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Season 2 - Episode 22 - What does it all mean? · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the good morning from the chicken coop, podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and master mindset.
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  Coach filled with inspiration, distinctions, perspectives and
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  possibilities. We help you to cultivate a
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  mindset that leads you to create the best version of yourself.
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  You could ever imagine join Kim. Every morning from one of her.
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  Favorite happy places her chicken coop.
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  Along with all her chickens. Hey everybody.
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  Good morning from the wet. Morini Chicken Coop, still
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  weather's. Warm.
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  We can love that. So today we are talking about
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  what it's all about. So, when I say what it's all
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  about, I mean, you know, we all have things happen in our lives
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  and we often try to make sense out of them, whatever the
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  events, maybe we try to make sense out of it.
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  And we will go to Great Lengths to try to figure out what
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  something means to us. As I are, quote that and what
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  we're supposed to To learn from it.
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  What we're supposed to think how it's supposed to help us
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  whatever it might be. We go to Great Lengths, to try
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  to put all the pieces together and, you know, here's the truth.
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  Sometimes you can sometimes you're just never going to be
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  able to make sense of it all, sometimes you will, and
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  sometimes you won't. But I think what is important is
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  that we don't let it take us out because That process of trying
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  to make sense of things drives people insane.
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  Honestly, it drives people insane because we keep looping
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  in this place of going. Why why why why why?
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  And if you've been with me, any length of time on this podcast,
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  you know, I'm not a fan of the question, why for multiple
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  reasons? But the, the re this, this
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  particular one today, is that it causes you to stay in this This
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  state of not curiosity, some people like to say, well, I was
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  curious and they use the question wide great if you're
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  really curious, but most of the time, it's not coming from
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  Curiosity, it's coming from pain.
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  It's coming from trying to defend their position.
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  It's coming from, please hear me.
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  It's coming from desperation. It doesn't really come from
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  Curiosity. And what it does, it's cool.
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  It's just that the most of the time it does not.
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  So the reason That we get. So hunkered down in this is
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  because we're in despair often and we want to try to make sense
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  of something. And the reality is because of
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  how the world works because of how our Human Experience works.
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  We just often, can't we just have to accept the fact that we
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  may never know, things the way we want to know things?
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  We just may never have that reality and you know, it's as
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  much as it's difficult to. To own that we may never have
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  that reality. As much as it's difficult to own
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  that we just won't know. We have to take it on because
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  the truth is we might not and when you don't know something as
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  a human being that in itself, causes internal destruction, if
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  you focus on it, if you make that your reality, if you keep
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  at it and thinking about it and ruminating on it and resonating
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  on the problem, you're going to only get More of the problem.
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  So one just from the standpoint of Law of Attraction, it's not a
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  good thing to do because you just keep causing more of the
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  problem. And, you know, you keep going
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  back to it. You know, our while our past is
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  our history, if we keep focusing on it, it becomes our present
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  and our future. And we have to let that piece go
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  know, it's really interesting because I'm in a program right
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  now where I'm working with somebody.
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  I'm actually a student in this program and they asked us to do.
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  Do a homework assignment about everything in your life.
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  Whatever has happened in your life, like tell us the story,
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  all the details of what's happened in your life.
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  And I sat there and I thought, oh wow, this is interesting.
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  And then when I sat down to do the program, the homework I got
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  really like wait, I'm going to have a really hard time with
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  this because the reality is you have to make a 20 minute
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  presentation about this and I put all those things into my
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  memory bank in a way that's like, okay, these are things
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  that happened. But I'm very disassociated to
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  them because I know if I had stayed focused on them, I would
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  have had a real struggle with it because I've changed the meaning
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  of it all. So this topic today that I'm
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  talking you about really came up for me because I didn't have an
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  association to them. I try really hard not to keep
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  staying and going to the Past because it does Help.
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  It doesn't let you move forward. It doesn't let you let go.
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  It doesn't let you manifest what you want in the moment and I
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  realized how much of it I had done.
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  I'm not saying it's certainly perfect because it's not and
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  there are moments when it comes out full force or when I have
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  really like impactful things, I like photographs for me or
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  really big deal. So certain photographs I'll look
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  at and they definitely move me. I'm not saying that I'm perfect
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  at it. What I'm saying is for the most
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  part Art, I've got a handle on, not tapping that in my everyday,
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  existence and I recognize that we spend so much time trying to
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  make sense out of it all. Even when I'm on calls with
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  clients, they'll ask me. You know, I just don't know why
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  this is happening and you can feel them in a state of despair.
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  So I'm here to tell you why you're not going to be able 80%
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  of the time to put the dots together.
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  Because even when you do put the dots together, they are probably
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  not. The dots that are the reasons if
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  we come right down to it our their possibilities.
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  Yes. Are there multiple
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  possibilities? Yes.
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  So you have to just know do the best you can if you choose to
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  try to figure it out but do it even better job.
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  Deciding the reason we're here does not matter we just have to
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  focus on the fact that we are here and how to navigate out of
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  it because the past isn't going to help us other than give us
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  Us, you know if we focus on it's not going to help us to do
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  anything more but attract more of it, you can use it for a
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  reference point if you want to say, I don't want to go there
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  again. Great, that's perfect.
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  Does that make sense? So, I hope you guys have a
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  wonderful day. I hope you have a blessed day.
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  I hope where you are. It's not raining as hard as it's
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  raining here and I hope that you have an outstanding week.
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  Talk to you tomorrow. Bye.