Latest / Bassline by Cavendish Ware / Episode 24 - Neurodiversity and money
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- 0:00Dave Wallace: Welcome to today's episode.
- 0:01Dave Wallace: And this one is a special episode because uh Adrian and I are swapping places.
- 0:08Dave Wallace: Adrian's actually going to be doing the interviewing.
- 0:11Dave Wallace: So so Adrian, welcome to the show.
- 0:13Dave Wallace: I I hope you're gonna be okay in uh the hot seat.
- 0:17Dave Wallace: I mean, I'm feeling slightly nervous about being the uh the the uh the the interview today.
- 0:23Adrian Ware: So uh but you know it's a hot seat to take over from, Dave.
- 0:27Adrian Ware: So uh let's see where we go.
- 0:28Adrian Ware: Um yeah, the reason we're doing this for those listening is um on the subject of neurodiversity, Dave.
- 0:35Adrian Ware: You were sort of diagnosed with this very late in life, um uh literally last year, I I believe.
- 0:40Adrian Ware: Um and it just r really fascinated fascinated me in terms of the conversations that we have had around that diagnosis and the implications for you, which I think uh sort of stretches out probably to many people that the the that that we deal with about the impact on it on your life and how it interrelates with financial matters generally and and and your interaction with with with money and all things money.
- 1:08Adrian Ware: Um so yeah, I mean I I I was probably the first place to start is well just make sure everybody's is is comfortable with what we mean by neurodiversity.
- 1:19Adrian Ware: Um I mean I I I I think I'll I'll I'll put this one out there, Dave, that the whole concept of neurodiversity was was trying to move away from this sort of feeling that you know there are those people that are deemed normal, and then anybody else was therefore in some form subnormal through the way that their brain works, and that stretches into you know autism, ADHD, dyslexia, and a whole panel of things, and recognising that rather than there being this this previous sort of way of oh, it's a problem we've got to fix, it's a spectrum.
- 1:54Adrian Ware: Most people are probably somewhere on that spectrum, and it's just seeing the seeing the world through a different lens in terms of how you uh absorb, learn, process information.
- 2:06Dave Wallace: Well, I mean, I think that's a I think a brilliant summary.
- 2:10Dave Wallace: I I would kind of reinforce the neurological side of things.
- 2:15Dave Wallace: You mentioned the word processing, and I think that's kind of critical, is that this is often to do with the bra the way that the brain is set up or uh and you know what people are dealing with is neurology rather than psychology.
- 2:31Dave Wallace: And I think for me it was a big kind of light bulb moment that this may be just to do with you know genetics and the way that my brain works rather than you know some sort of psychological impediment that you know I may or may not have.
- 2:49Dave Wallace: But I think you're right.
- 2:50Dave Wallace: I mean, I think the kind of key things are is there is is spectrum.
- 2:54Dave Wallace: I mean, the more they look at neurodiversity and the opposite of neurodiversity is neurotypical.
- 3:01Dave Wallace: So you have that they would describe people with you know who fit into kind of the broad category of normal uh uh as neurotypical, but the more they look into that, the more they realise that people kind of sit somewhere on this spectrum, and you know, the borders are around all of this stuff is fairly difficult to define.
- 3:24Adrian Ware: So so what triggered you to starting to think that maybe you were there and at such a late stage in your life?
- 3:32Dave Wallace: I mean, I mean it's it's very interesting because I um we our children, like I mean, so many people who uh have children will will understand this.
- 3:44Dave Wallace: We sort of discovered that there was problems with reading and writing, and you know, all the kids were diagnosed with dyslexia and dyspraxia.
- 3:54Dave Wallace: And actually a couple of them then displayed a bit more than that in terms of sort of the way that they kind of looked at the world.
- 4:02Dave Wallace: So we we we I we were sort of I was chatting to my wife, and we were like, well, we think there might be a bit more going on with with one or two of them.
- 4:11Dave Wallace: And um I for some reason had just started listening to a podcast about ADHD, or I'd been reading some articles about ADHD, and I was like, I wonder if he's he's got ADHD.
- 4:23Dave Wallace: So I sort of did some investigation and found that there was a place where you know he could actually privately get a diagnosis.
- 4:35Dave Wallace: So uh I I laid this back internally to the family, and then um I think one of my daughters said, Oh, I I've just done a a kind of quick quiz on on ADHD.
- 4:48Dave Wallace: And she said, I don't think she's I don't think he's the only one in the family with it, basically.
- 4:54Dave Wallace: So I was like, what do you mean by that?
- 4:57Dave Wallace: And she said, Well, uh I you've sort of scored quite highly.
- 5:01Dave Wallace: So I was like, What?
- 5:02Dave Wallace: So I mean it was really kind of observation in the family that kind of got me got me.
- 5:08Adrian Ware: What was your initial feeling on that?
- 5:10Dave Wallace: I mean, do you know what to begin with?
- 5:13Dave Wallace: I was like, Oh, I got really, really angry and annoyed.
- 5:16Dave Wallace: I was like, what the hell are you talking about?
- 5:19Dave Wallace: You know, I mean, turns out that you know, immediately getting really annoyed and angry is a very symptomatic of ADHD.
- 5:29Dave Wallace: Um, but you know, she sent me the quiz and I did the quiz, and I was like, oh, the questions are kind of really interesting because in my head, ADHD was sort of people who, you know, young boys in classrooms unable to sort of sit still and kind of causing causing havoc.
- 5:47Dave Wallace: Um, but you know, there was a lot in there around attention deficit that kind of really resonated with me.
- 5:55Adrian Ware: You know, I so um how does that manifest with you though?
- 5:59Dave Wallace: I mean well, well, for me, that um I I mean, and you know, I I'll be as honest as I can, and you know, but but it it manifests in in terms of things like um boredom.
- 6:13Dave Wallace: Like I have a very low boredom threshold.
- 6:16Dave Wallace: Um you know, if I'm not interested in something, I can't engage with it.
- 6:21Dave Wallace: So I'd always wondered why hate small talk.
- 6:24Dave Wallace: Now, I mean, you know me very well.
- 6:26Dave Wallace: I mean, I love to talk, and but you you know, in social settings I find just small talk really, really difficult.
- 6:35Dave Wallace: And people have often said to me, or my family have said to me, God, you're quite rude, because you you know, you'll be talking to someone, and you can you basically they can say, We see you switched off, and you know, you're looking over your shoulder.
- 6:49Dave Wallace: And sort of odd things like in social situations where I I felt um like under pressure to converse and talk, I get very, very exhausted very quickly, and I just want to go, you know.
- 7:04Dave Wallace: So um uh so that was kind of like a big thing.
- 7:10Dave Wallace: Then in terms of like I've had this really weird relationship with money over the years.
- 7:15Dave Wallace: Like I've never, I you know, again, it's sort of I feel slightly ashamed of this because you know, I'm the father of five kids and you know, supposed to be the head of the family, but I've never, never really totally understood the concept of money.
- 7:32Dave Wallace: And I know that sounds like a really sort of trite thing to say, but it somewhere in my brain it just sort of doesn't add up, particularly when you think about money into the future, and I know that's something that people struggle with, but but around money, one of the I guess the worst things is I I find it really difficult to read complex information.
- 7:57Dave Wallace: So I've been through an an awful lot in my career, and including selling a business, and when I look back on it, I've managed to do all of that without actually reading the the legal documents or I I mean and I mean I love the look on your face, and we'll definitely put this up as a video podcast as well.
- 8:17Dave Wallace: But I you know, but it was like going back to podcasts.
- 8:22Dave Wallace: I was listening to um Katie Price talking on a podcast, and she was like saying, like, one of my big problems is I cannot engage with complex documents, I can't read documents.
- 8:37Dave Wallace: Um, and I was a bit like, oh yeah, well that's you know, maybe it's not just me who kind of suffers from it.
- 8:44Adrian Ware: And I think that's that's it's fairly publicly documented, isn't it?
- 8:48Adrian Ware: That that she recognises that's caused her all to make all sorts of mistakes and placing trust in the wrong people and and and basically getting sort of you know, um, I think the technical turn is screwed over.
- 8:59Dave Wallace: Um Yeah, t totally.
- 9:01Dave Wallace: And now she's in a position where she can't have um she can't sign documents without a responsible adult being, you know, so somebody who's explained all of this stuff to her.
- 9:14Dave Wallace: And then that made me reflect, and you know, we get into this.
- 9:17Dave Wallace: That actually where I my good fortune was that I I had actually surrounded myself with responsible adults who, you know, including your good self, who have been able to kind of guide me through a lot of this stuff.
- 9:31Adrian Ware: And it was sort of a it was just something that kind of happened organically rather than you know, something that um well I was gonna say, 'cause I mean, you know, you you you you you built and ran um a very successful agency, sold it into WPP and ran that then internally for a long time, dealing with all sorts these sorts of things.
- 9:53Adrian Ware: I mean, wow, I mean that that's it's amazing actually.
- 9:57Adrian Ware: But but but you obviously, I mean, because maybe you didn't you didn't know, but it clearly wasn't a disabler to you at all.
- 10:05Adrian Ware: Um I I hear various people talk about this uh in terms of you know it's it's not it's not a problem, it's my superpower.
- 10:12Adrian Ware: Would you buy into that?
- 10:14Dave Wallace: Totally.
- 10:14Dave Wallace: And I think you know, well what what I then, you know, going back to the sort of the whole diagnosis, you know, it talks about hyperfocus, and what I realized is that I am very good at kind of hyperfocusing.
- 10:28Dave Wallace: So, you know, um, it turns out the internet was a blessing to it.
- 10:32Dave Wallace: So I discovered the internet quite by accident in the early 90s, and I was like, it was sort of love at first sight with with that.
- 10:43Dave Wallace: So I actually helped put yellow pages online.
- 10:46Dave Wallace: You know, I was the first person in Yellow Pages when it was still a massive book business to um to have an internet account.
- 10:54Dave Wallace: But I you know, I reflect on it and go, well, actually, the internet changes the whole time.
- 10:59Dave Wallace: So, you know, I was so fortunate because I I never got bored because it was always changing, you know.
- 11:05Dave Wallace: So I was like riding this way.
- 11:07Dave Wallace: Within that, there's a kind of there's commerciality.
- 11:11Dave Wallace: So I I don't I can't read documents, but it doesn't mean I'm not highly commercial.
- 11:15Dave Wallace: So I was able to identify kind of sweet spots from a kind of uh a propositional point of view and and build a business, and I think it is a superpower in many ways, or for me it's been a superpower.
- 11:28Dave Wallace: Um but I then went through a formal diagnosis, and that was a bit like a key unlocking my brain, to be honest with you, because you you know, within my myself, um I mean, again, I I I would often get really angry about stuff uh very quickly, you you know, and I discovered that's a sort of symptom of ADHD.
- 11:55Dave Wallace: So there was a lot of repairing I actually needed to do in in the family because I think the problem is when you kind of don't understand what's going on in your brain, you can often create this sort of whole world of everybody versus me type thing.
- 12:12Dave Wallace: Yeah, yeah.
- 12:13Dave Wallace: Um, you know, so there was a lot of repairing that I kind of needed to do, but it also then sort of made me think, well, I need to do things like repair my relationship with things like money.
- 12:24Dave Wallace: I've I've done well as a sort of individual in terms of having a business, selling a business.
- 12:29Dave Wallace: Um, but that hasn't stopped me from having a kind of morbid fear about it all, you know.
- 12:34Dave Wallace: So it goes back to this sort of unbalanced relationship with money and the future.
- 12:39Dave Wallace: Like and it you know, as I say, I mean, I guess my good luck was to sort of get advice from an early sta early stage around my money.
- 12:50Adrian Ware: Although I know I mean we've we've we've chatted before about um I think you know way back in the day, you perhaps not receiving the best advice, and and and and it is that issue of you are having to place trust in people where that they take advantage of you.
- 13:08Adrian Ware: But I think I mean you you you had some experience of that, didn't you?
- 13:11Dave Wallace: I I I did, and I won't go into the the the company involved, but you you know I'm still feeling the repercussions from from that.
- 13:19Dave Wallace: And um you know, it makes me like I mean, and the that that kind of goes back to the a time in the 90s where there was very little regulation around advice, and I I've sat and now understood I was probably just seen as somebody to pay for a or you know, a prize on a on a nice boat, you know, holiday or something like you know, it w I was just a commodity in the process.
- 13:47Dave Wallace: And uh I mean I I think thank God a lot of those days have behind us, although I I think the attitude still lives on very much.
- 13:56Dave Wallace: But yeah, I mean through the bad experience, you know, I kind of learned.
- 14:01Dave Wallace: Um, so uh I think that kind of that that that made a difference.
- 14:06Dave Wallace: Uh I mean, and that's sorry, that is one of the other things to talk about ADHD is you know, often people will learn by experience rather than by sort of reading things or whatever.
- 14:18Dave Wallace: So I guess I was in a position where I was able to to to know what I was kind of looking for from an advisory point of view.
- 14:27Adrian Ware: Yeah.
- 14:27Adrian Ware: Oh, it's interesting.
- 14:28Adrian Ware: I mean going back to the how people learn and how people assimilate information in and we all do it in different ways.
- 14:37Adrian Ware: Way before neurodiversity was was was a thing that was talked about and recognised, I was always uh sort of taught that and experienced the fact that we we all tend to learn in different ways and we tend to absorb information different ways.
- 14:52Adrian Ware: And you know, I'm very visual.
- 14:53Adrian Ware: I I I I I will remember a picture, I like I like drawings, I like doing it, it it it ri it resonates.
- 15:00Adrian Ware: I'm not bad at detail in terms of reading um sort of you know detailed things, but I know plenty of people who aren't, and if you put a very long detailed sort of apron in front of them, they will do exactly what you would do and just switch off completely.
- 15:15Adrian Ware: But then of course there are other people who they they don't want the pictures, they want the detail.
- 15:20Adrian Ware: So it's all part of you know this, it's so you know, to make sure that you you try and present things in a number of different ways, because you know we we we wouldn't necessarily know when we first met somebody where where they sat or on any spectrum, um, and how to get those messages across simply and easily and in the most beneficial way for them to actually understand what they would they were seeing.
- 15:47Adrian Ware: Um so and it sounds I mean my question to you would be if if if if you were talking to one of my sort of advisors in the firm who is just starting out on their career, um knowing now what we know, is there is there anything they should be taking away?
- 16:05Adrian Ware: The wider advisor community that sits out there is are there are there things that people should be doing when they are talking to clients generally without knowing whether they're neurodiverse in terms of how they talk and interact with people?
- 16:18Dave Wallace: I I think it's simple things like how how do you want your information you know uh given to you?
- 16:28Dave Wallace: You know, what what what what can we do?
- 16:29Dave Wallace: You know, it's like we live in an AI age now where you've got things like notebook.ml where you can which is a remarkable piece of technology, can upload a complex document and then it can produce a podcast from it, you know, which or a or or a video, or you know, so there are tools available.
- 16:50Dave Wallace: So I think one of the first things to really get behind is you know, how do you want us to present this information to you uh and offer a range of a range of tools.
- 17:00Dave Wallace: Now that will tell when they say, Oh, you know what, I r I like listening or watching tells you something.
- 17:09Dave Wallace: Or I like the detail, it kind of tells you something.
- 17:12Dave Wallace: I think it's actually I wouldn't now I'm in I sort of understand my brain, I'm happy to say to people I'm I'm a bit AD, so you need to take that into account.
- 17:25Dave Wallace: I think most people in the financial community haven't got a clue what that that means.
- 17:31Dave Wallace: So, you know, part of what we're doing here is to kind of educate the community.
- 17:36Dave Wallace: I think that if you do understand that someone is more neurodiverse, then you know they may ask you odd things and you know want things in it displayed in different ways.
- 17:47Dave Wallace: But I think you know, increasingly people will be saying, you know, I have a diagnosis.
- 17:54Dave Wallace: Um I think you know, one curiosity, because a lot of my career has been working with financial services firms, is often people will go through a risk tolerance calculation.
- 18:07Dave Wallace: I mean, if you want, in order to give advice, you need to understand people's attitudes to risk.
- 18:12Dave Wallace: I don't think that captures people's relationship with money.
- 18:16Dave Wallace: So trying to find a way to ask people like, do you wake up in the middle of the night sweating when you think about money and the future?
- 18:23Dave Wallace: Like it that could be a question, which isn't a risk question, it's just like no, I totally totally agree.
- 18:29Dave Wallace: Yeah, I mean you know, that sort of more human side of things, because I think like and by the way, risk I think is just you know, I I understand, but it feels like a sledgehammer to crack a nut because my attitude to risk changes from one day to the next.
- 18:45Dave Wallace: So I I've always thought that doesn't kind of work.
- 18:48Dave Wallace: I I think through all of it is sort of really starting to say, you as an individual, like how do we kind of communicate best to you?
- 18:57Dave Wallace: You know, how do we work with you?
- 19:01Dave Wallace: And I think technology now exists to be able to do all of this.
- 19:05Adrian Ware: I and I I'm I'm gonna guess that uh um people will increasingly lean into AI because it's it it's seen as a as a sort of this independent view.
- 19:17Adrian Ware: What's your take on that?
- 19:20Dave Wallace: I I agree a hundred percent.
- 19:22Dave Wallace: I was just chatting to recently to someone who's got a wealth management platform based out in the Middle East.
- 19:30Dave Wallace: They've just done a survey and they asked people like, do you use AI for financial advice?
- 19:37Dave Wallace: 70% of people said they do.
- 19:39Dave Wallace: And you know, it's not surprising.
- 19:41Dave Wallace: People are going to Chat GPT and asking questions.
- 19:44Dave Wallace: I think what was more shocking actually for me is 70% of people said they would act on the advice of AI.
- 19:52Dave Wallace: You know, I I'm really not in that camp yet because I know that you know AI has a sort of a tendency to kind of hallucinate and do other things.
- 20:04Dave Wallace: So I I would definitely advise people not to act on what Chat GPT tells them.
- 20:10Adrian Ware: You're right.
- 20:10Adrian Ware: I mean it does it is quite deterministic, isn't it, in it in its approach, and and I think there are there are big dangers at the moment.
- 20:16Adrian Ware: I think it's it's changing all the time.
- 20:18Dave Wallace: But yeah, I I um but but you know the ability to go to something which kind of is like you know, they've been programmed to be kind and nice and you know, attentive and to to do that, yeah.
- 20:31Dave Wallace: I mean that tells you what the industry should be doing, you know.
- 20:35Dave Wallace: I mean, yeah, like I can imagine a future in which you know we we talk to AI, but that the relationship we then have is is sort of AI but to a human as well.
- 20:49Dave Wallace: So, you know, that was one of the other things this gentleman said is that you know, because I explained my daughter was training to be a uh financial um advisor, and he's like, lucky girl, because she's or lucky woman, sorry.
- 21:02Dave Wallace: She he was like, you know, the future, if she knows how to kind of work with AI, the future is so so there, because you know, you still need a human being as part of that process.
- 21:15Dave Wallace: So you know, and I I can sort of see like this is genuinely the way I think to kind of help tackle the issue of the different way that people view the world, you know, because of as going back to the whole point is they process information differently.
- 21:36Adrian Ware: Yeah.
- 21:37Adrian Ware: Yeah, I completely agree.
- 21:39Adrian Ware: Um and yeah, well, as you you know what we're doing on AI internally.
- 21:42Adrian Ware: So yeah, I think we're we we agree entirely.
- 21:45Adrian Ware: I think it's dangerous and needs to be used correctly, but it's it but it's incredibly valuable.
- 21:51Dave Wallace: Um I I agree, but I ought y you know, I I then was sort of thinking about like part of the issue with that is it kind of You're not learning a skill.
- 22:02Dave Wallace: So, you know, one of the things that I think is really missing in this country is is just access to financial knowledge about and and skills around finance.
- 22:14Dave Wallace: And I think that is something that kind of schools.
- 22:17Adrian Ware: Oh, it's much wear of mine.
- 22:19Adrian Ware: Um there's no uh there's no finance on the curriculum anywhere.
- 22:24Adrian Ware: Um you know, we we we we we've been chatting to various schools around and with with a uh uh sort of a a peer group that I'm I'm a member of going into schools and providing pro bono sort of sessions on it.
- 22:37Adrian Ware: But you know, uh an hour um uh sort of set session with a with a group of students doesn't really cut it.
- 22:43Adrian Ware: Um they spend more time learning how to do you know woodwork and cooking rather than actually money, which is fundamentally important.
- 22:51Adrian Ware: And and some of that stuff, I mean it's a bit it's not quite true for obvious reasons now, but it used to be a case of you know one of the things was how to write a check.
- 23:00Adrian Ware: You know, that that's not really necessarily about understanding.
- 23:04Dave Wallace: No, I I was hearing that that is still on the curriculum, I think.
- 23:08Adrian Ware: I know it's it's not so um so no, I think you're right, that that that needs to change anyway, but that's uh um but yeah, so that more on that later, I think, uh as we if we can push that one out.
- 23:20Dave Wallace: No, well I but I think I mean I through the process I've been through, like I've always wondered in the work that I've done why you mentioned the word pension and people's brains just switch off.
- 23:32Dave Wallace: Now I I thought, well, that's just well, I've always thought it's weird, you know, that it's like a magic word pension.
- 23:40Adrian Ware: It's like you're allowed to say pensions are boring.
- 23:43Adrian Ware: I do get it.
- 23:44Dave Wallace: I mean, it's it's not that.
- 23:45Dave Wallace: I think there's something more like it's um uh you know, people kind of almost get put to sleep, like snap your fingers and they but I think maybe it's a kind of there is a sort of definite like there could be a physiological reason why we can't think about money into the future.
- 24:04Dave Wallace: So, you know, one of the things that I ponder is like how do you kind of better talk to people about future money, particularly at a kind of school age where it's you know that it's a complete irrelevance to them.
- 24:17Dave Wallace: And you know, I I now know that it's a really important thing.
- 24:22Dave Wallace: So, you know, when the kids were young, we set up sort of small pension schemes for them, and my god, they've grown extraordinarily, you know.
- 24:30Dave Wallace: So I'm like, well, you know, you've got the basis for some something good in the future.
- 24:37Adrian Ware: Um is that demystification, isn't it?
- 24:40Dave Wallace: Of of a Yeah, I but I think it's there's slump something slightly more.
- 24:43Dave Wallace: Like I think pensions need a kind of rebranding, but uh, but again, you you know, I think it's uh that's something AI can really help with is you know, like mm-hmm.
- 24:54Adrian Ware: I'm showing up on all this.
- 24:57Adrian Ware: I think that the that that there has been a period where the the pensions industry has actually not looked to simplify or not looked to to make things demystified because it suits their purposes not to.
- 25:10Adrian Ware: They want it to be complicated and all the rest of it.
- 25:13Adrian Ware: And I think that's that that that is changing, but very slowly, and it's changing from where we sit and my my peers um uh are are around the country doing what we do, but we are just a small group of people trying to trying to move a very big needle.
- 25:29Adrian Ware: Um, and I don't see a lot of that happening.
- 25:32Adrian Ware: It's very frustrating for me.
- 25:33Dave Wallace: But but I think this is why this like this topic's really important, AI is really because these are all like you know, a lot I hear a lot about um both ADHD and AI, like it's there's a lot of hyperbole, and you know, there's more and more people being diagnosed, and it's just a trend, it's just a fad.
- 25:54Dave Wallace: And I I just say complete BS.
- 25:57Dave Wallace: You know, we're we're moving into an AI future.
- 26:00Dave Wallace: Kind of, I think more and more people are understanding themselves and going through that diagnostic process, and the world's gonna be a better place for it, and I think it means that the industry will have the challenge.
- 26:16Dave Wallace: I mean, AI is a massive challenge to financial service, a huge opportunity, but it's a massive challenge.
- 26:22Dave Wallace: But I think the more people understand about how brains work and the individual, the more the industry is gonna have to kind of recognise that they need to change around the individual.
- 26:32Dave Wallace: So I think you know, they they're kind of actually strangely related, those two things, and I think an existential threat and opportunity to to the finance industry.
- 26:44Dave Wallace: And those people, those I think organizations, institutions that kind of recognise that, I think will really, really benefit hugely.
- 26:54Adrian Ware: I agree.
- 26:55Adrian Ware: Dave, listen, thank you so much for sharing all of that.
- 26:59Adrian Ware: That was uh really interesting.
- 27:00Adrian Ware: I mean, you know, and being very open about your own situation.
- 27:04Adrian Ware: Thank you.
- 27:04Adrian Ware: I'll I'll we'll close it off there.
- 27:06Adrian Ware: I think it was a good point to finish on, but um uh and we will see you next time.
- 27:10Adrian Ware: When when you will be back in the hot seat.
- 27:14Dave Wallace: Yeah, no, indeed.
- 27:15Dave Wallace: Well, I I really appreciate it.
- 27:17Dave Wallace: So uh yeah, I'll I'll send you the money for the therapy session.
- 27:21Dave Wallace: But look look, I mean I half of me I've gone through the embarrassment site, you know, I've looked at looked at the whole thing and gone, well, actually, I think there's a lot of people out there who may suffer.
- 27:35Dave Wallace: You you know, I've actually I I've written a few articles about it.
- 27:39Dave Wallace: I've been I've had some people come to me and say thank you because you're writing about things that really have impacted my life.
- 27:48Dave Wallace: So you you know, and I I would encourage people if they if they or the people around them think that it it might be worth getting a diagnosis, then just go and do it.
- 28:00Dave Wallace: Because as I say, for me it was like a key unlocking something, and you know, it's it's been nothing but a positive experience.
- 28:09Adrian Ware: Brilliant, really good.
- 28:10Adrian Ware: Thank you again.