Partner Blame: When You're Held Accountable for Their Choices

Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast · Jul 9, 2026 · 11m

Get our latest book: Scapegoated - You Were Never the Problem HEREYour partner's unhappy, and somehow it's your fault. They're angry, and you caused it. They made a bad decision, and you pushed them to it. How did you become responsible for another adult's emotional life and choices?This episode explores one of the most disorienting dynamics in toxic relationships: when a partner refuses to own their feelings, actions, or consequences and instead makes you the explanation for everything that's wrong. It's not random. It's not because you're actually failing them. It's a calculated way to…