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Episode 68"The Culture Deserves It" Feat. Kenny Burns w/ Ferrari Simmons & Su Solo Prod: iHandlebars · The Baller Alert Show

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  Speaker 1: The tree is real, It's about to go down. Wake up,
• 0:10
  Speaker 1: wake up, and when you pivot, turn it up. You know,
• 0:15
  Speaker 1: if you're gonna shoot, you better shoot straight because so
• 0:17
  Speaker 1: whom did I don't know? Lose the worst thing you
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  Speaker 1: can deal with tracts. Welcome to the follow Alert Show
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  Speaker 1: featuring your lifestyle specialist Hitty Burns, So Long and Ferrari Simmons.
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  Speaker 1: The dream is she likes that specialist Kenny Burns Ferrari Simmons.
• 0:33
  Speaker 1: If they Ethiopians is so low? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 0:40
  Speaker 1: How was your weekend party? People? It was a long
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  Speaker 1: weekend for me. Yeah yeah, I got my hair braided
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  Speaker 1: about O C T. Thank you. Storm is that storm?
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  Speaker 1: It's not storm, It's like, I mean, guys, you could
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  Speaker 1: say that kind of grayish. Yeah. She came over to
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  Speaker 1: the Crab Friday, and then Friday night I celebrated with
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  Speaker 1: my dentist friend Candice was opening her own practice. Here
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  Speaker 1: at last, shout out to black women. Okay, Greg doing anything?
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  Speaker 1: All right, don't say the name of the health insurance
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  Speaker 1: so I can get will she accept my health insurance?
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  Speaker 1: Like yeah, I'm sure, I'm sure, sure, Yeah, I'm sure.
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  Speaker 1: Streets not four got good insurance. Yea Saturday, I had
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  Speaker 1: a panel, went to brunch, went to the United game,
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  Speaker 1: and then called Ferrari spending for like the last fifteen
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  Speaker 1: twenty minutes at compound. Yeah it was I didn't have
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  Speaker 1: I wish you would. I wish you would close though,
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  Speaker 1: Ferrari Simons. Yeah, I'm gonna started. Um, yeah, we're gonna
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  Speaker 1: talk about that. Yeah, I want to close because I
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  Speaker 1: don't don't like catching the last drop. Hit to drop,
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  Speaker 1: to drop, hit to drop? Cool? Did you drop? I
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  Speaker 1: liked it. I heard one of my interns at street
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  Speaker 1: Stand for five, like four and a half years ago,
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  Speaker 1: that all. Yeah, so you were doing it. You had
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  Speaker 1: that when you were hosting kind of your dream is real? Yeats.
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  Speaker 1: You guys are missed Sunday though at the IVY gather
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  Speaker 1: because they want to do something with you and then
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  Speaker 1: of course miss you. So everybody got to take just
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  Speaker 1: so you all know, it's an award talking. He need
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  Speaker 1: half a front, Yeah, I need all mine. Oh yeah
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  Speaker 1: it was. They'd be dressing freshure what's your brother name?
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  Speaker 1: Fresh love their star? I love the star. They still
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  Speaker 1: gotta pay Rory. How was y'all? Weekend? Weekend was good?
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  Speaker 1: I closed my first day party, uh Saturday at Rose Bar.
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  Speaker 1: I did really, really good. I had. I've been brushing
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  Speaker 1: up on my my nineties music, so yeah, you know
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  Speaker 1: Tatie's baby, so yeah, but I didn't. You're in the
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  Speaker 1: actual eighties, baby, yeah eighty four listen, and I actually
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  Speaker 1: did the SAH. I did an s w v SA,
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  Speaker 1: a little marriage that sprinkled in a little. Mary J.
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  Speaker 1: Blige did some. I mixed the Beyonce with the Meverley
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  Speaker 1: Frankie and Meverle and Babe Frankie Beverly. I mixed it
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  Speaker 1: all together. Okay, you know what I'm saying. They did
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  Speaker 1: their thing on that Remax. I mean, I get have
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  Speaker 1: people say they love it and know the house so
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  Speaker 1: they don't like, Yeah, it's like what I play it.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. The beat, it's a fun song,
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  Speaker 1: you know, it's like one of them Lyne dancing song. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Everything was good. That's awesome. I'm noticing. Y'all can tell
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  Speaker 1: me because y'all in the clubs more than I am
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  Speaker 1: these days. Are they playing old school sets again? Because
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  Speaker 1: every time I see it something on Instagram they got
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  Speaker 1: an old school set. I feel like they always play
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  Speaker 1: old school sets, but it just depends on the time
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  Speaker 1: of the night. Yeah. But and then they're not like
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  Speaker 1: very long either, you know, it's just like a real
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  Speaker 1: short thirty five minutes though. Yeah, I just feel like
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  Speaker 1: they'd be singing and having a more more of of
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  Speaker 1: an experience when they play some sing song ship. In fact,
• 3:52
  Speaker 1: that's how we need more like strictly R and B parties.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, basketball again y'all this weekend, and
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  Speaker 1: I just you know, I'm tired of it. I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to do it no more. I'm tired. I'm tired
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  Speaker 1: of I'm tired of the basketball ship. Man, I'm just tired.
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  Speaker 1: I'm tired of I'm tired of it. I'm tired of
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  Speaker 1: it because it's just so dysfunctional. You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: Did you get into it? Didn't get into it? The reps.
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  Speaker 1: I was little James Harden, I was PC. It was
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  Speaker 1: quiet or they cheated James Harden to Game one or
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  Speaker 1: the Western Conferences semifinals, semifinals. They cheated, They cheated them.
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  Speaker 1: It was five calls they should have called for three
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  Speaker 1: on four on James Hard and that one on Chris
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  Speaker 1: Paul and then when he made the three point of
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  Speaker 1: the one. I'm just saying they Chris Paul ain't had
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  Speaker 1: to get a technical file either to put themselves far back.
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  Speaker 1: But anyway, and they almost won the game. But go ahead,
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  Speaker 1: Yeah that's it. They almost and they almost won the game.
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  Speaker 1: But I think that series gonna go to seven because
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  Speaker 1: it's it's too it's too much five power on both sides,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I just didn't and I mean, obviously,
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  Speaker 1: what's the boy name Capella ain't have a big, big
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  Speaker 1: game to get off into streakers or anyway. So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I don't like a basketball anymore, y'all. I don't like it.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like it. And it's not good for the kids. Um,
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  Speaker 1: I'm joking. It's good for the kids. It's just you know,
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  Speaker 1: sometimes these organizations, man, you know, you're dealing with all
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  Speaker 1: these parents and you're done with all this the children.
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  Speaker 1: It just gets the times better than they actually are,
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  Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, and these kids, you gotta stop holding
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  Speaker 1: your kids back. All your parents out there that holding
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  Speaker 1: your kids back grades with ness so they can play basketball.
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  Speaker 1: It's a travesty to the kid man. Yea, like some
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  Speaker 1: places fifteen you I swear seventeen seventeen year olds playing
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  Speaker 1: fifteen you that's not fair. That's not fair. I'm just
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  Speaker 1: saying it's not fair when you have a seventeen year
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  Speaker 1: old playing a fifteen year old, especially in the in
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  Speaker 1: the tournaments where coaches can come see them. But it's
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  Speaker 1: not fair. It's not fair. But I don't let my son.
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  Speaker 1: They want to make They asked me because my son
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  Speaker 1: played down to to the fourteen you because he was
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  Speaker 1: He just turned fifth in so when the season started
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  Speaker 1: he was fourteen, it was like, he can play. I
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  Speaker 1: was like, no, because that's not who he in the
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  Speaker 1: ninth grade, so I want him to play against ninth
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  Speaker 1: grades tim grade. If he wants play bossy, then he
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  Speaker 1: has to play against caliber people. All right, nothing about
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  Speaker 1: my child. It's time for In case you missed, Hey, hey,
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  Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. A K. Fifty is the goat of
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  Speaker 1: internet torture. He's the goat of internet torture around. I
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  Speaker 1: suggest you pay that man his money or he is
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  Speaker 1: on your head. I don't know anybody I would be
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  Speaker 1: scared of on the internet other than fifty. If if
• 6:45
  Speaker 1: it came down to you know what, I'm saying when
• 6:48
  Speaker 1: you think he forgot, when you think it's all, he
• 6:51
  Speaker 1: comes back with the Game of Thrones checks. That's that's
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  Speaker 1: just that when he says something, it holds so much weight,
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  Speaker 1: Like so many people give us so much attention and
• 7:01
  Speaker 1: they just intensify it. So it makes because sometimes I
• 7:04
  Speaker 1: don't even feel like what he says is that he's
• 7:07
  Speaker 1: not crazy, but it does get I think he smiles
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  Speaker 1: as he types. Do you think he means it a
• 7:16
  Speaker 1: lot of the times, because I don't really know if
• 7:18
  Speaker 1: I feel like he means it. Yeah, I think he
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  Speaker 1: means it all the time. I think he means it all.
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  Speaker 1: You know, he says the most direct and painful things
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  Speaker 1: to the people he's going at. I mean, it's Marie
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  Speaker 1: thing the dog, this rando dude is I know, he
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  Speaker 1: posted a dude on a treadmill with all the things.
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  Speaker 1: He's like, don't die before Monday. I need all my bread.
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  Speaker 1: Then he said I got to do fifty, I got
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  Speaker 1: to I need all my money by monday. Well it's Monday,
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  Speaker 1: so we're gonna see. Yeah, he already started this morning,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, man, this man. Hell. Then Game of
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  Speaker 1: Thrones coming on last night, so he posted, chair the chair,
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  Speaker 1: it's almost Monday like that man speaking of give us
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  Speaker 1: power back man, speaking of goats, ladies and gentlemen. Jay
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  Speaker 1: Z performed B Sides at West Hall, New York City,
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  Speaker 1: and he touched the world that he did a whole
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  Speaker 1: old two uh nity hustle, but black folk in general
• 8:22
  Speaker 1: and that whole thing. Um, yeah, I love that. He said,
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  Speaker 1: you know, basically, like gentrification isn't bad, but the displacement
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  Speaker 1: of people's back like she want the hood to stay
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  Speaker 1: the hood like or do we wanted to stay like
• 8:33
  Speaker 1: that forever? Like that really sat well with me. He said,
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  Speaker 1: go ahead, and we don't have to leave it the
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  Speaker 1: hood physically but mentally. Yeah. Absolutely. I just like how
• 8:44
  Speaker 1: he broke down. He was like, you know, you gotta
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  Speaker 1: move to the white neighborhoods because if you live by
• 8:50
  Speaker 1: the black neighborhood, your property value go down. I'm over here,
• 8:53
  Speaker 1: like whoa, yeah, dude, it's special, Like wow. The special
• 8:58
  Speaker 1: wait for us to gentrify neighborhoods is to take care
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  Speaker 1: of it, like everybody, make sure you could your grass,
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  Speaker 1: you know, keep your house fresh, like make sure the
• 9:06
  Speaker 1: neighborhood children know that, you know, how to do things
• 9:09
  Speaker 1: like that. That's how we can manage that, that's how
• 9:12
  Speaker 1: we can gentrify our own neighborhoods. Yeah, I was watching
• 9:15
  Speaker 1: um this thing and that has everything to do with
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  Speaker 1: Jay was saying about the Illiges in Detroit, their billionaire family,
• 9:22
  Speaker 1: and it was this documentary I forgot I think it
• 9:24
  Speaker 1: was on HBO Sports whatever, that thing with Brian Gumble
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  Speaker 1: was forgot anyway. So it was basically talking about how
• 9:31
  Speaker 1: they had this project for downtown and then they wanted
• 9:34
  Speaker 1: to tax the taxpayer basically paid like five hundred million
• 9:38
  Speaker 1: dollars put this this thing that minds their billionaires, you
• 9:41
  Speaker 1: know someone. And this goes back to the gentrification thing.
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  Speaker 1: And the schools in Detroit were rated the worst in
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  Speaker 1: the world, right and I'm somebody in the United States
• 9:50
  Speaker 1: of America, And so they were talking about like, well,
• 9:52
  Speaker 1: how can you ask for five hundred million dollars in
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  Speaker 1: taxes but you got five hundred million dollars and repairs
• 9:57
  Speaker 1: and need to go to these schools. So it's you know,
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  Speaker 1: I think it's too like like Sue said, like if
• 10:02
  Speaker 1: we were to take pride in our communities and really
• 10:06
  Speaker 1: you know, keep them clean, keep them uplifted, you know,
• 10:09
  Speaker 1: replace things in a timely manner that that saves a
• 10:12
  Speaker 1: lot of money right there. You know, like when you
• 10:14
  Speaker 1: get to they were showing these pictures of these schools
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  Speaker 1: in Detroit, You're I'm talking about they had you know,
• 10:20
  Speaker 1: mill do and and and just. I mean, the the
• 10:23
  Speaker 1: knobs were rusted and you couldn't like you wouldn't even
• 10:26
  Speaker 1: touch I mean the light switch and floors raising death.
• 10:30
  Speaker 1: I mean it was unreal. But big shout to Ja
• 10:33
  Speaker 1: and everything he had to say in that rap, because
• 10:35
  Speaker 1: it was truly you know, I mean, this is somebody
• 10:38
  Speaker 1: who did it. We're talking about a guy from the block.
• 10:40
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, single parent projects, the whole thing,
• 10:43
  Speaker 1: and then ultimately you know, becoming this superhero. Um, ladies
• 10:48
  Speaker 1: and gentlemen. Tab you said something about Tokyo, man, what
• 10:50
  Speaker 1: were you saying earlier about her? You said something about
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  Speaker 1: what you're saying, um hip hop. Yes, she was saying
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  Speaker 1: that she was gonna lose weight or she wanted to.
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  Speaker 1: And then what I loved about Tokyo though, is like
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  Speaker 1: when she first came out, she let it be known
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  Speaker 1: that she's confident, she's happy with who she is and
• 11:06
  Speaker 1: then like later on you see her on Love and
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  Speaker 1: Hip Hop and she's like, I want to be healthy.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it's not not so much about me being skinny,
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  Speaker 1: but I want to be healthy. And I don't want
• 11:14
  Speaker 1: to go too far against my brand because I gave
• 11:17
  Speaker 1: I tried to give a lot of bigger women confidence,
• 11:19
  Speaker 1: you know, so she she made sure to say that,
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  Speaker 1: But I think she's like getting offended at the delivery.
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  Speaker 1: Like her friends are trying to help her and they're like,
• 11:27
  Speaker 1: all right, get on the treadmill, alright, do this, and
• 11:29
  Speaker 1: she's getting she's getting offended. I feel like, um, so,
• 11:33
  Speaker 1: I think if you're trying to encourage her, you need
• 11:35
  Speaker 1: to find a language that she can understand, like you can't.
• 11:38
  Speaker 1: You know, you got to figure out how she feels
• 11:39
  Speaker 1: comfortable being spoken to and what workouts she feels comfortable
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  Speaker 1: getting into. But if she wants to get fit and healthy,
• 11:45
  Speaker 1: I think it's nice that she told her friends that,
• 11:47
  Speaker 1: but I think her friends need to pay attention to
• 11:49
  Speaker 1: the fact that she don't like their delivery. And also,
• 11:52
  Speaker 1: I'm she's a personal friend of mine. I talked to
• 11:54
  Speaker 1: her often. Um, she crazy as hell. I just think,
• 11:57
  Speaker 1: you know, and I'm gonna say this to her personally
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  Speaker 1: to like, I just think also the first thing, uh,
• 12:02
  Speaker 1: you should always try to do first is like changing
• 12:04
  Speaker 1: your eating habits. I think sometimes one thing that my
• 12:07
  Speaker 1: dactor told me today this morning, I actually told me
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  Speaker 1: was sometimes we eat too much at the same time.
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  Speaker 1: We gotta break it up like a little small ship
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  Speaker 1: like that will actually help. Everything's okay and moderations wait
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  Speaker 1: strictly off of your diet for sure, And then you
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  Speaker 1: just started the piece by piece working out. Yeah, because
• 12:26
  Speaker 1: that that made later on, like when you see some
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  Speaker 1: of the pounds dropped just from changing your eating habits,
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  Speaker 1: I think that will give you motivation, like, okay, cool,
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  Speaker 1: let me go ahead and start working out too then.
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  Speaker 1: So because it's my ultimates of my health, though you don't.
• 12:38
  Speaker 1: The older you get, the more you know there are
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  Speaker 1: more options. You know, there's more options now versus back
• 12:46
  Speaker 1: in the day where it was hard to find it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I waited m popping up. Everyone ain't gonna go out
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: because god damn, that's definitely what that McDonald's is just ter.
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  Speaker 1: Have you seen how they how they change like the
• 12:58
  Speaker 1: look of their menu, like they try to make it
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  Speaker 1: clean it's crazy. I was like, that's what they meant chicken.
• 13:07
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you this. I'm gonna tell you this.
• 13:09
  Speaker 1: I watched Vice yesterday. Have you haven't seen the movie
• 13:11
  Speaker 1: A Vice? You have to watch Advice. It's about Dick Chaney,
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  Speaker 1: the vice president. Dick Chaney the vice president. They did
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  Speaker 1: a movie. And when you think about what they will do,
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  Speaker 1: what people will do to their own people, period, it
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  Speaker 1: ain't about nothing but money. It ain't about nothing but money.
• 13:28
  Speaker 1: I mean when they were talking about in the advicement,
• 13:30
  Speaker 1: you know, they created that whole war just to make
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: a presidents and game basically like you know, wartime presidents
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  Speaker 1: have all this whatever whatever. And then they basically went
• 13:39
  Speaker 1: over there said there with nuclear bombs. There were no
• 13:42
  Speaker 1: nuclear bombs. They did it specifically to go you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And my point is this, they will
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  Speaker 1: feed us whatever we continue to eat, they will, you
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And it's not about health, it's
• 13:52
  Speaker 1: not about absolutely. And they're pieces. They're scraps. Those burgers,
• 13:56
  Speaker 1: those chicken nuggets, those are scraps. That's not even like
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  Speaker 1: whole piece is of something. And a lot of those
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: restaurants are in the hood. Yeah, most of them. It's
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: so crazy though, because like my sister in Seattle, she
• 14:06
  Speaker 1: grows rosemary, basil, strawberries, tomatoes in her front yard, like
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  Speaker 1: not even the back like, and you go to her
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: neighborhood and a lot of her neighbors I like that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm just like, we don't even nothing, Like maybe
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: we can figure that out. You can really plant like
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  Speaker 1: your own potatoes at home. Like god, I saw a
• 14:25
  Speaker 1: video of somebody like growing potatoes in a pot. They
• 14:27
  Speaker 1: just turned it upside down so that they grew like
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: it was weird, But we really we're not. Everybody needs
• 14:33
  Speaker 1: about this. How many chickens, turkeys, cows do you think
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  Speaker 1: they are in the world? How many do you think?
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  Speaker 1: How many real ones? That's what I'm saying. How many
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: chicken wings you think, you know, like for real, because
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: at the end of the day, like it'd be, it's
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: not that many. It's not. We would have ate all
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: the chicken, especially us. If you've seen the Netflix, you
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: see how they procreate those I can't. They're like in
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: a dungeon. They just forced to just have kids, I mean,
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: have eggs, have eggs, and then you know they tortured them.
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  Speaker 1: They make their own feces. It's discussed if rhinods can
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: go and see that there's a certain type of rhino
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  Speaker 1: that just went extinct like last week, if those, if
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: we can kill all those, y'all think these chickens is real,
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  Speaker 1: I know that ain't by two thousand chickens in my
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  Speaker 1: life at least. I just want you, ladies and gemmen,
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  Speaker 1: all said Reunice with his father three years I put
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: the video on the screen. He hugged that man, almost said,
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  Speaker 1: Caesar's here today. We hugged that man so tight. Man.
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: That was beautiful, man, that was beautiful. I had a
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: love in my throat. I was so emotional, like I
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: just loved what that meant, because it was nice to
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: see somebody like him be on the receiving end of
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: that God. I'm scared of that. You Alrea got a
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: Vengers Infinity stones on his chest right now. You got
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: the Thanos Infinity stones on your chest right now, motherfucker
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: iron Man and goddamn uh you got the Time Stone,
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: you got the Power Stone. You're gonna see the movie stone, yes,
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: right now? Yeah, you went to the movie on the
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: damn screen. They go look at it. Turn the camera
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: on yourself. Did you go see the Adventures? Hell yeah,
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: what I've seen every movie everything like that. Hell yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I was that right here. I'm gonna go see it again.
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: We're gonna see this. We We're gonna see this. We
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: was sold out. It was sold out everywhere. I was
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: in the front row to I told they put in
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: the front row. I want to look up all the way?
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  Speaker 1: Who else? Is a Game of Thrones fans here? It's cool.
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: I've never watched it one time, but people are swam
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: by this show. I see the first episode and I
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: just I don't think. I feel I kind of got
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: lost in it. But I don't try it again. I
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: don't do what everybody's gonna I don't do well with
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: those periods kind of, I don't. I don't do well
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: with the continue I can watch a movie that's all
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: my god, but a series, yeah, that might have been
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: kind of threw me off. Some ridiculou like he isn't
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: everything on that show? Heard all the change speaking to Trill,
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: some girl in Connecticut, the faces and if she's mirror,
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: I mean child, we're not going to associate her with true.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, I mean, why what what is
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: the point think about it? If it was if it
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: wasn't documented, what she have done it right? And somebody
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: was clearly there to take that. So I wonder why
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: just gonna walk up on her? It's okay, do everything else.
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: Clearly this lady who was not African American is looking
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: for some type of attention cloud community of dumb like her,
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: and she was going to bed that's going to do
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: something to it what she's asking for. But I want
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: to know, like who were the other was everybody there
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: and on it? Because how did not want person really
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: stop her? Like for I mean for us to be
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: able to report that there were multiple people around, like
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: were they all with her? Said who's the one taping?
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: Like she's a girl who wants to be cool with
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: a certain group of people, and they probably were, Like
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: it was almost like initiation, Like if you want to
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: be cool with us, you need to do this. From
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: what I heard, the artist has already started. Uh, we
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: should support that artist. Find out who the artist is.
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: I think what was his name on it? I forgot,
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: but we need to bring him to a tree for
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: your talent. And we are so sided that happened to you, huh,
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: I said, find out who we so you enjoy itself.
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: You said, alright, y'all, ladies and gentlemen. Have you heard
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: that Chris Rock is under fire from insensitive comments about
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: Whitney Houston. Yes? Did you hear that? Yes? Apparently deleted
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: that thing though, But Bobby Brown spoke up to I
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: guess the meme said me sitting in in the meeting.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: That could have been an email. And then it was
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: like Chris Rock, hurry up, I got smokes with crack
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: or whatever. And then Bobby Brown, I got cracked the smoke.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: And Bobby Brown says, during this time of women in poblem,
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: you choose to use your time to try and humiliate
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: our queen. Hey, that's us policing each other. Yeah. Absolutely,
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: we gotta hold each other accountable. I ain't gonna do that.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: Normal agreed done, something is off limited comment now now
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: in this situation, do you feel like he should have
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: called him and said that or was he appropriate for
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: commenting on social media? I think that that was cool.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: I mean I would have called to but you know,
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: I think that comment was cool. It wasn't like extra
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: smoke got it. I like what. I like what Octavia said. Everybody,
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: everybody has had a Whitney Bobby joke. But I think
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: to post it where it stays on in Stagram was
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: the part that's a little intensitive. I mean, you know
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Like in a joking setting, they've all
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: kind of gone in. But to post that up there
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: with a picture of her, I think I think I
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: think that particularly one was more a little bit distasteful.
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying that because it would stay, it
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: would be on his grid for people, for millions of people.
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: Just think about to push your tea cover. Yeah, I
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: speaking of something in the water. Did you about to?
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: He brought out everybody and the big shouts to for
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: real something in the war festival in Virginia Beach. He
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: bought out everybody. I'm talking about you know how some
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: people j gonna come j puff Missy Nerd. I mean
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: he had had yetival. I was whoa, whoa? What did
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: you say? I'm saying he had to show had to
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: pull off. I gotta bring rude. I guarantee you they
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: come out and see that boy. That boy got hits.
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: Just don't say he had nineties artists. They said, this
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: is night. He like thousand artists, so they brought out
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: a two artists. Oh apparently can't read y'all. Apparently haven't
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: say not forever we know he can't. What happened though?
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: He was what happened? Somebody reminds me, oh, yeah, he
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: lost the case. Alleged victim was awarded fifty dollars for
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: you know, claims of him having sexual intercourse with her
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: while she was a minor. You know, all these things
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: that R. Kelly has been doing with all these young girls.
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: And apparently she only won the case because he was
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: not knowledgeable of what it was, because he can't read
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: them right, according to his lawyers. But I feel like
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: his lawyers he didn't show up supposed to be doing
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: explaining for him. Who have reading for you all this time?
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: And now ain't talking abody doing a lifetime thing? Part two?
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: The after effects of work? Why? Why? How? How? And why?
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: Bringing in the dough, bringing in the They would do
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: that right now, a prophet. When you're going to jail though,
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: I don't know, somebody, you need to go in there now.
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: I don't know why ain't in jail yet? Keep getting
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: built up, Okay, But what I'm just saying I want
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: to no bail, no bail, and we want that for
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: all of the other minority sexual predators sex and not
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: of baller Man. Oh my god, I've been sneaking around
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: with my ex since I no longer feel anything for
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: my husband. What should I do? I've been with my
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: man for four years, we're married, we have one we
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: have one child together, and I have one child from
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: a previous relationship. I think I may have used him
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: as a rebound. I was with the guy for six
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: years when we met, and he wouldn't commit, so I
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: moved forward with my husband. Now the day passes that
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: I regret that decision. My husband was extremely jealous and
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: controlling from the beginning, and as quickly as I started
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: to love him, I ended up feeling nothing for him.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: Now I feel like a roommate instead of now I
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: feel like now I feel like I have a roommate
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: instead of a husband. He loves me a lot. He
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: found out I was sneaking around with my ex and
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: decided to work things out. I don't want to be
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: the one to leave because I want him to move on,
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: and I honestly don't believe he will. I regret marrying him.
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: I want to leave him, but I depend on him
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: too much. He's the one with the kids when I'm
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: at work. We work opposite shifts, so he's with them
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: when they get out of school. They care. I feel
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: so grimy, us grimy using him. But if I don't,
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: I'll have to quit my job. So I'm stuck. My
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: choices are stay here and stick it out until I
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: am able to leave, or quit my job and go
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: away and and go stay with my family until I'm
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: able to get back on my feet. I'm so afraid
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: to drop everything and go and go, but I don't
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: know if I can stay any longer. When he touches me,
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: I feel disgusted. His touch feels perverted. I can't even
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: pretend to find him attractive anymore. What would you guys do? Girl,
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: Go stay with your family. Quit that job and go
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: stay with your family, and nothing else you said even matters.
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: People stay in this function relationship, if you know, just
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: because the dysfunction becomes their norm, like like they But
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: she has a whole routine, like in her mind, she's like, Okay,
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: someone's with my kids when I'm not. Like she's stuck
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: on that but if the man can't even touch you
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: without you feeling disgusted, Like, girl, you need to go.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: I don't even understand how you stay regardless of the
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: of the comfort of the fact that she was saying
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: that they're in certain instances to help you in your
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: how if you are not, you don't have no time
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: to waste. It's dying or accident. Out this motherfucker. You're
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: gonna stay relationship for twenty five years or someth Why
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: you don't even won't touching you? I think sometimes people
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: are Yeah, sometimes people are willing to sacrifice their happiness
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: to know that their kids have a structure and they
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: don't want to take their kids away from the construction.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: Love that and I admired that. But at the same time,
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: like you cannot be it will tear away your soul present.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: But you know, people they're willing to sacrifice that, they're
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: willing to Yeah, okay to me, ask you all this man.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: So she says she's she's doing it to her ex, right,
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: She's she's having any with her ex, but she's still
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: at home. She's still at home with her husband who
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: she despises, who found out she was cheating and you know,
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: this is one. You know, this is a thing, and
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: I want to change the topic just slightly because I
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: want to really understand from a woman's perspective. You know,
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: you guys are internal, you know what I'm saying, So
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: to let somebody inside of you is a whole another commitment.
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: Men poking, they out here, you know, run it's not
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: really a but it's so emotional. So if she's there,
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: why why why would she? You know what I'm saying.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: I want to understand. I really want to understand. I
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: really think it's probably something that's too difficult for some
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: men to understand. But like women have always sacrificed their
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: own well being for their families, they have it. It
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: kind of goes back to, you know, a few episodes
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: back when we talked about women back in the day
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: staying in relationships for financial purposes, like they couldn't get
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: jobs to take care of their kids, and they just
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: didn't want their kids to suffer. It's it's messed up.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: But it is really a thing, you know, it is
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: really and it's it's even harder to understand now, I
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: think because so many women are doing so well, but
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: everyone hasn't caught up. You know, yeah, I was one. Also,
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: she's uh, she doesn't want to start over. So basically
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: just to pigybaut to what Sue was saying, like she's saying,
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: you know, man, he's so helpful. You know, he's watching
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: the kids go. So basically if she they break up,
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: now she got to figure out someone else to gonna
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: snap and that he's gonna burn the house. And he
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: seemed like he crazy baby if he don't took you
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: back and you cheated the first time, he's a love
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: with no no no no, no, no, no, no, man
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: gonna snap. Hello, yeah roll roll with me now. Yeah,
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: so now you're cheating? What to do it again? And
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: he found out, Oh my god, I don't know you.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: You don't know how he's gonna respond to that. And
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: I get it. When you're young, you out here, we
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: got a little sometimes no listen, but man, see this
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: is my thing. When you're young, you out here is
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: figuring it out, you trying things, you know what, saying
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: as you get old, you need to know what not
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: to do, what it is not good for you, Like
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you know, saying he
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: sexually transmitted diseases like all these things from out here
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: because you are clearly if you're messing with the X
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: and he know you the side piece, basically he's still
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: doing this thing. You cannot be the only one. And
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: he know you got a husband. So what type of
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And I just think you
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: got to be more respond possible. And you think as
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: you get on in my job, in our in our youth,
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: we all make mistakes, we're all trying things. We are
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: But come on, now, that's what I'm telling that man's
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: gonna snap. People are selfish. She should just get with
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: her family and just move on. Yea, you know the
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: if the parents are good, the kids will be happy. Yeah,
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: but staying for kids too, don't. I mean, people see
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: kids know what you know? I wish you what I
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: was thinking, even because I ain't addressed suthan like. Even
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: staying for the children gets into a headspace for the kids,
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: because kids, regardless of what you think they're feeling, they
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: feed off and they are more intuitive than you think
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: they come from you. You know what I say saying,
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: That's why I think she should go and just this
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: is herself from that from the guy she despises because
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: you know, energy is trickling to her kids and you
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: never know how they're gonna grow up. Teaching her daughter
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: that it's okay to stay with someone that you're really
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: not happy with and that, and and she's doing it subconsciously,
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: like I know, I'm positive No, no mother is doing
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: that on purpose. But your children do see what you're doing.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: They really are a lot more than who knows how
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: the man will react later on in life. And then
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: I saw and then it's crazy, Yeah, save everybody, Save everybody.
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: First's time for coming creeping. Oh Messica, I think she's
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: I actually think she's very pretty. But she gets a
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: lot of heat, that's all. That might be what it
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: is because because she comes pretty. Yeah, well you know,
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: fifty petty, we seem now like that. Um so Messica
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: post Courtside would a vibe with her toes out at
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: Chanelle the Fish and then you know, she just names
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: all these designers that she's dripping in, okay and going
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: to Underscore higher says, you look light. I hope it's
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: the makeup or the lighting and the camera. I hope
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: you're not bleaching your skin, And she responds, y'all know
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: she was not going to let that go. She said,
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: I am light skinned black woman. W Tf is wrong
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: with y'all, dumb ass bitches. These are not my words. Guys,
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: y'all want me to be dark skinned so bad it's
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: fucking disturbing. What is this instant results overnight one application, rapid, flawless,
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: blosh free skin bleach y'all keep putting on me. Everybody
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: would just let that color stuff go if you black
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: bund Yeah. I haven't been around her so many times.
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: I mean, she doesn't look like she looks the same.
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: I mean that picture it could have been good lighting. Hell. Like,
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: I got confused because I was like, why do people
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: always talk about I feel like people are talking about
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: her bleaching a lot. So I went back. I was like,
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: let me go see some pictures. I don't see that
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: she bleached. Yeah, Like like she might have had a
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: little bit more of a tan at one point of
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: the year. What I'm saying like, in the winter, you
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: gonna look like you're gonna be a little lighter. Guys
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: don't understand. For black people, we tan so when it's
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: sunny outside, motherfucker, we tend to get a shade of
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: too dark. One tign we tend to get a little
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: just like you white people that got to go to
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: the tennant been totally. We just don't go to the mother.
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: You want to go live by the pool. And saying
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: for you, I'm this ain't dark. You know what I'm saying,
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: you black. There's so many different shades. But boll the
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: nation did go crazy when she said light skin. They
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: was like light skinned lights. I was like, she's I mean,
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: she's light brown, you know what I'm saying. Like she's
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: not like skin to the to the way that we
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: understand light skin to be. But I mean she's light,
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: she's light thunder arching thing to see, y'alls. There's a
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: light skin dark skin wall going on. Still we are
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: meling soon everyone's gonna be sue color. The majority of
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: the bed at that. You know, the ancestors ain't mean it.
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: It just happened. But the dominant color is black. The
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: European ancestors meant it. No, I'm not talking about them.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: I'm not talking about and conquer. They don't think once
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: putting all these light skins out here, I started from fact. Then,
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: So what you're saying, you know, saying you might be
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: white kid cards and I got a lot of white
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: people in my fast. I got white English people in
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: my family, but in my tree. But yeah, my tree,
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: I want to check mine. I'm in England, n I'm
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: over here, like ship ancestry, that's how you like tea,
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: I got my grandma. I'm just talking ship. I'm just saying, well,
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: my grandma, you know, I love you. My grandma that
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: passed away a couple of years ago. She our family
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: tree is really easy to navigate and we were all
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: kept in touch because everyone from Barbados knows my ancestry
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: goes to London. Wow, that's so cool to know. I
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: definitely want to find that out. What y'all say that
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: the majority of the world has white people in their
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: family though from the United States of America, I'm not
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: talking about yeah. I think if Yourropians like conquered as
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: many countries as they went and traveling their women and
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: stole stuff, then it's very like no. But let's speak
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: specifically the United States, right, so that the States white
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: folks was no, I know they come from. I'm just
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: saying that. You would you say that the majority of
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: people in the United States have white people in their
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: family if they are called if they are so, yeah,
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: I think to get I don't know if they were
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: raping they were raping them. They weren't saying let's have baby.
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: You had you had to divide the people up. You
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: had to make the lighter in the dark jealous of
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: each other. And I know this sounds crazy, but if
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: you come over to America with your brothers and sisters,
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: who the hell you What the hell are you gonna do?
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: Like you know, I'm not going to smash my sister.
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I'm just saying, you got
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: dividing like you just multiplying. I don't I don't understand. Yeah,
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: I was not with you. I want to have I'm
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: trying to have a real I'm trying to it's a
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: real question. I'm serious. That's why they had, you know,
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: the slave. I mean, they break up the family. You
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. You take the darker skinned woman. Yeah,
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: the white man has sex with her to make what
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, that's why you had to feel slaves. Slaves
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  Speaker 1: the dark skins was outside like mentality. We would talk,
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  Speaker 1: we would talk. That is better important right now because
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  Speaker 1: this is still that mentality. Why are you mad hard
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  Speaker 1: to dissect and it's hard. I'm just saying, it's hard
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  Speaker 1: for it, like what you're exactly what you're saying, it's
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  Speaker 1: hard for that to go away. Hard even though most
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  Speaker 1: people I think as generations are because like my ten
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  Speaker 1: year old, she don't know nothing about now down. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: she learns about slavery, but she's over here, like she
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  Speaker 1: got white friends, black friends she has. Of course, with
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  Speaker 1: what I was gonna say, of course, and with slave movies,
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: they ain't never gonna forget to let you know where
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  Speaker 1: you come from exactly are exactly. They want you to
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  Speaker 1: constantly see what they think of you and kind of
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  Speaker 1: remind you of who you actually are. But they're not
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  Speaker 1: telling us how far back we're going to actually being
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  Speaker 1: royalty and and all the things that we contributed. It's
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: American history. It's totally American history. Are that's one thing
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  Speaker 1: that they pay attention to. American history. Wow, very interesting time,
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  Speaker 1: crazy African history. You know. The last thing I want
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  Speaker 1: to say about that, I also think too because we
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  Speaker 1: were taught that white is right, you know what I'm
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  Speaker 1: saying that even like because my grandmother, you know, ninety
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  Speaker 1: two years old. She transitioning that. But she made a
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  Speaker 1: white man, and I would believe it was so her
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  Speaker 1: family could have a better life in her and with
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: you know, the air she grew up in. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: if you think about like people. I'm not saying that
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  Speaker 1: was her. I'm not saying she married a boy, but
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if she did not. But maybe maybe
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  Speaker 1: she did benefit, you know, from it, maybe to maneuver
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  Speaker 1: a little bit different because she had, you know, a white,
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  Speaker 1: white husband. Maybe so. And you're some ninety two years old,
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: so back then that was racism. That was Jim Jim crowd.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: That was when Beyonce's dad said he married his wife
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: because she thought she Tina was white, and that's what
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: they thought white was right. It was kind of like, Ah,
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: in your book, you said that your mother would tell you,
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: don't ever bring the nappy headed black girl to my house. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: which was wrong. Uh. You know, that was an era
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: in the South that a lot of black women felt,
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: women of color felt, uh. And and she consistently said that,
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: and it I internalized that. And because I internalized that,
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: and because I was one of the flack first blacks
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  Speaker 1: and junior high one of the first in high School,
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: University of Tennessee. I dated white girls. I mean when
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: I saw Tina, I met her at a party. Uh.
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: And you know, you see somebody at a party and
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: you think they're white. But I consciously thought she was white.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: I have to say, once I met her, it was
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: very clear that she was a very conscious black woman.
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  Speaker 1: Uh And and really her blackness was inside it out. Yeah,
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna growing up, the light skin dar skin
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  Speaker 1: thing was so real. I used to fight so much
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  Speaker 1: because of that. Growing up. No, no light skin, no
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  Speaker 1: Liskan Niggers was soft skin Niggers got the girls like
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: to this day. I was at my son's basketball I
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: think I told you all before, and these kids in
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: the audience fuck them like skin niggas, like skin mother.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: I'm talking and I'm sitting right here, and I'm like,
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: like you got to the point where I had to
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: like get out to you know what I mean. I
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: was put my hands on my mom, my mom, is
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: your color? My great girl. They were not kid kids.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: By the way. It was six five talking crazy. No,
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, my my great grandmother is a white english
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  Speaker 1: woman and my great grandfather is just as black as
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: they come. For Barbados. My mom had light skin issues.
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: That's why your hair is like that. Long hair, and yeah,
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: that's why my hair is like this. But my mom
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: had long hair and she was light skins. My mom
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: is super super light skin. We should have like a
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: real form about it because I think it's so like
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: the racial tension in America's heightening obviously because of this president.
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: I think there's so many different things we could talk about,
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: even for for from a healing perspective and from educational respect,
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: because I just think it's so it's real, especially for
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: black people. Get you said is But That's what I'm saying.
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: Having discussions about this and like it's an important topic
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: because I'm sure people deal with it every day. People
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: get judged based on their color of their skin. Black
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: people do it to black people, White people do. I
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: mean everybody does it to everybody. I know. The way
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: that I'm looking at certain white people these days is
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: a lot different than I was too three years ago,
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: just in the context of how people are acting. Huh,
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: because you're awakening. I mean, I don't know if it's awakening.
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: I judge people on actions. When I say awakening, you
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: probably wasn't thinking about it like that back when you
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: were younger than how you see stuff now, actions, people's actions,
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: and again, you know, because you're not had this conversation
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: all the time. I don't really racial. There are racists.
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: There are people that do not like race because of
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: their teachings, their upbringing, who they are, right, But I
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: don't believe that all people are racist. I can't say
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: all white people are racist because I know white people
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: that do more for blacks than black dude for blacks.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: So I'm just saying, like, but that's why i want
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: to have a discussion, you know what I'm saying to
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: kind of like bring it to full circle, because we
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: should we should do if all nation tell us what
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: y'all think, we love to hear from you. And now
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: it's time. Fucking Fucious said light skinning this black sweat.
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying that was that was a
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: super joke, ladies and gentlemen. Um. I did a post
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: and it went a little something like this, maybe what
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: you've been chasing all this time isn't meant to be
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: And it's okay. You know I posted this and I
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: and I got posed a couple of questions, Well, what
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: if we've been working at something for so long and
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: you just want us to stop. If you haven't been
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: making money or progress in that field, it is time
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: to move on. You do not have time to keep
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: swinging at a ball you're not gonna hit. I promise
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: you could see time weights on nobody. Y'all. We've had
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: this discussion before, and if you are meant to have it,
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: you will have it. And no way, shape or form,
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: am I telling you not to change your dreams, not
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: to keep dreaming. But you got to know when to pivot.
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: Pivoting is part of the process. You know I'm talking about.
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: Epivotis or you get to a roadblock, there's really no
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: way around the roadblock. They don't mean you stop. That
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: mean you go left for a little while, to you
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: and go right again. You just gotta realize that everything
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: ain't for you. Everything you want you're not gonna get.
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: But I promise you if you keep doing you you
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: will get what you came for. Keep going ball the nation.
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: The dream is real. Peace were you guys? We got
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: to tell the habit of community, Malcolm Fassica. We say
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: it all together and then we can make it like
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: a little What is It's happy Easter you. So to
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  Speaker 1: all my Ethiopians and my air traains, my Habit Shal crew,
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: from my bol Alert family to yours, Malcom FastICA the
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  Speaker 1: mail come FastICA for you