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231: Sister Wives Rewind - Odd Wife Out (S6 E4) · Reality TV Cringe

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  Speaker 1: Hello and welcome to Reality TV Cringe. I am one
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  Speaker 1: of your hosts, Delia here with my real tied homegirl
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  Speaker 1: and my daughter in law, Pietri. That's me. Actually, you
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  Speaker 1: have your anniversary to my daughter.
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  Speaker 2: Tomorrow, eight years tomorrow.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, I know, eight years. So you made it over
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  Speaker 1: that seven year hump. Yes, that's when they say people
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  Speaker 1: start getting that itch.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that didn't happen to us.
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  Speaker 1: No, that's okay.
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  Speaker 2: Good.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because we can't lose you, Beatrice. You're part of this.
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  Speaker 2: You're stuck with me.
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  Speaker 1: Thank god. We are here to talk sister wives, and
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  Speaker 1: as you may or may not know, we are currently
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  Speaker 1: in a rewind vibe. We are recapping season six, the
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  Speaker 1: season of the cul de Sac, and the season of
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  Speaker 1: or any comments that anybody left that we want to
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  Speaker 1: discuss with the general Pop the gen Pop.
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  Speaker 2: Before recording this, I was telling her about how we
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  Speaker 2: got a comment because I check all the comments. She
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  Speaker 2: doesn't read all of them. After a little bit, she's like,
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  Speaker 2: come out. But I'm checking all the comments because I'm crazy.
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  Speaker 2: And so I was reading late at night the other
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  Speaker 2: night somebody had left a really rare comment about how
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  Speaker 2: beautiful Delia was. Well, I was telling her about it,
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  Speaker 2: but I can't find the comment anymore. But somebody was saying,
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  Speaker 2: oh my god, Dahlia, I can't believe you're Beatrice's mother
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  Speaker 2: in law and you have no line on your face.
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  Speaker 2: Do you have any tips and tricks? Because it's too
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  Speaker 2: late for me, but you're so beautiful.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I feel seen. Yeah, I feel seen
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  Speaker 1: in this moment.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I do want to acknowledge that that camera is very
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  Speaker 1: far away though, And if you follow us on Patreon,
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  Speaker 1: you've got some close ups and maybe you can see
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  Speaker 1: a little something something on my face, but not a lot.
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  Speaker 2: Mostly you still look very good.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Now, I was born and raised in Hawaiian. We don't
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  Speaker 1: have to go all the way back there. But when
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  Speaker 1: I turned twenty years old, I stopped going in the sun.
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  Speaker 2: Good.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I started to use sunscreen. Now, keep in
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  Speaker 1: mind I was born in the sixties. Yeah, it was
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  Speaker 1: born in the sixties and the sixties, seventies, and even
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  Speaker 1: in the eighties. In Hawaii, you did not wear sunscreen. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you wore coconut oil.
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  Speaker 2: Oh so you were literally baking.
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  Speaker 1: Who were we watching the Gypsy Sisters.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, motor oil.
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  Speaker 1: We're using motor oil. Kind of those same vibes. That's
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  Speaker 1: what we used back in the day. But like, I
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  Speaker 1: stopped and I started using sunscreen, and I moisturized all
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  Speaker 1: the time, and then I got a little bit of.
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  Speaker 2: What just a little a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: But I mean I've talked about it on Patreon, but
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  Speaker 1: there have been some things that I have done to
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  Speaker 1: my body, into my face, and I think it turned
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  Speaker 1: out great.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it did.
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  Speaker 1: So whoever that mystery commenter is, thank you for noticing.
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  Speaker 1: I tried so hard and I feel really special.
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  Speaker 2: I'm really glad.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so thanks for sharing that you didn't have to.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, what a surprise.
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  Speaker 2: I have to find the comment though, so she can
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  Speaker 2: frame it and put it up.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I want to post it as a community note
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  Speaker 1: on YouTube and like on Patreon.
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  Speaker 2: Post it everywhere.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I posted over my mantle in my house on
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  Speaker 1: our Instagram. Absolutely find the damn comment. I will. Anyway,
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  Speaker 1: back to season six, episode four of Sister Wives, entitled.
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  Speaker 2: The Odd Wife Out.
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  Speaker 1: Akay, Mary, Sorry, Mary, sorry about it?
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  Speaker 2: I'm not sorry. You didn't say it's out.
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  Speaker 1: Indeed, let's get into it all right.
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  Speaker 2: Well, we start off with a little brief scene where
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  Speaker 2: they're doing a landscape walk through. The houses are pretty
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  Speaker 2: much finalized at this point. They got all of their
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  Speaker 2: beautiful landscaping of dead rocks and ugly plants because they're
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  Speaker 2: in Vegas and nothing lives. There's no water, no, there's
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  Speaker 2: nothing out there. And all the wives are super excited
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  Speaker 2: because now it's starting to feel real real, it's a
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  Speaker 2: real big dill and Robin in particular is really excited
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  Speaker 2: because she had to forego some things in her house
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  Speaker 2: to get a big, large patio.
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  Speaker 1: Somehow I doubt it. Yeah, somehow I doubt it. I
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  Speaker 1: stopped it when I was watching it. I'm like, I
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  Speaker 1: just feel like she probably mentioned to Cody, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I could go without the extra this or the extra that,
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  Speaker 1: and Cady's like, no, baby, absolutely not. You get a pantry,
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  Speaker 1: you get a fifth bedroom, and you're gonna get this
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  Speaker 1: betiful concrete patio. Yes, it's all yours.
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  Speaker 2: And she gets like the biggest view. Do the other
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  Speaker 2: wives get all of that view?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Because they showed it and I don't know why, but
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  Speaker 2: this episode in Discovery Plus for me was all distorted.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, like the contrast was off. It was very off.
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  Speaker 2: I thought it was my TV at first. I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: it's my TV.
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  Speaker 1: Fucking I think it was everybody.
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  Speaker 2: It's just TLC. But I mean, she's got this beautiful view.
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  Speaker 2: She's got those beautiful views.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I mean, if you like Moonscape, if
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  Speaker 1: you like post apocalyptic, post nuclear war escape.
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  Speaker 2: Some people love desert lands.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I can't do deserts. I don't know, Like if
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  Speaker 1: you catch me driving through a desert, I know, like
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  Speaker 1: my vibe immediately plummets. Maybe it's because I'm a water baby.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe it's because I was born in the Islands. But
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  Speaker 1: I don't lack a dessert. No, offense. I know you
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  Speaker 1: love Sedona.
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  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, and it's okay. When we moved to Arizona,
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  Speaker 2: that was the first thing you said. You're like, oh
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  Speaker 2: my god, there's these dead mountains out here.
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  Speaker 1: Well I warned you before you went, I know, because
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  Speaker 1: you wanted to land in Sedonah. Yeah, and I'm like, okay, well,
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  Speaker 1: try to get as close to Sedonah as possible. Try
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  Speaker 1: not to land in Phoenix because those mountains are dead, honey,
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  Speaker 1: those are dead black mountains. And you're like, it's gonna
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  Speaker 1: be awesome. It's gonna be great. Like one month, one
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  Speaker 1: month into your move, my daughter calls in tears and
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  Speaker 1: she's like.
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  Speaker 2: What if the mountains are dead?
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  Speaker 1: Mom? I'm like, oh my poor lesbian baby, It's gonna
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  Speaker 1: be okay.
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  Speaker 2: And it was so fucking hot. We moved in the
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  Speaker 2: middle of June in twenty eighteen.
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  Speaker 1: Anyway, back to Vegas, I just feel it's just naturally,
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  Speaker 1: it's not my vibe. But if they're happy, I'm still
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  Speaker 1: not happy.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I mean the landscaping look like shit in
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  Speaker 2: my personal opinion, But you know what, they're happy. They
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  Speaker 2: have their walk through. Christine's like super in love with
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  Speaker 2: her kitchen. She's talking about it like it's the love
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  Speaker 2: of her life, which I can relate to. I would
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  Speaker 2: love a big ass kitchen like that. And then we
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  Speaker 2: have Christine and Robin packing in their houses with their
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  Speaker 2: kids and stuff. We see the little baby Isabelle make
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  Speaker 2: a comment about how she hasn't seen Cody very often,
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  Speaker 2: how they're really excited to be back in the cul
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  Speaker 2: de Sac where Cody can just walk over to their
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  Speaker 2: house and they can see their dad more often.
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  Speaker 1: News flash, that's not going to happen.
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  Speaker 2: It won't happen at all.
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  Speaker 1: Did you notice in that scene though, when Christine is
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  Speaker 1: wrangling her kids and getting them to pack, she goes
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  Speaker 1: up to Michelty and she's like, so, what are you doing?
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  Speaker 1: And Michelty says something like well, I thought I would
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  Speaker 1: go and take a nap, and Christine like immediately shouts
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  Speaker 1: at her.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely not.
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  Speaker 1: Every time you put on those headphones or something, it
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  Speaker 1: changes who you are. Like I'm just like, god, I know,
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  Speaker 1: chill out with Michelty, and mckelty's like, I'm just joking, mom,
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  Speaker 1: I know, calm down. But the way Christine just jumped
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  Speaker 1: on her really does sort of underscore how mackelty was
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  Speaker 1: the black Sheep.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and how Christine probably had a tendency to take
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  Speaker 2: out her stress a little bit on the kids. And
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  Speaker 2: then Robin's same kind of thing because she starts yelling
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  Speaker 2: at her kids later in the episode to pack for Montana,
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  Speaker 2: and she's kind of got the same vibe. But anyway,
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  Speaker 2: we go over to Robin's house where she's packing, and
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  Speaker 2: her house is a fucking mess. I couldn't help, but
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  Speaker 2: notice I'm gonna judge it a little bit. And then
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  Speaker 2: Robin talks about how the kids are going to go
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  Speaker 2: see their biological dad in Montana, and then she's also
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  Speaker 2: going to change her last name to Brown and she's
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  Speaker 2: going to gift that to Cody for Christmas this year.
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  Speaker 1: Right. I thought that was interesting because we got a
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  Speaker 1: call on speak Pipe last week from somebody who was
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  Speaker 1: absolutely hilarious who said that Robin was kind of being
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  Speaker 1: mysterious about where she was going. Yeah, but she actually
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  Speaker 1: does say we're going to see the biodad up in Montana,
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  Speaker 1: and so we know that that's still something that's going on.
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  Speaker 1: She doesn't seem happy about it, but she is getting
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  Speaker 1: away with Cody because Cody is going to be traveling
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  Speaker 1: with her right around the time that other people are
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  Speaker 1: getting the keys to their house in the cul de Sac,
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  Speaker 1: and right around the holidays. Yeah, she's stealing away with
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  Speaker 1: cod And I'm just like, oh, convenient. It is a
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  Speaker 1: little convenient.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. And I also noticed that at this time Robin
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  Speaker 2: was calling Cody dad to the kids, but then says
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  Speaker 2: that they're going to see their biological dad. I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: that's pretty dubious, Like why are you having your kids
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  Speaker 2: call Cody dad. I mean, I know, like Solomon's a
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  Speaker 2: baby at this point, so he's not really speaking or anything.
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  Speaker 2: I get that Solomon is Cody's biological kid, but the
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  Speaker 2: other kids, I'm like, they still have their other dad, though,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, I thought it was a little odd.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I think this just validates that from the very beginning,
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  Speaker 1: Robin was on a campaign to alienate and isolate her
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  Speaker 1: children from David Josip, their biological father. And I don't know, like,
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  Speaker 1: if David had any money at the time or any
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  Speaker 1: resources at the time, he could have used some of
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  Speaker 1: this footage to sort of prove that up legally, that
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  Speaker 1: she was alienating him from his children, But he obviously
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  Speaker 1: doesn't end up doing that, and he ends up giving
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  Speaker 1: up his parental rights. But you can see that this
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  Speaker 1: is what Robin wants to happen. She's already grooming these kids,
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  Speaker 1: and of course I mean grooming in the way of
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  Speaker 1: like in training. She's training these kids to see Cody
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  Speaker 1: a certain way and to see their biodad a certain
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  Speaker 1: way and just heads up if the guy is abusive
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  Speaker 1: and awful and terrible. I can see how you would
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  Speaker 1: be happy that your children have a healthy role model
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  Speaker 1: in their life and you would like them to align
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  Speaker 1: with that person. But if their biodad is not, and
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  Speaker 1: if their biodad like made some mistakes, just like you did, Robin,
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  Speaker 1: and you guys divorced and it was unfortunate, like this
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  Speaker 1: isn't good for the children, Exactly like when I divorced
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  Speaker 1: my second husband, your wife's father, it was very important
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  Speaker 1: to me to always at least seem unified with him
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  Speaker 1: for my daughter, and if he wanted something for my daughter,
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  Speaker 1: even though he lived in a different state, I tried
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  Speaker 1: to do that. For example, he did not want my
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  Speaker 1: daughter to work while she was in high school. He
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  Speaker 1: wanted her to just spend all of her time with
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  Speaker 1: homework and with her interests and that's it. And so
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  Speaker 1: I thought, well, you should get a job. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I was working when I was fifteen, sixteen, seventeen. It
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  Speaker 1: was a good experience for me. But because her dad
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  Speaker 1: didn't want that, that is what we ended up doing.
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  Speaker 1: And it was just really important to me that I
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  Speaker 1: always try and preserve any connection she had with him.
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  Speaker 1: Even though he did not fuck with me, he did
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  Speaker 1: not like me, he wouldn't even talk to me. It
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  Speaker 1: didn't change what I did on the other end. And
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  Speaker 1: it's just sad to see moms and dads who do
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  Speaker 1: that to the other spouse. But honestly, I don't know
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  Speaker 1: David Jessop. I don't know the history of David Jessop.
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  Speaker 1: It just in these moments it feels sad.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree completely, especially with my own background with
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  Speaker 2: this kind of stuff. We won't get into it. I
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  Speaker 2: want trauma dump. But yeah, I'm sign eyeing Robin's intentions
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  Speaker 2: here by calling Cody their father when they're going to
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  Speaker 2: go visit their actual father in Montana. Weird.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I mean, and I'm sorry, but if I also
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  Speaker 1: may say this, you can just see it. Robin has
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  Speaker 1: never lived like this in her life. No way. She's
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  Speaker 1: never had access to a huge mansion in a cul
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  Speaker 1: de sac. She's never had access to nice cars, nice things,
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  Speaker 1: nice clothes at all. Right, so she would want to
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  Speaker 1: hold on as hard as she could to this man
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  Speaker 1: and to this family so that her kids can have this,
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  Speaker 1: even if it meant alienating them from their biodad. It's
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  Speaker 1: not right. But you can really see, can't you feel that? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: she's just like, oh my god, I can't believe we're
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  Speaker 1: finally moving into a house.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah I can ew but still makes me grossed out,
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  Speaker 2: honestly opportunistic, yeah, definitely. And then we have Cody at
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  Speaker 2: Janelle's house and this is where they bring up the
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  Speaker 2: conversation of getting a new bed because they're making their
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  Speaker 2: really sad, sad, depressing bed, and Cody's like, man, this
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  Speaker 2: bed fucking sucks. It stinks, not literally, but it just stinks. Right,
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  Speaker 2: and you see it, Like Janelle pulls up the sheets
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  Speaker 2: and it's two fucking twin beds, like staple together. They're
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  Speaker 2: all stained and decrepit. And Janelle's like, yeah, we've had
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  Speaker 2: this for ten years, maybe it's time for a new bed.
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  Speaker 2: And Cody's like Yeah, let's go and do that. And
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  Speaker 2: then they go and head to the mattress store, and
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  Speaker 2: Cody kind of talks about Janelle and his relationship, how
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  Speaker 2: they find love and romance and very pragmatic things, and
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  Speaker 2: in the times that they do get romantic, it's a
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  Speaker 2: little awkward. But when they're at the mattress store, he's like,
• 14:24
  Speaker 2: you know what, but I don't feel awkward here. It's
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  Speaker 2: really great. I'm like really connecting with her while we're
• 14:29
  Speaker 2: laying on these mattresses. It's really awesome.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. What I think Cody is talking about, though, is
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  Speaker 1: meeting her where she lives. Like, Janelle is a very
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  Speaker 1: pragmatic person. She's a very earthy person. She's a very
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: home and hearth and Torrian sister person, and so Cody
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  Speaker 1: kind of meets her where she is and does things
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  Speaker 1: with her that she likes because she's not a real
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  Speaker 1: fancy person. She doesn't need to be taken to the
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  Speaker 1: best restaurant, she doesn't need to be taken to the
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  Speaker 1: best trip. She likes to have a bed, she likes
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  Speaker 1: to have a home. She likes to provide a space
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  Speaker 1: for her kids. That is what is very meaningful for her,
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  Speaker 1: and so they're able to kind of find the romance
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  Speaker 1: doing that sort of thing. And I relate to that,
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  Speaker 1: like when my husband go and I go out and
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: we shop for furniture or we're doing something for the home. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: for the yard, like we vibe on that, Like if
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  Speaker 1: we're planting trees and stuff, it is kind of romantic
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  Speaker 1: because we're doing it together and we love it. Sure.
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  Speaker 2: But at the same time, though, like with that Torian instinct,
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  Speaker 2: don't you also like being treated at like go into
• 15:33
  Speaker 2: a day every now and then, or like having a
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: little bit of nice things, like to me when they
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: go and shop for the mattress. Cody's like, yeah, so
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: this new bedroom set is going to be our birthday gifts,
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: our Christmas gifts, and our anniversary gift are twentieth anniversary gift,
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: by the way, an yes, for the entire year.
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: Well, but Janelle agreed to that. I know that's that's
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: just fine for Janelle.
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: But Janelle also and all of these other earlier seasons
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: and even all the way up into season nineteen, is
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: somebody that just compromises for the betterment of everybody else,
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: Like she sacrifices so much because she's working for everybody.
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: But I think she's legitimately happy with it, though it's
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: not like she has an aspiration for something more, Like
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: she always took a little bit less, but she was
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: fine with it as long as you didn't fuck with
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: her kids. She was no problem with it.
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: I guess, or maybe she was made to be fine
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: with that. I don't know. That was just kind of
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: my vibe with it. I'm just like, man, like, you
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: can't even like take her out on a trip though
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: for her twentieth aniverse.
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: I don't want to go on a trip. I don't
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: want to go to a restaurant where I have to
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: dress up. I would rather do a hundred other things
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: than to do that. I do like nice things, yeah,
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: I don't want to go and shop for them, though
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: I don't want to leave my house ever. I don't
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: want to talk to other people. I don't want to
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: associate with anybody I care for any place.
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I just felt like Janelle got jipped.
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: That's just my opinion. Like maybe she's happy with it.
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: I just feel like you couldn't have gotten her some
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: flowers though, or like you couldn't have gotten her like
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: a little gift like you just bought a new bed set,
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: and then that's going to be the gifts for all
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: of her shit all year. It would have been one
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: thing if it was like just an anniversary gift and
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: then she got something for her birthday or she got
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: a little something for Christy.
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: But they don't have the money, and it's actually Janelle
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: that suggests the layaway plan, Like, I don't know, I
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: think that this is just where they are right now,
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: and even though they're moving into the Call to sac
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: into what you know, we would call McMansions, I don't
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: think there's a lot of fluidity. They don't have a
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: lot of money, and we kind of see that with
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: Cody surprising her later in this episode ye by not
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: doing the layoway and getting the bed for her just
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: to surprise her on Christmas, which I mean is what
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: he can do in that moment and was very sweet
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: and I think was again meaningful for Janelle. Yeah, you
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: want more for people, but if they don't care and
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: they don't want it for themselves, like who cares?
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: Then who cares? I know. I just that was my
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: vibe through this whole episode because I'm just like okay,
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: really man, and like you don't have the money because
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: we're spending it on all these big ass houses and
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: your little sports car and like Robin's fake nails and
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: her jewelry and like all this stuff. Like we're putting
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: money everywhere else, we're not really prioritizing Janelle or any
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: of the other wives. That was just kind of my vibe.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: Well, I was more interested when he referenced their intimate time,
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: because yeah, that's really rare for them to talk about that.
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: I mean maybe in the in the later episodes, I
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: mean seasons like season eighteen, season nineteen, you've got Janelle
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: kind of alluding to the fact that there's no problem
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: there was no problem in the bedroom between her and Cody.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: But to see him refer to their intimacy is awkward
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: because they are so pragmatic. Yeah, pragmatic almost like brother
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: and sister.
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: I was like, huh, I wonder what that's like.
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: I know, well, and didn't they have like a renaissance
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: in Vegas with There's actually.
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so so maybe I thought it was called a
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: sac Vegas. I don't know that it was rental house Vegas.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: So I think we were about to enter the sexual
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: renaissance of Janelle and Cody, and we'll be able to
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: observe and see if we, you know, notice a vibe shift.
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: While they're breaking in that new bid frame. I guess.
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: I guess it's like, is it a full bed.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: It's not.
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: It's not even a king. I know, I don't even
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: know that it's a queen.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: I don't know. It looks kind of like a double
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: or a fall.
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: I'm just gonna make like a really unhinged, crazy comment.
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: But like when we were at the mattress shop and
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: they were laying on the beds, did you look at
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: their feet? No, Janelle's feet were black, dude, they were
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: so dirty. And then Cody was wearing his dirty ass
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: socks and they were both putting their nasty ass feet
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: on these mattresses at the mattress store.
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: No, I did not notice that at all.
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: I did.
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: Why would Janelle have black feet?
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: I don't know. If she's walking around her house maybe barefoot.
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: And like I would be so embarrassed. Yeah, we're black
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: on the show. But yeah, I just noticed that. I
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: don't know if anybody else noticed that when they rewatched it,
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: But yeah, yikes. Anyway, so then they go and get
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: their bed and Janelle's really happy about it, and then
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: we have like a brief scene of Robin and Cody
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: doing a full walk through through their house, and and
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: Cody are just infatuated with each other. I mean, she
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: makes a comment about cooking in her double ovens.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: And she refers to it as convection ovens. She's not
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: even pointing out that it's a double oven, and she's
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: talking about how she can cook four things at once,
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, girl, it's not because it's a convection
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: oven and does it all require the same temperature? Like,
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: she's so dumb. And here again you can tell she's
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: never really had nice things, and so she's trying to
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: talk about it as if she's an expert on it,
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: but she's clueless. Yeah, but it's kind of sweet too
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: because she's very excited.
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she is very excited. And then Cody makes a
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: comment being like, you're too beautiful, you don't even need
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: to cook, and they like make out in front of
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: the builders and stuff, and I'm just like, wow, man, Yeah,
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: the disparity between all the other wives and him and
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: Robin is just so crazy. And it's like, I want
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: to be happy for them that they found each other
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: and that they are genuinely in love, but I just
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: fucking hate them so much. When I see them being
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: like all happy like this, I'm like.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: Fuck, yeah, yeah, because of the duplicity and the lies
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: and the clandestine stuff that they do behind the scenes
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: that they lie about. Yeah, so of course we hate them,
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: But I can see in these moments, and I'm just
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: going to say, I can see like an innocent love between.
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: These two totally.
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: They're both sprung for one another, and there's something sweet
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: about that. But just how toxic and dark and evil
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: the terms over time and ends up being weaponized to
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: hurt children and women. I mean, obviously it ends up bad.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, very very bad. And then we have a scene
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: where the whole family is gathered at Mary's to make
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: that joint mission statement for the family and I'm bored.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm bored too. They refer back to a visit
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: and a little vacation they took with the Darkers that
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: allegedly very abusive, toxic masculinity dude and his weird wives. Yeah,
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: and they were trying to get the Browns to share
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: a kitchen back then and also telling them about the
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: mission statement that they made for their own family, and
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: so of course the Browns thought that this would be
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: great content for TLC. That's an episode that they could do.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: And now they're pretending that they're interested in a mission statement. Yeah.
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: And Janelle makes a comment on the couch and says
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: that this is very tedious, and I thought that was hilarious.
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: She's like, why are we even doing this? This is dumb.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because they're meeting and Christina is orchestrating the whole
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: thing and asking the kids to write down their favorite things,
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: what they want, what they don't want, and Janelle is
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: bored and I'm bored. Yeah, and I've checked out, I've
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: gone astrol I'm in another dimension.
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: Yep, me too. And then Cody makes a stupid comment
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: at the end of this where he's like, yeah, ten
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: to thirteen years ago, I felt like I was a
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: failure and I was just a fireman putting out all
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: of these fires in our family, and now I really
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: want to change that and be an architect and build
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: my family up. And I'm like, wow, this aged like milk, dude,
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: because you didn't do that at all.
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: No, And I think a couple of episodes ago, you
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: and I talked about how they were drinking from a
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: fire hose for the most part, like they weren't intentional
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: in the way they were crafting their marriages and the
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: way that they were bringing up their children. They're constantly moving,
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: they're uprooting, They're not thinking about what they want to
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: build long term, and so it feels like Cody gets
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: that here, and maybe Robin gets that because Robin strikes
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: me as one of those women who's like into manifestation
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: and like visualization and the law of attraction. I can
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: kind of feel that Christine as well, So maybe they're
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: talking in those terms right about now and thinking about
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: the lives they want to create. It's just sad, though,
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: because they end up only living in these homes for
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: like five years before they impulsively uproot again and move
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: the family to flag Staff. And there was a scene
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: here where they were talking about Hunter and how difficult
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: it was, and Janelle even cries on the couch. She's like,
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: I don't even want to talk about this. It was
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: so difficult. But when they moved from Lehigh to Vegas,
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: Hunter fell into a depression and he didn't even want
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: to participate with the family or life, like he was
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: completely checked out. But Hunter has come around. He's happy,
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: he's part of his high school, he's wrestling, he's doing
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: very very well. But then in five years, you're gonna
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: turn around and do the same damn thing to Gabe. Yep,
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: you're gonna uproot him, You're gonna take him to Flagstaff,
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: You're gonna hurl him into a depression. And then Covid
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: hits yeah, like, you're constantly doing this to your children.
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: I know. It's so fucked up, and it makes me
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: so upset as somebody who moved around a lot as
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: a kid, like that shit was so dramatic, and I
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: felt like my parents didn't give a fuck that we
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: had to upride our lives literally every single year for
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: no fucking reason. And it just bothers me. Because Janelle
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: is breaking down talking about her kids because it deeply
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: affects her, and she seems like the only one that's
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: like really affected and troubled by the fact that she
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: did this to her kids, and she did it because
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: all of the other adults did it and the whole
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: family does it, So she's like gotta go along with it.
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: But like, holy shit, just knowing that they did all
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: of this work to get into the cul de Sac
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: homes only to just leave it again and then separate
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: again and then ultimately destroy their family and flag Staff
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: is just wild to see.
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: I think this really speaks to how some people like
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: focus on outward things in order to get some inner peace.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: Like they have the perfect situation here in Vegas. They've
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: got this call to sac. They are all together as
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: a family. Cody can spend time with everybody equally if
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: he wants to, like it's a perfect situation, but because
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: he doesn't do any actual inner work, because nobody's getting therapy,
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: because nobody is looking at their impulses and their urges
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: to move around to change or urg just for chaos,
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: like they constantly succumb to it. And then they say, well,
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: this is what we need to do. Though, we've got
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: to do it because you know, this is a harmful situation,
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: this is not a safe situation. And now we're leaving
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: Lehi go into Vegas and yeah, then we go to
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: Vegas to flag Staff and it's just like deal with
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: your shit, though, for ask yourself, why do I feel
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: the need to constantly change in this way. Why do
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: I feel the need to put my children through all
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: of this trauma to what end right?
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: Like?
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: But they never actually get to the point where they
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: ask themselves those questions.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: No, they never do because they can't reflect. They can't
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: like look at their own lives and look at their shit,
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: So they're just going to keep doing it. I feel
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: like Cody and Robin especially, like now that they're in
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: that two point one million dollar mansion, I'm like, why
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: do you even have to move? Like, why do you
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: even have to get a big or bigger house. It's
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: just a band aid to put on the fact that
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: they destroyed their family and have caused irreparable harm. And
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: now they're in this big mansion, they're going to feel
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: better about themselves until they ultimately can't afford it.
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: And it's also like what they think they're projecting to
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: the world but also to the rest of the family, like, well,
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: you can come for us, you can hate us, you
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: can go no contact with us, but look at how
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: we're living over here with our Mercedes and our Lexus
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: and our new mansion. They don't need it. They could
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: stay in the mc mansion because for all intents and purposes,
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: A Rara Brianna Dayton should be out of that house,
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: and they're going to leave the house here shortly. Now
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: you're going to have two kids in a huge freakin' home.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: The McMansion would be too big for everybody for sure,
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: But now you're going to move to an even bigger
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: home with just your two little kids. For what what
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: are you searching for? What are you trying to shove
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: down into your inner beings that you can feel like
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: you're a worthwhile person. And Cody actually talks a little
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: bit about that in this episode when he does say
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: how things were really hard and he didn't feel like
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: he was a good provider. I'm extrapolating and I'm paraphrasing.
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: I'm kind of getting to the heart of what I
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: think he was trying to say, Like, it sounds like
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: he wasn't working. It sounds like he wasn't providing. It
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: sounds like they were living in a level of poverty,
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: and that was something that was shameful to him. And
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: now things are starting to change because they do have funds,
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: they have resources, and so they're becoming their architect. But
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: for a very long time he felt less then, and
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: that's because on some level he was less then. For sure,
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: you made a bunch of dumb decisions. Yeah, to be
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: a polygamist and take on all these wives and have
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: all of these kids, and how are you supposed to
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: manage that? You can't?
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: No, yeah, I mean they were living in a fucking trailer,
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: like all of them were living in like a tiny
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: little single Why God, I literally can't even imagine. So yeah,
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: like I bet he does feel some shame, but like,
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: fucking deal with that, dude, right, go to fucking therapy
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: instead of overcompensating, because now you just look even dumber.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: Do Mormons not go to therapy? Like is that not
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: a thing?
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: I don't know, Actually I know they don't do the
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: doctors and stuff. They go to chiropractors and things like that.
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: If those were Christian scientists, I don't know. No, remember,
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: like Mormons go to doctors. No, in the earlier episodes,
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: they went to chiropractors, and.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: That was polygamists because and they went to a chiropractor
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: because the chiropractor was polygamist friendly. I think that they
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: still go to doctors well regular moments, but I mean
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: you never hear them talk about therapy.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: No, yeah, I don't know.
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: I don't know. But in like charismatic Christian churches, the
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: churches we came up in, like if you wanted therapy,
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: it was typically with the pastor and his wife, if
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: it was like marriage counseling, or you met with the
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: pastor if it was individual counsel which is obviously shitty. Yeah,
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: but we were never encouraged to get actual therapy.
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: Wow. It could also be a generational thing too, Like
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: I mean, no offense, but gen xers and stuff tend
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: to be kind of resistant to it. Not you, but
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: like I've been in therapy since my twenties, I know,
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: in an out of therapy. Yeah, but a lot of
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: other gen xers I know were like, oh, I don't
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: want to go to therapy. I hate therapy. I don't
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: need help.
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: I feel like we're the ones that popularize therapy. Honestly,
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: we were born of baby boomers and the silent general
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: puked up talk silent generation especially talk about some fucked
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: up people. So I don't know, I feel like a
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: lot of people I knew growing up, not growing up
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: as a child, but like twenties, thirties, forties, they were
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: in therapy.
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: Well that's good. Yeah, not the people you.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: Know, maybe not your family.
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: I don't know, but maybe I'm an outlier though, I
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: don't know. Yeah, all right, And then we have a
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: scene where Cody and Mary do their house walk through,
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: and Mary's bitch ass starts immediately critiquing the smallest little things.
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: She starts off with the lamps above the fuck kitchen
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: island and how they're not level, and then it's the
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: fucking mantle above the fireplaces not level. And then you
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: see other little scenes where she's like checking the blinds
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: and she's looking at the corridors and everything, and she's
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: nitpicking all this shit, and I'm just like, Mary, this
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: is why your house is not ready?
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: Hashtag team Mary? What hashtag team Mary? Almost? She's paying
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: such a good money for this home. If she's got
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: even a touch of the OCD, she's gonna notice when
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: things are out of order. Don't you walk into a
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: room sometimes and you're like, what the fuck is no
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: symmetry here?
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: Doesn't it cause you a little bit of distress? I
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: think if Mary has even a little bit of that,
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: then she's going to notice that. And now is the
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: time before you move in to make sure that the
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: builder makes changes, especially if they got shit wrong. So yeah,
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: if your pendant lights are uneven, fixed that shit. Although
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: it's probably just a matter of adjusting the chain and
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: she can do it herself or she can hire somebody later.
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: But if your mantle, your concrete mantle is not level,
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: that's the problem. I would I would be doing the
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: exact same thing. However, like before we get to this point,
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: Mary has been holding up the process by not submitting
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: her documents in time, by repeatedly going to the job
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: site and taking her scrapbook pictures, yeah, and doing all
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: of this nonsense. So to do this now in addition
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: to that, that's what I'm saying. Absolutely, she is causing
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: her own problem here. But like, I don't fault for
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: noticing this, but maybe that's she's a capricorn. I'm a
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: I'm just like, get this shit right in paying so.
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: Critical well, and she does say that, she's like, we're
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: paying a lot of money for these houses, and that's
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: completely fair and valid. But if you were like nitpicking
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: like the smallest thing, and the builder and your husband
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: and everybody else who's looking at these lights and looking
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: at the mantle, and saying they look fucking fine, like
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: they don't look not level, Like it looks perfectly fine.
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: You can roll a mark, you can put a marble
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: on it and it won't roll off. And Mary's still like,
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know, it still looks uneven.
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: Then it's like, Okay, you're being way too fucking critical
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: and for what Like at that.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: Point you have to weigh what it is you want more?
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: Do you want perfection more or do you want to
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: be able to move into the home with Leon by Christmas? More?
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: Like?
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: Which one is more important to you?
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: Exactly?
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: And I don't think she's thinking in those terms. She
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: just wants to get what she wants to get, and
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: she wants to get that ship right now exactly.
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: And it's pissing Cody off. And I can see why.
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: It's kind of funny because they're both Capricorn. So I'm
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: just like, Cody, shouldn't you be the same way? But
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: he's like the complete opposite. He's so flighty and like
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: not as critical. Well, I guess maybe he is critical
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: criticising sign. I don't know.
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: It's probably Pisces. Oh god, what's what's well, what's in
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: that's water, what's an aries?
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: What is that sign in the zodiac? Gemini very flighty ver?
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I can see that. But yeah, this scene drive
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: drove me nuts because I'm just like Mary. And the
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: very next scene with Mona when she comes over to
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: break the news, you're.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: Gonna cry about it.
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: You're gonna cry about it. And so Mona comes over
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: and tells everybody, look, some of y'all are getting in
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: before Christmas, and one of y'all ain't, and spoiler it's Mary.
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: Everyone else gets in before Christmas, like I said last week,
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: because I skipped and I saw a head. Everyone gets in.
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: Janelle's first, which is really awesome. She's super excited about
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: it because her kids were really wanting to get into
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: the houses and she's like emotional about it, which made
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: me really happy. And then next office Robin, and then
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: Christine is last, and then Mary has to wait until after.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: The Holloby determined yep, yep.
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: And then she starts crying and Cody and Robin have
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: to comfort her. They're like, oh, it's okay, they're there.
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: At least the rest of us can get into our houses.
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: We can spend Christmas in one of the houses. But Mary,
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: you really did this to yourself. And I'm talking about
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: like what you've done to Leon, because you gave Leon
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: the expectation that everybody would be in the house by Christmas,
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: and so Leon is truly looking forward to this. This
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: is the last year really that Leon's going to be there.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sure Leon's going to come back for
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: Christmas and things of that nature. But Mary, you fucked
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: this shit up, and now Leon's going to be heartbroken,
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: and you have nobody to blame but yourself, And so
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: she feels bad for that, I'm sure, and she's a
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: mom and she wants to do the right thing by
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: her kid.
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: But like, you should have.
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: Turned a paperworking. Uh, should have been less of a perfectionist,
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: and you should have set the expectations for your child
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: more appropriately. And we actually have Robin in this episode
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: talk about that because I talked about this last week
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: as a mom, I'm not going to even allude to
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: the potential that you're going to get this great thing
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: by this great date if I'm not one hundred percent sure.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: And Robin is of the same mind. She does not
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: tell her children they're going to be somewhere if she
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: doesn't know it for sure.
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: I thought I was interesting that Robin even made that comment.
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: I wonder if, like she had been talking with Mary
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: about it, and she was making that comment kind of
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: passive aggressively, like, oh, I would not promise anything to
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: my kids that I can't keep, Like I'll tell them
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: right when I know for sure it's gonna happen. That way,
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: I don't break their hearts. Like I wonder if it
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: was kind of a little bit of a snide comment
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: to Mary, because Mary was the one that she was
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: promising Leon over and over again, We're gonna be in
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: by Christmas, We're gonna be in for Christmas, and Leon
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: straight up told Mary I don't want anything for Christmas
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: except being in the house and Mary couldn't even deliver
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: that because the fucking lamps above your island were not
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: level apparently, and you couldn't fix it. I'm just like,
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: oh I can't. It made me so mad, I'm Leon
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: in this episode, I'm like, fuck.
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: You, mom, that's me. Yeah. Leon really was doing that.
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: Oh yes, very petulant, Yeah, super pissed. And then we
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: have kind of an interesting observation from Danny the Builder
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: where he comments on Cody and his behavior with each
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: of the He's like, yeah, he really is different for
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: each one of them. He says. With Janelle, Cody's very serious,
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: not like business like, but just very matter of fact,
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: very pragmatic, he says. With Christine, he's very jovial, which
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: is interesting. With Mary, he's very accommodating, even though he
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: doesn't always agree with her. And then with Robin, it's
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: like they're still in the newlywed honeymoon phase and they're
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: just infatuated. So I thought it was interesting that this
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: random fucking guy is totally calling it out with how
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: Cody is with each of the wives, and I'm just like, man,
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: what changed, Cody? You had a balance, You were balancing
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: it out pretty okay earlier.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: I think he just got tired of showing up differently
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: for each of these women. He just wanted to be
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: himself and as himself. He only loved one woman, and
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: that was Robin, and he was tired of hiding it.
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: He was tired of trying to accommodate these other women
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: and what they needed from him. But at this point
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: in twenty twelve or twenty thirteen season six, he's still trying. Yeah, trying.
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: He seems like he's doing an okay job.
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: I think he hates Christine here, really, yes, because Christine
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: with her dumb outbursts all the time, Christine with her
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: mission statement and taking this family on this huge journey,
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: Like yeah, I just think he does not accommodating Mary.
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: So the builder notices he accommodates Mary. That's because there's
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: always some sort of a power struggle between them, and
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: I bet that in their history, Mary has made it
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: very hard for him totally and he's had to give
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: in a lot to Mary, and so he's still doing
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: that to this day. But at some point he's just like,
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: I can't do it anymore with you bitches. I'm sick
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: of it. I'm tired of it. Except for Janelle. And
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: even in season nineteen, he's still holding out a little
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: bit of hope for Janelle because he still loves her
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: and I think he respects Janelle. But of course he
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: can't play his hand because if Janelle's going to reject
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: him and he's an arc, well then that's going to
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: bring great shame to him.
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: But he still loves her, yeah, or her money. It's
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: like hard for me to tell because he loves in
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: these earlier seasons, like he seems pretty okay with Christine.
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: I don't think he hates her yet. I think he's
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: probably annoyed with her. I think he hates Mary. I
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: think during these walk throughs and stuff, like he was
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: getting so fucking tired of Mary, and like how critical
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: she was of the house and how she's always changing things,
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: and the fact that the builder says that he's very
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: accommodating to her. It just means that he just really,
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: like you said, gives into everything that she wants because
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: she fights him on everything. And that speaks to what
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: he said about her in season nineteen. Now is everything
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: that he said in season nineteen fucking nice or accurate? Like, No,
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: it's definitely hyperbolic and lies and a bunch of bullshit
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: and it's mean spirited. But at the same time, I
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: can understand like the root of the issue, which, yeah,
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: like the power struggles and the constant biting heads. I mean,
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: two capricorns together, dude, sounds terrible, honestly, Yeah, oh God,
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: sounds like a lot. And then we have Janelle and
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: her kids moving into the house early because they got
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: their keys first. They did their walk through and the
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: kids are so excited they can't wait another night. So
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: they're packing up their bags and they're gonna go sleep
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: on the floor in the new house. And they're all
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: super excited. And Christine, which I loved, is going to
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: cook a giant meal for the entire family in Janelle's
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: new house. And they're also going to celebrate Joseph Smith's
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: dumberthday for some reason.
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: And then well they're Mormons, I don't know, so.
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: Whatever, and then Christine's gonna give the Kiffs kids all
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: a bunch of thoughtful gifts. Yeah. I loved this. This
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: is where Christine shines for me. I'm like, man, that
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: took so much work and so much effort, and she
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: put that together for the entire family just because she
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: wanted everybody to be happy. I loved that.
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: I thought it was really special. The gifts that she
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: gives to the children. I think it's their names and
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: then an explanation of what their names actually mean. And
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: then on the couch with all of the adults, Cody
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: does talk about how that was such a lovely gesture
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: and that Christine does do things like this and Christine
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: knew it was really important for him to have all
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: of the children feel like siblings. Yeah, And so in
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: that moment for all of the kids to get that
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: gift that really bound them together, and I thought that
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: was a lovely It was a lovely moment. Christine is
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: just such a nurturer and such a maternal figure, like
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: it comes so naturally to her, for example, unlike with Janelle,
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: it's not the same. She brings something different to the table.
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: But it's nice to see Christine in her element.
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: And that's why I think, like with Cody, I don't
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: think he hates her in these seasons yet because I
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: think he holds onto these moments with Christine because those
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: moments I think are really lovable. Like the rest of
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: the time she's kind of annoying and loud and like
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: dramatic and stuff, But these moments, I'm like, man, that's
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: really amazing that you could cook for a million fucking
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: people in a day, like and she's just so effortless
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: about it, just fucking chopping celery and cooking Tira missou
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: and like all these big meals and stuff with everybody
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: and setting it up with all the tables and everything
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: at Janelle's house, and then also finding time to make
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: all of these gifts with everybody's name. I'm like, man,
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: that's so nice. I don't know, I just really like that.
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: I thought it was really sweet. And then we have
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: a scene with Robin yelling at her kids, specifically Aurora,
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: to get off her fucking ass and pack her bags
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: to go see her biological dad. And I thought it
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: was interesting because Robin talks to her kids kind of
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: in a weird way in my opinion. I don't know,
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: she like on the camera, she's trying to be kind
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: of nice, like yo, yo, yo yo, why don't you
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: go pack? Aurora? Stop playing with baby Saul. But I
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: feel like if the cameras were off, she'd be a
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: total fucking monster. And this is where Robin's like getting
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: the kids packed because they have to leave at three
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: in the afternoon for some reason for a sixteen hour
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: drive up to Montana, which I just think is crazy.
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: But she's really hoping she can get the keys to
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: her house before then so the kids can see the
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: house before they go see their dad, and lo and
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: behold they do so, then Cody and Robin get to
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: have their little moment and their house, where she is
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: super happy to have her convention on thins and everything.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so they have their wonderful moment and it's great,
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: and she immediately wants to get on the road and
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: get up to Montana because they think she's worried about weather,
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: and I'm sure they want to stop along the way
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: and do the whole thing. But as she is getting
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: ready to get back on the road, here comes news
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: that Christine's keys are now available as well, and so
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: Robin turns it into this sort of sacrifice conversation, like, yeah,
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: I want to get up out of here, and I
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: want to get on the road because it's unsafe. Yeah,
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: it's unsafe, but I also need to take care of
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: my sister wife and I need to be here for Christine,
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: and so I really want her to have this moment
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: with Cody where she sees the house. Unfortunately, you know,
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: Christine does come over and they see the house, but
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: her kids aren't there to share that moment with Cody
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: and Christine. It's just them. And then Robin does walk
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: in and is happy for Christine and is given hugs
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: to Christine and Cody, but like, you are also invading
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: this moment where you know they should be celebrating as
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: a married couple exactly.
• 43:08
  Speaker 2: And it's like all the other wives, like Robin and
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: Janelle both got to have like a bit of a
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: moment with Cody. You got to walk through the house,
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: got to talk with the kids, got to like experience
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: it and be happy together. But when Christine gets her keys,
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: she gets all emotional and cries. She gets to walk
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: through like the living room, and then that's when Robin
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: comes in. It is like, okay, we gotta go now,
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: all right, congrats, Christine, we got to get on the road.
• 43:33
  Speaker 2: And then they get into that conversation about sacrifices and
• 43:37
  Speaker 2: it's a balance balancing act with the wives, and Robin
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: says something like, you know, you have to balance your
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: needs with your sister wives needs and you need to
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: have their back just as much as you wish that
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: they have your back. And it's like, yeah, that's great
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: in theory, but you're still taking the moment away from Christine.
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: And Christine is used to the sacrifices because she was
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: the basement wife, and like, so she'll do it, but
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: you can only do that for so long long, and
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: you can only abuse that for so long, Robin, because
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: now you get to have this weekend with Cody and
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: all of the other wives and children get to be alone,
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: Like and I think this is like the weekend before Christmas.
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: Is unsure that it's a visitation thing. She's got to
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: take them up for Christmas.
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and my whole thing is like, this whole visitation
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: thing is so whack because they're leaving at three pm
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: and probably like a Friday afternoon. I'm like, why are
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: you leaving so late? When you're driving up to Montana
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: It's a sixteen hour plus drive. Cody has to drive
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: it because you're going to be a passenger princess and
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: you're not going to do anything. And I'm just like,
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: what is going on here? Like, you guys are just
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: going to have to get away.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: She was waiting for her keys. She wanted to get
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: the key. She wanted her kids to see the house
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: before they actually all about her. Yeah, it is absolutely
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: all about her. But then you know the wrench in
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: the situation as Christine gets her keys as well. But yeah,
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: this is another demonstration of how Christine was, is and
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: forever will be the basement wife.
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: Yep. And like you can see Christine in these moments,
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: like being super emotional and a little dramatic, and like
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: how Cody's just so emotional, totally checked out, and it
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: speaks to like how Christina is now in season nineteen
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: with David, how she's so gushy and like she was
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: just wanting a partner that would be receptive to that
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: and like would be her sounding board and would love
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: her emotionality. And so I'm glad that she finally found
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: it with David, and it makes sense why she was
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: craving it so much and why she was so cringey
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: in season eighteen and season nineteen because Cody's just like, yeah, yeah,
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: I love you, Okay, I gotta go my. He doesn't
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: even say I love you when he leaves. It's pretty crazy. Yeah,
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: all right, And then we had the preview for next episode.
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: We have Leon pissed the fuck off.
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: Leon is not happy hood No.
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: Cody also says he cringes at Mary and Leon's relationship
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: because it seems like it's always about Mary. I don't know,
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: and then he also calls Mary dramatic I think for
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: the house.
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: Issue, probably and probably because she set this whole thing
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: in motion with Lee and Mary definitely didn't need to
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: do that, but it seems like Cody wants to step
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: in in that moment and handle Leon and Mary's just
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: like getting mad. See yeah that power struggleting heads.
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: Yes, and then we have Robin giving her name change
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: gift to Cody for Christmas and he cries, he's in
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: shock at all.
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: Okay, but why like all of your other wives did
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: that as well, Like their name is brown too, So like,
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: why is it so special when Robin does it? Well
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: we know the answer that, but like, yeah, here again
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: we see it.
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: And it speaks to your point earlier, like she was
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: his end all, be all soulmate. He loved her and
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: nobody else, and so yeah, it would be meaningful for
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: her to change her last name because her and Cody
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: are not legally married. It's just Mary and Cody at
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: this point. So yeah, he's like, oh my god, right,
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: so amazing.
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going to throw up a little bit in
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: my mouth next week. And that's for sure, really good episode.
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: Lots of things happening on the surface and underneath that surface,
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: which we calls up text Yah and I love me too,
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: and I love and I laugh. Well, is there anything
• 47:13
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• 47:15
  Speaker 1: before we get up on Ada here, Beatrice.
• 47:18
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• 47:24
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• 47:26
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• 47:29
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• 47:32
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• 47:36
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• 47:39
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