nothing, all right, you will eventually get
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  Speaker 10: over this because time cures the.
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  Speaker 4: Painful news your success. Every day. Success is a daily thing,
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  Speaker 4: not a destination thing.
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  Speaker 11: Because so many times people have a tendency to devalue
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  Speaker 11: the moment today. What they do is they greatly value
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  Speaker 11: the destination, and so they kind of talk about, well,
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  Speaker 11: when I get there, or if I or when I
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  Speaker 11: do that, or when I accomplish this, and they don't
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  Speaker 11: understand that success is a daily thing. And I'm here
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  Speaker 11: to share with you that the secret of success is
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  Speaker 11: determined by your daily agita.
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  Speaker 3: Life can be overwhelming. That's the way life works. It
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  Speaker 3: is testing you. It is going to throw problems at you,
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  Speaker 3: and it is going to throw them at you all
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  Speaker 3: at the same time. This is the way life works
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  Speaker 3: Murphy's law. It is easy to feel beaten when you're
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  Speaker 3: faced with all those problems at once. Well, let me
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  Speaker 3: tell you that does not mean give up fighting. In fact,
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  Speaker 3: it means the opposite. It is time for you to
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  Speaker 3: fight harder, to dig in, to go on the war path,
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  Speaker 3: to assess what the problems are and decide which one
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  Speaker 3: you are going to attack first.
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  Speaker 7: Because along the process, what's more important what you acquire
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  Speaker 7: are who you become. And a lot of people think
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  Speaker 7: what they acquire is the thing that makes them who
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  Speaker 7: they are. No, it's who you become. In the process
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  Speaker 7: of chasing what you want to acquire, right, change.
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  Speaker 4: Expectation for appreciation.
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  Speaker 7: Extract the lessons and the blessing from the situations that
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  Speaker 7: didn't turn.
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  Speaker 4: Out the way you want them to turn out.
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  Speaker 7: The most importantly, man approach it and eliminate the outcome.
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  Speaker 7: Here's what you.
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  Speaker 4: Should know about winning before you chase it. When he's
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  Speaker 4: not loyal to you, he doesn't care about you.
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  Speaker 5: Winning doesn't care how sore you are, when he doesn't
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  Speaker 5: care how what sleep you get, when he doesn't care how.
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  Speaker 7: Hard you work.
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  Speaker 5: At times, winning requires all of you and then more,
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  Speaker 5: and it promises you nothing. It's a mastermind of creating
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  Speaker 5: for you're a doubt in your mind.
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  Speaker 4: It causes setback after setback. So the question is about winning.
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  Speaker 4: Are you willing to spread whether this is or known?
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  Speaker 8: If you can get a mental image of the person
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  Speaker 8: you would most like to become, begin now to act
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  Speaker 8: as that person would act, and everything you do gradually, imperceptibly,
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  Speaker 8: you will actually become that person. Before you can do something,
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  Speaker 8: you must first be something. Before you can do what
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  Speaker 8: you would most like to do. Who was first become
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  Speaker 8: the person who can do it.
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  Speaker 12: Everything that hurts you, find a way to overcome it.
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  Speaker 12: Everything that you feel is difficult for you, find a
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  Speaker 12: way to.
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  Speaker 4: Still do it.
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  Speaker 11: The future belongs to the risk takers, not the security seekers.
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  Speaker 11: Life is perverse in the sense that the more you
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  Speaker 11: seek security, the less of it you have. But the
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  Speaker 11: more you seek opportunity, the more likely it is that
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  Speaker 11: you will achieve the security that you desire. Whenever you
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  Speaker 11: feel fear or anxiety, and you need to bolster your
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  Speaker 11: courage to persist in the face of obstacles and setbacks,
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  Speaker 11: suit your attention to your goals.
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  Speaker 4: Create a clear mental picture of.
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  Speaker 11: The person that you would like to be, performing the
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  Speaker 11: way you would like to perform. There's nothing wrong with
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  Speaker 11: thoughts of fear as long as you temper them with
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  Speaker 11: thoughts of courage and self reliance. Whatever you dwell upon grows,
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  Speaker 11: so be careful. This brings us to a very important
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  Speaker 11: mental principle called the law of accumulation. The application of
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  Speaker 11: this law is a fundamental reason for success in every field,
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  Speaker 11: including yours. This law says that every great life or
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  Speaker 11: great career is an accumulation of hundreds and perhaps thousands
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  Speaker 11: of efforts that nobody ever sees or appreciates. Great success
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  Speaker 11: is the result of countless hours, maybe even months and
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  Speaker 11: years of preparation and hard work towards the goal of
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  Speaker 11: becoming very good at what you are doing. This law
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  Speaker 11: of accumulation says that life is very much like a
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  Speaker 11: balance sheet with both credits and debts. Every time you
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  Speaker 11: do something positive to enhance your abilities and to improve
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  Speaker 11: your life, you get a credit on the credit side
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  Speaker 11: of your ledger. Each time you waste your time or
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  Speaker 11: neglect to take advantage of an opportunity to learn and grow,
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  Speaker 11: you get a debit on the debit side of your ledger.
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  Speaker 4: Here's the key. Everything counts.
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  Speaker 11: Everything that you do or fail to do is written
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  Speaker 11: down and totaled up on your balance sheet. Everything that
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  Speaker 11: you do or fail to do counts in some way.
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  Speaker 11: Nothing is neutral. Everything is either moving you toward a
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  Speaker 11: better life or moving you away from it. Everything counts. Successful, happy,
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  Speaker 11: self confident person is an individual who has consciously and
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  Speaker 11: deliberately built up a lot of credits on his or
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  Speaker 11: her balance sheet. An unhappy, negative, or insecure person is
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  Speaker 11: a person who has a lot of debts on his
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  Speaker 11: or her balance sheet. Because the only things that count
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  Speaker 11: are your actions, it seems that every positive and constructive
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  Speaker 11: action you engage in adds up and increases your levels
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  Speaker 11: of self confidence and self esteem. The law of incremental improvement,
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  Speaker 11: perhaps the most important corollary of the law of accumulation,
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  Speaker 11: is what is called the law of incremental improvement. This
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  Speaker 11: is really the law that explains how you move from
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  Speaker 11: wherever you are to the top of your field. This
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  Speaker 11: is the law that explains all great success in America
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  Speaker 11: or anywhere else in the world. This law simply states
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  Speaker 11: that a person becomes good at his or her chosen
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  Speaker 11: field by improving incrementally continuously over a long period of time.
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  Speaker 11: The development of the unshakable self development will open up
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  Speaker 11: such possibilities for you as you cannot now imagine. You
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  Speaker 11: will be able to dream bigger dreams, set bigger goals,
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  Speaker 11: make greater commitments, and plunge into life more wholeheartedly than
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  Speaker 11: you ever have before. Self confidence is the hinge on
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  Speaker 11: which the gate of individual achievement terms. When your self
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  Speaker 11: confidence becomes unlimited, you will be able to realize more
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  Speaker 11: of your potential than you could under any other circumstances.
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  Speaker 11: More than two thousand years ago, Aristotle wrote that happiness
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  Speaker 11: is a condition. It is not something that is achieved
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  Speaker 11: by pursuing it directly, but rather comes as a result
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  Speaker 11: of our engaging in purposeful activities. We develop the confidence
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  Speaker 11: to tackle larger goals by applying our energies to the
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  Speaker 11: accomplishment of smaller goals. We build up our confidence as
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  Speaker 11: we move forward until we reach the point at which
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  Speaker 11: there is nothing that we won't take on. In fact,
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  Speaker 11: the habit of setting and achieving ever larger goals is
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  Speaker 11: absolutely indispensable to the development of ever higher levels of
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  Speaker 11: self confidence and personal power. You can only really believe
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  Speaker 11: in yourself when you absolutely know that you have the
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  Speaker 11: ability to do what you set out to do. True
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  Speaker 11: self confidence does not come from positive wishing or positive
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  Speaker 11: hoping or positive thinking. It comes from positive knowing, based
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  Speaker 11: on having proven to yourself over and over again that
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  Speaker 11: you have what it takes to get from wherever you
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  Speaker 11: are to wherever you want to go Self confidence is
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  Speaker 11: a state of mind. It is an attitude, and as
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  Speaker 11: an attitude, it is more important than facts. However, it
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  Speaker 11: must be based on facts to be the kind of
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  Speaker 11: self confidence you can rely on in a crunch. Your
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  Speaker 11: job is to do whatever it takes to convince yourself
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  Speaker 11: in your heart that you are absolutely unstoppable and that
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  Speaker 11: you can achieve anything that you put your mind. If
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  Speaker 11: self confidence is an attitude of mind, it is based
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  Speaker 11: on mental principles and mental laws. Foremost of which is
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  Speaker 11: thought is creative. You are not what you think you are,
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  Speaker 11: but what you think you are. As you systematically and
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  Speaker 11: deliberately change your thinking about yourself, your outer reality changes
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  Speaker 11: to conform with it. Your thoughts create your life, including
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  Speaker 11: and especially your thoughts with regard to your feelings of
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  Speaker 11: self confidence. The reason that goals are so important is
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  Speaker 11: because of these mental laws, the consequences of which are
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  Speaker 11: inevitable and inescapable. You are happy and successful to the
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  Speaker 11: degree to which you conform your life and your thinking
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  Speaker 11: to these.
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  Speaker 4: Laws and live in harmony with them.
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  Speaker 11: The first law, which we have already discussed, is the
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  Speaker 11: law of cause and effect. This law is so simple
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  Speaker 11: and powerful that you need to remind yourself of it
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  Speaker 11: all the time. Everything that happens in your life, success
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  Speaker 11: or failure, wealth or poverty, health or illness, happiness or unhappiness,
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  Speaker 11: self confidence or insecurity are all subject to this law.
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  Speaker 11: The Bible teaches this basic law as the principle of
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  Speaker 11: sowing and reaping. It says that whatsoever a man soweth,
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  Speaker 11: that also shall he reap. This especially refers to the
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  Speaker 11: thoughts you think. If you sow positive, optimistic, uplifting thoughts
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  Speaker 11: in your mind, you will reap positive, optimistic, uplifting events
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  Speaker 11: and experiences in your life. It cannot be otherwise. If
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  Speaker 11: you sew clear goals and objectives in your mind, you
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  Speaker 11: will reap clear results and rewards in your outer life.
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  Speaker 13: Every time you reach the next level, you grow, and
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  Speaker 13: every time you grow, your potential changes. After you conquer
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  Speaker 13: that challenge, you discover that what you are now capable
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  Speaker 13: of has changed. You have more strength to conquer higher mountains.
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  Speaker 13: If you are going to reach your true potential, you
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  Speaker 13: have much bigger challenges to face. There's an unlimited amount
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  Speaker 13: of mountains to climb because your growth is unlimited. And
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  Speaker 13: because your growth is unlimited, that means your potential is
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  Speaker 13: also unlimited. It's never ending, a never ending journey of
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  Speaker 13: growth and expansion.
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  Speaker 4: Your growth is unlimited in every area.
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  Speaker 13: What can I do now to make those changes so
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  Speaker 13: I can reach the next level in my health because
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  Speaker 13: the new energy I will get from better health is
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  Speaker 13: going to help me get to the next level in
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  Speaker 13: other areas as well. What can I learn or commit
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  Speaker 13: to now to make that area of my life better?
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  Speaker 13: Can my mental health and self image be better? What
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  Speaker 13: can I work on every day to make sure my
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  Speaker 13: inner talk and sense of self is better? Because the
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  Speaker 13: better I feel about me, the better I am going
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  Speaker 13: to show up in this world. When I get to
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  Speaker 13: the end of my life. I want to know for
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  Speaker 13: sure I left nothing on the table. I want to
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  Speaker 13: know I gave my heart and soul to reach my
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  Speaker 13: truest potential. I want to know I did all I
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  Speaker 13: could to carve out the greatest version of me. No regrets.
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  Speaker 13: That's what it's about, having zero regrets. And you can
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  Speaker 13: only have no regrets if you gave every ounce of
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  Speaker 13: your soul while you were alive on this planet. Every
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  Speaker 13: area can be mastered, So I am going to master
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  Speaker 13: every area. What's the point in having one piece of
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  Speaker 13: the pie. I'm cooking the whole thing. So I'm going
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  Speaker 13: to enjoy the whole thing, piece by piece until my
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  Speaker 13: soul is full. And it will never be full until
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  Speaker 13: the end of my life when I look in the
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  Speaker 13: mirror and can say honestly, I gave everything to be
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  Speaker 13: my very best and I'm proud of who I have become.
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  Speaker 13: Until that day, I will not stop. I want to
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  Speaker 13: know what my life would be like if I just
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  Speaker 13: gave everything I have for my goals and dreams, not
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  Speaker 13: just one day every day.
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  Speaker 4: What if I got better every.
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  Speaker 13: Day, not just one day, a new piece of knowledge
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  Speaker 13: I could use to benefit my future. How great could
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  Speaker 13: I become? Ask yourself that question? How great could I become?
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  Speaker 13: What areas of my life could be the very best
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  Speaker 13: they have ever been? What could I commit to right
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  Speaker 13: now to make absolutely sure I am pushing for my
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  Speaker 13: highest potential. I want you to make that commitment today.
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  Speaker 13: Do whatever you must do to ensure you get to
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  Speaker 13: the end with no regrets.