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From Burnout to Soul Alignment: Human Design, Energy Healing & Living Your True Purpose · Terri Messenger's Genius Zone

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My name is Terry Messenger and I am hey, hey, hey and welcome,
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welcome to Terry Messenger's Genius Zone.
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And you know, this is the place in the space where you are going
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to get your own free master class absolutely free.
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Hey, hey, hey. And welcome to this week's
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edition of Terry Messenger's Judy.
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So did I say messenger? Oh, my goodness.
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Wow. That must be a sign that it's
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going to be a very good telecast because I've just been backstage
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with a glorious woman. Now I believe a lot of you are
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going to really resonate with this because have you ever felt
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like you know you cannot be everything you want to be and
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you have to play it small because there have been other
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people's voices that have been really telling you who you are
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and even causing you to feel misunderstood.
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So if you feel you've been told by the world about your life and
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you've been shrinking yourself to dilute just to fit in, then
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you're going to want to watch this episode.
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Because this amazing woman that I'm about to bring on, not only
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is she going to talk you through the power of how to step into
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your full aligned self, but she's going to give you some key
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principles through a very powerful DNA blueprint called
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Human design. So I love speaking to this lady.
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She is going to give a demonstration towards the end.
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So you're not going to want to run away.
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This woman comes from the corporate coaching space or she
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comes from the corporate space. And she is a little bit unique
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in the sense that she was raised by a mother who really taught on
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self love and that was something that really shaped this
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delightful, intuitive human design coach.
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So with no further ado, let me bring on a lady that was also
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very impacted like Anthony Robbins by Jim Rowan.
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And I give you the delightful Catherine Leonardis.
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How are you, Catherine? Hello, Terry.
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I'm great. How are you?
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I'm good, but I'm not pronouncing names very well this
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evening for some reason for. Everything it is just, yeah, we
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have a bit of, you know, some, some spirit coming in.
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It's Catherine. Leonardos, Catherine Leonardos,
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How are you on this beautiful evening?
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I am so wonderful and I'm so excited to be here.
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Thank you so much for having. Me, it is an absolute pleasure.
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Now you are also in this side of the world, so can you tell us
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where you are? I'm in Melbourne in Australia.
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And that is, as you found out, that is where I was born.
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So I was actually born in Melbourne?
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Yes, in Boston. You.
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Yes, there you go. So we know all of that about
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each other and yet we barely know each other really, other
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than the fact that you are about to really expound on a topic
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that I believe a lot of people, in fact, everybody needs to
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hear. So I'm going to start off with
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the first question, and that is that you went into human design,
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into the mastery of it and, you know, completing your masters.
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What was the inspiration that caused you to know that you
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needed to choose human design? Once I understood myself and my
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own design, human design and really understood my authentic
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self and who I was, I realized that a lot of people just needed
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to know this about themselves. And I, I've always wanted to
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help as many people as I can. And you know, I'm intuitive and,
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you know, do readings and I help people in that way and loved
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ones connect who have passed over.
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But I just felt that there was actually something more that I
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could offer people. And when I came across Human
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Design and I understood the impact it had on me and it was
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like an awakening. It was like coming home to
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myself. I thought, my gosh, I really
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want to share this with other people and help other people.
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So it was, it was that it was the impact that it had on me
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when I realized how massive this is and how impactful it is on
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other people, which is why I chose to pursue it.
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Hmm. And isn't it interesting how so
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many of us are playing smaller than what we could?
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Or we're kind of holding back in a fear of rejection because we
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are afraid of being judged, or we're afraid to fail, or we're
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just not wanting to be all of who we are and being
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misunderstood. I can really relate to that.
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I feel like that was my second. That was my second personality
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being misunderstood. And yet, you know, the genius
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zone, what that tells us is that all the things that we suffered
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in our life and the things that really impacted us the most turn
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into our superpower. So absolutely.
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Yeah. So let's talk about your journey
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finding out and discovering that you are the manifesting
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generator. We'll also first I think what
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we'll do just to frame this is I'm going to give you the floor
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to talk a little bit about human design because there may maybe
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some people out there that do not even know what it means.
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So I feel that it would be very good to frame this by talking
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about a little bit about where it comes from and what, you
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know, what it means to understand your human design.
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And yeah, just share with us so that we can frame this up so
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that people can look into it, do their research and even change
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their life what you have. Yes, yes, it it So human design
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was actually discovered by a gentleman called RA.
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I have to always, I always get this name wrong.
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Like we were talking about name names before.
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So RA Ruhu and he actually experienced this.
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I know. I think I did a good job.
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RA Ruhu, my daughter. And he, he actually received
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this, what we would call a download and it channeled this
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through when he was in Ibiza in Spain back in 1987.
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And, and since then, human design is really now nowadays
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it's, it's known as the modern day personality.
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So, and it basically it's a blueprint of your actual human
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design of your personality. And it helps you understand the
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type of energy, your energy type, also your, your strategy,
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which is basically how best to flow in your life and make
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decisions and your authority, which is actually the way you
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make decisions. So it's, it's actually, it can
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be, you know, it, it, it, there's, there's so much in
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human design. I mean, I could spend an hour
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and a half just going through the basics of human design with
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a client and then I can also spend, you know, I could
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probably talk about it for five hours.
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There's so much in your chart. So it, it actually, each
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individual has an actual personal blueprint.
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So it's an individual chart and it actually is based on your
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birth date, the time of your birth and the place of your
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birth. And then that's when this chat
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is created and the accuracy is incredible of this of, of this
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chart. Once you actually start to go
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through, once I start the readings with people and I start
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to explain what I'm seeing, my clients are like, Oh my gosh,
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how do you know that? How do you know that that's so
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accurate? How do you know that?
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And I'm like, because it's in the blueprint and you.
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Know like Wayne Dyer says, to know thyself, that is got to be
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the most powerful thing. So would you say it is
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influenced through astrology? Yeah, it's a combination of I
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chain astrology, Kabbalah and actually science too, modern day
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science as well. So it's a, it's, it's a very
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unique, unique personality tool and the way it's combined and,
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and it's the, the accuracy, as I mentioned, it's just, it's, it's
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phenomenal. It's phenomenal.
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And what it, it really helps people come back to their
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authentic self. So from society, we are
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conditioned to be certain things, to believe that we are a
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certain way. Also, we're conditioned to do to
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do things according to what we should do and what the right
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thing to do. And you know, people like other
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people's opinions and how other people perceive us as opposed to
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who we actually are. So human design actually helps
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us to remove these layers and layers of conditioning that we
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have accumulated over time in our lives and actually come back
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to ourselves. And it's so incredible that when
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you actually come back to yourself and you stand in your
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power, you, you know, you, you, you experience that joy that.
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You know, a lot of us are. Looking for joy and happiness
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and it actually with human design, when you actually peel
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back those layers and really find yourself and step into that
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person, the joy just comes naturally.
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It's just, it's beautiful to see.
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That is, that is absolutely incredible.
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And you know, what I'm really hearing is a couple of things
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just to break down what you said.
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And that is, you know, Rahu, and I'm definitely not saying his
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name, right, had a download, a transmission.
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And this is something that I heard is when we have an idea,
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it is actually given to us above at a much higher level and an
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idea means that we can run with it.
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And obviously, if you're an activist, likely, you know, like
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someone like yourself and even myself too, if we feel
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intuitively inclined, we probably will action it.
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And those ideas, if we don't action it, it will be given to
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somebody else. So it's really important to #1
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know thyself #2 understand that ideas are not just rainbows and
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butterflies. Sometimes these are the
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principles that create the complete system of having an
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incredibly successful life. And you know, it's all wrapped
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up in quantum physics and it's a system like you have said, and
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I'm just paraphrasing it here, which is a, a road map for your
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soul. So what I'm gonna do now is I'm
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just gonna explore over the energy types.
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So we have manifestos, generators, manifesting
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generators, projectors, reflectors, and it has a unique
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strategy and aura. And how did it change your life
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understanding that you were a manifesting generator as opposed
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to perhaps before you knew that? And maybe there's a story which
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I believe where you doubted yourself because other people
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were putting their own little opinions on you.
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Do you want to talk us through that?
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Yes, yes, I'd love to. Because again, that's why I love
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human design so much. I'm a manifesting generator.
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I'm somebody who so manifesting generator will be, we'll add
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talks quickly, loves lots of variety.
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They love to do lots of different, like lots of
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different things that we, we we're known as time benders
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because we quantum leap so quickly, because we take so much
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action so quickly. I used.
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I was always someone who people did not understand because I
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would change my mind often. That is one of the traits of a
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manifesting generator. I would say I'm going to do this
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and then and then I change my mind because we manifesting
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generators don't. Stick to.
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Things if they don't feel aligned, so they may start
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something, but they will stop if it's not aligned.
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They're not thinking that it's that the board, it's it's just,
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you know, because we actually get bored very easily and very
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quickly because we love all this kind of variety and we're always
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on the go. So I was, I was often criticized
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that I didn't focus, I wasn't focused, that I changed my mind
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often, that I sometimes even that I couldn't sit still
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because we are, we are on the move and we just love that
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variety and we do get bored easily.
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So, so that's that, that the social conditioning that I had
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in in fact, somebody once asked me if I had, if that, well, they
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thought that I had ADHD and, and I and I, I was really taken back
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and I said, but why? And she said, because you can't
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focus. And, and I, and I said, well, I
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can because if it's something that gives me joy and something
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that I'm really, I'm loving and it's interesting and it's giving
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me that variety and it's fast-paced, I love it.
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So, but if it's boring and it's not in alignment with any
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something that I like to do, then I will quickly swap a
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change. So that was, you know, it was it
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that again, just understanding that about myself, I realized
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there's nothing wrong with me. It's actually these are my super
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powers. Yes, I love that.
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And you know you discovered one also a manifest being generated
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too. So being misunderstood, actually
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changing my mind and recognizing that I was doing that, but not
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really understanding why, that even at this level where I am
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today, has really opened up that awareness.
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Because I feel that when we know about ourself and when we
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understand the reason we are the way that we are, that has got to
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be a breakthrough in itself. But, you know, you are dealing
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with a lot of people that are, you know, making decisions or
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maybe thinking that they are something when they're not all
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misunderstood. You're dealing with a lot of
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people like that who quite often feel suppressed by the world.
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And you know what happens when you are in that pace and you are
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wanting to go ahead? Because I know that there's a
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lot of people out there that they want to make decisions
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about their life. They might want to change their
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job. They may want to change their
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partner. You know, some of them can be
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massive decisions. And yet, you know, they can
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quite often be crowded by other people's opinions, you know,
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what's your thoughts on that? Because, you know, I understand
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that in some ways, you've got to be very careful about who you
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share your soul with in terms of the things that you want to
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achieve in your life. Like, if you want to go out
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there and you want to be a famous poet, you know, sometimes
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it's not a good thing to share that with a lot of people
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because that's when it can dampen your spirit.
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That's when it can really hold you back.
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But you had a story about someone who was able to stand up
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and say, actually, this is what I wanted.
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And, you know, can you talk us through that?
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Because I feel that that from a young person who, you know,
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wanted, there may have been an expectation to move in this
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direction, but they were able to move in that direction that they
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wanted. What would you say about that
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and can you open that up for us? Yeah, look, I'd love to talk
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about that. I do have a situation.
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It's actually about my daughter and she won't mind me speaking
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about her because it's quite, it's very significant.
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Her energy type is a manifesto. Now the manifestos are here to
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make big change. They they initiate, they don't
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wait for anyone. They don't wait for permission.
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They know what they want to do. They know where they want to go
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and they go. And my daughter wanted to be a
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dancer from very young. She's actually a very talented
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dancer. She's been dancing on cruise
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ships for the last 19 months and she's about, she came home
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quickly and then she's about to go again.
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But when she was growing up, she was very misunderstood because
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she was basically telling us that she wanted to dance.
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And of course I wanted her to go to union, get a corporate job
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because I was from the corporate world.
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And she, she really kept, she kept pushing it and pushing it
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that she wanted to go dancing and become this dancer.
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In the end, I, I gave in. I did eventually come in, but
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there was a lot of resistance and she put a lot of people off
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her, her father and I and, and, and, and other people over the
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during that time. Once I discovered that she was
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a, a manifesto and actually sat with her and I went through her
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chart and I said, you are here to create change.
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You are here to do big things. You are here to, to, to, to, to
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change actually like not and not have a linear life and really
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change the world. And the key to her strategy is
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actually to inform. So rather than getting us
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offside, manifest is their key to have a flowing life is
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actually to inform the people who are affected by their
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decisions that they're making these decisions.
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And they're not actually asking for permission.
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They're actually saying I'm just, you know, this is what
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I've decided to do. I'm not asking for your
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permission, but this is it does affect you.
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So I'm just letting you know when they do that, they're
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actually faced with less resistance.
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So when we talk about sort of living an aligned life as
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opposed to an unaligned life, which leads to lots of
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exhaustion and burnout because people are constantly against
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you, this is the key. So once mine, and it was
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interesting because once my daughter actually understood
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that this is her human design and for her, because she's
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always worried about pushing back and having people against
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her. Once she understood that if I
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just inform people what I'm doing and I don't need to ask
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for permission. I saw her face change and she's
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actually just, she's actually implemented that new strategy in
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her life. And she said to me recently that
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she's just so much more at peace.
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And I can see how much peaceful she is and in her relationships
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with her friendships and of course with me.
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So it's, it's, it's, it's life changing.
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Yes, Mel, Mel Robbins, little saying is coming to my mind here
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and I feel that you are really living by a lot of some of the
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greatest philosophies of you know some of the the greatest
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people like Jim Rowan who inspired your life as he did
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lead Anthony Robbins as well. And of course, Mel Robbins is a
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really big name today, but she says stop hitting the damned
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snooze button on your life and start owning who you are.
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And that is exactly what your daughter did.
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So you must be extremely proud. So yes.
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So let's talk about some of these other human design
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elements and characteristics. So what do you believe is the
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difference between, say, a manifesting person like your
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daughter? A manifesto and say someone who
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is completely the opposite, which one would you say is the
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opposite? So, yeah, yeah.
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So a manifesto is so explain a manifesto with my daughter.
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So she's here to she's not here for chance, for permission.
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She's not waiting. She's here to, you know, just
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inform. This is what I'm doing.
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Lots of energy, lots of like lots of just big plans and and
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have passed mover. So when you think about a
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manifesto that they're manifesting what they want, they
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move fast. Then the opposite of that, what
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comes to mind is a projector. So the projector energy type is
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actually someone who they actually have limited energy,
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but a projector is only really when it comes to the energy.
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They only have sort of a certain amount of energy.
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So they will go for a few hours and then need a break and there
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but there I love projectors. I have many projector friends
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and, and people in my circle. So they're the real, the wise
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guides. They're here to actually to, to,
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to, to share their wisdom with others.
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So they have a lot of wisdom that they've learnt in their
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life and they like and they're here to share it with others.
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But the key to a projector is to to is, is to wait for the
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invention. So that is that you want, they
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want to help everybody because they have all this information
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and all this wisemess that they want to share.
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But the key is to, in order to, to, to, to actually help people
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and also to be mindful of the energy and not just give out the
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energy to everybody. They need to wait for that
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invitation. By that I mean, you can say,
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hey, Terry, I, I know about this subject and you mentioned about
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it. If you're interested in finding
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out more, let me know. Oh, Terry, I'm here to tell you
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this and this and this and this. And they're basically giving
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almost unsolicited advice and and also also using up energy
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that isn't quite that they don't quite have.
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And so that's where they become exhausted and become burnt out.
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So an aligned projector is actually someone who would wait
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for that invitation and wait for someone to come back and say,
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hey, Catherine, you mentioned the other day about this
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subject. I'd like to know more, you know,
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do you have fun? You know, can we talk about it?
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And so, and then, and if it's some, if I have the energy to do
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so, I will. So that's where I would see the
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opposite between the manifesto and a projector.
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I would see those two. And yet they would be really
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compatible to work together or being a very good friend.
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And you know, it, it really struck me as you were talking
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about that, that when we also understand that that is who we
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are. So the projector has that very
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different wisdom. They have a very different
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energy. You know, it's no not much views
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for that person to try to be something that they're not.
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And it's how many of us are really doing that at the moment.
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We're doing courses even we're spending thousands and thousands
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of dollars trying to learn how to be like this and this and
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this, when in fact, we need to really honor who we are in a
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really, really big way. Because you know, if a projector
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is trying to be a manifesto, that's going to burn so much
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energy. And then we've got the
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reflector. Can you tell me about the
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reflector? Well, the.
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Reflector there are one, there are only 1% of the population.
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So they're very, very unique. And the thing about reflecting
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is when you look in the body graph and, and even if you have
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time to have a look body graph, you will see that there are
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centers almost like the chakra system in, you know, like
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there's seven chakras, but there's actually in a body
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graph, there are 9 centers. And the, that's that they're
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basically our energy centers. So when they're closed, they're
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called to find. And that's when we have our
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energy is actually we, we, our energy is used from, comes from
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within. And then when they're open,
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actually that we receive our energy from outside.
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So I reflect sector is actually has all open centres and I
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actually was at a retreat last week where I did meet a
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reflector and it was quite a special moment because you don't
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come across them that often being 1% of the population.
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And and this one said that what happens with these open centres
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is that they absorb energy from everywhere, from outside.
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So, and a reflector actually needs to wait when they're going
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to make a big decision. They actually need to wait 28
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days, 28 days, a lunar cycle to actually to feel all the feels
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and absorb all the energy and just get the ideas and that and,
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and then feel the emotions and, and, you know, feel the pressure
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and the stress and go through all of that.
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And to actually be able to make a decision like that, that big
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decision. And I did ask this reflector,
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you know, is that the case with you?
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And she said absolutely. And even just for the retreat,
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it took her two months to decide whether she was going to accept
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and go to the retreat. She said she actually
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understands that. She feels it, feels that she
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needs to go through all that whole, all of the emotions and
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all the ideas, all of the thoughts and process the whole
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thing and go through a whole process system and then go yes
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or no. It's, it's incredible.
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That is, and Can you imagine how many people would have called,
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you know, a reflector, A procrastinator or?
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100% yes and this. Is what I'm calling.
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That's right, she takes so much up her mind.
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Exactly. And so when you know, when you
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understand that that is your human design, then you can
27:45
really Revere yourself. And I feel that revereing and
27:49
respecting and surrendering to, you know, who you are plays such
27:57
a massive part. Now, this next one that I'm
28:01
going to touch on I feel is going to really be quite a
28:06
controversial situation, even though you may have just
28:12
described it as riding the emotional wave.
28:16
But this is another element of where people can quite often
28:22
jump to conclusions. And I'm thinking because of the
28:27
emotional roller coaster, some people may get tricked into
28:33
thinking that they're bipolar even, or, you know, diagnosing
28:40
themselves, just like you said about the ADHD.
28:43
And this is where I feel human design is going to rule out so
28:50
many false analysis on diagnosing yourself.
28:55
But let's talk about the emotional wave and the rise and
29:00
fall. And you know how you implement
29:06
this technique of pressing pause?
29:10
Yes, yes. So the emotional wave, when I
29:13
first understood the emotional wave, I had, I remember feeling
29:16
a sigh of relief because I thought, I don't think I OK, so
29:20
I'm not bipolar because I have an emotional authority, which is
29:24
the emotional wave. So the authority in human design
29:27
is how we best make our decisions.
29:30
And there are 677 different authorities.
29:34
The emotional wave, the emotional authority is a very
29:38
common authority and that's the one that I have.
29:43
And what happens is you have these highs and these lows, and
29:49
you need to ride this emotional wave before you actually make a
29:53
decision. So we always say should wait to,
29:56
when it's time to make a decision, ride the emotional
29:58
wave. And when you get to that
29:59
emotional neutral place, that's when you make the decision.
30:03
So we have these highs on top of the world.
30:06
Yes. You know, so Terry, you know,
30:07
would, you know, would you like to come to Saturday night to a
30:11
concert with me? I you know, I've got some
30:14
tickets and it's Monday and you go.
30:15
Yeah, absolutely. I feel fantastic, but then you
30:18
haven't had a look at your calendar.
30:21
You did you forgot that you have a Tuesday night, you know, and
30:25
you're you're actually presenting on Thursday.
30:27
And then Friday night it's we're describing your week.
30:33
And then there's an anniversary dinner and there's a family
30:35
function and there's somebody'd birthday and then it's Saturday
30:38
night. Oh my.
30:39
Gosh, what? Was I thinking saying yes, so
30:42
then so then if you regret that decision, so the other.
30:46
Another example is when you actually actually feeling quite
30:49
low. We, we all have feelings of
30:51
feeling low. And in fact, it was only a few
30:54
weeks ago that I had this low on a Sunday and I was feeling
30:57
fabulous on the Saturday. And I remember feeling really
30:59
down and out on the Sunday thinking what on earth is wrong
31:02
with me? It was just my emotional way and
31:04
I just had to go through it. And when I woke up on Monday, I
31:07
was back in an emotional mutual place.
31:09
So these are the things that we depending on your chart that I
31:13
can see in your chart. And these are the things that I
31:15
explained as I go through the chart so that you actually
31:17
understand your, yourself and, and, and again, that once you,
31:21
when you know yourself, you understand there's nothing wrong
31:23
with me. I know now I have this emotional
31:25
wave. So I just ride my way through it
31:28
as opposed to why am I like this?
31:30
You stop asking the why and you understand yourself.
31:33
When you understand yourself, you're just, you're patient and
31:36
you just know that you just need to get through this to get to
31:38
that, to the next stage. Because the wrong question, when
31:43
you're asking it in a way that you know, where there's a crisis
31:48
or there is something that is not right, there's chaos in your
31:52
life or you know, you're just going through those moments of
31:57
challenges by asking why, it takes you deep into a rabbit
32:02
hole. It's more about asking what, you
32:06
know, what is the purpose for me in all of this?
32:09
And imagine if you could actually understand that I'm,
32:15
I'm going through this emotional wave.
32:18
I just have to ride it. And you did touch on something
32:24
that really hit me between the eyes, you know, backstage.
32:28
And that is that you talked about how you do, you know,
32:33
coach people to just pause and wait before they act.
32:40
And I know that sometimes I'm an activist, so I have that OK,
32:46
thinking on the spur of the moment and act.
32:49
But you mentioned it in the way of emails.
32:52
And I, I often think of it like almost like hitting the button
32:55
to a bomb. And sometimes you can write an
32:58
e-mail and then hit that button and realize, Oh my gosh, what
33:03
have I just done? So yes, but what do you, what do
33:08
you say to people? How do you bring people in and
33:11
ground them? So I have one of my clients is a
33:15
manifesting generator who says she, she does also like me and
33:20
she does go, she moves quite quickly.
33:23
And she also has emotional authority, which means that she
33:26
has, she has this emotional wave.
33:28
And when we started working together, she said she, she
33:31
said, well, I just want to be less, less emotional and, and,
33:37
and, and not respond so quickly. And, and So what, what I told
33:42
her in her emotion, in her human design, her strategy is to wait
33:47
to respond. So I, I, I explained to her that
33:51
she needed to, when she would receive an, an e-mail that was
33:55
that upset her. And usually it's in a work
33:57
environment. I'd say to her that so once OK,
34:01
read the e-mail, right? OK, breathe.
34:04
We wait to respond. We don't we, we.
34:06
So we're at this emotional. Well, I would say hi because
34:09
it's quite she's, you know, quite upset and quite emotional
34:13
and potentially going to say something she's going to regret
34:17
or write something she's going to regret.
34:19
And I say and then we, we, I've told her to wait and breathe
34:22
and, and not respond. Walk away, do something else.
34:25
Think about it and then walk back to that e-mail a little bit
34:29
later. If not, the even better scenario
34:32
is wait till that afternoon or the next day and respond back.
34:36
And once you started to do that, life is so much better for her
34:41
with she's finding that people are actually noticing that she's
34:44
calmer. She she's less responsive.
34:47
So when she responds, she's a lot nicer in the way that she
34:51
responds and you can tell she's not well, she's not as
34:55
frustrated. So her frustration isn't coming
34:57
out because it was basically she's reading that e-mail, she's
35:00
seeing red, she's frustrated and she's just responding.
35:03
Whereas by by waiting, thinking about it, waiting for that
35:07
emotional neutrality and then responding in a calmer way in a
35:12
calmer position, she's responding in a better way.
35:15
She's not putting people offside.
35:17
And actually she's also realizing, she said, you know,
35:19
some of it is not as bad as what she thought initially was.
35:22
So it's it's made a massive difference in her life and
35:25
people have noticed at work and actually her relationships have
35:28
improved as a result. Wow, that that's, I'm going to
35:33
definitely pay attention to that.
35:35
I don't think I've ever regretted once saying to myself,
35:41
you know what, that e-mail where I'm going to fire that person,
35:46
whether they're firing them as a friend or a person or whatever,
35:51
I'm going to wait until morning and then I'm going to make that
35:55
decision to whether or not I send it.
35:59
But I think there's a lot of power in that.
36:02
And I've never regretted once doing that and actually waiting
36:09
and changing the state. Because I mean, even in NLP, we
36:13
know everything is about state. So like what you mentioned, go
36:18
off, have a walk, make a coffee, go and do something, you know,
36:22
that's changing your state. It's changing your body, it's
36:26
changing your positioning and it's, it's like even when
36:29
something's not working, you know you'll have a technical
36:32
fault and you won't be able to get it.
36:35
But, and the more you get locked into it, the, the worse it seems
36:40
to get. But then you take yourself out
36:42
of the position, you probably turn it off and then turn it
36:46
back on again and, and well, magic happens.
36:50
So these things are just so incredible.
36:53
Now, obviously what we're going to do is we are going to put
36:57
Catherine's details in the show notes.
37:01
So if you would like to know, and I mean, knowledge is power,
37:07
especially when you action it, right?
37:11
So if you want to know your human design, you know, this is
37:18
the lady that you really do need to speak to.
37:22
If you spent a lifetime feeling misunderstood or you've been
37:27
shrinking yourself, this is the lady that you really need to
37:33
speak to because you know, this is game changing.
37:38
So what I'm going to do now is go to the part that I've been
37:41
looking forward to in the whole show.
37:45
Now we're going to give the audience a little bit of an
37:48
illustration about how knowing your human design can really
37:54
help you in your life. So behind the scenes, you asked
37:59
me some questions and then you discovered that I was exactly
38:04
like yourself, a manifesting generator.
38:07
That's right. So I'm now going to hand over to
38:10
you because maybe there's some things that will help me in my
38:16
life that I know that about myself.
38:19
Could you perhaps walk me through that?
38:22
Yeah, absolutely. So the questions that I asked
38:25
Terry were what I needed, the date, date of birth, the time of
38:29
birth and the place of birth. And, and I have a little program
38:33
that I sort of quickly, I usually do, by the way, just, I
38:37
usually do a little bit more preparation, but just at, at,
38:43
but just from a snapshot, I could clearly see as a
38:45
manifesting generator. Obviously being one myself, I
38:49
did expect you to be 1, Terry, in all honesty, because I could
38:52
see that you do a lot of things at once.
38:55
You love, you can see that you're someone who loves a lot
38:58
of variety. You're definitely a doer.
39:01
You're doing lots of different things.
39:04
I, I, I watch you on, on Facebook and I can see the
39:07
amount of things that you're doing.
39:09
Variety is very important to you in you're you're someone who
39:13
again, you're definitely someone who is a time vendor.
39:16
I you you would have in your career.
39:18
I, I would say that you have quantum leaped many times and
39:22
moved forward in a fast pace. Would that be correct?
39:26
Oh 100% and I seem to be. And I wonder if this has got
39:30
anything to do with the human design too.
39:33
I seem to thrive when the going gets tough, the tough get going,
39:38
and I can actually expound some pretty astronomical energy.
39:44
Yeah, Yep. And actually if I just quickly
39:46
look back at your chart, the reason why you are like this is
39:49
you have a a defined root centre in your chart and that's and
39:54
your, that someone who has that defined root centre is actually
39:59
someone who copes very well under pressure and does things
40:02
very quickly at the last minute. So you have, you have to do,
40:06
you've got this amount of work that you need to do and you've
40:09
got a deadline and you will just get it done and you thrive in
40:14
that in. Environment.
40:15
So that doesn't surprise me at all.
40:16
It's very clear in your chart. A Uni.
40:20
Student, you know, I, I and I run to the finishing line and
40:26
that's so true. And I operate so much better.
40:30
But maybe I would have told myself, and I have, if I'm going
40:33
to be honest, a lot of mistruths about myself.
40:38
Oh, I'm disorganized, I'm this, I'm that, and all those seeds of
40:43
doubt. And This is why I can't
40:44
emphasize to people that by knowing who you are and why you
40:50
do the things that you do, or it's an explanation of the way
40:56
that you roll for life. But I do have a question for you
41:00
as well, which I'm extremely interested to know.
41:03
And it may have nothing to do with human design, but I'm going
41:06
to ask it anyways. And that is that when you're
41:09
going through, you know, those chapters of your life and let's
41:13
face it, you know, our life is like a, a book and you've got
41:18
different chapters. And you know, I must admit, I
41:22
was going through status quo for a very, very, very long time up
41:26
until last year. And it was almost like the end
41:32
of 23, early 24. And then it's like we hit the
41:38
road running. And there was so many challenges
41:44
that I had to overcome, but every single one of them has
41:49
kind of prepped me and sharpened my, I guess my, my genius zone.
41:57
No pun intended for the show here, but it's, it's brought out
42:01
who I am, even though there are some massive crises going on.
42:07
You know, my strength as an advocate and the the many
42:12
challenges that I've faced where I've got to come up, you know,
42:16
with people and suddenly speak my truth and do the absolute
42:21
opposite of shrinking back. Here's my question.
42:25
Is that kind of determined in my human design chart?
42:30
Has that got anything to do with it or is that just life?
42:35
Look, I can actually see from your profile, you've got a line,
42:39
you've got the 2 lines. There's a four, six.
42:42
Your first line, which is the 4 is what you see in yourself.
42:45
And that's actually the opportunist.
42:47
You're an amazing networker. You use your networks in your
42:51
like your networks are really important to you and you use
42:54
your networks in, in bringing out all of your, all of your
42:56
skills and all of your, all of your talents.
42:59
And that's so obvious in the work that you do.
43:02
Then your line 6 actually, which is your, your second, which
43:05
people see in you, you're actually a role model.
43:08
Now that doesn't surprise me at all.
43:10
And it probably doesn't surprise you and anybody who's working
43:12
with you or watching you or watching this, you can clearly
43:16
see Gary, that you are such a few of this amazing role model
43:19
with all of this experience and knowledge that you're actually
43:22
sharing with others. So when with the line 6, it's
43:25
quite, it's quite unique that comes in three stages.
43:28
And from over the age of 50, you're actually are you're, you
43:33
really step into your role model status where you are actually
43:38
sharing all of your knowledge and all of your experience with
43:41
people. And so for you, it's within your
43:43
networks. And, and so you're actually just
43:46
really stepping into your power and everything that's happened
43:49
to you in your life, It is, it is really just continuing to add
43:54
to your experience and your knowledge that you can share and
43:57
help other people. So as as challenging as you,
44:01
some of the experiences have been, I'm sure you're, you're,
44:04
you're actually to being able to help others and ship by by
44:08
sharing that knowledge. If you're actually impacting
44:11
thousands of people, I'm I'm quite confident with that.
44:14
Well, look, thank you so much because that's what this show is
44:18
all about. Literally.
44:20
It's about, you know, being an ambassador for the pain that
44:25
each and every coach, healer and leader has gone through and
44:30
turning that into your power. And I have to say there is a
44:34
leader in all of us. So on that note, you know, it's
44:39
if you can understand your human design and you can have someone
44:45
as incredibly wise as Catherine to actually lead and guide you
44:53
through that process so you can come to know who you are.
44:56
You know, you can understand yourself so that you come into
45:00
this incredible acceptance rather than letting people say,
45:04
oh, you've you've got ADHD or you're a procrastinator, or you
45:09
can't do this or you can't do that.
45:11
All of those stories suddenly become null and void and you can
45:17
rise in your power. So I'm going to conclude with
45:21
the question that I ask every single person that comes onto
45:24
the show. And that is, you know, for your
45:28
person and you know that you're dealing with people that are
45:31
inclined to move into that burnout.
45:35
And probably because they're very highly integral people,
45:43
they're very committed, they're very passionate.
45:46
But it's almost because of that that they put themselves into
45:50
that position of burnout. And they're also very
45:53
misunderstood. So I would like to ask you the
45:57
question because we don't want you to go off the show and then
46:00
think, oh, I would have loved to share that.
46:04
What is something that you can either perhaps reiterate that
46:09
you've already said was something you'd really like to
46:12
put out there to the the audience that is going to be
46:17
tuning in and who is tuning into this show right now?
46:21
I am passionate about people actually coming back to
46:26
themselves and finding their true authentic self and just
46:29
coming home to themselves and just really stepping in their
46:34
power and understanding who they are and, and, and removing all
46:39
that conditioning that society has put on them.
46:42
And just be yourself and love yourself and be really proud of
46:46
the person that you are. And like, really stand up and
46:49
go, yes, this is who I am and I love it.
46:53
And that's, that's really what, that's what that's what I do
46:56
with my clients. That's the impact that I want to
46:58
make on the world. I just want everyone to be able
47:01
to find their joy living in their true authentic lives, true
47:05
authentic life, living in their true authentic self.
47:08
That's that's what I really wanted to do.
47:10
Wow, that's amazing. So if you're ready to step into
47:14
your true authentic self, no shrinking back and totally
47:20
owning yourself, then jump into our show notes.
47:24
Check out where you can get hold of Catherine and you know,
47:29
remember your life. You've only got one life here on
47:33
earth. At least that's what I believe,
47:36
and you may as well leave it to the absolute full.
47:39
Catherine, thank you so much for bringing so much wisdom and so
47:44
much knowledge and so many gold Nuggets to us on the show here
47:47
tonight. Thank you so much, Terry.
47:50
It's been such a pleasure and such an honour.
47:51
Thank you and thank you to everybody who's been watching.
47:54
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