Latest / The Breakfast Club / INTERVIEW: Dystany Spurlock On Being The First Black Woman To Race In Nascar, Career Journey, Struggles & Staying On Track + More
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- 0:01Speaker 1: Every day.
- 0:03Speaker 2: Up the Breakfast Club.
- 0:05Speaker 1: You don't finish for.
- 0:05Speaker 3: Y'all dumb.
- 0:08Speaker 1: Morning.
- 0:09Speaker 4: Everybody is DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne the God we
- 0:13Speaker 4: are the Breakfast Club.
- 0:14Speaker 1: Laura Rose is here as well.
- 0:15Speaker 4: We got a special guest in the buildings, indeed, Destiny
- 0:19Speaker 4: spur a Lock Welcome.
- 0:20Speaker 5: Thank you. Here are you feeling this morning? I feel good.
- 0:24Speaker 5: It's not too early, so we feel good. You got
- 0:26Speaker 5: throw up? No, why would I have to throw up?
- 0:28Speaker 2: Why don't you have to throw up?
- 0:29Speaker 6: Because the article where you were about to do your
- 0:31Speaker 6: debut your race and you turned it was like, I
- 0:34Speaker 6: think I'm about to throw up.
- 0:35Speaker 5: That's hilarious because I was so nervous, Like that was
- 0:37Speaker 5: my debut and I've worked so hard to get to
- 0:40Speaker 5: this point. So it's like I'm here finally and it's like, okay, nervous,
- 0:44Speaker 5: but once I get in the karme good.
- 0:45Speaker 2: I thought he was trying to tell everybody was pregnant.
- 0:52Speaker 6: Your coach, Phil Horton, he was saying, how like that
- 0:54Speaker 6: moment showed him how special you were because you you're
- 0:56Speaker 6: so accomplished, but you're still nervous in the moment.
- 0:58Speaker 4: Absolutely, People that don't know she was the first black
- 1:01Speaker 4: woman to race in NASCAR Motorsports racer And how did
- 1:04Speaker 4: you get into racing and your love.
- 1:06Speaker 5: Of cause it's my parents' fault, I would say. At one,
- 1:10Speaker 5: before I could even walk, they got me a Barbie jeep.
- 1:12Speaker 5: So I was like, okay, this is cool. I turned three,
- 1:15Speaker 5: I got on the back of the motorcycle with them,
- 1:17Speaker 5: and I'm like, yeah, I think I'm gonna do something
- 1:19Speaker 5: like this. My grandfather is the one who introduced me
- 1:21Speaker 5: into NASCAR at like an early age six twelve somewhere
- 1:24Speaker 5: up in there, and I was like, I want to race.
- 1:27Speaker 5: I didn't think it was really going to happen. Fast forward.
- 1:29Speaker 5: I started drag racing motorcycles because of my godfather, and
- 1:33Speaker 5: then I was like, okay, we can really take this
- 1:34Speaker 5: to the next level. All these opportunities came for me
- 1:37Speaker 5: to be able to race a Nascars, but they all failed.
- 1:40Speaker 5: But now we're here, so it's amazing.
- 1:43Speaker 1: Wow, that was a fast story. I know it took
- 1:45Speaker 1: longer than that, but that was.
- 1:47Speaker 4: So let's talk about some of the pitfalls that you
- 1:49Speaker 4: had to go One being black, two being a woman.
- 1:51Speaker 1: So break those dewns.
- 1:52Speaker 5: Yes, So as you know, like you said, it's so
- 1:55Speaker 5: many things that you can say I have against me
- 1:58Speaker 5: because so superpowers they are. I love that. To be
- 2:01Speaker 5: able to get into NASCAR, you kind of have to
- 2:03Speaker 5: be born into it or you have to have a
- 2:05Speaker 5: lot of money. So I didn't have either those. So
- 2:07Speaker 5: I literally had to figure this out as I'm going.
- 2:10Speaker 5: You know, I've had teams that said, hey, come on,
- 2:13Speaker 5: let's do it, and then things fall through. But I'm
- 2:16Speaker 5: just glad I never gave up because I promise you
- 2:18Speaker 5: it was times where I'm like, forget it, but I
- 2:21Speaker 5: kept going. So that's was my perseverance.
- 2:23Speaker 2: Being the first is always celebrated, but does it ever
- 2:25Speaker 2: feel like extra pressure?
- 2:27Speaker 6: No?
- 2:27Speaker 5: I love that. Everybody asked me that do I feel pressure?
- 2:30Speaker 5: I don't because being the first was never my focus.
- 2:33Speaker 5: It was me doing something that I love. I just
- 2:36Speaker 5: happened to be the first and had a great team
- 2:38Speaker 5: with me to make it happen.
- 2:40Speaker 3: Did you ever look up to anybody in the NASCAR world,
- 2:42Speaker 3: motorsports world, anything like that?
- 2:43Speaker 5: So when I was little, Dale Earnhardt was my go
- 2:46Speaker 5: to because that was my Poppy's favorite, you know. And
- 2:49Speaker 5: then I love the DuPont card that what's his name,
- 2:54Speaker 5: Jeff Gordon was in because it was colorful, so many kids.
- 2:56Speaker 5: I'm like, yeah, I'm gonna do that, but yeah, that's
- 2:58Speaker 5: really it. Growing up.
- 3:00Speaker 4: Yeah, you feel like people talk down to you or
- 3:02Speaker 4: feel like you don't know the business as well, especially
- 3:04Speaker 4: being in race card is that happened a lot.
- 3:06Speaker 5: All the time, and I think they look at it
- 3:09Speaker 5: because I'm new in this space. But I've been in
- 3:12Speaker 5: the motorsports industry for over seventeen years and the first
- 3:16Speaker 5: thing that someone ever told me when I first got
- 3:17Speaker 5: into this space was learn the business and know the
- 3:20Speaker 5: business before you get into it. So I know both sides.
- 3:23Speaker 2: And you was a truck driver, yes, I.
- 3:25Speaker 5: Still got my CEO. Yeah that's right.
- 3:28Speaker 2: You could drive the big joints.
- 3:29Speaker 5: Yeah, a kW which is a Kenworth and a Peterbilt.
- 3:33Speaker 5: So yeah. I actually was a flight attendant before that.
- 3:36Speaker 5: Stop being a flight intendant because I'm like, I can't race,
- 3:40Speaker 5: so but it's good money. Then I got my CDO
- 3:42Speaker 5: so I can do both. I was with Delta Air.
- 3:45Speaker 5: I was adulta too.
- 3:46Speaker 3: How long were you there?
- 3:47Speaker 5: I was there for three years.
- 3:49Speaker 6: I was only there for like nine months really, but
- 3:51Speaker 6: you don't have a sign like, but you instantly feel
- 3:56Speaker 6: because adulta training them.
- 3:57Speaker 3: Eight weeks?
- 3:58Speaker 6: How long you were eight or ten weeks? No, we
- 3:59Speaker 6: were six weeks, six weeks. How many plans did you learn?
- 4:02Speaker 5: All of them? And we had it was like at
- 4:04Speaker 5: that point, it's like twelve, Okay, I think we did
- 4:06Speaker 5: eight to start.
- 4:07Speaker 3: I think we did.
- 4:07Speaker 5: We only did learn. There's different exits and it's a
- 4:13Speaker 5: whole it's the whole thing.
- 4:14Speaker 2: And then you feel on a plane.
- 4:16Speaker 7: Both of you don't really be killing because it's like,
- 4:20Speaker 7: you know, you kind of know the thing, so you
- 4:23Speaker 7: just kind of like watching here and there and you're
- 4:25Speaker 7: just like, all right, if you feel safe, you just
- 4:26Speaker 7: you chill.
- 4:27Speaker 3: Literally, you've been doing this over seventeen well you said
- 4:31Speaker 3: about seventeen years, right, craziest injury.
- 4:34Speaker 5: None, great?
- 4:35Speaker 3: Crazy?
- 4:36Speaker 5: Thank god? Yeah no, no, thank god. B I mean
- 4:39Speaker 5: so when I first started race, I did flip the bike,
- 4:42Speaker 5: but then I got back up. They're like, man, we
- 4:43Speaker 5: need to check you out. I'm like, I'm good, but
- 4:45Speaker 5: it's my bike, okay because I want to keep going
- 4:47Speaker 5: and the bike was fine. I was good.
- 4:49Speaker 1: Race was just yes, a race.
- 4:51Speaker 5: Yeah, damn. I know.
- 4:54Speaker 2: You talked about being a truck driver, a flight attendant.
- 4:57Speaker 2: Now NASCAR, which version of yourself for you?
- 4:59Speaker 1: Most?
- 5:00Speaker 5: This one? Because when I look back over all the
- 5:04Speaker 5: times I should have quit, and all the things that
- 5:06Speaker 5: I had to overcome and the things I went through,
- 5:08Speaker 5: to look back now and to see that I really
- 5:11Speaker 5: made it and this is just the beginning. I'm so
- 5:14Speaker 5: proud of myself.
- 5:15Speaker 3: Now.
- 5:15Speaker 6: Seriously, why do you think it's taken so long for
- 5:18Speaker 6: black women to be present in the Space Center?
- 5:21Speaker 5: One? It takes a lot of money so to be
- 5:23Speaker 5: able to obtain the sponsorships, to be able to get
- 5:25Speaker 5: the people that truly believe in you, because you have
- 5:28Speaker 5: a lot of people that's like, yeah, we think you
- 5:30Speaker 5: can do it, but we got to see it first.
- 5:32Speaker 5: So that's first and foremost. The money and having a
- 5:36Speaker 5: team that understands your vision and they believe in you
- 5:39Speaker 5: and push that forward so that other people can see too.
- 5:42Speaker 2: You know what I realized. You know, I sponsored Roger
- 5:45Speaker 2: Caru's car in the Darlington Race. There is a lot
- 5:49Speaker 2: of black people behind the scenes at NASCAR. I would
- 5:51Speaker 2: have never thought that if I hadn't seen it for myself.
- 5:54Speaker 5: And that's changed over the years, because you know, years
- 5:56Speaker 5: ago you never really saw that. But thankfully we have
- 6:00Speaker 5: more people that look like us on the track and
- 6:03Speaker 5: auf the track, because some people they look at us
- 6:05Speaker 5: and look at people like myself and Roger and they're like,
- 6:09Speaker 5: I want to be a racer, but I really don't.
- 6:11Speaker 5: But then we're able to show them that there are
- 6:13Speaker 5: other outlets in the space that they can do as well.
- 6:16Speaker 2: Do you think Motorsports has done enough to create access.
- 6:20Speaker 5: I don't think so. They're getting to that point now,
- 6:23Speaker 5: especially with all the things that they're doing with the
- 6:25Speaker 5: pit crew members and showing them as who they are
- 6:28Speaker 5: and that they are an individual too. So we're getting there.
- 6:32Speaker 2: So are we celebrating exceptions? Are we actually building real opportunities?
- 6:37Speaker 5: I think we're definitely building real opportunities, especially for myself.
- 6:41Speaker 5: I feel like me being a woman that shows those
- 6:44Speaker 5: other little girls and boys boys that hey, like, if
- 6:47Speaker 5: she can do it, I can do it too, and
- 6:49Speaker 5: do it effortlessly and unapologetically.
- 6:51Speaker 1: How personal does it get?
- 6:52Speaker 4: You know, because sometimes I'm watching these races and I'm saying,
- 6:55Speaker 4: people cut each other off, they tapping the back of
- 6:57Speaker 4: the car, and I'm like, after the race, you just
- 6:58Speaker 4: feel y'all want five minutes like personal, Oh it gets personal.
- 7:02Speaker 5: You what you see on TV when they're in your face.
- 7:04Speaker 5: Oh no, that's very much real. I don't do any
- 7:06Speaker 5: of that because I don't got time for it, Like
- 7:08Speaker 5: I'm focused on my racing. But oh yeah, people be
- 7:10Speaker 5: ready to fight for real.
- 7:12Speaker 3: What's the what would you say is the most challenging
- 7:14Speaker 3: part of the race, like the physical part or the
- 7:16Speaker 3: mental part.
- 7:17Speaker 5: I would say the mental, because you got to think,
- 7:20Speaker 5: we're in this car for two plus hours. You have
- 7:23Speaker 5: to make sure you're constantly hitting your lines, meaning racing
- 7:27Speaker 5: where you're supposed to each round, each lap around the track.
- 7:31Speaker 5: You also have to worry about the people around you.
- 7:34Speaker 5: You have to worry about tired maintenance, making sure you're
- 7:37Speaker 5: not wearing your tires out. It's so many aspects. You
- 7:39Speaker 5: have to think of all that and continue to race
- 7:42Speaker 5: and stay focused.
- 7:44Speaker 3: And then y'all don't even get the pe No listen.
- 7:47Speaker 5: So people they were like, what you gotta deal when
- 7:48Speaker 5: you gotta pay, you better hold it. But some people
- 7:51Speaker 5: wear it like depends too, So I know that's right.
- 7:53Speaker 5: Yeah I'm not but yeah, okay.
- 7:55Speaker 4: As your personal question has nothing to do with this,
- 7:56Speaker 4: But you just just mentioned something I had. I gotta
- 7:58Speaker 4: think about racing my sunny the other day in the
- 8:01Speaker 4: gold cost spot, right, I gotta ask you.
- 8:03Speaker 1: Right, so when you hit the curves, they.
- 8:07Speaker 4: Like, it's not to say this, but he beat me.
- 8:10Speaker 4: He beat me the other day, right, And I thought
- 8:11Speaker 4: maybe because he's a lot lighter than me and his
- 8:13Speaker 4: car lighter.
- 8:13Speaker 2: Right.
- 8:14Speaker 1: When you hit the turns, you hit the break or
- 8:16Speaker 1: gas or do you swerve to the turn? How do
- 8:18Speaker 1: you swerve?
- 8:19Speaker 5: It depends because the apex, the banking, all of that
- 8:22Speaker 5: makes a difference. But to what you were talking about, Yes,
- 8:26Speaker 5: your son being lighter will definitely help that. All right, No,
- 8:29Speaker 5: that's true.
- 8:29Speaker 1: That's my story. I'm gonna go racing to day now now.
- 8:35Speaker 2: Logan, Yeah, Logan, Loganga.
- 8:41Speaker 3: Is like not lighter in you. It's no way.
- 8:43Speaker 1: He just got muscles.
- 8:46Speaker 3: Okay.
- 8:46Speaker 2: I don't believe when did you realize you wanted to
- 8:53Speaker 2: start navigating male dominated spaces? Because I read somewhere that
- 8:57Speaker 2: you used to play organized football, tackle football and middle
- 9:00Speaker 2: high school.
- 9:01Speaker 5: Yes I did.
- 9:02Speaker 3: I do.
- 9:03Speaker 5: It's funny because it's like I never looked at it
- 9:05Speaker 5: as being a male dominated thing. I just knew it
- 9:08Speaker 5: was something I wanted to do, so I did it.
- 9:10Speaker 5: So once I got into these spaces, They're like you,
- 9:12Speaker 5: you're a girl, You're not supposed to do this, like
- 9:14Speaker 5: this is a boy's sport. And I'm like, maybe to y'all,
- 9:17Speaker 5: but to me, this is something I love. So I
- 9:19Speaker 5: never looked at it any different. Corner and safety.
- 9:22Speaker 2: Wow, they didn't give you.
- 9:24Speaker 5: No slack, No, they didn't.
- 9:26Speaker 1: I love the fact that your parents put you in
- 9:28Speaker 1: it and push you to do that. That's that's amazing
- 9:29Speaker 1: because most parents be like, no, you don't play that,
- 9:31Speaker 1: this boy sport. But the fact that they push you
- 9:32Speaker 1: to do that, that means everything.
- 9:34Speaker 5: My family has been super supportive no matter what I
- 9:36Speaker 5: want to do. They've always said, destiny, if it's something
- 9:38Speaker 5: you want to do, do it. Yeah, I did. I
- 9:41Speaker 5: Actually I didn't. I never started, but I did get
- 9:43Speaker 5: play time.
- 9:44Speaker 2: Somebody laid you out.
- 9:47Speaker 5: Oh in practice. This was after we made the team.
- 9:50Speaker 5: You know, we have two days. Went out there that morning.
- 9:53Speaker 5: I definitely got my bell rung. I definitely got a
- 9:55Speaker 5: concussion when I got back up, and you know.
- 9:59Speaker 4: What, his daddy's during that time when you get when
- 10:01Speaker 4: you see you on the floor knocked out and you're
- 10:02Speaker 4: looking at stars.
- 10:04Speaker 5: So I didn't lay there. I got up and then
- 10:06Speaker 5: I started seeing the stars. So they didn't know at
- 10:08Speaker 5: the time, but I mean they know I'm tough, I'm rugged,
- 10:12Speaker 5: I'm a girly.
- 10:12Speaker 2: Girl, but I'm They didn't want to do that though,
- 10:14Speaker 2: like you just saw it, Like I want to play football.
- 10:16Speaker 5: I love football. So my dad's a huge Cowboys fan.
- 10:18Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, family, Howard you got.
- 10:27Speaker 5: So we just grew up watching football all the time
- 10:29Speaker 5: and they had so I was like, I'm gonna do it. Yes,
- 10:32Speaker 5: I'm from Virginia, Richmond, Virginia.
- 10:34Speaker 2: You didn't have the Panthers when I was coming. I
- 10:36Speaker 2: was born in nineteen hundred and seventy eight. So my
- 10:37Speaker 2: daddy was a Cowboys fan as well.
- 10:39Speaker 1: That's how.
- 10:40Speaker 2: That's how you become a Cowboys fan down south.
- 10:42Speaker 5: Yeah, literally, I don't know how he started that.
- 10:45Speaker 2: And the lifestyle, the whole cocaine, the women. You know
- 10:48Speaker 2: what I'm saying, what my daddy.
- 10:55Speaker 3: What is the love like when you when you're back
- 10:57Speaker 3: at home Richmond. I know it's just a small city,
- 10:59Speaker 3: but it's like, yeah, it's huge, yeah, and which you
- 11:01Speaker 3: have accomplished is so big being the first black woman
- 11:04Speaker 3: yes a NASCAR.
- 11:05Speaker 5: It's so cool because a lot of them, they've seen
- 11:07Speaker 5: me go up through the rinks. They've seen me race motorcycles,
- 11:09Speaker 5: they seen me race arena cars. So now that I'm
- 11:12Speaker 5: actually here and I grew up two miles from the racetrack,
- 11:15Speaker 5: they love it every time I come there, like, let
- 11:18Speaker 5: us know we're gonna do something. So the little kids
- 11:21Speaker 5: her like like, You're such an inspiration to them. Yes,
- 11:25Speaker 5: And I've done so much like in the community too
- 11:27Speaker 5: before I eve got to this point. So now that
- 11:29Speaker 5: I'm here, I've really got to give back like I wanted.
- 11:31Speaker 4: But what would you tell young girls? I was talking a
- 11:33Speaker 4: lot or a couple of days ago. She was drag
- 11:36Speaker 4: racing as a kid. So what do you tell young
- 11:38Speaker 4: girls that want to get into it? How do they
- 11:39Speaker 4: get into it?
- 11:40Speaker 1: What do they need to do? What you know? How
- 11:42Speaker 1: do they know practice? How do they jump into it?
- 11:44Speaker 5: So for what I did and what I would give
- 11:47Speaker 5: to them is go to your local drag strip wherever
- 11:49Speaker 5: it is that you want to, you know, race at
- 11:52Speaker 5: you can get a car, a junior drag stre because
- 11:54Speaker 5: that's what Lotto did for like five grand and just
- 11:57Speaker 5: find somebody, a team or someone that you try us
- 12:00Speaker 5: to go out there with you and just show you
- 12:01Speaker 5: all the ranks. But I love that you asked that
- 12:03Speaker 5: because I have a foundation called What's Your Destiny Foundation,
- 12:06Speaker 5: and it's to help kids get into motorsports on and
- 12:10Speaker 5: I want to teach them things on and off the track.
- 12:12Speaker 5: So I, like you said, creating these opportunities, that's what
- 12:16Speaker 5: it's all about.
- 12:17Speaker 1: How can they how can they get more information about that?
- 12:19Speaker 5: So it's on my website Destiny spurlock dot com.
- 12:21Speaker 6: But yeah, what do the all your pictures, not all
- 12:26Speaker 6: of them, but a lot of pictures on your Instagram.
- 12:27Speaker 6: You have the stars and your interviews. I've watched what
- 12:29Speaker 6: is the significance of the Stars under your eyes?
- 12:31Speaker 5: So we cannot wear jewelry when not in drag races,
- 12:35Speaker 5: so also drag race in NHR too. And the first
- 12:38Speaker 5: time they told me that, I was like, ill, I
- 12:40Speaker 5: feel naked. I need something that's pretty. So I found
- 12:43Speaker 5: my stars. But the stars are also from Avatar, so
- 12:50Speaker 5: I'm like it brings the little materia out in me.
- 12:52Speaker 2: But yeah, you feel like Avatar when you drive car
- 12:54Speaker 2: all the time.
- 12:55Speaker 5: Yes, you have to. Yeah, you have to find something
- 12:58Speaker 5: inner that's bigger than you, that's gonna bring you through
- 13:01Speaker 5: for sure.
- 13:02Speaker 4: Now, when you ride regular on the road, are you
- 13:03Speaker 4: still like I gotta get to what I gotta get
- 13:05Speaker 4: all You're like, no, especially when you're in traffic.
- 13:08Speaker 5: We got to get to where we gotta go. But
- 13:10Speaker 5: you know we go to speed livings.
- 13:11Speaker 3: So you're a medial strip type girl, because yes, I
- 13:16Speaker 3: think a menial strip real question.
- 13:18Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, no, I mean I gotta keep my life.
- 13:20Speaker 4: And people must pull up to you all the time
- 13:21Speaker 4: when they see you in the car, especially back home.
- 13:23Speaker 5: So I don't. I don't. I don't live in Virginia anymore.
- 13:26Speaker 5: I'm in North Carolina now, so I'm kind of Yeah.
- 13:29Speaker 1: So when they pull up to you the light and
- 13:30Speaker 1: they see they want to race you all the time. No,
- 13:32Speaker 1: they don't know.
- 13:33Speaker 5: No, I a chilling, be chilling.
- 13:34Speaker 3: I have my hat on my hoodie like all incognito.
- 13:37Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 13:38Speaker 2: I have no idea why regular cars go up to
- 13:40Speaker 2: one hundred plus miles. I we're never able to limited
- 13:44Speaker 2: fifty five in most places.
- 13:46Speaker 1: So you have no idea.
- 13:49Speaker 5: Well, if you go Midwest and stuff, you can go
- 13:52Speaker 5: seventy five eighty out there. But you can also go
- 13:55Speaker 5: to the racetrack.
- 13:55Speaker 2: Well, I think it should be based on you tell
- 13:57Speaker 2: your regular car race, yes, track, I can take a
- 14:00Speaker 2: hundred to the race.
- 14:01Speaker 5: You can? People do it the one yes?
- 14:04Speaker 2: Wow, most people ain't doing that.
- 14:06Speaker 5: A lot of people do that for the people that
- 14:07Speaker 5: want to.
- 14:08Speaker 2: I guess what what do people just understand about women
- 14:13Speaker 2: in racing? Becase there's always a stereotype that women can't drive?
- 14:17Speaker 5: What was that?
- 14:18Speaker 3: A stereotype that I'm sorry for real? Usually they say.
- 14:23Speaker 2: Don't context. I don't want people to stereotype. It's not
- 14:38Speaker 2: true women as well.
- 14:40Speaker 5: Just a lot of people they just feel like women
- 14:47Speaker 5: aren't strong enough. You know, we're small, we're fragile, we
- 14:49Speaker 5: can't do the things that men can do in a
- 14:52Speaker 5: car and in life in general. Yes, that is true
- 14:55Speaker 5: to some extent, but that doesn't mean that we can't
- 14:57Speaker 5: do it and we can't do it well. So yeah,
- 15:00Speaker 5: they just need to understand we can do this.
- 15:01Speaker 2: Do you ever feel like you got to just spell
- 15:03Speaker 2: that stereotype?
- 15:04Speaker 5: No, I just continue to focus on what I'm doing.
- 15:06Speaker 5: Because everybody has an opinion, but it's not going to affect.
- 15:09Speaker 6: Me, what's your take on like the conversation like can
- 15:12Speaker 6: women have it all? Because your career is so physical
- 15:15Speaker 6: and so like very different than any other woman that
- 15:18Speaker 6: is not competing in a sport like yours, right, so
- 15:21Speaker 6: love family all that stuff, like do you yeah, no, no, no,
- 15:29Speaker 6: I'm just wondering, like how you what your thinking is
- 15:32Speaker 6: around stuff like that because you're a race car driver,
- 15:35Speaker 6: you know what I mean.
- 15:35Speaker 5: Like it's it's such a different life. Absolutely, no, we
- 15:38Speaker 5: can have it all. But for me, my focus is
- 15:40Speaker 5: my career. I work so hard to get to this point,
- 15:43Speaker 5: like nothing is going to get in my way of
- 15:45Speaker 5: stopping this progression and where I've gotten and so that's
- 15:48Speaker 5: my focus.
- 15:49Speaker 3: I understand that you.
- 15:50Speaker 2: Have the type of confidence I hope my daughters have,
- 15:53Speaker 2: Like have you have you always been fearless or it's
- 15:56Speaker 2: just something that you just had to learn.
- 15:58Speaker 5: Always been fearless. My mom has always told me destiny, like,
- 16:01Speaker 5: don't be that little kid that sat in the back
- 16:03Speaker 5: of the classroom that said, dang, I wish I'd ever
- 16:05Speaker 5: raised my hand, Dang, I wish I would have tried that.
- 16:08Speaker 5: So from that point at four, I've always been a
- 16:11Speaker 5: go getter, I'm like, I can do it.
- 16:13Speaker 2: You jumped off the roof, put a towel on your
- 16:15Speaker 2: aund your neck.
- 16:17Speaker 5: I haven't, but I did take my little tights wagon
- 16:20Speaker 5: to my neighbor's driveway which was super hot and drove
- 16:24Speaker 5: down it. So I did crazy stuff with age six seven. Yeah,
- 16:31Speaker 5: that was gonna ask.
- 16:32Speaker 4: You know watching NASCAR, right, and a lot of people
- 16:35Speaker 4: don't really know much about it.
- 16:36Speaker 1: Right.
- 16:36Speaker 4: It's kind of like soccer now, like you you watch it,
- 16:38Speaker 4: but you don't know what it means. When I noticed
- 16:41Speaker 4: when people race and they get in like the fourteenth place,
- 16:44Speaker 4: they're excited and they're happy. So how does that work
- 16:46Speaker 4: when it comes to that, because I've seen somebody the
- 16:48Speaker 4: other day they were like in the twentieth place and
- 16:49Speaker 4: they were excited about I'm like twenty five mad, But
- 16:51Speaker 4: I guess time.
- 16:53Speaker 5: So it's not yes enough. So you have teams like
- 16:56Speaker 5: big teams, so they're able to have all the great equipment,
- 16:59Speaker 5: you know, a bunch of research and development on their car.
- 17:02Speaker 5: Then you have some teams that are lower level or
- 17:04Speaker 5: lower tier, so they're just happy to be in top
- 17:08Speaker 5: twenty because that doesn't happen too often. So that's what
- 17:12Speaker 5: that comes from.
- 17:13Speaker 4: And then also I wanted to know, like when you
- 17:15Speaker 4: do build out a car, is there a cap like
- 17:17Speaker 4: you know how in certain basketball as each team has
- 17:20Speaker 4: a cap might be thirty million. But if I have
- 17:22Speaker 4: more money than you, and I can, you know, make
- 17:24Speaker 4: my car as fast as possible because I can afford it.
- 17:27Speaker 1: Is there a cap when it comes to the NASCAR
- 17:28Speaker 1: racing or no?
- 17:29Speaker 5: When you say like as far as money, yes, not really,
- 17:32Speaker 5: you still have to stay within the guidelines of the rules. Yes,
- 17:35Speaker 5: but if you have all this money where you can
- 17:37Speaker 5: get a bunch of air tunnel time or you know,
- 17:40Speaker 5: research enveloped to try to make a part as great
- 17:43Speaker 5: as you can, you can do it.
- 17:45Speaker 2: It's one of the coolest things that I was seeing, man,
- 17:47Speaker 2: when I went to go see Rogers, because it's like
- 17:49Speaker 2: they got the control room, then they got the the
- 17:51Speaker 2: I guess another control room on the sideline. Then you
- 17:54Speaker 2: got the team that fixes the car. Would it has
- 17:57Speaker 2: to do the pitch. There's so much that goal into
- 18:00Speaker 2: that one car that people don't see.
- 18:02Speaker 5: They don't they just see the driver and maybe the
- 18:04Speaker 5: pit people. But it takes so much, like the whole
- 18:07Speaker 5: week to make sure everything is together.
- 18:09Speaker 1: And then somebody talking to you while you're racing.
- 18:10Speaker 5: Yes, so you have earbuzz in and your spotter is
- 18:13Speaker 5: talking to you.
- 18:13Speaker 1: So you have to trust them a thousand masts. So
- 18:15Speaker 1: what do he goes?
- 18:15Speaker 2: Move?
- 18:16Speaker 1: You move, and you gotta trust him not to look
- 18:18Speaker 1: and nose.
- 18:19Speaker 5: He's your eyes and is absolutely and sometimes you got
- 18:21Speaker 5: to make a move without even asking him or you know,
- 18:24Speaker 5: him saying something to you. If you see an opening,
- 18:26Speaker 5: you know you can get it. You gotta go.
- 18:28Speaker 4: Have you ever gotten to an argument with your spider
- 18:29Speaker 4: like you missed something or he didn't want you to
- 18:31Speaker 4: do something?
- 18:31Speaker 1: Now?
- 18:32Speaker 5: Nah, nah, my spotter is really good. Yeah, he's cool.
- 18:35Speaker 3: Have you heard of that though? Like some spotterer is
- 18:36Speaker 3: missing the marks and things like that.
- 18:38Speaker 5: Why it happens all the time. And then I feel
- 18:40Speaker 5: like you have to also get a spotter that works
- 18:42Speaker 5: for you. They may be the best, yes, but they
- 18:45Speaker 5: you all may not communicate the same.
- 18:47Speaker 6: So that is a big Are you interviewing them like
- 18:49Speaker 6: a personal interview like an assistant? Like how is how
- 18:51Speaker 6: do you get the spotter?
- 18:52Speaker 5: So right now, my team, they have brought me some
- 18:55Speaker 5: people and we've tried different people out and that's pretty much.
- 18:58Speaker 5: How you have to do it.
- 18:59Speaker 4: That's a damn like live with you because he has
- 19:01Speaker 4: to know you, right, we have to live. You have
- 19:04Speaker 4: to know somebody so well you're playing with their life.
- 19:08Speaker 3: Yeah, essentially, but a couple of conversations to day.
- 19:12Speaker 5: Yeah, no, not at all, Like we'll do a pre race,
- 19:14Speaker 5: at the race and post Maybe I couldn't imagine that.
- 19:29Speaker 3: Oh god, what is the benefit of staying physically fit
- 19:32Speaker 3: or being physically fit as a racist?
- 19:34Speaker 5: Okay, because we are athletes, I'm so glad you said that. Yes,
- 19:37Speaker 5: I'm in the gym six days a week literally for
- 19:40Speaker 5: four hours minimum. Yeah, we're doing all the agility training,
- 19:45Speaker 5: heavy lifting, we do reaction stuff. I get on the
- 19:48Speaker 5: sim I'm watching film, so you have to when I
- 19:52Speaker 5: say it's like football camp, that's the type of study. Yeah,
- 19:56Speaker 5: that's how it is.
- 19:57Speaker 2: Incorrect me if I'm wrong, because I don't know the
- 19:58Speaker 2: technical way to say it. But it's like almost like
- 20:01Speaker 2: phone memory in your seat type thing. Yeah, it shapes
- 20:05Speaker 2: to you when you sit in.
- 20:06Speaker 5: It, so it's a seat poor So well, they'll pour
- 20:10Speaker 5: the stuff in we sit in it. It gets like over
- 20:12Speaker 5: one hundred degrees and it molds to you. So that
- 20:14Speaker 5: is prime for a race car driver.
- 20:17Speaker 2: So you can't you really do. Got to watch your
- 20:18Speaker 2: way because you gotta stay within.
- 20:20Speaker 5: The Yeah, but no, because it's funny. I got into
- 20:23Speaker 5: my old car the other day and I can't fit
- 20:25Speaker 5: my seat anymore. So you just call the people up.
- 20:28Speaker 5: They'll come out there. Poor You're done in a day.
- 20:30Speaker 5: Oh yeah, wow.
- 20:31Speaker 6: How has like the business and branding side of it
- 20:34Speaker 6: been for you? Like you know on one and it's
- 20:36Speaker 6: like first black woman to do all these things. But
- 20:37Speaker 6: do you feel like on the business side they're as welcoming,
- 20:40Speaker 6: open open to you.
- 20:41Speaker 5: So yes. So first I gotta say thank you to
- 20:43Speaker 5: Fox Techa. They are the reason I'm here. They I've
- 20:46Speaker 5: met them six years ago. They always believed in me,
- 20:48Speaker 5: so they are a huge part of it because they,
- 20:51Speaker 5: like I said, they see my vision like I see it.
- 20:54Speaker 5: So when they're talking to people, they like who I am,
- 20:59Speaker 5: but they want to see me in the car first.
- 21:00Speaker 5: So now that I'm here, they're way more welcoming than before.
- 21:03Speaker 5: I love that for you.
- 21:05Speaker 2: So you got the YouTube series Driven by Destiny. What
- 21:08Speaker 2: do you want people to learn? You know, not just
- 21:10Speaker 2: about the sport of racing, but about you. Are you
- 21:12Speaker 2: just trying to introduce yourself to the personality.
- 21:14Speaker 5: So I want them to see what it looks like
- 21:17Speaker 5: behind the scenes, because a lot of people that just see, oh,
- 21:19Speaker 5: you're a race car driver, they don't understand all the
- 21:21Speaker 5: things that it took for me to get to this point,
- 21:23Speaker 5: and the hardship and all that good stuff. So I
- 21:26Speaker 5: want them to come into my world. Gives me a
- 21:28Speaker 5: chance to be vulnerable and show them who I am.
- 21:31Speaker 2: Was there ever a moment where you almost gave up
- 21:33Speaker 2: because you feel like doors weren't opening.
- 21:35Speaker 5: Yeah, a ton of times. A ton of times. I
- 21:40Speaker 5: can't even count on both my hands. There's been things,
- 21:42Speaker 5: like I said, a lot of overpromising under delivering has happened,
- 21:46Speaker 5: and I just wanted to say forget it. But something
- 21:49Speaker 5: would happen where I see a little girl she's like, oh,
- 21:51Speaker 5: I love what you're doing. I'm all right, I guess
- 21:53Speaker 5: I'll keep going. So scared, not no, not scared, nervous,
- 21:58Speaker 5: Not scared because inspect what I do and I know
- 22:01Speaker 5: what can happen. But once I get in the car
- 22:04Speaker 5: or on the bike, I'm good.
- 22:05Speaker 2: I love what you said about the little girl, right
- 22:07Speaker 2: because I always you pray to God to just show
- 22:09Speaker 2: you signs. Right, you ask God showed me if I
- 22:11Speaker 2: should be doing something like so, was that a thing
- 22:15Speaker 2: like you saw this little girl and she actually told
- 22:17Speaker 2: you like, hey.
- 22:18Speaker 1: Yes, oh what you're doing.
- 22:19Speaker 5: I just all the time, and I pray a lot,
- 22:22Speaker 5: and I'm like, hey, God, let me know what you
- 22:24Speaker 5: need me to do. I'll see a one one one,
- 22:26Speaker 5: I'm like, all right, let's keep it moving, like you know.
- 22:28Speaker 5: Or I'll meet somebody in the grocery store and they're like, hey,
- 22:31Speaker 5: are you destiny? And I'm like, all right, let's keep going,
- 22:33Speaker 5: you know. So I've always known that it's bigger than me,
- 22:36Speaker 5: regardless of the things I go through. I'm going through
- 22:38Speaker 5: them to help the next generation when i'm kids.
- 22:40Speaker 3: So you're not call you probably a superhero old of them.
- 22:42Speaker 5: I know I am.
- 22:44Speaker 2: That's when you Have you ever asked your parents why
- 22:47Speaker 2: they named you?
- 22:49Speaker 7: Oh?
- 22:49Speaker 5: I know that story. So my mom didn't know. First
- 22:51Speaker 5: of all, my dad wanted to name me Shaquille because
- 22:54Speaker 5: he loves Shaquille O'Neill. Right, yes, my mom said absolutely not.
- 23:00Speaker 5: We gonna figure this out. And she was at my
- 23:02Speaker 5: mom my grandparents house sitting in her kitchen and she
- 23:04Speaker 5: said she just heard the word destiny, and she said,
- 23:06Speaker 5: that's what I'm the nameing.
- 23:08Speaker 3: I actually like sugar. I like destiny and how you
- 23:10Speaker 3: spell it very significantly. But I can see Shaquille for
- 23:14Speaker 3: a girl, not for me, but Ki Shaquilla. Shaquille Shaquilla
- 23:21Speaker 3: is my father one to name me Kevin Cray's no.
- 23:28Speaker 1: Get Kevin Kevin.
- 23:38Speaker 3: This is why I nothing.
- 23:41Speaker 5: What they play when you when you.
- 23:43Speaker 2: Were younger, did you realize what destiny was?
- 23:45Speaker 5: No? I had no clue until I got older. I
- 23:48Speaker 5: was probably about high school and I really started digging
- 23:51Speaker 5: into the meaning of my name, and I'm like, this
- 23:53Speaker 5: is wow. I get to really create my own destiny
- 23:56Speaker 5: every day, and that's my name.
- 23:58Speaker 2: Like, okay, so what did you think your original destiny was?
- 24:01Speaker 2: Are you still.
- 24:03Speaker 5: I thought my original destiny was to do something out
- 24:06Speaker 5: of the ordinary, which I've always done. So to answer that, yeah,
- 24:10Speaker 5: I'm still doing it so much more to come.
- 24:15Speaker 1: When is your next race so people can follow you?
- 24:17Speaker 5: Okay? So next race is this Friday, which will we
- 24:20Speaker 5: will have the juneteenth livery thanks to Fox tech Us.
- 24:24Speaker 5: So yes, that's gonna be a Pocono. And then I
- 24:27Speaker 5: have another race coming up which I want to make
- 24:29Speaker 5: a great announcement about. Okay, so on July twenty four,
- 24:37Speaker 5: thank you so much to miss Emily Sussman. She is
- 24:40Speaker 5: also the co owner of Gotham FC and the New
- 24:43Speaker 5: York Giants. So she has a podcast called She Pivots Podcasts,
- 24:47Speaker 5: and she is coming along with me on this journey
- 24:49Speaker 5: because she believes in me, and she's going to sponsor
- 24:51Speaker 5: my race. Wow, Indianapolis, amazing, congratulations. Yes it's old, yes, yes, yes,
- 25:04Speaker 5: let me see.
- 25:06Speaker 3: And is it you like you? This is all your
- 25:08Speaker 3: creative control.
- 25:10Speaker 5: So it's my team. And and when I say my
- 25:13Speaker 5: team is like that, they like that. Okay, my phone
- 25:15Speaker 5: is turned off, so okay in the moment, yes, y'all
- 25:23Speaker 5: have right, I don't have hers on my phone. Okay, perfect, Yes,
- 25:28Speaker 5: y'all gonna love it.
- 25:29Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 25:30Speaker 5: And then so I'm really big into my ancestors because listen,
- 25:33Speaker 5: they didn't get these chances that I have. So I
- 25:36Speaker 5: always say I am my sister's wildest dreams come true.
- 25:40Speaker 5: And we got that on the car, So I'm really.
- 25:44Speaker 8: I got to see Okay, oh wow, that's beautiful.
- 25:56Speaker 5: Which one is that, Okay, I love it.
- 26:02Speaker 2: Fire, oh my god.
- 26:04Speaker 3: And you look at this yo. This you do a
- 26:07Speaker 3: lot of colors.
- 26:08Speaker 6: I saw another picture before the numbers or something like.
- 26:12Speaker 5: Yeah, that was my avatar. That was when I did
- 26:14Speaker 5: my truck baby.
- 26:14Speaker 3: Yeah, you do a lot of like color.
- 26:16Speaker 1: This is dope. That's the same one.
- 26:18Speaker 5: That's yeah, hold on, let me pull that that for you, right?
- 26:27Speaker 3: I love that so colorful, vibrant.
- 26:31Speaker 1: You know, yes, I love it.
- 26:34Speaker 2: I'm not one of my favorite things to do, sponsoring
- 26:36Speaker 2: Rogers call. I'm gonna do more of that. But that
- 26:38Speaker 2: was that. It's like going to NASCAR period. That was
- 26:41Speaker 2: my first time going. But I'm like, I can see
- 26:43Speaker 2: why people like enjoyed. When I was young, my dad
- 26:45Speaker 2: to take me to the racetrack of Cooper River Dragon
- 26:47Speaker 2: Way in South Carolina. But that and Darlington was different.
- 26:50Speaker 5: Yeah, way different. We get to some races.
- 26:54Speaker 1: Yes, if I was, I say, I would go to win.
- 26:56Speaker 1: The Poconos is close.
- 26:57Speaker 3: It's very close, but that's your that's the weekend. Your
- 27:00Speaker 3: car show.
- 27:01Speaker 1: July twenty fifth is my car show.
- 27:03Speaker 3: Yeah, herge, the last twenty four you.
- 27:05Speaker 4: Know, I went, I went to Hampton, So I'm always
- 27:07Speaker 4: in Hampton. Yeah, no, touch Richmond every once in a while.
- 27:11Speaker 2: Dope.
- 27:11Speaker 5: I definitely got to come to one of your car
- 27:12Speaker 5: shows because I've been seeing it on my feet.
- 27:14Speaker 4: One day when you're not racing, we would love to
- 27:16Speaker 4: get one of your car Carr.
- 27:18Speaker 2: He's Dominican, but still I am.
- 27:23Speaker 6: A lot of black people events.
- 27:26Speaker 1: Thank you so much for.
- 27:28Speaker 2: Destiny. When you're eighty years old and you're looking back,
- 27:31Speaker 2: what do you hope people say? Destiny spur a lot changed.
- 27:35Speaker 5: The face of motorsports because when I grew up in
- 27:39Speaker 5: motors versus, you didn't see a lot of people that
- 27:42Speaker 5: look like me. Maybe you did in drag racing, but
- 27:44Speaker 5: definitely not in NASCAR spaces. So yeah, that's what I
- 27:47Speaker 5: want them to say.
- 27:48Speaker 2: Tell them how to follow you.
- 27:50Speaker 5: Follow me on Dessie Spurlock everything except Facebook. That's Des
- 27:54Speaker 5: Spurlock Official and it's d Y and I d E.
- 27:57Speaker 5: There we go, it's d Y S t A n Y.
- 28:00Speaker 1: Well, it's dj M V Little keV Charlemagne. That was
- 28:04Speaker 1: violent for no reasons.
- 28:05Speaker 2: I don't condone that.
- 28:06Speaker 1: Destinies Burl, I thank you so much for joining us.
- 28:09Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club.
- 28:10Speaker 2: Good morning, Joe, Keviny was crazy. That was unnecessary. I
- 28:12Speaker 2: was completely understand I don't know why you don't know.
- 28:17Speaker 2: Every day I wake, click your glass up, the breakfast club.
- 28:20Speaker 1: You don't finish for.
- 28:21Speaker 2: Y'all done it.